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Speaker 1: Let us all right if you thank you? The subject

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Speaker 1: the big reveal. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been in a

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Speaker 1: secret relationship and it has served me well. I overlooked

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Speaker 1: physical attraction and I decided to follow my heart. We

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Speaker 1: have the best conversations and we have real fun when

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Speaker 1: we're together. He's a provider and he puts it down

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Speaker 1: in the bedroom. We're moving in with each other at

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Speaker 1: the beginning of May, so he's itching to let my

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Speaker 1: family know about us. He decided that he's going to

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Speaker 1: church with me on Easter Sunday. I don't think I'm

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Speaker 1: ready for the big review. Here's why. He's my preacher's son,

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Speaker 1: and he looks exactly like his daddy, but at a

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Speaker 1: younger as a younger man. He's only thirty two, but

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Speaker 1: he has a receding hairline and his skin is bumpy,

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Speaker 1: just like his daddy. He's not overweight, but he's not slim.

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Speaker 1: These are all things we can work on, so I

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Speaker 1: overlook them in the beginning. I run out of time

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Speaker 1: to fix him up, and now he wants to go

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Speaker 1: to service on Easter Sunday. My preacher, his daddy, has

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Speaker 1: no idea that we are dating. I don't think he

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Speaker 1: I got arrested for stealing when I was young. He

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Speaker 1: was also my counselor after my mom made me get

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Speaker 1: baptized and go to church every Sunday. I feel like

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Speaker 1: he's still judging me when I see him. But the

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Speaker 1: bigger problem is when my family realizes who my man is.

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Speaker 1: My brothers have teased my boyfriend since we were kids,

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Speaker 1: so when they see us together at church are going

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Speaker 1: to make a scene. I encouraged my boyfriend to get

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Speaker 1: a new suit, but he's got painful razor bumps, so

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Speaker 1: he can't shave now right now. I admire his confidence

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Speaker 1: and trust me, I have no room to judge. I

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Speaker 1: don't want others to judge him either. Should I tell

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Speaker 1: my family about us before Sunday? I mean, you don't

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Speaker 1: have to. This is your business. I didn't really get

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Speaker 1: the part about the new suit and the razor bumps,

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Speaker 1: but okay, I think you're way too worried about other

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Speaker 1: people think about you. I just think that's an issue.

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Speaker 1: Is this your man? If this is your man, then

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Speaker 1: why are you ashamed? He's not ashamed of you. In fact,

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Speaker 1: he wants to tell everybody starting on Easter Sunday where

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Speaker 1: everybody is at church. So what if your brothers, what

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Speaker 1: if they have something to say, It shouldn't stop you

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Speaker 1: from being happy. If you like this guy, his dad,

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Speaker 1: the pastor, should mind his business too. What you did

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Speaker 1: been a long time ago, and obviously you've made big

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Speaker 1: changes since then. I think for you, the best way

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Speaker 1: to handle all this is just to show up at

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Speaker 1: church with him. Let him know this is what it is.

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Speaker 1: Let everybody know this is what it is, whether they

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Speaker 1: and just work on the stuff you need to work on,

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Speaker 1: like the razor bumps and his weight. If that's an

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Speaker 1: issue and whatever you have going on. Since you said

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Speaker 1: you have no room to judge, I think you should

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Speaker 1: just be with the guy if that's who you like, Steve.

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Speaker 4: Well, well, well, Tyler, this letter is the big reveal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and yes, it's going to be a big one.

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Speaker 4: Based on this letter right here, now, you don't have

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Speaker 4: as big a problem as you think you have. I

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Speaker 4: think you've put more into this. You've produced anxiety over

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Speaker 4: this Easter Sunday. Anxiety comes from you concern yourself with

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Speaker 4: the two things that you can't control, your past and

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Speaker 2: Once you have major concerns.

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Speaker 4: About either one of those, tada, let me introduce you.

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Speaker 2: You are now suffering from anxiety.

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Speaker 4: You're worried about what's gonna happen this Sunday when y'all

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Speaker 4: get at church. Now, but how did it come about? Well,

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Speaker 4: I see some things in this letter. You said you're

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Speaker 4: in a secret relationship and it has served me well.

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Speaker 4: Oh so he's feeling the serving you well. Block And

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Speaker 4: if you got to this secret, wonderful relationship, that has

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Speaker 2: Attraction and you followed your heart.

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Speaker 4: So based on this letter, you donet fell in love

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Speaker 4: with this half fat, pole dunk, loud, chunky, chippy face.

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Speaker 4: You the fell in love with an ugly man. Let's

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Speaker 4: just go and put it out there. You have fallen

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Speaker 4: in love with an ugly man, but he's got some

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Speaker 4: benefits as the most ugly man. Do I can attest

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Speaker 4: to this. We had the best conversation. You have got

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Speaker 4: to be a great conversationalist, because if somebody can sit

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Speaker 4: keep their attention by having a fascinating conversation. You can't

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Speaker 4: be ugly and can't talk. I'ma just tell you that

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Speaker 4: right now. You can't be both of those. You have

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Speaker 4: to be able to talk. Yeah, he's a provider. You

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Speaker 4: got to be able to buy something.

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Speaker 2: You an ugly man. You can't talk and you can't

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Speaker 2: buy nothing.

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Speaker 4: You ain't gonna be able to stay in there and

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Speaker 4: he puts it down in the bedroom.

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Speaker 2: He has no choice.

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Speaker 4: He'd have bought performance videos, tapes, hookers. He didn't have

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Speaker 4: been out there trying to hone his skill set. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: other people, you can't just practice all the time. Oh,

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Speaker 4: you gotta go get some help unless you just want

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Speaker 4: to practice on a bunch of other women. You try

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Speaker 4: to act wow so that when we get back, I'll

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Speaker 4: tell you what's really going on with you.

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Speaker 2: But I'm full of inside information.

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Speaker 5: Okay, oh I know this woe?

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Speaker 2: Oh too? Well?

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Speaker 6: Yes, all right, Uh well, we will have part two

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Speaker 6: of Steve's response has promised as twenty three minutes at

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Speaker 6: twenty three minutes after the hour of today's Strawberry Letters,

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Speaker 6: subject the Big Reveal.

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Speaker 5: We'll get back into that right after this.

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strubberry letter, subject the

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Speaker 1: Big Reveal?

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Speaker 5: What you got for us?

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Speaker 4: Well, ladies, Jimmy's big reveal is this woman is dating

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Speaker 4: a half fat, ugly man and she don't want nobody

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Speaker 4: to know. But it's a perfect relationship because this relationship

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Speaker 4: has served her well, and because of that, she don't

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Speaker 4: overlook the physical attraction and decided to follow her home.

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Speaker 2: We have the best conversations.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you something, ugly man, know how to

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Speaker 4: hold your tench You gotta be a great conversation because

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Speaker 4: you hard to look at. So you gotta be able

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Speaker 4: to talk constantly, a steady flow of wonderful words and

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Speaker 4: stuff to keep people in front of you, cause you

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Speaker 4: toe up.

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Speaker 2: We have real fun with me together. He's a provider.

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Speaker 2: He got to be.

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Speaker 4: All his money is spent on keeping you happy and

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Speaker 4: your attention, and he puts it down in the bedroom.

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Speaker 4: You ain't putting it down in the bedroom. He got

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Speaker 4: to He done bought in all types of people helped

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Speaker 4: with that. He had a couple of hookers come over,

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Speaker 4: cause you know, you ugly men, you just can't go

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Speaker 4: do like you want to do, so you gotta you

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Speaker 4: gotta elicit some services from somewhere.

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Speaker 2: I'm just this is true, Charley.

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Speaker 4: You don't tell me to stop any dating other ugly

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Speaker 4: women because he ugly, So that's the only way he

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Speaker 4: didne got, but he done got good at this bedroom.

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Speaker 2: He can handle do anything. Now he doing it so good.

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Speaker 4: You said we moving in with each other at the

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Speaker 4: beginning of May, so he's itching to let my faily

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Speaker 4: know about us. I will come back to that line

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Speaker 4: because I have an explanation for that. He decided that

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Speaker 4: we're gonna go to church with me on Easter sunny.

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Speaker 4: Everybody gonna be there. Whoo, everybody feeling. I don't think

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Speaker 4: I'm ready for the big reveal because I don't want

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Speaker 4: people to know that I'm dating this ugly man spending

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Speaker 2: Little socks twirled around.

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Speaker 4: And why because he is my preacher's son and he

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Speaker 4: looks exactly like his daddy. Oh, now you're preacher ugly too, well,

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Speaker 4: at least your preacher ugly. You know how to sit

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Speaker 4: there and watch an ugly person talk. I told you

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Speaker 4: ugly people is great conversationists.

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Speaker 2: You said that he got a church. You've been sitting

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Speaker 4: He is only thirty two, but he has a receiving

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Speaker 4: hairline and his skin is bumpy, just like he daddy.

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Speaker 4: See right there, thirty two of the Receiving the Hairline.

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Speaker 4: We had that going on on.

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Speaker 5: This show, Focus, Steve Focus.

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Speaker 1: I am.

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Speaker 2: I'm just trying to tell people. And Junior's a good

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Speaker 5: Uh Well, back to the letter.

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Speaker 2: And his skin is bumpy, just like his daddy.

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Speaker 4: Uh huh, Well, let me go back a little bit

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Speaker 4: in this letter because you did say.

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Speaker 2: So.

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Speaker 4: He is itching to let my family know about us.

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Speaker 4: That's them bumps. That's them bumps on his face. That's

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Speaker 2: He's just digging in his face to it. Well, I

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Speaker 4: Hold your chein up in there and start scratching up

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Speaker 4: under your throat. That's what he do the whole time.

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Speaker 4: He'd be talking very good. He's handled that very well.

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Speaker 4: And he wants to go to service on Easter. My preacher,

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Speaker 4: who is his daddy, has no idea that we are dating. Well,

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Speaker 4: it's gonna be a big reveal. He gonna be shocked

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Speaker 4: and littly boy dating anybody. He might handle that pretty good,

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Speaker 4: but I don't think he will approve of me because

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Speaker 4: I had a child and I got arrested for stealing

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Speaker 4: when I was young. Oh, now we see why your

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Speaker 4: selection pool is so low.

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Speaker 2: It ain't the baby, it's to steal it.

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Speaker 4: I can't have you keep coming over every time you

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Speaker 4: leave something else gone. That could be why you're dating problems.

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Speaker 4: Is why you got to reduce your selection pool. You

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Speaker 4: got a date uk repeople you got. Have you quit

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Speaker 4: stealing yet?

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Speaker 2: That's the question.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: He was also my counselor after my mom made me

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Speaker 2: I feel like he's still judging me when I see him.

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Speaker 4: But the bigger problem is that when my family realizes

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Speaker 2: Y'all, so you dating cap'n Crunch. Oh I see what's.

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Speaker 5: Happening, Captain Crunch.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh hey, what was up little seal? Oh?

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Speaker 4: They got all types of name for him. Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: see right now. And so then you said, I encourage

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Speaker 4: my boyfriend to get a new soup. But he's got

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Speaker 4: painful raise of bumps so he can't shave right now.

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Speaker 2: This is exfoliation problem.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna take a minute, but you could fix this,

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Speaker 4: so instead of shaving, he needs to exfoliate. Then he

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Speaker 4: needs to get in the mirror with a pair of

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Speaker 4: needle nosed tweezers and pull each hat out of each bump.

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Speaker 4: But do not pull the hair out your face. This

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Speaker 4: is a big mistake that men make who have ingrown hands.

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Speaker 4: What ingrown hairs caused? When hair comes out of your

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Speaker 4: face and curls back into your skin, and it's easy

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Speaker 4: to curl back in your skin because you don't exfolian.

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Speaker 4: The more you exfoliate and you remove the layers of

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Speaker 4: dead skin, it can't curl back into your regular skin.

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Speaker 5: Got it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's how you keep them all. But you have

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Speaker 4: to pick each hair out of the bump and do

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Speaker 4: not shave it off. I mean, I mean, I mean,

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Speaker 4: do not pull it out. So once you do that,

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Speaker 4: then you got to exfoliate for three four days and

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Speaker 4: then shave and then the next day exfoliate again.

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Speaker 5: Oh he's gonna be fine, all right? Post your comments, Yes.

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