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Speaker 1: come and join me. This Saturday, October fourth. I will

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Speaker 1: one hundred and nineteenth Street in Chicago on the South Side.

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Speaker 1: I would love it if you would come and join me.

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Speaker 3: Who go ahead, net?

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Speaker 2: Who cool? Cool? All right? Welcome up? A hold on tight,

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Speaker 2: we got it for you here. It is Strawberry.

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Speaker 1: Let us all right, nephew, thank you. Subject and I

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Speaker 1: think he lied about leaving me. Dear Stephen Shirley, my

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Speaker 1: husband and I are in a long distance marriage. We

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Speaker 1: have been married for eighteen years, and he moved in

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Speaker 1: with his mother back in his hometown two years ago.

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Speaker 1: He said it would be temporary, but his mom's health

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Speaker 1: did not improve until recently. I didn't move with him

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Speaker 1: because our daughter wanted to finish high school with her friend.

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Speaker 1: He only came home a few times to visit us

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Speaker 1: after he moved. The last time he came home was

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Speaker 1: in June for our daughter's graduation, and he was very

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Speaker 1: distant and he acted like a guest in our home. Recently,

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Speaker 1: on Facebook, I saw pictures of him and his mother

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Speaker 1: out at church and at a Labor day outing. I

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Speaker 1: told him that if his mom is doing a lot better,

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Speaker 1: then maybe he should come back home, because it's lonely

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Speaker 1: without our daughter at home with me. He said his

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Speaker 1: mom's health is not better and she has good days

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Speaker 1: and bad days. I told him I was coming to

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Speaker 1: He said that I should wait until closer to the

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Speaker 1: holidays and he'll come see me and bring his mom.

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Speaker 1: I didn't like that response, so I booked a flight

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Speaker 1: to see him. I went straight to his mom's house

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Speaker 1: and I saw a first sale sign in the front yard.

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Speaker 1: I called my husband and he said that he would

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Speaker 1: come pick me up. It took him an hour to

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Speaker 1: get there, and he took me to a hotel. He

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Speaker 1: said that he and his mom are living in a

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Speaker 1: small apartment because there was mold in her house. He

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Speaker 1: said she was having a bad day, so it's best

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Speaker 1: at the hotel, I took a taxi to the airport

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Speaker 1: and I left town. I think he left me intentionally,

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Speaker 1: but blamed it on his mom's health. It's been two

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Speaker 1: weeks since I went to his hometown and I haven't

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Speaker 1: heard from him. Is my marriage over? Yes, yes it is.

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Speaker 1: This is a case of too much, too little, too late.

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Speaker 1: And as a matter of fact, I'm going to ask

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Speaker 1: you this what marriage. This is clearly not any type

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Speaker 1: of union, partnership, situationship, any type of relationship. It's not

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Speaker 1: even a friendship. At this point, your husband is gone.

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Speaker 1: He is gone, and he lives with his mom. Period.

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Speaker 1: That's the end of this story. When and if he

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Speaker 1: does come home, quote unquote, you say he acts like

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Speaker 1: a guest in his own house. This man has checked

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Speaker 1: out of this marriage and whatever he's got going on

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Speaker 1: out of town, that is where his heart is, out

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Speaker 1: of sight, out of mind. As it pertains to you,

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Speaker 1: what have you, guys done to keep this marriage strong? Nothing?

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Speaker 1: For your part? What did you do you let this

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Speaker 1: go on for so long? I mean, this happened two

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Speaker 1: years ago. Why didn't you question it then? Why didn't

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Speaker 1: you and your daughter go visit him? Why didn't you

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Speaker 1: stay at the house. Why you know, are you at

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Speaker 1: a hotel? Why couldn't his mom come and stay with

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Speaker 1: you guys for a while? I mean, is he and

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Speaker 1: the only child? These are so many questions that I have.

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Speaker 1: Does he have another family?

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Speaker 2: There?

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Speaker 1: None of this is making sense to me. So to

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Speaker 1: answer your original question, is your marriage over?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Your marriage is over?

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Speaker 3: Steeve, Yeah, it ain't in the words or in the

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Speaker 3: way Charles White would say, yeah, yeah, you don't have

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Speaker 3: a marriage. I think he lied about leaving me. I

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Speaker 3: don't even know how that's the title of the letter.

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Speaker 3: Which part of this you ain't see? Because it's the

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Speaker 3: whole letter is clear. So I'm trying to figure out

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Speaker 3: what part of the letter when you was typing it

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Speaker 3: that you didn't see let's walk through it. My husband

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Speaker 3: now are in a long distance marriage. Okay, I've heard

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Speaker 3: of long dis relationship, So a marriage is a relationship.

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Speaker 2: It can happen. We've been married for eighteen years.

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Speaker 3: He moved in with his mother back in his hometown

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Speaker 3: two years ago. He said it would be temporary, but

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Speaker 3: his mom's health did not improve until recently. I didn't

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Speaker 2: All right, did you get all that?

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Speaker 3: He only came to visit a few times after he moved.

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Speaker 3: Keyword visit. When you go home, you don't visit, You

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Speaker 3: just go back home. So he only visited two times. No,

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Speaker 3: he didn't come back home. That's the part you miss it.

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Speaker 3: He didn't came home. The last time he came home

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Speaker 3: was in June for our daughter's graduation. See now you're

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Speaker 3: trying to interject home. No, listen, the last time he

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Speaker 2: He just visiting.

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Speaker 3: That's why he acts strange because he was. He's already

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Speaker 3: checked out. It's a whole nother family somewhere. I don't

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Speaker 3: know how you don't see this. It's a whole. It's

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Speaker 3: a girl involved. This ain't your mama. No, no, this

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Speaker 3: is not about his mama. That mammy is sick anyway,

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Speaker 3: you said. Recently on Facebook, I saw pictures of him,

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Speaker 3: he and his mother out at church and at a

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Speaker 3: home because it's lonely without our daughter at home with me.

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Speaker 3: He said, his mom's health ain't better. That's right, it

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Speaker 3: ain't better. On We was just went to church to

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Speaker 3: get prayer. I had to take her back home. She

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Speaker 3: was sick right after that.

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Speaker 1: Hang up. We'll have part two of your response coming

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Speaker 1: up to Steve at twenty three minutes.

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Speaker 2: Churches for Sick People.

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters. Subject is I think he lied about

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Speaker 1: leaving me. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is I think he lied about leaving me.

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Speaker 3: This woman is delusional. She wrote a letter that has

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Speaker 3: evidence all the way through it.

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Speaker 2: She don't see.

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Speaker 3: Then, A long distant relationship, a long distance marriage. Long

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Speaker 3: diess relationships happen all the time, a marriage's relationship. So

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Speaker 3: I can deal with that one right there. He moved

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Speaker 3: back to his hometown two years ago because mama was

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Speaker 3: sick and he went to help take care of it.

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Speaker 3: You didn't move because your daughter wanted to finish high

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Speaker 3: school with a friend, so you stayed in town. Now,

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Speaker 3: he only came to visit a couple of times in

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Speaker 3: two years then because he was just visiting. And then

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Speaker 3: you said the last time he came home, No no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: don't stay home. See because when you came, when you

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Speaker 3: said he came to visit. When you come home, you

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Speaker 3: don't visit, you go home. Then the next thing you

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Speaker 3: said was he came home to our daughter's graduation. No no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: he came back to visit, and he was acting strange

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Speaker 3: and distant. That's cause he don't stay that no more.

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Speaker 3: See what part of is you'll see. Then recently on Facebook,

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Speaker 3: you saw pictures of here and his mama out at

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Speaker 3: church and at a labor day outing. Then you said, well,

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Speaker 3: since your mama feeling better, maybe you can come on

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Speaker 3: back home, because it's lonely here with the daughter gone.

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Speaker 3: He said, mama not doing better. We just went to

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Speaker 2: Got sick at the church. I had take her home.

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Speaker 3: Then when she got better, I tried to take her

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Speaker 2: Got sick again.

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Speaker 1: Was that how it happened?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So then you said, well, maybe if you come and

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Speaker 3: visit her mom, it'll make her feel better. My mama

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Speaker 3: don't even like you. You gonna make her sick off.

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Speaker 3: He said, no, just wait till she feel better. Then

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring her to see you at the holidays.

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Speaker 3: I didn't like that response, so I booked a flight

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Speaker 3: to see him. I went straight to his mom's house

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Speaker 3: and saw a false sale sign in the front yard.

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Speaker 3: I called my husband. He said he would come pick

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Speaker 3: me up. It took him an hour to get that,

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Speaker 3: and he took me to a hotel. He said, he

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Speaker 3: that was mold in her house.

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Speaker 2: Come on, boy, come on, come through.

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Speaker 1: Life.

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Speaker 2: Boy.

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Speaker 3: That's that's one right there. That's one right there. So

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Speaker 3: now you're gonna sell the mold infested house? Is you

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Speaker 3: gonna put that on the disclosure farm? Are you gonna

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Speaker 3: tell the people that is? But see, he can't take

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Speaker 3: you there because him and his mama don't live in

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Speaker 3: no apartment. The mama lives somewhere else. He getting the

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Speaker 3: money so he can help the mama sell the house

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Speaker 3: and make some profit and move him and his girl

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Speaker 3: to a new place that he got. See it's a

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Speaker 3: girl in here. You don't stay away from sex for

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Speaker 3: two years to help your mama. You don't that ain't

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Speaker 3: what you do.

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Speaker 2: He can't.

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Speaker 3: He can't. He can't do that. Two years with our sex,

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Speaker 3: we wouldn't even have teeth. We to grind them all down.

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Speaker 3: No sexual too easy, I'd be blind.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 3: He said, him and his mama live in a small apartment. No,

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Speaker 3: his mama that moved into a small apartment. He lived

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Speaker 3: so it's best that I stay at the hotel. When

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Speaker 2: That's right, girl, you show it.

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Speaker 3: I think he left me intentionally, but blamed it on

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Speaker 2: It's my marriage over.

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Speaker 3: If your husband ain't called you in two weeks, if

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Speaker 3: I cannot not call my wife for a date. You

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Speaker 3: ain't that busy partner. He done went two weeks. You

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Speaker 3: got in that taxi went right back to the airport.

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Speaker 3: It's been two weeks and you ain't heard from him.

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Speaker 3: Is our marriage over? Your marriage was over when he

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Speaker 3: went to stay with him, Mama, your marriage was over

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Speaker 3: when he came to visit you and your daughter for

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Speaker 3: to get this divorce or you can live your best life,

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Speaker 3: because right now it's not a good life.

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Speaker 2: Why would you want a man that don't want you? Why?

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Speaker 3: See, I've wanted a woman that didn't want me before,

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Speaker 3: probably work probably fifteen twenty maybe twenty five of them.

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Speaker 3: That's been at least fifteen twenty five women I thought

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Speaker 3: was fining. Hell didn't won't have had nothing to do with me.

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Speaker 3: I clearly, I clearly have been that dog. But you're

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Speaker 3: sitting up in here. Why would you.

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Speaker 2: Want man that don't want you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: It all started back within that Bielbs when she told me, no,

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to the junior prom with you. I

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Speaker 3: asked her why she started for because I don't like

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Speaker 2: And that's when hoodlist started right here. And you you

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