1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: Welcome to Stuff You Missed in History Class from how 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: Stuff Works dot com. Hello and welcome to the podcast 3 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: after a C. P. Wilson, And I'm Holly from Holly. 4 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: Do you know what I did this weekend? I do, 5 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 1: but tell me again. I went to Enda St Vincent 6 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: Malay's house. It's pretty awesome. Uh So a lot of 7 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: people have asked us to talk about Edna St. Vincent 8 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:34,239 Speaker 1: Malays on the podcast. She was a poet and a 9 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: playwright and a generally fantastic character, so interesting, and she 10 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: definitely has like there's a cult of personality thing with her. 11 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:46,279 Speaker 1: People just adore her, even while acknowledging her flaws well, 12 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,239 Speaker 1: and when she was alive, people adored her, sometimes to 13 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: their own detriment. I know what I mentioned to you 14 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: when we were first talking about this subject that I 15 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: had a high school teacher that clearly just loved her, 16 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: and I um, he would literally showed like a slide show, 17 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: and whenever she would come up in this particular lecture, 18 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: they would just be a pause or he would just 19 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 1: sign Vincent just talk at her for a minute. We 20 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: all felt uncomfortable but also charmed. Right, So, uh, you 21 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: can go to her home which was called Steeple Top 22 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: and you can take a tour of the grounds on 23 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: a tour of the house, which is what I did. 24 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 1: And we're going to talk more about that part in 25 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 1: the second part of this two part episode, because as 26 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: sometimes happens, there's a lot, there's a lot, and it 27 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: it blossomed into something that required two parts to talk about. 28 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 1: So today's episode we're going to go from you know, 29 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 1: Edna St. Vincent Malay is born um until she gets married, 30 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: like that's going to be today's episode, and then the 31 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: next episode will cover the remainder of her life. Uh 32 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: she as I would put her into the larger than 33 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: life category for pretty much the entirety of that. For sure. 34 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: She definitely, you know it, was an extraordinary person in 35 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: many ways, in the truest sense of that word. So 36 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:11,959 Speaker 1: known as Bencent to her family and friends and the St. 37 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: Vincent La was born on February in Rockland, Maine, and 38 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 1: while her mom was pregnant, her uncle almost died and 39 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: doctors at St. Vincent's Hospital saved his life and that 40 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: is where her middle name came from. And Vincent was 41 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: the oldest of three daughters of Cora and Henry Malay. 42 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: Cora and Henry actually divorced when Vincent was young. Uh. 43 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 1: Cora threw Henrie Ott of the house in nineteen o one, 44 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: and for years his involvement in the girl's lives was 45 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: really quite limited. It was pretty much just letters and 46 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: occasionally a little bit of money. More often it was 47 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 1: letters that said he would be sending them some money soon, 48 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: but the money either wasn't there yet or he didn't 49 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,239 Speaker 1: have it in hand. Yeah, there was a lot of 50 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm making money, but I haven't gotten paid yet kind 51 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 1: of yeah. Language. So, according to Cora's led rs and 52 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: witness testimony at the divorce proceedings, Henry was abusive and 53 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: he also gambled the family's money away. One of Vincent's biographers, 54 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: Nancy Milford, also suggests that Cora may have had an 55 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: affair that kind of prompted her to actually end the 56 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:18,959 Speaker 1: marriage instead of continuing to soldier on through it. Coral 57 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 1: was skilled as a hair weaver, and she also studied nursing, 58 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,399 Speaker 1: and to support herself and the girl, she found work 59 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: as a private nurse, but this work actually kept her 60 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: away from the family, sometimes for weeks at a time, 61 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: and at first they were dependent on relatives to look 62 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: after the girls. Walk Cora worked, but setback after setback 63 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: sort of kept them unable to really get on their feet. 64 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: When she was nine, Vincent and her sisters almost died 65 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: of typhoid, and they survived because Cora nursed them all 66 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: through it. Not long after she got her divorce from Henry, 67 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 1: Cora also herself got a flu that was so severe 68 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: that her brother arranged life insurance for her. If you're wondering, 69 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 1: it was not the Spanish flu was too early for 70 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: that um. Vincent's youngest sister, Kathleen, also got polio and 71 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: then had ongoing neurological problems afterward. Uh And no matter 72 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: where they were, for many years of Vincent's childhood, the 73 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: family was sort of constantly struggling. There were kitchen floors 74 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 1: that flooded and then froze over when it was both 75 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 1: rainy and cold. They kind of made lemonade out of 76 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: lemons in that situation because the girls would ice skate 77 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: on the floors. At one point, they couldn't afford coal 78 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: to heat their house, and they resorted to supplementing a 79 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: load of it that Cora's sister gave them as a gift. 80 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: With shingles that they ripped from a derelict house that 81 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 1: was next door. Kara would like climb up and ritty 82 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: shingles off and throw them across the fence for the 83 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: girls to go and pick up. Finally, Klara found the 84 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,039 Speaker 1: right combination of housing and work. It was a run 85 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 1: down house in Camden, Maine, where they could get a 86 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: break on the rent if they helped fix it up, 87 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:53,280 Speaker 1: and she got nursing work nearby. The house was in 88 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 1: pretty terrible condition and they were in debt right from 89 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: the beginning, but Vincent's life at this point finally started 90 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: to have a little little bit of stability, and it 91 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 1: also had a lot of work when Cora was away, 92 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 1: which of course was often, and for long periods of time, 93 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: Vincent was in charge. And this wasn't like a don't 94 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 1: just make sure that your sisters don't starve sort of 95 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 1: in charge. She was really running the household. She managed 96 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 1: the budget, She sawt all the cooking and the chores, 97 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:21,479 Speaker 1: and she looked after her younger sisters from the time 98 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: she was about twelve, and she was so exhausted from 99 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 1: all of this work. Because that is a great deal 100 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 1: to ask of a child that she ended up getting 101 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,599 Speaker 1: sick about once a month. So their existence was really frugal, 102 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: but it gradually moved towards a sort of semblance of 103 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 1: a middle class living. Cora sometimes seemed resentful of how 104 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: much the girls were spending on things like beans to 105 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: eat and dresses to wear to school, but they also had, 106 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: thanks to her, a life that was really rich in 107 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: literature and music. The family got musical instruments for the 108 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: girls to play, and Bencent learned to play the piano, 109 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 1: and Cora also developed an immense library. It was actually 110 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: recognized as the biggest and best one in the area. 111 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: There were volumes and volumes of books, They were full 112 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 1: of plays, There was verse, and Coora made sure her 113 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: daughters read the work of masters. Vincent learned to read 114 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: by reading poetry, and this library was as important to 115 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: her young work as a poet and a writer as 116 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: anything that she learned in school. Before we get to 117 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,280 Speaker 1: her school years, let's take a minute for a word 118 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: from a sponsor, and now back to Malay. So at school, 119 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: Vincent was stubborn and brilliant. She was very responsible at home, 120 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: she was looking after everything, but at school she was 121 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: willful and disobedient. When she was in the eighth grade, 122 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: she talked back to her teacher, who was in the 123 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: habit of calling her any other woman's name that started 124 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: with a V instead of Vincent. And so when he 125 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 1: did this one day and she insisted that Vincent was 126 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,840 Speaker 1: her name, her teacher was so fed up with her 127 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: that he threw a book at her that would probably 128 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 1: not fly today. There would be some police in involvement now, uh. 129 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:01,919 Speaker 1: And thanks to her mother's intervention, Vincent was allowed to 130 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: skip directly to high school rather than having to stay 131 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 1: in the class with the teacher that she had such 132 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: a contentious relationship with. Yeah, he had pretty much said, 133 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: you've been ruling this school for too long. She started 134 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: publishing poetry and a children's magazine called St. Nicholas in 135 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 1: nineteen o six when she was about fourteen, and a 136 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: year later she won the magazine's highest prize. Her prize 137 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: winning poem, called The Land of Romance, wound up being 138 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 1: reprinted in the Camden Harold and then an anthologized in 139 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 1: the journal Current Literature. So people were already from the 140 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 1: age of you know, fifteen, spotting that she was really 141 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: gifted as a poet and She also started to pursue 142 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: acting more seriously, and that was something that she took 143 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 1: to very naturally. And she wasn't just doing this in 144 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: school plays. She actually started acting at the Camden Opera 145 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: House starting in nineteen o seven, and that would require 146 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: her to rehearse every night. And that is, keep in mind, 147 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: on top of her schoolwork and all the works that 148 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 1: came with basically being the head of household in terms 149 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 1: of uh with their domestic needs and taking care of 150 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: her sisters. So kind of a packed schedule, yeah, she was. 151 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: She worked herself to the bone all the time. So 152 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: during her high school years, Vincent started writing in her 153 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: diary about sort of conflicted crushes. She wanted to be 154 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 1: loved and to be in love, but at the same 155 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: time she kind of felt like a boy would just 156 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: hold her back. She had things to do. The boy 157 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: was going to get out in the way of that. 158 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: I can't understand that. I feel you, Vincent. You and 159 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: I are of one heart. Uh. While she was popular 160 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 1: with the girls, the boys in high school not so much. 161 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: She was very smart, as we've mentioned, she was really headstrong, 162 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 1: and she was really hotty in that rubbed them the 163 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 1: wrong way. It was a bit much for teenage boys 164 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:48,679 Speaker 1: to take in. Yeah, probably in a story that's familiar 165 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: to women still today. Eventually Vincent would grow up and 166 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: she would become famous for her love poems, and she 167 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: would have a whole string of lovers who felt absolutely, deeply, 168 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: passionately in with her. But in high school, even when 169 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 1: the boys did start to pursue her, they mostly just 170 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 1: tried to make her miserable. Uh. During her senior year, 171 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 1: she wanted to write the class poem. Poetry was already 172 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: deeply important to her, and writing the class poem was 173 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 1: an enormous honor, and she was clearly the best poet 174 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: in the class. There really would not appear to be 175 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: any question about who should uh write this, and that 176 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: the honor should go to her. But a group of 177 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: boys who had made it their business to torment her. Uh. 178 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: They interrupted her whenever she talked, They taunted her, and 179 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: they sort of ganged up on her. Uh. These boys 180 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: all banded together to nominate a classmate who was actually 181 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 1: a terrible writer to run against her. She was distraught 182 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: and so humiliated that she pulled out of the race. 183 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 1: Her mother suggested that she deliver her commencement essay in verse, 184 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: which she did. And this was poor consolation because it 185 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,719 Speaker 1: wasn't the honor that she had wanted, but it did 186 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: kind of let her get the last word in a 187 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: way she kind of love. After graduation, she could not 188 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: afford to go to college, so she stayed home and 189 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:04,199 Speaker 1: she actually took on even more work running the household 190 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: so that her mother could spend more time with her 191 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 1: nursing work. And she was very lonely. She still deeply 192 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: wanted to be loved, and she started conducting this sort 193 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 1: of ritual seance in her room every night to try 194 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: to summon a dream lover to her, a thing that 195 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 1: went on repeatedly for a while until she actually made 196 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: some changes in her life. Um In February of when 197 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: she was twenty, Vincent got word that her father was dying, 198 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 1: and at this point she and her sisters had not 199 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 1: seen him for eleven years. But she went to kingmn 200 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: Maine to look after him, and when she arrived, the 201 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:43,719 Speaker 1: doctor told her that Henry was probably only going to 202 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 1: live a few days at most, but while Vincent was there, 203 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: he actually defied expectations and he started to get better. 204 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: Vincent stayed with the doctor who was taking care of 205 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 1: her father, and she started this passionate and passionately physical 206 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: relationship with Ellis Somerville, who was the daughter of the 207 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: doctor that's whose home she was staying at. This relationship 208 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: and their trips seemed to really revive Vincent, who at 209 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: that point had really gotten just exhausted and burned out 210 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: on everything from you know, trying to write, to running 211 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: the household, to all of the things that had gone 212 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: on in school. And when she got home, she went 213 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 1: right back to writing poetry, and within a few months 214 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: she finished her very long, very exuberant poem Renaissance, which 215 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 1: she had started before she left. At her mother's encouragements, 216 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: she submitted Renaissance to publisher Mitchell Kennerley, who was holding 217 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: a writing contest. On July nine, twelve, she got word 218 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: that it had been accepted to the Lyric Year, which 219 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: was the anthology that was to be published of the 220 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: best entries. So this was sort of news that she 221 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,199 Speaker 1: was in the running for one of the three cash 222 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 1: prizes that would go to the top three in the contest. 223 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: And what followed was a flirtatious correspondence between Vincent, who 224 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: at first thought she was talking to Mitchell Kinnerley himself 225 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: and an editor who thought e. Vincent must have been 226 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: a man. It turned out that the person that she 227 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: was writing to was Ferdinand Earle, and their letters escalated 228 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: until his wife found one of them and it began 229 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 1: to undo his marriage. It turned out that he was 230 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 1: writing to other entrants and making them promises as well, 231 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 1: so there was definitely some shady business going on with 232 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: Ferdinand Earle. When he realized that she was a woman, 233 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 1: she sent a picture and it just it got really racy, 234 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 1: and it didn't wind up going well for anyone in 235 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: this situation. So along the way um along the way, 236 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,559 Speaker 1: Ferdinand Earle had basically implied to Vincent that she was 237 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:41,319 Speaker 1: going to win one of the cash prizes, and when 238 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: she didn't, she was crushed and her family really desperately 239 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,680 Speaker 1: needed the money, and the fact that she came in 240 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 1: fourth place was no consolation to her. Nor was the 241 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 1: fact that when the book came out there was a 242 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: specific mention of her poem like in the editor's note 243 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 1: at the beginning. None of that really made up for 244 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 1: the fact that she needed that money and didn't get it. 245 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 1: When the lyric here was published, it made huge waves 246 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: in the literary community. Letters poured in from writers and 247 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 1: poets who insisted that the judges had in fact made 248 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 1: a huge mistake and that Renaissance was clearly the very 249 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: best thing in it. It's kind of unclear exactly why, 250 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: given this unanimous outpouring, that Vincent didn't place in the contest. 251 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 1: I mean it really, to the entire literary community, seemed 252 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 1: like an obvious and bone headedly stupid maneuver um. It's 253 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 1: possible that she was her own undoing through her flirtation 254 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: with one of the judges and his consequently his wife 255 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 1: finding out about it. It's also possible that her sex 256 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 1: played a big role. The three other winners were all men, 257 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 1: and the grand prize winner, Orrick Johns, called the award 258 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: quote unmerited and said that Vincent's poem was obviously the 259 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: best thing in the book. In the end, though it 260 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 1: all actually worked out for the best. Getting Renaissance published 261 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 1: in the lyric year brought all manner of attention to Vincent, 262 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: including from many prominent poet poets whose work was also 263 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 1: featured in the book, and the spotlight on her was 264 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 1: even brighter because so many people felt like she had 265 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,440 Speaker 1: been wronged, so she kind of though she did not 266 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,959 Speaker 1: get the cash prize, she really got all the attention right, 267 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:16,959 Speaker 1: and before we talked about the awesome things, that attention 268 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: led her to brief moment for a word from a sponsor, 269 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: dper So, one of the most amazing things about Renaissance, 270 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: besides the fact that everyone was completely shocked that a woman, 271 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: and a young woman at that had written it, was 272 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: that at this point Vincent was almost entirely a self 273 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: taught poet. Her public education had been pretty poor in quality, 274 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: and she had had no college instruction at all. Not 275 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 1: long after the poem was published, Vincent gave a reading 276 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 1: of it at a hotel where her sister worked, and 277 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 1: in the audience was Caroline dow, an executive director of 278 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: the y w c A, who thought that Vincent could 279 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 1: go to college and she knew wealthy patrons who could 280 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 1: help her do it. So Vincent got a scholarship to Vassar, 281 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: but because her high school education had been so terrible, 282 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 1: she needed to take some sort of remedial classes to 283 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 1: get her knowledge up enough to pass the entrance exams. 284 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 1: So after doing some coursework at Barnard College to get ready, 285 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 1: she started Vassar in the spring of n and at 286 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 1: Vassar she was vastly popular. She had a series of 287 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 1: sometimes overlapping romantic relationships with classmates, including Catherine Fileen and 288 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 1: Catherine Tilt, who she sometimes played against one another so 289 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 1: that she could make the other jealous, and she came 290 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: to be known as the Sappho of North Hall. At 291 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 1: the same time, she was carrying on an ongoing affair 292 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 1: with her editor Arthur Hooley, and a shorter one with 293 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: Nicaraguan poet Salomonde La Selva. In part that one was 294 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 1: also to try to make Hoolie jealous, and one of 295 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: his many, many beautiful love letters to her, Della Selva 296 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: described her as quote a willful princess, loved of many, 297 00:15:56,000 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 1: loving some man who wouldn't wanna have things like that 298 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 1: written about them, But yeah, there there is an enormous 299 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 1: body of letters both by her and about her and 300 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 1: to her and their lovely A lot of them are 301 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: by men like exceptionally gifted writers that she was involved with. 302 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: And so there's this whole beautiful body of love love 303 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 1: letters to Edness Visiblay existing in various places about the world. 304 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 1: And on top of writing and starring in plays, wooing 305 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: so many of her classmates, and of course actually attending 306 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 1: classes and studying. While in college, Vincent broke oh kinds 307 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: of rules. Had she not been such a prodigiously talented 308 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:39,359 Speaker 1: poet and already quite famous, she probably would have been expelled. 309 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 1: She had, in the words of the Dean quote, a 310 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 1: culmination of disregard for college. Right. She even got suspended 311 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: the week before graduation because she was supposed to be 312 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: confined to campus for having broken previous rules, and she left. 313 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: And uh, even though she had written two of the 314 00:16:56,560 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 1: songs and a whole lot of other material that was 315 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: going to be used in the graduation ceremony, she was 316 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 1: going to be prohibited from walking across the stage. She 317 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 1: was only allowed to graduate with her class after her 318 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: mother wrote a letter in her defense. And the rest 319 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:15,919 Speaker 1: of the student body, like hundreds of them, I mean uh, 320 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 1: not not not half of them, but approaching half, petitioned 321 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 1: and protested, And on top of her coursework and her 322 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 1: incredible love life and her social life, she managed to 323 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: keep writing this whole time, and most of what was 324 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:31,919 Speaker 1: in her first book, Renaissance and Other Poems, was written 325 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:34,400 Speaker 1: while she was at Vassar, and in spite of all 326 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: her hell raising while she was there, she had managed 327 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 1: to arrange a scholarship for her sister Kathleen to attend 328 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 1: the college as well. So she was out doing all 329 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:45,120 Speaker 1: kinds of wild and crazy things and partying and having 330 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: life adventures, but she was also like taking care of 331 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:51,399 Speaker 1: business the whole time. After graduating, she moved to New 332 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: York City. She was hoping to continue her work as 333 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 1: a writer while also making a name for herself in 334 00:17:57,040 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: the world of theater. Eventually, her sister Norm moved in 335 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: with her also, and the two of them shared an apartment, 336 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 1: and this was such a vastly different world from Camden 337 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 1: where they had been growing up, and you know, even 338 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 1: from vasser The two of them practiced swearing while doing 339 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: their their needleworks so that they could get used to it. 340 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 1: I love this. I mean, most people swear doing needlework 341 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,919 Speaker 1: as something goes wrong and they stabbed themselves, but I 342 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: sort of loved the idea that there they were really 343 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: practicing saying things. Concurrently, Yeah, they were practicing saying bad 344 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 1: words while while doing need work. So charming. The two 345 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 1: young women had very little money and when their mother 346 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:38,640 Speaker 1: heard that they were living without any sort of heat. 347 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 1: She decided that she would move down there herself. She 348 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: brought with her a pound of tobacco in a quart 349 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 1: of gin for her daughters. Cora lived in Greenwich Village 350 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: with her daughters for two years, and that was from 351 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 1: eight and nineteen twenty. She looked after them but tried 352 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: not to get in the way of their very bohemian lifestyle, 353 00:18:56,920 --> 00:19:00,400 Speaker 1: which was full of writing and drinking and parties. Instance. 354 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 1: Income came from writing and acting and gifts from her 355 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:06,640 Speaker 1: many friends. At first, this was really slow going. I mean, 356 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 1: she had established that she was very gifted, but she 357 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:11,920 Speaker 1: was sending poems off to journals and getting rejections back. 358 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 1: She really persevered, though, and eventually she was getting published 359 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 1: in Vanity Fair. Her Vanity Fair editor, Edmund Wilson, would 360 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 1: eventually propose to her and she would turn him down. 361 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:24,639 Speaker 1: She had away with editors. She had a way with 362 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: getting proposed to you. While living in Grinage, Vincent finally 363 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:30,959 Speaker 1: met poet Arthur Fickey, who she had been corresponding with 364 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,919 Speaker 1: since Renaissance was published in the Lyric Here and he 365 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 1: was about to go off to war. They carried on 366 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 1: a relationship in letters and sonnets and leader in person 367 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 1: that would go on for years. It's it's hard to 368 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 1: say who the love of Edna st. Vincent Malay's life was. 369 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:47,479 Speaker 1: I really feel like she had several, and and he 370 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:52,199 Speaker 1: was one of them. In Vincent finished what's considered to 371 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 1: be her greatest play, Aria de Coppo, which broke box 372 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: office records and went on to be performed all over 373 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 1: the world. She continue to act in plays until the 374 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 1: nineteen twenties, when her writing career started to actually overtake 375 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 1: her acting work. So one of Vincent's most quoted bits 376 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: of verse, which if you have heard anything about her, 377 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:15,120 Speaker 1: you probably have heard, is about burning one's candle at 378 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 1: both ends. And that's really how she spent her life 379 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:21,360 Speaker 1: in the village. She would just drive herself too exhaustion 380 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 1: on work and drink and love, and then she would 381 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 1: have to take to her bed. She would faint or 382 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: she would collapse, and somebody would have to come look 383 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 1: after her. When she finally left the village bound for Europe, 384 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:37,440 Speaker 1: she was just completely drained physically and emotionally. And while 385 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,920 Speaker 1: in Europe, she traveled and she wrote, and she became 386 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 1: increasingly ill with an ongoing stomach problem. Her family tried 387 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: to convince her to seek medical care, but she refused, 388 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 1: and Cora finally went to Europe herself to try to 389 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 1: nurse her. She had seen Arthur Fickie a few times 390 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 1: in Europe also, and about the same time as her 391 00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 1: mother came to look after her, she got the news 392 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,120 Speaker 1: that Arthur, who she had really hoped she might get 393 00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: married to one day, had divorced his wife. But also 394 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 1: part of the same news was that he had also 395 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 1: met someone else, Gladys Brown, who he would later marry. 396 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 1: Vincent headed back to the States in January of nineteen three, 397 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:19,200 Speaker 1: and she headed back to the village. Her mother went 398 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 1: back to Maine, having gotten discouraged with her inability to 399 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 1: get Vincent to see a doctor for her stomach problems. 400 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 1: Everybody was really at the seriously go to the doctor point, 401 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 1: like it was alarming everyone. That year, at a house party, 402 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 1: she ran into Eu Jim blossa Van. So I'm gonna 403 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 1: just say we had a lively discussion in the visitors 404 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:44,160 Speaker 1: center at Steepletop about whether it's blossa Van or Blassavan. 405 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 1: So uh, we sort of settled on blossa Van. Yeah, yeah, 406 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: So she she ran into Eugene blossa Van who she 407 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: met briefly at a previous house party in nineteen eighteen. 408 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 1: The party was a pretty awkward one for Vincent. A 409 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 1: lot the guests were former lovers of hers who were 410 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 1: in attendance with their wives, and her stomach was also 411 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 1: really bothering her eventually. I mean, she uh was one 412 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,879 Speaker 1: to have many loves. I would think if you traveled 413 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 1: in her social circle, it would be hard for her 414 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:17,440 Speaker 1: not to be crossing paths with a lot of people 415 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 1: she had been romantically linked to. So they just all 416 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:21,679 Speaker 1: happened to be at the same party. Because a lot 417 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: of this was from the Greenwich village time and her hosts, 418 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 1: in an effort to try to cheer Vincent up, decided 419 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: to play a sort of improv game, and Vincent and 420 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 1: Eugen were tapped to improvise a scene about two lovers, 421 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: but it was obvious to everyone that there was some 422 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:40,879 Speaker 1: actual real chemistry between them, and their relationships started immediately. 423 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 1: Eugen was a widower who was born in Amsterdam. His 424 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,920 Speaker 1: first wife and as mil Holland, was another Vassar graduate 425 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 1: and an activist for women's suffrage. Vincent had actually met 426 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:55,120 Speaker 1: Inn as well in school. Eugen's marriage to Dinas had 427 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: not lasted for very long, because only three years in 428 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:00,719 Speaker 1: she collapsed during a speech that she was giving and 429 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 1: died shortly thereafter. After she died, Eugen moved to the 430 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 1: village and started an import business. And meeting Eugen at 431 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 1: that house party in very likely saved Vincent's life. He 432 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: got her to finally do the thing that everyone else 433 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,679 Speaker 1: had been unsuccessful in attempting to get her to do, 434 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 1: which would see a doctor. And sort of a side 435 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: note at right as all this was going on, in 436 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 1: April of that year, Vincent learned that she had been 437 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 1: awarded the Pulitzer Prize for poetry. It's so very heavy 438 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:33,439 Speaker 1: time in her life, extremely And not long after UH 439 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 1: doctors decided Vincent's stomach problems, which are theorized today to 440 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 1: be Crohn's disease, we're going to require surgery, and she 441 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: wanted to marry Eugen before the procedure in case something 442 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: went wrong, So they got married on the morning of 443 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 1: July eighth. Outside the home of a friend Vincent's vale 444 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 1: was a huge length of mosquito netting that her sister 445 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 1: had found on a porch. There are pictures. There are 446 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,879 Speaker 1: wedding pictures in the visitor center at Steeple Top, and 447 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 1: they're very striking because they're black and white pictures. Um. 448 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 1: And and she's wearing a dress. I don't remember what 449 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 1: the actual color of it is, but it's dark in 450 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:12,360 Speaker 1: the picture because somebody's wearing dark clothing. Uh, is how 451 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: it comes across its black and white picture with this 452 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 1: just enormous volume of white veil netting um flowing down 453 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:23,680 Speaker 1: behind her. So Arthur Ficky and Gladys Brown were both there, 454 00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 1: and Vincent's sister Norma and her husband Eugen, borrowed the 455 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,399 Speaker 1: cook's ring. Her name was Hattie when he realized that 456 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:36,400 Speaker 1: he had accidentally misplaced Vincent's. Vincent went in for surgery 457 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 1: that evening, and during the procedures, the doctors essentially rebuilt 458 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:45,400 Speaker 1: her intestines because membranes and adhesions had made them completely dysfunctional. 459 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 1: And once Vincent recovered from surgery, Eugen took her on 460 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 1: a honeymoon around the world. They traveled all over the 461 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 1: place there. Uh, there are souvenirs from China that they 462 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,640 Speaker 1: brought back with them, and they're and the home mets 463 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 1: people top which seems like a very happy place to 464 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,239 Speaker 1: pause until we come back to the story in the 465 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 1: next episode. Yeah, we'll enjoy this happy part. Yeah. Well 466 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 1: there's more happy parts still to come. But you know, 467 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 1: if you want a hundred percent, maybe not ad percent. 468 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,399 Speaker 1: If you want a really happy ending for this story, 469 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 1: maybe put off listening to part two. Don't really put 470 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 1: off listening to part two. There's a lot of awesome 471 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,639 Speaker 1: stuff that is still going to happen in her life. Um, 472 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 1: but there there is also some trouble to come down 473 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:34,199 Speaker 1: the road. Uh. We will also talk a lot more 474 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,199 Speaker 1: about speople top Um in the next episode because it 475 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 1: it became Uh, it was where she lived for the 476 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 1: last many years of her life, and a lot of 477 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 1: it is like an extension of her personality. Um, which 478 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,199 Speaker 1: is not really surprising. We have somebody who puts a 479 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,399 Speaker 1: lot into the home that they live in. Very cool. 480 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:55,120 Speaker 1: Do you also have listener mail that I do? This 481 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,199 Speaker 1: is from Anne Marie and and Marie says, I just 482 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: listened to your latest podcast and it made me think 483 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,200 Speaker 1: a lot about a book I read recently from my 484 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 1: book club called The Child Catchers Rescue Trafficking and the 485 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,879 Speaker 1: New Gospel of Adoption by Katherine Joyce. It's They are 486 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 1: Well researched, an important book that goes into many of 487 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 1: the problems that plague international adoption today. While many, if 488 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 1: not most, people who adopt internationally have only the best 489 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,680 Speaker 1: of of intentions, there are people involved in the process 490 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,119 Speaker 1: who use the demand for children to make money, and 491 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 1: there are people who adopt in order to convert children 492 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 1: rather than to help them. So uh, since I didn't 493 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 1: say clearly before this came following our Orphan Trains episode 494 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,399 Speaker 1: to go on with the letter. One important thing the 495 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,320 Speaker 1: book discusses is how certain segments of the adoption community 496 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 1: have rallied around claiming that there are many millions of 497 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 1: orphans in the world. The number they use is one 498 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 1: from UNI stuff that actually includes children who've only lost 499 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 1: one parent, and children who's who have lost both parents 500 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:55,920 Speaker 1: but still have relatives who can support them, who we 501 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: would never think should be taking away from a family 502 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:01,400 Speaker 1: in the United States, from this belief that there are 503 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 1: so many children in need of adoption collides with reality, 504 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 1: and potential adoptive parents are shocked at wait times and 505 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,000 Speaker 1: demand legal reform to speed up the process, which puts 506 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 1: these children's lives even more in jeopardy of dangerous adoptions. 507 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,119 Speaker 1: The author shares stories of parents who think their children 508 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,360 Speaker 1: are going to be students in the US or who 509 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,199 Speaker 1: shame who are shamed to thinking that they need to 510 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 1: do what's best by giving up their children. In many countries, 511 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,919 Speaker 1: orphanages are used as temporary assistance for parents when times 512 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 1: are tough, and parents are shocked when they return for 513 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,359 Speaker 1: their children and they've been adopted out abroad. One group 514 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 1: that is doing good work as Parents for Ethical Adoption reform. 515 00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 1: Adoption isn't the problem in itself, it's how it's implemented 516 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 1: because it can easily go so wrong. All my best 517 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: and Marie, thank you and Marie for writing this letter 518 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,879 Speaker 1: to us. UM. I actually my cousin and his wife 519 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 1: spent a year of their life in newly weeds in 520 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 1: a country I'm not gonna say what country it is 521 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: in cases is wrong. Uh. They were living and working 522 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 1: at an orphanage. UM. And that's the country that's shut 523 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 1: down international adoption, UH within the last couple of decades 524 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 1: because of a lot of the issues like these that 525 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: come up. UM. And they were like, we we need 526 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 1: to stop contributing to this as a problem we didn't 527 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: really go into in the Orphan Train episode. A lot 528 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,360 Speaker 1: of the problems that do continue to plague the adoption 529 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: and foster care systems today, they definitely are present. Yeah, 530 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,679 Speaker 1: both in the US and abroad. I mean there are 531 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 1: problems everywhere. It's a very difficult issue. Yeah. Yeah, Like 532 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 1: you hear some horror stories sometimes about um people who 533 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:42,479 Speaker 1: effectively like round up children and take them to another 534 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: city to be adopted to somebody who lives abroad, which 535 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 1: is heartbreaking and terrible. So we were not intending to 536 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 1: gloss over that. 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