1 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: Advice Shooters, it's time he Welcome to the Naughty but Nicer. 2 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm your host, Rob Shooter, and joining us every Wednesday 3 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 1: is our dear friend Donny Meacham. 4 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 2: Hey, Donnie, a you there? 5 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 3: Happy holidays, Happy holidays. Hello, Hello. I just want to say, Look, 6 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 3: the next time we will talk after this will be 7 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 3: twenty twenty four. 8 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 2: Wow. 9 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:32,319 Speaker 3: It's been a great year, and it's been a great 10 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 3: year with the Nazis. And the thing is is, look, 11 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 3: we've done a lot of work. We've been a part 12 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 3: of a lot of shows, been a part of a 13 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 3: lot of things. And this audience, though, is one that 14 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 3: is it's special, it is special different. 15 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 2: It is special. 16 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: That's a really good way of putting it. We captured 17 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: lightning in a bottle here and it took us a while. 18 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: It just goes to show you the keys in the lock. 19 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 2: You just have to turn it. 20 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: We tried really hard to do a subscription radio show 21 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: and the show was really good. We just never got 22 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: the numbers we needed to financially pay for it. We 23 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: were losing money doing the show. So like any business, 24 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 1: after a certain amount of time, if you lose money, 25 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: you gotta close the door. And so we did not 26 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: know what was next, and then iHeart came along and 27 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: we started this podcast, and really pretty much right away 28 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 1: we knew it hit something really great. And the only 29 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: reason we can say that is because of you. Naughty's 30 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, thank you. We're all going to 31 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 1: have an amazing twenty twenty four. Okay, let's jump into 32 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 1: the show. Our time is in, my friends, it is 33 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: tea time. Jennifer Amazon has posted a really cryptic, quite sad, 34 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 1: maybe even life affirming quote. People are saying that this 35 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: is because of Matthew Perry's death, So Jennifer, She's not 36 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: taken anything for granted this holiday season. The Friends alum 37 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 1: posted an inspirational message on Christmas Day, which was two 38 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 1: months after the tragic passing of her lifetime friend and 39 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: co star Matthew Perry. She wrote the following quote, have 40 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: you ever sat with yourself and thought about the concept 41 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: of life? 42 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 3: I have? 43 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: Time goes by fast, She wrote in capitals. You don't 44 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: get that back. Please go live, love hard. Let's go 45 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: of fear. That's important. Let go of fear, love yourself 46 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,959 Speaker 1: and love the people around you. And then Jen adds 47 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: something that I think is so interesting. She writes, appreciate 48 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: the hardships, trust the process, feed your faith, and never 49 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: forget to feel. Life isn't that long. It certainly isn't. 50 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 2: Now. 51 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: She doesn't mention Matthew in this post, but I think 52 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: clearly she is thinking about him, referencing him without saying 53 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: his name. Life is short, and sometimes it takes a 54 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: really tragic then for you to realize that. And I 55 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: think that's what she means when she says appreciate the hardship. 56 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: So I'm not saying for one second here that she 57 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: appreciates that Matthew has passed. However, she's going to use 58 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 1: that tragic incident and not not pretend it didn't happen. 59 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: She's going to acknowledge it, and it's going to change 60 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: the way that she moves forward, which I think is 61 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: really the big secret to winning at life. 62 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 3: What do you think, Donnie, Yeah, I mean it's beautiful here. 63 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 3: I will say, though, if twenty twenty three anything changed 64 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 3: in maybe all the Jennifer stories lately, is you Anniston? 65 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 3: You said Jennifer Aniston, you said it, and I was 66 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 3: literally in my head went, oh, I got it right, 67 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 3: did it? 68 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: I've been practicing I know a couple of the naughties. 69 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: Jennifer Gardener. That's another word. It's not gardener. She's not 70 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: a gardener, but it's gardener. Now I've been practicing on it. 71 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: It takes me a moment, Like I know when I'm 72 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: not doing something right, but my adjustment is not that quick. 73 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: I can take the note, I hear the note, but 74 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: it just takes me a moment. It's like when I 75 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: couldn't say Preanca chopra. Now I can just roll it 76 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: off my tongue. In fact, it's one of my favorite 77 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: names to say. You're not born this way, my friends. 78 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: It's all learned. And the good news about that is 79 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: if you can learn it, you can unlearn it and 80 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: you can learn something new. So I'm not terribly good. 81 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: I'm a good communicator, but when it comes to names, 82 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: it's never really been my thing, and I have to 83 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 1: really think about it. And so whenever I say Jennifer, 84 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: I do take a moment. You know in your mind 85 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: when you pause, it's not out of fear, it's out 86 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: of wanting to get it right. So I do always 87 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 1: pause a little bit. Jennifer Ammerston. I love that she 88 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 1: is being more open for a long time. We've covered 89 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: celebrities done for years, for decades. Even she used to 90 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: be one of the most private. You couldn't get any 91 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: information out of her. Her friends were really private too, 92 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 1: so when you try to get saurces, she's one of 93 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 1: the hardest celebrities I've ever covered. My sources on her, 94 00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: someon are really good and then they disappeared, some were 95 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,479 Speaker 1: not so good, and they kept calling, and it is 96 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 1: really hard to break into her in a circle, which 97 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: I think is a real testament to how great she 98 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:09,799 Speaker 1: is and really no pun intended, what a good friend 99 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: she is too. We do know she was a great 100 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: friend to Matthew, That's one thing that we do know. 101 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: It's heartbreaking, but I think that she is talking bad 102 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 1: about it. I know from my insiders that she wants 103 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: to make sure his legacy is not one of just drugs. 104 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: It wants to be a fully rounded human legacy of 105 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 1: a fully rounded human being who had his demons, who 106 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: definitely had his demons and tried to fight them as 107 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: best as he could. But I think when we look 108 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 1: at the totality of this story, the good stuff the 109 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 1: bad stuff, I think we can figure it all out. 110 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: And Jenna certainly helped us do that, which brings us 111 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: to our whole question of the day. Jennifer has posted 112 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: quote A lifetime isn't long enough? A lifetime isn't long enough. 113 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 1: Our question is she talking about Matthew Perry? 114 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 2: What do you think? 115 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: She doesn't mention his name, but is she talking about 116 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 1: Matthew Perry? Hey, go vote on our Twitter page at 117 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 1: naughty nice wellba Facebook page Naughty Simba. I am be 118 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: sure to check back tomorrow to hear your results. Hey, 119 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 1: Donnie Love, what do you work it on? 120 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 121 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 3: Just a real quick if you think about it. Jennifer Hanniston, 122 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 3: she really was back in the nineties and two thousand. 123 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 3: She was the Taylor Swift and Kim Kardashian when it 124 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 3: came to press, like the media wanted to know everything everything, 125 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 3: So that's why she was so guarded. And I don't 126 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 3: blame her a bit. 127 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you're right now. 128 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:36,119 Speaker 3: It's nice that she's coming out. Kanye West. Kanye West, 129 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 3: he actually done something that he doesn't normally do. He 130 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 3: apologized to the Jewish community in Hebrew after an unintended 131 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 3: anti Semitic outburst, so he shared the message was written 132 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 3: entirely in Hebrew. On Instagram in the final hours of 133 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 3: Christmas Day, he said, I sincerely apologize to the Jewish 134 00:06:56,600 --> 00:07:00,799 Speaker 3: community for any unintended outburst caused by my word or actions. 135 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 3: It was not my intention to hurt or disrespect, and 136 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 3: I deeply regret any pain that I may have caused. 137 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 1: He you know. 138 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 3: His message read, which was translated from Hebrew. I am 139 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 3: committed to starting with myself and learning from this experience 140 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 3: to ensure greater sensitivity and understanding in the future. He 141 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 3: concluded his message by you know, saying his forgiveness is 142 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 3: important and that he's committed to making amends. You know, 143 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 3: he went on an anti Semitic tier in Las Vegas 144 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 3: earlier this month. He ran it about you know, and 145 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 3: raved about Donald Trump, Jesus, and Adolph his Kanye, Kanye Kanye. 146 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 3: I'm actually gonna say this, like Kanye apologized, I think 147 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 3: that is something he doesn't normally do. Very big of him. 148 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 3: I will actually agree though, that Kanye also has demons 149 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 3: that he fights with, and I think he's one of 150 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 3: those people who he speaks first, thanks second, and then 151 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 3: after he speaks, he's as just wild things. I think 152 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 3: in the moment. Do I think he meant to hurt people? 153 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 3: Do I think he meant to, you know, attack people, 154 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 3: I personally don't do. I think he is one of 155 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 3: those people who could learn from Take a second, think 156 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 3: about what you're about to say before you. 157 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 2: Just say it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 158 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 1: It's a complicated one for me. The problem for me 159 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: is not only the evil stuff that he's saying that 160 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: some of his fans, his followers are listening to. It's 161 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 1: also that he's done it many, many times now. This 162 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: wasn't a one off incident. I think he's revealed what's 163 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 1: in his. 164 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 2: Heart, and his heart is not good. 165 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 1: And I do believe in forgiveness, and I do believe 166 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:44,559 Speaker 1: in second chances, but this isn't a second chance. I 167 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 1: think it's a fourth, or fifth, maybe a sixth chance. 168 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 1: I think at this point, for me, your actions are 169 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: going to speak louder than your words. And I'll keep 170 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 1: a very close eye. And I hope that Kanye doesn't 171 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 1: have a relapse and in a couple of months start 172 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 1: saying these really ugly things at a game. The world's 173 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 1: in a real difficult place, and I think having somebody 174 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: as powerful as Kanye West to say such as hateful 175 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 1: things about a community is something that I don't know 176 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: if I can forgive. And I want to have a 177 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 1: heartful of forgiveness, But does it make me a sucker? 178 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 2: Am I a sucker? 179 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:16,199 Speaker 3: Like? 180 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 1: Is saying sorry just washing away all your horrible sins? 181 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: Like You've got to believe it, And I don't know 182 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: if I believe that he believes it. And the fact 183 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: that he did it in Hebrew. He does not speak Hebrew, 184 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: he doesn't write Hebrew. So somebody translated this for him. 185 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:37,559 Speaker 1: Maybe that person even wrote it themselves and translated it 186 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 1: for him. Then to talk about I'm not quite quite 187 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: there yet. I don't want to completely write people. If 188 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: I don't when somebody apologizes, I think, I think you 189 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:51,559 Speaker 1: have to give them another chance. But how many chances here, Kanye? 190 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,839 Speaker 1: And maybe this was done because your careers fell apart. 191 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 1: You have no endorsement deals, You've lost your music career 192 00:09:58,040 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: because of this. People don't want any part of your 193 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 1: and so maybe that's the reason I think the reason 194 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 1: he's doing this does matter. I'd love to ask him 195 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: why now, what happened? Did you see the light? Why 196 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 1: did you figure out about Adolph Hitler that you didn't 197 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 1: know before, and why didn't you know that? Why didn't 198 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: you know that? It's a really complicated one, but let's 199 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: in the Christmas spirit, except that Kanye wants to is 200 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: trying to do better. Okay, this is a lovely story. 201 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: Prince William and Kate have released another Christmas card. This 202 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 1: one Louis has all his fingers on it. Remember that 203 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: controversy The last card Louis had looked like he had 204 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,599 Speaker 1: a finger missing. So they've released the new card and 205 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:39,719 Speaker 1: they're not in it. It's just the three kids. So 206 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 1: they delighted their fans on Christmas Day by putting out 207 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 1: the card. It's George, who's now ten, Charlotte as little Louis, 208 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: who is five. They're sitting on a bench smiling. It's 209 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 1: a black and white photograph. It was taken by Joss Sinner, 210 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: not their mom. Their mom is an amazing photographer, but 211 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 1: this is a professional photograph. The caption said, wishing everybody 212 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: a Merry Christmas from our family to yours. Oh it's adorable. 213 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: Now are they doing this to take a little bit 214 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 1: of the heat of the embarrassment of the photo fail? 215 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: It was quite quite a disaster. Something was wrong with 216 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:13,199 Speaker 1: that first card. I mean, Louis definitely had a figure missing. 217 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 1: It might have been tucked under or are they doing 218 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: this because they figured out this is how they keep 219 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: themselves in the spotlight. That's part of their job. I'm 220 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 1: not saying that as a negative thing here. And who 221 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 1: could not love a Christmas card? A holiday card of 222 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 1: these three beautiful, beautiful children. I loved this card, and 223 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: I think I like the fact that William mckayter are 224 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 1: not in it. I like just the three kids. 225 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 2: Where are you on it? Don't they? 226 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,439 Speaker 3: Oh it's beautiful, I think though, I'm with you, Like 227 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 3: who looked at the first card and was like the 228 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 3: first picture and was like, I mean, you have an 229 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 3: entire team around you. 230 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 2: Nobody went right? 231 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 3: Kids missing a finger? 232 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 2: Right? 233 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:55,839 Speaker 3: Nobody really? Even Louis didn't look at it, because that 234 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 3: kid is smart and he's on everything. He would have 235 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 3: been like, Mom, I'm missing a finger. I love this, 236 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 3: It's beautiful. You know, we receive every year, I receive, 237 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 3: you know, a plethora of cards with you know, these 238 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 3: photos of them, and most of them are of just 239 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 3: the kids. The parents are usually not in the photos. 240 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 3: And for me, it's just I find that more special 241 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 3: because each year the kids are growing up, the kids 242 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 3: are a year older, and to see just a change 243 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 3: in them, to me is it's great. It has more 244 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 3: of a meaningful. 245 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just great. 246 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 1: And I think when Kate's in a picture or the 247 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: future king, that's who you look at, even when these 248 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 1: are royalty themselves, and so I think taking them out 249 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: of the picture, it's like if Ben and j Loo 250 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: take themselves out of their picture, you get to look 251 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: at the kids. And so I think it's really focusing 252 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: attention on these three wonderful, adorable little children. Hey, I 253 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 1: haven't received my card in the mail yet, but I'm 254 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 1: still hoping it's on its way. Donna, you have another 255 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: brilliant story about Kate Middleton, but this one involves a 256 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 1: very special person, Dolly Parton. 257 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 3: Yes, so the Queen of country music wanted the future 258 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 3: Queen Kate Middleton. So Dolly Parton wanted Kate Middleton to 259 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 3: know why she declined her tea and attention. So you know, look, 260 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 3: if Kate Middleton invited me and you robbed a t Yes, Hello, 261 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:20,160 Speaker 3: sorry rob a Kinton podcast podcast, We're going to we 262 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 3: got tea fans. Well, apparently Kate invited Dolly, but Dolly 263 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 3: wanted to make sure that she knew why she wasn't 264 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 3: able to do it, So she sat down with BBC 265 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:34,199 Speaker 3: Radio two and she goes, look this time, Lordie, I 266 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 3: even got invited to have tea with Kate Middleton, and 267 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 3: I felt so bad I couldn't even go and had 268 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 3: all this stuff set up. But then she joked she 269 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:46,319 Speaker 3: wasn't going to promote my rock out part, so I 270 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 3: had to say no. So she went on to say, look, 271 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 3: she was only there for one day, and she had 272 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 3: a full day of press, and she looked she's a 273 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:56,199 Speaker 3: worker a rock album. 274 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 2: Now. 275 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 3: Look, if Kate Middleton would have said we're gonna sit 276 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 3: down have tea, you put the album front and center 277 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,839 Speaker 3: and then you see a rock song minute we talk 278 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 3: about it Dolly, I'll. 279 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 1: Go yeah, Dolly, business woman. She's so smart. I love 280 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 1: that she's been honest about it too. 281 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 2: I'm too busy. I'm selling my album. I don't have 282 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 2: time for tea. Now. 283 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 1: If you want to help me sell my album, then 284 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 1: we'll get you into the schedule. Dolly's only there for 285 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: twenty four hours. Her priority is this album. I love 286 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: that she's being so honest about this. She did go 287 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 1: on to say that hopefully down the road, next time 288 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 1: she's in Britain, she'll be able to meet with Kate. 289 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: She's a huge fan of hers and the royal family. 290 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 2: But this is just lovely. 291 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: It is so Dolly, It is just so her that 292 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 1: it made me smile and giggled. Meanwhile, the rock album 293 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 1: didn't need Kate Middleton. It sold really well. Donny Dolly 294 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 1: had another top ten hit with this album. 295 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 2: I bought it. 296 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 1: It is fantastic. If you love Dolly Parton, if you 297 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 1: love rock and roll, well you will love, love, love 298 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: this album. Kate Middleton, go out and get a copy. 299 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 1: I wish them more did promote stuff they don't. They 300 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: would never hold up at an album or a book 301 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: or a movie poster. It's just not what they do. 302 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 1: They're almost and to it. But I do think had 303 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: Dolly turned up at the Palace and there had been 304 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 1: a photograph of them getting tea, even if it didn't 305 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 1: include the album, it would have made the covers of 306 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: all the newspapers, and that in turn would have I think, 307 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: helped sell more records. So we're going to take a 308 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: quick break and we'll be right back, Welcome back to 309 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 1: the middle, the n shomb shout a idea for end 310 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 1: Donnie meet them, Hey, Donnie, let's get to the polls. 311 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: Last show, we talked about Taylor Swift celebrating Christmas Day 312 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 1: with her mom and Travis Kelsey at one of his games. 313 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: So when you take your mom on Christmas Day to 314 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 1: watch your boyfriend play football, it is serious. 315 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 2: They are moving fast. 316 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 1: They've only been together a couple of months and now 317 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 1: spending Christmas Day with her boyfriend and her mom. My 318 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: question was, do you think Taylor is moving too fast? 319 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 1: Let's have a look. Ooh four percent said yes, it's 320 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: too fast. I like it. She's in her thirties, she's 321 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 1: had some failed relationships, stuff that hasn't worked out. I 322 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 1: think she's found the one. I don't know if you 323 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: can ever move too fast if it's the one. 324 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 2: And I think this is the one. Where are you 325 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 2: on it, Donna? 326 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 3: Look? I think I'm always a big proponent of is 327 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 3: there such thing as too fast? Maybe, but also like 328 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 3: just follow your heart, And Taylor seems to be following 329 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 3: her heart here and makes she get hurt. She might 330 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 3: in the entry, but she's enjoying herself. Now, Yes, this 331 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 3: is important. 332 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 1: Yes, I moved really fast when I met Bruce for 333 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 1: in twenty four hours. I know, I know, and I 334 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: wouldn't let him be I know twenty five. I went 335 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: very slow for twenty four hours, very very calm and collected, 336 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 1: but would. 337 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 2: Have made my bod Are you fast or slow? Donna? 338 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 3: Look, I think this is to be honest. Actually, just 339 00:16:57,640 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 3: talking about this with my friend yesterday, is as you 340 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 3: get older and you know Taylors under thirties, now is 341 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,960 Speaker 3: you know, the timeline shifts because you're just like I 342 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 3: don't I don't have a lot of time. I don't 343 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 3: waste time, and you're like, I'm busy. I don't you know, 344 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 3: I'm not. I can't stay up on Tuesday night until 345 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 3: two am at the bar with you, like I have 346 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 3: to go to bed because I have to go to 347 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 3: work in the morning. So are we gonna do this 348 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 3: or not? Like? What are we gonna do? Are we meeting? 349 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 3: Are we not meeting? Are we hanging out? Are we 350 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 3: not hanging out? Are we together? 351 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 2: Are we not to get you got to make an effort? 352 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 3: Timeline shortens. 353 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, you've got to make an effort. You've got to 354 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 2: make an effort. 355 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:33,919 Speaker 1: Oh I love this, don't forget to vote on today's 356 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 1: poul Well got to my Twitter page at naughty Nice 357 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:37,959 Speaker 1: rob or a Facebook page which is naughty gossa ban. 358 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: Be sure to check back tomorrow to hear your results. 359 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:43,399 Speaker 1: And now I love this one too. It's time for 360 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 1: our nicest of the day. 361 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:47,160 Speaker 2: Wow. 362 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 3: We even Mendez made an effort. 363 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 2: She did. 364 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 3: She gave a shout out to write and Glossling and 365 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 3: it was full of energy. The two of these. There's 366 00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 3: times where I actually forget even mid days and Ryan Garson, Yes, 367 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,879 Speaker 3: they want that, and then stuff like this. 368 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh my god, yeah for a long time. 369 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 2: A decade. 370 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:11,439 Speaker 3: For decades, right, yeah, almost a decade. 371 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 2: It's a decade. 372 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:17,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, long time. So she posted a video of Ryan 373 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:20,679 Speaker 3: Gastling and it was him performing a Christmas theme version 374 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:24,239 Speaker 3: of iron Skin from the movie Babe, and she went 375 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 3: on to say, so grateful to Mark Ronson forgetting my 376 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 3: man to make more music. When I first heard Ryan, 377 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 3: seeing my heart exploded more Ryan in Ronson musica adorable. 378 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 3: So she loves hearing him singing, and I think we 379 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,800 Speaker 3: were all kind of, you know, pleasantly surprised. 380 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 2: It's great. 381 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 1: It's great, and he's funny and a curious button and 382 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: nicest the day, and then I noticed the day. Kelly 383 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 1: Clarkson's ex husband, Brandon Blackstock, has been ordered to return 384 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 1: two point six million dollars after he overcharged her when 385 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:57,640 Speaker 1: he was her manager, So he has to give back 386 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 1: the money. A California labor commissioner has decided that he 387 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 1: owes her over two point six million dollars that he 388 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 1: took from her. 389 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:10,320 Speaker 2: He thinks, or he claims, that. 390 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 1: He booked gigs for her on the Voice Norwegian Cruises, 391 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:17,160 Speaker 1: the furniture store that she represents on the Billboard Awards, 392 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 1: and they said, ah, actually only talent agents, not managers, 393 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: can secure that type of employment for their clients, So 394 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 1: give it back. 395 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:28,399 Speaker 2: You know a big picture here. I don't like it. 396 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: Don't make your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your husband, Joe, if 397 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 1: your manager, don't work with people that you love, it 398 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,440 Speaker 1: never works out. I think when I worked for Jessica 399 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: Simpson and her dad Joe Simpson was involved and just 400 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 1: he shouldn't have had that job. He wasn't qualified. If 401 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: I really love you, you won't be my manager. That's 402 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 1: how much I believe in our love. I don't need 403 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 1: to buy you. I don't need to give you the 404 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 1: title of being my manager to secure our love. It 405 00:19:56,480 --> 00:20:00,680 Speaker 1: makes me really sad, and it's a lesson for all. Okay, 406 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:02,159 Speaker 1: let's end with a moment of rub you got rub, 407 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: you rub, you get a rub. The positive always needs nurturing, 408 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 1: because evolution has let us believe the negative voice much more. 409 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 1: The negative voice wins if you think about it. If 410 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 1: you have something in your mind, a little voice Donnie 411 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: in your mind telling you something nice, and a little 412 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: voice in your mind telling you something nasty, you're probably 413 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: gonna listen to the nasty. Any gardener knows that weeds 414 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 1: grow faster than flowers. 415 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 2: They do. 416 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 1: It's just the fact of life. That negative voice is 417 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:34,200 Speaker 1: a weed. The positive voice is a flower. The positive 418 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:37,399 Speaker 1: voice just needs an ally, and that ally needs. 419 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 2: To be you. 420 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 1: Bend towards bend towards the positive, nourish, nurture the positive, 421 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:50,160 Speaker 1: and pull out that negative weed. Hey, that's it for today. 422 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:51,640 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to They're Not Aughty 423 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: but Bit Nice with Rob and Donnie Show, a production 424 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio. 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