WEBVTT - KJ Live - Donminic Ellison

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<v Speaker 1>This is kJ Live with Chris john Sallie and Chris

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<v Speaker 1>is having conversations with influencers in the sports world and

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<v Speaker 1>entertainment and a strange now here's Chris Johnson. You're now

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<v Speaker 1>tuned in to kJ Live. Today's guests on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Is a graduate of Morningside High School and played for

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<v Speaker 1>one of the greatest basketball team in the history of

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<v Speaker 1>southern California. He also played at a high level at

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<v Speaker 1>Washington State, then on to Mexico State, and ended up

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<v Speaker 1>playing pro for a few years in Israel, Austria and

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<v Speaker 1>other countries. Let's welcome in Dominic Ellison to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up down Man? Thank you for having me brother.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything is good, man, every everything is great. Bro. It's

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<v Speaker 1>been a while since we've connected, bro Um. I talked

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<v Speaker 1>to Stacey Bozeman, your high school teammate, your boy a

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<v Speaker 1>few it's back. He was on the show, Man, so

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<v Speaker 1>it was great to catch up with him. You actually

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<v Speaker 1>came up on the podcast. It's nice to finally reconnect.

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<v Speaker 1>Just got the news man l a Times front page.

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<v Speaker 1>Your name, the head coach of your alma mater, the

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<v Speaker 1>legendary Morningside High School. Talk about what that means to

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<v Speaker 1>you and what your mission is at morning Side that

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's it's all about the mission, um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and obviously it means a lot to me personally because

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<v Speaker 1>you know it's it's rooted. Uh you know, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's here. Uh. I was there, Um, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>was one of these young men trying to make it. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>So my my, my admission, my initial and the most

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<v Speaker 1>important mission here is giving back to the kids and

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<v Speaker 1>and helping them with that same opportunity that was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of bleak for me. You know, hopefully I can bridge

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<v Speaker 1>that gap between what they don't know, you know now

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<v Speaker 1>and what's ahead of them in the future. So, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that's the main mission. The main mission is

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<v Speaker 1>all given back. You know. It isn't about anything else, um,

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<v Speaker 1>but to help these young men and women and student

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<v Speaker 1>athletes you know, achieves to achieve their goal stair dreams.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, this is solely about that. And then and

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<v Speaker 1>on top of that, you know, going back home where

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<v Speaker 1>it all started for me is really the magic. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it has to be special Man Morningside. Throughout history,

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<v Speaker 1>so thirty forty fifty sixty years has always been regarded

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<v Speaker 1>as as one of the top programs. My old college coach,

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<v Speaker 1>Jim Herrick used to coach at Morning Side. A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people don't even know that. Back in the day,

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<v Speaker 1>they were number one in the country, Jackie Robinson, all

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<v Speaker 1>kind of dudes, and so a lot of people don't

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<v Speaker 1>know that. And then we fast forward and I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>there was guys in the seventies and eighties that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>missing out. But but the era that I remember most

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<v Speaker 1>vividly was your era when the you guys had two movies,

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<v Speaker 1>the Morningside of five. But Hardwood Dreams was the first

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<v Speaker 1>one that came out right or yeah, so so so

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<v Speaker 1>Hardwood Dreams number one, Um, happened in ninety three and

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<v Speaker 1>ninety three. We had just won the state in ninety two,

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<v Speaker 1>brought some attention, and in ninety three they came and

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<v Speaker 1>grabbed the story. Um that was Hardwood Dreams one. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really close to the producers now after all of this,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh uh tall as as Mike Tallers as producer,

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<v Speaker 1>he actually did the Georgan story and you know, did

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<v Speaker 1>all kind of crazy good stuff. So he's a good

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<v Speaker 1>friend of mine. Um. He he had this idea of

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<v Speaker 1>doing it every ten years and he learned this from

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you know, you know, a predecessor he you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so he does it every ten years. He came and

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<v Speaker 1>you know around when we were twenty seven years old,

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<v Speaker 1>you know I did the first one were seventeen and

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<v Speaker 1>twenty seven, so that was Hardwood Dreams Number two. And

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<v Speaker 1>then you know, we were like around thirty seven years

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<v Speaker 1>old is when and the Morning Stide five show came

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<v Speaker 1>out on ESPN and stuff like that. Um so it's

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<v Speaker 1>been it's been like thirty years of that particular production

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<v Speaker 1>following you know, you know, and it originally it was

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<v Speaker 1>Spike TV, and then Fox picked it up and then

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<v Speaker 1>now ESPN picked it up. So, um there's some momentum

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<v Speaker 1>there for the program for the community. Obviously they're interested

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<v Speaker 1>in continuing that story now because I'm you know, organically

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<v Speaker 1>turning forty seven pretty soon here. So that's the ten

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<v Speaker 1>years later after that, and it could be a special

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<v Speaker 1>story you know, landing the job and uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>continuing the legacy of like you were talking about guys

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<v Speaker 1>like Jim Eric Um, guys like Carl Franklin, um, and

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<v Speaker 1>then like a guy like me comes along. Um So,

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<v Speaker 1>so it could be a good story. And to touch

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<v Speaker 1>your point on Jim Herrick man, Um, you know, he

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<v Speaker 1>recruited me because he was a coach. He recruited me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had really no idea that he was connected

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<v Speaker 1>to the school and it could have been a story

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<v Speaker 1>at that point. I had no idea kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>piggyback that you're saying, like not many guys know, Jim

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<v Speaker 1>Hereck wasn't what it was today. You know, demographic different,

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<v Speaker 1>it was culturally different back in the deaths that it

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<v Speaker 1>was different. Um. So Jim Herrick technically in my in

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<v Speaker 1>my lifetime, in my readings, he put Morning Side on

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<v Speaker 1>the map. Um. What people fail to realize is he

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<v Speaker 1>had Morning Side having the number one team in the nation.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they wanted like a forty five forty five

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<v Speaker 1>game winning streak in the seventies UM, which obviously propelled

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<v Speaker 1>his career. And then Carl Franklin Um basically came in

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<v Speaker 1>after Jim Herrick, and Carl had guys like Byron Stard

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<v Speaker 1>and Elden Campbell Um. And then he coached obviously stay

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<v Speaker 1>sposed men and myself and Dwight Curry and the whole

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<v Speaker 1>Morning Side five and Corey and Sean. Um he had

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<v Speaker 1>all of us for for twenty he was there for

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<v Speaker 1>twenty thirty years. Um, So these are two guys that

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<v Speaker 1>has like, really did some good things at the school

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<v Speaker 1>and put them put the put the school on the map. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And now it's my turn to see what I can

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<v Speaker 1>do on the program. You know, put my put my

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<v Speaker 1>print on the food program. So absolutely, man, I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>that you're giving us that breakdown. Playing for coach Herrick

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<v Speaker 1>at u c l A. He would always bring up

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<v Speaker 1>Morningside High School. You always say, Johnson, I bet you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know how coached that Morningside. I say what He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>we were number one in the country, And I say what, coach?

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<v Speaker 1>You want to know what? No one knows that I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>removed a little bit from the nown generation. Um, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't know who the morning Side five some of these

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<v Speaker 1>kids now And I'm walking up Empis. Um. You know

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<v Speaker 1>they don't know. I mean. So I'm here to bring

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<v Speaker 1>that back and bring that energy back and re established

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<v Speaker 1>that culture back to where it all began. Your childhood.

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<v Speaker 1>I know your Inglewood guy. Were you born and raised

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<v Speaker 1>in Inglewood? Where were you were part of the city

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<v Speaker 1>of Inglewood where you born. So on paper, I was

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<v Speaker 1>born in Los Angeles, but my my family lived and

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<v Speaker 1>what they had with what they call, you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>lower bottoms at the bottoms bottoms right for boys in

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<v Speaker 1>the hood was shot and all that. So I was

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<v Speaker 1>basically kind of born I was. I was created on Lawrence,

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<v Speaker 1>which is in the bottoms, but basically born in born

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<v Speaker 1>in Los Angeles, but I was born in Ray. I

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<v Speaker 1>was raised, I say, in Inglewood, you know, with q Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Then went to Lane, you know, and then I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I did hearthor in high school for my first two

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<v Speaker 1>years because you know, just like the movie like Lorn

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<v Speaker 1>and Side was just too much for moms and dad

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, yo, you're gonna go over there, You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get into trouble. So I had to Um. They

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<v Speaker 1>wanted some diversity, you know, obviously, So I went to

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<v Speaker 1>more Haartthorn High School for my first two years ninth

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<v Speaker 1>and Tim gray Um played ball there and then um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, so ironically we played Hawthorn played morning Side

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<v Speaker 1>and that big Las Vegas tournament way back in the day,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were we were down by thirty at half

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<v Speaker 1>and I was playing against Stace Bows man, all my

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<v Speaker 1>friends were over there, all the other four were over there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just like, you know, dude, I'm like, we're

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<v Speaker 1>down thirty and uh. We end up losing that game

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<v Speaker 1>by one. But to make a long story short, that

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<v Speaker 1>next season, I was like my dad, I gotta go

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<v Speaker 1>to Morningside, like this is this is basketball? Like did

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<v Speaker 1>you see there was Ali? You've been on us? And

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go there. And then um, for the

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<v Speaker 1>next season, I went there. We ended up winning it's championship,

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<v Speaker 1>state championship. UM, and I kind of sort of propelled,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a lot of my stuff. So I went

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<v Speaker 1>to ben Acute in morning side, excuse me, Hawthorne in

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<v Speaker 1>morning side. And then after that, um, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>earned a scholarship to play for Kelvin Samson at Washington State.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's stay on morning Stide for a second. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of questions about your experience there. When when

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<v Speaker 1>we want to set the stage so that our audience,

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<v Speaker 1>my audience can understand what the climate of high school

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<v Speaker 1>was like in early nineties Los Angeles. For me, I

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<v Speaker 1>was a Cresshaw, So first to start off my clear prep.

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<v Speaker 1>Then my dad had this genius idea after my sophomore year,

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<v Speaker 1>We're living in bell Air Dome. He's talking about, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to go to Cridshaw if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>get recruited by d one because back because back then,

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<v Speaker 1>don you remember small schools we didn't have that didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have their respect. Nowadays, you can go high level. You

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<v Speaker 1>can go straight to the league out of a small school.

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<v Speaker 1>Back then, folks used to look at your level of competition.

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<v Speaker 1>So Pops was like, Yo, go to cremon shop. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I wasn't really tripping, but I was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like, yeah, what's up with this? What was more inside?

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<v Speaker 1>Like around the same time pressure, we had metal detectors

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<v Speaker 1>on the way in bro we getting padded down. Hey man,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I would say that we were on the

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<v Speaker 1>other side, literally right on the other side of Crenshaw.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the same exact thing going on, Like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you couldn't enter the game without law enforcement with metal detectives.

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<v Speaker 1>It was serious. Um you know, um um. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>off the court had a lot to do with you

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<v Speaker 1>even making it too protice and and you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>were just different. We were tougher. It was a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit different. I mean, I don't even think so we

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<v Speaker 1>were toughered in. I feel like some of the children

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<v Speaker 1>are today, but our dads and it was even tougher

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<v Speaker 1>than us, you know what I'm trying to say here, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was a different era, man, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a lot. It was a lot more distractions

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<v Speaker 1>with as um, with survival in the inner city, which

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<v Speaker 1>is you know, you know they used the word bullying today,

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<v Speaker 1>like I mean, what like it wasn't that was the

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<v Speaker 1>way And that's what I tell folks about today, like

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<v Speaker 1>how this bullying stuff? I like, Man, I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>would have grew up. Ma, just just you wake up,

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<v Speaker 1>you're walking out the house and somebody gonna say something

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<v Speaker 1>to you that could be considered bullying. But you had

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<v Speaker 1>to have thick skin and know how to respond. It

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<v Speaker 1>was you had to mature really fast and control your emotions. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>emotions intact. You know, you have to understand the psychological

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<v Speaker 1>part of what's going on here, and you have to

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<v Speaker 1>make a decision whether you whether you was gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>that way or not. The support systems from your pops,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Marcus and all of our pops, the bailies,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the el our our our support system had

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<v Speaker 1>to be extremely strong first to go. And we dabbled,

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<v Speaker 1>all of us, we all kind of we all kind

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<v Speaker 1>of broke a window or we all kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>grabbed the pistol or thought about it like okay, way,

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<v Speaker 1>way wait. You know, I gotta make a decision. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But those support systems, you know, it was in place

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<v Speaker 1>for us, and we were fortunately a lot of kids

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have some of those support systems, and they drifted, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and they drifted too far, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>So that the challenges then, like you're talking about, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, on the campus of morning Side

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<v Speaker 1>and no offense take morning Side because I'm I'm representing

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<v Speaker 1>morning Side. I mean, it was like a little yard

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<v Speaker 1>for a minute. You know, you have to you have

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, you don't don't walk that way and

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<v Speaker 1>don't look that way. Um. You know, you just look

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<v Speaker 1>straight and you go to practice and you just stay

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<v Speaker 1>out of that kind of stuff. Um. These days that

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<v Speaker 1>kids have their different challenges, you know, social media and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you know, being you know, extrovert or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>the whatever they're into now, it's different. They have different

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<v Speaker 1>stuff to think about. When we were in when we

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<v Speaker 1>were in school, you know, we had to focus on

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<v Speaker 1>something to not focus on something, which was the other stuff. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, gangs, drugs, get you in school. All that

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<v Speaker 1>was was was prevalent. And uh, we all had an outlet.

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<v Speaker 1>If we didn't have that outlet of bouncing the basketball

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<v Speaker 1>and that support system connected, we probably would have drifted

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<v Speaker 1>as well. So you know, uh, kudos kudos to the

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<v Speaker 1>support systems. And on that topic of support systems, um,

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<v Speaker 1>the Bailey's and the Murray's and all these fathers and

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<v Speaker 1>name my dad, everybody that you mentioned, they kind of

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<v Speaker 1>kept us in check. But it was almost by It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a direct keeping you in check, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>just like you just had these people that had expectations

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<v Speaker 1>of you, and so you knew like, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>saw Mr Murray, next time you saw him, you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be, you know, in better shape than it was

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<v Speaker 1>there or you wanted to look better and you know

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<v Speaker 1>Mr o'bannitt whoever. It was like these were people that

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<v Speaker 1>you actually I would leave and think about because they

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<v Speaker 1>were affecting my life. I feel like it's gotten away

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<v Speaker 1>from that a little bit. I feel like people nowadays

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to get too deep into this topic.

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<v Speaker 1>But to people nowadays, they take you know, you have

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<v Speaker 1>your your own little unit of support and that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>They're messing with these guys dad. They're messing with this

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<v Speaker 1>guy dad because his dad might be trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>him to play on my team and all this other stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So politics, it's different. It came too far down and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, you know, it's like the NBA at the

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<v Speaker 1>sixth grade level already. And you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Uh it is it's like a statue grab and what

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<v Speaker 1>I want to preach and what I'm trying to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and I gotta leave by example right because I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting into this deep and I'm putting you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my name, my reputation, things I've built on the line

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<v Speaker 1>because I want to make some changes. You know, until

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<v Speaker 1>we understand that aligning ourselves together as mentors, as colleagues

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<v Speaker 1>and not trying to take from one another, we can

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<v Speaker 1>build these communities back up. But if we are fighting

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<v Speaker 1>and um not being transparent and not trusting one another,

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<v Speaker 1>and we can't expect our next generations to be any

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<v Speaker 1>better than what we're doing, you know. And I'm getting

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<v Speaker 1>into mentoring. I'm getting into tutoring. I'm getting into like

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<v Speaker 1>community activist stuff because you know, you know, it's my

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<v Speaker 1>time and if I can use my small name or

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<v Speaker 1>voice in the community, let's do it. And things like

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<v Speaker 1>this help, right, because we can reach populations. But until

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<v Speaker 1>we men together in these communities, were colleagues, we're brothers,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been doing this. Let's let's let's try to come

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<v Speaker 1>together and align ourselves and not trying to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>app siadey and do siad Uh. Let's tell the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let's let's work on it. Let's be perfectly productive,

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<v Speaker 1>um and uh. And that's kind of how we change

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff. So, you know, Fox Sports Radio has the

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<v Speaker 1>best sports talk lineup in the nation. Catch all of

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<v Speaker 1>listen live. I think also Dom is just realizing how

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<v Speaker 1>our power or our influence or and not being cocky

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<v Speaker 1>about it or anything like that, but understanding that we

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<v Speaker 1>we do affect how this next generation sees things, thinks

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<v Speaker 1>about stuff. They're looking to us for, you know, guidance

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<v Speaker 1>at times, and so being a mentor takes a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of there's a lot of responsibility associated with that. But

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like as as guys like us basketball players

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<v Speaker 1>that grew up in certain type of situations, we know

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<v Speaker 1>all the right things to do now. Whether or not

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<v Speaker 1>we've done them as a whole another story, But tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what we know facts, We know what to tell

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<v Speaker 1>these kids. We know what to tell them to keep

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<v Speaker 1>them on the right track. And I'm very uh, I'm proud,

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<v Speaker 1>uh pleased to hear that you're taking it upon yourself

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<v Speaker 1>to give back because you had a career in business

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<v Speaker 1>that I need you to just kind of talk to

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<v Speaker 1>us about you for last ten fifteen years you're working

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<v Speaker 1>in the business space. Talk a little bit about how

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<v Speaker 1>what made you decide to transition from the corporate America

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<v Speaker 1>in the high school basketball coaching. You know, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>that's a really good and touchy subject. Number one. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, as a sports athlete and as a professional athlete,

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<v Speaker 1>we all have these like dreams. These dreams, dreams don't

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<v Speaker 1>really die, right, they just stay in alive. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>one of my dreams was to always be able to

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<v Speaker 1>like run my own business because you know, coming from

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<v Speaker 1>the inner city, you know, one of the things you

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<v Speaker 1>you you kind of you know you internalized is like yo,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you know if I sit at the top

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<v Speaker 1>I have to make, maybe I can make the most money.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. It kind of just just straight ahead with that,

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<v Speaker 1>right Like so it's like, you know, being a basketball

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<v Speaker 1>player and we didn't make half the money. We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have an opportunity to make half the money that these

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<v Speaker 1>guys are making the day and and when your dad

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<v Speaker 1>and all that was playing, I mean it was a fraction.

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<v Speaker 1>So you still have this dream about being successful. And

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<v Speaker 1>with that it's like fame and like being good at something,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, making a little bit of money, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>put your legacy on any on something. And I always

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do that. So you know, when I decided

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<v Speaker 1>to unlace my shoes, and at twenty seven years old,

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<v Speaker 1>I did a little earlier than a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. My last season, I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to make them and I thought that the

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<v Speaker 1>path was going overseas are playing in the C B

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<v Speaker 1>A A B A uh, you know, workouts, individual private workouts,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever was going going on, you know, whether it be

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<v Speaker 1>with the Clippers or the Jazz. We had all these

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<v Speaker 1>runs and I thought about it and I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>every summer I had come back, I really don't have

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<v Speaker 1>anything solid, you know, I have to wait till August

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<v Speaker 1>to see what where this thing takes me. Every year

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't know. Myns would say, what

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<v Speaker 1>are you gonna do next year? I'm like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually waiting for a call, right, We're all waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for that call. And that call comes in and you

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<v Speaker 1>may not like that first call, but you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if there's a second or third call, and you have

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<v Speaker 1>to make that decision. Facts they might be leaving at

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<v Speaker 1>six in the morning the next damn day and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have it. I can't even say bye to anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>So that kind of started to dwell on. You know, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I need some security in life. I started to mentally

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<v Speaker 1>mature a little bit, and I said, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I wanna. I want to switch gears. And it's very

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<v Speaker 1>difficult to switch gears basketball to business. And it took

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<v Speaker 1>some grind because it really really really challenged me mentally.

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<v Speaker 1>It actually it actually helped me to how I, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out who I am because we all got

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<v Speaker 1>to figure that out, right. And I went back and

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<v Speaker 1>got my undergrad because I thought I was making a

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<v Speaker 1>basketball It was a few credits short and New Mexico

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<v Speaker 1>statement back finished that in two thousand and five, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I said, you know, I gotta I gotta find

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<v Speaker 1>some substantial what is that you know, and start research

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, which is the hardest part coming from you know,

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<v Speaker 1>no experience, no job, the whole new industry. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>whole new industry. You don't even know what time it is.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta find out everything from scratch, bro, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>learn it. All. People are asking me what are you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do? And I'm like, I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 1>I can do, Chris, I don't know. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know what these job titles mean, you know, to be

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<v Speaker 1>a director of operations, Like what does that mean? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>And it was, it was. It was a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>scattered research, you know, talking to a small business administration,

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<v Speaker 1>learning this or how do you start this? Or what's

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<v Speaker 1>an LLC? And I mean it got just it got

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<v Speaker 1>just pieces flowing from everywhere. I said, no, no no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no no, I got to go back to school to

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<v Speaker 1>learn this the right way, because that's my base, that's

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<v Speaker 1>my platform. So I went back at thirty eight to

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<v Speaker 1>get my Masters in Business and finance. That's what I

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<v Speaker 1>was able to say, Okay, I can now have conversations

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<v Speaker 1>in the corporate world about certain subjects. And it's just

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<v Speaker 1>because you felt confident that you had a graphs of

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<v Speaker 1>the information. Could this have been something dumb that you

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<v Speaker 1>could have also learned though through mentorship or working you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in corporate America, or did you specifically need to go

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<v Speaker 1>back and learn from school? These are these are excellent questions.

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<v Speaker 1>These are excellent questions because had I had I did

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<v Speaker 1>this at twenty five, yes, I could have went through

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<v Speaker 1>the corporate mentorship. I was that thirty eight. Time was chicken,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, now, I took the route of

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<v Speaker 1>not depending on how slow it I needed deadline, so

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<v Speaker 1>I know if I finished this in two years, I

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<v Speaker 1>can now do this. So time wasn't on my side.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's an excellent question because that's the That's why

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<v Speaker 1>I took the route because I needed it now and

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't. I'm not. I wasn a young puppy, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. I don't have the time to get that

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<v Speaker 1>ten years experience and count of cauld up the ladder

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<v Speaker 1>like I get to come in with some sort of impact. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>The degree was one thing, but then there was a

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<v Speaker 1>lack of experience, so I still had to start from

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<v Speaker 1>the bottom. Yeah yeah, yeah, But I was an athlete,

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<v Speaker 1>ex athlete, and uh, you know, I was very competitive

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<v Speaker 1>and and I paid attention to detail, you know, And

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I felt I was a really good basketball

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<v Speaker 1>player because I did all the little things. And I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up working my way up at this firm I

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<v Speaker 1>started to do. I created a sports division that like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, manage athletes money at the firm. Like it

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<v Speaker 1>was going great, and I said, you know what, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm making decent money, but I want but my passion

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't there. So I brand stopping, did my own day

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<v Speaker 1>and I did that for ten years. So I managed money,

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<v Speaker 1>get all the reporting, get all the financial work, all

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<v Speaker 1>the business management affairs for clients, you know, built a

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<v Speaker 1>bio and did that for ten years. Um, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I've been doing. Basically. Now I'm selling half business

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just going to concentrate on basically just getting

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<v Speaker 1>distributions from the work I put in, you know, equity

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<v Speaker 1>in the business. So I'll take a step back and

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<v Speaker 1>leadership I'm not going to be the CEO anymore, basically

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<v Speaker 1>sit on the board chair and an advisor. D like

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<v Speaker 1>a retirement kind of thing. Uh but um, but but

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<v Speaker 1>now I want to get active in the community, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get active in the community, want to

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<v Speaker 1>get act the sports, wanna get back. So that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like the you know, a slope up and the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of server a plateault. I've been doing that for

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<v Speaker 1>about ten twelve years now. I left that firm in

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand and ten, and I've been independent doing my

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<v Speaker 1>own stuff for about ten about ten years. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean when I saw you, they featured you, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was on the Morning Side five one where you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they were showing you kind of in the office, hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out with your with your colleagues and just the banter

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<v Speaker 1>bro Like I know, I know you and we all chameleons. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we all chameleons, and we've all me and you specifically

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<v Speaker 1>have always been able to be chameleons. Like probably not

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of dudes can in our area. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna keep it a hunted with you. Okay, so so too.

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<v Speaker 1>But to see it and like just you was doing that,

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot what you were doing, but it resonated with

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<v Speaker 1>me so like, and this is gonna sound like some

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<v Speaker 1>nerdy ship down, but this like you created an Excel

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<v Speaker 1>sheet and you did something on the excel. You had

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<v Speaker 1>your color coded and you had formulas, or you did

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<v Speaker 1>something real fly Bro. When I first learned how to

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<v Speaker 1>do that, I felt like and I didn't learn how

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<v Speaker 1>to do it. I was thirty eight, thirty nine. I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like the man, like I like I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>had a winter from fifty You feel you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>the man when you create a bomb massic seal sheet.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes you understand. I'm watching it, though I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 1>look at it. I'm speaking out over your Excel sheet, Bro,

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<v Speaker 1>I swear I was on it. So everybody in the

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<v Speaker 1>office was like, hey, look what the look what there?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? Look, I was the only brother in the

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<v Speaker 1>entire verb um, the only the only brother in the

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<v Speaker 1>firm that worked on accounts. Um. The other brothers were

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<v Speaker 1>in different areas of the firm, but they didn't work

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<v Speaker 1>in the on the accounts which is the money you

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<v Speaker 1>know room or you know other services? Should I say,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, very very cool story is how I got

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<v Speaker 1>that job? Is um? Coaching at brent With High School.

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<v Speaker 1>You never know how things happened. I was an assistant

0:26:10.520 --> 0:26:14.040
<v Speaker 1>coach at Brentwood High School and met a met a

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<v Speaker 1>gentleman um Um that was uh that went to Brentwood

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<v Speaker 1>and um, you know, he was coaching pro bono. Um,

0:26:25.119 --> 0:26:28.320
<v Speaker 1>didn't need any stipend or anything like that. And through

0:26:28.320 --> 0:26:31.879
<v Speaker 1>our season and we became like really really close. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about like opposite cultures here one opposite cultures

0:26:37.720 --> 0:26:41.679
<v Speaker 1>Morningside High School brent With School, like totally opposite. And

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<v Speaker 1>he learned a lot from me from my culture, and

0:26:45.520 --> 0:26:49.000
<v Speaker 1>I learned a ton from him and his culture. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know, you know, life after basketball

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<v Speaker 1>in transition of what I'm gonna be doing next, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of staying attached to it, but not really like

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<v Speaker 1>full on like I'm gonna be now. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>reaching out to resource and say, hey, man, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>need a job. I'm trying to do this. I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>school at the time. I was in my master's program,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you know, if you could make

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<v Speaker 1>a call to anyone, anyone, I was just hungry. And

0:27:13.000 --> 0:27:16.399
<v Speaker 1>he made a call to his cousin who knew the

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<v Speaker 1>boss or the partner in charge at the firm that

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up working for, and uh, he made the connection.

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<v Speaker 1>And I waited for two years and the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>connected me with the partner in charge gave me a

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<v Speaker 1>call and said, you know, are you still on the market.

0:27:33.000 --> 0:27:35.360
<v Speaker 1>I said yes, and he said when you can you start?

0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:39.440
<v Speaker 1>And I said tomorrow and he hired me. And that

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<v Speaker 1>guy has been a mentor in my life. He's become

0:27:42.240 --> 0:27:45.160
<v Speaker 1>a business partner. He's become an investor in my business.

0:27:45.640 --> 0:27:48.560
<v Speaker 1>And I worked under him for seven years and then

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<v Speaker 1>now he became a partner in my company, raised millions

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<v Speaker 1>of dollars from my business, and now I have that resource. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And his name is King Colo. He works at the firm.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you know, Um, So through these small connections, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and if you keep your head on straight

0:28:06.320 --> 0:28:09.600
<v Speaker 1>and you build, you know, something's happen. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that job, My only job came through relationship,

0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:17.600
<v Speaker 1>through basketball. So you just never know what happens in

0:28:17.600 --> 0:28:20.919
<v Speaker 1>this world. Uh. You just gotta be ready, um, and

0:28:20.960 --> 0:28:24.600
<v Speaker 1>you gotta keep up. UM. So I'm blessed and only

0:28:24.640 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 1>tell that story because, um, you know the last ten

0:28:27.880 --> 0:28:30.600
<v Speaker 1>years of my life has been a tribute to that

0:28:30.720 --> 0:28:34.200
<v Speaker 1>small connection at Brentwood and that friend of mine who's

0:28:34.200 --> 0:28:37.520
<v Speaker 1>still friends today that helped propel me and like, you know,

0:28:38.120 --> 0:28:40.120
<v Speaker 1>help me in my life. Man. So that's as a

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<v Speaker 1>touch you as a touch you on for me because

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<v Speaker 1>it came through a very very small, small window. But

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<v Speaker 1>my life for the last fifteen years. Oh yeah. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes the things that impact you the most they don't

0:28:52.520 --> 0:28:54.880
<v Speaker 1>seem like they're big deal at first. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>had a situation that I got involved with the two

0:28:58.240 --> 0:29:02.640
<v Speaker 1>thousand and eleven with a tech company out of Salt Clito, California.

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<v Speaker 1>But I met the guy through Steve Lavin. I happened

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<v Speaker 1>to be working laughs Camp Basketball camp out in New York.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy had an iPad, an iPhone app. He was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get off. You know, you can do the

0:29:13.200 --> 0:29:16.240
<v Speaker 1>digital scouting, take photos, audio, man the whole night, you know,

0:29:16.240 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 1>shoot it up to the cloud. You know that print

0:29:19.400 --> 0:29:22.960
<v Speaker 1>out reports, PDF, shot charts. So he's he's trying to

0:29:22.960 --> 0:29:26.000
<v Speaker 1>sell Lab on becoming sort of like a spokesman for

0:29:26.040 --> 0:29:28.480
<v Speaker 1>this or being endorsed the product or whatever. So lab

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<v Speaker 1>wanted me to come along because I had in two

0:29:30.520 --> 0:29:33.240
<v Speaker 1>thousand and eight, I had tried to develop an iPhone

0:29:33.680 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 1>video game with a company called Artificial Life out of

0:29:35.880 --> 0:29:38.760
<v Speaker 1>Hong Kong. So we had t o Manny Pakia, you

0:29:38.760 --> 0:29:40.960
<v Speaker 1>know all in talks to make some games. So I

0:29:41.000 --> 0:29:44.320
<v Speaker 1>had to do a bunch of just downloading of research

0:29:44.360 --> 0:29:47.200
<v Speaker 1>in my brain about you know, Apple, the Apple code,

0:29:47.280 --> 0:29:49.600
<v Speaker 1>the iPhone? What time it was? Hi hi Hi I

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<v Speaker 1>work So anyway, I'm well versed when by the time

0:29:52.840 --> 0:29:54.920
<v Speaker 1>this meeting comes with this guy is named by that

0:29:55.040 --> 0:29:57.840
<v Speaker 1>guy by the name of Greg. Greg gets is impressed.

0:29:57.880 --> 0:29:59.800
<v Speaker 1>I have a command on everything he's talking about. This dude,

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<v Speaker 1>hw tire me. I worked for him for seven and

0:30:02.280 --> 0:30:06.000
<v Speaker 1>a half years after that, traveled all over the country

0:30:06.000 --> 0:30:08.240
<v Speaker 1>when him went to the m I T Conference, Sloan

0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:11.840
<v Speaker 1>Sports Analytics Conference several times. Bro. But just to your

0:30:11.880 --> 0:30:15.520
<v Speaker 1>point about these small connections through basketball, it's like, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're at the right place at the right time, and

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<v Speaker 1>you understand how to deal with people in a positive way,

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<v Speaker 1>you can get far. And that's one of the things

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<v Speaker 1>that as a mentor, one of my first things I

0:30:26.480 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 1>talked to kids about. Man, it's it's how to nourish, cultivate,

0:30:30.520 --> 0:30:34.960
<v Speaker 1>and maintain lifelong relationships with folks. Man, it is, it

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<v Speaker 1>really isn't. And you know I learned that late. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't lie me too, bro, me too, Bro. I

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<v Speaker 1>really did, Like I really learned that late. And and

0:30:45.320 --> 0:30:47.480
<v Speaker 1>that's okay. You know, once you learn it, you just

0:30:47.560 --> 0:30:50.680
<v Speaker 1>hone it, you know. But but that's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's part of message, you know, of giving back in

0:30:53.080 --> 0:30:56.000
<v Speaker 1>the community and like telling these kids are important, you know,

0:30:56.000 --> 0:30:57.560
<v Speaker 1>because I still got let me. I'm sure you've got

0:30:57.640 --> 0:30:59.760
<v Speaker 1>all these relationships for twenty thirty years. I mean, look

0:30:59.760 --> 0:31:02.720
<v Speaker 1>how we can do it. You know we can yesterday. Um,

0:31:02.760 --> 0:31:04.360
<v Speaker 1>you know if I've seen your pops out and it's

0:31:04.400 --> 0:31:08.160
<v Speaker 1>just like yesterday, these relationships don't really go anywhere. They

0:31:08.200 --> 0:31:12.760
<v Speaker 1>just they just they just maintain that value. And uh

0:31:12.960 --> 0:31:15.000
<v Speaker 1>and like you said, it can take you a long way.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm blessed to have that happen. And then, you know,

0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:20.680
<v Speaker 1>being in this situation is a big deal for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can pass along some of the stuff that

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:26.080
<v Speaker 1>we've been through. I mean, you know, if it ain't

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<v Speaker 1>at us, you know, it's the next one, so it

0:31:27.960 --> 0:31:32.000
<v Speaker 1>might as well be us. So yeah, I think teaching

0:31:32.040 --> 0:31:36.800
<v Speaker 1>these kids about just insane work ethic is a good start,

0:31:37.080 --> 0:31:39.239
<v Speaker 1>because you know, work ethic takes takes care of a

0:31:39.240 --> 0:31:41.440
<v Speaker 1>lot of things. You know, you can cover up a

0:31:41.440 --> 0:31:45.320
<v Speaker 1>lot of just you know, deficiencies and inefficiencies or whatever.

0:31:45.360 --> 0:31:47.720
<v Speaker 1>But if your asses there, you clock it in and

0:31:47.760 --> 0:31:52.120
<v Speaker 1>you're doing them twelve fourteen hours everyday consistency, it's gonna

0:31:52.120 --> 0:31:58.320
<v Speaker 1>be a level of respect for you that others won't get. Um.

0:31:58.360 --> 0:32:01.520
<v Speaker 1>But I wanted to talk to I wanted to find

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<v Speaker 1>out something. So Kelvin Sampson recruited me heavy at watching

0:32:05.440 --> 0:32:07.960
<v Speaker 1>this state. Okay, he was rocking with me. He's rocking

0:32:07.960 --> 0:32:10.080
<v Speaker 1>with my game. He was calling me all the time.

0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:12.320
<v Speaker 1>I love that dude, I literally I was. I wanted

0:32:12.360 --> 0:32:15.360
<v Speaker 1>to go because I loved him. I was curious, how

0:32:15.720 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 1>not about the basketball park, because I always got a

0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:21.680
<v Speaker 1>sense about Kelvin from a basketball's perspective, but I've always

0:32:21.680 --> 0:32:25.720
<v Speaker 1>curious about how he handled you guys off the court

0:32:26.440 --> 0:32:28.880
<v Speaker 1>as as a coach. How was your experience playing for

0:32:28.960 --> 0:32:37.520
<v Speaker 1>him off the um? You know, I was seventeen and um.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when you are battling understanding who you are

0:32:42.440 --> 0:32:45.800
<v Speaker 1>and someone challenges you, you don't know if it's for

0:32:45.840 --> 0:32:52.440
<v Speaker 1>the good or bad. Right. Um, but but what you do,

0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:55.240
<v Speaker 1>what you what coach did and still is from a

0:32:55.280 --> 0:32:58.320
<v Speaker 1>basketball perspective, is you know you kind of like how

0:32:58.400 --> 0:33:01.960
<v Speaker 1>to either love or hate to do. Because he was gonna,

0:33:02.280 --> 0:33:06.480
<v Speaker 1>he was gonna get in your stuff, he demanded. He

0:33:06.520 --> 0:33:09.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't all he really and he didn't get this. You

0:33:09.040 --> 0:33:11.520
<v Speaker 1>didn't get this while you were like, you know when

0:33:11.520 --> 0:33:13.280
<v Speaker 1>he's talking to you, you don't really get it like

0:33:13.320 --> 0:33:17.520
<v Speaker 1>that because you're young. You're trying to figure it out. Um,

0:33:17.520 --> 0:33:19.880
<v Speaker 1>but all he really, really truly wanted you to do

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:24.520
<v Speaker 1>from a basketball perspective, what's to play your hardest. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know how hard that is to get out of

0:33:27.760 --> 0:33:32.880
<v Speaker 1>a young man when he thinks he's nice, right and

0:33:32.920 --> 0:33:34.760
<v Speaker 1>he he wants to turn it on. When he wants

0:33:34.840 --> 0:33:38.200
<v Speaker 1>to turn it on, is going look, I get it,

0:33:38.400 --> 0:33:42.080
<v Speaker 1>but that doesn't work here. You surrender you you have

0:33:42.240 --> 0:33:46.040
<v Speaker 1>to surrender to me as a coach and excuse me

0:33:46.080 --> 0:33:47.880
<v Speaker 1>as as a player. You have to surrender to me

0:33:47.920 --> 0:33:51.240
<v Speaker 1>as a coach because there's no other way. And if

0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:54.240
<v Speaker 1>you get as a young man, you know, you know,

0:33:54.320 --> 0:33:56.280
<v Speaker 1>learning your much and you battle that you're like, man,

0:33:56.440 --> 0:33:58.440
<v Speaker 1>oh man, why are you always on my head? You know,

0:33:58.560 --> 0:34:02.160
<v Speaker 1>are you always on my back breath. But no, what

0:34:02.240 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 1>he was doing is bringing out the best in you,

0:34:05.880 --> 0:34:09.640
<v Speaker 1>because if you don't play hard, we won't know ever.

0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:12.920
<v Speaker 1>And it's not a light switch. So on a basketball

0:34:12.960 --> 0:34:15.279
<v Speaker 1>court with Kelvin did is he brought the best out

0:34:15.280 --> 0:34:18.160
<v Speaker 1>of us because he demanded us to play hard. If

0:34:18.200 --> 0:34:24.560
<v Speaker 1>you watch Houston University today, they play hard. They may

0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:27.200
<v Speaker 1>not do a whole lot of stuff on offense, coach,

0:34:27.280 --> 0:34:30.160
<v Speaker 1>don't don't don't kill me here, coach, if you hear this,

0:34:31.200 --> 0:34:35.640
<v Speaker 1>a whole lot of stuff like other programs on offense,

0:34:36.880 --> 0:34:40.640
<v Speaker 1>but you look at that rebounding category or loose ball

0:34:40.719 --> 0:34:44.839
<v Speaker 1>category 's twenty on guys, they play hard. That's really

0:34:44.880 --> 0:34:49.759
<v Speaker 1>their bread of us. Now, that guy confused with off

0:34:49.800 --> 0:34:52.560
<v Speaker 1>the court because you didn't know if the dude liked

0:34:52.560 --> 0:34:56.960
<v Speaker 1>you or loved you, because you were still in your feelings.

0:34:57.000 --> 0:34:58.560
<v Speaker 1>You you was like, oh, I don't know if I

0:34:58.560 --> 0:35:00.799
<v Speaker 1>should approach it do I'm I'm kind still mad at

0:35:00.880 --> 0:35:03.040
<v Speaker 1>him because he made me run or he was talking

0:35:03.080 --> 0:35:07.520
<v Speaker 1>about how soft thought was, which we can't do these days. Um.

0:35:07.560 --> 0:35:14.400
<v Speaker 1>But then people tell you when a coach stops talking

0:35:14.440 --> 0:35:19.040
<v Speaker 1>to you, you need to be worried. Yeah, you need

0:35:19.080 --> 0:35:22.640
<v Speaker 1>to be worried. He was always talking with me. He cared,

0:35:22.840 --> 0:35:26.680
<v Speaker 1>he carred, carried to care um, and I was, I was.

0:35:26.920 --> 0:35:28.960
<v Speaker 1>I was a little young because I only had Kelvin

0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:37.400
<v Speaker 1>for one year. Um, then Kevin Eastman came. Kevin alright,

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:42.320
<v Speaker 1>but it feels like I played for Kelvin for four years.

0:35:42.960 --> 0:35:49.000
<v Speaker 1>I talked to Kelvin last week. Um, you know, Kelvin

0:35:50.400 --> 0:35:54.439
<v Speaker 1>at forty at forty six. I love Kelvin because now

0:35:54.560 --> 0:35:59.880
<v Speaker 1>I get it. Yeah, he is better off the court

0:36:01.120 --> 0:36:06.120
<v Speaker 1>then he is on the court because he cares and

0:36:06.120 --> 0:36:08.959
<v Speaker 1>you don't. You don't you draw, You can't really put

0:36:09.000 --> 0:36:12.799
<v Speaker 1>those together from a basketball perspective at seventeen and off

0:36:12.840 --> 0:36:15.799
<v Speaker 1>the court because you're like my child, dude. You know

0:36:15.800 --> 0:36:17.440
<v Speaker 1>it's like you know your parents like, oh, go talk

0:36:17.440 --> 0:36:21.040
<v Speaker 1>to your teacher after class, right, good place you with

0:36:21.040 --> 0:36:23.319
<v Speaker 1>the teacher. You'll learn more. And you know, talk to

0:36:23.320 --> 0:36:25.400
<v Speaker 1>my teacher. It was the same thing with Kelvins. I

0:36:25.400 --> 0:36:27.840
<v Speaker 1>want to start. I want to stay farther, farthest away

0:36:27.840 --> 0:36:30.760
<v Speaker 1>from him. When I was younger because I felt I'm

0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:32.440
<v Speaker 1>mad at this dude. You know, if I if I

0:36:32.600 --> 0:36:35.000
<v Speaker 1>just dudes, gonna talk to some ship. But as you

0:36:35.040 --> 0:36:38.120
<v Speaker 1>grow older. You know, if you look at his staff today,

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:41.360
<v Speaker 1>they all us. They all like, if if you know,

0:36:41.440 --> 0:36:43.399
<v Speaker 1>like you was coaching, like you was coaching, you would

0:36:43.400 --> 0:36:45.480
<v Speaker 1>be with you would be with Lavatory, you would be

0:36:45.520 --> 0:36:48.960
<v Speaker 1>whoever you were with. And he's a family dude. He

0:36:49.080 --> 0:36:51.880
<v Speaker 1>takes care of his own. He cares about his players.

0:36:51.960 --> 0:36:55.640
<v Speaker 1>All of us have relationships with Keilsman. Um. And I

0:36:55.680 --> 0:36:57.960
<v Speaker 1>only have one year with him, um, and it feels

0:36:58.000 --> 0:37:00.680
<v Speaker 1>like it feels like I've been in with the dude

0:37:00.680 --> 0:37:05.080
<v Speaker 1>for four years. He he claims, you know that I

0:37:05.280 --> 0:37:08.400
<v Speaker 1>was the best point guard he's ever had bart regardless

0:37:08.400 --> 0:37:11.200
<v Speaker 1>of whoever went to the NBA or not. He just

0:37:11.239 --> 0:37:13.080
<v Speaker 1>feels in his heart and I was one of his

0:37:13.160 --> 0:37:15.600
<v Speaker 1>best point guards, which is attribute to the honor for

0:37:15.640 --> 0:37:19.239
<v Speaker 1>me because he's a Hall of Famer. Um. So that

0:37:19.320 --> 0:37:24.279
<v Speaker 1>was the thing Like off the court, the dude is,

0:37:25.680 --> 0:37:28.000
<v Speaker 1>the dude is like his heart is huge for for

0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:32.120
<v Speaker 1>his dudes, you know what I mean. He's really he's

0:37:32.160 --> 0:37:35.799
<v Speaker 1>really a true dude. And uh, you know, and I'm

0:37:35.800 --> 0:37:38.279
<v Speaker 1>and I'm pleasing honor to say that. You know, I

0:37:38.280 --> 0:37:42.040
<v Speaker 1>can call coach right now and you know, and it's

0:37:42.080 --> 0:37:45.160
<v Speaker 1>like it's like a mentor it's like a big brother,

0:37:45.160 --> 0:37:48.480
<v Speaker 1>it's like an uncle, like he can't do anything in

0:37:48.640 --> 0:37:51.560
<v Speaker 1>his power to help and assistant support when a lot

0:37:51.600 --> 0:37:53.200
<v Speaker 1>of guys may not pick up the phone, you know

0:37:53.239 --> 0:37:55.239
<v Speaker 1>they too be He's he's big time. Now, you know

0:37:55.280 --> 0:37:56.759
<v Speaker 1>he's big time. He's different than it was. But he

0:37:56.800 --> 0:38:00.480
<v Speaker 1>was coaching at Watchington State, I'll tell you that. But um,

0:38:01.080 --> 0:38:05.120
<v Speaker 1>he's really earned his positions. Mason decisions, and you know

0:38:05.120 --> 0:38:07.320
<v Speaker 1>it's cost him in certain places, but you know, we

0:38:07.400 --> 0:38:10.600
<v Speaker 1>all gotta pick up and keep it rolling in. And

0:38:10.640 --> 0:38:13.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm proud of coach, absolutely glad to see him get

0:38:13.719 --> 0:38:16.759
<v Speaker 1>a second chance. And and this time around he's he's

0:38:16.760 --> 0:38:21.880
<v Speaker 1>actually he's really shocked me. She shocked the hell out

0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:24.040
<v Speaker 1>of me. And I knew Houston had the resources, and

0:38:24.080 --> 0:38:26.920
<v Speaker 1>I knew Houston was like an up and coming situation,

0:38:27.000 --> 0:38:28.799
<v Speaker 1>but I did not realize there's be in the final

0:38:28.840 --> 0:38:31.040
<v Speaker 1>four last or two years ago whenever they made it,

0:38:31.360 --> 0:38:33.160
<v Speaker 1>and then last year they looked great in the tournament.

0:38:33.480 --> 0:38:36.960
<v Speaker 1>Big big time job by by Coach Sampson. Fox Sports

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0:38:51.239 --> 0:38:54.680
<v Speaker 1>went to New Mexico State and played for a year,

0:38:55.400 --> 0:38:58.680
<v Speaker 1>then you finished in New Mexico and now you're on

0:38:59.000 --> 0:39:02.600
<v Speaker 1>the NBA radar are and you're looking at playing professionally.

0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:09.400
<v Speaker 1>What was how far did the NBA journey take you?

0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:11.680
<v Speaker 1>Did you get a training camp where you playing next

0:39:11.680 --> 0:39:17.239
<v Speaker 1>ahibitions season? And then how like how important was it

0:39:17.280 --> 0:39:24.520
<v Speaker 1>to you personally to make the league? You know, So

0:39:24.600 --> 0:39:26.920
<v Speaker 1>I'll take it back, like you know, I was uh

0:39:27.640 --> 0:39:31.719
<v Speaker 1>my my sophomore year, I led the pack and assists

0:39:32.760 --> 0:39:36.880
<v Speaker 1>and that I felt was like the hottest time of

0:39:36.960 --> 0:39:41.640
<v Speaker 1>my career. Yeah, right, Like although I went on to

0:39:41.719 --> 0:39:44.239
<v Speaker 1>play pro and I had a couple of tea in

0:39:44.280 --> 0:39:47.359
<v Speaker 1>the league and the workouts, I think the hottest time

0:39:47.360 --> 0:39:52.200
<v Speaker 1>of my career was was during that sophomore season and

0:39:52.239 --> 0:39:57.520
<v Speaker 1>that had three individual workouts on campus at Washington State

0:39:58.000 --> 0:40:00.759
<v Speaker 1>and the first was the Supersilis because they were the

0:40:00.760 --> 0:40:06.440
<v Speaker 1>closest to the campus and uh Casey came down and

0:40:06.440 --> 0:40:10.360
<v Speaker 1>worked me out with uh with Tim who was Tim's

0:40:10.440 --> 0:40:14.880
<v Speaker 1>last night had me like, I mean, he was the

0:40:14.920 --> 0:40:17.920
<v Speaker 1>workout king at that time. So I got a taste,

0:40:18.880 --> 0:40:20.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, but I was only like eighteen. I just

0:40:20.840 --> 0:40:22.600
<v Speaker 1>turned eighteen. As the song where I was young, because

0:40:22.600 --> 0:40:24.920
<v Speaker 1>I you know, I was young and Tim, I had

0:40:24.920 --> 0:40:27.520
<v Speaker 1>Tim and Casey and they put it on me and

0:40:28.160 --> 0:40:30.239
<v Speaker 1>then I was like, oh, ship, like this is a

0:40:30.280 --> 0:40:32.400
<v Speaker 1>different level. So that was the first workout, and then

0:40:32.440 --> 0:40:35.239
<v Speaker 1>I had another workout by Utah, and then I had

0:40:35.320 --> 0:40:38.279
<v Speaker 1>a workout by the Spurs, all in the same like

0:40:39.040 --> 0:40:41.520
<v Speaker 1>three weeks before weeks span and they worked me and

0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:46.719
<v Speaker 1>Isai Fontein now uh Mark Hendrickson. Oh yeah, so that

0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:50.680
<v Speaker 1>was kind of like our thing and uh, three different positions,

0:40:51.120 --> 0:40:54.840
<v Speaker 1>you know. Uh. And we had the workouts so that

0:40:55.080 --> 0:40:58.440
<v Speaker 1>I felt was the hottest. And then um, I transferred.

0:40:58.840 --> 0:41:02.479
<v Speaker 1>And then when I transferred, I felt like, Okay, now

0:41:03.080 --> 0:41:05.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm in my right class because I was up a season.

0:41:05.480 --> 0:41:07.239
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't supposed to be in ninetything supposed to me.

0:41:08.000 --> 0:41:09.560
<v Speaker 1>So then I went to the Mental State. I had

0:41:09.600 --> 0:41:14.240
<v Speaker 1>an okay season. Um I got a Newcomer of the Year. Uh,

0:41:14.520 --> 0:41:17.880
<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't the pack. It was different playing against

0:41:18.239 --> 0:41:22.720
<v Speaker 1>Jason Kidd and Tias and Bresen and Stays and Cameron

0:41:22.760 --> 0:41:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Murray and you know, it was just Salon and uh,

0:41:27.040 --> 0:41:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I did okay, but I don't. I didn't think it

0:41:29.440 --> 0:41:34.319
<v Speaker 1>was powerful enough to get drafted, right, So you know,

0:41:34.400 --> 0:41:37.160
<v Speaker 1>I did what everybody else. They got an agent and

0:41:37.200 --> 0:41:39.680
<v Speaker 1>I was told, okay, you might be in the second

0:41:39.760 --> 0:41:43.480
<v Speaker 1>late second rounder. Um. If not, you know, we have

0:41:43.600 --> 0:41:46.640
<v Speaker 1>these trade agreements and again, get you in the camp

0:41:46.719 --> 0:41:49.120
<v Speaker 1>and all that kind of like secondary stuff. So it

0:41:49.160 --> 0:41:53.040
<v Speaker 1>wasn't just a clear dog you're gonna get drafted, um,

0:41:53.120 --> 0:41:56.400
<v Speaker 1>And a lot of us have to do that. So

0:41:56.680 --> 0:41:59.160
<v Speaker 1>after that, once I realized I wasn't gonna you know,

0:41:59.360 --> 0:42:02.240
<v Speaker 1>walk in there there, I was like, okay, what's planning

0:42:02.280 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 1>B And I was talking to a lot of guys

0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:07.880
<v Speaker 1>that were similar in that similar position of you know,

0:42:07.920 --> 0:42:10.080
<v Speaker 1>on the borderline of making to the NBA, but then

0:42:10.080 --> 0:42:13.440
<v Speaker 1>there's still life after, you know, there's still a career here. Um.

0:42:13.480 --> 0:42:15.839
<v Speaker 1>And they were telling me, look, you know, you need

0:42:15.880 --> 0:42:19.160
<v Speaker 1>to concentrate on, you know, making a substantial amount of

0:42:19.160 --> 0:42:22.319
<v Speaker 1>money over a period of time. You know, it's not

0:42:22.360 --> 0:42:25.000
<v Speaker 1>the NBA route, but now you're a professional, you know,

0:42:25.120 --> 0:42:27.560
<v Speaker 1>you can go overseas or you can try to stay

0:42:27.560 --> 0:42:32.840
<v Speaker 1>in the minor leagues. And and my decision, like other people,

0:42:32.960 --> 0:42:34.480
<v Speaker 1>was like, you know what, I don't want to go

0:42:34.480 --> 0:42:36.080
<v Speaker 1>to because we only have the c BA at the time.

0:42:36.120 --> 0:42:38.240
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like the D League, wasn't like the G League.

0:42:38.239 --> 0:42:41.680
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like all this other stuff. We had the

0:42:41.760 --> 0:42:44.440
<v Speaker 1>c B A and the CBA was paying you know,

0:42:44.440 --> 0:42:47.640
<v Speaker 1>two three hundreds a week for our max and I

0:42:47.760 --> 0:42:50.480
<v Speaker 1>was like, dude, I felt like I like like I

0:42:50.560 --> 0:42:52.279
<v Speaker 1>was like, I felt like I needed to do more

0:42:52.280 --> 0:42:55.759
<v Speaker 1>than that. Um. So I went overseas and I got

0:42:56.640 --> 0:42:59.759
<v Speaker 1>a first opportunity in Israel? How was that? How was that?

0:43:00.000 --> 0:43:03.480
<v Speaker 1>Sperience in Israel? Israel was you know what man is?

0:43:03.680 --> 0:43:07.040
<v Speaker 1>You know, we didn't have Google, we didn't have YouTube.

0:43:07.160 --> 0:43:12.440
<v Speaker 1>So I had to pick up a damn Encyclopdu classic

0:43:12.800 --> 0:43:19.360
<v Speaker 1>at the Botanica without oh you know, you know moms

0:43:19.360 --> 0:43:24.080
<v Speaker 1>at a mom yeah, yeah about stack And I was like, well,

0:43:24.080 --> 0:43:25.719
<v Speaker 1>where is this place at? And I had to pick

0:43:25.760 --> 0:43:28.759
<v Speaker 1>it up and I was like old pictures. So I

0:43:28.840 --> 0:43:32.080
<v Speaker 1>had no idea exactly what was going on. So when

0:43:32.120 --> 0:43:36.680
<v Speaker 1>I got there, um, and UH kind of learned the

0:43:36.800 --> 0:43:41.240
<v Speaker 1>history and the culture because Israel's deep um and the culture,

0:43:41.480 --> 0:43:45.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, and that's when like that's when it's like

0:43:46.360 --> 0:43:49.680
<v Speaker 1>like my exposure went to like another level. It was

0:43:49.760 --> 0:43:53.080
<v Speaker 1>like wow, okay, you know, here's America, but like, wow,

0:43:53.239 --> 0:43:56.280
<v Speaker 1>here's customs different over here. There's a culture is different

0:43:56.320 --> 0:43:59.080
<v Speaker 1>over here, the values are different, you know. And then

0:43:59.760 --> 0:44:02.480
<v Speaker 1>um and then there was you know, um, you know,

0:44:02.920 --> 0:44:07.640
<v Speaker 1>you know all these beautiful women in Israel, um that

0:44:07.840 --> 0:44:10.040
<v Speaker 1>we have no idea what goes on in all these places.

0:44:10.080 --> 0:44:13.960
<v Speaker 1>The Mediterranean Sea is there, you know, it's eighty five degree,

0:44:14.040 --> 0:44:16.759
<v Speaker 1>you can see to the bottom of the water. And

0:44:16.920 --> 0:44:19.360
<v Speaker 1>then you know there, you know, you know, there's you know,

0:44:19.480 --> 0:44:26.719
<v Speaker 1>the people look different. It was it was hot, you know,

0:44:28.200 --> 0:44:32.000
<v Speaker 1>and they spoke English, spoke English in Israel, and I

0:44:32.160 --> 0:44:34.920
<v Speaker 1>was just like, it's like one of the best kept secrets.

0:44:36.040 --> 0:44:39.040
<v Speaker 1>So to this day. Um, I took a lot of

0:44:39.360 --> 0:44:43.000
<v Speaker 1>what I learned that first year in Israel, UM, and

0:44:43.080 --> 0:44:46.440
<v Speaker 1>I internalized that because they're you know, they got strong culture,

0:44:46.560 --> 0:44:48.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, they got strongly, they got they got some

0:44:48.440 --> 0:44:51.399
<v Speaker 1>real good values and uh try to you know, come

0:44:51.440 --> 0:44:55.200
<v Speaker 1>over here where we're at and still those Um. So

0:44:55.360 --> 0:44:58.960
<v Speaker 1>that was my first gig and then UM I left there.

0:44:59.320 --> 0:45:03.040
<v Speaker 1>I actually like I did really good and like one

0:45:03.080 --> 0:45:07.239
<v Speaker 1>of these like tournaments and then one of the agents

0:45:07.360 --> 0:45:12.600
<v Speaker 1>or sponsors from a team in Austria. It was like,

0:45:13.239 --> 0:45:15.320
<v Speaker 1>we'll pay you to get out of this contract and

0:45:15.440 --> 0:45:17.160
<v Speaker 1>come Austria and play for us. And I was just

0:45:17.280 --> 0:45:21.920
<v Speaker 1>like this is it? So I left that team and

0:45:22.080 --> 0:45:26.640
<v Speaker 1>went to Austria. How was Austria. It's next to Germany,

0:45:26.800 --> 0:45:29.840
<v Speaker 1>right yeah? Okay, so yeah, so Austria was a different

0:45:29.880 --> 0:45:33.840
<v Speaker 1>beast you know, um, you know, um it was. It was.

0:45:34.080 --> 0:45:37.200
<v Speaker 1>It was slower in Israel. Like I was like, yo,

0:45:37.320 --> 0:45:39.279
<v Speaker 1>what about this dude? Like I was just like I

0:45:39.480 --> 0:45:41.480
<v Speaker 1>was just pop it and now not. It was a

0:45:41.560 --> 0:45:45.480
<v Speaker 1>lot more structured, um, a lot more and it was historical.

0:45:46.320 --> 0:45:49.600
<v Speaker 1>Um you know the people of Deutsche you know, it was.

0:45:49.680 --> 0:45:52.880
<v Speaker 1>It was different. It was cold, you know, it was

0:45:53.040 --> 0:45:55.320
<v Speaker 1>freezing colde Now I was like I felt like I

0:45:55.400 --> 0:45:59.600
<v Speaker 1>was back in Pullman, Washington. Where that I mean I was,

0:45:59.719 --> 0:46:01.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean not okay, hold on, I was I could

0:46:01.760 --> 0:46:03.800
<v Speaker 1>do it Like I was like, yo, I thought I

0:46:03.840 --> 0:46:05.680
<v Speaker 1>was in Cali. I was just in Cali and Israel,

0:46:05.880 --> 0:46:07.719
<v Speaker 1>you know. But then I was like yo, back to

0:46:07.800 --> 0:46:10.120
<v Speaker 1>the snow. So it was cool. I had the basketball

0:46:10.200 --> 0:46:12.959
<v Speaker 1>was very good. Um, we had some really good goods

0:46:13.000 --> 0:46:16.120
<v Speaker 1>and you know, I enjoyed it. I became you know,

0:46:16.640 --> 0:46:19.080
<v Speaker 1>one of the you know locals, you know what I mean.

0:46:20.440 --> 0:46:23.400
<v Speaker 1>I became a part of your community. And again another

0:46:23.520 --> 0:46:26.799
<v Speaker 1>good learning experience, man um, and I enjoyed my time.

0:46:26.800 --> 0:46:30.600
<v Speaker 1>We ended up winning the championship there um and uh

0:46:30.719 --> 0:46:33.279
<v Speaker 1>that's when I kind of got like my fever again.

0:46:33.400 --> 0:46:35.520
<v Speaker 1>Was like, yo, you know, you win a championship in Europe,

0:46:36.600 --> 0:46:39.920
<v Speaker 1>you might get a look. These days you would a championship,

0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:42.960
<v Speaker 1>you might get a look in the league. Back then,

0:46:43.120 --> 0:46:44.759
<v Speaker 1>it was a little tougher. They weren't. They weren't in

0:46:44.840 --> 0:46:47.760
<v Speaker 1>the building as much as they are now. The game

0:46:48.080 --> 0:46:50.439
<v Speaker 1>the game, right, We're right, it was we were coming

0:46:50.480 --> 0:46:55.240
<v Speaker 1>through that era where it was very athletic. Yeah, everything

0:46:55.480 --> 0:47:01.920
<v Speaker 1>just went from fundamentals and skills to is raw athleticism.

0:47:02.600 --> 0:47:06.399
<v Speaker 1>And that was that transition from you know, the Norm

0:47:06.560 --> 0:47:09.359
<v Speaker 1>Nixons and the magics and the and then it went

0:47:09.440 --> 0:47:11.400
<v Speaker 1>to like, you know, like the guys that could just

0:47:11.560 --> 0:47:16.120
<v Speaker 1>bounce the Vince Carter's and you know all these just

0:47:16.280 --> 0:47:19.839
<v Speaker 1>it was a bounced erain, remember that, right, I mean

0:47:20.400 --> 0:47:22.840
<v Speaker 1>the layoff guys couldn't pull up jump shot, guys couldn't

0:47:22.880 --> 0:47:26.200
<v Speaker 1>dribble with their left hand, but they could jump and

0:47:26.280 --> 0:47:29.640
<v Speaker 1>and and they were long. So the game changed and

0:47:29.640 --> 0:47:33.560
<v Speaker 1>and then and nowadays we kind of lost. We kind

0:47:33.600 --> 0:47:35.840
<v Speaker 1>of lost a little bit. I feel personal needs to

0:47:35.880 --> 0:47:37.799
<v Speaker 1>be personally kind of feel like we lost a little

0:47:37.800 --> 0:47:41.120
<v Speaker 1>bit of skill set. And now that's why we got

0:47:41.200 --> 0:47:43.400
<v Speaker 1>a lot more Europeans in our league because they have

0:47:44.360 --> 0:47:50.440
<v Speaker 1>less athleticism. He then being able to compete now and

0:47:50.520 --> 0:47:54.040
<v Speaker 1>not to knock their athleticism, but they played the game differently,

0:47:55.480 --> 0:47:58.680
<v Speaker 1>that for a fact, because you played. Yeah, but anytime

0:47:58.760 --> 0:48:03.160
<v Speaker 1>a guy like Yoki and Dunche can dominate the NBA,

0:48:03.719 --> 0:48:07.759
<v Speaker 1>Yo Kitchen Duncan are the two most dominant dude. They

0:48:08.080 --> 0:48:12.000
<v Speaker 1>they be serving dudes and they make you look bad.

0:48:12.560 --> 0:48:16.920
<v Speaker 1>Give you fifty eighteen and sixteen dogs against whoever you're

0:48:16.920 --> 0:48:19.919
<v Speaker 1>putting over there, Janice, it don't matter. It's like how

0:48:20.880 --> 0:48:22.520
<v Speaker 1>it trips me out. But I think it's a credit

0:48:22.640 --> 0:48:25.080
<v Speaker 1>to what you exactly what you're saying. It's a it's

0:48:25.080 --> 0:48:28.319
<v Speaker 1>an i Q also associated with the back with their

0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:30.600
<v Speaker 1>game too, like they have an advanced i Q. They

0:48:30.640 --> 0:48:34.800
<v Speaker 1>were taught certain principles about the game that weren't necessarily

0:48:34.960 --> 0:48:38.440
<v Speaker 1>emphasized with us. And I think that you said it

0:48:38.480 --> 0:48:41.480
<v Speaker 1>perfectly that's why they've caught up so quickly and are

0:48:41.520 --> 0:48:47.200
<v Speaker 1>now dominating the league. But after Austria, So you win

0:48:47.280 --> 0:48:52.400
<v Speaker 1>a championship in Austria, how you're about, Well I was,

0:48:53.400 --> 0:48:55.440
<v Speaker 1>and I won that championship. Is but you retired three

0:48:55.520 --> 0:48:59.719
<v Speaker 1>years later? What happened in between Austria and retirement? So

0:49:00.120 --> 0:49:04.759
<v Speaker 1>I went back to uh Ramagan, back to Israel for

0:49:04.840 --> 0:49:10.080
<v Speaker 1>a short period, and then um, I was I was

0:49:10.160 --> 0:49:14.759
<v Speaker 1>supposed to go to Spain to play, and then it

0:49:14.920 --> 0:49:17.960
<v Speaker 1>was that call situation again. It was like, hey, we're

0:49:18.000 --> 0:49:23.239
<v Speaker 1>trying to negotiate a little bit more money. Um and

0:49:23.520 --> 0:49:29.880
<v Speaker 1>but you got this window and Austria had called me

0:49:30.040 --> 0:49:34.439
<v Speaker 1>back again saying we want you back. Because I left

0:49:34.520 --> 0:49:37.680
<v Speaker 1>Austria to go to try to, you know, make some money.

0:49:37.760 --> 0:49:43.800
<v Speaker 1>I think I played and the IBL. Sorry after after Austria,

0:49:43.840 --> 0:49:46.600
<v Speaker 1>I played so long ago. After Austria, I played in

0:49:46.640 --> 0:49:55.000
<v Speaker 1>the IBL for the Demon Dragons with that like idea

0:49:55.239 --> 0:49:59.120
<v Speaker 1>of staying local, staying in the States and being brought

0:49:59.239 --> 0:50:03.000
<v Speaker 1>up for attending and you know, Stace was doing that.

0:50:03.360 --> 0:50:05.160
<v Speaker 1>Guys was doing that, and I was like, all right,

0:50:05.200 --> 0:50:07.960
<v Speaker 1>I just won the championship. My name is Ringing. I'm

0:50:08.080 --> 0:50:12.000
<v Speaker 1>actually putting up like thirty forty in the Long Beach

0:50:12.040 --> 0:50:14.520
<v Speaker 1>summer leagues. You know, I'm like, I'm this was my

0:50:14.640 --> 0:50:19.799
<v Speaker 1>hot time after college and uh um. I ended up

0:50:19.800 --> 0:50:21.600
<v Speaker 1>playing the idea for a year, thinking that I would

0:50:21.640 --> 0:50:24.880
<v Speaker 1>get uh you know, brought up as a for a

0:50:24.960 --> 0:50:27.320
<v Speaker 1>ten day. I did that for a year. We actually

0:50:27.360 --> 0:50:29.800
<v Speaker 1>went to the championship. I think we lost championship or

0:50:29.800 --> 0:50:31.840
<v Speaker 1>something like that. But then after that, that's when I

0:50:31.920 --> 0:50:33.480
<v Speaker 1>went back overseas and I was like, you know what,

0:50:34.280 --> 0:50:36.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to the n b A. I'm twenty

0:50:36.760 --> 0:50:40.560
<v Speaker 1>five years old, and if I had not made it

0:50:41.000 --> 0:50:43.719
<v Speaker 1>after I won the championship year, It's probably not gonna

0:50:43.760 --> 0:50:45.600
<v Speaker 1>be my day. So I had a couple of tryouts

0:50:45.640 --> 0:50:52.160
<v Speaker 1>again for the Lakers. I had tryouts for UM. I

0:50:52.239 --> 0:50:56.360
<v Speaker 1>think it was like the Lakers and the Bulls and

0:50:57.520 --> 0:51:00.000
<v Speaker 1>I at that time, you know, like you were talking

0:51:00.000 --> 0:51:02.760
<v Speaker 1>about earliers. You know, you and I have a different

0:51:02.920 --> 0:51:05.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, mindset about how how we pick up on things.

0:51:06.200 --> 0:51:08.879
<v Speaker 1>And my antennas went up, and I go, Okay, even

0:51:08.920 --> 0:51:11.000
<v Speaker 1>if I do get a couple of coffee in the NBA,

0:51:11.200 --> 0:51:14.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna be playing minutes. I'm gonna be on

0:51:14.400 --> 0:51:16.960
<v Speaker 1>a practice squad. I'm gonna be you know sort of

0:51:17.200 --> 0:51:19.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, in the background, I'm like, I don't know

0:51:19.600 --> 0:51:23.280
<v Speaker 1>if I want that. Um, I basically want to continue

0:51:23.400 --> 0:51:28.520
<v Speaker 1>learning myself and going overseas. Being there for eight months

0:51:28.600 --> 0:51:31.759
<v Speaker 1>by yourself, you learn yourself. And I just said, you know,

0:51:31.800 --> 0:51:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna finish my career overseas. So I did that,

0:51:34.040 --> 0:51:37.279
<v Speaker 1>went back to Austria for another two years, and um,

0:51:38.520 --> 0:51:40.320
<v Speaker 1>my last year, I came back and played in the

0:51:40.440 --> 0:51:42.719
<v Speaker 1>A B A for the I don't want to say

0:51:42.719 --> 0:51:47.200
<v Speaker 1>the L A Stars or yeah, something like that. And

0:51:47.280 --> 0:51:49.920
<v Speaker 1>then after that, I was like, I'm not going back overseas.

0:51:50.000 --> 0:51:51.880
<v Speaker 1>So that's when I was like, I'm going back to school.

0:51:52.360 --> 0:51:53.799
<v Speaker 1>And I think I went back to school to get

0:51:53.840 --> 0:51:56.360
<v Speaker 1>my undergrad and psychology in two thousands before and I

0:51:56.440 --> 0:51:58.960
<v Speaker 1>was a rat. Yeah, so that's kind of like my

0:51:59.200 --> 0:52:01.360
<v Speaker 1>my journey. You know. I played you know, three or

0:52:01.400 --> 0:52:04.360
<v Speaker 1>four years overseas something like that, five years overseas and

0:52:04.400 --> 0:52:08.239
<v Speaker 1>in a couple of minor league years, um, and figured out, like,

0:52:08.600 --> 0:52:12.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, you know, I need to like establish myself

0:52:13.080 --> 0:52:18.720
<v Speaker 1>in America like absolutely live coming home in the summers,

0:52:19.320 --> 0:52:22.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, you know, like everybody else bringing as much

0:52:22.719 --> 0:52:25.759
<v Speaker 1>cash money as you can back home, but I don't

0:52:25.840 --> 0:52:28.480
<v Speaker 1>have like a residence, you know, I'm like, you know,

0:52:28.640 --> 0:52:31.200
<v Speaker 1>living with moms or you know, like trying to you know,

0:52:31.320 --> 0:52:34.040
<v Speaker 1>live with a chick for that period of time. And

0:52:34.120 --> 0:52:38.360
<v Speaker 1>to my back and that gout played out. Oh yeah, personally,

0:52:38.400 --> 0:52:40.759
<v Speaker 1>it just got you get tired of that. You get

0:52:40.840 --> 0:52:42.920
<v Speaker 1>tired of that. I need a life. I need to

0:52:42.960 --> 0:52:45.320
<v Speaker 1>be established. Where am I living at? You know, you know,

0:52:45.360 --> 0:52:46.680
<v Speaker 1>I need a woman like you know what I mean,

0:52:46.719 --> 0:52:50.200
<v Speaker 1>I start to think about life. Um. So that's kind

0:52:50.200 --> 0:52:52.480
<v Speaker 1>of where I cut it short and went back to school, man,

0:52:52.600 --> 0:52:55.360
<v Speaker 1>and then, um, you know, as we touched on earlier,

0:52:55.440 --> 0:52:58.799
<v Speaker 1>that kind of started my journey. Man. Being overseas, there's

0:52:58.840 --> 0:53:02.200
<v Speaker 1>always that level of loneliness that kind of takes over

0:53:02.320 --> 0:53:05.320
<v Speaker 1>when you especially when you are gone for extended periods

0:53:05.360 --> 0:53:07.759
<v Speaker 1>of time and you have all this time to be

0:53:07.880 --> 0:53:11.600
<v Speaker 1>thinking about yourself and learning yourself and basically free time

0:53:11.640 --> 0:53:13.600
<v Speaker 1>to do nothing but time to kill. That's it. You

0:53:13.680 --> 0:53:15.400
<v Speaker 1>got time to kill, to the next practice, to the

0:53:15.480 --> 0:53:20.160
<v Speaker 1>next meal, whatever it is. So I guitar. I learned

0:53:20.160 --> 0:53:23.080
<v Speaker 1>a lot about myself over the course of four years,

0:53:23.280 --> 0:53:26.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, playing over there overseas, and then I also

0:53:26.400 --> 0:53:30.280
<v Speaker 1>realized when I got back home, just how far behind

0:53:31.160 --> 0:53:35.879
<v Speaker 1>uh in certain areas, man, because everybody's you know, let's

0:53:35.960 --> 0:53:38.120
<v Speaker 1>just like the workforce, and you touched on it earlier.

0:53:38.160 --> 0:53:40.480
<v Speaker 1>You got your degree, but no experience, and they won't

0:53:40.680 --> 0:53:43.239
<v Speaker 1>experience if you just like a guy that just came

0:53:43.239 --> 0:53:45.920
<v Speaker 1>out of college. So like they're looking at you, man,

0:53:45.960 --> 0:53:48.560
<v Speaker 1>you ain't got no mentorship, like you ain't did an internship. Man,

0:53:48.640 --> 0:53:51.600
<v Speaker 1>you was playing basketball? Like, how does that kind of trend?

0:53:51.680 --> 0:53:54.839
<v Speaker 1>And that's the same things I ran into where lack

0:53:54.920 --> 0:53:59.600
<v Speaker 1>of job experienced equated to being passed over for opportunities.

0:54:00.200 --> 0:54:02.719
<v Speaker 1>But once like you talked about that one foot in

0:54:02.760 --> 0:54:07.279
<v Speaker 1>the door. Hey, hey, hey, that one foot in the door, bro.

0:54:08.800 --> 0:54:11.800
<v Speaker 1>And then and that's a testament to us and folks

0:54:11.880 --> 0:54:14.120
<v Speaker 1>that are cut from the cloth that we are, that

0:54:14.200 --> 0:54:17.279
<v Speaker 1>all we need is an opportunity, okay, and to get

0:54:17.360 --> 0:54:20.800
<v Speaker 1>in these rooms stats we so called couldn't handle and

0:54:20.880 --> 0:54:23.400
<v Speaker 1>don't know how to whatever. Okay, put me there and

0:54:23.480 --> 0:54:25.200
<v Speaker 1>let's see how that's go end up. And I think

0:54:25.280 --> 0:54:28.200
<v Speaker 1>that you you're you're a perfect example of that type

0:54:28.200 --> 0:54:34.719
<v Speaker 1>of situation of my brother. Um, yeah, was there any

0:54:34.840 --> 0:54:40.719
<v Speaker 1>moment during the retirement when you're so young and back

0:54:40.800 --> 0:54:43.680
<v Speaker 1>in school. Was there any moment that you said, man,

0:54:43.760 --> 0:54:45.440
<v Speaker 1>I kind of want to get back out there. We're

0:54:45.480 --> 0:54:48.240
<v Speaker 1>still playing pickup, we're still standing in shape. Did anything

0:54:48.360 --> 0:54:50.120
<v Speaker 1>come up to where you kind of had to make

0:54:50.160 --> 0:54:56.399
<v Speaker 1>another serious choice in life? Okay, talk to me. I mean,

0:54:58.280 --> 0:55:06.280
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't done physically. I was done physically and emotion mentally.

0:55:06.400 --> 0:55:10.080
<v Speaker 1>I was done because you know, I had not achieved

0:55:10.320 --> 0:55:12.719
<v Speaker 1>what I was set out to do. And that's what

0:55:12.840 --> 0:55:15.400
<v Speaker 1>I busted my butt to do. Was too you know,

0:55:15.520 --> 0:55:17.440
<v Speaker 1>I made every meeting and I made every job. What

0:55:17.560 --> 0:55:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I did not do and I could live with it

0:55:21.239 --> 0:55:24.200
<v Speaker 1>is I didn't do as much as I should have

0:55:24.280 --> 0:55:26.440
<v Speaker 1>done when it comes to like, you know, the little

0:55:26.480 --> 0:55:30.000
<v Speaker 1>things like touching the line, drinking milk, chicks not party.

0:55:30.080 --> 0:55:33.759
<v Speaker 1>I didn't do that, So I wasn't rewarded, all right.

0:55:33.840 --> 0:55:36.400
<v Speaker 1>I slacked because I thought I was good. I though

0:55:36.400 --> 0:55:39.920
<v Speaker 1>I could turn it on, so I can. Now. You

0:55:40.000 --> 0:55:42.440
<v Speaker 1>know a lot of us have to live with some

0:55:42.560 --> 0:55:45.040
<v Speaker 1>of this, and we got to understand, like, did you

0:55:45.160 --> 0:55:50.600
<v Speaker 1>really truly do everything everything every That's a great way

0:55:50.680 --> 0:55:54.160
<v Speaker 1>to put it, what I mean, And you can fool

0:55:54.239 --> 0:55:57.840
<v Speaker 1>yourself by saying yes, but I saw and I know

0:55:58.120 --> 0:56:03.040
<v Speaker 1>guys that they hid more than I did. They weren't

0:56:03.040 --> 0:56:06.200
<v Speaker 1>as talented, they may not have been as good, but

0:56:06.360 --> 0:56:09.920
<v Speaker 1>they were because they did all that other stuff. What

0:56:10.160 --> 0:56:13.520
<v Speaker 1>I just kind of kept it at a certain level. Um,

0:56:14.239 --> 0:56:16.080
<v Speaker 1>and kudos at oh, but that that's kind of like

0:56:16.200 --> 0:56:22.839
<v Speaker 1>the the maturity, right, Um so I I I had

0:56:22.960 --> 0:56:27.320
<v Speaker 1>some like I had some some some days where I

0:56:27.400 --> 0:56:30.279
<v Speaker 1>was twenty seven years old, twenty eight years old, I

0:56:30.320 --> 0:56:33.360
<v Speaker 1>would go and play around or play with guys that

0:56:33.440 --> 0:56:36.239
<v Speaker 1>were still doing it. Stace was still doing it. Um.

0:56:36.280 --> 0:56:37.800
<v Speaker 1>I would go to the real Run and playing the

0:56:37.880 --> 0:56:40.440
<v Speaker 1>real Run and guys will be like, dumb, you can

0:56:40.520 --> 0:56:42.840
<v Speaker 1>go right now. And I'm like, I'm tired of hearing that.

0:56:44.200 --> 0:56:47.000
<v Speaker 1>Guys like b D you know, got domb like yo,

0:56:47.160 --> 0:56:49.919
<v Speaker 1>like BD is my duty like you was a kid, Paul,

0:56:50.040 --> 0:56:51.719
<v Speaker 1>like all these guys like man, you can go now,

0:56:51.760 --> 0:56:54.640
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, I'm tired of hearing that. You know

0:56:54.640 --> 0:56:56.600
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, I'm gonna I'm just here to hoo

0:56:56.680 --> 0:57:00.399
<v Speaker 1>because I love a who but like I've I've it out.

0:57:01.080 --> 0:57:06.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, thats like you know what, I go get

0:57:06.320 --> 0:57:10.879
<v Speaker 1>a contract and make right now and throw this throw

0:57:10.960 --> 0:57:13.040
<v Speaker 1>this mindset out the win and get back to this.

0:57:13.320 --> 0:57:16.120
<v Speaker 1>But then I was like, nah, you know, I've come

0:57:16.200 --> 0:57:19.600
<v Speaker 1>too far with making a decision to to stop, not quit,

0:57:19.720 --> 0:57:22.440
<v Speaker 1>but to stop. And I was challenging, man, because I

0:57:22.560 --> 0:57:26.880
<v Speaker 1>know guys that continue to do it until they were

0:57:27.040 --> 0:57:30.880
<v Speaker 1>thirty seven, and I had a tenure head start on

0:57:31.000 --> 0:57:32.960
<v Speaker 1>them in terms of what we were talking about, transition

0:57:33.000 --> 0:57:36.840
<v Speaker 1>into real life, you know, being able to do Excel

0:57:39.440 --> 0:57:42.560
<v Speaker 1>search and use the computer in today's society, I mean,

0:57:43.760 --> 0:57:47.640
<v Speaker 1>attach p attach a PDF to an email. We take

0:57:47.680 --> 0:57:50.240
<v Speaker 1>those things from granted because we bounced and we was rocking,

0:57:50.320 --> 0:57:53.480
<v Speaker 1>and we competed, and we worked on our bodies, you know,

0:57:53.800 --> 0:57:56.600
<v Speaker 1>and we worked on our mind, worked on our image,

0:57:57.240 --> 0:58:00.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, we worked on our persona to the media. Uh.

0:58:00.320 --> 0:58:03.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean we were we were entertainers. So we had

0:58:03.800 --> 0:58:07.000
<v Speaker 1>to transition to you know, doing different skills you know.

0:58:07.400 --> 0:58:11.920
<v Speaker 1>Um and uh, you know guys that didn't stop when

0:58:12.000 --> 0:58:15.360
<v Speaker 1>I stopped. When they did stop at a later age,

0:58:15.480 --> 0:58:17.440
<v Speaker 1>they had to they had to do the same thing

0:58:17.480 --> 0:58:20.560
<v Speaker 1>as Idea. So you know, I just made a decision

0:58:20.640 --> 0:58:24.400
<v Speaker 1>to uh, to unlace mine a little earlier and to

0:58:24.520 --> 0:58:26.520
<v Speaker 1>get into the real work, Like I had no idea

0:58:26.560 --> 0:58:32.160
<v Speaker 1>about you know, interests, interest rates, real estate, like I'm

0:58:32.320 --> 0:58:34.480
<v Speaker 1>eating real estate, eat literate at the time, like I

0:58:34.520 --> 0:58:41.560
<v Speaker 1>couldn't have I couldn't have conversations with adults that you know, uh,

0:58:41.960 --> 0:58:46.960
<v Speaker 1>tax returns, writing this off? What do you what do

0:58:47.000 --> 0:58:48.840
<v Speaker 1>you mean right? What are you talking about? What do

0:58:48.880 --> 0:58:54.960
<v Speaker 1>you mean? Tell room people watched my my laundry. I

0:58:55.040 --> 0:58:58.240
<v Speaker 1>don't do that kind of stuff. I don't book my

0:58:58.320 --> 0:59:01.080
<v Speaker 1>whole I don't book my rental car. I don't. That

0:59:01.240 --> 0:59:04.760
<v Speaker 1>was like a lost skill and U and then when

0:59:04.800 --> 0:59:07.080
<v Speaker 1>you hang it up, you're like, oh, I gotta do

0:59:07.200 --> 0:59:10.440
<v Speaker 1>everything myself now I don't even know what is this?

0:59:10.920 --> 0:59:15.160
<v Speaker 1>And so that you know, with that, with that, like

0:59:15.280 --> 0:59:18.560
<v Speaker 1>you said earlier, Chris was a big one. The confidence.

0:59:19.880 --> 0:59:22.400
<v Speaker 1>As I started to learn more and get more confident

0:59:22.480 --> 0:59:25.200
<v Speaker 1>in the real world, it allowed me to go out

0:59:25.240 --> 0:59:27.680
<v Speaker 1>and raise money, started business. Do what you're doing, like

0:59:28.840 --> 0:59:30.760
<v Speaker 1>I had to really had to learn how to walk

0:59:30.840 --> 0:59:35.840
<v Speaker 1>again after sports. That's how I put it. So saying

0:59:35.840 --> 0:59:41.720
<v Speaker 1>attach a PDF like that was a mystery. It sounds easy,

0:59:41.840 --> 0:59:44.840
<v Speaker 1>but it sounds like people in the business world who

0:59:44.880 --> 0:59:47.440
<v Speaker 1>has been working since they're eighteen nineteen years old, and

0:59:47.560 --> 0:59:54.320
<v Speaker 1>we didn't like what a PDF, Like I said, yeah, yeah, um,

0:59:54.800 --> 0:59:57.480
<v Speaker 1>so that that's that's that's that's been my that's been

0:59:57.600 --> 1:00:01.040
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<v Speaker 1>And I think that your competitive nature, are competitive nature

1:00:13.680 --> 1:00:16.800
<v Speaker 1>as athletes come out when we get placed in those

1:00:16.880 --> 1:00:19.320
<v Speaker 1>corporate settings, because what you what you realize about the

1:00:19.320 --> 1:00:21.160
<v Speaker 1>corporate setting is, yeah, I work with a bunch of

1:00:21.200 --> 1:00:23.240
<v Speaker 1>white dudes and white with white women too. I was

1:00:23.280 --> 1:00:25.640
<v Speaker 1>the only brother, but they all wanted were wanted to

1:00:25.680 --> 1:00:29.120
<v Speaker 1>be athletes. They all had a drive. They all was

1:00:29.200 --> 1:00:32.000
<v Speaker 1>competitive more than me about stuff they knew. They know

1:00:32.080 --> 1:00:35.640
<v Speaker 1>about everything. Like in my particular situation, I was surrounded

1:00:35.640 --> 1:00:39.240
<v Speaker 1>by people that were sports heads. So the culture was

1:00:39.320 --> 1:00:42.040
<v Speaker 1>always we're trying to beat each other on sales on this,

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<v Speaker 1>We're trying to beat each other a month in who's

1:00:44.640 --> 1:00:47.200
<v Speaker 1>getting the bonus we got two tickets, five tickets to

1:00:47.280 --> 1:00:48.800
<v Speaker 1>the Giants game, or whoever sells the most of this

1:00:48.880 --> 1:00:52.400
<v Speaker 1>month stuff like that. And so now I'm getting geeked

1:00:52.760 --> 1:00:54.480
<v Speaker 1>because yeah, I'm like, wait a minute. Now we can

1:00:54.520 --> 1:00:56.520
<v Speaker 1>have a little fun. And I think that's the part

1:00:56.960 --> 1:01:02.400
<v Speaker 1>where our athletic prowess comes out as adults and while

1:01:02.440 --> 1:01:05.040
<v Speaker 1>you're working in that type of setting. But make no

1:01:05.160 --> 1:01:08.360
<v Speaker 1>mistake about it, Bro, when I first started and had

1:01:08.400 --> 1:01:12.360
<v Speaker 1>to relearn everything, teach myself how to walk again, it

1:01:12.480 --> 1:01:16.480
<v Speaker 1>takes hours and hours and hours of studying, research, knowledge,

1:01:16.520 --> 1:01:19.840
<v Speaker 1>soaking up YouTube video, soaking up how to do? I

1:01:20.000 --> 1:01:22.080
<v Speaker 1>was on I was MR. How to do I'm not

1:01:22.200 --> 1:01:25.200
<v Speaker 1>asking nobody because I'm embarrassed, don't I'm embarrassed. I don't

1:01:25.200 --> 1:01:27.680
<v Speaker 1>want to ask a grown person how do I know?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a super question that you're supposed to know this.

1:01:32.440 --> 1:01:35.360
<v Speaker 1>I gotta I gotta go. Yeah, I get I go.

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<v Speaker 1>Great There to BRO. A lot of us are and

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<v Speaker 1>some of us, you know, are are not coming out

1:01:43.160 --> 1:01:45.640
<v Speaker 1>with that, and they probably it's the it's the it's

1:01:45.680 --> 1:01:48.600
<v Speaker 1>the trust and yourself, like you know, some people don't

1:01:48.640 --> 1:01:51.920
<v Speaker 1>grow up with that trust and that an exposure. You know,

1:01:51.920 --> 1:01:53.520
<v Speaker 1>some people don' grow up. It's supposed to be scared

1:01:53.560 --> 1:01:56.080
<v Speaker 1>to say I don't know what you mean? You know,

1:01:56.280 --> 1:01:58.120
<v Speaker 1>you can use a word. And I'm sitting there like

1:01:58.200 --> 1:02:00.800
<v Speaker 1>going shaking my head yes, but I no clue. And

1:02:00.840 --> 1:02:02.640
<v Speaker 1>if I'm if I have a trust in me, I'm

1:02:02.640 --> 1:02:05.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna say, hold on, Chris, what does that word mean?

1:02:05.680 --> 1:02:08.720
<v Speaker 1>And I'm not afraid for you to judge me if

1:02:08.720 --> 1:02:10.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know that. So a lot of US sports

1:02:10.600 --> 1:02:14.640
<v Speaker 1>athletes have to cross that barrier, you know, And I'm

1:02:14.720 --> 1:02:16.160
<v Speaker 1>saying like, I don't know what. I don't know what

1:02:16.240 --> 1:02:19.240
<v Speaker 1>that means, man, or I need to know some help,

1:02:19.720 --> 1:02:25.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, I've I've had to experience that, um and

1:02:25.400 --> 1:02:27.400
<v Speaker 1>now now it's a part of me. It's like I

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<v Speaker 1>wish I would have known that when I was a

1:02:29.080 --> 1:02:30.880
<v Speaker 1>little younger, like we always do that, you know. I

1:02:30.960 --> 1:02:33.880
<v Speaker 1>wish i'd have known how big resources was. And you

1:02:33.960 --> 1:02:36.160
<v Speaker 1>know that old thing about it ain't what you know

1:02:36.320 --> 1:02:39.480
<v Speaker 1>is who you know? Like you gotta keep those resources

1:02:39.520 --> 1:02:42.840
<v Speaker 1>in time. You know you do. It means the world

1:02:42.920 --> 1:02:44.920
<v Speaker 1>to you and and and them as well. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you just never know. I think the thing that I

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<v Speaker 1>realized the most out of my transition in that whole

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<v Speaker 1>situation was just how how little I knew and how

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<v Speaker 1>much pride I had because I didn't want people to

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<v Speaker 1>know serious. I'm like, bro, pride is some stuff. Dog,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you you will miss out on a lifetime

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff because you got some pride about X, Y

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<v Speaker 1>or Z. So I used to have this pride. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to tell people or I wanted I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to act like I knew everything all the time talking

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<v Speaker 1>about but but but but here's what you learned that

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<v Speaker 1>asking questions is the move. Like asking questions is the move,

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<v Speaker 1>dog like, that's the moves. But we're sitting here thinking

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it's like a death sentence if you ask

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<v Speaker 1>a question or don't ask no questions. No, man, you're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to ask a million questions a million times a day.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a normal type of thing. Man. People just

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<v Speaker 1>got to explain themselves. My my boss used to explain

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<v Speaker 1>himself a thousand times a day on these calls, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>because everybody's like, oh, we didn't understand that, or he'd

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<v Speaker 1>be on the webinar. We're like, what was that? It's nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>that's part of it. But but why do we walk

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<v Speaker 1>around thinking that it's a net it if connotation to

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<v Speaker 1>to ask a question or ask for help? Why is that? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we were it's a stigma, you know, it's a stigma

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<v Speaker 1>because we feel lesser and you know, in our society,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when we were deemed to feel as lesser and

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<v Speaker 1>not knowing stuff. So we don't we feel like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this guy got one up on me, or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna take advantage of me, or he doesn't respect me.

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<v Speaker 1>And our culture, respect is big, you know, are we

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<v Speaker 1>you know flaws and do all this stuff. Respect is big,

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<v Speaker 1>So we feel a little less respected if we ask

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<v Speaker 1>the question that we may not know, we might we

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<v Speaker 1>might feel like this dude is gonna make make fun

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<v Speaker 1>of me. But what you're doing, brother, is your your

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<v Speaker 1>growth is there's growth and development here too. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>They're that word learned. If you look it up, it

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<v Speaker 1>means that I didn't know before now, but now I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I learned. So if you don't, if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand how to learn, you know, you're beating yourself. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're beating yourself. And again it's maturity, right. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you talk to someone that's you know, sixty five years

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<v Speaker 1>old and you tell him, hey, man, look man, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>i'm developing the stages and and he's like, yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been where you've been at he has, he has been there.

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<v Speaker 1>He had to make that disc around those time and

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<v Speaker 1>when he was twenty one and he was nineteen and

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<v Speaker 1>he was thirty five. Um, it's the same thing we're

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<v Speaker 1>going through. So you know, UM, we have to be

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<v Speaker 1>cognizant of of understanding that. You know, it's not wrong

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<v Speaker 1>to educate yourself. It's actually your duty to do so,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. You don't know what you don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't help you until you tell me how I can

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<v Speaker 1>help you. So if you can ask some questions, you

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<v Speaker 1>can use the resources that are out there for you

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't know can help you because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what you need. You don't know what you want.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when I was running my business, I used

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, I used to take it personal because

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<v Speaker 1>I was in my own grind, you know, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want people around me that care for me to help me, right.

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<v Speaker 1>But instead of me understanding how they can help me

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<v Speaker 1>or or or delegating exactly what I wanted them to

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<v Speaker 1>do to help me, I wanted them to just get

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<v Speaker 1>involved and figure it out just the part it is,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're gonna figure out how to help me. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was like no, no, no, you gotta tell me

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<v Speaker 1>what they're doing. I'm like I can't tell you what

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<v Speaker 1>to do. I need you to learn, And it was like,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, you understand what I'm saying. One can

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<v Speaker 1>help you unless you understand what it is you're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do, and agent asking questions clears that up because

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<v Speaker 1>it gives you information and it allows you to make

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<v Speaker 1>an informed decisional So you know, we gotta be better

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<v Speaker 1>at that, you know, we you know, we just gotta

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<v Speaker 1>be better. Open up and tuck that pride that probably

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<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna do nothing for you. If you get busy

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<v Speaker 1>and do what you do and and and do like

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, like what you're doing, and

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<v Speaker 1>just get busy, that prode to go away. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>pride is like a uh, like a momentary sense of

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<v Speaker 1>gratification that validates maybe a feeling or behavior that you

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<v Speaker 1>have that typically isn't positive. So it's like trying is

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<v Speaker 1>always associated with like you validated some negative bs. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying in your own mind. But the pride,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's what I think of it as I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really the other two percent obviously, But dude, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a trip and I'm glad that you're in a position

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<v Speaker 1>though now as as as head coach and mortacide high

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<v Speaker 1>my brother, to affect this next generation to undo some

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<v Speaker 1>of this mental conditioning that this our generations have seen.

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<v Speaker 1>So now this that hopefully that your kids and these

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<v Speaker 1>kids that you affect or come into contact with the

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<v Speaker 1>Morningside Man, they can go into the world equip with

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<v Speaker 1>these tools. You need them early on sixteen seventeen eighteen

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<v Speaker 1>you need for me, And this is kind of how

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<v Speaker 1>you need to be financially literately at fifteen sixteen seventeen.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to understand about taxes, paying your taxes, voting

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<v Speaker 1>and all that you need to be on that. And

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<v Speaker 1>then you gotta understand about you know, like retiring when

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<v Speaker 1>you start working, when a four oh one k is,

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<v Speaker 1>we're started thinking about social security, were starting about retirements,

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<v Speaker 1>are thinking about different things you can do. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like we as I won't say we, but I

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<v Speaker 1>would say that a lot of Black culture in America

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<v Speaker 1>is not equipped with these these types this type of knowledge,

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<v Speaker 1>and it always kind of contributes to why we don't

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<v Speaker 1>move up vertically at the pace that we were all

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<v Speaker 1>like to Absolutely, it's a disconnect. It is it is

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<v Speaker 1>um you know, we can figure out. You know, it's internal.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of this stuff is also internal. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta we gotta do better. That's it. We gotta

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<v Speaker 1>take responsibility. We just gotta. And that's what we were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about the sports ro with this alliance with kids

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<v Speaker 1>and sports as you know, until we figure that part out,

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<v Speaker 1>we are, we're not gonna go up at that pace

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<v Speaker 1>or that right. You know. But guys like you were

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<v Speaker 1>in place with Voice and you know, I'm glad you

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<v Speaker 1>got me out there too, and and uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to teach one, you know, kind of the next generation

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<v Speaker 1>we do have. That's my home office. It's okay, that's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay. We're dog we're dog friendly over here, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>we're dog friendly. And kJ Live bro hold on like

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<v Speaker 1>he's not gonna stop just one second. Definitely dog fairly here.

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<v Speaker 1>kJ Live had Dominicue Ellison is in the building. Amazing

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<v Speaker 1>conversation about the responsibility of mentors to the next generation.

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<v Speaker 1>Dum played at Washington State, New Mexico State, worked in

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<v Speaker 1>Corporate America for ten or twelve years, and recently accepted

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<v Speaker 1>the head coaching position at Morningside High School. We've had

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<v Speaker 1>an incredible hour and change of conversation. Dom Man, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to tell you I appreciate you for coming

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<v Speaker 1>on this platform, brother, sharing your story, sharing the journey.

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<v Speaker 1>For those that are out there that are gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>listening that don't know who Dominic Ellison is, now they

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<v Speaker 1>can have a better idea my brother. Listen, Man, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>honored to be on the show. Um. You know, for

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<v Speaker 1>all the listeners, you know, Chris is a brother of mine.

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<v Speaker 1>Mad love and respect for Chris. We we we've been

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<v Speaker 1>knowing each other for a very very long time. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm proud of his journey. Man. He's always been like

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<v Speaker 1>an incredible dude. Uh, He's always been an incredible brother. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And and when I I'm not really a big social

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<v Speaker 1>media dude, and you know, since I've taken this position,

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<v Speaker 1>you know obviously that comes with it, right And UM,

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<v Speaker 1>the first opportunity that I saw all you had a podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>I had to reach out. UM. And again, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>about me, It's really about your brother, because you You've

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<v Speaker 1>been a special dude in my life and my brother.

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<v Speaker 1>So congratulations to you. I've always followed your journey, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>and you continue to inspire all of us and you

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<v Speaker 1>always got something going on that we can respect and support.

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<v Speaker 1>So appreciate your listeners. Man, this is this is the

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<v Speaker 1>one of a kind dude. So I appreciate you much love,

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<v Speaker 1>much love, my brother, and best of luck and morningside

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<v Speaker 1>and anything else. My brother. Yeah, we gotta get you

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<v Speaker 1>out to a game. Man, I'll be there. I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>i'mna come through, bro, I'm gonna check it out. I

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<v Speaker 1>would come to the eagle Wood game. Come on, it'side

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<v Speaker 1>eagle Wood. I'm well, I'm gonna wear a blue jacket.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go. Hey, that's what hey. But that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I did back to the day. That's what I did

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<v Speaker 1>back in the day, bro, But it was a different time,

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<v Speaker 1>so I had to kind of hide. I was with Rico.

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<v Speaker 1>I was sitting up at the time. Oh, I'm up there, high.

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<v Speaker 1>I had on the blue jacket, but I had like

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<v Speaker 1>a sweatshirt over here, like nope, walk you in your royalty,

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<v Speaker 1>We walk you right in. Oh. I appreciate that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking forward to it, Pops. I said, Hi, man, hug

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<v Speaker 1>Pops and hugged the family. Men. Hope everybody's well again.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you for happening Ladies and Gentlemen Dominic Ellison