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We had Taylor here today, allre you looking. 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:12.360 What she's expressing to me is at twenty one weeks, 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:16.399 this baby has been giving her the blues already. She said, 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:19.520 it felt like he's stretching my stomach. I said, well, 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:23.559 the fat that's what pregnancy do. The stomach a't supposed 0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:23.919 to say. 0:01:23.800 --> 0:01:24.560 The same size. 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:27.759 Tailor, Yeah, but that baby boy trying to grow in there. 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:31.840 He bacons yeah, but he got a chill out. 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:37.480 So for those who don't know, this is Tailor's first baby, 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:40.280 that's our first time being pregnant, y'all. So she she'llin. 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:41.880 She ain't know that it was gonna be like this. 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:42.800 She know that it was. 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:44.880 It was is. I was like, oh, I had no 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:46.160 morning sickness and everything else. 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:48.800 Huh that second try master that hit that baby was like, 0:01:48.840 --> 0:01:53.400 watch this, these are my fashions. Yes, I'm going into 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:57.280 my third to wait, No, these are my contractions. She 0:01:57.360 --> 0:02:01.120 having brax and hicks already. She cannot deal with it, y'all. 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:04.320 She ain't here, like was this happening to you? I said, girl, yeah, 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:05.920 that's why I was sped up the whole time of 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:07.600 a breakfast club. I ain't give a fuck about what 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:11.799 nobody was going through. I'm telling you the old time 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:14.400 people was in the comments like, just don't give a 0:02:14.400 --> 0:02:16.280 fuck about none of that stuff she talked about, and 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:16.920 just with the mess. 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:19.280 I sure the hell did not. I did not. 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:22.200 I don't care this lord. Man, Molly was in there 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:25.640 stretching my stomach out. Remember the first time I felt 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:28.520 her kick was at work? Oh yeah, man, I was 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:31.560 four months and I had my first contraction at five months, 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:32.160 So yeah, you. 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:34.760 Are right one time boo. I know. 0:02:34.919 --> 0:02:37.080 But I told her it's only gonna get worse. So 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:40.359 we're gonna jump right into it. She ain't gonna read it, 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:43.560 because look I'm gonna read She don't give a damn. 0:02:43.639 --> 0:02:44.160 She don't. 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:47.320 She wouldn't even give a fuck about fixing the mess 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:47.600 with me. 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:50.040 But she in here, so she gonna fix it with me. 0:02:51.120 --> 0:02:52.079 So we're gonna jump straight in. 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:54.400 We do not have voice memos this week, but we 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:57.720 have some written passages, so let's struggle. 0:02:58.639 --> 0:03:00.600 Hi, Jess, So I have a bit of a situation. 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:03.600 I believe my homegirl's son had autism and she is 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:07.520 being in denial of it. I have mentioned to her 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:10.680 that I used to work with autistic kids, and he 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:14.200 shows signs of it, but she always justify it as 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:19.120 him being young and that's how kids act when they're young. Okay, 0:03:19.760 --> 0:03:22.040 but baby, I don't know too many kids that act 0:03:22.120 --> 0:03:25.200 like that at his age, and the ones I do 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:28.480 know are autistic. It may or may not be that, 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:32.040 but he is definitely showing signs of it, and I 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:34.640 recommend it to her one day that he should really 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:37.360 get checked before it gets. 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:39.320 Any worse, and she went the fuck off. 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:41.920 I just threw my hands up and said, you got it, 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:43.960 because at that point, I guess no one could tell 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:46.960 her nothing about her child. I also get it that 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:50.080 it's hard hearing someone say your child may have autism, 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:52.640 but I'm literally saying it to look out for her 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:54.800 and her son. I love her son to death and 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:57.400 I want what's best for him. But homegirl is just 0:03:57.440 --> 0:04:01.680 being extremely in denial, and I don't know what to do. 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:03.760 Shake in my head, what should I do? 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:07.520 Well, you got to throw your hands up, and you 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:09.040 already did what you were supposed to do. You know 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:12.320 what I mean, you got it. You did exactly what 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:14.880 you were supposed to do. I think from the jump, 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:16.719 even coming to her, if this is your friend. Do 0:04:16.760 --> 0:04:19.640 you understand what I'm saying? And she is one of 0:04:19.680 --> 0:04:22.839 your good friends, then you kind of should have already 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:24.800 been able to predict how she would act. I mean, 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:27.440 because I know all my homegirls. I know how they act. 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:29.000 I know how they're going to respond to this. That's 0:04:29.000 --> 0:04:31.320 the part of even knowing your friends too, right. You know, 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:35.160 I wouldn't say give up, but try to introduce it 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:37.680 another way. I want to know exactly how you told her, 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:39.560 you know, because a lot because yeah, you got to. 0:04:39.520 --> 0:04:41.440 Put yourself on her shoes too. That's her child, you 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:42.600 know what I mean? And I get it. 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:45.320 A lot of people have that guard up when you're 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:46.920 trying to tell them something about their child. And then 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:49.279 do you have children? You probably don't have children. You 0:04:49.279 --> 0:04:51.200 didn't tell me whether you did or did not. But 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:54.279 I know a lot of things tend to go left 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:58.000 when somebody with no kids is trying to tell somebody 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:01.159 with kids about their children, or how to raise a child, 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:03.640 or how to go about even being a parent. Sometimes 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:07.920 I know that can be very insulting. It definitely can 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:11.760 raise a red flag to get the fuck out of 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:14.159 a friendship or something like that. I've had friends to 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:17.520 come at me about my parenting, but they didn't even 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:20.000 have children. You feel me, you feel me, and still 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:24.440 don't have children, So yeah, that definitely can be a thing. 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:28.280 But this is serious. This is a very serious matter. 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:30.760 And if you have worked with children, you know, and 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:35.320 you have worked with autistic children specifically, then you probably 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:38.479 are right about some of the symptoms or some of 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:43.000 the behaviors that he's showing or displaying, and you're just 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:46.480 taking what you see as an observation. And you bought 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:48.920 it to your friend and she was upset about it. 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:50.640 Like I said, it could have been a delivery, you 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:52.240 know what I mean, because she is your homegirl. So 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:54.240 I don't know how y'all talk, how y'all communicate with 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:57.640 each other, but it probably was a little offensive coming 0:05:57.720 --> 0:05:59.919 from her homegirl, you know, especially if you told her 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:01.719 in an ignorant. 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:02.080 Way, you know. 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:05.120 But I don't think you did anything wrong by bringing 0:06:05.160 --> 0:06:09.080 awareness to it. Now, how old is he? You didn't 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:10.480 let me know how old he is, but I do 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:13.480 know because my mother is a licensed professional. She has 0:06:13.520 --> 0:06:16.400 been working in childcare administration since before I was born, 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:20.600 and she's worked with autistic children as well. And I 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:26.520 know that you have to be a certain age to 0:06:26.640 --> 0:06:28.840 even get checked for any of that because they want 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:30.840 you to. You know, a lot of times it is 0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:34.320 how children act, you know, believe it or not, a 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:37.599 lot of kids have displayed different behaviors, and you may 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:39.760 think that your child is going to have a speech 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:42.920 impediment or you know, a learning disability, and they they 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:44.520 one day they wake up and they straight you know 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:47.280 what I mean, Like everybody learns, Every kid learns at 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:47.919 their own pace. 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:49.159 Every kid is different. 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:53.160 She's an educator, no, she she just said that she worked. 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:54.520 She didn't even say she was a specialist. 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:57.159 She just said I have mentioned to her that I 0:06:57.240 --> 0:06:59.760 used to work with autistic kids and he shows signs 0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:02.920 up it. But she always justified as him being young 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:05.240 and saying that's how kids act when they're young. And 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:09.080 she said in the next the next sitting said, but baby, 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:12.480 this is not how kids act at his age. You know. 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:14.840 So maybe she does know something, but I think it's 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:18.720 about her delivery. But I does she got to tell 0:07:18.760 --> 0:07:20.840 me how who he is, because I know you got 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:23.520 to be either three or five, or between three and 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:26.320 five to be seen at Kennedy Kreeger Kennedy Kreeger is 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:29.360 one of those facilities that you do take your children 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:32.960 to to be evaluated to see if they have autism 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:34.360 or to see if they have any type of learning 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:39.160 disabilities or developmental issues or anything like that. So I 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:43.120 just need to know more about him. But actually I 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:45.520 don't hold up, hold up, I know this shit getting good. 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:47.840 But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:49.040 If you love me, you'll listen. 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:53.239 This is more so about you and your friend. 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:55.520 If you think about it, the little boy is going 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:57.960 to get the help because although she your friend, is 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:02.400 she took it the wrong way? Or is she I offended? Parents, 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:05.200 That instinct kicks in where it's like, yo, I need 0:08:05.200 --> 0:08:08.400 to make sure my child is okay, you know. And 0:08:08.480 --> 0:08:11.640 I'm pretty sure you're not the only person that bought 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:13.960 it up to her. You know, maybe she is dealing 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:15.120 with it in her own way. 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:15.400 You know. 0:08:15.440 --> 0:08:19.800 I had a god sister who my mother told at 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:23.160 a very young age her son my mother. My mother 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:28.040 had told her because my godbrother, I mean, my god daughter. 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:30.760 Fuck am I pregnant? Shit? 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:33.880 Come on, this shit is getting contagious over here, tailor 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:39.000 move away from here. No, I had a god's sister right, 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:42.959 who had who put her child in my mother's. 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:46.360 Her preschool years and years ago. 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:54.760 And he was about one or two when he came, 0:08:54.880 --> 0:08:59.079 and and he wasn't on the level as the other 0:08:59.120 --> 0:09:01.400 one or two year old. My mom has different age groups, 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:04.000 and so my mom had noticed that it was like 0:09:04.080 --> 0:09:07.480 he had some type of learning disability, you know, And 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:10.080 so she bought it to my godsister's attention. And my 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:14.120 godsister being a young parent, and just like offended. And 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:16.560 you know, when you young can't nobby tell you shit, 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:22.320 you know, you get offended before your understanding. But she 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:24.560 bought that to her attention, and so she got upset. 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:26.760 She took him out the daycare for a little bit, 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:28.240 and she ended up putting them back in. And when 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:32.560 she came back, like a few years later, she did say, god, mommy, 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:36.320 and you are right, he did have issues. I did 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:38.640 take him to Kennedy Kreager. Yeah, and I think that 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:41.679 he was about three and a half or four, because 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:43.959 she came she brought him back a few years later. 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:49.760 I'm gonna just say he was four. And she did 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:52.520 say that she agreed. She was like, I just wasn't 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:55.720 ready to accept it yet. You weren't the only person 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:57.960 to say that. It just made me feel like I 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:01.200 did something wrong to my child, blamed myself. I didn't 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:03.200 know how to deal with it, and I had to 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:05.840 get therapy for it because she blamed herself. 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:09.280 You know, that's how you feel as a parent. 0:10:09.480 --> 0:10:12.240 I just remember my mom was a kindergarten teacher, and 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:14.800 she used to try to tell her parents because I 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:17.120 tell the parents, like, you know, your child I think 0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:20.600 might have a and she's a getting like probably arguments 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:22.720 with them because you know, the parents don't want to 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:23.000 hear that. 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:25.400 Yeah, you know what I mean, Like I'm working with 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:26.040 your kids. 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:29.280 Yeah, yeah, that's why I said. I understand both sides, 0:10:29.280 --> 0:10:30.840 but you still have to have an open mind. And 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:34.000 then these days the ratio was way higher than it 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:36.199 used to be because they're changing shit in our food. 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:37.000 They're changing. 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:40.200 Man, I don't eat when I say down to the 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:42.840 shots that they give our children now when they're born. 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:44.200 That's what I don't trust it. 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:49.680 Yeah, listen, my daughter, she went to the I took 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:51.480 her to her first visit when she had to get 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:55.439 her shots. They offered me six shots my daughter was 0:10:55.480 --> 0:10:57.560 supposed to get. No, it was five a series of 0:10:57.600 --> 0:10:59.679 five shots. I said, you will not be sticking her 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:02.000 five times. I don't give a fuck what is in 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:04.440 those syringes? You're not sicking her five times. 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:06.720 I remember who was telling me. 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:10.520 My friend was telling me that she had a friend 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:15.439 that they're trying to give her baby shots and she denied. 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:17.439 I forgot what shot it was, but. 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:21.600 They called, like CP what's the CP? Oh? 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.280 They called Child Protective Services on her because she refused 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:27.199 to pump her daughter with some unknowing substance. 0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:29.920 I forgot what shot it was, but it was that 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:32.040 was crazy wow. 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:36.520 And that's the thing, like, Yo, you don't even have 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:42.599 like we especially if you don't even know where the 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:44.760 ship came from, you know what I mean? Like I 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:46.880 remember when I was born. Well, I don't remember when 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:47.319 I was born. 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:49.160 My mom told me. 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:51.560 She said, I remember taking you to the goddamn doctor. 0:11:51.840 --> 0:11:54.200 And it was only one or two shots that you 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:56.679 had to get. It was a technic shot, and then 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:59.640 it was another type of shot. I forgotten now now 0:11:59.679 --> 0:12:01.640 it was so many, Like I don't know what the 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:04.120 fuck y'all pumping at my child and I'm not doing it. 0:12:04.200 --> 0:12:06.240 Even my twelve year old he went to the doctor 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:10.199 a few months ago, right, and my mom had took him. 0:12:10.280 --> 0:12:10.439 Right. 0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:13.240 So she calls me, she's like, you know your doctor 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:15.480 so and so he needs for you to get permission 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:18.800 for him to get Ash in this shot on the phone. 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:19.960 I said, well, which shot is it. 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:22.200 He gets on the phone and he explains it to me, 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:26.680 and it's basically for Ash to be protected against all 0:12:26.760 --> 0:12:29.880 STDs if he's to catch if he's to catch an STD, 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:32.920 he can't pass it to somebody else. First of all, 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:37.600 my son is twelve. Okay, two condoms, that's what the 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:38.440 fuck we're gonna use. 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:40.600 I don't even know. That don't even make no fucking sense. 0:12:41.040 --> 0:12:44.160 If this is to protect him from STDs, but if 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:47.920 he still gets it, he can't pass it on, that 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:49.720 doesn't make any fucking sense to me. 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:52.040 So I declined it. I don't know. I don't know 0:12:52.040 --> 0:12:52.720 if they call. 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:55.839 CBS or not, but I was out of Sam said 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:58.600 he wouldn't have came from me. But that didn't even 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:00.520 make sense to me. Tall I swear, I was like, 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:03.520 mah no, I'm declining that and any other fucking shot 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:05.520 they want to give them, I don't. 0:13:05.800 --> 0:13:08.160 I had to do more research too, and that guy's 0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:10.240 asking my friend, I'm like, what are the shots that 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:12.400 they with mandatory? And what is like? 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:16.600 I know at one point the Technis shot was very. 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:21.680 Mandatory because especially in urban areas, because you know, dirty 0:13:21.760 --> 0:13:24.400 nails and drug needles and shit like that. 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:27.760 You know what I mean. I get it, got it whatever, cool. 0:13:28.120 --> 0:13:31.560 But if you ain't never exposed to any of that shit, 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:35.200 you straight without it. Like I don't care. I don't care. 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:38.160 My daughter did not get those five shots. I don't 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:42.360 give a hot goddamn. She's been fine ever since, you 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:45.800 know what I mean. We feed her natural fucking foods. 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:50.640 Her grandmother, that Mexican woman, she going and she goes 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:53.959 to the farmer's market and she gets my baby sweet 0:13:53.960 --> 0:13:57.599 potatoes and she gets the fruit. She don't let it 0:13:57.600 --> 0:14:00.360 eat bananas because she said bananas are a man made fruit. 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:04.240 But like my my. 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:07.400 Daughter's grandmother is very particular about her diet and everything 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:10.120 like that woman don't fucking play about her, you know. 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:14.319 And that's why I'm blessed to have Chris's mom with us. 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:18.760 But nigga, please, but that's where all of that shit 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:21.320 stems from. I feel like, yo, back in the day, 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:23.200 you didn't see as many autistic kids. 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.440 You didn't see many. 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:28.960 Health issues arise so early in people's lives. Like people 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:32.000 are dropping dead at certain ages, and I mean at 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:34.240 young ass ages, and shit, you know what I mean. 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:37.400 And I feel like it's a lot of what they're doing. 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.320 They're polluting the food. They putting something in the food, 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:42.160 They putting something in all them vitamins that we can 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:43.000 buy over the counter. 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:45.920 I don't even trust over the counter shit no more. 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:48.240 You know what I mean. If you love me, you'll 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:50.640 listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back. 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:57.200 Everything they changed in the formula and everything. So the 0:14:57.360 --> 0:15:00.640 candy balls, none of that shit tastes the same. The chips, 0:15:00.640 --> 0:15:05.080 don't say, nothing tastes like it used to nothing. I 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:08.480 don't know what they Yeah, yeah, a lot of things, 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:10.680 a lot of that fast food is getting recalled. 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:13.960 Yo. I was just looking at something the other day 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:20.640 that said the Junior Bacon cheeseburger, which is a burger 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:25.880 on the Wendy's menu, that is the most healthiest burger 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:30.680 in the US in fast food. I'm sorry, yeah, in 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:32.440 fast food that's the healthiest. 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:38.320 Supposedly, that is the healthiest burger, and fast food Wendy's, 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:42.360 Wendy's Junior Junior Cheeseburger, or some ship. 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:47.120 I don't know because I actually ate Wendy's and that 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:48.040 she haped me sick. 0:15:49.960 --> 0:15:56.880 But you're pregnant, right, I know. Yeah, don't trust none 0:15:56.880 --> 0:15:58.920 of that ship. Don't be giving that ship to my baby. 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:01.920 On here. I know the list, like burs, I had this, 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:05.600 I had the nuggets. Oh, Wendy's nuggets is to die for, honey, 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:06.360 love them? What? 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:06.680 What? 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:09.800 What kind of sauce? Did you have? The barbecue? Absolutely? 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:12.200 And you got sick, I. 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:17.600 Mean didn't get sick right away, but eventually, yeah. 0:16:16.760 --> 0:16:18.680 You know that's crazy. 0:16:19.280 --> 0:16:21.400 I think I was telling me to not go to 0:16:21.400 --> 0:16:24.320 anything even get it, because I went to like three 0:16:24.320 --> 0:16:26.000 different ways. I just wanted some fries. 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:31.840 Oh you cray fries? Well, I love? What about McDonald's fries? 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:36.360 I loved what crazy? Are not good? I know. 0:16:36.480 --> 0:16:39.760 I originally was trying to get McDonald fries, but each 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:42.800 McDonald I went to the line was too long or 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:44.480 one of like you have sent me to, like the 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:46.800 one that's not even under construction. 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:51.280 And then I just sall for Wendy's. 0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:52.840 And oh no, and you just end up getting the nuggets. 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:55.000 You didn't even get fries, right, you did? Did you 0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:59.720 like the fries there? Yeah? No, ain't nothing like McDonald's 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:03.600 fries with ice cream cone. Oh my god, the ice 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:05.680 cream cone with the fries, because it's something about the 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:08.560 sweet and salty. And that's not a crazy craven by 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:10.159 the way, because I know people who ain't never been 0:17:10.200 --> 0:17:13.840 pregnant to eat that. I love, Yes, and the mcflurries 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:20.120 oreo what but no, no, don't, don't. Don't even put 0:17:20.200 --> 0:17:21.280 don't put your baby through that. 0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:24.879 Don't put yourself. Five guys. 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:27.560 I feel like their burgers would be great if they 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:32.840 seasoned them. I feel like they're never seasoned. No, I 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:34.879 don't like five guys. I don't. 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:37.760 I can't stand it. I just love. 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:40.960 I'm gonna try to stay it from all greasy stuff, though. 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:41.280 You're trying to. 0:17:41.359 --> 0:17:48.359 Okay, all greasy stuff. Okay, Jesus, the bagel. 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:50.680 Eat that kind's greasy. 0:17:51.200 --> 0:17:53.520 The bagel if. 0:17:53.400 --> 0:17:56.960 You get an extra butter on it tailor Yeah, and 0:17:57.000 --> 0:17:59.800 I'd be saying you you can pull some goddamn all 0:17:59.840 --> 0:18:03.159 of or you god damn bagel. That bagel will be 0:18:03.240 --> 0:18:05.119 like you can grease your whole body with the fucking 0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:06.680 bagels that you eat tailor. 0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:08.160 Don't do that. It's good though. 0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:10.879 I tell you one thing, that baby gonna slide right 0:18:10.960 --> 0:18:14.040 the funk out come on that five hours back. The 0:18:14.119 --> 0:18:18.280 inside's gonna be greasy as ship lord giving that baby 0:18:18.280 --> 0:18:19.200 all that damn grease. 0:18:20.160 --> 0:18:22.159 But I ain't gonna lie. Ain't nothing like a greasy 0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:24.760 as big ol y'all. It is it is? It is 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:25.400 you the. 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:30.200 Plain ones or which ones cinnamons, simmon reasons, hoppos man, 0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:32.520 we're supposed to be fixing somebodys and my bad. 0:18:32.720 --> 0:18:36.960 Yeah, tell your friend again, tell your friend, but you 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:38.840 gotta deliver it the right way. 0:18:39.560 --> 0:18:41.520 You can't be walking up to your friend like girl 0:18:41.760 --> 0:18:44.280 flying rollahin him because the way he acts like, oh my. 0:18:44.160 --> 0:18:47.919 God, like nice, I don't know how he say it 0:18:48.040 --> 0:18:50.600 that she might just get No. 0:18:50.640 --> 0:18:52.480 I'm gonna tell her how to say it. I'm gonna 0:18:52.480 --> 0:18:53.840 tell her how to say this. How were going in 0:18:53.880 --> 0:18:55.639 the episode. I think you should sit down with your 0:18:55.680 --> 0:18:58.800 friend and you should first of all apologize for First 0:18:58.840 --> 0:19:04.359 of all, apology if you came off a certain way. 0:19:04.480 --> 0:19:06.800 You gotta sit there with your friend first, right and 0:19:06.840 --> 0:19:11.240 be like, listen, we are homegirls. We are friends, and 0:19:11.280 --> 0:19:13.320 I should be able to talk to you about anything, 0:19:13.680 --> 0:19:17.720 and maybe my delivery came off very unsettling, you know, 0:19:18.200 --> 0:19:20.080 And I don't have children. If you don't have children, 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:24.600 you say, I don't have children. So if I came 0:19:24.640 --> 0:19:29.920