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Speaker 1: I don't know y'all at all at all, So don't

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Speaker 5: Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you know you love you.

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Speaker 7: To turn the mouth the turn you probably got to

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Speaker 7: turn mouth to turn out, turn the way up.

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Speaker 2: Come come on, you think.

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Speaker 8: I sure will come on to everybody you are listening

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Speaker 8: to the voice, Come on, dig me now, one and only.

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Speaker 8: Steve Harvey, Oh yeah, man, got a radio show. Do

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Speaker 8: you understand that? I'm telling you? God been big in

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Speaker 8: my life. God, God is a gentleman.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 8: I want to I want to point that out to you.

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Speaker 8: God is an absolute gentleman. He will not come in

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Speaker 8: unless he's invited. He don't just barge into your life.

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Speaker 8: He gives us the power of choice.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 2: If you say you got it, I don't need you.

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Speaker 2: He lets you have it. If you say I need you,

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Speaker 2: come see about me. He right there. It's just a

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Speaker 2: real simple thing, man.

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Speaker 8: So always say to people this, if you've gotten yourself

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Speaker 8: into something, and please know I have I.

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Speaker 2: Man see that.

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Speaker 8: That's why I'm so adamant about it. Because I've gotten

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Speaker 8: myself in some circumstances and positions in my life.

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Speaker 2: But I've been, I've been.

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Speaker 8: I've had some low moments, man, I've had some moments

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Speaker 8: where I did not know what to do. I didn't

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Speaker 8: know what was next, I didn't know how to go

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Speaker 8: about it. I didn't have no more ideas. I was stuck.

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Speaker 8: I thought a couple of times, well might not make

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Speaker 8: it past this one. But then if I don't make

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Speaker 8: it past it, what's gonna happen? And then I held

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Speaker 8: on to this little thing that my mother kept talking

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Speaker 8: to me about. She said, sometimes some when you ain't

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Speaker 8: got nothing else in you, just hope, she said, just

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Speaker 8: hope it'll be all right, you know. And what I've

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Speaker 8: learned in my life is that hope is the beginning

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Speaker 8: of faith. Hope is just is there a possibility out

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Speaker 8: there for me? I show hope something happened. See hope

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Speaker 8: is okay, man, Because like I say, for me, the

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Speaker 8: way I've lived my life, hope was the beginning of faith.

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Speaker 2: It was just the idea.

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Speaker 8: It's just the thought that something could change for me,

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Speaker 8: that something could be a little bit different from me,

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Speaker 8: that maybe, man, just maybe for some reason. I could

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Speaker 8: be saved, I could be rescued, things could turn around,

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Speaker 8: it could hit any other direction. Maybe I could quit

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Speaker 8: messing up. Maybe somebody will forgive me, Maybe somebody will

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Speaker 8: just say all right. I don't know, but I can't

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Speaker 8: count the times I've been in that position. But then

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Speaker 8: once I hope a little bit, and then I remember.

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Speaker 8: Also my mother, because she was a Sunday school teacher,

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Speaker 8: she taught me the most valuable lesson I've ever learned

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Speaker 8: in my life. Nothing has been greater in my life

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Speaker 8: than my faith. She taught me to pray. Mama used

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Speaker 8: to say, when it get real, dog for your son,

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Speaker 8: prayer changes things. She said, When you seem like you

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Speaker 8: she said, because prayer change is things. You know, when

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Speaker 8: you get a point in your life when you've done

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Speaker 8: all you can do and you can't do no more

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Speaker 8: and you just don't know what to do next, she said, stop, son,

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Speaker 8: pray and combine that prayer with that hope that you got.

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Speaker 8: She said, because that hope is the beginning of faith.

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Speaker 2: She said.

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Speaker 8: If you pray just hoping, she said, to God, come

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Speaker 8: through for you. That'll give you confidence that he can

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Speaker 8: do it again. And then after a while, you quit hoping,

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Speaker 8: she saying, you start believing, she said, And that's when

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Speaker 8: you're on to something. If you can turn that hope

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Speaker 8: into belief, that hope into Faith's that's the ability to

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Speaker 8: believe in something that you can't see.

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Speaker 2: But the key though, the faith is you're believing in

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Speaker 2: something that you can't see. See. Hoping a little bit

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Speaker 2: different from me now, I'm pretty sure.

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Speaker 8: Like I say, oftentimes to tell a lot of people

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Speaker 8: who can explain this thing a lot better than I

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Speaker 8: can to you, hope is just kind of I don't

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Speaker 8: but I'm just telling you, hope is you're just hoping

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Speaker 6: Right.

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Speaker 2: You just have a thought in your mind that you know, man.

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Speaker 8: Whoever you are, or whoever you are, whatever you are,

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Speaker 8: to me, God, I show hope something change.

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Speaker 2: Hope helps. Man. If you ain't strong enough to have faith,

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Speaker 8: Hope, and then if you pray with some hope and

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Speaker 8: God answers your prayer, then that hope gains a little confidence,

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Speaker 8: and after a while that confidence becomes faith. Now the

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Speaker 8: ain't just hoping, but I'm believing. I'm believing in something

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Speaker 8: that I cannot see. Faith has been the key to

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Speaker 8: my entire existence, even when I didn't have any It

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Speaker 8: was faith, as I look back on it, that has

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Speaker 8: gotten me here. And not just faith, but my faith. See,

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Speaker 8: you will only get to where you're going in your

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Speaker 8: life based on your faith.

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Speaker 2: See. A lot of people get the word faith confused,

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Speaker 2: like what's your faith?

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Speaker 8: And then they start going down this whole list of

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Speaker 8: all these different religions out here.

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Speaker 2: But really an essence, man, when.

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Speaker 8: I talk to people about faith, I'm talking to you

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Speaker 8: about your your belief.

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Speaker 2: How much do you believe in the unseen? See? Faith

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Speaker 2: is the core of all that is happening to me today.

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Speaker 8: It is the faith that I have in my relationship

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Speaker 8: with God that enables me to just oftentimes if I

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Speaker 8: stay on the right course and believe a certain way

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Speaker 8: and act a certain way, his blessings just poor.

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Speaker 2: They just come.

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Speaker 8: And it comes in a lot of little ways too.

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Speaker 8: I've started to notice. See, it ain't just a lot

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Speaker 8: of people think blessings is money, Nah, man, that ain't it.

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Speaker 8: It's coverage. It's every time my plane lands safe, It's

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Speaker 8: every time they predict bad weather and I get up

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Speaker 8: in the sky and it don't be no bad weather.

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Speaker 2: You know this is this is favor. These are blessings

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Speaker 2: that get poured out to me.

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Speaker 8: Somebody call me and offer me something, not money, but

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Speaker 8: an opportunity.

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Speaker 2: See, blessings come a lot of ways.

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Speaker 8: But once you tie in to God, Once you tie

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Speaker 8: in and you start doing the best you can do,

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Speaker 8: and you start asking for Him to make you a

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Speaker 8: better person, to help shape and mold you into the

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Speaker 8: kind of man or person that he wants you to be.

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Speaker 8: You be amazed what God can do with you. Man,

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Speaker 8: if you just invite me in and allow him to

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Speaker 8: be a part of your life. I mean, what you

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Speaker 8: got to lose out there? Come on, why would you

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Speaker 8: not change? Why would you not allow God to be

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Speaker 8: a part of your life? God got some big plans

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Speaker 8: for you. If he didn't, you wouldn't keep waking up

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Speaker 8: show Ladies and gentlemen, The time is here, another day,

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Speaker 8: another opportunity. I can't tell you how glad I am

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Speaker 8: about it. Man, set up this morning, told God how

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Speaker 8: grateful I was? You not really want to thank God

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Speaker 8: for this peace of mind that I have?

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Speaker 2: Of late?

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Speaker 8: I've just gotten into a just a real realm of peace.

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Speaker 8: You know, I don't I don't worry about tomorrow. I

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Speaker 8: stopped doing that I could. Y'all really don't know how

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Speaker 8: I feel about my past. I really have left it go.

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Speaker 8: And uh, why the thing like you were about to say,

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Speaker 8: I give lixt B because I.

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Speaker 9: Be wanting to.

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Speaker 8: Don't fit into praise and worship, you know that don't

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Speaker 8: tie in together. I had to catch myself sometimes because

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Speaker 8: I'll be combined the holy in the hood and it's

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Speaker 8: always right there next to each other because oh, both

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Speaker 8: of them start.

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Speaker 2: With h O, and so I get on you know,

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Speaker 2: you know, and so that's all it is. Beyone.

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Speaker 8: I'm grateful man, Ladies, gentlemen, Steve A Morning Show, Shelly Strawberry,

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Speaker 8: Colin Frail, Junior, Mississippi Monica, No Monica, and then Mississippi

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Speaker 8: Junior ladies first and the legendary is nephew.

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Speaker 2: Tell me junior. You're looking a little squinty eyed this.

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Speaker 1: You must did you read my text?

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Speaker 2: Did you see that?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 2: That's okay. You want to you you want to do

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Speaker 2: that on that? No, no, do it on that. I

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Speaker 2: just want to let you know, just just I will

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Speaker 2: respond on the A if you won't.

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Speaker 4: The air.

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Speaker 8: No, No, I mean it wasn't nothing, he said in

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Speaker 8: a text. I but I knew that was gonna lead

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Speaker 8: into the destruction.

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Speaker 2: No, I just got a question. What stow did you

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Speaker 2: buy your peace of mind?

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Speaker 6: That?

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Speaker 2: Because I need to go visit that one today? Is

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Speaker 2: it at a store? Junior? You're not gonna have peace

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Speaker 2: of mind? Let's just come to I thought.

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Speaker 8: Because you're not willing to listen to the rules of marriage.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why you keep trying to change them. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I just got married. You're not finna change this. You

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Speaker 2: you in two years? What I just asked you? No, No,

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Speaker 2: quit asking about peace of mind. You ain't finna get none. Well, Tommy,

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Speaker 2: do you have I got?

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Speaker 6: Wait? Tell me?

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Speaker 10: You need to finding else to stay. Are already see this?

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Speaker 10: I don't have time to play with this kind of stuff.

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Speaker 10: You need to find somewhere to stay though. Start looking,

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Speaker 10: Start looking for some apartment or something.

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Speaker 2: Start looking.

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Speaker 11: This.

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Speaker 2: You have seen this movie before time. I haven't seen this.

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Speaker 2: I've seen the outcome. I know how it go this one.

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Speaker 10: You start looking for a nice little place that's gonna

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Speaker 10: hand you together for another year. Man, get you start

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Speaker 10: looking at your little couch or something, little futon or something.

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Speaker 2: Get you get yourself together, man.

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Speaker 12: Listen to them.

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Speaker 1: I just don't gonna be alright.

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Speaker 2: What can't be wrong? I told you, I told you,

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Speaker 2: I asked you yesterday. Can it go right?

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Speaker 5: This good?

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Speaker 2: For this loan? Y'all said, yeah, just keep even kill

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Speaker 2: I did, I'll even kill. That's going for hours. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's going on twenty four hours. I asked him. In

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Speaker 2: twenty four hours.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in the world. No, no, And it's just minimal stuff.

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Speaker 2: It's minimal. Ain't nothing made minimal.

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Speaker 10: I just know it's just you know, well, lead him,

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Speaker 10: lead them minimal stuff alone while we were concerned.

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Speaker 12: Go hard with the major stuff.

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Speaker 2: Come he Kate, tell which one is? What y'all? Y'all instead, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: another kind of problem.

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Speaker 7: We gotta go at thirty two minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 7: we'll hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back.

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Speaker 7: Right after this you're listening morning show, It is time

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Speaker 7: now for the nephew to run that prank back. Nephew,

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Speaker 7: what you got for us?

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Speaker 4: Huh? What you heard?

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Speaker 6: What? What? What? What?

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Speaker 2: Come on on this great getting up on and we

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Speaker 2: running that prank back, Shirley. That's right.

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Speaker 10: Here is doctor Petrick. I need some help, Doctor Patrick.

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Speaker 10: I need some help, cat Dog.

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Speaker 2: If you would.

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Speaker 5: Hello, I'm trying to reach doctor Petrie. Please.

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Speaker 13: This is doctor Petrie, Doctor Petrick.

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Speaker 5: My name is Jared Jared, and I was hoping you

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Speaker 5: could help me out. Would have would with a problem

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Speaker 5: that I have?

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Speaker 13: Okay, hello Jared, I would love to help you out

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Speaker 13: with a problem. Unfortunately, the doctor Petri right, I am,

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Speaker 13: but this is my personal number? How did you get

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Speaker 5: If somebody gave me this number so I could call

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Speaker 5: you and and and and try to get some counseling

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Speaker 5: I'm I'm really in a bad situation right now.

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Speaker 13: Okay, I can I can recognize that that you're in

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Speaker 13: a bad situation. But how did you get my number?

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Speaker 13: This is my personal line? Who gave you my number?

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Speaker 5: Are you?

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Speaker 6: You?

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Speaker 5: You the doctor? You the counselor to help people with

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Speaker 5: with with with with situations and problems and stuff, right, yes,

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Speaker 5: I am?

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Speaker 13: What can I do for you? Jared?

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Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 5: I got a problem that just seemed like I'm just

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Speaker 5: you know, I've been married to my wife for six years.

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Speaker 13: Okay, wait, wait, wait, Jared, Now this what you're what

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Speaker 13: you're about to get into. You're about to you want

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Speaker 13: to go into a counseling session, and so in order

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Speaker 13: to do that, I do that through making an appointment.

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Speaker 5: I understand all of that, but you you you don't

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Speaker 5: understand I'm trying to. What I'm trying to tell you

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Speaker 5: all the time. I'm just I just need some if

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Speaker 5: and then I'll come in next week. But I mean,

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Speaker 5: I just need you to tell me how to handle

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Speaker 5: just I just I need this bad.

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Speaker 13: Right now, Jarrett, Jared, Jared, I need you to focus. Okay.

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Speaker 13: I don't do this over the phone, however, it sounds

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Speaker 5: Can you can you be that for me? Just for

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Speaker 5: who I'm here right now, for calling you and disrupting

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Speaker 5: your weekend, But can you help me out?

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Speaker 13: I don't calling that. I don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 5: Hello him back Hello, I'm here, Jared here, doctor Patrick.

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Speaker 13: I'm here. Tell me, tell me what's going on. Jared.

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Speaker 13: I'm here to listen to you.

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Speaker 5: Okay, listen. I've been I've been married to my wife

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Speaker 5: for like six years now, and and I don't know

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Speaker 5: what it is. But whenever, whenever we intimate, you know,

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Speaker 5: I get scared. And I'm going to the closet and

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Speaker 5: I got a TV in there and I watched old

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Speaker 5: TV shows because I'm scared. I'm scared of the intimacy

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Speaker 13: Okay, Jared, this this sounds like a particular case, and

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Speaker 13: it's different from anything that I've experienced thus far. And

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Speaker 13: I want to make sure that I address your.

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Speaker 5: Mind up in the big league. Get not turn it

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Speaker 5: back lonely. We live you at need baby. There ain't

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Speaker 5: nothing wrong with that because we're moving on now.

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Speaker 13: Okay, Jared. Focus, You called me and you need.

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Speaker 5: I I'll be going. I'll be going through it to

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Speaker 5: be part of me.

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Speaker 13: Okay, Jared. What I need to do is I need

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Speaker 13: to make sure.

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Speaker 5: Three o'clock, four o'clock Rock, five, six, seven o'clock, eight

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Speaker 5: o'clock Rock, eleven o'clock Rock. We're going to rock, rock

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Speaker 5: the clock tonight when the cock right through wind, the

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Speaker 5: bands all download, cut.

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Speaker 13: Breeze, breathe. Oh how did you get my number? How

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Speaker 13: did you get my personal number?

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Speaker 5: They gave me your number and said you you would

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Speaker 5: be the one that would that would that would that

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Speaker 5: would that would take care of me.

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Speaker 13: I'm here, okay, let's take a differ.

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Speaker 5: And you knew where you were then girls were girls

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Speaker 5: and men women wishing we could use a man like

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Speaker 5: everybody Hugh. But right again, we're just up together.

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Speaker 13: I want to help you. I want to help you,

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Speaker 13: and I want to help your situation. I want to

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Speaker 13: help you with your wife. But you you called me,

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Speaker 13: and if you look, you for a lifeline for an anchor.

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Speaker 13: I'm trying to be that.

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Speaker 5: I mean to help me. I knew he did help

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Speaker 5: me with my life, because see, I know my wife

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Speaker 5: is gonna leave me if I know quit doing this.

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Speaker 13: There's this story of a lovely lady Jaredirl. Jared, My

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Speaker 13: technique is a little bit different and maybe a little unorthodox.

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Speaker 5: If not I gotta feel less crul, the mintal would

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Speaker 5: be lost, the mood would be lost, the minery.

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Speaker 13: Look here, look here, I.

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Speaker 5: Jared, I need you to help me.

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Speaker 13: I need to get you into my office. I need

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Speaker 13: to schedule an appointment with you. You need to erase

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Speaker 13: my personal number from yourself.

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Speaker 5: Because everybody knows your name.

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Speaker 1: Jared.

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Speaker 13: Ocus. Focus, Focus, Jared Focus. There's a lot more going

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Speaker 13: on here for one making I got of fun now with.

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Speaker 5: Me and all the game learning from each other while

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Speaker 13: Say a good time, Jared, My patience is said up.

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Speaker 13: I have no more patience with you now. I need

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Speaker 13: you to fakefuckers and get it together. Why did you

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Speaker 13: call me? Why did you? How did you get my number?

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Speaker 5: You hollering at me? Why you supposed to be a doctor.

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Speaker 5: You're supposed to be a doctor.

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Speaker 14: I am a doctor.

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Speaker 13: Don't question my credentials. Young man, you called me. I

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Speaker 13: want to help you, but this has gone on too far.

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Speaker 5: This is Tommy gave me your number to Steve. You know,

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Speaker 5: don't you? Now?

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Speaker 13: Look, I want to help you, but you are not

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Speaker 13: allowing me to do so. So who is Tommy? Who

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Speaker 13: is Stephen? And how did you get my number?

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Speaker 5: On the radio?

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Speaker 6: On the.

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Speaker 13: Steven on the radio.

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Speaker 5: As in.

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Speaker 13: The radio, as in Tommy, Matthew, Tommy, you know you

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Speaker 13: didn't go Oh, my.

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Speaker 5: God, do you have a colleague named Charles?

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Speaker 13: You know what I'm gonna ki ooh, look that I

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Speaker 13: can't believe Charlie did this to me?

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Speaker 5: My god, do you know what time of war US?

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Speaker 13: You got a warn You got me flustered.

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Speaker 5: I was recording you. You know that. I gotta ask

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Speaker 5: you something though. What is the baddest and I mean

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Speaker 5: the baddest radio show in the land.

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Speaker 13: That's Steve have been learning?

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Speaker 5: Baby?

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Speaker 13: My goodness, Wow, huh what what?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Nobody else got stupid old lock like this.

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Speaker 2: I don't know nobody got it locked down me.

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Speaker 12: You're the king there you go, all right, nephew, thank you.

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Speaker 7: Coming up next to this, ask the CLO our chief

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Speaker 7: Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 9: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.

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Speaker 12: Coming up at the top of the hour.

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Speaker 7: In entertainment News, Carla has Today's music News plus R

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Speaker 7: and B. Singer Omarian opens up about his celibacy journey,

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Speaker 7: and Beyonce launches a whiskey line with Moay Hennessy. And

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Speaker 7: we'll talk about all of these stories at the top

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Speaker 7: of the hour, but right now it is time to

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Speaker 7: ask the CLO. This is from Shannon and Athens. Shannon says,

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Speaker 7: I'm so torn about breaking up with my man. I

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Speaker 7: know I shouldn't leave him when he's down, but he's

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Speaker 7: broke and I don't do broke. He made a bad

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Speaker 7: it looked shady. Now he's depressed and leaning heavily on me.

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Speaker 7: I don't think we should get married. Do you agree?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I agree one hundred percent.

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Speaker 8: You already fitting to leave and you ain't married, so

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Speaker 8: why would you get married and you trying to leave

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Speaker 8: before you married?

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Speaker 2: You don't even understand the wedding vows.

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Speaker 8: You've already you y'all in violation, you know, for richer

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Speaker 8: off of poor. You are just said you don't do broke.

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Speaker 8: So now your man can't ever fall on hard time,

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Speaker 8: which is why there are some women like you, sister,

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Speaker 8: who wrote this letter, who gonna be by yourself forever.

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Speaker 8: You don't want to stand by a man that's on

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Speaker 8: the come up and the hustle.

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Speaker 2: Everybody wants a rich.

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Speaker 8: Man, Well get in line, because that line is long,

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Speaker 8: Or should you find a good man that has come

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Speaker 8: up potential? Get in there and support and build something together.

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Speaker 8: But naw, you don't want to do that because you

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Speaker 8: don't do broke. Well, I'm sorry, most men, we don't

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Speaker 8: do shady, we don't do disloyalty. We don't do one

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Speaker 8: fit in, one foot out. So go on about your business.

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Speaker 8: Leave this man alone, for you wreck his life because

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Speaker 8: that you don't have the qualities. I'm just being real.

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Speaker 8: You don't have the quality. Just be nobody wife. You

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Speaker 8: don't because if you ain't gonna stand by your man

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Speaker 8: through thick or thin, because when you get married, it's

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Speaker 8: gonna be thick and thin. This ain't just finna be thick.

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Speaker 8: You don't get married and it just be thick. Dog,

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Speaker 8: you don't get married and it all go good?

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Speaker 2: What true?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 2: Every marriage hit them financial pockets and stuff. You don't.

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Speaker 4: You don't do that.

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Speaker 2: So just go on bout your business.

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Speaker 8: Need that man alone because you don't have qualities to

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Speaker 8: be in a committed relationship with no man.

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Speaker 2: You really don't. You really really don't.

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Speaker 12: Okay, Moving on to Carlos in Houston.

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Speaker 7: Carlos says, I have an old school car and I

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Speaker 7: let my son take it on campus to stunt. He

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Speaker 7: and the floor mat I made him give me two

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Speaker 7: hundred dollars to get it cleaned, and my wife got

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Speaker 7: mad when I took his money.

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Speaker 1: Did I do the right thing?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, because it's called responsibility. Things happened, you know, when

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Speaker 8: you damage stuff, somebody got to get it fixed. See

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Speaker 8: that you went up there to stunt. Now you're stunting.

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Speaker 8: You nestain the man's car. It's two hundred dollars. You

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Speaker 8: took his money.

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Speaker 2: He took your car. See, and you don't get to

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Speaker 2: drive it no more. You don't get to drive it

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Speaker 2: no more. That's it. But ladies, But ladies. I'm not

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Speaker 2: coming down on ladies today. But let me say so.

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Speaker 8: If you got a man that you married, you obviously

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Speaker 8: married him because you like some qualities about him. If

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Speaker 8: he's trying to impart these qualities on y'all's boy, please

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Speaker 8: allow him to do so. Because I have news for you.

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Speaker 8: You have no idea how to turn this boy into

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Speaker 8: a man. Calls you ain't a man. I have no

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Speaker 8: idea how to turn a little girl into a woman

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Speaker 8: because I have no idea. So now that there is

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Speaker 8: a difference between the two, let the man do his

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Speaker 8: job in raising a responsible, accountable young man.

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Speaker 2: It get out the way. He shouldn't have took his money.

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Speaker 2: He took his daddy car.

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Speaker 12: And it teaches him a lesson.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, responsibility, all right, Okay, Moving on to and New Rochelle,

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Speaker 7: Delenda writes, I married a man. I met a married

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Speaker 7: man on social media and he DMed me to see

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Speaker 7: if my husband and I were into swinging my husband's down.

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Speaker 7: But I'm skeptical because I don't really know them. Should

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Speaker 7: we meet them out first to see if they're a

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Speaker 7: cool couple?

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Speaker 2: Over that? Should it start over some starting?

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Speaker 5: You miss that?

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Speaker 7: Okay, one more time? DeLanda and New Rochelle says, I

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Speaker 7: met him. I met a married man on social media

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Speaker 7: and he DMed me to see if my husband and

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Speaker 7: I were into swinging my husband's down.

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Speaker 12: But I'm skeptical because I don't really know them. Should

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Speaker 12: we meet them out first to see if they're a

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Speaker 12: cool couple?

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Speaker 8: Oh no, no, no, don't go out and meet them first.

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Speaker 8: Just go to the swinging spot immediately. It's just go

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Speaker 8: on in cold Turkey. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, he ain't

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Speaker 8: no need of meeting them, ain't no need of meeting them.

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Speaker 8: Go down there, cold Turkey, go to Don't Sight Unseen.

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Speaker 8: They got TV shows on nothing. Now love at first sight?

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Speaker 8: You know blind, love is blind? You know they got

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Speaker 8: all that. Now gone down there, go down there with

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Speaker 8: them other two fat ass ugly people just.

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Speaker 2: Sitting up in that room. Do you walk here and

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Speaker 2: they already nicked? What's that?

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Speaker 9: Hey?

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Speaker 2: You walk in the room, they already nigga? You don't

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Speaker 2: know who?

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Speaker 12: Oh right, Wow, that's something.

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 12: Moving on, last one, last one. This is from Faith

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Speaker 12: and Gary.

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Speaker 1: Faith Rights.

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Speaker 12: I modeled some cheap clothes.

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Speaker 7: For a boutique and the owner did not pay me,

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Speaker 7: but she posted my pictures. I wore one of the

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Speaker 7: outfits Saturday because, as far as I'm concerned, these are

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Speaker 7: my clothes.

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Speaker 12: Now, she said, it doesn't work like that.

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Speaker 9: Am I wrong?

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Speaker 8: You took some pictures. She didn't pay you for taking

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Speaker 8: the pictures. I don't know what the agreement was, but

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Speaker 8: you obviously had one. She didn't pay you.

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Speaker 2: So now you decided to wear outfit Saturday night because

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Speaker 2: as far as you concerned, they yours. She said, don't

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Speaker 2: work like that. Well, in her mind, it don't work

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Speaker 2: like that.

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Speaker 8: In your mind, it do work like then, did you

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Speaker 8: also tell her that when you took the pictures and

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Speaker 8: you were supposed to get your check and she didn't

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Speaker 8: give it to you, that that don't work like that either, Right,

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Speaker 8: So we got two women in here that don't do.

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Speaker 2: Nothing at work like that.

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Speaker 12: Miscommunication.

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Speaker 2: So I really don't know what to tell you, just

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Speaker 2: I really do. You ain't got your money, but you

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Speaker 2: got them dresses. Now what she gonna do?

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Speaker 14: Ye?

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Speaker 6: Sorry?

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Speaker 12: All right, that's it. That's the last one, Steve.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I do want to go.

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Speaker 7: Back to Linda and new Rochelle when she yes, should

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Speaker 7: we meet them out first to see if they're you.

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Speaker 8: Ain't gotta go going down now, I told you no,

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Speaker 8: you don't need no premid go in that call Turkey.

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Speaker 2: Just walk into the spot and see.

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Speaker 1: What you got.

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00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, since your husband down.

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Speaker 8: Matter of fact, y'all walk in and stripping everybody off

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Speaker 8: for y'all meet each other.

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Speaker 2: Neckd I'm Davy, you are on your take your shirt off,

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Speaker 2: all right?

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Speaker 12: See, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Celo.

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Speaker 12: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 12: some entertainment news for you.

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Speaker 2: Right after this.

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Speaker 9: You're listening hard morning show.

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Speaker 12: Well, guys, Carla is here with today's music News.

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Speaker 3: What you got for us, Carla, Well, we were talking

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00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 3: about this off air. Let's talk about it on the air.

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Speaker 3: The d n C is like a party for Kendrick Lamar.

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Speaker 3: They played They Not Like Us for California's Role Call

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Speaker 3: along with California Love Little John.

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Speaker 1: He popped out and surprised. Georgia turned down for but.

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Speaker 2: I Come on DNC plus. Shout out to Georgia.

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Speaker 1: Georgia was fired.

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Speaker 2: Yep, yep, yep.

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Speaker 3: Shout out to Patty LaBelle. She performed Chicago's on Common.

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Speaker 3: Anthony Hamilton was there, so again, shout out to the

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Speaker 3: DNZ making the convention like a party. It's a celebration. Also,

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Speaker 3: ladies get ready. Maxwell is set to perform at NPR's

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Speaker 3: Tiny Desk Concert Oh Love Tiny Desk Concert Series. Maxwell's

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Speaker 3: gonna perform Yeah, this Saturday, August twenty third, So check

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Speaker 3: it out. Maxwell also did a remake of Simply Beautiful

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Speaker 3: Steve by Al Green.

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Speaker 2: You know how much you love that song? Who did

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Speaker 2: a remake?

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Speaker 1: Maxwell?

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Speaker 3: He did a remake of and we are currently playing

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Speaker 3: it right here on the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Maxwell, you did that, So that's music news real quick.

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Speaker 1: You all up to date, There.

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Speaker 7: You go, Shirley Girl, all right, Carolin, thank you, and

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Speaker 7: other entertainment news is R and B singer Omarion recently

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Speaker 7: discussed his celibacy journey on a podcast, Take a Listen

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Speaker 7: This World.

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Speaker 15: Being a sex symbol. In hindsight, it was preparing me

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Speaker 15: for my contribution to music. I just found myself in

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Speaker 15: that position of wanting to understand my energy, give myself

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Speaker 15: time to grow. I knew that if I could control

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Speaker 15: two areas of my life, which is food and the

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Speaker 15: urge of sex, then nothing can stop me.

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Speaker 2: And they had come to.

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Speaker 15: Find out that Lenny Kravitz has been celibated for however long.

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Speaker 8: I'm like, wow, yeah, y'all don't know none of this

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Speaker 8: here and just Mario, you know, being a sex symbol

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Speaker 8: and everything. I figured, if I could control my urge

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Speaker 8: for food and for sex, I'd be wild. I'm sixty

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Speaker 8: seven and it can't control it.

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Speaker 2: So now I don't know. But I ain't even never

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Speaker 2: been not to No, I can't either.

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Speaker 6: One.

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Speaker 2: I have to eat. Yeah, I tried that, even her

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Speaker 2: time went hung trying to be in a vegetarian. Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Now, of course I'm myry aunt. I ain't never been

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Speaker 8: no sex symbol or nothing like that. So you know,

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Speaker 8: I ain't never had to control my sex. I just

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Speaker 8: wasn't getting none, that's all she said. No, I had

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Speaker 8: to shut my ass over there and sit down, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 8: you know, and.

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Speaker 2: Can't get some neat.

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Speaker 8: I don't you know when people having all these deep

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Speaker 8: ass moments on these podcasts. These podcasts, man, they need

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Speaker 8: to stop this here because people just on there making

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Speaker 8: all types of I found out Lenny Kravitz was celebrated.

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Speaker 2: I went, wow, how long you think we all? Long time?

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Speaker 2: Lenny Kravits y'all y'all gone somewhere?

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Speaker 1: What y'all talking about?

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Speaker 7: What are you saying?

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Speaker 2: What do you say?

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Speaker 12: You don't believe it? It's not possible. What are you saying?

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Speaker 2: Ain't no man doing he, ain't no priests, ain't no

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Speaker 2: man doing that.

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Speaker 8: What are y'all talking about? What are y'all talking about?

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Speaker 8: I got a lot of friends I know people that

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Speaker 8: all y'all.

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Speaker 1: Do you know Lenny Kravitz?

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Speaker 2: I know Lenny Kravitz took a picture? What have been passed?

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Speaker 2: Last year? I love a brother. He ain't said nothing

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Speaker 2: to me boud it and he don't say nothing to

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Speaker 2: you about that. Well, let me tell you something. The

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Speaker 2: reaction that I saw we was in.

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Speaker 8: The YSL store together, we was in YL. The reaction

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Speaker 8: of the women I saw And he's celibate. They don't

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Speaker 8: know it. He's very I'm just telling you right now now.

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Speaker 8: And you know he ain't been listen to y'all talking

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Speaker 8: about can have been celibate for years?

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Speaker 6: For what?

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Speaker 8: Ye Listen, everybody can do that for a short period

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Speaker 8: of time. Ain't been no years, ain't nobody. Ain't no

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Speaker 8: man did that for years? Y'all stopped. He said, ain't

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Speaker 8: no man did that for years. Y'all need to stop

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Speaker 8: this hill. I'm not gonna sit on missionship and allowed this. No,

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Speaker 8: I ain't got his number. Oh, we ain't finish when

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Speaker 8: we finished do all that. I'm just telling you right,

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Speaker 8: ain't no man fin to do all that for what?

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Speaker 4: Why?

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Speaker 6: What he do? What do it?

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Speaker 11: Do?

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Speaker 3: It clears your head like if you're going to wait, wait, yeah,

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Speaker 3: mental clarity, self disciplined.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So let me ask you so after you get

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Speaker 2: that mental clarity, now what mind clear?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 15: What now?

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Speaker 2: Your mind clear?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 2: What help me?

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Speaker 8: Y'all sitting up in here telling me about all these

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Speaker 8: men that's been celibate for years, and I'm telling you ain't.

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Speaker 2: No, man, I know it's find to be celibate for

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Speaker 2: years lest he's sick.

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Speaker 12: And when you when you hung out with Lenny Kravitz,

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Speaker 12: he didn't mention any of this to you.

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Speaker 2: He said a damn thing to me. Shirt was unbuttoned

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Speaker 2: down to his navel. I'm talking. What is y'all talking about?

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Speaker 2: If you celibate, button your shirt.

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Speaker 12: Up, you're just to tease at that point, nipple.

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Speaker 8: Showing and everything. I'm sitting If you're gonna Lenny looks

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Speaker 8: sexy to me, I'm sitting it. Old woman hollering this stuff.

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Speaker 8: I'm going, Oh the boy sexy him tight ass pasts

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Speaker 8: home belt buckles showing he can look down see his

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Speaker 8: belt buckle.

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Speaker 12: Did you see did you see him working out in

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Speaker 12: his leather pants at the gym?

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Speaker 5: Huh?

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Speaker 2: He always wears his leather pants. Lenny, if you celebrate,

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Speaker 2: what is you working out for? What do you say?

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Speaker 2: Some crazy fool you getting fit? Fall see y'all not young? No, No,

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Speaker 2: I'm not seeing I'm nothing. Marie Ann talking about I

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Speaker 2: heard Lenny crowd. I went, wow, you.

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Speaker 8: Ain't Lenny, you ain't Lenny. Y'all don't even know where

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Speaker 8: Lenny live. Lenny cried, Lenny got all kind of stuff

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Speaker 8: going on right here.

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Speaker 2: I'm all right years wow.

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Speaker 7: Coming up in twenty minutes after be our Vice President

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Speaker 7: Kamala Harris will formally accept the Democratic Party's nomination for

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Speaker 7: president tonight.

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Speaker 12: We'll talk about it right after this.

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Speaker 9: You're listening, Hardy Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: Vice President Kamala Harris will formally accept the Democratic Party's

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Speaker 7: nomination for president tonight in Chicago.

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Speaker 12: At the DNC.

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Speaker 7: This past Tuesday night, we all saw former President Obama's

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Speaker 7: speech as he returned to the convention stage twenty years

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Speaker 7: after making his first appearance at the DNC in Boston

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Speaker 7: back in twenty four and that propelled him into the

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Speaker 7: national spotlight ahead of his successful two thousand and eight

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Speaker 7: presidential run. Both President Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama

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Speaker 7: told us why VP Harris and Governor Waltz are ready

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Speaker 7: and what the Democrats need to do for the next

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Speaker 7: two months before election day. Vice President Harris will speak tonight,

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Speaker 7: and she's hoping to win over young people, voters of color,

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Speaker 7: working class whites, suburban voters, and anti Trump Republicans.

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Speaker 12: That's her mission. That's because.

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Speaker 10: If you was on the fence, you should have made

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Speaker 10: up your mind the other night. It should have been

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Speaker 10: to be real clear.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I miss I missed those speeches. I didn't get

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Speaker 2: to see.

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Speaker 12: And her husband of VP.

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Speaker 7: Harris's husband gave an impassioned speech too about how they met,

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Speaker 7: how they fell in love. It was very enlightening because

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Speaker 7: I've never heard him speak like that. He gave up

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Speaker 7: his career, all of that, you know, he's teaching now.

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Speaker 7: He gave up his law career, very successful lawyer to

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Speaker 7: be with her and support her.

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Speaker 12: I mean, just a real cool love story.

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Speaker 7: And then Michelle Obama hit the stagebe Lord Mercy talking about.

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Speaker 3: The presidency being a black job. Go first lady, Yes,

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Speaker 3: forever first Lady.

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Speaker 12: It was awesome, It was so good.

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Speaker 3: Former President Obama talked about Trump's weird obsession crowd outside, crowdsize,

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Speaker 3: and she said, what's up with that?

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Speaker 2: He was really really good. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The DNC is just full of energy. It reflects America.

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Speaker 3: It's a party theirs, it's the verse exactly.

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Speaker 2: They're celebrating freedom.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to hear her speech tonight.

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Speaker 9: Love and enjoy yeah, yeah, it was really really good.

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Speaker 12: Excellent, excellent, excellence. Yeah, staying away for her speech tonight.

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Speaker 8: Say, I was you'd wait on me to fill in,

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Speaker 8: but Shirley was talking. Oh okay, you know, cut off.

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Speaker 8: You don't know, it's a Steve Harvey Morning show. But

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Speaker 8: I try to let somebody else talk, especially Shirley when

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Speaker 8: Shirley want to talk, because you know, when you're talking

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Speaker 8: about this election, you're talking about black votes and everything.

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Speaker 2: You gotta let the bullgy people population talk.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 2: It can't just leave me and Tommy, you know, yeah.

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Speaker 6: You know me me.

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Speaker 8: You you gotta hear from busy black because some dud

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Speaker 8: ones out there now ye are called I'm gonna take you.

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Speaker 2: Up, man.

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Speaker 8: I like I like bougee ass black people because it

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Speaker 8: just reminds me how not to act.

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Speaker 2: I'll get around. Come on, wonderful. I love this caveats.

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Speaker 2: The only thing I eat this caveat.

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Speaker 8: You remember when of that little podunk food that worked

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Speaker 8: for us come talking about I can't I can't live

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Speaker 8: without caviare whole black ass up? You said the same

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Speaker 8: thing about that spam saying, which we do outside from the.

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Speaker 7: Porch, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 7: we'll check your voicemail Steve at eight seven seven twenty nine.

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Speaker 3: Steve.

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Speaker 7: Right after this, you're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. It

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Speaker 7: is time now to check your voicemail Steve eight seven

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Speaker 7: seven twenty nine.

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Speaker 1: Steve.

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Speaker 7: Call us if you'd like to leave a message for

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Speaker 7: Steve in the morning crew, and you might just hear

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Speaker 7: your call on the air. This one is from Erica

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Speaker 7: in Detroit time.

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Speaker 14: My name is I can call it from Detroit and

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Speaker 14: I was just listening to the Project twenty five and

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Speaker 14: I just want to let everyone know every black person

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Speaker 14: have a minority. If you let him get in an office,

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Speaker 14: we are.

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Speaker 8: Doing okay, spoke yet, hey, and I appreciate you Erica

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Speaker 8: for putting your name out there. Thank you very much.

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Speaker 8: That's very brave. Most people call it make a statement.

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Speaker 8: Don't want to lead?

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Speaker 2: Ain't there?

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Speaker 8: Erica say, if you black, a person coloring, you let

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Speaker 8: Trump in, We do them. They don't understand the seriousness

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Speaker 8: of this Project twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 2: And Trump?

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Speaker 8: Has Trump been on the private jet with the boy

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Speaker 8: that wrote that thing? You trying to act like he

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Speaker 8: don't know him. He know exactly what they did. Trump

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Speaker 8: is for anybody that's for him, red boot skinheads, clan,

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Speaker 8: malicious white supremacy, anybody, anybody that's for him.

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Speaker 2: He with them. Know that that's a narcissist. If you

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Speaker 2: like me, I like you. That's all it is.

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Speaker 8: And it don't matter what they stand for. That that's

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Speaker 8: his base, and his basis full of that. It's just

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Speaker 8: a sad.

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Speaker 2: Statement, man, that we're anywhere. Go ahead, if you got

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Speaker 2: an shure, yeah I do.

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Speaker 12: This is from Marlin who left a message about voting.

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Speaker 6: Yes, good morning. It's to Steve Harvey. My name is

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Speaker 6: Marlin or Brother. I love you, man, I love what

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Speaker 6: you're doing, so I want to keep your grief as

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Speaker 6: you stated. So my point of conversation is based on election,

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Speaker 6: the DNC and us moving forward and use the strategy. Brother.

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Speaker 6: I love you for the way you're utilizing your platform

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Speaker 6: and I mind that. But since this is brief, one point,

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Speaker 6: we need to have a point of dogs at colleges

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Speaker 6: recruiting young people to get those first time voters redynacy.

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Speaker 6: We need to have a Tennessee poles for allow this

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Speaker 6: system to still the next thing by systematically setting down poles.

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Speaker 6: So we need to have places set up whereas they

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Speaker 6: can vote, and we need to have buses to bust

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Speaker 6: those who are unable to make those polders. And lastly,

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Speaker 6: in not least that keep doing what you're doing, doing

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Speaker 6: a very job, great job. I love you man, because

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Speaker 6: you liking the platform your God's sends. God has blessed

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Speaker 6: you to be able to do what you do, and

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Speaker 6: I know it is God's said because of the fact

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Speaker 6: that you always for to seek God in things that

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Speaker 6: you do. And then I'm so proud of you, my flom,

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Speaker 6: keep going doing the great work. Because again my name

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Speaker 6: is Martel Cod and thank you so much, my brother,

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Speaker 6: love your man.

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Speaker 8: All right, thank you, moll enough, let me get all

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Speaker 8: this out firston thank you brother. I appreciate everything you

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Speaker 8: said well taking well received message God love and respect

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Speaker 8: for you to Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: We will adhere to that. And I'm a part of

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Speaker 2: the Divine Nine.

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Speaker 8: So there's a huge movement in the fraternity sorority thing

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Speaker 8: to get that young vote out. They are working feverishly

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Speaker 8: to register voters. All of them are working, not just Aks,

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Speaker 8: all of them, Zata, Sigma, Game Rolls, Deltas, all of them,

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Speaker 8: Q sigmas, kappas, alphas, eyotas, everybody working to get the

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Speaker 8: vote out.

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Speaker 2: And so I won't say thank you for that now.

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Speaker 8: On a personal note, Melvin, I don't know what you

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Speaker 8: do for a living, but if you ever come up

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Speaker 8: short of cash, I'm gonna put you on a one

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Speaker 8: nine hundred number because I was just looking at the

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Speaker 8: faces of these three women on their zooms. If you

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Speaker 8: had their undivided attention. I want to thank you, dog,

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Speaker 8: because you was a day have got they fans out.

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Speaker 8: It's all kinds of stuff going up. Mailvin was in

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Speaker 8: here talking to you to just like hot buter run

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Speaker 8: down the side. Okay, I got his name, you better

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Speaker 8: get his name. Hello, wanted this is a morning I

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Speaker 8: just want you to know. They don't want you to

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Speaker 8: lay back, close your eyes.

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Speaker 2: And moan.

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Speaker 8: And listen to this voice right here now. I want

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Speaker 8: you to take your hand right now, place it. We

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Speaker 8: will need another three dollars to continue.

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Speaker 6: This car.

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Speaker 7: Coming up next, and the nephew and today's Frank phone

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Speaker 7: call right after this.

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Speaker 9: You're listening.

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Speaker 7: Morning show coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 7: right about four minutes after It's my strawberry letter for today,

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Speaker 7: and the subject is everything is a minor inconvenience. We'll

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Speaker 7: talk about that, get into that, find out what that's

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Speaker 7: all about in just a few because right now the

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Speaker 7: nephew is here with today prank phone call.

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Speaker 12: Nephew, Well we're going work.

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Speaker 10: Oh sure, I got it for you. You know, you know,

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Speaker 10: everybody gonna have one and if somebody has to plan it.

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Speaker 10: But this right here is your funeral arrangements. Your funeral arrangements.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh. Yeah, a lot of people don't know that.

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Speaker 10: You know, these things need to take place, but you

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Speaker 10: know some people might want to get it taken pare

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Speaker 10: before they leave here. You know what I'm saying before

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Speaker 10: they leave, like like I want my I want my

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Speaker 10: stuff in alle you understand, Like I'm gonna have I

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Speaker 10: told y'all before I'm gonna have a funeral rehearsal. That's

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Speaker 10: what I'm gonna have rehearsal because you're not gonna show

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Speaker 10: up at my funeral.

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Speaker 2: And I know we wouldn't that you're not gonna do that.

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Speaker 2: You're not gonna do that. You be dead. That's why

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Speaker 2: you have to have a funeral so we know how

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Speaker 2: it's supposed to go.

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Speaker 1: The rehearsal.

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Speaker 2: The rehearsal, yes for Carlo.

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Speaker 10: While we have rehearsal, I'll be laying there and when

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Speaker 10: I see somebody come pop up and say, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, Dann will we ain't like that?

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Speaker 6: Dog?

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Speaker 2: Come on dog dog?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 1: Pp up, We're gonna pop out.

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Speaker 12: Exactly.

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Speaker 10: Put all these calls crying, call that you ain't little

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Speaker 10: me like that. That's the come on, all right, this

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Speaker 10: is your funeral arrangement. Let's go care doc.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to retall you miss Diana. Please,

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Speaker 4: she's not in at the moment. I take a message flee.

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Speaker 4: My name is John John. I'm actually the funeral director

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Speaker 4: here a funeral home, because Diane came in earlier today

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Speaker 4: and tried to get the arrangements. First of all, I

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Speaker 4: want to say my condolences to you all and your

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Speaker 4: entire family for what you're going through. She filled out

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Speaker 4: some paperwork here and I wanted to make sure I

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Speaker 4: got everything actually correct. I'm a little not sure on

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Speaker 4: what she wants on the actual toombstone. I don't know

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Speaker 4: what she wants. Rob job or Robert are you are

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Speaker 4: you one of the members that may be able to

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Speaker 4: tell me exactly what she would want on? I am

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Speaker 4: I'm Roberts. What's all about it? She gave me this morning?

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Speaker 4: What you're talking about?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Hold on?

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Speaker 6: Certain?

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Speaker 5: Sorry?

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Speaker 4: You you who I am?

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Speaker 5: Robert? Rob Robert?

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Speaker 14: That's me?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 4: And is there senior or well Junior.

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Speaker 5: Is just a child.

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Speaker 4: I'm Robino. That's who I am. Junior is a child

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Speaker 4: either one of us? Did we're health? Okay? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 4: okay hang on? Oh my god, all right, I don't okay,

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Speaker 4: hang on second, sir? Yeah yeah, miss Diane? Ms sir,

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Speaker 4: Miss Diane is your wife?

889
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 5: Yeah? That is my wife.

890
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 4: You sure you got the right dance?

891
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 2: You sure?

892
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 6: She came in?

893
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 4: Uh this morning? Uh maybe five five h what saltn pepper, hair,

894
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:01,720
Speaker 4: shoulder ling, uhb a medium brown complex?

895
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:02,760
Speaker 13: Mmm?

896
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 4: What kind of costUS?

897
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:05,439
Speaker 8: What is having?

898
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 6: You?

899
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 4: See the posits and seeing the car something? Uh it

900
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 4: seemed like it was a some type of was it

901
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 4: a camry?

902
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 5: I think?

903
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I mean.

904
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 5: What happened?

905
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 4: Tell me, actually, tell me what happened this moment she

906
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 4: came in and said what to you? She came in

907
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 4: and mister, why why why?

908
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 5: Why? Why do I call back?

909
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 4: When Miss Diane is there and we can go call down.

910
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:31,320
Speaker 4: You know, tell me that right now. I need to

911
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 4: know what is going on. You my wife want to

912
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 4: tell me she would have a fuel for me, and

913
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 4: you tell me you would call me. Let me know,

914
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 4: tell me that, sir. All I know is is Miss

915
00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 4: Diane came in. The paperwork was a little I was

916
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 4: just coming to reevaluate you know what.

917
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 6: I what?

918
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 5: I what?

919
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 4: I what was written here?

920
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 5: It wasn't right.

921
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 4: I mean, she came in, she she picked out the casket,

922
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,320
Speaker 4: she did everything that she was supposed to casket casket,

923
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 4: bro bro right. But I don't understand. I don't really

924
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 4: understand what's going on. But I'm gonna find out later on.

925
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 4: I'm gonna fine. I don't understand. I've never been in

926
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 4: a I've never been in a situation like this. Okay,

927
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 4: so we're about to get in the situation. Maybe I

928
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 4: need to call back when this Diane gets there. I said,

929
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,320
Speaker 4: I need to talk to you now. She had six o'clock.

930
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 4: Don't worry about that. Where you at anyway? What's your

931
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:18,359
Speaker 4: name again?

932
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 5: Where you at?

933
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:23,439
Speaker 4: I'm I'm I'm John, sir, I'm I'm the funeral homes

934
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 4: by Round I'm sorry, y'all. You might be you might

935
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 4: be making some souler raby for her too. I might

936
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,359
Speaker 4: need to switch things for her team on there. Okay, sir,

937
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 4: I'm guess what sixt o'clock is. Six o'clock, sir, six o'clock.

938
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 6: You be there, sir.

939
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:40,839
Speaker 4: A funeral is a very serious thing, sir. So you're

940
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 4: you're so serious. Bro, Look, my wife is becoming she's

941
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 4: trying to marry me.

942
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 6: Me.

943
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 4: I'm Rob wouldn't even be get other people. Robert, it's

944
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 4: it's Rob or Robert, whichever one.

945
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 5: I mean.

946
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,959
Speaker 4: I don't, I don't. I mean I won't.

947
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 5: I don't want to.

948
00:49:57,800 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 4: I don't, I don't. I don't know even the peas

949
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 4: it you know what I'm saying. We didn't even argue.

950
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 4: We had a little last argument last week by little

951
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 4: light Buil something a little black man. But you canna

952
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 4: having funerals of me? Okay, man, I tell you, let

953
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 4: this up. They got the right now, you got the

954
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 4: right one. I tell you, man, I'm not watch I

955
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 4: have hurt mister. I mean, since I have you on

956
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 4: the phone, is can I ask you?

957
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 5: What is it all right? If I asked you something?

958
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:29,400
Speaker 4: Sir, maybe you want to ask me, brother, I mean,

959
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 4: since since it is your funeral, would you would you

960
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 4: like the light blue lining or the white lining in

961
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 4: the inside on the inside. Imbut that you cleaned on

962
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 4: me right now? You now you're trying me. Now, if

963
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 4: I come down there and swing, you won't like it.

964
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,959
Speaker 4: They's gonna be two funerals. You ah keep on last.

965
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 4: You're gonna put your own plannet. Man, I'm not here

966
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:53,320
Speaker 4: brushing my like here twelve hour shift. All I said,

967
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 4: come a little bit lights up around here. It's gonna

968
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 4: keep the bill out. But she wouna say, huh around

969
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 4: here all o dirt, sir, be light so light, so

970
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 4: light a funeral? Come on, man, boy, I swear to God,

971
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 4: just i'na tell you.

972
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 5: I'm telling Can I can? I? Can? I tell you?

973
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 5: What else?

974
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 4: Your wife told me when she was here?

975
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 5: What what else to do? Actually?

976
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 4: I need to know anywhere I need to know tell

977
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,760
Speaker 4: me him. Well, she told me to tell you exactly

978
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:20,320
Speaker 4: who I was. What?

979
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:21,800
Speaker 6: Who are you?

980
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 4: I'm sorry? Who are you?

981
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 6: Who?

982
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:26,920
Speaker 5: Rape?

983
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 4: I'm not John? I'm not John from the funeral home.

984
00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 4: You bet let me? You better tell me you no

985
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 4: better else not no, no, no, nothing, none of.

986
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:38,360
Speaker 2: This is it?

987
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 6: This right here?

988
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:43,280
Speaker 4: His nephew tim me from the Steve Arby Martin Shelley.

989
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 4: Your wife Diane got me to pray phone call you.

990
00:51:48,800 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 4: Hello boy, I swear y'all some boy, y'all lit man,

991
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 4: y'all just stop telling people saying, man, man, I.

992
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 5: Just see you.

993
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 4: I said, hey man, look, hell bro big better need

994
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:13,919
Speaker 4: a suit man, need eat on that shoes, sock head?

995
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 5: All right? Man?

996
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 4: That hey, Let me ask you, mist what is the

997
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:24,919
Speaker 4: baddest radio show in the land. See Harvey Morning Show

998
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 4: and now n.

999
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 10: Come on, y'all give it to me and tell me

1000
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 10: give the drum month son.

1001
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 12: Much play too much, play.

1002
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 2: Way too much.

1003
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,319
Speaker 10: I'm gonna I'm gonna play hard though Buffalo, New York.

1004
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,760
Speaker 10: The nephew come to town. You already know the tickets

1005
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 10: on sale. I Am going to play as stupid as

1006
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 10: I can. If you tell me your friends it's my

1007
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 10: house party comedy jam, you don't want to miss it

1008
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 10: at the Shade Performing Arts Center.

1009
00:52:57,560 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 2: Did you hear me?

1010
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,879
Speaker 10: I said the Shade before I'm an on center laying

1011
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 10: in the cut.

1012
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 2: Is uh, nephew, tell me Augusta, Georgia.

1013
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:08,240
Speaker 10: It is Friday, September the sixth at the Miller Theater

1014
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 10: the Miller Theater, and tickets are on seal red. Now,

1015
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:15,240
Speaker 10: what's laying in the cut October twenty sixth. That is Saturday,

1016
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 10: October twenty sixth, Lafayette, Louisiana at the Hyman Center. Nephew,

1017
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 10: Timy and friends coming your way. Tickets on seal right now,

1018
00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:26,880
Speaker 10: that's a b MT production them my boys, then my

1019
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:31,360
Speaker 10: Texas Boys out of Boumart b MT production. Tickets are

1020
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 10: on seal right now, what y'all think about that?

1021
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 2: All right? Okay, all right, if all minds clear.

1022
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:41,439
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at Beaumont and Golden Triangles.

1023
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 12: Good pet now now come all right, right over my

1024
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 12: favorite I just like saying Whinnie Whinnie.

1025
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 7: All right, thank you, nep you coming up next. It

1026
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 7: is my Strawberry Letter for today, and the subject is

1027
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 7: everything is a minor inconvenience everything. We'll get into it

1028
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 7: what it's all about. Right after this you're listening to

1029
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:08,319
Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

1030
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 7: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

1031
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 7: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM

1032
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 7: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

1033
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 7: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

1034
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 7: going to read this one right here, right now.

1035
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 12: And you never know, it could be yours.

1036
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 10: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type

1037
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 10: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry letter.

1038
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 7: All right, thank you, nephew. The subject is everything is

1039
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 7: a minor inconvenience, Dear Stephen Shirley, Everything is a minor

1040
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:40,799
Speaker 7: inconvenience for my husband, and I need to see if

1041
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 7: something is going on with him outside of our household.

1042
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:47,439
Speaker 7: He used to love doing everything with me. He used

1043
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 7: to initiate intimacy and afterwards he would always get up

1044
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:55,279
Speaker 7: and cook breakfast, no matter what time of day or

1045
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,279
Speaker 7: night it was. That was our little fun time. He

1046
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:00,880
Speaker 7: wanted to have a lot of kids before we got married,

1047
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:02,920
Speaker 7: but now he's saying that he doesn't know if we

1048
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 7: can afford to start a family. He said that babies

1049
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 7: take up a lot of time and are inconvenient most

1050
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 7: of the time. That broke my heart, because how can

1051
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 7: a child be inconvenient. He's been saying crazy stuff like this,

1052
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 7: and I've been taking mental notes. I've asked him to

1053
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:22,280
Speaker 7: go look at TV's with me at his favorite electronics store.

1054
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 12: He said he'd already put on this lounge on his

1055
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 12: lounging clothes, so my timing was inconvenient for him.

1056
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 7: Same thing with sex. The other night, I mentioned that

1057
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 7: we haven't had sex in a week. He said that

1058
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 7: I come to bed too late, and it's a minor

1059
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 7: inconvenience to get himself in the mood that late. We

1060
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:43,479
Speaker 7: never had this problem before. We finally did have sex

1061
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 7: two nights ago, and he went to sleep. I woke

1062
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 7: him up and asked why he didn't go cook for us,

1063
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 7: and he said that we need to get new ways

1064
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:52,799
Speaker 7: of doing things because cooking all hours of the night

1065
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 7: is inconvenient.

1066
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 12: This is his new thing.

1067
00:55:56,320 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 7: Everything is a minor inconvenience. Does this include me and

1068
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:02,880
Speaker 7: our marriage? I want to ask him, but I'm afraid

1069
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 7: of the answer. Seems to me like he's focused on

1070
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 7: something outside of our marriage that's more convenient for him.

1071
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 7: What's going on, Well, you left the timeline out of

1072
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 7: this letter, but it does sound like you might have

1073
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 7: something here. You might be onto something. He's no longer

1074
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 7: into you. It sounds like he's checked out of this marriage.

1075
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:26,359
Speaker 7: He's done everything to show you that he doesn't want

1076
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 7: to be with you, he doesn't want to have children

1077
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 7: with you, he doesn't want to talk to you, or

1078
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:33,239
Speaker 7: he doesn't even he's not even thinking about you. I mean,

1079
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 7: everything is an inconvenience, Like he's saying, I hate this

1080
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,840
Speaker 7: for you, because this sudden change in his behavior, it

1081
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 7: has to hurt. But you can't just sit back and

1082
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 7: allow him to treat you this way, for you to

1083
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 7: become a minor inconvenience to him. You say you don't

1084
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 7: want to talk to him because you don't want to

1085
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 7: hear the answer, but you've got to face the truth.

1086
00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 7: You've got to hear it. You've got to face this

1087
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 7: fear that you have. You've got to prepare yourself if

1088
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,879
Speaker 7: he's cheating or if he wants out. It does sound

1089
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 7: like something is going on outside of your marriage. It

1090
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 7: might be cheating, that's what it sounds like. He will

1091
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:08,440
Speaker 7: probably lie if you confront him about that, but you

1092
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:10,879
Speaker 7: need to know what's going on so you can take

1093
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 7: care of yourself. And you should be doing that of

1094
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 7: course anyway, because no matter what, you don't deserve this

1095
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 7: being a minor inconvenience to your husband in this marriage, Steve.

1096
00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 8: Whenever something is wrong in a marriage, why is the

1097
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 8: go to answer? It sounds like he's cheating, because I don't.

1098
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 8: I don't hear cheating in this letter anywhere. She didn't

1099
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 8: find no number. He ain't hanging up, He ain't she

1100
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 8: ain't changed, He ain't changed his cold, He ain't having

1101
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 8: no quiet conversations on the side nowhere. He ain't missing

1102
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 8: at night. He don't stay away for hours and come

1103
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 8: come home. I don't hear in this letter anywhere. Sounds

1104
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 8: like he cheating to me, So ladies help me? Or

1105
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 8: I don't want to say Shirley because she's had her

1106
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 8: turn with the letter and I don't want her to

1107
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:07,960
Speaker 8: interrupt me.

1108
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:14,160
Speaker 2: So just ladies help me slash Shirley. Why is it dad?

1109
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 8: As soon as something is wrong in a marriage, it

1110
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 8: sounds like cheating to me. I'll give you an example.

1111
00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:26,880
Speaker 8: I was watching this young guy on Instagram. I love

1112
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 8: this dude. I don't even know his name. He's got

1113
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 8: a beard, wireframed glasses, he wear a knit skull cap

1114
00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:36,400
Speaker 8: all the time. He was had this dude on stage,

1115
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 8: and the dude said, women, how many of you all

1116
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 8: believe in women's intuition. They all raised their hand. They said, well,

1117
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 8: then if y'all's intuition, if y'all can tell when a

1118
00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 8: man is cheating, yep, yep, they all raise their hand.

1119
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:54,439
Speaker 8: He said, Okay, then why can't you tell if he's

1120
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 8: not happy? Because this letter could be just a man

1121
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 8: that has grown discontent and unhappy with something. And that's

1122
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 8: where I think the focus should be, because it don't

1123
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,960
Speaker 8: sound to me like he's cheating. But let's go through

1124
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 8: the letter and see if I feel the same way.

1125
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 8: After I analyze the letter. Everything is a minor inconvenience

1126
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,480
Speaker 8: for my husband. I need to see if there's something

1127
00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 8: going on with him outside our household.

1128
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 2: He used to love doing everything with me.

1129
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 8: He used to initiate intimacy and afterwards he would always

1130
00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 8: get up and cook breakfast, no matter what time of

1131
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 8: day or that way.

1132
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 2: It was our little fun time.

1133
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 8: He wanted to have a lot of kids before we

1134
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 8: got married, but now he's saying he don't know if

1135
00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 8: we can afford to start a family. Okay, now, on

1136
00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:48,520
Speaker 8: a serious note, you know what that sounds like to me?

1137
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:54,800
Speaker 8: Sounds like the reality of what life really is. Is

1138
00:59:54,880 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 8: starting to sit in. See, I've seen a lot of

1139
00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 8: men lose their dreams lie along the way. You gotta

1140
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:05,160
Speaker 8: be careful, ladies, because maybe your man is losing his

1141
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 8: dream along the way from disappointments or something. So he

1142
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:12,120
Speaker 8: used to look up though everything with me, used to

1143
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:15,439
Speaker 8: initiate into me seeing all like this. She wasn't saying,

1144
01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 8: And surely's right. There's some timeline missing in here. She

1145
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 8: wasn't saying if this was before they got married, after

1146
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 8: they got married, and he wanted to have a lot

1147
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 8: of kids before we got married. Now he's saying he

1148
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 8: don't know if he can afford to start of him.

1149
01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 8: He said, the babies take up a lot of time

1150
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:31,080
Speaker 8: and on inconvenient most of the time.

1151
01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 2: That broke my heart. How can a child be inconvenient? Now,

1152
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 2: wait a minute, I'm just gonna tell you something that

1153
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 2: is a true statement.

1154
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 12: Hang on, see, well, let me.

1155
01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 2: Just put that out there. The ass is very inconvenient.

1156
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:50,880
Speaker 7: At twenty three minutes after the hour, today's Strawberry letter

1157
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 7: subject is everything.

1158
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 12: Is a minor inconvenience. We'll get back into it right

1159
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 12: after this.

1160
01:00:56,760 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 9: You're listening Morning show, all right, Come on, Steve.

1161
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:04,400
Speaker 7: Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is everything is

1162
01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:06,120
Speaker 7: a minor inconvenience.

1163
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 2: Well, like I said at the top of the show,

1164
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. At the top of this letter.

1165
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 2: You know, Shirley was saying, it sounds like he's cheating me.

1166
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 8: But I want to warn ladies, every time a man

1167
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 8: changes or and is unhappy, it doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating.

1168
01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:26,919
Speaker 8: It could be this man has become despondent, broken a bit.

1169
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 4: You know.

1170
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:31,680
Speaker 8: He could be, you know, going through some mental stuff.

1171
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:34,640
Speaker 8: You know, he got nowhere to channel his stuff. So

1172
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 8: I'm just trying to read the letter and see if

1173
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 8: that's what I see cheating or do I see something else.

1174
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 8: He used to love doing everything with me. He used

1175
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:46,920
Speaker 8: to initiate intimacy and afterwards he would always get up

1176
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 8: and cook breakfast, no matter what time of day or

1177
01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:50,959
Speaker 8: night it was. That was our little fun time.

1178
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 2: Okay.

1179
01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:54,920
Speaker 8: He wanted to have a lot of kids before we

1180
01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 8: got married. But now he's saying he don't know if

1181
01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:01,440
Speaker 8: we can afford to start a family. Something could be

1182
01:02:01,560 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 8: going on with this guy in his mindset that's making

1183
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 8: him think he ain't got his money and order yet

1184
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 8: he ain't accomplishing his dreams yet, he ain't where he

1185
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:13,640
Speaker 8: want to be yet. That could be I just want

1186
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:15,920
Speaker 8: to throw that out there. He said, babies take up

1187
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 8: a lot of time on inconvenience most of the time.

1188
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:21,880
Speaker 8: That broke my heart, because how can the child be inconvenient.

1189
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 8: I'm just gonna say something for him on this one.

1190
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 8: Right here, They ass is very inconvenient. I'm just gonna

1191
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:31,160
Speaker 8: tell you that right now. They ass is always blocking,

1192
01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 8: They in the way. I'm just gonna keep it one

1193
01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 8: hundred with you. Them babies is an inconvenience. You believe

1194
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:40,800
Speaker 8: that he just said it out loud. You just didn't

1195
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 8: like the use of the terminology. He's been saying crazy

1196
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 8: stuff like this, and I've been taking mental notes. I

1197
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:48,920
Speaker 8: asked him to go to look at TV's with me

1198
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:52,600
Speaker 8: at his favorite electronics store. He said he'd already put

1199
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 8: on his lounge and clothes, so my timing was inconvenient.

1200
01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:58,800
Speaker 2: Okay, that could be true.

1201
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 8: But if my wife tell me she gonna cat me

1202
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 8: down somewhere to buy me a new car or something

1203
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:06,480
Speaker 8: like that, I'm gonna put my damn clothes on. I'm

1204
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 8: going ahead and put something on I'm going down to

1205
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:13,480
Speaker 8: the damn stoke were going shopping for me. I'm going

1206
01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 8: down there, person, So I'll put some damn clothes on. Anyway,

1207
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 8: same thing with sex. The other night, I mentioned that

1208
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 8: we haven't had sex in a week.

1209
01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 6: A week.

1210
01:03:24,120 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 8: You ain't had sex in a week. Here, y'all doing

1211
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 8: up in there, y'all, y'all gotta go. There's on and crackit.

1212
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 8: Y'all must be in your twenties, right, Yeah, I can

1213
01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:40,000
Speaker 8: type this damn letter. Damn there once a month, you know,

1214
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:42,560
Speaker 8: and sex in a week, And.

1215
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 2: And I had this let out every damn month. That's

1216
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:50,960
Speaker 2: what you want. We ain't have sex in a week.

1217
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:53,360
Speaker 8: He said that I come to bed too late, and

1218
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 8: it's a minor inconvenience to get himself in the mood

1219
01:03:56,200 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 8: that late. Yeah, and now hear it, Nah, this is

1220
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:07,000
Speaker 8: the part of the letter that well got love. Yeah,

1221
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 8: I can't save you on this one.

1222
01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:08,959
Speaker 6: Dog.

1223
01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:11,720
Speaker 2: You know, I was with you with everything else.

1224
01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 8: But he said it's a minor inconvenience to get himself

1225
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 8: in the mood that late. It's an inconvenience to get

1226
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:22,640
Speaker 8: in the mood. Now, let me say if I can

1227
01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 8: put this so I'm not being graphic for morning radio.

1228
01:04:26,080 --> 01:04:28,760
Speaker 2: You're trying to tell me that.

1229
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 8: To get in the mood, I must get excited. You're

1230
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:40,360
Speaker 8: telling me that's an inconvenience. Boy, Bye, excite me, do

1231
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:41,360
Speaker 8: something to me.

1232
01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:42,040
Speaker 1: Watch this.

1233
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:45,040
Speaker 8: Matter of fact, I got a surprise for you. You

1234
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 8: ain't gonna be how excited. You ain't gonna be how

1235
01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:52,040
Speaker 8: excited I am. So that was the only one that

1236
01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 8: threw me. We never had this problem before. We finally

1237
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 8: did have sex two nights ago, and he went to sleep.

1238
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 8: I woke come up and ask him why he ain't

1239
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:01,600
Speaker 8: gonna cook?

1240
01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:04,120
Speaker 2: For Hell, it's hard to cook when you sleep.

1241
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:08,920
Speaker 8: You walk the damn man up and saying, why are

1242
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:11,480
Speaker 8: you gonna get cooked? Why don't you cook for because

1243
01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:15,120
Speaker 8: he sleep? That's what most men do when they get through.

1244
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 8: I ain't never got up wood and cooked. I go

1245
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:19,920
Speaker 8: to sleep, but he does.

1246
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:22,439
Speaker 2: Not no more.

1247
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:31,200
Speaker 8: And now he said that he needed to get new

1248
01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:33,960
Speaker 8: ways of doing things because cooking all hours of night

1249
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:39,760
Speaker 8: is inconvenient. This is his new thing. See I think

1250
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 8: what didn't happen here? You know how some women change

1251
01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 8: after they get married. Sometimes dudes change after they get married.

1252
01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:51,280
Speaker 8: This dude could be going through some male menopause, or

1253
01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 8: he could be going through some male hormonal disorders.

1254
01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:58,960
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't have none of that. You know,

1255
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:02,880
Speaker 2: he could if he's sick well, but if he's six though,

1256
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 2: he But if he's sick though, the cure all for

1257
01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:13,919
Speaker 2: sickness is sex. So every time I got some bad

1258
01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:15,400
Speaker 2: news from the doctor.

1259
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:21,760
Speaker 8: If you tap me and straighten me out, I'll be fine.

1260
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:26,720
Speaker 8: Everything is a mind inconvenience. Does this include me and

1261
01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 8: our marriage? I want to ask him, but I'm afraid

1262
01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:30,800
Speaker 8: of the answer. It seems to me like he's focused

1263
01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 8: on something outside.

1264
01:06:32,200 --> 01:06:34,880
Speaker 2: Of our marriage. It's more convenient for him. What's going on?

1265
01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 8: All I think you need to do is ask that

1266
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:42,880
Speaker 8: question that you are afraid of, because ain't no need

1267
01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 8: of you living behind that curtain and the veil of secrecy.

1268
01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 2: So go on and ask him. It can't get no worse.

1269
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:54,880
Speaker 8: If he tell you he got something down the street,

1270
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:57,960
Speaker 8: then let him cares ass down the street. But set

1271
01:06:58,000 --> 01:06:59,520
Speaker 8: his Car'll find all the clumbes.

1272
01:07:01,160 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 2: You ain't got the window, all right.

1273
01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 7: Poster comings on Today's Strawberry Letter. Thank you Steve and

1274
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:08,640
Speaker 7: Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. And check out

1275
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 7: the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app for

1276
01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 7: it never sounded so good. Coming up at forty six

1277
01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:17,360
Speaker 7: minutes after the our Junior Sports Talk.

1278
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:21,880
Speaker 12: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is

1279
01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 12: time now for junior and sports talk. What you got junior?

1280
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:27,720
Speaker 11: Okay, sure you know yesterday I told you all the

1281
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:31,400
Speaker 11: rules for my wife and you know how I wanted

1282
01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 11: to watch football.

1283
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:35,480
Speaker 1: Well, today is pre season, was pre practicing.

1284
01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 11: So now if you single and you're coming over here,

1285
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 11: let me just talk to the single people because you're

1286
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:43,960
Speaker 11: gonna have to have some rules as well. First of all,

1287
01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 11: the price of entry into this house to watch football

1288
01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 11: is food and beverage. You got to bring one of

1289
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:50,640
Speaker 11: the two. You're gonna have to have some to drink,

1290
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:52,360
Speaker 11: or you're gonna have to have some food, like pick

1291
01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:54,920
Speaker 11: up some wings or something, bring some water whatever.

1292
01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 1: That's the first way you're getting in here.

1293
01:07:56,720 --> 01:07:57,600
Speaker 9: Okay, I'm not mad.

1294
01:07:57,840 --> 01:08:02,040
Speaker 2: R Number two, Well not for ease. Now you're talking

1295
01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:04,600
Speaker 2: to this to other people. This ain't to your wife, right, No, No,

1296
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 2: I'm talking to other people. That's coming.

1297
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,360
Speaker 1: That's a single pick's clarity.

1298
01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, because that's just won't be clear. Bro, you're talking

1299
01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:13,560
Speaker 2: about get in there and cook some damn chicken wing.

1300
01:08:13,960 --> 01:08:16,720
Speaker 1: No, no, no, pick up something, bring some food and better.

1301
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:21,599
Speaker 11: First thing a true Now number two, there's only one

1302
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:27,760
Speaker 11: dedicated restaurant. One yeah, one bathroom. I mean, hey, if

1303
01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:29,639
Speaker 11: it's five people gotta go stand in line.

1304
01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:30,439
Speaker 1: You do it at the club.

1305
01:08:30,640 --> 01:08:31,719
Speaker 2: Hey, you do it anyway.

1306
01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 1: Just wait your turn.

1307
01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:36,120
Speaker 2: You you jumping the gun on this junior.

1308
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:39,880
Speaker 1: Just all this for preseason, preseason rules. We practicing for

1309
01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:40,360
Speaker 1: the season.

1310
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 2: We gotta pee before we go to his house.

1311
01:08:43,120 --> 01:08:44,080
Speaker 1: Just yeah, I saw how.

1312
01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:44,560
Speaker 2: I'm telling you.

1313
01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:46,639
Speaker 1: It's one dedicated restaurant.

1314
01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:47,320
Speaker 2: That's all you need to know.

1315
01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:51,320
Speaker 11: Okay, too, now here, now here we go. Whoever you

1316
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:53,640
Speaker 11: start the season with is who you stay with. In

1317
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:56,679
Speaker 11: other words, whoever you bring over here, that's your girl

1318
01:08:56,760 --> 01:08:57,639
Speaker 11: for the rest of the season.

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Speaker 1: Don't bring no new wind over here. My woman, my

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01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 1: wife gonna have time to learn names.

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Speaker 2: We're not doing that in here now.

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Speaker 11: If you with Bronco Betty, stay with Bronco Betty, Bronco. Man,

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01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:11,720
Speaker 11: you with Tennessee Trina, stay with Trines. I'm telling we're

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01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:13,519
Speaker 11: not finna do all these new people over there. My

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01:09:13,640 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 11: house is not the hook up house. My wife's single

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01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:18,720
Speaker 11: friends them not for you. You're not You're nothing to

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01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 11: mess my house up. It's already got probably.

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01:09:20,560 --> 01:09:21,559
Speaker 1: We've have no new one.

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Speaker 11: Now you got you got Cincinnati sending stay with Cincinnati, Cindy.

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Speaker 1: For the whole season.

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01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:32,479
Speaker 2: I like to I'd like to see Bronco Betty Anna.

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Speaker 11: Well, well that's what I'm about to tell you, Tommy,

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01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:36,800
Speaker 11: because we're not gonna talk about it now, make sure

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01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:38,840
Speaker 11: she find an attractive Come tell you right now.

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Speaker 2: We're not gonna talk about it. We respectful.

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01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:43,519
Speaker 11: We're not gonna talk about it while she's here. We're

1337
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 11: gonna wait to y'all leave. Then we're gonna tell you.

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01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:48,799
Speaker 11: Bronco Betty like she could play for the Broncos.

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01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:49,360
Speaker 2: You can see that.

1340
01:09:50,160 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 1: Did you see them back on her?

1341
01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:53,080
Speaker 2: The back on her.

1342
01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:57,759
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm talking about.

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01:09:57,520 --> 01:10:02,040
Speaker 11: Three points stays. She played left tackle, right tackle. Clip

1344
01:10:02,040 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 11: when she sat down.

1345
01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:05,160
Speaker 2: Her knees was in a chance. We saw that. Okay,

1346
01:10:06,520 --> 01:10:08,240
Speaker 2: just tell me, ain't gonna talk about you in your face.

1347
01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 2: Just didn't let you know. Now you ain't got the light.

1348
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:14,240
Speaker 2: People don't don't come over here with don't do chick.

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01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:16,760
Speaker 2: We don't let you in. You guys stayed with that one.

1350
01:10:17,240 --> 01:10:19,160
Speaker 1: That's did you see Cincinnati?

1351
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:22,559
Speaker 2: Sindy's edges Oh my God, missus oh my.

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01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 12: Coming over the top of the hour.

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01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:27,720
Speaker 9: Thank you for her.

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01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:31,240
Speaker 7: A woman on social media needs your advice, Steve. She says,

1355
01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:34,160
Speaker 7: should we even bother getting married? We'll talk about it

1356
01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:36,680
Speaker 7: right after this you're listening.

1357
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:38,719
Speaker 9: Morning show.

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01:10:40,640 --> 01:10:40,840
Speaker 1: Stee.

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01:10:40,920 --> 01:10:43,879
Speaker 7: This is from Ashley on Facebook. Ashley says, my boyfriend

1360
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:46,320
Speaker 7: and I have been together for over ten years and

1361
01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:49,799
Speaker 7: have two children together. We're totally committed to one another

1362
01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:53,120
Speaker 7: and have talked about getting married one day, But now

1363
01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:54,640
Speaker 7: that we're so far along.

1364
01:10:54,360 --> 01:10:56,640
Speaker 12: In our relationship, I wonder if it's even worth it.

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01:10:57,080 --> 01:11:00,320
Speaker 7: Neither of us are very religious or very conventional, and

1366
01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:03,559
Speaker 7: we both feel like we don't necessarily need a piece

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01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:07,720
Speaker 7: of paper or title to legitimize legitimize our relationship.

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01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:10,960
Speaker 12: Are we missing anything? Is there any benefit to us

1369
01:11:11,040 --> 01:11:11,759
Speaker 12: getting married?

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01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:15,320
Speaker 8: Well, the last name of the children is one of

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01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:18,040
Speaker 8: the things I would think of, and I don't want

1372
01:11:18,080 --> 01:11:20,400
Speaker 8: you to be so selfish that you don't think about

1373
01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:26,680
Speaker 8: the children, because children, really it's really nice if you

1374
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 8: can provide them with the family structure, with the family dynamics.

1375
01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:34,680
Speaker 8: This is your mommy, I'm married to mom. Mom is

1376
01:11:34,760 --> 01:11:37,160
Speaker 8: married to dad, because that kind of sets an example

1377
01:11:37,200 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 8: of what your children will see. And so, but what

1378
01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:43,919
Speaker 8: a lot of women do is you all go along

1379
01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:47,160
Speaker 8: with these We don't need a piece of paper because

1380
01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:51,439
Speaker 8: you ain't getting no ring anyway, you know. So they

1381
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:55,160
Speaker 8: all sit up here and settle for this. We don't

1382
01:11:55,240 --> 01:11:57,760
Speaker 8: seem to need it. Where'd you get that from him?

1383
01:11:59,000 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 4: Right?

1384
01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:04,120
Speaker 2: See? You know, stop stop letting people put in your space.

1385
01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:08,160
Speaker 8: They little shortcomings and beliefs, and then and then you

1386
01:12:08,280 --> 01:12:10,479
Speaker 8: gotta adapt to it if you want to be with them. No,

1387
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:13,560
Speaker 8: you always wanted to be married since you were a

1388
01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:16,000
Speaker 8: little girl. Now you have met this man and set

1389
01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:17,640
Speaker 8: up here and convinced you that you don't need a

1390
01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:20,400
Speaker 8: piece of paper. It ain't gonna make a difference. Well,

1391
01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:22,559
Speaker 8: if it ain't gonna make a difference, then let's get.

1392
01:12:22,439 --> 01:12:26,519
Speaker 1: One right, let's see yeah you know you know?

1393
01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:29,640
Speaker 8: Or or is it really that he don't want to

1394
01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:33,160
Speaker 8: do that? See, don't don't get this thing twisted?

1395
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:33,439
Speaker 2: Man?

1396
01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:36,880
Speaker 8: So is there an advantage to being Well, most people

1397
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 8: get married get divorced. That's because you're married for the

1398
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:42,080
Speaker 8: wrong reasons. You know what I've been trying to explain

1399
01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:46,320
Speaker 8: to people. Stop looking for a man that's dying to

1400
01:12:46,439 --> 01:12:49,599
Speaker 8: get you. Find you a man that's willing to die

1401
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:52,200
Speaker 8: to keep you. That's what your ass is looking for.

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01:12:52,760 --> 01:12:57,320
Speaker 8: Everybody one, Quit looking for a man that's dying to

1403
01:12:57,479 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 8: get you, and find a man that.

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01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:00,320
Speaker 2: Had died you.

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01:13:00,880 --> 01:13:03,840
Speaker 8: Y'all in be looking, y'all ain't going deep enough in

1406
01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:08,360
Speaker 8: these relationship hunts. You know everybody won't you you fine,

1407
01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:12,920
Speaker 8: you're cute, you're single. Oh okay, yeah, we dying to

1408
01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:15,160
Speaker 8: get you. But will he die to keep you?

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01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:17,519
Speaker 15: Man?

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01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:19,240
Speaker 2: You know what my mother in law told told me

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01:13:19,360 --> 01:13:19,720
Speaker 2: one time.

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01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:23,160
Speaker 8: She said, me and Bubba decided that divorce just was

1413
01:13:23,280 --> 01:13:26,360
Speaker 8: never an option, and it caused us to sit there

1414
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:29,880
Speaker 8: and work through some stuff, and you to stay married.

1415
01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:33,080
Speaker 2: You got to work through some stuff. This ain't easy, man.

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01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 8: I don't care what you see on Instagram. Ain't nobody

1417
01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:40,439
Speaker 8: got no perfect levee w relationship with just all of it. No,

1418
01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:45,800
Speaker 8: they at the house going through some things. Believe that

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01:13:46,520 --> 01:13:49,080
Speaker 8: I don't care who they are. You have bishop in

1420
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:55,040
Speaker 8: front of your name, a CEO, you can have a billionaire,

1421
01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:58,720
Speaker 8: you all that doctor? You have all I don't care

1422
01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:00,560
Speaker 8: what you got in your name. You can have a

1423
01:14:00,680 --> 01:14:04,080
Speaker 8: star your as a stall the sidewalk out there. Trust me,

1424
01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:08,280
Speaker 8: it's something in that marriage that's the challenge and you

1425
01:14:08,360 --> 01:14:09,120
Speaker 8: gotta work through it.

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01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:10,840
Speaker 12: Yeah, here's another one.

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01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:11,600
Speaker 2: Steve B.

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01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:15,040
Speaker 7: Says, I've been seeing this woman for about six months,

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01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:18,080
Speaker 7: and I think she's amazing. Because of our work schedules,

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01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:20,240
Speaker 7: we don't get to spend as much time as i'd

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01:14:20,360 --> 01:14:22,599
Speaker 7: like together, but we see each other once or twice

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01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:24,880
Speaker 7: every couple of weeks. She's quite impressive and I really

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01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:27,360
Speaker 7: think I'm falling for her. So when we get together,

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01:14:27,439 --> 01:14:30,920
Speaker 7: I find myself being overly nervous, and when we have sex,

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01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:33,720
Speaker 7: I'm sometimes so nervous that I worry I'm not going

1436
01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:35,400
Speaker 7: to be able to perform my best.

1437
01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:36,800
Speaker 12: So here's a question.

1438
01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:38,880
Speaker 7: How can I learn to relax a bit so I

1439
01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:41,439
Speaker 7: can enjoy bedroom time with my girlfriend more.

1440
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:43,840
Speaker 8: I ain't got no answer for you gonna be nervous

1441
01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:45,760
Speaker 8: just going there till you get used to it, you' bi,

1442
01:14:47,520 --> 01:14:52,040
Speaker 8: but you need some supplements you need well.

1443
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:54,400
Speaker 2: The first two times in I'll give Dann what you take.

1444
01:14:56,840 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 8: The first few times it's snap, crackle, pop baby Rice

1445
01:15:01,120 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 8: Christmas and you don't even need milk on rice Christmas

1446
01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:06,080
Speaker 8: to hear the noise. You can put tap water on

1447
01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:09,800
Speaker 8: the same thing. We just you know, it's just like that.

1448
01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:12,240
Speaker 8: You know, sometimes they'd be so fine. Dog, ain't that

1449
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:14,800
Speaker 8: you could do? It just happened for it supposed to happen.

1450
01:15:14,840 --> 01:15:17,559
Speaker 7: That's all Allo, all right, we'll have more Steve Harvey

1451
01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:19,679
Speaker 7: Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after.

1452
01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:20,599
Speaker 12: Right after now, I'm.

1453
01:15:20,439 --> 01:15:22,160
Speaker 2: Gonna tell you off what he needed to do.

1454
01:15:22,800 --> 01:15:25,479
Speaker 9: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

1455
01:15:27,560 --> 01:15:31,479
Speaker 7: All right, let's talk about fatherhood at fifty. According to

1456
01:15:31,560 --> 01:15:34,720
Speaker 7: a new study, more men are waiting until their fifties

1457
01:15:34,840 --> 01:15:38,600
Speaker 7: to start families. Researchers at Stanford University found that the

1458
01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:42,000
Speaker 7: guys getting a later start as fathers aren't all rich

1459
01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:46,240
Speaker 7: or famous. Instead, they're diverse group with different racial backgrounds

1460
01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 7: and education levels, ranging from college professors to blue collar workers.

1461
01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:53,679
Speaker 12: And so here's the question, how old is too old?

1462
01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:56,479
Speaker 7: I mean, what sounds more challenging being a father and

1463
01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:59,080
Speaker 7: chasing a baby around at the age of fifty something

1464
01:15:59,439 --> 01:16:02,680
Speaker 7: or attend your kids high school graduation while you're in

1465
01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:04,080
Speaker 7: your seventies.

1466
01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:04,280
Speaker 6: Mo for me?

1467
01:16:04,400 --> 01:16:07,559
Speaker 2: Tall, Because when you're taking the graduation picture. Everybody going

1468
01:16:07,640 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 2: to want to meet your granddaddy. That's live. When they

1469
01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:14,880
Speaker 2: find out that's your damn daddy, that's a whole enough conversation.

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01:16:16,240 --> 01:16:19,120
Speaker 8: Oh sorry, then y'all got to stop all this Me

1471
01:16:19,200 --> 01:16:21,160
Speaker 8: and me and y'all gotta stop all this waiting to

1472
01:16:21,200 --> 01:16:22,639
Speaker 8: have these kids late in life.

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01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:23,599
Speaker 2: Now, they ain't got.

1474
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:26,479
Speaker 8: Nobody walk them down the hill, ain't got nobody take

1475
01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:31,400
Speaker 8: them to the football game. Cause your answers that sitting

1476
01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:33,559
Speaker 8: up in here talking about you will never hear him

1477
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:36,160
Speaker 8: say one day I want to meet your children.

1478
01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:38,880
Speaker 2: Boy, you better hope you see his ass get out

1479
01:16:38,920 --> 01:16:39,640
Speaker 2: of kindergard.

1480
01:16:44,640 --> 01:16:48,080
Speaker 8: Robert Mayrow and all the people that put but Michael

1481
01:16:48,200 --> 01:16:51,160
Speaker 8: Doug listen, Robert, they ain't finish see nothing.

1482
01:16:51,200 --> 01:16:53,200
Speaker 2: They may not even teach this boy how to drive.

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01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:57,320
Speaker 2: They so fifteen sixteen. They're not gonna make it to

1484
01:16:57,439 --> 01:16:59,360
Speaker 2: that age. Not if you had to make. When you

1485
01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:02,320
Speaker 2: ate a hell number one, you've probably forgot how to try.

1486
01:17:03,200 --> 01:17:06,479
Speaker 7: Come up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll

1487
01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:07,360
Speaker 7: play another round.

1488
01:17:07,400 --> 01:17:09,320
Speaker 12: And would you rather right after this.

1489
01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:14,960
Speaker 9: You're listening Morning show, it is time now.

1490
01:17:14,960 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 12: For a rounded? Would you rather guys? Would you rather

1491
01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:20,920
Speaker 12: pay or get paid every time you have sex?

1492
01:17:21,400 --> 01:17:22,040
Speaker 2: Play that again?

1493
01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:25,840
Speaker 7: What would you rather pay or would you rather get

1494
01:17:25,960 --> 01:17:28,360
Speaker 7: paid every time you had sex?

1495
01:17:29,120 --> 01:17:29,240
Speaker 6: Oh?

1496
01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:30,040
Speaker 2: No, I better pay.

1497
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:32,599
Speaker 11: I better pay the stake because if I'm getting paid,

1498
01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:34,080
Speaker 11: you're gonna have some refunds in here.

1499
01:17:36,479 --> 01:17:37,599
Speaker 2: I don't want any money back.

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01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:44,200
Speaker 11: Dissatisfied customer after dissatisfied customer.

1501
01:17:44,280 --> 01:17:53,439
Speaker 12: Up, Lord, don't sit up, Tommy, pay or get paid.

1502
01:17:53,960 --> 01:17:55,800
Speaker 2: I think I'll better pay. I ain't gonna get paid.

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01:17:57,080 --> 01:18:04,559
Speaker 12: I ain't, no hope, not one nothing, All right, Steve?

1504
01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:08,200
Speaker 2: Pay well? Hell, I've been paying, So.

1505
01:18:12,240 --> 01:18:12,800
Speaker 12: We're moving on.

1506
01:18:13,160 --> 01:18:15,680
Speaker 2: We're moving on. Would you falls out and.

1507
01:18:15,760 --> 01:18:21,400
Speaker 8: Bought moves, all this and helping your children out and

1508
01:18:21,439 --> 01:18:22,519
Speaker 8: all through college all.

1509
01:18:22,439 --> 01:18:25,599
Speaker 2: This you don't know, but pay for it and watched out?

1510
01:18:25,760 --> 01:18:29,240
Speaker 2: Now here? Can't teach your old dog new tricks.

1511
01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 14: You heard that?

1512
01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:32,200
Speaker 12: Would you rather be friends with?

1513
01:18:32,400 --> 01:18:33,080
Speaker 2: Pay one for what?

1514
01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:33,479
Speaker 6: Hell?

1515
01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:36,920
Speaker 2: I'm the happiest one to be in here anyway, I

1516
01:18:37,160 --> 01:18:38,200
Speaker 2: just continue to pay.

1517
01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:39,800
Speaker 12: I'm trying to move on.

1518
01:18:41,240 --> 01:18:43,760
Speaker 7: I am Would you rather be friends with someone you

1519
01:18:43,960 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 7: love or would you rather be friends with someone you hate?

1520
01:18:47,200 --> 01:18:51,479
Speaker 2: That makes no sense? That don't make no sense. If

1521
01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:53,280
Speaker 2: I hate you, how we friends.

1522
01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:56,599
Speaker 7: You still have to be their friend. Would you rather

1523
01:18:56,920 --> 01:18:59,760
Speaker 7: would you rather be friends someone you hate friends with?

1524
01:19:01,760 --> 01:19:07,680
Speaker 10: Before you asked these, I don't make this and you

1525
01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:10,720
Speaker 10: don't want it just didn't make sense.

1526
01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:14,760
Speaker 12: But okay, okay, so you'd rather be friends with someone

1527
01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:16,479
Speaker 12: you love? It sounds like all right.

1528
01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:19,920
Speaker 7: Would you rather get rich in a way that disappoints

1529
01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:22,439
Speaker 7: your family or would you rather just make enough money

1530
01:19:22,560 --> 01:19:23,120
Speaker 7: to get by?

1531
01:19:24,800 --> 01:19:24,920
Speaker 6: Now?

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01:19:24,960 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 2: What could I be doing that's gonna disappoint them? I

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01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:29,599
Speaker 2: started that twenty five years ago.

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01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:33,599
Speaker 12: Disappointed all your family?

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01:19:36,680 --> 01:19:39,120
Speaker 2: They't They don't want me to do stand up.

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Speaker 1: They want to be something else.

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01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:43,879
Speaker 2: Oh okay, if I'm rich, to hell with everybody?

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01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:48,720
Speaker 1: You don't care what you're doing. You don't care.

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01:19:49,479 --> 01:19:51,760
Speaker 8: I'm gonna tell you right now. We can have disappointment

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01:19:51,920 --> 01:19:53,240
Speaker 8: dinners every Sunday.

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01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:54,360
Speaker 9: That's what you want.

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01:19:54,680 --> 01:19:57,720
Speaker 8: We rich, y'all can all come by the house and

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01:19:57,800 --> 01:20:01,599
Speaker 8: we can have disappointed dinners own sunday. I don't give

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01:20:01,640 --> 01:20:07,600
Speaker 8: a damn how you feel about me, man, Please, you

1545
01:20:07,680 --> 01:20:09,600
Speaker 8: think I ain't already experienced that.

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01:20:12,600 --> 01:20:15,080
Speaker 2: When you get through hating me, what do you want?

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01:20:16,280 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 9: Right?

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01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:20,720
Speaker 2: I can't stand you. I guess we can't get no

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01:20:20,840 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 2: money to you that he's sitting over there, no big

1550
01:20:22,680 --> 01:20:26,080
Speaker 2: old house. He always going on vacation. Don't never take us. Okay,

1551
01:20:26,120 --> 01:20:28,080
Speaker 2: what you want? Can I hold four hundred dollars?

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01:20:30,920 --> 01:20:32,599
Speaker 12: That's today's rounded, would you rather?

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01:20:33,320 --> 01:20:33,599
Speaker 1: Thanks?

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01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:33,880
Speaker 12: Guys?

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01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:36,240
Speaker 7: Coming up at forty nine minutes after it's our last

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01:20:36,280 --> 01:20:38,040
Speaker 7: break of the day, and we'll close out the show

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01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:40,840
Speaker 7: with the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

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01:20:41,680 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 9: You're listening Hary Morning Show.

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01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:46,680
Speaker 7: All right, guys, here we are our last break of

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01:20:46,720 --> 01:20:50,760
Speaker 7: the day on this Thursday, and Steve, I know you

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01:20:50,880 --> 01:20:51,120
Speaker 7: have some.

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01:20:51,200 --> 01:20:52,920
Speaker 12: Words of wisdom to take us out.

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01:20:54,560 --> 01:20:55,599
Speaker 2: Well, you know, oh.

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01:20:57,720 --> 01:20:59,439
Speaker 8: Just said you know, we've been talking about the voting,

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01:20:59,479 --> 01:21:01,719
Speaker 8: and that's him important. That's one of the most important

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01:21:01,760 --> 01:21:04,400
Speaker 8: things we could do in twenty twenty four. And in

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01:21:04,600 --> 01:21:09,639
Speaker 8: terms of vote politics, it's not more important than your family,

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01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:12,000
Speaker 8: It's not more important than your relationships.

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01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:12,519
Speaker 2: I got that.

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01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:15,799
Speaker 8: I'm just talking about for politically, it's the most important

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01:21:15,840 --> 01:21:20,439
Speaker 8: thing we could do. But I want to remind people

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01:21:20,520 --> 01:21:25,479
Speaker 8: about something. You know so many times, you know, I

1573
01:21:26,080 --> 01:21:30,040
Speaker 8: learned that the what am I trying to say? Just

1574
01:21:30,200 --> 01:21:38,280
Speaker 8: saying that I learn Oh, the biggest thief of joy

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01:21:39,760 --> 01:21:46,920
Speaker 8: is comparison. The biggest thief of joy is comparison. If

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01:21:47,040 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 8: you want to steal your joy, compare yourself to other people.

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01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:57,120
Speaker 8: If you want to really mess your day up, look

1578
01:21:57,200 --> 01:22:00,120
Speaker 8: at somebody doing better than you and start one and

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01:22:00,200 --> 01:22:04,759
Speaker 8: why you ain't doing that well. Comparison is the number

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01:22:04,880 --> 01:22:08,880
Speaker 8: one thief of joy because you know what, people don't

1581
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:13,720
Speaker 8: understand what you really have to do. Look, your competition

1582
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:19,120
Speaker 8: ain't other people. Your competition is you. You know what

1583
01:22:19,240 --> 01:22:24,160
Speaker 8: your competition is. Your competition is your procrastination. It's it's

1584
01:22:24,560 --> 01:22:28,559
Speaker 8: got you got to overcome delaying stuff all the time.

1585
01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:33,479
Speaker 8: That's your competition. Your competition is your negative thoughts. You've

1586
01:22:33,520 --> 01:22:36,400
Speaker 8: got to eradicate negative thoughts from your mind. You've got

1587
01:22:36,479 --> 01:22:40,559
Speaker 8: to replace that constantly with positive thoughts. All of us

1588
01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:43,600
Speaker 8: have to work on that. That's what your competition is.

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01:22:44,000 --> 01:22:48,280
Speaker 8: Your competition is your comfort zone. You got to stop

1590
01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:52,280
Speaker 8: getting comfortable in the comfort zone. You've got to challenge

1591
01:22:52,320 --> 01:22:57,080
Speaker 8: yourself to get out of the comfort zone. Now, you

1592
01:22:57,160 --> 01:23:01,759
Speaker 8: want to compete against something, competed competing against that, Compete

1593
01:23:01,760 --> 01:23:07,360
Speaker 8: against your procrastination, Compete against your negative thoughts, compete against

1594
01:23:07,360 --> 01:23:10,680
Speaker 8: your being and your comfort zone. If you compete against that,

1595
01:23:11,200 --> 01:23:14,840
Speaker 8: you can win. The obstacles that you are facing are

1596
01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:18,720
Speaker 8: not external, y'all. They are the doubts and fears that

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01:23:18,960 --> 01:23:22,440
Speaker 8: hold you back from achieving your full potential.

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01:23:23,040 --> 01:23:23,920
Speaker 2: That's what it is.

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01:23:24,160 --> 01:23:27,720
Speaker 8: Man. You got to deal with that stuff. You got

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01:23:27,800 --> 01:23:31,439
Speaker 8: to grapple with that quick worrying about other people. You

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01:23:31,600 --> 01:23:32,240
Speaker 8: gotta enough.

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01:23:32,840 --> 01:23:35,280
Speaker 2: Look listen to me. You got twenty four to seven job.

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01:23:35,400 --> 01:23:35,920
Speaker 2: Take care of you.

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01:23:37,040 --> 01:23:40,160
Speaker 8: It take everything you got to get you where you're

1605
01:23:40,200 --> 01:23:43,120
Speaker 8: trying to be. And if you're stopping to take time

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01:23:43,200 --> 01:23:46,720
Speaker 8: to address other people, all you doing is delaying your gratification.

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01:23:47,680 --> 01:23:50,840
Speaker 8: You are delaying it because you don't have time. God

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01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:55,760
Speaker 8: didn't design you for all them other people's opinions. You

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01:23:55,880 --> 01:23:58,800
Speaker 8: need to worry about one thing, you and your relationship

1610
01:23:58,880 --> 01:24:01,640
Speaker 8: with God, and that will help you with your relationship

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01:24:01,680 --> 01:24:06,719
Speaker 8: with your wife, your spouse, your partner, your children, your job,

1612
01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:12,720
Speaker 8: your coworkers, your dreams, your visions, your aspirations. The obstacles

1613
01:24:12,760 --> 01:24:16,519
Speaker 8: that you're facing, y'all, is not external. Quit letting other

1614
01:24:16,640 --> 01:24:18,840
Speaker 8: people trip you up because they not there to trip

1615
01:24:18,960 --> 01:24:24,640
Speaker 8: you up. Your competition again, is your procrastination. Your competition

1616
01:24:25,040 --> 01:24:29,320
Speaker 8: is fighting against your negative thoughts. Your competition is keeping

1617
01:24:29,400 --> 01:24:34,000
Speaker 8: yourself out your comfort zone, because convenience is built through

1618
01:24:34,040 --> 01:24:37,680
Speaker 8: a life of inconvenience. The only person you need to

1619
01:24:37,760 --> 01:24:42,920
Speaker 8: beat is the person you was yesterday. Uh oh, did

1620
01:24:43,000 --> 01:24:45,320
Speaker 8: I say something right there? I think I did. The

1621
01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:50,160
Speaker 8: only person you need to beat is the person that

1622
01:24:50,360 --> 01:24:54,360
Speaker 8: you were yesterday. If you do that, if you beat

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01:24:54,520 --> 01:24:59,440
Speaker 8: who you were yesterday, success is undeniable.

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01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:00,439
Speaker 2: Yours.

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01:25:02,080 --> 01:25:06,439
Speaker 8: Compete against yourself. Stop worrying about what everybody else got.

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01:25:07,520 --> 01:25:13,120
Speaker 8: Comparison is the biggest thief of joy, comparing yourself. Do

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01:25:13,240 --> 01:25:15,439
Speaker 8: you know, man, if you quit looking on the other

1628
01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:18,400
Speaker 8: side of the fence, you might discover that you got

1629
01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:20,479
Speaker 8: plenty on your side of the fence. Or if you

1630
01:25:20,600 --> 01:25:22,720
Speaker 8: quit looking on the other side of the fence, you

1631
01:25:22,840 --> 01:25:26,840
Speaker 8: could tend better to your side of the fence. While

1632
01:25:26,880 --> 01:25:29,200
Speaker 8: my neighbor yard got all them pretty flowers over there,

1633
01:25:29,320 --> 01:25:32,880
Speaker 8: put the flowers in your yard. You driving down the

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01:25:32,920 --> 01:25:36,599
Speaker 8: block at the homeowners association looking at everybody house look.

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01:25:36,520 --> 01:25:39,639
Speaker 2: Better than yours. Now you go back home, you unhappy.

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01:25:40,720 --> 01:25:44,280
Speaker 8: But oh okay, but you forgot the joy you had

1637
01:25:44,320 --> 01:25:47,400
Speaker 8: the day you signed for the house. You forgot the

1638
01:25:47,479 --> 01:25:51,280
Speaker 8: celebration you had when you bought your first house. Now

1639
01:25:51,320 --> 01:25:53,240
Speaker 8: you done, drove down the street and somebody bought a

1640
01:25:53,280 --> 01:25:55,800
Speaker 8: bigger house. Now you down there looking at they big house.

1641
01:25:55,880 --> 01:25:58,280
Speaker 8: Now you're going home? Now you mad pulling up in

1642
01:25:58,360 --> 01:26:04,479
Speaker 8: your faux bedroom. What women, excuse me? You mad pulling

1643
01:26:04,600 --> 01:26:08,960
Speaker 8: up in your What you mad pulling up in your

1644
01:26:09,080 --> 01:26:11,240
Speaker 8: three bedroom home that you own?

1645
01:26:12,120 --> 01:26:14,840
Speaker 2: Women? You mad pulling up in front of your full

1646
01:26:14,920 --> 01:26:16,960
Speaker 2: bedroom home that you own? Whoa wha, whoa?

1647
01:26:17,640 --> 01:26:21,200
Speaker 8: You mad pulling up in your condo that you owned,

1648
01:26:21,240 --> 01:26:23,840
Speaker 8: the two bedroom condo that you own. Do you not

1649
01:26:24,000 --> 01:26:27,759
Speaker 8: remember when you didn't have that? Do you not remember

1650
01:26:27,800 --> 01:26:31,519
Speaker 8: when there was no rooms, when you didn't own nothing,

1651
01:26:31,600 --> 01:26:33,960
Speaker 8: Remember when you had that apartment and you was renting?

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01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:35,120
Speaker 7: Man?

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01:26:35,280 --> 01:26:38,599
Speaker 8: Y'all, sometimes we trip our own self out. Quit competing

1654
01:26:38,640 --> 01:26:42,320
Speaker 8: against other people. Compete against yourself. The only person you

1655
01:26:42,479 --> 01:26:45,320
Speaker 8: need to beat is the person that you was yesterday.

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01:26:47,640 --> 01:26:50,439
Speaker 8: That's what keeps me focused. I know a lot of

1657
01:26:50,560 --> 01:26:54,000
Speaker 8: people got way more money than me, But you know what,

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01:26:54,240 --> 01:26:56,800
Speaker 8: I am so content with where I am because let

1659
01:26:56,840 --> 01:26:58,880
Speaker 8: me tell you something. You can know somebody with more

1660
01:26:58,920 --> 01:27:01,600
Speaker 8: money than you, and they be missing. I know that

1661
01:27:01,840 --> 01:27:04,320
Speaker 8: for a fact too. The only person you need to

1662
01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:07,439
Speaker 8: compete against is the person you was yesterday. Y'all have

1663
01:27:07,520 --> 01:27:10,800
Speaker 8: a nice day, all right. Be grateful for where you

1664
01:27:10,960 --> 01:27:14,360
Speaker 8: at because it's better than where you was. That's a fact.

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Speaker 8: Steve Hargmore in the show, Hey y'all talk to God today.

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01:27:17,560 --> 01:27:18,880
Speaker 8: Absolutely love to hear from you.

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01:27:19,160 --> 01:27:32,920
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