1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Camra Judge. Hi, 2 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: It's Teddy Mellencamp and tam Ra Judge. 3 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 2: Welcome back to to Teas and a Pod live from 4 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 2: Bravo con in Las Vegas. It's such a fun, busy 5 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 2: weekend and we want to make sure you get as 6 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 2: many episodes as possible, so we have a special guest 7 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 2: co host for you. 8 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: Dolores Ktana is here. Take it away, Delores. Hi. 9 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 3: Everybody, This is to Teas and it's Dolores Catania. And 10 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 3: this is part two of me and paulie'connell's engagement story. 11 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 1: And we're gonna hear talk about the future. 12 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 3: But I'm gonna give this to Paul to talk about 13 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 3: because I'm curious. Since I'm really in shock about getting engaged, 14 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 3: I need to know what Paul's idea of the future is. 15 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 1: Wow, what's next, Paul? 16 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 3: And now now, I mean, I'm going to tell you 17 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 3: the truth in front of all my friends right now, 18 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 3: because I love the two Teas people. You know, they're 19 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:02,279 Speaker 3: like my family. Okay, so I was very patient for 20 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 3: five years. Times up, what's next? 21 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: Quick? I want to do? 22 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 3: I'm not saying we have to have a full wedding, 23 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 3: but I'd like like a house that. 24 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 1: We call our own. 25 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 3: You know, I moved into your bachelor pad and I've 26 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 3: never really made any part of it mine except my 27 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 3: two te's microphone and the and the uh my, my 28 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 3: computer that I have sitting on my makeup kit. 29 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: Like I want, I want my own studio. 30 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 3: I want a big, huge closet. I want all these 31 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 3: beautiful things. Good anyway, sorry, go ahead, anything else a lot? 32 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, but no, I want, I want, I am happy. 33 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: Everything else is. 34 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 2: It's important. 35 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 3: That's why, Paul, Like, that's why I have been so patient, 36 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 3: because the most important things to me. 37 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: I've already had with you. 38 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 3: Tell me, well, you're the fact that we're best friends, companionship, 39 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 3: somebody who I see spending my life with, spending we 40 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 3: do everything to. That's a lot for me. You know, 41 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 3: I was a loner most of my life. I don't 42 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 3: know were you. 43 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 2: No, No, I don't think a loaner. I don't think. 44 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 2: I don't think a loner. But you know, i'd like 45 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 2: to have different groups of people from business and pleasure 46 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 2: and work in the gym or whatever. 47 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: I never asked you a lot about your life before me, 48 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,839 Speaker 1: And I don't know why is it better? I don't 49 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: know what is it better? I don't know. 50 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 2: You mean you know everything. 51 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: I know everything. 52 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 3: I know who you are, I know what you are, 53 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 3: the stuff you did when you were single. 54 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 2: What's the matter. 55 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 1: Well, now I'm curious. 56 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 2: This is part seven? 57 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: Okay, all right? 58 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 3: No, but moving forward, Paul. Yes, you know, I like 59 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,959 Speaker 3: a man who makes decisions. I've had to make enough 60 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 3: decisions in my life as a single mother, as an 61 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 3: independent woman. 62 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you. 63 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 3: And I don't mind passing the torch to you and 64 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 3: making decisions and things like that because I trust you. 65 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 3: I trust your taste, I trust your business sense. 66 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 1: Everything. 67 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 3: I mean, you came here A lot of people don't 68 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 3: know your background. You came here with a suitcase and 69 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 3: like twenty bucks in your pocket by yourself, and now 70 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 3: you're I feel that's how I. 71 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 2: Can't after this. I definitely feel that's how I'm going 72 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 2: home for somehow I feel. 73 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 3: And you've made such amazing strides in your life. I 74 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 3: mean the respect that you have amongst the top people 75 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 3: that I meet, and the work that you do, and 76 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 3: you have no partners. 77 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: You've done this on your own. Oh, okay, Well what 78 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: about me? 79 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 2: That's different. 80 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: Okay, so you know we've never slow danced. 81 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 2: I think I did the first few nights with you. 82 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: Oh that's different. 83 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 2: Well maybe it was just I was drunk. 84 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: I don't know it was drunk. Yeah it wasn't. 85 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 2: I was on the background. I could have been having 86 00:03:59,160 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 2: another structure. 87 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 3: Can we tell everybody how you tried to get me 88 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 3: drunk on the first day and I over drank you. 89 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: I out drank you. 90 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you can tell them. 91 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: Go for it A really quick sidebar, guys. 92 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 3: So, Paul, part of Italian girl's life is eating, a 93 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 3: part of what Irish guy's life is drinking. Like Irish 94 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 3: people live and love to drink. That is their love language. 95 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 3: Where I come from, food is our love language. So 96 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 3: there's a thing with me. I cannot get drunk, no 97 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 3: matter how much I drink. I cannot get drunk. I 98 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,160 Speaker 3: don't like the taste of liquor, but I could drink 99 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: it if I have to. And Paul thought that I 100 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 3: was lying maybe or Paul thought that he could get 101 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 3: me drunk. 102 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: And what happened Paul on our first day. 103 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 2: Well, you didn't get drunk. I thought you did. For 104 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 2: about a nanosecond, but you, yeah, you were. 105 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: How many drinks did we have? 106 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 2: I don't even actually remember, that's the thing. But what 107 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: I do remember is the kitchen island was wobbling, and 108 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 2: it wasn't it was me and you were standing looking 109 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 2: at me. But there was one one point where we 110 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 2: did a shot and you said something to me and 111 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 2: I'm like, god, I think she's fucking drunk, but like 112 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: it was not even two seconds later and you grabbed 113 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 2: me because I was falling. 114 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I out drank a dubliner, which is crazy. 115 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 2: Now what's gonna happen is when people know that now 116 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 2: they're going to try and get you to they're gonna 117 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 2: step it up. Now you gotta go. You meet an 118 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 2: Irish girl, she's gonna bang them down with you. So 119 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:34,919 Speaker 2: you're gonna have to drink the person. 120 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, it doesn't matter. If I could out drink you, 121 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 3: I'm okay. So anyway, what were we saying, So getting 122 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 3: back to like. 123 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 2: Future, we should say in that direction. 124 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,599 Speaker 3: No, So getting back to few and that's been frustrating 125 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: for you though. That's our most incompatible thing. Well, the 126 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 3: fact that I really don't. 127 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: Drink chance how because you enjoy drinking, Yeah, just. 128 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 2: Because you don't do and stuff. 129 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 3: Think I am no, but you want somebody no. 130 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 2: No, And we've had that conversation. It's listen, I opened 131 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 2: a nice bottle of wine and you have a glass 132 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 2: and then you don't want to drink the rest. I 133 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 2: end up having to drink a bottle of wine. And 134 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 2: I don't want to drink a bottle of wine. But 135 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 2: I'm not leaving a bottle of wine behind me. So 136 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 2: just that kind of thing, that's all. But other was not. 137 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 2: You're a great company when you have when if you 138 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 2: drink something, you're a great boss. 139 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I think so, I think so. So what 140 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 1: do we think about the future. 141 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:27,720 Speaker 2: I think the future is going to be so good 142 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 2: for us. I really do you know. We've been looking 143 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 2: at different things, and you know what do we both want? 144 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 2: We both want the same thing. We both want a 145 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 2: place where our children can come back to and a 146 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 2: house that we can call home. And I understand coming 147 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 2: into like a very gray, like swedy, dark townhouse that 148 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 2: may look actually cool, it is very bachelor type and 149 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 2: it doesn't make you feel warm and fuzzy. And I 150 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 2: get that, and I think, you know, I'm time to 151 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 2: move it up to light beigees and creams and. 152 00:06:57,920 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: No, not that how it's a different one. 153 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 2: So I'm saying, yeah, but we have to build somewhere. 154 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 3: Because no, Paul, I don't have time to I'm going 155 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 3: to be fifty five in December. 156 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 2: Okay, well then maybe you'll go to Caston. 157 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: We'll leave when And he's. 158 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 3: Referring to my marital home was the house that I 159 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 3: have on TV with now is a big dog house 160 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 3: at thirty two hundred square foot doghouse with seven dogs 161 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 3: and Gabby. 162 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 2: But the future is it's this and more. It's what 163 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 2: we've been true so far. And you know, obviously you 164 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 2: know looking at where where where we're going to go. 165 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 2: We've talked about like a wedding when what I would 166 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 2: like it for it to be on November tenth if 167 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 2: it's going to come around, So what year that is 168 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 2: we have to figure out. But I would definitely like that, 169 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 2: would you? 170 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: I would love that? 171 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, getting married in November is a nice time, right, So. 172 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 2: That date now is a is a good date for us, right. 173 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 3: That's an anniversary with I've never I've never, I did 174 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 3: say to you, I've never celebrated an anniversary with anyone before. 175 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 3: So now I have one to celebrate and we're going 176 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 3: to keep that number and we're going to keep that date. 177 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 2: There you go, and you're in Vegas, so use it. 178 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely. So okay, So so we're looking at a house. 179 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 3: I'm holding in two things. 180 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 2: Now, well you're looking at a house. I'm building one. 181 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 2: So we'll have to figure that part out. 182 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: Well, you better do it quick. 183 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 2: Well yeah, but obviously you know what the plan the 184 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: future holds for is is like we're always a team. 185 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 2: I mean, we are good. It's just going to get better. 186 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 2: That's what I feel this. I don't want to put 187 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 2: too emphasis of what it's going to be, what it's 188 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 2: not going to be, but I think, you know, for 189 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 2: everything that we have going on, I think we're really 190 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 2: good and we're really going the right direction. And I 191 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 2: think to all over all the things I've had and 192 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 2: things have been said and things have been doing, like 193 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:55,719 Speaker 2: we've got we've got ourselves to get through anything. That's 194 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 2: what's important. 195 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 3: So well, Paul, thanks for coming around. You've been an 196 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 3: amazing guest. You have some things, you're. 197 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 2: You're very got room to the Apple store. 198 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: I have some property to be looking at. 199 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 2: By the way. You know we have stocks and apple, 200 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 2: right we do. What do you mean? 201 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: What mean you bought socks and apple for me? 202 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 2: Well they were mine, but I guess they're hours now. 203 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: Sounds good. Your stocks just went up. Our stocks just 204 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: went up. I should say, like your slips, thank you.