1 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: And I invited you here. I thought I made myself 2 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: perfectly clear. When you're a guest to my home, you 3 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: gotta come to me empty. And I said, no, guests, 4 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:34,520 Speaker 1: your own presences, presents, and I already had too much stuff. 5 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: So how do you dare to surbey me? 6 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 2: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm Richard Wyneker. We're 7 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 2: here at the beginning of the podcast, so you know, 8 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 2: for the next hour or so, I hope you can 9 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 2: just be quiet and control yourself and listen, maybe learn. 10 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: Maybe you'll be enriched, maybe not, Maybe you'll be enraged. 11 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm reading there's a lot of road 12 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 2: rage on the roads these days. That's something to be 13 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 2: aware of. I know my audience is you know, the 14 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 2: sort of people that you know have a short fuse. 15 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 2: So if you're out there driving, try to take some 16 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:25,320 Speaker 2: deep breaths while doing so. We don't need any more 17 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 2: violence on the road. And let's get into the podcast. 18 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 2: What am I talking about here? What am I doing? 19 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 2: This is why I need to Just if I spent 20 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 2: four seconds before the podcast to think about what I 21 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 2: want to say, this would be so easy for all 22 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 2: of us. But here we are let's talk to the guest. 23 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 2: I'm thrilled about today's guest. Who wouldn't be It's Tony Hale. Tony, 24 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: welcome to I said, no gifts. 25 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. You're doing such a service 26 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 3: for your listeners and putting them in the real, meditative space. 27 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 2: It's the least I can do. 28 00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that's so kind of you. 29 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 2: Thank you. Thank you for recognizing that occasionally someone recognizes 30 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 2: the work I'm putting in. 31 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, good, you know. 32 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 2: And also a service for America's drivers. 33 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 3: Really is it? Really is? I mean, I just love 34 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 3: that you acknowledge road rage and we've all experienced it 35 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 3: and we need that voice just to say, hey, let's 36 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 3: count to. 37 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 2: Ten, count to ten. How are you as a driver? 38 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 2: Do you feel like you get angry or you fairly 39 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 2: placid on the road. 40 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 3: But if I was just a douchebag and I was like, 41 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:31,679 Speaker 3: I never get angry on the road, and just I'm 42 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 3: in such a serene space all the time. No, I 43 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 3: do get mad. But I'm also very hypocritical because if 44 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 3: somebody is in front of me and is on their 45 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 3: phone and doesn't go at the light, I'm like, oh, 46 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 3: but then I'm the guy that's on my I'm looking 47 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:51,959 Speaker 3: at something and I missed the light. So I'm always 48 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 3: I'm very hypocritical about it. 49 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 2: Of course, I feel like I'm the same way. I 50 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 2: was trying to get to the bottom of why road 51 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 2: rage works or why it happens to so many people recently, 52 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 2: and is there some sort of do you think some 53 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 2: sort of adrenaline happening because we're behind this giant weapon 54 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 2: and so our brains are just kind of low level 55 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 2: adrenaline and we're ready to snap at any moment. 56 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think there's also kind of a free control 57 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 3: or a free thing where you don't know the people. 58 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 3: So maybe it's a way to act out and anger 59 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,239 Speaker 3: to people that you wouldn't normally act out. And every 60 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 3: day so it's like people that are really calm, and 61 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 3: when you get the car, it's like, this is my 62 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 3: chance to like attack. But my daughter just got her 63 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 3: driver's license. 64 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 2: Oh my god, so I'm a little bit. 65 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 3: Uh that's I'm a little bit in anxiety space about that. 66 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 2: Have you had to do like her, like hours or whatever? 67 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 2: How does getting a driver's license even work at this point? Yeah? 68 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 3: I mean, good question, because when I was a kid. 69 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 3: I feel like I took a test and then I 70 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 3: was I was so stoked about getting my license and 71 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 3: having that freedom. And now thankfully you have to you 72 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 3: have to go on these kind of three lessons with 73 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 3: a driver, and you have to do a certain number 74 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 3: of hours, and then you also, of course have to 75 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 3: take the test. And but my my pitch to the world, 76 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 3: just like you're giving meditation practices, my pitch is I 77 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 3: don't think people should be able to drive until they're 78 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 3: like eighteen. I think sixteen is still pretty young. So 79 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 3: seen as a child, it's a child, and so so 80 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 3: I'm a little bit nervous about it. But you know, 81 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 3: there's a lot of lessons that I'm trying to learn 82 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 3: of releasing control. 83 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I am still an absolute danger to everyone on 84 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 2: the road. I've been driving for decades, well not well, 85 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 2: I guess decades at this point. And still I'm not 86 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 2: qualified to be behind this heavy of a piece of machinery. 87 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 3: Well, thank you for letting us know. No, I but 88 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 3: my thing is, I was talking to my wife about 89 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 3: this that to your point, I've had decades of experience, 90 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 3: you've had decades secutives, So I've learned this kind of 91 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 3: different set of eyes where I notice the defense of driving, 92 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 3: and I noticed is something so like you just subconsciously 93 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 3: are very aware of that. But you put a sixteen 94 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 3: year old on the road, you know they don't have 95 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 3: that exercise muscle yet. And so I think that's because 96 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 3: it's all about defensive driving, it's not necessarily I mean, 97 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 3: that's I think eighty percent of it. 98 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm definitely an offensive driver. I feel like I'm 99 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 2: just probably making everyone furious. And I'm how is that? 100 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:26,159 Speaker 3: How do you think that looks? 101 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 2: I think it's a lot of you know, varying speeds, 102 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 2: never quite knowing what speed I should be going, but 103 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 2: spatially I never know where the car is in relation 104 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 2: to my body, so I'm not quite sure if I'm 105 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 2: in the lane. Ever, I just recently I think and 106 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 2: maybe this is just a red flag for my mental 107 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 2: satan general. I completely I can't believe I've been saying this. 108 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 2: If my boyfriend listens to this, he's going to be 109 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 2: so mad. Drove through a red light completely oblivious? 110 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 3: Sure, that's scary. Yeah. Do you like all the new 111 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 3: bells and whilst of cars that kind of help you 112 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 3: in terms of spatial awareness? 113 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 2: Do my car. Let's say I got my newest car, 114 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,239 Speaker 2: I believe in twenty eighteen. So it has like backing 115 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 2: up sensors and all this sort of thing, which is 116 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 2: very good. But need I need a sensor everywhere on 117 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 2: the car. The front of the car is where I 118 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:24,239 Speaker 2: needed the most. I'll drive up against those little cinder 119 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 2: blocks that they'll put in parking lots. I'm frequently in 120 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 2: danger of running up against walls and cars in front 121 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 2: of me. 122 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 3: That's interesting you say that because you know how people 123 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 3: You meet people in life and they just stand a 124 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 3: little too close to you and you're like, wow, man, 125 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 3: like let's let's have some proximity issues. But I feel 126 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 3: like I'm that way with my car, Like I'll be 127 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 3: trailing a car and not but not not intentionally. I 128 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 3: just have this I'm really close right and you know 129 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 3: they're like, he's back, man, But I just I'm not 130 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 3: aware of it. You know. 131 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 2: So you're you're a tailgater. 132 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 3: I'm a tailgater. I can't find it the scene in life, 133 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 3: so I find it with my car. 134 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 2: See. See, that's the big difference between you and I 135 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 2: is I am about nine cars behind every car in 136 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 2: front of me, and that probably speaks to how I 137 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 2: operate in the world. Everyone's just at a constant distance. 138 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 3: Even in your car. No one's going right, no. 139 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 2: One's getting close. And then you know, my boyfriend will 140 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 2: be like, why can't you just pull up in the driveway, 141 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 2: and I'll say I did, and then I'll get out 142 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 2: of the car and they'll be like four feet in 143 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 2: front of me. So I need to get the little 144 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 2: sensor on the front of the car. Have you been 145 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 2: in a car accident? 146 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 3: Oh? 147 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 4: I have. 148 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 3: I was thinking sometimes they have those tennis balls you 149 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 3: can hang from the ceiling. My grandpa would do this, Yeah, 150 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 3: and they know you know exactly where to stop. 151 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 2: Right, And I think that's probably what I need, because 152 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously this is genetic. This is obviously at 153 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 2: least going back to my grandfather being able to pull 154 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 2: into the garage. 155 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 3: And I'm so glad we discovered this. 156 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: At last. 157 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 3: But I have been in a wreck. I was in 158 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 3: a recon, I was in irec in high school, and 159 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 3: then I had a lot of fender bidders and nothing. 160 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 3: I mean, there's actually other things that are much worse, 161 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 3: but like that feeling when metal crunches against metal and 162 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 3: you just oh, it's everything rushes to your body and 163 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 3: you're just like, why what did I just do? And 164 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 3: you don't know what the next you know what the 165 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 3: personality is going to be that's coming out of the 166 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 3: other car when you have to talk to them. It's 167 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 3: just it's a horrible place. 168 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. I was in a car accident in October of 169 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 2: twenty twenty and for the first, I think for the 170 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 2: first time in my life, I was rear ended and 171 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:39,680 Speaker 2: it was horrifying. And then the guy was so nice. 172 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 2: It was just it was a very good Los Angeles 173 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:45,679 Speaker 2: interaction of both men just kind of apologizing to each 174 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 2: other for something nice. Neither person's fault. I found out 175 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 2: his middle name was Mallory, which I thought was an 176 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 2: interesting middle name. Okay, such a sweet person. And then 177 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 2: you know, just apology after apologology and then the insurance 178 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 2: covered it. Should I have been more aggressive towards the 179 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 2: insurance company, probably I probably could have gotten up free 180 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: like trip to the physical therapist or something. And I 181 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 2: didn't do it. 182 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, well good for you. You didn't abuse it. 183 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 2: I didn't abuse it. I allowed them to abuse me. 184 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 4: And And was that just that made me think of 185 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 4: like was Mallory growing pains was that the it might 186 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 4: be it might Justine Bateman's was that her characters. 187 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 2: He may have been named Mallory. That feels right to me. 188 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 189 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 2: Uh, And maybe this guy was given the middle name 190 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 2: of Justine Bateman's character named after her. Yeah, you know, 191 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 2: what's your middle name? Russell Russell? Is that a family name? 192 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 3: It is? It is? And I think I want to 193 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 3: say the fact that I'm even confused by this and 194 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 3: I'm fifty one years old, is I want to say 195 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 3: I was. I don't know who I was named after, 196 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 3: but I think it might be my mom's brother who was. 197 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 3: We've never really had much of a connection with so 198 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 3: and we don't even know if he's I don't know. 199 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 3: It was a it was a complicated history. We don't 200 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 3: know if he's alive right now. But he was. He 201 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 3: had a lot of he had a lot of he 202 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 3: gonna have a trouble passed and so I think that 203 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 3: I think I was named after him. 204 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:25,319 Speaker 2: Was he lost at sea? What? 205 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:30,960 Speaker 3: No? I think he was in prison for akay and uh, 206 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 3: but yeah, we just I don't know. We don't hear 207 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 3: a lot about Russell. 208 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 2: Well Russell. If you're out there listening to he is. 209 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 3: I don't think he is. 210 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 2: Don't count him out, Tony. We can change, We can 211 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 2: find new podcasts. 212 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:47,559 Speaker 3: That is true. 213 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 2: That is true, regardless of being lost at sea or 214 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 2: trapped in the prison system. Middle names are so interesting 215 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 2: to me. I feel like people need to go more 216 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 2: wild with middle names. I mean, I think Mallory is 217 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 2: an excellent middle you know, because it's kind of the 218 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 2: secret you get to keep. Yeah, and Mallory is such 219 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 2: a great middle name. 220 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,839 Speaker 3: But what's your full name? Because you have such an interesting. 221 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 2: Bridger, Eric Winnecker and Eric Is. 222 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 3: They went basic in the middle, extremely. 223 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 2: Basic and also not, as far as I know, not 224 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 2: a family name. I don't know where my parents plucked 225 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 2: that out. I mean, it's very good for coffee orders 226 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 2: and yeah, you knows. But Eric, it it sounds like 227 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 2: a jock. 228 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 3: Well you look, I see you as a jock Bridger. 229 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 3: I first of all, at first, I want to apologize, 230 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,599 Speaker 3: probably for this last two years, for you having Bridgerton 231 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 3: on Netflix and you having to deal with that influx 232 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 3: of comments. 233 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 2: So Seanda sent you here. 234 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 3: She did, she did to apologize, to apologize. My my 235 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 3: niece's name is Adele and she said probably for the 236 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 3: past five years. She's so tired of people saying, oh 237 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 3: my gosh, do you I love Adeldo. She's like, come on, 238 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 3: this is it's everything just turned once she got famous. 239 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a rough spot to be in. Bridgerton weirdly 240 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 2: has not I think, for if nothing else, it's just 241 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 2: really normalized my name, and it's people still struggle with Bridger. 242 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 2: It's still I say, people come into any conversation ready 243 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:23,719 Speaker 2: to not understand what your name sounds like. So regardless 244 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 2: of the situation, people are still like Badger, Richard, god Badger, Budger. 245 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 2: They refused to despite the fact that bridget is a 246 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:36,079 Speaker 2: pretty common name. Bridger throws people for a loop. 247 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 3: And what's the origin of that. 248 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 2: There was a mountain man named Jim Bridger who was 249 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 2: kind of in the mountain west of the United States. 250 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 2: I believe, and I could be wrong, and I've probably 251 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 2: said it on this podcast before, but I believe he 252 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 2: was like the first white person to discover the Great 253 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 2: Salt Lake. And uh, also I believe he thought it 254 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:00,959 Speaker 2: was part of the Pacific Ocean, which is actually kind 255 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:05,599 Speaker 2: of embarrassing for everybody, just kind of a dumb discovery. 256 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 3: So there's shame attached to your name. 257 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 2: There's a lot of shame. I think that's where most 258 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:10,839 Speaker 2: of my shame springs from. 259 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 3: Well, my uncle's in prison and we've never met. He's alive, 260 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 3: so Uncle Russ, so we're in the same book. 261 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 2: Uncle Russ is sort of your Jim Bridger. But yeah, 262 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 2: and my real trouble continues to be my last name, 263 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 2: which is almost impossible for anyone to pronounce it. There 264 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 2: are people close in my life who still say Winnegar 265 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 2: if Shonda is willing and Shanda, I know you're out 266 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 2: there like a Winegarville. 267 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 3: What is She literally just sat right next to me and. 268 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 2: Just gotus to speak. Yeah, Shanda, I'm ready to pitch 269 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:52,439 Speaker 2: Winegerville winegar City, just to get the pronunciation out there, 270 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 2: some sort of juicy soap Tony, we're just talking about 271 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 2: the pronunciation of my name. Who cares? How are you doing? 272 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 3: I care? I'm good, I'm good, I'm I have a 273 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:07,959 Speaker 3: weird rash on my own. 274 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 2: Do you have any idea what's causing that? 275 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 3: I don't Bridger serious rash. I it just kind of 276 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 3: popped up and I'm at you know, every now and 277 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 3: then I'm I used to have eggs, okay, I used 278 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 3: to us to have as a kid, And I'm like, 279 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 3: is it exema? Is it all allergic to? Is it 280 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 3: like a fungal infection? I don't know, man, I don't 281 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 3: know how long has it been there? It's been here 282 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 3: a couple of days and then today it went to 283 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 3: a dry place. Oh no, so maybe, but that's not 284 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 3: as bad because at least it's not ivy and so 285 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 3: I don't know if it's something I ate. So if 286 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 3: we could, you can all bring seanan, if you bring 287 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 3: a doctor on that we could. 288 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 2: My dermatologist is in the which, by the way, I. 289 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 3: Love nowadays you can you can do this over zoom 290 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 3: and you can just show them the rash. 291 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 2: How do you feel about that? Though? I feel like 292 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 2: I think I need a dermatologist to get hands on 293 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 2: with me. 294 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 3: I hear that. I do hear that, because you definitely 295 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 3: they can. They can really look at that mole or 296 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 3: they can really get specific. Hear it? Right? 297 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 2: So how long has this been on your arm? 298 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 3: Four days? Thank you for asking. 299 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 2: I'm going to diagnose it. This is a I. 300 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 3: Don't know if you can see it? Do you see it? 301 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:21,239 Speaker 2: It is a little pink there and that's over zoom 302 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 2: so and it's also. 303 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 3: It's also on this arm right. Oh, I don't know 304 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 3: if it's like a sweat thing because if I don't 305 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 3: know if you've noticed, Bridget, but I've been working out 306 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 3: a little bit and. 307 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 2: I'm just going to get around to that. 308 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you, and so I don't know if 309 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 3: it's like a sweat thing, but you know it'll work 310 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 3: itself out. 311 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 2: Well, if it's on there for more than five days, 312 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 2: I want you to see a doctor. 313 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you. 314 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 2: I mean adult on set em once you kind of 315 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 2: got away from it as a child that's got to 316 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 2: be upset. 317 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, Well I was that kid that I had it 318 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 3: all in my had asthma and exzema. I was like 319 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 3: I would be like subconsciously scratching my legs and all 320 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 3: this kind of stuff, and it was just it was 321 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 3: the worst. However, when I was in and now listen 322 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 3: to this as I'm talking Bridger, I'm having a realization 323 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 3: of something that I could activate in terms of my diet. 324 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 3: Because when I was a kid, I or in my twenties, 325 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 3: I started to take out as much dairy and kind 326 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 3: of wheat products and my exima calmed down. Okay, And 327 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 3: maybe lately I've gotten into some more wheat or dairy 328 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 3: that I shouldn't, So. 329 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 2: I mean, let's let's talk about it. What have you 330 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 2: been eating? 331 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 3: But if that was like a banana split now. 332 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 2: In between two beautiful pieces of bread. 333 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 3: Between two Holi breads, I don't know. I'm sure I 334 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 3: did have a make flurry the other night, but I 335 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 3: don't think that was the cause of it, even though 336 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 3: that is full dairy, because I had it, I had 337 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 3: the rash before I have the mcflurry. I do love mcflury. 338 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:04,680 Speaker 3: I don't know if if you've ever had it. 339 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 2: I haven't had a mcflury since about two thousand and four. Oh, 340 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 2: I don't know why. 341 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:13,679 Speaker 3: It's so delightful. It is so. I mean, I'm from Tallahassee, Florida, 342 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:16,160 Speaker 3: so I'm from the land of chain restaurants, and I 343 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 3: really love a good chain restaurant dessert, and I love 344 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 3: the mcflurry. 345 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 2: Well, look, I'm from Utah, which is also very chain 346 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:29,159 Speaker 2: oriented and also very ice cream dairy treat oriented. But 347 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 2: the mcflury, for me, I think I need more of 348 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 2: a drinkable dairy treat like a milkshake. 349 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 3: Oh, like an in and out shake. 350 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 2: I'll do in in and out shake. I need. Yeah, 351 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 2: I don't want to be spooning it into my mouth. 352 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:43,640 Speaker 3: Oh you just like it through the straw. 353 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 2: Right almost. I need it as quickly and as easily 354 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 2: as possible. 355 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 3: So you don't like a frosty from Wendy's. It's I don't. 356 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:55,680 Speaker 2: Mind a frosty, but it's got to be the smallest 357 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:58,919 Speaker 2: one that they give you with the kid's mail, you 358 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 2: know they have, like the one there's so. 359 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 3: Different than me, and that's just not enough. It's not enough. Wow, 360 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 3: good for you. Well you, I guess that you really 361 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 3: don't like a blizzard. A blizzard is really too thick. 362 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 2: A blizzard is uh, you know almost I'm almost choking. 363 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 2: It feels like a danger to me physically. So yeah, blizzard. 364 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 2: I appreciate the general concept, and I love the idea of, 365 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 2: you know, putting some things into the ice cream and 366 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 2: whipping it up. Some teenager doing that for me. 367 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, but ultimately turning it upside down. 368 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 2: The turning it upside down is exciting. Yes, a little stressful. 369 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 3: I thought you were about to say something negative about 370 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 3: it and I was to take it upset, but it 371 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:45,360 Speaker 3: sounds like you went with exciting. 372 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 2: What do you put in your what do you get 373 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 2: in your mcflurry? 374 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 3: Thank you for asking, Richard. I really like my from 375 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:55,400 Speaker 3: my well, from my mcflury, I like and Minem mcflury. 376 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:59,439 Speaker 3: And for dairy Queen, I like a heath Bar. 377 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:04,360 Speaker 2: Blizzard, Tony. What you're saying right now, I am absolutely 378 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 2: not on board with. Both of those things are hard 379 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 2: to begin with, and you get them in a cold 380 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 2: ice cream they are you're gonna chip a tooth. 381 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 3: Well, let me tell you right, this is why you're 382 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 3: so sent Bridger, because you just don't You don't indulge 383 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 3: in what I indulge in. When it comes to desserts. 384 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 2: You're giving yourself like a hike through an arctic situation 385 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 2: with your mouth that I love it. What are you 386 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 2: talking about? 387 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 3: You say hike through a mount I say a party, 388 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,880 Speaker 3: a celebration on the tongue. 389 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. Do you like a milkshake? Do you 390 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:40,640 Speaker 2: ever drink a milkshake? 391 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 3: I like you in and out. I like the chocolate 392 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 3: and the vanilla mixed. 393 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 2: Oh interesting, Okay, so you. 394 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 3: Can go through whatever chain restaurant you like to, and 395 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 3: I will find a dessert that I like. Cheesecake factory Killer. 396 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 2: That's like cheesecake factory. 397 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 3: It's a catalog of a menu. It's like it's like, 398 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 3: it's like, what do I like cruise ships because it's 399 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 3: just like a cheesecake factory on water. It's just constantly 400 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 3: just one buffet, huge portion after the next. 401 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 2: I can't do it. I can't do it. I needed 402 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 2: everything to be as minimal as possible. I need like 403 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 2: three choices. 404 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:19,919 Speaker 3: So I wish I wasn't that point. I wish I 405 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 3: wasn't that viewpoint. 406 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 2: Well, but it sounds like you're having a wonderful time 407 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 2: that what you're describing to me is just a tornado, 408 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 2: an absolute tornado of anxiety and decision making that I 409 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,879 Speaker 2: need somebody to have basically narrowed it down for me 410 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 2: before I even get there. 411 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 3: And I love that. I'm throwing out this huge smorgasport 412 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 3: of everything I love. And then I'm like, can I 413 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 3: don't know what these rashes are on my body? 414 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 2: Oh my god? Well, I mean, speaking of things I 415 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 2: don't like. Look, you agreed to be on this podcast 416 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 2: a little while ago, and I was so happy. I 417 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 2: was thinking, well, that's very nice. Of course, we love 418 00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:00,360 Speaker 2: Tony Hale. It's going to be a fantastic time. How 419 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 2: could anything possibly ever go wrong. There's no chance that 420 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:11,639 Speaker 2: he would come on with controversial dessert takes, uh, you know, 421 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 2: any situation that would make me uncomfortable. And so I 422 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,200 Speaker 2: just thought, we'll have a good time. We'll record an 423 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:22,639 Speaker 2: hour two three of audio and release it and everyone 424 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 2: will walk away unharmed. So I was a little surprised 425 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:31,439 Speaker 2: podcast is called. I said, no gifts. And earlier this morning, 426 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,639 Speaker 2: I was in your neighborhood and I thought, you know, 427 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:37,439 Speaker 2: I'll pass by your house on occasion, go through the 428 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 2: trash on other occasions, And. 429 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:43,160 Speaker 3: Okay, are you my uncle Russell. 430 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 2: Tony? It's me Russ. 431 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 3: You're younger than me. How is this possible. 432 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 2: I'm traveling through time? No, I was. I was outside 433 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 2: your house and uh, you know, just kind of trying 434 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 2: to mind my own business. And I rolled down the 435 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,679 Speaker 2: window and someone came out and handed me a bag, 436 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:06,679 Speaker 2: and I thought, oh, this is interesting. This isn't my 437 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 2: normal trip past Tony's house. This is different. Something's different. 438 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 2: There's something in the air. 439 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 3: This is a Tuesday, this is the other day, Yes. 440 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 2: And so I you know, I thought, well, Tony'll be 441 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 2: on the podcast later today, maybe I can get some answers. Then, 442 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 2: so I drove home in that streaming. I know, but 443 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:34,359 Speaker 2: life surprises us. It really does coincidence. You know, we 444 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:38,120 Speaker 2: never quite know what's happening. But you know, I drove 445 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 2: back home in an absolute rage, screaming at you at 446 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 2: other drivers. Got into the house, cooled down, had had 447 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 2: a glass of water, went to lunch, chatted with some friends. 448 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:57,439 Speaker 2: They suggested, you know, confront Tony, which I was planning 449 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 2: to do anyway. So is this a gift for me? 450 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,879 Speaker 3: That is a gift for you? Oh? Interesting, that is 451 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 3: a gift for you. Have you opened it yet? I haven't. 452 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 2: I have this bag here. 453 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 3: Oh I'm excited. 454 00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 2: I'm happy to open it here on the podcast if 455 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:13,120 Speaker 2: that's what you'd. 456 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 3: Like, I'd love to because I'd love to share it 457 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 3: with you while you see it. 458 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:36,439 Speaker 2: Okay, And I will say, this is a nicely wrapped bag. 459 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,400 Speaker 2: It's like a little brown It's not a grocery bag. 460 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 2: It's kind of a grocery adjacent, but it's obviously a 461 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 2: gift bag. 462 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,919 Speaker 3: I'd say it's a little bit it's a trendy gift bag. 463 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,879 Speaker 2: Yes, it's like it's just a nice brown bag with 464 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 2: some blue tissue which we'll pull out. 465 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 3: There a blue tissue that I got at Target. 466 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 2: I've recently been told I can't open the gift as 467 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,479 Speaker 2: close to the microphone as I've done in the past. 468 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,360 Speaker 2: Our audio engineer a freaked out. 469 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:05,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, however, I think you should have an ASMR episode 470 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,360 Speaker 3: of all your gift giving opening that all people might 471 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 3: like that we should. 472 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 2: We should do a mega mix where we just get 473 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 2: the crinkles from one hundred episodes. 474 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, because you're not going to get Target tissue paper 475 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 3: from the others. 476 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,159 Speaker 2: Okay, let's I'm going to pull this out. We'll get 477 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,640 Speaker 2: some tissue. I'm not looking at the gift yet. I'm 478 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 2: feeling I'm feeling we're unwrapping. I like to just get 479 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 2: it completely out before I even see the gift. I 480 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 2: get it, I get your surprise value. 481 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 3: What. 482 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 2: Okay, So this is what I've just opened. Is either 483 00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:46,880 Speaker 2: a hat or a bowl. It's a bull Okay, it's 484 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 2: like kind of a woven bowl. It's a rope ball, 485 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:51,679 Speaker 2: a rope bowl. 486 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:53,200 Speaker 3: I made that for you. 487 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 2: That that can't possibly be true. 488 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:57,639 Speaker 3: No, I made that for you because they well the 489 00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,719 Speaker 3: listeners can sit there as you see, they said your 490 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 3: favorite color is green. Yes, so I painted that rope. 491 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 3: And then if you look on the tag initial. 492 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 2: You actually made this for me as my initials on it. Yes, 493 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 2: this is such a professional looking product. 494 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 3: I really enjoy making rope bowls. It's like adative practice 495 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 3: for me. 496 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:22,119 Speaker 2: What I mean this is a listener first, I just 497 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 2: want to tell you this looks like it was made 498 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 2: by a machine, and not in a bad way. 499 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 3: I'm a pretty emotionless person, so that makes sense. 500 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 2: This looks like it was created by an AI program 501 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 2: designed to kill at tracks. No, but it's like it's 502 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 2: first of all, about a week ago I was asked 503 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:48,440 Speaker 2: what my favorite color was. No one was with no context. 504 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,879 Speaker 2: So this was made within a week. This looks to 505 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,119 Speaker 2: me like a product that would take me decades, and 506 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 2: I'm not getting decades of work to do now. 507 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 3: This is I really Okay, So I really love doing 508 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,439 Speaker 3: rope bulls. There's a lady named Shauna who gave me 509 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,679 Speaker 3: a rope bowl. Okay. Was shooting the show I do 510 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 3: now called Mysterious Beneticts Society. I shot it last year 511 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 3: in Vancouver during the pandemic, and this lady, same Shauna, 512 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 3: gave me a rope bull and I started getting really 513 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 3: fascinated with it. And so then I youtubed did and 514 00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 3: just spent a lot of time. And then making rope 515 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 3: balls became like my pandemic kind of meditative practice, right, 516 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 3: And I love giving them, and so I love to 517 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 3: find out the color, and then I love to paint it. 518 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 3: I'm not I don't, I'm not a painter, but I 519 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 3: love to. I think I love painting, right, And then uh, 520 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 3: and then you you there's a whole practice of making 521 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:42,679 Speaker 3: the bowl, almost like a little bit like pottery, molding 522 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 3: the bowl. And then I bought a letter press for 523 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,400 Speaker 3: leather and just went to town and I love it. 524 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:54,800 Speaker 2: So, okay, I have a number of questions. First of all, 525 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 2: so this is entirely self taught through YouTube? Is that right? 526 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,399 Speaker 3: And my friend Shawna cause she would I would, I would, 527 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 3: she would send me a little videos of her making one, 528 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,679 Speaker 3: and then uh, and then so I would study that 529 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 3: and then I would get on YouTube and I would 530 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 3: just kind of learn the technique and I just really 531 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 3: love it. I make purses to well. I made a 532 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 3: purse from my daughter went to like a Christmas formal 533 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 3: was it a Christmas form or something kind of? It 534 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 3: was like a dance at her school, and so I 535 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 3: made a little rope ball or not rope ball, but 536 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 3: a rope purse, and then I engraved leather thing her 537 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 3: initials and then the dance. It was really fun. 538 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 2: This is incredible? 539 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:33,919 Speaker 3: Is it? 540 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,439 Speaker 2: Was it difficult to learn or did it just come 541 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:37,119 Speaker 2: naturally to you? 542 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 3: It was difficult to learn, But once I got the 543 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,400 Speaker 3: knack of it, it it's just like I love it. It's 544 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,640 Speaker 3: taken over my dining room. My wife's not crazy about it. 545 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:49,200 Speaker 2: Market in there. 546 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like leather and leather embosser and paint and stuff. 547 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 3: But and it's just really I put on these headphones 548 00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 3: that you're looking at right now, use and then just 549 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:01,400 Speaker 3: go to town. 550 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 2: So how long does like did this bowl take you 551 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 2: to make? 552 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 3: That took about I'd say two. Well not, it's like 553 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 3: one day you do the painting, you let that dry, 554 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 3: and then you sow the rope and then you emboss 555 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,760 Speaker 3: You cut the leather, then you emboss it, and then 556 00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 3: you kind of let that and then you you kind 557 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 3: of sometimes you have to stay in the leather. But 558 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,679 Speaker 3: I liked the natural letter against the greens, right. That 559 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,200 Speaker 3: was then I just kind of put a like a 560 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 3: finish on that. 561 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 2: And so you paint the rope when it's still unspooled. 562 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:36,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I set up my backyard. Now this is 563 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 3: turning sad. Now now it's turn of like crazy person. 564 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 3: So I take the rope, I click it on one side, 565 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 3: and then I connect it to the chair, and then 566 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 3: I just painted like strung out right, and my daughter 567 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 3: is inside with her friend just like, oh God, don't 568 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 3: go outside, don't go outside, Please, don't go outside and 569 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 3: see what my dad's doing. And then yeah, so that's 570 00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,920 Speaker 3: when I painted. And then that dries, and then when 571 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 3: it's and then I get really exciting because when it dries, 572 00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 3: like typically the next day, I get to pull it 573 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 3: off the thing and then I kind of spoil it 574 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 3: a little bit, and then I bring it into the 575 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 3: dining room into the workshop and then and that's where 576 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 3: I sew it. 577 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 2: And how long of a piece of rope did this take. 578 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 3: I think that was probably like fifty fifty yards. And 579 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 3: then if you see there's also on the other side, 580 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 3: there's like a little logo do you see that. 581 00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:25,000 Speaker 2: Yes, I was going to ask about this. It's like 582 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 2: kind of a mysterious number combination. 583 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, that is based on a scriptured number six twenty 584 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 3: four through twenty six, And it's a blessing of God. 585 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 3: May the Lord bless you and keep you and pick 586 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 3: us make us face out upon you. So it's a 587 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 3: blessing to you that God wills. 588 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:41,959 Speaker 2: It's kind of like the bottom of an in and 589 00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 2: out cup. 590 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, but hopefully not as Yeah, I don't even know 591 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 3: what that scripture is as. 592 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 2: I'm not quite familiar with it either. Hopefully it's a 593 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,959 Speaker 2: good scripture. Well, this is so wonderful. So one hundred 594 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 2: this is essentially one hundred and fifty feet of rope? 595 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 3: Is I would know that's fifty fifty? Oh you're right, Sorry, No, 596 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 3: you're right, fifty yards fifty fifty fifty feet. 597 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 2: Of rope, fifty feet of rope. Yes, Because I was 598 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 2: going to say just one hundred and fifty would be extreme. 599 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 3: That would be extreme. Then you'd be like, Okay, now 600 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 3: he's lying. 601 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 2: I'm measuring your backyard in my head, I'm trying to 602 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 2: figure out how much room you're working with. 603 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I have a square ruler and then I'll 604 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 3: take rope that I get and then I'll wrap it 605 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 3: and get fifty feet and then cut it and that 606 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 3: that kind of makes about that size. 607 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:29,960 Speaker 2: Bawl. 608 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 3: Now, if I want to do like a big rope 609 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:36,720 Speaker 3: kind of hamper, which I'm working on now, then I 610 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:39,000 Speaker 3: have to kind of get then I have to get 611 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 3: a lot obviously a lot more rope. And my wife 612 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 3: last night because she wanted to see if I could 613 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 3: do a hamper, and so it was it's kind of 614 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 3: a disaster and it's not working out. But she says, well, 615 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 3: I don't think that's the size. I'm like, just let 616 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 3: me please, I'm trying to I'm in a test ground. 617 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,520 Speaker 2: Please, So like, for a hamper, for example, are you 618 00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 2: using like a mold or you just I can't even 619 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 2: as someone who, as I've said before, is so horrible spatially, 620 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 2: I don't even understand how you begin to visualize how 621 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:07,680 Speaker 2: this should work. 622 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 3: Well you, uh, okay, So if it's a hamper, you 623 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 3: kind of think about what the base of a hamper 624 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 3: you want it to be. So if you look at 625 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,600 Speaker 3: the bottom of that bowl, the area that's flat, that 626 00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 3: would be probably the base of the hamper, and then 627 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 3: you would begin to turn it to where it would 628 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 3: do that. So like that that small circle. When I 629 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 3: started to turn it, I always gauge do I want 630 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 3: it like a V bawl or do I want to 631 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 3: kind of a straight up like the ball? And I 632 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 3: wanted that to be a little more of a V. 633 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 3: It kind of looks like a bucket hat. 634 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 2: It could easily become a bucket. 635 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 3: Be an easy buck bucket hat, you know, not the 636 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,480 Speaker 3: most attractive bucket hat, but it could be in that bucket. 637 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 2: No bucket hat has ever been a trad. 638 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 3: So then yeah, but the base kind of determines it. 639 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 2: Okay, And so where are you in the process with 640 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 2: the hamper? 641 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 3: I wonder if I have well, I guess your listeners 642 00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:53,960 Speaker 3: can't see it, but I have a picture of it. 643 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 3: It's it's not great. It's not great. It's like because 644 00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 3: it's right now, I just keep going and it's not turning, 645 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 3: so it's just like now I'm just getting this huge circle. However, 646 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 3: I mean, this is however, what I learned. This is 647 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 3: how you kind of learned things from mistakes. I started 648 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,400 Speaker 3: to make a hamper a year ago, and it was 649 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 3: just a disaster. And then I was like, what am 650 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,719 Speaker 3: I going to do with this large circle of you know, 651 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 3: sown rope, And that's when I formed that into like 652 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 3: a purse. And so out of confusion came another thing 653 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 3: that I can make. 654 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 2: A hamper becomes a purse. 655 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 3: And actually, even though your listeners can't see this movie, 656 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 3: we could describe this. I'll show you a picture of 657 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 3: what a purse looks like. 658 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 2: I'm very curious about your purse making skills. 659 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:40,800 Speaker 3: So like, this is like a purse. 660 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 2: Oh, that's a great little clutch. It's a clutch kind 661 00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 2: of like a almost clamshell clutch, yes, and does not 662 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 2: have to handle at the top. 663 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 3: It has a leather hand that leather handle that you 664 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 3: kind of that that you would I would, you know, 665 00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 3: by a monogram or something with like a magnet, right, 666 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 3: But this is like a little another a little black. 667 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,560 Speaker 2: Oh that's so stylish. 668 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:07,920 Speaker 3: Clutch person, And I'll show you anyways. And then I 669 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:08,880 Speaker 3: don't know if I have a picture of the one 670 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 3: I gave my daughter, but that was like a little 671 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,880 Speaker 3: version of that. So that came out of this confusion 672 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 3: of what to do with this big circle thing that 673 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 3: was supposed to be a hamper. 674 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 2: I love that you're just constantly the real north star 675 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,280 Speaker 2: for you as a hamper, and you're just headed towards hampers. 676 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 3: So I'm really curious what's going to come from this 677 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,400 Speaker 3: disaster hamper working on no something else? 678 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, are you outside of your wife's request for a 679 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 2: hamper taking other requests or is it more of a 680 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 2: oh I'll try that and give it to somebody sort 681 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 2: of situation. 682 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 3: I just love it. It's like it's also like if 683 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 3: somebody there was this kind of thing, like this habitat 684 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 3: for humanity thing and they're like an auction item, then 685 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 3: I'll do a bowl for that and then so it's 686 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 3: just fun. I never want to the whole idea of 687 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 3: like for money, that's just that kind of takes the 688 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 3: joy out of it because it's just not fun. So 689 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 3: but it's really I love, love love giving them as 690 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:00,840 Speaker 3: gifts and all that kind of stuff. 691 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 2: Have you had any bad reactions? 692 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,280 Speaker 3: Well, I've had I have. I remember I gave it 693 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,799 Speaker 3: to h I was working on this job and I 694 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 3: and I gave it to another actor and then their 695 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,960 Speaker 3: friend just kept wearing an on their head and uh, 696 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:17,399 Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, it's a hat. It's hat, 697 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 3: And I was like, all right, that's enough. It's not hat. 698 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,280 Speaker 2: That's that's rude behavior. That person's rude. 699 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 3: No, but it was, But I get it does look 700 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 3: like He'll show you one of my favorite we can 701 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:29,799 Speaker 3: describe this. 702 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 2: Could you make a hat? You know what? 703 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 3: I could? I guess I could. The rim, like the 704 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 3: rim of the hat would be tough, right, And I 705 00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:44,200 Speaker 3: think you have to find a real kind of that 706 00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,320 Speaker 3: rope is pretty strong rope that you have, so it 707 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,560 Speaker 3: kind of keeps its shape, right, But I think you'd 708 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,400 Speaker 3: have like a paracord would probably be like a better 709 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,600 Speaker 3: hat because it's flexible. Yeah. Para cord is kind of 710 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:56,279 Speaker 3: you know those you know, as kids, we'd make those 711 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 3: camp bracelets that kind of had the they were kind 712 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,359 Speaker 3: of woven and braided. Right, that's like a para cord, 713 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 3: so it's a little it has a little more flex 714 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:04,879 Speaker 3: to it. So I think that could maybe be a hat. 715 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:06,880 Speaker 3: Where are you getting this rope? Is there like a 716 00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 3: rope depot or is it? I get Walmart has good 717 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 3: rope a lot, and then I go on Amazon and 718 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,640 Speaker 3: order rope wow. And then when I uh, you know, 719 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,759 Speaker 3: I get really excited when I find out. Because I 720 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:23,799 Speaker 3: do like to paint the rope. I think that's fun. 721 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 3: But if if somebody wants like a purse, that's a 722 00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,320 Speaker 3: like there's this friend of mine whose daughter wanted a 723 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 3: pink purse, and so I got a pink pair of 724 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,319 Speaker 3: pink para cord and make any pink purse for that. 725 00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:38,719 Speaker 2: This is amazing. Have you ever been handy like this 726 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:40,120 Speaker 2: or is this? Wow? 727 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:40,439 Speaker 1: No? 728 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:42,960 Speaker 3: Not at all, not at all. And I have to 729 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 3: be honest, I've always wanted a hobby because anytime somebody said, 730 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 3: you know, oh my hobby is this or I collect this, 731 00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 3: and I was just like I never I just never 732 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 3: could find it, you know, I just never And I 733 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 3: always was like I was, and I always wanted to paint. 734 00:35:56,640 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 3: I always wanted, you know, like Nick Offerman like a 735 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 3: guy and it makes it and I was like, God, 736 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 3: that's gonna be so And then I found this and 737 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 3: I just it's like, I love it. I really love it. 738 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 2: It's what were you doing with your time before that? 739 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:14,960 Speaker 3: A lot of YouTube, A lot of what I I would. 740 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 3: It's funny I always go back to YouTube because I 741 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 3: would I would go on YouTube and be watching like 742 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:26,360 Speaker 3: two hours of compilation videos of like the Voice What Avoid, 743 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:28,759 Speaker 3: But I never wanted to see people rejected. I only 744 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,919 Speaker 3: wanted to see the people winning winning, or there were chosen. 745 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,719 Speaker 3: They would always se these compilation videos of the blind auditions, 746 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 3: you know, where you can't see them and they turn 747 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 3: their chairs around, right, But I never wanted to see 748 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,360 Speaker 3: if anybody none of the chairs turned around. That was 749 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 3: just too much to watch. But I just liked scene 750 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,439 Speaker 3: after scene after see after seen of just those turn 751 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:49,919 Speaker 3: those chairs turning and everybody getting excited. That was fun 752 00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:50,319 Speaker 3: to watch. 753 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,280 Speaker 2: I have a hard time with rejection on reality shows 754 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:57,480 Speaker 2: as well, you know, like I remember a point. I 755 00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 2: mean I did have strep throat at the time, so 756 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:03,799 Speaker 2: I was already weak physically and emotionally, but Shark Tank 757 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 2: made me cry because I was like, they are being 758 00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:09,800 Speaker 2: too mean to this person. This person's just trying. 759 00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 3: You also have to admit, I mean, you're in there, 760 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 3: you're in the business, and you know, like we're very 761 00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:17,240 Speaker 3: kind of used to you know, pitching or putting yourself 762 00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,120 Speaker 3: out there and just kind of and you kind of 763 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,319 Speaker 3: exercise that muscle and after a while you're just like, 764 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:24,759 Speaker 3: you know, another fail, another failure or rejection, and you 765 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 3: get these people are putting their life savings and things 766 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,280 Speaker 3: and then they're just getting rejected in front of national 767 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,640 Speaker 3: you know, in front of a national audience. It's just like, oh, 768 00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,840 Speaker 3: and even those kids would come on American Idol and 769 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 3: they brutal had never seen the spotlight and they're talented, 770 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,440 Speaker 3: but not as talented as they need to be, and 771 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:44,719 Speaker 3: then they're just like rejected people. So it feels like 772 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:45,640 Speaker 3: it really does. 773 00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:50,160 Speaker 2: I think it's it's unfair and as someone who can't 774 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,440 Speaker 2: even sing Happy Birthday, it really breaks my heart. 775 00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:55,520 Speaker 3: Do you like reality shows? 776 00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,400 Speaker 2: I do. I like I've recently gotten into the Real 777 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,239 Speaker 2: Housewives of Salt Lake City, but largely because I'm from 778 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 2: Salt Lake City, so that was just appealing. 779 00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 3: Were you raised Mormon? 780 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 2: I was. My parents are still practicing Mormons, Okay, yeah, 781 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,880 Speaker 2: And then I was obviously just curious as to what 782 00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 2: these Salt Lake City housewives would be up to another. 783 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 3: Is there a Mormon through through line or not? 784 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,279 Speaker 2: Really? One of them is like two maybe two of 785 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:23,880 Speaker 2: them are ex Mormons. That's about as close to Mormonism 786 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:24,960 Speaker 2: as the show gets. 787 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,120 Speaker 3: Do you go back to Do you go back to 788 00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:27,799 Speaker 3: Salt Lake life. 789 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:29,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. I tried to get back a couple of times 790 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:29,839 Speaker 2: a year. 791 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 3: It's so beautiful. 792 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 2: Have you spent much time there just. 793 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 3: For like visits and stuff like that, but not much? 794 00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,960 Speaker 2: Right, the mountains are beautiful, It's there are a lot 795 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,760 Speaker 2: of beautiful things about Utah. There are some more difficult 796 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:48,879 Speaker 2: things for me personally, but of course, but I love 797 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:51,600 Speaker 2: a lot of people there, and I love those housewives. 798 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:56,799 Speaker 3: I mean, so are they as energetic and colorful and 799 00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 3: full of life as we'd say like the New York 800 00:38:58,680 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 3: Housewives or the Beverly. 801 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,120 Speaker 2: Hills in a different way, in a lot of ways 802 00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:05,480 Speaker 2: much lower rent. I mean, bless all of their hearts, 803 00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,839 Speaker 2: but they're not quite like you know, these Beverly Hills 804 00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:10,919 Speaker 2: housewives have so much money. A lot of them are 805 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 2: truly super wealthy. Yeah, our Salt Lake City housewives. It's 806 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:18,680 Speaker 2: a little more all over the map. Sometimes it feels 807 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:22,160 Speaker 2: a little more scraping by to feel glamorous, sometimes like 808 00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,239 Speaker 2: the party is like happening in a strip mall. 809 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:28,280 Speaker 3: Sure, sure, but there is something to me very sad 810 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,719 Speaker 3: of watching the Beverly Hills with that much, that much 811 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 3: resources and still so sad, and I mean greated obviously 812 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:39,520 Speaker 3: that's not the equation for happiness or any kind of fulfillment. 813 00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,080 Speaker 3: But when you see the excess, and then you also 814 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:46,160 Speaker 3: see that added with the trauma, and when I say colorful, 815 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,239 Speaker 3: it's just that sense of like their life is so 816 00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:53,640 Speaker 3: just full of just unbelievable trauma. That's to me sometimes untreated. 817 00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,399 Speaker 3: Oh you know a lot of this, and then they're 818 00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:59,399 Speaker 3: putting it on national scale. It's just like, come on, man, 819 00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,840 Speaker 3: just do this. Put the money in a therapist, you know, 820 00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:02,759 Speaker 3: get you to do that. 821 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 2: Please spend a little. But yeah, a lot of these 822 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 2: women are just off the leash, or maybe that's they're 823 00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:17,719 Speaker 2: just unhinged. Some unhinged women, and being on reality TV 824 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 2: is not probably not the solution, oh no. 825 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,839 Speaker 3: But there is that core, which I think is not 826 00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,040 Speaker 3: to get on a bit of a soapbox, but I 827 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:32,760 Speaker 3: think there's something about everybody wants to be known. Everybody 828 00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:35,160 Speaker 3: wants to be known, and then in our society people 829 00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:39,000 Speaker 3: look at known as how many Instagram followers do I have, 830 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:40,919 Speaker 3: how much attention do I have? How many people looking 831 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,239 Speaker 3: at me and finding out about me? That's that's going 832 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 3: to fill that void of being known. But the fact 833 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,880 Speaker 3: is you know if you're loved by people who you know, 834 00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 3: and that's all the known you need, and yet we 835 00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,640 Speaker 3: still haven't. And me as a person you know, who's 836 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,319 Speaker 3: in the public eye or whatever that's I think it's 837 00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,160 Speaker 3: I have more of awareness that because. 838 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,319 Speaker 2: It doesn't fill that voice. Absolutely not at all. No, 839 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,040 Speaker 2: I mean, if if anything, it only makes the problem 840 00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 2: feel bigger. 841 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, it puts a microscope on your trauma. 842 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,799 Speaker 2: Right, And yeah, I can't imagine what it would be 843 00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:16,239 Speaker 2: like to be on a television show where I'm being 844 00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:20,320 Speaker 2: kind of just encouraged to fight with six other women 845 00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 2: at all times. 846 00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,120 Speaker 3: It's yeah, and then they just throw a liquor in 847 00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:24,479 Speaker 3: the mix. 848 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,360 Speaker 2: It's a lot of drunk behavior. 849 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:30,839 Speaker 3: Off the leash, is a perfect way to say it, 850 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:32,600 Speaker 3: Just like completely let. 851 00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:36,359 Speaker 2: Go all that said. I love them, we love them, 852 00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:40,719 Speaker 2: we love whatever's happening. It's a strange combination of pro 853 00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 2: wrestling and daytime TV and soap operas and is an 854 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 2: interesting world that I've I've getting a peek into finally, 855 00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:52,080 Speaker 2: you know, I put it off for a long time, 856 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,480 Speaker 2: and I can't look away. I don't know if that's 857 00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 2: good or bad. 858 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,560 Speaker 3: I know, have you seen the other ones? And you 859 00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,000 Speaker 3: have the same experience, or now. 860 00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:05,280 Speaker 2: I want a little bit of the Orange County Housewives. Yeah, 861 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:07,760 Speaker 2: a little bit more boring. I was a little bored. 862 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 2: And I've seen some Jersey which is very colorful. Uh, 863 00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:16,560 Speaker 2: you know that's some true color happening there. And I 864 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:18,280 Speaker 2: think those are the three that I've kind of dipped 865 00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,439 Speaker 2: my toe into. Do you watch much reality TV? 866 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:27,120 Speaker 3: I've seen those some of those, But I will say 867 00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 3: it does. I get to a place where it does 868 00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:32,319 Speaker 3: make me angry, Like it's it's like, this isn't I mean, 869 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:34,799 Speaker 3: in general, it's probably not adding to our lives, but 870 00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 3: it's when I found my just getting pissed. You know, 871 00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,040 Speaker 3: it's like I don't know that. So I stopped doing that. 872 00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 3: But reality, I like a comp I don't mind a competition. 873 00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:48,839 Speaker 3: Reality such as such as I really enjoy I used 874 00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 3: to really enjoy Top Chef. 875 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,799 Speaker 2: Oh I feel like I would love Top Chef. 876 00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:56,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I really enjoyed. Well, you don't eat that's gonna problem. 877 00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,040 Speaker 2: I eat a lot of food just because I'm not 878 00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 2: throwing them a flurry down once a week. 879 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:08,200 Speaker 3: Okay, So I like those competition shows, and then I 880 00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:09,560 Speaker 3: mean I really do. 881 00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:14,960 Speaker 2: My guest judged on RuPaul's Drag Race, Oh fantastic about. 882 00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,359 Speaker 3: Two or three years a Clia Duval and I did, 883 00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,120 Speaker 3: and I loved it, and ever since then I got 884 00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,799 Speaker 3: really we were I kept watching and really got hooked 885 00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,239 Speaker 3: to it. I just I love I think it's so fun, 886 00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,520 Speaker 3: such a fun watch and a feel good watch, a 887 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,480 Speaker 3: feel good watch, and you and you hear their stories 888 00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:36,280 Speaker 3: and and also my wife is a is a makeup artist, 889 00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 3: and just the way that they the artistry on the 890 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:44,080 Speaker 3: face of how their face just I mean I've known 891 00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:47,520 Speaker 3: makeup obviously changes faces and that's what. But like the 892 00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,880 Speaker 3: contouring and all that kind of stuff. You just see 893 00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,680 Speaker 3: this face completely change is and obviously lighting and stuff 894 00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:56,000 Speaker 3: like that. But it's wild. It's wild. So I do 895 00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:56,520 Speaker 3: enjoy that. 896 00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:58,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't imagine. I mean, it's kind of the 897 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:00,879 Speaker 2: rope we've of faces. 898 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:04,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it is. And it really is artistry. I 899 00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:08,200 Speaker 3: mean it's like that's and I don't know, I really 900 00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:09,400 Speaker 3: really really enjoyed it. 901 00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, those are some good reality shows. I watch a 902 00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:13,640 Speaker 2: decent amount of Survivor. 903 00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:16,920 Speaker 3: Now, would you do Survivor? 904 00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,480 Speaker 2: I don't think I would. I think I would absolutely 905 00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 2: crumble Day one. 906 00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:23,799 Speaker 3: I would have a hard time. I mean, if I'm 907 00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:27,799 Speaker 3: this much about a rash, then then I think it's 908 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:28,760 Speaker 3: it would not be pretty. 909 00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:32,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think about the sun exposure. I think about that, 910 00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:34,799 Speaker 2: like we get into day's seven and all we have 911 00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:38,920 Speaker 2: to eat is like half a cup of rice. It's 912 00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:41,799 Speaker 2: a lot for me and you. I mean, I would 913 00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:43,319 Speaker 2: have to do one of the ones where they're near 914 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,360 Speaker 2: an ocean. I'm kind of on the record is I 915 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:48,120 Speaker 2: can't watch Survivor unless they have some sort of ocean 916 00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:49,960 Speaker 2: water to bathe in. I can't look at people who 917 00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:51,840 Speaker 2: are like bathing in a dirty pond. 918 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:55,719 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, what about Amazing Race? Would you do Amazing Race? 919 00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:57,600 Speaker 2: I think I would try Amazing Race. I would be 920 00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,680 Speaker 2: bad at it. Yeah, I would probably do it for 921 00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:01,239 Speaker 2: the free vacation aspect. 922 00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:03,279 Speaker 3: It's a lot of stress though. 923 00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:05,880 Speaker 2: The stress. I couldn't do it with my boyfriend. It 924 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:09,759 Speaker 2: would probably be an immediate fight. Oh yeah, I would 925 00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 2: need to do it with somebody that that I'm not 926 00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,359 Speaker 2: in a relationship with, so we have to be kind 927 00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:15,279 Speaker 2: of polite to each other. 928 00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:19,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, and they're filming it, they're filming your fights. 929 00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:20,799 Speaker 3: I mean, it's pretty much it would be the Real 930 00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:24,040 Speaker 3: Housewives of Amazing race for us me too. 931 00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:26,280 Speaker 2: I mean, I would love to give it a shot, 932 00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:28,759 Speaker 2: but I do feel like it would be I would 933 00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:30,759 Speaker 2: fall on my face immediately and it would be a 934 00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 2: huge embarrassment and then I'm Oliver CBS and people are 935 00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:34,640 Speaker 2: making fun of me. 936 00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,000 Speaker 3: But you would be known. 937 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 2: You would be known, desperate clawing attempts to. 938 00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:44,640 Speaker 3: Be known, that void would be filled at last. 939 00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:49,480 Speaker 2: Well, I'm so thrilled about this bowl. I just can't 940 00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:53,359 Speaker 2: even believe it. I mean, I still am mildly suspicious. 941 00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:55,440 Speaker 2: I still don't one hundred percent believe that you made it. 942 00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:59,000 Speaker 2: Because it's perfect, I understand. Well, that's very kind. 943 00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:01,160 Speaker 3: This is an The reason why I do love it 944 00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,239 Speaker 3: is because when you paint the rope and you sew it, 945 00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,040 Speaker 3: you never know how it's going to come out with 946 00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:09,400 Speaker 3: those the pattern right right, and so as you paint it, 947 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,600 Speaker 3: you know, you do kind of different sections, but then 948 00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:13,560 Speaker 3: when you sew it, it always is a surprise how 949 00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:14,120 Speaker 3: it comes out. 950 00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:18,040 Speaker 2: That's incredible. I mean, is there any way to teach yourself, Like, 951 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,239 Speaker 2: is there someone in the world that's like they know 952 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,120 Speaker 2: where to paint the rope to get it in a 953 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:23,080 Speaker 2: certain place? On the bowl. 954 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:26,080 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well that's my next YouTube spiral, is there. 955 00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:30,360 Speaker 3: That's what I'll be watching tonight because designs designs. I 956 00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,520 Speaker 3: have found though, is there's not a lot of there's 957 00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:38,680 Speaker 3: Like I'll follow some rope bowl people on Instagram, but 958 00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:40,799 Speaker 3: but I don't. I haven't met a lot of the 959 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,839 Speaker 3: rope bowl community of I almost want there. I want 960 00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:48,360 Speaker 3: there to be classes and a convention or something that 961 00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,799 Speaker 3: I can tap into, but I have not found that. 962 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:52,719 Speaker 2: There has to be well and there's a convention for 963 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:53,760 Speaker 2: everything at this point. 964 00:46:53,920 --> 00:47:00,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a direct message some rope bode over instance, 965 00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:02,600 Speaker 3: just ask where they got the rope from, because I 966 00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,960 Speaker 3: really liked their rope and they've given me some feedback. 967 00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:08,040 Speaker 2: It seems like a community that's either probably very welcoming 968 00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:10,600 Speaker 2: and warm or extremely snobby. 969 00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:13,680 Speaker 3: I did get snobby, but I haven't gotten a lot 970 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:15,040 Speaker 3: of shared techniques. 971 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:18,440 Speaker 2: People are protective. 972 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,759 Speaker 3: They're protective of their techniques. I feel like so. But 973 00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:24,520 Speaker 3: I do appreciate the YouTube tutorials that taught me the 974 00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:27,280 Speaker 3: basics of a cross stitch and all that kind of stuff, 975 00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,880 Speaker 3: but I haven't gotten any other techniques because I am 976 00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,759 Speaker 3: hungry for some rope Bowl technique. So if any of 977 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,680 Speaker 3: your listeners know where to go, please tell me. 978 00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:38,319 Speaker 2: Reach out to Tony, get in touch with Tony. I 979 00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:40,000 Speaker 2: feel like there's got to be a class for you. 980 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:40,920 Speaker 2: This is amazing. 981 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,000 Speaker 3: I love it. I really do love it. Thank you well. 982 00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:45,600 Speaker 2: I feel like it's time to play a game. 983 00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:46,759 Speaker 3: Oh great, Yes? 984 00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:48,560 Speaker 2: Do you want to play a game called gift Master 985 00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:51,840 Speaker 2: or Gift or a curse Gift. I like gift Master. 986 00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:55,840 Speaker 2: It sounds happier, it's very exciting. It's a thrill. I 987 00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:59,160 Speaker 2: need a number between one and ten from you. I'm 988 00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:02,520 Speaker 2: going to say, Okay, I have to do some light calculating. 989 00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:05,879 Speaker 2: I have to get the game pieces. I love whatever 990 00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:06,160 Speaker 2: you want. 991 00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,000 Speaker 3: I love everything what's happening right now. I let everything 992 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:08,360 Speaker 3: about this. 993 00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 2: You better. You've got the MIT, you can recommend, you 994 00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,720 Speaker 2: can promote, you can, you can talk to the listener 995 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 2: in whatever way you want. I'll be right back. Please 996 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,040 Speaker 2: be respectful to the listener. 997 00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:23,080 Speaker 3: Okay, great, Oh wow, Oh I just should just talk. 998 00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:27,799 Speaker 3: I'm dead serious about if anybody has any feedback about 999 00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:30,000 Speaker 3: a rope Bowl community that I could tap into, I 1000 00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:34,439 Speaker 3: really appreciate that information. I'm looking for classes. They could 1001 00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,960 Speaker 3: be community college classes. They could be a grandmother who 1002 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,200 Speaker 3: lives in Michigan who's really good at it and just 1003 00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:44,600 Speaker 3: it is eager to teach. I don't need quilting, I 1004 00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:48,480 Speaker 3: don't need sewing, I don't need crochet. I need the 1005 00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:52,200 Speaker 3: specificities of rope bul making or anything else made with 1006 00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:54,360 Speaker 3: a rope. Oh sorry, I thought you want to just 1007 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:56,000 Speaker 3: keep talking while you were doing something. 1008 00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,920 Speaker 2: That's why you did it perfectly. You had a desperate 1009 00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:02,560 Speaker 2: cry for help. You're begging the audience for some sort 1010 00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,680 Speaker 2: of recommendation, and I'm sure people are going to start 1011 00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:07,279 Speaker 2: reaching out and you're probably going to get more than 1012 00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:07,720 Speaker 2: you need. 1013 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:08,759 Speaker 3: Love it. 1014 00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:12,279 Speaker 2: We love an abundance. We love when people just go 1015 00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:16,480 Speaker 2: too far, Tony, this is how gift master works. I'm 1016 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,800 Speaker 2: going to name three potential gifts things you can give away, 1017 00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,840 Speaker 2: and then I'm going to name three famous people, celebrities 1018 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,560 Speaker 2: from around the world. You're going to tell me which 1019 00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 2: one you're going to give which gift? And why does 1020 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:27,320 Speaker 2: that make sense? 1021 00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:28,320 Speaker 3: Yes? It does? 1022 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 2: Okay, Today you'll be giving away the following gifts. 1023 00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:34,239 Speaker 3: I love everything about this. Have you heard of the 1024 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 3: love languages I have? 1025 00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:37,560 Speaker 2: Of course? What's your love language? 1026 00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:42,280 Speaker 3: Well, there's five there's acts of service, gift giving, words, affection, 1027 00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 3: and quality time, right, and typically how you give love 1028 00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:48,880 Speaker 3: is how you like to receive love. I'm a words person. 1029 00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:52,000 Speaker 3: I like to encourage, but I also really like gift giving. 1030 00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 3: And so when somebody that means when somebody says, when 1031 00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,680 Speaker 3: somebody says words or encouragement to me, I really appreciate 1032 00:49:57,719 --> 00:49:59,360 Speaker 3: because that's how I give love. So gift giving is 1033 00:49:59,360 --> 00:49:59,799 Speaker 3: one of them. 1034 00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:04,880 Speaker 2: Well, you're doing a terrific job right now anyway, So 1035 00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:08,240 Speaker 2: we'll see how this all plays out for you, Tony. Okay, 1036 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:11,520 Speaker 2: these are the gifts. Number one, this is it's a 1037 00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:15,759 Speaker 2: little less conventional. This is a dump truck absolutely overflowing 1038 00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:20,919 Speaker 2: with rich soil. So that's a full dump truck of 1039 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,960 Speaker 2: soil that can anything can be grown in, you know, 1040 00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:31,640 Speaker 2: just this rich earth. Number two is Tweezers. If you 1041 00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:35,760 Speaker 2: need to it's three things, so for your records. Number 1042 00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:40,560 Speaker 2: one a dump truck absolutely overflowing with rich soil. So 1043 00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:42,279 Speaker 2: that's almost too much soil. 1044 00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:45,280 Speaker 3: Too much soil, but I do like a cheesecake factory. 1045 00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:50,880 Speaker 2: Continue Number two is Tweezers. So that's a set of tweezers. 1046 00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,680 Speaker 2: They could be beautiful Tweezers, that could be cheap tweezers, 1047 00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:59,759 Speaker 2: any type of Tweezers you want to give away. And 1048 00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:03,680 Speaker 2: er three is the ability to communicate with the dead 1049 00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,799 Speaker 2: more of a that's actually an excellent gift. I mean, 1050 00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,720 Speaker 2: I think anyone would put that on their Christmas wish list. 1051 00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,479 Speaker 2: That's something that we could all use. 1052 00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:19,200 Speaker 3: Don't agree, I don't want that gift. 1053 00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:24,000 Speaker 2: You continue difference of opinion. This is again we're back 1054 00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:29,680 Speaker 2: to the mcflurry and reject. Okay, Tony. These are the 1055 00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,400 Speaker 2: three people that will be receiving the gifts today. Number 1056 00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:37,160 Speaker 2: one Megan Markle. Okay, we all love Megan Markles. She's 1057 00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:40,959 Speaker 2: making moves, she's marrying princes, she's on TV, she's doing 1058 00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:46,680 Speaker 2: it all. Number two D Snyder of Twisted Sister. Oh 1059 00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:51,240 Speaker 2: we love d Snyder really great. Okay, we're not gonna 1060 00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:56,800 Speaker 2: take it. And number three is rapper Ludacris. Okay, excellent 1061 00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:58,200 Speaker 2: group of people. I'll say. 1062 00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:07,479 Speaker 3: Okay, my immediate thought was I would give the dump 1063 00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:11,760 Speaker 3: truck of soil to Megan Markle. Okay, because I feel 1064 00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:15,759 Speaker 3: like speaking of what we discussed about being known that 1065 00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:20,040 Speaker 3: I don't I think that equations. She's waking up even 1066 00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:21,960 Speaker 3: more to that's not the equation of being known about 1067 00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 3: the amount of fame that she's received and having people 1068 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:28,839 Speaker 3: in her life that you know, really do see her. 1069 00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,040 Speaker 3: But I say the soil because I'd like her to 1070 00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:34,560 Speaker 3: get into gardening, oh and use that as a meditative practice. 1071 00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:39,000 Speaker 3: But now I'm questioning. I think I'm going to give 1072 00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:41,360 Speaker 3: the ability to communicate with the dead form Megan Markle 1073 00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:45,319 Speaker 3: because I think she might enjoy talking to people who 1074 00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:49,040 Speaker 3: have been in life and then are now outside of 1075 00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,640 Speaker 3: the life, because it's always a wake up perspective of 1076 00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:54,759 Speaker 3: kind of the chaos that she's around. So it might 1077 00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,320 Speaker 3: bring perspective into her life. 1078 00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,839 Speaker 2: What a thoughtful gift. 1079 00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 3: I would say, the ability committent dead with my Markle. Okay, 1080 00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,640 Speaker 3: let me think a minute, because I threw myself off 1081 00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,400 Speaker 3: because that was the last minute change, so I have 1082 00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:11,879 Speaker 3: to think a minute. Okay, I'm gonna say the Tweezers. 1083 00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,360 Speaker 3: I immediately think of d Snyder. That was an immediate 1084 00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:17,560 Speaker 3: thing because I'm a kid of the eighties, right, and 1085 00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:19,839 Speaker 3: there's a lot of hair and a lot of I 1086 00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:22,920 Speaker 3: mean a lot. There's a lot going on, and I 1087 00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:27,040 Speaker 3: bet there's something very simple about Tweezers when it comes 1088 00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,640 Speaker 3: to grooming, and I bet he's in a very simple 1089 00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,759 Speaker 3: place we might add to his collection, right, simplicity in his. 1090 00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,960 Speaker 2: Life and the shape of a Tweezer. I almost feel 1091 00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:37,040 Speaker 2: like you could make kind of a if you shot 1092 00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:39,600 Speaker 2: that correctly with the camera, you could make a really 1093 00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:43,239 Speaker 2: cool metal album with a set of Tweezers. I think 1094 00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:46,880 Speaker 2: they look kind of metal, not not the you know, 1095 00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:51,360 Speaker 2: musically metal. Yeah, there's something point underrated about Tweezers as 1096 00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:54,040 Speaker 2: a hard rock device. 1097 00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:58,359 Speaker 3: I can see that. And I think he also with 1098 00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,240 Speaker 3: that brings some inspiration into his life because he's probably 1099 00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:05,239 Speaker 3: wanting to be inspired to do different stuff. He's also 1100 00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:08,759 Speaker 3: a big ironically, I remember in New York he's a 1101 00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,960 Speaker 3: huge a voiceover artist. Really he did a lot of 1102 00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:14,600 Speaker 3: He did a lot of voiceover, a lot of animation, 1103 00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:19,640 Speaker 3: and so that doesn't relate to Tweezers. 1104 00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:22,600 Speaker 2: But but you're probably in the you know, the recording booth. 1105 00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:26,000 Speaker 3: You know, if he does animation, there might have been 1106 00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:29,120 Speaker 3: a talking Tweezer that I mean, who knows that that 1107 00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:31,880 Speaker 3: world is very broad, so it might you know, he 1108 00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,120 Speaker 3: can actually he can make a talking tweet. That's it. 1109 00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,440 Speaker 3: If Snyder a talking Tweezer, and that would be his 1110 00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:39,280 Speaker 3: next gig for animation. 1111 00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:42,879 Speaker 2: If he hasn't voiced an animated Tweezer. The time has 1112 00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:44,640 Speaker 2: never been better, It really hasn't. 1113 00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:48,279 Speaker 3: And then finally, I would give the dump truck of 1114 00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:51,520 Speaker 3: soil to Ludacris because I think someone like I think 1115 00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:56,719 Speaker 3: the music industry that is very fast, and I think 1116 00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,319 Speaker 3: kind of having that soil to get into gardening, to 1117 00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:02,120 Speaker 3: get into your to have a meditative space, I think 1118 00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:05,320 Speaker 3: that would actually be very kind of healing for the 1119 00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:09,399 Speaker 3: space of kind of music and the world that he's in. Yeah, 1120 00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:11,320 Speaker 3: it can get very loud and stuff. 1121 00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:14,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, and you know, I feel like he's kind 1122 00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:17,040 Speaker 2: of used to the flash and the glamour. Maybe something 1123 00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:19,600 Speaker 2: a little bit more earthy, something you can just run 1124 00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:22,160 Speaker 2: his hands through the soil, maybe grow an orchard. 1125 00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:26,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's so as you you you book you 1126 00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:29,480 Speaker 3: and I know this this business can be very obviously 1127 00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:33,000 Speaker 3: false and like you're just it's all to your point 1128 00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:34,800 Speaker 3: of like just a lot of glitz. But like soil 1129 00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:40,560 Speaker 3: is like organic obviously, and it's miraculous and it's you know, 1130 00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:43,600 Speaker 3: you're just never I don't know, it's pure so I 1131 00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:45,840 Speaker 3: think that would be a constant force of source of 1132 00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:46,480 Speaker 3: healing for him. 1133 00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:49,360 Speaker 2: And what a headline for Ludacris to become a farmer, 1134 00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:52,120 Speaker 2: To be a farmer, that's right? Like, I mean a 1135 00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:57,040 Speaker 2: nice second chapter. Yeah, beautifully played, I mean so thoughtfully played. 1136 00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:59,000 Speaker 2: I you know, I know there are all three of 1137 00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:04,080 Speaker 2: them are listening, and thank you, d Ludicrous and Megan. 1138 00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:07,719 Speaker 2: Enjoy your gifts and welcome guys. 1139 00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:10,560 Speaker 3: I just want them so bad their heads just to 1140 00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,040 Speaker 3: come into my screen and be like I knew this 1141 00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:13,680 Speaker 3: was coming. 1142 00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:19,920 Speaker 2: Okay, this is the final segment of the podcast. It's 1143 00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:22,759 Speaker 2: called I said no emails people right into I said 1144 00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:26,560 Speaker 2: no gifts at gmail dot com. I can't express enough 1145 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:31,480 Speaker 2: how many problems my listeners have. The amount of problems 1146 00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:34,840 Speaker 2: and issues that these people need a hand dealing with, 1147 00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:40,360 Speaker 2: it's indescribable. Would you help me answer a question? 1148 00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:41,920 Speaker 3: Yes, I would. 1149 00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:44,440 Speaker 2: Okay, let me get into the dock. Here, We've got 1150 00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:49,279 Speaker 2: to get into the dock. Okay, perfect, here we go, 1151 00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:55,200 Speaker 2: deer Bridger and guest. My mom's sixtieth birthday is approaching. 1152 00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:57,840 Speaker 2: As we are the type of family who asks people 1153 00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:00,239 Speaker 2: what they want for an occasion, then proceed to get 1154 00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:03,040 Speaker 2: them that thing for said occasion. I normally have no 1155 00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:07,439 Speaker 2: gifting conundrums. Well, now, for her sixtieth birthday, my mom 1156 00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:09,799 Speaker 2: has asked everyone in the family to pitch in and 1157 00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:14,880 Speaker 2: get her a quantum healing hypnosis session. If you're not familiar, 1158 00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:18,480 Speaker 2: I'm not. Let's say this is where you reportedly pay 1159 00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:21,800 Speaker 2: someone to hypnotize you to regress and discover everything in 1160 00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:25,200 Speaker 2: your past life or lives that is causing you ailments 1161 00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:29,520 Speaker 2: in your current life, and heal you of said ailments. Okay, 1162 00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:33,280 Speaker 2: As my mother has always until very recently appeared to 1163 00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:36,400 Speaker 2: be a perfectly rational person who is skeptical at best 1164 00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:39,720 Speaker 2: of all forms of medicine and healing, even modern Western medicine, 1165 00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:42,320 Speaker 2: and has never even so much as burned incense or 1166 00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:45,480 Speaker 2: smoke pot since the seventies, I can only assume this 1167 00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:49,640 Speaker 2: is a red flag. So please, I beg of your 1168 00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:52,360 Speaker 2: advice and wisdom. Do we spend our hard earned dollars 1169 00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:55,720 Speaker 2: to humor her newfound birthday whimsie? Do we go rogue, 1170 00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:58,640 Speaker 2: ignore the request entirely, and come up with our own 1171 00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:01,560 Speaker 2: gift ideas. Do we tell her that she's going to 1172 00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:04,320 Speaker 2: quantum healing hypnosis and sent her to a nice doctor 1173 00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:08,120 Speaker 2: and said, is there an option D Any feedback is appreciated, 1174 00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:10,520 Speaker 2: and that's sincerely, Jacqueline. 1175 00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:11,560 Speaker 3: Tony. 1176 00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:16,640 Speaker 2: This is there's a lot going on this situation. Have 1177 00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:21,400 Speaker 2: you heard of quantum healing hypnosis? Neither of I. This 1178 00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:22,960 Speaker 2: is new on my radar. 1179 00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:25,720 Speaker 3: No. And I And he was saying, or she was 1180 00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:26,800 Speaker 3: saying that. 1181 00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:28,640 Speaker 2: Jacqueline, right, Yes, Jacqueline. 1182 00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,080 Speaker 3: She was saying that it's a way that you communicate 1183 00:58:31,120 --> 00:58:33,280 Speaker 3: with the dead and then they heal you of your 1184 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:34,120 Speaker 3: current ailments. 1185 00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:39,960 Speaker 2: You apparently communicate with yourself in past lives you progress 1186 00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:43,360 Speaker 2: into For example, you were King Louis at some point. 1187 00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:45,640 Speaker 3: I thinking the two games communicate with it. 1188 00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:49,400 Speaker 2: I mean, unfortunately, these are two very similar things. I 1189 00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:52,560 Speaker 2: don't know the coincidence here is maybe it's a sign. 1190 00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:54,600 Speaker 2: I mean, we can only say this is a sign 1191 00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:59,320 Speaker 2: from some sort of quantum hypnosis healer. But Jacqueline's mom, 1192 00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:02,680 Speaker 2: we don't know how. It seems like some sort of 1193 00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:06,880 Speaker 2: snake oilsman. Let's just say it has entered Jacqueline's mom's life. 1194 00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:11,520 Speaker 3: I would say, here's my pitch for Jacqueline. I would say, 1195 00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:18,080 Speaker 3: definitely do not deny her that gift. I would put 1196 00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:21,400 Speaker 3: a cap on it. I would say, we're getting you 1197 00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:27,200 Speaker 3: three or two sessions with this person, because the thing is, 1198 00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:29,360 Speaker 3: if they don't do it, they're denying themselves a lot 1199 00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:33,560 Speaker 3: of good stories. They're denying because just think, but the 1200 00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:35,400 Speaker 3: mom's going to come back and be like, just you know, 1201 00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:39,640 Speaker 3: I was you know, Princess Ariel in a past life 1202 00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:44,560 Speaker 3: or something like That's that's pretty fascinating. And I think her, 1203 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:46,280 Speaker 3: I mean, I would guess her mom is in a 1204 00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:49,520 Speaker 3: space of like she's just investigating, but I would I 1205 00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:53,960 Speaker 3: would definitely, I would not send her to another doctor. 1206 00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:57,680 Speaker 3: That brings shame. Nobody needs shame in their closet. The 1207 00:59:57,720 --> 01:00:00,040 Speaker 3: other thing is giving another gift, No, because then you 1208 01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:03,040 Speaker 3: have disappointment. I would fully honor that request. 1209 01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:04,720 Speaker 2: She's just going to ask for it again. 1210 01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:07,439 Speaker 3: She's going to ask it for a great definitely again. 1211 01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:10,760 Speaker 2: Or and yeah, I mean, you deny it, you're driving 1212 01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:13,600 Speaker 2: her into the arms of this quantum healer. She's going 1213 01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:15,560 Speaker 2: to want it even more suddenly. 1214 01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:16,360 Speaker 3: I mean, good point. 1215 01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:18,160 Speaker 2: We only know where that's headed. She might end up 1216 01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:19,440 Speaker 2: married to a quantum healer. 1217 01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:23,360 Speaker 3: Yeah that's right, that's right. But I mean, seriously, like 1218 01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:26,120 Speaker 3: that's a that's a real story. I would question what 1219 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:27,480 Speaker 3: they're afraid of. 1220 01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:30,960 Speaker 2: Well, they're probably they think that Mom's going to get 1221 01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:32,680 Speaker 2: some dirt from the past life about them. 1222 01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:34,200 Speaker 3: Oh there you go. 1223 01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:36,800 Speaker 2: They're all afraid that she's going to turn. 1224 01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:39,919 Speaker 3: So it's really about you, Jacqueline. 1225 01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:44,000 Speaker 2: It's always about the gift gift, it's never about the recipient. 1226 01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:45,120 Speaker 2: That isn't good. 1227 01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:48,000 Speaker 3: That is a good thought though, like what asking yourself, 1228 01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:50,360 Speaker 3: like what are you afraid of if she does go 1229 01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:53,320 Speaker 3: to that? You know, like, what is the biggest fear 1230 01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:53,640 Speaker 3: of that? 1231 01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:57,400 Speaker 2: Maybe they're afraid she gets hooked, And there are worse 1232 01:00:57,440 --> 01:00:59,880 Speaker 2: things to get hooked on than going to someone who 1233 01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:03,760 Speaker 2: sounds like letting her nap in his office and then 1234 01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:09,840 Speaker 2: talking to her about his dreams and for all we know, 1235 01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:13,040 Speaker 2: we find out some great new things about Jacqueline Senor 1236 01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:18,120 Speaker 2: the thing the lives she's lived through. She's you know, 1237 01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:19,920 Speaker 2: she could have been an animal, she could have been 1238 01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:24,080 Speaker 2: a rock. There's no telling that's right. 1239 01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,480 Speaker 3: Now. Here's my thing. This is what I request is 1240 01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:30,439 Speaker 3: if you if she does on other quests, I want 1241 01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:33,360 Speaker 3: to hear about these sessions. I want to hear what 1242 01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:36,160 Speaker 3: this mom comes back with. So if there's a way 1243 01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:39,439 Speaker 3: to stay in correspondence with Jacqueline through your podcast. I'd 1244 01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:39,960 Speaker 3: like to hear the. 1245 01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:45,080 Speaker 2: Result, Jacqueline, give her the gift take notes. If you 1246 01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:49,040 Speaker 2: can be in the session, even better. I mean, it 1247 01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:51,720 Speaker 2: does seem like we're we're just playing into this quantum 1248 01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:56,640 Speaker 2: Healer's hands and we're enriching him. But you know, everybody's 1249 01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:57,360 Speaker 2: got to make a living. 1250 01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:00,280 Speaker 3: Everybody's going to make a living. And I want, I 1251 01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:02,240 Speaker 3: want to hear these past lives. I want, but it's 1252 01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:04,120 Speaker 3: not just that I want to hear what these past 1253 01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:08,240 Speaker 3: lives are telling her that she is healing from right. 1254 01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:11,720 Speaker 2: And then you know, this also opens up a future 1255 01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:14,240 Speaker 2: gift giving possibilities. If she ends up trapped in this 1256 01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:17,120 Speaker 2: man's clutches, they can get some they can put next 1257 01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:21,160 Speaker 2: year's gift. It is like to rescue this woman, mommy 1258 01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:24,120 Speaker 2: back from the quantum Healer. There's you know, down the road, 1259 01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:26,720 Speaker 2: there's so many options. 1260 01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:28,760 Speaker 3: There's so many options. And I'll sweeten the pod a 1261 01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:31,800 Speaker 3: little bit. If Jacqueline's mom does go to this session 1262 01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:34,640 Speaker 3: and she does come back, she will receive a rope 1263 01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:38,680 Speaker 3: bull Jacqueline. 1264 01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:41,000 Speaker 2: See, there's never been a better deal for your Jacqueline, 1265 01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:43,000 Speaker 2: if you don't send your mom to this, then there's 1266 01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:46,680 Speaker 2: definitely a problem with you and your poor mother. All 1267 01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:49,680 Speaker 2: she wanted was this ten to fifteen sessions with the 1268 01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:51,880 Speaker 2: Quantum Healer, and you're denying it. 1269 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,000 Speaker 3: Now, that's a lot. I would break it down to 1270 01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:54,600 Speaker 3: like a five. 1271 01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:57,640 Speaker 2: I wonder how much a quantum session costs. It's probably 1272 01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:59,400 Speaker 2: at least one hundred dollars, I. 1273 01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:01,600 Speaker 3: Would say, I would say more. But if I do 1274 01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:05,360 Speaker 3: get Jacqueline's favorite color, then there are rope bulls in 1275 01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,400 Speaker 3: the deal. If we can hear back from what her mom. 1276 01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:11,600 Speaker 2: Said, Jacqueline, I hope you're listening. This is an incredible 1277 01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:15,560 Speaker 2: opportunity for the whole family. So we'll see what happens. 1278 01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:17,400 Speaker 2: This is going to end up being sort of some 1279 01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:21,560 Speaker 2: kind of true crime documentary in five years, Jacklin writes 1280 01:03:21,600 --> 01:03:25,560 Speaker 2: into the podcast, somebody gets killed Quantum healing a rope 1281 01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:26,760 Speaker 2: promise of a rope bowl. 1282 01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:31,840 Speaker 3: It's all too perfect, but that's true. Like the rope 1283 01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:34,120 Speaker 3: bull was unraveled and that was the murder weapon. Like 1284 01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:35,280 Speaker 3: who knows what's. 1285 01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:37,000 Speaker 2: To be strangled by a rope bowl? 1286 01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:38,520 Speaker 3: A painted rope bowl. 1287 01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:42,360 Speaker 2: By the way, Tony, we've answered the question perfectly. 1288 01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:44,840 Speaker 3: Oh, good, good, good. You're welcome, Jacqueline. 1289 01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:49,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, Jacqueline, thank you for writing in, But you're welcome 1290 01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:53,640 Speaker 2: more so than thank you. That's all I'm going to say. 1291 01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:56,600 Speaker 2: And your mother is welcome as well. Hopefully she can 1292 01:03:56,600 --> 01:04:00,280 Speaker 2: write in with a thank you. Yes, Tony, I'm so 1293 01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:02,640 Speaker 2: thrilled with this gift. I can't believe what a thoughtful, 1294 01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:04,840 Speaker 2: lovely gift I've received from here now. And I have 1295 01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:07,280 Speaker 2: to wonder what I'm going to place in it. 1296 01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:10,240 Speaker 3: Oh, I will say, I should put a little note there. 1297 01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:13,200 Speaker 3: It's not for food. Well, I was going to it's 1298 01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:13,760 Speaker 3: not for fruit. 1299 01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:15,880 Speaker 2: I was going to have serious, it's not. 1300 01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:18,160 Speaker 3: For fruit or potatoes, because there is. It's acrylic paint, 1301 01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:20,440 Speaker 3: so I don't want you to get a paint on anything. 1302 01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:22,640 Speaker 3: But it might be a nice decorative bowl, or you 1303 01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:25,280 Speaker 3: could put like pens in it or whatever you like. 1304 01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:32,840 Speaker 2: Right, I'll keep raw poultry away any sort of food. 1305 01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:35,800 Speaker 3: I don't definitely raw chicken. 1306 01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:38,960 Speaker 2: Would fill this with mcflurry that doesn't. 1307 01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:41,560 Speaker 3: Now now you're talking, it's a. 1308 01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:43,880 Speaker 2: Giant bowl of cottage cheese in front. 1309 01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:44,160 Speaker 1: Of the TV. 1310 01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:46,000 Speaker 3: That's so good. 1311 01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:51,800 Speaker 2: Oh my, I've just had a fantastic time with. 1312 01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:54,360 Speaker 3: You me too, Thanks for having me, Thank you. 1313 01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:58,960 Speaker 2: For being here and listener. This is the end of 1314 01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:03,520 Speaker 2: the podcast. You know. Now it's your turn to do 1315 01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:06,200 Speaker 2: what you want with the day. I appreciate how respectful 1316 01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:07,600 Speaker 2: you were this entire time. 1317 01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:08,480 Speaker 3: You know. 1318 01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:11,040 Speaker 2: Of course, come see the ball on Instagram. You have 1319 01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:15,120 Speaker 2: to see the bowl. It's a beautiful gift. And now 1320 01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:16,560 Speaker 2: move on with your day. I want you to do 1321 01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:21,840 Speaker 2: something productive. Try to be mildly productive today because I'm 1322 01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:24,680 Speaker 2: probably not going to be. Somebody's got to be producing 1323 01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:30,440 Speaker 2: in the world. And now carry on. I love you, goodbye. 1324 01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:35,160 Speaker 2: I said no Gifts is an exactly right production. It's 1325 01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:38,720 Speaker 2: produced by our dear friend Analise Nelson and it's beautifully 1326 01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:42,560 Speaker 2: mixed by John Bradley. The theme song, of course, could 1327 01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:46,880 Speaker 2: only come from miracle worker Amy Man. You must follow 1328 01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:49,600 Speaker 2: the show on Instagram at I said no Gifts, I 1329 01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:51,920 Speaker 2: don't want to hear any excuses. That's where you get 1330 01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:54,240 Speaker 2: to see pictures of all these gorgeous gifts I'm getting. 1331 01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:56,760 Speaker 2: And don't you want to see pictures of the gifts? Now? 1332 01:05:56,800 --> 01:05:59,880 Speaker 2: Make sure to listen, follow, and most important, they leave 1333 01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:04,760 Speaker 2: heartfelt review on Amazon Music, Apple Podcasts or wherever you 1334 01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:08,600 Speaker 2: get your podcasts, and don't forget. You can listen to 1335 01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:12,560 Speaker 2: new episodes one week early on Amazon Music, or early 1336 01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:15,520 Speaker 2: and ad free by subscribing to Wondery Plus in the 1337 01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:16,360 Speaker 2: Wondery app. 1338 01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:20,640 Speaker 3: And I invite, did you hear? 1339 01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:28,080 Speaker 1: Thouna made myself perfectly clear? But you're a guest to 1340 01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:37,200 Speaker 1: my home. You gotta come to me empty, And I said, no, guest. 1341 01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:44,520 Speaker 1: Your presences presence enough, and I already had too much stuff. 1342 01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:48,240 Speaker 1: So how do you dance to survey me