1 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: So everyone, this is Sam. 2 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 2: I met him working at Tutto il Giorno, which is 3 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: Gabby Karen and her husband's restaurant. 4 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: They seem happy, they seem and love they own this restaurant. 5 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 2: So I was at Twuto and Sam said to me, 6 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 2: can I come on your podcast? And I said, I 7 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 2: really don't have a ton of guests anymore in the 8 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 2: podcast because it's more rants. 9 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: And we do have guests, but. 10 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 2: Respectfully, you know, we've had like Hillary Clinton and Matthew McConaughey. 11 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 2: So I have been asked by so many people to 12 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 2: come on, and I haven't ever really said yes. Like 13 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 2: someone from high school, like ninth grade, asked me if 14 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 2: they could come on, and it's hard to say no 15 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 2: because you don't want to be rude. And so I 16 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 2: sort of said to you, like, I don't really which 17 00:00:58,600 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 2: is true. I don't really have a lot of guests 18 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 2: on and it's mostly rants, and I do like the 19 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 2: rants and just talking to the audience better than the 20 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 2: guests anyway usually, So it wasn't even like a diss 21 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 2: on you or anything or even any of my guests, 22 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 2: even even of the best guest. I just like sort 23 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 2: of riffing and not being tethered to anything. So you 24 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 2: walked away and Brinn said to me last night, oh, 25 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 2: you should have him on, Mama, you should have him on. 26 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 2: So I then said, yeah, so Peanut is. She's the sweetest. 27 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 2: So she said you should have him on. He's nice 28 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 2: to us, and he got us the table and I 29 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 2: was like, okay, we'll have him on tomorrow. So that 30 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: was how we got you back to the table. You 31 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 2: were bringing her, I guess to another Shirley Temple and 32 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 2: so here we are. 33 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: So now you're on. And for those. 34 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 2: Of you who don't know Tuto Old Journal, they have 35 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 2: a location in Southampton in seg They did have in 36 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: the city and Tribeca for a minute. 37 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 3: Right they did. Yes, that closed during COVID, but they 38 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 3: opened up in East Hampton a cafe. 39 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: Oh I've been there, different though, more like opening super casual. 40 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're opening in Palmbi in the near future. 41 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: Smart Okay. 42 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 2: So the restaurant is very sort of bohem sexy chic 43 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 2: like Balinese furniture, Donna Karen's influence, urbans and store really 44 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 2: expensive like Cashmeir items I have many of. But it's 45 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 2: a vibe and they have a DJ sometimes and jewelry. So, Sam, 46 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:20,679 Speaker 2: you're a manager there or you're the manager there. 47 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 3: I'm the matre d. 48 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: You're the matre d there, Okay. 49 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 3: So essentially, yes, one of the managers, one of. 50 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: The managers, okay. 51 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 2: And you have a side that is your side hustle 52 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 2: or you have a side hustle. 53 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 3: Well, it started as my side hustle and it evolved 54 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 3: into something much more meaningful and it really helped me 55 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 3: like rediscover my love for hospitality. But prior to COVID, 56 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 3: I was full time in the entertainment space and producing 57 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 3: content for brands and working for film festivals and making films, 58 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 3: which I just completed my first feature length film that'll 59 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,839 Speaker 3: be coming out hopefully later this year. 60 00:02:59,040 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: What's it called. 61 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 3: It's called The Premiere, okay, And you mentioned in it 62 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 3: it takes place in sag Harbor. It's a it's a 63 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 3: satirical mockumentary kind of commentary on the community. We filmed 64 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 3: it all throughout the community and it's fun, it's offbeat. 65 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 3: It's a special project that I'm excited for people to 66 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 3: eventually see it. 67 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: And you got to get it into the Hampton's Film 68 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: Festival hopefully. 69 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 3: Hopefully, but wait but this moment is like sixteen years 70 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 3: in the making for me. I really have been manifesting 71 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 3: this like meaningful conversation with you for many years. We 72 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 3: go back many, many, many years, more than you probably 73 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 3: can remember. But I said, I want to kind of 74 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 3: go back and mention it all. And I think you're 75 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 3: going to be surprised at how many interactions we've had 76 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 3: throughout the years and how I've kind of been leading 77 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 3: up to this moment. 78 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: I am surprised because I think I remember seeing you. 79 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 2: Did I see you at Kelly Rippa's party at Gelman's 80 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 2: You did? 81 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 3: Yes, you did? You saw me there? 82 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: Okay? That was? 83 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 3: That was That's one of them. 84 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like my first recent memory that I remember 85 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 2: member of you. And you asked, And I think that 86 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 2: in life for people, it's you know, it's important to 87 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 2: go for it, not to be pushy, but to find 88 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 2: the balance between pushy and going for it. And you 89 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 2: asked and Brinn advocated for you. So here we are. 90 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 2: So when did we first meet? 91 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 3: We first met in two thousand and eight at your 92 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 3: apartment on I get what it was like sixty second 93 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 3: and something. I was an intern at Extra my junior 94 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 3: year of college. 95 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 2: Oh was that when I was doing like the acupuncture 96 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 2: or something on a table. 97 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, you were doing some sort of of yoga with 98 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,720 Speaker 3: like oil dripping on your forehead. Cookie was there? Oh 99 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: my god, the whole crew. Yeah, I mean we go 100 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 3: way back. This was first season of Housewives. So I 101 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 3: feel like I really did meet you and know you when, 102 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 3: and I loved you. 103 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: Then I was going to say, was I nice because 104 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 1: you were an intern? 105 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 3: I tell people all the time, Bethany, you you really 106 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 3: one of the reasons I do admire you so much. 107 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 3: And I know there's no way to say this without 108 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 3: sounding like some sort of like obsessed, but it's so 109 00:04:57,640 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 3: much more than that, because I really kind of almost 110 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 3: of us as like, not that we're on the sating level. 111 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 3: Obviously you've achieved a lot more of success and notoriety, 112 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 3: but like, I did meet you at a time when 113 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 3: you were not as successful and I was sort of 114 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 3: starting myself in the same space. So you're my contemporary 115 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 3: as far as I'm concerned. I'm just catching up as 116 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 3: you as you recently said, you know, but you were 117 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 3: the same person in that moment that I met last night, 118 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 3: and you were the same person that I saw on 119 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 3: television you really are just who you are and unapologetically 120 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 3: you and yeah, you weren't only nice, but you were 121 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 3: funny and sarcastic and witty back then. And when I 122 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 3: met you years later at the Skinny Girl Stangry a 123 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 3: launch party at the it was at the Grammar Seat 124 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 3: Park Hotel, Oh wow. I was there because a friend 125 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 3: of mine worked for Dylan Lawrence, so we got invited 126 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:49,359 Speaker 3: and I approached you God, your then husband. You were great, 127 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 3: and I actually I recalled the first time that we 128 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 3: had met at your apartment and I said, oh, you know, 129 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 3: and at that point you had really achieved so much 130 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 3: more success, and I probably said, oh, I just, you know, 131 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 3: want you to know how much I expect what you've 132 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 3: done and how much admire you. When you you got 133 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 3: a little emotional actually in the moment, and they were 134 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 3: filming it for your show, and then afterwards your producers 135 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 3: like ambushed me and said, oh, did you sign a release? 136 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 3: Did you sign a release? And I did, and then 137 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 3: I was waiting anxiously for it to air and I 138 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 3: never did. Yeah, I was actually relieved. 139 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: Oh interesting. 140 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 3: And then I met you again at Yonkers Raceway. 141 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: When I did the Derby thing you did. 142 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 3: I went and this was like probably a rock about it, 143 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 3: but I was just going because I you know, I'm 144 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 3: from Westchester. It's just like randomly going to bet On, 145 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 3: you know, a horse race, and there you were so 146 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 3: that bright in the experience for race. Right. 147 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 2: No, but yeah, Yonkers Raceway is and we're all hopes 148 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 2: and dreams come true. But I was at Yonkers Raceway 149 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: on the Derby day and I was doing something I don't. 150 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, but listen, we've all hustled. 151 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 2: And I'm glad that that's the case because I can 152 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 2: say that there have been times there was someone who 153 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 2: said something on my talk show like that I wasn't 154 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 2: maybe I wasn't nice to them, or I think that 155 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 2: happened or somewhere like I'm always I always wonder because 156 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:01,039 Speaker 2: you were an in, so I might have been talking 157 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 2: to the producer, but like, how was I to the 158 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:04,239 Speaker 2: intern or the camera person. 159 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 1: Because you're there to do something and whatever. 160 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 2: It's impossible to acknowledge every single person, and I hope 161 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 2: that I do, because when someone comes up for a 162 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 2: picture or something like in a bathroom or a restaurant, 163 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 2: if they say, like a mid bite can I get 164 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 2: a picture? 165 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: And I'm like in that moment, I'm like, can. 166 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 2: We wait till after because I just feel degraded by 167 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 2: and then I obsess over it anyway and I end 168 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 2: up chasing. I was in the Glory Days diner in Connecticut. 169 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 2: I ended up looking through the restaurant for the person 170 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 2: because I thought they were going to wait for a second. 171 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 2: And I've done it in the airport, like run through 172 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 2: the airport out of the bathroom. 173 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: I was like mid p and you know, so anyway, 174 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: you try, But no. 175 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 2: One's crying for people who are public people, but it's 176 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 2: hard for them to every moment with someone make a 177 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 2: moment because that person it's their big moment with the 178 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 2: person who's being asked could have that moment. So many times, 179 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 2: no one's crying for anyone. I'm just saying I'm glad 180 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 2: that it's a balancing at it. 181 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 3: But anytime, any interaction we've ever had, you've been very 182 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 3: pleasant and well I appreciate that, just you know. 183 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 2: So let's talk about the Hamptons a little bit. So 184 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 2: do you love the Hamptons? Do you find it to 185 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 2: be like do she at all? During this time of 186 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 2: year you're engaging in like the service industry without getting 187 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 2: into specifics, but do you find it to be a 188 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 2: little how different is it on and off season? Not 189 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 2: from a crowd perspective, but from a type of person perspective, 190 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 2: Like how big a assholes can people be when it's 191 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 2: heightened season? 192 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 1: Without telling any names or anything. 193 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I mean people we definitely experience and witness 194 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 3: like the worst of humanity in the hospitality industry in 195 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 3: July and August. It's a lot of people who just 196 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 3: really are not ingrained in the community and they're not 197 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 3: familiar with the area, and they come here with like 198 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 3: entitled attitudes and just obnoxiousness. So that's really the main 199 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 3: difference is just obviously the volume of people that come 200 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 3: in the high season compared to you know, the year 201 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 3: round community, which is all local people like myself, And 202 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 3: it's such a small community. I mean, you're especially sag 203 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 3: Harbor specifically. You know, it's like one main street and 204 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:06,959 Speaker 3: you've got everything you need from the coffee shop to 205 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 3: the gym and to the laundromat to the restaurant. So 206 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 3: when you're here in the off season, you're spending most 207 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 3: of your day at these places with the same small 208 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 3: group of people. But that's what I love most about 209 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 3: the Hamptons is that being here year round you really 210 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 3: become part of a very special community. There just has 211 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 3: so much to offer, from you know, the natural beauty 212 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 3: in the area to you know, the allura of the 213 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 3: Hampton's and the sophistication of it, and you know access 214 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 3: to the city and everything that this area provides. 215 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 2: Well, I'm Whitney who's a friend of mine. Whitney Cummings 216 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 2: is going to be excited when I call her out 217 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:48,080 Speaker 2: again for this because she said on Kelly and Ryan 218 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 2: I think was her co host at that time, she 219 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 2: said like she was talking about the Hamptons because maybe 220 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 2: she had been here or she thought it was super 221 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 2: like do she And it's honestly not people really think 222 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:03,199 Speaker 2: that it is. Yes, if you walk into a restaurant 223 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 2: that's a hype restaurant at eight point thirty on Saturday 224 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 2: night in the July, yeah, it would probably be douchey. 225 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 2: I've never done that. You saw me last night. We 226 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 2: were probably in at seven fifteen. Seven fifteen is even late. 227 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 2: Usually we're eating at like six and you go back 228 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 2: roads and you're coming off season and you love the 229 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,079 Speaker 2: middle of the week and you love tumbleweed Tuesday. You 230 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 2: can't be a hater on the action because it's fun 231 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 2: out here. But it's such a beautiful place of farm 232 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 2: meets beach. 233 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: And it's weird because other. 234 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 2: Places I've been, like I've been to Nantucket, there's one 235 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:37,559 Speaker 2: circus in town. 236 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: It's the main town. 237 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 2: It's the same type of person, super preppy, like you know, 238 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 2: and like it's sail boady and like almost like a 239 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 2: cliche about waspiness in his country is like what Nantucket 240 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 2: is now. Martha's Vineyard is slightly is more diverse because 241 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 2: there are more towns, so this would be kind of 242 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 2: more like that. But the Hamptons has very many diverse towns, 243 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 2: like Montalk used to be like Ahman community where in 244 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 2: the winter you have like depressed fishermen that are literally 245 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 2: going out to get tuna and like there has been 246 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 2: a drug issue sometimes because all those boats, those like 247 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 2: shanty russy boats are all there and in the summer 248 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 2: they're like also, well they're actually going out fishing in 249 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 2: the winter too, but in the summer they're really like fishing, 250 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 2: as my understanding, and it's more action for them and 251 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 2: then Montalk became a hip place that became Coachella, but 252 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 2: it's still got the fishermen local thing and it's still 253 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 2: in the winter like a fishermen ghost town. So that's 254 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 2: like one area which you could correct me. And then 255 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 2: sag Harbor is used to be like it's a small 256 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 2: also harbor town, and it used to be more quintessential, 257 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 2: and there is no Starbucks and there really aren't big 258 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 2: hype stores, but it's become the epicenter and very crowded 259 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:47,560 Speaker 2: during the summer. 260 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 1: It's got a lot of different restaurants. 261 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 2: And then like Southampton's thought of as waspy, Eastampton's thought 262 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 2: of his more Jewish amagant. It's a little more like 263 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 2: rich boheme trying to be cool, like the West Village 264 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 2: or something like that. So but there's still and Westhampton 265 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 2: is still really nice, but it's closer to the city. 266 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 1: Like there's so many places. 267 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 3: Right and god forbid you live in like you know, 268 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 3: Quogg or Empton Bays, you're like an outcast. 269 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm closer to Southampton technically, but closest out 270 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 2: the Hampton Bay because I'm on a walkable like beach 271 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 2: a three mile each that I chose that, but like, it's. 272 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 3: So beautiful there, especially, like if you want to spend 273 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 3: a lot of time at your home, Like why wouldn't 274 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 3: you want to live in an area like that that's 275 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 3: a little bit more secluded and come into town and 276 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 3: out of town when you want. For me, the perfect 277 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 3: life would be to live in one of the little 278 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 3: village charming houses in Sad Harbor where I could walk 279 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 3: back and forth to town. 280 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:40,319 Speaker 2: But it's ten degrees hotter in the summer there. It's 281 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 2: very hot in the summer. And for me, the choices. 282 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 2: I'm in Bridgehampton. I have a house on a gorgeous 283 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:49,320 Speaker 2: street with a big reserve. It's not on the water. 284 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:50,079 Speaker 2: I need to be on the sand. 285 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 3: Oh, I know I mailed you a letter. Once I 286 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 3: mailed you a letter, it got returned. 287 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 2: No, we don't have a mail but no mail box 288 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,719 Speaker 2: in Bridgehampton, I mean Bridgempton. 289 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 3: And when I when I learned about the big shot 290 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 3: with Bethany, I was like, Oh, this is it. This 291 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 3: is finally going to be my moment where I'm going 292 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 3: to get to like work with Bethany in some way. 293 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 3: And I called my I called Barry Posnik who I 294 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 3: had met once and I had his number, and I 295 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 3: just really called like the head of MGM, and I 296 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 3: was like, Barry, I need you to get you want 297 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 3: to let you on the show. That well then then 298 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 3: it kind of got like derailed because of COVID. This 299 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 3: is right. The schedule got impacted. So then I guess 300 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 3: they just forgot about me. And then when I heard 301 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 3: that the cast was announced and I was not included, 302 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 3: I was, you know, distraught, and I wrote you. I 303 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 3: wrote you a letter. 304 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 305 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:35,079 Speaker 2: I have gotten most things that have ever been sent 306 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 2: to me in bridge Hampton, by the way, another good 307 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:38,719 Speaker 2: reason to move. It's not on the water, not on 308 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:41,719 Speaker 2: the sand, and you can't get mail. It's you've got mail, 309 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 2: but you don't. You've not got mail. I wonder sometimes 310 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 2: I'm in this community. I'm not a local, but I'm 311 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 2: not a summer like. 312 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: I'm here year round. 313 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 3: I'm not considered a local either. They're very very particular 314 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 3: with who can identify as a little You're not born 315 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:11,959 Speaker 3: and raised here like I say, I'm a local now 316 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 3: because yeah, I've lived here a year round for four years. 317 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 3: I work here, my life unfolds here. But God forbid 318 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 3: I claim to be a local. The real locals are 319 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 3: like the bonnickers and like the real hardcore sag Harborites, 320 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 3: people that. 321 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 2: Work in ocean rescue, people that are fishermen, people that 322 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 2: crab clam. 323 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 3: Well speaking of like, I mean, I'm wearing my Round 324 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 3: Swamp hat in honor of view, but it's farmers and 325 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 3: fishermen feed us all. Because really this place that people 326 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 3: think is so snooty and you know, ostentatious. Yeah, it 327 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 3: can be because of the amount of wealth, but the 328 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 3: place was built by farmers and fishermen, you know, and 329 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 3: that still remains right. 330 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: But what farmer or fishermen could afford Round Swamp Nobody, 331 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 1: I mean literally. 332 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 3: What billionaire can afford. 333 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean no, it's I mean, it's gotten insane. 334 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 2: It's the air on of here, but it's not. So 335 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 2: what do you think of these videos that I do? 336 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 2: And like, I mean, people come up to me all 337 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 2: the time on the street about the Round Swamp, about 338 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 2: the Chanel, about everything but the Round Swamp, And I'm 339 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 2: not kidding one. I'm like, everyone hates me and Hampton's 340 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 2: because I went to the Round Swamp one time after 341 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 2: and someone was like if I can post it about 342 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 2: it and now look, the lines are crazy than they were. 343 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 3: I'm like, it's the lord's work. 344 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: People. People need to know what's worth and what's not. 345 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 3: I love it because I understand it, because I experience 346 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 3: it so like, I don't know what Someone who isn't 347 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 3: familiar with the area might think that maybe you're exaggerating, 348 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 3: but I'm like, no, she's not. Like that's what Like 349 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 3: the spot show costs. 350 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 1: At but how good is it? 351 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 3: Three most expensive liquids on earth are like printer ink gasoline, 352 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 3: and like spot Show. It's not a lie, it's not 353 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 3: an exaggeration. 354 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: How good is that? A spot show? 355 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 3: Though I actually haven't tried it. 356 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I've ruined it. 357 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 3: I've had the chicken salad, the tune, the cookies, the fruit, 358 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 3: the apparel, and it probably paid like this trucker hat. 359 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 2: I've no, the fruit is not it. No, I'm gonna change. 360 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 2: I'm gonna fuck myself over now the fruit is not it? 361 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: Okay. Two things you need to know about the fruit. 362 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: This is shocking. 363 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 2: It's bizarre, it doesn't make any sense. It's just not it. 364 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 2: For the price I want buy a single piece of fruit. 365 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 2: There I'm telling you right now, the fruit and vegetables, 366 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 2: is not it the food, some prepared food, not those 367 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 2: sweaty salads. Because it's a pressure cooker. You got to 368 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 2: eat it the same day. Otherwise the next day you 369 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 2: want to kick the kim woa. But that's where billionaires 370 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 2: it like throw salads out, which is terrible. The stuff 371 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 2: that I say is really the stuff to get, but 372 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 2: it's not the produce. I'm going to turn you onto 373 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 2: a place that isn't Hampton Bays and it's called Neurals 374 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 2: and it's a Turkish market. And every they have passion fruit, 375 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 2: they have figs, they have like the fruit is so 376 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 2: good there, and it's so cheap. 377 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: It's very good. 378 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 2: It's Turkish, so they'll have like the Moroccan egg that 379 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 2: that Turkish eggplant salad very good. 380 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 3: I'm gonna check it out in September. 381 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I fucked myself too, because Crow's Nest has 382 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 2: the bet steak in the Hamptons, including the Palm respectfully, 383 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 2: including two do well. 384 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 3: The palm is it was like a non insistent at 385 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 3: this point, the. 386 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:09,439 Speaker 2: Best steak in the Hampton's by far As Crows. Nos, 387 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 2: not a discussion. 388 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 3: I haven't had the steak there. 389 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: No one needs a stake there. 390 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 2: So I fucked everybody there too, because I fucked myself 391 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 2: because I'm not gonna be able to get the steak 392 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:20,199 Speaker 2: or the gaspacho or the blueberries. I screwed myself more 393 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 2: than anyone. I'm gonna be able to go. I'm gonna 394 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 2: walk in with my tail to my legs and be. 395 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 3: Like, Hi, you know you used social media and you 396 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 3: know you couldn't handle the impact the power. 397 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 2: Now I'm too exactly. I mean, Porchanel were forever. 398 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:37,360 Speaker 3: Aligned, I know, and now I'm like a local celebrity 399 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 3: just because of what happened with justin Timberlake. So were 400 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 3: you in town when all that went down. 401 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to see his concert. 402 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 2: I'm excited. I like him. I think he's a good artist. 403 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 2: I think he's a good performer. I think people judge 404 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 2: him based on his relationship with Britney Spears when they 405 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 2: were wearing denim matching outfits. That's like crystallizing Kim Kardashian 406 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:00,679 Speaker 2: as a person who was in a porn film like 407 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:03,239 Speaker 2: she did Sex Take two thousand years ago. I think 408 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,160 Speaker 2: she's done a few things since then, and I think 409 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,679 Speaker 2: justin Timberlake has done a few things since then, the 410 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 2: drinking and driving, particularly in the summer, particularly in like 411 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:18,200 Speaker 2: you know, a very crowded, not advanced roads, like you're 412 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:20,919 Speaker 2: on dark roads. Sometimes like that scares me. I have 413 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 2: a daughter. I'm grateful for the experience because no one 414 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 2: got hurt and it was a cautionary tale at the 415 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 2: beginning of the summer. 416 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:28,679 Speaker 1: So that's how I see it. 417 00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 2: I agree, and people call it a mistake, I think 418 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:34,920 Speaker 2: there'll have to be fifty shades of mistakes, because that's 419 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:38,479 Speaker 2: a mistake. Is like you know, sleeping with somebody that 420 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:41,119 Speaker 2: you shouldn't have, or like you know, putting purple on 421 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 2: your walls instead of blue. 422 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: It's not driving right drunk right he. 423 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,680 Speaker 3: May he used or judgment. That's really what it comes 424 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 3: down to in my mind. When people no not you 425 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 3: know that you have alternative options. You know, you can 426 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 3: call an uber. You know, I've left my car and 427 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 3: stag barber for days. If I've had too much to drink, 428 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 3: I'll get it. I'll get three tickets. But it's cheaper 429 00:18:58,440 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 3: than someone's life. 430 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 2: Well, it literally impairs your judgment, so you can't make 431 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 2: good judgment. Once you've been drinking, so you have to 432 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 2: the tail for people. And the cautionary advice is to say, 433 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 2: if you're going to sip one sip of alcohol, that 434 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 2: has to be a game plan ahead of time for 435 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:16,159 Speaker 2: what's going to go down, unless you know yourself, like 436 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:19,439 Speaker 2: I'm a person that not even can drink one glass 437 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:22,119 Speaker 2: of wine all the time at restaurant, Like that's just 438 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 2: what it is. It's not like, oops, I drew there 439 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: had one. Think it's a good idea to have too 440 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:30,360 Speaker 2: then rescrewed, like it's called anything for me more than 441 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:32,400 Speaker 2: one drink, or if you're a small person and it's 442 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:34,439 Speaker 2: gonna be a large drink, you have to have a 443 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 2: game plan ahead of time. 444 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 3: I agree. I want to go back to your recent 445 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:53,359 Speaker 3: comment on your podcast, which I really like resonate to 446 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 3: about like not trying to mess with the media. The 447 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 3: media is the ocean, like you know, you have to 448 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 3: have like a healthy respect for the media. And so 449 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 3: on Tuesday, when all of these local news crews descended 450 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 3: on sag Harbor, like the light bulb goes off into 451 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 3: my head. I'm like, oh my god, this is a 452 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 3: great chance to like promote my podcast and make a 453 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 3: comment about Justin. So I grab like this big poster 454 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 3: like with the artwork for the podcasts, and I went 455 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:21,160 Speaker 3: from one television crew to the next, from News twelve 456 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:23,119 Speaker 3: to Fox A Good Day No, and I'm. 457 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 1: Standing there with news crews in sag Harbor. 458 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 3: It was just like one news van after the next, 459 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,199 Speaker 3: all of the crews like hamped out outside the American Hotel, 460 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:34,199 Speaker 3: outside the municipal building like it was. It was. It 461 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 3: was like a media circus. So then I just went 462 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 3: from one crew to the next, and I was trying 463 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,680 Speaker 3: to like pull up the podcast and then I would 464 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:43,920 Speaker 3: make like a comment. It didn't work at all because 465 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 3: they ended up cutting all of that out of what 466 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 3: they aired, and they also ended up cropping the poster 467 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 3: behind me. So it's just like an extreme close up 468 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 3: of my face, horrible angle and just me like criticizing 469 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,439 Speaker 3: Justin on one channel to the next. 470 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 2: Well, that's that's that's the piece of guy trying to 471 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 2: do what I would say in that case, don't be 472 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 2: so that's too obvious. Yeah they would. I'd be torn 473 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 2: off by that too. Even in the show, when someone 474 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 2: tries to their story in the show, they go to 475 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 2: the person that's not speaking a lot so and you 476 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 2: were shameless, but it didn't work, so I would find 477 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 2: a way to be interesting. 478 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 3: It was bad. It was bad. They were like, what 479 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 3: do you think and I said, well, well, I'm going 480 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 3: to elaborate more on my podcast. But yeah, right, it was. 481 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 3: It was bad. That was not my proudest moment. But 482 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 3: I think we got like four more downloads. 483 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,639 Speaker 2: But if you could have fitted into talking about your 484 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 2: podcast in a really natural way, yeah. 485 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a podcast called Driving while Drunk. 486 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 2: So I talked you know what I mean, like like whatever, 487 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 2: whatever it was, but what was what did you say? 488 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 1: What was your opinion? 489 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 3: Well, my opinion was that you know, in today's day 490 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 3: and age, with technology, you know, you can call an 491 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,400 Speaker 3: uber or someone like Justin who I imagine has tons 492 00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 3: of resources or people around him to take care of 493 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,400 Speaker 3: things like there's really no excuse to to get behind 494 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 3: the wheel and he's lucky, and it's it is a 495 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 3: good cautionary tale so that people know that celebrities are not, 496 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:14,880 Speaker 3: you know, above this kind of discipline. Then I felt 497 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 3: bad after the fact hearing that maybe he was only 498 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 3: served one martini and maybe he wasn't. 499 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 2: But that's what they said. They served him. Does that 500 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 2: mean he wasn't somewhere before? 501 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 1: Didn't? Was it driving from the American Hotel that he 502 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 1: got stopped? 503 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:26,199 Speaker 3: I believe so. 504 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:26,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 505 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,920 Speaker 2: I don't think you can't certainly can't prosecute someone based 506 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 2: on what their eyeballs look like in a photo. 507 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,120 Speaker 1: That's like ridiculous, and you can look great. 508 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 3: I mean, I think he looked pretty good, so he did. 509 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 3: His skin looked amazing. 510 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 1: No housewife has ever had a mug shot like that. 511 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 3: Is he using that Australian skincare that you've been? 512 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god? 513 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, no housewife has ever had a mug shot 514 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:46,439 Speaker 2: like that, And there's so many. 515 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:50,879 Speaker 3: Mon I Sonia's is decent, it is far well. I 516 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 3: think she looks like like youthful. She doesn't look like haggard. 517 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:58,399 Speaker 3: She looks a little disoriented, but her skin looks pretty fresh. 518 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:02,159 Speaker 2: Wait, what a great Let's guess how many housewives have 519 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:02,880 Speaker 2: mug shots? 520 00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:03,880 Speaker 1: You think it's ten? 521 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 3: Oh? Wait more? No, not New York just all, yes, all. 522 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,159 Speaker 1: Well, it's only about one hundred and fifty housewives that 523 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: have ever been anywhere across all citybee seventy. 524 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 3: When people say, when people refer to a city, as 525 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 3: a franchise, and it's like, no, the whole thing is 526 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 3: the franchise. We'll say, oh, like, oh, I'm a cast 527 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 3: member on a different franchise. 528 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 2: No, it's a city in an overall franchise. Right, how 529 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,560 Speaker 2: many you think there are? Then you'd say there's ten. 530 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,640 Speaker 2: There's not fifteen, because that would be ten percent almost. 531 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 3: I would say it's got to be thirty. 532 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 1: Stop. 533 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to do some research. I'm going to 534 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:40,159 Speaker 3: come back to you with a. 535 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 2: Comprehensive I think it's a great coffee table book. It 536 00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 2: is just like each Housewives mug shot, real mug. 537 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 3: Shots of the real housewives. 538 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, real mug shots are the real housewives. Well, this 539 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,160 Speaker 2: was so fun. There was really really fun. 540 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 3: We didn't even get to talk about the Palm Tree 541 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 3: Music Festival. I thought you were going to go on 542 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:58,360 Speaker 3: a rant about that. 543 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 2: I don't know much about it. I saw traffic and 544 00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:03,360 Speaker 2: my daughter had kids over here that night. 545 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:04,159 Speaker 1: That was the big night. 546 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,360 Speaker 2: I had my big girl panty moment on and let 547 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,880 Speaker 2: her have boys over with her girlfriend and supervised. And 548 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 2: it was the night of the Palm Tree Festival. So 549 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 2: I was still awake listening to them because they couldn't 550 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 2: get out of here. 551 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 1: The boys were taking an uber. 552 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:19,240 Speaker 2: Home all the way to mon Talk and I couldn't 553 00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 2: get out of here. 554 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: They couldn't get out of here because of that festival. 555 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 2: So thank god my driver happened to be out that 556 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 2: night here that night, and he waited and he had 557 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 2: to drive them to where they could get it. But 558 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 2: is that a real It sounds like that was a 559 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 2: real music festival because I know someone who came in 560 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:32,160 Speaker 2: from La for it. 561 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:32,640 Speaker 1: Is it real? 562 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:34,680 Speaker 3: It is? I just don't get it or I don't. 563 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 3: First of all, there's not a single Palm Tree like 564 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:38,399 Speaker 3: in the Northeast. I don't know why they would ever 565 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 3: call it the Palm Tree Music Festival. 566 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 2: That's a great line. Wait, but is it like a 567 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 2: Coachella type of thing, like a real fetch. 568 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,639 Speaker 3: I think it's more like electric zoo like more like 569 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 3: house techno music versus like disaster. That's my idea of 570 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 3: Randall's Island. Yeah, that's not even Hampton z at all, 571 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 3: not at all. 572 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:57,920 Speaker 2: That doesn't make any sense. That would be in Westhampton 573 00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 2: in my opinion, like closer to the city. 574 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 3: Were own speech like yeah, before. 575 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 2: Electronic dance music. It doesn't make any sense, not at all. Wow, 576 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 2: that makes a lot of sense. So anyway, So Brin's 577 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,000 Speaker 2: your your biggest your biggest support, your biggest. 578 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 1: Advocate, your agent. 579 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 3: And change my life. 580 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 2: Yes, oh my god, this is so fun. You looked great, lesson, 581 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 2: you loved your outfit. Well what's the podcast called. 582 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,399 Speaker 3: It's called Next in Line and I host it with 583 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 3: Shane from Sagtown, who you may remember, remember the episode 584 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 3: where you went surfing and you had to pay for 585 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 3: everybody and you Yes, of course I do that. Shane 586 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 3: was the surf instructor. 587 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:32,440 Speaker 1: Oh what's his less name? 588 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:33,919 Speaker 3: You know, Dykeman? 589 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,200 Speaker 1: Dykeman. Yes, and Sagtown. You're talking about the coffee place. 590 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 3: Yes, we record it there. It's yeah, he owned that. 591 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 3: It's chaos. He owns the place that. 592 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 2: Food looks amazing and other sandwiches. And I've gone in 593 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:46,400 Speaker 2: there and posted in there too. 594 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. It's very good. 595 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just. 596 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 2: Fucking everybody over here. But the locals should be happy. 597 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:52,160 Speaker 2: I think Roundstomp has to be happy. 598 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. All right, so much fun, Thank you 599 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:56,200 Speaker 1: so much, Thank. 600 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 3: You so much for having me. This was so special 601 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,639 Speaker 3: and I look forward to seeing more. Be at tutto 602 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 3: and anywhere else. 603 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 1: Let's see you soon.