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Speaker 2: Jay is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Dove.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But first
Speaker 2: let's find out about the date.
Speaker 3: Jay. How long has it been since you heard from Dove?
Speaker 4: Almost two weeks now?
Speaker 3: Have you been reaching out to her in that time?
Speaker 4: I did, like once or twice, Like, you know, I'm
Speaker 4: not trying to be too invasive, you know, I know
Speaker 4: the chicks like their space.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, okay, which may be happening right now, we
Speaker 3: don't know. So let's talk about your date, Jay. How
Speaker 3: did that go? Oh?
Speaker 4: I thought it went pretty well.
Speaker 5: We went to a game, had a couple of beers afterwards.
Speaker 4: Like somebody was going well.
Speaker 5: So she I asked she wants to go to a
Speaker 5: bar sports boring nearby and she was down and kicked
Speaker 5: it for a while, and uh, still seems kind of
Speaker 5: crazy about like she kept asking me like if I'm
Speaker 5: going to order anything.
Speaker 4: Else to eat? And uh, I'm a big eater.
Speaker 5: I don't know if I made her feel uncomfortable because
Speaker 5: she was like just chowing down and I wasn't. But like,
Speaker 5: you know, one of my my good buddies always tells
Speaker 5: me that I should eat before the day because I'm
Speaker 5: a little bit of a slob.
Speaker 4: I don't know if she was bothered by that.
Speaker 3: What, Like, I don't know, wew sloppy? Do you eat?
Speaker 3: Were you like throwing food all over the restaurant?
Speaker 5: And I only have I only have another person's opinion
Speaker 5: on it, you know who I trust, So I don't know.
Speaker 5: I mean, I do kind of score barbecue sauce on
Speaker 5: the shirt, but you know, a couple of drinks then.
Speaker 3: Like on purpose.
Speaker 5: No, No, I'm trying to help her out, like trying
Speaker 5: to pass it over and.
Speaker 6: Okay, so I have a good conversation outside of the
Speaker 6: condiment showers or.
Speaker 4: Uh have my I thought?
Speaker 2: So, okay, did it seem like the barbecue sauce on
Speaker 2: the shirt bothered her?
Speaker 4: No? I mean not that I was aware of.
Speaker 3: You know, we'll see, we can help you out and
Speaker 3: try to figure it out.
Speaker 2: We'll plays song, come back and then call her and
Speaker 2: see what hotell us why she's ghosting you, maybe get
Speaker 2: you another date.
Speaker 4: Okay, ah, sick, I'm gonna put my phone probably on mute.
Speaker 4: Washing comes on, so it's gonna be a lot of windows,
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that's probably a good idea.
Speaker 2: All right, we'll play a song, come back, give you
Speaker 2: first day follow up.
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Speaker 2: Then little of your first day follow up, and Jay
Speaker 2: is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by a girl
Speaker 2: named Doves On a second. We're gonna call her and
Speaker 2: see if she why she's ghosting him and maybe get
Speaker 2: him another date. But first, Jay, why don't you refresh
Speaker 2: our memory on your date before we call her?
Speaker 4: Yow douv and I went to a game kicked it
Speaker 4: when is sports?
Speaker 1: Far?
Speaker 4: After saw saunor, which apparently is the thing, and uh,
Speaker 4: then she just dipped and kind of ghosted.
Speaker 6: Now I'm trying to see what's good?
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah for sure.
Speaker 2: And you think maybe the barbecue sauce on her shirt
Speaker 2: might have been the thing that turned her off?
Speaker 5: Well, I didn't before, but you guys kind of made
Speaker 5: a big deal about it.
Speaker 2: Okay, so maybe it's all right, man, we're gonna call
Speaker 2: her ready, all right, Sie, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 2: I speak to Dove. Please, Hey Dove, how are you?
Speaker 2: My name is Jebel. I'm calling from a radio show.
Speaker 2: It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 3: Hi, Dove, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3: How are you? Hi?
Speaker 6: I'm okay.
Speaker 3: Hey, do you ever listen to the show.
Speaker 6: I have been passing. I'll be honest. I'm more of
Speaker 6: a Spotify kind of gal.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's hey, that's fine. So we do a segment
Speaker 2: that's called the first Date follow Up. It's where you
Speaker 2: go out with someone and you end up ghosting them.
Speaker 2: That person can email us to get you on the
Speaker 2: phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got
Speaker 2: an email about you from somebody. Okay, well, can you
Speaker 2: think of anybody that you're currently ghosting?
Speaker 6: I mean, I've gone on a couple of dates. I
Speaker 6: you know, we're all out here trying to make it happen.
Speaker 6: I had gone on a date a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 6: I did have a good time. Okay, what was his name?
Speaker 6: I think uh Jay? And we like went to a
Speaker 6: game and I liked him, and there's another guy, Michael,
Speaker 6: I don't know, maybe Michael or Jay.
Speaker 3: Maybe Michael or Jay. You're right the first time, yes,
Speaker 3: J Yeah. Jay wants to know why you're not calling back. U.
Speaker 4: Well did my dad did I forgotten? Mute? Oh?
Speaker 2: Jay is on the phone, actually listening and wants to
Speaker 2: talk to you.
Speaker 6: Wow.
Speaker 3: So anyway, Yeah, he wants to know why you're ghosting in.
Speaker 6: Okay. Well, this is a wild experience and when I
Speaker 6: can truly say I've never had before in my life. Yeah,
Speaker 6: I mean I what what did she say something that
Speaker 6: I totally is?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: All right, so yeah, I like thought he was really attractive.
Speaker 6: I'm really into like, you know, the sorry per saying
Speaker 6: this way J, but like the dad good look like
Speaker 6: it's kind of a vibe that I like, and you know,
Speaker 6: we were really vibing. And and then he like started
Speaker 6: eating and he wanted a side of mayo for like
Speaker 6: a dip. But I actually have like a mayo phobia,
Speaker 6: and I just didn't want him to feel bad, which
Speaker 6: which is like why I never said anything. But then
Speaker 6: I kept trying to be cute about it, and twitt
Speaker 6: like twisted that it wasn't a thing anymore, and I
Speaker 6: kept trying to like feed him so that he would
Speaker 6: just skip the Mayo dip. And then you know, even
Speaker 6: at the end of the night, I like I wanted
Speaker 6: to kiss him, but like I could an idea, like
Speaker 6: I deal with like the Mayo in my mind, and
Speaker 6: so honestly, it was like the Mayo thing, and I
Speaker 6: maybe probably should have said something, but like now I don't.
Speaker 6: I mean, that's just it hasn't. I don't know, well, clearly,
Speaker 6: like this is a strange moment.
Speaker 3: You have a like a male phobia, like a legit
Speaker 3: f yeah.
Speaker 7: Like it's like everything about it makes me a free
Speaker 7: but more anything like deeply, deeply viscerally disgusting.
Speaker 6: I think it's like it's a textural thing.
Speaker 7: It's a visual thing. I look at it and like
Speaker 7: the way that it like looks like in a mound
Speaker 7: is like it.
Speaker 6: Was just like, oh my god, Like I'm talking about
Speaker 6: it right now, but if.
Speaker 7: You want to vomit, like I just like it's just
Speaker 7: like I think about it and my entire body tenses
Speaker 7: and then I look to smell the smell of it,
Speaker 7: the idea of what's even in it, Like everything about
Speaker 7: Mayo makes me nauxious and I also, yeah, I guess
Speaker 7: at this point it's become like a fear to even
Speaker 7: be around it because of how it makes me viscerally feel.
Speaker 6: Damn, did not hear that?
Speaker 4: I read something about Mayo like it Actually they said
Speaker 4: it doesn't have dairy, but I think it does.
Speaker 2: What this is like kind of good news?
Speaker 4: I thought it was the fact that I sostuff your shirt.
Speaker 6: No, that wasn't it. Though it was actually one of
Speaker 6: my favorite shirts and now it can't come out.
Speaker 4: But no, that wasn't the reason.
Speaker 5: Damn, dude, Like if you would have broke it down
Speaker 5: for me, I would have stowed up passed that out
Speaker 5: the window.
Speaker 4: Dude, Like, yeah, that would have been nice. I guess. Yeah,
Speaker 4: never again to the Mayo, well, dub, even though you.
Speaker 5: Just dissed me, Like, I'm gonna be real, there should
Speaker 5: only be one turtle Dove, because you're a hell unique.
Speaker 3: Wow, are you sure the Mao is the reason why
Speaker 3: you were ghosting?
Speaker 6: There's like a little vibe here, like like I was laughing,
Speaker 6: I had a really good time and just like then, yeah,
Speaker 6: the Mayo really put the ick in all of this.
Speaker 6: I couldn't take it. But like you're you're you're a
Speaker 6: unique little dude, buddy.
Speaker 5: No, I respect that it's better that we learned about
Speaker 5: the Mayo thing now than like, you know, down the road.
Speaker 5: Since I put the ick in it, if you go
Speaker 5: out with me again, we could put the young back
Speaker 5: in it.
Speaker 2: Would you like to go out with j again on
Speaker 2: another date? We'll pay for it mayo.
Speaker 6: Okay, okay.
Speaker 7: I would be willing these pickup lines. I don't know
Speaker 7: if I like them or I hate them. I haven't
Speaker 7: decided yet that they are making me smile, So I would.
Speaker 6: Be willing to on the condition that for the moment,
Speaker 6: we just don't include food at all, and we can
Speaker 6: do some like activity or something that's like really cute,
Speaker 6: and we can we can re establish the food stuff
Speaker 6: at a different points on.
Speaker 2: Alignell, congratulations, Jay, you got another.
Speaker 5: Date, so dog like for real, I got hell activities
Speaker 5: that we could bust through that don't involve Mayo.
Speaker 6: Sounds like a great time.
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