1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 2: Jay is on the phone today for a first date 4 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Dove. 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see 6 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But first 7 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 2: let's find out about the date. 8 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 3: Jay. How long has it been since you heard from Dove? 9 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:21,440 Speaker 4: Almost two weeks now? 10 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 3: Have you been reaching out to her in that time? 11 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 4: I did, like once or twice, Like, you know, I'm 12 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 4: not trying to be too invasive, you know, I know 13 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 4: the chicks like their space. 14 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, okay, which may be happening right now, we 15 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 3: don't know. So let's talk about your date, Jay. How 16 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 3: did that go? Oh? 17 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 4: I thought it went pretty well. 18 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 5: We went to a game, had a couple of beers afterwards. 19 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 4: Like somebody was going well. 20 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 5: So she I asked she wants to go to a 21 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 5: bar sports boring nearby and she was down and kicked 22 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 5: it for a while, and uh, still seems kind of 23 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 5: crazy about like she kept asking me like if I'm 24 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 5: going to order anything. 25 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 4: Else to eat? And uh, I'm a big eater. 26 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 5: I don't know if I made her feel uncomfortable because 27 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 5: she was like just chowing down and I wasn't. But like, 28 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 5: you know, one of my my good buddies always tells 29 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,759 Speaker 5: me that I should eat before the day because I'm 30 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:16,759 Speaker 5: a little bit of a slob. 31 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 4: I don't know if she was bothered by that. 32 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,759 Speaker 3: What, Like, I don't know, wew sloppy? Do you eat? 33 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 3: Were you like throwing food all over the restaurant? 34 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 5: And I only have I only have another person's opinion 35 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 5: on it, you know who I trust, So I don't know. 36 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 5: I mean, I do kind of score barbecue sauce on 37 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 5: the shirt, but you know, a couple of drinks then. 38 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 3: Like on purpose. 39 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 5: No, No, I'm trying to help her out, like trying 40 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 5: to pass it over and. 41 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 6: Okay, so I have a good conversation outside of the 42 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 6: condiment showers or. 43 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 4: Uh have my I thought? 44 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 2: So, okay, did it seem like the barbecue sauce on 45 00:01:58,240 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 2: the shirt bothered her? 46 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 4: No? I mean not that I was aware of. 47 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 3: You know, we'll see, we can help you out and 48 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 3: try to figure it out. 49 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 2: We'll plays song, come back and then call her and 50 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 2: see what hotell us why she's ghosting you, maybe get 51 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 2: you another date. 52 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 4: Okay, ah, sick, I'm gonna put my phone probably on mute. 53 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 4: Washing comes on, so it's gonna be a lot of windows, 54 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 4: you know. 55 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that's probably a good idea. 56 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 2: All right, we'll play a song, come back, give you 57 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 2: first day follow up. 58 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury 59 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. 60 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:36,839 Speaker 2: Then little of your first day follow up, and Jay 61 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 2: is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by a girl 62 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 2: named Doves On a second. We're gonna call her and 63 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 2: see if she why she's ghosting him and maybe get 64 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 2: him another date. But first, Jay, why don't you refresh 65 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 2: our memory on your date before we call her? 66 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 4: Yow douv and I went to a game kicked it 67 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 4: when is sports? 68 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: Far? 69 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 4: After saw saunor, which apparently is the thing, and uh, 70 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 4: then she just dipped and kind of ghosted. 71 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 6: Now I'm trying to see what's good? 72 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah for sure. 73 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 2: And you think maybe the barbecue sauce on her shirt 74 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 2: might have been the thing that turned her off? 75 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 5: Well, I didn't before, but you guys kind of made 76 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 5: a big deal about it. 77 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 2: Okay, so maybe it's all right, man, we're gonna call 78 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 2: her ready, all right, Sie, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, 79 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: I speak to Dove. Please, Hey Dove, how are you? 80 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 2: My name is Jebel. I'm calling from a radio show. 81 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: It's called The Jebel Show. 82 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 3: Hi, Dove, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria. 83 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 3: How are you? Hi? 84 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 6: I'm okay. 85 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 3: Hey, do you ever listen to the show. 86 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 6: I have been passing. I'll be honest. I'm more of 87 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 6: a Spotify kind of gal. 88 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 2: Okay, that's hey, that's fine. So we do a segment 89 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 2: that's called the first Date follow Up. It's where you 90 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 2: go out with someone and you end up ghosting them. 91 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 2: That person can email us to get you on the 92 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 2: phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got 93 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 2: an email about you from somebody. Okay, well, can you 94 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 2: think of anybody that you're currently ghosting? 95 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 6: I mean, I've gone on a couple of dates. I 96 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,559 Speaker 6: you know, we're all out here trying to make it happen. 97 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 6: I had gone on a date a couple of weeks ago. 98 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 6: I did have a good time. Okay, what was his name? 99 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 6: I think uh Jay? And we like went to a 100 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 6: game and I liked him, and there's another guy, Michael, 101 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 6: I don't know, maybe Michael or Jay. 102 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 3: Maybe Michael or Jay. You're right the first time, yes, 103 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 3: J Yeah. Jay wants to know why you're not calling back. U. 104 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 4: Well did my dad did I forgotten? Mute? Oh? 105 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 2: Jay is on the phone, actually listening and wants to 106 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 2: talk to you. 107 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:12,919 Speaker 6: Wow. 108 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 3: So anyway, Yeah, he wants to know why you're ghosting in. 109 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 6: Okay. Well, this is a wild experience and when I 110 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 6: can truly say I've never had before in my life. Yeah, 111 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 6: I mean I what what did she say something that 112 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 6: I totally is? 113 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 3: Yeah? 114 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 6: All right, so yeah, I like thought he was really attractive. 115 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,280 Speaker 6: I'm really into like, you know, the sorry per saying 116 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,479 Speaker 6: this way J, but like the dad good look like 117 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 6: it's kind of a vibe that I like, and you know, 118 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 6: we were really vibing. And and then he like started 119 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 6: eating and he wanted a side of mayo for like 120 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 6: a dip. But I actually have like a mayo phobia, 121 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 6: and I just didn't want him to feel bad, which 122 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 6: which is like why I never said anything. But then 123 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,239 Speaker 6: I kept trying to be cute about it, and twitt 124 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 6: like twisted that it wasn't a thing anymore, and I 125 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 6: kept trying to like feed him so that he would 126 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 6: just skip the Mayo dip. And then you know, even 127 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:30,799 Speaker 6: at the end of the night, I like I wanted 128 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 6: to kiss him, but like I could an idea, like 129 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 6: I deal with like the Mayo in my mind, and 130 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 6: so honestly, it was like the Mayo thing, and I 131 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 6: maybe probably should have said something, but like now I don't. 132 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 6: I mean, that's just it hasn't. I don't know, well, clearly, 133 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 6: like this is a strange moment. 134 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 3: You have a like a male phobia, like a legit 135 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 3: f yeah. 136 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 7: Like it's like everything about it makes me a free 137 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 7: but more anything like deeply, deeply viscerally disgusting. 138 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 6: I think it's like it's a textural thing. 139 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 7: It's a visual thing. I look at it and like 140 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 7: the way that it like looks like in a mound 141 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 7: is like it. 142 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 6: Was just like, oh my god, Like I'm talking about 143 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 6: it right now, but if. 144 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 7: You want to vomit, like I just like it's just 145 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 7: like I think about it and my entire body tenses 146 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 7: and then I look to smell the smell of it, 147 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 7: the idea of what's even in it, Like everything about 148 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 7: Mayo makes me nauxious and I also, yeah, I guess 149 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 7: at this point it's become like a fear to even 150 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 7: be around it because of how it makes me viscerally feel. 151 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 6: Damn, did not hear that? 152 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 4: I read something about Mayo like it Actually they said 153 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 4: it doesn't have dairy, but I think it does. 154 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 2: What this is like kind of good news? 155 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 4: I thought it was the fact that I sostuff your shirt. 156 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 6: No, that wasn't it. Though it was actually one of 157 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 6: my favorite shirts and now it can't come out. 158 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 4: But no, that wasn't the reason. 159 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 5: Damn, dude, Like if you would have broke it down 160 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 5: for me, I would have stowed up passed that out 161 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 5: the window. 162 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 4: Dude, Like, yeah, that would have been nice. I guess. Yeah, 163 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 4: never again to the Mayo, well, dub, even though you. 164 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 5: Just dissed me, Like, I'm gonna be real, there should 165 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 5: only be one turtle Dove, because you're a hell unique. 166 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 3: Wow, are you sure the Mao is the reason why 167 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 3: you were ghosting? 168 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 6: There's like a little vibe here, like like I was laughing, 169 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 6: I had a really good time and just like then, yeah, 170 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 6: the Mayo really put the ick in all of this. 171 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 6: I couldn't take it. But like you're you're you're a 172 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 6: unique little dude, buddy. 173 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 5: No, I respect that it's better that we learned about 174 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 5: the Mayo thing now than like, you know, down the road. 175 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 5: Since I put the ick in it, if you go 176 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 5: out with me again, we could put the young back 177 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:00,119 Speaker 5: in it. 178 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 2: Would you like to go out with j again on 179 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 2: another date? We'll pay for it mayo. 180 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 6: Okay, okay. 181 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 7: I would be willing these pickup lines. I don't know 182 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 7: if I like them or I hate them. I haven't 183 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 7: decided yet that they are making me smile, So I would. 184 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:19,079 Speaker 6: Be willing to on the condition that for the moment, 185 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 6: we just don't include food at all, and we can 186 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:24,959 Speaker 6: do some like activity or something that's like really cute, 187 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 6: and we can we can re establish the food stuff 188 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 6: at a different points on. 189 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 2: Alignell, congratulations, Jay, you got another. 190 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 5: Date, so dog like for real, I got hell activities 191 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 5: that we could bust through that don't involve Mayo. 192 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 6: Sounds like a great time. 193 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:54,679 Speaker 1: Ju Wile's first date follow up