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Speaker 1: Welcome to episode five sixty two of the Bobby Cast.

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Speaker 1: It is me also with Morgan Number one and Mike d.

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Speaker 1: So I want to tell a story about this album

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Speaker 1: right here. This is a old Chro Medicine Show Christmas

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Speaker 1: vinyl if you're watching on YouTube, you can see it

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Speaker 1: here and signed by all the guys of All Crow

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Speaker 1: Medicine Show. And so yesterday I went to a record

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Speaker 1: store in town called Grimey's and Grimes If you ever

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Speaker 1: come to Nashville and you're looking for a cool record stores,

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Speaker 1: probably one of the top three. Mike, Yeah, I would

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Speaker 1: say number one. I would say number one, two, But

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Speaker 1: I'm not cool enough to know the top record store,

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Speaker 1: say number one. I know two record stores that and

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Speaker 1: Third Man that and the one that Jack Why Does.

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Speaker 1: That's the only ones that I know. And I've been

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Speaker 1: to Jack Whites and it's cool, but it's really small, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and this one's a lot bigger and they have older vinyls.

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Speaker 1: So I go in and I was looking for some records,

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Speaker 1: not to play, but to just have put up on

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Speaker 1: little stands inside of our new studio. And so I'm

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Speaker 1: in and I'm looking for Counting Crows August and everything.

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Speaker 1: After I'm looking for a Food Fighters record. I'm looking

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Speaker 1: for like old Buddy Holly stuff, just stuff that I like.

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Speaker 1: And when I get to Grimy's, there's a lot of

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Speaker 1: cars in the parking lot and it's two thirty in

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Speaker 1: the afternoon, and so I have to drive all the

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Speaker 1: way around. Not a huge parking lot, but I have

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Speaker 1: to drive all the way around just to find an

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Speaker 1: So I walk in and there's a band that's playing

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Speaker 1: the small stage in the record store, and so like

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Speaker 1: all that's interesting. It's a bluegrass band and they don't

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Speaker 1: have like a solo microphone for the person. They have

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Speaker 1: one of those microphones, and everybody kind of gathers around

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Speaker 1: while they're playing their instruments. And okay, cool, I picked

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Speaker 1: today where somebody's showcasing their music. But I'm still gonna

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Speaker 1: look for the records that I want. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: pay much attention to it, but if it's good, maybe

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Speaker 1: I'll take an Instagram story and post it up. So

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Speaker 1: they keep playing the same song over and over again,

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Speaker 1: and I haven't really walked up to the stage yet,

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Speaker 1: but they played this song four times in a row,

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Speaker 1: and like, man, these guys must have just one song.

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Speaker 1: And so finally they're like, okay, I think that's good,

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Speaker 1: and I walk a little closer to it because I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to find like the used albums because vinyl's expensive.

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Speaker 1: I it's like forty bucks for a new one. So

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Speaker 1: I was trying to find used stuff because again, I

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Speaker 1: just wanted to use the more than anything, just like

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Speaker 1: the case, what would you call this leave? Yeah, thinks

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Speaker 1: and so I realize it's all cro medicine show up

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Speaker 1: on the stage. Now, I have met Ketch a few times.

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Speaker 1: I've played the opry, when he's played the opera, he's

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Speaker 1: done the radio show. Has he ever done this podcast?

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Speaker 1: No radio shows, though, so I know catch enough. If

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Speaker 1: I saw him at a grocery store, i'd say hi.

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Speaker 1: If we were close enough, I wouldn't chase him down,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know, I'm not well to go chase

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Speaker 1: him down to say hi. But I know I'm well

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Speaker 1: enough that if we're in the same place, for sure,

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Speaker 1: And so he comes up and again I'm gonna be

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Speaker 1: honest with you, guys, I didn't know they were there.

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Speaker 1: But I do enjoy Alcro Meta the show and rock

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Speaker 1: me Mama like a wagon will catch comes up. We

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Speaker 1: got dude, thanks for coming to the show, Like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god. I was like, yeah, I wouldn't miss it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I said I wouldn't miss it, to

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Speaker 1: be honest. I think I said something like yeah, like

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Speaker 1: something very nondescript like yeah about that. It's definitely why

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Speaker 1: kept playing the same song over and over again. I

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Speaker 1: when I realized they were playing the show. And then

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Speaker 1: people started a jam pack into the record store and

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Speaker 1: so he's like, man, thanks for coming. Let me get

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Speaker 1: you a record, and they got the whole band to

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Speaker 1: sign it. And then I also had to get home.

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Speaker 1: And so they were starting the show, but I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to walk out before they started the show because

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Speaker 1: I just had this whole conversation with him about Arkansas,

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Speaker 1: about he's now engaged to mall tuttle. They just got engaged,

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Speaker 1: and I hope that that's not a secret. You may

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Speaker 1: look and see if that's up good anywhere. So when

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Speaker 1: slowly backed out, like I just so everybody, this is

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Speaker 1: one of the check out Old Crow Medicine Shows Christmas album.

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Speaker 1: Oh CMS Xmas. You can see it here. They engaged.

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Speaker 1: What's it say?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, story came out twenty minutes ago. Is what I'm seeing.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's great, Well this is going to take a

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Speaker 1: minutefore he posted. Anyway, okay, there you go. Well good.

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Speaker 1: So what I'd like to say, because I was not

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Speaker 1: support them stream their music or check out their vinyl

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Speaker 1: Old Crow Medicine Show Christmas. There you go. That's what

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Speaker 1: happened yesterday. And then I posted the picture on Instagram

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Speaker 1: and more than one person was like, why are you

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Speaker 1: at a show on a weeknight? So I wasn't. It

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Speaker 1: was like four o'clock in the afternoon and I was

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Speaker 1: trying to find vinyl.

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Speaker 2: I assumed you were like filming a special or something

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Speaker 1: An Old Crow medsage jokers and a special.

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Speaker 2: He has to be going out for content if he's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well it wasn't I posted it at night. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there is a former Navy seal that has a massive

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Speaker 1: podcast named Sean Ryan, and I consume his podcast mostly

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Speaker 1: through clips, which I think is how a lot of

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Speaker 1: And Sean Ryan was asking her like how did you escape?

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Speaker 1: Like how did you know when do escap? Because they

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you don't even know what's out there, right,

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Speaker 1: So I'm watching this video and I was just actually

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Speaker 1: a hacker. We brought a hacker, and the hacker was like,

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Speaker 3: Was it a tutorial that we could go back and

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Speaker 1: I didn't show you how to hack, but it did

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Speaker 1: show you, he said. I've put up a free internet,

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Speaker 2: That's one skill I wish I had me too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, coding, I won't even have to go to hacking.

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Speaker 2: I learned that on MySpace when you'd build your own profile,

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Speaker 2: I'd like very early like JavaScript, I'm like, I can

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Speaker 1: So I was taking notes on Sean Ryan because I

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Speaker 1: So pretty pumped about it. We can't find the perfect

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Speaker 1: And we're finishing up our episode of lots to say,

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Speaker 1: our NFL show and that's Matt Castle, the former quarterback

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Speaker 1: in myself and Morgan's filling it because Brand is not

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Speaker 1: here this week. Like running cameras and as we're about

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Speaker 1: to walk out, Morgan's has hey, uh, when you need

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Speaker 1: game to me. So I said, let me guess.

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Speaker 3: And you guessed worst things yelling.

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Speaker 1: Our new guy quit. Okay. Yeah, I was like, dyaling

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Speaker 1: quit already and she was like no, And I said, okay,

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Speaker 1: And she said that they had booked Sean Ryan for

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Speaker 1: It was like a random musician in town that they found.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how they found him.

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Speaker 3: Instagram, no idea, no idea and the what gave it

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Speaker 3: away to us. Mike actually texted me while we were

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Speaker 3: recording Wants to Stay?

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Speaker 1: I was reading the story about Cash Mattel, who is

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Speaker 1: Not only hard to follow because he might be I

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Speaker 2: You just planned things on your laptop.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely shut you down.

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Speaker 3: Are you fired from your job?

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Speaker 1: Does they may know where you can buy bots?

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Speaker 2: I don't know specifically, but you essentially have to find

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Speaker 3: Wait, did you do that for either of us?

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Speaker 1: No, this is way before. Okay, this is living in

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Speaker 3: No, I can look into it for you'll, I'll tell

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Speaker 1: to actually do it, as like you made a song

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00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:00,200
Speaker 1: farting the national anthem and then you bought did it

438
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,040
Speaker 1: up to go number one? Like that would be a

439
00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:03,640
Speaker 1: funny joke, but I'm sure that would cost one hundred

440
00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:04,680
Speaker 1: thousand dollars more than that.

441
00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, i'd be very expensive, and for.

442
00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:09,080
Speaker 1: It to go number one. I have a bunch of

443
00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,159
Speaker 1: questions here, I said, we were doing a Q and A,

444
00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:14,399
Speaker 1: and so I think a lot of these that I

445
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:17,399
Speaker 1: picked are questions that I think it's fun for everybody

446
00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:21,800
Speaker 1: to answer. Let's go with what's the one thing you

447
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,880
Speaker 1: wish you were better at in your personal life right now?

448
00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:28,160
Speaker 2: Mike talking to people? Like I am terrible at making

449
00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:29,600
Speaker 2: just conversation with somebody.

450
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not terrible.

451
00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:33,800
Speaker 2: Oh, I am like with you guys, I'm comfortable with

452
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:35,280
Speaker 2: But even then sometimes I'm like, I don't know, I

453
00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 2: really know what to say right now? I am so

454
00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:39,560
Speaker 2: comfortable in silence like that That's what I thrive in,

455
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:41,520
Speaker 2: Like going into a room just like I don't want

456
00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:42,199
Speaker 2: to say anything.

457
00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:46,280
Speaker 1: I was at foot therapy today and so I go

458
00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:48,920
Speaker 1: before and I still wearing a boot for my surgery.

459
00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 1: I suck at small talk, like I just haven't trained

460
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,439
Speaker 1: myself enough for it to just be passable without it

461
00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:58,159
Speaker 1: being awkward. And so I have a main therapist that

462
00:20:58,160 --> 00:20:59,919
Speaker 1: come starts doing stuff with me, and then after that

463
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,680
Speaker 1: it's like when youut your haircut, somebody new comes along

464
00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:04,119
Speaker 1: and start washing her hair. But it's like that, but

465
00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 1: in therapy. And so this other therapist comes along. She's like,

466
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 1: how's Thanksgiving? And I think the proper thing to say,

467
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 1: now that I'm removed from it, is it was great,

468
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:17,200
Speaker 1: Thanks for asking how's yours? And I said, I'm dairy free.

469
00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 1: It sucks couldn't eat anything. Well, I've heard.

470
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 3: You mentioned being dairy free so many times.

471
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 1: But that was what came to my mind when she

472
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 1: said how was Thanksgiving? And so I said that and

473
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 1: she's like oh, And then I didn't ask her anything back.

474
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 3: Oh no.

475
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:35,240
Speaker 1: So it's just like We're sitting there and it's awkward.

476
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,159
Speaker 1: And I realized I'm not good at small talk. And

477
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 1: this was only a moment for small talk. This wasn't

478
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 1: actually a time to get to know somebody because she's

479
00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:44,159
Speaker 1: going to be in my life for about seven minutes max.

480
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:48,400
Speaker 1: And she's like, oh yeah, yeah, And so she's struggling now.

481
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:52,200
Speaker 1: She like, did you have a favorite dish? And I said, well,

482
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 1: we had turkey, and then I had some some dressing

483
00:21:58,080 --> 00:21:59,640
Speaker 1: and then there's some pumpkin pie. Of it was dairy

484
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,919
Speaker 1: free pump goodbye. So that sucked. She's like, oh boys,

485
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 1: And there was no question back. And again that really

486
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: wasn't meant for us to. I just should have said

487
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 1: it was a great thanks for asking, how's yours. And

488
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 1: on a different level, Arkansas, I was hired a new

489
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,399
Speaker 1: football coach and by the time this comes out, he

490
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,160
Speaker 1: may have been on one of the sports shows. I'm

491
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,679
Speaker 1: not sure, but I don't know him at all. And

492
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,119
Speaker 1: so I do have a friend that knows him pretty well.

493
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:29,679
Speaker 1: I have two friends I know him pretty well. But

494
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 1: one of them puts me on a group text with

495
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,719
Speaker 1: my friend, the new Arkansas football coach and me, and

496
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,120
Speaker 1: so he texts it all and he says Ryan because

497
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:42,879
Speaker 1: that's the coach's name. He says, Ryan, it's my friend Bobby,

498
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:47,400
Speaker 1: like biggest Razorbake fan. I know, Booster, you should probably

499
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: know him because he's a great guy and I and

500
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:54,439
Speaker 1: the coach Ryan Silerfield replies back, Hey, it's awesome, like

501
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 1: just started the job, got a lot going on, overwhelmed,

502
00:22:57,080 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 1: but loved to meet you. You know some something. I

503
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: never replied to that for like two days. I he

504
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 1: didn't ask me a question, and then my friend hit

505
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 1: me up and goes, you never replied to that, like

506
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:14,200
Speaker 1: I've put you on the text and you never I said, Well,

507
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 1: there wasn't a question asked. And also what am I

508
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 1: supposed to say? Hey, thanks, good luck?

509
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,159
Speaker 3: You got to give it the thumbs up or something.

510
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 1: That's what he said he said.

511
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 3: At least I just acknowledge that.

512
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 1: He literally said that exact thing. And Mike, so I

513
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 1: feel you. Whenever you said that he said, maybe just

514
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: a thumbs.

515
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 2: Up, That thumbs up has changed my life.

516
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't. I didn't thumbs it up. Though.

517
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 2: My problem is I just absorb information and if, like

518
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:51,879
Speaker 2: you said, if there's not a question like, that's it.

519
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 2: That's the end for me. I'm like, I heard what

520
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,120
Speaker 2: you said. I take it in. I have nothing to say.

521
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 1: My wife gets really annoyed with me because she will

522
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 1: say something and not ask a question, but expect an

523
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: answer to a statement. Statements aren't meant for me to answer.

524
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 1: If I have something to add to it, I do.

525
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 1: But she's like, you have a reply to that. I

526
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 1: didn't ask a question. I'm thumb up, like, you're not

527
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 1: a robot, Like I heard what you I heard what

528
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 1: you said.

529
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,880
Speaker 3: You interview for a living. You can keep a conversation alive.

530
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: But I don't feel like I was supposed to keep

531
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 1: a conversation alive. It's not my job to be the

532
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 1: life preserver of every like real life conversation. I'm bad

533
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 1: at small talk too, so I understand. But I had

534
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 1: two instances in the last two days where I realized

535
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: that it is not my strength. Now, if you put

536
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:38,880
Speaker 1: me on a text thread and you're like, hey, this

537
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 1: is Sean Ryan, you need to convince them to come

538
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 1: on the show, I'm be freaking hilarious. I'm beyond I'm

539
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 1: a reply. I'm gonna do like just a right amount

540
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 1: of gifts, you know, maybe a couple of emojis in

541
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 1: the right places, like I'm going to be extremely charismatic

542
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: in the text. But if it's like real life, I

543
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:04,399
Speaker 1: do not have sharpened small talk skills where somebody like

544
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 1: Eddie is that's what he lives for. He doesn't want

545
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 1: to go deep with anybody. He'd rather just have small talk.

546
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 1: Just weather, weather, in traffic. That's all he cares to

547
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 1: talk about. Like he's good, Morgan, what do you wish

548
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 1: you were better at?

549
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:19,439
Speaker 3: I wish I was better at caring to date? Is

550
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 3: that too deep?

551
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: But I wish I was better caring to date.

552
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,719
Speaker 3: Caring to date like I've been a real homebody lately,

553
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 3: which I feel like is relatable to some of what

554
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:32,439
Speaker 3: Mike was saying of just you know, I'm good. I'm like, dang,

555
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 3: I probably should get out there in date, but I

556
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 3: don't feel like it. Can you imagine right now in

557
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 3: your lives if you had to go on a dating app?

558
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 2: I die alone at this point, I got very lucky.

559
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 2: I found my wife, Like, I can't imagine going back

560
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 2: to that. I was terrible at dating, Like I said,

561
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 2: I can't talk to people. I went on so many

562
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 2: first dates, never a second date till I met my wife.

563
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 1: I was an assassin on a dating app though, or

564
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: just tech? What's that game? Well, once you get to

565
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 1: a point, the human part is what I would kind

566
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: of suck at unless it was a performance. But it

567
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 1: doesn't matter if it's dating app or talking with somebody

568
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,199
Speaker 1: that's in a non romantic like on a phone or

569
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 1: on a computer, like in a text. Like again, I'm

570
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 1: knocking them down. I'm freaking hilarious because it's all strategy

571
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 1: and execution. But yeah, do you worry? Hell?

572
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:22,400
Speaker 3: Are you thirty three?

573
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 1: Do you care about that?

574
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm starting to because the people around

575
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,880
Speaker 3: me I'm noticing, are bringing it up more. So I'm

576
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 3: thinking more about it.

577
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,199
Speaker 1: I just saw that Cana Miller had her third kid

578
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 1: or she got pregnant forty three again. Wow, not only that,

579
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: there's there's been a couple of like forty years, like celebrities.

580
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm at that point where I see Kelly Kelly,

581
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

582
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 1: I think they were told they couldn't have another kid

583
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 1: and it just happened she got pregnant.

584
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 3: I'm thinking about freezing some egs, but that sounds like

585
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 3: a lot of work, and I know some people who

586
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,439
Speaker 3: have done it and they get really emotionally haywire, and

587
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 3: I really don't want to do that.

588
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: You know why they get emotionally haywire.

589
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 3: Because all those hormones are all the hormones. Yeah, yeah, exactly.

590
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 3: I'm not really interested in that. So I'm kind of

591
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 3: at a point where I'm like, if that happens, it happens.

592
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 3: If it doesn't, I have two nephews that are biologically

593
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 3: half me.

594
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 1: So, but you've had dudes you dated?

595
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. I had a college ex boyfriend circle the

596
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 3: block and asked me on a date recently.

597
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 1: Define circle the block.

598
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 3: Dm me on Instagram responded to a picture and said

599
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 3: we should go on a date.

600
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: I thought he drove by your house.

601
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 3: He circled the metaphorical digital block.

602
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 1: Does he live in your hometown he lives.

603
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:42,919
Speaker 3: No, he we met in West Tennessee at college, but

604
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 3: he lives in Nashville, like half a block from where

605
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 3: my office is.

606
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: Do you have any interest or you're not? Are you

607
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: not interested because you're just not interested in dating? Or

608
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: are you not interested because you're not interested in him?

609
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 3: I I told him, and I was like, I'd be

610
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 3: down until I get together and catch up on you know,

611
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 3: how you're doing. But I don't want it to be romantic.

612
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 3: I don't think I'm in.

613
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 1: Said that I don't want to.

614
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 3: I didn't say I don't want it to be romantic,

615
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 3: but I was like, I'm basically a none at this point.

616
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 3: I made some sort of joke about it, like, I'm

617
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 3: basically a none at this point, but we can get

618
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 3: together and you know, catch up on the old days.

619
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:19,919
Speaker 1: If I'm him, I still take that opportunity.

620
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,919
Speaker 3: Because I was really trying to walk that line of

621
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 3: being like this wouldn't be a date, but not being

622
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 3: bratty about it.

623
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: It's still a small door open, though. If I'm him,

624
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: I'm going great, I'm down, because then it's just a crack.

625
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: All you need is a crack.

626
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 3: All you need is a crack. But I'm a bumper sticker.

627
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: I think it's fine, so that may happen. We'll see

628
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: when you try to date.

629
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 3: I really don't. That's the problem. I haven't tried to date.

630
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 1: You were dating?

631
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I dated a guy for six months in.

632
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 1: Texas, which when they live far it is probably easier

633
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: and harder, easier because you don't have the obligation to

634
00:28:58,880 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: be together a whole lot.

635
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 3: What's bad is I liked the distance. I liked that

636
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,719
Speaker 3: I could like plug into my life and then go

637
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 3: out there and yeah, it's a me problem. I'm working.

638
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: We need is another COVID to come along?

639
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I need the whole world to shut down again.

640
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: I mean whenever Caitlyn and I were dating, because she

641
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 1: was living in California and it was back and forth

642
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: every other weekend, she would come here and COVID hit

643
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 1: and she was like, hey, I'm just gonna or I

644
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 1: was like, hey, come here just for a couple of weeks,

645
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: this thing will be over. And it lickety split, and

646
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 1: two weeks turned into two months or so because California

647
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: they shut down before we did, right, Like California was

648
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: a ghost town, and.

649
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 3: So she kind of caught the last flight out.

650
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, she left and they came here, and then it

651
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: turned into a couple of few months and then from

652
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: that because I had never lived with anybody. I mean

653
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: I had, like Mike lived with me for a little bit,

654
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 1: but I but I didn't. I never had like any

655
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: sort of real roommate situation, never romantically ever, like not

656
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 1: even close there. But that put us in that situation

657
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: where it kind of accelerated the relationship because we had

658
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,479
Speaker 1: just been going back and forth for a long time.

659
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 1: We would have just kept doing that.

660
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 3: I don't think so I think you say that.

661
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: No, I'm saying it wouldn't have happened like it did,

662
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 1: because it happened where we had been dating for months,

663
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 1: three or four months or so, and she came and

664
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: stayed for a couple of weeks, but then she never left.

665
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 1: She probably would have moved here in a year, in

666
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: a year and a half, whatever it was. I don't

667
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 1: think it would have happened like it was then, where

668
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: it was like, hey, come for two weeks and then

669
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: she ends up staying. But then it got to the

670
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 1: point where it was her lease was up on her apartment,

671
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 1: and then I was like, well, we got to make

672
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 1: a decision, and she was like I can go back

673
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: or not, and I was like, no, don't go back.

674
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: I think it was the timeline was just accelerated because

675
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 1: of COVID. So what you need to do is have

676
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 1: a guy you're dating, have COVID Hitka Part two accelerated,

677
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: and then there.

678
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 3: You go, we gotta find some bats or something.

679
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:56,959
Speaker 1: It would have also been I would have also known

680
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: quicker that it wasn't her as my which as I

681
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: did that it was her because we just forced together.

682
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 3: I've never lived with the guy before.

683
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 1: Oh, I never lived with a girl.

684
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 3: Until you say it would have taken a year. You

685
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 3: were so locked in on her.

686
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 1: I agree.

687
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 3: I think everyone around you I was like, oh, this

688
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 3: is this is it.

689
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: I agree with everything you're saying. I'm just saying the

690
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: moving part because she had a really great job. She

691
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 1: was she had gone back to school to get her master's,

692
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: she was finishing up her there. There were just all

693
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: these things that would have kept us from doing that,

694
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 1: that were a part of normal life that we're blocking

695
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 1: it at the time. But because of COVID, her job

696
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 1: got very easy to do from a remote location because

697
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 1: it had to be done. And secondly, she went because

698
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: she went back to grad school to get her masters

699
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 1: while she had this job, and they shut down school,

700
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 1: but they just did it remotely like everybody else, So

701
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: that allowed it to be easier for her to stay here.

702
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 5: The Bobby Cat We'll be right back. This is the

703
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 5: Bobby cast.

704
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 2: You remember the moment where reality kind of set in

705
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 2: because the same thing kind of happened with my wife

706
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: and I. We were long distance. COVID shut everything down

707
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 2: and she moved here, and for the first month it

708
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 2: was like awesome, like.

709
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 1: You're finally living here.

710
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 2: Everything's great. And there was like a moment where I

711
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 2: remember we had like an argument over the dishwasher where

712
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 2: it went from like, oh, we're not playing house anymore,

713
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 2: this is like real life. Did you have that moment?

714
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, because she was like, you you played video games

715
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: a lot, Like, oh my god, I work all day

716
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: because that was my reintroduction to PlayStation because I hadn't

717
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 1: played in ten years, and so I ordered PS five

718
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 1: and it's when our little football league with all my

719
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 1: friends we started playing together. And I would work all

720
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: day and then I would play PlayStation for like three

721
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: hours or so. And she was like, you got it.

722
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 1: I get off the video game a little bit, and

723
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 1: I was like you, like, I just did. I never

724
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: had that consideration of I need to think about somebody

725
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: else all the time. So for me, I think that's

726
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: when the reality of it set in where I have

727
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: to actually be aware that there's somebody else in the

728
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 1: house that I need to be thoughtful about.

729
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 3: Quality time is major.

730
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 1: It's for sure. Mine's gifts. Here's his gifts.

731
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 3: I've never met one person who's loved language top level

732
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 3: language as gifts.

733
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 1: Giving and receiving gifts.

734
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 3: You give great gifts.

735
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm much easier now that.

736
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 3: It's hard to get gifts for you though, Well.

737
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: Again, because I have money, I think it was easier

738
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: when I was poor. Yeah, you could get me one

739
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: of those little basketball hoop keep on top of the door.

740
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: Not good, good for like five hours. But you know,

741
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,719
Speaker 1: I because and it's not always just a money thing,

742
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: but it's single And when I had an okay amount

743
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: of money, I would just buy whatever I wanted. If

744
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: I wanted someone, I'll just get it. Because I didn't

745
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 1: have kids, didn't have a girlfriend, didn't have a wife,

746
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 1: did't have anything like that. So if some thing interest me,

747
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 1: I just got it.

748
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 3: And do you also feel bad now having money, like

749
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 3: expecting when people are like, what do you want for Christmas?

750
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 3: Are you kind of like don't worry about me? Are

751
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 3: you still like I.

752
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: Think I hold some people to unfair standards, okay, to

753
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 1: still like make me feel warm? And for those people, Caitlin, Yeah,

754
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 1: And she's told me before, She's like, I can't and

755
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: I can't live up to like whatever standards you have,

756
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: it's really hard for me to meet them. And I'm like,

757
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you what to get me, And she's like,

758
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:27,959
Speaker 1: but give me an idea, and I'm like, no, because

759
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 1: you have to drop hend. No, that's that's the thing

760
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 1: we got into, and not in a bad way. But

761
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 1: we talked about it for like three months because she

762
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,760
Speaker 1: would go, I know that your love language is gifts

763
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 1: and that means a lot too, and I think it's rooted.

764
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 1: And I didn't get a bunch of gifts growing up,

765
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: Like we didn't really have good Christmases. Why, I don't

766
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 1: think any of us three did. And so we're like

767
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: to triangle a poor here, and it's likely that's our

768
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 1: superhero group.

769
00:34:58,680 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 3: Uh.

770
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 1: And so I didn't get a lot of gifts growing up,

771
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: and when I did, it blew my mind. And I

772
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: was so grateful because it wasn't that nobody wanted to

773
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: get me anything, but like in our small circle, people

774
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,280
Speaker 1: were in and out, and also we'd have any money,

775
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:11,760
Speaker 1: so there weren't a lot of gifts to go around,

776
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 1: and so when people get me something now, I'm like, oh,

777
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 1: this is awesome, like something to mean something. And I

778
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 1: would just put this high expectation on my wife, who's

779
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 1: supposed to know me better than anybody, to get me

780
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 1: something that blows me away, but.

781
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 3: You're very hard to blow away. You stay very even

782
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 3: keeled on all things.

783
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 1: But you're not my wife. I expect her would be

784
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,399
Speaker 1: very hard and it was unfair. And I understand your point,

785
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: because she would go, hey, there's a few things I

786
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: would like. I'll send you some links. She would send

787
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 1: me links to things that she would like for Christmas,

788
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: and where she would she would send me like a

789
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: link to like eleven different things. She's like, here's some

790
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: gift ideas. You want to get a couple of these.

791
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: That'd be awesome. I'd go buy all eleven of them.

792
00:35:58,920 --> 00:35:59,280
Speaker 3: Damn.

793
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: I would just like, Okay, Well, if she wants, I'm

794
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 1: gonna get it all clear the list? Yes it was teachers. Yeah,

795
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: uh so I get her all the gifts. Where I

796
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 1: got myself in trouble doing that though, is I would

797
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 1: get her all the gifts. But her birthday is like

798
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 1: two weeks after Christmas. Oh yes, so then I get

799
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:17,319
Speaker 1: her all eleven gifts. I'm like, well, now what the

800
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 1: craft I do for a birthday?

801
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 3: Mike's wife is the same exact way.

802
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 2: I just like kind of get a bunch of things

803
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 2: and then split them up.

804
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 1: Even the smart person it took me a couple of Christmas.

805
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 2: It's a good thing I found, like right now, since

806
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:29,799
Speaker 2: it is around the holidays, like there's so many holiday deals,

807
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, I get kind of a better deal.

808
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: Well, Valentine's Days right after that, and not even that

809
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day is like super important what you've been uh

810
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: together or married for a long time. But there's still

811
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 1: some importance to acknowledging that. And so and I that's

812
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: my love language. I like to get and give gifts.

813
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 1: So it's really murderers row for me, Birthday, Christmas, Valentine'sday,

814
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 1: all right there, bam, bam bam.

815
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 3: Is it like an experience? Is the thing you look for?

816
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 3: Something tangible and physical?

817
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:01,919
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, like it'll treat street. And so what

818
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: she would say is point me a direction, and I

819
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: would go, I shouldn't.

820
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 3: Have to, you should know me enough.

821
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: That's exactly what it was. It was totally unfair, And

822
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: I realize now that I don't like that that I

823
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: put her in that position.

824
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 3: It's a little self sabotage. Oh yeah, very much so,

825
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 3: because she can't read your mind and she does know you,

826
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 3: but I've known you for over ten years and when

827
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 3: your birthday comes up.

828
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 1: I go, well, yeah, Bobby, So I put her in

829
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 1: a place not to succeed. And we had the conversation

830
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: a few times over a few birthdays, because I would

831
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: just be have my guts ripped out if I didn't

832
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: get exactly what. A couple of times she did. She

833
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: nailed it. She got me an Andy Kaufman note he

834
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: wrote to himself, Andy Kaufman is like a comedian performance

835
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 1: artist from the eighties, late seventies, eighties that died and

836
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: I think he's yea super funny but transcendent in that world.

837
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 1: Or did he die? Or did he die? Is right?

838
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: Not Diddy but not the rapper in prison? Is he did?

839
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, yeah, so she got So she's done

840
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: really great. But I've had to at least point her

841
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 1: in a direction because it.

842
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:14,800
Speaker 3: Was unfair not to Yeah, give her a bone?

843
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: Pun. Okay, so did you you answered yours? Not dating?

844
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: I think what was the question again? We've gone around

845
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: the room. What do you wish you're better at? That's it.

846
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: I think now I'll do a short term. I've been

847
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 1: in this boot for now a month and a half,

848
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: taking showers, bad.

849
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 3: High tiene over there, huh. How often are you in

850
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 3: the day.

851
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: My wife's like, your armpits and not like crap, And

852
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't get him a footwet. She's like,

853
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 1: you can, but you gotta put the bag on it.

854
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 1: I get to take this thing off, hopefully in like

855
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 1: three weeks. I've not been good at I don't smell.

856
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: I don't I don't want I smell myself. I smell fine.

857
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think an outsider should be giving you

858
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 3: that insight.

859
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, they do.

860
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 3: How often are you showering right now?

861
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 1: Now? Every day? But for a while I I was

862
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 1: not getting out of bed. Why do I have to

863
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: shower if I don't get out of bed because I

864
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: was just laying there all day? And I understand the

865
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 1: answer to that as well.

866
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 2: And then in the cold, it's like, why don't working out?

867
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: I haven't worked out in freaking five.

868
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,879
Speaker 3: Weeks, but your hair gets greasy and your pits gets no.

869
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: No, I understand the actual answer to it.

870
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I just want to what's.

871
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: The step after the boot? Just the step after the

872
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: boot is a brace, a laced up brace that I

873
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 1: have to wear for like two or three weeks. And

874
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: then I get to start walking on a treadmill and

875
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: then I'll do you know, cuts and pivots and jogs.

876
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 1: But I've really been focused on my therapy, like going

877
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 1: and but doing it every day, three times a day,

878
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: and so I think I'm actually ahead of schedule. I

879
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: hope I'm a had a schedule. What's a purchase you regret, Mike?

880
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 1: I get stuff.

881
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 2: There was this thing on TikTok that I thought was

882
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 2: the coolest thing ever that it would reseal bags for you,

883
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 2: and as the only thing I've been tricked on TikTok

884
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 2: where you would like open a bag of chips and

885
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 2: you want to seal it so it stays.

886
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,359
Speaker 1: Fresh, I bought it. Never worked, really, Yeah, TikTok shock

887
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: kind of is awesome. Man sucks. I do a lot

888
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 1: of cool stuff, but it's never good, Like it's never quality.

889
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,799
Speaker 2: I assume it's never good at work because they make

890
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 2: it look awesome, like, oh, that's going to change my life,

891
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 2: and then I just don't think you can live up to expectations.

892
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 3: I've done some pretty great stuff off of TikTok shop,

893
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 3: like what hair extensions, curling wands.

894
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 1: Mike and I are trying to buy, like technology stuff, though,

895
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: I do want a flamethrower. Oh those are awesome, the

896
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 1: ones they sell on TikTok.

897
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, Kaitlin, are you hearing this?

898
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:37,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, Morgan?

899
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:41,879
Speaker 3: What was the question? Something I bought that I regret.

900
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 3: I'm the new apartment I'm running.

901
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: You regret it?

902
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 3: Yeah?

903
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 1: So far away.

904
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,320
Speaker 3: It's so far away, and I thought it would be fine,

905
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 3: but it's really a headache. It's nice to live closer

906
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 3: to family, but man, that drive in and home sucks.

907
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: After we finished it to be five o'clock, I.

908
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 3: Know, and I'm getting dinner with my dad, so he's

909
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 3: probably gonna be texting me being like, where are you at?

910
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: He'll be there at eight down there. He lives down

911
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: there too.

912
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 3: We're five minutes store to door. That's a good part

913
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 3: about it.

914
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 2: I bought one of those Apple Oh the Vision.

915
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 1: I spent thousands of dollars on the thing, and you

916
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: I usually like seven times I thought that was the future. Man,

917
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 1: I think it's still the future. I think this.

918
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,280
Speaker 2: Version is virtual reality in the future.

919
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 1: It's too cumbersome. I don't know that. I think a

920
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:38,919
Speaker 1: version what is virtual reality that's also within real augmented reality? Yeah,

921
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,879
Speaker 1: I think augmented reality to the future, meaning we're sitting

922
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: here now, I can still see all you guys. Everybody's normal.

923
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: There are elements that can be added, like in my glasses.

924
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:47,919
Speaker 1: Like in my glasses, I wanted to see the time,

925
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 1: or there was a game on that I can see

926
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: like in this room, but you guys don't see it.

927
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 1: I think I think augmented reality is the future.

928
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,319
Speaker 2: Because I think the new meadow ones where it's like

929
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 2: you can see somebody, you're talking to them, but then

930
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 2: all these messages are popping up and I just can't

931
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 2: see that working and catching on.

932
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:08,240
Speaker 1: Like it's too fancy.

933
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 3: I'm so old school. We need to like teck it

934
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 3: down a little bit and get back to like good

935
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 3: old fashioned face to face.

936
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 1: That's the next question. Do you think social media is

937
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: making people happier or more anxious? Oh?

938
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 3: Definitely more anxious, terribly anxious.

939
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:24,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can agree with that, but I think both.

940
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 1: It makes me happier and it makes me more anxious.

941
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 3: How does it make you happier?

942
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:32,240
Speaker 1: I have friends that I only really know on social media.

943
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 3: And that brings you joy.

944
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I have friends and I've met some of them,

945
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 1: but whenever we went to Chicago. We went to barstool.

946
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: I didn't know Brandon Walker. We DM and text and

947
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: football game. Like I feel like I know that dude,

948
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 1: I met him one time, but we did hugged you

949
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: on the way out. Yeah that was a disaster. I

950
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:56,359
Speaker 1: thought that was real. But like I have those type

951
00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: of friends that have turned into a bit of human relationship. Okay, solid,

952
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: that's good, but I am. I'm four days sober from

953
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: social media, no from looking at any apt replies or

954
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 1: comments of anything. It makes me so much happier. I

955
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: don't go like on Twitter, I don't go to my

956
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 1: at that replies at all. You just posted my post

957
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: and let it leave the bo and I post on Instagram,

958
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: I don't look into the comments. I go to YouTube,

959
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: I'll check out some analytics. I never I don't even

960
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:34,760
Speaker 1: look out a comment as singer. YouTube is the worst. Facebook.

961
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 3: Facebook is brutal.

962
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 1: I haven't been on Facebook in a while, like the

963
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,760
Speaker 1: Bobby Bone Show Facebook page, and I might be wrong

964
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 1: because I guess I haven't really been Like this YouTube

965
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 1: for at Bobby Bone' channel doesn't have enough that people.

966
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: It's so toxic. But are you talking about it's like

967
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 1: general YouTube.

968
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:56,280
Speaker 2: I feel like general YouTube users are the most brutal

969
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 2: because they'll go after your physical attributes to most out

970
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 2: of any other social media platform. Like the only time

971
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 2: I really felt bad about myself was reading YouTube comments.

972
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 3: Oh I'll go beat them up for you, Mike. That's

973
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 3: so nice.

974
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 1: I haven't looked at a single comment or at reply,

975
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 1: and who knows who's trying to get in touch with me.

976
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 1: And I feel like, if you message me on Twitter,

977
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: if you're not in the DMS, I'm not going to

978
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:17,840
Speaker 1: see it. But it's felt great because I don't go

979
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 1: over because I get triggered pretty easily, and then I'll

980
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 1: just fight with people.

981
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 3: You I'll get anytime I get on Twitter, which is

982
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 3: rare or ex whatever we're calling it, I don't call

983
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 3: it X. I see your reply to someone, I'm like,

984
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 3: oh god.

985
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 2: Look at any account going after this. Oh that's actually it.

986
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:34,280
Speaker 3: Don't engage.

987
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 1: I'll get triggered by something, and especially on Twitter, like

988
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't fight people on Instagram. I

989
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: don't fight people on TikTok like I don't care. But Twitter,

990
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: that's right, that's right for one on one. But I'm

991
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: four days sober where I haven't looked at a single

992
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 1: comment to anything, and it makes me so much happier

993
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: because it's always net loss.

994
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 3: Do you have a number of days you're trying to

995
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 3: get to?

996
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 1: No, but I was thinking, like only on Tuesdays we'll

997
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 1: ever look at anything something.

998
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 3: Like that that she will treat on Tuesdays as a little.

999
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 1: Well it said, I can't. I don't want to just

1000
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: stay completely disconnected.

1001
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 3: M M.

1002
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: But if I just give myself like a Tuesday, that'd

1003
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: be fighting day. So that would be probably what it's

1004
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:20,839
Speaker 1: going to be. But yeah, no, it's it's tough because

1005
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 1: I get in the habit too on Twitter. I'm on

1006
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 1: Twitter the most. I also hate it the most, so

1007
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: it's a lot of hate scrolling. I like it because

1008
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 1: it gives me the things that I want in the

1009
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 1: for you page, because it's sports, politics, it's music stuff.

1010
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, it'll it'll put something

1011
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 1: in that it knows is going to fire me up,

1012
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: and I'll reply to it and they'll come back at me,

1013
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 1: and here we go. Because that's how they're making their money. Engagement,

1014
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 1: and how do you get the most engagement is enragement

1015
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 1: in arrangements engagement. So they want you being upset and

1016
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: fighting with people more than anything else. That's what they want.

1017
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:55,919
Speaker 3: We're doing it.

1018
00:45:56,680 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 4: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor, Wow,

1019
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 4: and we're back on the Bobby Cast.

1020
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:18,799
Speaker 1: Next up, what's the best concert you've ever seen? Mike.

1021
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 2: I'd say the best concert I ever seen was a

1022
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 2: couple of years ago. I got to see Blanklin eighty

1023
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 2: two for the first time. And I've been a fan

1024
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 2: since I was probably in like third or fourth grade.

1025
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 2: And they've changed a lot over the years, have switched

1026
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 2: out original members, and this was them coming back with

1027
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 2: the original lineup, and it was the only time I

1028
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 2: ever got emotional at a concert, Like they played one

1029
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 2: of my favorite songs, Adams song, and like I just

1030
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 2: felt like this overwhelming amount of joy and I just

1031
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 2: kind of started crying a little bit because I was like, Wow, Like,

1032
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 2: never in my life that I ever think I would

1033
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 2: see them live, because as a kid, couldn't afford it,

1034
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,959
Speaker 2: Like going to a concert just never entered my brain.

1035
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 2: Like I would see bands touring, I'm like, there's no

1036
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 2: way I would ever go see my favorite band in concert.

1037
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 2: And here I was finally in like in my thirties

1038
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 2: getting to see my favorite band of all time, and

1039
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 2: it was an amazing show.

1040
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 1: So that was more about the experience than it was

1041
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: them being sonically amazing.

1042
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 2: They're not historically a great live band, Like if you

1043
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 2: like Blanklin eighty two, you like the humor of it,

1044
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 2: you like the recordings of it, but them live, it's

1045
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:23,280
Speaker 2: not like you're going to watch some really great musicians.

1046
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 2: But it's a fun environment. They're funny on stage, and

1047
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:27,439
Speaker 2: it's just overall it's a fun show.

1048
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 1: Be'st concert, Morgan.

1049
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 3: I have two that are coming to mind. The first

1050
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 3: one is kind of in line with You. Mike is

1051
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 3: like one of my first big shows. I went to

1052
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 3: Memphis in May. Is big and West.

1053
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 1: Good of Memphis main Market. We drive over from Arkansas.

1054
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:44,359
Speaker 3: Florence in the Machine. I saw her set and I

1055
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 3: was like, oh my gosh, this is I mean, her

1056
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 3: vocal and she's like a little faery up on stage,

1057
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:55,280
Speaker 3: hard to top. And then Tyler Childers at the Raymen

1058
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 3: would be my backup.

1059
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: I think mine's probably and Man festivals are kind of

1060
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 1: cop outs. But John Mayer at acl in Austin, I

1061
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 1: was still living there and I don't like festival. I

1062
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:12,240
Speaker 1: don't like all the people, but I think that's probably

1063
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: the best concert I've ever been to. I'm a massive

1064
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: John Mayer fan, so that's probably why I think we've

1065
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 1: all you loved Tyler Childers Florence on the Machine probably

1066
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 1: weren't a huge fan of but then we're blown away.

1067
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:22,279
Speaker 3: Became a fan.

1068
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, I'm gonna go John Mayer at acl way

1069
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,920
Speaker 1: back in the day. Something I've been thinking about something

1070
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 1: that triggers me. If we ask someone to be a

1071
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: guest and they say no, I get so irritated and

1072
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: in my mind I blackballed in forever.

1073
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 3: You can't do that a guest on any of your shows.

1074
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty much. But like we've asked people to come

1075
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,359
Speaker 1: on the podcast and I have a whole list of

1076
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 1: no's And in my mind.

1077
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 3: Do you keep that list?

1078
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 1: Well, I have it on my computer. In my mind,

1079
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 1: I think they're gonna ask me for something and you're

1080
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 1: gonna go back to them and I'm going to not

1081
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:04,359
Speaker 1: give it to them.

1082
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 2: Is it any know or is it like not right

1083
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:12,919
Speaker 2: now or maybe later or anything? Just them saying not no.

1084
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:17,399
Speaker 1: If someone says they politely decline, that's just them sad too.

1085
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 3: Oh man A politely decline, but I see the list

1086
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 3: because Morgan sends me the list. Well, now I'm not

1087
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Speaker 3: going to like, I'm going to be upfront with you.

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00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 1: I have no yeah, yeah, keep sending me the list.

1089
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:31,359
Speaker 1: Like I have in my mind like three or four

1090
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:34,879
Speaker 1: people that I'm like, screw them. Eventually they're gonna ask

1091
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 1: me for something, and am I gonna give it to them?

1092
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 1: And who knows? They may have something going on in life?

1093
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:43,240
Speaker 1: They don't. But then I see them doing other press.

1094
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 1: I can see that, and I take personal offense and

1095
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 1: I understand how it's extremely petty. But there's like three

1096
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 1: or four specifically where I'm so confused, but yeah, I

1097
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:58,240
Speaker 1: basically blackballed them in my mind. I'm twelve.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't advice. I get the mentality because sometimes

1099
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 3: I see those emails come in and I'm like, I

1100
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 3: think they think they're too good.

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00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's exactly, like, who do they think they are?

1102
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 2: Especially when it's one you probably don't even really like,

1103
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 2: you're not like the most excited about.

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00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:21,399
Speaker 1: There's one specifically that I was like, oh, this would

1105
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 1: be interesting and here's why not a massive celebrity, but

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00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 1: somebody famous enough and not even have to do it

1107
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,360
Speaker 1: in person. You can do it virtual. And it was

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00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:37,280
Speaker 1: like politely declined, I'm like, gosh, I'm.

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00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:40,439
Speaker 3: So curious which one you're talking about. Some people though

1110
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 3: I'm playing Devil's advocate here. I don't like doing shows.

1111
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 3: They don't.

1112
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 1: But I've seen this person doing shows like I started

1113
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: scrolling through TikTok.

1114
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 3: But maybe that's the one show that they're tending them

1115
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:54,800
Speaker 3: to do.

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00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,240
Speaker 1: It's like seven shows.

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00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm trying to help here. I know you can't

1118
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 3: take it personal.

1119
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 1: I do. I take everything personal, and it's the opposite

1120
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 1: of the four agreements, take nothing personal in business?

1121
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 3: How many things do we pass on politely?

1122
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: Some? But for example, I'll give you one specifically, but

1123
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 1: there's a reason and I and we do pass on things,

1124
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:21,280
Speaker 1: but not substantial things. And if we do, it's based

1125
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:24,759
Speaker 1: on I didn't do Nick Viles podcasts because I feel

1126
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 1: like I'd have anything to offer, Like.

1127
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 3: They talk a lot about pop culture and.

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00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: And like television, and I was like, man, I'm gonna

1129
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 1: go on, I'm not gonna have anything to offer that show.

1130
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 1: And that was literally the reason it wasn't because he

1131
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: has a massive show. They have a great following. But

1132
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't. I don't think I'm going

1133
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,799
Speaker 1: to do a good job on that podcast because they

1134
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 1: want to talk about shows. I don't watch shows.

1135
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, so they probably appreciate that.

1136
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what got back to them, but so

1137
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:56,360
Speaker 1: there are things like that. But I didn't say politely decline.

1138
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:58,359
Speaker 3: Well, you didn't send the email, but I wouldn't. That's

1139
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 3: a thing. I hate getting those emails. So I try

1140
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:04,399
Speaker 3: and find ways to word my passing emails to let

1141
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 3: them know that we did take it into consideration.

1142
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 1: Even that into consideration feels like, well.

1143
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 3: I don't say that, but I try and make it

1144
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 3: a human response.

1145
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 1: I'm doing a podcast soon as a guest, and also

1146
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't do a lot of be a

1147
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: guest on podcasts like interviews. I have like seven podcasts.

1148
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 3: I wanna say you host four or five of them.

1149
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 1: So but I'm doing one, and I was I'm not

1150
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 1: even say what it is, but I wasn't super familiar

1151
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 1: with it, and but I just did a couple of clicks.

1152
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, this looks interesting, so yeah, sign

1153
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 1: me up. I just can't believe this one person.

1154
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:43,400
Speaker 3: You will let it go.

1155
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 1: It was like four, but one specifically really fires me up.

1156
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 1: I wanted to do a segment where I would come

1157
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:52,280
Speaker 1: on and say who turned us down, but then also

1158
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 1: weld on I kind of love that.

1159
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 3: Well, just watch the world burn, Bobby.

1160
00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 1: It's not it's not just that. But I want to

1161
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 1: do a segment. I want to look at the camera

1162
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 1: here so we can click this. I want to do

1163
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: a segment where people that turn down being a guest

1164
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 1: on the show. I reveal who said no, and then

1165
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:13,800
Speaker 1: I tell you their story, like something really good about them,

1166
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 1: so then I don't hate them. Like my goal is

1167
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:22,279
Speaker 1: to find out like what makes them awesome? Like I

1168
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 1: share really great things about people that say no to

1169
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,800
Speaker 1: being on our show because I have a black heart

1170
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: now towards that person because they said they didn't want

1171
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 1: to be on our show. Even though it's unfair for

1172
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: me to feel that way.

1173
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 3: You know what we should do. We should get there

1174
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:36,879
Speaker 3: all of their moms on.

1175
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:42,800
Speaker 1: And that's creepy to find somebody's mom. Yeah, so I

1176
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: don't know, Well, probably won't do that. Some of them

1177
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 1: don't offend me though, because I don't even ask Some

1178
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:52,879
Speaker 1: people they just go out and we said, if I can

1179
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 1: find one of the emails here.

1180
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 3: They just the people that will please not ready your names, the.

1181
00:53:58,160 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 1: People that we used to book our show. They just

1182
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 1: go out and we'll ask certain people on press tours,

1183
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 1: like for example, I wasn't offended, I do not even know,

1184
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:13,839
Speaker 1: but unavailable or revisit. Let me find a good one here,

1185
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 1: Billy Bob Thornton, this won't work with the schedule at

1186
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:19,959
Speaker 1: the moment. You know what, It's probably true. He seemed

1187
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 1: like a busy guy or a weird guy both. I'm

1188
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: sure wasn't offended by that at all. I didn't personally

1189
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 1: ask that. And he's very, very very famous, so he's

1190
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 1: not on the list.

1191
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,439
Speaker 3: No, we love you, Billy Bob.

1192
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 1: Another one, Morgan Freeman unavailable. You know what, I'm sure

1193
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:37,359
Speaker 1: he's not available very often. Can't get upset at Morgan

1194
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 1: Freeman for not going on the show. I didn't ask

1195
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:40,319
Speaker 1: him to be on the show, but he was doing

1196
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:41,799
Speaker 1: press and they were like, hey, we'll reach out to him.

1197
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:43,919
Speaker 1: Like great, I'm not going to do a whole bunch more.

1198
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 1: But Morgan Freeman said, no, there's a weird one. I

1199
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 1: had a really like great conversation with Ted Danson and

1200
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: Ted Danson app for the show after he came to

1201
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:03,400
Speaker 1: Redging Idiots like a million dollars show and I was

1202
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 1: with him and his wife and they said Ted Dancing

1203
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 1: unavailable and that was probably because he was doing his

1204
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 1: Netflix show and that's going to remind them, remember me.

1205
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 1: We had that talk. That's all I do. Have a

1206
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 1: not available here from somebody that I'm just like, what

1207
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 1: do you mean? Not available? So all right, that's it?

1208
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 1: Maybe God, maybe God? And that made you uncomfortable.

1209
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 3: Slightly.

1210
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 1: I thought we were gonna get pul McCartney for a

1211
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:34,960
Speaker 1: little bit because he came to town. Yeah, And I

1212
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 1: wasn't even upset at that, but it's like, if you

1213
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 1: come to town, you're doing a show, your days are

1214
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: pretty jam packed, and also you're freaking Paul McCartney.

1215
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 3: That's what it came down to.

1216
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:44,319
Speaker 1: So I'm not mad everybody that says no. But they

1217
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,440
Speaker 1: did say, hey, we might have Paul McCartney. He's coming

1218
00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 1: to town. There's a good shot. And I was like, Oh,

1219
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:49,800
Speaker 1: that'd be really great if so. But when that was

1220
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:51,360
Speaker 1: in Noil, I was like, I get it's Paul McCartney.

1221
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm going to start sending you no

1222
00:55:56,160 --> 00:56:00,160
Speaker 3: information until something's fully one confirmed. That's the last I've

1223
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 3: learned here.

1224
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 1: I got a politely pass from Johnny Knoxville. Oh you

1225
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:07,840
Speaker 1: did day that sucked.

1226
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 3: Let's get his momm That ers.

1227
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 1: I feel like that'd be a really good one, and

1228
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:17,879
Speaker 1: mostly because people now think I'm him. Yeah.

1229
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 2: Imagine you two sitting across from each other.

1230
00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's what's Can you guess the one that

1231
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 1: irritates me?

1232
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 3: I have an idea in mind. You couldn't torture it

1233
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 3: out of me on this mic, though.

1234
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:37,480
Speaker 1: Give me one letter of their name V.

1235
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 3: No, okay V.

1236
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: Now I'm curious. Oh that one. No, that one just

1237
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 1: that was just confusing.

1238
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 3: It is a little confusing.

1239
00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:50,439
Speaker 1: That was just confusing. You won't know this one. Yeah,

1240
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,280
Speaker 1: but when I get I don't even want it anymore.

1241
00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 3: Now, can you give us like I get like a

1242
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 3: musician or actor? Actor? Yeah? Actor, Yeah, I'm not going

1243
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 3: to get it.

1244
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 1: No, no, b No, that's not it in the name.

1245
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 3: To pull up this this email chain.

1246
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 1: I'll do this late or just nineties nineties television, nineties,

1247
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 1: two thousand, let me see when the show was on.

1248
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 1: I guess I know I'm being petty too. But now

1249
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: we're in it. Oh, early nineties, early to mid nineties.

1250
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 3: Bobby, we were we were babies then. So let's see.

1251
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 1: You for sure know who it is. You for sure

1252
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 1: know who it is because I told you first, you

1253
00:57:56,640 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: told me. I was like, can we get the person?

1254
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 1: It would make sense to get this person?

1255
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 3: Oh are.

1256
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 1: Huh No, there's no art. Uh, there's no art in

1257
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 1: their name.

1258
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 3: I'm thinking of people who fit that, but they're not men,

1259
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 3: that's correct. Oh d Yeah, I don't know why I

1260
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 3: was thinking you were locked in on a guy.

1261
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 1: Oh I think I got it. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1262
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 3: I do have more information on why that didn't work out,

1263
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 3: but I'm not going to share it here. We've talked

1264
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 3: about it after.

1265
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 1: Now I'm already in the hard flag. One day I'm

1266
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 1: gonna be needed and I'm gonna be like, sorry, you

1267
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: weren't there for me. I'm not there for you. Uh okay.

1268
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 1: So one of the episodes coming up soon, we're gonna

1269
00:58:56,360 --> 00:59:01,000
Speaker 1: have Sean Ryan on maybe later on, maybe later on

1270
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 1: this week. Right, that can't even be it?

1271
00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, now we literally moved another interview to make that

1272
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 2: work too.

1273
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:11,919
Speaker 3: I feel like my job is riding on us getting

1274
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 3: the real Sean Ryan. Sean if you're out there.

1275
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:17,080
Speaker 1: Oh, real Sean Ryan. I was so surprised that he

1276
00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 1: said yes so quickly and so easily turns out. Okay,

1277
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 1: So thank you guys. Uh we got to like four questions.

1278
00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:32,200
Speaker 1: I actually had like twenty here but another day, another time.

1279
00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. If you don't mind, go subscribe to

1280
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 1: the YouTube channel you can watch this. You can watch

1281
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 1: all the episodes at Bobby Boneses channel is where we

1282
00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:43,760
Speaker 1: put these Bobby Casts. So yeah, that's what's up. Any

1283
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:45,640
Speaker 1: guests on your guest less Mike, your dream less you'd

1284
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 1: like to have.

1285
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 2: I mean, Johnny Knoxville is definitely one for me. I

1286
00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 2: was a huge Jackass fan. I think he's been very

1287
00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 2: influential in my life.

1288
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 1: Yeah. Not available, Yeah, yeah, in personal emotions for you. Okay,

1289
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: that'll do it. Thank you guys, and we will see

1290
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: you guys later on this week.

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Speaker 4: Bye, everybody, thanks for listening to a Bobby Cast production.