1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 3: All at all, So don't given them black the bu 4 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 3: bu boozy. 5 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 2: Ya listening to. 6 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:49,919 Speaker 3: Don't Joy? 7 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 4: Yeah Joy, you. 8 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 3: Turn, you. 9 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 4: Gotta turn. 10 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 5: I got to turn the mouth turn. You probably got 11 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 5: to turn the mouth. The water of the moat up. 12 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 6: Look me, come. 13 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 2: Come on, you'll think that I sure will. Good morning everybody. 14 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 7: You are listening to the voice, Come on, dig me 15 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 7: down one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. 16 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 7: Man o, man o, man, I just I have to 17 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:23,360 Speaker 7: tell you this. How good is the God I serve? 18 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 7: How amazing is he? That's that's all I you know. 19 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 7: And you know what, really, man, when I try to 20 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 7: explain how I feel about what he does for me, really, 21 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 7: the words that I come up with, that they just 22 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 7: they they inadequate. Man, They don't they don't cut it. 23 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 7: They really don't. You know, I could say amazing. At 24 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 7: one time. I even just got that. I tried something 25 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 7: real ignorant. One time, I just said, you know, God 26 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 7: is just super captual, fragilistic as be all adocious. I 27 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 7: just tried that. See how that felt. That's that's all 28 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 7: to chain he is with me. I just try to 29 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 7: because see how that felt. But then I ain't feel 30 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 7: right saying that's the fact that he's amazing and awesome 31 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 7: and he's an awesome God. You hear people say that 32 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 7: is it's bigger than that too, man. So you know, 33 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 7: as hard as I try, no matter what I do 34 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 7: every day, I'm gonna come up short with trying to 35 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 7: explain to you exactly how he works and how he 36 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 7: is for me. 37 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 2: So I just thank him that every day every chance 38 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 2: I get here. 39 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 7: It is it is your determination and your effort. Listen 40 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 7: to me carefully. It is your determination and your effort. 41 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 7: I think that the average person, and I'm not knocking you, 42 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 7: I just want you to hear me out. I think 43 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 7: what stops the average person from becoming successful is that 44 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 7: we don't realize the effort that it takes. And that's 45 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 7: just truth. I found that to be so true in 46 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 7: my life and my talking to people and meeting people, 47 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 7: and people are asking me questions about it in me 48 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 7: trying to figure out the way myself. I don't think 49 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 7: that you really can comprehend the effort that it takes 50 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 7: to become successful. This is the thing that you have 51 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 7: to wrap your mind around very quickly. If you want 52 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 7: to be successful on any level in any area. The 53 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 7: dream is the beginning. Good Lord, let me tell you something. 54 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 7: The determination and effort is massive. You cannot be overly 55 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 7: concerned with sleep. If you are a person who is 56 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 7: always concerned about sleep, gets success out your mind. Ain't 57 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 7: fin to have a partner, is not finn happen. You 58 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 7: cannot be that concerned about sleep. Now listen to me. 59 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 7: You have to get your rest. But this was my philosophy. 60 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 7: I'm just sharing you with what how I did it. 61 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 7: My philosophy was I stopped being concerned about sleep. I 62 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 7: got my rest, but I got just enough to get 63 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 7: back to it, and I got back on the grind 64 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:18,359 Speaker 7: to hop in the hustle. I got just enough rest 65 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 7: so I could go and put forth some more effort. 66 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 2: But listen to me. 67 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 7: You cannot sleep a third of your life away and 68 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 7: expect to become successful. If you're not already successful. If 69 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:34,280 Speaker 7: you are asleep for eight hours, that is a third 70 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 7: of your day. You cannot be asleep a third of 71 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 7: your life and expect to get successful. Now, after you 72 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:46,039 Speaker 7: get successful, you know you learn as you go to 73 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 7: work smarter, not harder. So as you get successful, you 74 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 7: may have eight hours available to you. But on the 75 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:55,479 Speaker 7: way up there, I don't see how you can do it, 76 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 7: I promise you. 77 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 2: I don't. Now, maybe somebody can come for it. I 78 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 2: did it. Hey, yeah, probably lying. But okay, tell your story. 79 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 7: Because everybody I know that's successful that I've sat down 80 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 7: and had real talks with, they wasn't concerned with sleeping. 81 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 7: You cannot be concerned with sleeping. If you want to 82 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 7: be successful. How can this. 83 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 2: Happen for you? Listen to me. 84 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 7: The effort that it requires is massive. It's an all 85 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 7: out of salt on your dream. Now you got to 86 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 7: make an assault. It requires an all out of salt 87 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 7: on it. And you can't be sleeping. Fight at the 88 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 7: same time. You can't fight when you sleep. Man, I 89 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 7: wish I could get y'all understand this right here. Understand 90 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 7: that the effort that is required to be successful will 91 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 7: take everything you have, and when you think you've given 92 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 7: your all, it's gonna require some more. The quality of 93 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 7: your chield is amazing. See okay, listen to what is 94 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 7: sitting around having a bill every day? 95 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 2: Fault? 96 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 8: What? 97 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 2: But they's sitting down smoking weed for every day, Pa. 98 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 7: Come on, man, for real, But if you took that 99 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 7: beer drinking, weeds smoking chill time and applied it to 100 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 7: progressing yourself towards your dream. When you do carve out 101 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 7: a vacation, guess where you be able to go. Guess 102 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 7: what part of the world you can go see. Guess 103 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 7: how you can cheer up now instead of you just 104 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 7: driving Every year your family to the family union, sit 105 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 7: at the same picnic table. Everybody pull they money in 106 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 7: two ten families don't never pool they money in. 107 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 2: They down there eating like y'all eating. 108 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:41,239 Speaker 7: You got attitude cause cause the day or day side 109 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 7: don't have a chip in or not. 110 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 2: They down there eating the extra potatoes at and making places. 111 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 2: You're not huguing about this every year? 112 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 7: For real, man, they ain't got the T shirt money, 113 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 7: you know, they got the same T shirt on. They 114 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 7: ain't put in that really, man, so so so so 115 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 7: so you want that to be it every year? Or 116 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 7: do you want this year I'm taking my family to 117 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 7: New Orleans, or I'm taking my family see the Grand Canyon. 118 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 7: I'm taking my family down to the beach. 119 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 2: This year. 120 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 7: Me, me and my family gonna go sight see We're 121 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 7: gonna go ride a couple of river on Chicago. Me 122 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 7: and my family gonna go skiing this year. Me and 123 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 7: me and my family going out to La Man. 124 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 9: We go. 125 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 7: We're gonna go out there for a weekend. You know, 126 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 7: you know it can happen like that. But if you 127 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 7: ain't working, listen to me. Average effort gets average results. 128 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 7: That's that's all it is to it. See, ordinary effort 129 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 7: gets ordinary results. But if you put forth an extra effort. See, 130 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 7: the only difference between extraordinary and ordinary is one word. 131 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 2: That's extra. 132 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 7: If you do extra, you can take ordinary right on 133 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 7: over to extraordinary. Do you understand you have to have 134 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 7: a massive assault on your dreams? 135 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 2: Quit sitting up. 136 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 7: In here, man, trying to chill all the time. I'm sorry, man, 137 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 7: I wish I could tell you another way. 138 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:09,319 Speaker 2: But it ain't one. 139 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 7: Here's what I did. I wasn't concerned about how much 140 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 7: sleep I got. I just had to get my rest. 141 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 7: And once I got enough rest to get up and 142 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 7: get the task done, I got up. Somebody sent me 143 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 7: a tweet the other day, a partner of mine. He said, 144 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:31,439 Speaker 7: to see if I can pull it up while I'm 145 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 7: talking to you. But he just sent me a little 146 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 7: sign just what nothing, just a little something to say, 147 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 7: Hey man, I ran across this, I thought about you, 148 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 7: and I sent it to you. It said no alarm 149 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 7: clock needed, My passion wakes me. It's in block print. 150 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 7: He said, no alarm clock needed, My passion wakes me. 151 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 7: That's what you got to. 152 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: Be about your listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 153 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen. In his Opponents to Steve Harby Morning 154 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:13,839 Speaker 7: Show is here. It starts with gratitude, which affects your attitude, 155 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:16,839 Speaker 7: which determines your altitude. 156 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 2: If you get those three tudes, and uh see if 157 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:20,959 Speaker 2: you straighten out. 158 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 7: Your tube, if you just get your tood straight, sky's 159 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 7: the limit. Gratitude, attitude, altitude. You got to head the 160 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 7: right tude. 161 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 2: Man. 162 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 7: We started our day off with the three t's Gratitude, 163 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 7: Altitude attitude. H Steve Hart Mota Show with Shelly Strawberry, 164 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 7: Carlin Farrell, Monica Junior, better knowners, Kiss Fates, the Legend 165 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 7: of Nephew Tommy, and Yours too. Little got a little 166 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 7: salted with Mississippi this morning, so I didn't want to 167 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 7: call her by her lovely name. With Mississippi and see 168 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 7: Monica today. Go ahead, Junior wants someone you. 169 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 10: Know, ask this man, let me ask you this. 170 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 11: Okay, So you know, you see a girl's beautiful, find 171 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 11: all these things, all these great qualities, you know, eyes, right, everything. Yeah, 172 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 11: but then you find out she's snowing. Is that still 173 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 11: a turn on? 174 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 175 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 7: Well, don't don't sleep with her, don't stay, don't stay, 176 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 7: don't stay. 177 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:27,479 Speaker 2: Don't not walk. 178 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 7: Away from all this fineness because of this one flow, 179 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 7: because you have flawss. 180 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 2: You just don't stab the perfect. 181 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 7: Find another reason to go in there and get on 182 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 7: the couch, go watch TV, do anything, but just guid 183 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 7: the goud away from the flow because we have flaws. 184 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 7: I'm not walking away from the finess you just described. 185 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 7: He because she snowed, And I'll be over there next 186 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 7: day with the band aids to go over the top 187 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 7: of your nose, Come back with help, come back the 188 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 7: next night with one of their mouth. 189 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 2: Gods, you sleeping look like a dental plate. 190 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: Nothing that's gonna stop you. 191 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 7: Yes, for fineness, especially snowing, it only occurred when you sleep. 192 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 7: Oh you mean your flaw ain't when you up? Oh, 193 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 7: I'm dealing with her. 194 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 2: Whoa matter of fact, she mindo. 195 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 7: She flawless. Yeah, she do a couple of things at 196 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:37,599 Speaker 7: night I don't care for. 197 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 1: But for the most part and all the way up to. 198 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 7: That night, though, Wow, Hey, she's excellent. He talks well 199 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 7: around people. She's beautiful. She gotta walk on the looking 200 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:54,839 Speaker 7: her eyes. Yea, you know she's pleasant. 201 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 2: What's all? 202 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 7: What's wrong with them? Well, she's snowing. How bad is it? 203 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 7: I really don't know. I'm never there. I heard it 204 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 7: in the other room. Its sound ferocious, but I won't 205 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 7: never open the door to see how serious it is. Well, 206 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 7: how bad is it? Well, she sucked the bathtile down 207 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 7: her throat one night and the choke and I had 208 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 7: to pull it out there. 209 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 2: Other than that, she find it help deal with it powerful, Well, dog, 210 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:28,199 Speaker 2: how bad is it? 211 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 8: Well? 212 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 7: I bought some sheets that wasn't fitted and she knit 213 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 7: choked on them one night. 214 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 2: Too or so, and to make sure we buy feet 215 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 2: a sheet. 216 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 1: Other than that, she thinks we're moving on. 217 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 12: Coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour, It 218 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 12: is the nephew. 219 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 1: And run that prank back right after this. 220 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. 221 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 12: Think about the people who mean the most to you. 222 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:59,079 Speaker 12: Giving them valuable protection is a great gift you can 223 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:02,439 Speaker 12: offer and go. 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I don't know, I know it 233 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 13: ain't gonna work. I just thought i'd put it out 234 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 13: there anyway. This right here is three minute remarks, three 235 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 13: minute remark. Let's go get you. 236 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 8: Well, yes, I'm trying to reach your brother Keith. Please. 237 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 14: Yeah, this is Keith, Keith. 238 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 8: How you doing? This is Lawrence overhead Heel Funeral Home. Okay, 239 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 8: we are the ones that have the doing the funeral 240 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 8: for sister Dolores. That is your aunt. Am I am 241 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 8: I understanding? Right? 242 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 14: Yeah? 243 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 8: That's Monti Okay and as you know, the funeral is 244 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 8: uh this coming Thursday. 245 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 14: Yes, I'll be that Thursday. 246 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 8: I'm giving you a call because it's been brought to 247 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 8: my attention, uh that you were going to be giving 248 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 8: remarks for the funeral. Is that correct? Yes? Absolutely? Okay. 249 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 8: I wanted to call you because we're getting ready to 250 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 8: print the programs for the funeral and let you know 251 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 8: that they have taken you off for the remarks because 252 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 8: they say that you're not going to be. 253 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 14: Oh what do you mean taking me off? 254 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 8: Well, what I'm saying is they say that you're not 255 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 8: going to abide by the two three minute rule that 256 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 8: they have for remarks, and they wanted they've they've taken 257 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 8: you off. And uhh, who is they? 258 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 2: Come? 259 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 6: Who? 260 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 8: Who? 261 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 14: What's the name of. 262 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 8: Lawrence? I'm launch, I'm the actual funeral director. 263 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 14: Lord, and who who told you to take me off? 264 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 8: One of the one of the family members I'm assuming 265 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 8: is who who made the adjustment? 266 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 14: And an adjustment that ain't no adjustment, that's that's changing 267 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 14: the whole program. Who else is on the list? 268 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 8: I mean there's quite a few family members doing different 269 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 8: things throughout the funeral. 270 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 14: Okay, So how did you get to my name is 271 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 14: what I'm trying to figure out. 272 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 8: That they said that. Listen to me. Listen, Listen to me. 273 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 8: Listen to me, brother Keith, listen to me. What they 274 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 8: said is that you weren't going to abide by the time. 275 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 8: You weren't going to do your remarks in three minutes 276 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 8: or less. 277 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 14: Listen, listen, listen, listen. Might don't you raise me? He 278 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 14: put me through and you think I'm finna. I'm finel 279 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:06,159 Speaker 14: goes down her funeral and be under two minutes. 280 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 8: Well and well, listen to listen, brother Keith, Brother, keep 281 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 8: listening to me. Normally, when we have these funerals, people 282 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:18,080 Speaker 8: who give remarks, we have them three minutes or less. 283 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:21,640 Speaker 14: Okay, I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what mister 284 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 14: Laws got. 285 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 2: On the list? 286 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 14: Is she on the list? 287 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 1: Uh? 288 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 8: We have a seala. Yes, there's a seala that's singing 289 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 8: name off the list. 290 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:34,719 Speaker 14: Take her off the list and put me where she's 291 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 14: supposed to be with my time and her time? 292 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 8: Is Bobby the Bobby? Now, yes, Bobby Jr. Has given remarks. 293 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 8: That's what that's that's Delorous. That's miss Delorus's son, right, Yes. 294 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 14: Their son, the one that been locked up. He just 295 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:56,919 Speaker 14: got out of till the truth be told, he's the 296 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 14: one put her in the coat. You need to take 297 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:01,880 Speaker 14: him off the list to give me all that time, 298 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:04,360 Speaker 14: because I mean, if I ain't gonna take. 299 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 8: Nothing, brother Keith, let me let me. Let me just 300 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:12,160 Speaker 8: say this to you. I cannot take Sheila or Bobby Jr. Off. 301 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 8: I can't make any alterations to this program unless they 302 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 8: say that I can. 303 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 14: Sir, you already you already take you already taking people 304 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:24,920 Speaker 14: name off, you're taking my name off. 305 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 8: But but they they orchestrated this though his. 306 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 14: Day, who is Day? They for having much problems, They 307 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:35,920 Speaker 14: try to take me off my hockey program? 308 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 6: Who was day? 309 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 7: Sir? 310 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 8: I'm not gonna get into a family matter. But until 311 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:46,200 Speaker 8: they say that you can do matter, sure, I'm not gonna. 312 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 8: I don't wanna. I don't want to have this. This 313 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 8: turned out to be bad, and we want to have 314 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:52,959 Speaker 8: a great homegoing for sister Delord. 315 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 14: Okay, right, And if I don't get to say nothing, 316 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:59,679 Speaker 14: I guarantee you, I guarantee you it's gonna be a 317 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 14: truthful one of that somebody else want to get in 318 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 14: the car for two, I can't tell you that if 319 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:07,119 Speaker 14: I don't get to say nothing to my untief. You 320 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 14: know mons, you didn't pay for college. I didn't put 321 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 14: six thousand dollars in funeral. I bet you I'll tell 322 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:17,160 Speaker 14: you this. I'll tell you this, mister Lawd. I bet 323 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 14: you whether I'm on the program I'm not. I bet 324 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:22,640 Speaker 14: you I'll stay with them. I want to. I bet 325 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 14: you that much. You tell day that I didn't you 326 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:30,160 Speaker 14: find I see them put me through college. I put 327 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 14: money on the funeral. Call around to see who ain't 328 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 14: putting no money on the feudal tell them they can't 329 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:37,360 Speaker 14: be on the program? 330 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 5: Man? 331 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:44,360 Speaker 8: Uh keith they when they decide who who Who's on it? 332 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:48,120 Speaker 8: If they changed the format, then I will call you back. 333 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:52,440 Speaker 14: Who who is vain? That's what I'm trying to get. 334 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 14: Get you understand who is they? 335 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 8: Can? I can? I tell you something? And I don't 336 00:19:56,840 --> 00:20:00,879 Speaker 8: want you to get to our rape. Okay, go ahead, 337 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:04,120 Speaker 8: go ahead, man, I just want to say this, keep 338 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 8: with them. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey 339 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 8: Morning Show. You just got breaked. You just got breaked 340 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 8: by your cousin, Bobby Jr. 341 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 14: You bull, I'm up. I'm kicking Bobby. I know that 342 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 14: my mother pressures all over. I ain't got time be 343 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 14: playing man taking me off the program. 344 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:41,920 Speaker 8: I'm oh, Bibba said, y'all grew up like brothers man, 345 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 8: and you was. You was basically another son of mister Lords. 346 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 14: That's right, Yes, yes I was. 347 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 5: Man. 348 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 14: Oh my. 349 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,479 Speaker 8: Hey, let me ask you this man, what is the 350 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 8: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land. 351 00:20:56,760 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 14: The Steve Harvey Morning Show? 352 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 2: And then you have it, Shirley. 353 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 13: All rightee remarks I will be back on Monday morning. 354 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 2: Can I say this real quick? 355 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 13: Coming up, Happy anniversary to my beautiful wife twenty four years. 356 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 2: Twenty four years. 357 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:22,120 Speaker 13: He's Jacqueline Misso girl putting up with me for twenty four. 358 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 12: All right, congratulations Tommy and Jackie coming up next to 359 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 12: his as the COLO or Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey 360 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,919 Speaker 12: in the building. 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It is time to ask 370 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 12: the CLO. Our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey, is here 371 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 12: for Jane and Seattle, who says, I'm a thirty eight 372 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,640 Speaker 12: year old white woman married to a forty year old 373 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 12: black man. He cooks and cleans because he wants to, 374 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:29,159 Speaker 12: and because I can't cook. His sister visited us and 375 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 12: called him a slave. He laughed it off, but I 376 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 12: got mad. Why didn't he check her? Because why didn't 377 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,120 Speaker 12: he check her? Well, what are you going to say 378 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 12: to assistant? 379 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:43,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, what do you say slave? 380 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 7: See black people, let me tell you some white slaves. 381 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 7: Black people have certain liberties with each other that you 382 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:54,159 Speaker 7: may not have. Now, if you call him a slave, 383 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 7: you're gonna be out the family so fast. But black 384 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 7: people have certain liberties they can take with each other. 385 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,199 Speaker 7: So now he just said, you're just a little slave 386 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:07,199 Speaker 7: over here. You know, he laughed at all, But she 387 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 7: knew what she implied, and he knew what she implied, 388 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 7: But it's his sister. 389 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 2: There's nothing he can do about it. 390 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,639 Speaker 7: Now, what you should have did was said, I'll resent 391 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,440 Speaker 7: you saying that, But then you have found out your 392 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 7: name was fit to be massive, real fast, and then 393 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 7: she was gonna turn into that turner and this would 394 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 7: have been a whole slave bio pic. So you know, 395 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 7: I ain't got no advice for you. It's just when 396 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 7: black people is talking, let him go on and have that. 397 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 7: Just stay out the way long as they don't drag 398 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 7: you in it. That's some personal stuff. That's my advice 399 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 7: to you. 400 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,440 Speaker 1: And don't get mad. Don't get mad. 401 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,680 Speaker 7: No no no no no no no no. You get 402 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,199 Speaker 7: mad if you want to, but do not join in. 403 00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 7: That's what you can't. Don't don't jump in. 404 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,719 Speaker 1: Keep your anger to yourself, all right. 405 00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 2: You know you gonna you don't You know, I don't 406 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 2: want you to get snappy. 407 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 7: Shut up kissing, don't do it, don't do it? 408 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,119 Speaker 13: All sure, sir, I want to read the next one 409 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 13: because you ain't gonna read the next one, right, go ahead, 410 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 13: go ahead, all right, all right, this is Keisha and 411 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,879 Speaker 13: athens up. My husband was talking to his mother on 412 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 13: the bluetooth in the car, and she asked him, where 413 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 13: is his fat white? 414 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:23,679 Speaker 2: My husband got real mad in me. 415 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 13: My husband got real, real mad at me when I said, 416 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:32,119 Speaker 13: right here? Why is he mad at me? And not 417 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:33,639 Speaker 13: his big head mama? 418 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 2: What I wrong? 419 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,639 Speaker 1: You're right? Thank you? 420 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 7: Yes, Sureley won't gonna read that right. 421 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 2: Well, well, let me tell you what's happening to him. 422 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:52,159 Speaker 7: He didn't know Mama didn't know that Gertrude was in 423 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 7: the car. So bluetooth came up there, Why you fat white? 424 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:08,880 Speaker 7: He said, I'm right here. Now, it's all records that call. 425 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 7: What what have we learned? Take that bluetooth off your car? See, 426 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,719 Speaker 7: if you weren't trying to be tech savvy with your 427 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 7: whole you would have said, oh here, come my mama, 428 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 7: and you know how Bernice is. 429 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:33,920 Speaker 2: You know Bernie's rough round there where you fed. 430 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 1: Flap facts real? 431 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 2: Oh well, I tell you why I am. I'm right here. 432 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:47,159 Speaker 7: Well, now it's real crowded in that car. 433 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 2: Your car. 434 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 7: Because Belinda, your wife, Belinda, don'll swoll up even both 435 00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 7: because you would notice her reaction was not I'm not fat. 436 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 7: The question was where is your fat wife? The only response. 437 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:13,920 Speaker 7: But Linda had was. I'm right here. 438 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 2: It was and it was immediate. 439 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 8: That was right. 440 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:25,120 Speaker 7: Now, Hussey admitting the fact man that I am fat right, 441 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 7: but we ain't gonna dispute that. 442 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 2: But since you looking for it though, I'm right here. 443 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,239 Speaker 12: But the husband is mad and she wants to know 444 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 12: why is he mad at her and not his mother? 445 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 7: Well his head, cause two things happened in now and 446 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:50,439 Speaker 7: only one could be disputed. See you already know you 447 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:54,679 Speaker 7: fat so. All he thinking is mama made a true statement. 448 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 7: But he don't want his mama to be a. 449 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,119 Speaker 1: Beat right exactly, that's. 450 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:09,199 Speaker 7: S and yeah, out of respect he wants you to respect. 451 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:11,639 Speaker 2: Well is your fat wife. 452 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:15,160 Speaker 8: I'm right here. 453 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 2: And I'm talking about. 454 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:21,640 Speaker 6: I hear I. 455 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,640 Speaker 12: Am yeah here go out. 456 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,680 Speaker 2: You know her hand is moving when she's seen it. 457 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:34,920 Speaker 12: Oh man, you got all of that going so yeah, 458 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 12: all right, So don't call your mother in law be. 459 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 7: No, no, you know you should have shot back with 460 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 7: the same insult. Where is your fat wife talking to. 461 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 2: Your fat son that was given birthed. 462 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:54,879 Speaker 7: By his fat mama? She did that would have even 463 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:59,679 Speaker 7: did out talking to your fat son that was birthed 464 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 7: by its fat so Now all of send he'll fat 465 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 7: now what did you call for? 466 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 3: Mama? 467 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on the. 468 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:17,400 Speaker 8: Right. 469 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 1: I'm hungry, anybody hungry? 470 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 12: Bj and Newark says, I borrowed money from my cousin 471 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,040 Speaker 12: and he brought it up in front of my girlfriend. 472 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,400 Speaker 12: My cousin knew I asked for the money to get 473 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 12: my girl's car fixed, and I've been paying him back 474 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 12: a little at a time. Why would he put me 475 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,119 Speaker 12: on blast in front of my girl? Why would he 476 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 12: do that? 477 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 8: Uh? 478 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 2: Some dudes is like that. You know. 479 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,560 Speaker 7: It wasn't right of him to do it. And you 480 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 7: was paying him back, you know, but he gonna put 481 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 7: you in blast. See a lot of people won't credit. 482 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 7: See everybody don't do stuff out the goodness of that heart. 483 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 7: Some people won't credit. Now he gon flex in front 484 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 7: of everybody. Let him know he got his stuff together. 485 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 7: Y'all loaned you this money, you know, you know he 486 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,960 Speaker 7: paying me back in pieces. I know you needed to 487 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,600 Speaker 7: get your girls cof fixed, So he flexed on you. 488 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 2: It was a flex move. It was a flex move. 489 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 2: And now you know who he really is. 490 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 7: Don't don't don't, don't don't borrow from money from him 491 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 7: ever again. Pay him back as soon as you can 492 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 7: and lose it. Lose it for him because. 493 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 2: It ain't worth it. 494 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 7: Now you're paying the money back, and you're paying for 495 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 7: borrowing the money because now he flex it. I pulled 496 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 7: him to the side so fast. Hey, man, let me 497 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 7: strain me out on s I borrowed the money. I 498 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 7: came to you like a man. Now you're gonna now 499 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 7: you're gonna flex on me from me in front of everybody. 500 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 7: I'm paying your money back. I told you how I 501 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,400 Speaker 7: pay it back, and I'm getting it back to you. 502 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 7: But don't do that no more? 503 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 2: Right? 504 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, clo. 505 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 2: She Steve Robin Marter show man Flora. 506 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 12: Says, I've been sleeping with her yard man for a 507 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 12: while and he doesn't like wearing protection. We got into 508 00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 12: an argument about it, and now he's not answering my 509 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,160 Speaker 12: husband's text to come to our yard. 510 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,680 Speaker 1: How can he be so petty when he knows I'm married. 511 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 7: You're right here, y'ad, y'all, y'all got to quit writing 512 00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 7: us with all this craziness, acting like it's normal. 513 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 3: Yes, you're not qualified. 514 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 2: Stick don't what y'all want me to do? 515 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 7: Yes, y'all, y'all, I can't apply no rules to this stuff, 516 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,520 Speaker 7: cause y'all keep coming up with all this abnormal mess 517 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 7: like it's regular. 518 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 9: Right after you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 519 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 12: Okay, So since the pandemic, guys, it seems like people 520 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 12: are now more than ever stocking up on supplies to 521 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 12: keep them healthy. A new survey found that sixty five 522 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,960 Speaker 12: percent of respondents have a product in their home that 523 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 12: they believe cure is a pretty much. 524 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: Variety of health issues. 525 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 12: Top of the list of the miracle cure all product 526 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 12: is vasiline. Hello, we all grew up with that, right, Yeah, so. 527 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 2: You got lips this side. 528 00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 12: I gotta ask the guys, do you have any cure 529 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 12: all products that you want to add to the list. 530 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:20,120 Speaker 11: Yeah, I'll keep it stocked. It's vapor, got it, got it, 531 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 11: keep it in. 532 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:27,479 Speaker 15: There, rover, got it works on everything. 533 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 2: So get that overusing that green alcohol? 534 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:35,719 Speaker 13: That green not the clear when the green which hazel? 535 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 1: That's so which hazel? 536 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 10: Just take you never know? 537 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: It doesn't burn like no, no, no, no, you which hazel? Yeah? 538 00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 11: What does that do though? Which I don't know? But 539 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 11: I feel better after I. 540 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 2: Put it off. 541 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 1: Don't inflammation? Sometimes the tone which made it name Hazel. 542 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, what you got in the house? 543 00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 1: Lord, where do you put the larn? 544 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:10,880 Speaker 2: Anything that's wrong? Man sitting on the stove. Don't never 545 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 2: use it? Just in case. 546 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:16,040 Speaker 1: Yeah it was always on the stove, but it was 547 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 1: never used. 548 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 11: I gotta have it spun products and you gotta have 549 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 11: it like you gotta have you gotta keep on in 550 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 11: your hand. 551 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 2: Yeah you got yeah, what you're saying, arm and hammel bacon. 552 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 1: We just started putting it in a refrigerator castraw. You 553 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:43,360 Speaker 1: heard me with that one. 554 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:49,960 Speaker 7: All gold corn starts that that baby in there. Got 555 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 7: dipperash going there and get that corn start soak it up. 556 00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 7: Apple side of vinegar, Yeah. 557 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:04,680 Speaker 2: I got that. Got that can put it on your greens. 558 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 1: And then white vinegar to clean the mirrors and stuff. 559 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 2: I love black people to keep it in them. Just 560 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:17,160 Speaker 2: a deodorant just in case, Just in case. 561 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 1: You need to hear that tea though, I need to 562 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 1: hear that team when. 563 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 2: Carn of band age. 564 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 1: In the cave, not the box. 565 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:34,440 Speaker 2: Bring two big ones in hill. 566 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 1: My favorite were the little brown ones. 567 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 2: On usculos. Put them on your heels if you're gonna 568 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,520 Speaker 2: have your shoes on, sweetie. 569 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 1: All right, switching gears. 570 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 12: Now, we want to know what's the one guilty pleasure 571 00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 12: that it is hard for you to give up? 572 00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:58,400 Speaker 1: Is the bread? Is it ice cream? 573 00:33:58,880 --> 00:33:59,680 Speaker 8: Oh? Is it? 574 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:00,959 Speaker 2: Oigars? 575 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:08,879 Speaker 1: Wine? Cigars wine? You saying any bce huh? 576 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,759 Speaker 12: You said you make up your mind one guilty What 577 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,360 Speaker 12: is the one guilty pleasure? 578 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 9: What is it? 579 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,839 Speaker 7: I mean I like cigars, but you know, uh huh, 580 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:24,319 Speaker 7: that's on the list. I've gone, you know, weeks without one. 581 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 7: I'm gonna have to say that. Ice cream, man, Yeah, 582 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:32,800 Speaker 7: I can't turn it down. 583 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 1: As I got a question. Ice cream, how many scoops? 584 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:45,239 Speaker 2: It's too many? Never tift the bowl can hold it? 585 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:50,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, you can have too much stuff on it, like 586 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,239 Speaker 7: down at Disnemand when we used to go to Disney. 587 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,440 Speaker 16: And there, Yeah we used to. 588 00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,040 Speaker 2: They used to order that thing called the kitchen sink. 589 00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 8: Ye. 590 00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's too much. Because I don't like when the 591 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 7: ice cream ain't recognizable no more. 592 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:08,360 Speaker 2: Okay, I don't like sprinkles. I can't stand the multicolor sprinkle. 593 00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,960 Speaker 2: That's some baby. It's messed to me. I can't stand that. 594 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,920 Speaker 7: Don't put that on my food, and don't put no 595 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,279 Speaker 7: whipped cream on it because it now I don't want that. 596 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 7: Take them to out the way of my ice cream. 597 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:20,480 Speaker 2: Ice cream. 598 00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 7: You can put some little nuts on it. You can 599 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 7: put some hot fudge on it. You can put some 600 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:26,359 Speaker 7: butterscotch on that thing. 601 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 12: Oh see if I love butterscotch, girl, ice cream, that 602 00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,720 Speaker 12: is my favorite flavor on ice cream. 603 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,160 Speaker 7: Girl, You ever had a scoop of vanilla and pour 604 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 7: some Bailey's on it? Yeah, you better get your mind right. 605 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 7: Tell me school ice cream and some Bailey Bailey's Wilder 606 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:48,440 Speaker 7: boy boy, I used to. 607 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 2: Do it on the plane all the time when up 608 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:57,160 Speaker 2: I wasn't. No other plane got this right here because. 609 00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 1: We Southwest Spirit. 610 00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 2: Front ice cream. You got the ice cream and Bailey's 611 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:08,799 Speaker 2: on them. 612 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:12,840 Speaker 10: You ain't paying enough for your ticket to get that. 613 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:15,160 Speaker 2: Well they did. 614 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,440 Speaker 7: On American you could get a scoop ice cream for 615 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 7: dessert when it was that time when they offered ice 616 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 7: cream on them long flights and then you just asked 617 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 7: for a Bailey Say come into little short bottles and 618 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:28,759 Speaker 7: when they bring you. 619 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,680 Speaker 2: The scoop and the cup, just pour it on top 620 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:32,759 Speaker 2: of that. You do it at your house too. They 621 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:33,239 Speaker 2: should do it. 622 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:38,359 Speaker 7: On American from the later New York that was my flight. Okay, yeah, 623 00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:44,720 Speaker 7: and had ice cream on the long time. Okay, Jesus, 624 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:51,600 Speaker 7: you ain't been on that lately, you tell me. Walk 625 00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:52,840 Speaker 7: through the regular airport. 626 00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,160 Speaker 1: It got your little Baileys and ice cream on that. 627 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 1: We are here to work, yea restaurant. 628 00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,360 Speaker 2: Get your snack. You ain't none none of it. 629 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:07,880 Speaker 1: While we send in it back. When I ask on 630 00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:10,360 Speaker 1: by the laboratory, ask. 631 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,680 Speaker 11: Somebody, yeah, somebody you need hell getting it up there? 632 00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,919 Speaker 12: They are right all right, guys, coming up in twenty 633 00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 12: minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve 634 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 12: Harvey Morning Show. 635 00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 1: Right after this. 636 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 12: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Think about 637 00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 12: the people who mean the most to you. Giving them 638 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,279 Speaker 12: valuable protection is a great gift you can offer, and 639 00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:39,240 Speaker 12: Globe Life Insurance can make it easy. 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That's one eight hundred two five 644 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 12: one fifty four hundred or globelifradio dot com. 645 00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 1: It is time now for a round of would you rather? 646 00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:04,240 Speaker 12: Would you rather have dry cracked lips all the time 647 00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,839 Speaker 12: or dry ashy skin all the time? 648 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,680 Speaker 1: Be careful, Steve, No, I. 649 00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:14,319 Speaker 2: Gotta take this skin, no weight, these things can be. 650 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:21,840 Speaker 10: No, yeah, gotta be yeah, because I'll. 651 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:22,359 Speaker 2: Be in your face. 652 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 7: Looked like two blazed doughnuts. Look at all lips. My 653 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:30,160 Speaker 7: lips got to be wet. 654 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,520 Speaker 13: My lips got to be wet, wet, my whist saw 655 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:37,319 Speaker 13: you know what I'm talking? 656 00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:39,880 Speaker 1: Okay, So you want ashy skin? 657 00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah, all right? 658 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 12: So would you rather have a pool in your backyard? 659 00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:47,800 Speaker 12: Or would you rather have a view of the ocean? 660 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,640 Speaker 2: I got that from Let me tell you something. 661 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 10: I ain't got neither one and don't want to talk 662 00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:57,920 Speaker 10: about these ones. But they all sound expensive. 663 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 2: A pool? 664 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 1: Yeah that's next, junior, I take all right? 665 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:09,800 Speaker 2: High see that from your couch? 666 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:14,440 Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. 667 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:18,200 Speaker 12: Would you rather get a million dollars tomorrow? One million dollars? 668 00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:22,479 Speaker 12: One million dollars tomorrow? Would you rather, okay? Or would 669 00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,160 Speaker 12: you rather wait five years and get ten million? 670 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,840 Speaker 13: I could do I could wait that five I'm waiting 671 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 13: for five years. I'm going I'm gonna get to ten 672 00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:35,680 Speaker 13: in five years. Yeah, that that that million tomorrow and 673 00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:36,680 Speaker 13: I passed. 674 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:38,399 Speaker 2: He's so rich? 675 00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,319 Speaker 8: Yeah what you so. 676 00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:50,720 Speaker 2: Take that million? 677 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:51,360 Speaker 8: Thank you? 678 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:55,880 Speaker 2: Say Pete. Don't listen to this little rich over here. 679 00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,480 Speaker 13: Then we ought to be asking them what they rather than, 680 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,719 Speaker 13: and not than, whether me and you would rather? Would 681 00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,399 Speaker 13: you rather on call? 682 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:06,960 Speaker 2: I'll told you my answer tomorrow. 683 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:07,799 Speaker 1: I'm getting to jail. 684 00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:08,320 Speaker 8: I talk. 685 00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:16,080 Speaker 17: In your life up right now immediately. Yeah, I'm talking 686 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 17: crazy tomorrow. 687 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:20,239 Speaker 2: All right? 688 00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 1: Would you rather take a vow of celibacy or a 689 00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 1: vow of silence? 690 00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:27,480 Speaker 2: Silent? 691 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:35,160 Speaker 1: So you're just gonna be quiet if you talk for 692 00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:36,880 Speaker 1: a living? What what is it gonna be for you? 693 00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:38,360 Speaker 1: I mean, we all do, but. 694 00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:41,720 Speaker 2: Take talking. 695 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:46,439 Speaker 1: It's just would you rather avow five years, a year, 696 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:47,160 Speaker 1: ten years? 697 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 7: However about talking for five years? I'm gonna take a 698 00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,200 Speaker 7: vow of celibacy, but I'm not going to do it. 699 00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:56,359 Speaker 1: So you're just lying. 700 00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:03,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, Now I broke a vial before we know. We 701 00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 2: man on Bible and God don't stand in that. Yeah. 702 00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:10,680 Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, this is Monica, This is Spike Lee. Hey, 703 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:11,760 Speaker 1: this is Mary J. Blog. 704 00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:12,000 Speaker 8: Yo. 705 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:12,920 Speaker 2: This is Steven A. 706 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 8: Smith. 707 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:14,399 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Shaka Kahan. 708 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:16,239 Speaker 2: You have no idea what it is. 709 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,719 Speaker 1: This is Carlos Miller, and this may or may not 710 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:20,479 Speaker 1: be the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 711 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:28,719 Speaker 12: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is 712 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,040 Speaker 12: time to check Steve's voicemail. If you would like to 713 00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,680 Speaker 12: leave a message for Steve, call him eight seven seven 714 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,880 Speaker 12: twenty nine Steve eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve, you 715 00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,200 Speaker 12: might just hear your call on the air like this 716 00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:43,400 Speaker 12: one from Lonnie Steve. Lonnie's from Michigan. He's married three times, 717 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:44,560 Speaker 12: but he needs your advice. 718 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:47,760 Speaker 8: Come on, hey, Steve, my name is Line. 719 00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:49,640 Speaker 2: I just wanted to call in about it. 720 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 8: Yo. 721 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 2: I've been married gee times. I'll stay my wife so dead, 722 00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:56,759 Speaker 2: you know, they. 723 00:41:56,560 --> 00:42:00,719 Speaker 18: Passed away, not not t my joy, with just the 724 00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:05,319 Speaker 18: elbows that they had. And now I'm in what they 725 00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:10,000 Speaker 18: call that commission to where I can't deal with any 726 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:13,720 Speaker 18: more women because I'm afraid showing what you think about 727 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,440 Speaker 18: that out my bottles. 728 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:16,600 Speaker 2: And I love your show. 729 00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:21,080 Speaker 7: Well, Lonney, I don't know, I don't never been in 730 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,239 Speaker 7: commission before. Did you mean remission? 731 00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:28,319 Speaker 2: I don't know what you mean. Did you mean submission? 732 00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,600 Speaker 7: I don't really know, Lonny, but I think what you 733 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,640 Speaker 7: need to do, Lonnie is just go sit down some wells. 734 00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:35,560 Speaker 8: You know. 735 00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,839 Speaker 2: Man, when you ain't sure, Lonnie. 736 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:38,280 Speaker 1: Just stop. 737 00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,200 Speaker 7: See your problem is you want to keep going in 738 00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:45,040 Speaker 7: forward motion. Sometimes you got to be steeled. You got 739 00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,400 Speaker 7: to trust, you got to say a prayer, you got 740 00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:49,680 Speaker 7: to wait on the answer. Now, I don't know what 741 00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:51,919 Speaker 7: I heard you say, but I thought like you said 742 00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:59,880 Speaker 7: one of them died or three something, Lonnie, don't nobody 743 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,040 Speaker 7: won't you At this point, I'm just gonna be real 744 00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 7: with you because it seemed like hooking up with you 745 00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,839 Speaker 7: as leads to early premature depth. 746 00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I know what he said. 747 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:17,239 Speaker 7: Yeah, but everybody is dying. Now it's time for you 748 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 7: to sit you down. Stop killing people. That's what you 749 00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:25,560 Speaker 7: need to do. But why is they dead? 750 00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:25,879 Speaker 19: Though? 751 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 2: All of them? 752 00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:30,759 Speaker 7: Everybody, man, Lani died. Now how that one and one 753 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:35,200 Speaker 7: is two? And then this dude, Lonnie is always you. 754 00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,600 Speaker 7: You is the one of the ones in the equation 755 00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:46,080 Speaker 7: of one plus one equals two two two people get together, 756 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:48,960 Speaker 7: one of them die, who left the. 757 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,600 Speaker 2: Other one in Luni? Now line it. 758 00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,880 Speaker 7: That ain't a good track record if you tell a 759 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,520 Speaker 7: woman that you day. Now, I've been married three times 760 00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 7: and all of them have died. You will never be 761 00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 7: on the date. Long right after that statement, you. 762 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:05,400 Speaker 2: Know how many people don't get him go to the 763 00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 2: power room and go. 764 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:11,480 Speaker 20: Get in their car in commission right now, commission. He 765 00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:16,360 Speaker 20: not in commission, he's in rum mission. 766 00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:22,160 Speaker 2: He's grieving. All right, we have a new mission. That's 767 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:22,799 Speaker 2: what he needs. 768 00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,560 Speaker 1: For Lanie. All right, we have another one, Steve. Uh, 769 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:28,600 Speaker 1: for Lannie. 770 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:32,000 Speaker 12: We played a voicemail from a male caller from Philly 771 00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,440 Speaker 12: Steve that said his wife doesn't want him yelling or 772 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,920 Speaker 12: disciplining their son. Now we have a caller. Remember that, 773 00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:41,000 Speaker 12: we have a caller who left a comment. Take a listen, 774 00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:42,000 Speaker 12: good morning. 775 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:42,360 Speaker 8: Uh. 776 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,320 Speaker 21: I just have one question. Steve Harvey was saying, the 777 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,480 Speaker 21: one thing that a man knows how to do is 778 00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:50,400 Speaker 21: be a man. I was just wondering if Steve Harvey 779 00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:53,840 Speaker 21: could give us the people examples of. 780 00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:58,239 Speaker 14: What that is, and that is being a man, or 781 00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:02,400 Speaker 14: you and your mind frame knowing what a man. 782 00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:03,719 Speaker 8: Is and what you know. 783 00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:07,480 Speaker 21: You were just talking about disciplining child and let that 784 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,399 Speaker 21: man disciplining the child is one thing. 785 00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,359 Speaker 2: Man and not good at a lot of things. 786 00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:12,919 Speaker 1: For one thing, they are good at. 787 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:13,759 Speaker 2: Being a man. 788 00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:14,960 Speaker 8: So I just want to know. 789 00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,400 Speaker 19: What are the things that you know. 790 00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:19,200 Speaker 1: That you are a good man? 791 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,840 Speaker 7: Manhood is simple. We only have a few basic groups. 792 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:28,080 Speaker 7: We protect, we profess, and we provide. That is the 793 00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:34,160 Speaker 7: basic aura of manhood. Professing his love for you, protecting you, 794 00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:38,000 Speaker 7: and providing for you. The number one rule of manhood 795 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 7: is just do what you say you're gonna do. If 796 00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:44,560 Speaker 7: a man does everything he says he's gonna do, he 797 00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 7: garners the respect of his children, he gets to respect 798 00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:51,360 Speaker 7: of his coworkers, he gets to respect of all his friends, 799 00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:54,000 Speaker 7: he gets the respect of the woman he's dating. 800 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,560 Speaker 2: He gets everybody's respect. Those are the three things. 801 00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:03,800 Speaker 7: Protection, proficient and providing, professing, protecting and providing. 802 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,680 Speaker 2: And do what you say you're gonna do. That's manhood 803 00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:07,200 Speaker 2: all day. 804 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:14,040 Speaker 12: Check check check, Yeah, all right, Steve, thank you. Coming 805 00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:17,239 Speaker 12: up next, today's prank phone call from the nephew. Right 806 00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:20,640 Speaker 12: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 807 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,239 Speaker 12: Coming up at about four minutes after the hour. It's 808 00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,440 Speaker 12: my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is I 809 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:34,759 Speaker 12: think he perms his hair. We'll find out what that's 810 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,240 Speaker 12: all about. Getting too that in just a few because 811 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,880 Speaker 12: right now it is time for the nephew and with 812 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,440 Speaker 12: today's prank phone call, Yeah, we'll do that later, but 813 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:43,600 Speaker 12: it's your show. 814 00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:43,839 Speaker 2: Now. 815 00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:45,839 Speaker 1: What you got Tommy, Well, I've. 816 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,840 Speaker 13: Been down there at the church lately on these pranks. 817 00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:49,919 Speaker 13: You know that I've been heading down that to the church. 818 00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:56,480 Speaker 13: And today's title Lil God is not through with you, 819 00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,080 Speaker 13: but we are. You see what I'm. 820 00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:05,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, God is not through with you, but we are. 821 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:10,120 Speaker 13: Oh yeah, yeah, you're gonna still have your relationship with him, 822 00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,000 Speaker 13: but you're not gonna have one with us no more 823 00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:14,040 Speaker 13: at this church. 824 00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:17,160 Speaker 2: God is not through with you, but we are, cat 825 00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:20,279 Speaker 2: dog if you would, yeah, take a tip check. 826 00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:27,000 Speaker 6: Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach our sister Takara. This 827 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:28,680 Speaker 6: is Brother Brinkley from the church. 828 00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:29,200 Speaker 8: How you doing? 829 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:31,880 Speaker 22: Oh hey, how is it? 830 00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 19: I'm at work? 831 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 1: Can I call you back? 832 00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,920 Speaker 8: Well, this is this is kind of urgent. I'll call 833 00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,640 Speaker 8: your your house phone and I didn't get an answer, 834 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,600 Speaker 8: and I had this other number on file, so I 835 00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:45,719 Speaker 8: wanted to reach out to you. But what I won't 836 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:49,680 Speaker 8: take long, But it's really is all right that urgent matter. 837 00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:51,360 Speaker 8: If you don't mind, all right, hold on. 838 00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,759 Speaker 19: Hold on, let me let me step away from my 839 00:47:53,840 --> 00:48:00,680 Speaker 19: tuber Hello, Hello, Yeah, okay, so what's uh but the brink. 840 00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:03,680 Speaker 8: Okay, we have a bit of. 841 00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,560 Speaker 6: A problem here, and we're gonna try to We're trying 842 00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:08,479 Speaker 6: to clean up a lot of things here at the church. 843 00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:10,839 Speaker 6: You know, I hate to be the one to bring 844 00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:14,960 Speaker 6: you some bad news. Let me just start by by 845 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:18,400 Speaker 6: saying that God might not be through with you, but 846 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:21,560 Speaker 6: we are here at the church. It has been brought 847 00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:25,040 Speaker 6: to our attention, uh, sister car that you guys are 848 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,480 Speaker 6: halfway coming to church and you you you might come 849 00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,759 Speaker 6: once once out of a month. You're not tithing as 850 00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 6: we expected. You know, the church can't really depend on you. 851 00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,760 Speaker 6: It's you you got you know, you bring your kids. 852 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 6: I think your brother comes to the church, but everybody 853 00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:43,840 Speaker 6: is coming every now and then. We cannot depend on 854 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:47,520 Speaker 6: you all to be the members and have the expectation 855 00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:48,360 Speaker 6: of what we're trying to do. 856 00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:52,520 Speaker 19: What you say, you say your name is. 857 00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:59,880 Speaker 1: Yes, you work, you work under the I'm sorry I. 858 00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:01,320 Speaker 14: Never heard of you before. 859 00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:04,560 Speaker 6: I have been officiated by the pastor as I'm over 860 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 6: actually over the finance and we're going through all of 861 00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:09,640 Speaker 6: the books and looking at all of the numbers of 862 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,560 Speaker 6: the of the members of the church, the directory, and 863 00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:13,760 Speaker 6: we're noticing. 864 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,120 Speaker 8: What people are paying tied, what people aren't paying tied, 865 00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:19,680 Speaker 8: who's coming to church, who's participating in different and different 866 00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:23,640 Speaker 8: UH ministries and whatnot. And Sister Takar, I got I 867 00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:25,719 Speaker 8: have to be honest with you. You you the hell 868 00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:29,080 Speaker 8: maybe once every one or someone we might see you 869 00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,759 Speaker 8: might not see you, you know, and like I say, 870 00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:35,560 Speaker 8: God may not be through with you, but we are, okay. 871 00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:36,400 Speaker 22: You can't say that. 872 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:42,880 Speaker 19: Listen, Why I don't understand like you're monitoring my my 873 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:44,640 Speaker 19: my church going like I can. 874 00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:45,160 Speaker 1: I can't. 875 00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:47,839 Speaker 19: I have to go every single week. 876 00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:52,120 Speaker 6: I mean, why are you absent so much at the church? 877 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:52,840 Speaker 6: Explain that? 878 00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:58,000 Speaker 22: I mean, I have three kids, you know, I mean, y'all, 879 00:49:58,719 --> 00:49:59,040 Speaker 22: I don't. 880 00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:02,960 Speaker 19: I mean, I you'll pray. I don't understand how a 881 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,279 Speaker 19: church can are You. 882 00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,080 Speaker 6: Got two jobs, but we're not getting tied. Like you 883 00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:11,040 Speaker 6: got two jobs. You're not tied, and like you got two. 884 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 19: Jobs because I can't afford. 885 00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,680 Speaker 8: You just said I got two jobs. That's what you 886 00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,120 Speaker 8: just said, and that those two. 887 00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:18,880 Speaker 22: Jobs are in support my kids. 888 00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:21,680 Speaker 19: I mean, I can't support the church and my kids 889 00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,000 Speaker 19: is the same term I can't do vote. I mean 890 00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 19: I get when I can. 891 00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:28,960 Speaker 6: Let me ask you something. What are you making on 892 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:29,719 Speaker 6: that other job? 893 00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:31,520 Speaker 19: Are you serious? 894 00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:32,520 Speaker 14: Are you really? 895 00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:32,680 Speaker 8: You? 896 00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:33,040 Speaker 6: Really? 897 00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:37,600 Speaker 19: You really? I didn't know the church and God is 898 00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:40,680 Speaker 19: this deep with You're really asking me how much I 899 00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:44,320 Speaker 19: make and my second job that I take to support 900 00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:47,440 Speaker 19: my kids? Come on, now, this gotta be something. 901 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:50,799 Speaker 8: This is I'm gonna say this to you again. God 902 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 8: may not be through with you, but we are. If 903 00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:58,320 Speaker 8: you are gonna pay your tides, if you're not gonna 904 00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,480 Speaker 8: come to work on a concent it's a basis, then 905 00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 8: what what do you benefit? 906 00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:04,000 Speaker 2: The church? 907 00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:05,720 Speaker 19: Is that what the church is about? 908 00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,680 Speaker 6: This can be I'm gonna say this. I'm gonna say 909 00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,319 Speaker 6: this to you. Let me tell you what the church 910 00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:11,959 Speaker 6: is all about. 911 00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:14,759 Speaker 14: The church is and you say we need done with 912 00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:16,560 Speaker 14: you again one more time. 913 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:17,520 Speaker 19: I'm serious. 914 00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:19,880 Speaker 6: No, I'm gonna tell you this. You're talking about this, 915 00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:21,279 Speaker 6: that what the church is about. Let me tell you 916 00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:25,279 Speaker 6: what the church is. The church is a hospital for 917 00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:29,400 Speaker 6: crippled souls. You understand that that's what that's what the 918 00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:32,279 Speaker 6: church is. But when when we have souls that are 919 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 6: coming in to be saved, we are doing our job. 920 00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:39,160 Speaker 6: And guess what those people that are coming in. You 921 00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,839 Speaker 6: know what they're doing. They're tithing. That's what they're doing. 922 00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:42,880 Speaker 8: They're tithing. 923 00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:47,480 Speaker 6: You, sister Takara, I'm sure your soul is crippled. You're 924 00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 6: not coming and you're not tithing. You may give us 925 00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:53,279 Speaker 6: a little some something when you show up. If you 926 00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:54,960 Speaker 6: show up, that am I right or wrong? 927 00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:56,399 Speaker 19: M okay? 928 00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:56,800 Speaker 14: How that? 929 00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:00,480 Speaker 19: Let me get what straight? What you call being for 930 00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:04,080 Speaker 19: in the middle of my work day to tell me 931 00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:06,680 Speaker 19: that you're kicking me out the church because I don't 932 00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:10,520 Speaker 19: give enough money to the church while I'm at my 933 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:15,000 Speaker 19: job that I can very afford to pay my bills with. 934 00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,279 Speaker 19: So that a fact, I don't even know who you are. 935 00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:20,160 Speaker 19: I've never met you in my life, and I don't know. 936 00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:21,360 Speaker 10: What this church. 937 00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:23,200 Speaker 14: You know this church. 938 00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:24,719 Speaker 22: I hate to say it, but if that's what the 939 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:26,239 Speaker 22: church is about, you had the. 940 00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:32,080 Speaker 14: Nerve to call me jock. 941 00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:35,640 Speaker 6: Okay, Now let me say something. Now, you being very 942 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:40,080 Speaker 6: Unchristian like, now does the card you're gonna watch the 943 00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:41,040 Speaker 6: down't in your language? 944 00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:41,239 Speaker 8: Inn? 945 00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:42,880 Speaker 19: This is not Christian like? 946 00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:46,600 Speaker 8: Well do you do you know brother Dwyane? 947 00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:47,600 Speaker 6: Isn't that your brother? 948 00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:48,560 Speaker 22: Okay? 949 00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 6: And my brother. 950 00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:53,520 Speaker 8: Dwyane is who told me to call you? 951 00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:55,479 Speaker 19: Really my brother? 952 00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:56,080 Speaker 2: So what? 953 00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:57,400 Speaker 19: So what is this about? 954 00:52:57,600 --> 00:52:59,240 Speaker 22: Huh whatever? 955 00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:00,160 Speaker 6: I don't know. 956 00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:01,239 Speaker 19: What's your name? 957 00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,839 Speaker 6: My name is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 958 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,600 Speaker 6: Your brother Duwayne got me the brank phone call you? 959 00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:19,839 Speaker 22: No, Oh my gosh, yo, he's about you can't meet 960 00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,880 Speaker 22: fighting from this job. I'm meant to lobby screaming up. 961 00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:24,200 Speaker 22: You're looking at me. 962 00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:27,000 Speaker 6: Oh mysh you all right? 963 00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:28,239 Speaker 16: Tell me? 964 00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:33,600 Speaker 8: Yeah? What's up? No? 965 00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:39,560 Speaker 19: No, no, oh my god, oh my god, my heart 966 00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:40,240 Speaker 19: is racing. 967 00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:41,919 Speaker 8: Tell me this the card? 968 00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:44,960 Speaker 6: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 969 00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,360 Speaker 6: show in the land, Steve Harvey. 970 00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:50,960 Speaker 13: We're not going to keep playing with you. You see 971 00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:52,920 Speaker 13: what I'm saying. We're not going to keep playing with you, 972 00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:54,520 Speaker 13: going back. 973 00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:55,360 Speaker 3: And forth and all that. 974 00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:59,919 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, you're not doing it? Yeah, all right, I'm sorry. 975 00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:01,800 Speaker 2: I get I get so deep in my prank and 976 00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:03,719 Speaker 2: I get so deep and I guess so involved. You 977 00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:06,560 Speaker 2: have to just I ca yeah, take me a minute, 978 00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:07,120 Speaker 2: come out of it. 979 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 1: You know the character? Yeah, you should ask Steve how 980 00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:12,759 Speaker 1: to do that, because he does that very well. 981 00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,279 Speaker 2: Oh he goes all the way. Have you noticed it? 982 00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:20,560 Speaker 1: But he comes out quickly right away because he gets tired. 983 00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:28,640 Speaker 2: Right away. Sup. We'll be right back with more next. 984 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:36,200 Speaker 13: Hey, it's going down Sunday, June twenty first. That is 985 00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:39,880 Speaker 13: Father's Day. Father's Day in Detroit, baby, uh huh. That 986 00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:45,080 Speaker 13: is Aretha Franklin, Amphitheater Jokes, Jan's and Jams, Jokes, Jazz 987 00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:47,719 Speaker 13: and Jams, hosted by yours, Julie Nephew. Tell me you 988 00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:51,080 Speaker 13: got Jagie Fresh, you got Chante Moore, you got Marcus Wiley, 989 00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:53,520 Speaker 13: you got Julian Vond, you got the Williams. 990 00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:55,480 Speaker 2: And then the list goes on and on. But this 991 00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:56,600 Speaker 2: is for the fathers. 992 00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:00,160 Speaker 13: To bring your father's out, bring your pops out, bring 993 00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:01,719 Speaker 13: your husband out, who's been a great father. 994 00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:03,120 Speaker 2: This is for the fathers. 995 00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:05,560 Speaker 13: This is for the kings, the real kings that work 996 00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:08,239 Speaker 13: every single day that we don't know anything about, but 997 00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:10,440 Speaker 13: we know their journey, we know what they're doing. So 998 00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 13: we celebrate the men, the father Sunday, June twenty first, Detroit, Michigan. 999 00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:17,640 Speaker 2: Jokes, Jazz and jams. 1000 00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:20,960 Speaker 1: All right, coming up next, Strawberry letter. 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I'm 1009 00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:56,240 Speaker 16: continuing that tradition with my daughter, who will be attending 1010 00:55:56,280 --> 00:56:02,279 Speaker 16: in HBCU this fall. Generational excellence can tenues. 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We could be reading your letter 1019 00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:38,879 Speaker 12: live on the air, just like we're going to read 1020 00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,520 Speaker 12: this one right here, right now, and you never know, 1021 00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:43,040 Speaker 12: this one could be yours. 1022 00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,040 Speaker 2: It could definitely be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 1023 00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:48,880 Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here it is strawberry letter. 1024 00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:49,680 Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. 1025 00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:54,480 Speaker 12: Subject I think he perms his hair. Dear Stephen Shirley, 1026 00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:57,239 Speaker 12: I'm a forty nine year old divorced woman and I 1027 00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,879 Speaker 12: was married to an older man that went bald early, 1028 00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:02,920 Speaker 12: so I was the only female in our household who 1029 00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:06,239 Speaker 12: had to worry about hair. I have two sons that 1030 00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:10,000 Speaker 12: were blessed with a curly hair texture so that they 1031 00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:13,120 Speaker 12: were not in the barbershop every week. I've never had 1032 00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:15,880 Speaker 12: to deal with any man's hair issues, and I'm almost 1033 00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:19,160 Speaker 12: ashamed to write to you guys this letter. I'm dating 1034 00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:22,000 Speaker 12: a man that is fifty six years old and he's 1035 00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:25,880 Speaker 12: from Detroit. Not to slam Detroit in any way, but 1036 00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:28,600 Speaker 12: this brother's picture should be in the dictionary next to 1037 00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:32,640 Speaker 12: the word soulful. That means we've been together for a 1038 00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:36,040 Speaker 12: few months and we're at the spend the night phase 1039 00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:39,040 Speaker 12: because it was pastime for us to start having sex. 1040 00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:42,080 Speaker 12: The first time we had sex, he told me that 1041 00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:45,560 Speaker 12: he had to go home immediately after we finished. He 1042 00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:48,240 Speaker 12: said he didn't have any of his hair products with him, 1043 00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:52,800 Speaker 12: so he had to go. I know just by looking 1044 00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:55,400 Speaker 12: at him that his hair texture is not real and 1045 00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:57,760 Speaker 12: he has some kind of product helping him to get 1046 00:57:57,840 --> 00:58:00,680 Speaker 12: those curls. The roots don't match the ends, and it 1047 00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:04,360 Speaker 12: looks like an afro with curly curls on the ends. 1048 00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:07,240 Speaker 12: When he goes to the barbershop, he's there for long 1049 00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:10,440 Speaker 12: periods of time. My first cousin just so happens to 1050 00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,800 Speaker 12: go to the same barbershop, and he called me recently 1051 00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:16,760 Speaker 12: cracking up. He said he's heard that my man is 1052 00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:20,000 Speaker 12: still getting perms in twenty twenty three. I did not 1053 00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:22,760 Speaker 12: want to believe it, but it makes sense. I sleep 1054 00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:25,880 Speaker 12: in a bonnet and so does he. He won't shower 1055 00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,080 Speaker 12: with me because he said I like it too hot 1056 00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,000 Speaker 12: and the steam drives out his hair. 1057 00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:31,320 Speaker 1: Why is he more. 1058 00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:34,360 Speaker 12: Concerned about his hair than I am about mine? I 1059 00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,960 Speaker 12: know for a fact that he uses the hair color 1060 00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:39,920 Speaker 12: that's just for men. But a perm, though, this is 1061 00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:42,680 Speaker 12: the only thing that puts me on pause about him. 1062 00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:46,680 Speaker 12: Should I ask if he has a perm? Who cares? 1063 00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:51,360 Speaker 12: I mean, this is a whole strawberry letter about hair. First, 1064 00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:54,720 Speaker 12: your husband, who you said was older and went bald early, 1065 00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:58,320 Speaker 12: then your two sons who you said were blessed with 1066 00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:01,560 Speaker 12: curly hair, and now you're ma's hair. Who you suspect 1067 00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:04,120 Speaker 12: has a PERM and you're concerned about asking if he 1068 00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:07,200 Speaker 12: has one. I'm not sure why you won't just ask him, 1069 00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:11,200 Speaker 12: you know, I'm not sure about that or why. I'm 1070 00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:13,360 Speaker 12: not sure why his hair matters so much in the 1071 00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:18,760 Speaker 12: first place. I mean, is his hair unattractive? Is it greasy? 1072 00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:22,560 Speaker 12: Is it dirty? Does it stink? Does it get on 1073 00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:27,160 Speaker 12: your pillowcases? Or is it simply because he perms it 1074 00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:30,000 Speaker 12: and your is just not natural? Is that it you'd 1075 00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:31,160 Speaker 12: like it to be natural? 1076 00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:33,680 Speaker 1: I'm not real clear what. 1077 00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:37,480 Speaker 12: Your issue is. Because he wears a bonnet that could 1078 00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:41,280 Speaker 12: be concerning. But how does he treat you? 1079 00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:42,800 Speaker 1: Do you like him? 1080 00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:44,960 Speaker 12: And I would say the answer to that one is yes, 1081 00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:46,840 Speaker 12: since you are sleeping with him already. 1082 00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:48,400 Speaker 2: Hmm. 1083 00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:50,760 Speaker 1: So I just say, if you want to know about 1084 00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:52,200 Speaker 1: his hair, just ask him. 1085 00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:55,560 Speaker 12: It's simple. Just ask him about his hair. If he says, yes, 1086 00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:58,200 Speaker 12: I purn my hair, then what then? What are you 1087 00:59:58,240 --> 00:59:59,960 Speaker 12: going to break up with him because you don't like perm? 1088 01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:02,960 Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean what you know what? 1089 01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:04,080 Speaker 9: Steve? 1090 01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:08,680 Speaker 7: First of all, I knew this letter was gonna be 1091 01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:12,320 Speaker 7: problems because she started off talking about the dude was 1092 01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:17,440 Speaker 7: from Detroit and not to slam Detroit anyway. But this 1093 01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:19,880 Speaker 7: brother picture should be in the dictionary next to the 1094 01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:20,760 Speaker 7: word soulful. 1095 01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:22,640 Speaker 1: What does that mean? 1096 01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:27,080 Speaker 7: I'm saying to be going And what's the problem. Yeah, 1097 01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:33,000 Speaker 7: you don't understand. I used to go to Detroit to dress. 1098 01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:40,640 Speaker 7: I went to Detroit with the full intention of shopping. 1099 01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:47,520 Speaker 7: Right city Slickers, Broadway, Here. 1100 01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:49,480 Speaker 2: We go, Jack. 1101 01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:57,680 Speaker 7: Stayed right there. The hatch stole Henry had all of. 1102 01:00:57,680 --> 01:01:00,720 Speaker 2: Them shut up? 1103 01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:03,440 Speaker 1: How dare you Gordon. 1104 01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:08,240 Speaker 2: That Detroit was everything? 1105 01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:18,560 Speaker 7: Aight Be's comedy kitchen, Whoa Joe Lewis Arena, the Silver Dome, the. 1106 01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:23,440 Speaker 2: Fox, all jokes is all of them? Detroit was everything 1107 01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:29,000 Speaker 2: to me, the automobiles, show girl, GM. 1108 01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:32,360 Speaker 8: Girl. 1109 01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:36,600 Speaker 2: You wrote the wrong brother with this letter. 1110 01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:41,479 Speaker 7: I'm so mad about the Detroit statement and the pitch 1111 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:44,240 Speaker 7: in the diction that next to him, next to soulful. 1112 01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:51,760 Speaker 7: And what is the problem. If your shoes don't match 1113 01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 7: your hat, that's a problem. 1114 01:01:55,800 --> 01:02:01,160 Speaker 15: Come on right, yes, he says, the problem if your 1115 01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:04,120 Speaker 15: parts ain't the same with at the knee and the 1116 01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:07,640 Speaker 15: leg and the thigh, what what what you got on? 1117 01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:10,280 Speaker 1: That's the problem. 1118 01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:16,560 Speaker 7: If you ain't ever wear a krim Dulla silk set, 1119 01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:18,520 Speaker 7: what is wrong with you? 1120 01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:20,680 Speaker 3: You haven't lived. 1121 01:02:22,040 --> 01:02:27,120 Speaker 7: Yes, we wear a linen short set with thick and 1122 01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:28,800 Speaker 7: thin socks on with data. 1123 01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:35,200 Speaker 2: Shoot, yes, yes, hell yeah, my leisure suit match. 1124 01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:43,080 Speaker 23: Yes, we love Detroit, destroys man and huh, how damn you? 1125 01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:52,480 Speaker 2: The love I have for that city is real. Now 1126 01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:56,520 Speaker 2: that we got that out the way, answered this little ragged. 1127 01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:02,560 Speaker 12: All right, we'll have part two of Steve's responds. He's 1128 01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:05,880 Speaker 12: mad about Detroit though. We'll have part two of Steve's 1129 01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,280 Speaker 12: responds coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 1130 01:03:08,560 --> 01:03:11,800 Speaker 12: Today's Strawberry Letters subject I think he perms his hair. 1131 01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:15,560 Speaker 12: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 1132 01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:17,680 Speaker 12: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1133 01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:25,320 Speaker 1: An education is a transformation every day. 1134 01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:30,720 Speaker 16: The Marshall College Fund transformed lives through scholarships, professional development, 1135 01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:35,400 Speaker 16: and career advancement opportunities. We also connect forward thinking companies 1136 01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:40,560 Speaker 16: with exceptional HBCU talent through workforce development programs. I'm a 1137 01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:44,480 Speaker 16: proud HBCU graduate, and my experience shape me into the 1138 01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:48,880 Speaker 16: person I am today. The education, culture, community, and lifelong 1139 01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:52,840 Speaker 16: connections help me reach my fullest potential. The Thirdgood Marshall 1140 01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:57,440 Speaker 16: College Fund is America's largest organization that exclusively represents the 1141 01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:03,439 Speaker 16: HBCU community. If you believe education, opportunity in building future leaders. 1142 01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:05,560 Speaker 1: This is where it starts. Join us and be a 1143 01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:06,880 Speaker 1: part of the transformation. 1144 01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:11,600 Speaker 16: Apply, donate or partner with us today at TMCF dot org. 1145 01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:14,920 Speaker 12: All right, Steve, come on, we have to recap this 1146 01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:18,040 Speaker 12: strawberry letter for today. The subject is I think he 1147 01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:19,200 Speaker 12: perms his hair. 1148 01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:23,240 Speaker 2: Come on, I'm so hurt. 1149 01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 1: A girl that's sad. Look on your face? 1150 01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:35,720 Speaker 2: Can you see me? 1151 01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:39,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, you come out of emotions. You're talking to the 1152 01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:39,800 Speaker 1: letter writer. 1153 01:04:41,880 --> 01:04:45,520 Speaker 7: Now, I'm dating a man that's fifty six years old. 1154 01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:48,880 Speaker 7: He's from Detroit. Not to slam Detroit in any way, 1155 01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:51,600 Speaker 7: but the brother's picture should be an addictionary next to 1156 01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:56,000 Speaker 7: the word soul. I already have come to the conclusion 1157 01:04:57,000 --> 01:05:00,680 Speaker 7: that I'm not only don't like this later that wrote 1158 01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:04,479 Speaker 7: this letter, I'm not gonna say anything to help you either. 1159 01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:09,160 Speaker 2: So what you gonna do? That's how mad I am 1160 01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:12,160 Speaker 2: about just Detroit for nothing? 1161 01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,760 Speaker 7: She trying to figure out if her man got a 1162 01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:19,640 Speaker 7: perm or not. How the hell you a woman and 1163 01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:24,760 Speaker 7: don't know a prime when you see it. You just said, 1164 01:05:25,160 --> 01:05:26,360 Speaker 7: his hair at. 1165 01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:28,120 Speaker 2: The roots is different from they are. 1166 01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:31,920 Speaker 7: The dude told you he in the barber shop telling 1167 01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:35,680 Speaker 7: you your man still get permes. You got on a bonnet, 1168 01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:39,560 Speaker 7: he got on the bonnet. He let me just you 1169 01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:43,080 Speaker 7: can't get no better than that boy from Detroit. You 1170 01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:46,200 Speaker 7: better latch out because at least he won't you. 1171 01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:51,960 Speaker 2: Now, Yes, he perhmes his hair finally. 1172 01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:57,600 Speaker 7: Yes he looks like an old pimp. Yes, all his 1173 01:05:57,840 --> 01:06:04,520 Speaker 7: clothes match. Yes, he's still slapping five on the black side. 1174 01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:04,960 Speaker 6: Yes. 1175 01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:17,920 Speaker 7: Yes, he still uses phrases like brother main blood, jive turkey, right. 1176 01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:21,880 Speaker 2: On, what's happening with you? I see your pimp? 1177 01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:31,520 Speaker 7: Ah, Jesus, old school phrases. Okay, licked is split, what happened? 1178 01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:32,560 Speaker 3: What happened? 1179 01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:40,160 Speaker 2: Licked is split? About to jump off? Sitty, go down, 1180 01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:42,600 Speaker 2: don't play with me. 1181 01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:44,680 Speaker 1: He's soulful. 1182 01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:47,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's so. 1183 01:06:49,160 --> 01:06:51,880 Speaker 7: In his car when you get in the car. Yeah, 1184 01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:56,520 Speaker 7: he got that double player in his car with the 1185 01:06:56,680 --> 01:06:57,400 Speaker 7: CDs in. 1186 01:06:57,440 --> 01:06:58,600 Speaker 2: It and the eight track. 1187 01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:01,240 Speaker 1: I still got an ah. 1188 01:07:03,440 --> 01:07:08,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, he got pillows in the back window of his 1189 01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:13,720 Speaker 7: car and third dice hanging in the front. He got 1190 01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:18,200 Speaker 7: a stern wheel wrap a white stern wheel rap white. 1191 01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:18,600 Speaker 13: Wow? 1192 01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:21,560 Speaker 1: Who is this guy? 1193 01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:27,360 Speaker 7: He got velvet seats and yes it's called a cutlass 1194 01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:33,760 Speaker 7: destroy baby. I know you ain't never seen the roof 1195 01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:35,880 Speaker 7: like that because half of it is vinyl. 1196 01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:36,440 Speaker 8: I know. 1197 01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:43,000 Speaker 7: The rems is called truths. Yes, he got white walls. Yes, 1198 01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:48,040 Speaker 7: young man got white walls. And outside the white wall 1199 01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:50,440 Speaker 7: got a gold stripe. Them his truths, baby. 1200 01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:56,160 Speaker 1: Yes, truths. If you're pretty passionate about. 1201 01:07:55,960 --> 01:08:03,720 Speaker 23: This letter acknowledgeable right, that's a cat that Yes, and 1202 01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:06,920 Speaker 23: he got it on his neck too, a Cadillac emblem 1203 01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:07,840 Speaker 23: on his neck? 1204 01:08:08,440 --> 01:08:12,600 Speaker 2: Whoa for the chain? He ain't no rapper, he ain't 1205 01:08:12,640 --> 01:08:15,880 Speaker 2: got his name? Yes, four of them rings? Yes they nuggets? Yes? 1206 01:08:17,240 --> 01:08:17,439 Speaker 8: Is this. 1207 01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:21,320 Speaker 2: The nuggets? 1208 01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:25,320 Speaker 8: Yeah? 1209 01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:28,600 Speaker 7: You know exactly what they're then yet them Jesus is 1210 01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:33,400 Speaker 7: geor dashed? Yes Jordan? 1211 01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:39,880 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you found a bag in his closet with 1212 01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:41,400 Speaker 2: may go round on the yell. 1213 01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:48,120 Speaker 7: I know they don't make no more square toe shoes. 1214 01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:54,920 Speaker 7: He still got them. And three of his alligated shoes 1215 01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:56,200 Speaker 7: got four colors on them. 1216 01:08:56,400 --> 01:08:59,200 Speaker 1: Yes, what what are those colors? 1217 01:08:59,680 --> 01:08:59,880 Speaker 8: Lime? 1218 01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:04,840 Speaker 2: Green, lemon, yellow, orange and brown. 1219 01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:13,599 Speaker 7: Love candy lot put that on with the brown soup 1220 01:09:13,800 --> 01:09:15,720 Speaker 7: with the yellow jacket, what. 1221 01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:24,479 Speaker 2: With the green tie? What baggage? That's Detroit brown hat 1222 01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:30,720 Speaker 2: with a yellow band on it. Girls. Stop. So that's 1223 01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:34,360 Speaker 2: all I wanted to say. Okay, but I don't care 1224 01:09:34,439 --> 01:09:35,160 Speaker 2: what his head is. 1225 01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:40,760 Speaker 7: I just wanted to give my love, my devotion and 1226 01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:44,320 Speaker 7: all that I am to the second city in the 1227 01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:47,000 Speaker 7: world that is meant more to me than Cleveland, Ohio. 1228 01:09:48,840 --> 01:09:55,720 Speaker 2: That's that Detroit ninety two point three dot mix. 1229 01:09:55,920 --> 01:10:00,439 Speaker 12: Ys all right, hit us up on Instagram and Steve 1230 01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:02,960 Speaker 12: Harvey f them to comment on today's Strawberry Letter. 1231 01:10:03,200 --> 01:10:06,320 Speaker 7: You get a stand in the words of Downtown Toty Brown, 1232 01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:09,040 Speaker 7: stand you right in front of that fish and knock 1233 01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:09,960 Speaker 7: your toby. 1234 01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:14,439 Speaker 12: You can also check on the Strawberry Letter podcast Done demand. 1235 01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:21,839 Speaker 16: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. An education 1236 01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:26,040 Speaker 16: is a transformation every day. The third Good Marshall College 1237 01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:31,160 Speaker 16: Fund transforms lives through scholarships and career advancement opportunities. Over 1238 01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:34,240 Speaker 16: a half of billion dollars has already gone back to 1239 01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:38,360 Speaker 16: students who needed most. We also connect companies with exceptional 1240 01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:43,200 Speaker 16: HBCU talent through workforce development initiatives. I am a proud 1241 01:10:43,560 --> 01:10:48,240 Speaker 16: HBCU graduate, and my education helped me reach my fullest potential. 1242 01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:51,640 Speaker 16: I'm continuing that tradition with my daughter, who will be 1243 01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:58,360 Speaker 16: attending an HBCU this fall. Generational excellence continues. TMCF is 1244 01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:04,920 Speaker 16: America's largest organization that exclusively represents the HBCU community. Join 1245 01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:08,360 Speaker 16: us in being part of the transformation applied, donate, or 1246 01:11:08,439 --> 01:11:11,840 Speaker 16: partner with us today at t MCF dot org. 1247 01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:15,960 Speaker 12: All right, so there's an all new dating term that's 1248 01:11:16,080 --> 01:11:19,679 Speaker 12: really popular on many dating apps right now. It's called 1249 01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:24,519 Speaker 12: ethical non monogamy. It is the practice of having a 1250 01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:30,120 Speaker 12: close or sexual relationship where both parties consent to infidelity. 1251 01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:39,200 Speaker 2: In other words, that's okay. 1252 01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:42,439 Speaker 12: In other words, I tell you I'm married and you 1253 01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:45,400 Speaker 12: agree to sleep with me anyway. That's basically what it is. 1254 01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:51,960 Speaker 12: It's just cheating, okay, swinging swinging, Yeah. Open relationships and 1255 01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:56,840 Speaker 12: polyamory all fall under the umbrella of ethical non monogamy. 1256 01:11:57,120 --> 01:12:00,240 Speaker 12: People are embracing this concept so much that it's now 1257 01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:03,160 Speaker 12: something you put in your dating profile to let people 1258 01:12:03,360 --> 01:12:04,559 Speaker 12: know what you're into. 1259 01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:06,479 Speaker 1: In a twenty twenty you. 1260 01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:10,040 Speaker 12: Gove poll of US adults, a third of the People's 1261 01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:15,000 Speaker 12: survey chose ethical non monogamy. Millennials were the most likely 1262 01:12:15,280 --> 01:12:17,880 Speaker 12: to choose this type of relationship. 1263 01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:20,720 Speaker 10: Kyle Cheating, it's been out. 1264 01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:25,880 Speaker 2: When your wife see your profile, though, what is. 1265 01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:26,960 Speaker 1: It gonna safety? 1266 01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:36,000 Speaker 2: You want to Jesus, you better hear him get that 1267 01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:37,840 Speaker 2: to you. You're gonna have to take that down though. 1268 01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:42,040 Speaker 7: When you're partner FID now, you're gonna have to take 1269 01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:44,439 Speaker 7: it down because you ain't got. 1270 01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:44,800 Speaker 8: To hear that. 1271 01:12:45,240 --> 01:12:49,280 Speaker 1: Why is ethical attached? I guess because you disclosed it. 1272 01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:52,360 Speaker 1: I'm married upfront, I don't know. 1273 01:12:52,840 --> 01:12:55,920 Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure out who don't know I ain't married. 1274 01:12:57,760 --> 01:13:01,000 Speaker 1: Well, you're you're famous, so that's a little different everybody. 1275 01:13:02,920 --> 01:13:05,439 Speaker 7: I just want to put it out the more be 1276 01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:11,759 Speaker 7: it more ethical or non monogamous relationships? That same profile 1277 01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:18,960 Speaker 7: to be in my obituary, the exact same profile here 1278 01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:21,599 Speaker 7: lies missed consensual, non. 1279 01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:33,000 Speaker 1: Ethical, ethical, non monogamy. That's what he was. That's crazy. 1280 01:13:33,840 --> 01:13:36,360 Speaker 1: That is crazy. Well, it's on a dating app. But 1281 01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:37,679 Speaker 1: I think people think if. 1282 01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:40,920 Speaker 12: They if they if they put a cuter term to it, 1283 01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:44,400 Speaker 12: or a nicer term or a sexier term, they change 1284 01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:46,160 Speaker 12: the name of it, it makes it better. 1285 01:13:46,360 --> 01:13:48,559 Speaker 1: All right, We'll be back with more of the Steve 1286 01:13:48,640 --> 01:13:53,040 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. Hey, this is John Legend. Hi, 1287 01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:57,680 Speaker 1: this is Felicious. Hey, this is Motown recording artist camp Here. 1288 01:13:58,000 --> 01:13:58,360 Speaker 2: What's up? 1289 01:13:58,439 --> 01:14:01,439 Speaker 1: This is Chris Rock He guys morning. This is Tony Braxton. 1290 01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:03,599 Speaker 2: You already know what time in ist boy DC, Young Fly. 1291 01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:06,000 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1292 01:14:06,120 --> 01:14:08,559 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1293 01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:15,280 Speaker 12: All right, So Junior, it's summertime and you have some 1294 01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:17,840 Speaker 12: important side piece rules you gotta know and. 1295 01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:21,800 Speaker 11: Follow absolutely, Shirley, it's that time of years. Yeah, and 1296 01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:22,639 Speaker 11: it's gonna happen. 1297 01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:25,519 Speaker 7: I'm gonna be the voice of reason here, so yes, 1298 01:14:25,840 --> 01:14:28,000 Speaker 7: I see something wrong with this rule. I'm gonna have 1299 01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:28,760 Speaker 7: to tighten up. 1300 01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,200 Speaker 11: Okay, that's fine, But there ain't nothing wrong with these 1301 01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:32,439 Speaker 11: rules because this is gonna happen. 1302 01:14:32,760 --> 01:14:33,120 Speaker 2: Here we go. 1303 01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:39,160 Speaker 1: First rule number one, don't fall in love. Okay. 1304 01:14:39,760 --> 01:14:42,200 Speaker 11: See what that means is fall in love with your 1305 01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:45,680 Speaker 11: side piece could mess up the relationship. 1306 01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:47,200 Speaker 10: You just need to know what this is. 1307 01:14:47,520 --> 01:14:49,200 Speaker 2: It's just sex, that's all we do. 1308 01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:51,120 Speaker 3: It's man. 1309 01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:54,800 Speaker 11: This ain't no boys to me in love. This ain't 1310 01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:57,800 Speaker 11: no bride McKnight. This is Tupac how you want it? 1311 01:14:59,120 --> 01:15:07,839 Speaker 7: Yeah, what, Steve, You're agreed, that's the where it's supposed 1312 01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:14,240 Speaker 7: to work. But god, who could happen about this? Yeah, 1313 01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:16,680 Speaker 7: that is what it is in the beginning. But oh 1314 01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:22,639 Speaker 7: my goodness, fall. 1315 01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:24,280 Speaker 2: Hard as hell. Go ahead, Jim, all right, here we 1316 01:15:24,439 --> 01:15:25,880 Speaker 2: go up. Number two. 1317 01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:33,479 Speaker 11: Being a side piece means keeping your expectations in check. Okay, Yes, 1318 01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:37,280 Speaker 11: I'm going on family vacation with my family, but I 1319 01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:39,759 Speaker 11: will only be there when I'm not needed at the house. 1320 01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:41,880 Speaker 10: Means don't don't worry about what we're going. 1321 01:15:42,160 --> 01:15:45,120 Speaker 11: I'll be back. I can't be there every day. I 1322 01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:47,240 Speaker 11: can only be there to day that she I'm not 1323 01:15:47,360 --> 01:15:48,160 Speaker 11: needed at the house. 1324 01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:51,440 Speaker 2: And no, you cannot go on the family. 1325 01:15:54,880 --> 01:15:55,200 Speaker 1: Okay. 1326 01:15:55,520 --> 01:15:58,760 Speaker 11: Rule number three, and this is important. You got to 1327 01:15:58,840 --> 01:16:02,240 Speaker 11: be undercover. That means you must communicate and meet up 1328 01:16:02,320 --> 01:16:05,880 Speaker 11: with me without anyone else knowing. You need to act 1329 01:16:05,960 --> 01:16:11,599 Speaker 11: like you in a spy movie. This James Bond were doing. Yes, 1330 01:16:12,560 --> 01:16:15,880 Speaker 11: we're a spy movie. Okay't communicate that record. Don't look 1331 01:16:15,880 --> 01:16:20,120 Speaker 11: at me since signal Okay, I use your hands. Since 1332 01:16:20,240 --> 01:16:20,960 Speaker 11: I know what that means. 1333 01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:22,400 Speaker 5: I be in the back. 1334 01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:24,200 Speaker 11: I know what I know what the back at You 1335 01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:26,320 Speaker 11: can't just stand up here and talk to me that record, 1336 01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:27,400 Speaker 11: am I right round? 1337 01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:35,320 Speaker 2: That's okay? 1338 01:16:36,280 --> 01:16:39,560 Speaker 11: Yeah, going, this is very important. You got to know 1339 01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:43,400 Speaker 11: the risks when you're getting involved with me. Okay, this 1340 01:16:43,640 --> 01:16:47,000 Speaker 11: just int about you and me. It's about you, me 1341 01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:51,519 Speaker 11: and her. Okay, think about everyone. When you make a move. 1342 01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:56,120 Speaker 2: You have to know how you have You have to 1343 01:16:56,240 --> 01:16:57,160 Speaker 2: consider her too. 1344 01:16:57,640 --> 01:17:01,520 Speaker 16: Yes, oh really that's asier. 1345 01:17:02,479 --> 01:17:06,280 Speaker 11: Yes, No, her work schedule, no time she gets home, 1346 01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:09,880 Speaker 11: know what time she called? That way you know, but 1347 01:17:10,040 --> 01:17:13,840 Speaker 11: not to say nothing. This is important. 1348 01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:15,720 Speaker 3: You have to know the risk for this. 1349 01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:17,320 Speaker 1: Yes, it's crazy. 1350 01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:20,439 Speaker 11: Now, this is a big one, and this is one 1351 01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:22,200 Speaker 11: y'all like to do because when you see it, you 1352 01:17:22,320 --> 01:17:23,880 Speaker 11: confront and all this stuff. But then what you need 1353 01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:25,760 Speaker 11: to understand. I don't care who you talk to, even 1354 01:17:25,800 --> 01:17:28,760 Speaker 11: if it's my own mama. Okay, never talk and never 1355 01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:34,720 Speaker 11: admit to anything. If there's some drama things about. 1356 01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:37,560 Speaker 1: To get crazy, let me handle it and let me 1357 01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:40,240 Speaker 1: do all the talking, all the lying. 1358 01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:45,799 Speaker 2: Right, Absolutely, go ahead, I'm in charge of all lies. 1359 01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:50,880 Speaker 1: Leave it to the experience, right. 1360 01:17:51,320 --> 01:17:54,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and here the last one, the last one. 1361 01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:55,120 Speaker 1: This is very important. 1362 01:17:55,439 --> 01:17:58,200 Speaker 11: You said, all of us very they are if we're 1363 01:17:58,200 --> 01:18:00,920 Speaker 11: gonna make this work, calling they all got to important, okay, 1364 01:18:01,360 --> 01:18:06,320 Speaker 11: and I mean this, no social media, lord, no, there 1365 01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:08,920 Speaker 11: will be no selfish, there will be none. 1366 01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:10,320 Speaker 2: Don't take pictures of us. 1367 01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:12,440 Speaker 1: Just showing us holding hands. 1368 01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:15,320 Speaker 11: Don't take no pictures of us our cloth, don't tag 1369 01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:17,240 Speaker 11: me and none of these pictures, and definitely don't get 1370 01:18:17,280 --> 01:18:21,439 Speaker 11: in my DMS. Nothing, no TikTok, no no snapchat, no 1371 01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:25,519 Speaker 11: faith book, Twitter, no nothing, no notes, no text nothing, 1372 01:18:25,640 --> 01:18:27,000 Speaker 11: no folks me nothing. 1373 01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:28,799 Speaker 1: This don't even exist. 1374 01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:34,080 Speaker 11: Yeah, okay, and those are your root for the side piece. 1375 01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:34,880 Speaker 2: Look up this morning? 1376 01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:35,280 Speaker 6: Up? 1377 01:18:35,360 --> 01:18:35,600 Speaker 1: Would you? 1378 01:18:35,760 --> 01:18:44,960 Speaker 7: While well, I don't post nothing, no way, and if 1379 01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:46,960 Speaker 7: you did post I wouldn't know nothing about it. 1380 01:18:49,439 --> 01:18:49,760 Speaker 6: Thank you. 1381 01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:52,760 Speaker 12: We'll let mark of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1382 01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:54,240 Speaker 12: up at twenty minutes after the hour. 1383 01:18:54,400 --> 01:18:54,920 Speaker 1: Right after this. 1384 01:18:55,240 --> 01:19:01,880 Speaker 12: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It's a 1385 01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:04,120 Speaker 12: fact that some people just get on your last nerve, 1386 01:19:04,240 --> 01:19:04,800 Speaker 12: no matter what. 1387 01:19:05,320 --> 01:19:05,519 Speaker 2: Well. 1388 01:19:05,560 --> 01:19:09,360 Speaker 12: The website Bold has listed a few ways to effectively 1389 01:19:09,560 --> 01:19:13,160 Speaker 12: deal with people. All right, So, Steve, you are a 1390 01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:18,920 Speaker 12: self proclaimed difficult, difficult person. Difficult person, you say that's 1391 01:19:18,960 --> 01:19:21,480 Speaker 12: what you are. You were voted that in high school. 1392 01:19:23,320 --> 01:19:23,439 Speaker 8: Too. 1393 01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:28,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a difficult person. So so let's see if 1394 01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:28,840 Speaker 1: this can. 1395 01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:34,960 Speaker 12: There you go, being difficult. We're going to see if 1396 01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:38,639 Speaker 12: these will help us deal us deal with you better. First, 1397 01:19:39,200 --> 01:19:41,360 Speaker 12: it says to take a deep breath. Everyone, take a 1398 01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:42,200 Speaker 12: deep breath. 1399 01:19:44,320 --> 01:19:48,799 Speaker 1: Let it out. Then find a common ground to create 1400 01:19:48,880 --> 01:19:49,280 Speaker 1: a bond. 1401 01:19:49,840 --> 01:19:53,200 Speaker 12: We can use humor if it's appropriate, and that should 1402 01:19:53,240 --> 01:19:55,040 Speaker 12: work bode well because you're you're a. 1403 01:19:55,080 --> 01:19:58,719 Speaker 1: Comedian, or just walk away, just walk away. 1404 01:19:59,000 --> 01:20:01,680 Speaker 2: We can't walk away on the show though, So so. 1405 01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:07,040 Speaker 12: Tommy, Carla, you think any of these will work with 1406 01:20:07,200 --> 01:20:10,679 Speaker 12: our most difficult person taking a deep breath, walking away, 1407 01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:13,080 Speaker 12: try to find common ground and create a bond, you 1408 01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:15,759 Speaker 12: think so, guys, they forgot praying. 1409 01:20:16,479 --> 01:20:17,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, so what else? 1410 01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:20,200 Speaker 7: All these deep breaths and all these deep breaths, and 1411 01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:23,200 Speaker 7: make sure you have a mint whatever. 1412 01:20:28,240 --> 01:20:30,000 Speaker 2: Ain't none of that happening. You'll can give it up. 1413 01:20:31,240 --> 01:20:33,720 Speaker 1: It's just not gonna happen. It's who he is, all right. 1414 01:20:34,200 --> 01:20:37,120 Speaker 1: We'll have more of the scene that solved it, more of. 1415 01:20:37,160 --> 01:20:39,599 Speaker 12: The Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three 1416 01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:42,840 Speaker 12: minutes after we will play around. Would you rather right 1417 01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:46,160 Speaker 12: after this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1418 01:20:49,800 --> 01:20:52,400 Speaker 12: Think about the people who mean the most to you. 1419 01:20:52,880 --> 01:20:56,160 Speaker 12: Giving them valuable protection is a great gift you can offer, 1420 01:20:56,400 --> 01:20:59,719 Speaker 12: and Globe Life Insurance can make it easy. 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That's one eight hundred 1425 01:21:13,200 --> 01:21:16,639 Speaker 12: two five one fifty four hundred or Globelife radio dot com. 1426 01:21:17,439 --> 01:21:18,760 Speaker 12: And it's time now for a round. 1427 01:21:18,920 --> 01:21:19,679 Speaker 1: Would you rather? 1428 01:21:19,920 --> 01:21:25,360 Speaker 12: Would you rather have dry cracked lips all the time 1429 01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:29,000 Speaker 12: or dry ashy skin all the time? 1430 01:21:30,840 --> 01:21:33,840 Speaker 2: Be careful, Steve, No, I gotta have to take the skin, 1431 01:21:34,080 --> 01:21:35,439 Speaker 2: no weight, These things can be. 1432 01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:42,840 Speaker 10: Your lips, right, No, yeah, I'd be yeah, because. 1433 01:21:42,560 --> 01:21:45,040 Speaker 2: I'd be in your face. Looked like two glazed doughnuts. 1434 01:21:45,120 --> 01:21:50,840 Speaker 2: Is topic. Look at all lips. My lips got to 1435 01:21:50,840 --> 01:21:56,679 Speaker 2: be quat what my lips got to be? Weat? Wet 1436 01:21:56,880 --> 01:21:57,679 Speaker 2: my whist saw? 1437 01:21:57,800 --> 01:22:01,000 Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about? You will ashy skin? 1438 01:22:01,320 --> 01:22:04,120 Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah, all right? 1439 01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:06,600 Speaker 12: So would you rather have a pool in your backyard 1440 01:22:06,720 --> 01:22:08,919 Speaker 12: or would you rather have a view of the ocean. 1441 01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:12,600 Speaker 2: I got that both of them. Let's tell you so. 1442 01:22:14,280 --> 01:22:17,160 Speaker 11: I ain't got neither one, and don't want to talk 1443 01:22:17,200 --> 01:22:19,080 Speaker 11: about these ones because they all sound expensive. 1444 01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:26,920 Speaker 1: Yeah a pool, Yeah that's next, junior, Yeah, I take 1445 01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:27,320 Speaker 1: all right? 1446 01:22:28,479 --> 01:22:35,599 Speaker 12: Hi see that from your couch? Yeah yeah, yeah, all right. 1447 01:22:35,640 --> 01:22:39,360 Speaker 12: Would you rather get a million dollars tomorrow? One million dollars? 1448 01:22:39,520 --> 01:22:42,439 Speaker 12: One million dollars to tomorrow? Would you rather? 1449 01:22:42,840 --> 01:22:45,599 Speaker 1: Okay? Or would you rather wait five years and get 1450 01:22:45,680 --> 01:22:46,320 Speaker 1: ten million? 1451 01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:49,960 Speaker 2: I could do. I could wait that five I'm waiting 1452 01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:51,040 Speaker 2: for five years. I'm glad. 1453 01:22:51,040 --> 01:22:55,640 Speaker 13: I'm gonna get to ten in five years. That that 1454 01:22:56,000 --> 01:22:57,840 Speaker 13: million tomorrow and I passed. 1455 01:22:58,560 --> 01:23:13,760 Speaker 2: Oh he's so rich to me. Take that million, Thank you, Pete. 1456 01:23:14,600 --> 01:23:17,040 Speaker 2: Don't listen to this little rich over here. 1457 01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:20,639 Speaker 13: Then we ought to be asking them who they rather than, 1458 01:23:20,720 --> 01:23:22,599 Speaker 13: and not whether me and you would rather? 1459 01:23:23,640 --> 01:23:25,519 Speaker 2: Would you rather on call? 1460 01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:28,920 Speaker 1: I'll told you my answer tomorrow when we get the nail. 1461 01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:29,479 Speaker 8: I talk. 1462 01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:38,680 Speaker 17: In your life right now immediately, Yeah, talking crazy tomorrow? 1463 01:23:41,120 --> 01:23:41,400 Speaker 8: All right? 1464 01:23:41,400 --> 01:23:44,720 Speaker 1: Would you rather take a vow of celibacy or a 1465 01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:45,800 Speaker 1: vow of silence? 1466 01:23:48,080 --> 01:23:48,600 Speaker 2: Silent? 1467 01:23:53,160 --> 01:23:56,280 Speaker 1: So you're just gonna be quiet if you talk for 1468 01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:58,040 Speaker 1: a living? What what is it gonna be for you? 1469 01:23:58,439 --> 01:24:04,439 Speaker 1: I mean, we all do, but take talking it just 1470 01:24:04,560 --> 01:24:08,280 Speaker 1: would you rather avow five years? A year, ten years? 1471 01:24:08,360 --> 01:24:12,639 Speaker 7: However about I can't stop talking for five years. I'm 1472 01:24:12,640 --> 01:24:15,000 Speaker 7: gonna take a vow of celibacy, but I'm not gonna 1473 01:24:15,080 --> 01:24:16,640 Speaker 7: do it, So. 1474 01:24:16,760 --> 01:24:20,800 Speaker 1: You're just lying, you're b Yeah breakwakp. 1475 01:24:21,400 --> 01:24:25,960 Speaker 2: I'm broke a vow. Before we know, we'll on and 1476 01:24:26,000 --> 01:24:27,160 Speaker 2: God on standing lot. 1477 01:24:27,560 --> 01:24:30,920 Speaker 12: Yeah, we'll be back with our last breakday at forty 1478 01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:33,320 Speaker 12: nine minutes after and we'll get some closing remarks from 1479 01:24:33,320 --> 01:24:35,240 Speaker 12: the one and only Steve right after this. 1480 01:24:36,120 --> 01:24:37,880 Speaker 21: What's up, y'all is just let us see and you're 1481 01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:40,080 Speaker 21: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1482 01:24:40,240 --> 01:24:47,479 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. An education 1483 01:24:47,920 --> 01:24:50,000 Speaker 1: is a transformation every day. 1484 01:24:50,240 --> 01:24:54,280 Speaker 16: The third Good Marshall College Fund transforms lives through scholarships 1485 01:24:54,439 --> 01:24:58,759 Speaker 16: and career advancement opportunities. 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All Right, 1497 01:25:43,439 --> 01:25:46,559 Speaker 12: we're going to switch gears here and Steve Harvey's gonna 1498 01:25:46,600 --> 01:25:48,080 Speaker 12: give us some closing remarks. 1499 01:25:48,479 --> 01:25:51,000 Speaker 7: You know something I think I want to share something 1500 01:25:52,160 --> 01:25:54,080 Speaker 7: along the lines of you know, I was telling y'all, 1501 01:25:54,120 --> 01:25:58,400 Speaker 7: started doing this meditation every morning, and I really can't 1502 01:25:58,439 --> 01:26:00,400 Speaker 7: tell you man, it's really really helped me a great 1503 01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:05,320 Speaker 7: deal because it's giving me a level of peace that 1504 01:26:05,439 --> 01:26:08,800 Speaker 7: I've never really understood before. And it's just been every 1505 01:26:08,920 --> 01:26:13,080 Speaker 7: morning as I go in prayer. But I read these 1506 01:26:13,160 --> 01:26:17,639 Speaker 7: little daily motivational things and I was reading the other 1507 01:26:17,840 --> 01:26:22,440 Speaker 7: day and it was teaching me this thing, this aspect 1508 01:26:22,640 --> 01:26:26,240 Speaker 7: of worry that I think a lot of people are experiencing, 1509 01:26:27,320 --> 01:26:29,360 Speaker 7: and I wanted to share it with you. It was 1510 01:26:29,680 --> 01:26:35,800 Speaker 7: talking about what he really wants us to do is 1511 01:26:35,920 --> 01:26:42,439 Speaker 7: give up your striving to keep everything under control, which 1512 01:26:42,520 --> 01:26:47,400 Speaker 7: is actually an impossible task. And what's furthermore, it's actually 1513 01:26:47,479 --> 01:26:52,960 Speaker 7: a waste of precious energy. Because what I've been learning, right, 1514 01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:55,400 Speaker 7: this is God's guidance for each one of us. 1515 01:26:56,120 --> 01:27:01,240 Speaker 2: That God's guide, that God guides are, it's very unique 1516 01:27:01,320 --> 01:27:05,240 Speaker 2: to each one of us. That's why listening to. 1517 01:27:05,320 --> 01:27:09,719 Speaker 7: God is so really vital to your well being because 1518 01:27:10,040 --> 01:27:12,040 Speaker 7: what God really wants to do, and what I've been 1519 01:27:12,160 --> 01:27:14,920 Speaker 7: learning is he just really wants to prepare us for 1520 01:27:15,080 --> 01:27:18,160 Speaker 7: the day that awaits us, and he really wants us 1521 01:27:18,240 --> 01:27:21,040 Speaker 7: to give us direction and point us in the right 1522 01:27:21,120 --> 01:27:25,400 Speaker 7: direction for today's events. And even though fear follows you 1523 01:27:25,520 --> 01:27:27,920 Speaker 7: around throughout the day, it kind of stalks you, you 1524 01:27:28,000 --> 01:27:30,960 Speaker 7: know what I mean, because there are so many opportunities 1525 01:27:31,080 --> 01:27:37,400 Speaker 7: to not be conscious of God's presence that you have 1526 01:27:37,560 --> 01:27:40,560 Speaker 7: to understand that even though all these opportunities around you, 1527 01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:43,360 Speaker 7: that it can't really do you no harm as long 1528 01:27:43,400 --> 01:27:45,439 Speaker 7: as you hold on. You remember how you hear old 1529 01:27:45,479 --> 01:27:48,560 Speaker 7: people say hold on to God's unchange in hand. That 1530 01:27:48,680 --> 01:27:51,200 Speaker 7: if you do that and you keep your eyes on Him, 1531 01:27:52,200 --> 01:27:55,400 Speaker 7: then you get to enjoy this peace and it's peace 1532 01:27:55,479 --> 01:27:59,720 Speaker 7: I've found because I've stopped worrying so much about the 1533 01:27:59,800 --> 01:28:03,200 Speaker 7: things that I don't have control over. And one of 1534 01:28:03,280 --> 01:28:08,320 Speaker 7: the big things is your future. You can't control your future. 1535 01:28:08,760 --> 01:28:08,880 Speaker 2: Now. 1536 01:28:08,960 --> 01:28:11,240 Speaker 7: Look, that's not to say you're not supposed to plan 1537 01:28:12,800 --> 01:28:17,320 Speaker 7: and hope and and have prayer about stuff. But praying 1538 01:28:17,360 --> 01:28:20,639 Speaker 7: about stuff don't don't necessarily mean worry. Matter of fact, 1539 01:28:20,680 --> 01:28:24,479 Speaker 7: it don't mean worry. So you know, you gotta uh, 1540 01:28:25,800 --> 01:28:29,040 Speaker 7: you gotta pay attention to that. I've had to get 1541 01:28:29,120 --> 01:28:34,880 Speaker 7: even better at mastering time. And what I've learned about 1542 01:28:34,920 --> 01:28:38,040 Speaker 7: this is that all of us were really really built 1543 01:28:38,120 --> 01:28:42,160 Speaker 7: in twenty four hour segments. But time man is like 1544 01:28:42,280 --> 01:28:45,519 Speaker 7: a tyrant. Sometimes it just takes away at us in 1545 01:28:45,640 --> 01:28:48,280 Speaker 7: our mind. And you got to learn how to master it. 1546 01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:51,560 Speaker 7: And even though we're all bound by some form of 1547 01:28:51,680 --> 01:28:54,120 Speaker 7: time in our life, how we're always conscious of time. 1548 01:28:55,439 --> 01:28:58,960 Speaker 2: You gotta be still. You gotta get out of the 1549 01:28:59,080 --> 01:28:59,759 Speaker 2: mad rush. 1550 01:28:59,800 --> 01:28:59,920 Speaker 9: Ya. 1551 01:29:00,720 --> 01:29:03,640 Speaker 7: You got to focus on God. I like it in 1552 01:29:03,720 --> 01:29:06,200 Speaker 7: the morning because it helps me start my day. You 1553 01:29:06,320 --> 01:29:09,240 Speaker 7: got to get out the mad rush. You gotta focus. 1554 01:29:09,479 --> 01:29:12,840 Speaker 7: You gotta get laser beam focused in the mornings. It's 1555 01:29:12,880 --> 01:29:15,320 Speaker 7: great for me because it helps me balance my whole day, 1556 01:29:15,800 --> 01:29:17,720 Speaker 7: and I just focus. I just sit with him. I 1557 01:29:17,840 --> 01:29:20,040 Speaker 7: just talk to him about the stuff that I have 1558 01:29:20,280 --> 01:29:23,320 Speaker 7: concerns about. I talk to him about stuff that I'm 1559 01:29:23,360 --> 01:29:26,120 Speaker 7: hoping to accomplish, and then at the same time, I 1560 01:29:26,280 --> 01:29:28,439 Speaker 7: leave it open to wherever he's trying to take me 1561 01:29:28,600 --> 01:29:32,920 Speaker 7: for that day. I talk to him about things I'm 1562 01:29:32,960 --> 01:29:36,040 Speaker 7: trying to make decisions on. I ask him to always 1563 01:29:36,120 --> 01:29:38,640 Speaker 7: guide me and leave me in the right direction. And 1564 01:29:38,760 --> 01:29:41,880 Speaker 7: it has been helping me out tremendously. Man, It's just 1565 01:29:42,000 --> 01:29:44,280 Speaker 7: something I do in the morning. Look, you don't have 1566 01:29:44,360 --> 01:29:46,200 Speaker 7: a radio show like me, so you ain't got to 1567 01:29:46,240 --> 01:29:49,360 Speaker 7: tell a lot of people you're doing You don't have 1568 01:29:49,439 --> 01:29:50,880 Speaker 7: to tell a lot of people that you're doing it. 1569 01:29:51,360 --> 01:29:53,559 Speaker 7: But the reason I'm doing it is because I really 1570 01:29:53,600 --> 01:29:56,240 Speaker 7: do try to encourage other people and get you to 1571 01:29:56,439 --> 01:29:59,600 Speaker 7: have something that you can put into your day to 1572 01:29:59,680 --> 01:30:02,680 Speaker 7: day and maybe it can help you. And that's why 1573 01:30:02,720 --> 01:30:05,160 Speaker 7: I always like to use myself as an example when 1574 01:30:05,200 --> 01:30:08,639 Speaker 7: I'm giving these motivational moments of stuff that I'm doing 1575 01:30:08,720 --> 01:30:12,880 Speaker 7: that I've actually finding out through my own trial period 1576 01:30:13,000 --> 01:30:15,760 Speaker 7: that really does work for me. And starting my money 1577 01:30:15,880 --> 01:30:18,560 Speaker 7: off by meditating has really made a huge difference in me. 1578 01:30:18,720 --> 01:30:22,479 Speaker 7: Is given me a really really calm amount of peace. 1579 01:30:23,120 --> 01:30:26,040 Speaker 7: But I'm just employing everybody to form some type of 1580 01:30:26,120 --> 01:30:29,920 Speaker 7: relationship with your creator. Man, it'll just help you out immenseally. 1581 01:30:30,360 --> 01:30:33,639 Speaker 7: It really really will, because God who made you would 1582 01:30:33,720 --> 01:30:37,080 Speaker 7: love to have some form of relationship with you. Now, 1583 01:30:37,160 --> 01:30:39,439 Speaker 7: he's a gentleman. He's not going to force hisself on you. 1584 01:30:39,760 --> 01:30:42,479 Speaker 7: So he does want to be invited in because he 1585 01:30:42,560 --> 01:30:44,519 Speaker 7: gives us all the power of choice. But once you 1586 01:30:44,640 --> 01:30:47,800 Speaker 7: invite him in, it's a very calming effect in your life. 1587 01:30:48,120 --> 01:30:50,760 Speaker 7: You should try it if you have it. The cool 1588 01:30:50,840 --> 01:30:54,400 Speaker 7: thing about it is you don't need permission, And the 1589 01:30:54,520 --> 01:30:57,080 Speaker 7: even cooler thing about it is no certain way that 1590 01:30:57,160 --> 01:30:59,919 Speaker 7: you have to do it. You can develop a meditation 1591 01:31:00,360 --> 01:31:01,120 Speaker 7: that works for you. 1592 01:31:02,080 --> 01:31:03,960 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. I like to read. 1593 01:31:04,360 --> 01:31:06,720 Speaker 7: I like to I got a list of stuff that 1594 01:31:06,800 --> 01:31:09,559 Speaker 7: I make sure I thank him for every day. My family, 1595 01:31:09,720 --> 01:31:14,599 Speaker 7: my health, my grandchildren's health, of my hopes and dreams 1596 01:31:14,640 --> 01:31:17,840 Speaker 7: of my kids, make me a light, show me how 1597 01:31:17,880 --> 01:31:20,280 Speaker 7: to be a better example. And then I got a 1598 01:31:20,360 --> 01:31:22,240 Speaker 7: lot of stuff in there that I want. I got 1599 01:31:22,320 --> 01:31:25,320 Speaker 7: some material things, some spiritual things. 1600 01:31:25,080 --> 01:31:27,639 Speaker 2: That I want. I go over those lists, and once 1601 01:31:27,680 --> 01:31:31,200 Speaker 2: I read those lists and meditate on them, and you know, 1602 01:31:31,720 --> 01:31:35,120 Speaker 2: put up my form of prayer. That's how I start 1603 01:31:35,240 --> 01:31:35,639 Speaker 2: my day. 1604 01:31:35,720 --> 01:31:35,880 Speaker 8: Man. 1605 01:31:36,000 --> 01:31:39,479 Speaker 7: And I think, Man, I wish i'd done this long 1606 01:31:39,600 --> 01:31:41,639 Speaker 7: time ago, to be honest with you, a long long 1607 01:31:41,760 --> 01:31:45,120 Speaker 7: time ago. But you ain't never too late. So here 1608 01:31:45,200 --> 01:31:48,400 Speaker 7: I am and you can too. Those are my remarks 1609 01:31:48,520 --> 01:31:49,040 Speaker 7: for today. 1610 01:31:49,560 --> 01:31:52,120 Speaker 2: That's it, y'all. Have a great day today. Talk to 1611 01:31:52,240 --> 01:31:54,960 Speaker 2: God today. 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