WEBVTT - DREAMLAND 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:06.840 All from Captain part Man, Captain Captain fart Man, is 0:00:06.840 --> 0:00:07.120 that you? 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:10.720 That is me, Captain part Man? 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:16.400 What do you? What do you h How did you become? 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:18.400 What's the origin story of that? How did you become 0:00:18.480 --> 0:00:19.239 Captain Fartman? 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:24.320 Well, it started back in my youth. 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:29.640 I don't know why it's starting. All right. 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:31.680 How far away are you from the telephone right now? 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:33.080 Okay? 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:34.920 Two feet? 0:00:36.120 --> 0:00:37.559 Why are you two feet from your telephone? 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:41.240 I don't know. 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:43.559 You're doing something. You know what you're probably doing. You're 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:46.120 probably having the phone on speaker while you're doing something else. 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:49.960 I am actually yes, okay, what are you? 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:50.600 What are you doing? 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:56.880 Who? 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:13.800 Whatever he was doing was illegal? Hello, good evening, good morning, 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:16.880 whatever time it is that you're listening to this, if 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:19.240 you're in the shower, if you're in the grocery store, 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:23.080 if you're you were kidnapped and they're playing this for 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:26.600 you because you had one last request before they, you know, 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:28.880 do what they're going to do, and you said, you know, 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:32.080 before I die, I want to listen to the episode 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:35.040 five of the Therapy Echo podcast. If you're in that situation, 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:38.399 then I you know, I I hope you live. I 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:43.600 hope you enjoyed your life. All right, Okay, that was stupid. 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:47.160 I hate doing this. I hate for some reason, like 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:52.120 if there's people watching me on like a when it's live, 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:55.200 you know, I can just talk and not care and 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:57.960 it's whatever. But if I'm alone and I'm just recording 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:02.960 talking to myself, I don't know how to do it. 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:06.320 And I'm doing the thing where I explain it to you, 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:11.679 so it makes me feel better about it. But now 0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:16.560 this just feels awkward. All right, okay, enough, enough enough, 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:19.560 all right. In this episode, well, first of all, welcome, 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:22.360 this is therapy. Get go. I am Lyle, this is 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:25.120 me and that was a call and you heard me 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:28.200 on the call, and all right. So in this episode, 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:31.600 we talked a lot about dreams. I had a good 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:33.840 time on this episode. We talked about dreams that make 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:37.120 us sad, dreams that make us horny, dreams that make 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:41.280 us insecure, you know, sometimes all at once. After that, 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:44.440 we talked about how to solve issues that arise when 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:50.440 your college roommate is sexually active to perhaps an inconvenient degree. 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:55.360 We talked about the feasibility of making meth as a career, 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:58.360 as well as the feasibility of selling pictures of your 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:01.480 teeth as a career splored the on again, off again 0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:05.760 romance of two beautiful young men, and god damn it 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:07.760 so much more, so, much more so. I'm gonna keep 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:09.920 this intro brief. I'm gonna shut the hell up and 0:03:10.000 --> 0:03:11.720 let's go ahead and get to the calls. All right, 0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:15.680 Alaska is a city, not a state. Hail Satan. I'll 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:16.359 talk to you soon. 0:03:26.280 --> 0:03:29.280 Call from John. 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.919 To accept Press one to send a voicemail. 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:38.840 John, John, Yeah, what's. 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:41.440 Up is John? Oh man? I'm on. 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:46.480 How does that make you feel to be on? 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:49.240 I feel very special right now? 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:59.200 Really, really do you do you often feel unseen? 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:03.520 Yes? 0:04:04.080 --> 0:04:05.240 Unheard? Maybe? 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:16.600 What are you dying? What do you? What do you 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:17.839 want people to hear? John? 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:28.360 I had a nightmare. One nightmare came to mind when 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:33.960 when you mention the nightmares. I was like, I was 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:38.680 like fifteen, and I had a dream that I was 0:04:38.680 --> 0:04:42.800 having anal sex with my best friend Andrew and I 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:48.039 was given it to him and I'm straight and he's 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:51.120 straight as far as I know. And the next time 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:58.159 I saw him it was real awkward, awkward. 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:00.400 Did you tell him about the dream? 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:03.719 I didn't tell him about the dream. I thought it 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:04.440 was a little weird. 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:09.320 It was awkward for you. 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:12.479 It was definitely awkward for me. Oh yeah, it took 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:14.839 like a year for me to stop thickets about it. 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:27.400 What do you think might have instigated this dream? 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:30.560 Man? I have no idea. I've thought about it too. 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:36.400 What would that mean? I don't know. 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:44.560 Have you had any other sexual dreams about any of 0:05:44.600 --> 0:05:45.680 your other friends? 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:48.919 I'm not male friends. 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:57.640 Nor do you still talk to your friend that you 0:05:57.640 --> 0:05:58.440 had the dream about? 0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:00.800 He died. 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:05.119 Like, no joke, He died like ten years ago. 0:06:07.680 --> 0:06:08.320 Sorry to hear that. 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:11.719 Yeah, it was a bummer. He was a real nice guy, 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:15.120 real nice guy, and. 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:17.479 He died without ever knowing that you had to stream 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:17.920 about him. 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:24.120 It's true, that is true. It's probably for the best. 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:30.560 Do you feel like there's there's a lack of closure 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:33.120 here that you didn't get to tell him or do 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:33.960 you think it's the best? 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:37.279 No, I think it's I think it's for the best. 0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:40.640 And I you know, I don't know this dream like, 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:43.200 I haven't thought about it in years. But when you 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:45.560 said he had a nightmare, that was just for some 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:48.480 reason that just like popped into my head. 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:57.560 Hmm, was what was what did he do? How old 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.039 was he when he died? If you don't mind me. 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:06.320 Asking, Oh, he was thirty, right about thirty? 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:11.960 Wow, do you mind me asking? What happens? 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:14.880 I believe he had a cancer. 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:22.640 Were you with him? Were you like in contact with 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:23.520 him when he was dying? 0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:24.680 Not? 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:24.920 Really. 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:27.160 He was like a childhood friend, you know, and then 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:29.760 I moved away when I was like a teenager, and 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:31.720 we still kept in touch but didn't see each other 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:34.400 a lot except every few years. So I you know, 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:36.320 it was a bummer, but you know, he wasn't a 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:37.280 close friend at that point. 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:41.120 You know, I'm trying to think, and I think ultimately 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:42.800 agree with you. I don't think that there would have 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:47.800 been any situation in which it would have been the 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:52.040 right thing to do to you know, on this man's deathbed, 0:07:53.720 --> 0:08:00.360 as he's slowly dying of cancer, tell him that when 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:03.040 you guys were kids, he had a dream about you 0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:05.400 had a dream about having anal sex with him. 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.160 Yeah, that time especially would have been poor. It would 0:08:09.160 --> 0:08:10.720 have been poor timing, certainly. 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:11.280 Yes. 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:16.600 Well, John, you made a good decision and I'm proud 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:16.800 of you. 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:20.280 Thank you, And you know what, you made a good 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:23.080 decision doing what you're doing. I love your show. Discovered 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:26.040 it on Friday, loving it, just loving it. Keep doing it. 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:30.320 Thank you, man, I appreciate that very much. Man. Yeah, 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:34.760 you have a good night, John. And and you know what, 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:40.079 if you have any dreams about me, you can tell 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:40.640 me if you want to. 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:43.800 Don't mind, I'll let you know no matter how weird 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:44.280 it is. 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:46.440 All right, man, I love you. 0:08:47.600 --> 0:08:48.720 I love you too, stay weird. 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:52.800 Thanks? Thanks John, take care all right? 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:00.440 Mm hmm? 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:08.280 Well hello, Hi? 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:09.840 What's your name? 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:12.319 My name is Carlos. 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:16.600 Carlos, what are you doing right now? 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:22.480 I was supposed to be doing my virtual school and 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:24.640 then I tuned into your your stream. 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:27.160 You're supposed to be doing? 0:09:27.200 --> 0:09:27.280 What? 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:34.920 Doing my school schoolwork? 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:37.480 Carlos? Have you ever had a nightmare? 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:39.360 I have? 0:09:40.679 --> 0:09:43.880 What about Giant Gecko's. 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:52.760 Carlos, I can ask you a question? Yeah, have you 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:54.400 ever had a nightmare, Carlos? 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:57.000 I have about what? 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:10.280 I don't know. 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:15.440 I just lately have been having nightmares that you know, 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:21.760 nobody really likes me. 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:29.240 You know, you have nightmares that nobody likes you? Yeah, 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:33.600 how does nobody liking you? How does that idea that 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:37.800 nobody likes you manifest itself in your nightmares? Like what 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:42.000 situations arise that prove to you that nobody likes you. 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:45.800 You know, it could be situations where like, I'll be 0:10:45.800 --> 0:10:49.040 being hunted down and there's nobody there beside me to 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:52.720 help me. Or it can be a situation where there's 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:56.199 really struggling now ask people for help and they just 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:59.319 walk away. 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:01.280 Does that have into you in real life or things 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:01.920 similar to that? 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:09.600 No, but I feel like people don't necessarily want to help. 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:14.480 Do you attribute that to the nature of people or 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:17.000 to people's reaction to you as a person. 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:22.319 I like the people's reaction to me. 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:25.800 So you think people are generally willing to help other 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:27.960 people but not you because they don't like it. 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:31.120 That or they're tired of me? 0:11:31.280 --> 0:11:31.480 Yes? 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:34.160 What do you think it is about you that people 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:34.760 might not like? 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:46.880 I mean, I've always been told I'm too energetic? Who, 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:50.760 let's do this, Let's do that? To hey, I want 0:11:50.800 --> 0:11:52.720 to hang out, and I feel like we get tired 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:52.920 of that. 0:11:57.679 --> 0:12:01.480 Do you hang out with other energetic people like who? 0:12:02.120 --> 0:12:03.559 Who do you tend to surround yourself with? 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:11.920 Mmm? My friends aren't necessarily energetic. I I try to 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:14.800 hangle with my girlfriend as much as I can, but 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:17.520 I've gotten to the point where I kind of don't 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:21.880 necessarily ask to hang out unless she asked, because I 0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:25.320 don't want to, you know, put myself as the too 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:29.040 needy when in reality, you know, I just constantly want 0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:31.160 to spend time with her, spend a lot of time 0:12:31.200 --> 0:12:36.640 with her friends, Me and my friends. Is kind of 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:38.920 all just the parts of different side of the talents. 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:41.720 That's really much harder to meet up, especially with COVID 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:42.640 going on right now. 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:54.400 I feel like, do you feel like you're your girlfriend 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:57.600 has a similar level of investment in you that you 0:12:57.640 --> 0:13:05.560 haven't heard. I would think so, well, if that's the case, 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:07.400 why are you afraid to ask her to hang out 0:13:07.400 --> 0:13:07.600 with you? 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:15.200 Because I have, As. 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:22.160 You know, it was kind of it's originally it was 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:23.320 like when I moved too far. 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:27.440 So when it came to move to move, you know, 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:30.200 change my lease on my apartment, I kind of moved 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:32.760 a little bit closer to her, you know. Now she's 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:39.000 like ten minutes away, you know, but we only necessarily 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:42.560 hang out on the weekend still because I know she's 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:48.640 busy with work. I'm busy with school, but I don't know, 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:51.920 I feel I mean, I'm free. 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:53.280 Most most days. 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:55.760 I only go to only do school work like every 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:56.280 other day. 0:13:57.120 --> 0:14:03.640 That's a problem, Carlos, Why are you free most days? 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:08.640 Why am I free most days? 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:13.920 Because I set aside in my schedule so that I 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:16.400 don't overlap with anything else. Like if I'm doing my 0:14:16.480 --> 0:14:19.600 school days on certain days, I focus on that. 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:23.920 Carlos, cant tell you something. Yeah, look, I know I'm 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:25.520 doing a bit right now where I'm on readit. I'm 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:27.040 just to play a get go. But this is actually 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:29.680 a situation in my real life I've had some trouble 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:31.560 with and it's the rare time when I actually feel 0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:35.520 like I am qualified to give any sort of genuine advice. 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:37.600 I feel like the times of my life in which 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:41.960 I'm not busy at times where I'm most dependent on 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:45.760 other people and like relationships and shit, and those times 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:48.240 have been awful because when you put you know, like 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:54.720 when you have dependency on other people, that that fucks 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:57.800 you up, you know what I'm saying. So I feel 0:14:57.840 --> 0:15:03.800 like if you you gotta find like a hobby or 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:06.200 something that like can take up your time most days, 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:11.040 that you're less free for other people, not not as 0:15:11.120 --> 0:15:13.040 like a oh I'm not to like make yourself like 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.880 look cool for other people. You're not doing that so 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:18.320 that you get to be like, oh, I'm busy, but 0:15:18.360 --> 0:15:22.160 you're doing that because it'll be like independently satisfying for you, 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:26.040 and like your enjoyment will come out of like things 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:28.040 that are of your own creation as opposed to other people. 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:31.320 Because if your enjoyment comes from other people, I mean like, 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:33.360 of course, like relationships are important part of life, but 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:36.840 like I do feel like if too much of your 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:41.000 overall like piagraph of enjoyment comes from other people, you 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.240 kind of fuck yourself a little bit. So I feel 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:45.280 like you should try to create things in your life 0:15:45.320 --> 0:15:46.480 they give you independent joy. 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:49.240 And I used to I used to have like my 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:54.400 hobby was playing league play league all throughout the night, 0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:55.880 and it's spent all my free time money. If I 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:58.800 wasn't hanging out with friends and I used to play 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:02.920 you know, other video games. I just don't find the 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:04.160 enjoyment in that anymore. 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:09.640 Under do you? When you played the league where you like, 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:12.880 do you like playing video games or do you feel 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:16.920 like because playing video games to me does really feel 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:20.960 like a were you were you? Were you good? Or 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:22.680 like did you like make content or like stream or 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:23.280 anything like that? 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:25.760 No, I never made content, never streamer, never found it 0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:27.920 as a job. I just played it because I wanted 0:16:27.920 --> 0:16:30.120 to play. I always found enjoyment in it, even while 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:32.280 people always getting angry or if I lost the game, 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:33.400 I still found. 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:34.360 The enjoyment in it. 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:38.040 But I think recently, in like the last two or 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:41.120 three years or so, I just I kind of fell out, 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:43.400 Like I'll play a game and then I'll just sit there, 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:46.920 you know, just staring at my screen, and then you know, 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:49.560 going to watch TV or something. 0:16:55.320 --> 0:16:57.000 I try to find something else. I don't know that 0:16:57.080 --> 0:17:01.000 much about you, and but I think if you can 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:04.919 find something that like ties to your interests, that you 0:17:04.960 --> 0:17:08.520 could start something that like can grow. Because video games, 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:13.360 I mean this is like you know, bullshit self help, 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:16.679 motivational advice and shit. But like I feel like video games, 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:19.480 like I love playing video games, dude, but like I 0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:24.520 feel like they don't they don't grow meaningfully. So if 0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:27.240 you can find something that you can grow meaningfully, that 0:17:27.320 --> 0:17:29.760 can take up your time and if you like video 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:32.439 games like that, That's why I mentioned like making content 0:17:32.680 --> 0:17:34.600 and shit, because I think that is something that can 0:17:34.600 --> 0:17:38.000 grow meaningfully. But I would try to find something like that, 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:40.400 you know, something tied to your interest that you can, 0:17:40.480 --> 0:17:43.760 like I don't know, like a start a business of 0:17:43.920 --> 0:17:45.800 or like start something that like has the potential to 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:47.919 like grow. Just not not because you want to like 0:17:48.080 --> 0:17:49.960 fucking make money or not because you want to, like 0:17:51.400 --> 0:17:53.960 I don't know, just something that can like give you 0:17:54.040 --> 0:17:56.760 independent joy and make you feel like you're making progress 0:17:56.760 --> 0:17:58.520 without you having to like depend on other people. 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:11.000 Okay, yeah, yeah, that that definitely makes sense. Thank you. 0:18:11.920 --> 0:18:12.919 I love you, Carlos. 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:14.280 I love you. 0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:17.960 Thank you. 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:20.719 Have the rest of the evening, and I hope, I 0:18:20.720 --> 0:18:21.480 hope the best for you. 0:18:22.840 --> 0:18:23.720 Thank you you too. 0:18:24.480 --> 0:18:32.760 Okay O, how from. 0:18:37.880 --> 0:18:42.680 Dyson? Hello, Hi Dyson, can you give me a favor? 0:18:43.680 --> 0:18:44.000 Yeah? 0:18:45.200 --> 0:18:48.080 Can you get as close to this? Can you get 0:18:48.080 --> 0:18:52.359 as close to your phone is humanly possible? Can you 0:18:52.359 --> 0:18:57.760 get your mouth like sexually close to you, like as 0:18:57.800 --> 0:19:01.199 close as possible to Yeah? 0:19:01.760 --> 0:19:02.879 Is this a little bit better? 0:19:03.359 --> 0:19:04.399 Yeah? That's better? 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:06.240 All right? Thank you. 0:19:11.320 --> 0:19:15.440 I'm in I'm in a dilemma right now. That's really bad. 0:19:16.160 --> 0:19:16.639 You're aware. 0:19:18.080 --> 0:19:21.000 I'm in dilemma right now, Like this is fucked up 0:19:21.160 --> 0:19:22.200 the ship I gotta. 0:19:21.960 --> 0:19:24.800 Do all right, tell me, tell me what's going on? 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:25.120 Wait? 0:19:25.240 --> 0:19:27.119 Is your name? Dyson or Tyson. 0:19:27.720 --> 0:19:30.320 Tyson like t y s O N like Mike Tyson. 0:19:32.640 --> 0:19:34.880 All right, Tyson, tell me this dilemma. 0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:40.520 All right, So my roommate's gay in college, and like 0:19:40.880 --> 0:19:44.479 I'm a straight man, Like I don't really care whatever 0:19:44.920 --> 0:19:48.760 did even thing, but like I'm really drunk right now, 0:19:48.800 --> 0:19:50.520 and I need to get back to my room. But 0:19:50.680 --> 0:19:53.080 I think I might cough lock until the second night 0:19:53.080 --> 0:20:00.000 in a row. I don't know what, Like my room 0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:05.679 roomate likes getting dick in the butt, and I just 0:20:05.680 --> 0:20:07.320 don't know what to do right now. Like I'm being 0:20:07.400 --> 0:20:10.480 completely honest with you, Like I don't know what to 0:20:10.520 --> 0:20:13.000 do be other cock box them last night because I 0:20:13.000 --> 0:20:14.480 said I was going to power Hour, but I just 0:20:14.480 --> 0:20:18.480 get rid of high on stuff and came back. And 0:20:18.520 --> 0:20:20.360 now he's hanging with that dude tonight, and I don't 0:20:20.400 --> 0:20:21.040 know what to do. 0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:28.040 All right, I have to reor first of those two 0:20:28.080 --> 0:20:33.560 things with this. Yeah, the first, your roommate's sexual orientation 0:20:33.920 --> 0:20:35.320 kind of has nothing to do. 0:20:35.280 --> 0:20:37.919 With this, I know, I know, I just don't want 0:20:37.960 --> 0:20:38.719 to cock block him. 0:20:38.760 --> 0:20:46.880 You know, how would you be cock blocking him? Well, 0:20:47.280 --> 0:20:49.080 just going into your room. 0:20:50.359 --> 0:20:55.680 I walked past the elevator earlier, like maybe twenty minutes ago, 0:20:56.280 --> 0:20:59.120 and that's him and that dude walking back to my room, 0:20:59.160 --> 0:21:00.920 and I just don't, like, I don't want. 0:21:00.840 --> 0:21:04.399 To talk about Do you do share a room? 0:21:05.200 --> 0:21:05.440 Yes? 0:21:06.400 --> 0:21:11.080 Ah, okay, I thought it was like he's in the 0:21:11.200 --> 0:21:14.240 living room with his guy, and you would have had. 0:21:16.600 --> 0:21:22.639 He's in the bedroom with that dude second night in 0:21:22.680 --> 0:21:23.000 a row. 0:21:28.960 --> 0:21:30.680 Do you ever do you ever have kicked him out 0:21:30.720 --> 0:21:31.320 to have sex? 0:21:32.920 --> 0:21:35.399 No, because I'm normally just at the girl's dorm brough. 0:21:38.480 --> 0:21:38.880 Mm hmm. 0:21:40.440 --> 0:21:44.520 So like it's a hard situation for him. I want 0:21:44.560 --> 0:21:46.719 to just go in and grab more beer and stuff, 0:21:46.720 --> 0:21:48.560 but like, at the same time, I don't want to 0:21:48.560 --> 0:21:51.119 do that to him. 0:21:51.160 --> 0:21:53.119 Oh you just want to go into the room and grab. 0:21:52.880 --> 0:21:58.040 Some beer, Well, grab some beer, drink some beer, plays 0:21:58.040 --> 0:21:58.800 some coffee. 0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:05.200 Why do you just text them and see if you 0:22:05.240 --> 0:22:07.400 can go into the room and get your freaking Xbox? 0:22:09.640 --> 0:22:11.600 But I don't have anywhere else to play it because 0:22:11.640 --> 0:22:14.639 there's not enough outlets anywhere else. So long have you 0:22:14.720 --> 0:22:15.200 been long? 0:22:15.280 --> 0:22:16.320 Have you been out of your room for. 0:22:18.280 --> 0:22:21.200 About twenty five minutes? But like, I don't want to 0:22:21.240 --> 0:22:23.000 take a risk like that and walk in on something. 0:22:23.080 --> 0:22:24.800 I definitely don't want to see you know. 0:22:26.200 --> 0:22:27.639 Do you do you? I feel like you guys got 0:22:27.720 --> 0:22:30.320 to have a conversation about this though you was there 0:22:30.359 --> 0:22:34.960 ever a conversation where you established hey, this you know, 0:22:36.560 --> 0:22:38.280 because I don't think either of you is being a 0:22:38.320 --> 0:22:40.840 dick right now. I don't know why you seem a 0:22:40.840 --> 0:22:42.720 little hung up on the fact that he's gay, but. 0:22:43.680 --> 0:22:45.480 Well, no, it's not that at all, Like I have 0:22:45.680 --> 0:22:49.480 nothing against that, Like I support him being happy and everything. 0:22:49.520 --> 0:22:52.000 But like when I had a girl in the room 0:22:52.040 --> 0:22:55.960 one time, like two cooks to me, did everything that 0:22:56.240 --> 0:22:57.760 I could have asked me to do, but I just 0:22:57.760 --> 0:22:59.879 didn't look at my phone, and I don't know what 0:23:00.080 --> 0:23:02.359 to do because that could be the same situation. I 0:23:02.440 --> 0:23:04.879 just don't want to interrupt anything good going for me. 0:23:04.960 --> 0:23:10.960 Now, have you what I was gonna say? Have you 0:23:10.960 --> 0:23:13.120 had this conversation with him about like. 0:23:14.600 --> 0:23:14.920 You know. 0:23:16.359 --> 0:23:18.280 What what to do if he wants to use the 0:23:18.359 --> 0:23:19.800 room to have sex, if you want to use the 0:23:19.840 --> 0:23:21.879 room to have sex with the perimeters are around that. 0:23:23.119 --> 0:23:27.959 I mean, we've never heard conversation before together, because like 0:23:28.000 --> 0:23:32.840 it's just two different things, Like I don't know, you 0:23:32.920 --> 0:23:33.399 gotta have that. 0:23:33.480 --> 0:23:35.199 I think that's what you got. That's your problem is 0:23:35.200 --> 0:23:37.680 you don't you you don't you. You need a system, 0:23:38.720 --> 0:23:41.120 you need some ground rules set. You don't have any. 0:23:41.240 --> 0:23:43.719 You don't have a system. You gotta look, I mean 0:23:43.720 --> 0:23:45.160 look to where are you right now? 0:23:46.400 --> 0:23:47.760 I'm my friend's doore right now? 0:23:48.640 --> 0:23:48.919 All right? 0:23:48.960 --> 0:23:51.200