WEBVTT - Second Date Update: The Rudy Of Dating

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, welcome to the podcast. It's Brook and Jeffrey and

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<v Speaker 1>you found the home with the second Date update. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so quick question before we launched a brand new one.

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<v Speaker 1>How many times is appropriate to go to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>during a dinner date?

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<v Speaker 2>Ode?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, honestly, jose I just wear a diaper and go.

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<v Speaker 4>Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, as long as there's a center candle on

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<v Speaker 1>the table, nod.

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<v Speaker 3>I've done.

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<v Speaker 1>Something to go with zero for Alexis jose Man, you're

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners. Definitely overdid it right now in

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<v Speaker 1>a brand new second Date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Second Date Update? Is there any place on Earth more

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<v Speaker 2>difficult to navigate than the world of dating apps, at

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<v Speaker 2>least in this day and age. Yeah, maybe it was

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<v Speaker 2>easier a few years ago, but now there are land

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<v Speaker 2>mines everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Honestly, I'm pretty grateful for him, because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think we could do these many second Date updates

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<v Speaker 1>without true the dire atmosphere that this is.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you to everybody sacrifice out there. Without what you do,

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<v Speaker 2>we wouldn't have jobs but for a guy. If you

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<v Speaker 2>do come across a person who's attractive and seems mentally

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<v Speaker 2>stable ish and she's not a bot, your chances of

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<v Speaker 2>landing a phone number are points zero zero zero zero one.

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<v Speaker 2>So I want to talk to a real life hero

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<v Speaker 2>who beat those odds and actually locked down a date.

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<v Speaker 2>The Rudy of dating apps. His name is Luke. His

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<v Speaker 2>name's Luke.

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<v Speaker 3>You started with Rudy and I was going to give

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<v Speaker 3>him a Rudy interest. That's what you do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's fine. We messed up your intro, Luke, but

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<v Speaker 2>else's name to it?

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<v Speaker 3>You got you know the movie, you know the scene.

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<v Speaker 5>This is great. I haven't felt that welcome in a

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<v Speaker 5>long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Luke, you are an inspiration to millions of people listening.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, we are hoisting you up on our shoulders,

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<v Speaker 2>carrying you all over this room. Just please tell us

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<v Speaker 2>how you did this?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I met this girl online and.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what we were talking about for a while.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what he did it by being a smooth talker.

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<v Speaker 2>How did you get a date with a girl after

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<v Speaker 2>meeting her online?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh? I don't want to pat myself on the back,

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<v Speaker 6>but she's pretty hot.

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<v Speaker 5>I had to rise it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, do you have a line you like to use

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<v Speaker 1>or would you want to be more vague.

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<v Speaker 2>With us about it?

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<v Speaker 6>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>She asked me, like what I was up to, and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, I don't know, saving a cat from a tree?

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<v Speaker 5>No big deal?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what you said?

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<v Speaker 3>That was the joke?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I gotta laugh. And I told her a couple

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<v Speaker 5>other things, like, oh, I had to deliver the cat

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<v Speaker 5>to an orphanage, and.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you're the hero.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right. Yeah, I'm a perfect guy.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's obviously all obviously stole the cat from the

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<v Speaker 1>family who is waiting for it under the tree.

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<v Speaker 5>And don't give away trade secret.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry. Sorry. So, by the way, have we learned this

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<v Speaker 2>girl's name yet?

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<v Speaker 5>Claire?

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<v Speaker 3>Claire?

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<v Speaker 2>Claire?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, hot Claire.

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<v Speaker 2>So you managed to get her to agree to a

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<v Speaker 2>date with you, which already huge, huge, huge success. So

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<v Speaker 2>tell us how the actual date went.

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<v Speaker 3>You really hype it up that success part.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook You don't know you.

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<v Speaker 6>Date?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, ouch?

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<v Speaker 3>I just say, you know what success isn't planning it

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<v Speaker 3>so that they show up.

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<v Speaker 5>Trust me.

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<v Speaker 6>I was as shocked as anybody else that she actually

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<v Speaker 6>like gave me her number and showed it to the date.

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<v Speaker 5>I was expecting to eat sushi by myself.

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<v Speaker 3>You went to sushi? Fancy that's love that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we went to sushi, and uh, she's pretty hot

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<v Speaker 5>in real life too. I thought I might have been catfish, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Although catfish is a good sushi, roll tried sometime. What

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<v Speaker 2>did you guys connect over regular stuff?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, we talked about like enjoying, like hiking and work.

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<v Speaker 5>Nothing too fancy. But I gotta imagine my must not

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<v Speaker 5>have been as good in person as it was online

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<v Speaker 5>because she hasn't been calling me back.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting because you, I mean, just talking to you

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<v Speaker 1>in this amount of time, you seem like a fun, playful,

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<v Speaker 1>like good personality type of guy.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't forget good looking, And I'm going to come clean that.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want you guys to tell her this, but

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<v Speaker 6>I actually brought a friend to the dinner with me.

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<v Speaker 5>Not at the table like a kind of yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Why why why please tell me talking about the cat

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<v Speaker 2>that you rescued.

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<v Speaker 5>No, they were just at the table nearby and kind

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<v Speaker 5>of like.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait wait so now it's day. Now it's multiple people.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah it was two people.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, But now that you're revealing little by little,

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<v Speaker 2>was the entire restaurant all your.

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 5>But look, look you got to think smart about this.

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<v Speaker 5>It would be weird if just one dude was sitting

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<v Speaker 5>by himself at a table next to your table.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, it's weird either way. It's weird that you invited

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<v Speaker 3>friends on your date? Why did you invite friends on

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<v Speaker 3>your date?

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<v Speaker 5>Trust me, she did not know. I mean girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Always yeah, but like, were they staring at you or

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<v Speaker 1>like was it ever obvious?

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<v Speaker 5>No? I didn't think so. I mean, listen, all I

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<v Speaker 5>would do is if I felt like I was kind

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<v Speaker 5>of running out of some riz there was a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit of like a lull in the conversation, I just

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<v Speaker 5>excuse myself to the bathroom and one of them would

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<v Speaker 5>meet me in there and we kind of gain plan

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<v Speaker 5>before I head back in.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you needed a little just a little backup in

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<v Speaker 2>case you needed support. It's not a bad idea. What

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<v Speaker 2>wa do this line?

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<v Speaker 3>I just need to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Are they on the other line, Are they like in

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom with us right now?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, you're just on your own.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, it's just me for now, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Women will invite someone to be nearby for safety reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>not because they don't feel like they can they run

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<v Speaker 1>a date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, mine was also for safety. It was for conversational

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<v Speaker 5>safety safety.

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<v Speaker 2>Which yeah, cool in my eyes, I think it's cool. Guys, dude,

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<v Speaker 2>it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>How many times did you go to the bathroom?

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<v Speaker 5>I went four times.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's a small bladder. That's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it seems helpful. Fueled me up, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I went back out there and kept making our laugh Okay, Okay, so.

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<v Speaker 3>You were able to game plan better conversations?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and how did the date end?

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<v Speaker 5>It was a little kiss, It was a little peck

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<v Speaker 5>on the cheek.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. Was there any talk about future hangouts like with.

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<v Speaker 5>Me and my friend?

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<v Speaker 2>Although you can answer that if you want to. I'm curious.

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<v Speaker 2>Even they're like, we're not going to see you again.

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<v Speaker 3>You get done by.

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<v Speaker 5>Three people At this point, I kind of feel like

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<v Speaker 5>if I don't get a call back, we all lost.

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<v Speaker 3>They did do half the work. That's a good point,

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<v Speaker 3>all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well we're going to call Claire and hopefully get some answers,

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<v Speaker 2>not just for Eric but for his entire friend group. Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>so we can all rest easy after we do your

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<v Speaker 2>second date update. Right after this hold on second date

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<v Speaker 2>update if you're just joining us, We've been talking to

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<v Speaker 2>RML Rizmaster Luke Lockdown a date with a tasty little

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<v Speaker 2>saucepot named Claire the other night.

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<v Speaker 1>His words, that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>So took her to a restaurant, and for backup, he

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<v Speaker 2>brought a couple of his buddies along, had them sit

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<v Speaker 2>at a nearby table just in case he needed some

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<v Speaker 2>help with conversation topics.

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<v Speaker 3>Wasn't it a girl and a guy that he brought along?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I assumed two guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It was two buddies, okayroom brookh Now.

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<v Speaker 2>The good news is he only needed their help four

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<v Speaker 2>times throughout the.

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<v Speaker 3>Dinner date, which that is so many times.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Luke, we never asked you though. Did your friends

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<v Speaker 2>who were there that night have any theories on what

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<v Speaker 2>they think could have gone wrong?

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<v Speaker 5>No, they said I was killing it. They were like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>man's all about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait wait what you met him in the bathroom. And

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<v Speaker 3>that's the advice gave you as you're killing it, keep

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<v Speaker 3>doing what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, that's what they told me after the date, when.

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<v Speaker 3>They were watching from the bushes as you said goodbye

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<v Speaker 3>to them, putting thumbs up from across the tea.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, they weren't in the bushes. They were in

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<v Speaker 5>their car in the parking lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay with the headlcense, Yeah, midculars.

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<v Speaker 2>Those are good supportive friends to just say that to you,

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<v Speaker 2>even if it might.

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<v Speaker 5>Not be okay, I know, I appreciate that, and I

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<v Speaker 5>appreciate them.

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<v Speaker 6>I just I really want you guys to do whatever

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<v Speaker 6>you can to help get me the second date. And

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<v Speaker 6>if you could, please don't mention that my friends were there.

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<v Speaker 5>I'd like, I don't want her to know that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay, Okay, we'll tell her that you have no

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<v Speaker 2>friends whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think maybe just don't bring up friends at all,

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<v Speaker 1>Jessy is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Until she probably does, let's find out. I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 2>Claire right now. We'll see if she picks up and

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully get some answers. Here we got Hello, Hi, We're

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<v Speaker 2>looking to speak to somebody named Claire. It's a sh

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<v Speaker 2>oh hey, hey, Claire, welcome to our radio show. Surprise

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<v Speaker 2>you're on the radio. We're show called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 2>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, this is just supposed to be kind of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I hope you're not too busy doing something

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<v Speaker 2>right now, but we'd really really like to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>H what's this about?

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<v Speaker 2>This is about a segment we do called the second

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<v Speaker 2>Date Update. Do you know about that? Have you heard about?

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<v Speaker 2>Second date updates?

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<v Speaker 3>Are viral and TikTok?

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds a little familiar. Maybe on a Insta or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, that maybe one of the knockoffs.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's the one where they steal our audio and

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<v Speaker 1>they use those video games.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I love those ones so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Subway surfers for why.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, so Claire, maybe you're a little bit familiar

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<v Speaker 2>with it, but basically, it's where we try to help

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<v Speaker 2>out our listeners figure out the reason they're not getting

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<v Speaker 2>a callback for a second date from someone they really like.

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<v Speaker 4>Someone.

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<v Speaker 3>He has a name.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this particular person is named Luke, who you went

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<v Speaker 2>on a date with.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, oh my goodness. I don't want to sound

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<v Speaker 4>to set it, but I have been out with more

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<v Speaker 4>than one Luke this week, just this week.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I mean it's a fairly common name.

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<v Speaker 2>Still, this particular Luke went to sushi with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I thought you're gonna be like.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, Wait, do you remember or you don't?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I know who you're talking about for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Now okay, good man, you wish we called about the other.

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<v Speaker 2>Luke sounds like it maybe he is calling back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So what we're trying to tell you is that Luke

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<v Speaker 2>had a really good time and he's a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>confused about why there hasn't been a second date yet.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it as simple as you just have so many

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<v Speaker 1>other dates planned that you can't fit Luke in.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess it was just a little bit of an

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<v Speaker 4>odd date. E can kind of nervous and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>he's a little quieter in person. That's not really my thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You well, maybe just maybe just needs a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>of time to warm up. Because he was speaking to

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<v Speaker 2>us about the date, and he had a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>really nice things to say. Yeah, he was very smiley.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't I don't know. I don't know, but it

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<v Speaker 4>just seemed like it seems like he knew people that

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<v Speaker 4>were sitting by us.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, what what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Like when Luke would make a joke, I would hear

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<v Speaker 4>like the table two tables over laughing and say how

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<v Speaker 4>funny that guy is.

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<v Speaker 2>Some other table was listening in on your conversation over.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Fair, I do that all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I love when a first date comes in and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>It is like it's better than any imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>Around nights Joe Girl, I talked about it like kids

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<v Speaker 1>like did you hear what they say? No?

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, Claire, you find that behavior to be rude

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<v Speaker 2>and insulting.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just kind of loud.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a weird vibe.

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<v Speaker 4>I I don't know it just well.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's like Brooke was saying, you can't really

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<v Speaker 2>hold that against Luke just because some other guys are

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<v Speaker 2>obviously jealous of him and wish that they were over

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<v Speaker 2>the date instead of tables.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's the thing, even if Luke did know them,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've gone into restaurants where I've seen people

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<v Speaker 1>that I know just by coincidence.

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<v Speaker 4>He never said he knew them.

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<v Speaker 2>I almost did. Would be like, hey, is that Bill?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you ask? Though?

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, because it was weird. It literally some guys

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<v Speaker 4>like he's so cute, I go out with him again.

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<v Speaker 2>The guy said he's cute.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>One of the many times when it was about literally

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<v Speaker 4>came over and told me that wait talk to you.

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<v Speaker 2>The guy came over to your table and said, the

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<v Speaker 2>person you're on a date with thinks you're cute.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I think he's cute. I would go out with him.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yes, yeah, I'm like, who are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, he is going to die when he hears that.

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<v Speaker 3>One of the guys from the table came over.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, doing too much and he already did hear that, actually, Claire,

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<v Speaker 2>because he is listening on the other line to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>He's listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's like the guys from the restaurant at the

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<v Speaker 1>other table right now over there.

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<v Speaker 2>Lukey there.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my gosh, I cannot believe he said that.

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<v Speaker 3>When an idiot, Well, it's going to out yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a nice thing he said about you.

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<v Speaker 4>So you do know that you didn't say that?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 5>Just listen. I'm sorry. You're just you're really attractive and

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<v Speaker 5>you're really cool, and I I was just nervous and.

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<v Speaker 6>I wanted to have somebody there to kind of just

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<v Speaker 6>helped me with the date. I'm sorry I didn't tell you.

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<v Speaker 6>I just I thought it would be uncomfortable and weird.

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<v Speaker 4>So those guys were like your training wheels.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a new term. I do like that.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess you could say that.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I mean I guess I really appreciate your honesty,

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<v Speaker 4>you do, Like that's kind of one hundred percypathetic.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh out, that's a little strong.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean he's a nice guy. He's just trying

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<v Speaker 3>his best.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And like, now that you know, the only reason you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like the date was because of them, It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>because of Luke.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you not hear me before? I said she was

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<v Speaker 4>way different than he was online? So both thinks turned

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<v Speaker 4>me off.

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<v Speaker 3>So is it like he was funnier online?

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<v Speaker 4>What do you mean it without going online and not

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<v Speaker 4>in the sense of like, I'm bringing friends on your date?

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<v Speaker 2>Friends? Like what mesa to think? How about this?

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<v Speaker 5>Would you want to go back to talking online? I'm

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<v Speaker 5>better online anyway?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, there we go. That's an idea. It's more of

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<v Speaker 2>a safe talking.

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<v Speaker 3>About How is that? That's not a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>That's not the point of this is to get him

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<v Speaker 1>another shot in real life, without the friends, without the

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<v Speaker 1>training wheel.

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<v Speaker 3>You go on a date, but you only text throughout

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<v Speaker 3>the date.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Okay, guys, I could do that.

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<v Speaker 3>I know you can.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys are not getting this because I didn't necessarily

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<v Speaker 4>like him in person and I didn't like his.

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<v Speaker 2>Friends, only the online version of Luke is acceptable.

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<v Speaker 6>But my friends have my best interest and if you

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<v Speaker 6>don't see that, then I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe you don't deserve me.

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<v Speaker 2>Good stand up for your friends, bro.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, fine, that's cool with me.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought that would have fun with the other Luke.

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<v Speaker 3>Then said his own date is such disdain.

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<v Speaker 2>So I can't even offer to send you guys out

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<v Speaker 2>on a date that we would pay for, Claire, because

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<v Speaker 2>it's normally what I do here.

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<v Speaker 4>I do get asked out a lot. So no, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't need that.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Okay, Claire, I apologize.

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<v Speaker 5>I honestly I would actually like to go out with

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<v Speaker 5>you again.

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<v Speaker 3>What you just told her you didn't need her? You

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<v Speaker 3>remember sticking up for your friends, showing her.

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<v Speaker 5>She's really hot though, And like I'm telling you, man,

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<v Speaker 5>my dating is rough.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, So now we've turned this into a third

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<v Speaker 2>date up date, would you be willing to give him

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<v Speaker 2>a third chance that he meeting up with him one

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<v Speaker 2>more time? Claire? Okay, fourth date updated? Okay, you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>forget it. I'm sorry, she's gonna say no.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, I have to go, guys, this really has

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<v Speaker 4>not been very much fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, hot in such a delight.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey in the Morning. Man, why are the hot ones

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<v Speaker 2>always so mean and unforgiving? Seriously, bro, I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that mean that we're not the hot ones because

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<v Speaker 1>we're so kind?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, what did you hear?

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<v Speaker 2>Duke admitted his mistakes, He apologized for his actions, He complimented,

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<v Speaker 2>or tried to reach a compromise.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, jeff and none of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Flies with a hot girl. You are a good wing man, Jeffy.

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<v Speaker 1>We did a terrible job of all of those things,

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<v Speaker 1>and terrible thing bringing his friends there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, your guys' inner hot girls are coming out and

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<v Speaker 2>being like me. And did you intirlah?

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<v Speaker 3>I wish it was outer.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, but we want to help your interpersonality mean hot

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<v Speaker 2>whatever way. Yeah, we all have interviewple.

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<v Speaker 3>I've never met him.

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<v Speaker 2>Your inner personality deserves to find love and we want

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<v Speaker 2>to help you. Email the show. We can call that

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning