1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: First date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com. 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:10,239 Speaker 2: Leila is on the phone today for a first date 4 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jay. 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 3: So let's see we can help her out. 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 2: Laila, before we talk about your Dane stuff, how long 7 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Jay? 8 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 4: I think at this point it's been about two weeks. 9 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 5: Like it, maybe I think we're past the time of 10 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 5: like somebody getting back with you after a first date, you. 11 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 4: Know what I mean? 12 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 3: Obvious ghosting? 13 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 6: Yes, what was the last interaction you guys had? 14 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 4: Just like the end of the date. 15 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 7: So we went to Top Golf hanat shows and then 16 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 7: I invited him over because I lived really close to 17 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 7: the Top Golf, and we kind of hooked up, and 18 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 7: then he left in the morning, and you know, you're 19 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 7: regularly like, oh my god. 20 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll text and then I can't wait to see 21 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 4: you again, and then he has not spoken to me since. 22 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 8: Okay, so you obviously liked him because you hooked up 23 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 8: with him. But tell us a little bit more about 24 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 8: the date to see if we can see if there's 25 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 8: something there that pops that gives us an idea about 26 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 8: what definitely I mean the date was. 27 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 5: I think pretty great and like pretty seamless. I mean, 28 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 5: i feel like I've been in a bunch of first 29 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 5: dates that haven't gone anywhere, so I'm just like really 30 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 5: excited to go out with someone I could actually talk to. 31 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 5: And I feel like we had such a good time 32 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 5: and so much chemistry. You guys, Jay is very, very hot, 33 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 5: and it's so exciting. I honestly like couldn't believe that 34 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 5: someone that like looks that good is also so smart. 35 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 5: The date was great. I mean I feel like, you know, 36 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 5: he helped me with my swing a little bit, and. 37 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 4: We talked a lot about traveling. He's been to all 38 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 4: these different places. He was just telling me about his 39 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 4: recent trip. 40 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 5: To Spain, and I haven't had as much of an 41 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 5: opportunity to travel just because I you know, I've been 42 00:01:58,160 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 5: working and myself. 43 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 4: Through school all of that. So yeah, it was. It 44 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 4: was really awesome. 45 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 9: I actually think it's pretty unbelievable that he didn't call 46 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 9: me that. 47 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 8: Yeah, unbelievable, I mean that's a fair stance to take. 48 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 6: I mean, how is the hookup? 49 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 4: It was great? 50 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 10: I mean, like you know, first times they were always 51 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 10: like a little weird, like if it's so rare that 52 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 10: if you like hook up with somebody for the first time, 53 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 10: it's like mind blowing. But yeah, it was so good, 54 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 10: Like I just felt like we were in sync, and honestly, 55 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 10: when he left, I was like, he's obsessed with me. 56 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 4: Honestly, that might have not been the case. 57 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 8: So is there any reason why you think he may 58 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 8: not be hitting you back? 59 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 4: I don't know. Maybe he just doesn't want anything serious, 60 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 4: just kind of an f. 61 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 5: Boy, like maybe just your proverbial hit it and quitit 62 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:49,679 Speaker 5: kind of thing. 63 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 2: Maybe the way you described him, he doesn't sound like 64 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:54,959 Speaker 2: that type of dude, right, because that would be a 65 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 2: lot of work just to get that. 66 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 5: We talked about each other's families, and he kind of 67 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 5: like gave me a I don't know. I feel like 68 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 5: we talked about stuff that you don't usually talk about 69 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 5: on a first date. 70 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 2: I guess, okay, And you have no idea why. 71 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 4: I would be grasping at strals. I don't know. 72 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 5: Maybe, like I guess my apartment was pretty messy. I 73 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 5: don't know if that I mean not. It wasn't like 74 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 5: extraordinarily messy. I'm certainly not like the cleanest person ever. 75 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 2: But we have had first date follow ups where that 76 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 2: was a problem, so maybe maybe that is it. 77 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 6: I mean, some people are just a little bit more, 78 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 6: you know, uptight about that. 79 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 2: All right, well, we'll play a song come back, and 80 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 2: then call him and see if we can figure out 81 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 2: why you're getting ghosted, and then also see if we 82 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 2: can get you another date if you still want one 83 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 2: when you find out why. 84 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thank you, all right, we'll play a song 85 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 3: come back and get your first day follow up. 86 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: Next first date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury 87 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocates lad dot com. 88 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 3: Leila is on the phone today for a first day 89 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 3: follow up. 90 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 2: She's not getting a call back from a dude named Jay, 91 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 2: and we're about to call him and see if we 92 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 2: can get him to tell us why she's getting ghosted 93 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date. But first, Leila, before 94 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 2: we called Jay, refresh everybody's memory about your date. 95 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 11: She and I went to Top Golf and we had 96 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 11: NATO's and then drink, had an amazing time, and then 97 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 11: we went over to my place and hooked up and 98 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 11: then yeah, I mean I thought it was really amazing. 99 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,679 Speaker 4: He helped me with my swing. It was very cute. 100 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 5: And then I heard all about his travels everywhere he 101 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 5: went and talked a little bit about my life too, 102 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 5: So I genuinely think we had an amazing connection. 103 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 4: And I guess I'm confused. 104 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 9: And the only reason I can think that he maybe 105 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 9: is not interested because my apartment was messy and there 106 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 9: was like close all over the police. But I just 107 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 9: I don't want him to know that I'm not actually 108 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 9: like really Besty. 109 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 2: All right, we'll see if we can figure it out 110 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,479 Speaker 2: where you're gonna call him right now and then see 111 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 2: if he'll tell us and maybe get you another day 112 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 2: if you still want one. 113 00:04:52,279 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 3: Okay, you're ready, Okay, I'm ready. All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, 114 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 3: masic to Jay? Please? Yeah, this is Jay. Who's this Jay? 115 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:10,279 Speaker 3: What's up? 116 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 10: Man? 117 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 3: How are you? 118 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel. I host a radio show. It's 119 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 2: called the Jewbil Show. 120 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 6: Hi Ja, my name is Nina. I'm I also do that. 121 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 3: I'm Jay. 122 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 2: You recently went out on a date with somebody and 123 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 2: they emailed us because they want to know why you're 124 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 2: ghosting them. 125 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 12: Oh okay, and I have a pretty good idea who 126 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 12: that might be. 127 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 3: You want to take a guess, go for it. 128 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 4: I'm bessing. 129 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:34,679 Speaker 3: I'm guessing it's it's the Lovely Lailah. 130 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 6: Okay, well that was a compliment to the Lovely Lailah. 131 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:38,479 Speaker 3: What's the deal? 132 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 4: All right? I guess we're doing this? 133 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 3: Huh yep? Can you tell us why you're ghosting her? 134 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 12: All right? What's the best way to say this? She's great, 135 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:55,919 Speaker 12: she's hot, she's funny. I just don't know that she's 136 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 12: cultured enough for me for what I'm. 137 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 4: Looking for in a partner. I don't really like I. 138 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 12: Don't know how to say this like nicely, but I 139 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 12: need somebody that will challenge me cerebrally. And I'm just 140 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 12: not sure that she's there, that we're at that same 141 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 12: level mentally. I just on a certain level, are dumb. 142 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 12: I'm not calling her dumb. I just don't know that 143 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:25,599 Speaker 12: her and I have had the same deep thinking. It 144 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 12: just didn't seem like her and I were mentally compatible, 145 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 12: certainly physically compatible. She just what's the best way to 146 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 12: say you want somebody a little more intelligent as a 147 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 12: partner without making it sound mean. 148 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 3: I guess that's what I'm getting at. I don't know 149 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 3: if there's any way to not make that sound mean. 150 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 12: No, when you say it, it sounds terrible, doesn't it. 151 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 3: Telling her that would be me? 152 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, that wouldn't have been a move. 153 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 8: But ghosting also, you know, is not the easiest way 154 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 8: to go about this either. 155 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 3: But so that was it. That's that was the reason why, 156 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:58,119 Speaker 3: you know, the date was fun. 157 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:00,159 Speaker 4: Certainly the hookup was on. 158 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 12: We hooked up at her place, But I just through 159 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 12: our conversations that we had, it just didn't seem like 160 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 12: there was going to be that sort of mental cerebral 161 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 12: connection that I'm looking for. 162 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 3: You can tell after one day usually, I mean, when. 163 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 12: You spend an entire night and the night literally with somebody, 164 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 12: you get a pretty good vibe of how they pick. 165 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 6: Did she say anything that was not intelligent like that 166 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 6: made you think she was dumb? Like what you're basically saying. Sorry. 167 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 12: Most of the conversation was just very surface level, like, 168 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 12: you know, do you have any siblings? Do you have 169 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 12: any siblings? Oh, what did your family? You know, what 170 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 12: do your parents do growing up? Where did you Just 171 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 12: all that simple stuff. It didn't get any deeper than that. 172 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 12: I started talking about my travels and experiences. She didn't 173 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 12: really have anything to add to that, and so I 174 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 12: thought that was just kind of where it was going 175 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 12: to be conversationally. 176 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 2: Well, you know what, that might not be a smart thing, 177 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 2: that might be a financial thing. 178 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 12: I guess you got to point that I didn't think 179 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 12: about that at the time. It just didn't seem like 180 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 12: we were on the same wavelength as far as challenging 181 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 12: ourselves mentally. 182 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 2: Hey, Jay, I have a question for you. You're a 183 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 2: smart guy. Do you remember one, I guess glaring thing 184 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 2: about these first day follow ups that you might be 185 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 2: not thinking about right now? 186 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 12: Yeah, now that you say that, usually you have the 187 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 12: other person listening on the other. 188 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 3: Line, Yes you are, you are good job. Laila's on 189 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 3: the other line listening and wants to talk to you. 190 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 4: Hi. Him. Not awkward at all. 191 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 6: I'm good. 192 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 4: I'm doing good. 193 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 13: Just as like a just as a disclaimer, so I 194 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 13: literally have a master's degree in business that never came up, 195 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 13: so just as a little here. 196 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 4: So just yeah, so just to throw that out there, 197 00:08:55,559 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 4: and I well, that didn't come up at Top Golf because. 198 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 5: We were flirting insanely talking about whatever else was occurring 199 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 5: to us. 200 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 4: Like I thought, I you know, talked about my family. 201 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 5: We were just kind of like first dating stuff, like 202 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:15,439 Speaker 5: we were just talking about day one, the. 203 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:18,439 Speaker 4: Basics and then sleeping together or whatever. We can forget 204 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 4: about that, but. 205 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 5: I don't think we ever even got a chance to like, honestly, 206 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 5: this is totally fine. 207 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 4: But he did talk a lot about himself. 208 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 5: You know, and that is I didn't really get that 209 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 5: many opportunities to actually speak about myself very much. 210 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 4: So there's that maybe just something to consider for future dates. 211 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean, like we. 212 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 5: Just talked about surface stuff and I thought you were 213 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 5: kind of intrigued. 214 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 4: I kind of now think you're a stop. Like the 215 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 4: reason I haven't traveled it because I had. 216 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 13: To put myself through school and had to work full 217 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 13: time in order to pay for my own tuition. 218 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 4: So yeah, well. 219 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 12: Yeah, well I feel about this tall right now. So yes, 220 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 12: having heard you say that, I can absolutely see how 221 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 12: I came off as a snob, and I do, I 222 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 12: do apologize if I didn't give you enough time to 223 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 12: talk about yourself. And it is very impressive that you 224 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 12: have your master's. That's that's really awesome. 225 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 6: Actually, Jay's on that back, Yeah real quick. 226 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm on the spot here. 227 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 3: And uh man, I feel bad now, I really do. 228 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 4: I talked about their full education. 229 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 5: I'm not going to sit there and brag about my 230 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:38,439 Speaker 5: master's degree on a first date. 231 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 10: Like I feel like that's not necessarily something I would 232 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 10: say unless somebody asked me, point. 233 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, that probably should be a question of yours 234 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:47,440 Speaker 2: when you date ja if you if you put a 235 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 2: lot of stock in that stuff. 236 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:51,679 Speaker 3: Where'd you go to college? What kind of degree do 237 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 3: you have? Where have you traveled? 238 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 12: A master's degree is a hell of a turn on 239 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 12: for me, So you know, I would have known that 240 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 12: we might have made it out of top top golf 241 00:10:58,520 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 12: even quicker. 242 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 4: Okay, well, let me. 243 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 2: Just ask a question then, Jay, would you like another 244 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 2: date with Leila? We'll pay for it. 245 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 12: I would love the opportunity to reconcile myself with Leilah. 246 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 3: Absolutely yeah. 247 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna go ahead and say no to that. 248 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 4: I feel like, first of all, you kind of. 249 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 5: Are a little bit of a snob, and then second 250 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 5: of all, like who ghosts people that like that after 251 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 5: sleeping with them? It's just not a very like gentleman 252 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:32,959 Speaker 5: thing to do, Like you could have let me down, 253 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 5: you could have lied to me. If you thought I 254 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 5: was stupid, you could have just been like, you know what, 255 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,319 Speaker 5: I'm not interested in anything long term. But instead of 256 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 5: you just kind of like didn't answer. Yeah, so no, 257 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:42,959 Speaker 5: thank you. 258 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:44,560 Speaker 6: Well that was very plait. 259 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 4: There's a lot of other words I wanted to say. 260 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: Jubile's first date follow up empowered by the Advocates Injury 261 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: Attorney online at ADVOCATESLA dot com.