1 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: Hey, professional homegirls, Ishagirl, Ebiney, and I am so excited 2 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: to introduce my very first spooky series. 3 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:17,959 Speaker 2: Now. 4 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: For those who don't know, Halloween is one of my 5 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: favorite holidays, y'all. So every Tuesday throughout the entire month 6 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: of October, I'll be diving into the world of real, 7 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: spine tingling stories. In this week's episode, I Am a 8 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: Ghost Hunter, Part one, my guests will open up about 9 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: the unique challenges face as a person of color in 10 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: this field, her experiences living in a hunted house, and 11 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 1: a host of other eerie encounters. The journey is about 12 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: to kick off, so brace yourselves for a bone chilling 13 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: right starting now. So to my guests, thank you so 14 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: much for being a part of the show. How you doing, 15 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: how you feeling far? 16 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 3: So good? 17 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:02,319 Speaker 2: Thank you. I'm really happy to be here. 18 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 4: I'm excited to talk about my spooky realm with everybody. 19 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: Yes, I am super excited about this show. If for 20 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: those who don't know, I love scary shit, Like I 21 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: watch scary movies to relax me. Like I can tell 22 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: you about any and everything about the scary movies. So 23 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 1: I'm super excited to be talking to my guests about 24 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 1: ghosts and spooky shit. 25 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 2: Yes, I can talk about it for hours, so you 26 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 2: are in good company. 27 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: Yes, Now, why do you think there is a lack 28 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: of representation of Black people and paranormal activity or on 29 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: paranorma investigation shows? 30 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 2: Well, I think there's been an uptick in a lot 31 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 2: of African Americans or pocs in general being in the 32 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 2: paranormal community. I think it kind of started out with 33 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 2: the whole fact that like in horror movies, most of 34 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 2: the time black people that right, facts, we always go first. 35 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 2: So it's like, it don't make no sense to actually 36 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 2: put yourself in the situation where you're going to potentially 37 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 2: die first. But here recently, I feel like we've been 38 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 2: a lot more. There've been a lot more like spirituality 39 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 2: and everything, and people being more open with not only 40 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 2: wanting to be interested in the paranormal but also be 41 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 2: connected with their ancestors and trying to figure out the 42 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 2: whole all these different aspects of spirituality and stuff. And 43 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,799 Speaker 2: I think that kind of does tie into the paranormal 44 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 2: in general. Anytime that you go to church and you 45 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 2: feel the Holy Spirit and stuff like that, that is 46 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 2: something paranormal and a lot of different ways, and I 47 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 2: think people are getting a little bit more comfortable with 48 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 2: talking about their experiences and talking about being comfortable around 49 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 2: that sort of stuff. And I'm very comfortable around yourself. 50 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you make a good point with the 51 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 1: spirituality aspect, because I do feel like the reason why 52 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: paranorm investigations is so popular amongst people of color is 53 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: because it's taught. It goes really well with spirituality. 54 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 2: Yep, exactly, And I think a lot of people are 55 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 2: getting more in tune with their spirituality, not saying like 56 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 2: they're taking religion out of things in general, it's just 57 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 2: being being more connected with yourself, being more connected with 58 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 2: your spirit, and being more connected with the things and 59 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 2: the people that are around you, I think is what's 60 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 2: connecting the two worlds together right now. 61 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: What responsibility do businesses have to ensure that their ghost 62 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: related activities or merchandise are respectful and sensitive to the 63 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: potential spirits in the local community. 64 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 2: I think it's a matter of just like taking a 65 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 2: pulse on the place that you're located in. Obviously, like 66 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 2: you go to Salem, they don't give a fuck, so 67 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 2: so like they just have all sorts of stuff you 68 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 2: go to like let's say Gettysburg, Pennsylvania, and obviously the 69 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 2: Civil War happened there, and their spiritual stuff are more 70 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 2: geared towards respecting the dead and the history that happened there. 71 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 2: But it's really just a matter of figuring out your community, 72 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 2: what works for your community, and honestly, some ways even 73 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 2: that doesn't matter. It's just a matter of what the 74 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 2: merchant or the team itself want to present to the 75 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 2: public and want people to get more comfortable with. It's 76 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 2: kind of like exposure therapy in a way, where like 77 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 2: if you have like Ouiji boards or something inside of 78 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 2: your shop, some people might be like, oh, that's kind 79 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 2: of no, thank you, but some people might be like, oh, 80 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 2: that's really cool to interesting it and think you guys 81 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 2: have that sort of stuff here. So it's kind of 82 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 2: just like slowly exposing a community to certain things that 83 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 2: they might not be normally introduced to, which can kind 84 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 2: of set the tone a little bit. Yo. 85 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:03,479 Speaker 1: I know the spirits and Salem just tired. 86 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 4: Oh I know, I feel like honestly, I feel like 87 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 4: Salem them bitches. They got hung, they got basically drowned, 88 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 4: tortured all sorts of stuff. The last thing they want 89 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 4: to deal with the people all up in their ship, 90 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 4: from which I mean, like technically with my whole like 91 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 4: scenery and stuff, I basically do the exact same thing. 92 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 2: I'm all up in their ship. But at the end 93 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 2: of the day, there's like a mutual respect in a way. 94 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of places that are haunted 95 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 2: have spirits, like you know, the old sort of staying 96 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: of have an unfinished business. I think just the fact 97 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:46,559 Speaker 2: that there are spirits here, their spirits in any place 98 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 2: that you might walk into. You can go to a 99 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 2: holiday inn and there could be spirits there too. But 100 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 2: I think that they are there to kind of send 101 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 2: a message in a way, and they have something to say. 102 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 2: And even though exactly exactly, some of them might just 103 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 2: be like get the fuck out of here, correct, some 104 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:08,559 Speaker 2: of them might just be like I miss my mom, 105 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 2: or can you please help send this message to so 106 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 2: and so? And it really just depends on the place. 107 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 2: But I know and Salem, they like over that shit right. 108 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: Now before we continue, because I can see where you at, 109 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: But can you explain to the listeners where you're at? Yes, yes, 110 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 1: I am currently at the Anchorage Mansion in Mariette, Ohio. 111 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,479 Speaker 1: I own a business called Hit and Marietta, and we 112 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 1: do ghost towards ghost hunts. We also have a shop 113 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 1: and an office located here inside of this building. I 114 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 1: am currently in the attic. 115 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:44,159 Speaker 2: Of the Anchorage mansion, which I will move out the way. 116 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 2: It's definitely pretty spooky, Yeah, I do. I have equipment 117 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 2: kind of behind me in different places just to kind 118 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 2: of see if something goes off while we're up here 119 00:06:57,960 --> 00:06:59,919 Speaker 2: having a conversation and stuff, so you might hear like 120 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: or music playing or something like that, because that's just 121 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 2: what the equipment does. But I am typically here. I 122 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 2: feel like I haunt this house more than the ghosts 123 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 2: to and this is kind of like my comfort zone, 124 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 2: my home away from home in a lot of ways. 125 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: Not no professional homegirls spirits trying to come to the show. 126 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 2: I'd rather deal with the ghost here and not bring 127 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 2: it to my house. The one thing I always say 128 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 2: before I leave any location I investigate is if you 129 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 2: don't listen, I got three three minut at home. I 130 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 2: got my two sons, I got my husband. If you 131 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 2: don't plan on picking up a bill, getting a job, 132 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 2: cleaning my damn house, or minding your damn business, you 133 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 2: ain't got no business coming home with me. 134 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:51,119 Speaker 1: Okay, Now, are there any best practices that you believe 135 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: businesses should follow when profiting from hunting places, because I 136 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: do feel like a lot of these places do make 137 00:07:58,240 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: money off of it because they know it's trending in 138 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: I was gonna attract people. So what do you think, 139 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: Oh you've heard something? Oh I see something, child? So 140 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: she has like a ghost of machine that the text 141 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: if there's any ghost interactions or that's nearby. And one 142 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 1: of the machines just turned red. 143 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 2: Yes, it was like flashing red and making noise. That yeah, 144 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 2: mm hmm, that's the rampid back there. And then there's 145 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: a green light here on the floor that is a 146 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 2: para force, which is like a emotion detector. If something 147 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 2: walks in front of it, it will make noise and 148 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 2: like start making music and stuff. So I've invited them 149 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 2: to come hang out with us long as stay over there. Child. Yeah, 150 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 2: they're gonna stay right here. I promise you. I promise you, 151 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 2: they're gonna stay right here. 152 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 153 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:56,319 Speaker 2: The question is, was my fault? 154 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: My listener is about to be like, what the FUCKNA 155 00:08:58,920 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: got going on? 156 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 2: I bitch, it's almost October. 157 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: You got to get right, right, right. So the question is, so, 158 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: do you believe that there are best practices that businesses 159 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: should follow. We're profited from hunted houses on hunted places. 160 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 2: Yes, there are a lot of different practices that people 161 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 2: should follow. A lot of the conto locations in many 162 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 2: different cities. This house in particular I will speak on 163 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 2: is owned by the historical Society, the Washington County Historical 164 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 2: Society here in this area. So obviously we have to 165 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 2: be very strategic with doing our research and the things 166 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 2: that we say about the house and stuff, not because 167 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 2: we don't want them to get upset with us. 168 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:46,680 Speaker 1: Is it beep it? 169 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 3: Yes? 170 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: M let me find out the spirits a listener. 171 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I'm fine with it. They don't bother me none. 172 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 2: But not only because like you might feel like, oh, 173 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 2: they're gonna get mad if we say certain things. But 174 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 2: you want to be respectful to the history. 175 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 4: You want to be respectful to the people that came 176 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 4: before you. 177 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 2: You want to be respectful to the people that own 178 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 2: the property as well, right, and you want to be 179 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 2: respectful to the spirits too, because the one thing you 180 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 2: have to understand is that they were here first. You're 181 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 2: just visiting temporarily like this, this isn't your domain, this 182 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 2: is the this is their domain. So you always have 183 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 2: to make sure that you're respectful with the location, with 184 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 2: the owners of the building, with the people running that business, 185 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 2: and just having general respect. It's the same way I 186 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 2: would have for you or somebody I see you walking 187 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 2: down the street. It's just a mutual thing, right. 188 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,719 Speaker 1: What role do you think the media play in all 189 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: of this, Because I feel like with the media, they 190 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: have this idea that you can do this, you can 191 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 1: do that, but you do have to be respectful in 192 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 1: real time. So what do you think the media can 193 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: do to change it? And also, the media doesn't really 194 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: portray I mean they probably do now, but back in 195 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: the day, they don't really portray a lot of our 196 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: stories or a lot of people that look like you 197 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 1: in this industry. 198 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:03,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, the media plays a big role in that they 199 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 2: just have to kind of open the door and let 200 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 2: us kind of come in. The one thing that is 201 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 2: a pretty general knowledge sort of thing with the paranormal 202 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 2: community is, for the most part, it's very like male dominant. 203 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:22,679 Speaker 2: You see people like Zach Began, Nick Broth, like all 204 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 2: those like TV show personality. Paranormal people, for the most part, 205 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 2: they're all men. And now we're in a day and 206 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 2: age where women are starting to feel more comfortable with 207 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 2: being a part of the paranormal community community. But then 208 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 2: you also have people like me that are coming out 209 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 2: of the world work being more comfortable with the paranormal 210 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 2: community and being open and honest about my experiences because 211 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 2: my experience has come from when I was just like 212 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 2: a little teeny, tiny little thing, and I feel like 213 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 2: a lot of us have had those experiences, but a 214 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 2: lot of us don't like to mention it. But that's 215 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 2: exactly why we kind of have to put ourselves in 216 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 2: the forefront, put ourselves in the media, put our own 217 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 2: words out there, make ourselves heard in order for people 218 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 2: to understand this is not just a you thing, This 219 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 2: isn't everybody thing. It's a universal thing. 220 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna lie. It was so hard trying 221 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: to find you, Like I'm really trying to find because 222 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:24,719 Speaker 1: I interview women of color, honestly black women, and I'm like, go, 223 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 1: where are the black women that, like I cannot find them? 224 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:30,679 Speaker 1: And You're like the second person I found, And I'm 225 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 1: just like wow, Like it is really a male dominated industry. 226 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 2: M hm, Yes, it very much is. And the one 227 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 2: thing that I can say is I, even though it 228 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 2: is a male dominated community and also a very white 229 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 2: dominated community, I have a group of people around me 230 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 2: that are so supportive of me. Whether they be male, 231 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 2: whether they be white, whether they be women, Like, they're 232 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 2: all just so supportive of me. For the most part. 233 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:03,199 Speaker 2: All of the people that I have in this sort 234 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 2: of paranormal realm that I'm in are either male or 235 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:12,199 Speaker 2: white women. But that doesn't stop them from being like, Hey, 236 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 2: there's this opportunity that somebody was looking to speak to 237 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 2: you about. Here's their information. I gave them your information. 238 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,439 Speaker 2: If you want to reach out to them, you can 239 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 2: contact them with the Refinery twenty nine article that I 240 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 2: was featured in last year. One of my friends and 241 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 2: she was actually the one that was like, Hey, I 242 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 2: saw this opportunity. I want to support you. I want 243 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 2: to give you this information. I think you would be 244 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 2: perfect for it. And she's white's and she's white and 245 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 2: she's a woman, and she has supported me from the 246 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:50,559 Speaker 2: beginning of my paranormal journey. I guess I could say, 247 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 2: as well as my business partners, because I co owned 248 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 2: hit and Marietta, and I have three other business partners 249 00:13:58,160 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 2: that are all white women. They are all behind me 250 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:05,319 Speaker 2: one hundred and ten thousand percent. So it's all it's 251 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 2: all ways about just having that good support system. And 252 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 2: of course my family supports me, even though sometimes they 253 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:13,679 Speaker 2: kind of look at me like, bitch, what the fuck, bitch, 254 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 2: what the fuck? Bitch? What the fuck? The right. 255 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 4: Girl? I know? 256 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 2: I know my sister has been a really big support 257 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 2: system of me as well, and she has always, for 258 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 2: lack of better words, been like my my go to. 259 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 2: She's like my best friend. And even though she doesn't 260 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 2: do this as often as I do, she will still 261 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 2: if I'm like, hey, can you come with me to 262 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 2: this spooky place to do a ghost and she's like okay, 263 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 2: Like she don't give a fuck, she don't care, She's 264 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 2: just there for a good time, not a long time, right, 265 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 2: So she's she's wonderful. I love her. Well. 266 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: The one thing I will say about you when I 267 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 1: was on my research, because I know you are a 268 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: history buff, so I think that it's great that you 269 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: have allies that do support you, because we love some support. 270 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: But I also think that it's not hard to support 271 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 1: you because you know your shit. 272 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 2: Yep, period exactly. That is exactly right. I have always 273 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 2: been in love with history. I look at a building 274 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 2: and I'm like, what was that? Or what is that? 275 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 2: And I loved you In my research. I love finding 276 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 2: history about places, history about people. It just kind of 277 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 2: brings to light what could potentially be there, because you 278 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 2: can't go to a location and just be like, I'm 279 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 2: gonna go hunt and not have no fucking clue. 280 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 1: Right who was walking into? 281 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 2: Exactly? You don't know what you're walking into and if 282 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 2: you find out while you're investigating that these motherfuckers was 283 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 2: out here, some of the demons in their base, no 284 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 2: part of that, honestly. And it's all about doing your 285 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 2: research and figuring out who, what, when, where, why and how. 286 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 2: And it's really a quick Google search you could find 287 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 2: so much information about a place and it's it's truly fantastic. 288 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 2: I love I love history. 289 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 1: Now, can you describe your earliest memories a paranormal activity 290 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 1: in your childhood home? 291 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 4: Oh girl, let's get into it. Yes girl, because it 292 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 4: when I tell you, Okay, So I always attribute my 293 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 4: paranormal beginnings to my mother. She is she growing up 294 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 4: she used to I don't know if anybody remembers like 295 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 4: October back in the day, like in the nineties and 296 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 4: the early two thousands and ship and they used to 297 00:16:56,480 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 4: have Scariest Places on Earth with Linda Blair ABC how 298 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 4: like ABC Family or something, and then they used to 299 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 4: have Fear on MTV. They used to have like old 300 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 4: school ghost Hunters and stuff with Jason and Grant and 301 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 4: she used to watch all that shit. So we was like, hell, yeah, 302 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 4: like this is cool, it's fun. But obviously, we grew 303 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 4: up in an apartment building in Brooklyn, New York, Crown Heights. 304 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 2: Uh, Sterudica, go all the way, Come on, We grew 305 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 2: up in an apartment building that was fucking haunted from 306 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:36,439 Speaker 2: from the top four to the bottom floor. Everybody in 307 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 2: that building was having experiences seeing the same apparitions and 308 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 2: spirits and stuff. And the reason for that is because 309 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 2: the building before our building was built burned down and 310 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 2: a bunch of people died. It happened like in the 311 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 2: middle of the night, so everybody was sleeping pretty. 312 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 1: Much right, not to all, but I just want to say, yeah, 313 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: I feel like that is very common in New York 314 00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:00,199 Speaker 1: because a lot of buildings have burnt down. And when 315 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: I was doing my research, there's a lot of people 316 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:03,880 Speaker 1: that's saying that their buildings that they live in now 317 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 1: are hunted. 318 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:10,360 Speaker 2: Yep mm hm. And I honestly have no idea how 319 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 2: the fire happened. It It could have been somebody like 320 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:18,879 Speaker 2: fucking doing drugs and fell asleep and it caught fire 321 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 2: or something like that, right, But it's just it's so 322 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 2: commonplace that places will either burned down or have people 323 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 2: die inside of them. And then after it's been like revamped, 324 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:36,159 Speaker 2: kind of like polished a turd, and yeah, and you 325 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 2: put more people in there, they have experiences. So in 326 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:43,879 Speaker 2: this apartment building, we had a few casts of characters 327 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 2: that were pretty commonplace in our house. In our apartment, 328 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 2: it was a man, a headless man. He had a 329 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 2: white long t shirt on. He had blue jeans, like 330 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:57,679 Speaker 2: denim jeans, and he never had a head. He was 331 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 2: obsessed with my mother and he always used to tickle 332 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 2: her feet in the middle of the night. 333 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, girl, she's still I'm not kidding to this day, 334 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:13,159 Speaker 3: she still can't sleep with her feet out the covers 335 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 3: because of him. 336 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:18,959 Speaker 2: Wow. Like it was a regular occurrence, and there was 337 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 2: a Spanish woman who used to dance around the house. 338 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,879 Speaker 2: She when I saw her one the main time that 339 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 2: I saw her, my sister had gotten up to get 340 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 2: in a shower, and as she was in a shower, 341 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 2: the door was closed and I could see the hallway 342 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 2: from where I was laying and this woman, she had long, 343 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 2: dark hair, she had on all white. She was Spanish, 344 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 2: and she was just spinning and looking up at the ceiling, 345 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 2: just spinning, just spinning, and it was so like I 346 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 2: was in awe of like, damn, this bitch good she 347 00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 2: has fallen in nothing. But but at the same time, 348 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 2: like I could see the wall behind her, could see 349 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:05,480 Speaker 2: like right directly as she's as she just spinning around, 350 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 2: spinning around. Another thing. My sister, which I'm sure she's 351 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 2: gonna listen to this, She's gonna watch this, and she's 352 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 2: gonna be like, how could you talk about that? But 353 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:19,400 Speaker 2: my sister, me and her shared a room and yep, period, 354 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 2: me and her shared a room. And there was one 355 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 2: time where I wanted to sleep in the room with 356 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:28,959 Speaker 2: my mother and my sister's in the room by herself, 357 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 2: sleeping mill of the night. She tells me that a woman, 358 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 2: a white woman, I think she was wearing all black 359 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 2: or something, sits on her bed and wakes her up. 360 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 2: She's like, hey, hey, and my sister gets up and 361 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:42,159 Speaker 2: she's like what. And she's like, can I sleep with you? 362 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 2: And my sister's like, no, you can't sleep with me, 363 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 2: like leave me alone. I'm trying to sleep, and she 364 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:50,720 Speaker 2: just kind of covers herself up and she the lady 365 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:54,399 Speaker 2: is still sitting on her bed and she hey, hey, 366 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 2: and she turns over. She's like what, and mind you 367 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,400 Speaker 2: she this She wasn't dreaming. This was a real woman 368 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 2: that a lot of people saw in the house in 369 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 2: the apartment building. And she was like, can I sleep 370 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,719 Speaker 2: with your sister? And she's like, I don't know, go 371 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:09,920 Speaker 2: ask her. I don't care. And then she like turned 372 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:12,400 Speaker 2: over and fell asleep. And the lady gets up off 373 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:14,679 Speaker 2: the bed and she walks out the room towards my 374 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 2: mother room and she disappears, and like, she said that 375 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 2: bitch to. 376 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: Me, right. So I'm assuming that everybody in the house 377 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:22,919 Speaker 1: was comfortable with this. 378 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:25,200 Speaker 2: Yep, yep. 379 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,399 Speaker 1: So before you consent, you this just came up to 380 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,360 Speaker 1: I just thought about this. Do you think that buildings 381 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 1: should tell resonance about the past history of the building 382 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:36,920 Speaker 1: that they liveing in or the land that they living in. 383 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 2: If it is something like if you're purchasing a property, 384 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:46,120 Speaker 2: then yes, if you are renting a property, you can ask. 385 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:48,880 Speaker 2: But I don't think that it's like they're obligated to 386 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 2: say anything because most of the time, Lisa's are like 387 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 2: six months or a year or a month long type 388 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,239 Speaker 2: of things, so you have the opportunity to just be like, 389 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:58,439 Speaker 2: there's some weird shit going on. I got a bounce. 390 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 2: But if you buy a house, you're kind are like 391 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 2: you locked in tightly. You got to be very very 392 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 2: cautious about that because I think they're doing your own 393 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:08,400 Speaker 2: research to help. 394 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,359 Speaker 1: Because I think I was reading somewhere where in some 395 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 1: states they're trying to pass a bill on that if 396 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: you're purchasing property. 397 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 2: Mm hmm yep. And I think they should honestly, I 398 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,680 Speaker 2: don't think that they should kind of hide that stuff 399 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 2: because if somebody bow they fucking brains out in your house, 400 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 2: I don't, yeah, exactly exactly. I want that to be 401 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 2: disclosed to me, and especially if I'm going to be 402 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 2: spending a lot of money and living in this and 403 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:34,200 Speaker 2: basically find myself to like a thirty year mortgage. 404 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 1: Especially with KI Come on now, right, yep, So did 405 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 1: you gotta know? Right? So, did you ever feel frightened 406 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: or scared living in your house? And if you did, 407 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: how did you cope with those feelings? 408 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 2: I did, But at the same time, it became so 409 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 2: normal that it was just kind of like second nature. 410 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:58,679 Speaker 2: It was just it was as easy to live with 411 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 2: as it is just to breathe every so often, like 412 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 2: you get your like something takes your breath away, And 413 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 2: that's kind of similar with that, where I'm just kind 414 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 2: of like, oh, that's kind of scary, but then you 415 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 2: just go on about your business. You know, they are 416 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 2: doing their own thing. There's still a lot of time 417 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,440 Speaker 2: spirits don't realize that they have passed on, so they're 418 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:19,159 Speaker 2: just living. 419 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 1: I think that's really sad mhm. 420 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:26,160 Speaker 2: It is. And we do have a few spirits here 421 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 2: in this house that because it used to be a 422 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 2: nursing home for over twenty years and there were a 423 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 2: lot of depths in that. I think so far we've 424 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 2: been able to find about seventy nine somewhere around there 425 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 2: patients that may have passed away here, and some of 426 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 2: them had dementia, some of them have Alzheimer's and stuff, 427 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 2: so some of the spirits are very confused. So sometimes 428 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 2: they kind of try to get you to get there, 429 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 2: like to look at them or pay attention to them 430 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 2: so they can actually say what they need to say, 431 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,360 Speaker 2: or just a questions about where am I, what's happening? 432 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,679 Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on? Where's my wife? And 433 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,119 Speaker 2: you went into that pretty much in a lot of 434 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 2: places that you go to. 435 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 1: But yeah, so I don't know if you can speak 436 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 1: to this because obviously you're alive. Well, but why is 437 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: that that spirits are not able to move on to 438 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 1: either heaven or hell? Like why do It's not like 439 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 1: they always stuck? Like, how is that possible? Do you know? 440 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 2: Personally? I don't know. I do believe that there is 441 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:33,400 Speaker 2: an afterlife for everybody, but I also think maybe sometimes 442 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 2: people get lost along the way and they just kind 443 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 2: of end up in places. I don't think that a 444 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,639 Speaker 2: person that died in a particular place is going to 445 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:51,440 Speaker 2: automatically be tethered to that particular place. For example, there 446 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 2: is a nursing home just in front of this building here, 447 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 2: and we have had patients that there have been patients 448 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:02,200 Speaker 2: that have passed away down and just so happened to 449 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 2: find their way up here. Whenever we do investigations, we 450 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 2: try to figure out the name. And we tried to 451 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 2: look online and look up obituaries and see if we 452 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 2: can figure out who this person might be. And we 453 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 2: actually found a person, a gentleman that we were talking to, 454 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 2: had passed away at that nursing home two weeks prior 455 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 2: to us conversing with him here in this house. So 456 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 2: I genuinely think people just get lost. Sometimes people aren't 457 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 2: able to find the light that is supposedly in the afterlife, 458 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,560 Speaker 2: and they kind of just get stuck in this sort 459 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:41,800 Speaker 2: of middle ground purgatory area. So of course that's just 460 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 2: my own assumption. I don't know for a full fact, 461 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 2: but it's definitely very very interesting to think about. For sure. 462 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,639 Speaker 1: Now, the other people in the building that you grew 463 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,159 Speaker 1: up in, did they also see these entities? 464 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,920 Speaker 2: Yep? There was one guy, the headless guy would kind 465 00:25:59,920 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 2: of go from a apartment to apartment all throughout the building. 466 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 2: The Spanish lady has I've seen her in different apartments, 467 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,359 Speaker 2: and I've seen her in like different hallways and like 468 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:12,879 Speaker 2: the steps and stuff. A few other people in the 469 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 2: apartment building stated that they had things happened to them, 470 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 2: or they would hear things, They would hear conversation, they 471 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 2: would have stuff being moved, like poltergeist activity, basically, and 472 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 2: everybody just kind of kept it to themselves, and they 473 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 2: would kind of speak to like all the adults would 474 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 2: kind of speak to each other in a hush sort 475 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 2: of way just to not alarm, like bring any alarm 476 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,119 Speaker 2: bells with the kids. With the kids were also dealing 477 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 2: with that same shit too. My niece when she was 478 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 2: living there, she was pretty young. Her and her cousin 479 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 2: would say that they would play with a man in 480 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 2: the hallway a lot of times in our apartment. They 481 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 2: didn't know who he was, but they would just be 482 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 2: like laughing and giggling and like having a grand old time. 483 00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:58,639 Speaker 2: And we'd be like, who are you talking to? And 484 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,919 Speaker 2: they're like the man, and like, we don't know. We 485 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,480 Speaker 2: couldn't see this man. She still remembers to this day. 486 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 2: One day he was in the hallway with her and 487 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 2: her cousin and he scared the living daylights out of them, 488 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 2: and after that they refused to play with him. Every 489 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,720 Speaker 2: time they saw him, they would like cry and they 490 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,040 Speaker 2: were just like he's he's a bad man because he's 491 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 2: going too yeah. 492 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, basically like he was doing too much. 493 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 2: She was much, and they were not. They were not 494 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:31,480 Speaker 2: with it, honestly, they were. 495 00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 1: How many spirits you think you saw? Do you think 496 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 1: you saw in the building? 497 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 2: One? Two, three, four, five, oh six six six? 498 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:50,360 Speaker 4: That I've interacted with in just our apartment alone. 499 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,880 Speaker 2: And I remember there being a little a little kid, 500 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 2: I don't know if it was a boy or girl. 501 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 2: Me and my sister were getting like our plates together 502 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 2: for dinner, and we were singing, uh, oh, she's gonna 503 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,159 Speaker 2: hate me for not remembering the song, oh can you 504 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 2: think that? 505 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:08,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? 506 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,400 Speaker 2: And we were just singing that in the kitchen and 507 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 2: we stopped and in the living room just off of 508 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 2: the kitchen, we could hear a little boy or a 509 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:17,680 Speaker 2: little voice go can you. 510 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 1: And yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 511 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,320 Speaker 2: It was so wild. And when I tell you, even 512 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,680 Speaker 2: though we were scared in that moment, we didn't drop 513 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 2: not one. We didn't. We left our plates right in 514 00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,000 Speaker 2: our hands and we went to run into my mama room. 515 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 2: We weren't leaving our dinner there. But yeah, it was 516 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 2: a common occurrence for us growing up, having something paranormal 517 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 2: happen to us. And even with my two older brothers too, 518 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 2: they would have stuff happen, but they were kind of 519 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 2: just like ignore it, you know, They're. 520 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 1: Just like, right, do your no. 521 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 2: My mother, my sister, and my brother actually live here 522 00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 2: in Marietta, Ohio with me. Cool not with me physically, 523 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 2: but they lived in this area. 524 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 1: Right now, you mentioned your high sensitivity to encounters. Are 525 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 1: there any particular locations in New York that you tend 526 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 1: to avoid due to your sensitivity? 527 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 2: The main place that I will avoid is ground zero. Okay, 528 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 2: so here's another story. Once again, I have story on 529 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 2: top of story, on top of story. This was I 530 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,880 Speaker 2: was I think it was just it was my twentieth 531 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:37,680 Speaker 2: birthday and me and my boyfriend at the time he's 532 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 2: now my husband. We were walking. We were walking to 533 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 2: like a local restaurant in that area, but we had 534 00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 2: to pass Round zero. Now, if you're familiar with that 535 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:54,560 Speaker 2: particular area, there is a church, or at least at 536 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:56,920 Speaker 2: that time, there was a church there, and the church 537 00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 2: had a gate up around it and it had great 538 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 2: He was in the front yard. As we're walking past 539 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 2: this church, I see a man in a suit all 540 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 2: tattered and stuff, and he's like, and mind you, this 541 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 2: is at nighttime. He's like confused, and he's scratching his 542 00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 2: hand and he doesn't know what's going on. He's pacing, 543 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 2: he's pacing, and I'm just looking at him, like, oh God, 544 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 2: there's a crackhead in the graveyard. And I'm just like, lord, 545 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:26,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, what is this like businessman crackhead doing in 546 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 2: the graveyard? 547 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 4: Right right? 548 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 2: And at whatever point it was, he had made eye 549 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 2: contact with me, and he it seemed like he teleported 550 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 2: from the middle of the graveyard to the gate. Oh yes, 551 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 2: And I kind of stopped because it scared me. I 552 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,400 Speaker 2: stopped and he was at the gate like with his 553 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 2: face in between the bars, and he was mouthing, help me, 554 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 2: help me. I don't know, help me. And I can 555 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 2: only assume that maybe it was one of the people 556 00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 2: that either perished in the one of the twin towers. 557 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 2: Maybe you might have jumped and he was just kind 558 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 2: of trapped there. Of course, I had explained to my 559 00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 2: husband that I'm sensitive and I have things that happen 560 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 2: sometimes it just don't make any sense, seem kind of weird. 561 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 2: So he just stood there with me he's like, are 562 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 2: you okay, what's going on? Like, pack me through this? 563 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 2: And I told him. I was like, there's a man 564 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 2: right here, literally right here, and he's just like at 565 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 2: the gate thing help me. I don't know, help me. 566 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,719 Speaker 2: And he's like, okay, well, let's cross the street and 567 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 2: just keep going. I don't want you to get stuck 568 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 2: in this moment because it's a lot. 569 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 4: Yeah. 570 00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,720 Speaker 2: And then of course we passed the sight of Brown 571 00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:46,000 Speaker 2: zero and I could feel like my heart just like pounding. 572 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 2: I was just so nervous. And eventually we get to 573 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 2: the restaurant, I get a drink to kind of calm 574 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 2: my nerves and everything. And we're walking back to the 575 00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 2: train station that's over there, and the man in the 576 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:04,200 Speaker 2: grit yard sees me again and he is at the fence. 577 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,160 Speaker 2: He has his arms out through it. He's like, help, 578 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 2: I fell, help, I need help. I fell. And I'm 579 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 2: like I can't help you. I'm sorry, and I didn't 580 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 2: know what to do, and I just started crying, and 581 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,280 Speaker 2: of course my husband was just like, it's okay, he's 582 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 2: going to find help. He's he's at the church. Somebody's 583 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,239 Speaker 2: going to help him. You're okay, and he kind of 584 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 2: just like helped me with that, and it was just 585 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 2: it was definitely a lot and even still to this day, 586 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:34,960 Speaker 2: I won't I won't ever go back to that area ever, ever, ever. 587 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: Ever, you know, shout out to your husband, because some 588 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:40,760 Speaker 1: niggas would have been freaked out literally whoa. 589 00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 2: Well, realistically, my husband is. 590 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 1: Okay to oide from hey y'all, yes, yes. 591 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 2: The Caucasian descent. So even though he wasn't really he's 592 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 2: not into the paranormal type of stuff, he knows that 593 00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 2: I'm sensitive, and so he tries to help me through that. 594 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:06,680 Speaker 2: He's very much like disconnected from all sort of paranormal stuff, 595 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 2: so I kind of see him as a like he's 596 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 2: very grounded in a way, so he kind of pulls 597 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:13,560 Speaker 2: me back from that. 598 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 1: So two things I think. The first thing is, I 599 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 1: think what's even more said is that the ghosts can 600 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 1: see when people see them mm hmmy. But unfortunately some 601 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,000 Speaker 1: people just can't help them mm hmm. 602 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 2: And and it sucks too, because, like I said, there's 603 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 2: a lot of spirits that kind of just gets sucked 604 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 2: in one place and they don't know what to do, 605 00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 2: what to do. Some of them don't know that they've 606 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:59,239 Speaker 2: passed on, and especially with something that traumatic, that is 607 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 2: just the worst way to possibly go. 608 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. 609 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 2: But in many ways, I'm happy that he didn't get 610 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 2: trapped in the grounds of ground zero and that his 611 00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:17,280 Speaker 2: spirit was transported to a church. Maybe that's some place 612 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 2: that's a little bit safer for him, you know, even 613 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 2: though he's still I hope that he's not still an 614 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:28,560 Speaker 2: anguish or pain or anything. I hope that he has 615 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,920 Speaker 2: found peace, And I kind of think about that at 616 00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,239 Speaker 2: least a couple of times a month. Honestly, I really 617 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 2: do keep him in my prayers and keep him in 618 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:40,920 Speaker 2: my thoughts constantly. But it's it's I'm just happy that 619 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 2: he even though he passed away in ground zero, he 620 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 2: was able to go someplace that would tractically technically be 621 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,200 Speaker 2: considered a safe space like a church. 622 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,880 Speaker 1: Right, So, how are you able because I think I 623 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 1: read somewhere that you used to go to cemeteries when 624 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,319 Speaker 1: he was growing up. Yes, So how were you able 625 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 1: to do that? Was that not a lie for you? 626 00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:05,120 Speaker 2: Cemeteries, for me, for some odd reason, are very calming. 627 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,279 Speaker 2: The original purpose for a cemetery. Actually a lot of 628 00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:10,279 Speaker 2: people don't realize this. 629 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,400 Speaker 1: I won't take us the history class come on exactly. 630 00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 2: In the Victorian times, like the late seventeen hundreds early 631 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 2: eighteen hundreds, a lot of families saw cemeteries as a 632 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,600 Speaker 2: place of peace and comfort, and they would actually have 633 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:30,360 Speaker 2: picnics there with their dead relatives. Obviously, a lot of 634 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 2: the people that have passed away nowadays, especially those old 635 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 2: old cemeteries, they don't have anybody visiting them anymore. They 636 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 2: don't have people putting flowers on their graves anymore, and 637 00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,240 Speaker 2: their graves are a lot of times just kind of. 638 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:48,200 Speaker 4: The time and weather just wears on like the gravestones itself. 639 00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:52,120 Speaker 4: But cemeteries were supposed to be a place where families 640 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 4: can congregate and keep their loved one in their memory. Yeah, 641 00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:00,680 Speaker 4: and a lot of people have lost that tradition many ways. 642 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 4: So I like to go to cemeteries not only because 643 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,359 Speaker 4: they are peaceful to me, but also to spend time 644 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:10,320 Speaker 4: with those people that had passed away and their family 645 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,719 Speaker 4: members had long passed away and their descendants have long 646 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:14,799 Speaker 4: forgotten about them, and just kind of. 647 00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,759 Speaker 2: Spend time with them. Everybody deserves to have somebody that 648 00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:22,640 Speaker 2: cares about them. And even though cemeteries are seen as 649 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,719 Speaker 2: something that's like, that's spooky, or some people might see 650 00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:29,200 Speaker 2: it as being disrespectful to just go into a cemetery, 651 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,520 Speaker 2: of going to a place where you don't even know 652 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 2: who's in there right, like you don't have any connection 653 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 2: with them. I see it in my head as we're 654 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:43,040 Speaker 2: all supposed to be family in a way, and we're 655 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 2: all supposed to be connected in a way, and just 656 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 2: because they're dead doesn't mean that they're forgotten. So it 657 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 2: never hurts to go back and eat some chicken nuggets 658 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 2: and just talk. 659 00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:55,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you think we see ghos in the regular 660 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,280 Speaker 1: because I feel like, even though I know you're in Ohio, 661 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 1: but I feel like in New York we just see 662 00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 1: mad Man random shit, but we just disregarded. So you 663 00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 1: do you think that sometimes we'd be seeing shit and 664 00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 1: it's actually a ghost. A lot of ways, yes, because 665 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:12,120 Speaker 1: a lot of spirits can present themselves as a full 666 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:15,120 Speaker 1: bodied apparition, which is basically just as solid and as 667 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,920 Speaker 1: real as me and you. Of course, then you have 668 00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 1: spirits that are a little bit more opaque. They can 669 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:22,880 Speaker 1: you can kind of see through feed through them in 670 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:26,880 Speaker 1: a way. A lot of people have poultrygeis activity that happened, 671 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 1: but they're just like, hmm, I wonder if. 672 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,400 Speaker 2: That was this or that was that. We have a 673 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:35,479 Speaker 2: we have like a trigger in our brains to think 674 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,799 Speaker 2: of things very logically, which is why there are so 675 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,160 Speaker 2: many people that aren't in the paranormal community that are 676 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 2: skeptics because it don't make sist. Yes exactly, it's it 677 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 2: doesn't make sense. That doesn't necessarily mean that it's paranormal. 678 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 2: There just has to be a logical explanation for it. 679 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,759 Speaker 2: And so some people have a very logical way of 680 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:58,000 Speaker 2: thinking about things. So if you see a mug slide 681 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,160 Speaker 2: across the countertop, you could just be like, oh, oh, 682 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,040 Speaker 2: there was water underneath that, so that's the reason why 683 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:06,279 Speaker 2: that month slid across the countertop. You can say if 684 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,680 Speaker 2: a door closes, you can be like, oh, well, maybe 685 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,720 Speaker 2: it's because I'm in a high rise and the wind 686 00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,799 Speaker 2: was swaying the building and that could have caused the 687 00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:16,720 Speaker 2: door to close. 688 00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,759 Speaker 4: If you hear footsteps, you could automatically think, Okay, that's 689 00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:22,080 Speaker 4: just my neighbor upstairs. 690 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:26,200 Speaker 2: I'm just misreading the situation. So there's little things here 691 00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 2: and there that a lot of people have happened to them. 692 00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,799 Speaker 2: On a regular basis, but they just disprove it as 693 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,120 Speaker 2: something paranormal because the logical part in their mind is 694 00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 2: telling them that it's not anything to be afraid of. 695 00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 1: Right, not for nothing. I feel like I shared this 696 00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:42,960 Speaker 1: story before, but one time when I was living in Brooklyn, 697 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:44,959 Speaker 1: and I got in the bed because I do believe 698 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:47,480 Speaker 1: in spirits and stuff, like, I definitely believe that there 699 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:50,880 Speaker 1: are other entities amongst us. Yes, And I was in 700 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,359 Speaker 1: the bed about to go to sleep, and I'm by 701 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:57,319 Speaker 1: myself and no, Lie, I felt something get in the 702 00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:58,960 Speaker 1: bed with me. Like you could tell you know, when 703 00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,600 Speaker 1: somebody in the bed you feel the pressure. I felt 704 00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:04,080 Speaker 1: something get in the bed with me and put their 705 00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 1: arm around me. And when I tell you, I jump 706 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:10,320 Speaker 1: up And I was like, nope, I said, listen, I said, 707 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:12,960 Speaker 1: I said, I don't know who you are. I'm like, 708 00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if it was my grandma, I don't 709 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:17,239 Speaker 1: know if it was an ancestry. Oh, I said, but 710 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 1: we don't do that. I was, so, I'm gonna give 711 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:21,120 Speaker 1: you a little minute to get your ass back out 712 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:22,879 Speaker 1: the bed. I'm like, because now you're make you're making 713 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:26,200 Speaker 1: me feel very uncomfortable. I was like, and then they 714 00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 1: just left. But I would never forget that feeling because 715 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, and I thought I was dreaming at first, 716 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,759 Speaker 1: but I was like, I wasn't asleep, and I was like, 717 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,120 Speaker 1: oh no, no, nope, I said, you gotta go go 718 00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,319 Speaker 1: sitd in the corner or something. But no, eye, you're 719 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:38,800 Speaker 1: too close. 720 00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, It's it's crazy when stuff's like that happens to 721 00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:45,239 Speaker 2: you and it's like straight off the cup, like you 722 00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,280 Speaker 2: didn't expect it, and it's just like super random. Thankfully, 723 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,759 Speaker 2: I have never brought anything home with me. I've never 724 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:55,560 Speaker 2: had anything paranormal happen in my adult life, in my home, 725 00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:56,680 Speaker 2: in my space. 726 00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:01,760 Speaker 4: I am very much protected. I don't play that. Yeah, 727 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:03,719 Speaker 4: you know, I'm very protected. 728 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,280 Speaker 2: But in those moments where I go places and things happen, 729 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 2: is like sometimes can be like very terrifying, but sometimes 730 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,720 Speaker 2: it can be just like, oh okay, I see you, queen. 731 00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:20,840 Speaker 4: Like about an hour and forty five minutes away from here, 732 00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,920 Speaker 4: there is a place called trans Allegating Lunatic Asylum. 733 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:28,480 Speaker 1: It's in Western Western Girl. 734 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:33,240 Speaker 2: When I tell you, oh my gosh, that place is insane. 735 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,880 Speaker 2: I go there at least once twice a year. It's amazing. 736 00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:38,719 Speaker 2: I always have something happened to me. Me and my 737 00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,080 Speaker 2: husband went there to do one of their like nighttime 738 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:45,920 Speaker 2: like flashlight tours and stuff. I know, I know, I know, 739 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 2: putting myself in a situation. I know he listened. He 740 00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,879 Speaker 2: once again, he is support system. He's an ally, right, 741 00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 2: So we just we just let them live. So we 742 00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,319 Speaker 2: go to this place and there were children at were 743 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,840 Speaker 2: housed there. It was mostly for adults, but if you 744 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,839 Speaker 2: had a patient that had a baby and she didn't 745 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,720 Speaker 2: have any family members, then they would keep the kids. 746 00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:13,759 Speaker 4: There in the asylum. Some of the kids passed away there, 747 00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 4: And as we're walking through one of the hallways, I 748 00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,360 Speaker 4: feel a child hold my hand. 749 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:23,920 Speaker 2: Nope, yep, And in that moment, I have kids, so 750 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,959 Speaker 2: I know what that felt like. And even though it's 751 00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:30,520 Speaker 2: very jarring, very surprising, and very much like a big no, 752 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,279 Speaker 2: at the same time, the mother and me kicked in 753 00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:37,359 Speaker 2: and I was just like, Okay, you can hold my hand, 754 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,840 Speaker 2: you can stay as long as you need to. I'm 755 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,839 Speaker 2: like a safe space for you, because whether our child 756 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:45,759 Speaker 2: is dead or alive, if I'm interacting with them, I 757 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:50,480 Speaker 2: want them to know that they are safe. So I 758 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 2: held onto their hand and as we're walking doing a tour, 759 00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 2: was holding my hand and it fell cold and it 760 00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:58,400 Speaker 2: felt staticky, and I kept looking down and I didn't 761 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:02,000 Speaker 2: see anything, but I could feel little, tiny, little hands, 762 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,799 Speaker 2: like maybe of like a four or five year old 763 00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,440 Speaker 2: hold in my hand. And I told my husband, I'm like, 764 00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:09,480 Speaker 2: there's a little kid holding my hand right now. And 765 00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:13,280 Speaker 2: he went to the side that the kid was holding 766 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 2: my hand, and he crouched down and he's like, I 767 00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:20,120 Speaker 2: know it's probably scary here, but you're safe with us. 768 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 2: It's okay. So he stood on that side and he 769 00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,120 Speaker 2: put his hand down to see if it would hold 770 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:28,799 Speaker 2: his hand. He didn't feel anything hold his hand, but 771 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:33,000 Speaker 2: he still stayed on that side, just so whatever child 772 00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:37,640 Speaker 2: that was knew that it was it was safe. We 773 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,279 Speaker 2: walked through and we were going to one of the 774 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:45,400 Speaker 2: criminally insane areas, and I would assume the child was 775 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 2: not allowed to be over there, because as we're walking 776 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,680 Speaker 2: through that hallway, I feel like the fingers just kind 777 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:54,720 Speaker 2: of let go slowly, and I stopped in the hallway. 778 00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,520 Speaker 2: My husband stops in the hallway and I tell them, 779 00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,200 Speaker 2: I was like, you can come with me, it's okay. 780 00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:04,560 Speaker 2: And I could feel like swirling. It was like cold 781 00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,200 Speaker 2: air just kind of swirling in front of me, and 782 00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 2: I was just like, it's okay, like you can come 783 00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:10,680 Speaker 2: with me, you can walk with me. I will make 784 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,839 Speaker 2: sure you're safe in this place. And my husband put 785 00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:15,919 Speaker 2: his hand there and he felt the cold air too, 786 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 2: and I was like, well, we're going this way. If 787 00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 2: you want to come hold my hand again, you can. 788 00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:25,160 Speaker 2: And obviously it couldn't come past that sort of barrier. 789 00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:30,360 Speaker 2: So I stayed in its area because realistically, criminally insane 790 00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,640 Speaker 2: part is absolutely bonkers bananas, So I would happily keep 791 00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:36,880 Speaker 2: a kid out of that area. Yeah, but it was 792 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,560 Speaker 2: still very much it was very jarring. But at the 793 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:44,399 Speaker 2: same time, like I said, my mother leave like nurturing side. Yeah, 794 00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:47,120 Speaker 2: my instinct just kicked in to just protect it. You know. 795 00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,040 Speaker 2: It was a spooky moment, but very very sweet and 796 00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:52,879 Speaker 2: very in my opinion. 797 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:56,040 Speaker 1: Have you ever thought about going back to your apartment 798 00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,480 Speaker 1: that you grew up in and doing any like investigations 799 00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:06,080 Speaker 1: there or documents all? Really no, because. 800 00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,920 Speaker 2: It's even when I was growing up there it was 801 00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:11,359 Speaker 2: pretty bad. So it's gotten worse. 802 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,000 Speaker 1: With the neighborhood or just the building. 803 00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:19,200 Speaker 4: The building and that neighborhood has gotten worse, So I 804 00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,200 Speaker 4: don't plan on going back there ever again, if I 805 00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:24,520 Speaker 4: can hope, if I can hold on to that sort 806 00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:28,080 Speaker 4: of thing, especially to do an investigation, because right now, 807 00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,360 Speaker 4: from what I've been. 808 00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:33,080 Speaker 2: Told, it's not a very good place to be. Like 809 00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:35,080 Speaker 2: I said, when I was growing up there, there were 810 00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,840 Speaker 2: like gang members, there were drugs, there were cops, there 811 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:41,359 Speaker 2: were shootouts and stuff like that. So just to know 812 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,480 Speaker 2: that when I was growing up there that was happening 813 00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:44,440 Speaker 2: and it's gotten worse. 814 00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:48,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, So what is your advice to individuals who 815 00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:50,040 Speaker 1: feel like they're grown they live in a hunting house, 816 00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:51,200 Speaker 1: but just don't know what to do. 817 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 2: Make sure that you are protected at all times, and 818 00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,279 Speaker 2: in regards to what or a belief system that you 819 00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,200 Speaker 2: might have, you can pray to whichever god you are 820 00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:10,240 Speaker 2: more comfortable praying with. You can also use different tools 821 00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 2: to protect yourself. Some people pay like the evil Eye 822 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:17,920 Speaker 2: over their door just to kind of ward off negativity. 823 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,840 Speaker 2: Some people put like salt at their front door and 824 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,279 Speaker 2: stuff like that. So there's there's several different things that 825 00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 2: you can do. But overall, I think making sure that 826 00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:31,160 Speaker 2: you set those boundaries, letting whatever spirits might be there, 827 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:35,840 Speaker 2: know that you are comfortable exactly, I'm not with the shifts. 828 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,799 Speaker 2: You gotta, you gotta. Like I said, I always tell 829 00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:40,960 Speaker 2: spirits if you're not playing on paying my bills, picking 830 00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 2: up bill, getting a job, and cleaning my don't don't. 831 00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,360 Speaker 2: I don't count for it that I already got. I 832 00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,600 Speaker 2: already got three three people in my house that already 833 00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 2: give me a headache. I don't need to add you 834 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:53,319 Speaker 2: onto the onto the tally, you know I don't need that. 835 00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,239 Speaker 2: But just making sure you set your boundaries, making sure 836 00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:01,000 Speaker 2: that you say out loud what your intention are. I'm 837 00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:04,360 Speaker 2: living here, this is my space, this is my happy place. 838 00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:07,479 Speaker 2: You need to understand that. You need to know when 839 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,560 Speaker 2: it's time for you to just leave me alone. Fine 840 00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,800 Speaker 2: with us, especially if it's been going on for a while. 841 00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:17,360 Speaker 2: Just basically saying I'm fine with us sharing the space together. 842 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 2: You were here first, so I understand that. But you 843 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,280 Speaker 2: have to understand when I need space, I need space. 844 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,360 Speaker 2: You need to give me that. So I think just 845 00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,400 Speaker 2: setting boundaries, just like you would with a person, is 846 00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:30,719 Speaker 2: going to be beneficial. 847 00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,759 Speaker 1: Now before we get into your career. I just this 848 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:38,080 Speaker 1: question just popped in my head. What are your thoughts 849 00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:40,239 Speaker 1: on people having sex with goals, like, do you think 850 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,959 Speaker 1: that's true? Not to scratching your. 851 00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:52,839 Speaker 2: Head, Listen, I don't think that that is true. But 852 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:57,360 Speaker 2: I think people think that they are having sex with 853 00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:04,920 Speaker 2: a ghost. It's all about what you feel. Everybody, every 854 00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:08,760 Speaker 2: physical body is different, so everybody's gonna feel things differently. 855 00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,640 Speaker 2: Some people can, lack of better words, get off and 856 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:16,680 Speaker 2: not even touch themselves, you know. So maybe the combination 857 00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:20,320 Speaker 2: of possibly living in a place that's haunted and having 858 00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:24,680 Speaker 2: the ability to get off while not doing anything physically 859 00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:28,680 Speaker 2: to yourself can be a recipe for them thinking, oh my. 860 00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,480 Speaker 1: God, I just find a recipe. 861 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:34,880 Speaker 2: Yes, I know, like they out here. No, yeah, no, 862 00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:37,279 Speaker 2: I don't think that that is a possibility. And if 863 00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:40,200 Speaker 2: it is, I mean I could be proven wrong. Not 864 00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:45,200 Speaker 2: any nothing's to possible, you know, something impossible in my opinion, 865 00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 2: it's just very improbable. Right. 866 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:51,960 Speaker 1: This concludes part one of this week's episode. 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