1 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: Welcome to our very first episode of Bachelor Happy Hours 2 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:12,800 Speaker 1: Golden Hour. 3 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 2: I'm Kathy and I'm Susan and you'll know us from 4 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 2: the Golden Bachelor. Oh my goodness, can you believe they 5 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 2: chose us? 6 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: It's amazing to make a better choice. You know, we 7 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: are so excited to be here and share our thoughts 8 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: on love and life. You know, we've lived a lot 9 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: of years and we've learned so much and being on 10 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,319 Speaker 1: the show taught us so much, and we just are 11 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,959 Speaker 1: so thrilled to have this opportunity to talk to you 12 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: about our experiences. We want to hear your experiences. 13 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: Kathy love and nervous, nervous about what could come out 14 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 2: of my mouth, Like I don't know what I'm allowed 15 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 2: to say. 16 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: You're nervous about what comes out of your mouth? Really 17 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: your mouth? I don't know. I just think they made 18 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: them brilliant choice. I think so too. And you know, 19 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: we have had such a crazy week because I don't 20 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: know if y'all know this, but my son got married 21 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 1: a week ago and we were talked well and you're 22 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: not even going to believe how this happens. I was 23 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: talking to my son Kyle and his fiance about their 24 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: wedding and planning it. And it's a second wedding for 25 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: both my son and his fiance Candy. So we were 26 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: talking about who's going to marry you, where you're going 27 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: to have the wedding, and my son said, you know, 28 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: we're working on those details. And I said, actually, jokingly, 29 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: why don't you ask Susan And he looked at me, 30 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 1: said I'll talk to Candy about that. That could be 31 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: a really great idea. Thirty seconds later it was literally, 32 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: it wasn't three minutes later. He called me and they 33 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: said we're in and Susan flew from Philly and we 34 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: just had it was such. 35 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 2: Where it was it was at a It was absolutely 36 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 2: magical and round. 37 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: Here all week. The sun came out. It was absolutely. 38 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 2: Kathy got a little jelly, however, a little jealous because 39 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 2: her granddaughter, Oh my god, she is precious and she 40 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 2: likes me. 41 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: They all like you, Susan and y'all. Do you remember 42 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: the part that at the very beginning, my son picks 43 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: up a rose and turns to his bride and says, Candy, 44 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: will you accept this final rose? And of course I 45 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: had a videographer there, and what does Kathy say, forgetting 46 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: that it's all being taped another rose. I don't guess that. 47 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 2: Was supposed to be a surprise for you because I 48 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 2: knew about it. And when I after the opening and 49 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 2: saying good afternoon, everybody, thank you for coming, and blah 50 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 2: blah blah, I said, wait a minute, I think there's 51 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 2: something Kyle wants to ask his bride. 52 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: And he' said looking at me, like. 53 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 2: Where's the rose right here? 54 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 1: So the next day the wedding was incredible. The next 55 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 1: day we all go to a brewery to have a brunch. 56 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: She sell brewery and brunch. I don't know, but we 57 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 1: did it. It's a Texas it's a Texas thing. And 58 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: we're standing there and two women came up to Susan 59 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 1: and May and she looked at me and she said, 60 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: you know, my mom passed away last year, and you 61 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 1: give me so much hope that my dad and I 62 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: think it was. 63 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 2: Like September, right September, she. 64 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: Just passed away and her dad is seventy. I didn't 65 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: think it was the right time to say, is you know, 66 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 1: is it too soon? Like I'm seventy, you know, send 67 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 1: me his picture. But that's that is what we hope 68 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 1: to do on this podcast. People supporting people, hearing from 69 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: people that we can give hope to and hearing their stories. 70 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: And it's all about love. 71 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 2: It happens to me every day. I know it does 72 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 2: to you in airports and the grocery store for some 73 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 2: reason that'll just open up. And I love that I 74 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 2: could have that effect on people. 75 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: Just be you. 76 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 2: There's something in there and you feel it because of 77 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 2: who we are, what we're saying, or watching us on 78 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 2: the show. I love that people were moved by that. 79 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 2: It is about not giving up. 80 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: It is and I think that people need that in 81 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: their lives today. There's so many tough things that we 82 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: all deal with day in and day out. We all 83 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: need to feel that hope and that authenticity because that's 84 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: how we go through life with hope and enjoying every day. 85 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: And if you don't have that and youbody, that's what 86 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: we're here for. Susan, you and I. One thing we're 87 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: not we're both tall women. One thing we're not short 88 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: on is advice. 89 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: Yes, I just need to follow my own sometimes my intuition. 90 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 2: I definitely in my sixties realize, don't fight your intuition. 91 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,720 Speaker 1: It's so right oh, are we giving advice here? Because 92 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: you know what my first piece of advice is. When 93 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: you see a red flag, yeah, can't turn it into 94 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 1: a white flag. 95 00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 2: I always make it yellow. It's like the yellow light, 96 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 2: you know, the yellow light. I still go through price. 97 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 1: With aution, proceed with question. Susan sees a red light, 98 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: she stopped for about two seconds. It's going green. I'm 99 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: just gonna go ahead. 100 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 2: I love life, I really. 101 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 1: Do, and we're hoping that we find love. In case 102 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: anyone doesn't remember, we are still looking for love. But 103 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: I just want to ask you a question, Susan. The 104 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: finale come on from the wedding to a finale. 105 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 2: Every time Jesse says, and he does say this a lot, 106 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 2: You're never gonna believe it the most the best finale 107 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 2: you've ever seen. I've heard it a hundred times. Only 108 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 2: this time it was real about how beautiful Daisy. I'm 109 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 2: so proud of her. As a matter of fact, I 110 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 2: DMed her last night and told her how proud I was. 111 00:05:56,520 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: She she was amazing, She exemplifies great and beauty. She 112 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:06,239 Speaker 1: didn't get the guy, but how beautiful. When she said 113 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 1: those words, I'm telling you, Susan, it sticks out in 114 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: my mind. If I can love the wrong person that much, 115 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 1: imagine how I can love the right person. I mean, listen, 116 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:21,839 Speaker 1: you're always crying always, not all that that made me cry. 117 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 2: I know, I saw you. I saw you got the 118 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 2: actually tear it up. 119 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: It's how happy did they look? 120 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 2: Oh amazing? So just being there from Women Tell All 121 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 2: and now this and having some of our other buddies 122 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 2: from the Goldens there as well, it was like a 123 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 2: reunion every time. But to watch the girls and listen 124 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 2: to Daisy speak, it was incredible. Not even talking about 125 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 2: the end. 126 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: It's just it's just I mean, I think we're so lucky. 127 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: We got to be at the uh, we got to 128 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: be at the Women's Tell All and final rows and 129 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: to see the emotions on these girls' faces. If any 130 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 1: of you out there doubt that these girls know how 131 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 1: to love, and these girls really wanted to find love, 132 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know about you, Susan, but come on, 133 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: it doesn't it make you just. 134 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 2: We all wanted to find love. That's why we went 135 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 2: on our show and we were in the friend zone. However, 136 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 2: I believe in the process, and obviously that shows. 137 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: Well, I want to talk about you finding love for 138 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: a minute, because you almost bowled me over to get 139 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: to Kelsey's dad, Mark. 140 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 2: I mean, isn't he a handsome man? And of the 141 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 2: whole family is beautiful. His youngest son was like, Susan, 142 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,679 Speaker 2: I'm one of your biggest friends. Can we take a picture. 143 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 2: I felt bad for the sister and the younger brother, 144 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 2: so I'm posing with everybody taking pictures. 145 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 1: He's too young, Susan, he's too young. 146 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 2: Whatever. What's too young, Kathy? 147 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it later. It's coming out. 148 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 2: We can talk about it right now. What's too young, Kathy? 149 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 1: Well, I'm going to go with ten years. Where are 150 00:07:59,360 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 1: you going? 151 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 2: Oh? I'd go twelve, But I don't know how old 152 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 2: the man is. I really know he had a nice conversation. 153 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 2: He's a lovely man. 154 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 1: And I wouldn't implement. I would know. I didn't get 155 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: a chance. That's your problem. 156 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 2: Oh Leslie, did I'm stand here talking? She comes a 157 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 2: little miss right up in there. 158 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: Everybody. 159 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 2: How handsome of a man, but well spoken. And I 160 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 2: had said, complimented him on what a beautiful job he 161 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 2: did raising his daughter Kelsey. And you know what he said, Kathy, 162 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 2: I can't take the credit for that. That's all her mother. 163 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 2: I just didn't have to ruin it. I was trying 164 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 2: not to ruin. I said, you did a wonderful job. 165 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: He did what he did. 166 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:43,959 Speaker 2: A beautiful, beautiful family. 167 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 1: It's not coincidence that these two, Joey and and Kelsey 168 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 1: love each other the way they do because the love 169 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: from their families. It just exuded from each one of them. 170 00:08:56,120 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: And I don't know, speaking of them, doesn't do you 171 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:03,679 Speaker 1: just wish them? I think they're going to get married. 172 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 1: What do you think? 173 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 2: Oh gosh, eventually, yes, definitely, they're so in love. But wait, 174 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 2: let's go back for one second watching the show. Okay, 175 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:18,079 Speaker 2: when Daisy, did you feel like the last time they 176 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 2: were together, the way he was looking at her? I 177 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 2: felt the vibe. I knew myself that it wasn't going 178 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: to be Daisy, and I love the fact that she 179 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 2: recognized it. But how about her going to Kelsey's room? 180 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 1: I know, well, that's about beautiful. It was beautiful. But 181 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 1: the whole thing them riding in the car together, Susan, 182 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 1: are you going to do that for me? Are you 183 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:40,559 Speaker 1: going to ride I. 184 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 2: Think we did that already. Look at us, we're inseparable now. 185 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 1: I just I thought, as you said, the love for 186 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:52,839 Speaker 1: those two girls that they have for each other, all 187 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 1: the girls. I think that's what another thing that makes 188 00:09:56,160 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 1: finding love on the Bachelor just so heartwarming. People realize 189 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 1: that this is their chance, and it's their chance to 190 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: find friendship, it's their chance to find true love. I mean, 191 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: I keep saying, and they did. They did. 192 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 2: Joey picked the right girl for him. Do you think 193 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 2: all them on Good Morning America? And she spikes up. 194 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 2: She's not shy. I love that about Kelsey. She speaks 195 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 2: right up and makes them laugh. They were doing this 196 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 2: game guessing his favorite food and uh oh, and he goes, 197 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 2: that's what I was going to write, but I wrote 198 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 2: this instead. It was supposed to be pizza and she goes, wait. 199 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 1: But they were an amazing couple. But you know, there's 200 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 1: been a lot of bachelors. I think Kelsey is amazing. 201 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 1: I want her hair, by the way, I want all 202 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:44,559 Speaker 1: them I want. I mean, those girls have gorgeous hair. 203 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 1: But I think what makes Joey, I was thinking about it, 204 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 1: what makes him such a standout bachelor. He listened to 205 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: each of those girls. He really made them feel heard, 206 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:02,079 Speaker 1: He valued them, didn't want to hurt any of them. 207 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 2: Kathy, what about when he was sitting with Daisy and 208 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 2: he wanted to know all about her cocular implant. He 209 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 2: was touching it, feeling it and trying to understand it, 210 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 2: like you said, paying attention. 211 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 1: And at the final rows when she said she left 212 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: a happier, stronger woman, to me, that is such a 213 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 1: gift of this show. You know, not everyone's going to 214 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 1: find love, but she walked away happier and stronger and 215 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: a beautiful woman who who's ready to move on with life, 216 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: who's just like us. What did we get out of 217 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: our show? We got friendship, not. 218 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 2: Only that at self love you know who you are 219 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 2: now we experienced we stepped out of our comfort zone. 220 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 2: I don't know how many times on our season, and 221 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 2: it just makes you one okay with yourself who you are, 222 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 2: totally authentic. 223 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: I think I think you and I, on a scale 224 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:12,599 Speaker 1: of one to ten, have probably always been pretty authentic. 225 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 1: But I think I think it did make this Being 226 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 1: on the show made me feel and watching the final rows, 227 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 1: it just confirmed, it affirmed that we are who we are, 228 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: and that's what getting older is about. It's just excepting 229 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 1: who you are. 230 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 2: I loved it about these young ladies. They were all 231 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:35,079 Speaker 2: true to themselves and he made the right choice. Oh 232 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 2: for sure, he wants a ten on the Hot scale. 233 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 2: Definitely a ten eleven. 234 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: So wait, two things. Do you think you're going to 235 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: marry them because we know you are a wedding officient. 236 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:47,719 Speaker 2: Oh I'll be haunting them. 237 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:50,199 Speaker 1: Yes, I wouldn't be the maid of honor. 238 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 2: Wait, how about seeing Charity in Dalton? When I saw 239 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 2: them and I spoke to them for a little bit, 240 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 2: I said, wait, are we having two weddings, one in Nigeria? 241 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 2: Does that mean I get to come to Nigeria? He said, 242 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 2: We're working on that. 243 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:07,599 Speaker 1: I love it. You know that's the happily ever afters 244 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:11,199 Speaker 1: that these people find it. It should make everyone believe 245 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 1: in love. That's what I say, speaking of finding love. 246 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: Next bachelorette, what do you think? 247 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 2: Oh, isn't she adorable? But she seems more. She talked 248 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 2: about when she did the shots, that how they do 249 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:28,959 Speaker 2: in their family, and we all had this. 250 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 1: Can I just say, can I just say my perfect evening, 251 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: beautiful women talking about love and getting to do a shot. 252 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 2: Remember remember when we got them and you started to 253 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 2: sip and they said no, not yet. This is where 254 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 2: a toast, and that's when we had to do it. 255 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 2: I switched with Kathy because I don't like it. So 256 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 2: hers was half gone, so I gave her my full one. 257 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 1: Who doesn't like whiskey? What's wrong with you? But seriously, 258 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: I think I think she's going to be great. You know, 259 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: our first Asian bachelorette. She's beautiful, she's smart, she wants 260 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 1: to find love. I think it's going to be another 261 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: great season. 262 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 2: Absolutely, although Joey season is going to be a hard 263 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 2: act to follow. I have to admit that was a 264 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 2: great season and the ending people will remember this forever. 265 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: They will ever. 266 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 2: So speaking of couples, yes, tell me about your life, Kathy, 267 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 2: about your marriage? 268 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 1: Is this? Is this really all right? We're going down. 269 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 1: We're going to. 270 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 2: Get to know a little bit about each other. 271 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: Now, okay, here we go vachcalination. You're going to get 272 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 1: to know us. So most of you know, I was 273 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 1: married for over forty five years, have three great children, 274 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 1: two fabulous granddaughters. You know, my husband died by suicide 275 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: five years ago. I think that you know, people talk 276 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: about having life changing moments in your life. Obviously, for me, 277 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 1: that was one of them. But I think Susan, that's 278 00:14:56,040 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: when I really learned. I was married at twenty. I 279 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 1: am seventy years old. Baby, I was a baby. Uh. 280 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: What do I know about myself now? Is really marked 281 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: by that his death? Because I learned truly that I 282 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: can stand on my own two feet. I can do anything. 283 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: I believe in myself now, and you know that's that's 284 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: as much as I want to find love. That's what 285 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: I know about myself. 286 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 2: I'm tell me, what did you learn about men being married? 287 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 2: Is there anything else specific you could change? Well? Men? 288 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: Are you know? Well? Come on, I had to raise 289 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: my husband. I mean he was a baby too. I 290 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: think you know. Men love to be adored. I think 291 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 1: that the one thing I've learned about marriage. It's it's 292 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 1: the big sea compassion and communication. Communication is okay, you're adored. 293 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 1: They need to be acknowledged. 294 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 2: That's one of the mistakes I made in my marriage 295 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 2: and I won't do again. And I learned from it. 296 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 2: Is acknowledgement. Like even the little things. Men like to 297 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 2: be appreciated, and they like to be told, oh, thank 298 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 2: you for doing this today or whatever, even minor things 299 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 2: if they carried up the laundry for you say something, 300 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 2: carry laundry, be a step ahead anything they do. They 301 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 2: want to be acknowledged. 302 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I will say, maybe you just remind 303 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 1: me of something I think the biggest lesson I learned 304 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 1: about my marriage compromise. You have to compromise, and I 305 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 1: honestly unicate. 306 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 2: There's your sees again. 307 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: Yep, there are my seas. I just didn't I don't 308 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 1: think I compromised enough in my marriage, but I don't know. 309 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 2: So Kathy going back into the dating world, I mean, 310 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 2: besides the show, just getting out there again. What's your 311 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 2: feel on this whole thing? 312 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 1: It's hard, Susan, It's really hard. By the way, if 313 00:16:57,040 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 1: anyone's listening, Susan and I still are availed. Uh contrary. 314 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 2: So you will take a request. You can send in 315 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 2: your dad's picture, your pop pop, maybe the hot guy 316 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 2: next door. 317 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: Wait, but we could I get one first? That's all 318 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 1: I want to know. I mean, if you push me 319 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 1: out of the way you did with Kelsey's dad, I 320 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 1: don't have a chance. I'm screwing. 321 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 2: So what are the traits that you're looking for? 322 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: Are we okay? 323 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:22,920 Speaker 2: I mean okay, I think we both like tall men, 324 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 2: absolutely tall. I definitely don't want to feel heavier or 325 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 2: bigger than the guy, you know what I mean, like 326 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 2: your guy. 327 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:33,240 Speaker 1: I mean, come on, chemistry is important anyone who I 328 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 1: don't care if you're seven seventy or seven hundred. Chemistry 329 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:41,159 Speaker 1: is important. So but you know what, for me, the 330 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:43,239 Speaker 1: guy I'm looking for now is not the guy I 331 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 1: was looking for when I was twenty. I mean, I 332 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 1: don't know what that guy was thinking in I was twenty. 333 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 2: Best statement you've made so far, that. 334 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:51,360 Speaker 1: Is so oh. I thought the best statement was get 335 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:53,640 Speaker 1: out of the way if I'm trying to meet Kelsey's dad, 336 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 1: but never mind going in your. 337 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 2: World that would be the best. But but you're absolutely right. 338 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,719 Speaker 2: It's totally different when I'm looking for now. Okay, before 339 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 2: it was more about lust and looks and sex and 340 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 2: you know, making you feel amazing. 341 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 1: Now, are you sure you've changed? 342 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:15,439 Speaker 2: No? No, I'm not excusing those things. They're very important. However, 343 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 2: at this stage of the game, somebody that can love me, 344 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 2: you know I have we have big personalities. But I'm 345 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 2: a mush mush as everybody knows because I cry all 346 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 2: the time. But I want somebody that appreciates me for 347 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 2: who I am and likewise and be comfortable with me 348 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 2: having a big mouth. 349 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 1: Okay, well that's fair. We are who we are. People 350 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 1: have to accept us for who we are. I want 351 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 1: someone with who loves adventure. We're not raising kids anymore, right, 352 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 1: you got But Susan, Susan, you don't think I'm letting 353 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: you off the hot seat? To you? Why you didn't 354 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 1: tell me about your marriage? Give it up, girl, I 355 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:54,440 Speaker 1: had your turn. 356 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 2: Dicky and I are still good friends. We really are. 357 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 2: Most people don't get it, Like if I'm in a 358 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 2: relationship at Christmas or Holidays, Dicky's there with all my kids, 359 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 2: my grandkids, and so is the man I'm involved with 360 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 2: right now. I haven't had anybody in quite some time. 361 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 2: But we are okay, and we are still friends. I 362 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 2: still care about him. We share children together, we share 363 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:22,320 Speaker 2: grandchildren together, and we are in the same environment a lot. 364 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 1: So are you afraid? Are you afraid to find love again? Like? 365 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:26,919 Speaker 1: How would that look for you? 366 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 2: Oh? Absolutely not. I am so open, I really really am. However, 367 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 2: what's changed about me? Prior to going on the show. 368 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 2: I was on every dating site and if there's a 369 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 2: particular one that you guys out there think is better. 370 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 2: Please DM me. I want to know maybe there's one 371 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 2: that I missed. 372 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 1: You know what I think are going to DM you. 373 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 1: The men are going to d on me, but carry on, 374 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 1: carry on. 375 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 2: I found it was like the kids today, It's okay 376 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 2: with everybody. Just do a one night hookup and go 377 00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 2: on to the next one or you get go stit, 378 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 2: which is beyond me. To me, that was being stood up, 379 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 2: and that's happened a few times. 380 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: Gaslighting, all these terms gas last that's the new word. 381 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:11,399 Speaker 1: I know. I'm always I mean, have riz, I mean, 382 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 1: come on, It's like we can't even understand the terminology today. 383 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,119 Speaker 1: But I want, I want to know. I'm going to 384 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 1: ask you. I'm gonna put I'm gonna do it to 385 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: you again. 386 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, here she goes before Well, you. 387 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 1: Know what people have inquiring minds. I want to know, Susan, Okay, 388 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 1: how soon would you move in with a guy if 389 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 1: you met mister Wright? How soon? 390 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 2: So I fall in love fixed hard? But I realized 391 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 2: today that's not just real love. Real love to me 392 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:43,440 Speaker 2: is finding your best friend and being okay with his faults, 393 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 2: your faults, compromising, So it would depend on on the feeling. 394 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,119 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not getting any younger. I am sixty. 395 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:51,360 Speaker 1: So you want to get married again. 396 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 2: I've been sixty seven for not even a month yet 397 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:55,399 Speaker 2: I still have days left. 398 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 1: Okay, rub it in your young I. 399 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 2: Absolutely want to be with someone and grow a someone. 400 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,919 Speaker 1: That's not what I asked. That's not what I asked. 401 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 1: Would you get married again if it's right? Yes? Okay? 402 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 1: Can I be? Can I can I officiate at your wedding? 403 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 2: God help me? I could marry myself, you know that right? 404 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 1: Really? 405 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:19,199 Speaker 2: I am legal bagal, Yeah, I could do my own. Sorry, 406 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 2: may not that I would. I wouldn't, Okay. 407 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 1: So so if if worse, if I'm just stunned marrying yourself, 408 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: that's the whole. That's a can of words. So tell 409 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:33,719 Speaker 1: me something. You your marriage didn't end the way you 410 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: wanted it to. Honestly, for me, uh, I think it's 411 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 1: gonna be a little harder for me on the dating scene, 412 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 1: only because I had a great marriage. It wasn't perfect pair. 413 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 1: There is no such thing as a perfect marriage. But 414 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 1: I had a great guy who loved me and I 415 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 1: loved him, And I think for me dating is gonna 416 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 1: look really different because. 417 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 2: Do you believe in soulmates? 418 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 1: Kat I do believe in soulmates. I think that. Listen, 419 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:04,200 Speaker 1: we're gonna have this. We're gonna have sex. Talk now, Susan, when. 420 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 2: You get from soul maids to sex. 421 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 1: Because one goes with the other, because if you're a soulmate, 422 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 1: you share everything, right. 423 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:12,440 Speaker 2: This is true. 424 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 1: This is true. 425 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 2: But look at our age, okay, and then our age. 426 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 2: You got to think about things that come with this man. 427 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 2: We're getting older, say he's seventy five. We got to 428 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 2: think about do we want to be a caretaker. Are 429 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 2: we comfortable with that things of that nature? 430 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, a nurse or a purse. I mean, but 431 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:39,879 Speaker 1: I'm talking, I'm talking. I can't be a purse. I'm talking. 432 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: I really can't be a nurse. If we're getting down 433 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 1: to it, uh, you know. But but truly, I feel 434 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 1: like if you're dating a guy, if I'm dating a guy, 435 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 1: I want someone. Intimacy looks different at our age. Let's 436 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 1: be honest, it does, right. 437 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 2: It's not just sex, even a make out session. 438 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:00,919 Speaker 1: We'll give it. 439 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 2: Just somebody that's they have to know how to kiss. Okay, 440 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 2: I can give bless Oh, now we're getting into professional 441 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 2: when it comes to kissing. Yes, a man that tells 442 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 2: you they know how to kiss and they come in 443 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 2: and you're like, oh jeez, that is not kissing. 444 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: Wait, so wait, your guy's got to be tall, he's 445 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 1: got to know how to kiss. Fabulous. 446 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,399 Speaker 2: Yes, an affection. That's what I missed the most. 447 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 1: I'll tell you. I'm being honest. You and I have 448 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 1: both learned. We are independent women. We're strong personalities, no question. 449 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 1: But you know both of us. You've seen me and 450 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 1: the world has seen you cry and show emotion. But 451 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 1: you know what, I show a lot of emotion too, 452 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:52,120 Speaker 1: It's just not as readily a parent. And I want 453 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 1: that guy who can laugh with me, not at me, 454 00:23:56,119 --> 00:24:00,080 Speaker 1: with me, and and have those intimate moments where you know, 455 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,360 Speaker 1: we go from kayaking and skiing to sitting in front 456 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,360 Speaker 1: of a fire or watching this holds. 457 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 2: In hands My best, best, best moment. I was in 458 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 2: a diner some years ago and there was this Garry Steiner, 459 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,679 Speaker 2: the older, older couple, late eighties maybe, and they were 460 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,920 Speaker 2: sitting on the same side of the booth. And when 461 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,200 Speaker 2: they got up, she had a walker and he still 462 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 2: held her hand. That's what I'm looking for. That that 463 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 2: that affection, that that kindness, and somebody that likes to 464 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:32,199 Speaker 2: travel a little bit. I want to get that up 465 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 2: for sure. 466 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 1: You know I've dated. Are you gonna well, I was 467 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 1: going to ask you what your worst date is, but 468 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,320 Speaker 1: then you're gonna ask me, and eh, yeah, we want 469 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,399 Speaker 1: to go there. We're not gonna go there, right, but 470 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: I I would Traveling is important. I guess what I'm 471 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 1: saying is it's never too late. I don't feel like 472 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: it's too late to find love. 473 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 2: I think I believen happily ever after, hopefully romantic, and 474 00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 2: I've been there twice. Okay, I have to admit my 475 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 2: first marriage, I don't count it. 476 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 1: It was only eight Wait a minute, Wait a minute, back, 477 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 1: it was eight months. It counts season, It counts eight. 478 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:10,199 Speaker 2: Months married to. 479 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 1: The mob. 480 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 2: So I don't know. Maybe I should be on the 481 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 2: wide show, but it was. I was extremely young and 482 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 2: jumped in and jumped out just as fast. We didn't 483 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 2: have children or anything like that. 484 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,679 Speaker 1: WHOA, Well, you know what they say for you, Susan, 485 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: third time's the charm. 486 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 2: That's what I believe. 487 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: Well, you know, I think you and I have a 488 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: great opportunity here. Do you want to know what it is. 489 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:46,120 Speaker 1: What's that think of it? You and I? We can 490 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 1: be each other's wing woman. 491 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 2: Oh jeez, I'm scared. 492 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 1: Oh come on, we can do it. We can do it. 493 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:56,120 Speaker 1: We'll go to a bar. Well, we'll go out. We 494 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: can go we can I don't know, we can figure 495 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:00,359 Speaker 1: it out. Can you imagine? 496 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,440 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, wait, I have an idea something fun 497 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 2: we can do on this podcast. 498 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,880 Speaker 1: People out there, let me know what you think. 499 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 2: What if we create some kind of a dating profile 500 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:15,879 Speaker 2: that will share with everybody on social media? Hmm, and 501 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 2: then you can submit people that you're thinking of, because 502 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:20,679 Speaker 2: which already happened to me. 503 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 1: I M my dad. 504 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 2: I'm definitely not full. This was from a young lady 505 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 2: that said her dad is single and he lives close by. 506 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 2: What do you do with that? I was, I didn't 507 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 2: know what to say. 508 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: What you do you find out if he's calling he 509 00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:41,679 Speaker 1: wants to have sex? There's your practice? 510 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 2: Do you ask for a picture? You know what I mean? Well, 511 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 2: I just I'm not dating at the moment because, uh, 512 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:50,680 Speaker 2: you know, okay, I. 513 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:54,399 Speaker 1: Like this idea. Wait, I like this idea. People. I 514 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:58,360 Speaker 1: think people should write in and send us d ms 515 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,920 Speaker 1: of people and then I'll pick one for you. You'll 516 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:02,639 Speaker 1: pick one for me. 517 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 2: Now they have to be age appropriate, okay, and they 518 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 2: had to hear what we said on our kind of 519 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,640 Speaker 2: a man like try to get as close to what 520 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 2: we want, ma'am, pat, We might open our own dating 521 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 2: service after this. 522 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 1: Wait, could you imagine? Wait, we could have our own 523 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 1: show We found love on our podcast Golden Hour, and 524 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,360 Speaker 1: then we're getting married. You're going to marry. It could 525 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 1: be a whole thing. 526 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 2: It could meet on the gold. 527 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:33,360 Speaker 1: On Golden Hour. It would be fabulous. 528 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 2: I love it, I absolutely love it. 529 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:37,119 Speaker 1: But you never know. 530 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:41,199 Speaker 2: I could look at your entries if you will, and 531 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 2: since would you be willing to go on a blind 532 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:46,360 Speaker 2: date if I picked him? 533 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:47,119 Speaker 1: Would I? 534 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:47,880 Speaker 2: Yes? 535 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,199 Speaker 1: Absolutely? Because you you know me and I know you? 536 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 1: Would you go? Would you let me pick one for you? 537 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 2: I think? 538 00:27:54,520 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 1: So? Oh wait a second, seriously you think? Let me 539 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,680 Speaker 1: tell everyone the way this says really gonna work. You're 540 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:06,199 Speaker 1: gonna send in dms. Susan's gonna call through them first. 541 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 1: She's gonna say I want that one, that one, that one, 542 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:09,480 Speaker 1: Now I wanna. 543 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 2: Pull aside all the ones that I like. 544 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:15,640 Speaker 1: It's feeling like Kelsey's dad all over again. Here's here's 545 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 1: what we're gonna do. They're gonna DM me some, They're 546 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,479 Speaker 1: gonna DM you some, and maybe we can trade. 547 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 2: So are they gonna DM you some for me? 548 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 1: Yes? 549 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 2: Or okay? Okay? 550 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:30,920 Speaker 1: Otherwise I don't have a child. 551 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,359 Speaker 2: I'll try anything once twice if I like it. 552 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 1: Oh, Susan, Susan, Okay, trouble now, So I think they 553 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 1: need to DM Wait, I rethought it. Don't DM me. 554 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,960 Speaker 1: Don't DM Susan, because I'll never see them DM the 555 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 1: Bachelory Bachelor Happy Hour Instagram page. That's a better idea. 556 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 2: Okay. So they're gonna see what our choices are. 557 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 1: That's then I have a chance. I have a chance, Susan, 558 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:00,720 Speaker 1: of a chance. 559 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 2: I look forward to it, Kathy, and I really look 560 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 2: forward Everybody given us questions, given us your thoughts and 561 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 2: what you think, and then we'll tell you you're wrong. Probably, 562 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 2: But no. 563 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 1: I think that we are here not just to share 564 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 1: our lives and what's going on, but we really want 565 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: to hear from everyone else. We want to know what's 566 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: going on in your lives, because you may feel like 567 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 1: nothing is going right in your life and you're alone. 568 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 1: We all feel that way sometimes, and it's just not true. 569 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 2: The whole process of growing older, Kathy, and we both 570 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 2: agree on this is not believing it's over. It's never over. 571 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 2: The best chapter. 572 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 1: What you and I've talked about this, Susan, this is 573 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 1: going to be the best chapter. It already is the 574 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 1: best chapter of our lives. And no one should ever 575 00:29:56,440 --> 00:30:00,200 Speaker 1: feel hopeless or give up. There's so much of life 576 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 1: to live. We only get this one ride, folks, only 577 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 1: one time. You got to live in. 578 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 2: Those of you out there that are hearing us right now, 579 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 2: I hope you're smiling. I hope you're getting up and 580 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:14,959 Speaker 2: moving around and just embrace what's left. Enjoy every moment 581 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 2: because there's a lot left. Thank you so much for 582 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 2: tuning into our very first, very first, and we did it, 583 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 2: Kathy Bachelor, Happy Hours, Golden. 584 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: Hour, We did it. It was so much fun. I 585 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: hope you all enjoyed it as much as we did. 586 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 1: We hope that you'll follow us as we have episodes 587 00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:39,080 Speaker 1: coming out every week, so you're not going to want 588 00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:42,240 Speaker 1: to miss it, folks, because we have great guests coming 589 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 1: up and it's going to be fun, informative. Please tune in. 590 00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 2: And please don't forget to submit your questions because we 591 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 2: really want to know what's going on in your life, 592 00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,520 Speaker 2: not just our life. We'll share with you, you share with us. 593 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 2: That's what makes this role, that's what makes. 594 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 1: It work, and it's going to be great fun. So 595 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio 596 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 1: app or wherever you listen to podcasts. See you next week.