1 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: Repo Hybrid or those Highlander Highlander Hybrid by yamounts once 2 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 1: the last time you took a time out. I'm Ev Rodsky, 3 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: author of the New York Times bestseller fair Play and 4 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: Find Your Unicorn Space, activists on the gender division of labor, 5 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: attorney and family mediator. And I'm doctor add Ina Rucar, 6 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: a Harvard physician and medical correspondent with an expertise and 7 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 1: the science of stress, resilience, mental health, and burnout. We're 8 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: so excited to share our podcast, Time Out, a production 9 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: of I Heart Podcasts and Hello Sunshine, repealing back the 10 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: layers around why society makes it so easy to guard 11 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 1: men's time like it's diamonds and treat women's time like 12 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: it's infinite like sand. And so, whether you're partnered with 13 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: or without children, or in a career where you want 14 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: more boundaries, this is a place for you, for people 15 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: of all only structures. So take this time out with 16 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 1: us to learn, get inspired, and most importantly, reclaim your time. 17 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: Listen to Time Out, a fair Play podcast on the 18 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 1: I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get 19 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: your podcasts. Have you ever felt depressed about work only 20 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: to have your dad be like, why you're so down? 21 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: So you told him you hate your job, and he said, well, 22 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: you better talk yourself out of it. And then you thought, hmm, 23 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: I love to talk. I could host a podcast. And 24 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: then you went to Speaker from my Heart and started 25 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: a podcast and got good at it, then monetized it, 26 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: then quit your boring job and told your dad thanks 27 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: for the advice. And he was like, well, that's not 28 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: what I meant, and I don't understand what a podcast is. 29 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: But you seem happy, So that's great, kiddo. You ever 30 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 1: do that? Well, you could at speaker dot com. That's 31 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: spr e A k E R. Ask your dad, you 32 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: actually don't. Good morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the 33 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:03,559 Speaker 1: New in our Office, the podcast where we share strategies 34 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: for thriving in the new world of work, where location 35 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: and hours are more flexible than in the past. Today's 36 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: tip is to craft a Monday morning reflection. Having a 37 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: few practices and phrases that help you start the week 38 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: can energize you to accomplish all sorts of great things. 39 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 1: For the past five years, I've had a Monday morning 40 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: ritual of sorts. I tracked my time on weekly spreadsheets 41 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,239 Speaker 1: and I have done this since April of two thousand 42 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: fift YEP, I know how I have spent every half 43 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: hour for the past five years. Don't worry, I won't 44 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: bore you with the details. Here. My time log week 45 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: starts Monday at five am. That means that when I 46 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 1: wake up on Monday morning, I fill in the last 47 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 1: few details from Sunday, save the spreadsheet, archive it, and 48 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: open a new one. This gives me a chance to 49 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: reflect on the week that has just gone into the 50 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: books and the blank week to come. It's just a 51 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: little moment, but I can do a quick review and 52 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: see what choices I made with my time, and I 53 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: can see a visual representation of the reality that the 54 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: next week is completely open. It will be filled with something. 55 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: Eventually I will be on the other side of the 56 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: next sixty eight hours, but what it is filled with 57 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:31,839 Speaker 1: is at least partially up to me. It's a memento mori, 58 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: an inspirational moment all rolled into one. You may not 59 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: be into time tracking, but I do think that Monday 60 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: morning presents a great opportunity for reflecting on time that 61 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: has passed and the time that is about to unfold. 62 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: There are lots of ways you can do this. One 63 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: is to look over the past week's calendar. How did 64 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: you feel about the week? Yes, the time is gone, 65 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: but we can always learn things, and doing so while 66 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: the lessons are fresh is more helpful than when they're 67 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: hard to remember. Then spend a minute looking at your 68 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: goals those for the year, your life, your week, whatever. 69 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: Keep these posted somewhere that you will see on Monday morning. 70 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 1: When you know where you're going, it's easier to direct 71 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: yourself there. You might also come up with a few 72 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: phrases that put you in a productive mindset. It can 73 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: be as simple as this is going to be a 74 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: great day, or I have everything I need. Maybe you 75 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 1: remind yourself that you are open to possibility, or that 76 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: you aim to make people smile. Think about what resonates 77 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 1: with you, then take a minute to write it at 78 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: the top of your planner or say it to yourself 79 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 1: in the mirror. In any case, it is so easy 80 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 1: to start the week in a negative mindset. People often 81 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: don't sleep enough on Sunday nights, and we hit Monday 82 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: unsure of what's waiting for us. When everyone else is 83 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: in a bad mood, it can be easy to absorb 84 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: that even while working for home. But you don't have 85 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 1: to play along. You can keep yourself focused on the 86 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: bigger picture and take control of your mindset by crafting 87 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: a Monday morning reflection. Over time, these habits will build 88 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: grooves into our minds until they become natural. They take root, 89 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: until every Monday is not something to be endured, but 90 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: an important moment, the start I hope of something great 91 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: in the meantime. This is Laura, thanks for listening, and 92 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 1: here's the succeeding in the New Corner Office. The New 93 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: Corner Office is a production of I Heart Radio. 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