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Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio, almost famous

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Speaker 1: the ogs.

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Speaker 2: We're here, We're.

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Speaker 3: Back, we are back. In a fact, we have a

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Speaker 3: great og with us, my man JP.

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Speaker 4: What's going on guys, JP?

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Speaker 3: How are you, buddy? Thank you for joining us.

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Speaker 4: You're very welcome. Thanks for inviting me. This is fun.

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Speaker 3: It's so fun.

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Speaker 1: We get the old we get the old schoolers together

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Speaker 1: and we talk about, you know, walking up hill both

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Speaker 1: ways to school and how things were tougher. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's so much harder to find, you know, the perfect

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Speaker 1: match with a rose back in the day, right kind

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Speaker 1: of stuff.

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Speaker 4: You gotta do it the old fashioned way, walk into

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Speaker 4: a bar, meet somebody, or the end of a friend

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Speaker 4: or come on good old days.

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Speaker 3: It is kind of funny.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about you, guys, but you know, when

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Speaker 1: the whole app dating thing first came out, you know,

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Speaker 1: and they were always talking about it, I'm like, dude,

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Speaker 1: that's just it's ridiculous. Who would use an app to

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Speaker 1: meet someone? And they're like, hey, dummy, you went on

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Speaker 1: a TV show and handed out flowers?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there's that.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Like I did it the old fashioned way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we have the old fashioned.

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Speaker 2: Way now it's considered the old fashioned way. Back then,

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Speaker 2: for sure, it was.

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Speaker 3: Not a little bit of a renegade.

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Speaker 2: So how is life, JP, what's up?

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Speaker 4: Life is good? Life is it's pretty stable, and you know,

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Speaker 4: obviously as you get older, it gets a little more

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Speaker 4: this is the wrong word, but different, but a little

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Speaker 4: more boring. I would say, you know, it's good. You know,

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Speaker 4: like the kids kind of consume everything, and you know,

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Speaker 4: have a little more time free than when you're married.

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Speaker 4: But but either way, it's life is good. Like happy

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Speaker 4: kids are happy. I'm happy where I'm in a good

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Speaker 4: groove both socially and with work. And I don't know,

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Speaker 4: I don't have much to complain about these days. Yay.

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Speaker 2: And you're loving Miami.

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Speaker 4: I'm liking Miami a lot. You know, this summer was

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Speaker 4: nine years since we moved down.

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Speaker 2: That's a long time.

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Speaker 4: It is a long time, I hear it. The ten

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Speaker 4: at home to this. But you know it, I still

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Speaker 4: every time I go back up to New York and

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Speaker 4: still feels like home to me. My family, my extended

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Speaker 4: The quality of life is great. You know, Everyone's like, well,

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Speaker 4: would you move? Would you move? And the short answer

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Speaker 4: and I am enjoying life. And it's you know, Miami

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Speaker 1: I love it down there. You know, about twenty years ago,

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Speaker 1: I used to date in Miami heat dancer.

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Speaker 3: Oh really, okay you yeah, isn't that interest?

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Speaker 1: Wasn't it?

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Speaker 3: Wasn't it you who he danced for Kris?

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Speaker 4: Wasn't there just a reunion or something?

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Speaker 2: I got to dance it? It was so much fun.

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Speaker 2: It was so intimidating because I'm fifty years old and

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Speaker 2: I do not dance like ever, not like Ashley. Like

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Speaker 2: I know Ashley goes to like, you know, kind of

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Speaker 3: It was so fun.

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Speaker 2: It's like Miami is We'll always have a special place

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Speaker 2: But you know, it definitely is a unique place, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, you know, like constantly having to wick

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Speaker 4: You know, everybody's always said the summers are so hot.

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Speaker 4: The summers are so hot. And I got to tell you,

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Speaker 4: for eight of the nine years, it never really bugged me.

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Speaker 4: You know, you moved a condition. This is the past.

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Speaker 4: Summer was brutal, though, really really bad.

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Speaker 2: Lot are you.

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Speaker 4: I go fishing as much as I possibly can, so

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Speaker 4: I'm definitely on the water a lot. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 2: Okay, I have to bring up the fact that on

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Speaker 2: I think on a recent story that you shared, you

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Speaker 2: and they were complaining. They were not complaining about the cold,

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Speaker 4: I was up, Yeah, I was up in New York

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Speaker 4: They are they're cold. They're just they're they're cold.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: They're so funny and they really own.

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Speaker 2: What happens.

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Speaker 4: Remember the first time Ford saw felt snow, he was

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Speaker 1: Well wait, so when obviously when everyone met you, obviously

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Speaker 4: I was living and working in New York. Ashley at

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Speaker 3: That's crazy. So that was actually for you that I

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Speaker 1: In my mind I thought maybe that's where she was

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So she she had lived in Hawaii for a

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Speaker 3: But yeah, that's awesome. That is awesome. And so the

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Speaker 4: That's it. Forty was born.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, amazing. Where was he born? Which hospital?

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Speaker 2: So sorry I worked at a hospital, but he wouldn't

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Speaker 2: Uh so I have to ask, how is your health?

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Speaker 2: I know you were diagnosed with giambiera de'ambre a while ago.

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Speaker 4: Very I'm impressed you pronounced that the right way.

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Speaker 2: I don't do they do they know why you contract it?

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Speaker 2: So, oh my gosh, that is so crazy. I didn't

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's tied to like vaccines. I don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad. I'm glad. So how is you know?

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Speaker 2: Obviously we have to talk about the divorce because this

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Speaker 2: that people are interested in kind of knowing your story.

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Speaker 2: But how how are things with you? Do you guys?

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Speaker 2: Are you? I know you're amazing co parents are you guys? Friends?

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Speaker 2: the kids? How is life with you?

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Speaker 4: Guys? Life is? Life is good. It's very stable. You know,

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Speaker 4: she and I it's it's it's civil. We're friendly. There's

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Speaker 4: no you know, there's you know, we don't hang out, right,

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Speaker 3: Yes, I said, I think that says a lot about

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Speaker 1: Probably I know it's never easy on anybody, but the

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Speaker 4: It was always happy. This is the way it is.

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Speaker 4: It's there was always. It was always full of love,

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Speaker 2: In terms of social media, Ashley came on and she

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Speaker 4: Like, no, no, no, I mean it was relatively quiet

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Speaker 4: I don't remember reading anything where like you. You know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, blow it off.

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Speaker 4: You don't really listen to it.

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Speaker 4: Look, those can be overwhelming, right, You could get five

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Speaker 1: I think you go through enough in life, right, you

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Speaker 3: You're getting a more fuel if you respond, you know.

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Speaker 4: I am saying that, No, I don't. I feel like

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Speaker 4: So I've had a handful that, like I just can't

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Speaker 4: Forty six?

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Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, it's great that you're so

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Speaker 1: mindful about it, though. I think that's a big part

441
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Speaker 1: of it, right, is to know who you are and

442
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:39,640
Speaker 1: know what you want and you know.

443
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Speaker 3: Be prepared to deal with however the chips fall.

444
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 4: I suppose, Yeah, it's definitely limiting. But at the same time,

445
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 4: you don't want to get involved with someone and spend three,

446
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,360
Speaker 4: four or five six months and then realize like, I'm

447
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 4: still still don't want a kid and you still do

448
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 4: and now you've just wasted six months and so so yeah,

449
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Speaker 4: I mean, it's the only way to go these days.

450
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Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know any other way to

451
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 4: do it. It would be a lot easier if I was,

452
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,360
Speaker 4: you know, twenty eight to thirty two, and even if

453
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 4: I had a kid at that age or didn't like

454
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 4: it'd be a lot easier, but it's it's founding. Yeah.

455
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 2: Well, so we recently had Deanna on and we were

456
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 2: her and I were at for me and her. How

457
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 2: do you say that? Anyway?

458
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Speaker 3: We were she and me and she and I? She

459
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 3: and I and yeah, because you would say because I

460
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 3: was at that.

461
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,159
Speaker 4: So yeahat take off the second one and how does

462
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 4: it sound exactly?

463
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Speaker 2: There you go for the English lesson? Boys. So we

464
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:45,160
Speaker 2: were just at the Mentel all for the current season

465
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,919
Speaker 2: of The Bachelorette, and we were joking with the producers

466
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,720
Speaker 2: and probably not just joking, it was probably a little

467
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 2: bit serious on her part, but talking about since they're

468
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Speaker 2: doing a Golden Bachelor, would they do a like midlife Bachelor?

469
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Speaker 2: If they did, would you ever go back?

470
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:02,040
Speaker 3: Oh?

471
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 4: Man, look, I don't close any doors, right, Like, Okay,

472
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 4: it would be very difficult to say yes to something

473
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 4: like that just because the logistics with the kids in

474
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,159
Speaker 4: my career, I don't know what that would look like.

475
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:17,919
Speaker 4: So just be like, no, I would never No, I

476
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:21,400
Speaker 4: can't say that, but like I don't it's not likely.

477
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,399
Speaker 4: I don't know how to make all that work. But

478
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 4: you know, the old the older I get, the more

479
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 4: I realize that you just like you live your life,

480
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 4: have fun and make the most of it, because the

481
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 4: older you get, the fewer opportunities there are to do

482
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 4: things that are unique and fun. And so, you know,

483
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Speaker 4: I look at my my parents that are getting older

484
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 4: that they're a little restricted in what they can do,

485
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Speaker 4: and so you know, I'm not going to say no,

486
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 4: you know, but it's certainly not what I want. Right

487
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 4: there were a couple of golden bats where jokes throw

488
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 4: in my way by the way, just saying, oh.

489
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Speaker 2: I'm sure I will you watch? Have you seen like promos?

490
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 2: Will you watch? Do you watch it all?

491
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 4: I haven't watched in years.

492
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 2: I mean, that would be my guess. I feel like

493
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 2: most of the people who are in our age don't

494
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 2: necessarily watch these days if they've been part of the show.

495
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 2: I just feel like it's harder to connect with the

496
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 2: people who are in their twenties when you're in such

497
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 2: a different place in your life. So that's why I'm

498
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 2: excited about Gary season, you know, And I feel like

499
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 2: I can relate more to the sixty year olds than

500
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 2: I can twenty year olds.

501
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,919
Speaker 4: No, yeah, oh man, I hadn't thought about it. That

502
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 4: way before.

503
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Speaker 6: You're right, if I find myself with nothing to do

504
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:46,800
Speaker 6: on a Monday night and it's on, when I watch

505
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 6: a little bit of it, maybe just out of curiosity,

506
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 6: but certainly not setting my.

507
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 4: TVR. What do they call these days? Yeah, right, recording.

508
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 3: Just as a funny thrill back JP.

509
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 1: So my my season of the my whole season of

510
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, and I think Trista when I was on

511
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: Trista's season as well. My brother in law saved on

512
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 1: his new fangled recording device back then called TiVo. But

513
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, this is gonna be around forever. This

514
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 1: thing's gonna be amazing. Well, when when my wife and

515
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,880
Speaker 1: I got together, she's like, well, I want to see

516
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: your season because I was in high school, you know.

517
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: So we put it on and we can't figure out

518
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,120
Speaker 1: how to hook it into a new like the new

519
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 1: smart TVs. When we finally get one of the things

520
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 1: plugged in, it's like in black and white, which she

521
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 1: thought was great because she was like, you know, oh

522
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 1: yeah back in your day, and I'm like, whatever, dude,

523
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 1: it ended up being like.

524
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 3: Just a disaster. So yeah, when you said DVR, its

525
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,159
Speaker 3: just triggered me because I'm like, oh yeah, I mean,

526
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 3: what is it called? These days?

527
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 4: You can't even get yours on YouTube, Like there's no one.

528
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think they made mine

529
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 1: into it. But I mean, I don't know.

530
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 3: I don't know what happened there.

531
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 2: I don't think so either. I'll get a clip from

532
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 2: someone now and then, but I feel like it's like

533
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 2: from Hulu or something. Yeah, that's funny, something like that.

534
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 3: Somebody said they replayed my season not too long ago

535
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:06,360
Speaker 3: on Hulu.

536
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, but it doesn't live there, like you can't

537
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 1: go there whatever you want to watch it.

538
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 3: It's like, you know, appointment viewing.

539
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: I think, right right, like in the communities down near

540
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 1: Miami that are for the elderly folk, you know, like

541
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 1: shuffle boards and oh crowd, you know, that's appointment viewing.

542
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 4: I'm going to move up to Boca for that though.

543
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 2: There you go there, you go, what grades are the

544
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: kids in?

545
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 4: They just started third and first?

546
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 2: Oh so you got to you got a while before

547
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 2: they're out of school.

548
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 4: Yeah. Oh yeah. Their school only goes up to fifth grade,

549
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 4: so they'll have to change schools going to middle school.

550
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,679
Speaker 4: But yeah, you know, I actually brought up to me

551
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 4: the other day for the first time, would I ever

552
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,439
Speaker 4: consider moving a little bit further north in Florida, like

553
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 4: up to you know, for Lauderdale, Boca del Rey. And

554
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 4: you know, it's something that we've started talking about. Not

555
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 4: that we have to move together, but no, that's an

556
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 4: hour commute each direction. Yeah, we were both open to

557
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 4: doing it, that maybe we would do it just to

558
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 4: you know, get the kids in a little bit better

559
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,399
Speaker 4: of a school and a different quality, different cost of

560
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 4: living up there. And so we'll see. Right now, we're

561
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 4: sticking to stay in put, and.

562
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 2: Your job is pretty secure. Like, didn't you just start

563
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 2: I feel like you just posted too. Didn't you just

564
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 2: start a new project?

565
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:31,360
Speaker 3: Oh?

566
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, but but my I do so I do real

567
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 4: estate development in every different phase of a development. This

568
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,479
Speaker 4: just happens to be one that we broke ground on

569
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 4: for the first time in a while.

570
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 2: Oh got it.

571
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 4: That's down in Miami. So yeah, I would have to

572
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 4: come down to Miami to service some of my clients

573
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 4: and some of my projects down here. But you know,

574
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,199
Speaker 4: people commute like Bocus as far north as I would go.

575
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 4: But we just started talking about it. Who knows that

576
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 4: it's going to happen.

577
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember back in the show.

578
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 1: You were construction management back then as well, so you yes,

579
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 1: I stayed in that world, huh.

580
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 2: I have.

581
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 4: I flip flopped back and forth between the construction and

582
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 4: the development side for for a while, and then I've

583
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 4: just been on the development side for I don't know,

584
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:10,640
Speaker 4: ten twelve years at this point, maybe even more.

585
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 3: Gotta be easier on the on the joints in the moment.

586
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 4: Well, I was never I mean I was never.

587
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 3: Never you were swinging a hammer.

588
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 4: I wasn't swinging a hammer and stolen drywall, you know, plumbing. No,

589
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 4: it was more the management role.

590
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 3: That's good, that's good man.

591
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 4: Yeah.

592
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,239
Speaker 2: So I'm curious to know if the fact that you

593
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 2: were in the public eye do you feel like it

594
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 2: played a part in your divorce at all? No, because

595
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 2: you guys were pretty, i mean really pretty private, like

596
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 2: I don't you weren't constantly on social.

597
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 4: And yeah, yeah, you know, we went back to she

598
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 4: went back to her career, I went back to mind,

599
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 4: and you know, we would do obviously the occasional things,

600
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 4: the promotions. We'd have fun and show the best parts

601
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 4: of life on Instagram like everybody else generally does. Yeah,

602
00:28:58,280 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 4: I'm sure she would say the same thing. But we know,

603
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 4: ever felt any show or public pressure to stay together

604
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 4: or not tell the truth or any of that. It

605
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 4: didn't know, did you guys?

606
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 2: Why Why am I blanking on this? I feel like

607
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 2: we talked about it. Did you go on Celebrity boot

608
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 2: Camp or yes, yes, that's what I thought. I was like,

609
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 2: I feel like we probably talked about it before you

610
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 2: went on, just to say, okay, if you do it,

611
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 2: this is what you need to know going in.

612
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 4: It was a money grab, like it was. Three weeks

613
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 4: it would help, it would help pay off her loans.

614
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 4: Like it was. It was a pure money grab, and

615
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 4: we didn't have any or as seeming we didn't have

616
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 4: any issues at the time, and we didn't even have

617
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 4: We found out we were pregnant with sc while we

618
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 4: were there filming.

619
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 3: Oh no kidding, Oh my gosh, I didn't know that.

620
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, gosh, yeah, it was really fun. Wait did

621
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 4: we find out we were pregnant or we found out No, sorry,

622
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 4: we found out she was a girl when we were there.

623
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 4: Oh god, she knew we were pregnant before we went

624
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,479
Speaker 4: on the show, which I don't think we were supposed

625
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 4: to do and we did.

626
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:03,959
Speaker 2: Whatever. Yeah, so you don't feel like it played like

627
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 2: any no.

628
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 4: No, no, that that had nothing to do with that.

629
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 4: That was pure like, well, if they're going to pay

630
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 4: us this, we probably should just to consider it.

631
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 2: Right, I can't Yeah, well, yeah, any opportunity like that.

632
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 2: That's kind of how we were, even not knowing what

633
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 2: it was going into it. I do feel like it had.

634
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 2: They gave us a lot of great advice, you know.

635
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 2: We came out of it with a couple of friends

636
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 2: and some good advice. But other than that, it was

637
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 2: kind of like.

638
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 3: A vacation us.

639
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 4: They passed the spectrum right, and we were at witty

640
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 4: one end.

641
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 6: Of the spectrum, you know, and then you can imagine

642
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 6: the other end of the spectrum being not us.

643
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 4: So I wouldn't say connected with anybody. And it was

644
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 4: all so fast, like I could I don't remember. I mean,

645
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 4: I couldn't tell you one lesson I learned from it.

646
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, okay, well it's all good ten years.

647
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 4: Ago, eight years ago. I mean it's our really today.

648
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: I say, first thing, it goes as the memory, guys,

649
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 1: it's first thing.

650
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 3: And the eyes it looks blurry in the background for

651
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 3: all I always is okay, just make it sure. JP Man,

652
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 3: thank you so.

653
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: Much for joining us, and thanks for being a part

654
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 1: of us with us, and great to catch up on

655
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: where you're at in life. And I've always just thought

656
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: I remember you and I met years and years ago

657
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: at one of our Buddy Graham Buns things. He was

658
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: doing down and down right in the heart of Manhattan.

659
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,479
Speaker 1: I remember walking away from that thing, going, God, that

660
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: guy is just as awesome as I knew he'd be

661
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: on TV. It was like, you're such assault of the

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00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 1: earth guy. So it's great to hear that you're doing well.

663
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 1: And I love that you and Ashley get along and

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Speaker 1: are doing it right for the kids too.

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00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 3: I think that's so important. So congrats on everything, buddy.

666
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 4: Thanks and you guys are ever in Miami, Trista, did

667
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 4: you get to connect with the Ashley when you were

668
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 4: here or no.

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00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 2: I did it. It was a pretty quick trip and

670
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 2: I tried, but she obviously was working. Yeah, and actually

671
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Speaker 2: I think she might have been traveling. Oh one more question,

672
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 2: have you met have you met her boyfriends?

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Speaker 4: I haven't.

674
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 3: Actually almost got away from this.

675
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 4: We don't have enough time for that. Unfortunately, we're at

676
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Speaker 4: a time. What a shame. No, I haven't met him,

677
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 4: but I hear good things and she's happy and that's

678
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 4: all that matters.

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00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: So okay, well, what a gentleman, and that's geez.

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Speaker 3: We hold these time, these time things, we go hard

681
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Speaker 3: on these.

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00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 4: You should have led with that conversation. I don't know

683
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 4: why you didn't. What a shame.

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Speaker 1: You know. I'd love to have you back on and

685
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: we'll shy to close, but that question.

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00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 4: I'd be happy to And if you guys have ever

687
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 4: gone to Miami, please please let me know.

688
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 3: We will take care of yourself.

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Speaker 2: JP talk by take care.

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Speaker 1: God.

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00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 3: I love that guy. They say that is he is

692
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 3: such assault of the earth guy. I love it.

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00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I totally agree. I remember times in New York

694
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 2: with him too, and and with Ashley, I mean just

695
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 2: getting together. Actually we got together for a Marria boot camp,

696
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 2: like an event that they were doing, and I got

697
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 2: to meet the kids when they were tiny, tiny, and

698
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:11,479
Speaker 2: just just I was heartbroken when they broke up.

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00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: I was too that one for some reason, and I

700
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: mean I had only met them a couple of times,

701
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: but it really affected me. I remember going, oh, they've

702
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: got to be just going through it and you know.

703
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 1: I mean, but you know, I'm glad that they've come

704
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 1: out the other end of it so well. I mean,

705
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: obviously Ashly a few weeks back, she's doing great. JP's

706
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: doing great. Sounds like the kids are doing great.

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00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 3: So you know, there you go.

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00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 2: I mean, I as a parent or a child of divorce,

709
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 2: I feel like everything happens, you know, for a reason,

710
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 2: and I'm I'm proud of them for, you know, being

711
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 2: so great about it with each other, like just making

712
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 2: sure that the kids are their priority. I feel like

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Speaker 2: that's probably what I take away from how they co parent,

714
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 2: Like you said, like the kids are they're everything, So yeah,

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00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 2: I think they sure are important.

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Speaker 3: Family first.

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Speaker 1: Love it alright, you've been listening almost famous to OG's

718
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 1: our podcast.

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Speaker 3: I loved having JP on the show, and she's been

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Speaker 3: Trista and he's been Bob. And we'll see you next time.

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Speaker 2: Bye,