Speaker 1: Hell, I suck at Dating with de Nungler and Jared
Speaker 1: Haven and I heard radio podcast. Hey, everybody, welcome to
Speaker 1: an all new episode of Help I Suck at Dating.
Speaker 1: Jared here with Dawson, Who's sitting in my lap while
Speaker 1: mama's in the other room. That's right. Say hello Dawson. Okay,
Speaker 1: good talk, bro Dean. How the hell are you? Hey?
Speaker 1: Hey Dawson, Uh, good man, how are you good? How
Speaker 1: was your engagement party? I'm so sorry we couldn't make it. Yeah, Um,
Speaker 1: we got a bone to pick with you, Hunter. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I just gotta pick a bone and Jared real quick,
Speaker 1: pick a bone. Engagement party was good. It was beautiful,
Speaker 1: Kalin crushed it. The wedding planners uh and event planners
Speaker 1: all did a really really good job. Um, we were
Speaker 1: just two people short. You know, we budgeted for two
Speaker 1: more people and we didn't have the consumption needed to
Speaker 1: I guess to consume all the things. Even Dawson's getting
Speaker 1: a little upset about it. Good boy, Dawson. Um, he's
Speaker 1: given me for not going to the engagement party. It
Speaker 1: was good on the most few things. You know, let
Speaker 1: me tell you exactly why we can't go. So we
Speaker 1: weren't planning. On the podcast, you were like, do we
Speaker 1: even invite you? And we weren't sure, and I was like,
Speaker 1: we'll invite us, and we probably just won't. That's my
Speaker 1: biggest mistake in life is the biggest mistake was inviting us.
Speaker 1: What happened was so we weren't planning. We're in l
Speaker 1: A later this month for work, so we're like, okay,
Speaker 1: well we can't go back and forth, especially with Dawson.
Speaker 1: It's just impossible. Nick called us like, I don't know
Speaker 1: two weeks ago. I guess two and a half weeks ago,
Speaker 1: about a week and a half before he proposed, and
Speaker 1: he goes, I'm proposing to Natalie and we're having I'm proposing,
Speaker 1: and then we're gonna go back to the house and
Speaker 1: I want people like friends, close friends and family there
Speaker 1: to be like surprised. It's a get together, We're so
Speaker 1: happy for you, blah blah blah blah blah, and in
Speaker 1: his most Nick way, goes, well, I wish I could
Speaker 1: move m Nick. He goes, listen, it would mean a
Speaker 1: lot to me if if you guys just sucked it
Speaker 1: up in game. We're like, how do we like? Because
Speaker 1: all we have because I know that we could probably
Speaker 1: logistically make it work if we just suck it up
Speaker 1: and go. And I was so like, I was like, well,
Speaker 1: if it means that much to you, I was like,
Speaker 1: we'll definitely try. And he's like, well it would mean
Speaker 1: a lot to me if you were there. I'm like,
Speaker 1: all right, cool. So then we're like, okay, how do
Speaker 1: we make this work? And then it was that Thursday,
Speaker 1: January twelve, and your engagement party was Saturday, January and
Speaker 1: it was like, let's see if we can just make it.
Speaker 1: Seeing how we'll be in l A, we should try
Speaker 1: to go to both. The problem came. Your engagement party
Speaker 1: was three to seven on Saturday. There are no flights
Speaker 1: later than about like one or two o'clock out of
Speaker 1: Los Angeles to the East coast because of the time change,
Speaker 1: because if you leave, you're if you leave at two o'clock,
Speaker 1: it's a six about five let's say five and a
Speaker 1: half hours plus three hours, so it's eight and a
Speaker 1: half hours, so you don't get back till about midnight.
Speaker 1: So that's why there's no flights unless we took a
Speaker 1: red eye, but even then we went back till Sunday,
Speaker 1: so we were like, okay, either we fly go to
Speaker 1: Nick fly on Thursday, fly out Friday because her parents
Speaker 1: have to watch Dawson, and we felt terrible leaving him
Speaker 1: there for three nights compared to one night, because it's
Speaker 1: it's much easier. Been like, listen, we're just gonna drop
Speaker 1: him off for one night. We'll be back tomorrow. I
Speaker 1: just gotta get through this one night because he's not
Speaker 1: sleeping through the night. You know, he's still a lot
Speaker 1: and they're in their sixties. I don't want to put
Speaker 1: too much on him, and they've watched him so much.
Speaker 1: I know she doesn't give a crap. I give a
Speaker 1: crap because I feel terrible because I feel like I'm
Speaker 1: pawning off my kid to someone, you know, and I
Speaker 1: always feel bad about that. See Hunter, there we go.
Speaker 1: So long story short, it was like we either go
Speaker 1: for just Thursday, go to Nick's and then come directly back,
Speaker 1: or we do Thursday, Friday, Saturday, come back on Sunday,
Speaker 1: which means they'd have Dawson for four days, three nights.
Speaker 1: And it was just like, let's just go for the
Speaker 1: one night. Dean will hate us, but like we know that,
Speaker 1: like the way Nick phrase did it, and we just
Speaker 1: knew how much it would mean to Nick if we
Speaker 1: were there, and it was like, we just gotta go,
Speaker 1: we gotta go. And then of course when we were there,
Speaker 1: we're glad we went because he saw it. Like as
Speaker 1: soon as he walked in, he came up to us,
Speaker 1: gave us like a big hug and kiss and was like,
Speaker 1: I can't tell you how much it means that we're
Speaker 1: you guys are here. And I was like, well, god,
Speaker 1: damn it, there we go. Plus yours is an engagement party.
Speaker 1: His was like the proposal. So I was like, it's
Speaker 1: kind of like a wedding almost. I don't know what
Speaker 1: to do. So we had a lot of back and
Speaker 1: forth that it was not easy. We wanted to go
Speaker 1: to the gage of party and we're so sorry and
Speaker 1: we suck. It's cool, man, I just you know, now
Speaker 1: I see where I rank in your friendship between here
Speaker 1: we go, here we go. It is what it is.
Speaker 1: It's okay. It's just, you know, just a little sad
Speaker 1: to you know, so you always know in the back
Speaker 1: of your head, but it's always just a little saddening
Speaker 1: to really see it. This is not if you if
Speaker 1: you called if it was the compete opposite. And Nick
Speaker 1: was like, hey, we have an engagement party. If you
Speaker 1: can make it great. If you can't, like not a
Speaker 1: big deal. And then you called and you were like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm proposing to Kaitlin. We're having like a little get together.
Speaker 1: It would mean a lot to me if you guys
Speaker 1: could really try to suck it up and come. And
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, well, obviously Dean wants us
Speaker 1: there more than Nick does, because Nick's is just like
Speaker 1: get together, which is great and wonderful and fantastic, and
Speaker 1: we want to be there to support because we love
Speaker 1: you guys. But it's like I equated it because a
Speaker 1: couple of years ago, I got invited to Carly and
Speaker 1: Evans wedding and it was the same day as my
Speaker 1: buddy's bachelor party. And I was like, oh no, So
Speaker 1: I was either gonna miss Carlin Evans wedding or I
Speaker 1: was gonna miss his bachelor party. And so I was like, well,
Speaker 1: a wedding takes precedent over a bachelor party because we
Speaker 1: can like go get drinks another time, and I know
Speaker 1: he only has one, but like it's like you just
Speaker 1: gotta pick and choose and it sucks because you love
Speaker 1: them both. And so I went to the wedding, and
Speaker 1: my buddy still has never forgiven me. He was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: a bachelor party you didn't go to, And I'm like, bro,
Speaker 1: I had a wedding and now Carly never known divorced,
Speaker 1: So maybe it was just a big waste of time. Um,
Speaker 1: all right, Well, I'm am gonna hold this over your
Speaker 1: head for the rest of eternity. I am sad that
Speaker 1: you guys didn't make it. I'm especially sad that you
Speaker 1: guys didn't make it and you were in l A
Speaker 1: the same weekend. But I do understand the days. The
Speaker 1: days are long, and you had your b me to
Speaker 1: get back to. It's just those things that's really because
Speaker 1: if it was if it wasn't for dowset, of course
Speaker 1: we would have been there and be like, oh, we'll
Speaker 1: just go and stay for a few nights. But we
Speaker 1: had a baby friendly party, though we had everything a
Speaker 1: baby possibly could need, and you don't you guys would
Speaker 1: know that because you weren't there. So we were not
Speaker 1: going to bring Dawson. That was the thing, because we're
Speaker 1: flying cross country with him later this month, and the
Speaker 1: idea of flying cross country with him in the first place,
Speaker 1: as you can hear in the background, is already like
Speaker 1: just trying to like get mentally prepared for that. And
Speaker 1: the idea of doing it twice in a matter of
Speaker 1: two and a half weeks, Dude, I would have it
Speaker 1: would have taken a lot. Let me tell you it's okay.
Speaker 1: It makes me sad. I'm going to hold it over
Speaker 1: the head for your head. I'm sorry, dude. We love
Speaker 1: you guys, and like, God, damnit, I don't want to
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear this ban during I don't
Speaker 1: want to hear it. I do want to say, though,
Speaker 1: I do feel bad because we have had our co
Speaker 1: host sitting in the wings this entire time, as we've
Speaker 1: been airing out our dirty laundry with each other. Um,
Speaker 1: you guys know her from I know you from the
Speaker 1: Last Bachelor and Paradise Bachelor Paradise Ses eight. I think
Speaker 1: it was right. Her name is and I hope I
Speaker 1: say the last name right. Hunter Hag, Hag, big hunter Hag.
Speaker 1: It's definitely better than Hag. You know, you can never know.
Speaker 1: Last names are weird these days not these days are
Speaker 1: always been weird, but especially living in the South. People
Speaker 1: don't even say my first name, right, so it's always
Speaker 1: Hunter Hag. What a lovely name, Hunter Hag. How did
Speaker 1: you say your first name? It's they say Hunter with
Speaker 1: no T Hunter. Oh, you were on Hunter. You were
Speaker 1: on Clayton season and then you were on Batchel and
Speaker 1: Paraday season eight. Briefly, Yes, most famously known for ibs,
Speaker 1: right that. Yeah, that seems to be the case. Maybe're
Speaker 1: not most famously, but that's what I remember. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: love that for me. Kicked off the whole season sitting
Speaker 1: on the toilet, so that was that was a good
Speaker 1: moment for me. But you wonder why I like it
Speaker 1: so much because, for the first time on reality television
Speaker 1: in my experience, I gotta watch people talk about poop
Speaker 1: in the way that like, you know, people talk about
Speaker 1: it regularly, but you never talked about it on television.
Speaker 1: So it was nice to see. It was refreshing. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's definitely a way to to look at it. Definitely
Speaker 1: the bright side of it, for sure. So but yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm super super open with ibs. You kind of have
Speaker 1: to be if you have it, you know, like you're
Speaker 1: gonna eventually have to be like y'all, I gotta excuse
Speaker 1: myself real quick, so you just gotta put it out
Speaker 1: there and then nobody, you know, it's kind of like, oh,
Speaker 1: what's what's happening. What I tell usually is anytime she knows,
Speaker 1: like if I say, hey, I got into the bathroom,
Speaker 1: that means I have to pay. And if I say hey,
Speaker 1: I have to use the restroom, she knows that's a poop.
Speaker 1: That's like my telltale sign. I don't know why I started.
Speaker 1: She called me out at one time. She's like, you know,
Speaker 1: every time you say you say you have to use
Speaker 1: the restroom, it's poop, and every time you say you
Speaker 1: have to use the bathroom p And I'm like, I
Speaker 1: think that would be opposite because I have to use
Speaker 1: the restroom so proper, so proper for you. That's interesting, Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh it's I think probably Dean can attest this like
Speaker 1: as a guy, poop time is like very um, it's important,
Speaker 1: it's it's it is sacred, like it is the time
Speaker 1: where I closed the door. I literally most of the
Speaker 1: time when I have to go go to the restroom,
Speaker 1: I'll close the door and there'll be an audible like
Speaker 1: and then I do my thing, and it's like a
Speaker 1: great minutes. Not the sigh, not to sigh. I've got
Speaker 1: a question for you, how much do you hate talking
Speaker 1: about this? On a scale of one to ten, I
Speaker 1: think I've only got a five. You know, like you're
Speaker 1: used to it. You don't like it, but you're you
Speaker 1: are okay used to it. It's kind of my personality now.
Speaker 1: So was it But is that from the show that
Speaker 1: that became a thing or was it like amongst your
Speaker 1: friend group? Everyone? I don't know. So my friends knew
Speaker 1: about it. I was diagnosed when I was like seven
Speaker 1: years old, so this has been something that everybody knows about.
Speaker 1: But I did not talk about it to the extent
Speaker 1: in which I did on the show. But because if
Speaker 1: you rewind back to Clayton's season, we were in Toronto
Speaker 1: and we did um a roast and Marlena had roasted
Speaker 1: me about how IBS matches my personality. So I guess
Speaker 1: it's a pretty good roast. It was good. It was
Speaker 1: pretty good. Yeah, yeah, no, it was definitely good. I
Speaker 1: got a lot of good roasts that day, so against me,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, oh. I feel like if I was in
Speaker 1: a roast people would crush me. It would not be
Speaker 1: a good day for me. Yeah, I think there's a
Speaker 1: lot of roast about me. Yeah. I can definitely roast
Speaker 1: a bunch of things about you, Jared, Like how you
Speaker 1: come to your friends engagement party, but you fly out
Speaker 1: all of your other friends engagement Okay, cool. So so
Speaker 1: we want to talk about ibs anymore, Hunter, just for
Speaker 1: your own sanity, UM, I want to know how did
Speaker 1: you How did you get on the show in the
Speaker 1: first place? I was okay. So, actually, to back it
Speaker 1: up a little bit, I was a character performer at
Speaker 1: Walt Disney World, and I had already thought about potentially
Speaker 1: applying for the show at one point because I was
Speaker 1: in a relationship for seven years I was cheated on,
Speaker 1: and then I was like, oh, what if I go
Speaker 1: and find love on The Bachelor? Um? Which is funny
Speaker 1: because I didn't even watch the show up until Colton
Speaker 1: season of The Bachelor, UM, and that's the only season
Speaker 1: I really watched. So after COVID happened, I was laid
Speaker 1: off from Disney and all my friends were with me
Speaker 1: and they were like, we're all going to nominate you
Speaker 1: to go on The Bachelor because now you don't have
Speaker 1: that conflict of interest. I couldn't work at Disney and
Speaker 1: go on The Bachelor, So um, yeah, they took it
Speaker 1: upon themselves to nominate me, and I got a call
Speaker 1: I think, I want to say it was like March
Speaker 1: or April. It was months after the fact, and I
Speaker 1: almost in the answer. I don't usually answer random vote calls,
Speaker 1: but I did and they were like, hey, this is
Speaker 1: so suffer Bachelor casting. It was like, are you serious?
Speaker 1: Like this is actually like somebody actually reached out to me.
Speaker 1: This is crazy. But yeah, so that's how I ended
Speaker 1: up on the show. Yeah. I just kept getting through
Speaker 1: each round and I was like, how was this happened?
Speaker 1: How am I still around? Every single time? I was like,
Speaker 1: oh I blew that. But yeah, somehow that's gonna have
Speaker 1: one for me too. I feel like, I was like,
Speaker 1: I can't believe they still want to continue on with me,
Speaker 1: But here we are. Um, Jared, if you had to
Speaker 1: guess what character Hunter would play at a Disney Park, well,
Speaker 1: unfortunately I already know this because it was it was
Speaker 1: in the Rundown you were Bell. I was yes, that
Speaker 1: was another one. Though you were Bell. I would pick
Speaker 1: you more as a Cinderella because you have blonde hair.
Speaker 1: We wear wigs. We were awaked in colored contacts, so
Speaker 1: I was Bell from Beating the Beast and then Rapunzel
Speaker 1: from Tangled, so I were obviously a very long wig
Speaker 1: for a Punzel and green colored contacts. Did you have
Speaker 1: to do you have to sing while working at Disney
Speaker 1: playing Bell? No? God, no, no, I'm not a singer. Um.
Speaker 1: You did have to improv and act and do all
Speaker 1: these things. You had to use her voice and have
Speaker 1: her mannerisms. You'd go through this extensive character training, um
Speaker 1: and basically learn how to be that character through and through.
Speaker 1: So that's all I did. But I did Uh the
Speaker 1: Castle Show, and I was a Punzel on that and
Speaker 1: we with lip sing. Mhm h. So what is it?
Speaker 1: Is there any secrets of working at Disney? Are there
Speaker 1: tons of them? What do you want to know? Everything? Tunnel?
Speaker 1: So there isn't. So I have heard that the characters
Speaker 1: have to use these underground tunnels and you are only
Speaker 1: allowed to be out of character when you're not being
Speaker 1: seen by anybody, which is why you guys go in
Speaker 1: these tunnels because you don't want to be walking out
Speaker 1: of the park as Bell. Like not that you smoke,
Speaker 1: but like I envisioned like these workers just like smoking
Speaker 1: a cigarette and telling everybody to go straight to hell
Speaker 1: if a kid runs out to them because they're trying
Speaker 1: to get to the car and go get a drink. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so we actually have a full transportation system that gets
Speaker 1: us to m from the parking lot, the cast parking
Speaker 1: lot to the tunnels of Magic Kingdom, and so you're
Speaker 1: underground the entire time up until you go on what
Speaker 1: we say on stage um, and that's where any employee
Speaker 1: that works there because they don't want to see somebody
Speaker 1: from tomorrow Land over in frontier Land because it disrupts
Speaker 1: the whole idea of what Walt Disney had with everything
Speaker 1: being separate and being in this like alter universe. So yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not just character performers. But when we're downstairs in
Speaker 1: the tunnel, um, and it's very it's huge, it's huge.
Speaker 1: We have like a subway down there. We have it's
Speaker 1: called the mousk Tyria, so we can like go eat there. Um,
Speaker 1: their vehicles that drive through there. So it's very large.
Speaker 1: But um, yeah, we stayed on there until we go
Speaker 1: up and then we can do meet and greets or
Speaker 1: shows and then yeah, you can't break character ever, ever, ever, ever,
Speaker 1: Like even if something crazy happens in front of you,
Speaker 1: like I saw this man tackle somebody else in front
Speaker 1: of me, and I just had to be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I need to go see Lumier. No way, You're like
Speaker 1: gotta go. That's pretty funny. I have a couple of
Speaker 1: friends who also were perfor performers, I guess for Disney.
Speaker 1: They played like silver Mist and the other one was Mulan.
Speaker 1: So they always raved about how like transformative it was.
Speaker 1: It's it's so interesting to hear because they like absolutely
Speaker 1: like they love their jobs, you know, and like then
Speaker 1: they would get like these full time jobs where they
Speaker 1: would like, you know, their careers, but then they would
Speaker 1: still come back and do this occasionally and like just
Speaker 1: rave about it and it's crazy like the culture that
Speaker 1: they're able to create. Yeah. Yeah, I actually did that too.
Speaker 1: I moved back to Charlotte, North Carolina and started my
Speaker 1: job in HR and was still going seasonal, so I
Speaker 1: would spend my vacation time for my corporate job to
Speaker 1: then go back to Disney World and that's crazy there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's pretty cool. Do you still do that or no? No?
Speaker 1: Because I was laid off and Honestly, I'm getting a
Speaker 1: little up there. You know, I just turned thirty, so oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're so old, get the hell out of here. Well,
Speaker 1: when you're portraying a character that's like seventeen years old, like,
Speaker 1: which is crazy. When you think about these Disney characters,
Speaker 1: they're all like I think Jasmine is like fourteen, and
Speaker 1: Aladdin it's something cookie crazy like that. Yeah, I want
Speaker 1: to say, she's sixteen, snow White, sport teen, um. But
Speaker 1: then like Els and on and the ones that are
Speaker 1: more recent, they're getting older, so there as they well
Speaker 1: should yeah, exactly. Creepy. Yeah, it's very weird. It's very weird.
Speaker 1: They're because I always envisioned like all these princesses like
Speaker 1: in their twenties, That's what I always imagine. But as
Speaker 1: I get older and then you hear these stories of
Speaker 1: like no, like you said, snow wait it's fifteen or whatever,
Speaker 1: and Jasmine sixteen, and you're like, wait a minute, so
Speaker 1: you're telling me Jaffar, this creepy, creepy old man was
Speaker 1: hitting on a sixteen year old and wanted to marry her,
Speaker 1: and he in return seduced him. It's it's very weird.
Speaker 1: It's very weird really, just like makes you feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: So another secret that I've heard from Disney, and I
Speaker 1: don't know if it's true or not, and I don't
Speaker 1: even know if you would have knowledge of this, but
Speaker 1: I've heard that there is a cat farm that Disney has.
Speaker 1: Have you heard of this? A cat farm? A cat
Speaker 1: farm where Disney. So this is the story that I've
Speaker 1: heard that there's potentially a cat farm that Disney owns
Speaker 1: where they raise these cats, and these cats are trained
Speaker 1: to go into the park at night and kill all
Speaker 1: the mice that are in the Disney park because obviously
Speaker 1: there is I would imagine some sort of infestation of
Speaker 1: mice throughout the Disney parks because think of how much
Speaker 1: food there is on the ground, Like, how could there
Speaker 1: not be mice that get in there and try this food.
Speaker 1: So I've heard that Disney, in trying to counteract this
Speaker 1: raise these cats, bred these cats and their sole purpose
Speaker 1: was to be trained to go into the park after hours,
Speaker 1: kill all the mice, and come back at sunrise before
Speaker 1: the park opens. Do you have any knowledge of this?
Speaker 1: I have heard this, and that is not true, because
Speaker 1: we would do overnight. I know we would do overnight
Speaker 1: rehearsals when the park is closed for you know, just
Speaker 1: a couple of hours, and I saw no cats there,
Speaker 1: So that's disappointed because it's so inventive and creative. Maybe
Speaker 1: they don't send the cats out on the nights you
Speaker 1: guys are doing rehearsals. Maybe they maybe they're like super
Speaker 1: super secret. Yeah, Kitty Cat clan up there with Walt's
Speaker 1: dead body being in the tunnels too, So that's it.
Speaker 1: That's just what it is. Apparently he stored somewhere frozen
Speaker 1: because he said if technology or science advances enough to
Speaker 1: bring him back, he would like to come back. So
Speaker 1: apparently his body's furs. I kind of believe it a
Speaker 1: little bit. Do I believe the location of him, No,
Speaker 1: but I do kind of believe that he was. You know,
Speaker 1: he has a pretty big imagination, so I could see it.
Speaker 1: I could see it. But what is true? This is wild.
Speaker 1: So there is something that we called I think it's
Speaker 1: code Grandpa, could Grandma something like that. Um. A lot
Speaker 1: of people will bring UH their loved ones ashes and
Speaker 1: try to spread them. Yes, Sarks and UH specifically on
Speaker 1: Haunted Mansions ride a lot, so they have to stop
Speaker 1: the ride and go clean up the ashes, because ashes
Speaker 1: apparently glow in the dark. So how can ashes glow
Speaker 1: in the dark? Is that some sort of Disney technology? Honestly,
Speaker 1: don't quote me on that because it might sound really stupid,
Speaker 1: but that's what I heard. That's what I heard, Disney technology.
Speaker 1: Chairs Well, like, how could ashes glow in the dark
Speaker 1: unless you're using some sort of like specific black light
Speaker 1: to show that all this is? But even like, will
Speaker 1: a black light show ashes of human being? I thought
Speaker 1: a black light was more of it? Does? I think
Speaker 1: it does? Yeah, that's what I told because like, okay,
Speaker 1: not to like go down like a a disgusting path,
Speaker 1: but obviously when I think of a black light of
Speaker 1: people using a black light, I think I think of
Speaker 1: like these TV shows that used for like either blood
Speaker 1: or semen, you know, like all these stains I've never
Speaker 1: thought of being able to do exactly, not like human particles. Yeah. Uh, well,
Speaker 1: I know that's true because I know for a fact
Speaker 1: that a family member of mine who passed away, she
Speaker 1: spread It's like my aunt, she spread her husband's ashes
Speaker 1: in Disney somewhere I don't remember where, not on a ride,
Speaker 1: like in water somewhere. Okay, at Disney. Well, hey, so
Speaker 1: she was a big Disney fan. They were there, it
Speaker 1: was like their place that they'd always go to. So
Speaker 1: that's why he said he wanted his ashes spread over Disney.
Speaker 1: Well that I mean, I support it. I supported High
Speaker 1: Mansion is a little bit weird, but uh, definitely support it.
Speaker 1: It would be weird to be on a ride and
Speaker 1: he's got a face full of cremated remains, could you imagine?
Speaker 1: And you probably wouldn't even know. You'd be like, well
Speaker 1: that just like brush it off and you still have
Speaker 1: remains on your face. So I'm looking up more Disney
Speaker 1: rumors and these are fascinating, and I need to know
Speaker 1: if you've heard of any of these. Okay, ready, I'll
Speaker 1: shoot him off. Okay, let's go. If you shout Andy's
Speaker 1: coming in the Toy story Land, all the characters will freeze.
Speaker 1: That used to be true. Um, they used to because
Speaker 1: you said Andy's coming. That had to pretend like they
Speaker 1: were toys. That's actually not um allowed anymore because we're
Speaker 1: actually not supposed to get on the ground at all.
Speaker 1: If you're in what's called a sculptural character, um, like
Speaker 1: I was Chippendale, and you have to like on top
Speaker 1: of Big Princess. That's what you're trained in first, so
Speaker 1: you're not allowed to eat in them, you're not allowed
Speaker 1: to get on the ground. So yeah, no false now,
Speaker 1: But there's a secret hidden sweet in the Cinderella Castle.
Speaker 1: Sure what. Yeah, I don't think it's that secret, but
Speaker 1: I will say it's like it's booked out years and
Speaker 1: years and years and years, and it's typically only for
Speaker 1: celebrities or if you win some type of gameaway. I
Speaker 1: gotta tried to booked this. I mean, I'm not a
Speaker 1: celebrity and I don't probably have that kind of money.
Speaker 1: But we can figure this out. You can't go more
Speaker 1: than thirty steps between trash cans. Correct, Wow, dude, this
Speaker 1: is the best. Those are the best. Those are the
Speaker 1: big ones right there. Yeah, dude, Like, I just I
Speaker 1: love Disney. I'm always like enamored by Disney and what
Speaker 1: they're able to pull off, and like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I know they're like a lot of people hate on
Speaker 1: Diszer right now for world things, But I don't know.
Speaker 1: Big Disney guy. Not gonna lie, Big Disney guy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, I do. I do love I do love Disney.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people think that I'm a
Speaker 1: Disney Adult because I worked there, and I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be a character performer, which there's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong to big at Disney Adult. But so, yeah,
Speaker 1: how did you become a character performer? Like? Did you
Speaker 1: apply for this? Did you want to? Were you in acting? Uh? No, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: not an actress at all. But I went to Disney
Speaker 1: when I was younger and one of the characters, which
Speaker 1: now I know this was really against character integrity. But
Speaker 1: she said that I looked like Belle and I should
Speaker 1: come back when I'm older, which is actually true. It
Speaker 1: looks like Bell at the time could have been my
Speaker 1: older sister or my mother because I was like nine
Speaker 1: or so nine and eleven, and um yeah, so that's
Speaker 1: stuck in my head and I was like, I gotta
Speaker 1: do it. I just have to. And that was kind
Speaker 1: of a vacation spot for my family and me. So
Speaker 1: what character told you this? Aurora Sleeping Beauty? Oh wow?
Speaker 1: So like this woman who played Sleeping Beauty has no
Speaker 1: idea how much of an impact she had on your life.
Speaker 1: Oh she does. Now we found each other. Why can't
Speaker 1: you find each other? She was still working at Disney
Speaker 1: uh no, no, no, no. But I found the bell
Speaker 1: that I met that day, and I found the Aurora
Speaker 1: um and we found each other because we have a
Speaker 1: secret princess group. Dude, I've loved Disney so much. I
Speaker 1: sounds so weird right now, you don't. This is like
Speaker 1: the coolest podcast we've ever done. But yeah, so we
Speaker 1: found each other. It's really cool. And it includes like
Speaker 1: anybody that was a princess like however long ago. It
Speaker 1: includes people on Disney Cruise Line, uh, Tokyo, Disney Shanghai.
Speaker 1: So have you talked to Tinley because Tinley was a
Speaker 1: Disney princess Tinley from Bachelor. I don't know if remember
Speaker 1: she was um Tinley? Oh she's married now most mostly
Speaker 1: do you know anything about this? No? I actually don't.
Speaker 1: But Susie was also a Disney princess Evans. That makes sense.
Speaker 1: I gotta ask, though, So how did you reach out
Speaker 1: to the group asking that question about if that person
Speaker 1: was there, the person that inspired you? So I had
Speaker 1: a picture with her, Um, So I pulled those from
Speaker 1: the archives of my family's printed photos and take a
Speaker 1: picture of it, and I said, does anybody know this Aroora?
Speaker 1: Because she changed my life. That's so sweet and yeah,
Speaker 1: it was really cool. So I'm gonna hold up a
Speaker 1: picture of Tinley any recognization do you recognize? I don't,
Speaker 1: but character she was she looks like she was a
Speaker 1: little mermaid. Oh she was an area but she was aerial. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think she was aerial in Japan though, so okay,
Speaker 1: so she probably did a lot of characters. Would you
Speaker 1: do it? Um? When your character performer in Japan you
Speaker 1: get a whole string at characters is super cool. I
Speaker 1: only got to do too here in Florida. So when
Speaker 1: you see pictures of people with other princesses, do you
Speaker 1: ever think that it might be you? Because that's like
Speaker 1: you said, you took this picture with Um, which which
Speaker 1: princess was it? Again? Aurora? Aurora? Right? Okay, so but now, like,
Speaker 1: how does that Aurora know that it was them? Because
Speaker 1: I imagine when your hair is up in the in
Speaker 1: the wig and you got all the makeup on, not
Speaker 1: the same, but like close enough to where now it is.
Speaker 1: It's honestly kind of hard. Sometimes. I actually took a
Speaker 1: screenshot of a picture that I thought was me for
Speaker 1: the longest time, and somebody was a country that's actually
Speaker 1: not you and the slightest and it was like, oh
Speaker 1: good thing, I didn't post that on my Yeah, but
Speaker 1: but I feel like you can pretty much tell. I
Speaker 1: mean I still looked the same, but just different, I guess.
Speaker 1: But I mean we are casted to look the same,
Speaker 1: so it's very possible that you would sometimes be like, oh,
Speaker 1: is is that me? Or is that my friend Lacey?
Speaker 1: Or is that my friend Stacy? Like you don't know,
Speaker 1: there's a Lacy and Stacy. Yea. It's the same with
Speaker 1: my brothers. I feel like I'll go through like old
Speaker 1: photo albums and I'll be like, is that me? Or
Speaker 1: is that ross? Because I absolutely yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Yeah exactly, I'm trying to pull up like
Speaker 1: this is me as Bell? Can you see that? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: you're unrecognizable that it looks like like a clip from Belle?
Speaker 1: Like yeah, very legitimate. And then I have for Punzel
Speaker 1: very nice. Which one did you prefer? Did you like
Speaker 1: one more than the other? Bell A thousand percent? Rapunzel.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys have ever seen Tangled.
Speaker 1: It's actually a really good movie. But Rapunzel is super
Speaker 1: excitable and just like crazy energy and always just like happy.
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know, that's not so bad, um,
Speaker 1: and I just am not that excitable um to her level.
Speaker 1: So it was exhausting being Rapunzel, whereas for Bell it
Speaker 1: was a lot more just like Lax, and people were
Speaker 1: a lot more respectful at Bell for whatever reason. I
Speaker 1: think because she wears a big dress, so people understood
Speaker 1: um like spatial awareness a little bit more. Uh so
Speaker 1: other because Rapunzel she has like nothing, It's literally just
Speaker 1: a straight dress, so people get all over you and
Speaker 1: pull on her hair and all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 1: So definitely like that better. Well you're you're I'm sure
Speaker 1: in thirty years you're gonna get a picture from a
Speaker 1: kid and say, hey, you inspired me to do this.
Speaker 1: Maybe not. That would be amazing if I did mission accomplished. Um.
Speaker 1: All right, I want to pivot real quick away from
Speaker 1: Disney and Princesses. Although that was very illuminating. Thank you
Speaker 1: very much for sharing all that with us. Um. I
Speaker 1: want to talk about your time on Paradise. So we
Speaker 1: saw you this past season season eight Paradise, and I
Speaker 1: just want to hear about your experience on the beach
Speaker 1: down there because I'll tell you I'll tell you my
Speaker 1: first impressions. Um I I didn't. I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: think I watched Clayton's season, to be honest, but I
Speaker 1: watched Paradise and the Full because you were part of
Speaker 1: the first group of people, right, yes, And I honestly
Speaker 1: was like, I think the only person that I would
Speaker 1: get along with down there guys or girls would be Hunter.
Speaker 1: Really yea, And that's why I was so sad when
Speaker 1: you left so early, because I was like, that's like
Speaker 1: the one person that I like was kind of getting
Speaker 1: along with here, you know. Yeah, No, I was sad too,
Speaker 1: for sure. It was super short lived. I was like
Speaker 1: ready to go to I was like, man, this is
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna wear all my day, and like this
Speaker 1: is what I want to do here and there. But yeah, no,
Speaker 1: um I I still had a good experience just because
Speaker 1: I was with my friends. And I mean, as you
Speaker 1: guys know, that's pretty much the best part of everything,
Speaker 1: um is being able to spend time with with the
Speaker 1: people that you love. But um, yeah, I walked down
Speaker 1: I I was immediately drawn to Johnny because he wasn't
Speaker 1: really talking to anybody, not really giving people the time
Speaker 1: of day. So of course knowing me, I'm like, oh perfect, Um,
Speaker 1: go after the one that doesn't want to be here,
Speaker 1: you have like red flags? Oh perfect with me. Um.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I started talking to him and we just
Speaker 1: had great conversation and just kind of hit it off. Um,
Speaker 1: and I really was comfortable with our relationship. I mean
Speaker 1: you even see me talking about it, like, you know,
Speaker 1: Victoria came in and kind of swept him away very
Speaker 1: very last minute. We're talking like super super last minute
Speaker 1: right before the Rose ceremony, and um, I even still
Speaker 1: had a little bit of confidence that I was like,
Speaker 1: you know, Victoria Fuller is something else. She's your like
Speaker 1: some serious, she's beautiful, has a great personality. But I
Speaker 1: was like, but I've been talking to Johnny for the
Speaker 1: past week and I feel like we have a strong connection.
Speaker 1: So I was definitely blindsided. And that was the part
Speaker 1: that was most upsetting to me, just because I didn't
Speaker 1: even get to have a conversation with him about it.
Speaker 1: M I'm sorry, Yeah, it's okay, But I mean I
Speaker 1: had high hopes for it, and I was ready to
Speaker 1: find somebody. But was there anybody that you were hoping
Speaker 1: either that was there that you wanted to talk to
Speaker 1: or somebody that you're hoping would have been there that
Speaker 1: wasn't there when you were there. Um. So I was
Speaker 1: hoping that I would get to meet Rick. Um a
Speaker 1: lot of Rick Leach. I think it's looking him up
Speaker 1: right now. I remember Rick. He's kind of like an older,
Speaker 1: good looking guy, right. I don't know how old it is,
Speaker 1: maybe not older, but you really don't know much about Yeah.
Speaker 1: I didn't really do like a lot of like studying
Speaker 1: going into Paradise because I really wanted a fresh slate
Speaker 1: with everybody. And that's why I was mostly excited to
Speaker 1: meet Rachel and Gabby's guys. Um, which is kind of
Speaker 1: weird because I'm really good friends with Rachel and Gabby.
Speaker 1: So it's like, this is gonna it's gonna be a
Speaker 1: little strange, like taking in taking in their guysfriends. Yeah, exactly. Um,
Speaker 1: but those are definitely the people I was most excited about,
Speaker 1: because I just didn't have any idea who they were
Speaker 1: anything about them. But there were other people there that
Speaker 1: I wanted to meet, like Justin Glaze, Um, So I
Speaker 1: was excited to see him there, um, but he was
Speaker 1: already coupled up with Genevieve by the time that I
Speaker 1: even walked down on the beach. I think I was
Speaker 1: one of the last girls to walk down the beach. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: have you reached anyone post filming that you had interest in, like,
Speaker 1: like you said Rick, right, have you reached out to
Speaker 1: him at all and said anything? Um? I just had
Speaker 1: reached I. I did a little d m um and
Speaker 1: had said that I wish that I had gotten to
Speaker 1: meet him, but nothing like really passed that. Um. And
Speaker 1: I've spoken to Johnny since, but that was the first
Speaker 1: time that I had got an apology from him. Not
Speaker 1: know that. I not that I was like, you need
Speaker 1: to apologize to me or anything like that. Um, but
Speaker 1: I think he just kind of felt a little bad
Speaker 1: for the whole blind siding situation. Yeah, so he was
Speaker 1: somebody I talked to. Anybody that was first on the
Speaker 1: beach I've been in contact with and still because I
Speaker 1: was at the reunion too, so I was able to
Speaker 1: see everybody there. So this guy Rick Leech, I remember
Speaker 1: him very good looking. He does look a little bit
Speaker 1: like he would be a villain in a heist movie, Like,
Speaker 1: tell me that guy isn't like he looks like the
Speaker 1: guy would be a part of like the Bad Guy
Speaker 1: Crew like Oceans eleven, but he would be the bad
Speaker 1: guy in the Bad Guy Crew, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like I like root against him. It looks like in
Speaker 1: a spin off of one of those movies he would
Speaker 1: play the John ham Roll. Yeah, because I can see that.
Speaker 1: It's like he kind of looks like John Hammy a
Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah. Uh. But he's a very good looking
Speaker 1: Justin So I like Justin a lot. So I think
Speaker 1: he's he's like very um, he's kind of like self
Speaker 1: deprecating and down to earth, and you seem the same
Speaker 1: way Hunter, So I'm I would love love if that was, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: if you guys just like hung out, Yeah, that would be,
Speaker 1: wasn't he Yeah? Yeah, So him and Andrew came to Audrey's,
Speaker 1: which was so nice. By the way, if you would
Speaker 1: like to ever come to audrey we'd love to have you.
Speaker 1: You know, I did go one night and you were Yeah.
Speaker 1: I went with Jill. You were in Rhode Island, Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: and you came to Audrey's. I did. We were there
Speaker 1: for it was like a karaoke night. You came to
Speaker 1: karaoke and I wasn't there. Yes, I forget where you
Speaker 1: guys were though, because I knew we knew that you
Speaker 1: weren't going to be there. But that's probably why you
Speaker 1: want to understandable pointed. I was like, man, I have it, Hunter,
Speaker 1: we could talk about Disney for seven hours like this
Speaker 1: unlimited time. Oh. I would have shut karaoke down and
Speaker 1: been like this is going to turn into a Disney night. Um, oh, Hunter,
Speaker 1: will you definitely need to come back? So your friends
Speaker 1: with Jill, Yes, we're besties. I talked to Jill almost
Speaker 1: every single day. Yeah, okay, well then you definitely have
Speaker 1: to come back because Jill is an amazing human being.
Speaker 1: She just moved to Newport, which is so exciting. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go visit her in Newport. Please let me know
Speaker 1: or let me know. Um, I'll follow you on Instagram
Speaker 1: when you come, and we'd love to like hang out
Speaker 1: in Audrey's and Ashley be there and it will be
Speaker 1: a nice night. Yeah, that'd be awesome. I'm excited. I
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna come when it's a little bit warmer.
Speaker 1: You don't want to come into like the blistering cold,
Speaker 1: when it's single digits and it gets dark at four o'clock. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was already shivering and you guys version of fall.
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know if I can do winter,
Speaker 1: but will be back soon. Charlotte, North Carolina pretty warm here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's always humid though, so you always have a little
Speaker 1: bit of extra extra warmth added. I don't mind humidity.
Speaker 1: I don't understand that people. I I never I've never
Speaker 1: minded humidity. I like it. It makes me feel like
Speaker 1: I'm my skin is clean and I'm I feel healthier
Speaker 1: in humanity because I feel like I'm always sweating, like
Speaker 1: I'm always working out. I don't know, right, Yeah, no, no,
Speaker 1: I love it. Honestly. It feels like a nice, warm hug.
Speaker 1: And everybody in Paradise was dying and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I am thriving right now in this weather. So what's
Speaker 1: your current really ship status? I am talking to somebody. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a situation ship if you will, Okay, anybody we know, anybody, no, nobody,
Speaker 1: you guys know it's probably for the better. Yeah, okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's just good information to have going into a conversation
Speaker 1: about situation or whatever we're about to talk about, you know,
Speaker 1: because you don't want to be going under the veil
Speaker 1: of Hunter being a fully single person when she's in
Speaker 1: a situation ship. Is the situation ship from Jersey Shore
Speaker 1: or is that just like a good question. I think
Speaker 1: it's I I heard it on TikTok okay, because I
Speaker 1: was thinking because the situation Mike the situation and I
Speaker 1: remember him saying on Jersey Shore one time it was
Speaker 1: a situation ship. Oh, I mean that's that's pretty creative.
Speaker 1: It is pretty creative. You know, they're all pretty creative.
Speaker 1: So obviously we are a dating podcast and we haven't
Speaker 1: really talked about dating that much, but we do have
Speaker 1: some quote unquote X that we want to get to,
Speaker 1: which is a hot topic of ours, which on TikTok
Speaker 1: apparently a lot of women have been sharing these biggest
Speaker 1: turn offs a k A. There X. But let's take
Speaker 1: a quick break. When we come back, we'll talk about
Speaker 1: TikTok's X. All right, welcome back to the podcast. We're
Speaker 1: gonna talk about the twenty three X about men that
Speaker 1: apparently no one talks about but are very very unsettling.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get everybody's thoughts, specifically Hunters, because you know,
Speaker 1: you can tell us whether it's an it or not.
Speaker 1: The first one I don't understand. It says chasing, chasing
Speaker 1: a ping pong ball is just never okay for anyone.
Speaker 1: Is this about beer pong? Okay? Yes, And it's so
Speaker 1: funny that you started off with that one, because I
Speaker 1: thought if this was going to be an open ended question,
Speaker 1: that was gonna be my first one. Shut up. So well,
Speaker 1: I'm confused. So you're telling me, yes, you're playing beer
Speaker 1: pong and you can't catch the ball once it like
Speaker 1: bounces on the ground and you're just trying. Yeah, if
Speaker 1: it hits the ground, it's dead. But if it's bouncing
Speaker 1: on the table, you go after that ping pong for sure. No,
Speaker 1: that's that's like the cool, the cool way to grab
Speaker 1: the ball. But if it falls on the ground, you're
Speaker 1: chasing after it. You're like in that bench over position.
Speaker 1: I'm like trying to, you know, enagle the ball. It's
Speaker 1: just a little bit of an egg mhm. So that's
Speaker 1: what it is amouse about being an I I could see.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've definitely been the chaser of a ping
Speaker 1: pong ball and and not felt very cool because of
Speaker 1: the amount of effort I was putting into chasing that
Speaker 1: pink pong ball. So I could see why that would
Speaker 1: be an eck, why do you care so much about
Speaker 1: this meaningless game of beer pong? Yeah, that's kind of
Speaker 1: what it was. I think best practice would just be
Speaker 1: to let it roll and then walk over to it calmly.
Speaker 1: Got it good to right. These are things that we
Speaker 1: need to know because I never thought about it there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: now I think about man. That brings out so many
Speaker 1: insecurities and moments of my life that I look back
Speaker 1: on and I'm like, oh God, she must have found
Speaker 1: me the most unattractive human being as I'm like running
Speaker 1: after a ball that's bouncing, looking like a dog chasing
Speaker 1: a car. I found this at a younger age, which
Speaker 1: I think is pretty fortunate. A lot of people still
Speaker 1: haven't figured it out. Um, A lot of people I
Speaker 1: think that games like that, like beer pong or whatever,
Speaker 1: like a party game, is like be competitive share, but
Speaker 1: a lot of people really think it is like the
Speaker 1: most important thing in the world. And I think that's
Speaker 1: my ick for that as well as when people care
Speaker 1: too much about winning those meaningless games. That's my personal way,
Speaker 1: and that kind of falls any kind of chasing the
Speaker 1: pink pong ball, you know, agreed, So you're not really
Speaker 1: a competitive person. Oh I am, I am, but I
Speaker 1: just don't I even I am, but I just don't
Speaker 1: think losing a game of beer pong is the end
Speaker 1: of the world. Nor am I going to exert a
Speaker 1: maximumount of effort to win. I want to win, and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do my best to win, but I'm not
Speaker 1: going to jump across the table for a ping pong ball,
Speaker 1: you know, fair enough. Let me preface my next statement
Speaker 1: by saying that I feel like Dean and I are
Speaker 1: we would never say that where um, I don't know
Speaker 1: the most suave swag person, you know what I mean? Like,
Speaker 1: we're fine, but I think we both have the self
Speaker 1: awareness to understand that while being competitive, we will never
Speaker 1: be those guys who are playing beer pong with girls
Speaker 1: and being like like screaming like oh fuck, or like,
Speaker 1: you know, being that guy, because we know how much
Speaker 1: of a turn off it is, and we'd rather take
Speaker 1: our competition level down then look unattractive to women. Does
Speaker 1: that make sense? I think we're at least aware enough. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Self awareness. Yeah, that's all I had to say. I
Speaker 1: guess self aware this there we go. Really just self
Speaker 1: awareness is key is what you're saying. What's the opposite
Speaker 1: of a nick? Is there like a term for it?
Speaker 1: Turn off? Like a term? Is it a term for it? Oh? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: sorry I misunderstood there. Yeah, but but for like a slang,
Speaker 1: what would if it's slang for a turn off? Yeah,
Speaker 1: a slank for turn on would be yummy? Yeah, Yummy's
Speaker 1: definitely a nick. And another one is walking back after
Speaker 1: your turn in bowling. Oh yeah, that's not that's not
Speaker 1: a nick. You have to walk back? How else am
Speaker 1: I going to get back to my seat? First of all,
Speaker 1: bowling in itself it will never be a turn on
Speaker 1: for anybody. You have to wear bowling shoes, which is
Speaker 1: disgusting and they look terrible. Plus the act of bowling,
Speaker 1: even if you're good at it, it's kind of like,
Speaker 1: oh you're good at bowling, like congratulations. So there's really
Speaker 1: no win win. Bowling is just meant to be like
Speaker 1: a very dumb ha ha time. We're all having fun,
Speaker 1: we're drinking. Okay, cool, you think about it, like, actually,
Speaker 1: I can't think of a bigger ick than bowling in itself.
Speaker 1: You have to wear bowling shoes that other people wear.
Speaker 1: It usually smells in a bowling alley. The food is
Speaker 1: not good. You're sticking your fingers in three holes in
Speaker 1: a bowling ball that have have had had fingers in
Speaker 1: there all day and night. It's sweaty because the bowling
Speaker 1: ball is heavy, and then you have to knock down pins.
Speaker 1: Everybody's exhausted after one game. Don't get me wrong, I
Speaker 1: love bowling, but I'm not saying that I'm going to
Speaker 1: go to bowling and try to seduce a woman. Mm hmm, No,
Speaker 1: that's fair. I feel like, honestly, it is a little
Speaker 1: bit worse. It's more of an if you're good at
Speaker 1: bowling and use you the whole like sliding of the
Speaker 1: foot at a diagonal behind you. I definitely do that.
Speaker 1: I actually went bowling last week and I am really bad.
Speaker 1: So maybe it's like an ironic slide of the foot
Speaker 1: because I bowled like a sixty. But here I am
Speaker 1: like trying my hardest to look really cool while I
Speaker 1: do it. It's like a performative slide. It really is. Well,
Speaker 1: So this is my issue with bowling is I'm the
Speaker 1: only one. I was the only one there that night.
Speaker 1: There's like eight of us. I was the only one
Speaker 1: that wanted to put spin on the ball, to spin
Speaker 1: it around into the into the slot of the one
Speaker 1: three pin, and everyone else is just like hucking it straight.
Speaker 1: And they were beating me. But my ball pattern was
Speaker 1: way better than there they were. Just mine was like,
Speaker 1: you know, so that's you know, is when people throw
Speaker 1: the ball straight and bowling. So there was a bowling alley.
Speaker 1: There was a bowling alley we used to go to.
Speaker 1: Um it was a lot of fun. They had the
Speaker 1: small bowling balls. But the cool part about it was
Speaker 1: they had a speedometer. So truthfully, it was me and
Speaker 1: like six other guys and we would go and we
Speaker 1: could care less about our score. And it really what
Speaker 1: came down to was like who could throw the bowling
Speaker 1: ball the fastest stuff in the alley? Just go up
Speaker 1: and just I honestly, I would throw up my shoulder
Speaker 1: every single guy, damn time. It was pathetic, but it
Speaker 1: was honestly a lot of fun. Another it is when
Speaker 1: he sings the wrong lyrics so confidently and thinks that
Speaker 1: he's right. Yeah, I mean that's just for anybody. Again.
Speaker 1: All these are like self awareness things like make fun
Speaker 1: of yourself. If you don't know the words, then just like, yeah, whoops,
Speaker 1: see love this song. Have no idea what the hell
Speaker 1: I'm saying? Um, I'm when he jump down on some
Speaker 1: of these because some of these are like these are
Speaker 1: like literally things that just people just do. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: when his laces are done up really tight and the
Speaker 1: bow was massive, that one's pretty funny, I guess. But yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I would never notice that ever. Yeah. Same, And I'm
Speaker 1: a big shoe person, so but that would not strike
Speaker 1: me as something that's an I says him running with
Speaker 1: a backpack on, which is quite funny because I definitely can.
Speaker 1: I just yeah, it's a pathetic look because the backpack
Speaker 1: is like bouncing. You're just like trying to control it,
Speaker 1: and I'll like exactly hold they hear, which means I
Speaker 1: can't run with my arms because I'm holding my backpack.
Speaker 1: It's quite pathetic. Honestly. That's me in an airport a
Speaker 1: lot of the time. So I I myself, what are
Speaker 1: your IX like this guy that you're talking to if
Speaker 1: you were listening to this, what would you want him
Speaker 1: to know that your I is, well, maybe that you
Speaker 1: don't want to know, maybe like a secret secret. Um.
Speaker 1: I can't think of anything that's too creative, because the
Speaker 1: first thing that comes to mind is when somebody's overly
Speaker 1: confidential in general and you're just an egotistical person, I
Speaker 1: just immediately know just not going to happen. Um, the
Speaker 1: ping pong ball was the one that I had ready
Speaker 1: to go in my back pocket. I don't know, do
Speaker 1: you guys have any good ones? What are you guys?
Speaker 1: It's your biggest one, I mean one of the biggest X.
Speaker 1: I guess would be this is more of like that's
Speaker 1: not personal hygiene, but when there's the shower is clogged
Speaker 1: because of hair, Oh, it's like, oh no. I remember
Speaker 1: the first time, and it was just like because then
Speaker 1: I would take tissue paper and like lift the hair
Speaker 1: out because I'd be standing in the shower in a
Speaker 1: puddle of water because the water is in draining because
Speaker 1: your hair goes everywhere and it's clogging the drain, and
Speaker 1: so I have to pick it up and it's just
Speaker 1: like this wet pie of hair that I throw in
Speaker 1: the garbage. And I'm like, that is so disgusting. But
Speaker 1: at the same time, as a man, I'm very aware
Speaker 1: that there will be little hairs all over the sink
Speaker 1: because when I, first of all I clean up very
Speaker 1: thoroughly after I shave, and yet still Ashley was walking
Speaker 1: in the room with like a stink eye. I clean
Speaker 1: up after myself, but yes, there's little hairs because they
Speaker 1: just get everywhere and I'm trying to clean them up.
Speaker 1: I take like a good five minutes of making sure that,
Speaker 1: like I washed my face, everything is down the drain,
Speaker 1: I wipe the whole counter, and then I come back
Speaker 1: and there's still just like little hairs somewhere, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell to do. Yeah, a
Speaker 1: lot of girls also will put their hair on the
Speaker 1: wall of the I'm sorry what they'll put their their
Speaker 1: hair on the wall of the shower. What do you
Speaker 1: mean they put their hair on the wall. If you're
Speaker 1: like distioning or something and you're just getting to the bottom,
Speaker 1: you you shed a lot of hair and you just
Speaker 1: stick it on the wall and then that way it
Speaker 1: doesn't go in the drain. But that's also probably nick
Speaker 1: But then what is it? Does it just sit there
Speaker 1: for a while. If I walked into the shower and
Speaker 1: saw patches of hair on the shower wall, I think
Speaker 1: that would be grounds for divorce and no one would
Speaker 1: blame you. The responsible thing is to take it off
Speaker 1: of the wall, and then there's third in the trash
Speaker 1: can after. But so you do dispose of it, I
Speaker 1: let you just let it sit there for eternity. Um
Speaker 1: I thought of an ick and this I applies to
Speaker 1: men and women as it pertains to me. So when
Speaker 1: I'm driving someone or people and there is the GPS
Speaker 1: on the screen and they tell me when to get
Speaker 1: off and take a turn or which exit to take,
Speaker 1: and it's like, yeah, I know, I see it on
Speaker 1: the maps. That's my That's one of my big eggs.
Speaker 1: I hate when people tell me. I hate when people
Speaker 1: tell me where I should be going when I already
Speaker 1: know where to go. Or another I I'm sure Dean,
Speaker 1: you can relate to this because Ashley will tell me like, oh,
Speaker 1: I know where I'm going, and so she doesn't want
Speaker 1: me to put it in the GPS, but I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's gonna tell me the fastest way to get there.
Speaker 1: And she's like, I know the fastest way and I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: but you don't know the traffic route. So I'm gonna
Speaker 1: put it in. And there's like a good like two
Speaker 1: minute moment of tension where it's like I'm going to
Speaker 1: put it in the GPS and this is what's going
Speaker 1: to happen. And she's just like I know where I'm going,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't doubt this, but what I
Speaker 1: do doubt is that you know the fastest route. I
Speaker 1: don't blieve. True. Every second counts. That didn't remind me actually, Um,
Speaker 1: speaking about cars and driving, UM, one of my big
Speaker 1: X is just driving in general because I just imagine
Speaker 1: this person in this tiny little pod and we're just
Speaker 1: all sitting something about it just freaks me out. I
Speaker 1: don't like it. It just makes me by myself. So
Speaker 1: when you're driving away from somebody, to say, it's the
Speaker 1: person that you're talking to, and you're like, okay, see
Speaker 1: you later. You have to get in there, and you're
Speaker 1: just hold on very well your personal escape. Yeah, a
Speaker 1: little escape pod. I'm probably gonna get for saying this,
Speaker 1: but just women driving in general is like an ick
Speaker 1: to me now that you bring that up, Hunter, And
Speaker 1: I think back upon like my single days when that
Speaker 1: would occur, where like a woman would get in her
Speaker 1: car and I'd get in mine and then I see
Speaker 1: them drive away. There is something about that you're right
Speaker 1: where it's like like these girls would be. There's so
Speaker 1: close to steering wheel and like just like two hands
Speaker 1: on the wheel and it's like very everything is like
Speaker 1: so precise and just like like this driving yeah wow,
Speaker 1: oh my god when shield wiper type turns. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: that's the cool way to drive. So guys are cool
Speaker 1: and girls are not cool, is what you're saying. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not not all girls, because I will say Ashley
Speaker 1: drives together. It's it's not an ick when Ashley drives.
Speaker 1: She's good driver. She's a hot driver because she But
Speaker 1: you're right, man, now that I think about it, like
Speaker 1: just so many times when like there's so why do
Speaker 1: you guys sit so close to the wheel. I guess
Speaker 1: maybe short on short legs. I try to perform my
Speaker 1: hottest driving if I am driving away from a person
Speaker 1: that I am in a relationship with. It's it's something
Speaker 1: I actively think about. It's genius. I I gotta stay
Speaker 1: out of this conversation. Uma is Kalin a close driver?
Speaker 1: She is very close. It's funny. So she has a
Speaker 1: Tesla and there's two driver settings. Kalin's one setting and
Speaker 1: I'm the other setting. And every time I opened the
Speaker 1: driver's side door with my phone, it sets to my setting,
Speaker 1: and every time she opens it with her phone, it
Speaker 1: sets to her setting. The seat like where the seat is,
Speaker 1: and it's just funny. And I sit really far back
Speaker 1: and really leaned back, like more than a normal person should,
Speaker 1: and she sits really far forward. And so every time
Speaker 1: one of us switches drivers in the car, it's just
Speaker 1: like funny to see the seat automatically push really far
Speaker 1: forward or really far back, and it takes like thirty
Speaker 1: seconds because it's like that big of a gap dispand now,
Speaker 1: oh wow, I had like a foot on Kalin, don't
Speaker 1: you oh foot and a half? Yeah, no way, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm six six. I'm six six. She's five ft. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh he's lying. Don't believe him. He's six to I'm
Speaker 1: six two. She's like five six, So I guess I
Speaker 1: got what eight? I'm five four. I would have imagined
Speaker 1: you being taller, really yeah. Looking at you, I would
Speaker 1: have been like, I think you're like five seven, five eight.
Speaker 1: Heck yeah, I would. I would love to be five
Speaker 1: seven or five eight. It's like my dream height. It's
Speaker 1: weird how guys on TV look shorter and girls on
Speaker 1: TV look taller. It's wacky. I feel like I just
Speaker 1: look weird at heck on TV. Yeah, how come? I
Speaker 1: don't know. I think it's just like an actual representation
Speaker 1: of what I look like when I'm talking, and I
Speaker 1: hate it instead of you envision in your head. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I realized on The Bachelor, actually how much I throw
Speaker 1: my head back and give myself a double chin, especially
Speaker 1: when I'm laughing and stuff. And so I had to
Speaker 1: be very attentive about that because I try not to,
Speaker 1: you know, realize cameras are around. But I'm also like, okay,
Speaker 1: jawline snatched because I can't. I can't look like what
Speaker 1: I did on The Bachelor. That was that was crazy.
Speaker 1: On the top of your mouth always, That's what I
Speaker 1: always tell myself whenever we're taking on the top of mouth,
Speaker 1: you put your tongue on the roof of your mouth?
Speaker 1: Are you serious? Yeah? But Jared doesn't need help with
Speaker 1: his jowl and he's already got Crimson chin. So yeah,
Speaker 1: but dude, And now I'm getting like I have that
Speaker 1: dad life, you know. So now I'm like, don't work
Speaker 1: out as much I need. I need. I need as
Speaker 1: much help as I can get so the tongue. Wait
Speaker 1: a minute, so you're telling me if I put my
Speaker 1: tongue to the top of my mouth, it will make
Speaker 1: my neck look smaller. Yea, like halfways swallow though. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're like, it cuts off your gullet area. And for
Speaker 1: normal people like myself and possibly hunt there, it's a
Speaker 1: it's an area that you see in photos that you're like, Man,
Speaker 1: I just wish that was a little more, you know
Speaker 1: a little more. Now I'm I'm getting I'm getting a
Speaker 1: hang of it. It's tough to smile and do that
Speaker 1: at the same time because I'm like, it's tough. I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm doing exercises over here. Yeah, well, Jared,
Speaker 1: you keep practicing. Man, you look at the hang of it. Um,
Speaker 1: is there anything else you want to talk about before
Speaker 1: we say goodbye? We do have a headline that we
Speaker 1: wanted to get to. Uh it's a sad headline that
Speaker 1: we just actually found out. So the headline is from
Speaker 1: Diana Stagliano, which I think I'm saying that properly. So
Speaker 1: Diana was a former bachelorette. She married Um, actually a
Speaker 1: contestants brother from the bachelorette. So this guy, Michael Stagliono
Speaker 1: was on the Bachelorette and he's been on a couple
Speaker 1: other seasons. Great, great guy, super awesome guy. I've been
Speaker 1: up a couple of times. I've met his brother, Stephen,
Speaker 1: their twins. Funny story, so I've met Michael Michael Stagliano.
Speaker 1: He was a contestant on the Bachelorette. I met him
Speaker 1: at some event and fast forward like six months later.
Speaker 1: It was Tanner and Jade's wedding and and what I
Speaker 1: thought was Michael was there, this guy sitting at the bar,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, I didn't know Michael Stagliono was
Speaker 1: gonna be here. So I walked up to him, like, hey, bro,
Speaker 1: what's going on. And he's like, oh, hey, what's up man?
Speaker 1: I said, no, nothing much like good Senior, blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: And he goes, oh, I'm I'm not Michael, and I said,
Speaker 1: and this guy's like bulbus. I'm like, oh, dude, shut
Speaker 1: the hell off, get out of here, and he's like no,
Speaker 1: I swear to God, I'm I'm Michael's twin brother, Stephen,
Speaker 1: And I said, shut the hell off, get out of here,
Speaker 1: and he goes, I swear to God. So we had
Speaker 1: a conversation for a good four minutes where I asked
Speaker 1: him to bring out his license and I said, I
Speaker 1: need to see your license right now because I don't
Speaker 1: believe you. And he brought out his license. And Michael
Speaker 1: has a twin brother, Stephen, who married a bachelorette. I
Speaker 1: don't know how they met, I forget, but it was
Speaker 1: Stephen was never on the show. I don't know how
Speaker 1: him and Dianna met Deanna. Uh and Steven announced that
Speaker 1: they are getting a divorce, which is very sad, uh
Speaker 1: It says. This is the quote from Diana. It is
Speaker 1: with immense sadness that Steven and I have decided to
Speaker 1: end a relationship as a couple. We've been working hard
Speaker 1: for a long time, both as a married couple and
Speaker 1: as individuals, and have come to the conclusion to remain separate.
Speaker 1: We remain loving parents who are beautiful children Addison Austin,
Speaker 1: and will continue to raise them together with love and faith.
Speaker 1: We ask you to respect our privacy during this difficult
Speaker 1: time as we navigate the new normal. We want to
Speaker 1: thank our dear friends and family for your endless support
Speaker 1: and many many prayers during what has become the most
Speaker 1: difficult time of our lives, So that's very sad. Diana
Speaker 1: Stagliano and Steven Stagliano have announced that they're getting divorced,
Speaker 1: which means another bachelor couple has bit the dust. This
Speaker 1: one's sad because they've been married for quite some time.
Speaker 1: I mean they've had to be married for at least
Speaker 1: like six seven years at the minimum, and they've had
Speaker 1: they have two it's together, so anytime you involve kids,
Speaker 1: that really makes the divorce even more difficult. So that sucks.
Speaker 1: Any thoughts out there on this podcast, I've never met them.
Speaker 1: Breakups are always sad, but I don't know these people personally,
Speaker 1: so it's just a break up to me. I know,
Speaker 1: that's all I got. That's all I got. Hunted. Do
Speaker 1: you know these people? I do not, but that is heartbreaking,
Speaker 1: and I I agree adding children to the mix is
Speaker 1: always just an extra bit of heartbreak. So you guys,
Speaker 1: ever hear that Lucy case get I think Jared we've
Speaker 1: talked about this before, the Lucy case Get where he goes.
Speaker 1: I don't know why everyone is out. And this is
Speaker 1: me poorly paraphrasing, obviously, because I don't know why everyone
Speaker 1: is always bummed about other people getting a divorce. It's like,
Speaker 1: no one ever got a divorce because they didn't want
Speaker 1: to get a divorce. You get a divorce because you
Speaker 1: want to get a divorce, And like, both people are
Speaker 1: happier getting the divorce, So you should be happy for
Speaker 1: the people that get the divorce when you were if
Speaker 1: you were cheated on though, and you didn't want something
Speaker 1: to So it will be better for one of the two,
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe not both. Maybe. I mean I feel
Speaker 1: I don't feel bad for them. I mean it sucks obviously,
Speaker 1: but I feel more bad for the kids because you know,
Speaker 1: come from they get two Christmas. Now they do get
Speaker 1: to Christmas is but idn't look at all the bright
Speaker 1: side of things. Yeah, I mean that's a positive way
Speaker 1: of looking at it. No, I'm just kidding. I feel
Speaker 1: that with the kids as well. But now they get
Speaker 1: too happy parents. And you know, I don't know how
Speaker 1: old are the kids? Does it say? Uh? It does not.
Speaker 1: I would imagine I think they're pretty young. Um, because
Speaker 1: I actually went to their house a few years ago,
Speaker 1: um when I was living in l A. And I
Speaker 1: think they were both pretty like young at that point.
Speaker 1: So I can't imagine that they're more than like five
Speaker 1: six mm. Well, on that positive note, let's go ahead
Speaker 1: and wrap up this episode of Help I Second Dating Hunter.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us. We appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Sorry for um all the hard hitting questions, you know.
Speaker 1: Thanks for having me. Yeah, it was a pleasure. It
Speaker 1: was nice to get to know you better. It was
Speaker 1: nice to hear about your Disney times and your ibs
Speaker 1: and your Bachelor in Paradise experience and your ex and
Speaker 1: you don't don't chase a ping pong ball, fellas, don't
Speaker 1: chase the ping pong ball and drive away? Very cool.
Speaker 1: Whenever you're done with the date, do you think hypothetical
Speaker 1: scenario if the guy that you're talking to now and
Speaker 1: you go separate ways, do you think that you would
Speaker 1: ever go back on Bachelor in Paradise? Oh for sure. Yeah.
Speaker 1: First at first it wasn't maybe, And now I'm like absolutely.
Speaker 1: I love that you were like, yes, I would, because
Speaker 1: so many people come on here and they're like, who,
Speaker 1: I don't think? So I think I'm done, and it's
Speaker 1: like why why I'm determined to find my person? I'm determined.
Speaker 1: M So let's hope this guy that you're texting is
Speaker 1: your person and he drives away, all cool, and he's
Speaker 1: really good at bowling, and he what is the other one? Um,
Speaker 1: doesn't chase, doesn't chase the pink pong ball. That's right,
Speaker 1: that's right, that's right. I don't think he would. So
Speaker 1: we're we're good on the pink pong ball. So that's good,
Speaker 1: good step in the right direction. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us. Big thank you
Speaker 1: to our listeners out there for listening this week. Be
Speaker 1: sure to follow Hunter's journey on her instagram. Um, what
Speaker 1: else do you what else do you do? Do you do?
Speaker 1: Do you do TikTok or anything that I am definitely
Speaker 1: on TikTok? Yeah? Nice, big TikTok. Do do you tweet?
Speaker 1: Do people still tweet? Yeah? I usually live tweet bachelort
Speaker 1: related stuff though. Nice. Okay, I'm not so for the
Speaker 1: listeners out there, follow Hunter on Instagram, TikTok, tweeter, and
Speaker 1: probably a couple other apps that I am neglecting to
Speaker 1: mention right now. Only fans I don't know, I don't
Speaker 1: know who knows who knows? These days? Yeah yeah, be
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