Speaker 1: Welcome to decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say
Speaker 1: decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsten.
Speaker 1: You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, you want to say together decisions decisions.
Speaker 3: Hey guys, welcome to another episode of De c z
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Speaker 1: That's beach aka for Core pups. Hey, y'all, I'm easy.
Speaker 1: We got a guest in the building. We don't want
Speaker 1: you to say less, but yeah, you gotta say more today.
Speaker 1: We always do, We always will.
Speaker 3: We have one half of the say Less podcast with Kasin.
Speaker 1: Rosie tried to bring tried, We did we did? You
Speaker 1: know what?
Speaker 3: When I found out like he had to spend the
Speaker 3: day with Mellow, I was like, okay, I would have
Speaker 3: done that too. I don't want to be I don't
Speaker 3: want to be with you vicious. So we do not
Speaker 3: have casts here today. You can bring, y'all sense he
Speaker 3: a whole fall book, I'm.
Speaker 1: Your whole falls. Recent when I was in this conversation
Speaker 1: about podcast where there was a host that someone didn't
Speaker 1: know and this the girl Melissa Ndez what's the name
Speaker 1: that was on the joke, but the podcast.
Speaker 2: First spord no no, no here Marissa, Manda Marissa.
Speaker 1: I was like, there's Marissa. There was Sophie on Call
Speaker 1: Her Daddy. There was kaz On Flagrant. Like a lot
Speaker 1: of people don't realize shows where there's another host that
Speaker 1: you never seen, right or that just left. There's a
Speaker 1: lot of there's a lot of so I mean never seen,
Speaker 1: like like you may be picked up on the pod
Speaker 1: and don't even know the I don't know the original.
Speaker 1: But they brought in some girl. We need a girl
Speaker 1: on a fucking man pod. I hate a man's playing
Speaker 1: a podcast.
Speaker 2: There's some woman that could get off of the week.
Speaker 2: We call them the hay Fellow Podcast, not the hay Fella. Hey, fellas,
Speaker 2: how much state you stand on a first date? Hey fellas, Hey,
Speaker 2: hey fellas. I'm like, y'all get no, zero, zero.
Speaker 1: All of it. I think men women are in a drought.
Speaker 1: You could be a bitch and a drought niggas. You know,
Speaker 1: let's be very clear. Looking at like the t.
Speaker 2: App all the women that swear they at standards. Oh bitches,
Speaker 2: you bitches are giving it up for anybody, and I
Speaker 2: actually maybe will play the reactionary clip that I want
Speaker 2: to play because I want.
Speaker 1: To read you god damn bitches later.
Speaker 3: But I guess we'll start with a quick catchup weds
Speaker 3: or whatever. ROSI there because we're going to see Chris Brown, right,
Speaker 3: and we have ball poses ready in case we're able.
Speaker 2: To get our Yeah, I wanted j C. Penny, Are
Speaker 2: you booked the meat and greet? No, as long as
Speaker 2: we get backstage, bitch, I'm taking my That was That
Speaker 2: was a little That was cooo.
Speaker 1: That was cute. I love it. It was a girl
Speaker 1: who brought her. He's holding her like, I love it.
Speaker 1: She's a cooking as I just want to know now.
Speaker 3: The only way that's the problem is if she's actually
Speaker 3: still wear her baby daddy, because like, girl, wrong a lot.
Speaker 1: Is she still with him? Chris than usher cherries? Wait?
Speaker 1: Oh wait, wait, wait wait wait, Chris Brown is worse
Speaker 1: than a bitch. If I'm not a nigga and I'm
Speaker 1: holding my sonogram and my booty pushed up on Chris
Speaker 1: Brown holding the belly his baby, oh yeah yeah, let
Speaker 1: me just suck on them cherries. That's not worthing cherries
Speaker 1: cherries in front of mine. Look at that. Look at
Speaker 1: that I'm sure is dangling that ship. So it's right,
Speaker 1: that's a seconal. But that was just for pretty great.
Speaker 1: But that baby gonna be saying that's that's why Chris
Speaker 1: Brown my daddy and when if the baby come out
Speaker 1: light that's well.
Speaker 3: I wanted to start with a ketch up and check
Speaker 3: in with y'all and yo, uh your relationship statuses, you're
Speaker 3: any stories have on relationships. I mean there's a lot
Speaker 3: of different status. Well, status is because it's multiple people.
Speaker 2: Huh Us, I'm like, oh, yes, Rosie, can we keep
Speaker 2: our friendly conversation?
Speaker 1: Nah? A relationship status is?
Speaker 2: I am finally in one after a long, rough four years.
Speaker 2: The single life wasn't bad, but it started getting a
Speaker 2: little cringey for me.
Speaker 1: What about it? Like the dating bol is? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: what part of the single dum? I actually just talked
Speaker 1: about this with my boyfriend this morning. I said, the
Speaker 1: last two years of being single, I did right, But
Speaker 1: the first did write you son? Yeah, it's called good.
Speaker 1: In the four years, what was the best part of
Speaker 1: the single the beginning, when you first cut off or
Speaker 1: when it's getting close, like what is it.
Speaker 2: I would say that mid weird after like after you're
Speaker 2: getting over the heartbreak, but it's like you're starting to
Speaker 2: like love yourself more and go outside more, and not
Speaker 2: just to get drunk and forget about shit, Like you're
Speaker 2: actually like finding true friendships and doing shit you like
Speaker 2: to do. That's not just like drinking and partying. Try
Speaker 2: to get over forget somebody. That was my favorite part.
Speaker 2: Then we got towards like third quarter, not third Then
Speaker 2: we hit third quarter and you hit a rough patch
Speaker 2: where it's like the scores is tied going out there again,
Speaker 2: and it's just like, Bro, it's not outside is not
Speaker 2: what it used to be.
Speaker 1: Our options are not the best. Okay, wait, does that
Speaker 1: have to do with aging?
Speaker 3: Do you think that's it's because when you're in your
Speaker 3: thirties your actual expectations changed.
Speaker 1: Or do you really think that there ain't no niggas
Speaker 1: out here? I feel like.
Speaker 2: In the world we live in right now, the oversharing,
Speaker 2: the Internet, the social media, it's made unrealistic expectations. Okay,
Speaker 2: honest with you, Like, bitches do show up and I
Speaker 2: have a lot of male friends, and bitches show up
Speaker 2: with a checklist.
Speaker 1: Bro and which is fine if you have your standards
Speaker 1: of boundaries.
Speaker 2: Cool, But it's like I'm dating someone right now who
Speaker 2: I've known for a while and I didn't ever really
Speaker 2: want to give him a chance.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know what, it's actually a really
Speaker 1: good guy.
Speaker 3: Because you wanted them hood, you wanted them fucks, and
Speaker 3: the bitch had.
Speaker 2: I wanted to look like he had a felon here
Speaker 2: two and and we talked about it and now he's
Speaker 2: so nice.
Speaker 1: Look what because you're.
Speaker 3: Laughing because because we also know ed and just over
Speaker 3: there also a producer, he'd be over there.
Speaker 2: I like them to look like some felons.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Isn't that a thing?
Speaker 3: Like do you think as a woman, it becomes a
Speaker 3: time where, bitch, you're too old to be going after
Speaker 3: a man who just looks like he's a problem or
Speaker 3: just is like emotionally not there or like when you're ready.
Speaker 1: To settle down.
Speaker 2: Okay, So Mandy shut up because we just had this
Speaker 2: conversation and I was trying to tell her that it
Speaker 2: was just a look that that was had a type
Speaker 2: physically what is it?
Speaker 4: Because we need there we go type beat burn A
Speaker 4: boy dreads dark, You're too far away to be honest.
Speaker 2: He's just a fucking nerd, which I love. By the way,
Speaker 2: everybody gets you a nerd, not mine gets your own.
Speaker 1: So I actually don't think the aesthetic is bad. I
Speaker 1: think it's really like the attachment For example, burna boy is.
Speaker 1: If someone's saying that to me, I'm like, okay, you
Speaker 1: like locks, star skim, maybe like African man height, whatever,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna think there all correct. There's gonna
Speaker 1: be the other part of like, do you like the
Speaker 1: fucking I don't know the scammer vibe? He got the
Speaker 1: motherfucking scamra vibe. Hella chains. My man's not dreaming, he
Speaker 1: hain't scambled, but I'm saying like he got them cousin scammers.
Speaker 1: Every time we go to a wedding, I'd be like
Speaker 1: that nigga really pulling up with this this bigger ass change.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. There can be like an aesthetic
Speaker 1: and then there can literally be just the way that
Speaker 1: someone looks. What type is that?
Speaker 2: No, my type is that is purely physical. That's physically
Speaker 2: my type. Now I had to lean into like what
Speaker 2: else do I need? And what else am I not
Speaker 2: willing to put up with anymore, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: And it was definitely not those type, Yeah, because they
Speaker 2: don't care.
Speaker 1: Sometimes they spending money on you. They make you fucking
Speaker 1: feel like you're the best woman ever. Like they're just
Speaker 1: like the love Bombers. So it could be.
Speaker 2: Addictive, Yeah, until you get home one day and you're like,
Speaker 2: I don't feel right, it doesn't feel right right, scam likely,
Speaker 2: something doesn't feel right.
Speaker 1: I don't like it. It's like temporary satisfaction, yeah, versus like.
Speaker 2: Long term and I loved and I think therefore I'm
Speaker 2: on the opposite end right now.
Speaker 3: We were just talking about where I'm at and the
Speaker 3: comments from the show don't make this easy. So I
Speaker 3: had therapy today and I was grappling with like, oh
Speaker 3: my god, am I not living life right? And you know,
Speaker 3: there's a right and wrong, there's a good and bad,
Speaker 3: But I'm in this phase right now where I am
Speaker 3: emotionally unavailable, like in a way that I'm like, damn.
Speaker 3: What I'm really doing is when I'm seeing the comments
Speaker 3: of people comment on how I'm moving with my partners
Speaker 3: or not wanting to be called babe, like I mentioned,
Speaker 3: in like a couple months ago, Like, oh yes, but
Speaker 3: the comments are from men mostly, and so as I'm
Speaker 3: having this deep conversation, I'm like, the crazy part about
Speaker 3: it is, even though I'm emotionally unavailable for partnership right now,
Speaker 3: I am really fulfilled in my dating life, Like with
Speaker 3: the guys that I am dating, who are And mind you,
Speaker 3: that's another thing y'all gotta realize too. When women say
Speaker 3: they're dating, they're not fucking every single guy that is
Speaker 3: in their life and that they're dating.
Speaker 1: So like, right now, I have, you know, guys.
Speaker 3: That I talk to on the phone, that I FaceTime,
Speaker 3: that I spend time with them. I'm a job and
Speaker 3: they're filling in all of these different pockets. But I
Speaker 3: don't feel lonely. I don't feel empty all the ways
Speaker 3: I used to have, like casual sex and have so
Speaker 3: many men in my acalation don't feel good no more, bro,
Speaker 3: But I'm having right now casual sex and it's I'm fulfilled.
Speaker 3: Like it's fun, it's exciting. It's with guys that I'm
Speaker 3: talking to after we're making plans, after it's great.
Speaker 1: Set. Wait, what's the living life wrong part? Why do
Speaker 1: you feel like it could be a wrong. Well, there's
Speaker 1: a wrong because of fucking patriarchy.
Speaker 3: So when I'm reading the comments, it's a fellas, this
Speaker 3: is the type of this is the type of bitch
Speaker 3: that'll drain you spiritually. Hey, fellas, this is the this
Speaker 3: is the whole ass bitch that this is the There
Speaker 3: was another comment that said, if she was in her twenties,
Speaker 3: I would get her acting like this, but you too
Speaker 3: old to be moving like this. And there's this like
Speaker 3: kind of fight right now where I'm just like, am
Speaker 3: I wrong for feeling liberated for being emotionally unavailable for
Speaker 3: a relationship but still navigating dating? Where also I'm not
Speaker 3: lying to no niggas, Like, I'm very open and honest
Speaker 3: with everyone. I'm not wasting anyone's time there. They can
Speaker 3: be here or they cannot. And I guess the doing
Speaker 3: things wrong has me questioning the stuff that we preach
Speaker 3: because I'm like, the whole Internet.
Speaker 1: Is saying, bitch, you a whole d da da dah bitch.
Speaker 3: But I'm literally living this, bro all in the comments
Speaker 3: on the clip from today clip, you know, it's it's everywhere,
Speaker 3: It's everywhere.
Speaker 1: There's the same thing the babe part of it which
Speaker 1: someone can judge outside in right, when a woman is
Speaker 1: asking to be treated a certain way, we connect those
Speaker 1: two emotional behaviors, whether it be cuddling, intimacy, being taken
Speaker 1: out to eat, even pet names. So I think that
Speaker 1: might be why that might be on the receiving end. Now,
Speaker 1: if you like having casual sex without those things, then
Speaker 1: I can see why you don't appreciate it. I don't
Speaker 1: like pet names at all, and I think all as
Speaker 1: people just speak like that, right right. But to me,
Speaker 1: because I don't like pet names, it's it's crazy because
Speaker 1: when talking about it, I brought it up in therapy too,
Speaker 1: and maybe my expression of not wanting that is I
Speaker 1: said I didn't like it, and he continued, you.
Speaker 2: Don't make it at all. You didn't like I don't
Speaker 2: like none of my niggas. I don't have pet names.
Speaker 1: You never had your boy, I call you baby. He's
Speaker 1: not a boyfriend or an ex or a guys you're dating, No, no,
Speaker 1: guys your date. Don't say babe. No, you used to
Speaker 1: call your babe my ex. We were in a relationship.
Speaker 3: My point, the nigga that I was just fucking Captain
Speaker 3: Hook is not a person that I'm with.
Speaker 1: But no, none of the guys that I like.
Speaker 3: I mean, and I might if they're like depending on
Speaker 3: their role, or if they want to be called a
Speaker 3: name like some niggas like daddy or call me daddy.
Speaker 1: Or once you're inside of me, I'm okay. Yeah. Do
Speaker 1: you ever get that text from a first day and
Speaker 1: they'd be like, thinking about your baby Gimore, once you're
Speaker 1: in me and we could have had a baby. Now
Speaker 1: I'm here, baby, No, I don't Daddy, were not like them, them,
Speaker 1: those type of things to me are just like, I
Speaker 1: don't like it. I used to be like that, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But to me, I safeguard though,
Speaker 1: is that for things? Maybe even therapy is the safeguard.
Speaker 1: I know. I don't want to stay you're too long?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree, But yeah, I agree,
Speaker 3: I agree.
Speaker 1: For for me, it's just.
Speaker 3: Being in a space of being a woman who's emotionally
Speaker 3: unavailable and how that's perceived publicly when it's just like, bro,
Speaker 3: this feels so powerful.
Speaker 1: I'm in a good space right now.
Speaker 3: Like if y'all remember my breakup, I talked about feeling
Speaker 3: really empty with the niggas in my life. I don't
Speaker 3: feel like I need for anything. I get my good
Speaker 3: morning text, my good night text, my how are you?
Speaker 5: My?
Speaker 1: How is work? My how? I was at Disney World.
Speaker 3: With my family, sitting sitting, you know, my partner's pictures
Speaker 3: or whatever of us, like your partner listen, I sent
Speaker 3: pictures of us last night.
Speaker 1: Babe. It is not good.
Speaker 3: I don't babe, it's giving you a whisper bit. Y'all
Speaker 3: send a nigga update, yo, ma, I'm a babe, but.
Speaker 1: But being emotionally unavailable though we I also think when
Speaker 1: someone's emotionally unavailable, they can't even date. Like I don't
Speaker 1: know what dating looks like because I'm dating different and
Speaker 1: I think I actually don't think anyone dates wrong or right.
Speaker 1: I think we are just dating the wrong people and
Speaker 1: the wrong tiged out. I actually don't think there's any
Speaker 1: wrong way. Genuinely speaking, if you're fucking to get over
Speaker 1: a breakup, I don't even think that's bad as long
Speaker 1: as you fucking niggas that know you healing a little bit,
Speaker 1: like seriously, like whatever thing I'm on it, whatever itches
Speaker 1: needing to be scratched, that shit is really it. Now
Speaker 1: you could be dating someone that is looking for something different,
Speaker 1: And to me, that's when you hit a point as
Speaker 1: an adult. You have to make a decision. Yes, both people,
Speaker 1: man that nigga need to make a decision if you
Speaker 1: want something else, and I'm being honest about what I'm
Speaker 1: providing you and what my capacity is to give you
Speaker 1: right down the things I don't want. Later, that's on
Speaker 1: you to then step out like.
Speaker 3: It's not on me if I'm showing and it's the same,
Speaker 3: it's the same accountability I ask for women.
Speaker 1: If a nigga is literally.
Speaker 2: Telling you you don't want shit, We don't want a relationship, right,
Speaker 2: just stick around expecting something different.
Speaker 1: Bitch, you are wasting your time. And it's crazy because
Speaker 1: one of the.
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Speaker 1: Bruh.
Speaker 3: Someone said, Damn, Mandy Love wasting niggas time. How am
Speaker 3: I wasting anyone's time when I'm always be honest with
Speaker 3: them about what I'm willing to offer, how I want
Speaker 3: to move, what my boundaries look like. And I told
Speaker 3: you if I'm talking to you I'm letting you know
Speaker 3: I'm talking to two three other niggas and in any
Speaker 3: given moment, all of y'all may be in the same
Speaker 3: room at this point because everybody can pull up.
Speaker 1: Let's all have a good time together. Do you know
Speaker 1: how crazy you sound? Why you sound nuts?
Speaker 2: Because all these men at the same time could be
Speaker 2: like your face, like, all three of y'all might be
Speaker 2: in the same room.
Speaker 1: You just said that, let me ask you. Let me
Speaker 1: let me you have mad that Nigga had you at
Speaker 1: the tables. You let me ask both of y'all a question, right.
Speaker 2: I seen you leave because of that when at a
Speaker 2: club when he's like, oh no, he got me fucked up.
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, it's because he didn't get us drinks.
Speaker 2: And I was like, Nigga said, but also, I don't
Speaker 2: really know, but I told you.
Speaker 3: I think he has a kink of pissing me off.
Speaker 3: I think every time we go out with this, he
Speaker 3: pisses me off. And I'd be like that Nigga, I'm
Speaker 3: leaving aye you.
Speaker 1: Guys every time and you and they're like, tell her,
Speaker 1: she's not going nowhere.
Speaker 3: I'm like, literally, she has to come and get me
Speaker 3: or he'll send his friends to come get me.
Speaker 1: And I was like, bro, this is every time he
Speaker 1: loves it. He'd like to talk to the horror high
Speaker 1: for a moment, get Mandy out of my frame. And
Speaker 1: when I say, I'll be yelling at my name, what
Speaker 1: does Mandy do? Oh? She is crazy? I want act
Speaker 1: a little cuckoo bird. I don't. I don't cuss out.
Speaker 1: I just leave. Cuckoo bird is getting mad at given? No,
Speaker 1: maybe that's her king, never real mad anyway?
Speaker 3: Wait do I always just say, oh, I'm leaving and
Speaker 3: he'd be like, no, you're not going in there.
Speaker 1: No, I'm leaving, And so I leave.
Speaker 2: And okay, So what's the difference between him putting you
Speaker 2: at the table with a bunch of bitches and you
Speaker 2: putting him in a situation where that he don't want
Speaker 2: to be in with a bunch of other dudes.
Speaker 1: Depending on the niggas? Like, that's what I'm saying, I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, there has been many times.
Speaker 3: Where you you has talked to a nigga with power
Speaker 3: and money, with money right.
Speaker 1: Now, I ain't. You absolutely have been at a table
Speaker 1: or a clerk. Can we can we met that you
Speaker 1: can we met her mic real quickly.
Speaker 3: Both of y'all, both of y'all have been no because
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call you bitches out right now, because y'all
Speaker 3: is not gonna make me sound crazy.
Speaker 1: You have both been to a clurb table restaurants outside before.
Speaker 1: Now where you was? What is outside? Even with a
Speaker 1: nigga that you was fucking? I was a virgin before,
Speaker 1: my man. Now you knew that you shared space with
Speaker 1: another big bro spice up the night me.
Speaker 2: You was at a club and I didn't even And
Speaker 2: this is why my ship, they aren't good for you.
Speaker 1: The bucks should stop with me. Don't worry, Joe, your
Speaker 1: episode won't be like this that hey God like, hold on, Hey,
Speaker 1: what did y'all do that night? Take shots together? Nobody left?
Speaker 1: Y'all had a great time. Wait, we didn't live together.
Speaker 3: My point, So why the do these niggas with mister
Speaker 3: lefskin fuck boy?
Speaker 1: And I went home?
Speaker 3: So my point, if these niggas talk together and be like,
Speaker 3: are you fucking Mandy?
Speaker 1: Are you talking to Mandie? It's up to them.
Speaker 2: Whether the exactly y'all say it was a running it
Speaker 2: was a running. I will tell you I think it
Speaker 2: would be rude, especially because Rosie and I know each other.
Speaker 1: If none of these both of us, none of these niggas. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. That's what I'm saying. They don't
Speaker 1: know each other. And then what it's it's like being
Speaker 1: uh a powerful rich fuck boy.
Speaker 3: Right now it feels great, it feels empowering, and I
Speaker 3: see my sleep at night. But also it's given like
Speaker 3: every time I'm out now, hunger.
Speaker 1: Games made the best in the night.
Speaker 3: Any of y'all really, let's see who I have not
Speaker 3: I'll take anyone.
Speaker 2: Because it's her roster. Yeah, you know, I've never been
Speaker 2: in the predicament.
Speaker 1: I would say where in the same space I had
Speaker 1: to like really choose, But it's definitely been for the night. Yeah,
Speaker 1: for me, I do.
Speaker 3: Think that might be a love that y'all keep talking
Speaker 3: about how y'all done this. No, No, make it seem like
Speaker 3: I'm crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm not. I would actually like that for me. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of checklist things that I feel like, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: to have three niggas.
Speaker 2: Only thing that I said that you're crazy about is
Speaker 2: telling them because you be over sharing. I do to you, don't.
Speaker 1: Mandy showed her ex boyfriend to do your bag that
Speaker 1: the other nigga got her, and basically it was like
Speaker 1: where are you? We wasn't together yet.
Speaker 2: Mandy over Sherry, all right, nobody asked the half three
Speaker 2: dudes in one room, but I'm not telling them that there.
Speaker 1: I went to Barney's today and look at this new collection.
Speaker 1: Yes it's seventy eight hundred dollars.
Speaker 3: Sure, I haven't so I love how y'all just are
Speaker 3: admitting that you lie to the people.
Speaker 1: You don't lie. We don't information just like men do.
Speaker 2: Huh.
Speaker 1: I like that? No, no, no, no, I agree, I do it.
Speaker 2: You basically ask me something I'm not telling you, and
Speaker 2: because you want to go against me right now, we're
Speaker 2: playing truth and dere but you are doing what we
Speaker 2: were getting to our segment where I'm not playing with
Speaker 2: your bullshittay truth truth No, Nope, is giving truth and there.
Speaker 6: Y'all.
Speaker 3: This is a new icebreaker that we have here on
Speaker 3: the pod when we have guests. And because this bitch
Speaker 3: want was to go against her friend on a microphone.
Speaker 1: Aim as ship, I've done it. I just didn't tell them. Hey,
Speaker 1: I love someone else fighting but us. Okay, So do
Speaker 1: you want.
Speaker 3: To do the truth first or the dear first.
Speaker 1: I want to do to truth. How about is it there?
Speaker 1: It's not bad? Let me do the truth truth.
Speaker 3: What is a kink or fantasy that you're currently curious
Speaker 3: about but haven't tried? Child's play. She's a little bit
Speaker 3: more vanilla than we are. You a little bit vanilla?
Speaker 3: Like what the kink or fantasy that you haven't tried
Speaker 3: that you actually would try that I haven't tried.
Speaker 1: Not horrible decisions anymore, So spice it up for them.
Speaker 1: Oh man, I don't know why you're going. I just
Speaker 1: don't be doing that ship. But I think I.
Speaker 2: Think like the real life bondage. Oh like like the
Speaker 2: real life bondage, not just like you're the handcuffs and
Speaker 2: getting tied up.
Speaker 1: And I want to try like the real ship. You
Speaker 1: know what's crazy?
Speaker 3: I'll be saying that in terms of like, in terms
Speaker 3: of like certain kink people. I literally am like, bro,
Speaker 3: where the fuck am I gonna find a nigga that
Speaker 3: just has rope in his closet?
Speaker 1: And then if he has, are you surial killers? Where's
Speaker 1: Barry and Dexter when you need him? Literally?
Speaker 3: I don't know how I would feel if I start
Speaker 3: dating someone and he just happens ahead.
Speaker 2: Did you put them out with my man Valentine's They
Speaker 2: pulled out the restraints.
Speaker 1: We'd already been together for a year. First of all,
Speaker 1: where the fuck was this? Like? Who the fuck I'm
Speaker 1: telling you? When he went to the bathroom, I literally went.
Speaker 1: I lifted up the mattress to see. Didn't look used?
Speaker 1: Was there any oils lotion? I wanted to see if
Speaker 1: it was tainted? Because when the fuck you added this?
Speaker 1: Why am I just seeing it later? I'm a bitch.
Speaker 3: I I maybe because I actually date and deal with
Speaker 3: quote unquote regular guys. I've never met a kinkster like
Speaker 3: I've never dated a kinky person.
Speaker 1: Well, and I get them. Here's the thing, here's the thing.
Speaker 2: That's something I want to try and want to do,
Speaker 2: but I know I can't do it with someone who
Speaker 2: hasn't done it before.
Speaker 3: You have to do it with it. You have to
Speaker 3: do it with someone who knows you. Think your boyfriend
Speaker 3: would let you hire someone to.
Speaker 1: Have you no fu fuck, no baby?
Speaker 3: Okay, Well here's the deer, all right, think quickly, please,
Speaker 3: we don't have all fucking day. Dear, say the filthiest
Speaker 3: sentence you can think of in less than ten words.
Speaker 3: So the nastiest sentence you can think of count gonna
Speaker 3: say in less than ten words.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to count. Fuck y'all the
Speaker 1: kinkiest just say like a dirty sex talk. That's real dancy.
Speaker 1: But hurry up, bady, three two one.
Speaker 2: I want you to wait, wait, wait, Clay, come in
Speaker 2: my mouth and let me spit it back into your mouth.
Speaker 2: Who I know that I got more words right now.
Speaker 1: I don't be doing what you do, Yes, you do.
Speaker 1: I just say that she said that.
Speaker 2: You see in your turns, your turn, head in your
Speaker 2: turn like I'm my worse left slowly Okay.
Speaker 7: That's crazy Spanish. I cannot do. I want you to
Speaker 7: get over here and face there.
Speaker 1: That's all. That's all I got Tuesday night. Right here,
Speaker 1: here goes mine.
Speaker 6: You.
Speaker 1: No, I don't want to do mine. Hurry up, come
Speaker 1: to think though, ready three two one? Bend that ass
Speaker 1: over and let me milk that dick.
Speaker 7: Oh my lord, I don't want to hear the world milk. Okay,
Speaker 7: so you know how I understand? I understand, yeah, no, yeah, okay,
Speaker 7: I'm in putting the milk in my mouth and then
Speaker 7: we're like, okay, hear me out. This is the position.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: I don't know if y'all are watching on YouTube, but
Speaker 3: there's a thing now where are now?
Speaker 1: Hold on? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Imagine real quick, yeah, so imagine this. Imagine the camera's
Speaker 3: over there. So the view is the dick is hanging
Speaker 3: right here, and you only see the asshole. You see
Speaker 3: the asshole and they dick, and then the person is
Speaker 3: stroking the dick.
Speaker 1: So all you see is it's like the milky. Oh
Speaker 1: it's a milking position right now. I am into it.
Speaker 1: I don't want it. I don't have to see the face.
Speaker 3: It's just a bootle hole with a dick and balls
Speaker 3: and you just they stroke it or they have someone
Speaker 3: else stroke it.
Speaker 1: And it's such a beautiful. Okay, reason you gotta do
Speaker 1: it too, But involve milks. Milk? Yeah, because there was
Speaker 1: letcher right there, milk right here. Comic Oh you.
Speaker 2: Nasty, Okay, you gotta do something. Would come come on,
Speaker 2: cocky queen where you said milk milk is come nut.
Speaker 1: I ran out of milk for the coffee. Can you
Speaker 1: fuck me? And then we can take the cream out
Speaker 1: of me? That is that's way more than it was
Speaker 1: like fifty, Oh witch, I don't know you're a cow.
Speaker 1: I did what I don't, I haven't nobody else was
Speaker 1: giving a fucking I don't. Okay, next segment what I
Speaker 1: really like and we like to take people's musical cards.
Speaker 3: And black cards away for not knowing this. We have
Speaker 3: a segment called.
Speaker 1: Poetry, not to be confused with slow Tree, who everybody
Speaker 1: sings thinks I am Marciambrosia. That's crazy. It seems exhausting
Speaker 1: bite that never thought about that. Do you know how
Speaker 1: often this happens? I didn't think you don't say something,
Speaker 1: but it doesn't.
Speaker 3: They really Okay, So Rosie, I am going to read
Speaker 3: the lyrics of a song in a very poetic way. Eden,
Speaker 3: do not jump in. Weezy, do not jump in. However,
Speaker 3: you haven't tested. We're gonna We're gonna see.
Speaker 2: We are gonna see how.
Speaker 3: Far if you know what the song is it three
Speaker 3: six nine, No damn girl, five suck it to me
Speaker 3: one mold time.
Speaker 1: I was not gonna make it easy. Okay, This one
Speaker 1: to me is fairly easy. Okay.
Speaker 3: I could be your bud, you could beat me up,
Speaker 3: play fight in the dark, then we both make up.
Speaker 3: I do anything just to feel your butt. Why do
Speaker 3: you got me so messed up? I don't know, but
Speaker 3: you got to stop tripping.
Speaker 1: Be a good girl. Now turn around and get these whippings.
Speaker 1: What the kind of song is that? You know? You
Speaker 1: like it? Like that? You don't have to fight back.
Speaker 2: You don't have to fight back here.
Speaker 1: Separate ways. You want to know why I knew that's
Speaker 1: so great? I did care Yoki this week? What no
Speaker 1: one did? They like Lovers and Friends?
Speaker 3: I'm like, wait, that is that the karaoke song that
Speaker 3: people do bro people do a little John?
Speaker 1: It was I love I love that song. I actually
Speaker 1: have a karaoke list that I just started because there
Speaker 1: was White Bits Sticks to meet. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go, and she had like twenty songs.
Speaker 1: She's like everybody should have one on their phone. So
Speaker 1: we do a trap karaoke this Friday. So here's my
Speaker 1: sober song, Bills, Bill's Bills. Okay, then I have a
Speaker 1: few shots at tequila and it's gonna be I Kids
Speaker 1: stick girl. I liked it. Is that your white girl song?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Your white girl? Yeah, I'm on a cruise. Yeah. Then
Speaker 1: I have number three. This is when I'm smacked and
Speaker 1: it's Alana's morse.
Speaker 3: You are two white songs and a dusty shot. What
Speaker 3: are your three karaoke songs?
Speaker 1: Yes? Your three go to? Yes? I got, I got
Speaker 1: my three sing along? Don't how you get? Probably? Three?
Speaker 1: Three go to is right?
Speaker 2: Hot Chili Peppers, Californication Okay, Bob Marley, could you be loved?
Speaker 1: Oh? Okay?
Speaker 2: And then maybe like Ari, am losing my religion just
Speaker 2: because I like it and I never get to hear it. Okay,
Speaker 2: I really like that the first though, Californication.
Speaker 1: I love. I love that to me depending on the crowd,
Speaker 1: I realized, So tyrone.
Speaker 3: Is my go to, but when the crowd don't know it,
Speaker 3: I didn't try to perform tyrone when when the whites
Speaker 3: are there, they just don't know what's going on, and
Speaker 3: it doesn't feel like I'm.
Speaker 1: What's crazy is jump?
Speaker 3: So Tyrone Erica Badu is my number one song that
Speaker 3: I go to. However, then what's funny is I have
Speaker 3: two white songs that I go to.
Speaker 1: Of course, bitch.
Speaker 3: The first one is because we sound alike, and you're
Speaker 3: not gonna tell me we don't share belief?
Speaker 1: Do you believe in love? See? And believe you sound
Speaker 1: like you with us something you know already, like you
Speaker 1: want to start singing a long And then my other
Speaker 1: one is uh panic at the disco?
Speaker 2: Uh yes, I and I went into okay to hear no,
Speaker 2: I can't help, but to hear any don't horror.
Speaker 1: That's the their part.
Speaker 2: I went to, are okay, uptown, you can play that
Speaker 2: at weddings, And then every time wedding the video is
Speaker 2: a wedding, a bad wedding, isn't it?
Speaker 1: But the brideway is a whore. And then everybody was like.
Speaker 2: Hell, two people never heard of calling the goddamn dar now.
Speaker 3: Like, oh my god, they are really trying to get
Speaker 3: another demographic over here.
Speaker 1: These bitches. I said, I wanted to do a day
Speaker 1: trap of white songs that black people love. But I
Speaker 1: said it in front of the white girl and she's like,
Speaker 1: I know exactly which one of those are? Also? Like
Speaker 1: literally ones? Are they? Bitch? She said, go first? She said,
Speaker 1: black people love what's that song? Blinkin a two? What's
Speaker 1: mama things? Our age group though? That American pie era? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, didn't everything sounded like those white guys?
Speaker 3: Wait, do you know who I love right now ye'ah.
Speaker 3: I have a new white that I'm kind of obsessed.
Speaker 2: Don't say the racist one.
Speaker 1: The country singer whoa what bigger country? It's fun. You're
Speaker 1: not supposed to know his music. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just know he allegedly allegedly allegedly, so I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know why country. You can't hear it outside
Speaker 2: your taste. You have to listen to it in silence and.
Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait, not that kind. I'm not gonna lie though.
Speaker 3: A white racist country singer not surprise, surprising, but it's
Speaker 3: just really good. Well, this guy, I don't know, he's
Speaker 3: been around for years, but he is really leaning into
Speaker 3: his white boy aesthetic.
Speaker 1: No bitch, he's leaning that.
Speaker 2: Don't look like he's Showers example, he's leaning into his white.
Speaker 1: I was thinking you were talking about the music, but
Speaker 1: now this guy looks clean. Showers is putting a little
Speaker 1: once MGK love me some MGK Machine Gun. Kelly's clean. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he cleaned, a little cleaned up.
Speaker 2: Have you seen his new ship and looks like the
Speaker 2: heat does a show?
Speaker 3: No, his new ship, he looked like he shower machine
Speaker 3: gun Kelly. I finally am like looking at him, and
Speaker 3: I'm like wondering what that did be, like.
Speaker 1: You know, crazy, like I'm going white guy, it's not
Speaker 1: clean esthetic, white guy.
Speaker 2: I want fucking Bushwick bro. I want you to just
Speaker 2: fucking feel free with you. Make our dude, Molly whatever
Speaker 2: man does he look like?
Speaker 1: Name? Shaggy hair like name Jared celebrity name of white celebrity,
Speaker 1: Jared Lettle. I don't know Jared Letto.
Speaker 3: I need like that the nigga with the chin he
Speaker 3: gay Wait, not ja.
Speaker 6: I have.
Speaker 1: Jared Letto, not j.
Speaker 6: Do this.
Speaker 1: I know you white people, and you know what, I
Speaker 1: have a white podcast for fact's sake. And he's like, oh,
Speaker 1: go ahead and talk about Kodak black again. I'll be saying, well,
Speaker 1: not like it's so hard.
Speaker 7: Jared Lettle was He was the band leader of thirty
Speaker 7: Seconds to Mars. But he was also the joker that's
Speaker 7: a famous movie.
Speaker 1: He was. Heath Ledger, also another joker d man. Heath
Speaker 1: Leisure is one of those. For me rest in peace.
Speaker 3: I was about to say, we can't be blest and
Speaker 3: over goddamn dead.
Speaker 1: You can. Jada Pickett does it every day.
Speaker 7: High no, no, no, no, oh my god.
Speaker 1: Well, Rosie that was your best. We can leave wait book.
Speaker 3: Wow, I don't even know what to say that because
Speaker 3: he's she more, she is the best.
Speaker 1: Still, still people grieve in.
Speaker 2: Forty years spend if I if that did was like
Speaker 2: it made me, I.
Speaker 1: Want to I'm not gonna lie. I had everything data said.
Speaker 1: I want to holler ground listen.
Speaker 2: If I was alive to have fucked or fucked with Tupac,
Speaker 2: I would still be talking about it to Jada.
Speaker 1: Not a lot of people can do that. But let's
Speaker 1: not act like Will Smith?
Speaker 5: Is it?
Speaker 1: Will Smith? Can you really be playing in this nigga face? Bro?
Speaker 1: I just don't understand. How much can we hear about
Speaker 1: him anymore? I have nothing good to say. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I don't know how to step in here without added
Speaker 2: to the disrespect saying.
Speaker 1: I really know.
Speaker 8: Okay, so let's go to the next segment, y'all.
Speaker 3: Uh, this one is our reactionary. I have a clip
Speaker 3: that I'm gonna play. It's a little long, so I'll
Speaker 3: cut it off. But this is an interesting take, and
Speaker 3: this is where I want to read you bitches for filth.
Speaker 1: But here we go. No one will read us like
Speaker 1: Jamie got.
Speaker 5: You pray on dumb uh ill equipped women to make
Speaker 5: your wife. It's not like he said, I'm gonna go
Speaker 5: to Italy, I'm going to France.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to one of these uh countries.
Speaker 5: You're going to a third world country to find a
Speaker 5: woman that can't tell you what's two plus two.
Speaker 1: You're gonna bring it.
Speaker 5: Back here and treat it like ship for the rest
Speaker 5: of your life because it's your cocky. You want to
Speaker 5: treat it like the Comku bacause you never had no
Speaker 5: power nowhere else, so now you're gonna exert your power
Speaker 5: over this woman.
Speaker 6: The number one movie was Hostella Got Her.
Speaker 1: Groove Back, and it's the same ship. Oh, I can't
Speaker 1: do what I need.
Speaker 6: No way you're gonna justify high earning women going to
Speaker 6: Jamaica and no, ain't no different than a man going
Speaker 6: to a third world country and getting a chick that
Speaker 6: don't speak no English. That's the same equivalency of the batchery.
Speaker 1: That's all bullshit, right.
Speaker 5: Number of women doing that is way less than the niggas.
Speaker 1: That are going over to That's not true.
Speaker 5: Pop puntrees snatching a woman away and destroying the rest.
Speaker 1: Of her life, destroying her life. Maybe taking to a life,
Speaker 1: take away her rights.
Speaker 5: You can beat on her, you can tell her she
Speaker 5: had no sexual agency. You can treat her like literal ship.
Speaker 5: I mean, she would go back to her love.
Speaker 1: But why don't we have to do it like that?
Speaker 1: Maybe I just want to take so why you couldn't
Speaker 1: do that here? Why you specific to get up? Okay?
Speaker 1: My hot take is it's safing thing because we all
Speaker 1: got takes that. I don't think y'all have this one
Speaker 1: because mine is really specific. I don't believe they're taking
Speaker 1: advantage of this these women necessarily. I think they actually
Speaker 1: are seeking these women out because they don't have the
Speaker 1: infectious I'm not gonna do ship for a nigga that
Speaker 1: all men believe we are. I think they know that
Speaker 1: these women in other countries probably are more closely tied
Speaker 1: to family the patriarchy in ways that are beneficial to them.
Speaker 1: Now for me, I'm somebody that wants to get married
Speaker 1: to have children, so I believe maternal qualities aren't bad.
Speaker 1: I don't believe seeking that from a partner is a
Speaker 1: bad thing. Where some people may look at it that way,
Speaker 1: I don't. I think it's okay to want someone for
Speaker 1: their maternal and paternal instincts. I just believe that people
Speaker 1: in other countries are more connected to family and community
Speaker 1: in a way that Americans are not. And the problem is,
Speaker 1: we are such high earning women and we're meeting so
Speaker 1: many men that have so many options to where we've
Speaker 1: lost that connection too, to honoring men in a certain way.
Speaker 1: So when you go to these other countries and you
Speaker 1: realize they're treating their men a certain way, fuck it,
Speaker 1: you fucking scooping them up like that's actually what I
Speaker 1: think that is. Sure, do you want to make some
Speaker 1: hot Columbian bitch as sex slave. I'm not saying that
Speaker 1: can't happen, But for the most part, I think they
Speaker 1: love the fact they ready to have four kids and
Speaker 1: do nothing. And you're not going to meet an American
Speaker 1: woman that's that happy to do nothing. That's especially because
Speaker 1: they be losers. I love it. I love it like
Speaker 1: the user bomass niggas, the hey fellas is going out
Speaker 1: to another country to get whatever they need. Go away. Now.
Speaker 1: My take, my hot take is I believe that they
Speaker 1: are wrong.
Speaker 3: I think that they are There are many high earning
Speaker 3: or well earning women that actually do want a nigga
Speaker 3: that they can boss around. So I say this because
Speaker 3: there is an influx of women, which I don't think
Speaker 3: is any different than the passport bros looking to date
Speaker 3: inmates looking to date.
Speaker 1: Niggas in jail bro. Okay, Bro, they got job. I
Speaker 1: want to say, rest in pey hain't in hell. But
Speaker 1: are high value women. Don't think we're not Kevin Sammy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I watched Love After lock Up. They are the
Speaker 2: same white women that are going to Nigeria. So so
Speaker 2: here's here's my thing about what they were just saying.
Speaker 3: Though at the end of the day, it's back to
Speaker 3: what I said on the Breakfast Club. A lot of
Speaker 3: people deserve the relationships they're in. So I think that
Speaker 3: even the women that would date a passport bro couldn't
Speaker 3: get a nigga a country either. So they got a
Speaker 3: stand for a passport bro or a lame bum ass
Speaker 3: motherfucker because in their own country, they weren't sought after,
Speaker 3: they weren't.
Speaker 1: Able to get high esteemed men.
Speaker 3: So they're the bottom of the barrel. I think in
Speaker 3: they country too, Nah, it's bottom of the barrel. Day,
Speaker 3: bottom of the barrel.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of I don't know about that, bro.
Speaker 1: I watch a lot of ninety Day Fiance Okay, I
Speaker 1: hate to admit every Sunday, and they have good looks.
Speaker 1: Cool a lot of women.
Speaker 2: Now I'm sorry outlook men on the daily niggas is ugly.
Speaker 1: We're the fuck they're ugly.
Speaker 3: So there's a lot of beauty in women that comes
Speaker 3: easy and they're not swagging. But what I see, what
Speaker 3: I see happening with a lot of the women overseas
Speaker 3: that we presume to be aesthetically beautiful, their families want
Speaker 3: them to marry a nigga that's gonna take care of them,
Speaker 3: because they don't. They're not raised in wealth. They're looking
Speaker 3: to either just become moms or just become housewives. And
Speaker 3: so if a man can go overseas and literally have
Speaker 3: a live in housewife that is also his sex slave
Speaker 3: and mother of his children and only make thirty five
Speaker 3: thousand dollars a year, he's with the type of woman
Speaker 3: that that's all she could probably bag too.
Speaker 1: So there's a specific couple and that's like a one up.
Speaker 1: And I watched this recently because they brought them back
Speaker 1: on a new spinoff Annie, and they they live in Orlando.
Speaker 1: That's what made me think of them. She's Dominican, brownskin black.
Speaker 2: To me, and he is too. They look like they
Speaker 2: would have met anywhere. They're both Dominican, they're both.
Speaker 1: He no, no, he got that Dominican.
Speaker 6: Hair.
Speaker 1: They both got that look. They both look like a
Speaker 1: Dominican couple. But when I was looking at them, I
Speaker 1: was like, damn, this is probably one of the first
Speaker 1: times they're not she's not super sexy's they just look
Speaker 1: like normal people. Medium likely people go together all the time.
Speaker 1: But I was thinking to myself, this is probably one
Speaker 1: that was the most fair. He definitely can't afford to
Speaker 1: have someone stay at home, cooking clean on his salary
Speaker 1: and be happy in Florida. She definitely wants to leave
Speaker 1: dr They kind of don't look like they're living that
Speaker 1: well in the States, but they're both really happy they
Speaker 1: started their family. And I was honestly thinking about myself,
Speaker 1: is it that?
Speaker 3: So that's what I think these relationship dynamics that happened.
Speaker 3: I think so many of us want to nitpick who
Speaker 3: people are, how much they make from the outside looking in,
Speaker 3: and a lot.
Speaker 1: Of those all saying about that checklist dating.
Speaker 3: But a lot of people are happy with the people
Speaker 3: that they end up with. I mean a lot of
Speaker 3: people are unhappy too. But I think people in a
Speaker 3: lot of people settle. But I think a lot of
Speaker 3: those passport world relationships or high earning women that go
Speaker 3: after like maybe lower income men or inmates or whatever.
Speaker 1: It's it works for both parties. I think settling is
Speaker 1: only when you're unhappy. I actually don't think settling can
Speaker 1: be the standards of like the like, if you're enjoying
Speaker 1: your relationship, it's not settling. No, I agree, and I
Speaker 1: actually have Oh we can maybe if you don't mind,
Speaker 1: you know, you have a listening to we judge. This
Speaker 1: was a really big one for me. And if y'all
Speaker 1: haven't heard this segment yet, we listen and we judges
Speaker 1: where we tell you our friends got friends with bitch
Speaker 1: off for the tail. You know, I gotta do sect
Speaker 1: Oh I got I got some. This is actually all contential.
Speaker 1: We are not telling secrets.
Speaker 3: I've always I gotta ask, Well, I was gonna make
Speaker 3: it seem like another bit.
Speaker 1: Oh is you ask?
Speaker 5: So?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: Hey causevia suff real quick, no figure it out homegirl
Speaker 2: is exceptionally attractive and started dating someone at work now,
Speaker 2: she is one of those girls.
Speaker 1: Where data network. I'm already judging her. Uh it's a
Speaker 1: little They're more like passer by industry. They're both in Hollywood.
Speaker 1: They're not like nine to five in each other every day. Okay,
Speaker 1: But I will say she's one of those people, normal
Speaker 1: girl with a few hundred followers in the ballplayers and
Speaker 1: her shit. That's how exceptionally beautiful she is now. She
Speaker 1: recently said to me she wanted to go on a
Speaker 1: double date when I'm in LA with my man. She
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I want you all to judge me,
Speaker 1: and I was like, why would we judge you? I
Speaker 1: haven't seen them. She's like he's fat, and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: wait wait, like how fat? Though? Yeah, how fad? So
Speaker 1: I'm like like junkie, like like like big boned it
Speaker 1: or like that. That's the follow up she I don't
Speaker 1: even want you to know. Did you say how fat?
Speaker 1: I did say how fat? And I was like, but
Speaker 1: also can be honest, like you been going through hell
Speaker 1: with these niggas and you were fucking happiest. Fuck you
Speaker 1: guys just seem to be like annoying. She's been remodeling
Speaker 1: a house she bought, like really struggling. He found an
Speaker 1: architect based on a photo she liked and brought her,
Speaker 1: brought them, brought the person. Yeah, of course he got
Speaker 1: into this whole debate of where she's like, you know,
Speaker 1: I just feel like, because I'm getting close to forty,
Speaker 1: I'm settling. But whatever, we're enjoying ourselves.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, maybe you were settling with the last
Speaker 2: fucking Lakers player when he wasn't treating you and you
Speaker 2: were crying, Like you're happy and you're settling.
Speaker 1: What the fuck are you talking about? Like niggas get
Speaker 1: fat and we have zi nigcause ripid, who gives a ship?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but like shallow, how for me? If I
Speaker 1: intrinsically felt happy and I thought you were the sexiest
Speaker 1: nigga and we were having great sex, she said the
Speaker 1: sex is bomb? So who cares? She cares? And that
Speaker 1: is to me crazy that I mean, that's crazy, man.
Speaker 1: If I'm happy for real, I mean good things.
Speaker 3: She's happy, But I'm curious to know how many other
Speaker 3: fat guys she's dated before.
Speaker 1: I don't know. She like, she was like he was
Speaker 1: really dated she dated a Lakers player Before that, she
Speaker 1: dated an actor.
Speaker 2: Let me ask y' all question, Think about the happiest
Speaker 2: you've ever been with a man, right, Jesus, just just
Speaker 2: know your feelings, how you feel around him, how he
Speaker 2: made you feel, everything he did for you.
Speaker 1: What if what if he was fat? Well, all the
Speaker 1: same characteristics. First, it wouldn't be the same, like she said,
Speaker 1: because my nigga got fat, hasn't done. That's not the
Speaker 1: same thing. So I already love him. No if your
Speaker 1: nigga got that different, because you cannot believe it would
Speaker 1: be that much of a big deal for y'all to
Speaker 1: and y'all have judge me. I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1: I was a big bitch and I ain't never date
Speaker 1: no big niggas because you're big too. Even just because
Speaker 1: I lost weight doesn't mean I'm gonna go tate big
Speaker 1: niggas now. No, she big big, She's right. I don't
Speaker 1: see a lot of big couples together all the time
Speaker 1: unless it's been like.
Speaker 2: No, if I say bigger, I always see the skinniest
Speaker 2: that just came out of jail.
Speaker 1: But like, honestly, I was judging her crazy. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: bitch on when you saw him? No, no, no, I was
Speaker 1: judging her crazy for the way she was talking, like,
Speaker 1: you know, the happiness, the way she's been feeling lighter.
Speaker 1: They literally are doing shit with their families. They're taking
Speaker 1: their families. Can I got a comparison? You see him?
Speaker 1: Any cute thought him? Yes, maybe he has face or something.
Speaker 3: Can't be that bad, shed Okay, here's the thing. Let's
Speaker 3: draw the comparison real quick. How many men do we
Speaker 3: know end up really having a good time and loving
Speaker 3: a hoe and then they have a problem with like,
Speaker 3: oh damn, this is the girl I'm about to bring
Speaker 3: around my family, This is the girl I'm about to
Speaker 3: bring around my friends, and she has maybe this type
Speaker 3: of perception about.
Speaker 1: I rather you fuck my co host. I don't care
Speaker 1: if you was the whole ass nigga. I don't care.
Speaker 1: Tell everybody we on the tail, don't be ugly. We
Speaker 1: don't care about Hawaii niggas. I'm talking about me. Men. No,
Speaker 1: men normally care about what people think.
Speaker 3: So when you said it, the fact that she's like,
Speaker 3: don't judge me because now she's.
Speaker 1: Bringing him around friends.
Speaker 3: To be fair, I think women actually do that quite often,
Speaker 3: Like when we know we're liking somebody and we want
Speaker 3: to bring them around our friends. There is a little
Speaker 3: bit like you wonder what our friends will think about? No,
Speaker 3: is that never a thing?
Speaker 6: Not me?
Speaker 1: I do fine. I mean like, I ain't got to
Speaker 1: worry about any friends.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna be honest. I'm on that level too.
Speaker 2: I've never dated.
Speaker 1: Someone ugly, but I I've dated guys that weren't as attractive.
Speaker 2: That's something I've dated. Ugly, man, I like, I have
Speaker 2: a thing for medium ugly, you do. I like them,
Speaker 2: but they got like.
Speaker 1: You like uglies. Yeah, but they're cool. They're cool. They're cool,
Speaker 1: and they have.
Speaker 2: They have this little or about them and they're funny.
Speaker 2: And so those are the little things I look.
Speaker 1: So here's a.
Speaker 7: Comment she made me because I know anybody didn't listen
Speaker 7: to and be like, which one is it?
Speaker 1: Wow? Right now? No, but the mother ones was ugly.
Speaker 1: That's crazy, it was she told you that before this all. No,
Speaker 1: let me tell you. We at a party.
Speaker 3: She tells me she likes the ugliest nigga in the room,
Speaker 3: and it's like, could you could you ask your I
Speaker 3: was with my dude, could you ask your dude? I
Speaker 3: asked him myself to hook me up with and I said, bro,
Speaker 3: all these niggas in the room.
Speaker 1: He ugly girl, ugly little. When I say, she knows ugly,
Speaker 1: but she was.
Speaker 2: Like, it's a dark room. You spent your eyes a
Speaker 2: little bit, take a shine, Like, yeah, he fine.
Speaker 1: I love him. That's insane. The most funny looking nigga
Speaker 1: I ever dated. I don't want to say it now,
Speaker 1: but but he was the funniest and he was also
Speaker 1: everybody loved being around him. And you know what, it's
Speaker 1: always that one. I will tell you this. She was embarrassing.
Speaker 1: I took him to a movie premiere. It was it
Speaker 1: was ken you embarrasses you people. Now we're gonna look
Speaker 1: it up, bitch. And Kenya went to me and said,
Speaker 1: he must really treat you. Well, wow, wow, that's what
Speaker 1: he must really treat what she said, uh, mind you.
Speaker 1: So they're both in Hollywood. There are a lot of
Speaker 1: spots in Hollywood where execs go. I don't know how
Speaker 1: high up the ladder he is. But she's like a
Speaker 1: big streaming service. Now, she said, they pull up to
Speaker 1: like Saffie's Chaconi's these are like spots where you're gonna
Speaker 1: see somebody. He's like, I can mix see other people
Speaker 1: looking at me. He's that ugly. No, he's fat, he's
Speaker 1: that fat. But she's that fine too, And so she says,
Speaker 1: figure out. I feel like, is it over three? We
Speaker 1: killing when we're kicking it or when we have to
Speaker 1: be in New York for work. No one does this
Speaker 1: to me. She's like, so now I'm getting in this
Speaker 1: superficial brain of other people. He gotta be short and
Speaker 1: fat because he was big and fat. I think I
Speaker 1: really want to.
Speaker 3: See what happens, like real quick, you have to take
Speaker 3: a break on stuf. No, no, no, no, it's got to
Speaker 3: be it's gotta be sized because he.
Speaker 4: Was if he was a dud dah, you know.
Speaker 1: Five eleven, I'm gonna say something.
Speaker 2: Sim I'm gonna say she's taller than him.
Speaker 1: One I'm also saying, not Danny DeVito, Mandy, what's wrong
Speaker 1: with you? What? Jay Leno? Daddy DeVito? Like, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say something, and I'm just shooting in the
Speaker 1: dark right now.
Speaker 2: But let me know if I'm right later. Not only
Speaker 2: is he shorter than her, he's probably not the most
Speaker 2: up to par.
Speaker 1: And all that. Say what you want to really say?
Speaker 2: Oh you think he not fly yes, and I feel
Speaker 2: like that's I think.
Speaker 1: He looks dusty. He's gonna look dusty if they're both
Speaker 1: of like us.
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter because men with money often don't care
Speaker 2: about how they look. He probably dresses fucking fucked up girls.
Speaker 1: Short on a shot and you gonna be straight, see
Speaker 1: not if you don't want the shot, you don't know?
Speaker 1: Shoot him up with you said? What if you like
Speaker 1: being fat? If you can you shoot him up when
Speaker 1: he's that's like salt water. I don't know. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: What if you don't want the shot, shoot him up
Speaker 1: when he's sleeping? Does you can't say that?
Speaker 3: If he says he doesn't want to lose weight, give
Speaker 3: him Timezzo said that to.
Speaker 1: Get him to run in.
Speaker 2: She don't want to be seeing so many people.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of people. I don't want to go
Speaker 1: to dinner. Judge, I'm sorry, Edind's giving us the wink.
Speaker 1: So I don't know.
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, Okay, so what is
Speaker 3: our advice? Well, we're judging your friend, for sure, I'm
Speaker 3: what are we judging her for telling you not to
Speaker 3: judge her or for dating the fact for her care?
Speaker 1: I'm not just talking much about what people think. I think.
Speaker 1: I don't get judge, and I'm gona tell you why
Speaker 1: we can't judge that. I can't tell you how many bitches.
Speaker 1: And I'm so tired of women saying a fine man
Speaker 1: or a wealthy man, they can't believe he's with this woman.
Speaker 1: I've heard people say, who just got that big ass
Speaker 1: rock Christiano Ronaldo? Oh yeah, that rock is ugly, you know, mother?
Speaker 1: That rock?
Speaker 2: Anything they want to say, Like when I watched their show,
Speaker 2: it wasn't Spanish, but I watched the subtitle.
Speaker 1: She was like, oh, I worked at the scug store
Speaker 1: and girls are looking at me like I can't believe
Speaker 1: he's with there. Okay, and she was a little chunky too,
Speaker 1: like everyone wants to know why her and I am
Speaker 1: not going to do that.
Speaker 2: You never scrolled on Mother's Day or Valentine's Day and
Speaker 2: be like Dash's bitch of.
Speaker 1: A woman. So but yeah, I've done it exactly. We
Speaker 1: all have, especially a niggative. We all have what we like,
Speaker 1: that's your girl.
Speaker 2: I thought she was because that's when they really posed
Speaker 2: and then they take it down. But that's when they
Speaker 2: really posed their actual bitch.
Speaker 1: You're like, oh got it. I wish.
Speaker 3: I want everybody to be happy with who they like. Yeah,
Speaker 3: they like it works your challenge, your face, I do.
Speaker 3: I want everyone to be happy, whether you are dating
Speaker 3: multiple people and emotionally unavailable, or whether you are in
Speaker 3: a flourishing relation and ship with the man of your dream.
Speaker 1: Now that might be fat, but that's okay. That's probably
Speaker 1: not the man of her dreams.
Speaker 2: It's if he's.
Speaker 1: God seer's prayer, he bring you a fat nigga. Now
Speaker 1: you're mad. I'm sorry, she's she's soaking. God, don't put
Speaker 1: that on God. God, don't just be I'm sorry, God, God,
Speaker 1: give you a little life.
Speaker 2: Blessing her, God, yeah, bless I just don't like her
Speaker 2: childish mentality about carrying.
Speaker 1: I don't think she should care. I think if she'll
Speaker 1: be happy. But speaking of being blessed, bless us on
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Speaker 1: I don't I don't get me wrong. Of course, I
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Speaker 1: I was already on bitch. When they said y'all could
Speaker 1: be on next week, I was like, I'm already changed
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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to worship a white woman. But if
Speaker 1: that's the one, that's the one. That's the one.
Speaker 3: And Mel Robbins told us congratulations, bitch and tagged us.
Speaker 3: Rosie An tagged us she knows my name, well she
Speaker 3: know pulled pus. But anyway, y'all make sure y'all get
Speaker 3: that Rosie. Where can people listen to you and your
Speaker 3: co host talk all the ship.
Speaker 2: We're still on all platforms say less with kas low
Speaker 2: Ki and Rosie.
Speaker 1: But I got to change that soon.
Speaker 3: It's Rosie, check it out, check it out, say less.
Speaker 3: And we said too much, Actually we should have said
Speaker 3: less this episode.
Speaker 1: Well it's over here. We are bab you.
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