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Speaker 1: Welcome to decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say

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Speaker 1: decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsten.

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Speaker 1: You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, you want to say together decisions decisions.

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Speaker 3: Hey guys, welcome to another episode of De c z

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Speaker 3: Yols de c z Yons. I'm your gamedy b aka

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Speaker 3: Peg Decigon aka Peg and Marco a ka.

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Speaker 1: That's beach aka for Core pups. Hey, y'all, I'm easy.

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Speaker 1: We got a guest in the building. We don't want

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Speaker 1: you to say less, but yeah, you gotta say more today.

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Speaker 1: We always do, We always will.

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Speaker 3: We have one half of the say Less podcast with Kasin.

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Speaker 1: Rosie tried to bring tried, We did we did? You

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Speaker 1: know what?

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Speaker 3: When I found out like he had to spend the

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Speaker 3: day with Mellow, I was like, okay, I would have

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Speaker 3: done that too. I don't want to be I don't

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Speaker 3: want to be with you vicious. So we do not

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Speaker 3: have casts here today. You can bring, y'all sense he

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Speaker 3: a whole fall book, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Your whole falls. Recent when I was in this conversation

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Speaker 1: about podcast where there was a host that someone didn't

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Speaker 1: know and this the girl Melissa Ndez what's the name

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Speaker 1: that was on the joke, but the podcast.

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Speaker 2: First spord no no, no here Marissa, Manda Marissa.

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Speaker 1: I was like, there's Marissa. There was Sophie on Call

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Speaker 1: Her Daddy. There was kaz On Flagrant. Like a lot

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Speaker 1: of people don't realize shows where there's another host that

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Speaker 1: you never seen, right or that just left. There's a

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Speaker 1: lot of there's a lot of so I mean never seen,

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Speaker 1: like like you may be picked up on the pod

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Speaker 1: and don't even know the I don't know the original.

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Speaker 1: But they brought in some girl. We need a girl

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Speaker 1: on a fucking man pod. I hate a man's playing

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Speaker 1: a podcast.

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Speaker 2: There's some woman that could get off of the week.

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Speaker 2: We call them the hay Fellow Podcast, not the hay Fella. Hey, fellas,

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Speaker 2: how much state you stand on a first date? Hey fellas, Hey,

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Speaker 2: hey fellas. I'm like, y'all get no, zero, zero.

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Speaker 1: All of it. I think men women are in a drought.

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Speaker 1: You could be a bitch and a drought niggas. You know,

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Speaker 1: let's be very clear. Looking at like the t.

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Speaker 2: App all the women that swear they at standards. Oh bitches,

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Speaker 2: you bitches are giving it up for anybody, and I

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Speaker 2: actually maybe will play the reactionary clip that I want

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Speaker 2: to play because I want.

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Speaker 1: To read you god damn bitches later.

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Speaker 3: But I guess we'll start with a quick catchup weds

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Speaker 3: or whatever. ROSI there because we're going to see Chris Brown, right,

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Speaker 3: and we have ball poses ready in case we're able.

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Speaker 2: To get our Yeah, I wanted j C. Penny, Are

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Speaker 2: you booked the meat and greet? No, as long as

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Speaker 2: we get backstage, bitch, I'm taking my That was That

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Speaker 2: was a little That was cooo.

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Speaker 1: That was cute. I love it. It was a girl

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Speaker 1: who brought her. He's holding her like, I love it.

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Speaker 1: She's a cooking as I just want to know now.

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Speaker 3: The only way that's the problem is if she's actually

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Speaker 3: still wear her baby daddy, because like, girl, wrong a lot.

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Speaker 1: Is she still with him? Chris than usher cherries? Wait?

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, wait, wait wait wait, Chris Brown is worse

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Speaker 1: than a bitch. If I'm not a nigga and I'm

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Speaker 1: holding my sonogram and my booty pushed up on Chris

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Speaker 1: Brown holding the belly his baby, oh yeah yeah, let

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Speaker 1: me just suck on them cherries. That's not worthing cherries

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Speaker 1: that I'm sure is dangling that ship. So it's right,

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Speaker 1: that's a seconal. But that was just for pretty great.

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Speaker 1: But that baby gonna be saying that's that's why Chris

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Speaker 1: light that's well.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to start with a ketch up and check

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Speaker 3: in with y'all and yo, uh your relationship statuses, you're

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Speaker 3: any stories have on relationships. I mean there's a lot

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Speaker 3: of different status. Well, status is because it's multiple people.

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Speaker 2: Huh Us, I'm like, oh, yes, Rosie, can we keep

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Speaker 1: Nah? A relationship status is?

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Speaker 2: I am finally in one after a long, rough four years.

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Speaker 2: The single life wasn't bad, but it started getting a

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Speaker 1: What about it? Like the dating bol is? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what part of the single dum? I actually just talked

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Speaker 1: last two years of being single, I did right, But

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Speaker 1: In the four years, what was the best part of

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Speaker 2: I would say that mid weird after like after you're

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Speaker 2: getting over the heartbreak, but it's like you're starting to

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Speaker 2: like love yourself more and go outside more, and not

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Speaker 2: just to get drunk and forget about shit, Like you're

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Speaker 2: actually like finding true friendships and doing shit you like

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Speaker 2: to do. That's not just like drinking and partying. Try

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Speaker 2: to get over forget somebody. That was my favorite part.

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Speaker 2: Then we got towards like third quarter, not third Then

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Speaker 2: where it's like the scores is tied going out there again,

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Speaker 2: and it's just like, Bro, it's not outside is not

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Speaker 1: Our options are not the best. Okay, wait, does that

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Speaker 1: have to do with aging?

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Speaker 3: Do you think that's it's because when you're in your

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Speaker 3: thirties your actual expectations changed.

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Speaker 1: Or do you really think that there ain't no niggas

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Speaker 2: In the world we live in right now, the oversharing,

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Speaker 2: the Internet, the social media, it's made unrealistic expectations. Okay,

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Speaker 2: honest with you, Like, bitches do show up and I

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Speaker 2: have a lot of male friends, and bitches show up

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Speaker 1: Bro and which is fine if you have your standards

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Speaker 2: Cool, But it's like I'm dating someone right now who

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Speaker 2: I've known for a while and I didn't ever really

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know what, it's actually a really

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Speaker 3: Because you wanted them hood, you wanted them fucks, and

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Speaker 2: I wanted to look like he had a felon here

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Speaker 2: two and and we talked about it and now he's

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Speaker 1: Look what because you're.

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Speaker 3: Laughing because because we also know ed and just over

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Speaker 2: I like them to look like some felons.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Isn't that a thing?

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Speaker 3: Like do you think as a woman, it becomes a

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Speaker 1: To settle down.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So Mandy shut up because we just had this

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Speaker 2: physically what is it?

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Speaker 2: He's just a fucking nerd, which I love. By the way,

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Speaker 2: everybody gets you a nerd, not mine gets your own.

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Speaker 1: So I actually don't think the aesthetic is bad. I

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Speaker 1: think it's really like the attachment For example, burna boy is.

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Speaker 1: If someone's saying that to me, I'm like, okay, you

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Speaker 1: like locks, star skim, maybe like African man height, whatever,

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna think there all correct. There's gonna

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Speaker 1: be the other part of like, do you like the

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Speaker 1: fucking I don't know the scammer vibe? He got the

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Speaker 1: motherfucking scamra vibe. Hella chains. My man's not dreaming, he

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Speaker 1: hain't scambled, but I'm saying like he got them cousin scammers.

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Speaker 1: Every time we go to a wedding, I'd be like

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Speaker 1: that nigga really pulling up with this this bigger ass change.

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing. There can be like an aesthetic

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Speaker 2: No, my type is that is purely physical. That's physically

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Speaker 2: my type. Now I had to lean into like what

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Speaker 2: And it was definitely not those type, Yeah, because they

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Speaker 1: Sometimes they spending money on you. They make you fucking

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Speaker 1: like the love Bombers. So it could be.

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Speaker 2: Addictive, Yeah, until you get home one day and you're like,

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Speaker 1: I don't like it. It's like temporary satisfaction, yeah, versus like.

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Speaker 3: We were just talking about where I'm at and the

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Speaker 3: emotionally unavailable, like in a way that I'm like, damn.

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Speaker 3: What I'm really doing is when I'm seeing the comments

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Speaker 3: it is, even though I'm emotionally unavailable for partnership right now,

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Speaker 3: that's another thing y'all gotta realize too. When women say

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Speaker 1: So like, right now, I have, you know, guys.

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Speaker 3: That I talk to on the phone, that I FaceTime,

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Speaker 3: that I spend time with them. I'm a job and

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Speaker 3: they're filling in all of these different pockets. But I

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Speaker 3: I used to have, like casual sex and have so

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Speaker 3: many men in my acalation don't feel good no more, bro,

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Speaker 3: But I'm having right now casual sex and it's I'm fulfilled.

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Speaker 1: Set. Wait, what's the living life wrong part? Why do

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Speaker 1: you feel like it could be a wrong. Well, there's

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Speaker 1: a wrong because of fucking patriarchy.

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Speaker 3: So when I'm reading the comments, it's a fellas, this

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Speaker 3: that'll drain you spiritually. Hey, fellas, this is the this

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Speaker 3: is the whole ass bitch that this is the There

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Speaker 3: was another comment that said, if she was in her twenties,

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Speaker 3: I would get her acting like this, but you too

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Speaker 3: I wrong for feeling liberated for being emotionally unavailable for

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Speaker 3: a relationship but still navigating dating? Where also I'm not

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Speaker 1: Bruh.

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Speaker 3: Someone said, Damn, Mandy Love wasting niggas time. How am

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Speaker 1: Let's all have a good time together. Do you know

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Speaker 2: Because all these men at the same time could be

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Speaker 1: You just said that, let me ask you. Let me

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, it's because he didn't get us drinks.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, Nigga said, but also, I don't

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Speaker 3: I think he has a kink of pissing me off.

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Speaker 3: I think every time we go out with this, he

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Speaker 1: Guys every time and you and they're like, tell her,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, literally, she has to come and get me

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Speaker 1: And I was like, bro, this is every time he

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Speaker 1: loves it. He'd like to talk to the horror high

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Speaker 1: when I say, I'll be yelling at my name, what

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Speaker 1: does Mandy do? Oh? She is crazy? I want act

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Speaker 1: a little cuckoo bird. I don't. I don't cuss out.

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Speaker 1: I just leave. Cuckoo bird is getting mad at given? No,

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Speaker 3: Wait do I always just say, oh, I'm leaving and

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Speaker 3: he'd be like, no, you're not going in there.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm leaving, And so I leave.

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Speaker 2: And okay, So what's the difference between him putting you

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Speaker 1: Depending on the niggas? Like, that's what I'm saying, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, there has been many times.

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Speaker 3: Where you you has talked to a nigga with power

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Speaker 3: and money, with money right.

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Speaker 1: Now, I ain't. You absolutely have been at a table

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Speaker 3: Both of y'all, both of y'all have been no because

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna call you bitches out right now, because y'all

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Speaker 1: You have both been to a clurb table restaurants outside before.

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Speaker 1: Now where you was? What is outside? Even with a

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Speaker 1: my man. Now you knew that you shared space with

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Speaker 2: You was at a club and I didn't even And

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Speaker 2: this is why my ship, they aren't good for you.

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Speaker 1: The bucks should stop with me. Don't worry, Joe, your

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Speaker 1: what did y'all do that night? Take shots together? Nobody left?

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Speaker 1: Y'all had a great time. Wait, we didn't live together.

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Speaker 3: My point, So why the do these niggas with mister

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Speaker 1: And I went home?

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Speaker 3: So my point, if these niggas talk together and be like,

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Speaker 3: are you fucking Mandy?

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Speaker 1: Are you talking to Mandie? It's up to them.

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Speaker 2: Whether the exactly y'all say it was a running it

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Speaker 1: If none of these both of us, none of these niggas. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. That's what I'm saying. They don't

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Speaker 3: Right now it feels great, it feels empowering, and I

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Speaker 1: Games made the best in the night.

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Speaker 3: Any of y'all really, let's see who I have not

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Speaker 3: I'll take anyone.

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Speaker 2: Because it's her roster. Yeah, you know, I've never been

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Speaker 1: I would say where in the same space I had

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Speaker 1: for me, I do.

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Speaker 3: Think that might be a love that y'all keep talking

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Speaker 1: I'm not. I would actually like that for me. There's

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Speaker 2: Only thing that I said that you're crazy about is

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Speaker 1: Mandy showed her ex boyfriend to do your bag that

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Speaker 1: the other nigga got her, and basically it was like

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Speaker 1: where are you? We wasn't together yet.

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Speaker 2: Mandy over Sherry, all right, nobody asked the half three

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Speaker 2: dudes in one room, but I'm not telling them that there.

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Speaker 1: I went to Barney's today and look at this new collection.

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Speaker 1: Yes it's seventy eight hundred dollars.

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Speaker 3: Sure, I haven't so I love how y'all just are

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Speaker 1: You don't lie. We don't information just like men do.

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Speaker 2: Huh.

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Speaker 1: I like that? No, no, no, no, I agree, I do it.

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Speaker 2: You basically ask me something I'm not telling you, and

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Speaker 2: because you want to go against me right now, we're

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Speaker 3: This is a new icebreaker that we have here on

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Speaker 3: the pod when we have guests. And because this bitch

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Speaker 1: Aim as ship, I've done it. I just didn't tell them. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I love someone else fighting but us. Okay, So do

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Speaker 1: you want.

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Speaker 3: To do the truth first or the dear first.

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Speaker 1: I want to do to truth. How about is it there?

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Speaker 1: It's not bad? Let me do the truth truth.

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Speaker 3: What is a kink or fantasy that you're currently curious

433
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 3: about but haven't tried? Child's play. She's a little bit

434
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,639
Speaker 3: more vanilla than we are. You a little bit vanilla?

435
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 3: Like what the kink or fantasy that you haven't tried

436
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,720
Speaker 3: that you actually would try that I haven't tried.

437
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 1: Not horrible decisions anymore, So spice it up for them.

438
00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:33,600
Speaker 1: Oh man, I don't know why you're going. I just

439
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 1: don't be doing that ship. But I think I.

440
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 2: Think like the real life bondage. Oh like like the

441
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,159
Speaker 2: real life bondage, not just like you're the handcuffs and

442
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:44,120
Speaker 2: getting tied up.

443
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 1: And I want to try like the real ship. You

444
00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 1: know what's crazy?

445
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 3: I'll be saying that in terms of like, in terms

446
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 3: of like certain kink people. I literally am like, bro,

447
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 3: where the fuck am I gonna find a nigga that

448
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 3: just has rope in his closet?

449
00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 1: And then if he has, are you surial killers? Where's

450
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 1: Barry and Dexter when you need him? Literally?

451
00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 3: I don't know how I would feel if I start

452
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 3: dating someone and he just happens ahead.

453
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 2: Did you put them out with my man Valentine's They

454
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:11,400
Speaker 2: pulled out the restraints.

455
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 1: We'd already been together for a year. First of all,

456
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 1: where the fuck was this? Like? Who the fuck I'm

457
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 1: telling you? When he went to the bathroom, I literally went.

458
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 1: I lifted up the mattress to see. Didn't look used?

459
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 1: Was there any oils lotion? I wanted to see if

460
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 1: it was tainted? Because when the fuck you added this?

461
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 1: Why am I just seeing it later? I'm a bitch.

462
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:34,240
Speaker 3: I I maybe because I actually date and deal with

463
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 3: quote unquote regular guys. I've never met a kinkster like

464
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 3: I've never dated a kinky person.

465
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: Well, and I get them. Here's the thing, here's the thing.

466
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 2: That's something I want to try and want to do,

467
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 2: but I know I can't do it with someone who

468
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 2: hasn't done it before.

469
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,119
Speaker 3: You have to do it with it. You have to

470
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,159
Speaker 3: do it with someone who knows you. Think your boyfriend

471
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:52,640
Speaker 3: would let you hire someone to.

472
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 1: Have you no fu fuck, no baby?

473
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:04,159
Speaker 3: Okay, Well here's the deer, all right, think quickly, please,

474
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 3: we don't have all fucking day. Dear, say the filthiest

475
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 3: sentence you can think of in less than ten words.

476
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 3: So the nastiest sentence you can think of count gonna

477
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 3: say in less than ten words.

478
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to count. Fuck y'all the

479
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 1: kinkiest just say like a dirty sex talk. That's real dancy.

480
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 1: But hurry up, bady, three two one.

481
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 2: I want you to wait, wait, wait, Clay, come in

482
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 2: my mouth and let me spit it back into your mouth.

483
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 2: Who I know that I got more words right now.

484
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: I don't be doing what you do, Yes, you do.

485
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 1: I just say that she said that.

486
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 2: You see in your turns, your turn, head in your

487
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Speaker 2: turn like I'm my worse left slowly Okay.

488
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 7: That's crazy Spanish. I cannot do. I want you to

489
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 7: get over here and face there.

490
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 1: That's all. That's all I got Tuesday night. Right here,

491
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:19,880
Speaker 1: here goes mine.

492
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 6: You.

493
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 1: No, I don't want to do mine. Hurry up, come

494
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 1: to think though, ready three two one? Bend that ass

495
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 1: over and let me milk that dick.

496
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 7: Oh my lord, I don't want to hear the world milk. Okay,

497
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 7: so you know how I understand? I understand, yeah, no, yeah, okay,

498
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:43,239
Speaker 7: I'm in putting the milk in my mouth and then

499
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 7: we're like, okay, hear me out. This is the position.

500
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 1: Okay.

501
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,199
Speaker 3: I don't know if y'all are watching on YouTube, but

502
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 3: there's a thing now where are now?

503
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 1: Hold on? Yeah?

504
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 3: Imagine real quick, yeah, so imagine this. Imagine the camera's

505
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 3: over there. So the view is the dick is hanging

506
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 3: right here, and you only see the asshole. You see

507
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 3: the asshole and they dick, and then the person is

508
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:09,360
Speaker 3: stroking the dick.

509
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 1: So all you see is it's like the milky. Oh

510
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 1: it's a milking position right now. I am into it.

511
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: I don't want it. I don't have to see the face.

512
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 3: It's just a bootle hole with a dick and balls

513
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,440
Speaker 3: and you just they stroke it or they have someone

514
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 3: else stroke it.

515
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 1: And it's such a beautiful. Okay, reason you gotta do

516
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 1: it too, But involve milks. Milk? Yeah, because there was

517
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 1: letcher right there, milk right here. Comic Oh you.

518
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 2: Nasty, Okay, you gotta do something. Would come come on,

519
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 2: cocky queen where you said milk milk is come nut.

520
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 1: I ran out of milk for the coffee. Can you

521
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: fuck me? And then we can take the cream out

522
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:49,919
Speaker 1: of me? That is that's way more than it was

523
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:53,679
Speaker 1: like fifty, Oh witch, I don't know you're a cow.

524
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 1: I did what I don't, I haven't nobody else was

525
00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: giving a fucking I don't. Okay, next segment what I

526
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: really like and we like to take people's musical cards.

527
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 3: And black cards away for not knowing this. We have

528
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 3: a segment called.

529
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 1: Poetry, not to be confused with slow Tree, who everybody

530
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: sings thinks I am Marciambrosia. That's crazy. It seems exhausting

531
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 1: bite that never thought about that. Do you know how

532
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: often this happens? I didn't think you don't say something,

533
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 1: but it doesn't.

534
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 3: They really Okay, So Rosie, I am going to read

535
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 3: the lyrics of a song in a very poetic way. Eden,

536
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 3: do not jump in. Weezy, do not jump in. However,

537
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 3: you haven't tested. We're gonna We're gonna see.

538
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 2: We are gonna see how.

539
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 3: Far if you know what the song is it three

540
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 3: six nine, No damn girl, five suck it to me

541
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 3: one mold time.

542
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,120
Speaker 1: I was not gonna make it easy. Okay, This one

543
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 1: to me is fairly easy. Okay.

544
00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 3: I could be your bud, you could beat me up,

545
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:08,439
Speaker 3: play fight in the dark, then we both make up.

546
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 3: I do anything just to feel your butt. Why do

547
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 3: you got me so messed up? I don't know, but

548
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 3: you got to stop tripping.

549
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 1: Be a good girl. Now turn around and get these whippings.

550
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: What the kind of song is that? You know? You

551
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: like it? Like that? You don't have to fight back.

552
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 2: You don't have to fight back here.

553
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 1: Separate ways. You want to know why I knew that's

554
00:27:56,160 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: so great? I did care Yoki this week? What no

555
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: one did? They like Lovers and Friends?

556
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 3: I'm like, wait, that is that the karaoke song that

557
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 3: people do bro people do a little John?

558
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 1: It was I love I love that song. I actually

559
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 1: have a karaoke list that I just started because there

560
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,679
Speaker 1: was White Bits Sticks to meet. I was like, oh,

561
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go, and she had like twenty songs.

562
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: She's like everybody should have one on their phone. So

563
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 1: we do a trap karaoke this Friday. So here's my

564
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 1: sober song, Bills, Bill's Bills. Okay, then I have a

565
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 1: few shots at tequila and it's gonna be I Kids

566
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,360
Speaker 1: stick girl. I liked it. Is that your white girl song?

567
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 2: Yeah?

568
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 1: Your white girl? Yeah, I'm on a cruise. Yeah. Then

569
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: I have number three. This is when I'm smacked and

570
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 1: it's Alana's morse.

571
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 3: You are two white songs and a dusty shot. What

572
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 3: are your three karaoke songs?

573
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: Yes? Your three go to? Yes? I got, I got

574
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: my three sing along? Don't how you get? Probably? Three?

575
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: Three go to is right?

576
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 2: Hot Chili Peppers, Californication Okay, Bob Marley, could you be loved?

577
00:28:58,920 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: Oh? Okay?

578
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 2: And then maybe like Ari, am losing my religion just

579
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 2: because I like it and I never get to hear it. Okay,

580
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 2: I really like that the first though, Californication.

581
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: I love. I love that to me depending on the crowd,

582
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: I realized, So tyrone.

583
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 3: Is my go to, but when the crowd don't know it,

584
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 3: I didn't try to perform tyrone when when the whites

585
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 3: are there, they just don't know what's going on, and

586
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 3: it doesn't feel like I'm.

587
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: What's crazy is jump?

588
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 3: So Tyrone Erica Badu is my number one song that

589
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 3: I go to. However, then what's funny is I have

590
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 3: two white songs that I go to.

591
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 1: Of course, bitch.

592
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 3: The first one is because we sound alike, and you're

593
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 3: not gonna tell me we don't share belief?

594
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: Do you believe in love? See? And believe you sound

595
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: like you with us something you know already, like you

596
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: want to start singing a long And then my other

597
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: one is uh panic at the disco?

598
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 2: Uh yes, I and I went into okay to hear no,

599
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 2: I can't help, but to hear any don't horror.

600
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 1: That's the their part.

601
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 2: I went to, are okay, uptown, you can play that

602
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 2: at weddings, And then every time wedding the video is

603
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 2: a wedding, a bad wedding, isn't it?

604
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 1: But the brideway is a whore. And then everybody was like.

605
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 2: Hell, two people never heard of calling the goddamn dar now.

606
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 3: Like, oh my god, they are really trying to get

607
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 3: another demographic over here.

608
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 1: These bitches. I said, I wanted to do a day

609
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: trap of white songs that black people love. But I

610
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: said it in front of the white girl and she's like,

611
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: I know exactly which one of those are? Also? Like

612
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: literally ones? Are they? Bitch? She said, go first? She said,

613
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 1: black people love what's that song? Blinkin a two? What's

614
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: mama things? Our age group though? That American pie era? Yeah?

615
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, didn't everything sounded like those white guys?

616
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 3: Wait, do you know who I love right now ye'ah.

617
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 3: I have a new white that I'm kind of obsessed.

618
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 2: Don't say the racist one.

619
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 1: The country singer whoa what bigger country? It's fun. You're

620
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 1: not supposed to know his music. I don't know.

621
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 2: I don't know.

622
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 1: I just know he allegedly allegedly allegedly, so I don't know.

623
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 2: I don't know why country. You can't hear it outside

624
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 2: your taste. You have to listen to it in silence and.

625
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait, not that kind. I'm not gonna lie though.

626
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 3: A white racist country singer not surprise, surprising, but it's

627
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 3: just really good. Well, this guy, I don't know, he's

628
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 3: been around for years, but he is really leaning into

629
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 3: his white boy aesthetic.

630
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: No bitch, he's leaning that.

631
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 2: Don't look like he's Showers example, he's leaning into his white.

632
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: I was thinking you were talking about the music, but

633
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 1: now this guy looks clean. Showers is putting a little

634
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: once MGK love me some MGK Machine Gun. Kelly's clean. Yeah,

635
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: he cleaned, a little cleaned up.

636
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 2: Have you seen his new ship and looks like the

637
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 2: heat does a show?

638
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 3: No, his new ship, he looked like he shower machine

639
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 3: gun Kelly. I finally am like looking at him, and

640
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 3: I'm like wondering what that did be, like.

641
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 1: You know, crazy, like I'm going white guy, it's not

642
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: clean esthetic, white guy.

643
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 2: I want fucking Bushwick bro. I want you to just

644
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 2: fucking feel free with you. Make our dude, Molly whatever

645
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 2: man does he look like?

646
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: Name? Shaggy hair like name Jared celebrity name of white celebrity,

647
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 1: Jared Lettle. I don't know Jared Letto.

648
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 3: I need like that the nigga with the chin he

649
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 3: gay Wait, not ja.

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Speaker 1: I know you white people, and you know what, I

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Speaker 1: have a white podcast for fact's sake. And he's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: not like it's so hard.

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Speaker 7: Jared Lettle was He was the band leader of thirty

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Speaker 7: Seconds to Mars. But he was also the joker that's

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Speaker 1: Leisure is one of those. For me rest in peace.

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Speaker 3: I was about to say, we can't be blest and

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Speaker 3: over goddamn dead.

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Speaker 1: You can. Jada Pickett does it every day.

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Speaker 1: Still, still people grieve in.

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Speaker 2: Forty years spend if I if that did was like

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Speaker 1: Want to I'm not gonna lie. I had everything data said.

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Speaker 1: I want to holler ground listen.

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Speaker 2: If I was alive to have fucked or fucked with Tupac,

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Speaker 2: I would still be talking about it to Jada.

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Speaker 1: Not a lot of people can do that. But let's

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Speaker 1: not act like Will Smith?

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Speaker 5: Is it?

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Speaker 1: Will Smith? Can you really be playing in this nigga face? Bro?

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Speaker 1: I just don't understand. How much can we hear about

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Speaker 1: him anymore? I have nothing good to say. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how to step in here without added

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Speaker 2: to the disrespect saying.

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Speaker 1: I really know.

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Speaker 8: Okay, so let's go to the next segment, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Uh, this one is our reactionary. I have a clip

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Speaker 3: that I'm gonna play. It's a little long, so I'll

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Speaker 3: cut it off. But this is an interesting take, and

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Speaker 3: this is where I want to read you bitches for filth.

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Speaker 1: But here we go. No one will read us like

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Speaker 1: Jamie got.

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Speaker 5: You pray on dumb uh ill equipped women to make

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Speaker 5: your wife. It's not like he said, I'm gonna go

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Speaker 5: to Italy, I'm going to France.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to one of these uh countries.

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Speaker 5: You're going to a third world country to find a

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Speaker 5: woman that can't tell you what's two plus two.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna bring it.

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Speaker 5: Back here and treat it like ship for the rest

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Speaker 5: of your life because it's your cocky. You want to

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Speaker 5: treat it like the Comku bacause you never had no

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Speaker 5: power nowhere else, so now you're gonna exert your power

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Speaker 5: over this woman.

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Speaker 6: The number one movie was Hostella Got Her.

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Speaker 1: Groove Back, and it's the same ship. Oh, I can't

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Speaker 1: do what I need.

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Speaker 6: No way you're gonna justify high earning women going to

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Speaker 6: Jamaica and no, ain't no different than a man going

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Speaker 6: to a third world country and getting a chick that

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Speaker 6: don't speak no English. That's the same equivalency of the batchery.

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Speaker 1: That's all bullshit, right.

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Speaker 5: Number of women doing that is way less than the niggas.

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Speaker 1: That are going over to That's not true.

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Speaker 5: Pop puntrees snatching a woman away and destroying the rest.

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Speaker 1: Of her life, destroying her life. Maybe taking to a life,

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Speaker 1: take away her rights.

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Speaker 5: You can beat on her, you can tell her she

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Speaker 5: had no sexual agency. You can treat her like literal ship.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she would go back to her love.

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Speaker 1: But why don't we have to do it like that?

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Speaker 1: Maybe I just want to take so why you couldn't

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Speaker 1: do that here? Why you specific to get up? Okay?

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Speaker 1: My hot take is it's safing thing because we all

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Speaker 1: got takes that. I don't think y'all have this one

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Speaker 1: because mine is really specific. I don't believe they're taking

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Speaker 1: advantage of this these women necessarily. I think they actually

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Speaker 1: are seeking these women out because they don't have the

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Speaker 1: infectious I'm not gonna do ship for a nigga that

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Speaker 1: all men believe we are. I think they know that

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Speaker 1: these women in other countries probably are more closely tied

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Speaker 1: to family the patriarchy in ways that are beneficial to them.

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Speaker 1: Now for me, I'm somebody that wants to get married

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Speaker 1: to have children, so I believe maternal qualities aren't bad.

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Speaker 1: I don't believe seeking that from a partner is a

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Speaker 1: bad thing. Where some people may look at it that way,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I think it's okay to want someone for

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Speaker 1: their maternal and paternal instincts. I just believe that people

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Speaker 1: in other countries are more connected to family and community

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Speaker 1: in a way that Americans are not. And the problem is,

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Speaker 1: we are such high earning women and we're meeting so

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Speaker 1: many men that have so many options to where we've

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Speaker 1: lost that connection too, to honoring men in a certain way.

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Speaker 1: So when you go to these other countries and you

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Speaker 1: realize they're treating their men a certain way, fuck it,

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Speaker 1: you fucking scooping them up like that's actually what I

747
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Speaker 1: think that is. Sure, do you want to make some

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Speaker 1: hot Columbian bitch as sex slave. I'm not saying that

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Speaker 1: can't happen, But for the most part, I think they

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Speaker 1: love the fact they ready to have four kids and

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Speaker 1: do nothing. And you're not going to meet an American

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Speaker 1: woman that's that happy to do nothing. That's especially because

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Speaker 1: they be losers. I love it. I love it like

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Speaker 1: the user bomass niggas, the hey fellas is going out

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Speaker 1: to another country to get whatever they need. Go away. Now.

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Speaker 1: My take, my hot take is I believe that they

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Speaker 1: are wrong.

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Speaker 3: I think that they are There are many high earning

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Speaker 3: or well earning women that actually do want a nigga

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Speaker 3: that they can boss around. So I say this because

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Speaker 3: there is an influx of women, which I don't think

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Speaker 3: is any different than the passport bros looking to date

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Speaker 3: inmates looking to date.

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Speaker 1: Niggas in jail bro. Okay, Bro, they got job. I

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Speaker 1: want to say, rest in pey hain't in hell. But

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Speaker 1: are high value women. Don't think we're not Kevin Sammy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I watched Love After lock Up. They are the

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Speaker 2: same white women that are going to Nigeria. So so

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Speaker 2: here's here's my thing about what they were just saying.

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Speaker 3: Though at the end of the day, it's back to

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Speaker 3: what I said on the Breakfast Club. A lot of

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Speaker 3: people deserve the relationships they're in. So I think that

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Speaker 3: even the women that would date a passport bro couldn't

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Speaker 3: get a nigga a country either. So they got a

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Speaker 3: stand for a passport bro or a lame bum ass

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Speaker 3: motherfucker because in their own country, they weren't sought after,

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Speaker 3: they weren't.

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Speaker 1: Able to get high esteemed men.

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Speaker 3: So they're the bottom of the barrel. I think in

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Speaker 3: they country too, Nah, it's bottom of the barrel. Day,

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Speaker 3: bottom of the barrel.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of I don't know about that, bro.

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Speaker 1: I watch a lot of ninety Day Fiance Okay, I

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Speaker 1: hate to admit every Sunday, and they have good looks.

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Speaker 1: Cool a lot of women.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm sorry outlook men on the daily niggas is ugly.

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Speaker 1: We're the fuck they're ugly.

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Speaker 3: So there's a lot of beauty in women that comes

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Speaker 3: easy and they're not swagging. But what I see, what

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Speaker 3: I see happening with a lot of the women overseas

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Speaker 3: that we presume to be aesthetically beautiful, their families want

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Speaker 3: them to marry a nigga that's gonna take care of them,

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Speaker 3: because they don't. They're not raised in wealth. They're looking

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Speaker 3: to either just become moms or just become housewives. And

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Speaker 3: so if a man can go overseas and literally have

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Speaker 3: a live in housewife that is also his sex slave

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Speaker 3: and mother of his children and only make thirty five

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Speaker 3: thousand dollars a year, he's with the type of woman

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Speaker 3: that that's all she could probably bag too.

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Speaker 1: So there's a specific couple and that's like a one up.

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Speaker 1: And I watched this recently because they brought them back

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Speaker 1: on a new spinoff Annie, and they they live in Orlando.

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Speaker 1: That's what made me think of them. She's Dominican, brownskin black.

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Speaker 2: To me, and he is too. They look like they

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Speaker 2: would have met anywhere. They're both Dominican, they're both.

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Speaker 1: He no, no, he got that Dominican.

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Speaker 6: Hair.

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Speaker 1: They both got that look. They both look like a

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Speaker 1: Dominican couple. But when I was looking at them, I

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Speaker 1: was like, damn, this is probably one of the first

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Speaker 1: like normal people. Medium likely people go together all the time.

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Speaker 1: But I was thinking to myself, this is probably one

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Speaker 1: that was the most fair. He definitely can't afford to

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Speaker 1: have someone stay at home, cooking clean on his salary

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Speaker 1: and be happy in Florida. She definitely wants to leave

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Speaker 1: dr They kind of don't look like they're living that

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Speaker 1: well in the States, but they're both really happy they

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Speaker 1: started their family. And I was honestly thinking about myself,

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Speaker 1: is it that?

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Speaker 3: So that's what I think these relationship dynamics that happened.

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Speaker 3: I think so many of us want to nitpick who

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Speaker 3: people are, how much they make from the outside looking in,

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Speaker 3: and a lot.

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Speaker 1: Of those all saying about that checklist dating.

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Speaker 3: But a lot of people are happy with the people

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Speaker 3: that they end up with. I mean a lot of

828
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Speaker 3: people are unhappy too. But I think people in a

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Speaker 3: lot of people settle. But I think a lot of

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Speaker 3: those passport world relationships or high earning women that go

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Speaker 3: after like maybe lower income men or inmates or whatever.

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Speaker 1: It's it works for both parties. I think settling is

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Speaker 1: only when you're unhappy. I actually don't think settling can

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Speaker 1: be the standards of like the like, if you're enjoying

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Speaker 1: your relationship, it's not settling. No, I agree, and I

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Speaker 1: actually have Oh we can maybe if you don't mind,

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Speaker 1: you know, you have a listening to we judge. This

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Speaker 1: was a really big one for me. And if y'all

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Speaker 1: haven't heard this segment yet, we listen and we judges

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Speaker 1: where we tell you our friends got friends with bitch

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Speaker 1: off for the tail. You know, I gotta do sect

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Speaker 1: Oh I got I got some. This is actually all contential.

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Speaker 1: We are not telling secrets.

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Speaker 3: I've always I gotta ask, Well, I was gonna make

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Speaker 3: it seem like another bit.

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Speaker 1: Oh is you ask?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Hey causevia suff real quick, no figure it out homegirl

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Speaker 2: is exceptionally attractive and started dating someone at work now,

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Speaker 2: she is one of those girls.

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Speaker 1: Where data network. I'm already judging her. Uh it's a

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Speaker 1: little They're more like passer by industry. They're both in Hollywood.

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Speaker 1: They're not like nine to five in each other every day. Okay,

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Speaker 1: But I will say she's one of those people, normal

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Speaker 1: girl with a few hundred followers in the ballplayers and

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Speaker 1: recently said to me she wanted to go on a

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Speaker 1: double date when I'm in LA with my man. She

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, I want you all to judge me,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, why would we judge you? I

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Speaker 1: haven't seen them. She's like he's fat, and I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 1: wait wait, like how fat? Though? Yeah, how fad? So

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Speaker 1: I'm like like junkie, like like like big boned it

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Speaker 1: even want you to know. Did you say how fat?

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Speaker 1: I did say how fat? And I was like, but

868
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 1: also can be honest, like you been going through hell

869
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: with these niggas and you were fucking happiest. Fuck you

870
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:14,320
Speaker 1: guys just seem to be like annoying. She's been remodeling

871
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: a house she bought, like really struggling. He found an

872
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 1: architect based on a photo she liked and brought her,

873
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 1: brought them, brought the person. Yeah, of course he got

874
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 1: into this whole debate of where she's like, you know,

875
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: I just feel like, because I'm getting close to forty,

876
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 1: I'm settling. But whatever, we're enjoying ourselves.

877
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:36,760
Speaker 2: And I'm like, maybe you were settling with the last

878
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 2: fucking Lakers player when he wasn't treating you and you

879
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,760
Speaker 2: were crying, Like you're happy and you're settling.

880
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 1: What the fuck are you talking about? Like niggas get

881
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,879
Speaker 1: fat and we have zi nigcause ripid, who gives a ship?

882
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,359
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but like shallow, how for me? If I

883
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: intrinsically felt happy and I thought you were the sexiest

884
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 1: nigga and we were having great sex, she said the

885
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 1: sex is bomb? So who cares? She cares? And that

886
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 1: is to me crazy that I mean, that's crazy, man.

887
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 1: If I'm happy for real, I mean good things.

888
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 3: She's happy, But I'm curious to know how many other

889
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:07,280
Speaker 3: fat guys she's dated before.

890
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. She like, she was like he was

891
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 1: really dated she dated a Lakers player Before that, she

892
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 1: dated an actor.

893
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 2: Let me ask y' all question, Think about the happiest

894
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 2: you've ever been with a man, right, Jesus, just just

895
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 2: know your feelings, how you feel around him, how he

896
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 2: made you feel, everything he did for you.

897
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 1: What if what if he was fat? Well, all the

898
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: same characteristics. First, it wouldn't be the same, like she said,

899
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:36,840
Speaker 1: because my nigga got fat, hasn't done. That's not the

900
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 1: same thing. So I already love him. No if your

901
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: nigga got that different, because you cannot believe it would

902
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 1: be that much of a big deal for y'all to

903
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:46,959
Speaker 1: and y'all have judge me. I don't give a fuck.

904
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: I was a big bitch and I ain't never date

905
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 1: no big niggas because you're big too. Even just because

906
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: I lost weight doesn't mean I'm gonna go tate big

907
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:57,399
Speaker 1: niggas now. No, she big big, She's right. I don't

908
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 1: see a lot of big couples together all the time

909
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 1: unless it's been like.

910
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 2: No, if I say bigger, I always see the skinniest

911
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 2: that just came out of jail.

912
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: But like, honestly, I was judging her crazy. I was like, oh,

913
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 1: bitch on when you saw him? No, no, no, I was

914
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: judging her crazy for the way she was talking, like,

915
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 1: you know, the happiness, the way she's been feeling lighter.

916
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 1: They literally are doing shit with their families. They're taking

917
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 1: their families. Can I got a comparison? You see him?

918
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 1: Any cute thought him? Yes, maybe he has face or something.

919
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 3: Can't be that bad, shed Okay, here's the thing. Let's

920
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 3: draw the comparison real quick. How many men do we

921
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 3: know end up really having a good time and loving

922
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 3: a hoe and then they have a problem with like,

923
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 3: oh damn, this is the girl I'm about to bring

924
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 3: around my family, This is the girl I'm about to

925
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,760
Speaker 3: bring around my friends, and she has maybe this type

926
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 3: of perception about.

927
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 1: I rather you fuck my co host. I don't care

928
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 1: if you was the whole ass nigga. I don't care.

929
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,839
Speaker 1: Tell everybody we on the tail, don't be ugly. We

930
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 1: don't care about Hawaii niggas. I'm talking about me. Men. No,

931
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 1: men normally care about what people think.

932
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 3: So when you said it, the fact that she's like,

933
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 3: don't judge me because now she's.

934
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 1: Bringing him around friends.

935
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 3: To be fair, I think women actually do that quite often,

936
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 3: Like when we know we're liking somebody and we want

937
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 3: to bring them around our friends. There is a little

938
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 3: bit like you wonder what our friends will think about? No,

939
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 3: is that never a thing?

940
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 6: Not me?

941
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:30,800
Speaker 1: I do fine. I mean like, I ain't got to

942
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:34,320
Speaker 1: worry about any friends.

943
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna be honest. I'm on that level too.

944
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 2: I've never dated.

945
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 1: Someone ugly, but I I've dated guys that weren't as attractive.

946
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 2: That's something I've dated. Ugly, man, I like, I have

947
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 2: a thing for medium ugly, you do. I like them,

948
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 2: but they got like.

949
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 1: You like uglies. Yeah, but they're cool. They're cool. They're cool,

950
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 1: and they have.

951
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 2: They have this little or about them and they're funny.

952
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 2: And so those are the little things I look.

953
00:46:58,760 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 1: So here's a.

954
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 7: Comment she made me because I know anybody didn't listen

955
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:02,839
Speaker 7: to and be like, which one is it?

956
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 1: Wow? Right now? No, but the mother ones was ugly.

957
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:14,360
Speaker 1: That's crazy, it was she told you that before this all. No,

958
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: let me tell you. We at a party.

959
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,439
Speaker 3: She tells me she likes the ugliest nigga in the room,

960
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 3: and it's like, could you could you ask your I

961
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 3: was with my dude, could you ask your dude? I

962
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 3: asked him myself to hook me up with and I said, bro,

963
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 3: all these niggas in the room.

964
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 1: He ugly girl, ugly little. When I say, she knows ugly,

965
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:36,839
Speaker 1: but she was.

966
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 2: Like, it's a dark room. You spent your eyes a

967
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 2: little bit, take a shine, Like, yeah, he fine.

968
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 1: I love him. That's insane. The most funny looking nigga

969
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 1: I ever dated. I don't want to say it now,

970
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:50,919
Speaker 1: but but he was the funniest and he was also

971
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: everybody loved being around him. And you know what, it's

972
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,280
Speaker 1: always that one. I will tell you this. She was embarrassing.

973
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: I took him to a movie premiere. It was it

974
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: was ken you embarrasses you people. Now we're gonna look

975
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 1: it up, bitch. And Kenya went to me and said,

976
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: he must really treat you. Well, wow, wow, that's what

977
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 1: he must really treat what she said, uh, mind you.

978
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 1: So they're both in Hollywood. There are a lot of

979
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 1: spots in Hollywood where execs go. I don't know how

980
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 1: high up the ladder he is. But she's like a

981
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 1: big streaming service. Now, she said, they pull up to

982
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: like Saffie's Chaconi's these are like spots where you're gonna

983
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 1: see somebody. He's like, I can mix see other people

984
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:33,879
Speaker 1: looking at me. He's that ugly. No, he's fat, he's

985
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 1: that fat. But she's that fine too, And so she says,

986
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 1: figure out. I feel like, is it over three? We

987
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 1: killing when we're kicking it or when we have to

988
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 1: be in New York for work. No one does this

989
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 1: to me. She's like, so now I'm getting in this

990
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 1: superficial brain of other people. He gotta be short and

991
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: fat because he was big and fat. I think I

992
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 1: really want to.

993
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 3: See what happens, like real quick, you have to take

994
00:48:57,239 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 3: a break on stuf. No, no, no, no, it's got to

995
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 3: be it's gotta be sized because he.

996
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 4: Was if he was a dud dah, you know.

997
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: Five eleven, I'm gonna say something.

998
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,280
Speaker 2: Sim I'm gonna say she's taller than him.

999
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 1: One I'm also saying, not Danny DeVito, Mandy, what's wrong

1000
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 1: with you? What? Jay Leno? Daddy DeVito? Like, all right,

1001
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say something, and I'm just shooting in the

1002
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 1: dark right now.

1003
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:25,919
Speaker 2: But let me know if I'm right later. Not only

1004
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 2: is he shorter than her, he's probably not the most

1005
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 2: up to par.

1006
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 1: And all that. Say what you want to really say?

1007
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 2: Oh you think he not fly yes, and I feel

1008
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 2: like that's I think.

1009
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 1: He looks dusty. He's gonna look dusty if they're both

1010
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: of like us.

1011
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter because men with money often don't care

1012
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 2: about how they look. He probably dresses fucking fucked up girls.

1013
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,839
Speaker 1: Short on a shot and you gonna be straight, see

1014
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 1: not if you don't want the shot, you don't know?

1015
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 1: Shoot him up with you said? What if you like

1016
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 1: being fat? If you can you shoot him up when

1017
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 1: he's that's like salt water. I don't know. I'm sorry.

1018
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 1: What if you don't want the shot, shoot him up

1019
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: when he's sleeping? Does you can't say that?

1020
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 3: If he says he doesn't want to lose weight, give

1021
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 3: him Timezzo said that to.

1022
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 1: Get him to run in.

1023
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 2: She don't want to be seeing so many people.

1024
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 1: There's a lot of people. I don't want to go

1025
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,319
Speaker 1: to dinner. Judge, I'm sorry, Edind's giving us the wink.

1026
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 1: So I don't know.

1027
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, Okay, so what is

1028
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 3: our advice? Well, we're judging your friend, for sure, I'm

1029
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,799
Speaker 3: what are we judging her for telling you not to

1030
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 3: judge her or for dating the fact for her care?

1031
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 1: I'm not just talking much about what people think. I think.

1032
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 1: I don't get judge, and I'm gona tell you why

1033
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 1: we can't judge that. I can't tell you how many bitches.

1034
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:49,280
Speaker 1: And I'm so tired of women saying a fine man

1035
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,760
Speaker 1: or a wealthy man, they can't believe he's with this woman.

1036
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:54,919
Speaker 1: I've heard people say, who just got that big ass

1037
00:50:54,960 --> 00:51:00,399
Speaker 1: rock Christiano Ronaldo? Oh yeah, that rock is ugly, you know, mother?

1038
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 1: That rock?

1039
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 2: Anything they want to say, Like when I watched their show,

1040
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 2: it wasn't Spanish, but I watched the subtitle.

1041
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,359
Speaker 1: She was like, oh, I worked at the scug store

1042
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:09,719
Speaker 1: and girls are looking at me like I can't believe

1043
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 1: he's with there. Okay, and she was a little chunky too,

1044
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 1: like everyone wants to know why her and I am

1045
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:16,840
Speaker 1: not going to do that.

1046
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 2: You never scrolled on Mother's Day or Valentine's Day and

1047
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 2: be like Dash's bitch of.

1048
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 1: A woman. So but yeah, I've done it exactly. We

1049
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 1: all have, especially a niggative. We all have what we like,

1050
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:33,919
Speaker 1: that's your girl.

1051
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 2: I thought she was because that's when they really posed

1052
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 2: and then they take it down. But that's when they

1053
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 2: really posed their actual bitch.

1054
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 1: You're like, oh got it. I wish.

1055
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 3: I want everybody to be happy with who they like. Yeah,

1056
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:50,799
Speaker 3: they like it works your challenge, your face, I do.

1057
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:54,360
Speaker 3: I want everyone to be happy, whether you are dating

1058
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:58,799
Speaker 3: multiple people and emotionally unavailable, or whether you are in

1059
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,759
Speaker 3: a flourishing relation and ship with the man of your dream.

1060
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: Now that might be fat, but that's okay. That's probably

1061
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:06,760
Speaker 1: not the man of her dreams.

1062
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 2: It's if he's.

1063
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 1: God seer's prayer, he bring you a fat nigga. Now

1064
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:17,399
Speaker 1: you're mad. I'm sorry, she's she's soaking. God, don't put

1065
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 1: that on God. God, don't just be I'm sorry, God, God,

1066
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:21,839
Speaker 1: give you a little life.

1067
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,640
Speaker 2: Blessing her, God, yeah, bless I just don't like her

1068
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 2: childish mentality about carrying.

1069
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:27,839
Speaker 1: I don't think she should care. I think if she'll

1070
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: be happy. But speaking of being blessed, bless us on

1071
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:34,240
Speaker 1: patreon dot com. That's horrible decisions. Spend that my knees.

1072
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Speaker 3: Guys, try to get us back onto the New York

1073
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1074
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Speaker 3: a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power.

1075
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Speaker 1: I don't I don't get me wrong. Of course, I

1076
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: want to be back on the list our publishers want.

1077
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:53,759
Speaker 1: I was already on bitch. When they said y'all could

1078
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:55,799
Speaker 1: be on next week, I was like, I'm already changed

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Speaker 1: my bio. I know, get on here, but it's already

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Speaker 1: tatted on my hand. Baby for him a case bring

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Speaker 1: I can get canceled the New York Times bestseller Mel Robbins.

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to worship a white woman. But if

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Speaker 1: that's the one, that's the one. That's the one.

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Speaker 3: And Mel Robbins told us congratulations, bitch and tagged us.

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Speaker 3: Rosie An tagged us she knows my name, well she

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Speaker 3: know pulled pus. But anyway, y'all make sure y'all get

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Speaker 3: that Rosie. Where can people listen to you and your

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Speaker 3: co host talk all the ship.

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Speaker 2: We're still on all platforms say less with kas low

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Speaker 2: Ki and Rosie.

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Speaker 1: But I got to change that soon.

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Speaker 3: It's Rosie, check it out, check it out, say less.

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Speaker 3: And we said too much, Actually we should have said

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Speaker 3: less this episode.

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Speaker 1: Well it's over here. We are bab you.

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Speaker 3: Guys so much for tuning in to another episode of

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Speaker 3: the

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