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Speaker 1: All right, guys, so listen to this.

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Speaker 2: If someone throws a party, are all guests obligated to

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Speaker 2: stay and clean? That's the question on the table. This

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Speaker 2: is from Tony and Steve HARVEYFM. Tony says, I was

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Speaker 2: at a friend's barbecue the other day and I feel

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Speaker 2: bad when it was over because everyone was cleaning up.

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Speaker 2: But I really had to go. I had to pick

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Speaker 2: my son up and get the other kids home to

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Speaker 2: go to sleep.

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Speaker 1: Staying to clean was not an option for me.

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Speaker 2: I have had parties where no one, no one stays

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Speaker 2: and cleans.

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Speaker 1: So here's my question. This is the question from Tony.

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Speaker 2: How obligated are party guests to stay at the end

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Speaker 2: and help the host clean?

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Speaker 3: If I throw a barbecue, then yes, I'm not really

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Speaker 3: expecting nobody to stay around and help me clean up.

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Speaker 3: I just don't if it was my choice. I decided

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Speaker 3: to invite you old, so I'm not expecting you to

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Speaker 3: do anything. I'm not expecting you to bring nothing. I'm

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Speaker 3: I'm laying it all the way out. But now let's

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Speaker 3: get to that Thanksgiving though, that's the one Thanksgiving that

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Speaker 3: that pot love, where everybody bringing something that one well,

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Speaker 3: the dishes are just everywhere, because think about it, y'all,

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Speaker 3: when we're doing a barbecue, it's really it's paper plates,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. You know you're making it

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Speaker 3: easy and simple, but when you pull out all that

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Speaker 3: that that that that good flat, well, all that good

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Speaker 3: good everything. Now okay, all right, if you're gonna sit

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Speaker 3: here and take all plates home, yes, yes, we're gonna

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Speaker 3: clean up together.

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Speaker 1: Oil oil.

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Speaker 4: Tommy, you're saying it depends on the occasion, if.

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Speaker 3: You sho I think it depends on the occasion when

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Speaker 3: it's Thanksgiving, because it's a mess. We everybody need to

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Speaker 3: clean up. Let's get together, that's all. And that's what

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Speaker 3: I've seen. You know our family members do they all

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Speaker 3: get together clean up, and.

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Speaker 1: We couldn't a family member.

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Speaker 3: You know, if you hate that thanks getting at the house,

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Speaker 3: you got four or five paper plates wrapped in foil. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I don't care who you got to pick up. You're

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Speaker 3: gonna be late picking them up. Okay, but clean up

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Speaker 3: round here.

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Speaker 1: If you're guests, go ahead, Junior, I'm gonna let you speak.

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Speaker 3: I'm totally against what Timmy's talking about.

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Speaker 1: I'm not on the clean up crewise, I'm the guest.

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Speaker 4: You called me and asked me to do that.

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Speaker 1: That's why over here am not picking up folk.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I am telling you right now, if you look

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Speaker 4: for me to have a trash bag at your house,

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Speaker 4: I will not.

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Speaker 2: I have gone so far as to ask do you

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Speaker 2: need any help? Meaning that as men.

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Speaker 4: Everybody, meaning sir, don't even bring up do you need anything?

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Speaker 1: I am here to eat and be merry.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm being.

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Speaker 1: So I appreciate what Timmy throw a barbecue. I love

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Speaker 1: going to look at the lake, have a wonderful.

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Speaker 4: Time, and then I'm leaving, gotta get out of Shirley.

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Speaker 3: Sure, when you call, when y'all say do you need

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Speaker 3: any help? If they say yes, then what.

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Speaker 2: Oh look at the time, girl, I'm sorry. They're not

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Speaker 2: going to say yes. You already know they're not gonna say.

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Speaker 3: Oh, my way out.

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Speaker 1: I point out stuff. Did you see that play by

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Speaker 1: the door?

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Speaker 3: I did?

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Speaker 4: Yes, They're not okay, So let me say it depends

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Speaker 4: on who is throwing the party. If it's somebody I'm

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Speaker 4: very very close to, I will say you need some help.

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Speaker 4: And I look in their kitchen and I look that

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Speaker 4: they're overwhelmed, then I will help.

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Speaker 1: I will help. It just depends on who it is.

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Speaker 1: Different but right, but she.

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Speaker 4: But I'm like Junior, I'm probably gonna bounce before the end,

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Speaker 4: before the clean up.

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Speaker 1: Who comes to me dipping out? Yes, I looked like

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Speaker 1: the kitchen. If it looked like the kitchen.

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Speaker 3: And Boomerange.

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Speaker 4: Barry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, man, don't leave me like this.

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Speaker 3: Man, don't do.

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Speaker 1: That when parents left. Yeah, thank bank, bank bank.

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Speaker 3: Hey, man, give me some help over here. If I

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Speaker 3: had to kill an insect while I was at your house,

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Speaker 3: I've done my job.

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Speaker 2: If you had to kill an insect, if.

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Speaker 3: I had to get there, legs on it, I'm going.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: Happy holidays, all right, coming up now. If you tell me, Frank, phone.

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Speaker 1: Call right after this you mean happy fourth the fourth

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