1 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Therapy for Black Girls podcast, where we 2 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 1: discuss all things mental health, personal development, and all the 3 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: small decisions we can make to become the best possible 4 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: versions of ourselves. I'm your host, Dr Joy Harden Bradford, 5 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: a licensed psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia. To get more information 6 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: and resources, visit the website at Therapy for Black Girls 7 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: dot com. And while I hope you love listening to 8 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 1: and learning from the podcast, it is not meant to 9 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: be a substitute for a relationship with a licensed mental 10 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: health professional. Hey, y'all, thanks so much for joining me 11 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: for session to any one of the Therapy for Black 12 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: Girls podcasts. So today I want to talk with you 13 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: all about how racism impacts our mental health. You know, 14 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 1: given the recent events in Charlottesville and just again increasing 15 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: racism and increasing white supremacy and the increasing violence that 16 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: I feel like we're experiencing, it just is feeling very 17 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: tough and very heavy. But I know many of us 18 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 1: have been feeling like this for a very long time. UM, 19 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: I have to be honest with you, it was very 20 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: difficult for me to even feel very connected to anything 21 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: really this weekend because it just feels like every time 22 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 1: you turn around, there's something else happening. So I want 23 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 1: to talk with you a little bit about how this 24 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: impacts our mental health and really give you all some 25 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: tips that I'm also trying to practice myself to try 26 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: to make sure that I can continue to show up 27 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: for myself and my family and for you guys in 28 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: ways that I hope UM strengthens our communities and our 29 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: families UM and wants to incur orage you to do 30 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: the same thing. UM. So really, when you think about 31 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: just all of the things that we have to go 32 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: through just being human, right, we deal with losses in 33 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: our lives and difficult relationships, UM, struggles at work, in school, 34 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: in different areas, and so it's really hard to just 35 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: be human sometimes. But then when you add on top 36 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: of it the rampant racism UM and hate that that 37 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 1: exists just because black people exists, it really can become 38 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: overwhelming and just downright exhausting at times. You know. So 39 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: when things like the event in Charlotte's well, the multiple events, 40 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: so first just the rally that was organized in general, 41 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: but then we see this person UM drive his car 42 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: into a crowd of people counter protesters who were fighting 43 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: against what the racists were fighting or um and actually 44 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: kill someone and and probably hoped to kill many more people. 45 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: You know, it just feels the world feels very unsafe 46 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: and unpredictable right now. And I think that that is 47 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: often the most significant impact that racism has on us, 48 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 1: is that it just makes everything feel very unpredictable. So 49 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:25,119 Speaker 1: it can often feel like you're not sure what's going 50 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: to happen when you wake up or go to bed 51 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:30,920 Speaker 1: at night. I think you look at co workers and 52 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: just random people on the streets differently because it's like, Okay, 53 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: were you one of those people in trolls thill this weekend? 54 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: Do you have plans to join something like this? I 55 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: think that there is a sense of paranoia that permeates 56 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: when things like this happened that feel very difficult to 57 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: kind of shake off. And some of it shouldn't be 58 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 1: shaken off, right, I mean, some of it is really healthy. 59 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 1: Others of it, other parts of it are not very healthy. 60 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: And so I'm hoping that some of what I will 61 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: share with you today will really help you to be 62 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: able to kind of continue to move forward in your 63 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: life so that we can kind of continue to fight 64 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 1: this much bigger thing that's going on in our world 65 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: and continue to take care of ourselves and each other. 66 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: So one of the first things, so I have some 67 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: tips and suggestions that I've talked about in articles in 68 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: the past, and also have a really great piece that 69 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: is circulating currently online that's called Surviving and Resisting Hate, 70 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 1: a two kit for people of color. And of course 71 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: all of this will be included in the show notes 72 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: that Therapy for Black Girls dot Com backslash Session twenty one. 73 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: But this is by Dr Adamis and Dr Chavez Duanna's 74 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: who run the i C Race Lab, and they have 75 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 1: some amazing, incredible information that I will also share. Um. 76 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:59,039 Speaker 1: So one of the first tips is related to your 77 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: behavior on line. So you know, you often hear people 78 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 1: talking about the fact that sometimes you really do just 79 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: have to disconnect. So I know, we want to kind 80 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: of stay up to date with all the information, and 81 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: we want to make sure that we don't miss something 82 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: that's happening, but there is still a way for you 83 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: to stay connected without watching every video, are clicking on 84 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: every story, because sometimes we really do get into an 85 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: information overload, and I feel like that's what I was 86 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: approaching this weekend, which is why I felt like I 87 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 1: just needed to disconnect and and not really you know, 88 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: kind of continue to be engaged with all the information 89 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: that was coming out this weekend. So really, do pay 90 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: attention to how much time you're spending on social media 91 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 1: and on various news sites so that you can, you know, 92 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 1: continue to take care of yourself as you need to. 93 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 1: The other tip, a second tip is to turn off 94 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: auto play on your social media so you know, if 95 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: you go into your settings, there's a way that you 96 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: can set up your social media profile so that videos 97 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 1: don't automatically play when you scroll by them. Because you 98 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: don't ever know what other people are going to be sharing, 99 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 1: right and so you don't, you know, want to get 100 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 1: triggered by a violent video or you know, some really 101 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 1: graphic image, then it is best to turn off the 102 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: auto play and um, you know, so that those graphics 103 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 1: and images don't just pop up on your screen without 104 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 1: you having to do at least an additional step to 105 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 1: get to them. I want to remind you that it's 106 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 1: also okay to be really afraid right now. Um, you know, 107 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: this is some scary stuff going on, and it feels 108 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: like it continues to just get worse. And so if 109 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: you feel like you need to stay put for a 110 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,679 Speaker 1: while or change up your routine for a little while, 111 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:50,719 Speaker 1: it's okay to do that, and to do whatever you 112 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: need to do to re establish a sense of safety 113 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: for yourself. But with that, I also want to remind 114 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: you that joy is risk instance to write, so the 115 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: goal of terrorists and people who do things like this 116 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 1: is to make us so afraid that we change our 117 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: behaviors and we don't want to keep thriving that we, 118 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 1: you know, become a shell of ourselves. So it's okay 119 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: to go to the concert that you planned on going 120 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: to and continue to laugh with your family and watch 121 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: your favorite movie. All of those things are okay. Don't 122 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: allow situations like this to rob you of your joy. 123 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: Of course, you know things will feel very difficult in 124 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: the moment, but I want to to try to encourage 125 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: you to not get stuck there so that in the end, 126 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: you know, this evil doesn't win. We continue to live 127 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 1: our lives and we continue to thrive. Related to um 128 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 1: online behavior is something that I also forgot to mention, 129 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: is to try not to go back and forth with 130 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: the racist trolls who will hop into your mentions. Um. 131 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: You know. So, I know that social media allows us 132 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: to kind of connect with one another in ways that 133 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: are really cool, but it also gives trolls, um like 134 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: ready made access to us as well. And so no 135 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 1: matter how reasonable or how rational or accurate your argument is, 136 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: you typically are not going to change the mind of 137 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: a racist in a hundred and forty carriages. It's just 138 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 1: not gonna happen. Um. So I'd like to encourage you 139 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: to actually use your energy in ways that helps to 140 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: take care of yourself instead of spending very much energy 141 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: on somebody who um really is really there to just 142 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: kind of get aroused out of you. I also think 143 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: that when things like this happen, it's important to remember, um, 144 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 1: the little thing. So things like eating, sleeping, and bathing, 145 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: um can sometimes fall by the wayside when big events 146 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 1: and you know, things like this happen, and it's important 147 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: to kind of continue to take care of your bodies 148 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,719 Speaker 1: in these really small ways so that you can do 149 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: the work that the community needs you to do. Or additionally, 150 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: I also want you to pay attention to the message 151 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 1: is that you are giving yourself about how you get 152 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: involved in activism. Um. So, I think it's important not 153 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 1: to diminish the role that you can play in achieving 154 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: social justice or make yourself feel bad that you can't 155 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 1: show up for the marches or you can't do X, 156 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,959 Speaker 1: Y and Z. You don't have to be doing all 157 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 1: of those things that can consider yourself an activist or 158 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: to be playing a very big role in the work 159 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 1: that needs to be done. So I think that it's 160 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 1: important to kind of find jor lane and find the 161 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 1: place that feels like a good fit for you and 162 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 1: show up in that way. So, whether that means calling 163 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 1: your legislators or whether that means sending supplies to the 164 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: people who are marching or getting involved with some community 165 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: program in your hometown, there is something for all of 166 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: us to do, and no one role is bigger or 167 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:56,439 Speaker 1: better than any other role. Um. So I think sometimes 168 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 1: people can kind of beat up on themselves, like, oh, 169 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:02,439 Speaker 1: I couldn't do this, so I'm not really doing my part. Well, yes, 170 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: you are doing your part, and my activism looks very 171 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: different than yours, and all of that's okay, So I 172 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: want you to remember that. I also think it's really 173 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: important to find supportive other people that you can talk 174 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: with about what you're feeling and honestly have some of 175 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: those conversations. So I know there tends to be um 176 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 1: a tendency to kind of just ask each other how 177 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: are you, and oh, I'm fine, without really making space 178 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 1: to have conversations about how we're feeling. But I really 179 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 1: would encourage you to be more intentional with your conversations 180 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 1: right now and really check in on the people in 181 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: your lives. So those were the tips that I had 182 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 1: to offer, But like I mentioned, I also wanted to 183 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: share this Surviving and Resisting Hate tool Kit for People 184 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: of Color by Dr Adamis and Dr Chavez Duenna's. So 185 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: their first tip is stay physically and psychologically healthy by 186 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: eating healthy, sleeping seven and eight hours a night, taking 187 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 1: breaks from social media, and staying physically active. Number two. 188 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: Stay connected to individuals, communities, and organizations that affirm your humanity. 189 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: Number three, listen to your gut and remember that a 190 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: healthy cultural suspicion, suspicion of white supremacy people in systems 191 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: they created, has allowed people of color just survived during 192 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 1: the darkest times of our history. Number four, Focus on 193 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:30,839 Speaker 1: your goals, finish your projects, do the best you can 194 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 1: at work, school, and home. Being successful in whatever you 195 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: do is in and of itself, an act of liberation 196 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 1: and resistance. Number five. Focus on change and organizing with 197 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 1: the people closest to you, including family, circle of friends, neighborhood, 198 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: and place of employment. Focusing on the big macro picture 199 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: may feel paralyzing. Number six. Give yourself permission to experience 200 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 1: what injustice natural really evokes in you. All feelings are acceptable, 201 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 1: including anger, honor it. Anger has led to positive change. 202 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 1: Number seven. Listen and validate the experiences of people of 203 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 1: color with different backgrounds from your own. Number eight. The 204 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 1: burden of oppression and injustice is too heavy to carry 205 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:25,959 Speaker 1: on your own. Do what it takes to keep yourself 206 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: going while remaining committed to racial and social justice. Number nine. 207 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:35,320 Speaker 1: Focus on one breath and one step at a time, 208 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 1: while knowing and always keeping in mind that our ancestors 209 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 1: never gave up their resistance. Resistance and fight led to 210 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 1: the changes we enjoy today. And number ten, remember that 211 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: the system does not get to determine your worth, dignity, 212 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: and humanity. Never forget that you matter. So again, I 213 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: hope that you can incorporate these tips into your lives 214 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 1: right now and help to encourage your friends and family 215 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: to encourage these tips into your lives so that we 216 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: can continue to take care of ourselves and continue to 217 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 1: take care of each other. Um. There's definitely a lot 218 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 1: more work that needs to be done, but we all 219 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 1: need to be will to do that work, and so 220 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: I hope that this will serve as a reminder for 221 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: you to do the work of taking care of yourself 222 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:31,319 Speaker 1: as well. Again, if you are looking for a therapist 223 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:35,359 Speaker 1: in your community, then please do check out the directory 224 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 1: at the website. You can find that at Therapy for 225 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: Black Girls dot com backslash directory. I think that especially 226 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 1: right now, it can be really important to find somebody 227 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 1: to talk with about how you're feeling. UM. So if 228 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: it doesn't feel safe or comfortable to do that with 229 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 1: family and friends, then now definitely would be a good 230 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 1: time to reach out to talk with a therapist. As always, 231 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:00,959 Speaker 1: I love to hear your feedback and how you are 232 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: taking care of yourself over on social media, make sure 233 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 1: to use the hashtag tv G in session. You can 234 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: find us over on Twitter at Therapy for the Number 235 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: four be Girls, and you can find us on Instagram 236 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: and Facebook at Therapy for Black Girls. I'm looking forward 237 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 1: to continue in this conversation with you all real soon. 238 00:14:22,320 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 1: Make sure to take get care of yourself doctor Actor 239 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 1: Actor