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Speaker 2: You would get it, Riley, you watch Richardson.

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Speaker 1: Me and Sophia. We know, we know exactly what's going on.

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Speaker 1: We know, we know.

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Speaker 2: We should have a watch party with Nima.

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Speaker 1: We should. That would make her very happy. She will

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Speaker 1: be out of town. Ah, no, I'm so sorry. We'll

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Speaker 1: find something else, though, find.

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Speaker 3: Something gonna do. I'm gonna be gone, NAMA's gone. Don't

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Speaker 1: Oh that's true. It'll be empty in my soul.

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Speaker 2: So you know it will make it better.

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Speaker 1: This story for Standard Company twenty fifty nine, who says

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Speaker 1: change their worldview. Yeah, right now, they don't know about her. However,

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Speaker 2: I think I think she's trying to help in educating me.

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Speaker 1: You might actually prefer it. Opie says, I'm not sure.

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Speaker 2: Think in the sense of like before before, I like

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Speaker 2: I was like, well, I don't think necessarily, OPI should

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like what if I don't get to talk to

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Speaker 2: I think this is a very complicated thing to go through,

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Speaker 1: To be honest, it's this thing where I feel like

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Speaker 1: My daughter's all I holds near. H is all I

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Speaker 1: Yeah exactly. It's like there's some scenarios where like you'll

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Speaker 2: And you know, I think when when our daughter needed it,

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Speaker 2: You know it was meaningful because the daughter literally went

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Speaker 1: She introduced her daughter her her girlfriend of two years.

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Speaker 2: That Lucy Ford, says the Grand President Hill. Obviously, yes, obviously.

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Speaker 1: We have Is it Lucy lou Lucy Lou?

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Speaker 2: Lucy too?

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Speaker 1: Lucy too? Who is going to hop on and chat

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Speaker 1: with us? Who has a story like like this? Ex

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Speaker 1: you hear us? I don't know if we can hear you?

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Speaker 1: Let us know. Sorry, I didn't realize you were on

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Speaker 4: Let us know.

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Speaker 1: Should we call and try, hang up and back, We're

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Speaker 1: Yes? I can? Are you doing?

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Speaker 4: I'm good?

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Speaker 5: Thank you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: So, uh this is gable Lijah chat.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, I was it gonna ask what pronouns are?

437
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Speaker 5: Did they then think them Okay, yeah, so I guess

438
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 5: in short, basically, I am a raging queer. Let's go,

439
00:22:54,640 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 5: I'm non binary trends and my partner eight and his

440
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 5: parents are sting a bit nervous. His parents are first

441
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 5: generation Portuguese and Lebanese that's Portuguese, mom's Lebanese in Australia,

442
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:23,160
Speaker 5: and before meeting me, he identified as straight and basically

443
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 5: they did not take it well at all when he

444
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,640
Speaker 5: came out as bisexual to them because it came kind

445
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 5: of out of the blue for them, and they're a

446
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 5: very traditional family, even though their youngest son is gay.

447
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:40,880
Speaker 5: And unfortunately it's ended up. It started off as fine,

448
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 5: they were very nice and kind to me, but then

449
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 5: this year in January, the entire we've been together two years,

450
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 5: the entire family blew up and they are uncomfortable with

451
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 5: his identity. They believe that I've like manipulated him into

452
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:04,159
Speaker 5: being queer because prior to our getting together, I was

453
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 5: actually in a non monogamous relationship and then I fell

454
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 5: in love with him madly and decided to be in

455
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 5: a monogamous relationship with him and we're quite happy, and

456
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:18,920
Speaker 5: we moved from Sydney down to Melbourne, and basically everything

457
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:20,880
Speaker 5: he does as an individual, because you know, in those

458
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 5: kind of cultures they live with their family until basically

459
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 5: they move out and get married, so they basically believe

460
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 5: everything he does on me. And it's been very, very

461
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 5: challenging navigating the situation. That being said, I would never

462
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:40,880
Speaker 5: ever expect my partner to cut off their family. Unfortunately,

463
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 5: their behavior has kind of made them cut themselves off

464
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Speaker 5: in a way. It's very hard to communicate with them.

465
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Speaker 5: We haven't been up there for Christmas and family to

466
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 5: everything to him. So it's been quite devastating to watch

467
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Speaker 5: my partner go through this experience because of being with me. Nfortunately,

468
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Speaker 5: I don't really have a solution, but what I do

469
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 5: think is is like he was not an asshole for

470
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Speaker 5: trying to maintain a relationship with his homophobics family. He's

471
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 5: been doing the best that he can to navigate both

472
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 5: sides and be supportive of both sides while navigating his

473
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:23,120
Speaker 5: own complicated that his own complicated identity as well. So yeah,

474
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 5: I think that mum is not the asshole for wanting

475
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 5: to have a relationship with their parents. But I do

476
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 5: think that in the end, oftentimes support ends up, meaning

477
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 5: these people do need a time of separation so that

478
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 5: they can, I guess, kind of pull their heads out

479
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 5: and decide if they really love somebody, whether or not

480
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 5: they can accept that being apart from them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's such a great point. And also, first off,

482
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Speaker 1: very sorry to hear that, and thank you so much

483
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Speaker 1: for sharing your perspective and experience. I think that that

484
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 1: is a really like a time of separation where it

485
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: kind of gives you some headspace to really sit back

486
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 1: and think, and also to hear that you're you're on

487
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: the side of like, hey, you can't really necessarily blame

488
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: the person or you can't ask the person to cut

489
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:22,400
Speaker 1: ties with their parents, particularly if they are trying their

490
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 1: best to you know, do whatever it is, try to

491
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 1: you know, talk to them and like help them, like

492
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 1: you know, keep that relationship and everything really great, really

493
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 1: great perspective.

494
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Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely, you have to leave it in the hands

495
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 5: of the person that is affected by it. So I

496
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 5: follow my partners, you know, I follow what they want

497
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 5: to do with the situation.

498
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: I try to.

499
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 5: Provide them support without trying to manipulate them into totally

500
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Speaker 5: doing anything that's going to harm them in the long run.

501
00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 1: Ye, sounds like a very healthy dynamic, like like they're like, hey, hey,

502
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:01,959
Speaker 1: let me correct me if I'm wrong. It's like, hey,

503
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: let me kind of like bear the burden of this

504
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,360
Speaker 1: and like really try and you're like, hey, I will,

505
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: I will, you know, support you while I can't while

506
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,919
Speaker 1: not putting myself in harm's way, which is.

507
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope time. I hope time in the end

508
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:16,439
Speaker 5: is going to be the winning factor here.

509
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I mean yeah, sometimes it is absolutely fingers

510
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 1: crossed you and congratulations on it. Sounds like an awesome

511
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: freaking partner.

512
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, so yeah, amazing part. And thank you so much

513
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 5: for having me. I've been a fan of you guys

514
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 5: since the very start. I love you all so much.

515
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: Let's freaking go we we love you back. Thank you

516
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 1: so much for chatting with us, and have a great rest.

517
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 4: Of your day.

518
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:41,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, see you in the chat.

519
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 4: Bye bye.

520
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 1: Wow. Honest really really great perspective. Honestly for someone who

521
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 1: has been in a extremely similar scenario who was like, hey,

522
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 1: I totally understand if you don't want to cut ties

523
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 1: with your parents, especially given if that person like really

524
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: putting in the effort.

525
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I mean, like familiar relationships are I've said

526
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 2: this before, but they're like our.

527
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: First totally, absolutely, And like there's something to be said of,

528
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 1: like it can take a lot to like to leave

529
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,439
Speaker 1: that when someone's programmed to leave that, and when someone's

530
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 1: like programmed for forty fifty sixty seventy eighty years, that

531
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 1: is a lot of programming to undo. So that's a

532
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: hard task for someone in the position of op to

533
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: go and like put the effort forth to do that.

534
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:35,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, Which is not to say that like if if

535
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 2: you cut ties with your family, that is that is

536
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 2: like a completely okay decision if that's it works for you, absolutely,

537
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 2: But I think it's just recognizing that it is a

538
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 2: very hard decision.

539
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: Yes. Absolutely. Wow, very very very nuanced story and good discussion,

540
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: I would say on this episode. But speaking pride of

541
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: heavy pride, happy freaking.

542
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 2: Pride, raging, raging, tribe changing, but.

543
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 1: Speaking of raging and good things, gentleman, I don't know

544
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: if that was the segue I should have done, but

545
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: I made it. Anyways, Ladies and gentlemen, we have our

546
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: very own Samuel daughter. He's gonna come in and read

547
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: some stories with Sofia.

548
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 6: As he's doing that, I'm gonna wheel. Yeah, we gotta

549
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 6: open up this package in that wheel. Wheel yepe, fun

550
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 6: fact fact yep for you, Sofia.

551
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 3: Ah yep. So sometimes Sofia always comes at me with

552
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 3: facts like oh you can't eat that, that's not good

553
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 3: for you, or oh this is not good for you,

554
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 3: or that's not good for you. And it's a lot

555
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 3: of like it's not good for you facts. So, Sofia,

556
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 3: you are now tasked with five fun facts that you

557
00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 3: now have to relate to us through the stream. What yep,

558
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 3: you have to find five fun facts.

559
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 2: I didn't even open that. Sam just threatened me with

560
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 2: the box cutter.

561
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 3: Did you want to show it?

562
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 2: Sorry? Sam threatened me?

563
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 5: What? No?

564
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 3: What did I say?

565
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 2: You said you are charged with finding five fun facts.

566
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 3: They give me dopamine. They give me the same effect

567
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 3: when I looked at my phone. Oh yep, I need that.

568
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 3: I need that kind of fun fact.

569
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, I'll look them up.

570
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 4: I appreciate Wait, she asked, I think she has to

571
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 4: just do it off rip. They have to do it

572
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 4: off rip.

573
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, if you have a fun fact

574
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 3: off the top of your dome. That'd be great.

575
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 2: Honestly, I don't know if I have any fun facts.

576
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 3: I think.

577
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 4: I'm down for a depressing fact.

578
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, no no no. I want

579
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 3: a happy, fun fact, a happy something that makes me

580
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 3: feel like I'm glad to be alive right now kind

581
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 3: of fact.

582
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 4: Goldfish actually have a longer attention span than three seconds?

583
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 3: Are you, Sophio.

584
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 2: Actually have a longer attention.

585
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 3: I'm trying to Okay, you work on that, and we're

586
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 3: gonna We're gonna do. The story has a ton of

587
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 3: fun facts, and I'm like, wow, I didn't know that

588
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 3: about the christ Well that's New York bathroom issue.

589
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 4: But yeah, it was a fun fact that I feel

590
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 4: like most of my fun facts are from Reddit.

591
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 3: Dude, you're actually on Reddit like that.

592
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 4: I'm on Reddit like that. How do you think we

593
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 4: started this?

594
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 3: I just thought you got an idea from someone off

595
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 3: a YouTuber. That's crazy.

596
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 2: I was on Open Another Package because we promised.

597
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 3: That whatever you want, whatever tickles your fancy.

598
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 4: Tickles, says Potipus, don't have nipples.

599
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 3: That makes me happy. Also, elephants have nipples. Did you

600
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 3: know that?

601
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 4: Yeah? Riley told me that I was like Zenie says.

602
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 4: Little Zenie said, as turtles can feel their shells through

603
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 4: their shells.

604
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's it's it's like their bone.

605
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 4: Well's the kind of skin A group of pugs is

606
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 4: called a grumble.

607
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 2: I didn't know that. That's cute.

608
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 4: Left handed people can see better in the dark.

609
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 5: What h.

610
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 4: Just sent me a picture of an of elephant boobs?

611
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: Eh?

612
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 4: What's this.

613
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 3: On the floor?

614
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 4: I've not opened one package today?

615
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 3: Oh that's you got one more left. There's still time.

616
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 4: I call next package?

617
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 3: There you go, there it is there it is.

618
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 4: Wait that's the last one.

619
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 3: No, no, no, it's a package from the package. You

620
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 3: can do that one.

621
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 4: You don't like box gutters?

622
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do it?

623
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 4: Do it? Ya on it?

624
00:32:58,280 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 2: So don't show this like put it off?

625
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 3: So excited?

626
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 4: Excited? All right?

627
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 1: Box cutter facts of the week.

628
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 2: Let's see. Did you take my cookies?

629
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 4: Cut myself with box?

630
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I'm afraid of boxing.

631
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 3: Did you know when teacher you how to like use

632
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 3: box covered or certain knives?

633
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: These are so?

634
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 5: What is it?

635
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 4: What is it? This is crazy?

636
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 3: What is it?

637
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 4: Whoa?

638
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 5: What is it?

639
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 4: Look? How cute? This is is so cute?

640
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 2: It's a squishable or is it squish below?

641
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 6: It is.

642
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 4: No sponsors okay, responsored cute?

643
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 3: That is so cute supposed to be?

644
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 4: I believe it's a line. It is let's see what

645
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 4: does it say? It's Lena. I believe Lena is a

646
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 4: more to squish. Lena is a candle queen. She has

647
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 4: a candle for every mood. Lena makes her own candles

648
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 4: from soy and creates custom sense for all her friends.

649
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 4: Just be careful not to eat the candles. Some of

650
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 4: them are in the shape of food and they look

651
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:15,399
Speaker 4: good enough to eat.

652
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 2: But she's a candle.

653
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 4: She just likes. She just likes candles.

654
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:23,360
Speaker 5: What is she?

655
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 4: I feel it?

656
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is so frong. I don't I don't know.

657
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 2: Can I put this in my room?

658
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 5: No?

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00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 3: It lives here in from Okay.

660
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Speaker 4: It doesn't say s nay nay. It looks like it

661
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Speaker 4: was ordered directly, is it on the all right?

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Speaker 2: Seventy five amazing and funny facts for kids to know.

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Speaker 3: You gotta like, you gotta like do it like you

664
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Speaker 3: know how you would say a depressing fact? You gotta okay,

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Speaker 3: all right, you feel me? You feel me?

666
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Speaker 4: All right? Here it is a gift for you. Enjoy

667
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Speaker 4: your gift, worm Queen, didn't know what kind of animals

668
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Speaker 4: you like, so I decided to go with something cute

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Speaker 4: that I enjoyed.

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Speaker 1: I hope you like it.

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Speaker 4: I love Moonnight from Moon Night Bananza Benizza. I forgot,

672
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Speaker 4: how are we pronounce it again? Banisa Banza? Yeah, Bonanza,

673
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Speaker 4: but Vanaza vanasa. It was Baza Vanaza. There you go?

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Speaker 4: All right? Is Banaza night still in the chattel Moonnight?

675
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Speaker 1: What the frick?

676
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Speaker 3: My gosh, what the frick For a second, what the frick?

677
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Speaker 4: Oh my goodness. Well, first of all, already celebrating three

678
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Speaker 4: months of membership. My daughter changed my YouTube name. I'm Jessica,

679
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 4: but I can't change it yet. Love you guys so much.

680
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Speaker 4: I hope I get the chance to see you in

681
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Speaker 4: the wild here soon. You're in La. We are, We're out,

682
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Speaker 4: We're doing things, We're being people.

683
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:10,280
Speaker 2: I'm doing things all the freaking time, going to jazz clubs,

684
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Speaker 2: I'm going to events. I'm going to improv things.

685
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 4: She's doing it all and then Sleepless Nights with a

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Speaker 4: two hundred dollars tip the z Queen. This is for

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Speaker 4: the ten hour stream with love I don't know if

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Speaker 4: y'all remember one of our first streams. But Sleepless made

689
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Speaker 4: that night sleepless. So yeah, I sleepless made that light

690
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Speaker 4: night sleepless. That was crazy, I remember. I remember that

691
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Speaker 4: was like the stream that went crazy and we we're

692
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Speaker 4: just like, yeah, we.

693
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Speaker 2: Know that we're gonna be.

694
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Speaker 3: My soul is still stuck there.

695
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: I never left.

696
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Speaker 4: And then hiiight, I'm I'm not.

697
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Speaker 3: You.

698
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Speaker 1: I just don't feel good.

699
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 4: No, I just got it. Tickle you.

700
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 2: So you're sick.

701
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 4: Damn's eyebags are on the floor.

702
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Speaker 1: Thanks?

703
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Speaker 3: What thanks.

704
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Speaker 4: Gab Elijah, He's just sick. No, I went running this morning,

705
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Speaker 4: m and then my eyebags on the floor. Cheese.

706
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 2: No, you're just coughing a lot.

707
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 4: Anyway, Pad, thanks for the one month of membership. Let

708
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Speaker 4: Sofia keep the lime in her room. Loll she can

709
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Speaker 4: have it.

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Speaker 6: Yay.

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Speaker 2: I've been I've been adding all of my little like

712
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 2: the stuffed animal things I get I have. I have

713
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Speaker 2: a worm on my bed, and then I have the

714
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Speaker 2: two can that I was crocheted.

715
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Speaker 4: Jeez leaps with all of her gifts.

716
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Speaker 1: I accidentally watched.

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00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 2: I didn't mean to watch the worm, but I was

718
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 2: doing all of my laundry and it accidentally got caught

719
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 2: in my in my like bedding, and so now it's clean.

720
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Speaker 3: Oh that's nice. I like this guy. He's like a

721
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Speaker 3: little lizard.

722
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Speaker 1: I know it's a dragon.

723
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Speaker 3: I know it's dragon, but he's feeling like a lizard.

724
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Speaker 4: Also XX Gloomy, thanks for saying I look good balancing

725
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Speaker 4: out the bags bags? Shall we get into this next story? O,

726
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Speaker 4: my bone just buzzed. Cela Davis, Sam's ibags are designer.

727
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Speaker 4: What's the next one? Getting?

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Speaker 3: Fifty or S two five?

729
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Speaker 4: Fifty four? S two? Moonnight eighteen. I'm still here. I

730
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Speaker 4: was just taking my little baby out and it's a

731
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Speaker 4: pink guava and it's bah nah za. I think we

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Speaker 4: got nab.

733
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 2: Paris wants an Olympics without air conditioning. What fun fact

734
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Speaker 2: Paris wants Paris wants an Olympics without air conditioning. That's

735
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Speaker 2: from my Washington Post updates.

736
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Speaker 4: What does that mean Paris wants, Well, let's look to

737
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Speaker 4: save global warming? Yeah, so what we're actually gonna dost.

738
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Speaker 2: Paris? For all the steps Paris organizers have taken to

739
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 2: put on the greenest Olympics ever, their boldest measure, the

740
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Speaker 2: one they've touted again and again pertains to the dorms

741
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Speaker 2: in the athletes village. The rooms don't have air conditioning.

742
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 4: That's crazy. They're athletes, they need their beauty sleep. How

743
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 4: are they going to sleep because of.

744
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 2: Other cooling measures organizers have assured the athletes won't need it,

745
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 2: But in a fastical turn, when the game started next month,

746
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 2: an Olympic village designed to showcase sustainability will be more

747
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 2: of an energy hog than organizers had hoped. And that's

748
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 2: all you get that.

749
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Speaker 3: No, no, that's need to have more fun facts you

750
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Speaker 3: want me to keep.

751
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 4: That's a close that's close to a fun fact.

752
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 3: That is half a fact. That was a fact, but

753
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 3: it was not fun.

754
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 4: How about you do a personal fun fact. That's a

755
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 4: good idea, Do a personal fun fact. Hold on, hold on,

756
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:17,880
Speaker 4: I need the Olympic fun facts again for me. I

757
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 4: heard the Olympic Village is literally a non stop spicy

758
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 4: sleep party. Like everyone's hooking up with each other. Wow,

759
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 4: fittest people in the world all slam together, like young

760
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 4: fit people slam together in one place. You're telling me

761
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 4: they're not spicy sleeping they are.

762
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Speaker 3: It's like the best for more Olympics, you know, like

763
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Speaker 3: that's true.

764
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 4: That's true. There are you. They are Olympians bread in

765
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Speaker 4: the Olympian uh village. Sophia Callan says, it's called Europe.

766
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Speaker 4: What are you? What do you counting?

767
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 1: Hold on?

768
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 4: You're like you're lost in thought.

769
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 2: No, I'm counting for my fun fact counting.

770
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Speaker 4: What Alaxi keras god Hi, guys always listened to you

771
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Speaker 4: on my commute. John recommended a book the other day

772
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Speaker 4: and I couldn't catch the name. It was Palm something,

773
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Speaker 4: you remember, Balm something? I don't know.

774
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Speaker 3: That's gone, John, Yeah, John's gone.

775
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 4: What Miss Jabers says they ran out of condoms at

776
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Speaker 4: one Olympics. Hilarious, That's insane.

777
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 2: Okay, I couldn't. I lost count because I was distracted.

778
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:42,759
Speaker 2: But I fun fact I am atomic counts a fun fact.

779
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Speaker 2: I've been in roughly are over. I think over thirty

780
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 2: plays and musicals in my life Where to go?

781
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 4: I think that is four to go?

782
00:41:58,200 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 2: Oh, I was like four plays to go.

783
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 1: Here forever?

784
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 2: Roughly over. I think around over thirty, like thirty to

785
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 2: forty plays in my life, plays in musicals.

786
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Speaker 4: In fact, Natasha Martinez is back. Thanks back, y'alls go

787
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 4: uh do do we want to wait for more fun facts,

788
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 4: we're gonna or we're gonna reap base. We're going to

789
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 4: you have you need more? Okay?

790
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 2: All right?

791
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 4: What am I reading to? Five fifty four S two,

792
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 4: five eighty four s two? All right, I am reading

793
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 4: this thing? What's this? What's the uh? What's the question here?

794
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 4: All right? No one knows how much, say, do family

795
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 4: members have in your decisions? Okay, so that's the question

796
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 4: we're going through.

797
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: Okay, So am I the a hole for causing a

798
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: rift between my husband and his mother?

799
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 4: Maybe they needed it, Maybe they needed it, Maybe he

800
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Speaker 4: was a little too close with mom. I was just

801
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 4: about to say, Oedipus, Did they go over Oedipus and

802
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:08,280
Speaker 4: Priscy Jackson?

803
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 5: No?

804
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 2: Did you go over Oedipus in theater school?

805
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 4: Fun? Well this comes from Throwaway ten, eight eighty eight,

806
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 4: and they say my husband and I got married a

807
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 4: year ago. Don grats. He and I didn't live together before.

808
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:25,919
Speaker 4: In fact, we hardly saw each other because we both

809
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 4: worked and studied at the same time, so our time

810
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 4: together was quite limited. We got married and went to

811
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 4: live together in his apartment. Unfortunately, two months after our wedding,

812
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 4: his father died. In an accident. His mother in law

813
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 4: and my husband, who was an only child, were devastated

814
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 4: as it was seems.

815
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 2: Like attacking dud.

816
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 3: Stop, what are you doing? What are you doing?

817
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 2: I'm trying to fix it.

818
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:57,439
Speaker 4: First, as it was quite sudden, my mother, my mother

819
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 4: in law, left alone, began to wait, I need to

820
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:04,800
Speaker 4: reread that, and someone died. I was giggling throughout the

821
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Speaker 4: whole thing, not comprehending zero percent comprehension. Unfortunately, two months

822
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Speaker 4: after our wedding, his father died in an accident. My

823
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 4: mother in law.

824
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:24,359
Speaker 2: I was sad by the way he said, what take

825
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:29,919
Speaker 2: a minute? Take a minute. Fun fact I started doing

826
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Speaker 2: feeder when I was five.

827
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Speaker 4: Oh you can't. I need a different topic, different topic

828
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 4: my life. My mother in law and my husband, who

829
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 4: is an only child, were devastated as it was quite sudden.

830
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:44,800
Speaker 4: My mother in law, left alone, began to suggest to

831
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Speaker 4: my husband that we move with her to her house

832
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:50,719
Speaker 4: to keep her company, because she is from another state

833
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 4: and couldn't do to our jobs in college. Then became

834
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 4: to us our apartment is two rooms, so my mother

835
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 4: in law occupied one and my husband and I occupied

836
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 4: Another question, would you live with your mother in law.

837
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:14,800
Speaker 4: But your answers in the chat. So I mean my

838
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 4: mother in law never liked me. She's one of the

839
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Speaker 4: mothers who think that no woman is good enough for

840
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Speaker 4: her son. As a couple who are still in the

841
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 4: honeymoon stage, we had spicy sleep very frequently every day,

842
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 4: even up to twice a day. This all changed when

843
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 4: my mother in law arrived. Since the apartment is small,

844
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 4: I didn't feel comfortable doing it with her living there.

845
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 4: The thing is that when we did have spicy sleep

846
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 4: with my husband, my mother in law magically interrupted us.

847
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 4: It didn't matter what time it was, even if it

848
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 4: was three am. You casually got up knocked on our door,

849
00:45:55,719 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 4: asking what are we doing. We're having spice.

850
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 2: It doesn't work as well.

851
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 4: It doesn't work as well. It doesn't work as well.

852
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 4: It doesn't work as well if you don't say having

853
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 4: spicy sleep. Yeah, they're boning. They are boning, they're slapping cheeks,

854
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 4: they're grabbing ass. I'm just playing hide the zucchini.

855
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 2: Captain hole in Brooklyn and playing Captain Captain Hole Captain

856
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 2: Holt Brooklyn. That was another one that was pretty good. Yeah,

857
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 2: we're playing capture the Hole. No Captain hole in Brooklyn

858
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 2: nine nine. He's a very serious like character. And then

859
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 2: there is one time where someone's like, you just need

860
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 2: a bone, and he goes bone bone. That's what I

861
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 2: was saying.

862
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 4: He did need to bone?

863
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, he did, and then he comes back and he's

864
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:43,959
Speaker 2: super happy.

865
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:48,359
Speaker 4: So basically, mother in law is put her nose where

866
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 4: it don't belong, or telling my husband that she feels

867
00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 4: bad because her head hurts or something like that. This

868
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 4: has been going on since my mother in law moved

869
00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:01,320
Speaker 4: in with us. It's been a stress full seven months. Besides,

870
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 4: I have no privacy of any kind. She criticizes everything

871
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 4: I do, especially my food. My husband tries to give

872
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 4: me my place, saying things like it's not true, mom,

873
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 4: the food tastes good. What really annoyed me, though, was

874
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:18,320
Speaker 4: the fact that she started saying the several things of

875
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 4: value and money were lost in her room casually the

876
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 4: day I stayed home.

877
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 2: So she's implying that O pece stealing.

878
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 4: Applying the op stealing.

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Speaker 3: I wonder, I wonder what race op is.

880
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 2: Ooh, yeah, maybe she's racist the mom, Oh that could

881
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 2: be true.

882
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 4: I had the day off from work and studying the afternoons,

883
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 4: I really got fed up. I told my husband that

884
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 4: this really wasn't what I expected. I agreed to let

885
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:51,359
Speaker 4: her move in with us because my father in law

886
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:54,760
Speaker 4: passed away and I was really trying to be empathetic

887
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 4: to her and her pain. But I'm not going to

888
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 4: let her call me a thief. Now I'm at my parents' house.

889
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 4: My husband keeps calling me and sending me messages to

890
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 4: come back, but I don't know what to do anymore.

891
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 4: This is really stressful, and there are some relevant comments

892
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 4: and an update. But Sophia, one would you like let

893
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 4: the mother in law still stay there? And two? Do

894
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 4: you think it's racism or do you think that now

895
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 4: that her husband is like dead, that she's kind of

896
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:38,239
Speaker 4: putting all of these feelings of connection on her son

897
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 4: and she basically is almost like there's a little jealousy

898
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 4: of her son's time being monopolized by his wife. Well,

899
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 4: it would a little oedipiscy.

900
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 2: Yeah. One. I don't think I can say whether it's

901
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 2: racist or not because we don't know.

902
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:55,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, true, But do you think it's the facts?

903
00:48:55,520 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 2: It's it's a little I think anytime aren't involves themselves

904
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 2: that much into their child's like sex life, sex life.

905
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's a little yeah, a little hell yeah, yeah, yeah,

906
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:23,799
Speaker 4: it's eat out. They're rich and a pussy.

907
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: Dead bride.

908
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 4: That was so great.

909
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 3: I love the w.

910
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 4: But yeah, I feel like I agree, I think it

911
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 4: is and I think I think that there needs to

912
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 4: be some distance between the mother and I think the

913
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 4: only person that could you know.

914
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:52,359
Speaker 2: What they try to make distance in the Oedipus story too.

915
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 4: Oh right, yeah, because they and then they didn't realize.

916
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 2: Well they got Yeah, they she fully got rid of

917
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 2: her son and then he he came back and didn't

918
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 2: know it was his mom came back and then they

919
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 2: slapped together because he didn't know that it was his mom. Yeah,

920
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 2: and then she like I think she did, like took

921
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 2: out her eyes.

922
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, And that's what happens if this mother.

923
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:18,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think. But the thing is the only person

924
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 4: that can put that distance in is the husband. And

925
00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 4: if the husband isn't isn't like because the mother in

926
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 4: law's not going to do it. Yeah, the mother in

927
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 4: law is definitely not do it. Op can't do anything. Yeah,

928
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 4: it really has to come from the husband, and it

929
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:32,919
Speaker 4: sounds like he is not uh.

930
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 2: He ain't knowing it.

931
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 4: He ain't doing it.

932
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:35,479
Speaker 1: He ain't.

933
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 4: He ain't nutting up and making sure his mother is

934
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 4: up to nothing. Okay, anyway, this comes from op and

935
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 4: there's some relevant comments. So I'm fine with a spicy

936
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 4: sleepless marriage. But what really bothers me is that she

937
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 4: said I stole her things. The house is there. That's

938
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:58,360
Speaker 4: also crazy that she's like, I'm fine with mother in

939
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 4: law killing our sex life, but where I draw is stealing.

940
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 4: She can steal my nut, but she can't say I'm

941
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 4: stealing her stuff. Yeah.

942
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 2: I'm not just thinking of the other I'm thinking a

943
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:11,360
Speaker 2: lot of quotes to have you seen you know the

944
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 2: community quote where it was just like I draw or

945
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 2: I'm I can excuse racism, but I draw the line

946
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:19,240
Speaker 2: at animal cruelty.

947
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 4: Someone put that in clips and bits.

948
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 5: Yeah.

949
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 4: So the house is there. It is empty. My mother

950
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 4: in law actually wants to sell it because she now

951
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 4: lives with us and there is no point in having

952
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 4: an empty owls go live there, I don't think.

953
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 5: So.

954
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:38,479
Speaker 4: He seems pretty frustrated since we have we stopped having

955
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 4: spicy sleep, but he doesn't try to start anything either,

956
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 4: because he knows that his mother is going to interrupt us. Anyway,

957
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 4: the worst three is impossible. After she interrupts us, we

958
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 4: no longer want to continue with spicy sleep. Question.

959
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 2: I was reading what Kimberly finds it?

960
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 4: All right? Wait wait wait I have a pole? Ye,

961
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 4: all right, I have a pole? What is worse?

962
00:51:59,000 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 3: Yeah?

963
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 4: All right? Ah, your significant other, you're you're doing the

964
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 4: deed and your mom is knocking on the door. You

965
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 4: stop the spicy sleep or he instantly nuts, which is what?

966
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 3: I don't know what?

967
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 4: Not instantly but he keeps going?

968
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:24,040
Speaker 2: Wait, what is the question?

969
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:27,360
Speaker 4: The question is would you rather? Would you rather have

970
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 4: a spicy sleepless marriage because your partner doesn't want to

971
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 4: have h spicy sleep while their mother is listening? Or

972
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 4: would you rather have a spicy sleep full marriage? But

973
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 4: your your partner is like, I want to go through it,

974
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 4: even in the midst of of peering ears one which one?

975
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 1: Which one? Do you choose one?

976
00:52:56,880 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 4: So spicy is no spicy sleep or more spicy sleep?

977
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 3: What do you do? It's like.

978
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 4: Voyeurism or or wait, no, what's it called?

979
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 7: Uh?

980
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:12,279
Speaker 4: It's display? You know what's what's it's it's the thing,

981
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 4: It's a thing, exhib exhibitionism. Mother, No, spicy sleep or

982
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 4: mother exhibitionism that you do your best. Actually no, no, don't, don't,

983
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 4: don't care about it.

984
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 2: Exhibition I love Riley spelling of things, exhibitionism.

985
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 3: I'm excited.

986
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 4: Half the people are.

987
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, the people are turn the music up and ignore

988
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:48,359
Speaker 7: all right, mommy, that's right, that's right.

989
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, people are choosing mommy exhibitionism.

990
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 3: Yeah. I can't. I couldn't keep that up. And this

991
00:53:56,120 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 3: one kid told me about while he was doing that,

992
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,320
Speaker 3: he got bored and what he would do is he

993
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,400
Speaker 3: would I don't know what he called it, but he

994
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 3: was like, yo, mom, and then he would try to

995
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 3: do it before his mom got up, and he got

996
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:16,800
Speaker 3: a rush out of it. I don't know what he

997
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 3: called it, but I was like in therapy, my friend upstairs,

998
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 3: I don't have a who crazy.

999
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:35,600
Speaker 4: I don't like that everyone's choosing to everyone's choosing mommy exhibition.

1000
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 2: Five others everyone as well, you nine others. That is crazy.

1001
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 4: I did not think it would be that weighted towards

1002
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 4: mommy exhibitionism.

1003
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:54,760
Speaker 1: Wow, freaks, but a freak bunch of freaks.

1004
00:54:54,800 --> 00:55:01,239
Speaker 4: But your freak frag flag fly freak flag. That's freak

1005
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 4: freak flag fly bleak freak flag fly freak flag fly

1006
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,319
Speaker 4: freak flag fly freak flag freak flag fly.

1007
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:10,360
Speaker 2: Mad hatter go.

1008
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:12,959
Speaker 1: I don't want to answer, you have to answer.

1009
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 3: You did the poll.

1010
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 2: Thank you for the bucks.

1011
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:17,800
Speaker 4: Definitely two, definitely too. I wouldn't want a spicy sleepless marriage.

1012
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 2: The way this all sounding, the way that this is

1013
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 2: all sounding, is that the mother in law is basically

1014
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:25,040
Speaker 2: replacing her late husband with her son.

1015
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:28,000
Speaker 4: That's what I said, nott gal, That's what I'm talking about.

1016
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:29,919
Speaker 2: My guess is that the son looks like his father.

1017
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 2: If he does not nip this in the bud, it

1018
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:33,760
Speaker 2: will ruin everything.

1019
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, it there is. There's some weird dynamics going on,

1020
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:41,720
Speaker 4: very weird. So there is an updates.

1021
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:46,800
Speaker 2: So one month later, our Mila Rose witsays, my husband

1022
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:51,879
Speaker 2: is a so we already do one is ace yahs

1023
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:53,320
Speaker 2: axual hoppy bride.

1024
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 4: All right? Update one month later, so hello, good evening,

1025
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you for your advice and comments. I

1026
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 4: tried to read them all. I wanted to give you

1027
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:07,920
Speaker 4: a little update. I returned with my husband last Thursday.

1028
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 4: While I lived with my parents, we were talking and

1029
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:12,400
Speaker 4: seeing each other. The first time I agreed to talk

1030
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:14,400
Speaker 4: to him. I told him that he really needed to

1031
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 4: do something about his mother because our relationship was going

1032
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 4: down the drain. Well, he kicked his mother out. Who

1033
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:27,359
Speaker 4: she didn't take it too well, No, she didn't. She's

1034
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 4: about to I don't know what. I don't know what.

1035
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 4: She was gonna do, some wild crap. Remember how I

1036
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:34,880
Speaker 4: told you she wanted to sell her house, Well she

1037
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 4: actually did. She put her house up for sale. What

1038
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 4: surprised me, Oh, what surprised me so much is that

1039
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 4: she listed her house for sale at well below average

1040
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 4: costs considering where the house is located. Apparently she was

1041
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:55,320
Speaker 4: about to close the deal with some potential buyers. She

1042
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:58,480
Speaker 4: hasn't communicated with anyone since she left. We also don't

1043
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,359
Speaker 4: know if she returned to her house. Yes, and now

1044
00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:04,800
Speaker 4: everything is fine. My husband also thanked because he couldn't

1045
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 4: stand having his mother in our apartment anymore. I also, yeah,

1046
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 4: it's a two room apartment. I also made it very

1047
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 4: clear to my husband that if his mother had behaved,

1048
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 4: if his mother had behaved differently, I would have never

1049
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 4: minded if she stayed with us. I feel a little

1050
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 4: bad for her, but she really brought it on herself.

1051
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:28,000
Speaker 4: I was always kind of I was always kind despite

1052
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 4: her treatment. Thanks guys for your comments and advice. And

1053
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:36,360
Speaker 4: there is one final update. Yimm through this story, Ye

1054
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 4: me my mother. This is the update title My mother

1055
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 4: in law doesn't let me have spicy sleep with my husband.

1056
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 4: She came like long story short, my mother in law

1057
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:57,680
Speaker 4: returned to our apartment after my husband kicked her out.

1058
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 4: She didn't contact us for about two months, then she began.

1059
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,919
Speaker 4: Then she began to resume communication with my husband. Three

1060
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 4: months ago, we received the news that my mother in

1061
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:18,439
Speaker 4: law was diagnosed with stage or stomach cancer. Oh oh,

1062
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 4: this sucks, but.

1063
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 3: I know exactly what you about to say.

1064
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 4: There won't be a problem forever.

1065
00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:33,560
Speaker 3: I knew he's gonna say that. I knew it.

1066
00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 4: It sucks. It sucks, but maybe it's just like, hey,

1067
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 4: have her in the apartment for this time period. Yes,

1068
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 4: it sucks, but like realize that there's like a there's

1069
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 4: an endgame here or would you not would you say no,

1070
00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:58,280
Speaker 4: I'm not going to have her in the house.

1071
00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:06,360
Speaker 3: Still, I'm just confused at the house thing. Why she

1072
00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 3: listened it below value.

1073
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 1: Because she wanted to live with her or she just didn't.

1074
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 2: She was like, I don't want to have to spend

1075
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 2: time trying to.

1076
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 4: Sell this way she wanted. She I think she will. Yeah. Yeah,

1077
00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 4: the good question, titty Jesse, is it real? I'm yeah,

1078
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:23,919
Speaker 4: it is a good question.

1079
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 2: I think also, I mean, oh, this is tough because

1080
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 2: if she has cancer then she probably will need a

1081
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 2: lot of help.

1082
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, will probably become even worse.

1083
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1084
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 4: Honestly, m well, let me finish out. You can think

1085
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 4: about it. So my husband asked me to move her

1086
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 4: mother back with us given the situation, but she continues

1087
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 4: with the same attitude from the beginning, and now it

1088
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 4: is worse since she needs various care and I must

1089
00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 4: take care of her. I quit my job to take

1090
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 4: care of her full time. We are drowning in debt

1091
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 4: since my husband's salary is not enough to cover all expenses.

1092
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:07,600
Speaker 4: My husband suggested putting my mother in law's house up

1093
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:09,920
Speaker 4: for sale again oh because it didn't go through, and

1094
01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 4: she refused, saying it was the only thing she had

1095
01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 4: left and she wanted it to be my husband's inheritance.

1096
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:21,960
Speaker 4: And several conferences asked, OPI is sure mother in law

1097
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Speaker 4: has cancer? Opie said, yes, she really has it. She

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Speaker 4: is not tolerating meals. I must help her go to

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Speaker 4: the bathroom and showers. She just sits on the couch

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01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 4: and screams to ask and demand things. This situation sucks,

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Speaker 4: really sucks, really suck. That sucks.

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Speaker 2: Is there also is a world where it's maybe even

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01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 2: more exasperbated, but exacerbated, exacerbated, exacerbated by if she's getting treatment.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean, oh, like like behavior, her behavior?

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Speaker 4: Well that that seems what it is. What's happening, it

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Speaker 4: is it is exacerbated by by the treatment. Yeah, question,

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Speaker 4: are we trying like stage four?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Should like I guess, I guess you have to do

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Speaker 4: some kind of treatment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, I mean she might have decided, like I

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Speaker 2: don't know, because some people decide when it's not late,

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01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 2: I don't want treatment.

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Speaker 4: I guess, Well, if they're doing treatment, maybe well maybe

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Speaker 4: they could just be trying to make her comfortable. Yeah, yeah,

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01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 4: what do you do in this situation? As as op?

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01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:39,400
Speaker 4: This is so hard and I mean, yeah, oh.

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Speaker 2: I was just gonna say. Katie lenn says she needs

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Speaker 2: a home health worker.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Tyler says, get a nurse or something. But they're

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Speaker 4: already drowning in debt with the treatment. So it's like

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Speaker 4: what how do you manage how do you manage that?

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Speaker 4: I don't think all right here, I have I have

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01:01:56,040 --> 01:02:01,200
Speaker 4: some thoughts. Initially, one is, uh, paying for the apartment,

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01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:07,600
Speaker 4: move into your mom's house so you have less less expenses.

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Speaker 4: And stage four usually means it's terminal, yeah, which usually

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01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 4: stage four is the end. Send her to hospice center. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I Emma Bear says, I worked in hospice, and people

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Speaker 4: with stage four cancer go there. We're comfortable end of

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01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 4: life care. It could be that she's she is getting

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01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:32,520
Speaker 4: hospice care and it's just about comfort at this point.

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Speaker 4: It's just such a hard situation. I think at the

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Speaker 4: very least, know that, yes, you are in debt, but

1134
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 4: you could sell the house to get out of the debt.

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01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:44,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think they should, you know, work

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01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 2: with her and be like, hey, we need we want

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01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 2: to help you, but we need this money and we

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01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 2: need to get this house at the best rate that

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01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:54,480
Speaker 2: we can, you know, the best, right, and we'll help

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Speaker 2: you with that.

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Speaker 1: Oh. Paula A.

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Speaker 4: Terrell says the house is far from his job.

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01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 2: Well, then I think sell it, but sell it.

1144
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 4: But she's like, but I mean it's in her name

1145
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 4: and she won't sell it, Well, she will, she just.

1146
01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 2: Is selling it at like a lower price.

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01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:11,720
Speaker 1: I think they just know she stops. She pulled it back.

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Speaker 4: She's not selling it. It's not sold. Yeah, this is

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01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:18,520
Speaker 4: I'm curious what you guys would do. Maybe we could

1150
01:03:18,560 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 4: have a call someone call in and say, like what

1151
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:26,200
Speaker 4: they would do in this situation. Silly toes, sighty toes

1152
01:03:26,280 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 4: live in the house. Yeah, they can't be too far away.

1153
01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 4: Why not rent it out? That's actually a good idea.

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01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 4: So kura kudo rent Are we gonna put that somewhere else?

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01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 4: Paula Terrelle says upper morphreing and deem her incompetent to

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01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 4: sell the house.

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Speaker 1: Whoa damn.

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01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 4: That's like, yeah, that's that's some intense stuff. Can't she

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01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 4: just pay for it? Like why do they have to

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01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:01,760
Speaker 4: pay and going debt? Can't she just pay for it?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, because then she can incur the medical

1162
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 4: debt and then when she dies that's you're chilling.

1163
01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:08,520
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 4: Tyler says he should have control of her estate. Yeah,

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01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 4: I mean, this is this is just a really crappy situation.

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01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:18,680
Speaker 4: I think if I was to give advice on this,

1167
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 4: it would be rent out the house so you have

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01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 4: close to zero expenses with the apartment. Make sure that

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01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:31,160
Speaker 4: she is incurring the medical debt instead of you, because

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01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:34,560
Speaker 4: that's not fair. If you have to incur the medical debt,

1171
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:37,439
Speaker 4: then you should. Then it's just like, hey, I can't

1172
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 4: pay for any of your care unless you sell the house.

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01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 2: Yeah for a you know.

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01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:47,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, and maybe try getting some power of attorney or

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01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:50,720
Speaker 4: or a medical something. I don't know what that thing

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01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 4: is called medical medical something medical uh yeah, whatever that

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01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 4: would be to make sure that you can control the

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01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 4: things of her estate. Because I think it's just I mean,

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01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 4: healthcare is so expensive, it's just going to be it's

1180
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:08,960
Speaker 4: just gonna get worse and worse. Yeah. Yeah, but that's

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01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 4: where the story ends. Yeah, this is tricky debt, isn't

1182
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,439
Speaker 4: in I don't think you you don't inherit debt.

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01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 2: That's what I was wondering. Actually, I was like, they

1184
01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 2: just get it if they were in the wheel.

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01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 4: No, you you you don't inherit debt.

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01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:27,320
Speaker 2: But unless you are married, Uh, you you inherited if

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01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 2: you were married.

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01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:32,440
Speaker 4: Yes, if you are married, because you're a legal entity

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01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 4: for during the marriage. Yeah, but with with this she

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01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:40,240
Speaker 4: you wouldn't inherit the debt. But what might happen is

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01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 4: they might.

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01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:43,160
Speaker 2: Have to have to come out of the estate.

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01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:47,400
Speaker 4: Exactly. Yeah, that's what I'm about to say. Emma Bear

1194
01:05:47,600 --> 01:05:50,840
Speaker 4: said twenty six. I took medical ethics and forget the term.

1195
01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 4: Sam is mentioning. It's like the dude, it's like in

1196
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 4: like the the the do not resuscitate kind of bar,

1197
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 4: but you do.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you inherit. You don't.

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01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 4: You don't inherit debt unless you inherit something. So it's

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01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:07,920
Speaker 4: like the debt is taken out of the inheritance.

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01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:12,040
Speaker 2: That makes sense. So maybe if she's Danna Pardners put

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01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 2: the house in the will, that it would be taken out.

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01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:17,000
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, so it's like it's like, hey, this is

1204
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 4: going to be taken out. You're like, you're gonna have

1205
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 4: to sell the house anywhere. Yeah, but yeah, it's it's

1206
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 4: oh yeah. Love Bubble says it could happen if she

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01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 4: signed some power of attorney.

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01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:28,040
Speaker 1: So what power let's go.

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01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:32,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's where it ends. I think I think with

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01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 4: that I might give it back to Sophia for this

1211
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,960
Speaker 4: next story. Ashley rode her, I've been seeing you super

1212
01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:40,439
Speaker 4: active in the chat Ashley, she would have to become

1213
01:06:40,480 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 4: her power of attorney, but she could become liable for

1214
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:46,240
Speaker 4: her debt and would have power over her finances and

1215
01:06:46,480 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 4: her home.

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Speaker 2: I think that almost sent someone a voice memoh I

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Speaker 2: axcellently almost send someone a voice memo. No, it was

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01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:57,200
Speaker 2: just one of my friends.

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01:06:57,280 --> 01:06:59,280
Speaker 4: But it was like on, I didn't realize the friend

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Speaker 4: that you're going to.

1221
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:04,480
Speaker 2: No, anyway, let's continue. Which one is it?

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01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:09,479
Speaker 4: Matt Hatter got thanks for the five gifted memberships. Also,

1223
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:12,920
Speaker 4: Matt Hatter, you been having some choice commentary, so.

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Speaker 1: Choice, thank you.

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01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 2: No, it was just recording our like one minute conversation.

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01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:21,280
Speaker 3: Got another fun fact real quick.

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01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 2: I can only think of theater facts, think of.

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01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 4: Outside of life, like arms, belly bumps.

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01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:32,560
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's a fun fact, but it's

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01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:35,919
Speaker 2: a fun story. Do you want an okay story time

1231
01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:37,080
Speaker 2: fun fact?

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Speaker 5: It?

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01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 2: Okay, I give I give you, I give you fun facts.

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01:07:44,360 --> 01:07:44,920
Speaker 2: Stop it.

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01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 4: Is no.

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01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 2: So when we were in Australia when Sam and and

1237
01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:57,040
Speaker 2: we went to visit the grape Perrier reef, when I

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01:07:57,560 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 2: was twelve.

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01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 4: When I was all young dog, when she was our

1240
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:03,640
Speaker 4: young ward hog.

1241
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:08,400
Speaker 2: Okay, well, anyway, when I was around twelve. Uh and yeah,

1242
01:08:08,440 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 2: so we were we were staying in this hotel and

1243
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:14,640
Speaker 2: we were watching TV. We would watch TV in the mornings,

1244
01:08:14,680 --> 01:08:17,479
Speaker 2: and every time we would watch something, they would always

1245
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:19,240
Speaker 2: play same you're an act to participant in this ring

1246
01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:22,719
Speaker 2: I'm here. They would always play this one at literally

1247
01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:26,080
Speaker 2: like constantly. Every day we would hear it, and it

1248
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:27,800
Speaker 2: got to the point that by the end of the

1249
01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:29,240
Speaker 2: trip we would just Sam and I were just like

1250
01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:31,640
Speaker 2: form and we'd just sing it non stop because it.

1251
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:33,720
Speaker 1: Was like all just I wonder if we could find

1252
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:35,599
Speaker 1: it on the prob Yeah, I bet.

1253
01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:37,639
Speaker 2: We could, but yeah, so we could perform it for them.

1254
01:08:38,040 --> 01:08:41,759
Speaker 4: It goes arms and bellies, Oh yeah, bums and thighs,

1255
01:08:42,640 --> 01:08:44,840
Speaker 4: Arms and bellies, bums and.

1256
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:51,800
Speaker 8: Thighs, arms, bellies, bums and thighs, bums and thighs, arms, bellies, bums.

1257
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 2: And thighs, bums and thighs.

1258
01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 8: Twenty nine minutes and then you say goodbye, arms, ballies,

1259
01:08:58,040 --> 01:08:59,679
Speaker 8: bums and thighs, bums and thighs.

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01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:04,639
Speaker 3: Well that's that summoned John. That's crazy.

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01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:08,560
Speaker 1: If you want John to go just without me singing.

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01:09:08,360 --> 01:09:11,639
Speaker 2: With Yeah, that was that's why fun fact slash fun.

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01:09:11,520 --> 01:09:14,760
Speaker 4: Story fun fact. Can we find that? I want to

1264
01:09:14,800 --> 01:09:15,040
Speaker 4: find that.

1265
01:09:15,200 --> 01:09:18,160
Speaker 2: Find it, Riley, find it, look up Bumps and Thighs

1266
01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:21,439
Speaker 2: twenty nine minutes Australian ad.

1267
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:24,360
Speaker 4: Also also Katie Lynn knows it.

1268
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:29,640
Speaker 1: No way, Katie Lynn, you actually what arture remembers this?

1269
01:09:30,560 --> 01:09:31,200
Speaker 4: Katie Lynn.

1270
01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:35,840
Speaker 1: Let's freaking go, let's stricker go.

1271
01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:37,280
Speaker 2: But we have a video.

1272
01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:40,280
Speaker 4: I feel validated. I feel validated. It feels like a

1273
01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 4: fever dream that that is. What's at twenty nine minutes

1274
01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:45,559
Speaker 4: is like if you do this for twenty.

1275
01:09:45,520 --> 01:09:48,000
Speaker 2: Minutes, getting rock, it's like a job or not a job,

1276
01:09:48,040 --> 01:09:51,400
Speaker 2: a Jim Jim, it's a job. But there's a there's

1277
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:53,640
Speaker 2: a video of Sam and I when we were like

1278
01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:56,720
Speaker 2: twelve and sixteen performing it, like just as we were walking.

1279
01:09:56,479 --> 01:09:57,400
Speaker 4: Through Wait, wait is that it?

1280
01:09:57,880 --> 01:09:58,200
Speaker 3: Oh wait?

1281
01:09:58,320 --> 01:10:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, yes, can I see this?

1282
01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 4: Put it in?

1283
01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:03,320
Speaker 5: But it.

1284
01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 3: Wait put it in and give me a second?

1285
01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 2: Can we sing along with it? Or do we just

1286
01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 2: let them?

1287
01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 4: I'm I'm I'm gonna do it, go go do it? Wait? Wait?

1288
01:10:17,120 --> 01:10:19,679
Speaker 1: Wait, but what does he mean?

1289
01:10:21,600 --> 01:10:21,760
Speaker 4: Oh?

1290
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:24,800
Speaker 2: Hey, that guy?

1291
01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:27,960
Speaker 4: I know that guy? So sorry everyone, he's on the

1292
01:10:28,000 --> 01:10:28,360
Speaker 4: other year.

1293
01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, ready, he's the piano guy.

1294
01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:35,400
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, we'll probably meet him.

1295
01:10:35,400 --> 01:10:39,880
Speaker 2: I think, oh, we are at another thirty minutes, one

1296
01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:44,240
Speaker 2: hundred and seventy baby godzilla, Riley, show me your nipples.

1297
01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:49,439
Speaker 4: You do not have to show your nipples.

1298
01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 2: I don't have to do it.

1299
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:54,679
Speaker 4: Really, I can't.

1300
01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:56,599
Speaker 3: I can't be doing this anymore.

1301
01:10:58,040 --> 01:11:00,880
Speaker 4: He showed you one nipple one time. Yeah, at that

1302
01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:03,479
Speaker 4: moment in stream, shall live it in for me?

1303
01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:05,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry.

1304
01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, special, how John has changed before? It's like, show

1305
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:15,000
Speaker 1: the nipples, Riley.

1306
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:18,640
Speaker 2: Play the video video video.

1307
01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:23,880
Speaker 3: On second, do it?

1308
01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 4: Do it?

1309
01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:29,400
Speaker 3: To make sure?

1310
01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:36,840
Speaker 4: Get it up Riley for me, Please get it up, hies,

1311
01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:42,799
Speaker 4: moms and thighs twenty nine minutes and then.

1312
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:44,120
Speaker 2: I say goodbye.

1313
01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:56,840
Speaker 4: And thighs and thighs twenty nine minutes and then we.

1314
01:11:56,880 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 1: Say goodbye.

1315
01:11:59,760 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 4: And does wow.

1316
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 1: It's better be out of business otherwise this is a

1317
01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:07,000
Speaker 1: free sponsor.

1318
01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:10,400
Speaker 4: I'm sure it's out of business. There's no way. Also,

1319
01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:13,760
Speaker 4: I can't believe. I don't. I don't think.

1320
01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:16,880
Speaker 2: I have never watched that since the day that she

1321
01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 2: saw it to me.

1322
01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:21,040
Speaker 4: I'm gonna send it to my mom. Yeah, I guarantee

1323
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:23,040
Speaker 4: you if I send it, my mom will call me.

1324
01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:26,960
Speaker 2: That's crazy that we like remembered exactly the two exactly.

1325
01:12:26,960 --> 01:12:28,280
Speaker 4: I mean, we've seen it so many.

1326
01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:30,680
Speaker 2: Times, so many times, because every time my mom thinks

1327
01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 2: about it, she goes Sam performance.

1328
01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:38,800
Speaker 1: She's like, she's like, yeah, performance, So can you show

1329
01:12:38,840 --> 01:12:39,320
Speaker 1: your nipples?

1330
01:12:39,320 --> 01:12:41,040
Speaker 4: Sam? I'm not showing my nipples.

1331
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:45,640
Speaker 3: Check, I got you. I can show Sam's nipples real

1332
01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:46,040
Speaker 3: quick for you.

1333
01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, while you're doing that, you know what else

1334
01:12:47,600 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 2: has been stuck my head recently? The new Sabrina Carpenter

1335
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:52,479
Speaker 2: song the please Please Please Uh.

1336
01:12:53,080 --> 01:12:55,760
Speaker 4: It's like please, oh you know it's been sucking my

1337
01:12:55,920 --> 01:12:56,320
Speaker 4: head though.

1338
01:12:56,840 --> 01:12:59,320
Speaker 1: You you you you you you you you you you.

1339
01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:04,000
Speaker 4: It's a Camp's new song.

1340
01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:12,000
Speaker 2: Oham Camde they've taken back there you go, there you go.

1341
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 4: Riley shows that picture every chance he gets.

1342
01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:17,720
Speaker 3: I'm sorry that my friends are hot and I want

1343
01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:18,439
Speaker 3: everyone to know it.

1344
01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:22,240
Speaker 2: Whoa, oh sorry.

1345
01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:29,639
Speaker 1: That I'm sorry.

1346
01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:34,320
Speaker 3: Hopefully that works out, baby Gudzilla, I'm sorry. This is

1347
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:37,040
Speaker 3: the best I could do. We can't be pimping out

1348
01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:39,759
Speaker 3: like that, don't no, man, go back to the Baldy

1349
01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:40,800
Speaker 3: episodes if you really want to.

1350
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:45,599
Speaker 4: Actually, I literally archived that post on my Instagram because

1351
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:47,480
Speaker 4: I felt like it was too sexy.

1352
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:52,519
Speaker 1: Oh god, but yeah, holy cow, maybe Godzilla a.

1353
01:13:52,560 --> 01:13:59,160
Speaker 4: Getting us to another thirty Mina and Matt Hattergal thanks

1354
01:13:59,160 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 4: for the five membership given back to the community. We

1355
01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:07,920
Speaker 4: appreciate you well, my dear Sam. When you go down

1356
01:14:07,960 --> 01:14:10,559
Speaker 4: the rabbit hole up entitled parrots Reddit sub you learn

1357
01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:15,280
Speaker 4: quite a lot of things. Yes, madam, coming in with

1358
01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:20,439
Speaker 4: the best comments. Appreciate you. Riley loves Sam's picture. Sophia

1359
01:14:20,520 --> 01:14:24,599
Speaker 4: has a classic sister sister reaction. Skittle nips.

1360
01:14:24,720 --> 01:14:26,679
Speaker 3: What does that mean that you, buddy?

1361
01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:28,519
Speaker 4: I have skittle nips?

1362
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:39,680
Speaker 2: Alright, Sophia, Yeah, okay, I'm switching up.

1363
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 1: Yet, bro Is is this?

1364
01:14:53,800 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 4: Is this a Sophia John Sam John Sanda, But not

1365
01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:05,799
Speaker 4: just any nipples. His nipples printed twice on it. Kimberly

1366
01:15:05,920 --> 01:15:12,280
Speaker 4: fine making it. Cop book at Reviews says the gifted

1367
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:15,720
Speaker 4: memberships are flowing tonight. That they are, that they are.

1368
01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:23,160
Speaker 1: It's a guava, yo, Guava is so underrated. Yeah, guava juice,

1369
01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:26,480
Speaker 1: guava pastries.

1370
01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:30,920
Speaker 2: Alie Adkins, I'm a huge Chaplone fan.

1371
01:15:31,400 --> 01:15:31,719
Speaker 3: Huge.

1372
01:15:32,080 --> 01:15:34,719
Speaker 4: I don't know if I've had a guava pastry. Sophia

1373
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:36,519
Speaker 4: is here, Sophia, show yourself.

1374
01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:40,360
Speaker 2: I'm here. She's just she says, yeah, I'm here, and

1375
01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:42,000
Speaker 2: I yeah, I'm here.

1376
01:15:42,160 --> 01:15:47,760
Speaker 4: She's a whether the said damn for context? Scroll up,

1377
01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 4: wake out, go up, go up?

1378
01:15:51,400 --> 01:15:58,599
Speaker 1: Uh working, you might need to get.

1379
01:16:00,160 --> 01:16:02,920
Speaker 4: Matter anyway. I can, I couldn't. I can.

1380
01:16:03,120 --> 01:16:06,720
Speaker 1: We can scroll rab and scroll yeah type situation.

1381
01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:12,000
Speaker 4: Anyway, right or John, I believe it's your turn to

1382
01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:16,720
Speaker 4: read a story like freaking yeah, guava beer is the

1383
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:17,360
Speaker 4: thing I don't know.

1384
01:16:20,280 --> 01:16:26,160
Speaker 1: Five four five fifty four s three yep, five fifty

1385
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:28,479
Speaker 1: four s three fifty four.

1386
01:16:29,120 --> 01:16:32,519
Speaker 4: Guava is what tequila is made out of. I don't

1387
01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:35,639
Speaker 4: know if that's true. It's a gave, it's a gave.

1388
01:16:35,720 --> 01:16:39,360
Speaker 1: It's ajave. Come on, I said that so demeaningly. I'm

1389
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 1: so sorry. Ave is oh my gold. Alright, ladies and gentlemen, Sophia,

1390
01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:46,040
Speaker 1: are you ready for me?

1391
01:16:46,520 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 2: I'm so freaking ready for you.

1392
01:16:48,479 --> 01:16:55,800
Speaker 1: Let's do it, am I. They hold for taking away

1393
01:16:55,880 --> 01:16:59,400
Speaker 1: my brother's plus one and inviting his girlfriend myself.

1394
01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:03,960
Speaker 4: Oh was he gonna invite someone that's not his girlfriend?

1395
01:17:04,640 --> 01:17:06,240
Speaker 4: A little little side piece?

1396
01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:08,800
Speaker 1: Well we're gonna find out from empty years five to seven.

1397
01:17:08,840 --> 01:17:11,599
Speaker 1: Who says, I know I am kind of the a hole,

1398
01:17:11,680 --> 01:17:14,280
Speaker 1: but I need to know how bad. It was, well,

1399
01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:17,360
Speaker 1: let's see, my brother is twenty nine and has been

1400
01:17:17,479 --> 01:17:20,880
Speaker 1: with Leah for two years. We all like her. She's

1401
01:17:20,920 --> 01:17:24,920
Speaker 1: super nice. I'm getting married next April, and sent an

1402
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:27,440
Speaker 1: invite to my brother's apartments.

1403
01:17:28,880 --> 01:17:29,000
Speaker 5: Uh.

1404
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:32,000
Speaker 1: We decided to send invites to households and not to individuals.

1405
01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:35,640
Speaker 1: For example, our aunt received and our aunt received an

1406
01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:39,200
Speaker 1: invite for her family and not for each individual. Last Thursday,

1407
01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:41,720
Speaker 1: we met at my parents' place. It was just a

1408
01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:47,400
Speaker 1: Core family because of some tax reasons. Lowell, Sylvia's just

1409
01:17:47,520 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 1: making face?

1410
01:17:48,240 --> 01:17:49,080
Speaker 4: Is that me and the mirror?

1411
01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:56,080
Speaker 1: She just goes, sorry, continue, We haven't made like really

1412
01:17:56,240 --> 01:17:57,360
Speaker 1: crazy faces lately.

1413
01:17:58,040 --> 01:18:00,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, not even in thumbnails. We used to go like

1414
01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:03,000
Speaker 4: these were our thumbnails were like like yeah, we had

1415
01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:04,760
Speaker 4: some like John had that one.

1416
01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:09,200
Speaker 1: Oh I hurt my face one of those. Yeah, anyways,

1417
01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:12,560
Speaker 1: throw back to our old faces. Last yearsday, way to

1418
01:18:12,600 --> 01:18:14,599
Speaker 1: my parents' place, it was just the Core family because

1419
01:18:14,600 --> 01:18:17,800
Speaker 1: of tax reasons. Little I don't know why, but while there,

1420
01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:21,000
Speaker 1: I asked my brother about Leah's dietary restrictions. I know

1421
01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:23,200
Speaker 1: that she's a vegetarian for health reasons and that she

1422
01:18:23,840 --> 01:18:28,960
Speaker 1: cannot eat have certain raw vegetables. He said that she

1423
01:18:29,160 --> 01:18:31,439
Speaker 1: wasn't going to come, and that he was taking his

1424
01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:37,040
Speaker 1: girl best friend Amanda instead. M Are we suspicious?

1425
01:18:40,360 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 4: I mean it could just be that he wants to

1426
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:45,160
Speaker 4: take his girl best friend and they're just besties, you know,

1427
01:18:45,400 --> 01:18:46,840
Speaker 4: So what.

1428
01:18:47,600 --> 01:18:52,560
Speaker 1: You are dating someone? They're like, yeah, someone that potentially

1429
01:18:52,680 --> 01:18:56,240
Speaker 1: could take club hypothetical scenario.

1430
01:18:56,400 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, is hypothetical. You're going on some day.

1431
01:19:00,560 --> 01:19:05,719
Speaker 1: Let's imagine a fake world fare. Multiple men are asking

1432
01:19:06,280 --> 01:19:11,400
Speaker 1: you out. You're in a hypothetical world pathetical, You're you're

1433
01:19:11,600 --> 01:19:15,080
Speaker 1: You're Jane the dater. You're not even Sophia Donner. All right,

1434
01:19:15,400 --> 01:19:19,800
Speaker 1: You're Jane the data in this hypothetical world, and your

1435
01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:22,880
Speaker 1: partner is bringing their girl best friend instead of you

1436
01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:24,920
Speaker 1: to a wedding. How are you feeling?

1437
01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 2: I'm left out?

1438
01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:28,400
Speaker 1: Feeling left out?

1439
01:19:28,439 --> 01:19:28,559
Speaker 3: Right?

1440
01:19:28,560 --> 01:19:29,320
Speaker 1: Why can't we all go?

1441
01:19:30,360 --> 01:19:31,760
Speaker 4: Or why can't have a plus one? It's called a

1442
01:19:31,800 --> 01:19:32,840
Speaker 4: plus one, not a plus two.

1443
01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 2: Okay, so me and the girl go and this, Yeah,

1444
01:19:37,640 --> 01:19:38,040
Speaker 2: there we go.

1445
01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:38,600
Speaker 5: I like that.

1446
01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:44,559
Speaker 1: I got him. Amanda has always been stringing my brother along.

1447
01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:47,559
Speaker 1: In my opinion, he's he always denies having feelings for her.

1448
01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:52,800
Speaker 1: But let's be real here, I guess Amanda would date

1449
01:19:52,840 --> 01:19:56,000
Speaker 1: other guys blow off my brother. Then when things were

1450
01:19:56,040 --> 01:19:59,160
Speaker 1: on the decline with our partners, she would be attached

1451
01:19:59,160 --> 01:19:59,719
Speaker 1: to him again.

1452
01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:04,920
Speaker 4: So they are they they are each other's fallbacks.

1453
01:20:05,080 --> 01:20:10,080
Speaker 1: Yes, Oh, her last boyfriend broke up with her right

1454
01:20:10,160 --> 01:20:13,280
Speaker 1: around the time my brother and his then ex girlfriend,

1455
01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:16,360
Speaker 1: Amanda and her ex were supposed to travel to Spain.

1456
01:20:16,880 --> 01:20:20,879
Speaker 1: What did my idiot brother do go with Amanda alone

1457
01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:24,320
Speaker 1: because Amanda was uncomfortable with his ex girlfriend?

1458
01:20:25,760 --> 01:20:27,479
Speaker 4: Wait? Wait what? Wait?

1459
01:20:27,880 --> 01:20:30,599
Speaker 1: Say that again? Say yeah, yes, let me run it back.

1460
01:20:31,160 --> 01:20:35,680
Speaker 1: So Amanda is the best friend. Oh okay, so this

1461
01:20:35,800 --> 01:20:38,719
Speaker 1: is why it's confusing. He also had an ex girlfriend

1462
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:44,160
Speaker 1: name named Amanda. Amanda, that's so confused. He did break

1463
01:20:44,200 --> 01:20:46,160
Speaker 1: it down, So that's insane. I'm gonna change it to

1464
01:20:46,400 --> 01:20:50,160
Speaker 1: a type friend and yeah right, literally down to the

1465
01:20:50,240 --> 01:20:53,439
Speaker 1: name Amanda. I'll change it to a friend and ex girlfriend.

1466
01:20:55,160 --> 01:20:58,320
Speaker 1: Uh so her last her last boyfriend broke up with

1467
01:20:58,400 --> 01:21:00,800
Speaker 1: her right around the time my brother and his then

1468
01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:05,519
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend and her ex were supposed to travel to Spain.

1469
01:21:06,000 --> 01:21:08,880
Speaker 1: What did my idiot brother do go with friend his

1470
01:21:09,080 --> 01:21:13,799
Speaker 1: friend alone because the friend was uncomfortable with his ex girlfriend.

1471
01:21:14,800 --> 01:21:16,960
Speaker 1: That still doesn't one hundred percent make sense. But we're

1472
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:18,000
Speaker 1: just gonna keep on going.

1473
01:21:18,720 --> 01:21:20,040
Speaker 4: I'm yeah, I'm confused.

1474
01:21:20,360 --> 01:21:23,800
Speaker 1: Obviously, he acted blindsided when his girlfriend broke up with him.

1475
01:21:23,840 --> 01:21:26,040
Speaker 1: So I think what happened was he traveled to Spain

1476
01:21:26,479 --> 01:21:27,400
Speaker 1: with the friend.

1477
01:21:27,160 --> 01:21:29,760
Speaker 4: And friend and girl, and his girlfriend's like this is it?

1478
01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:30,439
Speaker 4: I hate this?

1479
01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:31,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, what's what's going on?

1480
01:21:31,760 --> 01:21:32,160
Speaker 4: An idiot?

1481
01:21:32,240 --> 01:21:35,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, Obviously he acted blindsided when his girlfriend broke up

1482
01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 1: with him. I didn't even say anything because it's all

1483
01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:39,360
Speaker 1: so weird. So when he said that, I asked if

1484
01:21:39,439 --> 01:21:42,360
Speaker 1: Leah already had other plans, But my brother said that

1485
01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:44,920
Speaker 1: Amanda had asked if she could become because it was

1486
01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:48,160
Speaker 1: an opportunity to finally see the old gang. We were

1487
01:21:48,200 --> 01:21:50,040
Speaker 1: in the same we were in the same friend group

1488
01:21:50,080 --> 01:21:52,800
Speaker 1: in high school. If you're such good friends with them,

1489
01:21:52,840 --> 01:21:53,760
Speaker 1: wouldn't they just about you?

1490
01:21:53,920 --> 01:21:54,880
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, why not?

1491
01:21:54,960 --> 01:21:57,240
Speaker 4: Why wouldn't you go to Spain altogether?

1492
01:21:57,640 --> 01:21:59,680
Speaker 1: No, I know, like, why wouldn't he oh to the

1493
01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:02,040
Speaker 1: world Spain? Spain is old news.

1494
01:22:02,760 --> 01:22:04,760
Speaker 2: Actually I was gonna say, why don't they ask, like

1495
01:22:04,880 --> 01:22:07,040
Speaker 2: op directly to you know, come to the wedding. But

1496
01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:09,400
Speaker 2: also that's weird. You're not invited to the wedding for

1497
01:22:09,439 --> 01:22:11,559
Speaker 2: a reason, right, Yeah, if they know you and they

1498
01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:13,400
Speaker 2: didn't invite you, then you're not invited.

1499
01:22:13,640 --> 01:22:16,879
Speaker 1: She's like, she's sneaking into a wedding that she shouldn't

1500
01:22:16,880 --> 01:22:19,240
Speaker 1: be at because she should have been invited. Probably, and too,

1501
01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:20,479
Speaker 1: she's taking the girlfriend's place.

1502
01:22:20,840 --> 01:22:24,920
Speaker 4: But were they invited separately because they get you get

1503
01:22:24,960 --> 01:22:25,559
Speaker 4: plus ones?

1504
01:22:25,640 --> 01:22:30,560
Speaker 1: Right, well, so far all the one that's Amanda was

1505
01:22:30,640 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 1: friends with the people in the wedding and so our

1506
01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:38,120
Speaker 1: part and she was intentionally uninvited. I see we're inferring,

1507
01:22:38,240 --> 01:22:40,400
Speaker 1: but it's like, why didn't she get an invite? That's weird.

1508
01:22:40,439 --> 01:22:43,040
Speaker 1: She's having to use his plus one. Yeah, even though

1509
01:22:43,040 --> 01:22:44,400
Speaker 1: they're all in the same friend group.

1510
01:22:44,600 --> 01:22:47,800
Speaker 2: Yeah maybe not necessarily, like they were like maliciously not

1511
01:22:47,920 --> 01:22:50,160
Speaker 2: inviting her. They just probably aren't friends with her anymore.

1512
01:22:51,320 --> 01:22:53,320
Speaker 1: I'm joining the box foot rested gang.

1513
01:22:53,600 --> 01:22:54,560
Speaker 2: We can't I can't show you.

1514
01:22:55,280 --> 01:22:59,479
Speaker 1: That's okay, my feet are rested now. Shooby doobe doo.

1515
01:23:00,280 --> 01:23:04,840
Speaker 1: Uh Okay, here we go. Amanda is mean? Oh I

1516
01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:08,120
Speaker 1: told him I would have invited Amanda if I wanted

1517
01:23:08,120 --> 01:23:09,439
Speaker 1: her there. Oh oh to the wedding.

1518
01:23:09,680 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, this is I am so lost, So let's

1519
01:23:13,520 --> 01:23:15,600
Speaker 4: break it Sam.

1520
01:23:15,760 --> 01:23:16,680
Speaker 1: So, Yeah, I am.

1521
01:23:16,960 --> 01:23:20,640
Speaker 4: I am completely and utterly lost. I got lost with

1522
01:23:21,400 --> 01:23:23,559
Speaker 4: with with the two Amanda's this is this is.

1523
01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:24,559
Speaker 2: Sam coming back.

1524
01:23:26,040 --> 01:23:27,479
Speaker 1: So are you ready for a TLD?

1525
01:23:27,560 --> 01:23:28,120
Speaker 4: Are So?

1526
01:23:29,280 --> 01:23:32,759
Speaker 1: Op is having a wedding. Op is having a wedding

1527
01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:38,559
Speaker 1: and OPI's brother. It's it circles around idiot brother. Idiot brother, right,

1528
01:23:39,240 --> 01:23:41,960
Speaker 1: idiot brother is dating a girl but has the sneaky

1529
01:23:42,040 --> 01:23:45,960
Speaker 1: friend Amanda. Yeah, so the the girlfriend is Leah and

1530
01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:50,679
Speaker 1: the sneaky friend Amanda. Right, and so and he wants

1531
01:23:50,720 --> 01:23:53,200
Speaker 1: to take sneaky friend Amanda to the wedding. Yes, and

1532
01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:59,240
Speaker 1: we just we just confirmed our suspicion that they intentionally

1533
01:23:59,320 --> 01:24:03,120
Speaker 1: OP intention did not invite Amanda because she's like, this

1534
01:24:03,320 --> 01:24:05,760
Speaker 1: person is bad for my brother. We don't like her. Yes,

1535
01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:09,120
Speaker 1: she little pe knows of Amanda, but intentionally done by her.

1536
01:24:09,200 --> 01:24:11,840
Speaker 1: OPI literally says Amanda is mean and cold. So she

1537
01:24:11,960 --> 01:24:14,200
Speaker 1: does not like Amanda. She's a man has been toying

1538
01:24:14,240 --> 01:24:17,880
Speaker 1: with her her brother, Right, and she's like, She's like,

1539
01:24:18,040 --> 01:24:20,240
Speaker 1: I don't want you to use her as a year

1540
01:24:20,280 --> 01:24:24,280
Speaker 1: plus one exactly exactly. I didn't invite her for a reason. Okay,

1541
01:24:24,680 --> 01:24:25,439
Speaker 1: are we all caught up.

1542
01:24:25,560 --> 01:24:26,559
Speaker 4: I'm caught up. I'm caught up.

1543
01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:28,760
Speaker 1: That's basically where we're at bace way. What well, what

1544
01:24:28,840 --> 01:24:30,960
Speaker 1: about with the Spain he said he broke up. Okay,

1545
01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:33,560
Speaker 1: so the whole Spain thing that was still confusing, but

1546
01:24:33,680 --> 01:24:39,760
Speaker 1: base I think I understand it. Basically. Uh, the brother, Uh,

1547
01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:44,840
Speaker 1: the brother's friend, Amanda was going to Spain, and I

1548
01:24:44,920 --> 01:24:47,720
Speaker 1: think her relationship was on the rocks, right, and then

1549
01:24:47,840 --> 01:24:50,640
Speaker 1: so she ended up going instead of with Amanda with

1550
01:24:50,680 --> 01:24:54,760
Speaker 1: her boyfriend, she ended up going with Opie's brother to Spain, right.

1551
01:24:54,920 --> 01:24:57,040
Speaker 4: And then Op's girlfriend at.

1552
01:24:56,960 --> 01:25:00,439
Speaker 1: The time different than this, different than the current girl.

1553
01:25:00,479 --> 01:25:02,640
Speaker 4: Different than the current girlfriend. Okay, so this is the

1554
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:07,200
Speaker 4: example of the that Amanda sucks and breaks up the

1555
01:25:07,280 --> 01:25:10,799
Speaker 4: relationships that Opie's brother has exactly.

1556
01:25:11,439 --> 01:25:11,639
Speaker 7: Ah.

1557
01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:14,240
Speaker 4: So it was back in time, Okay, back in time. Okay,

1558
01:25:14,320 --> 01:25:16,040
Speaker 4: so now we're going back to the present. That was

1559
01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:18,640
Speaker 4: an example. I'm full comprehension now.

1560
01:25:18,880 --> 01:25:22,520
Speaker 2: So for the reason the TLDR is not working, I'm trying.

1561
01:25:22,240 --> 01:25:26,040
Speaker 1: To fix that. You could message, uh yeah, what even

1562
01:25:26,080 --> 01:25:28,120
Speaker 1: to Mohammad and rally He helps.

1563
01:25:28,160 --> 01:25:31,280
Speaker 4: First, I'm seeing some some need to spray, bottle the

1564
01:25:31,360 --> 01:25:36,679
Speaker 4: chat or stoke the chat the chat Chat is getting

1565
01:25:36,960 --> 01:25:39,160
Speaker 4: Chat is getting hot and steamy over here, chat, What

1566
01:25:39,240 --> 01:25:42,559
Speaker 4: are you doing? Chat is? Chat is getting spicy, sleep

1567
01:25:42,680 --> 01:25:43,280
Speaker 4: to the max?

1568
01:25:43,479 --> 01:25:45,920
Speaker 1: What are you free to? Restless?

1569
01:25:46,680 --> 01:25:50,360
Speaker 4: And rubbing up against the floor humping the pillows.

1570
01:25:51,880 --> 01:25:55,080
Speaker 1: Wow, Chat, I didn't know you were you were one

1571
01:25:55,160 --> 01:25:57,760
Speaker 1: to do that. Let's let's keep it.

1572
01:25:57,840 --> 01:25:59,240
Speaker 4: I mean, it's getting after dark.

1573
01:25:59,280 --> 01:26:02,040
Speaker 1: It is, it is okay, storytime after dog it is.

1574
01:26:02,280 --> 01:26:04,920
Speaker 4: You know what chack whoa, whoa, whoa.

1575
01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:06,639
Speaker 1: They're gonna go off the rails.

1576
01:26:07,080 --> 01:26:12,879
Speaker 4: Kim Elijah says, don't acknowledge it, Sam exactly. Baby cuts ills.

1577
01:26:13,040 --> 01:26:18,000
Speaker 1: Here we go. You see, you see when you say

1578
01:26:18,200 --> 01:26:24,120
Speaker 1: the things, then they go crazy. Anyway, that's what happens. Anyways,

1579
01:26:24,160 --> 01:26:30,000
Speaker 1: we're gonna keep talking. So I told him I would

1580
01:26:30,000 --> 01:26:32,640
Speaker 1: have invited Amanda if I wanted her there. Amanda is

1581
01:26:32,760 --> 01:26:35,680
Speaker 1: mean and cold. She always makes disparaging comments about other

1582
01:26:35,800 --> 01:26:39,840
Speaker 1: girls at every event. Around one hour in she will

1583
01:26:39,840 --> 01:26:43,439
Speaker 1: make some sort of scene that either has her running

1584
01:26:43,479 --> 01:26:46,759
Speaker 1: away crying or sitting mad at a table telling everyone

1585
01:26:46,880 --> 01:26:49,519
Speaker 1: to leave her alone, and then making a cryptic comment

1586
01:26:49,560 --> 01:26:54,200
Speaker 1: about something hurting her sounds terrible. I told my brother

1587
01:26:54,280 --> 01:26:56,880
Speaker 1: I was revoking his plus one and Amanda was not

1588
01:26:57,439 --> 01:26:59,479
Speaker 1: coming to the wedding. Yeah, I mean you get to

1589
01:26:59,560 --> 01:27:02,639
Speaker 1: choose who you want at the wedding. It's literally your wedding.

1590
01:27:02,840 --> 01:27:06,800
Speaker 1: Come on now. He accused me of being misogynistic and

1591
01:27:07,000 --> 01:27:12,080
Speaker 1: bigoted because I don't understand sex friendships.

1592
01:27:13,680 --> 01:27:18,439
Speaker 4: No, it's not about opposite sex friendships. It's about her sucking.

1593
01:27:18,760 --> 01:27:23,160
Speaker 1: Dude. That is such a like, what a what a reach?

1594
01:27:23,560 --> 01:27:25,559
Speaker 1: My guy is yikes.

1595
01:27:25,720 --> 01:27:28,080
Speaker 4: I feel like, honestly, this makes me think that he

1596
01:27:28,400 --> 01:27:29,000
Speaker 4: is cheating?

1597
01:27:30,640 --> 01:27:32,360
Speaker 1: Yeah? Could we could we get a poll?

1598
01:27:33,080 --> 01:27:34,519
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah? Is a brother?

1599
01:27:35,320 --> 01:27:36,040
Speaker 1: Is brother cheating?

1600
01:27:36,120 --> 01:27:36,360
Speaker 4: Sorry?

1601
01:27:36,560 --> 01:27:41,760
Speaker 1: His brother cheating? Yes or no? You decide? Opie says,

1602
01:27:42,000 --> 01:27:53,000
Speaker 1: this is bs click the exact God, I literally did.

1603
01:27:53,040 --> 01:27:54,920
Speaker 2: I was trying to figure out how to do a pole.

1604
01:27:55,520 --> 01:28:00,479
Speaker 1: I am absolutely we have to stop stoking the child

1605
01:28:00,720 --> 01:28:04,200
Speaker 1: lad I truly did not mean to click that. Oh

1606
01:28:04,280 --> 01:28:06,960
Speaker 1: my god, you're instigating.

1607
01:28:09,840 --> 01:28:10,679
Speaker 2: What do we want?

1608
01:28:13,080 --> 01:28:14,880
Speaker 1: What's the brother cheating?

1609
01:28:15,000 --> 01:28:15,479
Speaker 4: Yes? Yes?

1610
01:28:15,640 --> 01:28:20,599
Speaker 5: Or not? So uh.

1611
01:28:20,840 --> 01:28:24,120
Speaker 1: Opie says that my husband has a female childhood friend

1612
01:28:24,240 --> 01:28:26,840
Speaker 1: who is his best woman. I love her too, and

1613
01:28:26,960 --> 01:28:32,880
Speaker 1: she has been amazing and she respects fing boundaries ladies

1614
01:28:32,920 --> 01:28:35,240
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. She always includes me and made a huge

1615
01:28:35,240 --> 01:28:37,680
Speaker 1: effort when I started dating my fiance to integrate me

1616
01:28:37,760 --> 01:28:40,760
Speaker 1: into the friend group. How great anyway, I said, my

1617
01:28:40,880 --> 01:28:43,560
Speaker 1: final decision was final. He could take it or leave it,

1618
01:28:43,680 --> 01:28:46,760
Speaker 1: but I would be inviting Leah myself because I like her.

1619
01:28:47,080 --> 01:28:51,439
Speaker 1: Who is Opie's uh sorry girl, brother's current girlfriend. The

1620
01:28:51,520 --> 01:28:54,280
Speaker 1: brother's current girlfriend. He screamed at me and told me

1621
01:28:54,400 --> 01:28:57,320
Speaker 1: to keep out of his business. I said, to get

1622
01:28:57,479 --> 01:29:00,680
Speaker 1: rid of his weird effing feelings for Amanda. He's mad

1623
01:29:00,720 --> 01:29:04,720
Speaker 1: at me. My dad said it, uh said, it's none

1624
01:29:04,760 --> 01:29:07,320
Speaker 1: of our business. My mom is furious with my brother.

1625
01:29:07,479 --> 01:29:11,799
Speaker 1: So am I the a hole. We have some relevant

1626
01:29:11,840 --> 01:29:13,639
Speaker 1: comments that I'm gonna quickly read, and then we're gonna

1627
01:29:13,680 --> 01:29:18,400
Speaker 1: get to the breakdown. The breakdown, Prudent Fold says, uh,

1628
01:29:19,160 --> 01:29:23,760
Speaker 1: not the A hold a certified proctologist. All right, there

1629
01:29:23,800 --> 01:29:24,720
Speaker 1: you go. I don't know what that is.

1630
01:29:25,040 --> 01:29:28,640
Speaker 4: I because they're an a whole understander.

1631
01:29:30,080 --> 01:29:31,680
Speaker 1: Oh, because they is a proctologist.

1632
01:29:31,720 --> 01:29:36,400
Speaker 4: Someone who's bactologist is someone someone who investigates the bum.

1633
01:29:37,280 --> 01:29:42,360
Speaker 1: Dude, jinks you are so much thinking. I have to think.

1634
01:29:42,600 --> 01:29:46,640
Speaker 1: Bottom line is that you don't that you don't want

1635
01:29:46,680 --> 01:29:48,960
Speaker 1: Amanda at your wedding because she causes a scene and

1636
01:29:49,080 --> 01:29:51,200
Speaker 1: brings a negative energy. I think you are well within

1637
01:29:51,280 --> 01:29:52,680
Speaker 1: your right to say that she is not allowed at

1638
01:29:52,680 --> 01:29:55,240
Speaker 1: the wedding. You can invite Leah, but by the sounds

1639
01:29:55,240 --> 01:29:59,160
Speaker 1: of it, your brother's behavior. Who knows with your brother's behavior,

1640
01:29:59,360 --> 01:30:03,040
Speaker 1: who knows if they will even still be together by then? Wow,

1641
01:30:03,600 --> 01:30:05,759
Speaker 1: even if they are, I wouldn't count on her sticking

1642
01:30:05,800 --> 01:30:08,000
Speaker 1: around if he keeps prioritizing a man over I mean.

1643
01:30:08,000 --> 01:30:10,519
Speaker 4: True, but the brother doesn't sound like he's very good

1644
01:30:10,520 --> 01:30:11,720
Speaker 4: at relationships, and.

1645
01:30:11,920 --> 01:30:14,160
Speaker 1: It sounds like to my memory, we did not get

1646
01:30:14,200 --> 01:30:19,120
Speaker 1: a clear answer as to whether or not what was it,

1647
01:30:19,439 --> 01:30:24,439
Speaker 1: as to whether or not Leah had some conflicts or

1648
01:30:24,479 --> 01:30:28,160
Speaker 1: like couldn't make it. Yeah, and OPI is inviting Leah,

1649
01:30:28,200 --> 01:30:30,760
Speaker 1: which points to that Leah can can go.

1650
01:30:31,080 --> 01:30:32,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's gonna I think it's gonna be

1651
01:30:33,560 --> 01:30:36,680
Speaker 4: There's gonna be drama at your wedding if ye like,

1652
01:30:37,240 --> 01:30:42,720
Speaker 4: if if Amanda is going, Honestly, if if Amanda is going,

1653
01:30:42,800 --> 01:30:45,080
Speaker 4: there's gonna be drama at your wedding, And if the

1654
01:30:45,160 --> 01:30:47,240
Speaker 4: brother and Leah are going, there's gonna be drama at

1655
01:30:47,240 --> 01:30:47,599
Speaker 4: your wedding.

1656
01:30:49,160 --> 01:30:51,720
Speaker 1: Chat just quickly think on this, do you not even

1657
01:30:51,760 --> 01:30:54,719
Speaker 1: invite the brother. I just want you to simmer on that, honestly.

1658
01:30:54,760 --> 01:30:57,640
Speaker 1: At this point, it's like I don't want him here.

1659
01:30:58,280 --> 01:30:58,840
Speaker 3: Figured it out.

1660
01:30:59,400 --> 01:31:04,760
Speaker 4: I don't want to here. Let's gone. Six percent of

1661
01:31:05,000 --> 01:31:08,559
Speaker 4: Chad thinks Opie's brother is cheating.

1662
01:31:08,640 --> 01:31:09,360
Speaker 1: That's pretty strong.

1663
01:31:09,479 --> 01:31:12,679
Speaker 4: That's pretty strong, pretty strong. Chat's never wrong, pretty strong,

1664
01:31:12,840 --> 01:31:13,679
Speaker 4: Chad's never wrong.

1665
01:31:13,880 --> 01:31:15,840
Speaker 1: Empty Earth five out seven said is to close us out.

1666
01:31:15,920 --> 01:31:18,360
Speaker 1: I like Lea genuinely as Oh sorry, this is op

1667
01:31:18,600 --> 01:31:21,519
Speaker 1: says responding to that comment. I like Leah genuinely as

1668
01:31:21,520 --> 01:31:24,320
Speaker 1: a friend and would like her there. I should honestly

1669
01:31:24,640 --> 01:31:27,719
Speaker 1: just have invited her officially too. I should have honestly

1670
01:31:28,320 --> 01:31:32,320
Speaker 1: been able to foresee that David the brother would do this.

1671
01:31:32,560 --> 01:31:36,120
Speaker 1: And that is the end of the story. We never learn. Maybe, Sophia,

1672
01:31:36,120 --> 01:31:37,680
Speaker 1: you can just take a peek on that link if

1673
01:31:37,680 --> 01:31:41,599
Speaker 1: there's anything more. But we don't know for sure.

1674
01:31:41,920 --> 01:31:42,559
Speaker 2: I don't.

1675
01:31:44,520 --> 01:31:45,160
Speaker 4: Happened today.

1676
01:31:46,240 --> 01:31:47,960
Speaker 2: Well I don't know if it happened today, but I

1677
01:31:48,120 --> 01:31:49,080
Speaker 2: got it today.

1678
01:31:49,680 --> 01:31:53,320
Speaker 4: Gotcha, Oh you got yeah? So it's probably no updates. Yeah,

1679
01:31:53,479 --> 01:31:56,200
Speaker 4: I think I think it's very likely that the brother

1680
01:31:56,280 --> 01:31:56,679
Speaker 4: is cheating.

1681
01:31:56,960 --> 01:32:01,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, very very likely. And the big question do we

1682
01:32:01,880 --> 01:32:04,000
Speaker 1: uninvite our own brother.

1683
01:32:04,720 --> 01:32:07,840
Speaker 4: I think if he's going to make it this wedding

1684
01:32:07,880 --> 01:32:13,040
Speaker 4: about him and go against your wishes, then yeah, maybe.

1685
01:32:13,520 --> 01:32:15,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe you go to him and you're like, One,

1686
01:32:16,240 --> 01:32:19,560
Speaker 1: I'm inviting Leah because she's a friend to me and

1687
01:32:19,880 --> 01:32:22,680
Speaker 1: I think she should be here. Two, I am not

1688
01:32:22,920 --> 01:32:25,479
Speaker 1: inviting Amanda and not allowing Amanda to show up because

1689
01:32:25,479 --> 01:32:28,599
Speaker 1: she always messes stuff up. And then finally, like, if

1690
01:32:28,720 --> 01:32:34,120
Speaker 1: you keep up this like attitude where I don't know

1691
01:32:34,200 --> 01:32:36,519
Speaker 1: if I want you at my wedding either, are you

1692
01:32:36,640 --> 01:32:41,800
Speaker 1: willing to change and you know, not throw throw a fit?

1693
01:32:41,920 --> 01:32:44,240
Speaker 1: And he constantly prioritize Amanda over your girlfriend.

1694
01:32:44,400 --> 01:32:45,680
Speaker 4: I think, I mean the main thing is just like,

1695
01:32:45,960 --> 01:32:48,960
Speaker 4: let the stakes be known. If you keep doing this,

1696
01:32:49,560 --> 01:32:51,640
Speaker 4: you will be uninvited. Yeah, Like, if you just let

1697
01:32:51,680 --> 01:32:53,920
Speaker 4: the stakes be known, then maybe he can make that decision,

1698
01:32:53,960 --> 01:32:57,439
Speaker 4: decide what's important to him, period, period, full stop.

1699
01:32:58,720 --> 01:33:04,000
Speaker 2: There is one relevant cam. Oh yeah, I'm trying.

1700
01:33:03,840 --> 01:33:05,880
Speaker 4: To put him in there and Mad Hatter galleans to

1701
01:33:05,880 --> 01:33:07,880
Speaker 4: the ten Bucks. I really hope I can get to

1702
01:33:08,000 --> 01:33:10,080
Speaker 4: meet the Okay Storytime crew one of these days. Don't

1703
01:33:10,120 --> 01:33:11,960
Speaker 4: mind taking a trip down to Santa Monica to see them.

1704
01:33:12,400 --> 01:33:14,519
Speaker 4: We will do a meet up very soon. Yeah, I

1705
01:33:14,560 --> 01:33:17,880
Speaker 4: would love to do that. It'll it'll happen. We have

1706
01:33:17,960 --> 01:33:19,519
Speaker 4: one more packers or that was the last package.

1707
01:33:19,560 --> 01:33:19,720
Speaker 5: Oh.

1708
01:33:22,640 --> 01:33:24,040
Speaker 1: I was about to be like, oh yeah, we do

1709
01:33:24,160 --> 01:33:25,519
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh no, that was a big.

1710
01:33:25,439 --> 01:33:27,000
Speaker 4: Pileot you guys big.

1711
01:33:29,160 --> 01:33:31,639
Speaker 1: A small package range.

1712
01:33:32,680 --> 01:33:34,120
Speaker 4: We didn't read it out. We can't open it after

1713
01:33:34,160 --> 01:33:34,519
Speaker 4: the story.

1714
01:33:35,360 --> 01:33:36,439
Speaker 2: Won't let me copy it.

1715
01:33:38,200 --> 01:33:40,120
Speaker 9: So uh uh.

1716
01:33:40,600 --> 01:33:45,240
Speaker 1: The delivery place wrote need name or register business. They're

1717
01:33:45,320 --> 01:33:48,479
Speaker 1: beefing with us. Just put Riley or John on there.

1718
01:33:48,600 --> 01:33:55,280
Speaker 1: But we might just upgrade it eventually. Where is the COMMENTA?

1719
01:33:55,520 --> 01:33:57,320
Speaker 4: What do you mean you can't? Where is it?

1720
01:33:58,280 --> 01:34:00,960
Speaker 1: You can search the op command of F No, no, I.

1721
01:34:01,000 --> 01:34:01,640
Speaker 4: Got it O.

1722
01:34:04,720 --> 01:34:09,280
Speaker 2: I was trying to click on it. Oh okay, there

1723
01:34:09,320 --> 01:34:09,479
Speaker 2: you go.

1724
01:34:10,280 --> 01:34:10,800
Speaker 1: Here do we go?

1725
01:34:11,439 --> 01:34:13,240
Speaker 2: In response to another comment, we don't need to read

1726
01:34:13,280 --> 01:34:14,320
Speaker 2: that on the com so.

1727
01:34:15,120 --> 01:34:17,080
Speaker 1: We don't know no context.

1728
01:34:17,200 --> 01:34:19,120
Speaker 2: No, yeah, you don't need no context.

1729
01:34:19,240 --> 01:34:22,439
Speaker 1: Probably not okay, So Opie says, agree one hundred to

1730
01:34:22,600 --> 01:34:24,639
Speaker 1: what we have no idea and we will not get

1731
01:34:24,680 --> 01:34:29,400
Speaker 1: that context. If Amanda wrote him right wait, if Amanda

1732
01:34:29,520 --> 01:34:32,320
Speaker 1: wrote him right now that she wants him, he would

1733
01:34:32,400 --> 01:34:36,360
Speaker 1: drive pantiless to replace. Yeah. I mean that just goes

1734
01:34:36,400 --> 01:34:37,320
Speaker 1: even further to go.

1735
01:34:38,600 --> 01:34:41,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, or or at least that he's holding out hope

1736
01:34:41,800 --> 01:34:43,920
Speaker 4: that she will be interested in him. Yeah.

1737
01:34:43,920 --> 01:34:49,920
Speaker 1: I'm just looked at chat. What just they say?

1738
01:34:50,120 --> 01:34:55,400
Speaker 4: Oh package, well, got package plans got the rail today?

1739
01:34:55,760 --> 01:34:57,240
Speaker 1: You guys, you you know what? This has been a

1740
01:34:57,240 --> 01:34:59,919
Speaker 1: great stream. You guys deserve. Ain't another packaging.

1741
01:35:00,000 --> 01:35:00,240
Speaker 4: Guess what.

1742
01:35:00,320 --> 01:35:01,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna freaking give it to you because we have

1743
01:35:01,920 --> 01:35:04,040
Speaker 1: them right here sitting in my lap.

1744
01:35:04,720 --> 01:35:08,759
Speaker 4: So here we go, the best place to be goodness

1745
01:35:08,840 --> 01:35:13,760
Speaker 4: gracious in John's lap. Here we go, and we have

1746
01:35:15,080 --> 01:35:24,000
Speaker 4: bomb bomb. It's a pigeon, ya And the amount page

1747
01:35:24,160 --> 01:35:25,639
Speaker 4: stuff I have is amazing.

1748
01:35:25,760 --> 01:35:28,120
Speaker 1: That was the most forced ya I've ever.

1749
01:35:28,920 --> 01:35:32,800
Speaker 4: I like pigeon. I want to see this is a

1750
01:35:32,840 --> 01:35:36,280
Speaker 4: good pigeon. That is a good pigeon, dude. If there's

1751
01:35:36,280 --> 01:35:38,720
Speaker 4: any notes, I don't know if everyone else has seen

1752
01:35:38,800 --> 01:35:41,080
Speaker 4: the pigeon stuff, because I think that might have been

1753
01:35:41,120 --> 01:35:43,840
Speaker 4: the members only stream. Is there No, who's it from?

1754
01:35:44,439 --> 01:35:45,400
Speaker 4: That's a nice pigeon?

1755
01:35:49,080 --> 01:35:49,479
Speaker 2: Are you doing?

1756
01:35:55,840 --> 01:36:08,400
Speaker 1: I see the address department, it's from department. I don't know, weird.

1757
01:36:08,560 --> 01:36:12,160
Speaker 1: I think there'd be some sort of nameage action going

1758
01:36:12,200 --> 01:36:17,560
Speaker 1: on nameage action, I don't know, double checked though a

1759
01:36:17,640 --> 01:36:25,080
Speaker 1: little ripped heart a hey, double pigeonage. The eyeholes are crazy.

1760
01:36:25,920 --> 01:36:28,960
Speaker 1: That's so funny. You read a whole story in that,

1761
01:36:29,080 --> 01:36:31,920
Speaker 1: right I did? Yeah, dude, that's I hope that goes viral.

1762
01:36:32,560 --> 01:36:34,200
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, thanks for the Thanks for the head nod

1763
01:36:34,280 --> 01:36:36,400
Speaker 1: to know what's going on. Someone should get me a

1764
01:36:36,439 --> 01:36:39,840
Speaker 1: giant orange mask. You just talk through an orange.

1765
01:36:39,640 --> 01:36:40,799
Speaker 2: Thinking of annoying orange.

1766
01:36:41,800 --> 01:36:46,080
Speaker 1: Oh that would be good. That would be good.

1767
01:36:47,840 --> 01:36:48,080
Speaker 5: Wow?

1768
01:36:48,160 --> 01:36:49,720
Speaker 2: What everyone was obsessed with that?

1769
01:36:50,080 --> 01:36:50,240
Speaker 3: Right?

1770
01:36:50,400 --> 01:36:54,880
Speaker 1: This is I'm the new annoying orange? Whoam I am

1771
01:36:55,040 --> 01:37:00,240
Speaker 1: calling out annoying orange? This is there's beef okay, apps,

1772
01:37:00,280 --> 01:37:02,240
Speaker 1: it's juice because we're oranges.

1773
01:37:03,000 --> 01:37:06,679
Speaker 4: So get out of my way, can Naylana Chand thanks

1774
01:37:06,720 --> 01:37:08,120
Speaker 4: for the two bucks. Do you guys like fidget?

1775
01:37:10,320 --> 01:37:11,519
Speaker 1: I should try them out? I haven't.

1776
01:37:11,560 --> 01:37:13,720
Speaker 2: I honestly love a fidget toy.

1777
01:37:14,080 --> 01:37:17,240
Speaker 1: Yea, I need one fidget toys. A fidget toy could

1778
01:37:17,280 --> 01:37:18,800
Speaker 1: be great. I don't know, does that really does it

1779
01:37:18,920 --> 01:37:19,920
Speaker 1: help or just sat like?

1780
01:37:20,320 --> 01:37:24,080
Speaker 2: I fidget with things all the time, so I think

1781
01:37:24,080 --> 01:37:29,800
Speaker 2: A probably the best. Yeah, because I'm like, if I

1782
01:37:29,840 --> 01:37:32,639
Speaker 2: have a pen in my hand. I'm like like playing

1783
01:37:32,680 --> 01:37:35,760
Speaker 2: with the cap NonStop. So if you give me a

1784
01:37:35,840 --> 01:37:36,719
Speaker 2: fidget toy, I all.

1785
01:37:36,640 --> 01:37:36,960
Speaker 4: To use it.

1786
01:37:38,160 --> 01:37:41,479
Speaker 1: Send the pen actually, I mean fidget toy to Sophia

1787
01:37:42,040 --> 01:37:48,600
Speaker 1: yeah or sam oh and shout out to uh. I

1788
01:37:48,720 --> 01:37:50,639
Speaker 1: was about to read the comment over again, but shout

1789
01:37:50,680 --> 01:37:55,840
Speaker 1: out to you Chan Nlana Chan. Thank you so nice.

1790
01:37:55,840 --> 01:37:58,160
Speaker 1: We had to read your name twice. But that is

1791
01:37:58,240 --> 01:38:00,800
Speaker 1: it for that story. That is an appslcelut freaking rapid

1792
01:38:00,800 --> 01:38:02,519
Speaker 1: doodle do whoa yep?

1793
01:38:02,840 --> 01:38:04,840
Speaker 4: All right, well shall we get into the next one.

1794
01:38:05,280 --> 01:38:08,120
Speaker 1: Let's do it? You're word?

1795
01:38:10,240 --> 01:38:10,559
Speaker 2: Umm?

1796
01:38:11,120 --> 01:38:11,280
Speaker 5: Was that?

1797
01:38:11,600 --> 01:38:12,080
Speaker 4: This s?

1798
01:38:12,240 --> 01:38:12,519
Speaker 1: Four?

1799
01:38:13,240 --> 01:38:13,720
Speaker 4: As four?

1800
01:38:14,200 --> 01:38:14,400
Speaker 3: Four?

1801
01:38:14,720 --> 01:38:18,760
Speaker 4: All right? Am I the a hole for kicking my

1802
01:38:19,000 --> 01:38:22,120
Speaker 4: mother in law out after she criticized what I made

1803
01:38:22,280 --> 01:38:25,640
Speaker 4: my son for dinner? And this comes from throwaway eight

1804
01:38:25,680 --> 01:38:27,120
Speaker 4: seven ten They say.

1805
01:38:27,439 --> 01:38:27,479
Speaker 5: So.

1806
01:38:27,600 --> 01:38:31,639
Speaker 4: My husband and I have one eighteen month old son,

1807
01:38:32,560 --> 01:38:35,320
Speaker 4: and I am pregnant with our second baby. We live

1808
01:38:35,360 --> 01:38:37,120
Speaker 4: in a major city and his mother lives in a

1809
01:38:37,200 --> 01:38:40,400
Speaker 4: suburb forty five minutes north of us. Her doctor works

1810
01:38:40,400 --> 01:38:43,040
Speaker 4: out a hospital located downtown in our city, and my

1811
01:38:43,160 --> 01:38:46,040
Speaker 4: mother in law will often stay over at our place

1812
01:38:46,520 --> 01:38:49,200
Speaker 4: after her appointments instead of driving back to her home

1813
01:38:49,479 --> 01:38:53,519
Speaker 4: as her appointments usually end right around when rush hour begins.

1814
01:38:54,280 --> 01:38:57,400
Speaker 4: Yesterday was one of those days. She went to have

1815
01:38:57,520 --> 01:39:00,639
Speaker 4: some labs drawn at the hospital and then came over

1816
01:39:00,800 --> 01:39:03,599
Speaker 4: to our home when I was just about done cooking dinner.

1817
01:39:04,080 --> 01:39:06,280
Speaker 4: My husband was at the gym. I had a long

1818
01:39:06,360 --> 01:39:10,639
Speaker 4: day yesterday. I felt absolutely exhausted from pregnancy and chasing

1819
01:39:10,720 --> 01:39:13,400
Speaker 4: my toddler around all day. We were running low on

1820
01:39:13,479 --> 01:39:15,240
Speaker 4: groceries with not a lot of dinner options, so I

1821
01:39:15,320 --> 01:39:18,080
Speaker 4: was planning to make a really easy dinner of spaghetti

1822
01:39:18,400 --> 01:39:21,719
Speaker 4: and frozen meatballs. But when I went in the kitchen

1823
01:39:21,760 --> 01:39:26,040
Speaker 4: to start cooking, I realized we were actually out of meatballs.

1824
01:39:26,200 --> 01:39:27,960
Speaker 4: I thought, we still had no.

1825
01:39:28,160 --> 01:39:31,040
Speaker 1: Meatballs, Let meet them ball listening with balls.

1826
01:39:32,280 --> 01:39:37,400
Speaker 4: Well, there were no meatballs. God, so it was too

1827
01:39:37,520 --> 01:39:39,320
Speaker 4: late to go to the store to get something else

1828
01:39:39,360 --> 01:39:42,000
Speaker 4: to make. My kid was already acting hungry, and I

1829
01:39:42,200 --> 01:39:45,560
Speaker 4: was starving and exhausted, so I just thought, well, I

1830
01:39:45,640 --> 01:39:48,800
Speaker 4: guess we don't need to have protein with every meal,

1831
01:39:49,280 --> 01:39:54,639
Speaker 4: and I made pasta without meatballs. Happens when my mother

1832
01:39:54,720 --> 01:39:57,479
Speaker 4: in law saw me putting my son in his seat

1833
01:39:57,560 --> 01:40:02,160
Speaker 4: and serving him as food, she said, just pasta, yes,

1834
01:40:02,520 --> 01:40:05,720
Speaker 4: bast it, and I said, oh, yeah, I think it

1835
01:40:06,240 --> 01:40:09,719
Speaker 4: is bad. And I just said, oh yeah, I totally forgot.

1836
01:40:09,840 --> 01:40:12,400
Speaker 4: I used up all our frozen meatballs until I was

1837
01:40:12,520 --> 01:40:16,040
Speaker 4: already cooking. Though, it's just a meatless dinner tonight. And

1838
01:40:16,200 --> 01:40:19,160
Speaker 4: she said that she wished I would have texted her

1839
01:40:19,439 --> 01:40:21,439
Speaker 4: and she would have grabbed me meatballs from the store

1840
01:40:21,680 --> 01:40:24,960
Speaker 4: on her way so that her grandson and grand baby

1841
01:40:25,560 --> 01:40:34,720
Speaker 4: could have a real dinner. Ouch. So far, I'm not

1842
01:40:35,120 --> 01:40:39,040
Speaker 4: like that. That honestly sounds tone is everything. Yeah, but

1843
01:40:39,120 --> 01:40:41,960
Speaker 4: that doesn't sound that bad. Both sides are kind of

1844
01:40:42,600 --> 01:40:47,320
Speaker 4: not going too crazy. Yeah, I mean like, yes, I

1845
01:40:47,400 --> 01:40:51,000
Speaker 4: mean it's still food, but like pasta without anything else.

1846
01:40:52,160 --> 01:40:55,880
Speaker 1: I think, like everyone butter by the way, the amount

1847
01:40:55,920 --> 01:40:59,840
Speaker 1: of maasauce, the amount of times what oh oh, that's true.

1848
01:40:59,880 --> 01:41:02,120
Speaker 1: I guess they didn't specify if it's just pasta that.

1849
01:41:02,200 --> 01:41:05,240
Speaker 4: If it's pasta with nothing, that's crazy. Pasta with butter

1850
01:41:05,840 --> 01:41:06,519
Speaker 4: is passable.

1851
01:41:06,880 --> 01:41:10,840
Speaker 1: My sister used to eat pasta with butter so often

1852
01:41:10,920 --> 01:41:12,599
Speaker 1: as a child. She was so picky.

1853
01:41:12,800 --> 01:41:14,120
Speaker 4: Pasta butter's fine.

1854
01:41:14,160 --> 01:41:16,080
Speaker 2: Sometimes, you know, like when you run out of groceries,

1855
01:41:16,120 --> 01:41:19,400
Speaker 2: I've eaten some pasta with butter. It happens it's just

1856
01:41:19,479 --> 01:41:20,240
Speaker 2: like an everyday thing.

1857
01:41:20,439 --> 01:41:22,720
Speaker 4: Love Bubble says, you will eat the girl dinner and

1858
01:41:23,000 --> 01:41:27,240
Speaker 4: enjoy girl dinner. Yeah, I mean, I feel like you

1859
01:41:27,360 --> 01:41:33,320
Speaker 4: just you at least need like butter or sauce. I mean,

1860
01:41:34,040 --> 01:41:38,000
Speaker 4: if it's just ray noodle, that's a hate cry.

1861
01:41:38,120 --> 01:41:42,040
Speaker 1: But but your your kid is here, you're like, oh

1862
01:41:42,360 --> 01:41:44,560
Speaker 1: what do I do? Let me just feed him this,

1863
01:41:44,720 --> 01:41:49,719
Speaker 1: so at least their tiny little tummys are satiated. That's

1864
01:41:50,240 --> 01:41:51,120
Speaker 1: better than nothing.

1865
01:41:51,520 --> 01:41:53,439
Speaker 2: I don't think this is like, I think this is

1866
01:41:53,520 --> 01:41:57,160
Speaker 2: a case of this is not like a continuous thing.

1867
01:41:57,200 --> 01:41:58,479
Speaker 2: It happened once because yeah.

1868
01:41:58,800 --> 01:42:01,360
Speaker 1: Also I am as soon there's butter in here, honestly,

1869
01:42:01,400 --> 01:42:02,920
Speaker 1: but I could be wrong mention it.

1870
01:42:03,479 --> 01:42:06,960
Speaker 4: They didn't mention it. But also like I mean it's like, hey,

1871
01:42:07,200 --> 01:42:09,720
Speaker 4: like if it was so like, oh, you didn't have

1872
01:42:09,760 --> 01:42:12,560
Speaker 4: anything to eat, if you next time, let me know,

1873
01:42:12,600 --> 01:42:14,240
Speaker 4: I could have totally picked something up so you guys

1874
01:42:14,280 --> 01:42:15,280
Speaker 4: can have like a real meal.

1875
01:42:15,479 --> 01:42:18,639
Speaker 2: Well, she does say spaghetti, which to me usually implies

1876
01:42:18,840 --> 01:42:20,400
Speaker 2: like pasta with the sauce.

1877
01:42:21,760 --> 01:42:26,160
Speaker 4: Maybe she just didn't have the frozen meal. Falls you

1878
01:42:26,320 --> 01:42:29,280
Speaker 4: probably would have you probably saus I have the sauce.

1879
01:42:29,320 --> 01:42:31,639
Speaker 4: That like, that's a full that's a full meal. Yeah,

1880
01:42:32,000 --> 01:42:33,000
Speaker 4: that feels like a full meal.

1881
01:42:33,120 --> 01:42:34,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's totally fine.

1882
01:42:34,640 --> 01:42:36,880
Speaker 2: I like to get the brown rice quinoa stuff from

1883
01:42:36,920 --> 01:42:39,680
Speaker 2: Trader joe passtaff from Trader Joe's. Because are you.

1884
01:42:39,840 --> 01:42:42,679
Speaker 4: Giving a free sponsor right now? What are you doing?

1885
01:42:43,560 --> 01:42:48,280
Speaker 1: What are you doing? Sofia, do you want to give

1886
01:42:48,320 --> 01:42:50,720
Speaker 1: this old man a heart attack? Is that what you

1887
01:42:50,760 --> 01:42:51,120
Speaker 1: want to do?

1888
01:42:52,000 --> 01:42:52,040
Speaker 5: No?

1889
01:42:52,200 --> 01:42:54,760
Speaker 1: You don't. Yes, that's right.

1890
01:42:56,439 --> 01:42:57,240
Speaker 4: What are you talking about?

1891
01:42:58,320 --> 01:43:00,560
Speaker 1: My heart attack was always free sponsors? Why are you

1892
01:43:00,560 --> 01:43:03,400
Speaker 1: getting a heart attack because you say I'm old?

1893
01:43:04,200 --> 01:43:05,679
Speaker 4: I don't think I've ever said that before.

1894
01:43:06,120 --> 01:43:08,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you for your gas lighting.

1895
01:43:09,520 --> 01:43:09,640
Speaker 4: Bro.

1896
01:43:09,960 --> 01:43:14,760
Speaker 1: This is this is gas gaslight John. The episode that

1897
01:43:15,040 --> 01:43:18,240
Speaker 1: is the theme of today is gaslighting John. No, this

1898
01:43:18,400 --> 01:43:21,120
Speaker 1: is this is a fact. See that is that is

1899
01:43:21,160 --> 01:43:25,280
Speaker 1: Sophia continuing the train of gas lighting. Oh you didn't

1900
01:43:25,320 --> 01:43:26,880
Speaker 1: make all just make a goofy face?

1901
01:43:27,080 --> 01:43:31,760
Speaker 4: No, so worked up, John? I feel like, I mean,

1902
01:43:32,120 --> 01:43:34,800
Speaker 4: all this energy is super young in spry if you're completely.

1903
01:43:34,520 --> 01:43:36,240
Speaker 1: Encaraged, that's see, that's what I'm saying.

1904
01:43:38,720 --> 01:43:43,200
Speaker 4: Back to reality. So that really irked me as his

1905
01:43:43,400 --> 01:43:46,120
Speaker 4: meal was a real dinner and it's not like I

1906
01:43:46,200 --> 01:43:48,760
Speaker 4: don't serve in protein. He had protein with breakfast in

1907
01:43:48,840 --> 01:43:51,920
Speaker 4: lunch yesterday. I also don't like how she referred to

1908
01:43:52,080 --> 01:43:56,559
Speaker 4: her grand baby to be getting a real meal, as

1909
01:43:56,600 --> 01:44:00,080
Speaker 4: I'm pregnant and so it's obviously me who has to

1910
01:44:00,160 --> 01:44:02,880
Speaker 4: eat in order to nurse the baby. It's me that's

1911
01:44:02,920 --> 01:44:05,640
Speaker 4: not getting a real meal according to her logic. It

1912
01:44:05,760 --> 01:44:07,639
Speaker 4: made me feel like she sees me as some kind

1913
01:44:07,680 --> 01:44:13,880
Speaker 4: of vessel and really made me mad. Maybe over overshooting it.

1914
01:44:14,960 --> 01:44:18,280
Speaker 1: Maybe she's she's just a meat tank holding holding the child.

1915
01:44:19,760 --> 01:44:23,839
Speaker 4: I've never heard that before, a child.

1916
01:44:25,400 --> 01:44:26,479
Speaker 1: According to the grandma.

1917
01:44:26,640 --> 01:44:41,559
Speaker 4: Because to say how John sees women, Sophia, Yeah, she's

1918
01:44:41,600 --> 01:44:45,120
Speaker 4: giving you, guys bombastic side.

1919
01:44:44,920 --> 01:44:47,400
Speaker 1: On guys, I am, I am getting toasty from all

1920
01:44:47,520 --> 01:44:48,360
Speaker 1: this gas lighting.

1921
01:44:48,479 --> 01:44:48,720
Speaker 5: It is.

1922
01:44:48,800 --> 01:44:50,760
Speaker 1: We need we need to turn it down a little bit.

1923
01:44:51,000 --> 01:44:55,160
Speaker 4: All right. Well, I told her that maybe she's uneducated

1924
01:44:55,360 --> 01:44:58,479
Speaker 4: with how much protein humans actually need and there's nothing

1925
01:44:58,560 --> 01:45:01,640
Speaker 4: wrong with our dinner. She immediately got very upset that

1926
01:45:01,800 --> 01:45:04,840
Speaker 4: I called her uneducated when she's raised three boys and

1927
01:45:04,960 --> 01:45:08,200
Speaker 4: she knows what growing boys need to eat, and told

1928
01:45:08,240 --> 01:45:12,920
Speaker 4: me I should try and plan harder next time. To

1929
01:45:13,080 --> 01:45:19,120
Speaker 4: be fair, Sophia completely misunderstands how much protein a growing

1930
01:45:19,160 --> 01:45:19,679
Speaker 4: boy needs.

1931
01:45:20,320 --> 01:45:21,760
Speaker 2: I'm a growing girl. I need.

1932
01:45:22,200 --> 01:45:24,800
Speaker 4: Girls need so much less food than boys.

1933
01:45:24,920 --> 01:45:27,760
Speaker 2: Wrong, it's just a matter of how much work out

1934
01:45:27,880 --> 01:45:28,400
Speaker 2: you're doing.

1935
01:45:28,720 --> 01:45:29,759
Speaker 1: That is not true.

1936
01:45:30,840 --> 01:45:33,040
Speaker 2: I mean it's it's slightly true.

1937
01:45:33,360 --> 01:45:35,840
Speaker 1: I'm on saying why why why do you get to

1938
01:45:35,880 --> 01:45:39,439
Speaker 1: dictate how much Sam eats? I'm telling you I'm not

1939
01:45:39,520 --> 01:45:40,120
Speaker 1: dictating it.

1940
01:45:40,200 --> 01:45:42,760
Speaker 2: I'm saying, why is he dictating how much I eat?

1941
01:45:43,200 --> 01:45:45,720
Speaker 1: No that he's only talking about what he is.

1942
01:45:45,800 --> 01:45:48,880
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, I Sophia. When when Sophia and I

1943
01:45:49,120 --> 01:45:52,800
Speaker 4: had the deal Sophia would get, she would give me

1944
01:45:52,880 --> 01:45:55,040
Speaker 4: the same portion as her, and I swear I need

1945
01:45:55,120 --> 01:45:57,240
Speaker 4: two to three times as much.

1946
01:45:58,280 --> 01:46:01,479
Speaker 2: It's hard to make a lot of I understand that

1947
01:46:01,560 --> 01:46:03,880
Speaker 2: you eat more than be Okay, different about it.

1948
01:46:03,920 --> 01:46:06,479
Speaker 1: Okay, this is how big the pots need to be.

1949
01:46:06,840 --> 01:46:09,400
Speaker 2: Well, that's what I'm saying. Yeah, it's it's not like

1950
01:46:09,680 --> 01:46:12,360
Speaker 2: it's it's how tall you are, how much like you weigh?

1951
01:46:12,880 --> 01:46:16,719
Speaker 2: I'm okay exercising all right? Any Yes, I love bubbles.

1952
01:46:16,760 --> 01:46:19,000
Speaker 2: I am going grocery shopping at cooking. This was a

1953
01:46:19,120 --> 01:46:22,240
Speaker 2: specific deal that Sophia and I had a while ago. Anyway,

1954
01:46:23,720 --> 01:46:26,720
Speaker 2: from separate thing really quick, I have a question for

1955
01:46:26,840 --> 01:46:29,600
Speaker 2: all the moms out there who have made food for

1956
01:46:30,200 --> 01:46:34,360
Speaker 2: boys and girls who eats more let me know. Well,

1957
01:46:34,400 --> 01:46:37,439
Speaker 2: but but again it goes down to like a big barn.

1958
01:46:40,160 --> 01:46:43,760
Speaker 4: Let me know, moms, all right, So this really irked me,

1959
01:46:43,920 --> 01:46:46,120
Speaker 4: as his meal was a real dinner. It's not like

1960
01:46:46,200 --> 01:46:49,960
Speaker 4: a serf em prod heeen. I told her that maybe

1961
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Speaker 4: she's uneducated with how much protein humans actually need and

1962
01:46:53,360 --> 01:46:56,800
Speaker 4: there's nothing wrong with our debtor, try to plan harder

1963
01:46:56,840 --> 01:46:59,240
Speaker 4: next time. This last comment sent me over the edge,

1964
01:46:59,280 --> 01:47:00,840
Speaker 4: and I yelled at her to get out of my

1965
01:47:00,920 --> 01:47:03,759
Speaker 4: house if she's going to crap all over my mothering abilities,

1966
01:47:03,840 --> 01:47:06,120
Speaker 4: and that she needs to stop using our place as

1967
01:47:06,120 --> 01:47:08,759
Speaker 4: a home base in the city when she has her appointments.

1968
01:47:08,760 --> 01:47:11,360
Speaker 4: If she's going to make comments like that, pridehand plan

1969
01:47:11,680 --> 01:47:14,080
Speaker 4: harder next time is kind of a.

1970
01:47:14,080 --> 01:47:16,600
Speaker 1: Little bit over the line. Yeah that's that's me.

1971
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that's me. She left in a huff,

1972
01:47:19,880 --> 01:47:22,000
Speaker 4: screaming about how she couldn't believe I was kicking her

1973
01:47:22,040 --> 01:47:25,200
Speaker 4: out over some constructive criticism when she even got to

1974
01:47:25,240 --> 01:47:28,879
Speaker 4: spend Before she even got to spend time with her grandson,

1975
01:47:29,400 --> 01:47:31,280
Speaker 4: I told her, I'm not looking for any type of

1976
01:47:31,320 --> 01:47:34,120
Speaker 4: criticism from her. She called my husband and said I

1977
01:47:34,200 --> 01:47:37,320
Speaker 4: went on a hormone induced rage and kicked her out

1978
01:47:37,400 --> 01:47:39,720
Speaker 4: because I couldn't deal with being called out on not

1979
01:47:39,880 --> 01:47:43,160
Speaker 4: serving my son a proper dinner, and said she wants

1980
01:47:43,200 --> 01:47:46,880
Speaker 4: to keep coming over after her appointments. My husband wants

1981
01:47:46,960 --> 01:47:49,280
Speaker 4: us both to apologize to each other to make peace,

1982
01:47:49,560 --> 01:47:52,639
Speaker 4: but I told her I'm not some elementary schooler who's

1983
01:47:52,720 --> 01:47:54,920
Speaker 4: going to be forced to apologize when I didn't do

1984
01:47:55,000 --> 01:47:57,720
Speaker 4: anything wrong, just to make the issue go away. Now

1985
01:47:57,800 --> 01:48:00,360
Speaker 4: he's mad at me too, and I'm wondering if I

1986
01:48:00,520 --> 01:48:02,639
Speaker 4: actually didn't do anything wrong.

1987
01:48:03,280 --> 01:48:10,680
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? Low key? Low key? Kind

1988
01:48:10,720 --> 01:48:16,280
Speaker 1: of both the a hole because she made the comment about, uh,

1989
01:48:17,120 --> 01:48:20,920
Speaker 1: maybe you're not educated on how much protein the boys need.

1990
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Speaker 1: And then what did the grandma say again back to her,

1991
01:48:25,160 --> 01:48:26,560
Speaker 1: or op ops.

1992
01:48:26,240 --> 01:48:30,800
Speaker 4: Op so Opie said, uh, back, I told her that

1993
01:48:30,880 --> 01:48:35,040
Speaker 4: maybe she's uneducated with how much protein humans need. And

1994
01:48:35,120 --> 01:48:38,599
Speaker 4: then she said, uh that I called her uneducated when

1995
01:48:38,640 --> 01:48:40,880
Speaker 4: she's raised three boys and she knows what growing boys

1996
01:48:40,960 --> 01:48:43,519
Speaker 4: need to eat. And then she said, buy and plan

1997
01:48:43,640 --> 01:48:47,160
Speaker 4: harder next time. So they both kind of threw in back.

1998
01:48:48,160 --> 01:48:48,960
Speaker 4: It's a light a.

1999
01:48:49,080 --> 01:48:52,000
Speaker 1: Hole on both sides. And and also like with with

2000
01:48:52,200 --> 01:48:55,240
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, being pregnant, that's that's a whole

2001
01:48:55,360 --> 01:48:58,080
Speaker 1: thing and a lot to manage. And like I think

2002
01:48:58,479 --> 01:49:01,960
Speaker 1: although what I will totally give op is that the

2003
01:49:02,000 --> 01:49:06,400
Speaker 1: grandma started it. Possibly again there's the tone and everything.

2004
01:49:07,880 --> 01:49:11,200
Speaker 4: Yes, the graandma started it, but like it escalated so fast.

2005
01:49:11,320 --> 01:49:14,720
Speaker 4: It was like it was it was like a light

2006
01:49:15,040 --> 01:49:17,639
Speaker 4: diss that kind of escalated pretty quickly.

2007
01:49:17,680 --> 01:49:21,560
Speaker 1: Also, now hearing the last comment from the grandma, I

2008
01:49:21,720 --> 01:49:24,479
Speaker 1: am more inclined to believe the initial commet didn't have

2009
01:49:24,720 --> 01:49:28,800
Speaker 1: the best and maybe yeah, this.

2010
01:49:29,640 --> 01:49:31,000
Speaker 4: Tone is everything.

2011
01:49:31,120 --> 01:49:31,559
Speaker 1: That's true.

2012
01:49:33,400 --> 01:49:36,439
Speaker 4: Tone is everything, But yeah.

2013
01:49:37,560 --> 01:49:37,640
Speaker 5: What.

2014
01:49:40,040 --> 01:49:43,000
Speaker 1: Miss killed it says This is back to the fact

2015
01:49:43,080 --> 01:49:45,360
Speaker 1: to the debate of this.

2016
01:49:45,600 --> 01:49:48,439
Speaker 4: It depends on the person and their size, not the gender.

2017
01:49:49,640 --> 01:49:52,559
Speaker 4: I I don't think that's true.

2018
01:49:52,880 --> 01:49:53,840
Speaker 2: How is it not true?

2019
01:49:54,240 --> 01:49:56,439
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm just saying, like that's true.

2020
01:49:56,640 --> 01:49:59,040
Speaker 4: If you took if you took a hundred, if you

2021
01:49:59,080 --> 01:50:01,360
Speaker 4: took an average of a hundred guys and took an

2022
01:50:01,400 --> 01:50:05,280
Speaker 4: average of one hundred girls, I almost guarantee you the

2023
01:50:05,360 --> 01:50:09,680
Speaker 4: guys would eat more. I almost guarantee you, yeah, because.

2024
01:50:09,479 --> 01:50:12,679
Speaker 2: Honestly, they're bigger and they're going through a growth spurred

2025
01:50:12,800 --> 01:50:14,000
Speaker 2: or they're working out more.

2026
01:50:14,120 --> 01:50:17,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, because on average it's body mass.

2027
01:50:17,120 --> 01:50:18,479
Speaker 2: And also how much like.

2028
01:50:18,840 --> 01:50:21,880
Speaker 1: Sure, on average guys are are bigger than girls.

2029
01:50:22,439 --> 01:50:25,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's not like it's it's it's dependent not

2030
01:50:25,840 --> 01:50:30,120
Speaker 2: on the gender. It's dependent on like on if they're bigger,

2031
01:50:31,040 --> 01:50:32,639
Speaker 2: which often is tied to gender.

2032
01:50:32,760 --> 01:50:36,439
Speaker 4: But sure, yeah, sure, But that's like saying, like, if

2033
01:50:37,240 --> 01:50:40,840
Speaker 4: there's there's a hundred marbles in a jar, Okay, let's

2034
01:50:40,840 --> 01:50:44,880
Speaker 4: get to the next story. Like there's that's like, that's

2035
01:50:44,960 --> 01:50:47,560
Speaker 4: like saying, all right, really, there's there's a bunch of

2036
01:50:47,600 --> 01:50:50,000
Speaker 4: blue marbles, and there's a bunch of red marbles, and

2037
01:50:50,439 --> 01:50:53,840
Speaker 4: the blue marbles on are on average bigger than the

2038
01:50:53,920 --> 01:50:56,519
Speaker 4: red marbles. And then that's like saying, oh, it's not

2039
01:50:56,720 --> 01:50:59,240
Speaker 4: that the blue marbles on average bigger than the red marbles.

2040
01:50:59,280 --> 01:51:01,559
Speaker 4: It's just that the bigger ones and the blue marbles

2041
01:51:01,840 --> 01:51:03,639
Speaker 4: are bigger than the other ones.

2042
01:51:03,800 --> 01:51:08,880
Speaker 1: The red literally both correct, you're literally both right, you're

2043
01:51:08,920 --> 01:51:09,439
Speaker 1: literally both.

2044
01:51:10,080 --> 01:51:11,200
Speaker 2: I ended the conversation.

2045
01:51:11,960 --> 01:51:15,840
Speaker 1: Keep going anyway, I'll in the conversation. How about that.

2046
01:51:16,840 --> 01:51:20,320
Speaker 1: I'd get into another story for you guys, but not

2047
01:51:20,479 --> 01:51:24,920
Speaker 1: before reading Blondest Brunette, celebrating three months of membership. I

2048
01:51:25,000 --> 01:51:27,400
Speaker 1: had four babies, sang it, oh it, no, maybe maybe

2049
01:51:27,439 --> 01:51:29,280
Speaker 1: this isn't related to that I had four babies. I

2050
01:51:29,479 --> 01:51:31,400
Speaker 1: ate a lot when I was pregnant. Not pregnant. I

2051
01:51:31,479 --> 01:51:34,200
Speaker 1: barely eat. I have depression issues and literally forget to

2052
01:51:34,240 --> 01:51:36,240
Speaker 1: eat for days at a time. Blandness Brunette. We gotta,

2053
01:51:36,320 --> 01:51:42,280
Speaker 1: we gotta, we gotta get you eating, girl, Yeah it happens.

2054
01:51:43,280 --> 01:51:44,879
Speaker 4: I love the debate in the comments.

2055
01:51:44,920 --> 01:51:48,479
Speaker 1: Oh man, the comments are Sophia and Sam not allowed

2056
01:51:48,520 --> 01:51:50,960
Speaker 1: to look at the comments for the next five minutes.

2057
01:51:51,439 --> 01:51:54,719
Speaker 1: That's right, Dutchess Casanda, Daddy John laying down the law.

2058
01:51:56,080 --> 01:51:58,479
Speaker 1: No more. But we're gonna get into another story. And

2059
01:51:59,160 --> 01:52:03,400
Speaker 1: what story should I be reading? Produce or Sophia, I'm.

2060
01:52:06,000 --> 01:52:06,680
Speaker 2: Five fifty five.

2061
01:52:06,800 --> 01:52:13,200
Speaker 1: Okay, we're fifty five. I have arrived. Let's get frickin

2062
01:52:13,320 --> 01:52:15,680
Speaker 1: into it? And what story in there?

2063
01:52:15,760 --> 01:52:16,000
Speaker 4: S two?

2064
01:52:16,520 --> 01:52:20,479
Speaker 1: S one, S one? A brand new episode that means

2065
01:52:20,520 --> 01:52:21,799
Speaker 1: a brand new question.

2066
01:52:22,479 --> 01:52:26,760
Speaker 9: Oh frick, we're done. Oh I didn't even notice. O.

2067
01:52:29,080 --> 01:52:32,280
Speaker 9: That's go fight in the comments about who can eat more?

2068
01:52:32,760 --> 01:52:37,040
Speaker 9: Settle this age old debate. That's right, But also for

2069
01:52:37,120 --> 01:52:40,160
Speaker 9: everyone saying that I don't make food for Sophia. Sophia,

2070
01:52:40,240 --> 01:52:41,439
Speaker 9: who made food for you?

2071
01:52:41,680 --> 01:52:45,080
Speaker 2: He did, He made me breakfast. I am just more

2072
01:52:45,120 --> 01:52:48,200
Speaker 2: of the chef, is way better at cooking that. Yeah,

2073
01:52:48,280 --> 01:52:50,560
Speaker 2: I do not expect Sam to you.

2074
01:52:51,080 --> 01:52:55,080
Speaker 1: Why won't you do it? You're so much better than me. Yeah,

2075
01:52:55,200 --> 01:52:58,320
Speaker 1: maybe this is gaslighting.

2076
01:53:00,080 --> 01:53:03,920
Speaker 4: Anyway, Sophie and I love each other very much. Nothing

2077
01:53:04,080 --> 01:53:08,240
Speaker 4: that Chad can say can tear us apart. No, and

2078
01:53:09,600 --> 01:53:12,520
Speaker 4: with that, if you love us, make sure to subscribe

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