WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Dirty Pic Mix Up

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking jewels. Second date update, Hey Lydia, Yeah, Producer Boyd

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<v Speaker 1>and I had a bet before this second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>He says that you've never sent a sex message in

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<v Speaker 1>your life? A dirty picture out. I, on the other hand,

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<v Speaker 1>guaranteed that you have. One of us needs to win

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<v Speaker 1>some money here. Have you ever sent a sex message?

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<v Speaker 1>Can we define dirty picture? Is it something that you

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<v Speaker 1>have to be naked? No? No, I don't wear thongs,

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<v Speaker 1>so no, I don't know. I'm not sure that's a

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<v Speaker 1>gray area. I'll just say yes because I've flirted with

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<v Speaker 1>my boyfriends. Yeah, I'll take it, but I haven't been

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<v Speaker 1>I win naked and photos. What's the appropriate amount of

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<v Speaker 1>time that you wait before you send out a dirty picture?

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<v Speaker 1>Appropriate amount of I've like sent like two in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>How long would you wait before you did it? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, eight months of dating. Some people like to

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<v Speaker 1>do it the day after you meet, kind of like Jen,

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<v Speaker 1>who's on the phone with us right now. Jen is

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<v Speaker 1>calling in for the second day update. How are you sorry? John?

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<v Speaker 1>I did not send it like that soon was not okay? Jen.

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<v Speaker 1>Jen apparently sent a dirty picture to the guy she

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<v Speaker 1>wants us to call today. That's okay, Jen, m I

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<v Speaker 1>want to crawl under a rock and die. She's worried

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<v Speaker 1>that that might have scared him off, because after she

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<v Speaker 1>sent the picture, he stopped responding to her. Right, Jen,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the shortest, harshest version. Tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about the guy you want us to call today. His

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<v Speaker 1>name is Mike, and I'm a little over a week ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I was out with my girlfriends one night and he

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<v Speaker 1>was having like a guy's ride out where at the

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<v Speaker 1>same place, and our group's just kind of naturally merged. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>him and I hit it off, and we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>branched off by ourselves and started talking, and chemistry was there,

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<v Speaker 1>totally great. He did this really cute move that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of melted me. We were talking at the bar and

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<v Speaker 1>he points over my shoulder. He goes, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>look at that gorgeous girl over there. I turned around.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a mirror. What that actually worked on you? I noted, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was awesome. And then that's when you

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<v Speaker 1>send him the sex message. Right, Oh, you make me

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<v Speaker 1>sound terrible. We're just giving you a hard time, Jed.

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<v Speaker 1>So he used this little mirror line on you and

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<v Speaker 1>it worked. It worked, but we already had chemistry before

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<v Speaker 1>that happened. So we've seen numbers. And for the next

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<v Speaker 1>few days we were texting pretty heavily back and forth,

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<v Speaker 1>thirty whatever, and it didn't feel unnatural to send that

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<v Speaker 1>pick right with the conversation we were having at that time.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been texting a lot. That's pretty good. There's some

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<v Speaker 1>girls that will like Jose talks to girls. Literally same day.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what are you think of this? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>look at my fake food, and I will say and

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<v Speaker 1>I'd say, if you felt comfortable with yourself and him,

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<v Speaker 1>then there's nothing wrong with it, except that he didn't respond,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that was the So you send him that picture

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<v Speaker 1>and that's the last thing he's ever said to you,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he didn't. Yeah, And I gave it lots of time,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, you know, when you do something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>you're kind of in a light state of panic because

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<v Speaker 1>you know you don't know what the response is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be. And oh, yeah, response, and there's no response.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, it was so embarrassed, and so I apologized

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I'm sorry, I just thought that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's one of those situations where you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>at your phone You're like, maybe something screw up. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna text one of friends, see if they text me back.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn it. Where is he? Have you tried calling him

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<v Speaker 1>at all? I've tried a couple of times, but there's

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<v Speaker 1>some answer and it's just one of those generic voice noails. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So my mind is going a million miles a minute

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out, like, is it pictures at me?

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<v Speaker 1>So I would about to just know what it was

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<v Speaker 1>focusing on the one thing and feel crappy about that

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<v Speaker 1>one thing. Then right now I feel closely about every

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<v Speaker 1>single possible thing to do with myself. So I'm dying.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to call on the Rocket Eye. And you're

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<v Speaker 1>sure the conversation was leading to that point, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like, hey, you want to meet up for dinner sometime,

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<v Speaker 1>Sure we think of this. No, um, it was leading

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<v Speaker 1>to that point, and I didn't initiate the flirtation in

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<v Speaker 1>that direction that happy he did. All right, well, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna play a song, come back, call him and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, okay, all right, hold on

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<v Speaker 1>looking jubil in the morning. Second I'm gonna call this

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. The curious case of the poorly time

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<v Speaker 1>sex message. Oh I'm so glad I didn't read that

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<v Speaker 1>Nancy drew when I was like, that's a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>I should check it out. Jen Is on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>She emailed us about a guy she met named Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>Mike stopped responding to her after she sent him a

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<v Speaker 1>dirty picture, and now she's wondering why that's That's a

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<v Speaker 1>tough one, you know, because maybe he didn't like the

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<v Speaker 1>way you looked, or it could be because he's just

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<v Speaker 1>really modest. I'm not gonna even bother yeah, because no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna Yeah. Apparently you've tried calling a cell

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of times with no answer. Even today. Producer

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<v Speaker 1>Boyd told me that you've you actually tried to call

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<v Speaker 1>him this morning because you weren't sure about doing the

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Right, so you have another number that

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<v Speaker 1>you want us to try to call. I do now?

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<v Speaker 1>I was told this is his landline. How'd you get

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<v Speaker 1>this number? One of my girlfriends. I hit it off

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<v Speaker 1>with one of his friends. They've actually done really well

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<v Speaker 1>dating or been out a couple of times since. So

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<v Speaker 1>she ended up getting this number. Okay, you're gonna like

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<v Speaker 1>ambush the guy at work or something. I was told

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<v Speaker 1>this a landline, not a work line. Okay, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call this number. See, we'll get him on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second date update. You ready to go? Yeah? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Hello, I gotta speak to Mike please speaking.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Mike, how are you? This is Jewbil from brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewil in the morning. I'm moving eighty two point five.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing? I'm okay? How'd you get my number?

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<v Speaker 1>Just from some friends? Okay specifically one friend? You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>this is not really a great time for me to

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<v Speaker 1>talk right now? Okay, no you don't. Can I just

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<v Speaker 1>still a minute of your time? I don't have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of it. I mean, what's this about. We do

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<v Speaker 1>a segment on our show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>What that is is where if somebody goes out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with one of our listeners and then they

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<v Speaker 1>get blown off, they email us to call that person

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<v Speaker 1>and ask why so somebody went out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with you? Ra saying Okay, well, I is not actually

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<v Speaker 1>the best time, okay to talk about this. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>just give me a second? Can I just ask you

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<v Speaker 1>real quick if you remember meeting a girl named Jen? Yeah? Right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's fine, but she's wondering why should you stopped responding

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<v Speaker 1>to her after since Okay, it's win, it's fin. Just

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<v Speaker 1>let look, just let Jen know that I'll just text

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<v Speaker 1>her later on today. Okay, do you want me to

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<v Speaker 1>grab your anything on their Uh? Okay you need no?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no no, no, no, it's like one percent. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>talking to mom. Oh yeah, I ask if she's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come to bunch. Who's that in the background, Mike, Hey, mom,

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<v Speaker 1>Sally wants to know if you're coming to brunch with us?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that say? Yeah, we'll be your mom? That's fine?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey real quick though, sunlo Hey? Yeah, who's I think

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<v Speaker 1>she hung up? Hello? Oh my god? I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>find out more about Mike and situation. Didner you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go to brunch on Sundays? You wanted? Mike? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you there? Hello? I think we've been hung up on

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<v Speaker 1>you think? Yeah? I don't even know what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I want to throw up. Well, wouldn't I think

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<v Speaker 1>you're jump into conclusions jed? No, I don't think she

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<v Speaker 1>is jubil stop. I'm gonna let's try to call him back.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to try to call him back. Oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. No, she was leaving for the store. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I heard, So maybe she's gone. Now, Oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just sorry. Listen, man, don't call me. You know

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<v Speaker 1>it's cool. Hey, who was that though in the background. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she's nosy. Please do not call me. She's okay. Did

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<v Speaker 1>she do that every time you answer the phone? Geez? Oh, man,

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<v Speaker 1>Mike there, gosh, you know, I don't know. Now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>maybe starting to believe you guys that it could be

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<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend or a wik I don't even have words

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Can you guys call that out back because

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<v Speaker 1>I do actually have something to say to hand? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how about this? Hey, Jen, Jen? How about this? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call him back, but I'm not gonna say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You can just start that way. You can yell let

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<v Speaker 1>him right away. I fet beforehand, because you know he's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna hang up if I start talking to him. Is

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<v Speaker 1>this a good idea? Of course it is. No. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess we could leave a really awkward message on their machine. Hello, Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>who's who's this? You're on a do not call list?

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<v Speaker 1>You know who? Who is this? What's your name? We

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<v Speaker 1>are on a do not call list? I registered to

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<v Speaker 1>the Internet, and you know now I've told you not

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<v Speaker 1>to call. You could get reported. No, that's hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not call I'm not a telemarketer, though I'm calling for

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<v Speaker 1>another reason. Well they're sending a telemarketer. There's another reason

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<v Speaker 1>of all. I probably don't have a lot of time

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<v Speaker 1>with you on the phone. So I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you this real quick. My name is J host

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show I'm Moving ninety two point five called

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to hear what he's saying. What that guy

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<v Speaker 1>Mike is that your boyfriend? Husband? Who is that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>This is my boyfriend. We lived together. Your boyfriend has

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<v Speaker 1>been texting with one of our listeners who met him out,

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<v Speaker 1>and they've been very I think you know where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going with this. This some sick joke that you're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to pull. Fnny. We're bad, but we're not that bad,

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<v Speaker 1>I promise. Yeah. I'm sorry. God, I cannot believe it true,

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<v Speaker 1>not true. We checked everything out. It really happened. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess if you want to check his cell phone,

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<v Speaker 1>give me any I I don't know, give me your

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<v Speaker 1>cell phone. I don't give me your cell phone. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to see you. But if you look at that, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I pay that bill. Give me that's fun. Hey, Sally,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a mistake. Absolutely. Hello. Oh my god, are you there.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that they're going to fight right now. Yeah. There,

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<v Speaker 1>they got some stuff to talk about. Jen. I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>we couldn't get you on the phone with Mike. I

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<v Speaker 1>think he's busy right now. Though. My god, you have

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<v Speaker 1>any idea that he had a girlfriend or anything? Not

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<v Speaker 1>at all? Oh my god. No. He actually in conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>he said that he's dated, but he's not really attached

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<v Speaker 1>to anybody because he hasn't met the right person. And

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<v Speaker 1>he's going on and on and then, well, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>give Mike the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>met the right person yet. He's still kind of right right.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel terrible for his girlfriend, and I, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that she cast raps him on her way

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<v Speaker 1>out the door way. Lence, well, at least you got

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<v Speaker 1>your answer why he is not calling you back. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what to say. There was nothing indicative of

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship or anything like nothing. So now I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of terrified because I don't know how I'm supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>proceed in dating. It's this guy. Yeah, but Jen, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean not every dude is living with his girlfriend for

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<v Speaker 1>two years and you know, like go ahead and feel

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<v Speaker 1>free to send out those pictures whenever you want. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>listen to him broken Jupil in the morning,