Speaker 1: Brooking jewels. Second date update, Hey Lydia, Yeah, Producer Boyd
Speaker 1: and I had a bet before this second date update.
Speaker 1: He says that you've never sent a sex message in
Speaker 1: your life? A dirty picture out. I, on the other hand,
Speaker 1: guaranteed that you have. One of us needs to win
Speaker 1: some money here. Have you ever sent a sex message?
Speaker 1: Can we define dirty picture? Is it something that you
Speaker 1: have to be naked? No? No, I don't wear thongs,
Speaker 1: so no, I don't know. I'm not sure that's a
Speaker 1: gray area. I'll just say yes because I've flirted with
Speaker 1: my boyfriends. Yeah, I'll take it, but I haven't been
Speaker 1: I win naked and photos. What's the appropriate amount of
Speaker 1: time that you wait before you send out a dirty picture?
Speaker 1: Appropriate amount of I've like sent like two in my life.
Speaker 1: How long would you wait before you did it? I
Speaker 1: don't know, eight months of dating. Some people like to
Speaker 1: do it the day after you meet, kind of like Jen,
Speaker 1: who's on the phone with us right now. Jen is
Speaker 1: calling in for the second day update. How are you sorry? John?
Speaker 1: I did not send it like that soon was not okay? Jen.
Speaker 1: Jen apparently sent a dirty picture to the guy she
Speaker 1: wants us to call today. That's okay, Jen, m I
Speaker 1: want to crawl under a rock and die. She's worried
Speaker 1: that that might have scared him off, because after she
Speaker 1: sent the picture, he stopped responding to her. Right, Jen,
Speaker 1: that's the shortest, harshest version. Tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: about the guy you want us to call today. His
Speaker 1: name is Mike, and I'm a little over a week ago.
Speaker 1: I was out with my girlfriends one night and he
Speaker 1: was having like a guy's ride out where at the
Speaker 1: same place, and our group's just kind of naturally merged. Okay,
Speaker 1: him and I hit it off, and we kind of
Speaker 1: branched off by ourselves and started talking, and chemistry was there,
Speaker 1: totally great. He did this really cute move that kind
Speaker 1: of melted me. We were talking at the bar and
Speaker 1: he points over my shoulder. He goes, oh my god,
Speaker 1: look at that gorgeous girl over there. I turned around.
Speaker 1: It's a mirror. What that actually worked on you? I noted, Oh,
Speaker 1: I thought it was awesome. And then that's when you
Speaker 1: send him the sex message. Right, Oh, you make me
Speaker 1: sound terrible. We're just giving you a hard time, Jed.
Speaker 1: So he used this little mirror line on you and
Speaker 1: it worked. It worked, but we already had chemistry before
Speaker 1: that happened. So we've seen numbers. And for the next
Speaker 1: few days we were texting pretty heavily back and forth,
Speaker 1: thirty whatever, and it didn't feel unnatural to send that
Speaker 1: pick right with the conversation we were having at that time.
Speaker 1: We've been texting a lot. That's pretty good. There's some
Speaker 1: girls that will like Jose talks to girls. Literally same day.
Speaker 1: I was like, what are you think of this? Yeah,
Speaker 1: look at my fake food, and I will say and
Speaker 1: I'd say, if you felt comfortable with yourself and him,
Speaker 1: then there's nothing wrong with it, except that he didn't respond,
Speaker 1: Like that was the So you send him that picture
Speaker 1: and that's the last thing he's ever said to you,
Speaker 1: Like he didn't. Yeah, And I gave it lots of time,
Speaker 1: and like, you know, when you do something like that,
Speaker 1: you're kind of in a light state of panic because
Speaker 1: you know you don't know what the response is going
Speaker 1: to be. And oh, yeah, response, and there's no response.
Speaker 1: I like, it was so embarrassed, and so I apologized
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm sorry, I just thought that,
Speaker 1: you know, it's one of those situations where you're looking
Speaker 1: at your phone You're like, maybe something screw up. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna text one of friends, see if they text me back.
Speaker 1: Damn it. Where is he? Have you tried calling him
Speaker 1: at all? I've tried a couple of times, but there's
Speaker 1: some answer and it's just one of those generic voice noails. Okay,
Speaker 1: So my mind is going a million miles a minute
Speaker 1: trying to figure out, like, is it pictures at me?
Speaker 1: So I would about to just know what it was
Speaker 1: focusing on the one thing and feel crappy about that
Speaker 1: one thing. Then right now I feel closely about every
Speaker 1: single possible thing to do with myself. So I'm dying.
Speaker 1: I want to call on the Rocket Eye. And you're
Speaker 1: sure the conversation was leading to that point, Like it
Speaker 1: wasn't like, hey, you want to meet up for dinner sometime,
Speaker 1: Sure we think of this. No, um, it was leading
Speaker 1: to that point, and I didn't initiate the flirtation in
Speaker 1: that direction that happy he did. All right, well, we're
Speaker 1: gonna play a song, come back, call him and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, okay, all right, hold on
Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning. Second I'm gonna call this
Speaker 1: second date update. The curious case of the poorly time
Speaker 1: sex message. Oh I'm so glad I didn't read that
Speaker 1: Nancy drew when I was like, that's a good one.
Speaker 1: I should check it out. Jen Is on the phone.
Speaker 1: She emailed us about a guy she met named Mike.
Speaker 1: Mike stopped responding to her after she sent him a
Speaker 1: dirty picture, and now she's wondering why that's That's a
Speaker 1: tough one, you know, because maybe he didn't like the
Speaker 1: way you looked, or it could be because he's just
Speaker 1: really modest. I'm not gonna even bother yeah, because no,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna Yeah. Apparently you've tried calling a cell
Speaker 1: a bunch of times with no answer. Even today. Producer
Speaker 1: Boyd told me that you've you actually tried to call
Speaker 1: him this morning because you weren't sure about doing the
Speaker 1: second date update. Right, so you have another number that
Speaker 1: you want us to try to call. I do now?
Speaker 1: I was told this is his landline. How'd you get
Speaker 1: this number? One of my girlfriends. I hit it off
Speaker 1: with one of his friends. They've actually done really well
Speaker 1: dating or been out a couple of times since. So
Speaker 1: she ended up getting this number. Okay, you're gonna like
Speaker 1: ambush the guy at work or something. I was told
Speaker 1: this a landline, not a work line. Okay, we're gonna
Speaker 1: call this number. See, we'll get him on the phone
Speaker 1: and get your second date update. You ready to go? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, Hello, I gotta speak to Mike please speaking.
Speaker 1: Hey Mike, how are you? This is Jewbil from brook
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the morning. I'm moving eighty two point five.
Speaker 1: How are you doing? I'm okay? How'd you get my number?
Speaker 1: Just from some friends? Okay specifically one friend? You know what,
Speaker 1: this is not really a great time for me to
Speaker 1: talk right now? Okay, no you don't. Can I just
Speaker 1: still a minute of your time? I don't have a
Speaker 1: lot of it. I mean, what's this about. We do
Speaker 1: a segment on our show called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: What that is is where if somebody goes out on
Speaker 1: a date with one of our listeners and then they
Speaker 1: get blown off, they email us to call that person
Speaker 1: and ask why so somebody went out on a date
Speaker 1: with you? Ra saying Okay, well, I is not actually
Speaker 1: the best time, okay to talk about this. Can you
Speaker 1: just give me a second? Can I just ask you
Speaker 1: real quick if you remember meeting a girl named Jen? Yeah? Right, yeah,
Speaker 1: she's fine, but she's wondering why should you stopped responding
Speaker 1: to her after since Okay, it's win, it's fin. Just
Speaker 1: let look, just let Jen know that I'll just text
Speaker 1: her later on today. Okay, do you want me to
Speaker 1: grab your anything on their Uh? Okay you need no?
Speaker 1: No, no no, no, no, it's like one percent. I'm just
Speaker 1: talking to mom. Oh yeah, I ask if she's gonna
Speaker 1: come to bunch. Who's that in the background, Mike, Hey, mom,
Speaker 1: Sally wants to know if you're coming to brunch with us?
Speaker 1: Is that say? Yeah, we'll be your mom? That's fine?
Speaker 1: Hey real quick though, sunlo Hey? Yeah, who's I think
Speaker 1: she hung up? Hello? Oh my god? I wanted to
Speaker 1: find out more about Mike and situation. Didner you wanted
Speaker 1: to go to brunch on Sundays? You wanted? Mike? Are
Speaker 1: you there? Hello? I think we've been hung up on
Speaker 1: you think? Yeah? I don't even know what to say.
Speaker 1: I'm I want to throw up. Well, wouldn't I think
Speaker 1: you're jump into conclusions jed? No, I don't think she
Speaker 1: is jubil stop. I'm gonna let's try to call him back.
Speaker 1: I want to try to call him back. Oh man,
Speaker 1: you guys. No, she was leaving for the store. That's
Speaker 1: what I heard, So maybe she's gone. Now, Oh god,
Speaker 1: I'm just sorry. Listen, man, don't call me. You know
Speaker 1: it's cool. Hey, who was that though in the background. No,
Speaker 1: she's nosy. Please do not call me. She's okay. Did
Speaker 1: she do that every time you answer the phone? Geez? Oh, man,
Speaker 1: Mike there, gosh, you know, I don't know. Now I'm
Speaker 1: maybe starting to believe you guys that it could be
Speaker 1: a girlfriend or a wik I don't even have words
Speaker 1: right now. Can you guys call that out back because
Speaker 1: I do actually have something to say to hand? Yeah,
Speaker 1: how about this? Hey, Jen, Jen? How about this? I'm
Speaker 1: gonna call him back, but I'm not gonna say anything.
Speaker 1: You can just start that way. You can yell let
Speaker 1: him right away. I fet beforehand, because you know he's
Speaker 1: gonna hang up if I start talking to him. Is
Speaker 1: this a good idea? Of course it is. No. I
Speaker 1: guess we could leave a really awkward message on their machine. Hello, Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: who's who's this? You're on a do not call list?
Speaker 1: You know who? Who is this? What's your name? We
Speaker 1: are on a do not call list? I registered to
Speaker 1: the Internet, and you know now I've told you not
Speaker 1: to call. You could get reported. No, that's hey, I'm
Speaker 1: not call I'm not a telemarketer, though I'm calling for
Speaker 1: another reason. Well they're sending a telemarketer. There's another reason
Speaker 1: of all. I probably don't have a lot of time
Speaker 1: with you on the phone. So I just want to
Speaker 1: tell you this real quick. My name is J host
Speaker 1: a radio show I'm Moving ninety two point five called
Speaker 1: I'm trying to hear what he's saying. What that guy
Speaker 1: Mike is that your boyfriend? Husband? Who is that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This is my boyfriend. We lived together. Your boyfriend has
Speaker 1: been texting with one of our listeners who met him out,
Speaker 1: and they've been very I think you know where I'm
Speaker 1: going with this. This some sick joke that you're trying
Speaker 1: to pull. Fnny. We're bad, but we're not that bad,
Speaker 1: I promise. Yeah. I'm sorry. God, I cannot believe it true,
Speaker 1: not true. We checked everything out. It really happened. I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess if you want to check his cell phone,
Speaker 1: give me any I I don't know, give me your
Speaker 1: cell phone. I don't give me your cell phone. I
Speaker 1: want to see you. But if you look at that, dude,
Speaker 1: I pay that bill. Give me that's fun. Hey, Sally,
Speaker 1: he's a mistake. Absolutely. Hello. Oh my god, are you there.
Speaker 1: I think that they're going to fight right now. Yeah. There,
Speaker 1: they got some stuff to talk about. Jen. I'm sorry
Speaker 1: we couldn't get you on the phone with Mike. I
Speaker 1: think he's busy right now. Though. My god, you have
Speaker 1: any idea that he had a girlfriend or anything? Not
Speaker 1: at all? Oh my god. No. He actually in conversation,
Speaker 1: he said that he's dated, but he's not really attached
Speaker 1: to anybody because he hasn't met the right person. And
Speaker 1: he's going on and on and then, well, you know what,
Speaker 1: give Mike the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he hasn't
Speaker 1: met the right person yet. He's still kind of right right.
Speaker 1: I just feel terrible for his girlfriend, and I, you know,
Speaker 1: I hope that she cast raps him on her way
Speaker 1: out the door way. Lence, well, at least you got
Speaker 1: your answer why he is not calling you back. I
Speaker 1: don't know what to say. There was nothing indicative of
Speaker 1: a relationship or anything like nothing. So now I'm kind
Speaker 1: of terrified because I don't know how I'm supposed to
Speaker 1: proceed in dating. It's this guy. Yeah, but Jen, I
Speaker 1: mean not every dude is living with his girlfriend for
Speaker 1: two years and you know, like go ahead and feel
Speaker 1: free to send out those pictures whenever you want. Don't
Speaker 1: listen to him broken Jupil in the morning,