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Speaker 1: Brooking jewels. Second date update, Hey Lydia, Yeah, Producer Boyd

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Speaker 1: and I had a bet before this second date update.

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Speaker 1: He says that you've never sent a sex message in

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Speaker 1: your life? A dirty picture out. I, on the other hand,

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Speaker 1: guaranteed that you have. One of us needs to win

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Speaker 1: some money here. Have you ever sent a sex message?

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Speaker 1: Can we define dirty picture? Is it something that you

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Speaker 1: have to be naked? No? No, I don't wear thongs,

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Speaker 1: so no, I don't know. I'm not sure that's a

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Speaker 1: gray area. I'll just say yes because I've flirted with

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Speaker 1: my boyfriends. Yeah, I'll take it, but I haven't been

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Speaker 1: I win naked and photos. What's the appropriate amount of

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Speaker 1: time that you wait before you send out a dirty picture?

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Speaker 1: Appropriate amount of I've like sent like two in my life.

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Speaker 1: How long would you wait before you did it? I

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Speaker 1: don't know, eight months of dating. Some people like to

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Speaker 1: do it the day after you meet, kind of like Jen,

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Speaker 1: who's on the phone with us right now. Jen is

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Speaker 1: calling in for the second day update. How are you sorry? John?

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Speaker 1: I did not send it like that soon was not okay? Jen.

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Speaker 1: Jen apparently sent a dirty picture to the guy she

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Speaker 1: wants us to call today. That's okay, Jen, m I

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Speaker 1: want to crawl under a rock and die. She's worried

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Speaker 1: that that might have scared him off, because after she

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Speaker 1: sent the picture, he stopped responding to her. Right, Jen,

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Speaker 1: that's the shortest, harshest version. Tell us a little bit

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Speaker 1: about the guy you want us to call today. His

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Speaker 1: name is Mike, and I'm a little over a week ago.

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Speaker 1: I was out with my girlfriends one night and he

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Speaker 1: same place, and our group's just kind of naturally merged. Okay,

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Speaker 1: him and I hit it off, and we kind of

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Speaker 1: branched off by ourselves and started talking, and chemistry was there,

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Speaker 1: totally great. He did this really cute move that kind

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Speaker 1: he points over my shoulder. He goes, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: It's a mirror. What that actually worked on you? I noted, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was awesome. And then that's when you

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Speaker 1: send him the sex message. Right, Oh, you make me

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Speaker 1: sound terrible. We're just giving you a hard time, Jed.

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Speaker 1: So he used this little mirror line on you and

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Speaker 1: it worked. It worked, but we already had chemistry before

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Speaker 1: that happened. So we've seen numbers. And for the next

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Speaker 1: few days we were texting pretty heavily back and forth,

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Speaker 1: thirty whatever, and it didn't feel unnatural to send that

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Speaker 1: We've been texting a lot. That's pretty good. There's some

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Speaker 1: girls that will like Jose talks to girls. Literally same day.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what are you think of this? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'd say, if you felt comfortable with yourself and him,

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Speaker 1: then there's nothing wrong with it, except that he didn't respond,

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Speaker 1: Like that was the So you send him that picture

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Speaker 1: and that's the last thing he's ever said to you,

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Speaker 1: Like he didn't. Yeah, And I gave it lots of time,

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Speaker 1: and like, you know, when you do something like that,

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Speaker 1: gonna text one of friends, see if they text me back.

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Speaker 1: Damn it. Where is he? Have you tried calling him

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Speaker 1: I want to call on the Rocket Eye. And you're

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Speaker 1: Sure we think of this. No, um, it was leading

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Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning. Second I'm gonna call this

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Speaker 1: second date update. The curious case of the poorly time

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Speaker 1: I should check it out. Jen Is on the phone.

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Speaker 1: She emailed us about a guy she met named Mike.

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Speaker 1: Boyd told me that you've you actually tried to call

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Speaker 1: second date update. Right, so you have another number that

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Speaker 1: you want us to try to call. I do now?

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Speaker 1: all right, Hello, I gotta speak to Mike please speaking.

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Speaker 1: Hey Mike, how are you? This is Jewbil from brook

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Speaker 1: and Jewil in the morning. I'm moving eighty two point five.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing? I'm okay? How'd you get my number?

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Speaker 1: Just from some friends? Okay specifically one friend? You know what,

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Speaker 1: this is not really a great time for me to

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Speaker 1: talk right now? Okay, no you don't. Can I just

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Speaker 1: What that is is where if somebody goes out on

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Speaker 1: real quick if you remember meeting a girl named Jen? Yeah? Right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: No, no no, no, no, it's like one percent. I'm just

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Speaker 1: talking to mom. Oh yeah, I ask if she's gonna

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Speaker 1: Sally wants to know if you're coming to brunch with us?

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Speaker 1: Is that say? Yeah, we'll be your mom? That's fine?

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Speaker 1: Hey real quick though, sunlo Hey? Yeah, who's I think

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Speaker 1: she hung up? Hello? Oh my god? I wanted to

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Speaker 1: to go to brunch on Sundays? You wanted? Mike? Are

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Speaker 1: I'm I want to throw up. Well, wouldn't I think

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Speaker 1: you're jump into conclusions jed? No, I don't think she

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Speaker 1: is jubil stop. I'm gonna let's try to call him back.

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Speaker 1: I want to try to call him back. Oh man,

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Speaker 1: you guys. No, she was leaving for the store. That's

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Speaker 1: guess we could leave a really awkward message on their machine. Hello, Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: who's who's this? You're on a do not call list?

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Speaker 1: You know who? Who is this? What's your name? We

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Speaker 1: are on a do not call list? I registered to

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Speaker 1: Mike is that your boyfriend? Husband? Who is that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I pay that bill. Give me that's fun. Hey, Sally,

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Speaker 1: they got some stuff to talk about. Jen. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: proceed in dating. It's this guy. Yeah, but Jen, I

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Speaker 1: mean not every dude is living with his girlfriend for

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Speaker 1: two years and you know, like go ahead and feel

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Speaker 1: free to send out those pictures whenever you want. Don't

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Speaker 1: listen to him broken Jupil in the morning,