WEBVTT - Brittney Kelley 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:16.400 Carala. She's a queen of talking. He was She's on 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:21.120 the inside. She got the scoop on No one can 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:35.680 do with Caralam, Carala, No one can heal with Caral Carol. 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:39.000 I am so excited to have Brittany Kelly joining me 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:42.239 on this episode of Get Real podcast. She is a 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:46.720 total baller shot color. She and her hubs, who is Brian, 0:00:46.760 --> 0:00:50.760 from Florida, Georgia Line, have this incredible company called Tribe Kelly. 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:54.120 It is all American made clothing and products. They have 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:57.680 two storefronts, one in Nashville, one in thirty eight, which 0:00:57.760 --> 0:00:59.840 is in Florida. I've been to the one in Nashville. 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:02.880 It is so beautiful. 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She's like an interior designer, 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:55.440 and she souped it up magically and it was a 0:02:55.919 --> 0:03:01.160 super whimsical, amazing experience. But it was definitely like oily 0:03:01.360 --> 0:03:06.200 concrete floors, like unfinished wood type of situation that we 0:03:06.320 --> 0:03:10.880 made really cool. And now this is truly whatever you 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:12.960 could dream it to be. It is what your dreams 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:15.000 are made of. I know, I feel like Ralph Lauren 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:17.720 would like live here or something. Ralph Lauren would die 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:20.600 to do all of his photos shooting campaigns campaigns here right, 0:03:21.480 --> 0:03:23.680 So talk to me about how you got here, How 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.519 did you get to this treehouse? Tell me about where 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:27.760 you're from. When did you become a dreamer? You have 0:03:27.880 --> 0:03:30.720 so much to talk about, huge legacy already at Like 0:03:30.760 --> 0:03:33.600 how old are you not even thirty yet? Have a 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:36.600 clothing brand, You're a world traveler. You're so deep and 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:40.320 profound to be so young. Where did you first realize 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:43.160 that you were a creator and you had creativity in you? Yeah? 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:46.160 For sure. Um, you know, God has been a really 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:48.400 big part of this. For sure. I love that you 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:51.760 just talk about that. Yeah, I mean it's it's definitely 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:53.880 been a big part of my life. And um, I 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:57.280 haven't always been a super strong believer. I had a 0:03:57.280 --> 0:04:01.000 pretty tragic event happened to me when I was seventeen. Um, 0:04:01.040 --> 0:04:03.640 everything kind of flipped that next year. Is that what 0:04:03.720 --> 0:04:07.840 made you strong? It is? I definitely feel like I got, um, 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:10.560 my resilience from from that, and I feel like I 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:13.400 gained it early on because I think that like even 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:16.080 having to go through a tragedy young, it gives you 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:19.839 something that you wouldn't have had otherwise. Maybe. Yeah, I 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:23.920 definitely think it gives you tools to carry along. And 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:26.719 I think a lot of people don't learn, um, certain 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:29.520 lessons that I learned until later on in life. Um, 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:34.599 so it really really sucks. Um, you definitely go through 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:37.599 dark times, but you you gain these tools that help 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:40.200 you navigate the world. And it doesn't have to be 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:42.840 all terrible. And that's I love that that you say that, 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:45.320 that like it. The tragedy gave you strength. There's always 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:48.360 a silver lining for sure, and so um, yeah, there 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:50.160 was a point where I was in a really dark 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:52.480 space and I just kind of I think I actually 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:54.680 hit my knees at one point. I was like, you know, 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:57.680 you know, use me for what you need because I'm 0:04:57.720 --> 0:05:00.680 I'm not usable right now. And um, you know, I 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:03.840 went to Georgia Southern. I started out there and I 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:06.800 tried to stay a pretty narrow path. And I was 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:12.560 an accounting major at first, you free spirit like mermaid, 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:15.839 fairy land, dust of all the magic. Yes, I was 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:17.920 an accounting see what you're doing that. I was a 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:23.120 solid B plus accounting major. Yeah. And um, when I 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:25.919 was seventeen, I lost my grandmother and that that was 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:29.240 the tragic event. Um, she was murdered actually, and I was. 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:33.080 I was devastated. But I moved in with this family. 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:38.120 Um that was absolutely amazing. And um and just honestly, 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:42.240 angels from above, the Renews, And I had known them 0:05:42.240 --> 0:05:47.640 since middle score and you were like renewing your own Yeah, 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:51.160 that's crazy, the Renews. And so they are angels. Um, 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:54.040 definitely from above. And I moved in with those guys 0:05:54.080 --> 0:05:56.800 and they held me accountable, and um, they made me 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:59.800 stay a pretty straight narrow path that I made being 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:02.520 held accountable important because like sometimes you want to fight it, 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:04.800 not you, but like people want to fight it. Oh 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:08.400 I thought I fought, Oh I thought it. Believe me. 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:12.599 I mean, I definitely came in, um, to their to 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:16.040 their house. Uh, you know this is we're getting real here, 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:19.240 but pretty drunk a couple of times. And uh, Susan 0:06:19.320 --> 0:06:20.960 kind of snatched me up a couple of times when 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:22.800 my head was hanging over in the trash can and 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:25.640 she said, this isn't your path, you know, like you've 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:28.640 gotta You're meant for so much more and and so 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:32.000 having people along the way, I think tell you that 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:35.680 is so so important to surround yourself with supporters, you know. 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:39.119 And um, and I've heard this so many different times, 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:41.359 but you really are you know the people that you 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:46.680 surround yourself with. So UM to answer your original question, Uh, 0:06:46.800 --> 0:06:49.919 it's who I've surrounded myself with. UM. I've surrounded myself 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:53.480 with people who are resilient and people who have visions 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:56.680 and people who are creative, and UM, the husband of 0:06:56.720 --> 0:06:59.600 that family, Lester Uh. He has a cool story and 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:02.520 it just super it was super inspiring. I mean, he 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:06.320 came from nothing and and he is, I mean an 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:09.920 amazing entrepreneur now. And so seeing people like that in 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:14.200 my life really gave me the strength and the courage 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:18.400 really to like dream big because seeing someone come from 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:22.720 absolutely nothing UM to to having pretty much, you know, 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:25.800 everything that we in our society. I guess de finds 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:30.200 this success UM is definitely something that I think everyone needs. 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:32.920 Everyone needs to have somebody to look up to and 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:36.320 and a reason for that. UM. So I feel like 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:39.360 the people I surrounded myself with and UM. The path 0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:41.640 that I was on was accounting, and it was awesome 0:07:41.680 --> 0:07:44.640 and and I was so pumped in the beginning to 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:46.400 be an accounting major. I was like, I'm so good 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:49.800 at math, Like I can do this UM. And I 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:52.920 had a breakdown when was this, Like when I was 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:56.040 like eighteen. I remember calling Susan, the mother of this family, 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:58.440 and and I said, I just can't do this, Like 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:01.360 I cannot do people's taxes. It's like I can't, Like 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:03.480 I don't I can do my own. And I feel 0:08:03.480 --> 0:08:07.800 really blessed to have had the you know, finances and 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:10.480 ability to learn this and I'm going to take it 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:13.320 throughout my life. Um, but yeah, I had a little 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:16.840 breakdown and I said, I'm changing my major to psychology. 0:08:17.080 --> 0:08:23.000 So I did a complete turnaround there and yeah, I 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:25.840 went to psychology and it put me in school and 0:08:25.880 --> 0:08:28.920 additional year longer. And I knew that, And um, why 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:32.280 is it scary though? Because I have found myself in 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:35.640 the middle of transitions and I my first reaction is 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:38.720 fear of changing it up and like getting off path, 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:40.600 even though I really was never on a path, like 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:42.520 I had made up a path in my mind right 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:44.880 or something, and so like you feel like you're going 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:47.280 to be left behind or you look around and maybe 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:50.319 someone else, especially when I make a big change or something. 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:53.160 Do you ever feel that like holy ship? Like what 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:56.199 if I just ruined everything? Yes, you get your faith 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:59.560 to do it honestly in other people. I mean, I'm 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:03.600 my big ist critic honestly, like, um, I'm the worst 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:06.480 I can myself talk can be awful sometimes too. I 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:08.160 didn't I didn't know I did that. Like I'm pretty 0:09:08.160 --> 0:09:10.600 hard on myself in a mean way sometimes right, Like 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:13.000 why am I being some brutal right, It's like it's 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:15.000 like the head and the heart thing. It's like, at 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:17.720 that moment that I changed my major from psych from 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:20.679 m accounting to psychology, I was like, you know, my 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:22.800 heart is like, yes, this is what you need, Like 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:24.760 you need to learn this stuff for yourself and to 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:28.000 help other people and to share your story and to understand, 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:30.160 you know, the thought processes. But my head was like, 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:33.040 you're a freaking idiot, Like you've spent so much money 0:09:33.120 --> 0:09:35.400 on school, You're now going to be in school for 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:38.200 another year. Like what are you doing? Like what are 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:39.760 you trying to do? Like did you know you're in 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:42.440 goal at this point? I honestly did not, So what 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:46.839 were you following? Honestly wasn't following anything, Uh, just your intuition, 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:50.840 I guess. Honestly felt lead in the depths of my 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:56.520 soul to learn psychology for myself and for the story 0:09:56.600 --> 0:09:58.960 that I had, And I knew that just by sharing 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:02.520 my story with just a couple people in in in college, 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:05.240 I knew that I had some purpose to share that story. 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:08.320 And so I didn't know where to get that knowledge from. 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:12.319 And so many times at the time, um little synchronicities 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:15.360 were happening in psychology kept popping up and popping up, 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:19.280 and um, I just said, I'm going for it. And 0:10:19.320 --> 0:10:21.600 it's it's odd because you know, I had this family, 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:23.760 there were news helping me along the way, but I 0:10:23.760 --> 0:10:26.079 really didn't have a mom or a dad or um, 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:29.240 you know, my grandmother to tell me no. So I 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:31.600 just went for it. You know, I really I need 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:33.360 to ask you about this because I'm struggling with this 0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:39.800 right now. I feel like I think I have always 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:42.840 been really like self sufficient and like really confident, and 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:46.000 like people might think that I really like I have 0:10:46.160 --> 0:10:49.040 a lot of confidence and stuff, but when it comes 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:51.720 down to it, I often do not trust myself. And 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:53.240 like what you said, you had no one to tell 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:55.160 you know, from a young age, so you had to 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:59.880 find that trust of yourself. How do you do that? 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:03.120 Because that is the most terrifying thing, to hold yourself 0:11:04.000 --> 0:11:07.800 accountable for whatever you decide good or bad. Yeah, I 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:10.920 think when you're young, it's just you really feel like 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:13.160 you're diving off a diving board. You don't know if 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:16.240 there's like water down there. Honestly, what are you thinking? 0:11:16.280 --> 0:11:18.200 You're just not thinking about what's down there. I mean, 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:21.880 at that age, honestly, like I was so torn between 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:26.600 like what everyone else thought of me and like what 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:29.320 I really like I wanted people to think of me. 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:32.400 And like, as I get older, the more I really 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:35.480 don't care what people think of me, and I just 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:37.400 think it's I mean, I hate to say, oh, it's 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:39.920 like an age thing, like when you get older you'll understand. 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:43.160 But just every year that goes by is like such 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:47.120 a learning year for me that I'm usually assuming that 0:11:47.200 --> 0:11:50.400 everyone thinks these things of me, and I'm creating this 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:54.360 like critic that doesn't exist, or just anything like what 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:56.960 does she thinking change in her major? Or why don't 0:11:56.960 --> 0:11:59.520 you know I started my own Etsy company that was 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:03.000 my first creative endeavor in college amongst all of this craziness, 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:06.080 um and I just would always like panic and be like, 0:12:06.120 --> 0:12:08.240 you know, what are what am I? The people that 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:09.560 I used to go to school would think of me? 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:12.480 What is the renews think of me for changing? You know? 0:12:12.720 --> 0:12:14.280 What would my nana think of me? That? You know, 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:16.000 I know she's gone, but what is she thinking of me? 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:19.200 Especially when you're like starting as a creator. This little 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:23.200 Sunday's over here interrupting it. When you're starting as a creator, though, 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:26.000 especially when you haven't had anything to show for yourself 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:28.200 just yet besides the dreams in your heart that you 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:30.880 believe you can do it. And that's why like having 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:33.600 someone who is a great support system, like you said, 0:12:33.600 --> 0:12:37.480 the renews or somebody that is giving you strength somewhere. 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:42.080 But it's just to start a creative endeavor is so 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:44.560 scary because you have so many potentials that might fail, 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:52.000 no for sure. So starting to maak it's Sunday Sunday 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:54.800 has like completely taken over the interview right now. So 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:59.240 Sunday is my white wolf dog and she just hates 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:01.360 when the intentions on on her. So I can't blame 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:06.480 her because she's absolutely beautiful and you know, a wolf 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:08.360 part wolf. It's not every day you're hanging out with 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:11.760 a wolf. Yeah. So um again, just back to the 0:13:11.800 --> 0:13:14.319 people that you surround yourself with. Um. When I first 0:13:14.320 --> 0:13:17.199 started my Etsy account that I was talking about, so 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:18.480 let me back up a little bit, give you a 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:22.680 little history. I changed my major to psychology, spent a 0:13:22.720 --> 0:13:26.400 semester at Georgia Southern, and then I worked my butt 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:28.800 off to get all a's the last semester so I 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:31.439 could transfer into the University of Georgia, which was like, 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:34.240 I mean, if you would have told me in high 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:35.920 school that I would have gone to U g A, 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:39.480 I would have said, yeah, right, like you're you're crazy. 0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:41.880 I mean, you're crazy. Like I'm not that smart. It 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:43.920 was not that smart, like I have to study a lot, 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:47.520 you know. Um, But I made all a's and um 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:51.040 got into the U g A. And that was just 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:54.320 like a huge moment for me and my self confidence. UM, 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:57.280 because I just not that I knew that was smart. 0:13:57.400 --> 0:14:00.040 Don't don't get me wrong, but I just did to 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.400 believe in myself. And so when that happened, Um, I 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:08.120 gained so much more confidence, and I started my creative endeavors, 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:11.480 UM getting into like jewelry and clothing. Because this is 0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:14.280 really funny, because I couldn't go out and party anymore. 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:16.640 I genuinely couldn't because now I'm going to the University 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:18.720 of Georgia, Like I can't go out to the bars 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:22.120 because I genuinely have to make the grades to stay 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:25.040 in here because I'm having to hold myself accountable at 0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:28.479 this point because I'm paying for this, you know, I'm working. Um, 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.080 I've now started, you know, this creative endeavor. So I 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:33.960 had a one bedroom apartment. Um, and I started this 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:37.640 little Etsy account and so I would go find old broken, 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:40.640 like vintage jewelry and like make it into something else 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:43.960 and um. And at the time, I didn't have the money. 0:14:44.000 --> 0:14:46.240 So this guy would hook me up with this old 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:48.440 broken jewelry and I would twist it around and you know, 0:14:48.520 --> 0:14:51.400 make a headband out of like an old bracelet or something. 0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:55.320 And I was making right at like three too a month, 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:57.480 which is perfect because that was like my rent at 0:14:57.520 --> 0:15:00.200 the time. So I got to quit my wagers. Same 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:05.080 job at Buffalo Wild Wings. Actually, okay, the Lemon Pepper 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:08.960 that's where I'm at me. Man, No, I know all 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:12.760 the sauzes. But that was when when I got into 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:15.880 Georgia and when I had my one bedroom apartment, and 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:18.320 I made up my mind, I'm not going to the bars. 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:20.440 That's not where we're gonna find me on Saturday or Sunday. 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:24.280 I'm actually gonna be making jewelry and um, chilling in 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:27.000 my one bedroom. That's when I started to get my 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:29.760 little creative you know journey journey going on. And I 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:32.680 just had so many people at the time, you know, 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:34.680 hit me up over social media and just say like 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:37.359 you're so talented, and like I started getting this influx 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:41.080 of comments about how creative I was. And so again, 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:44.480 the people you know that are reacting to that really 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:49.240 gave me the confidence. And um, the Renews and their daughter, Whitney, Um, 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:51.200 gave me a lot of confidence too, and they just 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:55.240 were always pouring so much into me, and um, yeah, 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:57.720 I just gave me the confidence to even start anything creative. 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:00.840 You know? Why did that? Is the thing? The confidence? 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:04.680 It's so many people can't do it because it's having confidence. 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:06.880 I feel like this is something that I love talking 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:09.280 about with people like you, who are such role models 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:14.200 of confidence. Is having confidence takes confidence? Yeah, it doesn't 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:16.040 just come to you, Like you have to decide to 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:18.320 just be confident. How did you decide that you wanted 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:20.360 to succeed and you're gonna do this and make it 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:23.400 a priority instead of just feel like, screw it, I'm 0:16:23.440 --> 0:16:27.000 just gonna float. How did you like laser being this? Yeah? 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:31.920 For sure. Um, I honestly have to daily meditate on 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:36.440 the fact that I am my worst critic and when 0:16:36.520 --> 0:16:40.320 I start to create all of these scenarios about you know, 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:44.120 because confidence, you know, comes from you know, fearfulness or 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:47.200 lack of confidence comes from fearfulness, and why are we 0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:49.280 why would we we be fearful not to have confidence 0:16:49.320 --> 0:16:53.240 because of what everyone else thinks, you know. And um, 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:56.440 confidence also takes vulnerability, you know, Like we've we've talked 0:16:56.480 --> 0:16:58.720 on that, you know. And that's why some people who 0:16:58.760 --> 0:17:01.000 have like the hardest shell, like, okay, they're actually the 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:04.080 most vulnerable because it is so hard to be vulnerable. 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:06.800 It's just like walking out there with your heart with 0:17:06.960 --> 0:17:15.600 no protection. She's like, I want to Vulnerability is a 0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:18.440 skill set on itself. It has vulnerable Okay. So now 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:19.840 that we're talking about this, I feel like I'm like 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:22.680 figuring some stuff out. We both love Benet Brown, right, Okay, 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:27.399 Burnet Brown, Yeah, I love you girl. So yeah, now 0:17:27.440 --> 0:17:29.120 that we're like talking about this and figuring it out, 0:17:29.200 --> 0:17:32.200 I think that confidence honestly comes from being vulnerable because 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:35.120 when you step out whatever you do in life, whether 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:39.200 you're a model or a nurse or a mom or whatever, 0:17:39.240 --> 0:17:41.600 it is like you have to be confident in that role, 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:44.080 you know, and that trust yourself, right, and that's being 0:17:44.240 --> 0:17:46.159 very vulnerable to like step out and say this is 0:17:46.200 --> 0:17:48.560 who I am and this is you know what my 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:51.040 life is and because of what happens if it fails, 0:17:51.040 --> 0:17:53.560 and then it's like, Okay, I owned it and it's 0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:55.679 not a failure because I put And that's another thing 0:17:55.680 --> 0:17:58.359 I have to tell myself. It's not a failure if 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:00.000 you put yourself out there and you give it your heart. 0:18:00.160 --> 0:18:03.400 It's whatever happens is a great experience. It has to be. 0:18:03.520 --> 0:18:06.800 It can't be like a failure because you can't get 0:18:06.880 --> 0:18:08.960 You can't let yourself get discouraged, even though you can, 0:18:09.040 --> 0:18:12.160 you're human. It's just like I just think putting yourself 0:18:12.160 --> 0:18:13.960 out there and going for it. Like, how did you 0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:16.160 feel when you started Tribe Kelly, because this is now 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:20.719 a huge operation. You have two storefronts, one in Nashville, 0:18:20.760 --> 0:18:23.600 like right in the epicenter of Nashville. It's freaking beautiful. 0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:26.960 And the way you have it all designed, your vibe, 0:18:27.160 --> 0:18:30.560 your your denim and your special touches that you do 0:18:30.560 --> 0:18:32.280 with your dinnam, the way you get it all cut, 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:36.840 Like you are so meticulous about this brand and it's 0:18:36.880 --> 0:18:39.879 so uniquely you and your husband Brian, Like it's so y'all, 0:18:39.880 --> 0:18:42.520 there's nothing else like it. But how did you step 0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:46.280 into that and create that and decide like, shoot, okay, 0:18:46.400 --> 0:18:49.320 here I go. Yeah it was that's not a little 0:18:49.760 --> 0:18:52.840 beast at this point. And um, we're still on the 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:56.359 upper clom, you know. It's it's not like we're like 0:18:56.720 --> 0:19:00.560 hugely grossly successful enough like how this team to like 0:19:00.680 --> 0:19:03.040 handle it all? I mean it really is like all 0:19:03.080 --> 0:19:05.080 of me I have. I have so many hats on 0:19:05.280 --> 0:19:11.760 right now. Um, what's your right now? Let's see founder, um, CEO, CEO, 0:19:12.359 --> 0:19:15.280 you know, operations manager. I'm also doing a lot of accounting, 0:19:15.280 --> 0:19:18.560 which thank you Lord for that. Um, you know, I'm 0:19:18.560 --> 0:19:20.679 managing a lot of people. I mean I have how 0:19:20.720 --> 0:19:23.600 do you manage people? Because that is such a special thing, 0:19:23.960 --> 0:19:26.560 so many people do it differently. It's it's a thing. 0:19:26.640 --> 0:19:30.560 And I'm learning daily and I honestly draw inspiration from 0:19:30.600 --> 0:19:33.520 tons of like literature that I've read. And um, I'm 0:19:33.560 --> 0:19:35.800 like a little dork on like books. But like I 0:19:35.880 --> 0:19:38.000 love going into Barnes and Noble and going straight to 0:19:38.080 --> 0:19:41.080 like the self help or like the business improvement section, 0:19:41.160 --> 0:19:44.320 and um, you know, I just try to pour into 0:19:44.359 --> 0:19:47.119 my employees like what I'll learn, you know, through these 0:19:47.280 --> 0:19:49.880 these books that I'm reading. Um, but yeah, managing people 0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:52.440 is like a whole a whole different thing. I figure 0:19:52.440 --> 0:19:55.119 out how to get people inspired right and like and 0:19:55.160 --> 0:19:57.639 so to to take it back a minute, Um, you 0:19:57.680 --> 0:20:00.560 know it went from me and Brian being on a 0:20:00.600 --> 0:20:03.119 tour bus. You know too, now we have so the 0:20:03.200 --> 0:20:06.760 dream just came from being on tour. Yeah. So basically, um, 0:20:06.800 --> 0:20:09.120 you know, I had my Etsy account in college and 0:20:09.200 --> 0:20:11.400 Brian and I got married. And where did y'all meet 0:20:11.440 --> 0:20:14.639 in Nashville? Are you in Nashville? We so, Brian and I. 0:20:14.760 --> 0:20:16.240 This is a great story. So we may need to 0:20:16.280 --> 0:20:19.560 hit that story after you remember it all. Can you 0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:21.239 make it awful of back together? Yeah? I can make 0:20:21.240 --> 0:20:24.840 it allful together. Okay, So triv Kelly was definitely born 0:20:24.920 --> 0:20:28.040 on the tour bus. Um obviously had the creative spirit 0:20:28.119 --> 0:20:30.840 from my Etty account. We got married at the end 0:20:30.840 --> 0:20:33.679 of my college semester. So literally I finished college and 0:20:33.680 --> 0:20:37.399 I went straight on the tour bus. So I was, 0:20:37.520 --> 0:20:38.960 you know, on a bus at the time. We didn't 0:20:39.000 --> 0:20:40.800 have our own bus, you know, I was on the 0:20:40.800 --> 0:20:44.159 bus with you know, Tyler and Hayley. Well actually Hayley 0:20:44.240 --> 0:20:46.280 they haven't met, hadn't met at that point. But um, 0:20:46.320 --> 0:20:50.200 Tyler and like tons of other guys, and I knew 0:20:50.240 --> 0:20:52.840 I had to do something, Like what were you feeling 0:20:52.880 --> 0:20:55.320 itching to do something? I mean even just have a job. 0:20:55.359 --> 0:20:56.879 Like I was like, I've got to do something. I 0:20:56.920 --> 0:20:58.280 can't I don't know what to do with my hands. 0:20:59.720 --> 0:21:01.840 So even though it's so fun to be traveling and stuff, 0:21:01.880 --> 0:21:04.320 You're like, Okay, I want to put my creative juice somewhere. Yeah. 0:21:04.359 --> 0:21:06.399 Like I knew that I had to put something out 0:21:06.440 --> 0:21:09.240 into the world. Um so yeah, we started writing the 0:21:09.240 --> 0:21:12.880 blueprints for Trapp Kelly. Um how did you pick fashion 0:21:12.920 --> 0:21:15.439 and clothes? I mean, I guess it came from Jewelry 0:21:15.440 --> 0:21:17.639 because Jwelry was my first love, and then on my 0:21:17.720 --> 0:21:21.119 Etsy account. Um, I did do custom T shirts and stuff. 0:21:21.160 --> 0:21:24.240 So I did custom like drawings and designs on T shirts. 0:21:24.240 --> 0:21:25.359 But I was like more of like a one of 0:21:25.359 --> 0:21:27.919 the con type of thing. Um So I knew I 0:21:27.920 --> 0:21:30.199 had to figure out something like that I could like 0:21:30.240 --> 0:21:34.600 manufacture because I can't sew every single piece. Um So yeah, 0:21:34.640 --> 0:21:36.600 I knew that. Um you know, we had a platform, 0:21:36.720 --> 0:21:39.679 and um I knew that. You know, Brian was interested 0:21:39.720 --> 0:21:43.280 in clothing and we just started talking and we just talked. 0:21:43.359 --> 0:21:45.879 I feel like for like months about this, just talked 0:21:45.920 --> 0:21:47.240 like what do we want to do, Like do we 0:21:47.280 --> 0:21:50.120 want to do a small collection? Like what's the name 0:21:50.160 --> 0:21:53.320 and all of all of that jazz? And um, how 0:21:53.359 --> 0:21:55.360 do you catch those creative ideas? Like you know, when 0:21:55.400 --> 0:21:58.520 you like actually materialize a creative idea? I kind of 0:21:58.560 --> 0:22:00.359 think of it was like just like floating around in 0:22:00.400 --> 0:22:03.439 the ether. How do you actually like know when to 0:22:03.480 --> 0:22:06.080 grab one and pull it down and like harness it. Well, 0:22:06.119 --> 0:22:09.840 my husband has an amazing like ear an amazing ah 0:22:10.040 --> 0:22:13.680 for he likes to call him um smashes. So like 0:22:13.880 --> 0:22:17.159 he is like he can hear something and honestly, I 0:22:17.200 --> 0:22:19.000 just trust his opinion and he can just say, oh, 0:22:19.040 --> 0:22:20.879 that's good and that's not good, like that's ahead or 0:22:20.880 --> 0:22:23.800 not yes, Like with like he can hear a song 0:22:23.840 --> 0:22:26.080 and be like, oh that's an a monest like it's good, 0:22:26.119 --> 0:22:28.120 but like it's not gonna go number one. Like he's 0:22:28.160 --> 0:22:32.320 just very like confident in his like creative opinions. Okay, 0:22:32.359 --> 0:22:34.439 well you know what, I think that's half of the battle, 0:22:34.720 --> 0:22:37.320 it is. And so again for people that you surround 0:22:37.320 --> 0:22:40.280 yourself with, he was just so supportive of the fact 0:22:40.320 --> 0:22:45.520 that I wish everyone could see Sunday right now, she's 0:22:45.560 --> 0:22:48.320 like obsessed with Caroline. She's usually never liked this. She 0:22:48.359 --> 0:22:51.880 knows I'm a dog. She feels the vibe. Um. So yeah, 0:22:52.040 --> 0:22:55.520 just having that voice of Brian um. And he would 0:22:55.520 --> 0:22:57.119 tell me like if I said, oh, what about this 0:22:57.200 --> 0:22:58.879 name for the clothing line, He's like, ah, you know, 0:22:59.000 --> 0:23:00.960 it's it's good, but it's not a hit. It's not 0:23:01.200 --> 0:23:03.399 it's not a hit. And so I was like, you know, 0:23:03.440 --> 0:23:05.720 I want our family name to be involved. I wanted 0:23:05.720 --> 0:23:08.240 to feel very community. I wanted to be worldwide, like 0:23:08.320 --> 0:23:10.720 I want people to feel when they buy a piece 0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:13.239 of clothing that they're a part of this family. So 0:23:13.280 --> 0:23:17.840 we kicked around things like team and squad and all 0:23:17.840 --> 0:23:20.360 these different things, and I was like, well, I'm Native American, 0:23:20.440 --> 0:23:22.280 and like we have a t P. You know what 0:23:22.359 --> 0:23:25.479 about tribe and tribe is such a universal word. You know, 0:23:25.840 --> 0:23:28.080 it's not just about the Native Americans. It can be 0:23:28.119 --> 0:23:31.159 any trip like your tribe of girl, your community. Yeah, 0:23:31.200 --> 0:23:34.360 and so, and then I came up with it. I will, 0:23:34.400 --> 0:23:36.840 I will take credit for it, but I said, Trump, Kelly, 0:23:36.920 --> 0:23:41.480 that's us troup Kelly, and he just automatically said, that's 0:23:41.480 --> 0:23:43.399 a that's a hit. That's a snash right there, and 0:23:43.480 --> 0:23:46.320 so we knew it when we had the name. We 0:23:46.400 --> 0:23:52.439 just started going, do you not just feel the electricity everywhere? 0:23:52.560 --> 0:23:54.800 When she said when we had the name, we knew it, 0:23:54.840 --> 0:23:57.600 and we just started going, Oh my gosh. That just 0:23:57.680 --> 0:24:00.760 makes me so inspired to be around people and to 0:24:00.920 --> 0:24:03.399 know people and to hear their stories, like Brittany and 0:24:03.480 --> 0:24:05.840 Brian how they came up with Tripe Kelly and how 0:24:05.840 --> 0:24:09.960 this idea and brainstorm has launched now into this incredible company. 0:24:10.160 --> 0:24:13.120 Just hearing about all the dedication, the time, the sweat, 0:24:13.160 --> 0:24:15.199 the blood that tears that takes to build this company 0:24:15.240 --> 0:24:16.920 makes me want to get busy on my own dreams 0:24:16.920 --> 0:24:19.280 because she's so motivating. So for all my people on 0:24:19.320 --> 0:24:21.280 the go who maybe need a little pick me up 0:24:21.280 --> 0:24:23.640 but don't want to throw back some caffeine, a cup 0:24:23.680 --> 0:24:25.919 of coffee or a soft drink, you gotta try out 0:24:26.000 --> 0:24:27.560 verb bars. 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Okay, here's Brittany talking about why 0:24:58.400 --> 0:25:00.600 it is so crucial to get the name and the 0:25:00.680 --> 0:25:03.840 title locked in and then how you can soar from 0:25:03.880 --> 0:25:08.200 there as she did with Tribe Kelly. Why does it 0:25:08.280 --> 0:25:10.199 when you get that piece locked in, it's like you 0:25:10.240 --> 0:25:12.200 need just like just like a title, you know what 0:25:12.240 --> 0:25:13.760 I mean. It's like you gotta know where you're going 0:25:13.800 --> 0:25:16.040 with it, right, And so we knew the vibe, and 0:25:16.359 --> 0:25:18.600 we knew we wanted to have everything manufactured in the US. 0:25:18.640 --> 0:25:21.000 We had all these missions that, okay, tell me your mission, 0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:25.280 and why was importantly stuck with them? Because rats behind 0:25:25.280 --> 0:25:27.600 me about a mission like that? Yeah for sure, I mean, 0:25:27.920 --> 0:25:30.639 no judgment, it's each of their own, absolutely, But to 0:25:30.720 --> 0:25:35.320 you like this is something that's important? Why right? Um? Honestly? 0:25:35.440 --> 0:25:38.399 Because I had crafted so many things with my own hands, 0:25:38.640 --> 0:25:41.280 and I had done so much research even before I 0:25:41.280 --> 0:25:43.680 wanted to start the clothing line UM. And I had 0:25:43.720 --> 0:25:45.639 heard a lot of things in the fashion industry that 0:25:45.720 --> 0:25:49.320 I just just didn't settle with my spirit. Um. And 0:25:49.359 --> 0:25:51.719 there's you're good at listening to your spirit, yeah, and 0:25:51.760 --> 0:25:54.080 there's just some things you can't turn the other cheek to. 0:25:54.240 --> 0:25:56.280 So when your spirit is acting up and saying like 0:25:56.359 --> 0:25:59.560 nooop knoop, now what does that feel like? Oh it 0:25:59.600 --> 0:26:02.080 feels I have to like hop on board like a 0:26:02.200 --> 0:26:03.600 sets and if you want to throw up, if you 0:26:03.640 --> 0:26:06.560 don't do it, yeah, yeah, for sure. I mean. And 0:26:06.640 --> 0:26:09.440 what I'm talking about exactly is the manufacturing and UM, 0:26:09.520 --> 0:26:12.000 I just looked into all all my options like where 0:26:12.000 --> 0:26:15.560 can I manufacture? Where can I make this count? Um? 0:26:15.640 --> 0:26:18.120 And I had taken a couple of trips mission trips 0:26:18.119 --> 0:26:21.280 to Guatemala and UM the beginning of my college career 0:26:21.320 --> 0:26:23.600 and had seen the women there and how they made 0:26:23.760 --> 0:26:26.520 UM their traditional clothing, like their wee pills and all 0:26:26.520 --> 0:26:28.560 these different things, and how they were sitting there with 0:26:28.600 --> 0:26:31.719 their hands and really doing it and they were doing 0:26:31.760 --> 0:26:33.720 it because they were passionate, and they were doing it 0:26:33.760 --> 0:26:36.320 for their families and to clothe their families. And um, 0:26:36.359 --> 0:26:38.439 I just realized how much of a craft it was. 0:26:38.600 --> 0:26:41.640 And I just realized that someone that's taking their time 0:26:41.680 --> 0:26:44.280 to craft something for me like needs to get paid fairly. 0:26:44.560 --> 0:26:47.399 You know, I don't want to to send my brand 0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:50.119 overseas and not know whose hands it's going to and 0:26:50.119 --> 0:26:52.760 not know if if it's a child's hands, or not 0:26:52.880 --> 0:26:56.080 knowing if that that family is getting paid, because that 0:26:56.200 --> 0:27:00.240 is the dark reality of overseas sometimes. Um. And so 0:27:00.320 --> 0:27:03.040 for me to be able to step in my manufacturers 0:27:03.440 --> 0:27:06.200 and literally see and meet all of like our sewers, 0:27:06.600 --> 0:27:09.520 it brings me such like comfort and joy and to 0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:11.879 know that they're getting paid like fair wages and they 0:27:11.880 --> 0:27:14.560 can actually feed their families. And when I send them 0:27:14.600 --> 0:27:17.600 thousands of items to so like even though I could 0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:22.080 send it overseas for way way, way way cheaper, Um, 0:27:22.119 --> 0:27:25.600 it just brings such a I don't know, I feel 0:27:25.600 --> 0:27:28.520 like I'm doing something also you know that's that's right, 0:27:28.600 --> 0:27:30.640 And where does that come from? Like, where does that 0:27:31.080 --> 0:27:35.040 trait come from? That sense of just you're doing what 0:27:35.080 --> 0:27:37.119 you feel is right, even though you don't have to, 0:27:37.280 --> 0:27:39.199 and no one would judge you if you didn't, but 0:27:39.320 --> 0:27:42.600 you still want to do that, Like, where does that 0:27:42.640 --> 0:27:44.879 come from? And how are you able to stand so 0:27:45.040 --> 0:27:47.800 strong in that? Yeah, I honestly think it comes from 0:27:47.840 --> 0:27:50.280 how I was raised. Um, I was raised my grandma. 0:27:50.359 --> 0:27:52.200 What were you taught? What were the what was your 0:27:52.200 --> 0:27:56.320 life motto? Like? Your grandmother taught you don't trust anybody? Actually, 0:27:58.080 --> 0:28:00.960 um no, she um. She was a very self sufficient 0:28:01.320 --> 0:28:05.240 be self sufficient. She always told me to um funny enough, 0:28:05.280 --> 0:28:07.320 I mean she didn't she obviously never met Brian, but 0:28:07.359 --> 0:28:10.240 she always told me to never depend on a man. Yeah, 0:28:10.320 --> 0:28:12.720 but you and Brian. Actually, that is something I would 0:28:12.760 --> 0:28:15.560 like to talk about because y'all and Haley and Tyler, 0:28:15.680 --> 0:28:19.439 the Florida Georgia line uh brand in general, y'all have 0:28:19.480 --> 0:28:23.639 made marriage cool and I feel like y'all were sort 0:28:23.680 --> 0:28:26.320 of the mavericks of this. I mean a lot. There's 0:28:26.320 --> 0:28:28.320 been a lot of couples in country music who are 0:28:28.359 --> 0:28:31.760 really awesome and embrace their marriage. But it was like, 0:28:32.119 --> 0:28:34.640 wham bam in your in your face from the beginning 0:28:34.680 --> 0:28:38.480 that these men loved their wives and y'all were a 0:28:38.800 --> 0:28:42.720 foursome unit in a power couple. How So that's like 0:28:42.840 --> 0:28:44.680 never trust a man, but you have a man who 0:28:44.680 --> 0:28:47.800 wants you right next to him? How did y'all all 0:28:48.240 --> 0:28:51.720 make that kind of decision because not everyone has that 0:28:51.760 --> 0:28:54.880 kind of strong marriage and is pressure having being like 0:28:55.200 --> 0:28:58.719 goals for people, like marriage goals and life goals, Like 0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:01.000 how is all that don't make that decision to be 0:29:01.040 --> 0:29:04.000 like that or just how it always was? Yeah, Brian 0:29:04.160 --> 0:29:07.240 is is a work of art. He is like such 0:29:07.240 --> 0:29:09.680 an amazing man, and um, I think his dad and 0:29:09.720 --> 0:29:11.400 his parents have a lot to do with it, and 0:29:11.400 --> 0:29:13.480 and the way he was taught. And I just remember 0:29:13.480 --> 0:29:16.360 in the beginning, Um, I remember when we first started 0:29:16.440 --> 0:29:19.160 dating and we weren't married, and someone on the team 0:29:19.200 --> 0:29:21.600 had said, you know, you know, Brittany can't walk the 0:29:21.640 --> 0:29:23.959 carpet with you, and you know, y'all gotta look like 0:29:24.000 --> 0:29:28.160 this this single like hot, do it? You know? And 0:29:28.800 --> 0:29:31.120 I remember not taking like offense to it at all. 0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:33.440 And I was like, okay, cool, Like I'll just be 0:29:33.520 --> 0:29:36.840 in the back room or whatever y'all want, wherever y'all 0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:38.840 want to stick me, like I don't really care about 0:29:38.840 --> 0:29:42.080 all the glam in the band. But um I remember 0:29:42.160 --> 0:29:45.600 asking him later like just so innocently and just factual, 0:29:45.680 --> 0:29:48.120 like well, wow, why can I be on the carpet 0:29:48.160 --> 0:29:50.600 with you, like, what's why does it make you look bad? Like? 0:29:50.840 --> 0:29:53.600 And I had mentioned something I don't remember the exact 0:29:53.800 --> 0:29:56.080 how I exactly said it, but I was like, you know, 0:29:56.160 --> 0:30:00.320 women seeing like men like if if they are, you know, 0:30:01.200 --> 0:30:03.000 looking up to you, as like men that they would 0:30:03.000 --> 0:30:04.400 want to be with, Like when they can see a 0:30:04.440 --> 0:30:07.480 man like you, guys love on a woman that's just 0:30:07.960 --> 0:30:12.360 from middle Georgia that you know, isn't any crazy thing special, 0:30:12.440 --> 0:30:15.240 like the most specialty, but you know what I mean, 0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:17.719 like the middle of nowhere. I mean, it's not like 0:30:17.760 --> 0:30:20.200 I'm I was in Nashville and like in the industry 0:30:20.320 --> 0:30:23.440 or like anything like that. I mean, I came from nothing, 0:30:23.520 --> 0:30:26.120 you know, And for him to like love on someone 0:30:26.160 --> 0:30:28.880 like that, I think it's really like inspiring to young 0:30:28.880 --> 0:30:32.120 women because it's like, not only can like you know, 0:30:33.240 --> 0:30:35.800 you know, a man that's the CEO of you know, 0:30:35.840 --> 0:30:37.760 a business in your town love his wife, but a 0:30:37.880 --> 0:30:40.000 rock star can love his wife too, you know. And 0:30:40.040 --> 0:30:43.160 it's especially when rock stars like before this time for 0:30:43.440 --> 0:30:46.160 period kind of have bad reputations of doing whatever they want, 0:30:46.400 --> 0:30:50.720 you know, and that has just never been y'all's vibe. 0:30:50.800 --> 0:30:53.680 And if y'all have made marriage sexy. Like your last video, 0:30:53.760 --> 0:30:57.600 you're like in a bathtub. I mean, how turn my 0:30:57.720 --> 0:31:00.040 hair black? By the way, that bathtub during my a 0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:03.240 all the way black, but it was like black water, 0:31:03.320 --> 0:31:05.720 and I had like black Diana and I just went 0:31:05.760 --> 0:31:08.120 straight in with the blonde hair and I had to 0:31:08.160 --> 0:31:10.680 get some color correction. But no, but I love that 0:31:10.720 --> 0:31:12.920 and I admire that, and I totally agree with you. 0:31:12.960 --> 0:31:16.640 It's like I love F g L even more as 0:31:16.680 --> 0:31:20.320 a duo and as an act because of the people 0:31:20.360 --> 0:31:22.520 that all of you guys are, because it's like you 0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:24.200 want the full package. I just don't want someone who's 0:31:24.200 --> 0:31:25.920 got a flashy career but they suck as a human. 0:31:26.280 --> 0:31:29.000 Who wants to be that? Yeah, I mean in the beginning, 0:31:29.560 --> 0:31:32.959 Haley and I definitely were on some music video shoots 0:31:32.960 --> 0:31:35.240 where other girls were like or what do they call it, 0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:38.840 like the star or whatever they call the girl parts 0:31:38.920 --> 0:31:41.760 or whatever. He had the lead woman or whatever, and um, 0:31:42.560 --> 0:31:45.320 I just remember, you know, Haley and I were just 0:31:45.640 --> 0:31:48.320 very innocently just like, well, why can't it be us? 0:31:48.320 --> 0:31:51.680 Like we're the lead? Sunday says, why can't I be 0:31:51.720 --> 0:31:57.200 the lead of Sunday Sunday, And that's a great question. 0:31:57.440 --> 0:32:00.200 So yeah, in the beginning, I mean, Haley, no, I 0:32:00.200 --> 0:32:02.920 didn't mind, like we're definitely like rot or die, like 0:32:02.960 --> 0:32:05.640 we'll sit here and and watch the whole you know, 0:32:06.160 --> 0:32:08.360 thing go down. But I guess we were just so 0:32:08.440 --> 0:32:10.960 innocently like, well, I mean, y'all love us, and like 0:32:11.320 --> 0:32:14.720 in reality, like we're doing We're we're like living this 0:32:14.760 --> 0:32:17.680 song out, you know what I mean. And so it's like, well, 0:32:17.680 --> 0:32:20.520 if we're in reality living this song out, and all 0:32:20.560 --> 0:32:22.840 of your fans, you know, now that we have social media, 0:32:22.880 --> 0:32:25.640 are actually seeing like we're together. I mean, it's kind 0:32:25.640 --> 0:32:28.000 of confusing, I feel like to this fan. Yeah, to 0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:30.080 the fan base, if like they can now that we 0:32:30.120 --> 0:32:31.840 have social media, you know, the rock stars back that 0:32:31.920 --> 0:32:34.280 they didn't have social media and now that reality TV 0:32:34.400 --> 0:32:36.680 and real life is so much more interesting than like 0:32:36.920 --> 0:32:39.400 the fake life, right Yeah. And then like as a fan, 0:32:39.520 --> 0:32:42.480 I would assume, like, you know, you see this rock 0:32:42.560 --> 0:32:45.680 star that you're you know, you love their music, you 0:32:45.720 --> 0:32:48.760 see him with his wife or his girlfriend even online, 0:32:48.840 --> 0:32:51.160 but then you just see another random just girl that 0:32:51.160 --> 0:32:54.840 they've picked. It's just like huh, you know, it's not 0:32:54.880 --> 0:32:57.440 as intense and like electrifying, Like when you know they're 0:32:57.440 --> 0:32:59.400 really doing that stuff in real life, You're like, oh 0:32:59.440 --> 0:33:02.200 my god, I can feel that. So I just feel 0:33:02.200 --> 0:33:04.800 like it's real, you know. So I feel like you 0:33:04.800 --> 0:33:06.920 guys are on the forefront of this big movement though. 0:33:07.120 --> 0:33:09.040 So how has it been for you to ride this 0:33:09.080 --> 0:33:12.600 wave and what have you learned about like the entertainment machine, 0:33:12.680 --> 0:33:15.280 the same machine? What are what are the highs of it? 0:33:15.320 --> 0:33:17.360 What are the lows that you've experienced, because it's all 0:33:17.400 --> 0:33:22.160 the spectrum. Yeah for sure, Um, let's see, yeah, it's 0:33:22.200 --> 0:33:24.080 it's been a it's been a rod for sure. It's 0:33:24.120 --> 0:33:26.840 definitely something too. You went fast, like when Crews came out, 0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:28.920 it was a rocket ship. Yeah. I mean when Brian 0:33:29.000 --> 0:33:33.720 and I got married, which was two thousand thirteen, Um, yeah, 0:33:33.800 --> 0:33:36.040 it was in the middle of it all, and it 0:33:36.080 --> 0:33:38.720 was it was intense. And when I say intense, it's 0:33:38.760 --> 0:33:43.240 just time intensive. Um all the time. We weren't ever 0:33:43.280 --> 0:33:45.760 at home, you know what I mean. And the most 0:33:45.800 --> 0:33:48.400 important thing in this industry is you have to create 0:33:48.440 --> 0:33:51.200 your own normal, you know what I mean. And we 0:33:51.240 --> 0:33:53.280 would just have to create our own normal weather that 0:33:53.360 --> 0:33:56.440 be hey, babe, Like let's kick everybody off the bus 0:33:56.440 --> 0:33:58.040 and have a little date night, you know what I mean, 0:33:58.200 --> 0:34:00.400 Or like we have to go to dinner in a 0:34:00.400 --> 0:34:01.960 movie in this city, Like we can't hang out with 0:34:02.000 --> 0:34:04.480 everybody afterwards, you know, because that's another thing. There's always 0:34:04.480 --> 0:34:08.000 people around. There's always tons, and they're amazing people. There's 0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:11.320 always stuff to do, hang out with. You could forget 0:34:11.480 --> 0:34:14.320 to be like have an intimate night with your spouse, 0:34:14.400 --> 0:34:16.400 not like intimate, but let's like have a me time, No, 0:34:16.600 --> 0:34:18.439 for sure. I mean even like there were so many 0:34:18.560 --> 0:34:21.120 nights that, um, the four of us like snuck off 0:34:21.120 --> 0:34:22.640 and went to a movie, you know what I mean. 0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:28.280 And that's just so important important in this fast paced machine. 0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:31.239 I love that's how you put it. It is a 0:34:31.280 --> 0:34:37.799 machine because these two you know, amazingly talented young men 0:34:38.000 --> 0:34:40.359 just got put into a machine and with all their 0:34:40.400 --> 0:34:43.239 talents and all of the management's talents and all of 0:34:43.280 --> 0:34:45.640 the team's talents, it just came out on the other 0:34:45.680 --> 0:34:48.640 side as like I mean, surreal and like rock star, 0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:52.279 you know, and it's just it's it's definitely a wave 0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:54.759 you have to ride and you definitely have I love 0:34:54.760 --> 0:34:57.439 that I'm majored in psychologist because it really helped me 0:34:57.800 --> 0:35:01.040 through all these feelings as I'm feeling so many right 0:35:01.160 --> 0:35:04.400 and there's a lot of people that that come through 0:35:04.440 --> 0:35:07.200 your path and and they simply only want to talk 0:35:07.239 --> 0:35:09.480 to your husband and they disregard you, and so you 0:35:09.520 --> 0:35:12.880 have to as how do you navigate that? Do you 0:35:12.960 --> 0:35:16.319 learn just to not take it personal or something? Yes? Yes, yes, yes, 0:35:16.600 --> 0:35:21.840 Um the Four Agreements? That book is great. Yeah, before 0:35:21.840 --> 0:35:25.320 I read that, I really struggled. Um, you know, there's 0:35:25.360 --> 0:35:29.560 been definitely instances where, um, you know, women have treated 0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:31.680 me really ugly or pushed me out of the way 0:35:31.880 --> 0:35:34.120 to to get to my husband and different things like that. 0:35:34.239 --> 0:35:37.240 And in the beginning, it really hurt my feelings. Um, 0:35:37.320 --> 0:35:39.759 but what happened then? How did you how did you 0:35:39.960 --> 0:35:43.239 make a I just really feel like I transformed in 0:35:43.280 --> 0:35:46.440 the past couple of years. And um, the Four Agreements. 0:35:46.480 --> 0:35:48.319 I hate to just blame it all on that, but 0:35:48.360 --> 0:35:52.000 that really but honestly, I mean there's an agreement in there. 0:35:52.000 --> 0:35:54.720 It says don't take anything personal, and and I would 0:35:54.719 --> 0:35:57.520 just think when that happened, you know, like this may 0:35:57.520 --> 0:35:59.600 be the highlight of that lady's life, you know, getting 0:35:59.600 --> 0:36:01.319 to go there and talk you know, she you know, 0:36:01.760 --> 0:36:04.239 she literally I cannot take that personal has nothing to 0:36:04.280 --> 0:36:07.920 do with me, you know, she's just having her Yeah, 0:36:08.400 --> 0:36:10.360 And so how did you decide to make that switch? 0:36:10.440 --> 0:36:12.920 Because I remember when I kind of switched to a 0:36:12.960 --> 0:36:15.719 new way of thinking, It's like, Okay, nobody's really ought 0:36:15.760 --> 0:36:18.360 to get me, right. I don't think the people that 0:36:18.400 --> 0:36:20.920 I'm like love the most aren't so like I just 0:36:20.960 --> 0:36:25.080 gotta retrain my brain or something. It's like it's like 0:36:25.200 --> 0:36:28.760 it's it's training. It's training your brain in the moment 0:36:28.800 --> 0:36:32.319 when you start to feel that anxiety creep up, you 0:36:32.400 --> 0:36:35.840 really have to rid this reacting and anger always the 0:36:35.880 --> 0:36:38.239 first to come right, you know, because it's like when 0:36:38.239 --> 0:36:41.319 you do insecure or fear or whatnot, you've put you 0:36:41.320 --> 0:36:44.200 put your defenses up. And I've really learned to like 0:36:44.320 --> 0:36:47.399 rod the wave and I've actually like loved laughing at 0:36:47.400 --> 0:36:49.800 myself about it because I'm like, you are making something 0:36:49.920 --> 0:36:52.239 out of nothing, and then you realize if you just 0:36:52.320 --> 0:36:54.560 kind of skip over it and let the wave pass, 0:36:55.280 --> 0:36:58.160 I'm like, man and my past I would have ridden 0:36:58.200 --> 0:37:00.160 that wave and I would have just like gotten suck 0:37:00.200 --> 0:37:01.879 on it and maybe been there for like a day, 0:37:02.320 --> 0:37:05.040 maybe even a week, maybe like just redirected the whole 0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:08.000 like conversation and vibe of like me and Michael because 0:37:08.040 --> 0:37:12.879 I just decided to go down this rabbit conversation. Yes, 0:37:12.960 --> 0:37:14.759 I've had plenty of those days and those were like 0:37:15.239 --> 0:37:18.920 my younger years and and yeah, just really And I 0:37:18.920 --> 0:37:21.160 think it comes back to confidence. And it's like my 0:37:21.239 --> 0:37:24.600 husband has given me so much confidence in our marriage, 0:37:24.719 --> 0:37:27.560 Like I don't think twice, Like if the most beautiful 0:37:27.640 --> 0:37:30.800 girl in the world is talking to him, I legit 0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:33.880 at this point in my life, I'm like, that's so sweet. 0:37:33.920 --> 0:37:36.439 She's just a big fan. Like I don't I don't care. 0:37:36.560 --> 0:37:39.320 It's like I'm so confident in him, and heat the 0:37:39.360 --> 0:37:41.840 way he looks at me, even when he's in conversations 0:37:41.880 --> 0:37:45.000 like that, it's like I know he's going home with me, 0:37:45.200 --> 0:37:48.520 Like come on, why would I create something out of nothing? 0:37:48.560 --> 0:37:50.800 And so it has a lot to do with maturity 0:37:50.840 --> 0:37:54.120 to you know, and trust of marriage. Yeah, I think 0:37:54.239 --> 0:37:57.799 that's the bottom line, Like you both don't give each 0:37:57.840 --> 0:37:59.919 other reason not to trust each other. Yeah, and when 0:38:00.080 --> 0:38:04.839 you've made this this really deep emotional like agreement and 0:38:04.920 --> 0:38:09.000 you really know you're on the same like a page 0:38:09.120 --> 0:38:12.239 connection wavelength, whatever you want to call it, it's really 0:38:12.280 --> 0:38:14.920 electric and it's like we can read each other's minds, 0:38:15.000 --> 0:38:17.000 you know what I mean in situations like that. And 0:38:17.000 --> 0:38:20.239 and don't get me wrong, like there's the flip, the 0:38:20.320 --> 0:38:23.120 script has been flipped when when men come and talk 0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:25.120 to me like heck, yeah, look at you, I can 0:38:25.200 --> 0:38:28.520 give Braun the look like this guy's hilarious, you know, 0:38:28.600 --> 0:38:31.839 and he just he's confident in me that you know, 0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:35.200 I'm not anything other than his wife. You know, what 0:38:35.280 --> 0:38:37.480 have you learned about marriage? Because I feel like I've 0:38:37.480 --> 0:38:39.520 been married now four and a half years and I 0:38:39.640 --> 0:38:42.200 just to me, marriage is not what I thought it 0:38:42.280 --> 0:38:45.279 was going into it. Because now that I'm married, I'm like, 0:38:45.400 --> 0:38:47.720 this is so much more than Oh, I think you're hot. 0:38:47.960 --> 0:38:52.000 I like your personality, we get along. When you make 0:38:52.040 --> 0:38:55.000 a life with someone, you really do morph into that person. 0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:57.960 And I feel like I have just been molded in 0:38:57.960 --> 0:38:59.759 a way that I didn't know it was possible. Just 0:38:59.800 --> 0:39:02.000 make makes you chip off certain pieces of you that 0:39:02.040 --> 0:39:04.759 you didn't need or something. Absolutely it's like holding a 0:39:04.800 --> 0:39:06.360 mirror up in front of each other and you have 0:39:06.400 --> 0:39:08.080 to decide do I want to make this a thing? 0:39:08.120 --> 0:39:09.879 Do I want to fight with you do. I want 0:39:09.880 --> 0:39:12.160 to rise up and be a little bit more mature here, 0:39:12.480 --> 0:39:15.240 or like I find myself having those conversations. I mean, mom, 0:39:15.400 --> 0:39:18.160 I love I love saying this to my friends and 0:39:18.160 --> 0:39:21.680 and my family too. If if someone is is looking 0:39:21.719 --> 0:39:24.960 for a companion, is you've got to find somebody you 0:39:25.040 --> 0:39:28.200 want to figure things out with. Great point, because you're 0:39:28.280 --> 0:39:30.360 not going to find somebody that you're never going to 0:39:30.480 --> 0:39:34.080 fight with, never gonna disagree with, never gonna have different opinions. 0:39:34.400 --> 0:39:37.959 You have to find somebody who's worth figuring out this 0:39:38.320 --> 0:39:40.399 earth that we're on with. You know what, I'm not 0:39:40.440 --> 0:39:43.360 taking it personal if you see it differently, right, I 0:39:43.360 --> 0:39:45.440 mean Brian has been such a mirror to me. I mean, 0:39:46.520 --> 0:39:49.439 you know, like I've I've had trauma issues in my life, 0:39:49.440 --> 0:39:51.880 so that's come out, you know, in my personality at 0:39:51.920 --> 0:39:54.400 different times. And sometimes he'll just hold that mirror up 0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:56.000 and say, hey, baby, you need to change you need 0:39:56.040 --> 0:39:58.760 to change your ways. Like that came off a little bitchier, 0:39:58.800 --> 0:40:02.800 that came off a little know whatever, And are sometimes 0:40:02.800 --> 0:40:05.080 some little defense and like who you in a second, 0:40:05.360 --> 0:40:06.640 like let me tell you all the things that you 0:40:06.680 --> 0:40:08.960 can improve it. Right, We're gonna sit down and we 0:40:09.000 --> 0:40:11.040 can like, tell are we gonna do this? Because I'll 0:40:11.040 --> 0:40:14.560 do this. But I mean when he comes back down 0:40:14.600 --> 0:40:17.560 to it, honestly, like he's right most of the time, 0:40:17.719 --> 0:40:19.839 and it's like and he wants the best for you, right, 0:40:19.880 --> 0:40:22.239 and he right, he's not trying to pick a fight. 0:40:22.280 --> 0:40:24.600 That's another thing. I know. He knows my heart too, 0:40:24.600 --> 0:40:27.120 so he's like, you're what's coming out of you isn't 0:40:27.120 --> 0:40:30.239 reflecting who you really are. And I'm so appreciative for that, Like, 0:40:30.320 --> 0:40:32.600 please tell me what I'm doing wrong because I would 0:40:32.600 --> 0:40:35.000 love to adjust it for you. And that's another thing. 0:40:35.040 --> 0:40:37.360 You have to be with somebody who you want to 0:40:37.400 --> 0:40:40.840 adjust yourself for. You know, that's really really important because 0:40:40.840 --> 0:40:42.920 if you don't have a connection with that human, you're 0:40:42.960 --> 0:40:45.760 not gonna want to change your little tendencies and habits 0:40:45.760 --> 0:40:49.120 and ways. And Lord knows I have changed so many 0:40:49.280 --> 0:40:53.280 tendencies and habits and ways, you know. I mean from 0:40:53.640 --> 0:40:55.520 what I put on the sink or where I'll leave. 0:40:55.640 --> 0:40:59.160 My extensions are like whatever, And same with him. I mean, 0:40:59.840 --> 0:41:02.000 it's it's you have to find somebody you want to 0:41:02.000 --> 0:41:03.879 figure things out with, yeah, and that you just get 0:41:03.920 --> 0:41:06.640 along with their personality and their little quirks don't bother you, 0:41:06.640 --> 0:41:07.920 because at the end of the day, when it all 0:41:07.960 --> 0:41:09.920 stripped down, there's still a person. They're gonna have things. 0:41:10.280 --> 0:41:12.800 And I have dated plenty of people I just could 0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:15.200 not get on board with little bits about them. It 0:41:15.320 --> 0:41:17.640 just drove me crazy. And there's something about the personality. 0:41:18.160 --> 0:41:21.120 But like Michael, I'm like, okay, exactly, yes, you'red div 0:41:21.160 --> 0:41:23.399 me crazy sometimes, but I want to figure this out 0:41:23.440 --> 0:41:24.920 with you, right, And that's what I tell a lot 0:41:24.960 --> 0:41:27.400 of my girlfriends to him. Like usually in the first 0:41:27.520 --> 0:41:30.840 like even months, in like months to three months, you 0:41:30.880 --> 0:41:34.600 can figure out if it's not Yeah, if that's why 0:41:34.680 --> 0:41:37.040 you want to start figuring out, because you're not just 0:41:37.040 --> 0:41:39.880 gonna meet somebody and then you know, months down the 0:41:39.960 --> 0:41:42.560 road just be like, oh, everything's perfect. I've never argued, 0:41:42.600 --> 0:41:45.239 we've never disagreed. It's like it's kind of good to 0:41:45.280 --> 0:41:46.920 get in your first little fight so that you can 0:41:46.960 --> 0:41:50.040 see if you guys can navigate and figure that out 0:41:49.520 --> 0:41:53.040 and that so I mean, yeah, you're just when you 0:41:53.080 --> 0:41:55.600 have that really big red flag in the first three months, 0:41:55.600 --> 0:41:57.200 just get out of get out of there, and don't 0:41:57.200 --> 0:41:59.600 get invested. I tell that to my single friends, because 0:41:59.600 --> 0:42:02.320 I have a kind single friends who are the total package, 0:42:02.760 --> 0:42:07.319 literally total package, but they'll just date someone for like 0:42:07.440 --> 0:42:09.680 a year. Yeah, because you think things are going to change. 0:42:10.400 --> 0:42:13.200 But again, you've got if you are annoyed with figuring 0:42:13.200 --> 0:42:17.000 out it immediately, you got to cut it, even though 0:42:17.040 --> 0:42:19.120 you don't want to, and even though there's still juice 0:42:19.200 --> 0:42:21.160 left to squeeze. That's how I said. I was like, 0:42:21.200 --> 0:42:23.200 you don't have to squeeze all the juice out just 0:42:23.239 --> 0:42:25.000 because there's a lot of juice left in there. You 0:42:25.120 --> 0:42:27.479 know you're gonna hit the rind eventually and it's gonna 0:42:27.480 --> 0:42:32.880 be dried up, right, So just just move on. Yeah, Brian, 0:42:32.960 --> 0:42:35.760 like in the beginning, I mean, especially with the wild 0:42:35.880 --> 0:42:38.040 Rod of like being on tour, you know, I mean 0:42:38.120 --> 0:42:41.560 obviously there's late schedules and we're not sleeping, and there's 0:42:41.960 --> 0:42:44.799 people are irritated. Like you know, I could tell that 0:42:44.840 --> 0:42:47.840 we would we just been like would bend and flow 0:42:47.880 --> 0:42:50.319 with each other. It was just very flexible. Like when 0:42:50.360 --> 0:42:52.000 he was irritated, I would kind of step up to 0:42:52.040 --> 0:42:53.799 the plate and like build him up, and then you know, 0:42:53.920 --> 0:42:56.440 vice versa with me, and when we were both irritated, 0:42:56.440 --> 0:42:59.040 it was almost like we would laugh, right, you need 0:42:59.080 --> 0:43:01.160 to like help me get out of this funk, and 0:43:01.200 --> 0:43:04.000 like we just we are champions of each other and 0:43:04.040 --> 0:43:06.160 to help each other get out of that funk. And 0:43:06.480 --> 0:43:08.640 how important is laughing and not taking it too So 0:43:08.960 --> 0:43:11.799 my gosh, we we get to that point a lot, 0:43:11.920 --> 0:43:15.839 especially when we're super irritated. Like I mean, it could 0:43:15.840 --> 0:43:17.200 be like a lot of the times, you know, it's 0:43:17.200 --> 0:43:20.080 travel issues. You know, something goes wrong or we were 0:43:20.200 --> 0:43:22.320 late or whatever, and like we just have to laugh. 0:43:22.560 --> 0:43:24.719 I mean, we just had this thing where we get 0:43:24.719 --> 0:43:26.640 to a point and we just have to laugh it 0:43:26.719 --> 0:43:29.400 off because it just you work things up again that 0:43:29.560 --> 0:43:31.440 I just don't have to be you know. So you 0:43:31.480 --> 0:43:33.400 said in the beginning you felt like you had a 0:43:33.440 --> 0:43:36.239 story to share. What is your message that you want 0:43:36.320 --> 0:43:38.839 to put out there? And what does having a platform 0:43:39.200 --> 0:43:42.919 mean to you? Yeah, for sure, a great question, all 0:43:42.920 --> 0:43:44.719 the way down to the bottom of your soul. No, 0:43:44.920 --> 0:43:50.080 I love that. Um, Honestly, I just feel like I 0:43:50.120 --> 0:43:52.560 was in such a dark place at seventeen. I could 0:43:52.600 --> 0:43:56.160 have gone two different paths, and you knew it. I 0:43:56.280 --> 0:43:58.680 knew it, and I actually really wanted to go like 0:43:58.800 --> 0:44:01.279 the bad path because why because because it was a 0:44:01.280 --> 0:44:03.440 good excuse. It was like, well, this has happened to me, 0:44:03.520 --> 0:44:05.680 So I'm gonna go party and I'm gonna go be 0:44:05.840 --> 0:44:08.680 the party girl, and I'm gonna be the one that 0:44:08.680 --> 0:44:11.680 makes everybody laugh and like get in trouble and because 0:44:11.719 --> 0:44:13.920 you had validation to do it. Yeah, And I just 0:44:14.760 --> 0:44:16.879 I don't know I could if if I could say 0:44:16.880 --> 0:44:19.239 anything to anybody, is when you're in a dark place, 0:44:19.360 --> 0:44:23.040 especially young, just like be resilient and just do the 0:44:23.160 --> 0:44:25.560 right thing, because why does that pay off? It just 0:44:25.640 --> 0:44:27.920 pays off in every way. I mean it's like what 0:44:27.960 --> 0:44:30.200 would the roads pan out to look like? Say, like 0:44:30.239 --> 0:44:32.160 how do we don't have to go all the way down? 0:44:32.200 --> 0:44:34.960 But like why is it worth being resilient? What do 0:44:35.000 --> 0:44:37.719 you gain for? Honestly, if I'm being really honest with you, 0:44:37.800 --> 0:44:40.000 I think that the road that I could have chose 0:44:40.320 --> 0:44:43.080 could have honestly like it or made me end up 0:44:43.080 --> 0:44:46.440 like on the streets. Honestly, Yeah, I mean I could 0:44:46.440 --> 0:44:51.320 easily be homeless or have a drug addiction or um, 0:44:51.360 --> 0:44:55.000 it's just wide open. Just yeah, continue to be wide open. 0:44:55.080 --> 0:44:58.760 But I really accepted the help that I was offered, 0:44:58.800 --> 0:45:00.960 and that's really hard when you're really young. So that 0:45:00.960 --> 0:45:03.480 would definitely be advised to me, is when people are 0:45:03.520 --> 0:45:06.000 reaching out to help you and they're older, don't just 0:45:06.120 --> 0:45:08.160 look at them like you're you're too old, you don't 0:45:08.200 --> 0:45:10.680 get you don't get my life right now, and sink 0:45:10.719 --> 0:45:13.239 back into your your your little emo high school. So 0:45:13.320 --> 0:45:16.960 if you really have to like be appreciative, appreciative of 0:45:17.160 --> 0:45:20.200 anyone that is in your support system that's helping you, 0:45:20.239 --> 0:45:23.480 because there's so many people who don't have a support system. 0:45:23.520 --> 0:45:26.759 And if you don't have a support system, go find one. 0:45:26.920 --> 0:45:30.960 There's so many, I mean, there's so many outlets. Especially 0:45:31.000 --> 0:45:32.520 if you're at a high school, you can seek a 0:45:32.560 --> 0:45:36.080 counselor if you're in college, they have counselors there. Um 0:45:36.080 --> 0:45:38.640 there's groups in college, you know that you can seek 0:45:38.640 --> 0:45:41.120 out self help groups. They're everywhere. There's a group to 0:45:41.160 --> 0:45:45.719 find you. Absolutely, that's definitely a big thing for me. 0:45:45.800 --> 0:45:48.600 Is that would be my advice. Is I just I 0:45:48.680 --> 0:45:50.919 felt God working in my life at at the point 0:45:50.960 --> 0:45:52.879 when I didn't know if there was a God, so 0:45:53.440 --> 0:45:56.360 I knew that I had to just be I was 0:45:56.440 --> 0:46:00.040 just so strongly pulled to be on this path and 0:46:00.040 --> 0:46:03.399 and God he only knows where I would be if 0:46:03.640 --> 0:46:06.359 I didn't, you know, so that would be my one 0:46:06.400 --> 0:46:08.640 piece of advice is to be resilient and to reach 0:46:08.680 --> 0:46:11.120 out for help and to to really listen to those 0:46:11.200 --> 0:46:14.120 that have already done this life before you and don't 0:46:14.120 --> 0:46:16.640 just disregard what they have to say. That is so true, 0:46:16.640 --> 0:46:19.160 And especially when you're young, it's like super easy to 0:46:19.400 --> 0:46:22.200 feel like you have all the answers or they're kind 0:46:22.239 --> 0:46:24.440 of dumb like you said, but really, yeah, so that 0:46:24.440 --> 0:46:27.560 would definitely be like a life changing experience for me 0:46:27.640 --> 0:46:29.719 that led you know, me to where I'm at. And 0:46:30.640 --> 0:46:32.160 so that's part of your story that you want to share. 0:46:32.280 --> 0:46:35.439 That's definitely part of my story. Um is just yeah, 0:46:35.440 --> 0:46:38.040 I just look up to those that have have gone 0:46:38.080 --> 0:46:41.080 before you, let people help you, and let people help you, 0:46:41.160 --> 0:46:45.160 and um yeah, just be really fearless as hard as 0:46:45.200 --> 0:46:48.160 it is. You know, it is hard to be fearless 0:46:48.480 --> 0:46:52.000 and just go with your heart, you know, yes, especially 0:46:52.040 --> 0:46:53.600 in the beginning, Like when I think back to my 0:46:53.640 --> 0:46:56.600 younger self, like the first time I took a big 0:46:56.680 --> 0:46:59.440 leap and then it actually had a crash following it 0:46:59.480 --> 0:47:01.440 because it went great, but then it all fell apart. 0:47:01.680 --> 0:47:03.120 It's like you think you're going to kind of die 0:47:03.360 --> 0:47:05.879 the first time it all happens, and then you sort 0:47:05.880 --> 0:47:08.000 of get through it, and then you sort of understand 0:47:08.040 --> 0:47:10.719 that everybody who's sort of trying to create their own 0:47:10.719 --> 0:47:15.239 way is going through this, and like you said, be resilient. 0:47:15.520 --> 0:47:17.560 And that comes back to just like reaching out for help. 0:47:17.600 --> 0:47:19.759 And you know your neighbor, you have no idea what 0:47:19.760 --> 0:47:22.080 they've been through. When you're sitting there in your dark moments, 0:47:22.080 --> 0:47:24.080 they can know woe is me, and I'm the victim 0:47:24.120 --> 0:47:26.000 and all of this has happened to me. When you 0:47:26.040 --> 0:47:28.520 actually reach out to other people, you you'd be really 0:47:28.560 --> 0:47:31.440 surprised what other what battles other people are fighting. And 0:47:31.480 --> 0:47:34.160 when you can connect even on a level, you know, 0:47:34.280 --> 0:47:37.000 like the things going wrong in your life, it's just 0:47:37.800 --> 0:47:41.320 it helps you build your courage and build your resilience. 0:47:41.560 --> 0:47:44.560 Why are we sometimes scared to talk about the things 0:47:44.600 --> 0:47:46.520 that are going wrong in our life? Because that is 0:47:46.560 --> 0:47:48.959 when I have the most. When I get to that point, 0:47:49.000 --> 0:47:51.200 I can share and I can hear other people's journeys, 0:47:51.280 --> 0:47:55.480 I feel so much more inspired to be brave, but 0:47:55.560 --> 0:47:58.360 it's so hard to share it sometimes. Yeah, I think honestly, 0:47:58.440 --> 0:48:02.440 everyone thinks like the thought like no one's gonna understand, 0:48:02.960 --> 0:48:08.239 which is so wrong because we're understand. Yeah, everyone is 0:48:08.320 --> 0:48:10.600 going through a battle that you have no idea of 0:48:10.680 --> 0:48:13.439 and it may not be your exact same battle. But 0:48:13.760 --> 0:48:15.600 when you connect, I mean, that's what we're made for. 0:48:15.680 --> 0:48:17.640 That's what we're wired for. Human connection. And when you 0:48:17.719 --> 0:48:21.200 connect with another human on that level, all of that 0:48:21.320 --> 0:48:23.759 like dark email stuff just kind of goes out the 0:48:23.800 --> 0:48:28.520 window and you can bring you know, light to the situation. 0:48:28.920 --> 0:48:31.080 You know, Um, is that kind of why you wanted 0:48:31.080 --> 0:48:34.400 the tribe mentality because you wanted that community and you 0:48:34.440 --> 0:48:38.799 wanted people to feel like this is how belonging. Yeah, 0:48:38.840 --> 0:48:40.759 I wanted people to feel a part of something. I 0:48:40.760 --> 0:48:42.480 want to feel like that's part of your mission. Yeah, 0:48:42.520 --> 0:48:45.120 I mean I didn't just start this, you know, because 0:48:45.360 --> 0:48:48.040 I wanted to work and you know, just do something. 0:48:48.080 --> 0:48:50.400 I mean, when you buy a piece of clothing, you 0:48:50.400 --> 0:48:53.520 can like it, right, you can a hundred percent know 0:48:53.600 --> 0:48:55.520 that I looked at every single detail and that I 0:48:55.560 --> 0:48:57.920 worked on every single detail, and like when you receive 0:48:58.000 --> 0:49:00.480 that piece of clothing, I truly want them to feel 0:49:00.520 --> 0:49:03.000 a part of this tribe. And so many Oh my gosh, 0:49:03.000 --> 0:49:06.040 you get so many messages UM with that message of 0:49:06.160 --> 0:49:08.120 like I feel like a part of something bigger and 0:49:08.600 --> 0:49:12.000 you know, what you're doing is just makes me feel 0:49:12.080 --> 0:49:15.000 confident in Like I mean, even this girl she just 0:49:15.080 --> 0:49:17.080 deemed me like two days ago, and she's like, your 0:49:17.160 --> 0:49:19.839 sweats make me feel so sexy, and it's like I 0:49:19.960 --> 0:49:24.560 love that, Yes, is sexy, and I want it is sexy. Yeah, 0:49:24.600 --> 0:49:26.160 I just I don't know. I just love that. And 0:49:26.200 --> 0:49:28.600 I love getting feedback from everybody. And that's honestly, like 0:49:28.640 --> 0:49:32.399 what's kept me going is the feedback from everybody. You know. Yeah, 0:49:32.560 --> 0:49:35.080 And I feel like you are just so awesome about 0:49:35.080 --> 0:49:38.680 embracing exactly who you are, who you are and everyone else. 0:49:38.800 --> 0:49:41.480 You're just all about like being yourself, trusting your journey, 0:49:41.480 --> 0:49:43.920 staying true to you. Like I love your Instagram, especially 0:49:43.960 --> 0:49:46.760 when you start doing quotes and like giving inspiration because 0:49:46.760 --> 0:49:48.880 I was like, dang, that is so spot on and 0:49:48.960 --> 0:49:52.440 like be you and have the confidence to be Yeah. Mom. 0:49:52.440 --> 0:49:54.960 So I have two therapists. Actually, well I love some 0:49:55.239 --> 0:50:00.560 therapace and I'll hop on the phone UM on Wednesday. Actually, 0:50:00.560 --> 0:50:03.279 that's a really great tune advice to like reach out 0:50:03.320 --> 0:50:05.239 and get a therapist. I mean, if I didn't have one, 0:50:05.280 --> 0:50:08.920 who knows where i'd be. But but yeah, she just 0:50:09.000 --> 0:50:11.719 told me the other day and she said, Brittany, you 0:50:11.760 --> 0:50:14.319 embrace your story so much, and that's so important. So 0:50:14.360 --> 0:50:16.880 many people run from their story and they hustle for 0:50:16.920 --> 0:50:20.680 their worthiness. And you know, even though I think I 0:50:20.760 --> 0:50:23.080 have been trying to hustle for my worthiness and I 0:50:23.080 --> 0:50:27.520 didn't good hybrid. Yeah, I felt that when she said that, 0:50:27.560 --> 0:50:30.640 And she said, you have to own your story because 0:50:30.640 --> 0:50:33.680 if you keep running from it, like you're never settled, 0:50:33.719 --> 0:50:35.520 how do you own it? Just look at it in 0:50:35.560 --> 0:50:37.920 a minute, talk about it, claim it, you know, you 0:50:38.080 --> 0:50:41.120 just talk talk about it, you know, like so many 0:50:41.120 --> 0:50:43.480 people just don't want to talk about it. And um, 0:50:43.520 --> 0:50:46.680 I've connected with so many people. Um, you know, my 0:50:46.680 --> 0:50:49.920 my mom has had addiction problems. And when anyone brings 0:50:49.960 --> 0:50:51.799 that up around me or when everyone I could tell that, 0:50:51.840 --> 0:50:54.040 people feel shameful when they say, oh, well, my family's 0:50:54.080 --> 0:50:56.799 you know, not that great or whatever, and I'll just 0:50:56.960 --> 0:50:58.400 come out and say and say, you know, I get it. 0:50:58.400 --> 0:51:00.719 You know, my mom face faces a action issues, like 0:51:00.719 --> 0:51:02.879 she's in rehab right now. You know, I visit her 0:51:03.400 --> 0:51:05.920 every month or every other month. Then um, you can 0:51:06.000 --> 0:51:10.280 just see that the on people's faces, like the appreciation 0:51:10.400 --> 0:51:13.080 and like the connections is what it is. They just 0:51:13.200 --> 0:51:16.040 feel like, oh, wow, she's human, you know, and you're 0:51:16.080 --> 0:51:18.480 not trying to hide anything or like you're just being 0:51:18.520 --> 0:51:21.000 real about your life and your journey. And again, like 0:51:21.080 --> 0:51:23.799 that's all about connecting. Like you don't even necessarily have 0:51:23.880 --> 0:51:26.080 to join a group to just tell your neighbor like, hey, 0:51:26.120 --> 0:51:28.319 this is what's going on in my life, like and 0:51:28.400 --> 0:51:32.279 it's just that's that's just the joy about, yeah, connecting 0:51:32.360 --> 0:51:34.480 and and just being open and real and like owning 0:51:34.520 --> 0:51:38.279 your story and not being embarrassed because no matter where 0:51:38.320 --> 0:51:40.520 you come from, like you could end up anywhere, and 0:51:40.520 --> 0:51:42.600 we're all supposed to be here. Getting to this earth 0:51:42.680 --> 0:51:45.560 is a freaking miracle. And I just feel like whatever 0:51:45.600 --> 0:51:48.760 experience you're born into, the sooner you can gather some lessons, 0:51:48.760 --> 0:51:50.799 the sooner you can get to your purpose. I feel like, 0:51:51.040 --> 0:51:52.600 because if you don't have anything to compare it to, 0:51:52.719 --> 0:51:55.239 or anything to catapult you or inspire you, how do 0:51:55.280 --> 0:51:57.480 you even know where to go? You know? But you 0:51:57.520 --> 0:51:59.880 had like hard decisions and hard roads in beginning. You're 0:51:59.920 --> 0:52:02.000 like you made choices early on and you're like, this 0:52:02.040 --> 0:52:04.080 is how my life is going to be. And I 0:52:04.080 --> 0:52:06.799 feel like that can be a blessing in the long run. 0:52:07.040 --> 0:52:09.279 Yeah for sure. And and like I just spoke with 0:52:09.320 --> 0:52:11.399 my mom. You know, she's had addiction issues, and that 0:52:11.480 --> 0:52:14.640 was kind of something that kept coming back to my 0:52:14.680 --> 0:52:17.080 mind whenever. You know, I was seventeen and I had 0:52:17.080 --> 0:52:19.040 those two roads to to choose, and I was like, 0:52:19.280 --> 0:52:21.120 I'm not going to be like my mom, you know, 0:52:21.640 --> 0:52:23.360 whereas I could have easily said, well, you know, it 0:52:23.440 --> 0:52:25.960 runs in my family, and I'm just like everybody else. 0:52:26.040 --> 0:52:28.560 You know, you have to use the people that came 0:52:28.600 --> 0:52:32.839 before you and and take little tools and lessons from them. 0:52:32.880 --> 0:52:35.600 You know, have your little playbook and use all those 0:52:36.040 --> 0:52:38.719 negative things and turn them into a little positive tools 0:52:38.760 --> 0:52:41.920 that that help you navigate through life. You know, I 0:52:41.960 --> 0:52:43.879 totally get it. Where do you see your five year plan? 0:52:44.320 --> 0:52:47.719 Oh gosh, this is what our accountant just asked the 0:52:47.719 --> 0:52:51.040 other day. Honestly, me and Brown were just talking about 0:52:51.040 --> 0:52:54.960 maybe moving to the Islands in like five years. Honestly, like, 0:52:56.440 --> 0:52:58.680 why would you not not joking at all, you should 0:52:58.719 --> 0:53:01.000 definitely do that. Yeah, we were thinking about maybe like 0:53:01.080 --> 0:53:03.799 at some point kind of going off the grid go off. Yeah, 0:53:03.840 --> 0:53:07.640 like working really hard the next couple of years and um, 0:53:07.719 --> 0:53:10.680 maybe just like going incognito for a couple of years. 0:53:10.680 --> 0:53:13.440 Why not, I know. I mean there's no reason not to. 0:53:13.600 --> 0:53:16.000 Nothing holding us back. I mean just that jump, which 0:53:16.040 --> 0:53:18.359 you guys aren't scared to jump, yea. If anyone's gonna jump, 0:53:18.400 --> 0:53:21.120 it's gonna be y'all. We're really not. Yeah. We've talked 0:53:21.160 --> 0:53:23.319 heavily on it. And we have some friends down there, 0:53:23.520 --> 0:53:25.799 um that have started their families in the Islands and 0:53:26.280 --> 0:53:28.440 their kids have like grown up there and like went 0:53:28.480 --> 0:53:31.680 to school there and and all the all those awesome things, 0:53:31.719 --> 0:53:34.120 and they kind of gave us the courage to actually 0:53:34.239 --> 0:53:36.319 like put it on our mood board and like, oh 0:53:36.440 --> 0:53:38.320 hell yeah, say it could be real. It could? It 0:53:38.520 --> 0:53:41.000 totally could. Okay, I'm asking you a few questions. You 0:53:41.040 --> 0:53:43.880 can answer whatever comes to your mind. Okay, what is 0:53:43.920 --> 0:53:50.839 love to you? Love is compromise. Yeah, dang, I think 0:53:50.880 --> 0:53:53.719 that that's some some profound wisdom right there. That just 0:53:53.800 --> 0:53:56.960 came to my head instantly. That's some womanly wisdom. You've 0:53:56.960 --> 0:53:59.319 been you've you've loved a long time to know that 0:53:59.360 --> 0:54:03.880 love is conference mine with family and with spouse. I 0:54:04.000 --> 0:54:08.319 love that. What is the point of us being here? Oh? 0:54:08.520 --> 0:54:12.880 I think human connection. Honestly, I've been doing some relief 0:54:12.920 --> 0:54:15.160 work and that has come to my mind so many times. 0:54:15.160 --> 0:54:20.440 It's connection. Yeah, we're all just here just to just 0:54:20.520 --> 0:54:23.879 to like love each other and into Yeah, it has 0:54:23.880 --> 0:54:27.040 to be. And even with animals. If money and all 0:54:27.080 --> 0:54:28.400 of that went out the window, we didn't have a 0:54:28.440 --> 0:54:30.279 banking system, Like, what would it be about? It be 0:54:30.320 --> 0:54:32.560 about people doing with your with your network of people 0:54:32.560 --> 0:54:34.840 and trading out different goods that you need. You'd have 0:54:34.880 --> 0:54:40.440 to connect its connection, you know it is. I love that, Okay, 0:54:40.719 --> 0:54:42.920 I freaking love I always in every interview would leave 0:54:43.000 --> 0:54:45.480 your light. This whole thing has been so inspiring. But 0:54:45.560 --> 0:54:48.279 I just like, out of everything you've gone through your 0:54:49.000 --> 0:54:52.120 crazy journey, I mean, you should write a book. Really. 0:54:52.160 --> 0:54:54.280 I know I have so many, so many more crazy 0:54:54.400 --> 0:54:56.759 things that have happened. But just like stories from your 0:54:56.800 --> 0:54:58.640 life and what you've learned. It's like, what, Opra, what 0:54:58.680 --> 0:55:01.120 I know for sure? Just from living? You just know 0:55:01.239 --> 0:55:04.200 these things? For what do you know for sure? Speaking 0:55:04.200 --> 0:55:07.640 of Oprah? Oh, what do I know for sure? Damn? 0:55:08.120 --> 0:55:10.040 My first word came my mind was a little morbid, 0:55:10.120 --> 0:55:13.880 but that we all die. We all die. Yeah, So 0:55:13.960 --> 0:55:16.560 what does that mean in between? I mean it honestly 0:55:16.640 --> 0:55:20.080 means that whatever matters? Do you? Like you're close knit 0:55:20.120 --> 0:55:22.600 friends and those connections like that's what you have to 0:55:22.680 --> 0:55:24.879 like hone in on and like love on and like 0:55:25.400 --> 0:55:28.480 the ship. That really matters, you know what I mean? 0:55:28.520 --> 0:55:32.480 Because we all end up in the same place, you know. Yeah, 0:55:32.800 --> 0:55:35.759 so just get to it. Yeah, okay, And I like 0:55:35.800 --> 0:55:38.760 to leave your light. So out of all your journeys, 0:55:39.080 --> 0:55:41.760 all your life, all your experiences, all of your knowledge 0:55:41.800 --> 0:55:46.279 you've accumulated, you're awesome vibes, your connection, the whole thing. 0:55:46.440 --> 0:55:50.400 You're just like magical existence. What do you want to 0:55:50.440 --> 0:55:52.839 share with people? What do you want people when they 0:55:52.960 --> 0:55:56.120 like think about you, think about tribe Kelly, think about 0:55:56.160 --> 0:55:58.439 your mission statement? What do you want them to leave with? 0:55:59.840 --> 0:56:02.400 You know, I definitely want them to live with the 0:56:02.480 --> 0:56:05.480 thought of like, no matter how you're brought up or 0:56:05.480 --> 0:56:09.880 how wounded you are, that that you can shine your 0:56:09.920 --> 0:56:12.680 own little light. You know. Um. I love that quote. 0:56:12.960 --> 0:56:16.160 It talks about um there has to be like a wound, 0:56:16.239 --> 0:56:19.560 a crack, you know, for a light to to be 0:56:19.600 --> 0:56:22.560 allowed to let in. And I don't know. Just no 0:56:22.600 --> 0:56:25.600 matter what your story is or where you come from, 0:56:25.719 --> 0:56:28.160 you have no idea what God has in store for you. 0:56:28.160 --> 0:56:29.919 You know, how do you find faith when you feel 0:56:29.920 --> 0:56:31.279 like you've lost it? Like do you just how do 0:56:31.320 --> 0:56:36.160 you find it? I definitely have to meditate it and 0:56:36.160 --> 0:56:39.040 and ask him to re remind me because it's definitely 0:56:39.080 --> 0:56:41.279 not something I can breathe through. It definitely is is 0:56:41.360 --> 0:56:44.759 work and you have to really like meditate on it 0:56:44.800 --> 0:56:47.920 and manifest it. And and I mean I pray all 0:56:47.960 --> 0:56:50.200 throughout the day. I mean I'll be and I'm like, 0:56:50.880 --> 0:56:52.880 oh Lord, please don't give me anxiety when I go 0:56:52.960 --> 0:56:56.000 into you know, this employee staff meeting. And you know, 0:56:56.360 --> 0:56:58.400 I might look to appear to have all the confidence 0:56:58.400 --> 0:57:00.360 in the world, but that really does come through like 0:57:00.719 --> 0:57:05.480 constant like prayer and manifestation, you know, positive self talk, 0:57:05.520 --> 0:57:08.279 believing all of this, and then I end up at 0:57:08.320 --> 0:57:12.160 the Barnes and Noble self help sections. So maybe that 0:57:12.280 --> 0:57:14.760 go to the Barnes and Noble self help help section 0:57:14.800 --> 0:57:18.400 and um, you'll find We'll find you there, man, That's 0:57:18.400 --> 0:57:19.800 how I am. You go to our house, I have 0:57:19.840 --> 0:57:21.840 a bookshelf, and every single one of those books it's 0:57:21.880 --> 0:57:24.880 like connecting with your soul, how to like manifest your dreams. 0:57:24.880 --> 0:57:27.800 Of four agreements I'll have like Eckhart Toll everybody on 0:57:27.840 --> 0:57:30.640 their deepoc Chapra like all the things. I'm just I 0:57:30.720 --> 0:57:33.560 have the five agreements. I'm just like I need all 0:57:33.600 --> 0:57:37.200 the help with getting because honestly reminding myself to be positive, 0:57:37.280 --> 0:57:39.120 especially when I want to sink into a rabbit hole 0:57:39.120 --> 0:57:42.560 of just like sadness. It's just I need I need 0:57:42.600 --> 0:57:44.520 help to get there. Sometimes I can't do it by 0:57:44.560 --> 0:57:49.120 myself asking for help like so vulnerable to do. But 0:57:49.360 --> 0:57:51.280 I can't do it by myself like some people can, 0:57:51.440 --> 0:57:54.400 but I can't. I have to lean on somebody and 0:57:54.480 --> 0:57:57.080 just be like, Okay, I'm not alone, help me through this, 0:57:57.480 --> 0:58:00.240 And I love That's awesome. See you're just like us, 0:58:00.240 --> 0:58:03.880 be Cole, you know, like in the U S magazines 0:58:03.880 --> 0:58:06.439 and like these people are just like us. They eat 0:58:06.480 --> 0:58:12.320 ice cream, they by self help books. Yeah, freaking love it. 0:58:12.520 --> 0:58:14.720 You're amazing. Thank you so much for joining me on 0:58:14.840 --> 0:58:20.240 this and Sunday. Thank you for joining us, little girl, 0:58:21.360 --> 0:58:29.640 You're awesome. You're awesome, Love you peace out. Thank you 0:58:29.720 --> 0:58:32.480 so much for tuning into this episode with Brittany. She 0:58:32.680 --> 0:58:34.920 is such a dream, so inspiring. I know you got 0:58:35.000 --> 0:58:37.400 inspired from an episode I did. I freaking love her. 0:58:37.880 --> 0:58:40.880 Next week, I have Caitlin Brown. She is the beautiful 0:58:40.920 --> 0:58:44.360 bride of Kine Brown and we talk all about her story. 0:58:44.840 --> 0:58:48.080 She is an incredible singer herself, and she walks me 0:58:48.120 --> 0:58:51.440 through this entire journey of how she met Kine and 0:58:51.480 --> 0:58:53.840 involves music. It's so great you will not want to 0:58:53.840 --> 0:58:56.120 miss it. Next week we have Caitlin Brown. See you 0:58:56.240 --> 0:58:56.640 so soon.