1 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: Hi am Kate Hudson, and my name is Oliver Hudson. 2 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 2: We wanted to do something that highlighted our. 3 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 1: Relationships and what it's like to be siblings. We are 4 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: a sibling, Rayvalry. 5 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 3: No, no, sibling. You don't do that with your mouth, Revelry. 6 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 4: That's good. 7 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: Welcome back to part two of Governor Gavin Newsom and 8 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: his wonderful sister, Hillary Newsom. 9 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 5: I wonder like, if you remember Hillary anytimes where you 10 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 5: like specifically had to have like a little tough love 11 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 5: with Gavin, he would, oh yeah. 12 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 6: I think some of those conversations that we talked about 13 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 6: earlier when he was younger and newly and Paula tics 14 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:05,559 Speaker 6: and finding his personal way. We also, you know, lost 15 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 6: our mom in a really traumatic, you know, heartbreaking way, 16 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 6: and instead of engaging, he retreated and that was really devastating. 17 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 6: And I had to be the bigger person to you know, 18 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 6: slap them around a little and say come back to me, 19 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 6: come back to her. So there's definitely been a lot 20 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:29,320 Speaker 6: of that exchange, but there's just been nothing but respect 21 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:30,559 Speaker 6: and having each other's back. 22 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 4: You know, my brother's writing a book. If I'm allowed 23 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 4: to say. 24 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, no, I mean which about that. 25 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 6: I know, politician a book and it's not about politics, 26 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 6: but it was kind of triggering for me because I 27 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 6: realized like there, you know, and I was triggering for 28 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 6: me because I was like, wait, this is my book 29 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 6: too on some level, because there's so much overlap because 30 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 6: we were you know, Gavin and Hillary, like we didn't 31 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 6: have other siblings. 32 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 7: So just to your point, I mean, I talk about 33 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 7: all the big scrups, I talk about how I handle 34 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 7: them badly or well, talk about our history. Even even 35 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 7: I had forgotten my name because my dad's a William. 36 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 7: There's like a bunch of Bill Newsom's like forever and ever, 37 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 7: and I was named after some guy named Gavin Maxwell 38 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 7: who wrote a book about river otters and and and 39 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 7: of course it made sense because we had a river 40 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 7: that was our first pet was an otter. Wow, people 41 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 7: have like hamsters, We had an otter. That's that was 42 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 7: my dad. 43 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,959 Speaker 2: Weird, big environmentalist of fabulous. 44 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 7: He's big in a mound lines like everything about him 45 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 7: was environmental advocacy, which is a big part of all 46 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 7: my life, not surprisingly, but anyway, so yeah, this sort 47 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 7: of book kind of it just you know, it explains 48 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 7: and I love in the process. I mean, you guys 49 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 7: have anything. Time you write and sort of reflect, it 50 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 7: allows you to understand and the deeper level the why 51 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 7: and who and the how and and uh. Anyway, but 52 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,279 Speaker 7: it was for her was traumatizing. 53 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, because it feels like I'm writing a book, but 54 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 6: I don't want to write a book telling stories. 55 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 7: She's like, what, that's new one's business. But it needs 56 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 7: to be. 57 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 1: You know, how do you think your trauma with your mother, 58 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: her and just within your life has informed sort of 59 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 1: who you are and your politics and the way that 60 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: you've gone about governing. I mean, does that play a 61 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: part into it? 62 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 7: It was, uh? And and you know, we it's in 63 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 7: the book. 64 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 1: It's in the books. 65 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 7: We talked about in Oban. Hillary and I we were 66 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 7: with her told her that she had assisted suicide and 67 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 7: back before began it with you, before it was legal. 68 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 7: And and I had the privilege of being governor when 69 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 7: we made it legal. I think it was a lieutenant 70 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 7: governor governor and uh, and so I remember that as 71 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 7: a moment that was very personal, that debate because we 72 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 7: had that experience. But but we're also there for her 73 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 7: last breath and and uh, and I don't wish that 74 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 7: on anybody. 75 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 2: I wasn't I Actually he might not remember, but I 76 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 2: left the room. 77 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 6: I left the room because I had been with my 78 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 6: mom for the four days before and hadn't left her 79 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 6: side because she asked me to because she didn't want 80 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 6: any hospice scenario. And she was holding a picture of 81 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 6: us and she said, you're my works of art. 82 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 8: And that was it. 83 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 4: That was I was done. I was done. 84 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 6: And my mom looked at the doctor and said, how 85 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 6: long is this going to take? 86 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 4: My poor kids? 87 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 2: And that's when I went into the other room. 88 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 6: When it was you know, my dad and my husband 89 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 6: and our best my dad and mom's best friends, and 90 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 6: it was really an aunt and uncle. 91 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 4: It was horrible, but you skate and I kept saying leave, 92 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 4: leave and he's like I can't. 93 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, oh my gosh. 94 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 7: But those moments shaped, you know, she we were brief 95 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 7: time of foster family, and so I care about foster 96 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 7: is she's my dad, and environmental care about environmental, She's 97 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 7: sod all these things. You didn't even realize until you 98 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 7: really start to go back and you're like, oh man, 99 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 7: that's why I care so much about best buddies and 100 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 7: special Olympics. I was like, I forgot mom was a 101 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 7: development director, as I said, for ade adoption of special kids, 102 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 7: and so all of that connects or she you know, 103 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 7: or she struggled. I mean she like struggle like you 104 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 7: took paycheck to paycheck. I mean that was our life, 105 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,359 Speaker 7: like literally our life and hard work and grit and 106 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 7: having to work at janitorial jobs and I mean everything 107 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,479 Speaker 7: we ever had we had to work for. But that 108 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 7: also shapes my life and my consciousness around you know, 109 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 7: just hard work and grit and uh and then account. 110 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 6: And then I you know, similarly, as he's following one path. 111 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 6: You know, my husband Jeff and I did similarly. We 112 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 6: started a foundation for cancer research and education and helping 113 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 6: break the psycho poverty. So that was our way of 114 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 6: showing our contribution and honoring my mom and Jeff's mom 115 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 6: who's a breast cancer survivor. But that was so we 116 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 6: both kind of engaged in the way that we knew 117 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 6: how and the way we knew we could be effective. 118 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 6: And you know, I think I'm really proud of how 119 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 6: we've both gone down that path to honor her. 120 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 4: Just be good citizens. 121 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, So two years left, right, Governor two years. 122 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 7: Well they the last recall attempt failed, so it looks 123 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 7: like potentially too So thank you because I wasn't sure 124 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 7: they were going to try again. I'm just saying, so. 125 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 5: What do you want to achieve in these next two years? 126 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 8: What is your what is your biggest focus? 127 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 7: I call it the Great Implementation. It's about now delivering 128 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 7: on all the things we've been promoting and promising. And 129 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 7: you know we're in the biggest I mean, the obvious, 130 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 7: biggest issue in this state is what's happened on the 131 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 7: streets and sidewalks and what's happening in the campments. And 132 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 7: I want to see accountability. I want to drive accountability. 133 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 7: State's vision has realized locally. As a former mayor, it's 134 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 7: a responsibility of local government to address what's happening on 135 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 7: the streets and sidewalks in the state. Has provided unprecedented resources. 136 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 7: Now I want to see results. We're going to drive 137 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 7: that harb We're driving on housing reforms and affordability and 138 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:39,599 Speaker 7: addressing the issues of nimbiism. I've been very aggressive on 139 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 7: the issues of crime and addressing the issue of expansion 140 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 7: of healthcare, and first state in the country with the 141 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 7: universal health care. We've expanded by almost one hundred and 142 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 7: forty thousand childcare slots. We've got a working families in 143 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 7: general put up against any in the country as it 144 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 7: relates to earn income tax credit and what we're doing 145 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 7: to help families with child tax credits and these new 146 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 7: college savings as we start with every kindergartener gets up 147 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 7: some get up to fifteen hundred dollars every single kindergartener 148 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 7: in California in a career and college savings account. We've 149 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 7: created a brand new grade TK for All. We're fully 150 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 7: implementing it this year. We've got after school Arnold Schwartz 151 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 7: there talked about it. We delivered it five billion dollars. 152 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 7: Fully implementing after school for all in summer school for all. 153 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 7: We're going to get that done this year. And so 154 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 7: on all these issues and making sure we continue to 155 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 7: dominate in low carbon, green growth, change the way we 156 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 7: produce and consume energy and all this green energy transition. 157 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 7: Maintain our dominance in innovation and quantum and immunology and 158 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 7: the work we're doing obviously in AI and how we're 159 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 7: leading the nation, and entrepreneurial in innovation, entrepreneurial energy and innovation, 160 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 7: all those things are a big part of it. And 161 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 7: just soberly, yeah, Trump, what's that going to factor in? 162 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 7: And how do I protect our diverse communities? How do 163 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 7: to protect a state that's the most diverse in the country, 164 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 7: twenty seven percent of our populations for and born. How 165 00:07:58,280 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 7: do I have their backs out of the backs of 166 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 7: mixed status families that are scared out about backs of 167 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 7: farm workers? How don't I have backs of people that 168 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 7: want to come here from around the world because they 169 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 7: want to contribute immigrants. 170 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 5: I wonder how you reach reach that just because you know, 171 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 5: I mean, what wasn't it over forty percent of Californians 172 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 5: voted Republican. 173 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm not big. 174 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: Was that the most it's been in a minute? 175 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 7: Yeah? I mean it was marginally higher. But look, I mean, 176 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 7: California is a big red state and it has some 177 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 7: dense blue areas. I mean, look at the I mean, 178 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 7: first of all, California is the size of twenty one 179 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 7: state populations combined. We have more hunting jobs in California 180 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 7: than any other state in America, more manufacturing jobs, we 181 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 7: have more farming jobs, we have more ranching jobs, we 182 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 7: have more timber jobs. People wouldn't necessarily connect California in 183 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:56,319 Speaker 7: that respect. I mean, obviously we're dominant NAG and then 184 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 7: same time birthplace of biotech and life science and nanotechnology 185 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 7: in AI and like, so we're both and silicon valid 186 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 7: at Central Valley, you know, the Redwood coast of the 187 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 7: southern border, and so we're America, but only more so. 188 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 7: And that includes lots and lots of Republicans. We were 189 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 7: Republican state, dominantly Republican state. There was a Republican governor 190 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 7: not too many years ago, Arnold Swarzenegger. And it's ironic, 191 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:22,839 Speaker 7: you know, you think about where Trump's going to come, 192 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 7: and again, forgive getting political, but it's interesting. He's coming 193 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 7: after all our environmental laws and those go back to 194 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 7: Ronald Reagan when he was governor of California. That led 195 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 7: with the Air Resources Board, Richard Nixon created, Richard Nixon 196 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 7: started the EPA, did the Clean Air Act. They're trying 197 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 7: to vanalyze a half century of leadership that was bipartisan, 198 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 7: is my point, and so I don't see things through 199 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 7: blue and red lenses. I've spent a ton of time 200 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 7: in the last six years in rural California. Heck, I mean, 201 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 7: I was in Current County, Fresno. I was just up 202 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 7: in Caloosa County. That was just my that was my 203 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 7: calendar this last week, all conservative parts of the state. 204 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 7: I care about people. I don't care who you voted for. 205 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 7: And uh and uh. And we've got a lot of 206 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 7: work to do to try to distill a sense of 207 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 7: well being because not everyone believes that. 208 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 8: M M. 209 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 2: And I'm just gonna make really good wines exactly. 210 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 8: I'm looking. I'm hoping. I got a little Christmas gift. 211 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 2: I got, you're back. 212 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 1: I have, I have, I have one. Politically, I have 213 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 1: one law question because again I am so not political. 214 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: I just it bothers me. The hypocrisy, the hypocrisy of 215 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: both parties, the way that they speak out. I can't. 216 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 1: I just can't. 217 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:44,559 Speaker 5: Well, let me just address the reason why this is. 218 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 5: We grew up very like our our whole big family 219 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 5: is very political, politically all over the place. 220 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like everyone's full of ship. 221 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 8: So we sort of grew up like in the middle. 222 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 8: You know, we're like and then we're like, I don't 223 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 8: even want to talk about it. 224 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And when I do, it's just like, well, 225 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 1: how are you saying that when you just did that, 226 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 1: I don't know it just but anyway, my aside from 227 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: all that, the one law that I honestly want more 228 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: clarity on this is this transgender in school law about 229 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 1: how you know, now there's there's not a requirement to 230 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: sort of tell the parents. Can you just explain from kindergarten? Right? 231 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: It's a little deeper. I'm just confuses me a little bit. 232 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 1: Does that take the parents out of the equations? 233 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:38,080 Speaker 7: So it's pretty simple. There were there were a couple 234 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 7: of school districts. We have about one thousand and fifty 235 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 7: school districts in California, which shows you how large this 236 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 7: state is. Independently elected school districts, and a couple of 237 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 7: them mandated that if a teacher oversees a kid talking 238 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 7: about their sexuality and it's not a transition, their sexuality 239 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 7: probably got it that if they overhear, you know, Bobby 240 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 7: talking to Johnny and saying, Johnny, I really like you. 241 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 7: This is really awkward for me, you know, I really 242 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 7: like girls or something, that they would be fired. This 243 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 7: was the law they passed. They'd be fired if they 244 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 7: didn't tell the parent. And it occurred to me, I says, 245 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 7: why is that the teacher's job to be required or 246 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 7: be fired to talk about someone's sexuality or something they're 247 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 7: overhearing that has nothing to do fundamentally with the academic mission. 248 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 7: And so we just said this. The law that I 249 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 7: signed is pretty simple. It says you can't legally fire someone, 250 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 7: but you also cannot deny that a teacher wants to 251 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:39,679 Speaker 7: say something to Johnny's parents. 252 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 1: He can, she can. 253 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 7: So we're not saying a teacher can't say. We're just 254 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 7: saying you can't be fired if you're not going to 255 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 7: be a snitch twenty four to seven and being out 256 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 7: there on the school yard listening to everyone's conversation about 257 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 7: their feelings about whether or not they're you know, they're 258 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 7: they're they're coming out of the closet, which you know 259 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 7: is a real life thing for a lot of people, 260 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:03,960 Speaker 7: but it was painted as a transition, right that. 261 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:05,839 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Like you take something like that's 262 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: why I'm asking for clarity, because I think. 263 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 8: That sounds kind of great. I'm confused. Well, no, I'm 264 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:13,199 Speaker 8: just a little bit confused. 265 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 5: So what you're saying is is that the teacher isn't 266 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 5: required to say something about. 267 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: Since I'm gonna be governor, let me explain it to you, Kate, Okay, 268 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 1: listen to me. It used to be the teacher would 269 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 1: be fired if they. 270 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 7: That was the law in a few districts the state. 271 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 7: The state did not have this law. Quite the contrary. 272 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 7: It was first of all, it's not a major issues. 273 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 7: It's just like, this is where coloring in the issue. 274 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 7: I can give you a hundred issues that are more 275 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 7: pressing for kids, but this was colored in as a 276 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 7: massive issue because it's a culture issue. And and there 277 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 7: were a couple of school boards that said, we're going 278 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 7: to fire teachers that don't that don't run and tell 279 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,839 Speaker 7: the parents. And we said, well, let the let the 280 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:57,679 Speaker 7: teachers decide what's in the best that just let the 281 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 7: parents engage teachers. But I don't think you should fired 282 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 7: a teacher because they heard they were on the playground 283 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 7: about sexuality. 284 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 5: I was under the I was under the impression that 285 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:11,839 Speaker 5: the law is that if a child does go to 286 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 5: the school or to the teacher, that the teacher is 287 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:18,679 Speaker 5: not required to discuss that with the parents, that they 288 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 5: can keep that from the child. 289 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 8: I can keep them they can keep it from the parents. 290 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, but it's but it's that's it's a direct engagement, 291 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 7: it's an indirect engagement. It's about how they're feeling about 292 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 7: all this stuff. And and we're just saying, you won't 293 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 7: be fired if you choose not to engage the teacher 294 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 7: the parents in that. And then and there were some 295 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 7: district said you'll be fired, meaning they're mandating it, mandating 296 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 7: disclosure for every conversation, which we just felt went too far, 297 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 7: and it was scapegoating kids that are going through lived experiences. 298 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 7: And a lot of those kids come out and the 299 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 7: teachers and friends in school and they start to sort 300 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 7: of reconcile their sexuality and. 301 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: It's the teacher's discretion basically. 302 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, completely, But I mean, we could turn teachers into 303 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 7: snitches on a lot of issues. I could turn let's 304 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 7: mandate they be fired on ten other issues as well, 305 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 7: when you could fill in the blank. 306 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: Do you know what, honestly, dude, like, forget about forget 307 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 1: about you know, orientation, sexual orientation? How many stories have 308 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: we heard about bullying that has not been addressed by 309 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 1: the teachers or the schools, And then a kids ends 310 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 1: up killing him or herself. 311 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 7: And that's the point, And This is why I was 312 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 7: so aggressive on the Don't Say Gay bill that DeSantis did. 313 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 7: Is why I did debates with DeSantis on Fox. Why 314 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 7: I started going on Fox is the demonization, the scapegoating 315 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 7: of teachers and librarians, firing them because they're allowing a 316 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 7: kid to check out the wrong book, censoring speech in 317 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 7: the classroom, also in the boardroom with these gaggirles. But 318 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 7: the don't Say gaybil. We in the nineteen seventies, Governor 319 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 7: Reagan came out against a version of the Don't Say gaybil. 320 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 7: Reagan came out and and and defended when they tried 321 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 7: to scapego teachers and the BRIGS initiative and they said 322 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 7: they'd fire teachers. It's very reminiscent because the teachers were 323 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 7: themselves gay and gay people can't teach our kids because 324 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 7: they're quote unquote predators. Uh So, I just there's a 325 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 7: lot of history in the state on this. 326 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 5: And so you think identity okay, well, well yeah, we 327 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 5: could talk about this for. 328 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 8: Our but I mean, yeah, getting into identity. 329 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 2: We should grab a bottle plump jack with me. 330 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: It isn't everything identity politics because everyone's identifying with that 331 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 1: with what with what's true to them. I don't know. 332 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 8: I think identity politics is that is that. 333 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 1: Space, religion and race, sexuality, Like, we all have identity 334 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 1: that we vote on essentially, or an idea that we 335 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: vote on. So isn't it all identity politics? 336 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 8: Yeah? 337 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 7: I mean for me. Look, I heard Obama right after 338 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 7: he gave his first public remarks after the schilaking we 339 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 7: took in the election, and he talked about pluralism, and 340 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 7: it's a word I use all the time. I don't 341 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 7: hear politicians use the word pluralism. And I was so excited, 342 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 7: and I say, about California, we practice pluralism, active engagement 343 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 7: in diversity. I see, it's point of pride. For me, 344 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 7: it's a point of strength, it's not a point of weakness. 345 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 7: The greatness of California is reflected in the diverse voices, 346 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 7: the ability to get first round draft choices, the best 347 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:26,000 Speaker 7: and the brightest from around the world because they feel included. 348 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 7: I remember when I was mayor in two thousand and 349 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 7: four when we did the same sex marriage. I joked, 350 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 7: but I wasn't joking. 351 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 1: I said, this is an. 352 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 7: Economic development strategy and people went, what you mean, Oh, yeah, 353 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 7: people are going to Tiffany's for rings. I said, no, 354 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 7: it's about people feeling heard cared for. That I'm saying, 355 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 7: as mayor, we have your back. Just because you love 356 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 7: someone differently means we believe in you. We want you 357 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 7: to feel included in our city, and we want the 358 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 7: best people to come here. And to me, that was 359 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 7: about creating a culture that's not only inviting, but in 360 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 7: and that's where it's it's it's in that sort of 361 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 7: it's in that space. And pluralism is just about the 362 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 7: active engagement of our differences. It's about reconciling around the 363 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 7: things that buying us together. And I just think it 364 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 7: makes what makes California great. It's what's made us great. 365 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:17,160 Speaker 7: It's making this nation great. And I just I hate 366 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 7: I hate bullies. I hate people talking down to people. 367 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 7: I've got a trans good son, and I just don't 368 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 7: like people demeaning. All these people want to do is survive. 369 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 7: They want to just live. They want to live. And 370 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:34,680 Speaker 7: the way they've been used as ponds and by these 371 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 7: political parties to get a vote, it really breaks my heart. 372 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 7: That said, I look, I'm not naive. You know, I've 373 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 7: got young kids and I get a parent. May that 374 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 7: is obviously going to be upset as someone as an 375 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 7: unfair advantage in a in a sport. That's those are 376 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 7: those are more complex and difficult issues. But I just 377 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 7: don't like the gay community always being on the receiving 378 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 7: end of hate in homophobia, and I just feel like, boy, 379 00:18:58,200 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 7: this is you know, I've been I've been an avid 380 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,880 Speaker 7: KIT for years and years and years and I'll always 381 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,680 Speaker 7: be and I'm just not going to turn my back 382 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 7: on vulnerable people. And I won't turn my back on 383 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 7: the gay community because the prevailing winds say you should. 384 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 1: I can't do it. Well, I have one more question. 385 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 1: Have you ever had a panic attack? Or do you 386 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:26,159 Speaker 1: have anxiety? I mean, like, do you have any like 387 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 1: mental issues with all with all the pressure? Like you 388 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:35,719 Speaker 1: are you? Like I'm on lexapro, Like are you? I mean, like, 389 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,159 Speaker 1: if I'm on lexapro, you must be on Like I 390 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 1: don't even know what I want that pill and limitless 391 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 1: I want that, yeah exactly. I mean do you have stress? 392 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 1: Obviously you do, but like how many panic attacks have 393 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 1: you had in your life? 394 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 8: Do I? No? No? You know what he does. 395 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 6: He's big into exercise, so I think that's what he 396 00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:00,200 Speaker 6: gets on a peloton or gets in the U it's 397 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 6: the sauna or you know that's how no Hoffman Institute yet, 398 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 6: but he's been able to do it. 399 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 9: I went, I know, okay, between and I only wish 400 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 9: we had had time to talk about our fanaticism for Christmas, 401 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:22,840 Speaker 9: but we'll do that in a Oh shit. 402 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 1: I know. Well, we were only leaving because you guys 403 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: have to bail. I guess is it? 404 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 8: Are you? Are you as crazy as we are? 405 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,480 Speaker 1: We're so crazy crazy. 406 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 6: I mean, we don't have snow, and you know in 407 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:42,159 Speaker 6: Marin County, but there's reindeer hoofs on our roof that 408 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 6: my husband Jeff, and there's you know, carrot remnants, and 409 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,199 Speaker 6: we've got Santa coming down. You know the videos all 410 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 6: that our kids were, you know, seventeen before they stopped believing. 411 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 6: My best friends like, yeah, if you don't tell them, 412 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 6: I will because. 413 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 1: They're going to But yeah, yeah. 414 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 6: We have a whole I'm gonna send you photos. You'll 415 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,160 Speaker 6: see I loved your stories. 416 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:06,199 Speaker 5: Okay, let's do let's do a quick rapid fire and 417 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:11,200 Speaker 5: then we'll we'll Yeah, he was more competitive. 418 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 4: Way more competitive, way not even wait. 419 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 8: What are your astrological signs Capricorn. 420 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 7: You obvious? What do you think he knows it? 421 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,400 Speaker 1: Hold, he's a virgo? 422 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:32,120 Speaker 5: Are you you're a Sagittarius Libra libra. 423 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 1: I was gonna say. 424 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,640 Speaker 4: Yes, Libra libra. 425 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 5: Interesting time for libras in these next couple of years. 426 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:46,359 Speaker 1: I'm a virgo, but apparently my charts is a more 427 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:51,200 Speaker 1: libra than virgo. I I appreciate you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Kindred. Yeah. 428 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 8: Who got in more trouble as kids? 429 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 4: Absolutely? Absolutely? 430 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: Jesus, this is over. 431 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 2: Actually, if I'm honest, neither of us did. 432 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 7: We mostly good. 433 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 4: My mom worked all the time. So how do you 434 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:05,879 Speaker 4: get in trouble? 435 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 7: Yeahs with our you know, just any canny and cheese 436 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:11,400 Speaker 7: every night. 437 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 4: And yeah, he came out. 438 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 6: And played basketball in the backyard with all his buddies 439 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 6: every night. I had a best friend who you know, 440 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:20,360 Speaker 6: whose mom was never around. So the trouble my mom 441 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 6: never knew about. 442 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 7: And uh, you know, after I became governor, we commuted 443 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 7: her six yearsmore. 444 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 5: Which parents like, It's like in our family sometimes we're like, Okay, 445 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:36,119 Speaker 5: who who are the kids most like? In terms of 446 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 5: the parents, Like who and your parents of your mom 447 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:38,960 Speaker 5: or dad? 448 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:40,159 Speaker 8: Are you most like this? 449 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,439 Speaker 6: Is such a long story that we don't have time for. 450 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:47,160 Speaker 6: But my brother was told by my mom our whole childhood, 451 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 6: Gavin's just like me, Hillary's just like Bill. 452 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 4: And my father is. 453 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 6: A gregarious, intelligent, intellectual, beloved man. So I think my 454 00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 6: and my mom would say, I'm shy and have no friends. 455 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 6: So and he had dyslex Yes, we had a lot 456 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:03,480 Speaker 6: of stuff. 457 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 7: I was Legitimately I'm still. 458 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 4: A shy guy, which which is ironic. 459 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 6: But the interesting thing is he heard that and said 460 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 6: I'm not going to own that, and he really didn't. 461 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,679 Speaker 6: And now he's the orator and the intellect and you know, 462 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 6: and it's really fascinating how he I watched him hear her, 463 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 6: and I could tell that he was feeling like, no, 464 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 6: don't don't label me. 465 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 4: So anyhow, who is who? 466 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 1: What about your first celebrity crush when you were little? 467 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 7: Oh? 468 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 1: Who's Yeah? 469 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 2: Who had to be one of the Hardy Boys? 470 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 1: They're fake? 471 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 4: No, not the Hardy Boys. 472 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 6: But who are the guys that the TV show that 473 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 6: looked like the Hardy Boys? Jesus, I make it back 474 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 6: to you, Mark Hamlin or something. 475 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 1: I don't know, I know. 476 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 7: You love you love that guy with the you. 477 00:23:55,960 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: Know, oh Sean jack. 478 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 8: Good one say anything, say anything? 479 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Look I'm sorry you met him. You 480 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:10,879 Speaker 4: didn't know I. 481 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 1: Spent them with elon to anything. 482 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's a that's. 483 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:17,680 Speaker 4: A I get a stalker. 484 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 1: Get any going against Gavin's is probably like Rebecca Morne, 485 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 1: what's from the Brunette from Phobe Kate's. 486 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,920 Speaker 7: No Man No That from Charlie's Angels back in the 487 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 7: Day Kate Show, Jacqueline Smith know the other one? 488 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 4: Kate Capture keep the other one? 489 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 7: H three? 490 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:45,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. 491 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,280 Speaker 2: He was going to say, he was going to say, 492 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 2: and I couldn't easily, said Kurt Russell. But I thought 493 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 2: that would make you love super uncomfortable. 494 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 8: Very what what is what's her? The third? The third Angel? 495 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 4: Keith Smith? 496 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 1: It's something what's no respect for? 497 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:08,879 Speaker 3: I don't. 498 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:14,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, Ky Jackson, I. 499 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 7: Didn't even have to pay the podcast. 500 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,159 Speaker 8: I was about to I was about to go in, 501 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:21,640 Speaker 8: Kate Jackson. 502 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 1: Kate asked the final ask, the final question. 503 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:28,159 Speaker 8: The final question is this is for both of you, 504 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 8: two parter. 505 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 5: What is the one thing that you admire the most 506 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 5: about your sibling that would be something that you would 507 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 5: love to emulate that you had more of And then 508 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,879 Speaker 5: the other part of that question is what is the 509 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 5: thing that you wish you could alleviate so that they 510 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:53,680 Speaker 5: could have a calmer sense of self or you would 511 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,880 Speaker 5: think would be more optimal for them. 512 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 7: Well, I'll quickly take that. I think Hillary implied it. 513 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 7: I mean, she's she's taken up the vast majority of 514 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 7: the of the burden of our parents, both passing and 515 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,239 Speaker 7: the impact that's had on our kids and just our 516 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:13,479 Speaker 7: lives generally, and and just from just even the technical 517 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 7: logistics associated, but also the emotional side of it, and 518 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 7: being there for both our parents in an emotional way 519 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:26,400 Speaker 7: and a consistent way throughout their struggles and ultimately. 520 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:28,160 Speaker 1: Their lives. 521 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 7: And so that that I always admired. And that's also 522 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 7: what I admire most about Hillary is there's a deep 523 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 7: empathy and care and compassion and a commitment to other people. 524 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,639 Speaker 7: She wasn't when she says that. I know, I was thinking, 525 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 7: people just roll their eyes. Oh yeah, I care. Our 526 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 7: most important I said, is our people when Hillary said 527 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,159 Speaker 7: that about the company. But it's like no bullshit with her, 528 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:52,119 Speaker 7: It's like her obsession and but it's like our friends 529 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,400 Speaker 7: and her family. Even when she's got a lousy brother 530 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 7: that's just too focused on his election or something. She 531 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 7: still gives damn. And when you screw up, she's like, 532 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 7: you fuck an asshole. You get your shit together out 533 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 7: of your back. And or when you think everything's gone great, 534 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:12,120 Speaker 7: she goes, you ain't all that you. Uh, I saw 535 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:13,720 Speaker 7: a little piece of shit that's good. 536 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 1: Put you in check. Yeah, so you know. So I 537 00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 1: think you know. 538 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,320 Speaker 7: Both those are you know, different size of the same coin. 539 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:23,440 Speaker 4: I think I think it's a wrap. 540 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 6: I would say that if I what I would like 541 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:35,200 Speaker 6: to lessen the burden is the hate. It just it 542 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 6: breaks my heart the hate because I know and everybody. 543 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,240 Speaker 6: It's so interesting because we I have a several Republican 544 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 6: friends that said, if Gavin's anything like you, then I'm 545 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 6: gonna like him. And I just want people to know 546 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 6: him because to know him is to respect him and 547 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,480 Speaker 6: to like him, whether you like his politics or not. 548 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 6: And so that's really been something that it breaks my 549 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 6: heart for him, for his kids, for his wife, and 550 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 6: just knowing that he knowing who he is is authentically 551 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:05,520 Speaker 6: and where he comes from, and that breaks my heart 552 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 6: that the world can't be a kinder, gentler place. And 553 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 6: I feel like there's a you know, a few years 554 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 6: ago we unleashed a lot of hate, and I wish 555 00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 6: we could put everything back in a little box. 556 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,000 Speaker 4: But that I would take away from him if I could. 557 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 2: And what I admire most about him is his work ethic. 558 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 4: You know, you asked who is more competitive. 559 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 6: I told you that I only take away the seventh 560 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,320 Speaker 6: place ribbons, so as you can imagine, the competition's not 561 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 6: my jam. 562 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 4: And I do like you, Oliver. 563 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 6: I really like to be loved authentically, and I try 564 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 6: really hard to be such a good person in order 565 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:37,159 Speaker 6: to achieve that. 566 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 4: But for me, Gavin's relentless. 567 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 8: He is studious, he is he does not take shortcuts, 568 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 8: and that's. 569 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 6: Really really hard, and that's exhausting, and that's a humongous sacrifice. 570 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 6: And I am not always willing to make the sacrifice 571 00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 6: in the same way he does. And I'm so proud 572 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 6: of him for that. And that's I think My parents 573 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 6: weren't that way. They were real incredible people and m 574 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 6: passed and philanthropists, et cetera. But and my mom worked 575 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 6: hard because she had to. He does it because he 576 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 6: wants to and to make a difference, and that I 577 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 6: admire the most. About him and his evolution as a 578 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 6: father that I didn't see coming. 579 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: Oh great, that's awesome, that's amazing. I mean, that's my 580 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,480 Speaker 1: number one priority. It's it's so true. It's like intention 581 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 1: matters so much. I mean, not in politics anymore, because 582 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 1: if you don't, if you don't go one way and 583 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,520 Speaker 1: you're not part of that crew, you're fucking hated now, 584 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 1: which is so intense. You know, it's like the intentions 585 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 1: are to make everything great or to do to do 586 00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 1: the best for the people. That's the intention. Now, if 587 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 1: you don't agree with the way that I'm doing, okay, 588 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: that's that's okay, I don't agree with it. But now 589 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 1: it's like fuck you. I mean, it's it's it's just crazy. 590 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 1: I mean it's Kate. Kate is just like fuck you 591 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:53,520 Speaker 1: all the time. 592 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 5: It's you know, diplomacy goes a long way, and like, 593 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 5: you know, there's something that yeah, I guess we do 594 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 5: miss that sort of healthy debate. 595 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 8: We grew up. 596 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 5: Kurt loved to do healthy debates, and so he would 597 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 5: give us a side even if we didn't agree nice 598 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 5: and he'd say, okay, you're you know, this is. 599 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 8: Who you're going to be today. Kate and you know, Boston, 600 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 8: this is who you're going to be. 601 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 5: And then we'd have these big debates even if we 602 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 5: didn't agree, just to understand what it is to like 603 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 5: actually be able to debate something and talk about it 604 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 5: and then still love each other. 605 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 1: Well we've gone. We've gone completely. We've gone completely away 606 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: from what this whole experiment was supposed to be, which 607 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 1: is two parties, different ideas coming together for a solution, 608 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 1: you know, where you can debate and scream at each other. 609 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: And then Adams and Jefferson, you know our homies. You know, 610 00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 1: they'll go have cocktails if they had cocktails back then, 611 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: but they'd need they went had meed, you know. Or 612 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 1: in Washington they debate in the aisles and yelled each 613 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 1: other and go have whiskeys. And there was a there 614 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,640 Speaker 1: was a moment, and it just seems to be gone. 615 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 1: It feels like it's never going to come back. It's 616 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 1: what it feels like anyway. But forget about this for 617 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 1: a second. I want to real quick. Then we're out 618 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 1: your podcast with fucking Marshawn Lynch, who I'm a huge 619 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 1: football fan. Beast a beast mode, I mean, give us 620 00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 1: a give us a give us a thing on politics. 621 00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 7: A natural pairing, you know, yeah. 622 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 1: I mean governor, how do you know? 623 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 7: Marsh On obviously even asked that's he's an old but 624 00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:46,400 Speaker 7: so our our our co anchor or so to speak 625 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 7: on the podcast. This guy Doug Hendrickson is one of 626 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 7: my oldest friends. And Doug's been his agent forever. And 627 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 7: so I've been, you know, steeped in all things NFL, 628 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 7: it seems for twenty years, and uh been spending a 629 00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 7: lot of time uh in in in NFL camps and 630 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 7: getting to know a lot of players. And one of 631 00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 7: those special guys was Marshawn and started as as supervisor 632 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 7: and mayor, working with him on his foundation in Oakland. 633 00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 7: I'm like, damn, this guy's the real deal and you know, 634 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 7: a bunch of inner city kids and always having their back, 635 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 7: and he was surprised I kept coming back as mayor 636 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,080 Speaker 7: and I wasn't just some dude in a suit, you know, 637 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,800 Speaker 7: and just you know, because he's not a trustworthy guy. 638 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 4: Necessary he doesn't have trust yeah exactly. 639 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:32,920 Speaker 7: Man, when he you know, and then he's like, no 640 00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 7: one will have your back, like he'll have your back 641 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 7: when you break through. And so we were bsing about 642 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 7: everything and everything you just said, Man, where we want 643 00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 7: to put a crowbar in the spokes the wheel of 644 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 7: everybody else? Everyone's pissed off zero some game. I'll get 645 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:50,200 Speaker 7: mine scarcity mindset. And we're like, man, enough of this, 646 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 7: and can we talk We can we not talk about politics, 647 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:58,200 Speaker 7: but can we politic? And he can we just like bullshit? 648 00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,400 Speaker 7: And can we have conversations that everybody else is happening 649 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 7: but not through such a sort of extreme ideological legs 650 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,080 Speaker 7: and and just sort of see where it goes. And 651 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 7: so we've been having fun man, and just crazy different 652 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 7: weird guests and traditional guests and and it's your guess 653 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:17,240 Speaker 7: is as good as mine where the hell it's going 654 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:18,959 Speaker 7: to go? But politicans been a lot. 655 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:20,760 Speaker 1: Well, I'm throwing my hat in the ring. I want 656 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,960 Speaker 1: to come on. I want to meet you, to know 657 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 1: your damn fans. So you can ask me anything too. 658 00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 1: I'll say, I'll tell secrets about my entire family. 659 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 7: So you're going to bring all those photos. 660 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 4: Man, we talked about, we don't want you spending Christmas. 661 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 8: You don't know, he won't I'll be I'll be the one. 662 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 8: I will do all the bad things and somehow I 663 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:44,400 Speaker 8: won't be invited. 664 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 1: That's right, that's true. 665 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 4: We need to unpack that. 666 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 1: Next time. 667 00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 8: Well, I thank you so much. It's being honor Governor Hillary. 668 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 1: Thinking, Hey guys, it's been awesome. Yeah, and get my 669 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 1: number if you want advice or if you need direction. 670 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 7: I know you're you're you're you're lining up to be 671 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 7: the forty what number of forty you're like, whatever, be 672 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:12,480 Speaker 7: the forty first governor. 673 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean if you if you wake up and 674 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,440 Speaker 1: then nine, you're like, oh, ship, what do I do 675 00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 1: about this? You know there's a homeless whatever, just call me, 676 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:22,880 Speaker 1: you figure it out, you figure out. 677 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,839 Speaker 2: He calls me first, but he'll call you now. 678 00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 4: Figure problem sol. 679 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 7: Yeah, been solving every problem. Yeah, thank you. 680 00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 1: That was awesome, so fun. 681 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 8: I think we should do more political conversations. I love it. 682 00:34:58,239 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 1: I want to do like a part ten. I mean, 683 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 1: there's so much I want to do. 684 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,719 Speaker 8: I want it. This makes me want to do so 685 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:05,880 Speaker 8: many different people. 686 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 5: Oh my god, I mean I want you know what 687 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 5: I kept thinking when I was listening, I remember watching 688 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 5: Gavin I'm terrible Governor, Governor Knewsom. I know, but I 689 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:19,880 Speaker 5: feel weird saying Gavin's every time I say, I'm like 690 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,000 Speaker 5: Kevin Gavin governor. 691 00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:28,920 Speaker 1: Dude, I'm like, what's up the opposite? 692 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 8: No, No, here's my thing. I I feel like it's. 693 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 5: We're actually kind of perfect people to talk about politics 694 00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 5: because we don't. 695 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:55,240 Speaker 8: We were not really very like political politically. 696 00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 5: I mean, look, we have our points of view, obviously, 697 00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,759 Speaker 5: like everybody who cares a about your community, you know, 698 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,320 Speaker 5: we have own personal points of view. But to actually 699 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:10,640 Speaker 5: speak to someone, you know, with especially with a sibling, 700 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:14,520 Speaker 5: which is very interesting. Yeah, you see a different dynamic 701 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,880 Speaker 5: with them when they're when they're with their sibling. 702 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:21,000 Speaker 1: She's amazing. You can almost tell that, like she is 703 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,800 Speaker 1: sort of the roots. There's a foundation to her that 704 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 1: you know, keeps him accountable in a strange way, or 705 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,960 Speaker 1: she shepherded him in a strength, you know what I mean, like. 706 00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 8: Women. 707 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 1: She's strong. She's strong. You can tell us she's strong. 708 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 1: To be friends with them so so fun. 709 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:46,480 Speaker 5: So I feel like the point of politicians is we 710 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 5: probably would want to be friends with all of them. Yes, 711 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 5: they wouldn't get into politics. 712 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:55,960 Speaker 1: And it was probably a great fucking time. Donald Trump, 713 00:36:56,520 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 1: I'm sure Trump is. We have so much fun, you know, 714 00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,719 Speaker 1: forget about his politics and forget about like whatever. Like 715 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 1: if we were like, you know, hanging out, probably fun. 716 00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 8: I mean I look I kind of like everybody, you know, 717 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,880 Speaker 8: so I can have fun anywhere. 718 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, me too, I can too. 719 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 8: Yeah. 720 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 5: It wasn't that like the the the UFC had to 721 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:23,440 Speaker 5: blast of course, you know, I said energy because I 722 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,640 Speaker 5: was like, I wasn't I It was a lot of. 723 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:27,919 Speaker 1: Fun, a lot of people there. 724 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 8: I love UFC. 725 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 7: I was. 726 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,799 Speaker 8: I saw them across the way. I'm like, they look 727 00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 8: like they're having a great human beings, like, you know, 728 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 8: I don't know, well wait, wait, I want to hold on. 729 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 5: I want to say something. But I didn't ask him, 730 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 5: which was really interesting. I remember watching remember when you know, 731 00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 5: this was before we didn't know what was going to 732 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:55,080 Speaker 5: happen with Biden, but Governor knew some It sort of 733 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,439 Speaker 5: looked like he was kicking off to be what would 734 00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:01,640 Speaker 5: have been the next candidate Democrats at Canada. And he 735 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:09,320 Speaker 5: did a debate on Hannity with uh Governor dissent, and 736 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,800 Speaker 5: I forgot to ask. I remember watching it and thinking, 737 00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:17,959 Speaker 5: I think Sean Hannity really likes Governor like I felt 738 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,439 Speaker 5: like because he was talking about, you know, a crop 739 00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,600 Speaker 5: by you know, but you sort of bipartisan, you know, 740 00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,600 Speaker 5: being able to move across the aisle and really get 741 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:32,359 Speaker 5: things done. And I remember watching Sean Hannity with him, 742 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 5: and I felt like they actually had a really nice rapport. 743 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:38,840 Speaker 5: I was like, I bet they're friends, and I wanted 744 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:43,680 Speaker 5: to ask him question and I because I do think 745 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:48,360 Speaker 5: there is there are some people who are able to 746 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,400 Speaker 5: do that where it's not like it doesn't have to 747 00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:57,000 Speaker 5: turn into some big, kind of heated, polarizing hat that 748 00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:00,440 Speaker 5: they actually can have healthy debate. 749 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, and and that I felt like those well, you know, 750 00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:07,280 Speaker 8: I mean that debate was really interesting. 751 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I didn't watch it. Yeah, yeah, I mean, 752 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:14,520 Speaker 1: you know, whatever side you're on, it doesn't matter. Whoever 753 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:16,719 Speaker 1: won the debate doesn't matter. But when you look at 754 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:22,040 Speaker 1: like the vice presidential debate this year with Vance and Waltz, 755 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:26,719 Speaker 1: it was like a cordial debate. They let each other 756 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,440 Speaker 1: speak and they kind of praised each other on certain things, 757 00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:33,480 Speaker 1: and you know, I don't care where you stand on 758 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,680 Speaker 1: the spectrum, Apoe. 759 00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:38,600 Speaker 8: It was nice to watch. 760 00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, oh, this is so so nice. 761 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 8: But then but then everyone was like, our ratings are down. 762 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:50,960 Speaker 1: You're not wrong I mean yeah, yeah, no, I mean 763 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 1: they're great. You can see. That's the love and the 764 00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,680 Speaker 1: history and the depth of their relationship between the two 765 00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:03,120 Speaker 1: of them. Number one, and then again politics aside, like 766 00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,440 Speaker 1: he's a great guy and it feels like, you know, 767 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,520 Speaker 1: a politician is a politician, right, but it does feel 768 00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:13,120 Speaker 1: like that he does actually fucking care and he's putting 769 00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,400 Speaker 1: his ship out there. And whether you like it or not, 770 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,920 Speaker 1: you know, okay, that's your opinion. But don't hate. 771 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,360 Speaker 8: Can I see hate? You know what I yeah, the 772 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:28,960 Speaker 8: hate thing is is California. No. But but look, our 773 00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:33,160 Speaker 8: brains are predisposed to be go negative. We have negative bias. 774 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 8: That's what. It's what we're you know that we have 775 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:36,960 Speaker 8: to fight that, you know. 776 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,840 Speaker 5: But but but but but maybe you know, I know, 777 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,920 Speaker 5: like there's like the Rogans, who you know, have certain 778 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 5: people on and then call her daddy as calmlin. 779 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,880 Speaker 8: What if we do interview everybody? 780 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:50,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to do that. 781 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:56,160 Speaker 5: I want to get Pucker Carlson on here. Yeah, come on, 782 00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:59,040 Speaker 5: I want to like, I want to like talk to everybody. 783 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:04,880 Speaker 1: You talk to Brett Brett Bear, He'll definitely I'd love 784 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:08,640 Speaker 1: to talk to Tucker because Tucker's probably fun as ship. 785 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,360 Speaker 1: I mean, is he does is he insane sometimes? And 786 00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:15,120 Speaker 1: the things that he says in my opinion? Yeah, you know, 787 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,160 Speaker 1: but does he sometimes say it because it's it's good ratings? 788 00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:18,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. 789 00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,480 Speaker 5: I don't even want to have a public opinion. I 790 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:25,799 Speaker 5: just want to have I just want to ask questions. Yeah, 791 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:28,760 Speaker 5: you know, who cares about my opinion? 792 00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:29,520 Speaker 8: I just want to. 793 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:31,800 Speaker 1: I just want to know gives a shit about what 794 00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:35,160 Speaker 1: we think? Honestly, I want to know what they. 795 00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:35,800 Speaker 8: Think, you know. 796 00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,320 Speaker 5: I don't even want to sway anything, you know, I 797 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:40,440 Speaker 5: just want to I just want I just want to 798 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:44,960 Speaker 5: ask the questions that it seems everybody's asking, you know, 799 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,160 Speaker 5: like we should get you on moscot here. 800 00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:53,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, I'll talk to I'll do I'll talk to anyone. 801 00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:58,439 Speaker 8: Like AOC AOC. She seems to be a big people 802 00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:03,320 Speaker 8: are talking about her maybe being the next Democratic candidate. 803 00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're like a or a political show. You know, 804 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:09,359 Speaker 1: I should call it, we should call it politicking. 805 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:17,239 Speaker 8: Anyway, that was fun. 806 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,319 Speaker 1: That was a blast, and I love you to talk 807 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:21,560 Speaker 1: fun hanging with you. 808 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 8: I know I'm done with my movie. 809 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 1: I know it's good. 810 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:29,640 Speaker 8: I'm finished. I'm sad, but I'm back now. 811 00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:30,720 Speaker 1: It's Christmas time. 812 00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:33,440 Speaker 8: All right. I love you. You know we need it. 813 00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 5: We need to get on and do a solo podcast 814 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:41,840 Speaker 5: of just talking about how we're prepping for should Why. 815 00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,520 Speaker 1: Don't we do a Christmas prep No? 816 00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:43,880 Speaker 8: I know. 817 00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 1: I mean even on our thread, I was like, yeah, 818 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:51,160 Speaker 1: I can't wait for the fight. I was like, it's 819 00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,760 Speaker 1: gonna be so fun that we've never had more family 820 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:54,759 Speaker 1: together at one time. 821 00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:58,319 Speaker 8: And I'm like, oh my god, really, guys, like we're 822 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,400 Speaker 8: gonna break up this christ I know. 823 00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:04,840 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, I don't know what I told Danny. 824 00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,840 Speaker 8: I told Danny we're going in like this every morning. 825 00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:11,919 Speaker 8: The mantra is we're going to have the best day. 826 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:13,600 Speaker 8: We're gonna have so much fun. 827 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:18,359 Speaker 5: We're not responsible for anybody but our kids, and there's 828 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:20,200 Speaker 5: going to be a million questions and we might not 829 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:21,080 Speaker 5: have all the answers. 830 00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:24,600 Speaker 1: Or what if you did it reversed? What if you 831 00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,839 Speaker 1: wake up in the morning and just get it all out, 832 00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:31,239 Speaker 1: like I fucking hate you, you didn't pick up the 833 00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,120 Speaker 1: fucking kid, and then it's like, okay, your turn, and 834 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:35,879 Speaker 1: then you and then it's like all right, we're done. 835 00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:36,839 Speaker 1: It's eight am. 836 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:38,920 Speaker 8: And we did it. The rest of the days can 837 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,759 Speaker 8: becase I'm not so sure it would story a minute 838 00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,160 Speaker 8: that's like that would it be a half half. 839 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:50,080 Speaker 1: Day to half day? 840 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:51,760 Speaker 8: Everyone, we're gating Danny. 841 00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,120 Speaker 1: They're still getting it out. It's supposed to be a 842 00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:55,080 Speaker 1: ten minute fa. 843 00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:04,200 Speaker 5: Oh, it's funny, that's that's or you know, And I 844 00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,240 Speaker 5: did Mom and I have complaining lunches. 845 00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:07,200 Speaker 8: Did they ever tell you this? 846 00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 5: No, we go to lunch and I'm like, Mom, here's 847 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:12,600 Speaker 5: what we're gonna do. We're gonna have a complaining lunch, 848 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,840 Speaker 5: and we're just going to complain the whole time. And 849 00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,880 Speaker 5: and so what happens is is we start out and 850 00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:20,040 Speaker 5: like ten minutes. 851 00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:20,279 Speaker 8: In it's over. 852 00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,000 Speaker 1: That's a clap idea. I love that. 853 00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:26,480 Speaker 8: Yeah, I get it's like especially with like you know, 854 00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,759 Speaker 8: you know, like let's just complain. That's actually no going 855 00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:31,160 Speaker 8: in with it. 856 00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:33,120 Speaker 1: You know we should all, you know, it'd be good. 857 00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:36,480 Speaker 1: You know, like the like the warming hut down you 858 00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 1: know by the pond down there, right, you have to 859 00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:43,000 Speaker 1: you actually have to walk outside. You cannot fight unless 860 00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,080 Speaker 1: you've got the fight shed, Like you have to go 861 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:48,560 Speaker 1: in there to fight. So if there's any even raised 862 00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,280 Speaker 1: voices in the house. It's like, sorry, pop, mom or whoever. 863 00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:53,600 Speaker 1: Like fight you're going to the fight shed like you 864 00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:54,560 Speaker 1: We're not doing it in here. 865 00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:58,080 Speaker 8: But it is so funny. 866 00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,879 Speaker 1: I lot of fight shed and we'll put like little 867 00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:04,440 Speaker 1: alcohols and whiskeys in like a do it like a fire. 868 00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 8: That's nice, well, like it really cozy. 869 00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:10,520 Speaker 5: Really they get in there like this, Well, our parents 870 00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,319 Speaker 5: aren't going to listen to this, but you know there 871 00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:13,040 Speaker 5: is going to. 872 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:16,920 Speaker 1: Be a new Yeah, excited about that. 873 00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:20,880 Speaker 5: This is going to be I mean maybe we'll bleep 874 00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:24,480 Speaker 5: that out so that you picked up. 875 00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:28,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's probably a good idea. I love you. 876 00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:29,800 Speaker 1: I love you, b