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Speaker 1: Hey, you guys.

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Speaker 2: I know you guys heard all about our Costa Rica

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Speaker 2: adventures last week, and guess what, we just announced our

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty two Good Mom's Retreat and our favorite place

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Speaker 3: And no, you do not have to be a mama

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Speaker 3: to kick it. You can just be a woman who

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Speaker 3: Get away from your kids, your husband, your boyfriend, your family, America.

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Speaker 2: Do a little healing, go deep within, go deep dive

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Speaker 3: So be the first to find out when the details

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Speaker 3: We're only going to be able to accommodate twenty to

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Speaker 3: twenty five women on this trip. So if you want

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Speaker 1: Can't wait to see.

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Speaker 4: You guys on the other side.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 2: I'm Nila.

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Speaker 3: So I just want to get straight into it because

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Speaker 3: I'm fucking so excited because we have a special guest

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Speaker 3: today that I have been like stalking when I can

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Speaker 3: because her pages constantly get deleted. And I actually discovered

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Speaker 3: her at a Horrible Decision show. A shout out to

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Speaker 3: Wheezy and Mandy our girls. They invited us to a

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Speaker 3: show out in New York before COVID and Mistress Marley

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Speaker 3: came on stage with her sub and I actually had

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Speaker 3: my homeboy with me and he his mind was fucking blown,

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Speaker 3: and I was like, I need to get this amazing

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Speaker 3: black woman on our show. Like, so when we came

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Speaker 3: to New York, I was like, Nila, if anything happens,

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Speaker 3: if anything doesn't happen, this shit has to happen. We

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Speaker 3: have to get Mistress Marley. So missus Marley, welcome to

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Speaker 3: the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi for having me, Thanks for coming. Mistress Marley is

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Speaker 2: not only a dom but she's an educator, an activist,

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Speaker 2: event curator, mogul, and educator in the dom world. She's

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Speaker 2: been featured on BuzzFeed, New York Times like she's top

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Speaker 3: And she's also the founder of Black Dom Sorority, which

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Speaker 3: we'll ask you about that too. Later on in the show.

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Speaker 3: So welcome to the show, Mistress Marley.

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Speaker 5: Thank you for having me. Guys.

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Speaker 2: If you're on our Patreon, you will also see that

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Speaker 2: we are joined by Mistress Marley's sub he is here

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Speaker 2: Neils on a Leash, which I'm sure we have even

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Speaker 2: more questions to ask. I'm going to talk to my

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Speaker 2: sexy voice today because Mistress Marley has inspired me to

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Speaker 2: wear my stripper shoes, my sexy outfit, and because I'm

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Speaker 2: the sex of the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Whatever, I'm gonna talk in my.

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Speaker 3: I asked her, what the fuck am I of the podcast.

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Speaker 3: She's like, I don't know, bitch, but I'm the sex.

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Speaker 5: I was like, wow, okay, it's true.

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Speaker 2: So Marlee, how did this begin? How did this come about?

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Speaker 2: How did you discover this amazing talent of yours and

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Speaker 2: then like not only discover it, hone in on it

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Speaker 6: So I kind of came into this work, just like

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Speaker 6: survival work. So I've always been a sex worker. So

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Speaker 6: I was a stripper in college. I did some sugar

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Speaker 6: baby stuff, and then when I came here to New York,

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Speaker 6: I was in grad school for fashion. After grad school,

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Speaker 6: because that's the queriest thing to do, Like why as

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Speaker 6: an Aquarius wouldn't I do some crazy Like.

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Speaker 6: So I applied got the job, and then while I

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Speaker 5: I'm like, you know what, let me like look this up.

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Speaker 6: So I looked up the dominatrix stuff and at first

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Speaker 5: I don't know, like is that really me?

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Speaker 6: So I was like, no, I've seen fifty shades of gray,

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Speaker 5: Really a bad example. But I kind of like put

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Speaker 6: But then one day I searched like online how to

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Speaker 6: make money as a woman online just being sexy and dominant,

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Speaker 5: Found financial domination.

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Speaker 6: So I started off in financial domination, which is so same.

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Speaker 3: Tell our listeners what financial domination is.

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Speaker 6: So basically financial domination. They call it finn dom for sure.

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Speaker 6: It's a psychological kink where the dominant controls the submissive's wallet.

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Speaker 6: So basically you get paid just for existing subs basically

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Speaker 6: get off by just sending you money and they know,

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Speaker 6: like they'll never meet you or they don't want anything

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Speaker 6: in return, They just want you to take their money.

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Speaker 1: What the fuck?

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Speaker 5: Sign me the fuck I am doing life wrong.

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Speaker 3: I can't even get a nigga to like pay for

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Speaker 3: a dinner on a trip, like well, like I'm in.

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Speaker 5: Beginner level dom I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm let me tell you, Marley, I've been dominating my dms.

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Speaker 1: Thank you to good moms.

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Speaker 2: We have a plethora of people. We talked about a

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Speaker 2: lot of shit, so our audience is wide. But I

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Speaker 2: I try to talk shit on my dms, but like

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Speaker 5: But I do feel like.

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Speaker 2: If I if I can just bloom a little bit

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Speaker 2: into my dominatrix maybe I can get to level two.

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Speaker 3: So well, i'm your wife, so you have to split

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Speaker 5: Well, he paid for our surf lesson, so be happy.

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Speaker 1: He did pay for our surf lesson in Costa Rica.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing something right, right right, I just need to

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Speaker 2: recruit more, which like that's what I have so many questions?

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Speaker 5: Fuck, okay, how.

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Speaker 2: Do you spot? How do you spot a finn sub?

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Speaker 2: Is that even a word? I think, yeah, that's the word, okay,

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Speaker 2: But I'm looking at your sub who's joining us here,

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Speaker 2: how do you spot? Or do they just come to

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Speaker 6: So it depends, like so you have different subs that

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Speaker 3: So I've definitely gotten those messages in my dms, but

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Speaker 3: like expose my whus. I'm like this nigga DOESNET had

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Speaker 1: And I don't know?

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Speaker 3: Like so that's really that's typically how it is, though, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like men that don't want to be found on the

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Speaker 6: So like financial domination, the biggest thing is being anonymous.

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Speaker 6: So it's like I want to send you my money

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Speaker 6: and I gonna know who I am and I don't

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Speaker 2: So, like in your personal sex life, because I'm sure

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Speaker 2: it's separate, do you enjoy being dominant in the bedroom

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Speaker 6: I consider myself a switch when it comes to like men,

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Speaker 6: I'm really into, but I also like and women also, well,

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Speaker 6: no it women, I'm dominant, so I'm bisexual.

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Speaker 5: So women, I'm very dominant.

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Speaker 6: With men, I can switch, but I also do something

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Speaker 6: but the same time, I'm telling you what I want,

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Speaker 5: Pussy this way, like do it this way, do that.

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Speaker 6: Like I'm very verbal, but I still be submissive, you

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Speaker 3: You know, would you let one of your partners put

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Speaker 3: That's where I draw the line.

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Speaker 5: I like like, I like choking, I love spanking.

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Speaker 6: I don't mind like some bondage, a little bit of bondage,

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Speaker 6: but the leash, like I can't see myself like.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, Eric and I are doing some field research

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Speaker 2: tonight and we're going to the sex club in Brooklyn.

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Speaker 2: I know, right, spicy, if you want to come, like.

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Speaker 5: What's going on, I'll lack one, so I'll be in

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Speaker 2: So I was gonna ask you like, do you have

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Speaker 2: any tips for us if we want to live out

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Speaker 2: some of our dominat extremes at the sex club, if

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Speaker 6: Well, I actually throw sex parties myself. So I have

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Speaker 5: We just had one in Atlanta for Juneteenth.

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Speaker 6: So I'll say the biggest thing in going to a

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Speaker 5: Try to like see which men are submissive. You can

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Speaker 6: Telly a little bit off the bat, like just if

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Speaker 6: wanting to do every little thing for you, like really

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Speaker 6: use that to your advantage because being dominant as sex

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Speaker 5: It's like all eyes on me type shit, you know.

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Speaker 3: So like for me, I'm definitely submissive in the bedroom.

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Speaker 3: I've tried, I've like gotten more comfortable like exploring my dominance,

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Speaker 3: feel like silly when I'm doing it because I'm so

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Speaker 3: used to being submissive. How what is what is like?

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Speaker 3: What are like some of the things that you would say,

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Speaker 3: like for someone that wants to like explore their dominance

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Speaker 6: So my first thing I would say is not all

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Speaker 6: They just feel like they're being dumb and then you know,

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Speaker 6: So I always try to be like really transparent with myselbs,

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Speaker 5: Are they. Do you want to say your heart.

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Speaker 7: Limits, needles, electro sounding, vomit, heart, CBT.

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Speaker 6: So he said SCAT, which you guys it scattered when

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Speaker 6: Sounding is when you take the little metal instrument and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, even got it out here.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, So there's sounding, vomit of course, blood, electro play,

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Speaker 6: So those were his hard limits. But you know, you

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Speaker 6: turn it into empowerment for themselves. So I had one

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Speaker 6: like to the dungeon. I'll just put my feet all

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Speaker 6: And he was just like no, But it's empowering to

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Speaker 6: it's something that I do to make women feel good.

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Speaker 6: So it's really just about having those conversations, but also

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Speaker 5: How did they react? So I feel like all, like

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Speaker 5: a good dom should know how to look at non

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so the you learned a lot of the stuff

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Speaker 1: Essentially she was.

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Speaker 5: Not my mentor.

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Speaker 6: She was just someone where like if we were on

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Speaker 6: But it was never a teaching experience. So a lot

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Speaker 6: of these things you're hearing me talk about now, I

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Speaker 3: I would imagine that also being a domin in the

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Speaker 3: black space. And there's a lot I see so many

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Speaker 1: What is that space?

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Speaker 3: Like, like is it very is it? Is there a

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Speaker 6: And yeah, So when I came into financial domination, I

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Speaker 6: you know, came on Twitter because fendom is big on Twitter.

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Speaker 6: You on Twitter, you type in fendom fi ndom, You'll

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Speaker 6: find a whole nother world. And all saw was white doms,

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Speaker 6: white doms. But I was still new, so like I

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Speaker 6: would reach out, like you know, asking for help advice.

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Speaker 5: Some of them would block me.

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Speaker 6: Some of them would be like really rude, Like I

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Speaker 6: like just really like super rude. There's even like engagement

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Speaker 6: groups where other doms help like you get your content out,

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Speaker 6: and those engagement groups were always like low key racists

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Speaker 6: or if they felt like you were more popular than

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Speaker 5: And so that's why I created black dom sorority.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, wow, yeah, I would imagine.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's tough.

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Speaker 2: I think one of the biggest misconceptions of like dominant,

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Speaker 1: But that's not true, right.

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Speaker 6: No, that's not true. So that's the biggest Yeah, like

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Speaker 6: you said, the biggest misconception.

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Speaker 2: So, like, out of all of your clients, are you

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Speaker 5: Is that in my three years of being a dom

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Speaker 5: I've never had sex with a client?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Wow, So they're coming to climax? Are they even coming

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Speaker 2: allow them to? So it's like it's still up to me.

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Speaker 2: So sometimes I'll do edging. Sometimes I'll make them like

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Speaker 2: like things with sex toys like wands or whatever.

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Speaker 5: But it's really up to me. Do you let them

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Speaker 5: do anything sexual to you? No? So since you've been

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Speaker 5: doing this three years? Yes, three years?

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Speaker 2: How have you navigated like relationships? Have you had a

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Speaker 2: intrigued by it? Are they cool with it at first?

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Speaker 2: And then they're like nah, you know that's.

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Speaker 6: So I'm actually dating someone right now who found me

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Speaker 6: my hustle or whatever. I will say, like seeing that

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Speaker 6: I date black men and black men only, I will

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Speaker 6: say that it's kind of hard navigating the next space,

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Speaker 6: so you're gonna find it eventually, Like you're gonna find

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Speaker 6: it eventually. But it's like I tell them like what

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Speaker 6: It's either oh, You're not gonna do that to me,

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Speaker 6: or they try to make it like a learning thing

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Speaker 6: and I'm not trying to do neither, Like I'm not

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Speaker 6: trying to teach on a.

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Speaker 5: Date right, Like I'm not your teacher. Yeah, So, so how.

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Speaker 2: Have you been how long you've been dating the sky?

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Speaker 2: How is it going.

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Speaker 6: So we've only been dating since the beginning of this year.

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Speaker 6: It's going pretty well. Like he's always asking me about

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Speaker 6: my sex parties, but very much so thinking about that.

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Speaker 2: If you guys going to sex parties that are not

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Speaker 5: So if he comes to mind, it would be his

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Speaker 2: Are you dominating him at all in the bedroom or

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Speaker 5: Just I'm very much so it's up. He's very dominant.

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Speaker 5: He's a leo. So you know that goes.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that for some men they see you

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Speaker 2: they want to prove a point, like definitely, you're not

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna dom you. You know what I mean?

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I get like men from Instagram and shit

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Speaker 6: and my dms all the time, like let me be

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Speaker 5: I'm like blocked. Goodbye. You're a stranger.

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Speaker 6: I don't even know who you are, and you're just

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Speaker 6: assuming that I would even first of all give you

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Speaker 6: a chance, Like you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 2: Like thinking about black men particularly, I hate to say this,

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Speaker 2: but it's true, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Let's close mind it.

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Speaker 2: And it's hard, like when you're an open sex forward,

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Speaker 2: it and doing it. Yeah yeah, just in the black

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Speaker 2: community period. Just like you said, there's not that many

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Speaker 2: black doms. But you know, we're moms. So I got

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Speaker 2: to ask, how does your mom feel about your career?

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Speaker 5: My mom is very supportive of what I do.

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Speaker 1: It's beautiful wow.

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Speaker 6: So she's always asking like when's the next event, Like

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Speaker 6: whenever I throw events, like oh I know this decorator,

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Speaker 6: I know this person, Like when I'm going to sessions

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Speaker 6: my mom is very supportive. Both of my parents are

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Speaker 6: super supportive. Their main concern is always just my safety,

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Speaker 6: which is natural for them to have that concern. But

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Speaker 6: I know when I did New York Times, like my

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Speaker 5: This like they were.

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Speaker 2: Was it always that way?

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Speaker 5: Parents be like that's.

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Speaker 3: My baby, Like last week it was I think for

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Speaker 3: my parents looks but you probably might have domned them

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Speaker 1: That's how I feel like like me.

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Speaker 3: And Mila have done it, just domned our parents into

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Speaker 6: I think for my like for my parents, it was

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Speaker 6: to the aunties and stuff like that. But like, I

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Speaker 6: was very rebellious, and I was like walk out that

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Speaker 6: your outfit, Love your outfit. Oh my mom would be

441
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:17,879
Speaker 6: like how about this? How Like me and my mom

442
00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:20,600
Speaker 6: would go thrifting together. So like my mom's an Aquarius too,

443
00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:23,440
Speaker 6: and my dad's a Gemini, so like we're just airy

444
00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,560
Speaker 6: ass signs. So it's just like we just had a

445
00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:27,399
Speaker 6: lot of freedom just instilled in this period.

446
00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:30,880
Speaker 2: So yeah, you know, I'm curious now that we're talking

447
00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 2: about this. You know, we're sex positive parents and that's

448
00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:36,520
Speaker 2: not always you know, condoned or that's not traditional in

449
00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:39,520
Speaker 2: the black household. How like, what was your introduction to

450
00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:41,560
Speaker 2: sex they talked about was was it equally as free

451
00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:43,040
Speaker 2: in that space too? Did they talk to you about

452
00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:45,040
Speaker 2: it did you feel like, obviously you guys have a

453
00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,480
Speaker 2: great relationship, but was it even in those spaces you

454
00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:49,159
Speaker 2: felt comfortable to have those discussions.

455
00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:50,159
Speaker 5: I would actually say no.

456
00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,080
Speaker 6: So I think sex was just something my parents did

457
00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:55,040
Speaker 6: not touch on.

458
00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,560
Speaker 5: Yeah. I just want to say, like, no, not at all.

459
00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:01,440
Speaker 5: I didn't.

460
00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,480
Speaker 6: Even my mom thought I was a virgin the whole

461
00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,360
Speaker 6: time until I told her when I was like nineteen

462
00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:06,359
Speaker 6: that I'm not a virgin.

463
00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:09,400
Speaker 5: So she was just like, what You're not?

464
00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:11,520
Speaker 6: Like, So it was just it's it's weird because there

465
00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:13,600
Speaker 6: was freedom and other spaces, but when it came to sex,

466
00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:15,120
Speaker 6: it was just something they really didn't touch on.

467
00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:18,480
Speaker 5: I don't know why, you know, what was the cause

468
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,679
Speaker 5: of that, but it was just hush hush. Yeah, it

469
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 5: was hush hush.

470
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,840
Speaker 6: But now it's like more open, Like now my parents

471
00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:25,840
Speaker 6: talk about sex and their sex life and I don't

472
00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:26,480
Speaker 6: want to hear that.

473
00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:28,639
Speaker 5: But like, like, since you do this now, I got

474
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:29,440
Speaker 5: a couple of questions.

475
00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:30,119
Speaker 4: Yeah.

476
00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:32,160
Speaker 6: So, like I had bought like a whip on Amazon

477
00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,320
Speaker 6: and somehow accidentally send it to my parents.

478
00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:35,560
Speaker 5: And I called my mom.

479
00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 6: I was like, oh, something from work came for me today,

480
00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:38,719
Speaker 6: can you send it back? She was like, but I've

481
00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:39,960
Speaker 6: already been using it on your dad.

482
00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,760
Speaker 5: I was like, oh my god, the running the family.

483
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:45,199
Speaker 6: I'm like, but I think I opened them up to

484
00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:47,040
Speaker 6: have those conversations.

485
00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 1: I did your parents' sex life.

486
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,560
Speaker 6: Oh my god, you did that, girl, Oh my god,

487
00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,160
Speaker 6: I want to think about it.

488
00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Well do you have a question for you?

489
00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 3: Do you do you have any interest in having children?

490
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 5: I actually don't. That's fine, don't don't.

491
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 3: Girls, don't ever say it like that. You don't ever,

492
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,360
Speaker 3: I don't want no kids? Okay, good, Yeah, don't be ashamed.

493
00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 3: And just because you're on the good mom's bad choices

494
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:12,159
Speaker 3: is not me. Look, I think a lot of times

495
00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,720
Speaker 3: women we always feel like that's supposed to be like

496
00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 3: part of our duty as women, Like if you're not

497
00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 3: if you don't want to be a mom, what's wrong

498
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,320
Speaker 3: with you? Or like because of the work that you do,

499
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 3: that must be the reason why you don't want to

500
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:22,400
Speaker 3: have kids.

501
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 1: But I think some people just just don't.

502
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,520
Speaker 6: Want I've always been this way, and I told myself, like,

503
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,119
Speaker 6: so I'm on the fence about having kids. I told myself,

504
00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,560
Speaker 6: if I was to have kids, it would have.

505
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:36,040
Speaker 5: To be surrogate. Or adoption. I just cannot.

506
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:38,119
Speaker 1: I can't imagine busting.

507
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 5: I get annoyed so easy.

508
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 6: I just get annoyed with every little thing. It was

509
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 6: just don't they don't help that, don't get just annoying, girl.

510
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,520
Speaker 6: You know I can't annoying as hell.

511
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 5: I love them, God, but it's like I love my

512
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:50,000
Speaker 5: nieces and nephews.

513
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,360
Speaker 3: You could get take care of them because because it's

514
00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 3: a little different, give them back.

515
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 2: They're in the car the other day taking the kids

516
00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 2: to the camp and they were just singing off key

517
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,840
Speaker 2: is fuck and just I don't know what they were

518
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:04,360
Speaker 2: talking about. I really don't like like noise, a lot,

519
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:08,360
Speaker 2: like a lot of repetitive noises and unnecessary noise. And

520
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 2: I my blood was boiling, and I'm like, they're fucking

521
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 2: kids and they're yours.

522
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 1: It's not for me.

523
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 2: It's so annoy I literally prayed to God, like, please, God,

524
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 2: please give me more patience, Lord, because this is very annoying.

525
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 2: So it's okay, Yeah, it's a thing.

526
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,440
Speaker 1: Do you have any moms in your choruses?

527
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 6: Yes, So I have a lot of moms on my courses.

528
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 6: I have a lot of moms and Black dom Sorority,

529
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,639
Speaker 6: my best friend that does domination stuff with me.

530
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 5: She's a mom and she runs a sex toy shop.

531
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 6: So she's a mom of three. Her youngest is like two,

532
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 6: and she runs like a sex toy shop. So I

533
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,159
Speaker 6: have I'm surrounded by a lot of moms in this industry.

534
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:49,440
Speaker 3: That's so cool because I wondered, I wondered, like, how

535
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 3: many moms there are in your industry and how they

536
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,200
Speaker 3: would talk to their children about their their sex work.

537
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 3: We had on We're Friends with kingdwar and Jet Setting Jazzmine,

538
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,080
Speaker 3: and we've had them on their show and they so

539
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:03,679
Speaker 3: eloquently explained, you know, how they've you know, navigated that

540
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 3: space with their parents. I mean not with their parents,

541
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 3: sor ry with their children, and I would imagine it

542
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:14,160
Speaker 3: be similar. Yeah, but yeah, that's so cool that your

543
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 3: I don't know that your parents are are so supportive

544
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:17,439
Speaker 3: of your career.

545
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 6: I love it and it makes it and I see

546
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,119
Speaker 6: my privilege in that because as a sex worker period

547
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 6: a lot of people.

548
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 5: Cannot come out to their family.

549
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,879
Speaker 6: They're gonna either get this owned, kicked out, lose jobs

550
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 6: like all these types of things. So I'm like, I

551
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,119
Speaker 6: acknowledge my privilege and that I even can talk to

552
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 6: my parents about this. I can call my parents and say, oh,

553
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 6: I threw an event today and we kicked ass and

554
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 6: we whipped you know, white men, and we did all

555
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:40,360
Speaker 6: this stuff, and you know, my dad is like, yeah,

556
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 6: my mom's just like I want to see pictures. My

557
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 6: mom's like real visual, like I want to see pictures.

558
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 6: I want to see pictures. But I think what my

559
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 6: parents really like about it is the education I'm bringing also,

560
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,399
Speaker 6: so like, my mom's really big on education, So she

561
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 6: just loves to see stuff like this and just to

562
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 6: hear me talk about the education around it, because some

563
00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:58,159
Speaker 6: stuff she doesn't even know.

564
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 1: Also, what are some of your kinks?

565
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 5: Oh? Wow?

566
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 3: I mean is your professional kink? Like would that be

567
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 3: considered a kink?

568
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 5: Financial domination? Yeah, it's a kink. Do you mean like

569
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 5: the kinks I like to do the people or where

570
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 5: I like to be done to me both? Yeah?

571
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: Okay?

572
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 6: So I love face mothering. What's that same as face sitting,

573
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 6: but we call it smothering?

574
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I didn't peep some face smothering on

575
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 3: your page.

576
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:25,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love face mothering.

577
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 3: I saw that brunch you did out of Atlanta that

578
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 3: looked so amazing month. Oh my god, you guys go

579
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 3: check out her brunch in Atlanta. She did this beautiful

580
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 3: recap video and I was like, what the fuck?

581
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:38,960
Speaker 5: Where was I?

582
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 7: So?

583
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 6: I love face sitting, I love pegging, I love foot worship,

584
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 6: any type of impact play, whether it's banking, paddling. To

585
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 6: get to this up, so I'm listening to ones that

586
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 6: I like to do to people, golden showers, I like.

587
00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 6: I love humiliation, especially public humiliation. I love taking stubs

588
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:02,919
Speaker 6: out in public and just talking shit to them and

589
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 6: seeing everyone's like reaction around like.

590
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 5: It's it's hilarious. I also like a little bit of

591
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 5: bondage and nipple torture.

592
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 6: I love CBT. I love kicking people on the balls.

593
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 6: I love ball busting, and I really love trampling. So

594
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:20,439
Speaker 6: I just love walking on subs like I just love it.

595
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 3: If you ever had any like severe injuries.

596
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 5: That have happened, thank god, thank god.

597
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 3: No. Well, speaking of humiliation, I know that you kind

598
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 3: of like blew up on the internet when you brought

599
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 3: one of your subs to where was it? It was

600
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 3: a it was a homecoming in North Carolina home Yeah,

601
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 3: and you were walking him around the homecoming. What what

602
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 3: was that the first time you'd ever done anything like

603
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 3: that publicly outside?

604
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 1: Yes, okay? And what inspired that?

605
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 5: Were you?

606
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: Just like? Why there? Why then?

607
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 6: So I was just going to homecoming anyway to just

608
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 6: meet up with my friends have a good time. And

609
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 6: then I was like, you know, I'm still working when

610
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 6: I travel, so let me like see if a sub

611
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 6: wants a session. And I made an ad on fat

612
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 6: life for like public commiliation and whatnot, and the sub

613
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 6: reached out and he was like, I would love to

614
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 6: do it.

615
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:07,639
Speaker 5: I was like, well, I'm.

616
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 6: Gonna be walking you on a leash through a busy

617
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 6: campus during like homecoming on a black campus at that

618
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 6: and he was like, I want to do it.

619
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 5: I want to do it.

620
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 6: So I get there a day of he's like so excited,

621
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,159
Speaker 6: Like I wasn't supposed to do the leash walking to

622
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 6: like three pm. He's there like ten am, waiting, like waiting.

623
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 6: He was like, I'm just so excited to just be

624
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 6: on your leash or whatever. So like the whole time

625
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 6: I'm doing like what you guys see is like the video,

626
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 6: but the whole time I'm doing in session is like

627
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 6: I'm still in session, so like we're still in subspace,

628
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 6: still in dom space, and the video that ended up

629
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 6: going viral.

630
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 5: I didn't even know it was being taken of me.

631
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 6: So what you see in the video is me posing

632
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 6: for my best friend's phone for him to take a

633
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 6: picture of me. But then this other video, like we

634
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 6: got drunk after that, after the sub went home in

635
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,400
Speaker 6: a session and then we got drunk and I woke

636
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 6: up and my Twitter was like on fire. I went

637
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 6: from like a thousand followers to like thirteen. K I'm like,

638
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 6: what's going on? Yeah, So it was like it was crazy,

639
00:26:58,720 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 6: Oh wow.

640
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 3: Like there it is, okay, Wow, it's humiliating white man,

641
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 3: like a specific kink for you?

642
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 5: Or is it likes? Yes, as you can see my

643
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:14,640
Speaker 5: reparation paddle. Oh I don't see that. Ye. Yeah, it's

644
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,439
Speaker 5: my favorite thing to do. It's my absolute favorite thing.

645
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 3: I feel like that would be a favorite thing for

646
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 3: me to do as well.

647
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 2: Wait, and rewind you said you met him on what

648
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:24,879
Speaker 2: what site was that?

649
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 5: The site is called fet life. Fet Life. Yeah, it's

650
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 5: like kinky Facebook. So it's like you can go up there, people.

651
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 6: Post ads for like sessions, like you can find you

652
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,440
Speaker 6: can find all the New York parties up there to

653
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 6: dungeon parties, the sex parties, all those types of things.

654
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 5: So yeah, so you know, I have a.

655
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 2: Little boo in New York and sometimes it's hard to

656
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 2: keep it spicy. But I got this new toy from

657
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 2: Satisfire and it's called the Curvy two, and he can

658
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 2: control it on this amazing app called the Satisfier Connect.

659
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 3: Oh god, that's amazing. So he can control your pleasure

660
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 3: when he's all the way in New York and you're.

661
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Speaker 2: Or into like theater as a child, I feel like

707
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Speaker 2: I would do I would dom would be like an action.

708
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 2: You know, I've done some like strange sexual favors in

709
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Speaker 2: my life where I had to like talk myself into it,

710
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 2: like bitchgated together, and so I feel like it would

711
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Speaker 2: be like just my Like you could be an actress,

712
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 2: is that do Do you feel that way? Because you

713
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 2: can go in and out of like sessions, in and

714
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 2: out of character. Do you feel like you like almost

715
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Speaker 2: have a what is it Sasha fears alter?

716
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Speaker 6: You go, yeah, I think so, mus Marley is my

717
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 6: alter ego, right, But it's like I've done it so

718
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 6: much now that it's also something that I really really love,

719
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 6: you know, like.

720
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 5: I just love this shit.

721
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: So it's safe to say you're not in fashions anymore.

722
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 6: No, I want to get back in it. But it

723
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 6: was my first love. Fashion has always been my first love.

724
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 6: But it's just like the fashion industry. And then you know,

725
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 6: I quit my nine to five last January because I

726
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 6: was like I was making more in one session than

727
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 6: I was after two weeks pay, Like I have to

728
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 6: get the hell out of here.

729
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 5: Well, I want to know how much yours costs for

730
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 5: your session. So it depends on what type of session

731
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 5: it is. So like if it's something.

732
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 6: Like foot worship, I would do maybe like three hundred

733
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 6: hour four hundred hour tributes, which is in financial domination,

734
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 6: can just range from anything. I have one sub where

735
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 6: I request like literally every week three hundred dollars.

736
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 5: From him and he sends it.

737
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 6: My highest paid session has been a pegging session and

738
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 6: it was with an NFL player I cannot say their name,

739
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 6: of course, and that session was five k hour.

740
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 5: How many hours ago? We did three?

741
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 7: Yeah?

742
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, did you take break? So it was like pegging,

743
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 5: there was other things.

744
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 6: There are other things too, like he was into spanking

745
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 6: and into humiliation and things of that nature.

746
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, I once had a man put on

747
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 2: my high socks and like do a slow twirl for me.

748
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 2: And he was not a man that I would have

749
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: ever assumed was into wearing my dress or my socks.

750
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 2: But there he was wearing my dress and my socks,

751
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 2: and he was he he'd like, he was asking me

752
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 2: if we could go somewhere like church with him on

753
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 2: the leash, And in my mind I was like, I

754
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 2: am not taking you nowhere in no leash. But now

755
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 2: I'm second guessing all of that to turn he specifically

756
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 2: wanted to go to the Dragon. I think that might

757
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 2: be a hard limit for me. Church, which one that

758
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 2: would be a hard limit.

759
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 5: But no, I love. It's called feminization so or sification. Feminization,

760
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 5: Yeah I want. Yeah, so I love doing that too.

761
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 5: I love putting makeup and ship on my slub. That

762
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 5: sounds fun.

763
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 2: Did you do you even though you really like the

764
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 2: reparations and like dominic white men?

765
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 5: Or do you have all types of subs? Because yeah, okay,

766
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 5: so it ranges.

767
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I've had like I've had black subs, but

768
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 6: I'm as black subs are into just like foot worship.

769
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 6: They just like the little oh, they don't want to

770
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 6: be like yeah, they like the cute stuff. I had

771
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 6: two black subs at the Atlanta Brunch that were okay

772
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 6: with like spanking and things of that nature. But you

773
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 6: will not find a lot of black men that are

774
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 6: okay with ball busting. They do not want to be

775
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 6: kicked in the nuts. Like it's it's not common. But

776
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,239
Speaker 6: like as in just my subs and ranges, I've had

777
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 6: like CEOs, Wall Street men, college boys, your regular construction guy.

778
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 5: Like, I've had so many different.

779
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: What's the oldest sub you've ever had?

780
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 6: The oldest sub I had was I want to say,

781
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 6: sixty eight and the youngest, the youngest I've had was twenty.

782
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 2: This one looks pretty young, looks pretty around.

783
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 3: All right, Wait, let's talk about what I'm sorry, what

784
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 3: what's this?

785
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 1: What's your subs?

786
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 5: Sace?

787
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 6: Yea?

788
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 5: What is that beta? Beta?

789
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's talk about beta.

790
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 3: So if you guys are on Patriot on, then you

791
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 3: know that you can watch this whole episode and you

792
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 3: can see Mistress Marley and her sub Beta here. How

793
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 3: how did you guys come to come to connect? Was

794
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 3: it through like an app of or like a website

795
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 3: like fendom?

796
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 5: So we actually connected through that life?

797
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:19,879
Speaker 1: And how long has he been your sub?

798
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 5: He's been my sub now for one day, I'm breaking

799
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 5: in a movie. Is this how you usually do it?

800
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:31,399
Speaker 4: Yes?

801
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 5: I usually break in some newbies.

802
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: You know, what's the process of breaking a Nubian? Can

803
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: you show? Can you you want to see something?

804
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:39,879
Speaker 5: Yeah?

805
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 6: If you need help, let us know, head down to

806
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 6: the floor. So it's really about how will they take

807
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,919
Speaker 6: commands right? Because like you have some subs that really

808
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 6: think they run the show, and I'm like, you're not

809
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 6: a sub. Then you have some that will like, really,

810
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,760
Speaker 6: you know, listen to your commands or whatnot. So for instance,

811
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 6: this sub has to call me miss Marley. All my

812
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 6: stubs have to call me missus Marley. It's never mistress,

813
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 6: it's never just Marley is mistress Marley. And I will

814
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 6: minister punishment if it's not. If my name is not

815
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 6: said how it needs to be said. But I have

816
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,439
Speaker 6: his hard limits or whatever. So he says he's into

817
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 6: impact play but lightly so sad down, so it would

818
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:20,800
Speaker 6: just need some impact.

819
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, a little hard but.

820
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 6: So yeah, And I'll say when I hit you, say,

821
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:36,720
Speaker 6: mister s Marley, Okay, louder, louder louder.

822
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:39,720
Speaker 1: I don't want to try.

823
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 5: I thought you were a sub. Just looks so fun.

824
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 5: But yeah, so it's just it just all depends, you know.

825
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 3: So wow, okay, so how do you like, how do

826
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 3: you know if like they're going if you're going to

827
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:56,879
Speaker 3: keep them?

828
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 1: Or like how many? How many subs can one a

829
00:35:59,080 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: woman has?

830
00:35:59,719 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 6: Right?

831
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 2: Like how many excits do you currently have on your roster?

832
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 5: What's so it's so many?

833
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 6: Because I'll get some that can serve for a month

834
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 6: and they might drop off. Like the thing about BDSM

835
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 6: is that people you have, some people that aren't always

836
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 6: trying to do it all the time. Like same thing

837
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 6: with financial domination. I have a subcome and spend all

838
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 6: his savings and that's it. He can't do nothing else,

839
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 6: or he can maybe give ten dollars here and there

840
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 6: or whatever I want to say. Now, I probably have

841
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 6: at least twenty twenty subs, but even I sometimes have

842
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 6: to peel back because it can become a lot. But

843
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 6: as in long term subs, I have three. So I'm

844
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 6: very picky about who my long terms are.

845
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,479
Speaker 2: So basically, you you set the tone. It's not about

846
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 2: them running out of money. It's like I just don't

847
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 2: have time or energy for you, yeah anymore, and cut

848
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:46,359
Speaker 2: it off.

849
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 5: And some of them will like waste your time, Like

850
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 5: some of them will try to talk to you all

851
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 5: day and it's not like you don't have time, Yeah,

852
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 5: like I don't.

853
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 1: I just that's been my mistake. And the people in

854
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 1: the dedominate and the dams they want to talk. I'm like, nigga,

855
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 1: I don't have time. So that cash at me.

856
00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 5: Is it hard to separate?

857
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 2: Like your personal You're like, I'm such a nice bitch,

858
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 2: Like I'm like, oh, how is your day?

859
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 5: Like happen with your grandma?

860
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:06,439
Speaker 2: You know, like I'm always talking and I'm like, damn,

861
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 2: I got I'm supposed to be a dominatrix.

862
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 5: So I'm like, like, how do you navigate between Obviously

863
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 5: you've had.

864
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:16,720
Speaker 2: Long term subs, You've some of them you've developed friendships

865
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 2: with to some extent or no, is it just strictly dominatrix.

866
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 6: So for me, it's like I usually can like see

867
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 6: time wasters ahead of time. So my rule of thumb

868
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 6: is always two replies and I block you. So I'll

869
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 6: give you two replies. I will tell you where you

870
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 6: need to send the money, especially if you're just coming

871
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 6: to me on Instagram, because if you're coming to me

872
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 6: on Instagram anyway, you've already fucked up because I tell people, well,

873
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 6: how Instagram has been watching me.

874
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 5: Don't message me none of this shit on Instagram like whatever.

875
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 6: But if you are going to here's my cash app,

876
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:49,839
Speaker 6: and you'll have some subs that I'll be like how

877
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 6: much God is? I tell them how much and they

878
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 6: still just keep talking, and I'm like, send it the

879
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 6: next five minutes or you're blocked. I'll at five minutes

880
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 6: past block them, and then some of them will send

881
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 6: to be unblocked. Like I have an unblocked fee of

882
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 6: fifty dollars, so if you get blocked, you can be unblocked.

883
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 5: And fifty dollars.

884
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:07,839
Speaker 6: So yeah, so you really just have to know time

885
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 6: wasters right up front because they will really trying to

886
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:10,439
Speaker 6: get free kink.

887
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 5: They'll just try to talk to you all day, right,

888
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 5: try to get off or whatever. Yeah, to which I

889
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:16,840
Speaker 5: don't mind talking kink with subs that I've worked with.

890
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 5: Is a difference.

891
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:20,280
Speaker 6: But you, as a stranger just come in my inbox

892
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 6: thinking I'm going to sit here and shoot it, talk

893
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 6: to your fantasy about how you want to be stepped on.

894
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 3: It, Like no, I don't, I don't know you, like

895
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 3: you know, do you have like relationships with your subs,

896
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 3: like like I know that, Like you said when one

897
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 3: of the guys came to you and likes foot worship

898
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 3: and you were like, where the fuck is this bitch at?

899
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 1: Like, let's fuck her up?

900
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 3: Like do you have a relationship like that where you

901
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 3: are protective of them and or do you kind of

902
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 3: try to have a boundary up and you don't really

903
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 3: cross that boundary.

904
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 6: It depends on the relationship off form. But with all

905
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 6: subs across the board, I have a personal boundary. So

906
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 6: none of them we'll ever know my real name, None

907
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 6: of them we'll ever know where I live. None of

908
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 6: them we'll ever know what's going on in my dating life,

909
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 6: none of that shit. I pretty much keep it kink related.

910
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 6: If they're going through something, we might can talk about it,

911
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 6: as long as it's I'm not doing too much emotional service.

912
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 6: I try to put that boundary up to But I

913
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 6: have had one SUP before that was going through a

914
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 6: lot of like mental trauma, and we would talk about

915
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 6: it or whatever during session.

916
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 5: We would talk about it.

917
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 6: It would still be like you know, the paid fee

918
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 6: or whatever, but he would send tribute and things of

919
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 6: that nature.

920
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 5: So it really depends on what I built with them.

921
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 2: We actually had a we had an episode with Hardersoft and.

922
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 5: I love those guys.

923
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 2: Tahoe was raving about you. It was like if you

924
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 2: had a Yelp review list, you'd have like all the stars.

925
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 2: He was like, goddess Mistress Marley came over with my

926
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 2: girl and it was amazing.

927
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 5: So you do do couple dominate? Yeah? Yes, that sounds

928
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 5: kind of hot. It was really fun. It was fun.

929
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 5: Were you dominated them both? No, I dominated her and

930
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 5: we were teaching him what to do, so it was

931
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,879
Speaker 5: almost like a teaching session for her partner. Yes, yes,

932
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,719
Speaker 5: but it's for her birthday also, so she she loved it.

933
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 5: That's amazing. Yeah.

934
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 2: Do you DMB a lot of women? Since you are

935
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 2: bisexual or death has nothing to do with it.

936
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 6: So I've domned a few women. I've had women reach out.

937
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,839
Speaker 6: I love to don black women. I've domned other races

938
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 6: of women too. It's just for me with women, I

939
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 6: find myself being a bit more gentle like. It's hard

940
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 6: for me to do humiliation with women, especially Black women.

941
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 5: I just can't. I can't. I think the most I

942
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 5: would do with a black woman's be like, you're my

943
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 5: little bitch or.

944
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,720
Speaker 6: You're bad bitch. Like I give affirmations to them during

945
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 6: the session, So I'm very big on that.

946
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:33,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, huh.

947
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 2: Can imagine being affirmed a while being dominated. You know,

948
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 2: there's so many ways to do it.

949
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 3: Speaking of affirmations and manifesting, typically start off the show

950
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 3: with an affirmation, and I was wondering if you have

951
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 3: any affirmations for our listeners, or maybe just one affirmation

952
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 3: that you can share.

953
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,279
Speaker 6: So my favorite affirmation to do every morning is I'll

954
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 6: sit and look in the mirror and I'll say, I'm

955
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 6: a bad bitch, I'm a money magnet.

956
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 5: It.

957
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 6: Success comes to me easily. Abundance always comes to me.

958
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 6: I am well protected. I always say that.

959
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 5: I am a bad bitch.

960
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 1: Money comes to me. I'm a money magnet.

961
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 5: I'm a money magnet. Abundance comes to me easily. Success

962
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 5: comes to me easily. That comes to me easily. I

963
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 5: am protected and I am protected.

964
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 3: I love that.

965
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 7: I love that.

966
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 3: I also know that you you have a manifestation of course, right, yes,

967
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 3: how do you use manifest because we're big on manifesting

968
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 3: and big manifestors over here.

969
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:36,479
Speaker 1: How do you use manifestation in your work, Oh.

970
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:39,320
Speaker 6: In so many ways. Beginning of the month, I'm always

971
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 6: manifesting this amount of clients. I'm very big on writing it,

972
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 6: setting it, and forgetting it. So I'll write something down

973
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 6: and I'll put it like under my mattress, so that

974
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 6: way it's still in the same area as me, but

975
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 6: I don't see it. I also work a lot with Like,

976
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 6: I'm very big on Ocehoan. So i consider myself a

977
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:58,760
Speaker 6: daughter of ocehoon you guys, and who oh.

978
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,320
Speaker 5: Water the ocean? No o shoon a, is you the

979
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 5: goddess of the ocean? Yes, okay o.

980
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 6: Shoon So, like, I'm really big on working with oshoon.

981
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 6: I even have like the ocean tattoo. I just do

982
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 6: a lot of candle work. I do a lot of

983
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 6: different types of things, and it has always just like

984
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 6: worked for me. So with manifestation, I already know I

985
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 6: have everything I want.

986
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 5: Like I never doubt.

987
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 6: I never say maybe this will happen. I stayed in

988
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 6: the now as if it's already happening.

989
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 5: Yeah.

990
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: Does that in any way like wrap into your work?

991
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, So, like I always say, like you know, I'm

992
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 6: gonna get a fence sub is gonna tribute one hundred

993
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 6: dollars today or finn slub is gonna tribute one hundred

994
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 6: dollars this week or something, and it always comes true always.

995
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:44,400
Speaker 2: So I know you have courses and you also have

996
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 2: the sorority. Yeah, what is like the difference between those two.

997
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,399
Speaker 6: So the courses are more so for people that don't

998
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 6: want to commit to something like a sorority or something

999
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 6: to like a group where they really have to dedicate

1000
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 6: their time. So the courses are on Patreon Sex Academy

1001
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 6: five dollars a month. If you want two courses, then

1002
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 6: it's ten thousand leff.

1003
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 5: You know it.

1004
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 6: The more tiers, so I have a tier for sex work,

1005
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 6: a tier for domination, a tier for sugaring, and then

1006
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 6: I have a mentoring tier for those that might need

1007
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 6: a little bit more help so they can access that.

1008
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 6: Twenty four to seven, I have now over one hundred

1009
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 6: courses because it's been up since April twenty twenty.

1010
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 2: And to be clear, sugaring is being the sugar baby, right, Yes, okay, yes,

1011
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 2: I sign up.

1012
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm immediately like I'm signing up. I think I have,

1013
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,320
Speaker 5: I think I have what it takes Yeah, No, you

1014
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 5: definitely do.

1015
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: I can see it.

1016
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:33,919
Speaker 5: You a little bit more savvy, you know, you gotta

1017
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 5: break it out. I can see it.

1018
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 2: I got The crazy part is I am a sub

1019
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 2: like I'm a switch too. But you know what, for me,

1020
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 2: it's like if I see someone and I can easily

1021
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 2: tell that my edit like that you're in awe of me,

1022
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 2: and then I could take advantage in that way. I'm

1023
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 2: going to tap into that more right now if somebody,

1024
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 2: if I seen somebody, I'm having sex with somebody who's

1025
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 2: like obviously dominant, then I'm going to submit. But if

1026
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 2: you're like fake dominant, I'm gonna fucking dominate you.

1027
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 3: Right, I'm dominant in the chase, like because I'm the

1028
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,359
Speaker 3: same way, like I have see that. But then once

1029
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 3: I get in the rum and that's where they that's

1030
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 3: where it fucks them up. And then they're like yes, and.

1031
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, I know I love someone who can condemn

1032
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:11,360
Speaker 1: me and it's believable.

1033
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh oh shit, okay, But if you're like fake,

1034
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 5: I'm like, shut the.

1035
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 6: Fuck up right right exactly exactly, So like the Patreon

1036
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 6: is just more so like for those that want to

1037
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:23,800
Speaker 6: just more relaxed, teaching something they can access. But in

1038
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 6: Black dom sorority is like a whole tribe. It's like

1039
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,760
Speaker 6: we have brunches, we do community work, we do marches,

1040
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 6: we have like retreats. We have a Las Vegas retreat

1041
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 6: coming up.

1042
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 5: So it's like that in l it's gonna be it's

1043
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,839
Speaker 5: gonna be like Labor Day around that time. I think, yeah, yeah,

1044
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 5: I have to swing through that. Yeah.

1045
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 6: So we try to do different things, and it's like

1046
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 6: everybody's so different in the group. There's like one hundred

1047
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 6: members and everyone's just so uniquely different, and I just

1048
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 6: love it.

1049
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 2: Are they all practicing dominant tricks in their personal life,

1050
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:57,840
Speaker 2: like on a like professional level or is it just

1051
00:44:57,920 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 2: some people it's just their king.

1052
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 5: For some people just they're king.

1053
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 6: So you'll have some people that's just lifestyle and there,

1054
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:04,799
Speaker 6: I mean, they just live the lifestyle twenty four seven.

1055
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 6: But then we actually have some that are dominant, like

1056
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,920
Speaker 6: or doing professional dominance, and we have courses surrounding that

1057
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 6: we'll bring in other instructors. We'll learn different things, Like

1058
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 6: we had someone come in and teach us rope tying

1059
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 6: on zoom, like, so we do all those different things.

1060
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 6: So and we're all over like we're international, west coast,

1061
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 6: south northeast, amazing.

1062
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, so before we get you out of here.

1063
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:31,359
Speaker 3: I don't know if this is a boundary, but I really,

1064
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 3: I mean, I think me and I know, me and Mela.

1065
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 3: We want to like learn a little something. Can we

1066
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:37,120
Speaker 3: learn a little something here?

1067
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:38,320
Speaker 5: Or put it in?

1068
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: I want to thank I'm here like he's on the

1069
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:44,799
Speaker 1: leash like the niggas about to.

1070
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:53,880
Speaker 5: Leave, Beta, Beta, do you consent? Okay, guys, so what

1071
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 5: do you want to do? You want to?

1072
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 1: Don't you tell me? I don't know, tell me what

1073
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 1: to do.

1074
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 5: No, you have to be dominant.

1075
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 3: Tell me what's okay, start storry, let's start with my

1076
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:02,439
Speaker 3: dominant friend.

1077
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 5: Okay, sick down? Do you want to do this?

1078
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 7: This?

1079
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 5: Sure? Do you like it? Beta? I do like it?

1080
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 5: Let me hear it.

1081
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 2: What do you want to call you?

1082
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 3: I wanted to call me.

1083
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 2: I make my make I make my sub call me

1084
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 2: daddy Mila, so you can call me daddy Mila.

1085
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: Do it again? Do you like it?

1086
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:40,839
Speaker 5: Say it louder, more enthusiasm.

1087
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 1: Okay, now you want to want to switch?

1088
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:48,280
Speaker 5: Okay, that's.

1089
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 1: I gotta figure out my name ship figured.

1090
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:51,879
Speaker 5: It out quick.

1091
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: He's coming over there.

1092
00:46:52,960 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 5: Beta go to Erica and down here you go.

1093
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm Mistress E.

1094
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 2: Super super reginald mistress A love Okay, bita get ready?

1095
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 7: Do you like that?

1096
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 3: Where else do you want to be spank though? Say

1097
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 3: it louder?

1098
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 5: Can she pull your hair a little bit? Pull that ponytail?

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Speaker 1: Tell me you like the spank?

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00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,879
Speaker 5: What's my name? Good job?

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00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Misress Smiley. You've just thanks for

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00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 1: sharing yourself with us.

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00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 5: Cool. That was so kind.

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00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:48,479
Speaker 2: Wow, our friends are so kind. Now I'm really ready

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00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 2: for the sex party tonight. It's not just my stripper shoes,

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00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 2: my red lipstick, but tonight is the night Daddy Mila

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00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 2: comes in full force.

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00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 3: Baby fuck, I need to go get some shoes right now.

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00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 5: I'm glad you guys are going to a black one.

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00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:00,879
Speaker 5: That's good.

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00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 7: I know.

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00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:01,799
Speaker 1: Can you come?

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00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 5: Where is it? I'm gonna tell you after, yes, after,

1114
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 5: because I'll be in Brooklyn all night. Oh yeah, let's

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00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:09,320
Speaker 5: let's do this. Yeah.

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00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,240
Speaker 2: I'm feeling yeah, I'm feeling very much into my lifestyle

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00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 2: this trip in New York. So I'm empowered and I'm ready.

1118
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 2: And now we have this interview with Mistress Marley. I'm

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00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:20,880
Speaker 2: a fucking I'm a level two dumb I just graduated

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00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 2: my I just graduated myself from level one to level two.

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00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 1: Okay, miss Marley, let her people know where they can

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00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: find you.

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00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 2: I'm sure everybody wants to be everybody wants to.

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00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 6: Be now, especially especially Yeah, so you can find me,

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00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 6: I'll say on Twitter to start, because Instagram is a hater.

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00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 6: Who knows how long I will be there? So on Twitter,

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00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 6: I'm eyes on fire, so eyes and then X on fire.

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00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:50,320
Speaker 6: Or you can just type in Mistress Marley in a

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00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 6: search bar and I'll come up on Instagram. I'm the

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00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 6: chocolate dom d O M M E with two underscores.

1131
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 6: I was originally just had one underscore, but I had

1132
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:01,720
Speaker 6: to lead, so I'm like, let me do another underscore

1133
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 6: and then patreon dot com slash sex Academy.

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00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 5: That's s e x C A D E M Y

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00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 5: and that's about it. Bass, I have one more thing. Yeah,

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00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 5: So it would not be right if we didn't ask

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00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 5: you this.

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00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:18,479
Speaker 2: I don't know if you're prepared to tell a story,

1139
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,720
Speaker 2: but we have a segment on our show called Horries

1140
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 2: where our people tell a horror story It's like a

1141
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 2: high level horshness.

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00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:27,800
Speaker 1: It was out of the ordinary.

1143
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 2: It was crazy, like whatever you can come up with

1144
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 2: if you had like a particular session or particular experience.

1145
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 5: That was like, I've done a lot of shit, but

1146
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:39,800
Speaker 5: this shit is crazy. Oh God, just put me on spot.

1147
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:42,399
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, let me see.

1148
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 5: Does it have to be a session? No? Okay, So.

1149
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 6: I want to say the craziest thing I've done was

1150
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 6: at a sex party. It was my sex party. It

1151
00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 6: was my second one, so I was still an amateur

1152
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 6: and throwing them. And I just remember getting.

1153
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,319
Speaker 5: Really drunk at my party. It was like so drunk

1154
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:08,320
Speaker 5: to the point where people walking in.

1155
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,399
Speaker 6: I was just pouring champagne in people's mouth, like take

1156
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 6: the ship bad, like whatever. And I invited someone that

1157
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 6: had only had sex with like twice, and it was

1158
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 6: his first party, and he's like younger than me, like

1159
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 6: two years younger than me, and I just remember us

1160
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,319
Speaker 6: being in a room and just fucking and so many

1161
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 6: people watching us, and I was just doing so much

1162
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 6: crazy shit, like he's fucking fucking me. And then there's

1163
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:33,799
Speaker 6: like this other guy his dick is out and I'm

1164
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 6: like why not, Like what we're at a sex party,

1165
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,880
Speaker 6: and then the fucking bed breaks in front.

1166
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 5: Of everybody, and we still keep going.

1167
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 6: I'm just like, what the fuck is so like my

1168
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 6: knees are fucked up, Like it's so much fucked up

1169
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 6: shit going on, and this whole time people are watching,

1170
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,320
Speaker 6: and it's so crazy to be like getting fucked and

1171
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 6: look up and you just see someone casually eating chips

1172
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 6: or like I always have food at my parties, like

1173
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 6: little finger foods, so to just like be getting fucked

1174
00:50:58,040 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 6: and you just see someone eating chips and dipp and

1175
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 6: you're done. But like it's a like a black woman,

1176
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,879
Speaker 6: she's like encouraging you, like get us this, get that shit.

1177
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 6: But I'm like, oh my god, this is crazy. So

1178
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 6: like that was crazy to me because I'm very like

1179
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:12,320
Speaker 6: I love being watched, but in those circumstances, it was

1180
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 6: just crazy. I'm drunk, the new partner, the bed break,

1181
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 6: the girl eating the chips, but they.

1182
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 5: At the same time being couraged. So it was just

1183
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,439
Speaker 5: like it was so much going on at once.

1184
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: That's fun.

1185
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 5: Yeah that was crazy. Yeah, yeah, that was fun. Oh

1186
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:26,400
Speaker 5: my god.

1187
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 3: Well, thank you for sharing and thank you for coming

1188
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 3: on our show. I'm so happy we were able to

1189
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 3: make this happen. You know, you guys know where to

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00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 3: find us. We're Good Mom's Underscore Bad Choices on Instagram,

1191
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 3: Good Mom's Bad Choices. Wherever you listen to your podcast,

1192
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 3: make sure to check out our Patreon. We don't have

1193
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 3: any domin classes yet, but who knows.

1194
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 1: I mean, this might be and I might learn some

1195
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:48,600
Speaker 1: shit and start off with a second career.

1196
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna be texting Maley like, look at this outfit.

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00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 5: What do you think? What do you think about these words?

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00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 5: Do you think this is a good line? You should

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00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 5: do it. You should make a dominatrix clothing line. That's

1200
00:51:58,239 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 5: what I was thinking about doing. You should do that,

1201
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:00,760
Speaker 5: good idea.

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00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 3: You should make sure to go rate and review us

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00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 3: on Apple podcast. You guys, please, there's thousands and thousands

1204
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 3: of you listening and we only have about a thousand

1205
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 3: likes and ratings.

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00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:11,800
Speaker 1: That's the bullshit.

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00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 5: So I'm gonna dom the fuck out of you, and

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00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 5: you better fucking.

1209
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 1: Go rate and review us. Okay, this is Daddy Miila,

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00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 1: and I said do it now.

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00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 5: This is Mistress Ela.

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00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my shit together. That name might change shortly,

1213
00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 1: but that's what it is.

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00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 5: For now, Thank you guys. Bye Bye.

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Speaker 6: Solo Recorderlos.

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Speaker 5: Then let's just stay us