WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Soulmates To The Third Power

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date. I think there's a time in

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's life. Usually it's somewhere in your twenties where you're

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<v Speaker 1>having a good time, your care free, the possibilities are endless, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and then all of a sudden it happens your best

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<v Speaker 1>friend gets engaged and you're like, oh, wait a second,

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<v Speaker 1>the party's about to be over. Yeah, oh crap, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta find somebody. It's like dating musical chairs now, and

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't move quickly, you're going to be left

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<v Speaker 1>with just a spot on the floor, yourself anxiety saying

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta move fast. And that's kind of where one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Mary Anne, found herself a few months back,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said it changed the way that she thought

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<v Speaker 1>about dating. So, Mary Anne, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate it's in her name.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Mary, Yeah, Marianne. Tell us about your dating life.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's been fine and normal and good. I've

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<v Speaker 3>been trying though, to meet a guy for a while.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, okay, So, and your requirements are different now is

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<v Speaker 4>kind of what Jeff is alluding to.

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<v Speaker 2>You're looking for something.

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<v Speaker 3>More, yeah, yeah, I'm looking for my soulmate now, no pressure, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it was like, gosh, I guess this phase

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<v Speaker 3>of life is here. It's like made this alarm go

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<v Speaker 3>off inside me, you know, like what have I been doing?

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<v Speaker 5>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>Just turn around and I can't be single by myself

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<v Speaker 3>when everybody else is getting married.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't feel peer pressure shining your soulmate.

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<v Speaker 1>But I found pure is a good thing always, So

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<v Speaker 1>it is okay. How have you tried to pursue a soulmate?

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<v Speaker 5>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>What strategy are you using?

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<v Speaker 3>Most recently, I did speed dating.

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<v Speaker 2>Old school in person, like at a bar or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, well so this one was interesting because it

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<v Speaker 3>was lego speed dating.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>What you do is you meet and there's like place

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<v Speaker 3>with a bunch of tables and then there are lego

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<v Speaker 3>pieces on each table and they start that timer and

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<v Speaker 3>you sit down and then the person across from you,

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<v Speaker 3>you guys are talking, but you create something from the

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<v Speaker 3>lego while you are talking.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't have to have like uncomfortable eye contacts, Like

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<v Speaker 4>there's something else to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a big fidget table.

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<v Speaker 1>Distracted, I'd be like I made an airplane. But it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you're supposed to build something together, Like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you're teaming up to write something that. Okay, that's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a metaphor for your relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, also kind of an any window there. How the

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<v Speaker 4>pieces fit together.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if everybody would think that way Brook,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's good to know. How you see speak, how

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<v Speaker 1>many people are fighting like no, we need this piece

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<v Speaker 1>that goes there.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, then you know you're not a good match.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, So how did it go with the lego building?

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it went fantastically?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you meet someone?

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<v Speaker 6>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>When I sat down across from Steeve, Steve, we decided

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<v Speaker 3>that we would build Harry Potter's wand.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, awesome. It was just like one giant stack of legs,

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<v Speaker 1>like oh, okay, and wands come in many shapes and

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<v Speaker 1>sizes of all kinds of wands. It's not just one

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<v Speaker 1>long stick.

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<v Speaker 4>So basically he's like a dorky Harry potterhead like you are,

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<v Speaker 4>which is also another common interest.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like one.

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<v Speaker 3>We were like, oh, we totally speak the same language.

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<v Speaker 3>We have the same interests here. It was going better

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<v Speaker 3>than I ever could have hoped, and then I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>we have thirty seconds left. They let you know when

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<v Speaker 3>your time is revving. And I was like, what spell

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<v Speaker 3>should we cast? That's totally just being ridiculous, and well,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to cast a love spell on you to

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<v Speaker 3>put your number in my phone so we can go

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<v Speaker 3>on a real tape.

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<v Speaker 2>That rot.

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<v Speaker 4>So they sat down to a big pile of brown legos.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like.

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<v Speaker 3>It was smart and clever and cute, right, and it

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<v Speaker 3>was like playing along and and so we did. A

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<v Speaker 3>week later, we went out and we just went to

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<v Speaker 3>a ping pong bar and gooped around and played ping

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<v Speaker 3>pong and drank and kissed and it was his Oh

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<v Speaker 3>well back up, I mean literally it was perfect. I

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<v Speaker 3>felt like I had this strong connection with him and

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<v Speaker 3>we were we're talking about the future and our dreams

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<v Speaker 3>in mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's what happens when you get a love spell

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<v Speaker 1>cast on it.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe the spell were off, That's why I call dude,

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<v Speaker 4>that's crazy. Though. It's like you put out into the

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<v Speaker 4>universe that you wanted to meet your soulmate, and it

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<v Speaker 4>felt like this universe was kind of delivery.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Like, I mean, here's the deal. I've been on

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of dates, okay, and I have met a

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<v Speaker 3>wide variety of people, But I honestly feel like Steve

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<v Speaker 3>might be my soulmate.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa wow, after one date and like a building that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>They warn you about that when you build legos together.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would he not be calling you back?

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<v Speaker 3>I have no idea. It just felt like everything clicks

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<v Speaker 3>so well, and we were laughing and the chemistry was good,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm not really sure what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>There's no red flags at all, but that's kind of

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<v Speaker 4>a red flag in itself.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's usually that might be what it is. In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>if I was doing speed dating with the legos, I

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<v Speaker 1>would build a red flag.

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<v Speaker 2>That's actually just to let them know.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly. Date at your own risks. But we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>call Steve here and we're going to ask him if

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<v Speaker 1>he sees you two his soulmates the same way that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys do. Can we say that for like the

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<v Speaker 1>second question? Maybe we'll last how we doing today, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we'll ask if he's the.

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<v Speaker 2>Red flag of our Yeah, we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna do it with their second d next Brook, do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember the exact moment you first fell in love

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<v Speaker 1>with your husband?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>B gosh, I remember the first time I saw him

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<v Speaker 2>for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>But we just fell in love.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it takes time, and I don't think it

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<v Speaker 2>happens in one.

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<v Speaker 4>My husband can tell you the exact moment he knew.

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<v Speaker 2>That he loved me.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we were on top of a volcano. What true story,

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<v Speaker 2>true story.

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<v Speaker 4>And we were very well prepared. We had just got

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<v Speaker 4>and thought we were going hiking and oh my god, goodness.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, he was having a heat stroke. He wasn't fall

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<v Speaker 1>in with you.

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<v Speaker 2>It was very cold.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, I'm just saying that special moment looks different for everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>And for mary Anne, our listener, at moment happened when

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<v Speaker 1>her speed date Steve picked up some legos and built

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<v Speaker 1>her a Harry Potter wand and cast a love spell.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really cute, But after they went out to a bar,

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<v Speaker 1>love spell seems to have worn off a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're going to try and reactivate it here with

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>How long ago was it that you saw him, Steve.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been a week since I've heard of him from.

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<v Speaker 2>And just nothing. He hasn't texted you back at all.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he just disappeared.

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<v Speaker 1>That wouldn't have happened if your date was on a volcano.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe he was actually Cinderella, he turned into a pumpkin.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Harry Potter, he has the invisibility cloak.

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<v Speaker 2>On is there a lost shoe involved?

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<v Speaker 1>All this talk of magic and eruptions and volcanoes. We

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<v Speaker 1>gott to just call Steve before it gets too steamy

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<v Speaker 1>in here? Are you ready? Mary Anne?

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<v Speaker 7>I am all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do this. I'm down this number right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, Hello, Hey, is it Steve Yes speaks?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Steve, it's your lucky day. You're on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>right now with Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, I see Okay, okay, okay, all right, you got

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<v Speaker 4>a second right now?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Well, yeah, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>We're calling because we got your number from one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners named Mary Anne.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a woman that you met at speed dating and

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<v Speaker 1>went out with once.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, wow, ok okay, So she asked you to call

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<v Speaker 5>me yea yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you surprised by that?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh? No, I guess I'm not surprised by that. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>surprised it's happening. I'm not surprised that she would do that.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you don't have to sound nervous. It's supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be a good thing. It means that she had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good time with you.

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<v Speaker 2>It had a great time with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I gathered that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you did.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's good. Did you have a good time?

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly I did. She was very fun to talk to.

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<v Speaker 5>It just started getting a little weird towards the end.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you're in your words like super carefully.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, well I don't, I don't, Just like it's just

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<v Speaker 5>a little too unusual for for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, ual, is this before or after you kissed her?

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<v Speaker 1>Because we heard there was kissing involved at the bar?

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<v Speaker 5>I would say it definitely got the weirdness bike after that.

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<v Speaker 2>Why is this something? She said?

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<v Speaker 5>What? So she was pretty openly talking about the idea

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<v Speaker 5>of soulmate.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh huh?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that too much she said that to you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was just.

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<v Speaker 4>Talking about it as like a big idea, right, like

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<v Speaker 4>not your my soulmate.

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<v Speaker 5>She opened it like that, and then she was like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I think you might be one of my homemates.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa wait and then one of is there only one soulmate?

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<v Speaker 2>No, you can have more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's the point. It's not soul mates, it's soul.

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<v Speaker 5>Mate, and that's that's exactly what I said, and she

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<v Speaker 5>was like, William, everyone has three soulmates.

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<v Speaker 2>Three.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know, Brooke, this is good news for you

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<v Speaker 1>and your marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I can see that though. It's like your best friend,

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<v Speaker 2>your sister.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you want to bring your sister.

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<v Speaker 4>It isn't a sexual thing solely, is just someone who

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<v Speaker 4>you're like connected with in this beyond any other relationship

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<v Speaker 4>type of way.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's that's kind of how we are understanding it.

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<v Speaker 1>But Steve, how were you understanding what mary Anne was

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<v Speaker 1>telling you?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? I mean what you guys are talking about sounds great,

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<v Speaker 5>that sounds very reasonable. That is not what I was

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<v Speaker 5>presented with to her. It's like a thing where you

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<v Speaker 5>have a past soulmate, a present soulmate, and a future soulmate,

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<v Speaker 5>and these are all romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>You have three.

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<v Speaker 2>God, you got to find three of them in your

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<v Speaker 2>life that you walk you want to make.

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<v Speaker 1>It out with friend. But I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 5>Just a little too absurd to me, this idea of

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<v Speaker 5>like boy friends of past, present and future.

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<v Speaker 7>I have something to say, Hey, Steve, Sorry, that that's

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<v Speaker 7>mary An.

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<v Speaker 1>She's been listening on the other line and clearly wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Usually they wait till well past.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh wow, were you going to tell me that?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I just did?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, okay, yes, Hi mary.

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<v Speaker 1>Anne, marian had something to say.

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<v Speaker 6>Hi, Hi Steeve.

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<v Speaker 3>You sounds really confused, And I feel like maybe I.

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<v Speaker 6>Just didn't do a very good job of explaining it,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, because it's like this for everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just the rule of the universe.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, So you have three soulmates?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have a past soulmate and a present tolmate

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<v Speaker 3>and a future soulmate? Those was a three story fine

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<v Speaker 3>in your life? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Which soulmate? In which soulmate is? Steve?

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<v Speaker 2>What numbers?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 6>So he I'm pretty sure is my presence soulmate?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>My my past my high school boyfriend that was my

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<v Speaker 3>past soulmate.

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<v Speaker 6>Steve I really think has a possibility to be my

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<v Speaker 6>present soul mat.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but that kind of indicates to him that he's

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<v Speaker 4>to get dumped for another dude along the road.

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<v Speaker 1>It's better to have a you know, a small part

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<v Speaker 1>of Marianne than none at all.

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<v Speaker 6>I would agree with that, sure, but look like it's

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<v Speaker 6>not me, Like I'm not making this up, right, This

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<v Speaker 6>is like the law of the universe.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Steve, how does that make you feel thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>you could possibly be her present soulmate?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, if I if I'm the present soulmate and then

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<v Speaker 5>suddenly there's a future soulmate, then with that future soulmate,

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<v Speaker 5>then that's your present soulmate, and then I'm your past soulmate.

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<v Speaker 5>So the whole system falls apart really fast.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it should be on a numbering system. Agree, two, three?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you'd rather just not click that deep and just like.

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<v Speaker 6>A date, Like I've already had my first soulmate, I

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<v Speaker 6>can't have another person, and I'm fairly important, Like it

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<v Speaker 6>really feels like you will be the second. And then

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<v Speaker 6>if you're lucky, right, like, if everything goes well, then

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<v Speaker 6>I wouldn't even find my future soulmate until after you

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<v Speaker 6>are death.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh wow, wow, Okay, let's let's get online. That

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<v Speaker 1>indeed the most romantic sentence that's ever been up about

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<v Speaker 1>this show.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, wouldn't you want me to find somebody after

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<v Speaker 3>you die?

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<v Speaker 5>What are you talking about? We're not even together yet.

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<v Speaker 5>What are you talking about meeting someone after I die?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good point. You aren't together yet until we

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<v Speaker 1>send you out and will pay for you, guys to

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<v Speaker 1>make it official as present soulmates to each other. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Maybe soulmate is a little bit strong here.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll send you out on another date and then you

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<v Speaker 1>can figure out if the soulmate thing is real or

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<v Speaker 1>no date. I like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, given that you did have a good time

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<v Speaker 4>with her. She's got some kooky ideas, but she likes you.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys had a great time.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it is not cookie.

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<v Speaker 6>It is the rule of three soulmates.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody follows this.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, Well did that convince you to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with her this time? Steve?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I'm sorry. I don't want to find out what

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<v Speaker 5>other rules of life there are that I.

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't know about.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say it does explain the divorce, right.

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<v Speaker 1>People are just going to their future soulmates. That's what's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a second, wait, Steve, since you said no to

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<v Speaker 1>the date, does that now make Marianne your past soulmate

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<v Speaker 1>or so that means you only have two more to

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<v Speaker 1>go till you find your forever lady?

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<v Speaker 2>And does it mean that Marianne only gets.

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<v Speaker 1>One may or maybe?

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<v Speaker 7>As she said, Yeah, Well when you started talking about this,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, more and more information sort of came to

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<v Speaker 7>me and the energy was just not what I thought

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<v Speaker 7>it was, and.

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<v Speaker 3>I just canceled you in my mind, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Unsubscribed from the soulmates.

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<v Speaker 2>This kind of like these universe rules.

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<v Speaker 3>Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's funny that girl mentioned that she had

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<v Speaker 1>a past, present, and future soulmate somewhere in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>I got the funny in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, sure, it's just funny because I remember when

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<v Speaker 1>we did a live broadcast from Vegas and I walked

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<v Speaker 1>into one of the hotel rooms and I met all

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<v Speaker 1>three of Jose's soulmates. I remember that was that their name?

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<v Speaker 1>Remember their names?

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<v Speaker 2>I yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it just goes to show that everybody's got

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a different take on what love means,

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<v Speaker 1>and what love.

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<v Speaker 4>Is and how much you have to pay love exactly

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<v Speaker 4>three for one deal on the stripe.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but you know, your soul it might be different

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<v Speaker 1>than your forever person, who might be different than the

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<v Speaker 1>one who might be different than the love of your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, I haven't met any of them.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Love is hard, and we're here to help you with

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<v Speaker 1>that hard love. I don't think we should go with that.

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<v Speaker 5>I do know.

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<v Speaker 1>That going to be the talent duting can be difficult,

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