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Speaker 1: My brother in law wants me to babysit at their wedding,

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Speaker 1: so they're forcing me to sit at the kid's table.

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Speaker 2: Oh you mean the cool table.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the kid's table is anything goes to the kid's sailing.

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Speaker 1: We have a food fight there we're talking about. Invite

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Speaker 1: me to the kid's table. So my female twenty eight

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Speaker 1: husband Mail thirty and I were invited to my husband's

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Speaker 1: brother's wedding in the new year. For some context, we

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Speaker 1: do not live in the same country as his family.

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Speaker 1: We live in the US and they live in the UK,

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Speaker 1: and we were trying to save for a house, so

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Speaker 1: we really weren't planning on going on a holiday this year.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Comprehensive Sale eight sixty

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Speaker 1: three on the r slash Okay Storytime, so I've read it.

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Speaker 1: So wedding is in July twenty twenty four, and truth

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Speaker 1: be told, I'm rather excited for this trip. I love

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Speaker 1: his family and the UK, but my husband is stressed

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Speaker 1: and it's going to cost us a lot of money,

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Speaker 1: upwards of five thousand dollars including fights, hotel at the

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Speaker 1: wedding venue, trains, et cetera.

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Speaker 2: That's like way too much money to have to drop

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Speaker 2: like on a whim on a whim, but.

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Speaker 1: It's a whim. It is your husband's brother's wedding, which

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Speaker 1: I would say is like elevated two notches above a whim.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, y a whim was a little underselling

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Speaker 2: that one, but uh yeah regardless, five grand five grands,

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Speaker 1: That's big ones. But you do get a UK trip

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Speaker 1: that they can afford. So Also for some more important

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Speaker 1: backstory info, my husband's family hate each other. I mean

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Speaker 1: a nasty divorce that led to parents not speaking to

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Speaker 1: each other for years. Most of the siblings, including brother

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Speaker 1: in law, sided with the mom and the divorce. However,

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Speaker 1: my husband has made a point to not choose and

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Speaker 1: is very close to both parents. Still, both parents have

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Speaker 1: new families and younger kids.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: Three months ago, my husband's mother told us that we

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Speaker 1: would be sitting at the table with all the other sales.

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Speaker 1: Most siblings are under fifteen years old, The youngest is eight,

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Speaker 1: and they're twenty eight or their late twenties.

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Speaker 2: I mean, like that's sort of you don't have any

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Speaker 2: of like the real nightmare ages there. I feel like

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Speaker 1: Five, no nightmare ages. And so it's not like I

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Speaker 1: feel like it's not like baby sitting level, but you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're expecting to feel.

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Speaker 1: Like an emotion the youths, Yeah, the youths. But you'll

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Speaker 1: learn how all about like jen Alfa memes, which you know, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, what about skibbedy toilet.

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Speaker 2: You'll learn a brand new language that you won't know

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Speaker 2: how to speak.

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving, one of my little cousins was like, what the.

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Speaker 2: Yacht are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Exact?

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Speaker 2: We're so rightly, we have such a bright future. One

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Speaker 2: of those kids will be president one day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, and you'll be talking about yachts all the

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Speaker 1: way to the White House. So my husband asked that

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Speaker 1: had a side mom or dad because of the nasty divorce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so therefore we need to sit with the

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Speaker 1: siblings as this is their first time meeting. So I

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Speaker 2: That was a great That was a great choice of

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Speaker 2: words there, thank you. He is a is on.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I do have my little tea cup. So

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Speaker 1: I feel like I have to talk a little fancy.

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Speaker 1: You know, that's why you speak. I'm speaking French. You

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Speaker 1: got a French press. You're speaking French.

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Speaker 2: Oh dang, oh shit.

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Speaker 1: So the wedding party is worried about potential family drama arising.

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Speaker 1: My husband and I were fine with this as long

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Speaker 1: as we were sitting together, you know, united fronts. However,

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Speaker 1: a few days ago, my brother in law asked my

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Speaker 1: husband to be a groomsman, to which he accepted, Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: so the husband is being a groomsman. I was thrilled

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Speaker 1: I asked where I will be sitting now that he

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Speaker 1: Uh oh, put in, I see you in the chat.

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Speaker 1: If you know you know where things are going. So

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Speaker 2: Going from like, uh, United Front to a solo enterprise?

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Speaker 2: Does that a lot harder?

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Speaker 1: But you could be the cool aunt, you know.

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Speaker 2: But imagine like the vibes are substitute teacher, think of

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Speaker 2: think of how bad it was when you I mean, like,

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Speaker 2: does she is she like having does she have a

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Speaker 2: relationship established with all these kids are?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: No relationship right, so it's like these kids are going

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Speaker 1: You're not the bottom us or But I think I

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Speaker 1: think she could like weasel her way in. You know,

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Speaker 1: you practice a couple of jen AffA slang things. You

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Speaker 1: watch a few episodes of Skibbity toilet, You warm up,

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Speaker 1: you gotta warm up. But I think you could. You

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Speaker 1: over the whole wedding with your little army of child soldiers.

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Speaker 2: That would probably be the best, the best way to

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Speaker 2: go about it. As long as they're yeah, let's keep going.

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Speaker 1: I feel like as soon as I open up the

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Speaker 1: child soldier rabbit hole, I thought we.

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Speaker 2: Were gonna keep going. Maybe just task force, task force,

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Speaker 2: task force. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Anyway. They don't fight for free, they fight for freedom freed. Okay, okay, fine,

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Speaker 1: factory reality. So I asked politely if I could be

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Speaker 1: all the siblings, so I could manage the questions and

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Speaker 1: potential arguments arising. Again, this is my first time again,

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Speaker 1: this is the first time they are all meeting.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, So OP does have the relationship, it's the

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Speaker 2: it's the children themselves who have not mingled together. You know,

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Speaker 2: are the children even going to care? No? Probably not.

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Speaker 1: Children't get to care. I feel like they're just isolating

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Speaker 1: OP for no reason. Yes, Sophie Safia Abdullah says, my

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Speaker 1: We only had four cousins, two on each side. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Sophie and I are still at the kids table. Yeah, yep,

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Speaker 1: every every Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 3: Every year.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but again, this is the first time they're all meeting.

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Speaker 1: I told her that I appreciate this is something that

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Speaker 1: dollars to be a babysitter, she said, she understood, But

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Speaker 1: the seating is final.

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Speaker 2: I mean that's a pretty solid explanation. I'm not paying

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Speaker 2: all this money to babysit the entire time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And like I think that's pretty not cool of

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Speaker 1: them to put them at the kid's table. But also

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Speaker 1: I imagine, I don't know, I've never planned a wedding,

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Speaker 2: I mean probably because like of the nastiness going on too,

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Speaker 1: Like there's a lot of dynamics. I feel like you

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Speaker 2: Should just leave the kids at like Chuck E Cheese

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Speaker 2: or does that place still exist?

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Speaker 1: Or I think like like like a paid daycare, right,

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Speaker 4: But you get like you get like a pinky leave.

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Speaker 1: But what you know, the price of pink pai for

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Speaker 1: like a few hours of respite. Come on, I remember,

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Speaker 1: did you I know you're wearing a brand that we

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Speaker 2: But uh more like, but have you gone to one

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Speaker 1: Do you know? Like my parents would leave me for

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Speaker 1: hours in the playpen of that store in the Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we were both left there, and I remember left there.

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Speaker 1: I remember like some crushes developed between Like I was

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Speaker 2: Cool? Wait was there? Like are you talking about just

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Speaker 2: like a baby? It was like a decade center. Oh god, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I know. It's like I thought you were saying. Your

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, but maybe you could find something like

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Speaker 1: that anyway, she said she understood, but the seating is final. Alsome,

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Speaker 1: Melinda our joy. This is my first time I've made

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Speaker 1: We're here on our new live babies. We argued a

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Speaker 1: I work with kids. You should, I guess, work all

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Speaker 1: the time, and I should be flattered The family trusts

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Speaker 2: So are they gonna like pay for me to come there? Then?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, this is work. I want to be compensated.

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Speaker 1: How about you make my trip free?

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Speaker 2: Huh yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Elie Mental says they'd have to pay me five

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Speaker 1: thousand to attend at this point eight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean at least most of it. Yeah, at

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Speaker 4: Experition, because op, he's a professional.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm on the professional kid. My services are worth money.

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Speaker 1: And also it's not like I'm taking care of one

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Speaker 1: kid like Sophya. How much did you charge for babysitting

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 4: It depended on the parent, but around at recent my

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Speaker 4: most recent babysitting gig was around twenty one dollars an hour.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so twenty one times fifteen that's my hourly price.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, twenty one times fifteen. That's that's a lot. That's

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Speaker 2: that's a lot of math. I don't know how to

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Speaker 1: I was like, I think that's what you should charge

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Speaker 1: O pep, which I think, honestly, for the whole ceremony

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Speaker 1: might end up being like five grand. But I began

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Speaker 1: to argue, but the bride snapped that if I hated

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Speaker 4: Well, if she hates, if she doesn't want to look

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Speaker 4: after her own kids, why.

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Speaker 2: Is she a mom?

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Speaker 1: Oh do we have a do we have a soundboard yet?

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Speaker 2: No? I want that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there we go.

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Speaker 2: That sounded like a dubstep drop.

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Speaker 1: What was your first dubstep song that you heard?

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Speaker 2: Oh, definitely scary Monsters and nice prides.

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Speaker 1: Why But getting back to this story, So, my co

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Speaker 2: So am I the a hole?

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Speaker 2: I think it's a pretty big power move. I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: call it a hole because it's like they just kind

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but like this responsibility was thrusted upon you, hoisted, hoisted, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I love that, uh, smacked across your responsible face was

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Speaker 2: Well, I think, especially given the opposition or the response

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Speaker 2: your job, duh, you're the one doing it, instead of

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Speaker 2: hearing you at all. By all means, some are.

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Speaker 4: Born babysitters, some achieve baby some babysitter thrust upon them

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Speaker 4: William Shakespeare.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think then, yeah, you read that the other day.

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Speaker 1: Crutch that you grutch that Elli Mental says, just get

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what you got.

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Speaker 1: Make sixteen year olds take care of you. Make them

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, you know what, shirt, Let's do that. I'm

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Speaker 2: not even gonna fight that. Yeah. Put those soldiers. Weaponize

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: We're not actually saying that, but like like you could

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Speaker 1: Mean, you do have your child soldiers. You gotta you

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Speaker 4: It's like really Riley was like to the Spotify event,

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Speaker 2: And I was like no, Why did she? I don't

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Speaker 1: I mean he was he was close enough to catch it.

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Speaker 1: A show you show it off?

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Speaker 5: Do you like this?

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Speaker 4: She dies into the crowd.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, Casha Kesha still got it. She crushed it.

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Speaker 1: She crushed it, and she she sprayed champagne.

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Speaker 2: Over all of us with shi.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was annoying anyway. It seems like everyone's saying

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Speaker 1: have been my first choice too. They never formally labeled

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Speaker 1: Reveal like, you know, revealing truth the power.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is kind of like you didn't tell us

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Speaker 1: Like an OPI is gonna go and expose that truth

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Speaker 2: Sometimes radical change. She's gonna take out the bride. Oh god,

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Speaker 2: you're gonna just like throw one of the kids like

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Speaker 1: Stake this anyway, I showed my husband this thread, who

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Speaker 1: agreed with you all that I am being treated unfairly.

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Speaker 2: So why don't you.

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Speaker 1: Freaking like the stream at five hundred likes, we'll spin

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Speaker 1: My husband and I are having a conversation with them

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Speaker 1: Callie Girl is following the soldier cry. Not even two

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, well, so they just went up to two

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Speaker 1: Good job calling Girl. Let's yeah right, get the get

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Speaker 1: the rally cry going so at it too. I have

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Speaker 1: so we're about to We're about to see the snowball snowballing.

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Speaker 2: They're like they brought another group of kids to turn

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Speaker 1: You know those kids are they're sneaky. There's you gotta

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Speaker 2: Actually yeah, we always try to. We always, I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, think of the children. So lots happened and

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Speaker 1: this became a huge issue. Please see it on my profile.

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Speaker 1: I can't link it for some reason. This is the

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I want to thank you all for

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Speaker 1: every single response. Wow, that's dedication. That's a lot. It

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Speaker 2: Really quick.

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Speaker 1: We haven't really discussed this. What do you think OP

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Speaker 2: I think what needs to be done is like if

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Speaker 2: And I'm telling you right now so that you can't

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Speaker 2: because I'm telling you straight up, it's like saying the

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Speaker 2: It's gonna happen, so make your preparations.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's I think it's super unfair to

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Speaker 1: great idea to kind of put the ball in their court.

441
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Speaker 1: So turns out the issue was deeper than just wanting

442
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 1: free childcare. So bear with me. This is going to

443
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Speaker 1: be a long update as lots of stuff happened yesterday

444
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,359
Speaker 1: in this morning. But before I get to update, I

445
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 1: need you all to understand some background info. My husband

446
00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:01,200
Speaker 1: is the second oldest in the fan, with two younger

447
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:04,920
Speaker 1: full brothers. He has five half siblings. The oldest sibling

448
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 1: will call him John. Cut ties with the family completely

449
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 1: about five years ago. My husband and I met ten

450
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 1: years ago while I was studying abroad in the UK.

451
00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:16,159
Speaker 1: We moved back and forth between the US and the

452
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:19,400
Speaker 1: UK for six years before we got eloped and moved

453
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 1: permanently to my home state. His mother has never been

454
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 1: supportive of my husband's decision, but she has come to

455
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:29,400
Speaker 1: terms with it over the years. His two younger full

456
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:34,360
Speaker 1: brothers have always been giant mama's boys. They both live

457
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 1: within a five mile radius of their mom's house. My

458
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 1: husband is very good at setting boundaries with his family,

459
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 1: which has led to tension between him, his mother, and brothers.

460
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 1: My brothers would often make awful comments about how my

461
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 1: husband loves their father more than their mother and that

462
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,879
Speaker 1: he broke his mother's heart when he moved away. His

463
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: brothers have never been outright rude to me, but is

464
00:22:56,359 --> 00:23:00,040
Speaker 1: blatantly obvious I am not in their inner circle. I

465
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Speaker 1: don't want to get into the nitty gritty details.

466
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 2: Why not?

467
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,120
Speaker 4: Why not? But I want to get into the nitty

468
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 4: gritty donation.

469
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:12,880
Speaker 2: We're at another half hour. Let's freaking go from Andrea

470
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 2: CVM mark twenty dollars more time.

471
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 1: I feel like this stream is gonna be a lot one.

472
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I sense it in my blood. I sense

473
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:24,600
Speaker 2: it in the future.

474
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 1: So his mother and his brothers. Uh oh, all the

475
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,200
Speaker 1: fights between my husband and his father, his mother and

476
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:35,239
Speaker 1: his brothers. Wait. I don't want any to get into

477
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 1: the nitty gritty details of all the fights between my husband,

478
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 1: his father, his mother, and his brothers. But to sum

479
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,600
Speaker 1: it up, his brother's ninety nine percent of the time

480
00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: choose the mom. I mean Christmas, birthdays, family vacations, et cetera.

481
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,159
Speaker 1: The other one percent of the time usually ends with

482
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:54,439
Speaker 1: someone making an inappropriate joke about the divorce, followed by

483
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 1: massive blow ups, to which my husband gets in the

484
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 1: middle trying to solve the problem. My husband and I

485
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: mostly spend time with my family as they are close by,

486
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 1: but when we do visit his family, we try to

487
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: divide our time with each family fairly. The bride and

488
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 1: groom are very close, with the mother so close that

489
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 1: the bride has asked my husband's mother to walk her

490
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: down the aisle. So on to the updates. Goth Princess

491
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: has an Icu put some ICUs in the chat if

492
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: you see what's coming. So my husband and I zoomed

493
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,120
Speaker 1: with the bride and groom yesterday to address our concerns,

494
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 1: which was kind of a Dakota's idea.

495
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 2: You gotta be like, this is what's happening. I'm not

496
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 2: knowing it no way, and be in New Yorker about it.

497
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 2: I'm not walking, I'm trying to drink. You pay five

498
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 2: thousand dollars for flying over.

499
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Speaker 1: So my husband I zoomed with the bride and groom

500
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Speaker 1: yesterday's dresser concerns for those who told me just to

501
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: sit at the table because they are likely stress with

502
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 1: wedding planning. I helped plan my sister's wedding, so I

503
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,200
Speaker 1: know moving one seat is not a big deal. And

504
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: I only asked because my husband wasn't sitting with me anymore.

505
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,640
Speaker 1: The bride just said that she confirmed with the rest

506
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 1: of the family that the siblings will all be under

507
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,719
Speaker 1: my care during the reception.

508
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 2: It's just what do you do?

509
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 3: Like?

510
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 4: How do you like?

511
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 2: Do you see I didn't sign up for this? I

512
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 2: think now it's like a babysitter. If you're going to

513
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 2: continue to just disregard ope, op, it's time for shenanigans.

514
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 2: I think, well, I saw really a funny comment and

515
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 2: it's not nothing, nothing super major. Uh, let me know

516
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 2: if you're the one who said this. Someone had the

517
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 2: idea to tell all of the little kids that there's

518
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 2: actually toys hidden around and to go look for them.

519
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 2: And so all these kids just break on apart and

520
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 2: it's like, I don't know why they started doing that.

521
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, no idea.

522
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 2: No, oh there's no toy.

523
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. They must have misheard me. Even better,

524
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: you don't. You don't even say any thing. You put

525
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: cards under each of their chairs and reveal, and they

526
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 1: just you're saying, oh, there's a card undert each of

527
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:11,360
Speaker 1: the chairs. Yeah, on the card is that there's toys everywhere.

528
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 2: You let's start with your own.

529
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, you unning presents are for you, or you have

530
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 1: to open them all to find out. I asked if

531
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: it would just be my husband's sibling, to which my

532
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 1: brother in law said, we don't know yet. There are

533
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: other family members coming and cousins who might want to

534
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: sit with their cousins. I would then say so this

535
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 1: is the kid's table, and my brother in law would

536
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: say that's not important. I finally asked, are you going

537
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 1: to blame me if any family drama comes up? My

538
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 1: brother in law just said, that's why you are there,

539
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 1: to prevent family drama. So you all were right about that.

540
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: Oh he's the scapegoat.

541
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like if anything goes wrong. Oh, look, the

542
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 2: horrible teacher can't control the students.

543
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,360
Speaker 1: It's like and she said she was a professional. Yeah,

544
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 1: and she said she could do it. She said, okay,

545
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: read it. This is where things got interesting for those

546
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: who said we were being punished bingo. The bride adds

547
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 1: my mother in law into the chat. She tells me

548
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 1: to stop being selfish and that if I had a

549
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,399
Speaker 1: problem of being at the siblings table, it's clear I

550
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 1: have a problem being in the family at this point.

551
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I definitely have a problem coming to your wedding.

552
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: I mean, you're not treating me like family. You're treating

553
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 1: me like a child.

554
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:36,639
Speaker 2: Literally, Yeah, like an employee, but unpaid intern. Yeah, you

555
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:39,920
Speaker 2: give me an unpaid internship, except I have to pay

556
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 2: five grand up front to be a part of it.

557
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 1: This is an MLM. This is a multi level marketing scheme.

558
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 2: What do you mean this is such a great opportunity

559
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 2: you take.

560
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, you take care of fifteen kids, and those fifteen

561
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 1: kids take care of fifteen gigs. Before you know it,

562
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: you got your army and you're taken over all the wedding.

563
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 2: For you know it. You could do whatever you want,

564
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 2: whatever you want an army, have power in your hands.

565
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 2: Kids a rifle full of water or norf darts or

566
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 2: something something that's not real, a big one like we Yeah,

567
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 2: as the kids are.

568
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 1: The Codo brought a couple of nerf nerfu nerf pews.

569
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and they're real good.

570
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: They're really good.

571
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:26,160
Speaker 2: They're like they're electric.

572
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 4: They keep I mean they keep pewty pew pet me. Yeah,

573
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 4: maybe keeping.

574
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

575
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 5: So.

576
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: She also said, if I'm not willing to mediate potential

577
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: family related questions and problems that might arise, I clearly

578
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 1: do not care about my brother in law and his

579
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: bride and that I want to create problems on their

580
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 1: big day.

581
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 2: Can't they just like pay for an actual baby.

582
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you're paying your whole weddings, like pay Sophia,

583
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: you know, twenty bucks an hour to go to your

584
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 1: wedding Baye me bayby, or.

585
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 2: Just straight up like, I don't know those Some of

586
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,719
Speaker 2: those kids are fifteen, Yeah, that's old enough. They all

587
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 2: do they know each other? Or when did they start?

588
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 2: Don't know each other? Twelve?

589
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: You could hire any twelve year old. The babysit kids twelve.

590
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 2: They don't know each other though, I forgot that. I

591
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 2: forgot that for a second. So they I don't know.

592
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, well you don't know the kids before you.

593
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 4: I don't know see the kids that I baby said, Yeah,

594
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 4: so baby said.

595
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: Sam, Yeah, you know what.

596
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 2: I guess you're right. I guess you're right.

597
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 1: My husband was shocked and asked, what makes her say that.

598
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: My mother in law then says that it's clear that

599
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: I've been manipulating my husband away from her family. She

600
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 1: accused me of siding with his father and the divorce,

601
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: and then ever since my husband met me, we've been

602
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 1: spending more time with his father's side of the family.

603
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 1: I want to mention that their divorce happened almost twenty

604
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 1: years ago and we rarely talked to his father. Her

605
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: only evidence to this accusation was that I am not

606
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: willing to openly side with her I was completely shocked

607
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 1: by these accusations. My husban and said that these accusations

608
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: are rude, inappropriate and demanded my mother in law apologize

609
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 1: or he will be cutting her off like John did. Wow,

610
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: my mother in law started crying. The bride chimed in

611
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: that we never included them in our wedding we eloped,

612
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: and that this was my opportunity to prove myself as

613
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:27,239
Speaker 1: a dedicated member as the family. It's hazing. Yeah, I'm

614
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: familiar azing. Sorry.

615
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 2: We just thought you were cool enough to hang Yeah. Yeah,

616
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 2: we just thought you thought we thought you could deal

617
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 2: with that. Man.

618
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, why don't you just like take these forties at

619
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: the duct tape to the kid's table, have a good time,

620
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: prove that you're cool enough and responsible enough at.

621
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Speaker 2: The same time. I mean, I love how now it's

622
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,479
Speaker 2: like they're like, you're responsible for the drama, and now

623
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 2: they're literally whipping up.

624
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: All of the drama responsible man. Yeah, what what is

625
00:30:59,240 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: going on?

626
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 4: I don't know why it's repeating like six.

627
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 2: Times, Sam occasionally, Sam occasionally.

628
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 1: So obviously this blindsided me, as I genuinely had no

629
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 1: idea they felt this way. I always go above and

630
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 1: beyond for Christmas and birthday gifts. When we visit, I

631
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 1: ensure I dote on their children, and I always take

632
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: the ladies of the family out for a ladies brunch,

633
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 1: ladies brunch.

634
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 2: Lady time. It's a lady brush time.

635
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 4: Well, I canna have a fun little kid brunch.

636
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

637
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you have THEMSA. They have orange juice.

638
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, get them hopped up on natural sugar. Drink another

639
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 2: glass of orange juice. Want the sugar, want even blood

640
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 2: to be thick with And then.

641
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: Give them those little cards saying in the presence for

642
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 1: everywhere you'll have you'll have.

643
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 2: A cracked out such a genius idea, I really I

644
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 2: hope whoever had it claims it.

645
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 1: We see Bianca gil says if one of the kids

646
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: wud knock a glass of red wine at the bride stable,

647
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: not my problem.

648
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 2: Oops, oops, oops. Can you send him on a clandestine mission?

649
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: Dude?

650
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 2: See see that glass full of red stuff?

651
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: Your mission?

652
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 2: If you choose to accept it, you'll be so it

653
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 2: would be everyone would laugh if you knocked that over.

654
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 2: Go go do it, don't don't don't don't don't, don't

655
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 2: don't dunk.

656
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 1: So I can understand our wedding situation is upsetting, But

657
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: if my mother in law had voiced this US four

658
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 1: years ago, we would have hosted a small ceremony or

659
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 1: family celebration. My mother in law adds that since I

660
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 1: wasn't willing to deal with the family drama at our wedding,

661
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: I should be willing to deal with it for my

662
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: brother in law. I just sat there, jaw on the floor.

663
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: My mother in law snapped, saying she knew the type

664
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: of person I was from the second I excluded her

665
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: from her son's wedding, and I am a selfish manipulator

666
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: who wanted to steal her son from her and destroy

667
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 1: her family, and that my husband is enabling me by

668
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: not insisting I put the family's needs before my own

669
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: enjoyment and babies and baby sit the kids during her

670
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: other son's big day. He make me sick really quick.

671
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 1: They didn't have a wedding. I have a weddingped What

672
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 1: does eloping really mean?

673
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 2: You just run off and yeah, there is no ceremony.

674
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: You have to run.

675
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 2: You do have to run with the sun freeze frame

676
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 2: and then the credits roll, and that's when everyone gets scared.

677
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 1: Because that's when your life ends.

678
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 2: They say, what are the words? There's so much more

679
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 2: to life.

680
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 4: I swear.

681
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm hoping my meltdown would show my husband what kind

682
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: of person I was. Needless is saying we end up fighting.

683
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: Oh no, Sam, I'm not getting sick.

684
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 2: Oh no, I was. I was.

685
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 4: I was brand unnamed, branding the everything.

686
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 2: I've been rounding everyone in this house, that is, it

687
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 2: could even possibly drowning everyone in honey and lemon in

688
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 2: hot water, honey and lemon, honey dew with lemon and

689
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 2: milk and giving us some milk and honey baths and.

690
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 1: Fan art. Uh, jelly bob, can you make that?

691
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 2: Sorry?

692
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: Okay? I uh, I'm drinking a little coffee and there's

693
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 1: a little grounds in there, and I think they're just

694
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 1: hitting the throat.

695
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta up the French press.

696
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 1: No, no, I like it.

697
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 2: It's you turning French the French press. You're gonna start

698
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 2: coughing me. All right, We're getting back, cough back where

699
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 2: it's safe. Live.

700
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I did not call. I was trying to

701
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,080
Speaker 1: do with this, but I got like hot tea in

702
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 1: one hand the phone and the other dude.

703
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:03,720
Speaker 2: By.

704
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: Forget the wedding, Just take a vacation in the UK

705
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 1: with your husband. I mean, that's what it feels like.

706
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: It's going towards You know, you already have the non

707
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:16,280
Speaker 1: refundable tickets like you might as well.

708
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 2: Just go and enjoy.

709
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: We ended up fighting for a few more minutes before

710
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: my husband slammed the computer down and my husband and

711
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 1: I chatted for a moment. He apologized for his family

712
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: and reassured me he knows none of those things his

713
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: mother said were true. We turned our phones off and

714
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 1: had a date night. You know, just protect yourself from

715
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 1: the world. So John Mail thirty two, my husband's older brother,

716
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,800
Speaker 1: got in contact with us through Instagram. This morning. His

717
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 1: wife gave me a call and we talked for hours

718
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: about what happened. Apparently the reason they left the family

719
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 1: was because my mother in law did something similar to

720
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: John's wife. We will call Sandy female thirty two, so

721
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 1: she has she has a history of doing stuff like

722
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: this is a pattern.

723
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 2: The rabbit hole just continues to get deeper, keeps unfolding.

724
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 1: Sandy didn't want a big wedding due to drama on

725
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,400
Speaker 1: her family's side, and decided to have a small ceremony

726
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 1: with their friends. She invited my mother in law who

727
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: refused to attend because my father in law would be there.

728
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 1: My mother in law threatened Sandy she would make sure

729
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 1: John left her if Sandy didn't exclude John's father from

730
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: the wedding.

731
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 2: Uh are you sure about that? Are you sure you

732
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 2: can make that happen? I mean, she's that much influence, just.

733
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 1: Like she's a crazy mother in law. She could make

734
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff happen. It seems like she's like,

735
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 1: I'm going through a spat right now.

736
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,240
Speaker 2: You have to leave your husband.

737
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: You have to.

738
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 2: It's kind of remember in the contract I had you sign. Yeah, dude,

739
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,760
Speaker 2: I knew a blood. I mean, I think she's willing

740
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:53,879
Speaker 2: to do anything to make it happen. You know, she's

741
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 2: clearly not the person who She's clearly a person who

742
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:00,839
Speaker 2: always gets your way.

743
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, or at least tries and will complain NonStop until

744
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: she does and apparently often works take action. Yeah yeah,

745
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 1: Meg Carter says, control freak. Secret Waller says mother in

746
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: law is the type of person to hate her kids

747
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: significant others. Yeah, unless unless this is different other like

748
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: brings them into the family even closer. But as soon

749
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,360
Speaker 1: as like they're spending time with their own family.

750
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 2: Nah. Yeah, so.

751
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: Sandy didn't want to listen and went through with their

752
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 1: wedding as planned. Mother in law accused Sandy of cheating

753
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: and baby trapping John. Sandy was pregnant at the time.

754
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: My mother in law stocks Sandy and took photos of

755
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 1: her out with her friends and with her brother sending

756
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 1: them to John as proof of her infidelity. Mother in

757
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:52,280
Speaker 1: law posted these photos to Facebook, captioning caught you cheater?

758
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 2: Is this like criminal harassment? I feel like this is

759
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 2: criminal behavior right here, Like this is you're trying to

760
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 2: Slanders when it's spoken right because this is a Facebook Yeah,

761
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:08,320
Speaker 2: it's written written.

762
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:13,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god. She was not lying low key, she's

763
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 1: like she kind of knows she means business.

764
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

765
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 1: That was not an idol threat. That was like, that

766
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 1: was well planned. Yeah.

767
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 2: She dirty business, dirty business, dirty dirty business. And to

768
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 2: be clear, it doesn't sound like she got any evidence whatsoever.

769
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 2: It was just like, look at you having fun with

770
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:30,880
Speaker 2: your friends.

771
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 5: Cheata.

772
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like kind of effective, you know, if you

773
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: just see like a bunch.

774
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 2: Of if you're just reading the headline's.

775
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 1: Leading, which most people do, you know. I go to

776
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 1: Reddit and that's like my main news source. I'm just

777
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:43,760
Speaker 1: reading headline.

778
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 2: You got you got fooled?

779
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 1: You got it over your headlines?

780
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 2: I got Yeah, you're right, I leave it in that. Nope, Nope,

781
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 2: we're leaving it.

782
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 1: I can't, I can't.

783
00:38:58,600 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 5: No.

784
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:03,800
Speaker 1: Mother in law posted these those of Facebook captain to

785
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 1: get caught you cheeter. Relatives began harassing both John and Sandy.

786
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 1: John and Sandy moved away and blocked everyone.

787
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 4: Why they're harassing John, They're like, you got cheat on

788
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 4: even though he didn't collateral damage.

789
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:22,280
Speaker 2: At this point, she's just she's a is this terrible

790
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,240
Speaker 2: so wild fire? I think she's just lashing out anyone

791
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 2: that she can, you know.

792
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 1: Yep. John and Sandy moved away and blocked everyone and

793
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: have not been in contact with mother in law's side

794
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 1: of the family ever since. I remember this at all,

795
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 1: as I had only been with my husband for a

796
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: year at that point and he didn't want me involved

797
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 1: with the family Drava. Obviously, I feel awful that this

798
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 1: happened to John and Sandy, but they assured me they

799
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: forgive both me and my husband. I guess for not knowing.

800
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: Long story short, Sandy and John are still in contact

801
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 1: with the father. How they found out about our situation.

802
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,439
Speaker 1: John and my husband had a long phone call this morning,

803
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 1: to which my husband apologized for enabling his mother. W husband,

804
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,959
Speaker 1: W husband. He he's been he's been going to bat

805
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 1: for OP. Yeah, like this entire time. Yeah, my husband

806
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,799
Speaker 1: has gone no contact with his mother and brothers for now,

807
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 1: and we were going to use our trip to visit

808
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,720
Speaker 1: my old friends from UNI and visit John and Sandy.

809
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 1: Lemons into lemonade. That's awesome, that's awesome.

810
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, how do you make a well you already said it,

811
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 2: say it again, Lemons into lemonade? Little lemonade sales have

812
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 2: been today.

813
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 1: Maybe put a little lemon and some hot teeth and

814
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 1: honey and some milk. Put it in a bath.

815
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 2: No, that's too far.

816
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: No, No, okay, roll back, rolling back.

817
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:46,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm lactose and tolerant for today.

818
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: So I'm really excited to meet them. By the way,

819
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 1: if you're excited to meet us, you can join us

820
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: live every weekday three pm PSD right here on YouTube

821
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: and Facebook. And we're probably live right now.

822
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,280
Speaker 2: Stab a profile, Yeah, give us a give us a gander,

823
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 2: but not before there's an update.

824
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 1: There's another update, but left, But how do you feel

825
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 1: about like, ope, kind of switching this trip to just

826
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:17,360
Speaker 1: like a friend trip overgoing to uh opie's husband's brother's wedding.

827
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, this perfect, perfect, perfect, uh perfect solution there,

828
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 2: you know, if there was clearly not, I mean, it

829
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 2: just continued to spiral down, down down.

830
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: Like yeah. And also it's like, you know, I think

831
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 1: something you could look at this. It's like, oh my god,

832
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: I can't believe, you know, I lost my relationship with

833
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 1: my mother in law and these brothers. But think about

834
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 1: like keeping that relationship. They're just going to get their

835
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: tendrolls into your life even more and just cause more drama.

836
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:50,320
Speaker 1: So better to have this event create that distance so

837
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 1: you can have a happier, healthier life.

838
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, it's like it's it's always better to

839
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 2: to let go of relationships that no longer serve you.

840
00:41:59,080 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 1: Yeah.

841
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 2: And if it you know, I mean, it almost sounds

842
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 2: like it never did.

843
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 1: You know.

844
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 2: It's like it sounds like the the mo the in

845
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,240
Speaker 2: laws had problems from.

846
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: The very because of the get like the only get go.

847
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:11,919
Speaker 1: But to finish out this story, for those who made

848
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 1: it this far, thank you for reading. This small problem

849
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: end up revealing a much larger issue. I'm thankful for

850
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 1: this community for pushing me to push back sometimes that

851
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: can be a little shy and overly forgiving. Looking back,

852
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 1: the signs were all there and I just ignore them.

853
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,360
Speaker 1: I'm very hurt as I really want to have a

854
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: relationship with my husband's family, but I know I deserve better. Again,

855
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 1: thank you, and if anything else happens, I will keep

856
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 1: you updated. And that is where this story ends.

857
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:43,839
Speaker 2: Yes, woo oow, Yeah, I think you know that it's

858
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 2: sad because you want a relationship with your your like

859
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 2: husband's family. But it's like it's more that you you

860
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 2: want to have an ideal situation like or an idealized

861
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 2: relationship with them. Yeah, you don't wish you can have

862
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 2: your relations because these people are are like monstrous towards you.

863
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, this is I think this is like

864
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,360
Speaker 1: the best outcome. It sucks, but it's the best outcome

865
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:13,280
Speaker 1: long term. But codo, while I pull up this next story,

866
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 1: do you want to hit some of those don't know

867
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:17,720
Speaker 1: beautiful audience.

868
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna read him and I'm a cheese while I

869
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 2: do it.

870
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,720
Speaker 1: And Sophia, can you tell me what episode is next?

871
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 2: Well?

872
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 4: What episode are you on fella, I'm on.

873
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 2: Twelve, baby two, baby girl, just story all right, I'm

874
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:32,360
Speaker 2: hitting it.

875
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: I'm hitting it alright.

876
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 2: I'm just keeping guys, honest. I'm just keeping you guys, honest.

877
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 2: God Princess, thanks for the five dollars. Strategize a plan

878
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 2: at the sibling table to overtake the event with plastic swords.

879
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 2: We ride at sun at sundown, little ones.

880
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

881
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 2: What if I just slipping around? Okay, Ellie Mental, thanks

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Speaker 2: for the five dollars. Love you guys so much. Hey Ellie,

883
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Speaker 2: we love you too, Thanks for thanks for coming through.

884
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Speaker 2: Vickx Miikes, thank you for the ten dollars. My brother's

885
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Speaker 2: birthday is next Tuesday and it'll be forty eight. I

886
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Speaker 2: love him. And Happy birthday, James.

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday, James, Happy birthday James.

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Speaker 2: Uh we got that one. Uh so, Andrea, thanks you

889
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 2: again for the twenty seven dollars and for giving us

890
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Speaker 2: that other half hour scarlet Kitty seventy four, thank you

891
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Speaker 2: for the five dollars. We your name is great? Uh

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Speaker 2: Kira with THEE hundred Yeah, we just got to say

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Speaker 2: it again. Shout out Kira, Shout Kira. Sarah Jimenez for

894
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Speaker 2: five dollars. Yeehaw ha Sam Hi Dakota. It's snowing in

895
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Speaker 2: Oregon today. Thanks for bringing the sun out with your

896
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 2: good vibes. What dude made me so happy. It's raining today, Yeah,

897
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:02,280
Speaker 2: ing and burning in CALIFORNI yeah, it feels very like coouzy.

898
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:02,600
Speaker 1: You know.

899
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 2: Is it raining in Malbou?

900
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: I would hope so, No, I hope hope. Fingers across hopefully.

901
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 4: But it's kind of like Christmas vibes because you have

902
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:11,920
Speaker 4: like a roaring fire and it's like a rainy day.

903
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

904
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: Hot chocolate, that's Sophia's been.

905
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 2: That's Cali Christmas vibe. That's all we have. Day is

906
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Speaker 2: Christmas five.

907
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: That's what I do. It feels Christmas.

908
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 2: We don't have anything else, so desperately.

909
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,280
Speaker 1: Trying to curate the Christmas spirit. She's like making hot cocoa.

910
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 1: She got the tree, she's been hanging ornaments. She's like,

911
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reclaim the spirit of Christmas that I

912
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 1: had in childhood.

913
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 2: And we did a darn good job, thank you.

914
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 4: But we needed a more Christmas activities.

915
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:41,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well we'll do some I skidding.

916
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:46,959
Speaker 2: You got some time, you got another two weeks mount

917
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 2: abs girl, Thanks for the twenty five dollars. Hi'm from Montana.

918
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 2: Today is my son's birthday. He's twenty five.

919
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Speaker 3: Have birthday?

920
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 1: You got birthdays all over the place, truly.

921
00:45:56,040 --> 00:46:03,280
Speaker 2: Because one's next Tuesday? So the yeah yeah, So anyway,

922
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Speaker 2: can you zoom.

923
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Speaker 1: In on the h make those bigger for my six

924
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Speaker 1: fifteenth and sounds like Columbian weather? Are you from Columbia

925
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Speaker 1: because we were going to be there end of February

926
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Speaker 1: in Median. I don't know if we're going. We might do.

927
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Speaker 2: I don't know if we'll do a fan meet up,

928
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 2: but we might potentially. We've never done one before. Wait,

929
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Speaker 2: so that is we are.

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Speaker 1: Still We're still going? Okay?

931
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Speaker 2: Uh, Joseph, thank you for these sixty five Sweedish Crowner.

932
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Speaker 2: Did y'all tell Dakota and the rest of the boys

933
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Speaker 2: about my plans of drawing?

934
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: Y'all?

935
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 2: I need good quality selfies and portrait picture everyone for reference.

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Speaker 4: No, No one informed me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, submit a selfie on Discord General.

938
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Speaker 2: Pretty nice, okay? Okad and Heidi Vincent, thank you for

939
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 2: gifting ten Okay storytime memberships. My goodness, the family keeps expending.

940
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 2: Heather Hell Heather Anderson seven, Sophia is sabotaging me. Heather

941
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Speaker 2: Anderson reg Regstad, thank you. Welcome to the Nights stick member,

942
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 2: wow oh yeah, well yeah it's okay this sort of

943
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 2: still way.

944
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

945
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 2: A sword is really just a stick with no edge.

946
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 2: I mean, a stick is really just you know what

947
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:29,799
Speaker 2: I mean. H Josephine, thank you for the twenty seven

948
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Speaker 2: Speedish croner. Don't go to the wedding. It's a trap.

949
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Speaker 2: Well she didn't, so that's great and elimental. Welcome to

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Speaker 2: the Knights. Whah. Margarie, Margarie mogary mogri uh, Mogorie. Thank

951
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Speaker 2: you for the two hundred and fifty Filipino pesos. Yesterday

952
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:51,720
Speaker 2: was my daughter's again another birthday. Yesterday is my daughter's birthday.

953
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Speaker 2: Thank you for getting h thank you for greeting her.

954
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Speaker 2: But today's my birthday birthday. She's been the best birthday

955
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Speaker 2: gift ever. I'm thirty nine in feelings, so old. Well,

956
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 2: happy birthday to both of you. And you know what,

957
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 2: thirty nine is the new twenty nine. I don't even

958
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 2: worry about it. Stars fall up. Thank you for the

959
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 2: two dollars listening while I prep to shovel my car out.

960
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:18,239
Speaker 2: Yeah see that's the Christmas spirit right there, shoveling, got it. Yeah,

961
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 2: the cold annual labor. Kay, thank you for being a

962
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 2: member for four months. At this point, my membership is

963
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Speaker 2: in our monthly budget. Look at that. That's organization.

964
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:29,280
Speaker 1: That's organization.

965
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 2: Missus, missus, are you're still your subject? Missus nostalgic, thank

966
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 2: you for gifting five. Okay, storytime memberships, Amy, they took

967
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,240
Speaker 2: the two bucks, she says. Twenty four hours stream.

968
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 1: They always want the twenty four hour stream.

969
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:49,840
Speaker 2: Honestly, I think we could actually really pull off a

970
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:51,799
Speaker 2: twenty four hour stream. However, there's no way we could

971
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:52,840
Speaker 2: do stories.

972
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: The whole time.

973
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 2: That would be the host test. Dude, I'm supposed to announce.

974
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, lets anounced it, John said, tomorrow?

975
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 4: At what time?

976
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 1: What time do you want to do it?

977
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Speaker 4: Five?

978
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 5: Wait?

979
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 2: Hold on, I have no plans yet.

980
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 4: Hold on, hold on, talk to people. I'm checking on

981
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 4: another thing. Okay, Well we have a thing at seven thirty.

982
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 2: Okay, Well how about you'll figure out and let me

983
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:27,439
Speaker 2: keep let.

984
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 4: Me keep the clock tomorrow, be there or be square

985
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 4: for little romance but.

986
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:36,320
Speaker 2: Stimulated simulated romance.

987
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:37,720
Speaker 4: Stimulated romance.

988
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 2: Stimulate yourself with some simulated explanation.

989
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:45,719
Speaker 4: We're going to be playing a romance simulator.

990
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,839
Speaker 2: We want to tell you which one, but it will

991
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 2: be fun so much.

992
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 1: And we've never done this before, but it feels like

993
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: Upper Alley and feels like it could be fun.

994
00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 4: I got a Steam account so we can do this.

995
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 1: Yep, yep, yep, yep yep.

996
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:01,839
Speaker 2: Uh.

997
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 1: Vix Max thanks for the two bucks the original jacket,

998
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:07,799
Speaker 1: Sam love it. Yeah, I'm bringing it back. Also, it's

999
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:09,920
Speaker 1: cold in here, you know. We got rained outside a

1000
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 1: little bit.

1001
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 2: Uh.

1002
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 1: And then three months on my one and only membership

1003
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Speaker 1: in YouTube. Thanks Ming Ming Owow and Joseph mcdol burke

1004
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Speaker 1: Quests twenty seven sweetsh Corner. Actually Ikea is pronounced ike

1005
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Speaker 1: No way, you're joking, you're lying, no way. Laura ended

1006
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Speaker 1: up saying the name. Yeah, well you got it. No

1007
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:36,399
Speaker 1: free sponsors, Laurie remember for four months. Hey everyone love

1008
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 1: the videos, keep up the amazing work. We'll try, We'll try.

1009
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 2: Darn and our best. Everyone's getting sick. Vis Mixed.

1010
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: Thanks for the ten Okay Storytime memberships. We appreciate you.

1011
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 1: Growing the family. Amanda Kay, thanks for we remember for

1012
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 1: two months, technically three months, but wooch and uh, Marcel

1013
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:59,240
Speaker 1: and Mikalai. Welcome to the Knights as well. That everything,

1014
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 1: let's freaking whoa. Okay, let's get to this remember story.

1015
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 1: And then finally Melas six eight one five thanks to

1016
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:10,800
Speaker 1: the ten bucks. Yes, I'm Columbian but live in Florida.

1017
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 1: I'll be fine a Cali on Christmas to celebrate the

1018
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 1: holidays for the first time in eleven years. We welcome

1019
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:17,399
Speaker 1: to California.

1020
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 2: All right, Welcome to California.

1021
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 1: Welcome to California. Dude, I love Arnold Schorsenegger.

1022
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 2: Yeah he too.

1023
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 1: He's great. He's great. Oh wait more, but oh ell

1024
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,280
Speaker 1: e g. Thanks for the twenty five bucks. My husband

1025
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 1: got a well earned promotion. I'm so proud of him. Also,

1026
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: happy birthday to all of the December babies in here.

1027
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 1: Yeah we got hella December babies.

1028
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 4: There are a lot of December miss Also, Danielle Johnson

1029
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 4: is the We will have a private stream tomorrow, however,

1030
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 4: at five it will be public.

1031
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll go We'll go public for that one. I'm

1032
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 1: very excited to try it and see see if you

1033
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 1: guys like it. I think it'll be fun.

1034
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:55,279
Speaker 2: Sheould be pretty fun.

1035
00:51:55,719 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 1: It's a first, and okay, storytime history, all right, we

1036
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: get into this next story. So to the next one.

1037
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 1: We offered temporary housing to my sister in law, but

1038
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: now I wanted to move out.

1039
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:11,759
Speaker 2: A sorry, this is temporary.

1040
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: It is time for you to go, Benjamin Franklin said,

1041
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 1: fish and guest smell after three days. Oh so I

1042
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: need some perspective on a situation with my sister in law.

1043
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,839
Speaker 1: Here's some background. My sister in law had a very

1044
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:30,879
Speaker 1: difficult childhood with absent parents. Her mom has mental health

1045
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 1: issues and is somewhat narcissistic. Sister in law lived with

1046
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 1: her uncle for years, but after a fight with him,

1047
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,720
Speaker 1: she moved in with her mom. They had a falling

1048
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:42,239
Speaker 1: out too, leaving her with nowhere to stay. By the way,

1049
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:46,240
Speaker 1: this comes from Legitimate disc nine five on the r slash. Okay,

1050
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: storytime subbrot it. So, my husband thirty's male, and I

1051
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 1: live in a one bedroom apartment. Feeling bad for a situation,

1052
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 1: we offered to let her stay temporarily while she figured

1053
00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 1: out something more permanent. How long would you let someone

1054
00:52:58,200 --> 00:52:58,839
Speaker 1: stay in your couch?

1055
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 3: My couch?

1056
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 2: Oh? Sorry, I can't answer. I mean it depends on

1057
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,840
Speaker 2: the context. It really does depend on the context.

1058
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 4: But like if they were working for.

1059
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: You, Let's say, if they were like you know, like

1060
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 1: you guys work together.

1061
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:23,439
Speaker 2: An undisclosed amount of time.

1062
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,319
Speaker 1: I think, I think if it's some if it's someone

1063
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 1: that you don't if it's family, like, I think I

1064
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:34,919
Speaker 1: would let Sophia crash for an indefinite amount of times. Yeah,

1065
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 1: I would help her get on her feet. But like

1066
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: I'm not going to kick her out.

1067
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:40,800
Speaker 2: I mean really, context is key. Context is context is

1068
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 2: context is key. I don't want to just like kick

1069
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 2: anyone out on the street. Yeah, yeah, that was I

1070
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 2: don't know if.

1071
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: We would ever do that for like someone we you know,

1072
00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 1: like my sibling or someone we worked with, like would

1073
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: make sure they had a home.

1074
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's you know, it is it's it's a tough

1075
00:53:57,800 --> 00:53:58,919
Speaker 2: spot to be in either way.

1076
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, So, feeling bad for a situation, we offered to

1077
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 1: let her stay temporarily while she figured out something more permanent.

1078
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:10,760
Speaker 1: I assumed she'd find a room quickly since she wanted

1079
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 1: to live with her boyfriend, but that didn't happen. Also,

1080
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:19,879
Speaker 1: Rebecca Crow says, two weeks that's it. Bo damn Fried

1081
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: and True Savage.

1082
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 2: Okay, guys.

1083
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: Okay, about a month into her stay, we found out

1084
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant. This news shifted my perspective on having her here,

1085
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: especially as we'll need time to get up the likes

1086
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:41,800
Speaker 1: on this video. Have you not liked the stream already?

1087
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: Have you not liked the stream? Do you even want

1088
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: to spin that wheel? We are at three hundred and

1089
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 1: sixty three likes of five hundred and five oter likes.

1090
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,080
Speaker 1: We spin that wheel, guys, and there's some really fun

1091
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:53,320
Speaker 1: stuff on the wheel. There's fun stuff on the wheel.

1092
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 1: So freakin' like this video.

1093
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 2: I don't know if anyone in here was here for

1094
00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 2: the hard mode that me and Riley did.

1095
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 1: Oh, but it's hard mode. Hard MODI gets crazy, It

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Speaker 1: gets crazy. And if you've already liked spammed the chat

1097
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:10,360
Speaker 1: for a little bit, you know, put some put some

1098
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 1: love in the chat, put some hearts, put some hearts

1099
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 1: out there, put some likes. We did get a new wheel.

1100
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 1: We have updated our wheel.

1101
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:17,880
Speaker 4: So we got a new wheel.

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00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 1: We get a new wheel. We refreshed our wheel.

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00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 2: Yeah new new uh, new pants?

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00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:26,800
Speaker 1: Cars yeah yeah, new paints, yes exactly. So this just

1105
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,799
Speaker 1: shifted my perspective on having her here, especially as we'll

1106
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:32,240
Speaker 1: need time and space, doom, buy it for the baby.

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00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 1: We get how space is a baby need? It's like

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00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 1: a lot. No, you just need a lot in a drawer.

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00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 2: I mean technically that's what they did.

1110
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: That's what they did in the in the dirties.

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00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 2: I think what you're mistaking is how much spaces baby

1112
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 2: need versus where can you fit a baby? No, you

1113
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 2: can fit a baby in a drawer.

1114
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:56,359
Speaker 1: What else does the baby need? Diapers and a drawer?

1115
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:01,280
Speaker 2: You know, low key, I think you're cooking. I think, parents, parents,

1116
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:02,479
Speaker 2: why don't you save some money?

1117
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:05,600
Speaker 1: How much space does a baby need? And the earliers

1118
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:07,879
Speaker 1: I'm saying that. I'm thinking about those old New York

1119
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 1: photographs with like the thirties where they would put like

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00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: cages in high rises so the babies could play outside

1121
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:16,400
Speaker 1: like the sun in the in the cage.

1122
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 2: They didn't keep them there all day. They didn't just

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00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 2: have the baby live over the edge of their window.

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00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 1: Souths like you know what it was.

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00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 2: It was because they were like, get your baby some

1126
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:33,880
Speaker 2: fresh air. It's baby, healthy baby. Put your baby danglo

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00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 2: baby out over cages.

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00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: Stay well originally fun, that's really what counts. So this

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00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:46,400
Speaker 1: new shifted my perspective. Oh, Elma says as a former baby,

1130
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 1: a drawer will.

1131
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:51,440
Speaker 2: Do as a former baby, and as a former baby,

1132
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 2: I concur ten out of ten babies support this message,

1133
00:56:55,840 --> 00:57:02,919
Speaker 2: and the babies that don't have fallen all right going

1134
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:04,800
Speaker 2: onto a big pillow.

1135
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:12,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, go out here, saving me just like those pillows

1136
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: save those babies. This news shifted my perspective on having

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00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 1: her here, especially as we'll need time and space to

1138
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: prepare for the baby. We gave her a move out

1139
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 1: deadline for the end of January. And Sophia, can you

1140
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 1: pull up pictures of those baby cages so we can

1141
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: show people sister law tends.

1142
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 2: Lad just so people can have an id of what

1143
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 2: you're saying, because baby cages can sound pretty aggressive. Yeah,

1144
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:41,360
Speaker 2: because you're actually sort of whimsical and delightful. You know.

1145
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:43,560
Speaker 1: That's when I range chicken, you know, yeah.

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00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 4: Exactly when am I looking up baby cage?

1147
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 1: Like look up New York baby cage nineteen thirty's apartment. Anyway,

1148
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 1: sister in law attends a laid back school, but she

1149
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 1: didn't have a job or means to support herself. So

1150
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:02,320
Speaker 1: this this a lot is kind of like down our

1151
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 1: a lot doesn't know what to do. My husband and

1152
00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:06,560
Speaker 1: I convinced her to get a job, and we helped

1153
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: her apply for an apartment. She was offered one, but

1154
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: she didn't want it, calling it the middle of nowhere.

1155
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:15,400
Speaker 1: Public transport makes it accessible, but she'd need to walk

1156
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: sometimes fifteen minutes from the station. That's totally doable.

1157
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not the middle baby kid. Yeah all right,

1158
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:26,200
Speaker 2: so maybe whimsical was the wrong word, but definitely like, uh,

1159
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,160
Speaker 2: it looks a little more industrial than I remember.

1160
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:32,439
Speaker 1: That is a happy baby.

1161
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 2: That is a confused baby. That baby's going to be

1162
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:38,280
Speaker 2: a rock climbers. That baby is not afraid of heights.

1163
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:42,840
Speaker 2: That's Alex Hondell, you know, before he went big. Yeah,

1164
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:47,520
Speaker 2: he's one hundred and eight. Alex Donald is.

1165
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 1: Ageless. Public transport makes it more accessible. We eventually convinced

1166
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:58,280
Speaker 1: her to accept it because we need our space back.

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00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 1: The issue. Cistern in law has been skipping school despite

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00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:06,960
Speaker 1: needing to pass this semester to continue her studies. We've

1169
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 1: encouraged her to stay on track because we want her

1170
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 1: to succeed, and a few days ago I stayed home

1171
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 1: due to a doctor's appointment and needed to work for

1172
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: a couple of hours beforehand, I woke up. I woke

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00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: cistern Law up because my workspace is in the living

1174
00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 1: room and it was time for her to go to school.

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00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:26,320
Speaker 2: Woo whoa wo.

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00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: Hannah with you one one hundred and twenty eight dollars

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00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 1: donation govern us another thirty minutes.

1178
00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 4: Wow.

1179
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 2: Wow, today has been rough. Thank you for your presence.

1180
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 1: Thank you for your presence.

1181
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for your Hannah. I'm sure everyone in

1182
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 2: this dream is also very thankful. Cheryl Dy has it right.

1183
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 1: Put some shushes in the chat for silent Hannah.

1184
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:53,440
Speaker 4: Sh Shanna.

1185
00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: She refused, saying that she'd visited the apartment building the

1186
00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:01,320
Speaker 1: night before thought it looked like I go jail and

1187
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: felt too depressed to do anything.

1188
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 2: She's like, this is reminded me of my baby cage.

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01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:09,360
Speaker 2: I don't think I can go back out.

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01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 1: She even said that if this is what life is like,

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01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to live.

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01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 2: Dude, come on, so mad, Come.

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01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 1: On, but I feel like you kind of have to

1194
01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 1: respond to this, so OPI says concerned. I texted my husband,

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01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 1: who called her to discuss it. She cried, telling him

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01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 1: she's too depressed hale work or school and can't live

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01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 1: in the apartment. Also, I imagine some of why she

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01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 1: doesn't want to live in the apartments, probably because it's

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Speaker 1: more lonely. She probably feels a sense of community, like

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01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:47,800
Speaker 1: living together with.

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01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:51,960
Speaker 2: Her brother, especially if she's going through crisis, especially going

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01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:52,520
Speaker 2: through crisis.

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01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:54,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like I wouldn't want to live alone.

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01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm not going through crisis, but I feel like I

1205
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 1: would be going through CHRISTI if I was all alone

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01:00:57,600 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 1: in an apartment.

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01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 2: I personally, I sometimes I year in fa solitude. But

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01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 2: you don't have to get that just by like living alone.

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01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 1: I haven't so long do you go? Where do you

1210
01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 1: go to get solitude?

1211
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 2: Just like around?

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01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 1: You want to tell me the place, I'm not going

1213
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 1: to tell you my secret, sooloo.

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01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 2: There's a couple of places you wouldn't know.

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01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:21,959
Speaker 1: You wouldn't know about it, and you won't know about

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01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:22,960
Speaker 1: them to not.

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Speaker 2: Know about you know what? There is one overlook. I

1218
01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 2: mean I don't live there anymore. I used to live

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01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 2: really close to like, uh, there was a the Mullholland Overlook. Yeah,

1220
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 2: Like there's just one spot where it's like you can

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01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 2: kind of see downtown and stuff. And I just feel

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01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 2: like I already. I actually went there like in the

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01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 2: middle of this whole, like I'm kind of in the

1224
01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 2: middle of like a little my life is like but

1225
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 2: like everything's fine now, But at some point I was

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01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:48,440
Speaker 2: like up there, just like contemplating.

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Speaker 1: Pondering the city.

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01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:50,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: So when I returned from my appointment, they were still

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01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 1: on the phone. My husband I agreed later that she

1231
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 1: still needs to move back the pot because of the

1232
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:04,680
Speaker 1: deposit is pegged and we need our home back.

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Speaker 2: I also want to clarify.

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Speaker 1: That my husband is very supportive of me in the

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01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 1: sense that he tries to make me feel as comfortable

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01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 1: as possible at all times. Great husband. He's also very

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01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 1: supporting of her, trying to encourage her to better herself

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01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:23,240
Speaker 1: so she can be successful in life. Sounds like a

1239
01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 1: great husband.

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Speaker 3: Yeap.

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01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 1: Yesterday I overheard sister in law on the phone with

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01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:31,040
Speaker 1: a friend complaining about me. She was angry that I

1243
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:33,600
Speaker 1: told my husband about her skipping school and mentioned other

1244
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 1: times she's been upset with me. I'll admit we don't

1245
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 1: have a great relationship. Though I've always wished her well,

1246
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: I find her behavior frustrating. She seems just like a

1247
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 1: little bit immature yeah, I would say so. I've even

1248
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,520
Speaker 1: avoided including her in dinners with friends or family like

1249
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: her older like her other brother and his wife, who

1250
01:02:49,160 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 1: I get along with. Great to acclaim a sense of

1251
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 1: normalcy am id a hole for insisting she move out.

1252
01:02:57,640 --> 01:03:00,320
Speaker 1: So chat let us know. But I feel ConFlat. On

1253
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:02,560
Speaker 1: one hand, I understand she's struggling and it has had

1254
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 1: a rough life. On the other, my husband and I

1255
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 1: need our space, especially with a baby on the way.

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01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 1: I feel drained with her living with us. She's a

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01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: very negative person, which affects me a lot. Since I'm

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01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:15,800
Speaker 1: a glass half full type person. I've tried to help her,

1259
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:18,920
Speaker 1: but I also feel drained and resentful. Have I the

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Speaker 1: ale We have a big juicy update coming up for you, Yeah,

1261
01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 1: very soon. But Dakota Sophia shitty chat Uh Do you

1262
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 1: think op's the a hole for wanting the sister in

1263
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:35,640
Speaker 1: law out?

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01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 5: No?

1265
01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:40,160
Speaker 2: I don't think so. Why don't you think I think

1266
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 2: they're you know, they're trying to support her as gently

1267
01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:47,960
Speaker 2: as they can, and it's like, you know, just because

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01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 2: you live in an apartment alone doesn't mean you have

1269
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 2: to stay there alone all the time, right, Like I

1270
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 2: think maybe taking her out. Yeah, have they been doing

1271
01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 2: any activities together?

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01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:04,920
Speaker 1: Well, sounds like the wife doesn't want to invite her

1273
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 1: to activities because she doesn't really like her that much.

1274
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 1: Like the ale. Oh yeah, pole, let's put a pole,

1275
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:18,479
Speaker 1: not the ale or a hole for op but yeah, continue, Well.

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01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 2: To be fair, I think right now it's not the

1277
01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 2: A hole because she hasn't like actually kicked her out,

1278
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:27,120
Speaker 2: but like just wanting it and being like I'm sick

1279
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 2: of this, like this is you know, is one thing, but.

1280
01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:32,720
Speaker 1: Like and it's also she's got a place to live

1281
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:36,560
Speaker 1: that you're still not the A hole. She's she has

1282
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 1: a place. She just doesn't want to live there. The

1283
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 1: deposit is already set. She just doesn't want to go

1284
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:42,400
Speaker 1: over there.

1285
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:47,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's like I think, you know, it's always

1286
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 2: hard when people are going through like mental you know.

1287
01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 2: She says that she's too depressed and anxious to like

1288
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 2: even like do anything, you know, to be responsible for herself,

1289
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,720
Speaker 2: and that's a really hard place to be in. And

1290
01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 2: like sometimes even in on deal circumstances, you got to

1291
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:03,480
Speaker 2: just you know, put one foot in front of the

1292
01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:06,440
Speaker 2: other and move on or not mean move forward.

1293
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:09,080
Speaker 1: And I think like a lot of you know. The

1294
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 1: thing that is hard is like the op doesn't have

1295
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 1: that much sway in terms of like how to help

1296
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 1: the sister in alaw best, because that really needs to

1297
01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:26,280
Speaker 1: come from Op's husband, right, Like he's the he's the brother.

1298
01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 1: I think what he should do and maybe what I

1299
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:32,520
Speaker 1: would do in this situation. It's like, hey, like we're

1300
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 1: about to have a baby, we need our space. We

1301
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 1: have this place that we already put a deposit on.

1302
01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 1: You need to go and start living over there. But

1303
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 1: just know I'm here for you. I want to put

1304
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:46,160
Speaker 1: time a couple times a week on the calendar to

1305
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:48,520
Speaker 1: get together so you don't feel alone. I want to

1306
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 1: help you, like make sure you're reaching out to friends,

1307
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:52,720
Speaker 1: like help you say your life, like still be involved

1308
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:55,160
Speaker 1: without her being necessarily in your space. And I think

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01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:56,680
Speaker 1: that's a good.

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01:05:58,560 --> 01:05:59,160
Speaker 2: Mid points.

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Speaker 1: But it's the thing, like I really just I don't

1312
01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:03,920
Speaker 1: think it's on Ope to solve this problem. It's on

1313
01:06:04,160 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 1: Opie's husband. Obviously she should be evolved, Yeah, sure, but

1314
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:09,600
Speaker 1: it's really it's I think it's really on the husband.

1315
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 2: It's yeah, it would be hard for her to to

1316
01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 2: like to you know, metaphorically kind of like pull a

1317
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:17,920
Speaker 2: trigger on getting her out. Yeah, but at the same time,

1318
01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 2: it's like she's the bright ones. She's having a baby,

1319
01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 2: like they're about to like my family, It's like it's

1320
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 2: you can you literally just cannot stay here.

1321
01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:29,480
Speaker 1: I think the demand of saying like, hey, I need

1322
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:32,440
Speaker 1: my own space to the husband and the husband solving

1323
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:36,240
Speaker 1: it is a completely okay demand. I don't think op,

1324
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 1: he's an a hole. And looking at the votes, we

1325
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:43,400
Speaker 1: have nine percent of y'all saying a hole and ninety

1326
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:47,880
Speaker 1: one percent saying not the a hole. With fifty one votes.

1327
01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:51,560
Speaker 2: Well, technically that's a hung jury. That is a has

1328
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 2: gonna have to stay.

1329
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 4: That's true.

1330
01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:57,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, we need unanimous decisions here. But also what we

1331
01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:00,360
Speaker 1: want to be unanimous is the amount of people who

1332
01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:03,240
Speaker 1: have liked the stream. What are you doing not like

1333
01:07:03,320 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: the stream? We are four hundred and twenty six likes

1334
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 1: of five hundred and five likes. We spin the wheel. Also,

1335
01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:11,400
Speaker 1: if you've already liked, the best way to get other

1336
01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:15,200
Speaker 1: people in this stream right now is blow up chat.

1337
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:18,240
Speaker 1: The more chat activity we have, the more YouTube size.

1338
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 1: This is popping. Yeah, this is popping.

1339
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 2: Look at these cool guys. Want to show all these

1340
01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:28,640
Speaker 2: cool oh oh oh oh oh wow, Yuki su Yuki

1341
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 2: donated twenty gifted membership to the stream.

1342
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:35,360
Speaker 1: My goodness, wow, we're gonna get a bunch of new

1343
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:37,840
Speaker 1: family members too many.

1344
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:38,800
Speaker 4: Sugar Yuki.

1345
01:07:39,000 --> 01:07:39,720
Speaker 1: Sugar Yuki.

1346
01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, sugar Yuki. Yeah.

1347
01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:42,840
Speaker 1: Sugar Yuki is uh is.

1348
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 2: Our our little little name for for shar Yuki.

1349
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:50,960
Speaker 1: But we're gonna get in to an update. But it

1350
01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:55,640
Speaker 1: seems like we kind of all agree that, uh, something

1351
01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:56,160
Speaker 1: can be done.

1352
01:07:56,760 --> 01:08:00,920
Speaker 2: Something can yeah, I mean, especially because already spot ready

1353
01:08:00,960 --> 01:08:01,919
Speaker 2: for it's already a spot.

1354
01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:03,720
Speaker 1: We kind of haven't set up, you kind of it

1355
01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:10,120
Speaker 1: set up. But let's get in to this update. So first,

1356
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 1: I want to thank everyone who commented on my original posts.

1357
01:08:15,080 --> 01:08:19,759
Speaker 1: Your advice, perspectives and even your congratulations on my pregnancy

1358
01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:22,400
Speaker 1: meant so much to me. It was helpful to hear

1359
01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:24,800
Speaker 1: from people who could relate and offer insights, and it

1360
01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:26,759
Speaker 1: made me feel a lot less alone in this situation.

1361
01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:31,880
Speaker 1: Thank you all. Now for the update, and whoeveryone who

1362
01:08:31,960 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 1: did the super chats. We're going to get back to

1363
01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:37,680
Speaker 1: saying some doughnuts after this story, so don't you.

1364
01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:39,719
Speaker 4: Worry trying to type that, but you got too quick.

1365
01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:46,479
Speaker 1: The big news sister law moved out yesterday. Okay, okay, okay,

1366
01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:47,000
Speaker 1: it's a win.

1367
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:47,760
Speaker 3: Right.

1368
01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:51,160
Speaker 1: It was a long and emotionally draining process, but it

1369
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:55,599
Speaker 1: finally happened. Over the past few days, my husband had

1370
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:59,240
Speaker 1: several conversations with her, making it clear she needed to

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01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:02,000
Speaker 1: move out, but reassuring her that we would still support her,

1372
01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:05,200
Speaker 1: which is what we said. It's I love when we

1373
01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:09,960
Speaker 1: mind meld with you. It's just I feel Yeah, dude,

1374
01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 1: we're sending a little all right, ready thinking of fruit?

1375
01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:17,440
Speaker 1: One two three apples?

1376
01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:21,479
Speaker 4: How did you not? You should have gotten that?

1377
01:09:21,760 --> 01:09:22,759
Speaker 1: What I should have gone? Apples?

1378
01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:23,120
Speaker 2: Ready?

1379
01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 1: One two three?

1380
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:26,680
Speaker 2: Blueberries?

1381
01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:29,320
Speaker 1: Nice?

1382
01:09:29,439 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 4: We're so freaking mind meld was so out of it, Okay,

1383
01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:35,959
Speaker 4: that sibling energy.

1384
01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:37,599
Speaker 1: One two three.

1385
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:39,799
Speaker 2: I was gonna say oranges.

1386
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:44,520
Speaker 4: They're technically the same color is one two three pineapples?

1387
01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:53,800
Speaker 2: Eggs? I was already whatever. I'm sorry. Everyone knows eggs

1388
01:09:53,840 --> 01:09:56,360
Speaker 2: is the fruits of the animal kingdom.

1389
01:09:57,200 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 1: So uh, which I I think is good as long

1390
01:10:01,080 --> 01:10:04,519
Speaker 1: as it is in ways that don't negatively affect us. Yeah.

1391
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:07,679
Speaker 1: The emphasize that while we care about her, she needs

1392
01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 1: to take steps towards independence. On Saturday, we helped her

1393
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:14,519
Speaker 1: pack up the things she had at our apartment. She

1394
01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:17,719
Speaker 1: also had belongings at her uncle's house, so we took those.

1395
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 1: So we took out moving boxes for her to use.

1396
01:10:20,400 --> 01:10:22,400
Speaker 1: She had plans of you another apartment with her friend

1397
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:24,800
Speaker 1: that day, so she left with her friend to shop

1398
01:10:24,920 --> 01:10:27,479
Speaker 1: for kitchen items, check out the apartment, and then pack

1399
01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:30,679
Speaker 1: the things at the uncle's house. I found out later

1400
01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 1: that she did not go to the viewing or pack

1401
01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:36,280
Speaker 1: at the uncle's house.

1402
01:10:37,280 --> 01:10:39,559
Speaker 2: But I see you in the chat. But I see

1403
01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:42,639
Speaker 2: you in the chat. If you know what's coming. Oh

1404
01:10:42,760 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 2: my gosh, I don't know what's coming. I bet she's

1405
01:10:47,240 --> 01:10:49,200
Speaker 2: not there. I don't know.

1406
01:10:51,120 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 1: You kind of look like you have plastic surgery when

1407
01:10:53,160 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 1: you put your yeah yeah, got one of those yeah tape.

1408
01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:06,000
Speaker 1: I found out later that she did not go to

1409
01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:08,599
Speaker 1: the viewing or pack at the uncle's house. She instead

1410
01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:11,960
Speaker 1: went to shop and then to see the apartment she

1411
01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:18,120
Speaker 1: was moving into. Later that evening, around seven pm, she

1412
01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:24,560
Speaker 1: called us in a panic, saying she could not and

1413
01:11:24,800 --> 01:11:29,519
Speaker 1: would not move into the apartment. No, I will not

1414
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:31,960
Speaker 1: be in that house. I will not be in that

1415
01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:32,920
Speaker 1: house with that mouse.

1416
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:36,720
Speaker 2: I will not be in that house. If I can,

1417
01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:39,800
Speaker 2: I will not be in that house. That's my plan.

1418
01:11:41,960 --> 01:11:43,880
Speaker 1: I will not be in that house e.

1419
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:47,160
Speaker 2: Never.

1420
01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:49,639
Speaker 1: I will in the house never.

1421
01:11:51,880 --> 01:11:56,720
Speaker 2: We need to rhyme with eggs. So she claimed it.

1422
01:11:56,840 --> 01:12:02,280
Speaker 1: Was falsely advertised look like the photos, and that she

1423
01:12:02,479 --> 01:12:05,080
Speaker 1: couldn't decorate it in the way that she wanted.

1424
01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:07,800
Speaker 2: I will not be in this house for all of

1425
01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:10,599
Speaker 2: my days. I won't be in that house, not even

1426
01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:11,719
Speaker 2: if full of eggs.

1427
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:13,880
Speaker 1: I like the lant rhyme.

1428
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:18,240
Speaker 2: The apartment was dirty, which was true.

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01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 1: Edge was gross, especially the bathroom, and it had some

1430
01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:26,720
Speaker 1: basic furniture of bed table, chairs and clothes hangers. She

1431
01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:30,760
Speaker 1: hadn't expected. Is a clothes hanger of furniture? Is that

1432
01:12:30,880 --> 01:12:34,000
Speaker 1: how low or stupid? I said, dude, that's why is

1433
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:37,000
Speaker 1: this a problem? That's called like you got bonus furniture?

1434
01:12:37,360 --> 01:12:39,360
Speaker 1: She's like the apartment's furnished.

1435
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:40,559
Speaker 2: Ah.

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01:12:41,200 --> 01:12:45,639
Speaker 1: She was overwhelmed and upset during this call. I almost

1437
01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:48,240
Speaker 1: had a panic attack. I refuse to engage, leaving my

1438
01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:49,920
Speaker 1: husband to handle it. I think that's okay.

1439
01:12:50,080 --> 01:12:52,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, especially since you're pregnant, you should Yet don't handle it.

1440
01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:56,200
Speaker 1: He got so frustrated, a rare occurrence for him, that

1441
01:12:56,439 --> 01:12:59,760
Speaker 1: he told her, I don't care where you move, but

1442
01:12:59,840 --> 01:13:02,479
Speaker 1: you have to move. She ended the call saying she'd

1443
01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:03,200
Speaker 1: figure something out.

1444
01:13:04,280 --> 01:13:08,240
Speaker 2: Hey, man, you got you pushed him to that point.

1445
01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:13,080
Speaker 1: You pushed him. God, Princess says, girl, please Holly Jane

1446
01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:16,000
Speaker 1: Macha says. Do they count comments on YouTube or Facebook

1447
01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:20,080
Speaker 1: or both? They do that that also, like everywhere, the

1448
01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:21,760
Speaker 1: more comments that you have, the more people that come

1449
01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:24,479
Speaker 1: into the stream, which is which is good? How he says,

1450
01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:27,320
Speaker 1: is she depressed or bratt? Probably a bit of both,

1451
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:28,840
Speaker 1: Probably a bit of both.

1452
01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 4: Uh, it's printer, what bratt?

1453
01:13:33,479 --> 01:13:44,240
Speaker 2: Winter printer? I thought you just said it's winter. It's print.

1454
01:13:50,240 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 1: But moving day. Yesterday morning, her dad arrived with the

1455
01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:58,120
Speaker 1: moving trup and as planned, we wanted to start early

1456
01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:00,799
Speaker 1: and Amanda, yeah, I do see common with on TikTok.

1457
01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:03,599
Speaker 1: Come on. We wanted to start early since it was Sunday,

1458
01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:06,640
Speaker 1: but cin Cerala resisted getting up early. My husband and

1459
01:14:06,680 --> 01:14:09,080
Speaker 1: his dad ended up spending one and a half hours

1460
01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:12,080
Speaker 1: talking to her about the situation. I stayed out of

1461
01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:14,320
Speaker 1: it because I knew I'd get frustrated and say something

1462
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:19,519
Speaker 1: I'd regret. During their conversation, sister Law expressed anger about

1463
01:14:19,560 --> 01:14:22,760
Speaker 1: her childhood and kept saying how others pity her but

1464
01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:26,040
Speaker 1: her family doesn't. She's like, everyone else feels bad for me,

1465
01:14:26,280 --> 01:14:28,680
Speaker 1: but it's because everyone else just has to feel bad

1466
01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 1: for you. Your family actually has to pick up the pieces.

1467
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,000
Speaker 1: You know, your friends canna be like, Oh that sucks

1468
01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:36,639
Speaker 1: so much, I'm not gonna do anything.

1469
01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:41,240
Speaker 2: It's like, uh, maybe your family is less inclined to

1470
01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:43,760
Speaker 2: pity you because they've known you forever. Yeah, and they've

1471
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:45,120
Speaker 2: been exposed to your behavior.

1472
01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:51,360
Speaker 1: They've dealt with your crap, the law talking about you.

1473
01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:52,680
Speaker 4: Pity me, that's what.

1474
01:14:53,000 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 1: There's nothing that I was going to say, there's nothing.

1475
01:14:54,720 --> 01:14:58,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, pity Okay, okay, yeah, come on, that was what

1476
01:14:59,000 --> 01:15:02,080
Speaker 2: you're like. Sam doesn't. Sam's like, you're right, what do

1477
01:15:02,120 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 2: you mean by that? That's a pity.

1478
01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:07,479
Speaker 1: That's a pity.

1479
01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:08,920
Speaker 2: I won't think it. So.

1480
01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:12,920
Speaker 1: She also said things like in three months, I'll probably

1481
01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:16,560
Speaker 1: be homeless and job once again, which felt manipulative, like

1482
01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 1: she was trying to guilt my husband exactly.

1483
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:20,599
Speaker 4: Oh you should be like, well you got three months

1484
01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:21,439
Speaker 4: to find a job.

1485
01:15:21,600 --> 01:15:22,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, figure it out.

1486
01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:27,040
Speaker 2: Mental health issues are serious. But like, also it feels like,

1487
01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:30,160
Speaker 2: whether they're legit or not, this person is really leaning

1488
01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:33,280
Speaker 2: into it. To sort of like weaponize them to get

1489
01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:33,880
Speaker 2: what they want.

1490
01:15:34,200 --> 01:15:36,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you do? Was what do you do

1491
01:15:36,120 --> 01:15:38,920
Speaker 1: with someone in this situation? Like she's a combination of

1492
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:42,000
Speaker 1: Braddy and depressed, and she's making Printer all about her.

1493
01:15:43,160 --> 01:15:46,400
Speaker 6: At this point, Pratt pressed, I don't know if I'm

1494
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:47,880
Speaker 6: gonna go get mad at me. But this we were

1495
01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 6: talking about, when is it appropriate to just like be like,

1496
01:15:50,479 --> 01:15:53,519
Speaker 6: you have to go If I get you an apartment,

1497
01:15:54,120 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 6: you show up to that apartment and you go, no,

1498
01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:56,960
Speaker 6: I can't.

1499
01:15:57,560 --> 01:16:00,960
Speaker 2: That's when I go, all right, you're not my problem anymore.

1500
01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:03,000
Speaker 2: Go figure it out. Go figure it out by yourself.

1501
01:16:03,280 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 2: I've done literally all.

1502
01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:09,400
Speaker 1: I can given. You've given a like a safety net, right, Yeah,

1503
01:16:09,439 --> 01:16:12,080
Speaker 1: And all they have to do is lay in that safety.

1504
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:13,640
Speaker 2: Net, and they're just like, no, I don't want to

1505
01:16:14,040 --> 01:16:15,920
Speaker 2: I want to live in your house, even though you're

1506
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:18,360
Speaker 2: gonna have a baby. It's like then, I don't know

1507
01:16:18,439 --> 01:16:20,880
Speaker 2: what to tell you. Man. It's you're gonna have to

1508
01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:25,439
Speaker 2: go somewhere else if you don't like a pre furnished apartment. Yeah, wow,

1509
01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:27,040
Speaker 2: have fun buying your own furniture.

1510
01:16:27,080 --> 01:16:28,800
Speaker 1: You don't have to go home, but you can't stay here.

1511
01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:33,120
Speaker 2: Yes, is that cheers. I think it might be.

1512
01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:34,160
Speaker 1: I feel like it.

1513
01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:36,880
Speaker 2: I think might It might have been around forever.

1514
01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:39,000
Speaker 1: I feel like it was like from like a sitcom

1515
01:16:39,120 --> 01:16:40,760
Speaker 1: or something like seventies or something.

1516
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:43,320
Speaker 2: You know what's really funny quick like complete side tangent.

1517
01:16:43,439 --> 01:16:46,400
Speaker 2: In China, they play Kenny G in public spaces like

1518
01:16:46,520 --> 01:16:49,479
Speaker 2: malls and shopping centers when it's about to close, to

1519
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:51,479
Speaker 2: like as an audio cue that it's time to go,

1520
01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:56,040
Speaker 2: like the yeah yeah. They'll start playing smooth Kenny G

1521
01:16:56,240 --> 01:16:59,960
Speaker 2: clarinet songs and it's just like everyone's like, oh, all right,

1522
01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:00,920
Speaker 2: it's closing time.

1523
01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:01,639
Speaker 1: We got very.

1524
01:17:04,520 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 2: I mean, that's careless whisper by George Michaelman. Oh crap,

1525
01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 2: it's okay. It was still pretty soon.

1526
01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 1: You let me sing the whole song. So both my

1527
01:17:17,080 --> 01:17:19,599
Speaker 1: husband and his dad made it clear that the move

1528
01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:21,840
Speaker 1: was happening and emphasized that she needs to learn to

1529
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:25,639
Speaker 1: take care of herself. Once they started the actual move,

1530
01:17:26,240 --> 01:17:29,559
Speaker 1: I decided to join to keep things on track. Okay,

1531
01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:33,880
Speaker 1: so everyone's coming together. We cleaned her new apartment thoroughly,

1532
01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:37,240
Speaker 1: even rending a steam cleaner to sanitize everything.

1533
01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:39,559
Speaker 2: Wait, pause, I have to change because I was wrong.

1534
01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:45,679
Speaker 2: It was it's closing time. It's closing time, closing, sad closing, Okay,

1535
01:17:46,439 --> 01:17:49,040
Speaker 2: and then I still can someone. I'm gonna double check

1536
01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:50,680
Speaker 2: the Kenny G theory and I'll be back.

1537
01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:52,080
Speaker 1: Is closing time by Kenny G.

1538
01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:56,519
Speaker 2: No, it's not. That's chumbawamba. I'm still I learned that

1539
01:17:56,640 --> 01:18:01,519
Speaker 2: Kenny G fact somewhere, and I will audience sources absolutely nothing.

1540
01:18:02,479 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 2: Where's wait, where's what? There could be a fact if

1541
01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:06,920
Speaker 2: it won't get to the bottom of the fact soon.

1542
01:18:07,080 --> 01:18:08,920
Speaker 2: If one don millennials in the chat, I know that

1543
01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:12,519
Speaker 2: you live in China or have been. Am I completely wrong?

1544
01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:13,880
Speaker 2: Did I dream this? No?

1545
01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:15,479
Speaker 1: No, one millennial is in China?

1546
01:18:15,640 --> 01:18:17,560
Speaker 2: Yeah? No, No, I mean about the Kenny Joe. No,

1547
01:18:17,640 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 2: I'm not didn't dream that part.

1548
01:18:20,920 --> 01:18:22,720
Speaker 1: Just dreaming about one millennial.

1549
01:18:22,560 --> 01:18:24,559
Speaker 2: Literally got Chinese legos in front of us right here

1550
01:18:24,640 --> 01:18:25,160
Speaker 2: from one.

1551
01:18:25,800 --> 01:18:27,599
Speaker 1: Shout out, one dub millennial. I don't know if you're here,

1552
01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:31,599
Speaker 1: but shout you out. We cleaned her new apartment thoroughly,

1553
01:18:31,760 --> 01:18:35,160
Speaker 1: even renting a steam cleaner to sanitize everything. We cleaned

1554
01:18:35,200 --> 01:18:39,639
Speaker 1: the whole thing from top to bottom. Also, the Kenny

1555
01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:41,720
Speaker 1: G thing is right, and it's not.

1556
01:18:41,800 --> 01:18:53,000
Speaker 7: Chrumble woman's we sung, no, chef, take your materials, can.

1557
01:18:52,920 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 1: Come your bucket hat and leave. So getting back to

1558
01:19:05,040 --> 01:19:07,439
Speaker 1: the toy, wait so wait, just to be clear on

1559
01:19:07,560 --> 01:19:08,720
Speaker 1: our facts right now.

1560
01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:19,200
Speaker 2: But the closing semi by sem semi atonics, semi sonic.

1561
01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:23,320
Speaker 1: Semi sonic closing time, semi sonic. They play it at

1562
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:26,520
Speaker 1: the day end of Chinese.

1563
01:19:26,200 --> 01:19:29,000
Speaker 2: Mall parent I was right. I heard saw someone say

1564
01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:31,640
Speaker 2: I was right about Kenny G. I think chumbawemba or

1565
01:19:31,800 --> 01:19:36,240
Speaker 2: semi sonic Closing time is just another closing time type song.

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01:19:36,280 --> 01:19:39,519
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, literally the title they do play your original

1567
01:19:39,560 --> 01:19:42,080
Speaker 1: thing was right. They do play Kenny G at the

1568
01:19:42,320 --> 01:19:47,680
Speaker 1: end of Chinese or Chinese Shopping Day, Chinese Shopping Day.

1569
01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:50,120
Speaker 2: And Daniel Johnson, you did sabotage me?

1570
01:19:50,760 --> 01:19:55,080
Speaker 1: All right, how we're all aligned? We're all aligned? And

1571
01:19:56,120 --> 01:20:00,280
Speaker 1: not only are we all aligned is the only we're

1572
01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:02,240
Speaker 1: all aligned, but we are also aligned. I give you

1573
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:04,240
Speaker 1: guys another thirty minutes.

1574
01:20:04,360 --> 01:20:09,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, we just spent clarifying Jumber one, the semi sonic

1575
01:20:09,920 --> 01:20:13,479
Speaker 2: Kenny G Chinese Molling Home. Becca Old says, no, it's

1576
01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:19,479
Speaker 2: going there. We go okay, okay, okay, we are now

1577
01:20:19,560 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 2: we are totally.

1578
01:20:22,160 --> 01:20:26,360
Speaker 1: Clarity, mind melded. We're here, We've got it, so for

1579
01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:28,040
Speaker 1: everyone who's just coming.

1580
01:20:28,240 --> 01:20:30,479
Speaker 4: And also we're at another thirty minutes.

1581
01:20:30,960 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 1: I already said that, but I'm glad you said it again.

1582
01:20:34,080 --> 01:20:37,320
Speaker 2: I saw it, she said it twice. Thought we were

1583
01:20:37,320 --> 01:20:39,599
Speaker 2: all aligned. Now we're aligned.

1584
01:20:40,120 --> 01:20:42,280
Speaker 1: We're here another thirty minutes.

1585
01:20:42,320 --> 01:20:46,000
Speaker 2: Can you repeat it? Yeah, you repeated it, just like

1586
01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:49,000
Speaker 2: the chorus in a jumble one, it all comes down?

1587
01:20:49,160 --> 01:20:50,200
Speaker 2: Or is it semi sonic?

1588
01:20:50,280 --> 01:20:53,240
Speaker 1: The tumbloumba? But to go back to the details of

1589
01:20:53,320 --> 01:20:57,120
Speaker 1: the story, all right, uh, and let everyone know who's

1590
01:20:57,240 --> 01:21:03,240
Speaker 1: just coming into this stream. Basically, Op's husband's sister is

1591
01:21:03,439 --> 01:21:06,160
Speaker 1: kind of like down on our luck, a little depressed,

1592
01:21:06,200 --> 01:21:07,240
Speaker 1: maybe a little bratty.

1593
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:09,200
Speaker 2: She's leaning into Printer.

1594
01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:13,759
Speaker 1: She's staying in Printer brat winter and has been staying

1595
01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:16,880
Speaker 1: at their place. But now surprise, Op is about to

1596
01:21:16,920 --> 01:21:19,600
Speaker 1: have a baby. She's like, I need baby space. And

1597
01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:22,960
Speaker 1: so she's like, hey, h sistern in law, you gotta leave.

1598
01:21:23,400 --> 01:21:26,160
Speaker 1: They get their her own apartment, get it all set up,

1599
01:21:26,200 --> 01:21:29,679
Speaker 1: and sister in law is like, I will not live

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01:21:30,120 --> 01:21:31,680
Speaker 1: in this apartment. I want to live with you guys.

1601
01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 1: And so we're kind of dealing with the fallout here.

1602
01:21:34,560 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and at this point the husband has said who

1603
01:21:37,200 --> 01:21:40,960
Speaker 2: is Her brother has said, I don't know what you're

1604
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:43,160
Speaker 2: gonna do, but you're not living here, and she said

1605
01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:45,280
Speaker 2: I'll figure it out and hung up on him.

1606
01:21:45,439 --> 01:21:47,960
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're all aligned here.

1607
01:21:48,200 --> 01:21:49,200
Speaker 4: Everyone's aligned.

1608
01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:54,000
Speaker 1: Everyone's aligned. I love the uone. Someone said, we're here,

1609
01:21:54,240 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 1: we're queer, queer, and we are all clear. Nice shout

1610
01:21:59,240 --> 01:21:59,479
Speaker 1: at you.

1611
01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:16,520
Speaker 2: This live context baby Cage's eggs printer and jump are

1612
01:22:16,520 --> 01:22:17,240
Speaker 2: you talking about us?

1613
01:22:17,640 --> 01:22:20,439
Speaker 1: All right? So I'm getting back to the story. So

1614
01:22:21,840 --> 01:22:23,760
Speaker 1: sister La helped with the cleaning, so it wasn't just

1615
01:22:23,920 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 1: us doing all the work. And fortunately it's a very

1616
01:22:26,320 --> 01:22:28,960
Speaker 1: small like a dorm with a kitchenette and bathroom. We

1617
01:22:29,120 --> 01:22:33,160
Speaker 1: also took her to Ikia Yes to buy a new mattress,

1618
01:22:33,680 --> 01:22:36,880
Speaker 1: as the one provided was unusable. We helped her unpack

1619
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:38,800
Speaker 1: some items, but by the time we left it was

1620
01:22:38,920 --> 01:22:41,120
Speaker 1: very late. Her friend came over to continue helping her

1621
01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:44,840
Speaker 1: set up her reaction well. When we left, she seemed

1622
01:22:44,840 --> 01:22:47,840
Speaker 1: more positive, saying she liked the idea of being able

1623
01:22:47,920 --> 01:22:50,680
Speaker 1: to decorate and make the place her own. Okay, I

1624
01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:54,479
Speaker 1: tried to stay encouraging throughout the day, pointing out the

1625
01:22:54,600 --> 01:22:58,360
Speaker 1: good things about the apartment and her new independence.

1626
01:22:58,840 --> 01:23:03,040
Speaker 2: Yes, so guiding, here's go this way, this is the

1627
01:23:03,120 --> 01:23:05,680
Speaker 2: good way, can be good over here.

1628
01:23:06,080 --> 01:23:08,200
Speaker 1: It might be closing time for our apartment, but it's

1629
01:23:08,240 --> 01:23:11,519
Speaker 1: a new beginning for yours. That said, her mood can

1630
01:23:11,640 --> 01:23:14,840
Speaker 1: change quickly, so we'll see how she feels moving forward.

1631
01:23:14,920 --> 01:23:16,200
Speaker 1: And I feel like, if you want to feel good

1632
01:23:16,240 --> 01:23:19,080
Speaker 1: moving forward, she join our live streams every weekday three

1633
01:23:19,160 --> 01:23:23,559
Speaker 1: pm PST. Right here on Facebook and YouTube just taple profile.

1634
01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:27,360
Speaker 1: We'll probably live right now. But I feel like this

1635
01:23:27,520 --> 01:23:29,800
Speaker 1: is ending in like a really good situation. I feel

1636
01:23:29,800 --> 01:23:32,800
Speaker 1: like she's coming into her own realizing that like independence

1637
01:23:32,840 --> 01:23:34,519
Speaker 1: can kind of be good sometimes. No, I think we

1638
01:23:34,640 --> 01:23:37,200
Speaker 1: might have a rule of three situation that we're gonna

1639
01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:39,760
Speaker 1: go down the drain we want to go. And then

1640
01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:44,760
Speaker 1: she said, actually, Sophia, maybe check it's the post to

1641
01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:45,960
Speaker 1: see if there's any updates.

1642
01:23:46,400 --> 01:23:48,200
Speaker 2: Okay, but we're.

1643
01:23:48,080 --> 01:23:50,880
Speaker 1: Gonna finish up this story. But before we do that,

1644
01:23:51,160 --> 01:23:55,040
Speaker 1: Kalua Spreuil says, might be terrible to say. I understand

1645
01:23:55,120 --> 01:23:57,400
Speaker 1: the sister in law POV. It's scary going into the

1646
01:23:57,439 --> 01:23:59,800
Speaker 1: world alone after being carried through life. Best thing is

1647
01:23:59,840 --> 01:24:01,840
Speaker 1: to her figure out. I know, because it happened to

1648
01:24:01,920 --> 01:24:04,439
Speaker 1: me in a similar way and now I'm much wiser

1649
01:24:04,640 --> 01:24:11,439
Speaker 1: and better for it. You're you're comment disappeared. That's that's

1650
01:24:11,479 --> 01:24:14,439
Speaker 1: what I was kind of improv You're almost there. I

1651
01:24:14,560 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 1: was like, get it disappeared, but alas.

1652
01:24:20,160 --> 01:24:22,120
Speaker 2: It can be scared. I think that's why there's there

1653
01:24:22,320 --> 01:24:24,880
Speaker 2: was a lot of empathy there for I mean from

1654
01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:29,479
Speaker 2: the brother until up until a point. Yeah, and it's like,

1655
01:24:29,760 --> 01:24:32,200
Speaker 2: you know, he has to prioritize his wife and they're

1656
01:24:32,880 --> 01:24:34,760
Speaker 2: they're upcoming, like.

1657
01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:37,439
Speaker 1: And Miss Robby says, they went all out helping her

1658
01:24:37,520 --> 01:24:40,240
Speaker 1: clean and decorate. They also got her the apartment and also,

1659
01:24:40,320 --> 01:24:43,240
Speaker 1: I think helping her clean and decorate with her, this

1660
01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:45,400
Speaker 1: is what Miss Robby says, helped her see it a

1661
01:24:45,439 --> 01:24:47,479
Speaker 1: little bit more clearly, helped her see like, hey, this

1662
01:24:47,640 --> 01:24:48,960
Speaker 1: is what your new life can be. This is what

1663
01:24:49,080 --> 01:24:51,720
Speaker 1: autonomy looks like. It's actually kind of good.

1664
01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:54,240
Speaker 2: It is pretty cool.

1665
01:24:54,360 --> 01:24:57,040
Speaker 1: It's pretty cool. But we got an update to this story,

1666
01:24:57,160 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 1: So final thoughts for now. I'm just relieved to be

1667
01:25:01,200 --> 01:25:03,800
Speaker 1: having my living room back and to finally start decorating

1668
01:25:04,280 --> 01:25:05,080
Speaker 1: for Christmas.

1669
01:25:05,320 --> 01:25:05,439
Speaker 2: Who.

1670
01:25:06,120 --> 01:25:08,639
Speaker 1: It feels like a weight has been lifted, and I'm

1671
01:25:08,680 --> 01:25:11,439
Speaker 1: hopeful that this move will help her grow and take

1672
01:25:11,560 --> 01:25:15,400
Speaker 1: responsibility for her life. Thank you again to everyone who

1673
01:25:15,520 --> 01:25:20,040
Speaker 1: offered advice and support, wishing you all a happy holiday season.

1674
01:25:20,520 --> 01:25:21,760
Speaker 1: And that's where that story ends.

1675
01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:25,840
Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad I was wrong. I'm glad she seems

1676
01:25:25,920 --> 01:25:29,040
Speaker 2: to be enjoying. There's no rule of three.

1677
01:25:29,320 --> 01:25:31,479
Speaker 1: No rule of three, a rule of two.

1678
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:33,320
Speaker 2: Slip again and we end well.

1679
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:36,840
Speaker 1: But if you don't want me to explode and not

1680
01:25:37,160 --> 01:25:39,720
Speaker 1: end well, we better get five more likes so we

1681
01:25:39,800 --> 01:25:43,479
Speaker 1: can spin that wheel. Come on, come on, we are

1682
01:25:43,600 --> 01:25:44,880
Speaker 1: so close to spinning that week.

1683
01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 2: I'd kind of like to see you explode.

1684
01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:51,800
Speaker 1: But before I explode, we got a little bit of

1685
01:25:51,880 --> 01:25:54,800
Speaker 1: time because we're going to read some dons before this

1686
01:25:55,240 --> 01:25:59,920
Speaker 1: next story. Da Cody, you want to hit those dons?

1687
01:26:00,040 --> 01:26:01,360
Speaker 1: All I pull up this next one.

1688
01:26:01,520 --> 01:26:04,040
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna I'm gonna keep this right here that

1689
01:26:04,800 --> 01:26:08,280
Speaker 2: because that's from Belton who made me this Chaine Mayer

1690
01:26:08,439 --> 01:26:12,519
Speaker 2: Club of Pust Pokemon and it's unbelievably great. It looks

1691
01:26:12,800 --> 01:26:16,360
Speaker 2: literally perfect. And I also have put your Pokemon card

1692
01:26:16,360 --> 01:26:18,000
Speaker 2: behind my phone, which is no longer on me. So

1693
01:26:18,080 --> 01:26:21,719
Speaker 2: I can't prove it, but I already defended myself in discord.

1694
01:26:21,760 --> 01:26:23,680
Speaker 2: I don't need to do it here. Yeah, if you

1695
01:26:23,720 --> 01:26:25,960
Speaker 2: want to get in on the Shenanigans, also join our discord.

1696
01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:30,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's join our discord. Our link is every everywhere. Yeah,

1697
01:26:30,240 --> 01:26:34,000
Speaker 1: it sits all over. It's discord dot gg slash. Okay, storytime,

1698
01:26:34,080 --> 01:26:35,320
Speaker 1: join right now, uh.

1699
01:26:35,439 --> 01:26:36,439
Speaker 2: Una, thank you for the.

1700
01:26:38,200 --> 01:26:43,120
Speaker 1: Oh, okay, okay, let's hit donos. Then we hit wheelspin.

1701
01:26:43,240 --> 01:26:45,400
Speaker 1: Don't let us forget about the wheelspin, and then we'll

1702
01:26:45,439 --> 01:26:46,040
Speaker 1: hit next story.

1703
01:26:46,640 --> 01:26:49,240
Speaker 2: Unah, thank you for the twenty five dollars. Thank you

1704
01:26:49,560 --> 01:26:52,080
Speaker 2: for being an amazing group and making my family laugh

1705
01:26:52,200 --> 01:26:59,840
Speaker 2: and lovingly debate in our home loving debates here Dishilosophy circle.

1706
01:27:00,120 --> 01:27:03,040
Speaker 2: We had Oh we did good, Ali Ray, thank you

1707
01:27:03,120 --> 01:27:06,439
Speaker 2: for the five dollars. First time watching Live, Well, welcome,

1708
01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:08,320
Speaker 2: Ali Ray. We're so glad that you're here.

1709
01:27:08,720 --> 01:27:10,920
Speaker 1: I love when we see new people coming into Live.

1710
01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:13,320
Speaker 1: It's really cool. It's like he's growing a little bit

1711
01:27:13,360 --> 01:27:13,760
Speaker 1: every day.

1712
01:27:13,840 --> 01:27:17,000
Speaker 2: I do. I love seeing the new names. Donation from

1713
01:27:17,200 --> 01:27:20,040
Speaker 2: Bebop for twenty dollars, Thank you very much. Doing pre

1714
01:27:20,200 --> 01:27:23,080
Speaker 2: inventory counts at work while listening. Thank you guys for

1715
01:27:23,240 --> 01:27:24,759
Speaker 2: the laughs and entertainment tonight.

1716
01:27:25,400 --> 01:27:28,560
Speaker 1: You're welcome anytime. I love it.

1717
01:27:30,040 --> 01:27:33,479
Speaker 2: Vix Mix Anti vix Mix loves you all, and happy

1718
01:27:33,520 --> 01:27:36,560
Speaker 2: holidays to everyone in the stream. Happy holidays to you

1719
01:27:36,600 --> 01:27:40,200
Speaker 2: auntievix Mix, and thank you for the ten dollars. Kimberly Farrins,

1720
01:27:40,320 --> 01:27:43,160
Speaker 2: thank you for the twenty bucks. Thank you guys for

1721
01:27:43,280 --> 01:27:46,479
Speaker 2: being awesome. Thank you for being awesome, Kimberly, have you

1722
01:27:46,520 --> 01:27:48,599
Speaker 2: ever thought about that? Have you thought about how awesome

1723
01:27:48,640 --> 01:27:51,000
Speaker 2: you are? And keep going because I think we might

1724
01:27:51,040 --> 01:27:54,519
Speaker 2: have some underneath Hannahs that we didn't get Ginger Goblin Goods.

1725
01:27:54,600 --> 01:27:57,559
Speaker 2: Thank you for five dollars. Thank you guys for helping

1726
01:27:57,640 --> 01:27:59,639
Speaker 2: me through my day. Glad to finally be a member

1727
01:28:00,000 --> 01:28:00,760
Speaker 2: and so were we.

1728
01:28:01,479 --> 01:28:04,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, we love when the membership is growing because we

1729
01:28:04,720 --> 01:28:07,160
Speaker 1: do all kinds of kookie things on the members only channel.

1730
01:28:07,200 --> 01:28:09,400
Speaker 1: It's true and it's gonna get kookie here. It's there's

1731
01:28:09,439 --> 01:28:12,880
Speaker 1: some kuki craziness. There's some cookie again for everyone who's

1732
01:28:12,960 --> 01:28:17,280
Speaker 1: just joining. We had a marriage proposal yesterday, right which

1733
01:28:17,439 --> 01:28:20,880
Speaker 1: was unbelievable epic and it was a good one. Yeah

1734
01:28:21,000 --> 01:28:21,160
Speaker 1: is it?

1735
01:28:21,360 --> 01:28:21,519
Speaker 2: Yes?

1736
01:28:21,960 --> 01:28:22,080
Speaker 3: Uh?

1737
01:28:22,439 --> 01:28:24,639
Speaker 2: Stephanie, thank you for the ten dollars keeping me awake

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01:28:24,680 --> 01:28:29,840
Speaker 2: at work. Thank you, Thank you Stephanie and anonymous. We

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01:28:29,880 --> 01:28:31,439
Speaker 2: don't know who you are, but thank you for your

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01:28:31,479 --> 01:28:35,200
Speaker 2: five dollars. And I think that might be all of

1741
01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:38,400
Speaker 2: the ones from the tip link. Yes, so let's go back.

1742
01:28:39,960 --> 01:28:42,000
Speaker 2: Can you make that bigger because honestly, I'm like, I'm

1743
01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:44,240
Speaker 2: struggling to read it and.

1744
01:28:44,320 --> 01:28:46,000
Speaker 1: You can extend it. There we go, like make it,

1745
01:28:46,040 --> 01:28:47,240
Speaker 1: make the whole thing bigger.

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01:28:48,640 --> 01:28:53,080
Speaker 2: And lunga from Yummy. Thank you for the twenty well

1747
01:28:53,160 --> 01:28:56,960
Speaker 2: really forty dollars. I forgot to say something on my

1748
01:28:57,200 --> 01:29:02,120
Speaker 2: previous donation. Anyways, much love for everyone. Well, thank you

1749
01:29:02,320 --> 01:29:03,920
Speaker 2: very much a yummy. So if you can you make

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01:29:03,960 --> 01:29:08,439
Speaker 2: that whole thing bigger, uh like wider? Yeah, there we go, Yes, Sophia,

1751
01:29:08,560 --> 01:29:10,439
Speaker 2: can you know? Can you know the thing?

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01:29:10,560 --> 01:29:10,880
Speaker 4: Please?

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01:29:11,880 --> 01:29:12,000
Speaker 3: Uh?

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01:29:12,960 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 2: Vix mix, thank you for gifting five OK Story memberships

1755
01:29:16,360 --> 01:29:18,280
Speaker 2: and if you're a new member that has gotten a

1756
01:29:18,280 --> 01:29:22,080
Speaker 2: gifted membership today, sound off in the chat. Yeah, Innara,

1757
01:29:22,680 --> 01:29:25,680
Speaker 2: letpa oh, I like that name. Uh, thank you for

1758
01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:28,840
Speaker 2: the two I believe those are pounds. Uh, my daughter

1759
01:29:29,000 --> 01:29:31,320
Speaker 2: loves you all. Please say hi to Sophie.

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01:29:31,920 --> 01:29:32,920
Speaker 3: I love hi.

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01:29:33,120 --> 01:29:36,000
Speaker 2: Sophie. Look, hello, Sophie. We've kind of got a Sophie

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01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:41,000
Speaker 2: here too, Sophie. Say hi to Sophie's Susanne Barrier. Welcome

1763
01:29:42,800 --> 01:29:45,680
Speaker 2: to the nights. And for all of our listeners, I

1764
01:29:45,760 --> 01:29:48,920
Speaker 2: have a sword in my head. Sure you keep Thanks

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01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:52,120
Speaker 2: again for the Twitter memberships giving that sugar. We appreciate

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01:29:52,160 --> 01:29:55,559
Speaker 2: your sugar. Sugar. Uh and this growing up?

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01:29:56,800 --> 01:29:56,920
Speaker 7: Uh?

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01:29:57,560 --> 01:30:00,160
Speaker 2: All about all about a unicorn? Hey, thanks for a

1769
01:30:00,240 --> 01:30:02,400
Speaker 2: dollar all about a unicorn. Why don't you tell us

1770
01:30:02,439 --> 01:30:05,760
Speaker 2: some some stuff about the unicorn, Josephine, thanks again for

1771
01:30:05,800 --> 01:30:08,599
Speaker 2: the twenty seven Swedish coroner. As a former premature baby,

1772
01:30:08,880 --> 01:30:11,320
Speaker 2: just a big shoe is enough. You were the old

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01:30:11,439 --> 01:30:15,120
Speaker 2: lady who lived in a shoe. Oh theyt sort of

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01:30:15,200 --> 01:30:16,240
Speaker 2: baby fit in the shoes.

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01:30:16,479 --> 01:30:17,880
Speaker 1: I guess it was a really small sit.

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01:30:18,400 --> 01:30:19,760
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, really saw baby in a.

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01:30:19,920 --> 01:30:27,880
Speaker 2: Big small baby shack. Shaqueil O'Neill's shoe, Miss Rumy or

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01:30:27,960 --> 01:30:31,720
Speaker 2: Romie A thank you for the five dollars. So many

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01:30:31,800 --> 01:30:34,400
Speaker 2: birthdays this season. My hubbies on the twenty third, mine

1780
01:30:34,479 --> 01:30:36,360
Speaker 2: is on the twenty eighth, and my youngest sons is

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01:30:36,400 --> 01:30:39,120
Speaker 2: the thirty first. Oh wow, my oldest is uh is

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01:30:39,479 --> 01:30:42,640
Speaker 2: uh one ten and middle was eleven twenty two.

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01:30:42,840 --> 01:30:46,360
Speaker 1: You're there all around, yeah, all centered around.

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01:30:46,280 --> 01:30:50,120
Speaker 2: N'all seem to be getting up to something right yeah. Uh.

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01:30:50,600 --> 01:30:53,599
Speaker 2: And Mela sixty eight fifteen. Thanks for the two bucks.

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01:30:53,760 --> 01:30:55,840
Speaker 2: Uh and for correcting us when we said you you

1787
01:30:55,920 --> 01:30:58,720
Speaker 2: told us you were coming to Cali Calli you met

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01:30:58,800 --> 01:30:59,800
Speaker 2: Calli Colombia.

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01:31:00,120 --> 01:31:00,880
Speaker 1: Ah, okay.

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01:31:02,520 --> 01:31:05,000
Speaker 2: And Josephine Medolo park quest Oh I said your full name.

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01:31:05,040 --> 01:31:07,120
Speaker 2: I hope that didn't scare you. Uh. Thank you for

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01:31:07,240 --> 01:31:09,519
Speaker 2: the twenty seven Swedish Crowner. I'm not lying. Dakota is

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01:31:09,600 --> 01:31:13,800
Speaker 2: just turning Swedish. Um, I mean not without not until

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01:31:13,840 --> 01:31:14,519
Speaker 2: I take the tape off.

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01:31:14,720 --> 01:31:17,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's when he really gets his Swedish citizenship.

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01:31:18,479 --> 01:31:20,280
Speaker 2: Which no, I'm not even gonna say anything.

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01:31:20,680 --> 01:31:24,679
Speaker 1: Rachel Goyer, thanks for the two bucks and joining the sticks.

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01:31:24,760 --> 01:31:26,920
Speaker 1: Can we get a story on hard Mode please? We'll

1799
01:31:26,920 --> 01:31:29,519
Speaker 1: find out after we spin the wheel. That wheel and

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01:31:29,640 --> 01:31:30,080
Speaker 1: who was it?

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01:31:30,200 --> 01:31:32,439
Speaker 2: There was someone in the chat who said that their

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01:31:32,600 --> 01:31:34,559
Speaker 2: donation didn't get red. Uh.

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01:31:37,240 --> 01:31:37,360
Speaker 5: Oh.

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01:31:37,439 --> 01:31:39,840
Speaker 2: And Jen Thompson and thank you for the ten dollars

1805
01:31:39,880 --> 01:31:42,840
Speaker 2: in the tiplake. Uh, glad you're live. Trauma just happened today.

1806
01:31:42,960 --> 01:31:45,360
Speaker 2: Husband's baby mama is crazy and now we have to

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01:31:45,400 --> 01:31:47,640
Speaker 2: go to court. Oh, when it's done, I'll write you

1808
01:31:47,720 --> 01:31:48,080
Speaker 2: the story.

1809
01:31:48,080 --> 01:31:50,519
Speaker 1: Please put it in r slash okay story time on Reddit.

1810
01:31:50,560 --> 01:31:51,720
Speaker 1: We would love to read it.

1811
01:31:51,840 --> 01:31:53,880
Speaker 2: I'm putting the vibes out that you will win your

1812
01:31:53,960 --> 01:31:57,080
Speaker 2: court case very very easily. Did you just call me

1813
01:31:57,200 --> 01:32:01,439
Speaker 2: old Dakota? No, No, I was It's then it's a nursery,

1814
01:32:01,560 --> 01:32:05,759
Speaker 2: Ryan Josephine, come on maybe like Benjamin Button.

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01:32:06,000 --> 01:32:08,040
Speaker 1: Thanks for the ten bucks, love you guys. I hope

1816
01:32:08,080 --> 01:32:13,920
Speaker 1: everyone has a holiday blessing their way soon. And on

1817
01:32:14,240 --> 01:32:16,519
Speaker 1: the Dono link no last where YouTube doesn't take thirty percent,

1818
01:32:16,640 --> 01:32:18,880
Speaker 1: so shout out to you, Miguel.

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01:32:18,920 --> 01:32:21,640
Speaker 2: Miguel, And honestly, I feel like I've been blessed by

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01:32:21,800 --> 01:32:23,960
Speaker 2: being able to be here with all of y'aw and

1821
01:32:24,160 --> 01:32:29,920
Speaker 2: with you, with you shucks. Dude. Did we uh do

1822
01:32:30,000 --> 01:32:33,040
Speaker 2: we already read you know? Yep? No, we need there's somebody.

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01:32:33,160 --> 01:32:35,720
Speaker 2: There's somebody and we didn't get in the tip link

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01:32:36,000 --> 01:32:37,840
Speaker 2: or not the tip link in the in the super chat.

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01:32:37,880 --> 01:32:38,519
Speaker 4: Were we just read her?

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01:32:39,080 --> 01:32:43,519
Speaker 2: No, there was somebody else's it was And thanks for

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01:32:43,600 --> 01:32:46,360
Speaker 2: the two okay pounds. I want to see Dakota play

1828
01:32:46,479 --> 01:32:50,280
Speaker 2: Eldon on stream. Oh you want to see me, you

1829
01:32:50,320 --> 01:32:52,120
Speaker 2: want to see it. You want to see a master

1830
01:32:52,400 --> 01:32:52,880
Speaker 2: at work.

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01:32:53,640 --> 01:32:57,920
Speaker 1: I understand, bad you, Keller says here in TikTok. Was

1832
01:32:57,960 --> 01:32:59,439
Speaker 1: that was that who we were talking about?

1833
01:33:00,960 --> 01:33:03,560
Speaker 2: I know, I think you might have been right. I

1834
01:33:03,600 --> 01:33:04,559
Speaker 2: think it was miss Ramie.

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01:33:04,800 --> 01:33:09,160
Speaker 1: But let us know if we missed you. John is

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01:33:09,200 --> 01:33:13,080
Speaker 1: a little sick by the way, for y'all, William.

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01:33:12,880 --> 01:33:15,439
Speaker 2: John and John and Kean are both going down. Yeah,

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01:33:15,560 --> 01:33:19,320
Speaker 2: we are going they're down with the sickness. Okay, Well,

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01:33:19,360 --> 01:33:19,719
Speaker 2: I mean.

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01:33:19,640 --> 01:33:20,280
Speaker 1: Think that's everything.

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01:33:20,360 --> 01:33:23,080
Speaker 2: If Sophia every read missed any super track?

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01:33:23,760 --> 01:33:25,559
Speaker 1: Can you can you look at those things really quick?

1843
01:33:25,720 --> 01:33:26,400
Speaker 4: Look at what things?

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01:33:28,560 --> 01:33:32,519
Speaker 1: Uh just look at the the uh don donor link?

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01:33:32,840 --> 01:33:33,840
Speaker 1: Do we read UNA?

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01:33:34,280 --> 01:33:34,479
Speaker 3: Yeah?

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01:33:35,200 --> 01:33:38,240
Speaker 2: We did read un? That was we got un first?

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01:33:38,560 --> 01:33:45,080
Speaker 1: Cool? Cool? Sweet? Well let's do a wheel spin and well,

1849
01:33:46,360 --> 01:33:49,960
Speaker 1: people on YouTube and Facebook and Twitch, we're about to

1850
01:33:50,000 --> 01:33:52,800
Speaker 1: do a wheel spin, which will determine how we read

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01:33:52,840 --> 01:33:53,439
Speaker 1: this next story.

1852
01:33:53,720 --> 01:33:56,120
Speaker 2: You're the wheel is to it's you. It's right there.

1853
01:33:57,080 --> 01:33:58,040
Speaker 1: You want to do the honors?

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01:33:58,120 --> 01:34:04,559
Speaker 2: Oh I love a good wheelspin. I love the prices

1855
01:34:04,680 --> 01:34:07,799
Speaker 2: right all right? Put it full on coda there, somebody

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01:34:07,880 --> 01:34:09,439
Speaker 2: I wish I could do a Drew Carrey impression.

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01:34:09,600 --> 01:34:10,000
Speaker 3: Here we go.

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01:34:13,520 --> 01:34:17,040
Speaker 2: Oh, it's a call a call She's also really cool,

1859
01:34:17,080 --> 01:34:19,080
Speaker 2: but I wanted hard mode. It was right next to it.

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01:34:19,160 --> 01:34:22,000
Speaker 2: But we're doing a call in, doing a folks.

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01:34:22,840 --> 01:34:24,960
Speaker 1: If you what we'll do is we'll do this call

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01:34:25,040 --> 01:34:30,160
Speaker 1: in after the next Storykay, So if you have what

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01:34:30,240 --> 01:34:32,000
Speaker 1: what what should we what should we sour stories about?

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01:34:32,760 --> 01:34:32,920
Speaker 5: Oh?

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01:34:33,080 --> 01:34:40,160
Speaker 1: Wait, if you have a crazy but not ascredibly a

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01:34:40,280 --> 01:34:40,880
Speaker 1: Christmas story?

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01:34:41,040 --> 01:34:45,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe like you know, some kind of a holiday

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01:34:45,080 --> 01:34:45,800
Speaker 2: story of some kind.

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01:34:45,880 --> 01:34:46,639
Speaker 4: Okay, we're going.

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01:34:46,680 --> 01:34:47,200
Speaker 2: To be good.

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01:34:47,640 --> 01:34:51,320
Speaker 4: The YouTube just went away. It said the WiFi was

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01:34:51,360 --> 01:34:51,720
Speaker 4: by think.

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01:34:51,880 --> 01:34:56,960
Speaker 1: Okay, cool, I think a holiday story. Let's do that

1874
01:34:57,360 --> 01:35:02,160
Speaker 1: from any time period or something or something crazy but

1875
01:35:02,400 --> 01:35:03,200
Speaker 1: not too traumatic.

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01:35:04,000 --> 01:35:06,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's Seeah, it has to be it has to

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01:35:06,439 --> 01:35:09,080
Speaker 2: be like not too traumatic, and it has to happen

1878
01:35:09,320 --> 01:35:12,720
Speaker 2: as an adult. Please don't be telling us stories of

1879
01:35:12,800 --> 01:35:16,000
Speaker 2: you and you are not an adult. Yes, just just

1880
01:35:16,160 --> 01:35:16,719
Speaker 2: for safety.

1881
01:35:17,880 --> 01:35:21,120
Speaker 1: If you want to submit your story, send the tld

1882
01:35:21,320 --> 01:35:25,680
Speaker 1: R to Sophia on our discord and or sorry, send

1883
01:35:25,720 --> 01:35:29,360
Speaker 1: it to Riley on our discord, and we will we

1884
01:35:29,400 --> 01:35:32,759
Speaker 1: will choose one of you to call after this next story.

1885
01:35:32,920 --> 01:35:36,960
Speaker 2: Yes, some holiday shenanigans. Honestly, let's just make it any holiday.

1886
01:35:40,920 --> 01:35:42,960
Speaker 2: We'll do like a five minute call with you guys.

1887
01:35:43,080 --> 01:35:44,639
Speaker 2: We'll keep it night tight, snappy.

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01:35:44,720 --> 01:35:47,719
Speaker 1: I know some people don't like Collins, but we love Collins,

1889
01:35:47,960 --> 01:35:50,280
Speaker 1: so we can like talk to you guys fun, but

1890
01:35:50,360 --> 01:35:52,040
Speaker 1: we'll keep it snappy to appease both.

1891
01:35:52,200 --> 01:35:53,640
Speaker 2: I don't know if any of y'all have been like

1892
01:35:53,760 --> 01:35:56,639
Speaker 2: on the radio before, but I've called into the radio

1893
01:35:56,800 --> 01:35:58,840
Speaker 2: and I got through once and it was I still

1894
01:35:58,880 --> 01:36:01,240
Speaker 2: remember it like it's a low key It was a

1895
01:36:01,320 --> 01:36:05,200
Speaker 2: core memory. I recited a verse of a song on

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01:36:05,320 --> 01:36:08,360
Speaker 2: the radio because they were like, they were like, what's

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01:36:08,400 --> 01:36:11,120
Speaker 2: your I think they were like, what's your summer jam song?

1898
01:36:11,720 --> 01:36:14,400
Speaker 2: And at the time, I h I said it was

1899
01:36:14,439 --> 01:36:17,479
Speaker 2: a Drake song at the time, at the time before

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01:36:17,560 --> 01:36:22,920
Speaker 2: all zip everything, before I chose Kendrick's side, I uh uh,

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01:36:23,000 --> 01:36:25,400
Speaker 2: But there was no size. He had just dropped. If

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01:36:25,400 --> 01:36:26,960
Speaker 2: you're reading this, it's too late. And it was an

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01:36:27,000 --> 01:36:29,840
Speaker 2: absolute banger. And I believe I chose ten bands and

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01:36:30,040 --> 01:36:31,720
Speaker 2: I don't have to even why am I pretending like

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01:36:31,760 --> 01:36:34,360
Speaker 2: I don't remember exactly what song I chose? Yeah, it

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01:36:34,479 --> 01:36:36,080
Speaker 2: was that one and I got to sing ten bands

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01:36:36,120 --> 01:36:37,639
Speaker 2: on the radio and I got to the part where

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01:36:37,640 --> 01:36:40,160
Speaker 2: I cursed and they bleeped me. That's so cool. Yeah,

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01:36:40,160 --> 01:36:40,800
Speaker 2: it was really cool.

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01:36:40,840 --> 01:36:41,439
Speaker 1: Did you record it?

1911
01:36:41,560 --> 01:36:43,200
Speaker 2: I talked to Big Boy on the radio. I did.

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01:36:43,240 --> 01:36:44,960
Speaker 2: I had a snapchat of it, and I'm sure it's

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01:36:45,000 --> 01:36:47,800
Speaker 2: like I don't I know. I've not had Snapchat on

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01:36:47,840 --> 01:36:49,240
Speaker 2: my phone forever and this.

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01:36:49,280 --> 01:36:51,000
Speaker 1: Was when I went down on Snapchat. And I'll just

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01:36:51,040 --> 01:36:53,280
Speaker 1: look at like my stories from college. It's a different

1917
01:36:53,320 --> 01:36:53,920
Speaker 1: person back then.

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01:36:54,240 --> 01:36:55,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, weren't we all do?

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01:36:55,280 --> 01:36:55,960
Speaker 1: We were a all?

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01:36:57,280 --> 01:37:02,479
Speaker 4: What get Jahan? That's Sam what Jahan asked? Who you were?

1921
01:37:02,920 --> 01:37:03,840
Speaker 1: Who I was?

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01:37:07,000 --> 01:37:07,080
Speaker 2: Ye?

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01:37:07,280 --> 01:37:10,519
Speaker 1: See, see the newbies don't know the old the old

1924
01:37:10,760 --> 01:37:13,080
Speaker 1: kids on the block. Orange.

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01:37:14,880 --> 01:37:17,360
Speaker 2: He wears the same jacket and pan of pants every

1926
01:37:17,479 --> 01:37:21,040
Speaker 2: day and somehow they stay clean. But you know what

1927
01:37:21,160 --> 01:37:22,960
Speaker 2: else is because he laundry.

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01:37:24,080 --> 01:37:26,479
Speaker 1: This next story, all right, let's hit it.

1929
01:37:26,680 --> 01:37:29,640
Speaker 2: So wait what okay, go?

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01:37:31,120 --> 01:37:34,479
Speaker 1: My mother in law invited extra people to my baby

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01:37:34,600 --> 01:37:36,360
Speaker 1: shower without my permission.

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01:37:36,760 --> 01:37:39,080
Speaker 2: There's too many people for this dang shower.

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01:37:39,360 --> 01:37:41,680
Speaker 1: Expel them or I mean it kind of sounds like

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01:37:42,000 --> 01:37:42,679
Speaker 1: a fun shower.

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01:37:42,720 --> 01:37:46,879
Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say exp So my fiance

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01:37:47,280 --> 01:37:50,920
Speaker 2: or stec CenTra kind of thing.

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01:37:51,080 --> 01:37:53,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, anyway, the shower, the showers were going off,

1938
01:37:59,360 --> 01:38:01,479
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, you, bam and everyone club. So,

1939
01:38:01,720 --> 01:38:05,240
Speaker 1: my fiance thirty two male, and myself twenty seven female,

1940
01:38:05,280 --> 01:38:09,559
Speaker 1: are expecting our first baby together in March twenty twenty five.

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01:38:11,520 --> 01:38:14,160
Speaker 1: We decide to have a baby shower in January of

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01:38:14,240 --> 01:38:17,000
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. So it hasn't hasn't started yet. So

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01:38:17,680 --> 01:38:20,479
Speaker 1: and we've decided to select the men in our lives

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01:38:20,600 --> 01:38:21,200
Speaker 1: to join on.

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01:38:21,439 --> 01:38:24,360
Speaker 2: In no, no, we have to have decided to have

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01:38:24,760 --> 01:38:25,599
Speaker 2: select men.

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01:38:25,800 --> 01:38:29,040
Speaker 1: Oh, and have decided to have select men in our lives.

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01:38:29,160 --> 01:38:33,160
Speaker 1: You have to pass join on it, we get. Let's

1949
01:38:33,280 --> 01:38:35,840
Speaker 1: I want to hear more about that. So, by the way,

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01:38:35,920 --> 01:38:38,080
Speaker 1: this comes from Mountain Glass twenty eight seventy three on

1951
01:38:38,160 --> 01:38:42,320
Speaker 1: the r slash Okay story time subreddit. So we aren't

1952
01:38:42,360 --> 01:38:45,560
Speaker 1: doing the typical baby shower games, just a handful and

1953
01:38:45,680 --> 01:38:48,880
Speaker 1: it's more of a small get together. The males coming

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01:38:49,040 --> 01:38:52,439
Speaker 1: are our dads, brothers, and our mutual friends who have

1955
01:38:52,479 --> 01:38:54,479
Speaker 1: supported us. So are they just invited like any women.

1956
01:38:54,880 --> 01:38:57,479
Speaker 1: It's like like males will be in super selective, but

1957
01:38:57,920 --> 01:39:00,840
Speaker 1: any old girls could come through it's fine. You on

1958
01:39:01,040 --> 01:39:02,719
Speaker 1: the street coming about baby shower.

1959
01:39:03,200 --> 01:39:08,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, just like a big like a big i'm blanking,

1960
01:39:08,920 --> 01:39:11,560
Speaker 2: just a big megaphone that says all women.

1961
01:39:11,479 --> 01:39:15,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, take your way to my baby, handing out flyers

1962
01:39:15,200 --> 01:39:17,639
Speaker 1: on the street, putt boasters.

1963
01:39:17,720 --> 01:39:18,439
Speaker 2: Are you a woman?

1964
01:39:18,680 --> 01:39:21,839
Speaker 1: Are you free on Saturday from three to six come.

1965
01:39:21,680 --> 01:39:23,320
Speaker 2: To my baby campaign?

1966
01:39:23,720 --> 01:39:25,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to get as many women at this

1967
01:39:25,960 --> 01:39:27,000
Speaker 1: baby shower as possible.

1968
01:39:27,200 --> 01:39:29,200
Speaker 2: Driving around in an ice cream truck, but it doesn't

1969
01:39:29,240 --> 01:39:31,360
Speaker 2: have the ice cream jingle. It just says the address

1970
01:39:31,400 --> 01:39:32,360
Speaker 2: of the baby shower.

1971
01:39:32,240 --> 01:39:34,599
Speaker 1: Like you know those old politicians in the seventies where

1972
01:39:34,600 --> 01:39:36,200
Speaker 1: they would drive around in the car and they had

1973
01:39:36,240 --> 01:39:39,280
Speaker 1: the megaphone and they would be like, I am Michael

1974
01:39:39,600 --> 01:39:43,080
Speaker 1: m Bruski and I am running for state senator. Please

1975
01:39:43,200 --> 01:39:45,120
Speaker 1: vote for me, and it's like through like you know,

1976
01:39:45,240 --> 01:39:46,519
Speaker 1: nineteen seventies prons.

1977
01:39:47,160 --> 01:39:50,240
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm laughing because Sophia's desperately back there trying

1978
01:39:50,280 --> 01:39:54,120
Speaker 2: to be like, shut up, came back to the story.

1979
01:39:58,080 --> 01:39:59,960
Speaker 2: I can just see your arms up in the air.

1980
01:40:00,000 --> 01:40:01,560
Speaker 4: They're like please.

1981
01:40:01,479 --> 01:40:10,439
Speaker 1: Staff, no, all right, So the mails coming are our

1982
01:40:10,800 --> 01:40:13,360
Speaker 1: dads and brothers and our mutual friends who have supported

1983
01:40:13,479 --> 01:40:18,200
Speaker 1: us in our journey to plan our family, et cetera.

1984
01:40:18,560 --> 01:40:21,320
Speaker 1: These mutual friends have known my fiance since they were

1985
01:40:21,400 --> 01:40:24,960
Speaker 1: like six or seven, so are practically like brothers. Other

1986
01:40:25,040 --> 01:40:28,040
Speaker 1: than that, no other males are invited, and a lot

1987
01:40:28,160 --> 01:40:31,360
Speaker 1: of my girlfriends are from work who missed out on

1988
01:40:31,479 --> 01:40:34,200
Speaker 1: celebrating our engagement party with us due to mother in

1989
01:40:34,320 --> 01:40:37,439
Speaker 1: law insisting we invite nearly all their extended family. And

1990
01:40:37,640 --> 01:40:40,040
Speaker 1: I am a people pleaser, so I made the event

1991
01:40:40,120 --> 01:40:42,960
Speaker 1: on Facebook and didn't realize I needed to unselect the

1992
01:40:43,080 --> 01:40:46,960
Speaker 1: option of guests being able to invite people. Unfortunately, to

1993
01:40:47,080 --> 01:40:50,280
Speaker 1: do after it's published, I needed to delete the entire

1994
01:40:50,320 --> 01:40:52,640
Speaker 1: event and start again. I invited all the people I

1995
01:40:52,720 --> 01:40:54,720
Speaker 1: wanted to invite and said to my fiance if I

1996
01:40:54,760 --> 01:40:58,200
Speaker 1: have missed anyone, just let me know. Well, I woke

1997
01:40:58,280 --> 01:41:02,760
Speaker 1: up next morning and two male cousins. I'm a little

1998
01:41:02,840 --> 01:41:06,360
Speaker 1: confused about, like the male female distinctions, Like why why

1999
01:41:06,479 --> 01:41:09,080
Speaker 1: is it such a big deal? Yeah, Like why is

2000
01:41:09,120 --> 01:41:12,840
Speaker 1: the I'm I don't like why are I guess, are

2001
01:41:12,880 --> 01:41:14,720
Speaker 1: baby showers supposed to be women only?

2002
01:41:15,040 --> 01:41:18,519
Speaker 2: No, I've gone to baby showers. Unless someone was confused

2003
01:41:18,560 --> 01:41:19,400
Speaker 2: about my.

2004
01:41:20,880 --> 01:41:26,240
Speaker 4: There, I think sometimes they can be predominantly women, but

2005
01:41:26,320 --> 01:41:28,680
Speaker 4: I don't. I don't think I've ever been. Isn't that

2006
01:41:28,800 --> 01:41:31,800
Speaker 4: the bridal showers supposed to be. I've never been to

2007
01:41:31,840 --> 01:41:33,960
Speaker 4: a bridal shower. I've only been to a couple of

2008
01:41:33,960 --> 01:41:34,639
Speaker 4: baby showers.

2009
01:41:35,040 --> 01:41:35,920
Speaker 2: I've had some of them.

2010
01:41:36,040 --> 01:41:39,000
Speaker 4: Some of them were pretty predominantly women, but they weren't

2011
01:41:39,000 --> 01:41:39,800
Speaker 4: exclusively women.

2012
01:41:39,920 --> 01:41:45,280
Speaker 1: Well, I guess, uh, Beira cow Barbie by Racial Barbie,

2013
01:41:45,560 --> 01:41:51,200
Speaker 1: that was ba cow Bevera cow by Racial Barbie says

2014
01:41:51,439 --> 01:41:54,519
Speaker 1: it's a baby shower. Most baby showers are women only.

2015
01:41:54,680 --> 01:41:58,639
Speaker 1: Crystal Trevino says, traditionally. Yes. Okay, okay, okay, So now

2016
01:41:59,120 --> 01:42:02,000
Speaker 1: I'm synced up. Thank you. I appreciate you, guys. I

2017
01:42:02,080 --> 01:42:05,200
Speaker 1: woke up the next morning and two male cousins of

2018
01:42:05,320 --> 01:42:07,680
Speaker 1: my fiance had liked the event and they said they

2019
01:42:07,720 --> 01:42:10,680
Speaker 1: were coming, but I did not invite them. I then

2020
01:42:10,840 --> 01:42:14,400
Speaker 1: checked the people invited and noticed fifteen plus people had

2021
01:42:14,439 --> 01:42:17,000
Speaker 1: been invited, ten of which are male cousins and the

2022
01:42:17,120 --> 01:42:20,439
Speaker 1: other five are family friends of my in laws. I

2023
01:42:20,479 --> 01:42:22,760
Speaker 1: asked my fiance if he went in and outed them,

2024
01:42:22,760 --> 01:42:25,360
Speaker 1: and he said no. After asking my mom, she said, oh,

2025
01:42:25,439 --> 01:42:28,120
Speaker 1: your event is letting me invite people, And then I

2026
01:42:28,360 --> 01:42:31,360
Speaker 1: saw red mind you pregnant lady. Rage is so real,

2027
01:42:31,560 --> 01:42:34,040
Speaker 1: and I looked at my fiance and said, I am sorry.

2028
01:42:34,840 --> 01:42:38,640
Speaker 1: I love your family. However, it is incredibly rude to

2029
01:42:38,760 --> 01:42:41,600
Speaker 1: invite people to someone else's event without checking in with

2030
01:42:41,880 --> 01:42:47,080
Speaker 1: either of us first. My male cousins are not invited.

2031
01:42:47,479 --> 01:42:50,160
Speaker 1: Pausing here rage justified or unjustified?

2032
01:42:50,200 --> 01:42:53,439
Speaker 2: I mean pregnancy so a little bit. But at the

2033
01:42:53,520 --> 01:43:00,400
Speaker 2: same time, it's like I feel want to say, what'll.

2034
01:43:00,240 --> 01:43:04,240
Speaker 1: Break you people? Like I understand that, but I also

2035
01:43:04,360 --> 01:43:09,320
Speaker 1: feel like this is a more intimate event, and generally

2036
01:43:09,400 --> 01:43:13,320
Speaker 1: I feel like it's not like the but it is

2037
01:43:13,400 --> 01:43:14,599
Speaker 1: family or inviting cousins.

2038
01:43:14,680 --> 01:43:17,280
Speaker 2: I just think it's weird to gender an event where

2039
01:43:17,360 --> 01:43:20,320
Speaker 2: even if it is traditionally, it's still weird to me

2040
01:43:20,520 --> 01:43:23,720
Speaker 2: because I feel like the event of like celebrating the

2041
01:43:23,760 --> 01:43:26,200
Speaker 2: fact that someone's having a baby, which is to my

2042
01:43:26,360 --> 01:43:30,400
Speaker 2: knowledge what a baby shower is like, should be open

2043
01:43:30,479 --> 01:43:32,840
Speaker 2: to everyone who cares about that personal.

2044
01:43:32,600 --> 01:43:34,559
Speaker 4: So I don't think that matters here. Like that, it's

2045
01:43:34,640 --> 01:43:36,840
Speaker 4: not that it's not really the problem of like, oh,

2046
01:43:37,040 --> 01:43:39,559
Speaker 4: men should be here. I think it's oh the fact

2047
01:43:39,560 --> 01:43:41,759
Speaker 4: that anyone invited.

2048
01:43:41,920 --> 01:43:45,080
Speaker 2: It's like it's like basically I have a but it's

2049
01:43:45,160 --> 01:43:48,679
Speaker 2: the main thing is that she invited the men, right, Well,

2050
01:43:48,720 --> 01:43:49,479
Speaker 2: I'm missing that.

2051
01:43:49,800 --> 01:43:52,760
Speaker 1: I think my understanding is she basically just did not

2052
01:43:53,120 --> 01:43:58,120
Speaker 1: want a bunch of people at her baby shower, and like,

2053
01:43:58,160 --> 01:44:00,880
Speaker 1: I think she's being more selective of of the men,

2054
01:44:01,280 --> 01:44:07,360
Speaker 1: but her the husband's mom invited these cousins without asking,

2055
01:44:07,720 --> 01:44:10,519
Speaker 1: And I think that's the main issue of inviting someone

2056
01:44:10,600 --> 01:44:15,400
Speaker 1: without asking. It is I think a social faux pas.

2057
01:44:15,800 --> 01:44:17,600
Speaker 1: But I don't. I don't. I don't feel like it

2058
01:44:17,960 --> 01:44:21,960
Speaker 1: justifies like, yeah, I don't think it justifies the anger. Yeah,

2059
01:44:22,000 --> 01:44:25,920
Speaker 1: but it does justify the like, hey, like you shouldn't

2060
01:44:25,920 --> 01:44:26,280
Speaker 1: be doing this.

2061
01:44:26,439 --> 01:44:29,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I kind of got lost in the

2062
01:44:29,280 --> 01:44:31,439
Speaker 2: sauce there. I was just too hung up on like that.

2063
01:44:31,680 --> 01:44:34,720
Speaker 2: But you're I think you're right and also low key.

2064
01:44:35,600 --> 01:44:38,600
Speaker 2: Maybe if you had set up your like page permissions

2065
01:44:38,640 --> 01:44:42,360
Speaker 2: properly and this wouldn't happened. But somebody and she was

2066
01:44:42,400 --> 01:44:44,800
Speaker 2: probably just like, oh, I haven't seen him in a while,

2067
01:44:45,160 --> 01:44:45,760
Speaker 2: invite him.

2068
01:44:45,880 --> 01:44:48,519
Speaker 1: I feel like she probably didn't even realize. I think

2069
01:44:48,560 --> 01:44:50,280
Speaker 1: she probably didn't do.

2070
01:44:50,400 --> 01:44:52,719
Speaker 4: We know where she made this invitation.

2071
01:44:53,080 --> 01:44:55,040
Speaker 1: It was on Facebook and there was an option to

2072
01:44:55,160 --> 01:44:58,160
Speaker 1: invite other people. So maybe this old person was like, oh, like,

2073
01:44:58,640 --> 01:45:00,840
Speaker 1: Facebook's telling me to invite everyone. I guess I should

2074
01:45:00,880 --> 01:45:01,479
Speaker 1: invite my friends.

2075
01:45:02,000 --> 01:45:03,840
Speaker 2: I guess what. And she just kept pressing it because

2076
01:45:03,880 --> 01:45:05,960
Speaker 2: she's like, it won't go away. He keeps telling me

2077
01:45:06,040 --> 01:45:07,240
Speaker 2: more people to invite.

2078
01:45:07,439 --> 01:45:09,080
Speaker 4: But I don't know if you should be in like,

2079
01:45:09,200 --> 01:45:11,320
Speaker 4: I don't know if you should do invites on Facebook.

2080
01:45:12,640 --> 01:45:16,320
Speaker 4: If you just want like a private invite, I think

2081
01:45:16,600 --> 01:45:17,719
Speaker 4: I would send that out.

2082
01:45:19,240 --> 01:45:21,960
Speaker 2: In the twenty first century where it's convenient to invite

2083
01:45:22,000 --> 01:45:23,479
Speaker 2: people on Facebook, because but I.

2084
01:45:23,479 --> 01:45:26,360
Speaker 4: Feel like if you want it to be like private,

2085
01:45:27,120 --> 01:45:29,000
Speaker 4: I feel like Facebook is pretty public.

2086
01:45:29,720 --> 01:45:32,799
Speaker 1: Also, can someone help Ellie Amaya explain how to message

2087
01:45:32,840 --> 01:45:35,639
Speaker 1: Riley on discord and submit a story someone in the chat?

2088
01:45:35,840 --> 01:45:37,400
Speaker 1: I would be very much appreciated for that.

2089
01:45:38,120 --> 01:45:40,840
Speaker 2: Megan Carter says, I'm pregnant and constantly and raised.

2090
01:45:42,520 --> 01:45:49,160
Speaker 1: So I guess my my question to chat is is

2091
01:45:49,280 --> 01:45:51,840
Speaker 1: this justified or not?

2092
01:45:52,320 --> 01:45:54,639
Speaker 2: I think you're right to faux pas. I think you're

2093
01:45:54,680 --> 01:45:56,880
Speaker 2: right to be like, okay, that you shouldn't have done

2094
01:45:56,920 --> 01:45:59,240
Speaker 2: that and we need to now undo this, and that's uncomfortable.

2095
01:45:59,240 --> 01:46:01,120
Speaker 2: I'd probably make her be the one to reach out

2096
01:46:01,160 --> 01:46:04,080
Speaker 2: to the cousins and be like, hey, sorry, I accidentally

2097
01:46:04,400 --> 01:46:06,400
Speaker 2: did some stuff I wasn't supposed to do, but uh,

2098
01:46:06,840 --> 01:46:09,560
Speaker 2: we can you know, so you can't come to me,

2099
01:46:09,680 --> 01:46:12,519
Speaker 2: you're not invited. Maybe shower Actually I'm sorry. Yeah, yeah,

2100
01:46:12,560 --> 01:46:16,160
Speaker 2: I think it's on. I think it's ideally on the mom. Yes,

2101
01:46:17,400 --> 01:46:19,840
Speaker 2: would I say yelling is justified? I don't think.

2102
01:46:20,000 --> 01:46:21,439
Speaker 1: I don't think it's justific because I don't think she

2103
01:46:22,000 --> 01:46:25,240
Speaker 1: meant it, But saying hey, you go fix this, I

2104
01:46:25,320 --> 01:46:27,320
Speaker 1: think it's justified. But we'd love to know what you

2105
01:46:27,320 --> 01:46:31,559
Speaker 1: guys think. Let us know in the comments. So fiance

2106
01:46:31,760 --> 01:46:34,160
Speaker 1: rang his mom and asked if she knew who had

2107
01:46:34,200 --> 01:46:36,679
Speaker 1: invited them, and she said, I added the family friends,

2108
01:46:37,080 --> 01:46:39,720
Speaker 1: but they are females, so it should be okay. Your

2109
01:46:39,720 --> 01:46:43,160
Speaker 1: auntie then added the male cousins. My fiance tried telling

2110
01:46:43,200 --> 01:46:45,640
Speaker 1: her that it wasn't her event to just add to

2111
01:46:45,960 --> 01:46:48,519
Speaker 1: and she should have checked. I took the phone and

2112
01:46:48,600 --> 01:46:51,240
Speaker 1: called them out for being rude and disrespectful for not asking.

2113
01:46:51,600 --> 01:46:54,040
Speaker 1: And the reason why we had certain ideas on who

2114
01:46:54,120 --> 01:46:57,320
Speaker 1: we wanted was because the people invited support us every day,

2115
01:46:57,600 --> 01:47:00,400
Speaker 1: have helped me adjust to pregnancy and of genuinely been

2116
01:47:00,479 --> 01:47:04,120
Speaker 1: interested in our growing baby's life. We also cannot afford

2117
01:47:04,760 --> 01:47:08,559
Speaker 1: to feed the extra fifteen people coming. Mother in lawn

2118
01:47:08,560 --> 01:47:11,679
Speaker 1: Auntie refused to contribute to the food, and I said

2119
01:47:11,800 --> 01:47:14,000
Speaker 1: I was deleting the extra people, and mother in law

2120
01:47:14,080 --> 01:47:18,360
Speaker 1: Auntie had to message and explain why they were deleted

2121
01:47:18,400 --> 01:47:21,120
Speaker 1: from the events. I also feel like it's a very

2122
01:47:21,200 --> 01:47:23,720
Speaker 1: easy out too for them to explain it, like, hey,

2123
01:47:23,840 --> 01:47:25,280
Speaker 1: like they have a limited budget for food.

2124
01:47:25,720 --> 01:47:27,519
Speaker 2: Yeah. True, and it's and it's not like this is

2125
01:47:27,560 --> 01:47:29,760
Speaker 2: happening like in a week either, it's happening in like

2126
01:47:30,640 --> 01:47:31,920
Speaker 2: four months. It's happening in March.

2127
01:47:32,200 --> 01:47:36,759
Speaker 1: Yeah. So now mother in law is complaining to cister Alat,

2128
01:47:36,760 --> 01:47:39,200
Speaker 1: who's on my side, saying I'm being rude and it's

2129
01:47:39,280 --> 01:47:42,400
Speaker 1: just hormones. Am I the A hole? There is an update?

2130
01:47:42,960 --> 01:47:43,840
Speaker 1: But uh, what do you think?

2131
01:47:44,240 --> 01:47:47,519
Speaker 2: I mean, I think with it with the context of

2132
01:47:47,640 --> 01:47:49,800
Speaker 2: the fact that you are pregnant and your body is

2133
01:47:49,880 --> 01:47:54,640
Speaker 2: currently trying to build an entirely another like human being inside.

2134
01:47:54,320 --> 01:47:56,960
Speaker 4: Of you, probably not the A hole.

2135
01:47:57,200 --> 01:47:59,920
Speaker 2: And especially because it's like you did have your reason

2136
01:48:00,160 --> 01:48:00,720
Speaker 2: for not doing it.

2137
01:48:01,200 --> 01:48:01,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2138
01:48:01,560 --> 01:48:05,360
Speaker 2: Also, do we think that the like do we think

2139
01:48:05,400 --> 01:48:06,360
Speaker 2: this was done on purpose.

2140
01:48:06,560 --> 01:48:08,519
Speaker 1: I don't think see like, I don't think it was

2141
01:48:08,560 --> 01:48:11,040
Speaker 1: done on purpose. I don't think there's malicious intent, and

2142
01:48:11,160 --> 01:48:13,280
Speaker 1: so I don't think like there. I think this could

2143
01:48:13,320 --> 01:48:17,680
Speaker 1: have been communicated more in a more chill way that

2144
01:48:17,840 --> 01:48:20,679
Speaker 1: being said pregnant rage. It's there, so like, I don't

2145
01:48:20,760 --> 01:48:22,240
Speaker 1: I think she gets a little bit, a little bit

2146
01:48:22,280 --> 01:48:26,599
Speaker 1: of a pregnant rage pass because but but I think

2147
01:48:26,640 --> 01:48:28,880
Speaker 1: it is justified to make them fix the problem.

2148
01:48:29,080 --> 01:48:31,080
Speaker 2: Of course, yes, I think that's the right. It's like,

2149
01:48:31,240 --> 01:48:34,439
Speaker 2: you don't, you didn't make the mistake, and it's so

2150
01:48:34,840 --> 01:48:36,720
Speaker 2: like you said, it's so easy to fix. You just go, oh,

2151
01:48:36,760 --> 01:48:38,800
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. You know, there's a limited guest list because

2152
01:48:38,800 --> 01:48:40,680
Speaker 2: they just can't afford all the food. But then what

2153
01:48:40,880 --> 01:48:43,920
Speaker 2: happens if the cousins are like, well will brings it?

2154
01:48:44,040 --> 01:48:47,400
Speaker 2: We can, we can help food, and then they'll be like, that's.

2155
01:48:47,280 --> 01:48:48,680
Speaker 1: Just not how we want to do it. This is

2156
01:48:48,720 --> 01:48:51,479
Speaker 1: not how we're doing it. I also saw a Facebook

2157
01:48:51,479 --> 01:48:52,800
Speaker 1: message can you scroll up a little bit for you?

2158
01:48:54,600 --> 01:48:59,040
Speaker 1: So right there, Brandy Logston on Facebook says pregnancy home

2159
01:48:59,120 --> 01:49:02,400
Speaker 1: or hormones will not make her sway. You get emotional

2160
01:49:02,439 --> 01:49:04,680
Speaker 1: over everything. My first pregnancy I got mad over a

2161
01:49:04,840 --> 01:49:07,880
Speaker 1: sandwich when I seen the sandwich and threw it on

2162
01:49:08,000 --> 01:49:08,400
Speaker 1: the ground.

2163
01:49:08,720 --> 01:49:13,040
Speaker 2: So like, so you're like, you saw the sandwich was

2164
01:49:13,040 --> 01:49:18,000
Speaker 2: smashed here, You're like, I hate the sandwich. Yeah, so

2165
01:49:18,160 --> 01:49:19,160
Speaker 2: it's totally eatable.

2166
01:49:20,000 --> 01:49:22,960
Speaker 1: It seems like a lot of people say not the

2167
01:49:23,040 --> 01:49:28,439
Speaker 1: a whole pigeon. Proselyzer says, absolutely on purpose. She did

2168
01:49:28,479 --> 01:49:33,920
Speaker 1: this with the engagement party. Maybe maybe, but let's get

2169
01:49:34,000 --> 01:49:37,880
Speaker 1: some more info. So, Miss Murphy's Cow, the only way

2170
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Speaker 1: out of this is to send out a notice that

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01:49:40,040 --> 01:49:42,519
Speaker 1: the shower is canceled. Wait a week and send out

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01:49:42,560 --> 01:49:45,280
Speaker 1: individual invitations to the people you want there. When people

2173
01:49:45,400 --> 01:49:47,679
Speaker 1: demand to know why you cancel, tell them the truth

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01:49:47,880 --> 01:49:49,840
Speaker 1: that too many people to get upon themselves to invite

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01:49:49,880 --> 01:49:53,599
Speaker 1: scores of people you didn't even know. No other reasons

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01:49:53,760 --> 01:49:55,800
Speaker 1: need to be stated. In the future, do not use

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01:49:55,840 --> 01:49:58,680
Speaker 1: social media to invite people to your events. Understand that

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01:49:58,760 --> 01:50:01,600
Speaker 1: whatever you put on social media gets broadcast around the

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01:50:01,640 --> 01:50:04,400
Speaker 1: world to millions of people who now know there will

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01:50:04,439 --> 01:50:07,400
Speaker 1: be lots of expensive goodies at your house ready to

2181
01:50:07,560 --> 01:50:08,280
Speaker 1: be stolen.

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01:50:10,400 --> 01:50:14,720
Speaker 2: Oh oh, that's a that's an accusation. Somebody doesn't have

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01:50:14,960 --> 01:50:16,640
Speaker 2: somebody doesn't like their cousins.

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01:50:17,000 --> 01:50:19,280
Speaker 1: Low maidens Gal says, I think this is the best

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01:50:19,400 --> 01:50:21,679
Speaker 1: way forward, and repulsive add fifty six to forty says,

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01:50:21,680 --> 01:50:23,519
Speaker 1: this is absolutely the best way to rectify the entire

2187
01:50:23,600 --> 01:50:26,400
Speaker 1: situation because she is right. Her mother in law was

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01:50:26,520 --> 01:50:31,200
Speaker 1: extremely rude and inviting so many people are insisting that

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01:50:31,320 --> 01:50:33,759
Speaker 1: so many people could come when it's not her baby shower,

2190
01:50:34,080 --> 01:50:37,000
Speaker 1: it's not her daughter, and it may be her grandchild,

2191
01:50:37,040 --> 01:50:39,439
Speaker 1: but that does not entitle her to decide who comes

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01:50:39,479 --> 01:50:42,960
Speaker 1: to Opie's baby shower, as it is only Opi and

2193
01:50:43,120 --> 01:50:46,240
Speaker 1: her fiance who are allowed to invite more people if

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01:50:46,360 --> 01:50:47,200
Speaker 1: they so wish.

2195
01:50:47,640 --> 01:50:49,680
Speaker 2: And as for the whole food.

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01:50:49,560 --> 01:50:53,080
Speaker 1: Situation, if mother in law and aunt who decided to

2197
01:50:53,160 --> 01:50:55,639
Speaker 1: invite more people want more people to be able to come,

2198
01:50:56,040 --> 01:50:58,800
Speaker 1: make some food for the event, maybe, just maybe you

2199
01:50:58,880 --> 01:51:01,000
Speaker 1: might get a little bit of a small say. So

2200
01:51:01,040 --> 01:51:02,360
Speaker 1: if you made food for the event, maybe get a

2201
01:51:02,400 --> 01:51:05,200
Speaker 1: small say. But until then, stay in the place that

2202
01:51:05,280 --> 01:51:08,600
Speaker 1: you're supposed to stay in as grandmother to be and

2203
01:51:08,960 --> 01:51:12,920
Speaker 1: as great auntie to be. Otherwise, No, not the a hole.

2204
01:51:13,040 --> 01:51:15,599
Speaker 1: If that was the question, and we got an update,

2205
01:51:17,200 --> 01:51:19,080
Speaker 1: and then we get into it. Yeah, and we get

2206
01:51:19,080 --> 01:51:19,400
Speaker 1: into it.

2207
01:51:19,520 --> 01:51:20,240
Speaker 2: Let's get into it.

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01:51:20,400 --> 01:51:21,080
Speaker 1: Let's freaking go.

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01:51:21,600 --> 01:51:24,880
Speaker 2: So just all the cousins. Sorry, I know, I just

2210
01:51:24,920 --> 01:51:28,160
Speaker 2: said we'd get into it and I started, They're like, oh, actually,

2211
01:51:28,320 --> 01:51:30,439
Speaker 2: I want to say something. I just imagine, like the

2212
01:51:30,560 --> 01:51:33,400
Speaker 2: male cousins like just to start, they like, host a

2213
01:51:33,520 --> 01:51:34,360
Speaker 2: competitive event.

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01:51:34,520 --> 01:51:38,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, in counter protests, Yeah, yeah, exactly, we want to

2215
01:51:38,920 --> 01:51:43,280
Speaker 1: see the baby. So update was speaking to my sister

2216
01:51:43,280 --> 01:51:46,759
Speaker 1: in law. Apparently this isn't the first time this has happened,

2217
01:51:47,439 --> 01:51:50,559
Speaker 1: and at her baby shower all of these people turned

2218
01:51:50,640 --> 01:51:52,840
Speaker 1: up that she did not invite and complained about not

2219
01:51:52,960 --> 01:51:55,760
Speaker 1: having food. Turns out mother in law and auntie were

2220
01:51:55,880 --> 01:51:59,000
Speaker 1: the culprits. I ended up deleting the event and recreating

2221
01:51:59,080 --> 01:52:01,160
Speaker 1: it so people could not and made it a save

2222
01:52:01,280 --> 01:52:03,880
Speaker 1: the date, and I have a list of everyone's addresses

2223
01:52:03,920 --> 01:52:07,080
Speaker 1: from our engagement party and will mail out invites with

2224
01:52:07,320 --> 01:52:10,600
Speaker 1: guest names on it, so it is crystal clear. I

2225
01:52:10,680 --> 01:52:12,240
Speaker 1: know there are a few comments about why I am

2226
01:52:12,320 --> 01:52:14,920
Speaker 1: planning my own shower. I am planning the invites, but

2227
01:52:15,000 --> 01:52:17,360
Speaker 1: my mom and sisters are doing the decorating and cake

2228
01:52:17,479 --> 01:52:20,960
Speaker 1: and contributing heavily, whereas in laws are purely just rocking up.

2229
01:52:21,360 --> 01:52:23,240
Speaker 1: Sister in law was also telling me that when she

2230
01:52:23,479 --> 01:52:26,120
Speaker 1: was giving birth, her partner is my fiance's younger brother.

2231
01:52:26,400 --> 01:52:28,280
Speaker 1: She chose to have her partner and sister in the

2232
01:52:28,320 --> 01:52:31,439
Speaker 1: delivery room, and my mother in law and father in

2233
01:52:31,560 --> 01:52:34,840
Speaker 1: law rocked up at twelve am while she was in

2234
01:52:35,040 --> 01:52:38,960
Speaker 1: active labor and got kicked out. When they got sent

2235
01:52:39,080 --> 01:52:41,360
Speaker 1: home from the hospital, mother in law and father in

2236
01:52:41,479 --> 01:52:44,479
Speaker 1: law were waiting at the front door to snuggle with

2237
01:52:44,640 --> 01:52:47,320
Speaker 1: the baby, and father in law kept kissing the baby

2238
01:52:47,439 --> 01:52:49,320
Speaker 1: even when he was asked not to.

2239
01:52:49,880 --> 01:52:52,960
Speaker 2: What is wrong with people and feeling entitled to, Like

2240
01:52:53,320 --> 01:52:56,639
Speaker 2: they just stomp all over boundaries and it's not even

2241
01:52:56,800 --> 01:52:59,760
Speaker 2: like a choice. It's like an infinite is really vulnerable

2242
01:53:00,000 --> 01:53:05,320
Speaker 2: to like jerseys and stuff at that age. Their immune

2243
01:53:05,400 --> 01:53:10,280
Speaker 2: system doesn't exist yet, like it's still building itself. So yeah,

2244
01:53:10,920 --> 01:53:15,640
Speaker 2: don't do that, Like come on, so yeah, correct, wait,

2245
01:53:15,640 --> 01:53:17,200
Speaker 2: correct me if I'm wrong. But I'm pretty sure that

2246
01:53:17,240 --> 01:53:18,920
Speaker 2: the only thing the babies are immune to is like

2247
01:53:19,080 --> 01:53:23,120
Speaker 2: the parents kind of just stuff because they're being born

2248
01:53:23,800 --> 01:53:26,920
Speaker 2: from their genomes. I have Is there anything to that?

2249
01:53:27,320 --> 01:53:28,559
Speaker 1: I have literally no idea.

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01:53:28,720 --> 01:53:30,680
Speaker 4: I mean, I know that the immune system of a

2251
01:53:30,760 --> 01:53:33,360
Speaker 4: baby is pretty not their existence.

2252
01:53:33,560 --> 01:53:35,920
Speaker 1: Ye, it's probably some kind of immune system. Let us

2253
01:53:35,960 --> 01:53:38,479
Speaker 1: know about babies immune systems in the chat. But thanks,

2254
01:53:40,000 --> 01:53:41,960
Speaker 1: fiance and I have spoken about boundaries and we are

2255
01:53:42,000 --> 01:53:45,080
Speaker 1: going to post some wishes we have for when the

2256
01:53:45,120 --> 01:53:47,439
Speaker 1: bubb is born. By the way, you can wish us

2257
01:53:48,000 --> 01:53:51,599
Speaker 1: into your lives by joining our lives every weekday three

2258
01:53:51,680 --> 01:53:54,320
Speaker 1: pm PST right here on Facebook and YouTube. And we're

2259
01:53:54,360 --> 01:53:56,599
Speaker 1: probably live right now, so just click our profile.

2260
01:53:57,120 --> 01:53:58,920
Speaker 2: I wish to join the live. Oh wait, I don't

2261
01:53:58,960 --> 01:54:01,120
Speaker 2: have to wish because I can just spot do it

2262
01:54:01,240 --> 01:54:02,520
Speaker 2: right here cap that profile.

2263
01:54:03,439 --> 01:54:06,320
Speaker 1: My fiance has admitted his mom is extremely entitled and

2264
01:54:06,400 --> 01:54:08,400
Speaker 1: has no idea where she gets it from, but he

2265
01:54:08,479 --> 01:54:11,759
Speaker 1: said he will happily pull her into line when needed.

2266
01:54:11,840 --> 01:54:14,200
Speaker 1: I could never imagine thinking that inviting people to an

2267
01:54:14,240 --> 01:54:17,960
Speaker 1: event that isn't mine was okay. I was quite upset

2268
01:54:17,960 --> 01:54:20,320
Speaker 1: and emotional over it, but reading your comments made me

2269
01:54:20,400 --> 01:54:23,519
Speaker 1: realize I was not crazy. Thank you all for your

2270
01:54:23,520 --> 01:54:28,960
Speaker 1: advice and comments, and that is where that story ends. Yeah,

2271
01:54:29,400 --> 01:54:31,479
Speaker 1: don't invite people at the things that they're not invited

2272
01:54:31,520 --> 01:54:34,440
Speaker 1: to unless you ask ask first, especially if it's like

2273
01:54:34,480 --> 01:54:35,200
Speaker 1: an intimate event.

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01:54:35,520 --> 01:54:38,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you saved it, so good job. Yeah, you

2275
01:54:39,680 --> 01:54:41,600
Speaker 2: figured out you saved the date, you figured out how

2276
01:54:41,640 --> 01:54:46,640
Speaker 2: to mail and which Uh, Sophia shout out you you

2277
01:54:46,840 --> 01:54:49,240
Speaker 2: that was your advice? What did I say to mail

2278
01:54:49,280 --> 01:54:56,480
Speaker 2: out man? That was your old idea? You were like, actually, yeah,

2279
01:54:56,600 --> 01:54:58,320
Speaker 2: pretty much the smartest bridge in the room.

2280
01:54:58,680 --> 01:54:59,200
Speaker 3: Genius.

2281
01:55:00,160 --> 01:55:04,080
Speaker 1: Yes, but we also have a calling to do. We do,

2282
01:55:05,840 --> 01:55:07,920
Speaker 1: but before we do that call, and maybe we read

2283
01:55:08,040 --> 01:55:11,040
Speaker 1: some donos if they're there. And also, how are we

2284
01:55:11,120 --> 01:55:13,680
Speaker 1: all feeling on the food situation.

2285
01:55:13,840 --> 01:55:20,640
Speaker 2: I was about to say, I'm getting my tongueyngy. Yeah,

2286
01:55:20,680 --> 01:55:25,000
Speaker 2: I mean I'm down for anything. Yeah, it's kind of boring.

2287
01:55:25,800 --> 01:55:32,800
Speaker 2: It's good, it's boring. No, we can't. That's gonna hate us. Yeah,

2288
01:55:32,880 --> 01:55:36,200
Speaker 2: Sophia is everyone's favorite. Yeah, I mean understandably, but like

2289
01:55:38,800 --> 01:55:39,280
Speaker 2: a little bit.

2290
01:55:39,440 --> 01:55:40,440
Speaker 1: No, they will not.

2291
01:55:42,440 --> 01:55:45,360
Speaker 2: They were like, how dare you, queen? How dare you?

2292
01:55:48,320 --> 01:55:52,240
Speaker 1: You went pay for hit some dons Dakota, Sophia, get that?

2293
01:55:54,400 --> 01:55:57,760
Speaker 1: Uh story ready, pick the best most exciting one?

2294
01:55:59,000 --> 01:56:01,760
Speaker 2: We didn't. Wait, I thought it was Riley not Also

2295
01:56:02,000 --> 01:56:04,800
Speaker 2: on the whatever, let's let's read the doughnuts? Is there

2296
01:56:04,840 --> 01:56:06,440
Speaker 2: anything else on the tip link?

2297
01:56:07,600 --> 01:56:09,800
Speaker 6: You go ahead and forgive it that a little refresher,

2298
01:56:10,640 --> 01:56:11,880
Speaker 6: give it a little refresher.

2299
01:56:12,120 --> 01:56:15,640
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll final I'll start over there. Uh, Penguin Pirate

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01:56:15,840 --> 01:56:21,600
Speaker 2: five x acts you remember for one month? Congratulations, Come on, Sophia.

2301
01:56:21,480 --> 01:56:23,920
Speaker 5: What thank you?

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01:56:24,880 --> 01:56:27,640
Speaker 2: Thank you okay story Time for being stree undercodo too,

2303
01:56:27,640 --> 01:56:30,640
Speaker 2: because I'm gonna be on my phone. Uh, thank you, okay,

2304
01:56:30,640 --> 01:56:35,960
Speaker 2: story Time for being a respite for me. Guys, she

2305
01:56:36,240 --> 01:56:39,320
Speaker 2: keeps goofing me up. Thank you okay, story Time for

2306
01:56:39,400 --> 01:56:42,200
Speaker 2: being a respite for me while dealing with the loss

2307
01:56:42,480 --> 01:56:46,600
Speaker 2: of my sixteen year old Himalayan. I love you all,

2308
01:56:46,680 --> 01:56:50,400
Speaker 2: and it's a dog for though that which is terrible,

2309
01:56:51,080 --> 01:56:54,920
Speaker 2: but yes, and that's I've I was unfamiliar with that breed,

2310
01:56:55,000 --> 01:56:56,800
Speaker 2: so it did honestly throw me for a loop for

2311
01:56:56,800 --> 01:56:59,040
Speaker 2: a second until I saw the emoji, which could be

2312
01:56:59,160 --> 01:57:01,840
Speaker 2: humor in sadness if one wants to classify it as that.

2313
01:57:02,360 --> 01:57:05,440
Speaker 2: I feel for you, Penguin Pirate. It always sucks to

2314
01:57:05,440 --> 01:57:07,600
Speaker 2: have a pet pass, but sixteen years is a good

2315
01:57:07,640 --> 01:57:12,080
Speaker 2: long life. Uh, Dark Lilith eighty six. Con gratze getting

2316
01:57:12,120 --> 01:57:16,960
Speaker 2: married first, and also thank you for gifting five okay

2317
01:57:17,000 --> 01:57:21,960
Speaker 2: Storytime memberships two the Uh the stream, we troops to

2318
01:57:22,160 --> 01:57:24,600
Speaker 2: the troops. We got more troops. We're starting an army

2319
01:57:24,680 --> 01:57:27,560
Speaker 2: to compete with the child children from the wedding in

2320
01:57:27,640 --> 01:57:31,120
Speaker 2: the first story, All about a Unicorn, Thanks for the

2321
01:57:31,240 --> 01:57:34,960
Speaker 2: five bucks. Remember to love unconditionally this holiday season and

2322
01:57:35,120 --> 01:57:38,960
Speaker 2: spread that isshe around heard mlog be the smile that

2323
01:57:39,200 --> 01:57:42,320
Speaker 2: somebody needs. Hey, thanks all about you Coornose.

2324
01:57:42,440 --> 01:57:43,240
Speaker 4: Those are some good words.

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01:57:44,120 --> 01:57:48,120
Speaker 2: Ebeny C. Thank you for the nine New Zealand dolors

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01:57:49,200 --> 01:57:57,320
Speaker 2: Kia Aurra from oh Au tira a aut Traurora. How

2327
01:57:57,360 --> 01:58:00,000
Speaker 2: do you how do you say that h slash New Zealand.

2328
01:58:00,120 --> 01:58:02,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say that one. Thank you, Thank you, ebany C,

2329
01:58:03,800 --> 01:58:07,000
Speaker 2: Angie Alice, thank you for the two euros. Favorite build

2330
01:58:07,160 --> 01:58:11,120
Speaker 2: in elden Ring mind Sorcery. I mean, you can't go

2331
01:58:11,200 --> 01:58:14,600
Speaker 2: wrong with the big smashy. I've always been big smashy

2332
01:58:15,320 --> 01:58:18,920
Speaker 2: all the way back to Dark Souls one big smashy.

2333
01:58:19,960 --> 01:58:22,040
Speaker 2: If you play Dark Souls and you're a big smashy,

2334
01:58:22,480 --> 01:58:25,960
Speaker 2: let me know in the chat. And Soba Sue, thank

2335
01:58:26,040 --> 01:58:29,520
Speaker 2: you for joining. Welcome to the Knights. Here's a cool sword. Wow,

2336
01:58:29,560 --> 01:58:35,440
Speaker 2: look at it. Go emirat EMII and Murray. Thank you

2337
01:58:35,640 --> 01:58:37,960
Speaker 2: for being a member for four months. Using this to

2338
01:58:38,040 --> 01:58:39,920
Speaker 2: thank you for your videos which are helping me feel

2339
01:58:40,000 --> 01:58:42,960
Speaker 2: better whilst I pack. For moving after a breakup a

2340
01:58:43,440 --> 01:58:46,240
Speaker 2: heart emoji, I love you guys. Hey, we love you too,

2341
01:58:46,520 --> 01:58:48,320
Speaker 2: and sorry to hear by that breakup. But you know

2342
01:58:48,440 --> 01:58:55,520
Speaker 2: what excelsior, which means onwards and upwards. You're onto bigger

2343
01:58:55,560 --> 01:58:56,040
Speaker 2: and better things.

2344
01:58:56,160 --> 01:58:57,440
Speaker 1: Jakota, do you want the same thing as me?

2345
01:58:58,600 --> 01:59:03,040
Speaker 2: Yes? I will. Nick, Darlene, thanks for being a member

2346
01:59:03,040 --> 01:59:06,400
Speaker 2: for six months. It's my birthday, guys, another one. Thanks

2347
01:59:06,440 --> 01:59:09,160
Speaker 2: for keeping me saying during my doctorate program. Well, thank

2348
01:59:09,200 --> 01:59:11,960
Speaker 2: you Darlene for pulling up on your birthday and letting

2349
01:59:12,040 --> 01:59:13,720
Speaker 2: us know about it, and for being a member for

2350
01:59:13,800 --> 01:59:19,360
Speaker 2: six months. Angie h and that is all those uh oh,

2351
01:59:19,520 --> 01:59:22,200
Speaker 2: thank you for sam e for the five dollars through

2352
01:59:22,200 --> 01:59:26,879
Speaker 2: the tip link which YouTube doesn't take any of. Sophia

2353
01:59:27,000 --> 01:59:31,720
Speaker 2: say hello to my daughter. You say it like the

2354
01:59:31,840 --> 01:59:34,480
Speaker 2: character from the Amazing World of Gumball. I don't know

2355
01:59:35,080 --> 01:59:41,000
Speaker 2: who that character is. I think it's anice Okay, it

2356
01:59:41,080 --> 01:59:44,000
Speaker 2: was right? Cool and she always asks if you are

2357
01:59:44,080 --> 01:59:45,280
Speaker 2: on when you guys go live.

2358
01:59:45,720 --> 01:59:46,680
Speaker 4: She's my favorite here.

2359
01:59:46,800 --> 01:59:53,800
Speaker 2: She is cool and good job, Hey, good u. I

2360
01:59:53,960 --> 01:59:59,640
Speaker 2: saw I see a new h oh here did wait?

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01:59:59,760 --> 02:00:04,600
Speaker 2: Did would be you know that one? Uh? Okay, let's

2362
02:00:04,640 --> 02:00:10,800
Speaker 2: go to the super chat. Uh just do the thing,

2363
02:00:11,680 --> 02:00:17,560
Speaker 2: do the do No, okay, okay, fine no uh uh

2364
02:00:17,760 --> 02:00:23,000
Speaker 2: Nixy uh, thank you for the fifty dollars. Here's a joke.

2365
02:00:24,200 --> 02:00:27,800
Speaker 2: There once was was a Viking ing was or was

2366
02:00:27,880 --> 02:00:30,520
Speaker 2: that was? Is it supposed to be Viking king? Because

2367
02:00:30,520 --> 02:00:35,240
Speaker 2: that says Viking ing. There once was a Viking king

2368
02:00:35,480 --> 02:00:38,920
Speaker 2: named Rudolph the Red was looking out the window and

2369
02:00:39,200 --> 02:00:42,200
Speaker 2: he said, it's going to rain. His wife asked, how

2370
02:00:42,320 --> 02:00:47,760
Speaker 2: do you know, because Rudolph the Red Nose rain. Dear ah, yes,

2371
02:00:48,680 --> 02:00:56,400
Speaker 2: nice boom, And thank you Bella for the five year pounds.

2372
02:00:56,640 --> 02:01:00,640
Speaker 2: Happy birthday to my birthday twins. I mean, we got

2373
02:01:00,800 --> 02:01:04,720
Speaker 2: birthdays on birthdays, on birthdays, on birthdays on birthdays, and

2374
02:01:04,840 --> 02:01:07,440
Speaker 2: then probably like me, at least two more on birthdays.

2375
02:01:09,080 --> 02:01:12,440
Speaker 2: And Bella, thank you for the five okay storytime gifted memberships.

2376
02:01:12,920 --> 02:01:17,000
Speaker 2: My gosh, we are just growing the fam today. And

2377
02:01:17,120 --> 02:01:24,520
Speaker 2: I think that is all of the tip links. And honestly,

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02:01:24,600 --> 02:01:28,040
Speaker 2: Nixy autocorrect doesn't hate you at Viking is a very

2379
02:01:28,200 --> 02:01:31,000
Speaker 2: that made me like smile on the inside. And now

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Speaker 2: it's look, it's making me smile on the outside. Vikinging,

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Speaker 2: What are you doing this weekend? I'm going vikinging. You

2382
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Speaker 2: probably don't wanna. If you can't handle me at my Vikinging,

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Speaker 2: you can't handle me at my Viking king. Okay, let

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Speaker 2: me just say that. Okay, So, as Jay says, there

2385
02:01:55,800 --> 02:02:01,080
Speaker 2: should be an edit of all of Dakota's, which honestly.

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02:02:00,760 --> 02:02:02,840
Speaker 1: Would put it on like a little little sound boy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and we could remix it. And you know what

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02:02:04,600 --> 02:02:06,800
Speaker 2: I was thinking, I have a I just got a

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02:02:06,880 --> 02:02:10,640
Speaker 2: sampler recently, like uh and Riley did a noise the

2390
02:02:10,720 --> 02:02:14,520
Speaker 2: other day that sounded just like a rooster, and I

2391
02:02:14,600 --> 02:02:18,240
Speaker 2: could make a remix of all my and then the

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Speaker 2: drop could just be him going and then will Yeah

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02:02:24,080 --> 02:02:26,880
Speaker 2: that would be the drop. Yeah. I like that. Yeah,

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02:02:26,920 --> 02:02:28,960
Speaker 2: I think there's I have Now Now I have work

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Speaker 2: to do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do you have work? To set up that

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Speaker 1: sample thing so we can play it on stream?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna I'll get to work on this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Please. All right, we're gonna do a call in

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Speaker 1: before we get into this next story.

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Speaker 4: Okay, here, someone else go first.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'll and and to be clear, I'll do that,

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02:02:51,720 --> 02:02:53,240
Speaker 2: but I don't uh.

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Speaker 1: Oh and Dakota needs Oh wait, I already ordered for I.

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02:02:55,960 --> 02:02:59,560
Speaker 2: Just did another one right there. But if if anybody,

2406
02:03:00,080 --> 02:03:02,720
Speaker 2: which I know Josephine, we put you to work on

2407
02:03:02,840 --> 02:03:06,920
Speaker 2: the clips a lot. But if anyone has clips or

2408
02:03:07,080 --> 02:03:13,040
Speaker 2: nos where my rip are and you know, feel free

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Speaker 2: to post those in the discord to make my life

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02:03:15,760 --> 02:03:18,320
Speaker 2: easier or you can make me live my life harder.

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Speaker 1: We stay hard and pirate five acas. Thanks for the

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Speaker 1: five Okay Storytime memberships. We appreciate you. Christin foil a

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Speaker 1: Hot Gate, thanks for the one gifted membership shoutout. Chris

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Speaker 1: tin foil Hot.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I was literally about to say, you

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02:03:35,920 --> 02:03:37,560
Speaker 2: know what, I bet that was a typo.

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Speaker 4: And another thirty minutes, Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's tenfoil Hot over the edge, christenre we go Tens,

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Speaker 2: Chris ten, Chris ten Reading, and AQ welcome for the

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02:03:58,560 --> 02:04:01,040
Speaker 2: past eight months because you've been a member for that long,

2421
02:04:01,760 --> 02:04:04,920
Speaker 2: enjoying the energy today, We're glad I'm enjoying it. I

2422
02:04:05,720 --> 02:04:09,360
Speaker 2: enjoy it, like, well, yeah, I enjoy every stream except

2423
02:04:09,440 --> 02:04:11,720
Speaker 2: I know there was one stream where I did traumatize

2424
02:04:11,760 --> 02:04:15,360
Speaker 2: both of you and low Key the stream, which you know.

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02:04:15,520 --> 02:04:18,640
Speaker 1: But it had hey you know, but you know growing pains. Yeah,

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02:04:18,680 --> 02:04:20,840
Speaker 1: there you go, grow pins. Yeah, you's done. Are you

2427
02:04:20,920 --> 02:04:22,400
Speaker 1: done the order?

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02:04:22,800 --> 02:04:25,560
Speaker 4: No, I have not ordered because I'm gonna do the call.

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02:04:25,800 --> 02:04:27,080
Speaker 1: Okay, then you'll order.

2430
02:04:27,120 --> 02:04:33,760
Speaker 2: It takes rain and sunshine to make a rainbow. And

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02:04:33,960 --> 02:04:35,000
Speaker 2: that's and I'm.

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02:04:34,920 --> 02:04:38,760
Speaker 1: Sorry, Jamie Han says so to confirm. John has long

2433
02:04:38,880 --> 02:04:41,480
Speaker 1: hair and glasses and Kean is the other producer.

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Speaker 2: Right, yeah, I love it. Are you how new are you?

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Speaker 1: Oh my, how new are you? Oh my goodness, Hannah,

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02:04:49,600 --> 02:04:49,960
Speaker 1: he just.

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02:04:50,000 --> 02:04:53,880
Speaker 2: Got here, Hannah, thank you for the fifty dollars. You

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02:04:54,040 --> 02:04:57,600
Speaker 2: know what to put in the chat. Folks had a

2439
02:04:57,680 --> 02:05:02,160
Speaker 2: friend purposefully leave this earthly place. Need the distraction. Sorry,

2440
02:05:02,200 --> 02:05:03,400
Speaker 2: I'm not as silent today.

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02:05:03,640 --> 02:05:04,160
Speaker 1: L O L.

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02:05:04,320 --> 02:05:08,200
Speaker 2: Well, hey, you know that is rough. We feel it,

2443
02:05:08,360 --> 02:05:15,360
Speaker 2: we feel it. That's a moment of silence, perhaps, Hannah.

2444
02:05:16,000 --> 02:05:17,000
Speaker 2: Our thoughts are going out to you.

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02:05:18,080 --> 02:05:20,920
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you could uh come in the stream

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02:05:20,960 --> 02:05:23,600
Speaker 1: with us and hopefully we make you feel a little better.

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02:05:24,640 --> 02:05:29,080
Speaker 2: Yes, and now we will be making good vibes. Good

2448
02:05:29,160 --> 02:05:30,000
Speaker 2: vibes for all.

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02:05:31,960 --> 02:05:37,200
Speaker 1: Hearts in the chap for Hannah, everyone but Sophia discord.

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02:05:38,280 --> 02:05:43,080
Speaker 4: Yes, we have two options. The one is about someone

2451
02:05:43,160 --> 02:05:46,480
Speaker 4: getting stuck in a cat door, and the other one

2452
02:05:46,600 --> 02:05:49,760
Speaker 4: is about using Christmas money to help people.

2453
02:05:50,240 --> 02:05:52,000
Speaker 2: The power of the coin, the power of the door.

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02:05:52,360 --> 02:05:53,080
Speaker 2: Where's the coin?

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02:05:53,520 --> 02:05:53,960
Speaker 4: Cat door?

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02:05:54,120 --> 02:05:55,680
Speaker 2: Cat I want cat door, cat door?

2457
02:05:55,840 --> 02:05:55,960
Speaker 3: Want?

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02:05:56,280 --> 02:05:58,400
Speaker 2: I want cat door. But where's this is the perfect

2459
02:05:58,520 --> 02:06:01,560
Speaker 2: chance to use the power of a coin. I don't

2460
02:06:01,640 --> 02:06:06,000
Speaker 2: have a coin though, all right, it is cat door.

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02:06:06,440 --> 02:06:08,400
Speaker 4: I have to recall how to do this.

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02:06:10,120 --> 02:06:13,520
Speaker 2: Hold on, I believe in you, Sophia. We haven't done

2463
02:06:13,520 --> 02:06:14,680
Speaker 2: a caller in age.

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02:06:15,480 --> 02:06:16,800
Speaker 4: It's been a hot minute.

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02:06:17,120 --> 02:06:18,040
Speaker 1: It's been so long.

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02:06:19,080 --> 02:06:23,000
Speaker 2: Well, actually me and John did one leg relatively y'all

2467
02:06:23,080 --> 02:06:25,560
Speaker 2: haven't y'all haven't done a call.

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02:06:25,680 --> 02:06:26,360
Speaker 1: I haven't done a call.

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02:06:27,760 --> 02:06:31,240
Speaker 2: I'm calling you cat door, Okay, I don't know.

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02:06:31,400 --> 02:06:35,200
Speaker 4: It's just a we're gonna we're voice calling you.

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Speaker 1: See.

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02:06:37,400 --> 02:06:38,960
Speaker 4: If this works, it might, I might.

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02:06:39,800 --> 02:06:41,440
Speaker 1: I feel like it should like show up on the

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02:06:42,440 --> 02:06:43,960
Speaker 1: on the little little collar screen.

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02:06:44,240 --> 02:06:48,000
Speaker 4: It should, but it's not. I can't hear anything.

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02:06:48,040 --> 02:06:49,680
Speaker 2: Should we start doing phone sound effects? Right?

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02:06:49,760 --> 02:06:53,440
Speaker 1: Cat door in the form of cat dog. Biggie the

2478
02:06:53,520 --> 02:06:56,320
Speaker 1: Slayer says, because John isn't here, we don't have anyone.

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02:06:56,160 --> 02:07:00,520
Speaker 4: Stuck in the door is here, but oh I can't

2480
02:07:00,640 --> 02:07:00,960
Speaker 4: hear you?

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02:07:04,360 --> 02:07:09,640
Speaker 1: Hello? Yeah, wait, can can you guys hear cat door?

2482
02:07:12,120 --> 02:07:13,320
Speaker 1: Let us can?

2483
02:07:13,560 --> 02:07:14,200
Speaker 2: We've got you.

2484
02:07:14,400 --> 02:07:18,480
Speaker 1: We can hear you. Can they hear you? Chat? Let

2485
02:07:18,560 --> 02:07:23,120
Speaker 1: us know if you can hear cat door? Come on,

2486
02:07:23,880 --> 02:07:25,000
Speaker 1: crag you fella says not.

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02:07:26,200 --> 02:07:26,640
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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02:07:27,360 --> 02:07:30,320
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if they can. We can hear you?

2489
02:07:30,600 --> 02:07:32,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, keep keep us going.

2490
02:07:32,120 --> 02:07:35,000
Speaker 1: But I don't think that because they will only hear

2491
02:07:35,080 --> 02:07:39,280
Speaker 1: you if the if the distant. I think it's because

2492
02:07:39,480 --> 02:07:41,680
Speaker 1: it needs to Yeah, I don't think they can hear

2493
02:07:42,080 --> 02:07:43,640
Speaker 1: it is because it goes through the link to that

2494
02:07:43,920 --> 02:07:46,160
Speaker 1: that it is to be linked to that.

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02:07:47,080 --> 02:07:49,280
Speaker 4: Okay, it's possibly now.

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02:07:49,520 --> 02:07:55,280
Speaker 2: When that see that bar right there? Guys, Yeah, all right,

2497
02:07:55,960 --> 02:07:56,720
Speaker 2: can you say something?

2498
02:07:57,800 --> 02:07:58,000
Speaker 5: Hello?

2499
02:07:58,920 --> 02:07:59,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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02:08:00,120 --> 02:08:02,160
Speaker 1: Okay, we did it all right? Wall wait, let's see

2501
02:08:02,160 --> 02:08:04,280
Speaker 1: if they could hear they did it all right? All right?

2502
02:08:04,480 --> 02:08:06,800
Speaker 2: Twenty second last, Yes, he said I heard that.

2503
02:08:08,400 --> 02:08:10,720
Speaker 1: It's really faint. All right, let's see that guy? Great?

2504
02:08:11,280 --> 02:08:11,880
Speaker 2: Is it too loud?

2505
02:08:12,000 --> 02:08:12,360
Speaker 1: Is it good?

2506
02:08:13,000 --> 02:08:13,200
Speaker 2: Well?

2507
02:08:13,560 --> 02:08:16,840
Speaker 1: So be it all right? Yeah? Let us know. I

2508
02:08:16,960 --> 02:08:19,440
Speaker 1: think I think TikTok has heard it so far.

2509
02:08:20,160 --> 02:08:22,080
Speaker 2: I think I think all of the faintlies that we're

2510
02:08:22,120 --> 02:08:25,880
Speaker 2: getting are from the first part and now it's fixed.

2511
02:08:25,960 --> 02:08:27,680
Speaker 1: Okay, here, here we go, here, here we go.

2512
02:08:28,040 --> 02:08:29,520
Speaker 2: Yes, all right the title wave.

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02:08:29,800 --> 02:08:35,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, cat door, introduce yourself and tell us

2514
02:08:36,160 --> 02:08:39,360
Speaker 1: the story of how you got stuck in the cat door.

2515
02:08:39,520 --> 02:08:44,960
Speaker 1: I may ask questions in a flurry, but I'm excited

2516
02:08:45,000 --> 02:08:46,120
Speaker 1: to hear your cat door story.

2517
02:08:46,880 --> 02:08:47,480
Speaker 2: I am as well.

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02:08:47,640 --> 02:08:56,520
Speaker 5: All right, So I am awkward turtle. And so my sister,

2519
02:08:56,880 --> 02:08:59,920
Speaker 5: she went through this whole crisis about five years ago

2520
02:09:00,040 --> 02:09:02,600
Speaker 5: about being adopted, which doesn't really make a ton of

2521
02:09:02,720 --> 02:09:05,280
Speaker 5: sense since we're all adopted and my mom was very

2522
02:09:05,360 --> 02:09:09,040
Speaker 5: clear with us age appropriate our whole lives about being adopted.

2523
02:09:09,680 --> 02:09:12,120
Speaker 1: When did you first tell you guys about being adopted? Like,

2524
02:09:12,160 --> 02:09:13,520
Speaker 1: what was like the first time?

2525
02:09:15,320 --> 02:09:18,560
Speaker 5: I mean the first time? I remember, I was like five,

2526
02:09:18,960 --> 02:09:22,080
Speaker 5: but I know she had previously before explained it to me.

2527
02:09:23,080 --> 02:09:26,360
Speaker 5: She she always said, they didn't give you up, they

2528
02:09:26,400 --> 02:09:28,800
Speaker 5: gave you a chance, and just kind of kept repeating

2529
02:09:28,840 --> 02:09:30,480
Speaker 5: that anytime we had any sort of issues.

2530
02:09:31,400 --> 02:09:34,400
Speaker 1: Oh, Sophia, can you turn the volume down a little

2531
02:09:34,440 --> 02:09:37,720
Speaker 1: bit just for what we're here, because it's echoing, echoing

2532
02:09:37,760 --> 02:09:38,000
Speaker 1: a lot.

2533
02:09:40,480 --> 02:09:41,080
Speaker 2: That's really good.

2534
02:09:41,160 --> 02:09:42,880
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like we all when whoever

2535
02:09:43,040 --> 02:09:46,360
Speaker 1: we read the whoever you read like adoption stories, it's

2536
02:09:46,360 --> 02:09:49,560
Speaker 1: really cool to hear like when is the right time

2537
02:09:50,120 --> 02:09:52,040
Speaker 1: and how initially? And I feel like that's a really

2538
02:09:52,160 --> 02:09:55,760
Speaker 1: that's a good mantra. Okay, So your sister's going through

2539
02:09:55,800 --> 02:10:01,920
Speaker 1: a crisis about being adopted, all right, And so my mom.

2540
02:10:01,920 --> 02:10:03,360
Speaker 5: Ended up locking her out of the house because she

2541
02:10:03,520 --> 02:10:06,200
Speaker 5: just kept it being so explosive on her, but then

2542
02:10:06,240 --> 02:10:08,640
Speaker 5: would still allow her teas her heart tub in the

2543
02:10:08,680 --> 02:10:10,560
Speaker 5: backyard one night.

2544
02:10:10,720 --> 02:10:13,240
Speaker 1: So lock out of the house, but hot tub. Wait,

2545
02:10:13,440 --> 02:10:14,120
Speaker 1: awkward Turtle.

2546
02:10:14,160 --> 02:10:20,480
Speaker 2: Once we're there's no volume on these speakers. Echo. Oh

2547
02:10:20,560 --> 02:10:25,320
Speaker 2: it's on that one now, we got it, turtle? Are

2548
02:10:25,360 --> 02:10:27,000
Speaker 2: you talking about there?

2549
02:10:27,040 --> 02:10:27,240
Speaker 4: It is?

2550
02:10:27,360 --> 02:10:29,280
Speaker 2: Okay, we're good. I think we're good.

2551
02:10:29,920 --> 02:10:36,680
Speaker 1: Yes, one more time, thank you? Okay, yeah, I think

2552
02:10:37,080 --> 02:10:37,680
Speaker 1: I think we're good.

2553
02:10:37,720 --> 02:10:37,840
Speaker 3: Now.

2554
02:10:37,920 --> 02:10:42,760
Speaker 1: I think we're good now okay, so key, we were

2555
02:10:42,840 --> 02:10:43,920
Speaker 1: like this.

2556
02:10:44,000 --> 02:10:46,200
Speaker 2: Story is going to be amazing, and we were just panicking.

2557
02:10:46,240 --> 02:10:47,600
Speaker 2: We're like, oh my god, we're gonna have the echo

2558
02:10:47,680 --> 02:10:49,320
Speaker 2: of death on the on the.

2559
02:10:49,320 --> 02:10:52,560
Speaker 1: Stream and hopefully now Awkward Turtle will be without echo.

2560
02:10:52,800 --> 02:10:58,200
Speaker 1: So last we left our hero, her sister is freaking

2561
02:10:58,240 --> 02:11:00,920
Speaker 1: out because of adoption, which makes no because they were

2562
02:11:00,960 --> 02:11:04,840
Speaker 1: all told about being adopted at a age appropriate ways

2563
02:11:04,920 --> 02:11:07,240
Speaker 1: being said, no, you weren't given up, you were given

2564
02:11:07,440 --> 02:11:10,120
Speaker 1: a chance, and your parents were like, I'm not dealing

2565
02:11:10,160 --> 02:11:13,200
Speaker 1: with all this crazy drama. So I'm going to throw

2566
02:11:13,240 --> 02:11:17,640
Speaker 1: you guys like her out because she's she's being being

2567
02:11:17,720 --> 02:11:20,240
Speaker 1: too too much. But you still get to use the

2568
02:11:20,280 --> 02:11:22,520
Speaker 1: hot tub, but as long as you stay outside. Okay,

2569
02:11:22,880 --> 02:11:25,320
Speaker 1: I'm caught up, correct.

2570
02:11:26,000 --> 02:11:30,360
Speaker 5: So she really just wants to get into the house.

2571
02:11:30,600 --> 02:11:32,640
Speaker 5: And she used to be really built like a model,

2572
02:11:32,760 --> 02:11:35,640
Speaker 5: Like she's really tall, super skinny, And so she squeezed

2573
02:11:35,640 --> 02:11:38,480
Speaker 5: herself through the cat door and just started yelling and

2574
02:11:38,480 --> 02:11:39,240
Speaker 5: screaming at my mom.

2575
02:11:39,760 --> 02:11:42,720
Speaker 2: And it was Christmas Eve, and did she get stuck?

2576
02:11:42,800 --> 02:11:43,160
Speaker 4: She had to.

2577
02:11:44,880 --> 02:11:46,400
Speaker 5: The second time this year.

2578
02:11:47,080 --> 02:11:49,760
Speaker 2: She's right. So the first time she got in and

2579
02:11:50,000 --> 02:11:53,640
Speaker 2: was like, you think this door can hold me? I

2580
02:11:53,760 --> 02:11:55,560
Speaker 2: will now be screaming at you mother.

2581
02:11:55,880 --> 02:11:58,840
Speaker 1: She takes the model cat walk to a whole new level.

2582
02:11:59,120 --> 02:12:04,720
Speaker 1: Yeah that's the cat It's like your parents pull her

2583
02:12:04,760 --> 02:12:05,680
Speaker 1: out or anything or no.

2584
02:12:07,360 --> 02:12:11,360
Speaker 5: So that was five years ago. She's built like a model.

2585
02:12:11,680 --> 02:12:14,400
Speaker 5: She makes it through the cat door and just ransom

2586
02:12:14,480 --> 02:12:17,720
Speaker 5: raves up by our mom, and then this year we

2587
02:12:18,440 --> 02:12:20,120
Speaker 5: she was like, I want to come back into the fold,

2588
02:12:20,200 --> 02:12:22,480
Speaker 5: but then disagreed about when we are going to do Thanksgiving,

2589
02:12:23,920 --> 02:12:26,480
Speaker 5: So she decides to try and pull the cat door

2590
02:12:26,560 --> 02:12:26,960
Speaker 5: thing again.

2591
02:12:28,320 --> 02:12:30,040
Speaker 2: Tried method for her.

2592
02:12:31,480 --> 02:12:32,520
Speaker 4: Because she's not built like.

2593
02:12:32,520 --> 02:12:41,280
Speaker 5: A model anymore. Five years later and she gets.

2594
02:12:42,640 --> 02:12:54,040
Speaker 2: Like all together, all right, Well no, so she.

2595
02:12:56,240 --> 02:12:59,240
Speaker 5: She went no contact for a long time, and then

2596
02:13:00,000 --> 02:13:02,840
Speaker 5: my mom has this big health issue, so we were

2597
02:13:02,880 --> 02:13:04,800
Speaker 5: trying to get her to come back in, but then

2598
02:13:05,000 --> 02:13:08,400
Speaker 5: she just went explosive about Thanksgiving because we weren't going

2599
02:13:08,440 --> 02:13:09,920
Speaker 5: to do it exactly the way she wanted to do

2600
02:13:10,000 --> 02:13:13,040
Speaker 5: it because it wouldn't work for anybody but her, And

2601
02:13:13,320 --> 02:13:17,040
Speaker 5: so she blocks all of us and just goes completely

2602
02:13:17,120 --> 02:13:23,400
Speaker 5: nuclear and just tells us we're all terrible people. And

2603
02:13:23,880 --> 02:13:28,320
Speaker 5: so then after she blocks everybody, she's like, everybody's ignoring me,

2604
02:13:28,400 --> 02:13:30,440
Speaker 5: and we're just like, we can't talk to you because

2605
02:13:30,440 --> 02:13:35,120
Speaker 5: you blocked us everywhere. So she goes and tries to

2606
02:13:35,160 --> 02:13:36,840
Speaker 5: get into my mom's house to yell and scream at

2607
02:13:36,840 --> 02:13:39,720
Speaker 5: her again, but gets stuck in the cat door because

2608
02:13:39,720 --> 02:13:41,120
Speaker 5: she's not as skinny as she once was.

2609
02:13:42,800 --> 02:13:44,960
Speaker 1: Well, I guess kind of serves her a little bit

2610
02:13:45,360 --> 02:13:49,360
Speaker 1: right and hopefully uh, hopefully she learns from mistakes at

2611
02:13:49,400 --> 02:13:49,840
Speaker 1: some point.

2612
02:13:50,040 --> 02:13:54,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, well of all the fire department and get

2613
02:13:54,360 --> 02:14:00,280
Speaker 5: her pulled back. You just out of her door, out

2614
02:14:01,360 --> 02:14:02,520
Speaker 5: of the cat door.

2615
02:14:02,960 --> 02:14:07,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, way, well didn't So wait did

2616
02:14:07,800 --> 02:14:10,280
Speaker 2: she have to fix the door? Like? Did she.

2617
02:14:12,560 --> 02:14:12,760
Speaker 5: Never?

2618
02:14:13,920 --> 02:14:14,080
Speaker 3: Well?

2619
02:14:14,160 --> 02:14:16,520
Speaker 5: Like, yeah, there's like a big hole now there.

2620
02:14:19,320 --> 02:14:23,640
Speaker 2: And she's like, I again, indefinitely have fun with this

2621
02:14:23,760 --> 02:14:27,760
Speaker 2: new hole in your door. Adopted parents who I have

2622
02:14:28,040 --> 02:14:29,600
Speaker 2: carab out and have don't I guess I don't know.

2623
02:14:30,680 --> 02:14:35,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, well out And she went to the hospital to

2624
02:14:35,040 --> 02:14:36,800
Speaker 5: get the cat door taken off.

2625
02:14:37,400 --> 02:14:39,040
Speaker 1: But what a weird hospitals?

2626
02:14:39,600 --> 02:14:41,760
Speaker 2: Wait wait, they cut her out of the door, and

2627
02:14:41,880 --> 02:14:43,920
Speaker 2: she went to the hospital to get the cat door

2628
02:14:44,000 --> 02:14:49,720
Speaker 2: taken off of her? Yeah? Is it? Are we allowed

2629
02:14:49,800 --> 02:14:52,080
Speaker 2: to ask what they did? Is that break some sort

2630
02:14:52,120 --> 02:14:54,520
Speaker 2: of hippo law? Did they just like grease her up

2631
02:14:54,520 --> 02:14:56,600
Speaker 2: with a bunch of butter and like slide her out?

2632
02:14:56,680 --> 02:14:58,000
Speaker 4: I'm not sure.

2633
02:14:59,720 --> 02:15:00,560
Speaker 5: That my theory.

2634
02:15:00,640 --> 02:15:02,480
Speaker 2: That's my theory right now. Well, the thing is now

2635
02:15:02,560 --> 02:15:04,000
Speaker 2: she can get in much easier.

2636
02:15:04,760 --> 02:15:05,240
Speaker 5: She loved.

2637
02:15:05,280 --> 02:15:09,120
Speaker 2: That's that's a problem though. You got to make sure

2638
02:15:09,560 --> 02:15:11,720
Speaker 2: now that the cat door is big enough for it

2639
02:15:11,760 --> 02:15:15,800
Speaker 2: seems like a wide variety of including your sister.

2640
02:15:17,200 --> 02:15:20,240
Speaker 1: Battened down the hatchet. God, well, awkward turtle, thank you

2641
02:15:20,360 --> 02:15:22,280
Speaker 1: so much for calling in. We appreciate you.

2642
02:15:23,200 --> 02:15:25,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely, gut you guys on the stream.

2643
02:15:26,240 --> 02:15:32,200
Speaker 2: Hey, thank you, awkward turtle. Awkward turtle. Wow, oh my.

2644
02:15:32,240 --> 02:15:35,040
Speaker 1: God, that's hilarious. That was really. I wasn't expecting her

2645
02:15:35,120 --> 02:15:37,160
Speaker 1: to actually get like fully stuck. I thought she just

2646
02:15:37,200 --> 02:15:39,920
Speaker 1: got temporarily stuck and like tried to pull her.

2647
02:15:40,680 --> 02:15:42,480
Speaker 4: I missed all of that because I was trying to order.

2648
02:15:43,400 --> 02:15:47,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, luckily, thank you guys for telling us that

2649
02:15:47,440 --> 02:15:48,720
Speaker 1: we were muted.

2650
02:15:48,880 --> 02:15:53,200
Speaker 2: We appreciate unike because Sophia hasn't eaten enough dirt. Yeah,

2651
02:15:53,920 --> 02:15:56,440
Speaker 2: so she was trying to she was trying to order

2652
02:15:56,520 --> 02:15:59,120
Speaker 2: another giant shovel full of dirt?

2653
02:15:59,680 --> 02:16:00,680
Speaker 4: Are a good order?

2654
02:16:01,200 --> 02:16:03,560
Speaker 2: Well yeah, look here, I'll do it now. Yeah.

2655
02:16:03,920 --> 02:16:07,080
Speaker 4: No, I was trying to mute my mic so that

2656
02:16:07,200 --> 02:16:09,880
Speaker 4: it wouldn't echo, But then I muted the one that

2657
02:16:09,960 --> 02:16:12,560
Speaker 4: says Sophia. But that one is sam.

2658
02:16:12,720 --> 02:16:15,160
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's a classic. You can't pay attention to

2659
02:16:15,240 --> 02:16:17,520
Speaker 2: any of those now, Yeah, that was I even know

2660
02:16:17,680 --> 02:16:18,320
Speaker 2: that Sophia.

2661
02:16:18,520 --> 02:16:20,400
Speaker 4: Okay, I was ordering food.

2662
02:16:20,680 --> 02:16:23,440
Speaker 2: I know, I like I said, she hasn't look guys,

2663
02:16:23,600 --> 02:16:27,640
Speaker 2: can you go in tight on me? Please? What Sophia

2664
02:16:27,720 --> 02:16:32,480
Speaker 2: hasn't had enough dirt? She's the worm queen, And when

2665
02:16:32,520 --> 02:16:35,800
Speaker 2: the queen doesn't have enough dirt, sometimes your brain goes

2666
02:16:35,800 --> 02:16:43,959
Speaker 2: a little. Uh. I'm sorry that felt condescending. No, it's okay,

2667
02:16:44,240 --> 02:16:45,160
Speaker 2: but it's true.

2668
02:16:45,400 --> 02:16:49,000
Speaker 4: Actually, while Sam's ordering it, I think we were Sam

2669
02:16:49,200 --> 02:16:51,840
Speaker 4: Dacota and I got we got some breakfast the other

2670
02:16:51,920 --> 02:16:56,520
Speaker 4: morning and we, yeah, hangout, I know what you're talking about.

2671
02:16:57,120 --> 02:17:03,680
Speaker 3: Were straight and I was really in my head and

2672
02:17:03,800 --> 02:17:08,760
Speaker 3: I was going, there is the car.

2673
02:17:08,879 --> 02:17:14,640
Speaker 2: Just I literally like Sophia, literally the vibe of you

2674
02:17:14,800 --> 02:17:17,880
Speaker 2: walking around is like me and Sam or your parents.

2675
02:17:17,959 --> 02:17:20,720
Speaker 2: And but so you had like your like striped shirt,

2676
02:17:20,800 --> 02:17:22,400
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, like you were dressed to go

2677
02:17:22,480 --> 02:17:23,160
Speaker 2: to your first day.

2678
02:17:24,360 --> 02:17:27,760
Speaker 1: It was more meta than that because Sophia, Sophia was

2679
02:17:27,800 --> 02:17:31,080
Speaker 1: talking about like, yeah, I never pay attention. I'm always like.

2680
02:17:33,320 --> 02:17:38,120
Speaker 2: That proceeds to almost get hit by a car. There

2681
02:17:38,200 --> 02:17:40,600
Speaker 2: was just something about it. I don't know what it was.

2682
02:17:40,760 --> 02:17:46,879
Speaker 2: It was and it's not like the backpack like Alicia. True, dude,

2683
02:17:47,240 --> 02:17:49,720
Speaker 2: you know exactly that moment I'm talking about, though, were

2684
02:17:49,879 --> 02:17:52,480
Speaker 2: something about the way you were walking, and like the

2685
02:17:52,600 --> 02:17:55,360
Speaker 2: fact that you you had like a very color block

2686
02:17:55,440 --> 02:17:57,760
Speaker 2: shirt on. So to be clear, Sophia, you don't look

2687
02:17:57,840 --> 02:17:58,720
Speaker 2: like you're in first.

2688
02:17:58,560 --> 02:17:59,039
Speaker 1: Grade, Noye.

2689
02:17:59,120 --> 02:18:02,880
Speaker 2: I was wearing it atrip. We're very much like l

2690
02:18:03,120 --> 02:18:07,640
Speaker 2: L and like very much like Sophia, don't walk around

2691
02:18:07,680 --> 02:18:10,120
Speaker 2: the corner. Remember, you have to stay within our eyesight.

2692
02:18:10,720 --> 02:18:13,320
Speaker 1: No, no, don't go on the street like Dakota and

2693
02:18:13,360 --> 02:18:16,840
Speaker 1: I were like walking back a little bit behind, being like,

2694
02:18:17,080 --> 02:18:19,880
Speaker 1: we're just like I was so proud of her. Look

2695
02:18:19,920 --> 02:18:21,160
Speaker 1: at her walking off by her.

2696
02:18:21,520 --> 02:18:24,480
Speaker 2: We're giving her a little taste of independence today. Yeah,

2697
02:18:24,560 --> 02:18:28,200
Speaker 2: it's which is important in a child and make their

2698
02:18:28,200 --> 02:18:28,880
Speaker 2: own decisions.

2699
02:18:29,400 --> 02:18:31,160
Speaker 1: How is she going to run a stream one day?

2700
02:18:31,480 --> 02:18:34,440
Speaker 2: She can't walk on her own? Oh no, she's walking

2701
02:18:34,480 --> 02:18:35,240
Speaker 2: in front of car.

2702
02:18:38,520 --> 02:18:41,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was funny. And then we went and went

2703
02:18:41,640 --> 02:18:45,280
Speaker 1: to there's like a little like community garden thing around

2704
02:18:45,879 --> 02:18:49,360
Speaker 1: the corner with a chameleon inside. Yes, and we talked

2705
02:18:49,400 --> 02:18:51,240
Speaker 1: at the chameleon guy. It was great, Yeah, and.

2706
02:18:51,320 --> 02:18:53,480
Speaker 2: He was like, there's a chameleon in there, but we

2707
02:18:53,560 --> 02:18:54,320
Speaker 2: don't know where he is.

2708
02:18:55,800 --> 02:18:57,680
Speaker 1: But we got the joos before we go into this

2709
02:18:57,840 --> 02:19:00,920
Speaker 1: next story. Karina Smith, thanks the five bucks. I'm not

2710
02:19:01,240 --> 02:19:03,920
Speaker 1: silent at the autocorrect on this sucks body.

2711
02:19:04,080 --> 02:19:07,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I saw a donation, came in and said

2712
02:19:08,040 --> 02:19:11,960
Speaker 2: thank you for your donation. It was like, oh, you

2713
02:19:12,040 --> 02:19:13,520
Speaker 2: know what it was that one. It was the one

2714
02:19:13,560 --> 02:19:14,959
Speaker 2: for ten bucks above mgmings.

2715
02:19:15,240 --> 02:19:17,640
Speaker 1: Kareema Smith, thank you again for the ten bucks, even

2716
02:19:17,680 --> 02:19:19,880
Speaker 1: the silent one, and make me thanks for the two

2717
02:19:20,080 --> 02:19:24,200
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty Philippino besos. First Christmas, I won't be

2718
02:19:24,280 --> 02:19:27,000
Speaker 1: spending with my sister in Canada as she's now in Canada.

2719
02:19:27,040 --> 02:19:29,080
Speaker 1: Shout out to my sister. If you ever start watching

2720
02:19:29,160 --> 02:19:31,880
Speaker 1: my favorite channel, I love you and I miss you

2721
02:19:32,000 --> 02:19:34,080
Speaker 1: so much. Start watching the channel.

2722
02:19:34,959 --> 02:19:41,800
Speaker 2: Yes, and I have to do the Prime. That's my

2723
02:19:41,920 --> 02:19:43,960
Speaker 2: one of my favorite videos on the Internet of all time.

2724
02:19:44,320 --> 02:19:46,280
Speaker 2: If Kean is here, he know exactly what I was doing.

2725
02:19:46,480 --> 02:19:48,880
Speaker 2: What that is it's a it's someone on, it's there's

2726
02:19:48,920 --> 02:19:51,800
Speaker 2: a well, okay, let's trying to an astrologer.

2727
02:19:52,160 --> 02:19:54,440
Speaker 1: Thanks for being a memver. Fixed six months I send

2728
02:19:54,480 --> 02:19:59,840
Speaker 1: something on Discord. Hope you uh well are well. Hope

2729
02:19:59,879 --> 02:20:02,960
Speaker 1: you all are well. Take care always, Kenny Boy thanks

2730
02:20:03,000 --> 02:20:04,720
Speaker 1: for becoming a member for the ninth and a banana.

2731
02:20:04,760 --> 02:20:06,520
Speaker 1: Thanks for being a member for nine months. Hi, I

2732
02:20:06,560 --> 02:20:08,440
Speaker 1: hope you guys are doing well and those going through

2733
02:20:08,520 --> 02:20:11,640
Speaker 1: tough times in any way, I hope you get some

2734
02:20:11,800 --> 02:20:16,080
Speaker 1: relief on here or heal AQ. Thanks for being a

2735
02:20:16,120 --> 02:20:21,200
Speaker 1: member for eight months and enjoying the energy today who energy,

2736
02:20:21,320 --> 02:20:24,120
Speaker 1: Hi baby and Chris Tin for all I have to

2737
02:20:24,640 --> 02:20:29,400
Speaker 1: say it again, gifted ten Okay Storytime memberships. We appreciate you, Ken,

2738
02:20:29,760 --> 02:20:32,520
Speaker 1: Caitlin Man Dono, thanks for the two bucks. My six

2739
02:20:32,600 --> 02:20:36,440
Speaker 1: month old Jim keeps lunging for Sam. Love Sophia too.

2740
02:20:36,760 --> 02:20:39,320
Speaker 1: Let's go Jim mix mix. Thanks to the five bucks.

2741
02:20:39,360 --> 02:20:43,039
Speaker 1: A big brother vibe so hard today? Yeah, yeah, it's

2742
02:20:43,240 --> 02:20:45,480
Speaker 1: it's been. It's been fun. Sophia and I have our

2743
02:20:45,560 --> 02:20:48,960
Speaker 1: like morning coffee dates. It's pretty great. Do we got

2744
02:20:48,959 --> 02:20:50,520
Speaker 1: anything on the Dono link?

2745
02:20:51,240 --> 02:20:53,160
Speaker 2: We just keep it getting. They just keep floating.

2746
02:20:54,560 --> 02:20:57,240
Speaker 1: Nine next ce Nixxi, thanks for the ten bucks. Have

2747
02:20:57,280 --> 02:21:01,040
Speaker 1: you all considered reading the goofy conspears. She's on Reddit

2748
02:21:01,160 --> 02:21:04,320
Speaker 1: for some real tinfoil hot action. Don't tell Riley that

2749
02:21:04,560 --> 02:21:07,599
Speaker 1: because he will be on that. He wants to reconspiracies,

2750
02:21:07,760 --> 02:21:10,359
Speaker 1: so bad. Also, is it okay if I draw anyone

2751
02:21:10,720 --> 02:21:13,840
Speaker 1: or everyone? I saw a fan art channel was archived

2752
02:21:13,920 --> 02:21:16,160
Speaker 1: on Discord. I think there's still an art channel, so

2753
02:21:17,080 --> 02:21:18,520
Speaker 1: put it in there. But yeah, you could draw us.

2754
02:21:18,520 --> 02:21:19,040
Speaker 1: I'd be awesome.

2755
02:21:19,080 --> 02:21:20,680
Speaker 4: I save all of the drawings of me.

2756
02:21:21,000 --> 02:21:23,360
Speaker 1: It's true, Sarah Francis, thanks for being a member of

2757
02:21:23,400 --> 02:21:27,280
Speaker 1: five Months. Happy early Christmas. Hope everyone has a good one. Hannah,

2758
02:21:28,879 --> 02:21:30,240
Speaker 1: we read your chat.

2759
02:21:30,320 --> 02:21:30,560
Speaker 2: Is there?

2760
02:21:30,760 --> 02:21:33,440
Speaker 1: Can we again again? Thanks for the fifty bucks and

2761
02:21:33,440 --> 02:21:34,040
Speaker 1: I hope you're well.

2762
02:21:35,360 --> 02:21:36,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, feeling better?

2763
02:21:36,879 --> 02:21:40,720
Speaker 1: Uh. I don't know why, but Sama Dakota are starting

2764
02:21:40,760 --> 02:21:41,440
Speaker 1: to look alike.

2765
02:21:44,120 --> 02:21:44,480
Speaker 3: We don't know.

2766
02:21:44,640 --> 02:21:47,560
Speaker 2: I feel like you've got like the narrow got like

2767
02:21:47,680 --> 02:21:52,240
Speaker 2: the narrow face, narrow got the horse like face. Yeah.

2768
02:21:52,240 --> 02:21:54,640
Speaker 2: I have a very water horse water horse, you know.

2769
02:21:55,200 --> 02:22:00,000
Speaker 1: I try to live up to my waterhorse brethren waterhorse too.

2770
02:22:00,760 --> 02:22:03,119
Speaker 2: When can I win? Waterhorse? Do win?

2771
02:22:05,200 --> 02:22:05,560
Speaker 1: Alright?

2772
02:22:05,959 --> 02:22:09,360
Speaker 2: Shout out to all the lovely babies who know about waterhorse. Yeah, Uh,

2773
02:22:11,040 --> 02:22:13,000
Speaker 2: let's get into this next story. Yeah, let's get into

2774
02:22:13,000 --> 02:22:13,520
Speaker 2: this next story.

2775
02:22:13,600 --> 02:22:17,040
Speaker 1: I think my let's view is not letting me view.

2776
02:22:20,440 --> 02:22:21,880
Speaker 2: You know, I really wish I had my phone on

2777
02:22:22,040 --> 02:22:26,280
Speaker 2: me to to one show off and then also to

2778
02:22:26,680 --> 02:22:28,960
Speaker 2: to prove to everyone who accused me.

2779
02:22:29,440 --> 02:22:30,240
Speaker 1: Can you see if that works?

2780
02:22:30,360 --> 02:22:30,720
Speaker 2: I can't.

2781
02:22:30,760 --> 02:22:32,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, but yeah there is.

2782
02:22:35,440 --> 02:22:39,879
Speaker 1: This uh September Davidson. Thank you for your donation.

2783
02:22:41,360 --> 02:22:43,720
Speaker 2: That's what it is. Thank you for your donation.

2784
02:22:45,160 --> 02:22:49,440
Speaker 1: September Davidson. All right, we got in to this next story.

2785
02:22:49,920 --> 02:22:52,880
Speaker 1: Buckle in, Buckle up, butter cups, because we're about to

2786
02:22:52,959 --> 02:22:53,440
Speaker 1: go what.

2787
02:22:54,000 --> 02:22:55,600
Speaker 4: I got to stop the recording and started so that

2788
02:22:55,680 --> 02:22:57,439
Speaker 4: we can all right, Okay.

2789
02:22:57,240 --> 02:22:58,960
Speaker 1: Nicole says, read the story.

2790
02:22:59,360 --> 02:22:59,800
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

2791
02:23:00,120 --> 02:23:02,160
Speaker 1: We're trying, but Sophia.

2792
02:23:02,040 --> 02:23:02,560
Speaker 4: I'm ready.

2793
02:23:02,600 --> 02:23:06,840
Speaker 1: We're saying no, no, no, okay, are you ready?

2794
02:23:07,600 --> 02:23:08,080
Speaker 2: I'm ready