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Speaker 1: Courses of this program.

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Speaker 2: We're pre recorded one of the most listening to.

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Speaker 3: Your top forty morning radio shows in the country. Elvis

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Speaker 3: Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: You're a very, very funny guy. I've been listening here

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Speaker 4: in New York for a long time.

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Speaker 5: Say hello to Elvis Duran.

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Speaker 3: Is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show? So much to do?

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Speaker 6: I don't go anywhere because this is going to be

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Speaker 6: just groundbreaking radio. This is going to be entered into

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Speaker 6: the Radio Broadcast Hall of Fame. I can tell you

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Speaker 6: our friend Jamie or she works down the hall and

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Speaker 6: rides in with Gandhi every morning.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, she picks me up every day. We ride to

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Speaker 7: work every.

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Speaker 6: Day to yees, I do so, I guess on that

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Speaker 6: rides at work, even though you're still half asleep, you

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Speaker 6: still talk a lot about your lives, and this is

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Speaker 6: that we.

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Speaker 8: Talk about as we cram a lot in yep.

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Speaker 6: Right, so let's start with let's start with the roommate situation. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 6: so you live with two guys, right, I live.

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Speaker 8: With two guys, which I love because I think I

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Speaker 8: get along better with men.

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Speaker 3: So it's fine.

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Speaker 4: I get it.

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Speaker 3: I get it.

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Speaker 8: So I took myself off all the dating apps, and

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Speaker 8: I decided if something came up in real life, I

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Speaker 8: would go for it.

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Speaker 7: So it did.

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Speaker 8: This guy was on my Instagram and we have mutual friends,

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Speaker 8: so I got his number. I reached out and I

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Speaker 8: texted him and it was only the second time we

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Speaker 8: were texting, and we talked about our living situations and

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Speaker 8: I said something about Tom and he goes, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 8: what you have a mill room? I said, yeah, I

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Speaker 8: have two, and he basically insinuated, am I doing them?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 3: No, exactly what was it? He said? Are you with them?

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Speaker 8: He goes, Jackpot, you're a knockout. He goes, are you

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Speaker 8: doing them both? And I'm like I was like, I.

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Speaker 7: Was like, wait what I said?

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Speaker 8: They're like my brothers. Absolutely not. He goes, I'm sure

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Speaker 8: they wouldn't kick you out. I said, but it's not

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Speaker 8: like that. He goes, are they straight? I go yeah?

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Speaker 8: He goes, what am I missing here? You got to

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Speaker 8: set a twig and berries or something? He said to

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Speaker 8: me the second time we're texting.

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Speaker 6: Okay, here, let me just tell you that's not the story,

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Speaker 6: Gandhi told us. Gandhi walked in and said these words, Hey,

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Speaker 6: so Jamie is two guy mate. So a guy that

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Speaker 6: she was thinking about dating asked if she's doing him,

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Speaker 6: and she got really upset.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, well I was offended.

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Speaker 6: Why I know, but the things you're saying he said

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Speaker 6: were kind of creepy, don't you think?

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Speaker 3: Gandhy?

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Speaker 7: So here's what I think, Okay, based on the way

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Speaker 7: that she told me the conversation happened, I think this

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Speaker 7: guy was trying to joke around with her and in

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Speaker 7: a flattering way, be like, oh my god, how can

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Speaker 7: hook up with you when you're so hot. I think

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Speaker 7: he probably didn't deliver it well and he didn't expect

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Speaker 7: the conversation to go in the direction it ended up going.

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Speaker 7: When Jamie got triggered, right.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but you she thinks you were really triggered and

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Speaker 8: Well, see, well this is what happened. So yeah, so

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Speaker 8: I didn't like, I have a really great sense of humor.

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Speaker 8: I'm not offended easily. If we had some type of rapport,

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Speaker 8: I wouldn't probably have laughed at that, But he was

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Speaker 8: second time we texted, so I slept on it. The

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Speaker 8: next day, he wrote good morning, and I took like

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Speaker 8: six hours to write him back, and I wrote, hey,

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Speaker 8: I was just looking back at her text, and I said,

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Speaker 8: really asking me if I'm doing my roommates and I

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Speaker 8: have twigging berries. I said, do better, good luck.

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Speaker 7: She also said I'm disappointed.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 8: I said, I'm disappointed in your behavior for your first impression. Wow,

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Speaker 8: and here what I beg your pardon? And then immediately

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Speaker 8: he blocked me on Facebook, Instagram and my phone number.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, so he goes a little extreme. So you

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Speaker 3: so Gandhi feels you over you overreacting.

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Speaker 7: So I told her I think he was messing around

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Speaker 3: Me blocked, and I said goodbye basically.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Also, if I had just met somebody and they got

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Speaker 7: they go off on me and they're like, do better,

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Speaker 7: I'm disappointed, I'd be like, who the hell are you?

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Speaker 3: I would say goodbye to if I was him, I

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Speaker 8: Friend that gave us our phone each other's phone numbers,

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Speaker 8: said to him before, Hey, she's kind of hesitant in

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Speaker 8: And then this is his literally go to the second time.

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Speaker 3: Right, so that you're history.

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Speaker 7: Yes, so yeah, this is what I attract.

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Speaker 8: I can't help, but this is just who I am.

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Speaker 7: I could be wrong.

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Speaker 10: I don't know this is what happened.

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Speaker 3: We don't know the guy.

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Speaker 6: But he could have just had what he thought was

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Speaker 6: a sense of humor, and he could there could.

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Speaker 3: Be a lot of good you just flushed.

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Speaker 8: Goodbye, Okay, good bye.

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Speaker 7: Because if I was thinking if I just met a guy,

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Speaker 7: no matter how I met him, and then I found

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Speaker 7: out he lived with two girls, I would be like, oh,

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Speaker 7: you look up with these girls, what's going on there?

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Speaker 7: I think it's just a natural question to ask somebody

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Speaker 7: when that comes up. Now, right out at all gate?

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Speaker 7: What maybe not right out of the gate, we'll seund trashy.

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Speaker 6: Some people don't wait until you're more comfortable with each

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Speaker 6: other with each other to horse around, because it's just

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Speaker 6: you know, time is fleeting.

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Speaker 3: Let's get to the point. Oh so you're sleeping with

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Speaker 8: And it's like your twenty seven is in the word

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Speaker 8: twig and berries.

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Speaker 3: That's too abrupt.

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Speaker 6: I mean twig berries is asking you if you had

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what's that name?

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Speaker 11: I think the twigg and berries was a little extreme. However,

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Speaker 11: I'm like Gandhi, I would have asked if you're hooking

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Speaker 3: So it's just instantly awkward across the board. Okay, but

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Speaker 7: That's what really I get the question.

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Speaker 8: But he took it too far with the male parts, Okay, right,

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Speaker 8: he should have stopped before the twig and berries.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I'd agree with that.

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Speaker 7: I think he was still just trying to double down though,

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Speaker 7: and say, like, you're so attractive. The only reason they

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Speaker 7: you have twigg and berries. I think he wasn't funny,

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Speaker 7: and he was trying to be funny.

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Speaker 8: Clearly an idiot but my favorite.

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Speaker 7: So he blocked her on all these things, right, and

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Speaker 7: then she went and blocked him back.

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Speaker 8: I I, well, I just think the fact that he

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Speaker 3: Okay, I see, I see her.

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Speaker 6: The most offensive thing I see happening here is him

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Speaker 3: I get yeah, I know, okay.

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Speaker 8: And if he followed me, I would totally get it.

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Speaker 8: But to black me, it's like, well you can't handle

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Speaker 8: any criticism.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, goodbye. I get it.

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Speaker 8: When I said disappointed, that was his trigger. He couldn't

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Speaker 3: Disappointment is disappointment.

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Speaker 8: We'll see what else.

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Speaker 6: The whole point of this conversation, by the way, was

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Speaker 6: early this morning. Gandhi says, Oh, I don't know. Jamie

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Speaker 3: That's what you said, she told.

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Speaker 7: We had an open conversation.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I was laughing while we have you here. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but I'm gonna bring this up.

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Speaker 6: So downstairs on the sidewalk in from from a building,

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Speaker 6: is it's a food cart there.

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Speaker 3: Every day we're going here. You don't have to stop

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Speaker 8: Now you can go for it.

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Speaker 3: So about five years ago you dated or hooked up

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Speaker 3: more like cooking it. You hooked up with a guy

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Speaker 8: The coffee cart guy's son.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, the coffee cart guy started and he sometimes works

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Speaker 6: the coffee car too, he does. So that was five

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Speaker 8: Well, I started to well, he hadn't been there for years,

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Speaker 8: I said to gand and I'm like, oh my god.

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Speaker 8: We had to go around the building. She's like, would

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Speaker 8: I literally parked a different way and made her go

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Speaker 8: around the building. But then one day it did backfire

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Speaker 8: because we didn't see him. We always try to peek

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Speaker 8: But then one day it backfired and we got up

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Speaker 8: to the cart and there he was. Yep, And it

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Speaker 8: was really awkward. Wasn't it she was there.

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Speaker 7: It was a little often it was like, hey, he's

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Speaker 7: in the cart, just walk It was just yeah, So

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Speaker 7: I love.

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Speaker 6: It how people and I've done this before, by the way,

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Speaker 6: I just laughed and a booker came out on our bo.

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Speaker 6: Have you ever changed your daily routine just because you

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Speaker 6: need to avoid a hookup?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's awesome. Oh yes she has. And she almost

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Speaker 7: made me change my routine too because I stop by it.

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Speaker 7: They hided them every day and like get something in

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Speaker 7: the cart. And the best part, Jamie, if she's caught

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Speaker 7: off guard, is not the smoothest right. So we're coming

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Speaker 7: around the corner and she sees him in the cart

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Speaker 7: and she freezes, but it's still with an earshot of

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Speaker 7: the cart and she screaming from the corner and I

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Speaker 7: can't wis what do I do?

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Speaker 3: Where I go?

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Speaker 7: I can't do her.

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Speaker 6: She's like, just go walk around the backska wait a second?

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Speaker 3: Hold on.

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Speaker 6: So here's the point, you have changed your daily routine.

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Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying, He doesn't, but where he

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry, Hi, it's over.

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Speaker 8: With me and a guy like I block you, I

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Speaker 8: It's like you didn't exist, you know.

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Speaker 6: But you know what hookups can be, just that it's

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Speaker 8: Not close friends, no, but sometimes uncomfortable friends. Yeah, uncomfortable friends.

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Speaker 6: It's so wild because I have many friends who I've

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Speaker 3: It's like who cares?

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Speaker 8: The thing is they always bring it up and talk

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Speaker 3: All right anyway. So that's our friend, Jamie. I can't

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Speaker 7: I love Jamie's favorite.

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Speaker 6: You can also hear Jamie on Walkers and Talkers with

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Speaker 8: Thank you yes on Instagram. All right, we love you, Jamie,

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Speaker 3: Get out of here. Okay, stop walking an entire city

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Speaker 8: Avoid going to stop draggon Gandhi around a different way.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, No, it's kind of funny.

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Speaker 3: Just walk by and own the world because because you

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Speaker 3: know what, at the end of the day, you're fabulous.

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Speaker 7: Thank you. And this guy is cute. I gotta be honest.

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Speaker 6: He's a cute coffee card guy. I never I have

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Speaker 12: Okay, this is Elvis Duran in the morning show, Diamond.

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Speaker 4: How is your weekend?

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Speaker 7: My weekend was great?

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Speaker 3: Talk about it.

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Speaker 13: So I started a photo booth business with my cousin

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Speaker 13: and thanks, okay, and we had our first event and

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Speaker 13: it was a wedding. And I didn't know that weddings

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 6: Absolutely, you just have to kind of you make up

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Speaker 6: their stories in your mind. Right, So did you notice

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Speaker 6: usually when you do a wedding, like catering or a

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Speaker 3: Well, what did you isn't weird that you're talking about

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Okay, go ahead.

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Speaker 13: So this guy comes up to the booth and we

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Speaker 7: He picks up a prop.

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Speaker 13: I'm not paying attention to what what the sign says,

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Speaker 13: like which one he picked? He's taking pictures. A woman

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Speaker 13: She goes, what are you doing with that?

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Speaker 2: Give it to me?

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Speaker 13: Give it here, sticks her hand out. I look at

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Speaker 13: the prop. It's a single and available. Jesus almost melts.

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Speaker 7: That's fine.

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Speaker 13: Well, I'm hoping that it was funny, you know. I

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but like it was hilarious.

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Speaker 13: And I'm like trying to turn away, trying to mind

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Speaker 3: That's awesome.

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Speaker 13: So that number one, number two, three women fell, which

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Speaker 3: On the dance floor.

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Speaker 13: So one fell while taking a picture, but it didn't

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Speaker 8: And then another one fell.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what she was doing.

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Speaker 8: She wasn't dancing.

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Speaker 13: I mean, I guess she was walking back to her chair,

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Speaker 3: Was it an alcohol field thing?

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Speaker 13: Oh my gosh. Can we talk about open bars and

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Speaker 13: how I think that they should be done? So, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 13: I get it, but no, at some point you got

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Speaker 13: it down because I'm just thinking about my wedding in

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Speaker 13: the future, God Willing, Like, No, you're not going to

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Speaker 7: A wedding on the book, right, exactly.

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Speaker 3: I love how you've already thought this through.

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Speaker 4: She has to.

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Speaker 3: Drink, I'm not. I'm gonna be the only one drinking.

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Speaker 3: Well are you when you're getting married?

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Speaker 4: I'm not?

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Speaker 3: As who knows?

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Speaker 10: One day?

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Speaker 3: What else did you see? What are the drama? Did

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Speaker 3: you see? Couple got into it. They fought on the

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Speaker 13: Yeah, so, like I said, everyone was drunk, and so

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Speaker 13: like the I almost called him the groom. One guy

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Speaker 7: Who they they like.

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Speaker 2: Everyone was chilling all.

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Speaker 13: Night, like I saw different couples dancing with other people.

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Speaker 7: It wasn't really a big deal.

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Speaker 2: But she got upset.

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Speaker 13: I don't know what he did that was like different,

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Speaker 13: her back. It was the drama you.

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Speaker 6: On you talking about all the behind the scenes stories

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Speaker 3: Who's going to hire you now with your photo?

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Speaker 13: But yeah, I didn't think about that.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, Well you.

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Speaker 3: Might as well just continue. What else did you see?

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Speaker 13: That was pretty much it. I mean, I'm trying to think. Yeah,

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Speaker 13: no open bars. I think that's what that was the takeaway.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think open bars are pretty essential.

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Speaker 8: Or time limit has to stop.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, you can't out tickets. You get three that's it.

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Speaker 14: Oh yeah, popular, you're gonna get that.

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Speaker 3: That's the worst idea ever for a wedding, the worst.

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Speaker 6: It's second, it's a it's second only to the bad

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Speaker 6: idea of inviting Diamond to run.

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Speaker 7: It was the best.

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Speaker 4: It was the best.

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Speaker 3: Listen to you. You're insane? Hey what we love you, Diamond.

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Speaker 3: I'm glad you survive the weekend. Do you have another

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Speaker 3: one set up? Do you have another wedding on the way?

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Speaker 13: We have a bridal shower next weekend?

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Speaker 3: Okay, hopefully you'll tell the tea. We want to hear more.

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Speaker 7: How do people find you if they wanted to Instagram?

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Speaker 10: We got your events.

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Speaker 6: I love got I would love to have you at

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Speaker 6: my wedding, just as I can hear what happened when

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Speaker 6: I wasn't.

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Speaker 7: Looking documents it call me.

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Speaker 12: Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: Good God, how'll we cram all these people in one room?

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Speaker 3: Straight Nate, So I need straight Nate, Straight Nate, Hello,

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Speaker 3: aging straight Nate. I need we're talking about your pubic hair.

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Speaker 3: Get off the phone. What's that, Elvis? We're talking about

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Speaker 3: your pubic hair? So straight Nate actually oh you're talking

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Speaker 3: about that. Did you do it? You actually went outside

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Speaker 3: and trimmed your your hair yet?

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Speaker 11: Okay, so there's some backstory. So normally I do it

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Speaker 3: Well, that's expensive.

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Speaker 11: So I put a towel around my waist yesterday, and

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Speaker 11: I realized my neighbor, who I only really have one

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Speaker 11: So I just went into the backyard and a secluded

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Speaker 5: You know, in your backyard with your junk out.

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Speaker 3: What what's the big deal? It's my backyard.

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Speaker 6: I just as long as no one's watching it, nobody's

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Speaker 3: Long as the kid's playing hopscotch, there's no kids playing.

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Speaker 11: The neighbors behind us haven't been in their backyard for

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Speaker 11: twenty years. It's all overgrown on the swing set and stuff.

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Speaker 11: I mean, there's nobody back there. So I just moved

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Speaker 11: the towel and I had my electric rechargeable trimmer, and

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Speaker 11: I just.

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Speaker 3: I was done in about three minutes.

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Speaker 6: Did you do did you do it in a shape

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Speaker 6: of like a Topiaria and sissorhand, I do a number

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Speaker 6: two and I just beg your pardon. Yeah, backyard is

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I tell you what. We'll get into this in

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Speaker 3: a minute. I don't know, maybe we should.

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Speaker 7: Do, he said. He's pretty sure the neighbors weren't home

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Speaker 7: like in that scenario. I'm pretty sure. Is not sure enough, Nate, Well,

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Speaker 6: Part is your brand in the neighborhood. They're like, okay,

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Speaker 6: here comes the Nate Marino family.

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Speaker 11: If these neighbors only knew what I actually do in

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Speaker 3: Does a Nate shave in the woods? All right?

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Speaker 11: By the way, Just to clarify, I guarantee I'm not

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Speaker 3: I've an idea for you. Stephanie has a great idea

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Speaker 3: only twenty four Stephanie, Hi, Hey, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: It's good to have you here. You doing okay?

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Speaker 15: Oh yeah, this is amazing.

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Speaker 6: Well, this is amazing what you're about to tell everyone?

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Speaker 6: Give Nate your tip on how you clean up after

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Speaker 15: Yeah, so, well he shaved his head, so I shave

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Speaker 15: his head and then I'm like drop trials. I'm gonna,

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Speaker 15: you know, shaved the junk in the garage.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 15: Then then then when we're all done, I blow him

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Speaker 15: off with the leaf blower, and then I blow the

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: No, there's like pubes floating around in the neighborhood.

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Speaker 6: But with a clean garage. And thank you for sting

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Speaker 15: Well you have to if you're you know, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Exactly, Well, go ahead and see no fuss, no must.

450
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Speaker 3: And then it just kind of goes out into the grass. Right,

451
00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:42,120
Speaker 3: there's grass out front. Is that where it's going.

452
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Speaker 15: Yeah, it just disappears.

453
00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:47,760
Speaker 3: And then when you mow the grass the next time,

454
00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:50,400
Speaker 3: it just cuts it up into little bitty hair shards.

455
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Speaker 15: Yep, yep.

456
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Speaker 11: Kind of creepy to me being naked in your garage.

457
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Speaker 11: I don't know, I would rather be in your.

458
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Speaker 3: Bare naked in your backyard.

459
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Speaker 11: I would rather be in my backyard in my garage

460
00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:02,439
Speaker 11: with no pants on.

461
00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,639
Speaker 3: I don't know. Does that seem weird to anybody? I

462
00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,760
Speaker 3: don't know. No, you're you're covered by four walls. If

463
00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:09,200
Speaker 3: the door is down right.

464
00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:12,200
Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, you shut the door and then you'll open it.

465
00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,960
Speaker 6: Gandhi has an idea for a new invention. She's always

466
00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:17,080
Speaker 6: thinking ahead. Yes, Gandhi, I hope that.

467
00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:20,280
Speaker 7: We can copyright trademark this immediately. But why don't we

468
00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:23,480
Speaker 7: invent a buzzer that has a little vacuum suction thing

469
00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:25,760
Speaker 7: that sucks the hair into it as you're shaving.

470
00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:29,200
Speaker 3: That's called the flow. If they have that, Oh, I

471
00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:29,520
Speaker 3: don't know.

472
00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:31,080
Speaker 7: Can you get around you're junk?

473
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Speaker 3: I wouldn't put it anywhere near my junk.

474
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Speaker 2: Maybe it don't make it bigger all that had?

475
00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,200
Speaker 3: Okay, thank you, thank you for the sucking sounds.

476
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Speaker 1: Here.

477
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Speaker 3: Please then you're always here to contribute and please, Oh

478
00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:51,600
Speaker 3: my god, what's scary?

479
00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:57,119
Speaker 16: I compare shave ole your body hair off outside to throwing.

480
00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,600
Speaker 3: A banana peel in your yard too. It's all compost.

481
00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,119
Speaker 3: All is good, it's all part of the circle of

482
00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,240
Speaker 3: life is hair. I don't know how hair breaks down.

483
00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:06,240
Speaker 3: It's the ecosystem.

484
00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:10,479
Speaker 5: No hold on. Your neighbors are painting their house and

485
00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,640
Speaker 5: you blow your pubes in the air, It's gonna stick

486
00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:14,640
Speaker 5: to the side of their house. Man, they don't want that.

487
00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,440
Speaker 3: They're gonna have a whole painted wall of like textured

488
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:20,800
Speaker 3: painted pube hair.

489
00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:21,800
Speaker 5: You know, we don't want that.

490
00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:23,679
Speaker 2: Or if they have a pool and it goes in

491
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Speaker 2: the pool, it's no.

492
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 3: It's like peeing in the ocean, you know. I think

493
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,720
Speaker 3: it disperses enough where it's not going to really harm anyone.

494
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Speaker 3: You're good.

495
00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,960
Speaker 7: But could you imagine walking by someone's garage and they're

496
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Speaker 7: just leaf blowing something out, and all of a sudden

497
00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:37,320
Speaker 7: you got a little hair stuck to your face.

498
00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:39,359
Speaker 3: This is true.

499
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Speaker 6: Hey, Stephanie, do we lost her? Just okay, Stephanie, I

500
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:47,240
Speaker 6: for one think it's a great idea. Shave your husband

501
00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:48,760
Speaker 6: and blow it out the front of the garage.

502
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Speaker 3: It's all good.

503
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 6: What about bird flying by? A bird's gonna get a

504
00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:57,280
Speaker 6: hair in his mouth. It's okay. Thank you, Stephanie.

505
00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,600
Speaker 3: Thank you. Have a great day. Yeah, I'm in I

506
00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,200
Speaker 3: don't know why everye neighbor has to be so negative.

507
00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 3: I don't hear.

508
00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 11: I don't hear anybody you're coming up with any better

509
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 11: ideas about how to shave your pubes?

510
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 7: What about over your toilet?

511
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,600
Speaker 3: Neat sprattling a toilet? That stuff gets everywhere?

512
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:14,240
Speaker 5: Gandhi in a shower?

513
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 2: Wait, how long do you let it go?

514
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 17: Then?

515
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:17,959
Speaker 3: Like you get that it's not a few months.

516
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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm not going to get into details here, but

517
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:24,760
Speaker 6: I have to I need to like have a way

518
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Speaker 6: to dispose. And I'm not saying because I let it

519
00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 6: go for a year. It's because you know, I'm a guy.

520
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 6: I want to take it off my chest and off

521
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,119
Speaker 6: my legs. I want it all gone. So that's a

522
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 6: lot of hair. So enough of this. Let's talk to

523
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Speaker 6: Julie Julie on line twenty two.

524
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Speaker 3: Hello Julie, Julie. Hello Julie.

525
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Speaker 6: So you're calling about Stephanie who likes to use use

526
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Speaker 6: the uh blow the leaf blower to blow her husband's

527
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Speaker 6: hair out of the garage.

528
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Speaker 3: What is your suggestion?

529
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Speaker 18: Why does she just sweep it into a dust fan?

530
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 1: Right?

531
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Speaker 3: Oh, there's a dust pan. I guess we overlooked that.

532
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't.

533
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 3: Wonder how many pubes this guy has it. She has

534
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Speaker 3: to use a leaf blower. Like that's that's got to

535
00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,440
Speaker 3: be an extraornary amount of the thing about the leaf

536
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 3: blower is it's like and it's done.

537
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 19: You know, It's like, I mean, the pubes are going

538
00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:19,680
Speaker 19: to get all over her driveway.

539
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 15: And all over the ar.

540
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Speaker 19: I mean, it's it's disgusting. And what if it's just rained,

541
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Speaker 19: They're just gonna stick, you know.

542
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Speaker 6: But you know what I will say in scaries defense

543
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:32,360
Speaker 6: about nature of this texture, says, hey, the birds will

544
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:39,159
Speaker 6: use the pubic cares to build new nests.

545
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Speaker 10: I don't know.

546
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Speaker 3: Thank you, Julie, Julie, I think your answer is just

547
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:47,199
Speaker 3: too obvious. Use a dust pan. We overlooked that. We

548
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,719
Speaker 3: overlooked the simple way to do it. All right, Julie,

549
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 3: thank you your genius. Have a great day.

550
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 8: Okay, oh you too.

551
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Speaker 19: Thanks.

552
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

553
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:56,399
Speaker 6: Everyone says using just put it down the drain and

554
00:22:56,480 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 6: use draino. So what so froggy draino? Actually he melts hair?

555
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:01,880
Speaker 6: Is that what it does?

556
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,120
Speaker 5: Somebody told me that a plumber told me that there

557
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 5: is a certain kind of drain or like professional strength

558
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 5: or something that actually dissolves of the hair. The acid

559
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 5: or whatever is in it does help the hair dissolve.

560
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 5: That's why it works so well. I don't think it's

561
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Speaker 5: Why don't.

562
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 6: You just get rid of the middle man and just

563
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,200
Speaker 6: rub draino on your on your hair, on your because.

564
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 5: I'm gonna go out on a lemon. Say, that's pretty

565
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 5: bad for your skin. Just kussing.

566
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 6: Have some moisturizer ready to go? All right, good God,

567
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 6: All right, enough enough?

568
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 3: Have we had enough of this?

569
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 6: Yes, Nate, Nate, you go ahead. You keep shaving your

570
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 6: pubes in your backyard. The neighbors are gonna be okay

571
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:41,919
Speaker 6: with it.

572
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 3: On it.

573
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 11: Hey, listen, it's my body, it's my backyard. You know,

574
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Speaker 11: I feel like it's probably the safest place to do it.

575
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 5: Love that you're the new guy in the neighborhood.

576
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,880
Speaker 3: Listen, Brody says, just lay down in the living room

577
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 3: and let the roomba do its jobs.

578
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,119
Speaker 2: You would see when we moved into our house, we

579
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 2: had naked guy who did everything naked. He walked outside

580
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 2: to get the mail naked, barbecued naked. So when you

581
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 2: move out, they're gonna go, oh, pube guy.

582
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 6: Wait, hold on, there's another way to get rid of

583
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 6: your your hair on the front is barbecue naked it'll

584
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 6: melt right off.

585
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:21,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, all of you are so hilarious.

586
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 12: Stail mister Rand in the Morning Show, el Elvis Duran

587
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 12: and the Morning Show well.

588
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 3: More signs that we're all psychopaths.

589
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Speaker 6: Okay, uh, there's a story out talking about how the

590
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Speaker 6: length of your fingers can determine if you have any

591
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 6: psychological issues. Okay, when we whip out your hands, let's

592
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Speaker 6: take a look by the way before we get into.

593
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 3: They say, it's not unusual, it's not uncommon to have

594
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 3: this scenario going on with your fingers. From the Journal

595
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 3: of Psychiatric Research, the team found those whose index fingers

596
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 3: are shorter than your ring fingers.

597
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 6: You are more likely to have a diagnosed psychiatric disorder.

598
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 3: They call it the dark triad.

599
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 6: Dark triad traits include highly socially discouraged attitudes, narcissism, and psychopathy.

600
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Speaker 3: Which fingers the index in the ring you're yeah, you're

601
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:45,640
Speaker 3: you're okay, You have the big you have the middle.

602
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 2: Finger, right, do you have the ring my nails nails.

603
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 6: The ring finger next to that, and then there's your

604
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,159
Speaker 6: pointer finger, which is your index finger. If your pointer

605
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 6: finger index finger is shorter than your ring finger, then

606
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Speaker 6: you you are a member.

607
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 3: Of this society.

608
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Speaker 2: I'm good, I'm on my question.

609
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 5: What's that on my right hand? The same on my

610
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 5: left hand, my index finger is considerably shorter than they're

611
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:12,120
Speaker 5: not those.

612
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 7: Same, that's exactly me, froggy.

613
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, no, I'm clearly both hands, both hands.

614
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 3: My my index finger is way shorter than my ring finger.

615
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 5: You're all in.

616
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 6: So this analysis of your hands, it's confirming that compared

617
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 6: to healthy controls, individuals with a clinically diagnosed psychiatric issue,

618
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 6: we're more likely to have a shorter index finger and

619
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:36,439
Speaker 6: a longer ring finger.

620
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,120
Speaker 3: And there you go. They're saying, go ahead.

621
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,880
Speaker 7: You say yours are clearly both on both hands.

622
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:47,239
Speaker 3: Your Oh no, you're the same. Oh, absolutely it is.

623
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Speaker 3: There is no no debate.

624
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 5: My right hand. What have I been doing with my

625
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 5: right hand that's causing me the hand so different?

626
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 3: You've done nothing, You've done nothing. It's just the way

627
00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 3: you're born.

628
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Speaker 6: So again they're saying, do not frat. It doesn't mean

629
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 6: there's an issue here. It just says in a controlled

630
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 6: setting where they study all these people, they have found

631
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 6: that people that have one I have are more likely

632
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 6: to have psychiatric issues which are biologically rooted I think

633
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 6: it has something to do with the amount of testosterone

634
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 6: and hormone and other hormones that you have raging to

635
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 6: your body before you're born. I think that has something

636
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 6: to do with it.

637
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 7: I have raging testosterone before you were born. I could

638
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 7: see it.

639
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 6: So they're saying, people like me with the dark triad

640
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 6: we have more aggressive behavior and bad attitudes. It's okay,

641
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 6: I'm in also, but on a good note, we score

642
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 6: a higher on mental toughness and sports performance.

643
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,719
Speaker 20: Okay, that's where you lose me, because I have this

644
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 20: thing going on on both of my hands and I

645
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 20: am awful at sports.

646
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 3: Well, no, okay, keep in mind, just because your fingers

647
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 3: do that doesn't mean at one hundred certainty this is you. Okay,

648
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 3: let me just make that very clear. But I know

649
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 3: that everyone listening right now is looking down at the

650
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 3: damn fingers. Oh good boy.

651
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 4: Hmm.

652
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:21,360
Speaker 6: Analysis of their hands confirmed, compared to healthy controls, individuals

653
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 6: with a clinically diagnosed psycheatric issue.

654
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 3: We're more likely to have this longer ring finger. All right,

655
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:32,160
Speaker 3: you don't have to tell me I'm out of my mind,

656
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,959
Speaker 3: you know, seriously, I'm gonn need to look at my hands.

657
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 3: So there's that the dark triad traits.

658
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Speaker 6: Have this conversation with your friends and your coworkers today today,

659
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 6: see how that works. But again they're warning people with

660
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 6: shorter index fingers not to fret.

661
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,479
Speaker 3: It's very common to have what we have. All right,

662
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 3: there you go, Oh, here it is.

663
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 6: It's associated with a prenatally higher testosterone and lower estrogen

664
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Speaker 6: exposure during the first trimester of the fetal stages.

665
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Speaker 3: There your any thoughts.

666
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 7: This makes a lot of sense.

667
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 2: I'm going to go home and look at Preston's fingers.

668
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, he's a psycho, and then what are you gonna do?

669
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 7: Chop one of them?

670
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 9: Because it's funny because the other day.

671
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Speaker 2: I was looking at his hands. I'm like, Preston, you

672
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 2: have the longest fingers ever, like whatever, and you know

673
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Speaker 2: we were laughing about it, but I didn't know about

674
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Speaker 2: this one.

675
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Speaker 3: Well, okay, it's not one hundred percent certainty that there's

676
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Speaker 3: a problem. Keep tess in mind. Scary. I don't know

677
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 3: if this is true or not.

678
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 16: But weren't we talking a while ago about your eye

679
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 16: the length of your eyes that if you could fit

680
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Speaker 16: another eye.

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Speaker 3: Your eye, no, if you could fit don't have long.

682
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 16: Eyes space between your eyes. If you could fit another eye,

683
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 16: a third eye, in between your two eyes, then you're

684
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 16: also a psycho.

685
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 7: No, that's I think that's how it's supposed to be.

686
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 7: You're supposed to be. Yeah, that's how you You're supposed

687
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 7: to be able to.

688
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 3: Fit a third eye between Can you hold on a second? Okay,

689
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 3: let's not call people's psychos. This is not what we're

690
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 3: talking part of a dark triad or.

691
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Speaker 6: Try So you're saying, if I don't have enough room

692
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 6: for another eye between my eyes, then there could be issues.

693
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 3: I'm trying to figure this out. No, the opposite, quite

694
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 3: the opposite. If you gandhi, what is it?

695
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 15: No?

696
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 7: I think scary is wrong on this. I think that

697
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 7: the rules of symmetry, for your symmetry, for your face,

698
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 7: you're supposed to be able to fit an eye length

699
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 7: specifically between your eyes. That's like the exact proportion it's

700
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 7: supposed to be.

701
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 3: Okay, but if you can fit two of them in there,

702
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 3: then if we can, then you're like a crocodile. So

703
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 3: you've heard of the uh this psychopath stare right? Have

704
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 3: you heard of this? This? This one makes me uncomfortable

705
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 3: and you want to talk about it, because.

706
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 21: Yeah, it's apparently psychopaths have a particular way that they

707
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 21: look at people, right, I'm reading about this now, how

708
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 21: your eyes gaze at that, Yes, exactly, and it's uncomfortable,

709
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 21: like a predatory and uh yeah, And apparently the way

710
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 21: you use your eyes you can use manipulation tactics more

711
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 21: easily as a psychopath.

712
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 3: Let me ask you this.

713
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 6: If you've ever been on the train or just walk

714
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 6: into the mall or whatever, and then your eyes will

715
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 6: catch someone else's eyes for like just a split second. Yes,

716
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 6: but for some reason, sometimes it's this intense connection you

717
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:27,479
Speaker 6: have with someone, even if it's for a split second,

718
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 6: and you start thinking, oh my god, they looked at me,

719
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 6: I looked at them at the same time, and you

720
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 6: and it sort of like hits you for.

721
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 3: A while, if you're like, Okay, I just had.

722
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 6: A weird interaction with a total stranger for a split second,

723
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 6: but there was something in there. So some people believe

724
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 6: that people with psychopathic traits can actually use intense, intense

725
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 6: eye contact to startle others and catch them off guard,

726
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 6: and they can use that to manipulate them.

727
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 3: You can control people with your eyes.

728
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Speaker 11: Anthony Hopkins in that movie Silence of the Lamb, Hannimal

729
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 11: staring the whole time.

730
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 3: I don't even think you blinked.

731
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 6: You know, there are some cultures around the world where

732
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 6: it is acceptable to just stare at someone and watch

733
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 6: them going about their business. Here in America, if someone's

734
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 6: looking at you, your your first inclination is why what

735
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 6: are you doing?

736
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 3: Why are you look at me? And that why you

737
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 3: look at me? Like that? Take a picture.

738
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Speaker 2: It lasts longer.

739
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 3: There you go. There's a good life, exactly.

740
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Speaker 6: But in some European cultures and Asian cultures, you could

741
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 6: just stare at someone and just just just study them,

742
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 6: study what they're doing, study how they're acting, and it's

743
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 6: it's common. It's not uncommon to be stared at or

744
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 6: stare at others. Don't do it near me because I'll

745
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Speaker 6: have questions.

746
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Speaker 7: For you yet.

747
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Speaker 3: I don't know. I've never been broken up on I

758
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 3: guess I don't know.

759
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 7: I have not been dumped either. I've dumped a lot, right,

760
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 7: which I know people are not going to believe me

761
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 7: when I say this, but I think you might agree.

762
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 7: Sometimes it's a lot harder to be the one breaking

763
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 7: up with somebody than getting broken up.

764
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 3: With well, gandhi. That's the question.

765
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Speaker 6: Is it more Is it more stressful to be the

766
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 6: dump er or the dump e? They each have their

767
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 6: own stress stress level, right, I don't know.

768
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 2: I think it depends on like if you break up

769
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 2: with someone who's going to be, you know, who is

770
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 2: going to be so emotional about it, Yeah, you know,

771
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 2: and then you feel really bad.

772
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 6: Well, especially if that's one of the reasons you're breaking

773
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 6: up because they're overly emotional.

774
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 3: But anyway, what what.

775
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 2: I don't always him or me that brought flowers to

776
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 2: a breakup once?

777
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 3: Okay, so let's talk about the rules of a breakup.

778
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:01,720
Speaker 3: I was eating this this morning. This was this is

779
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 3: what brought this up at Magnet of success dot com.

780
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 3: I don't know.

781
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 6: I love these these websites. Relationship. There's six the five

782
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 6: stages of a breakup for the dumper. Number one relief,

783
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 6: number two, elation, number three nostalgia and comparisons, Number four neutrality,

784
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 6: and then number five regret and sadness. Never had any

785
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 6: regret or sadness with my breakups.

786
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 7: I didn't have any regret, but I had sadness for

787
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,399
Speaker 7: the other person, like I felt so sad being mean

788
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 7: to like I felt like I was being mean. But

789
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 7: in the long run, I thought, this is actually going

790
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 7: to be better for him, it'd be great for me.

791
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 6: I had to go to therapy when I was breaking

792
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 6: up with someone. It was there was a guilt and

793
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 6: there was all that, yeah, but oh, you know, we

794
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 6: move on.

795
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 3: Hey, not to sound like a cold bitch moving on,

796
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Speaker 3: but Scary was.

797
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Speaker 6: Telling me about we're talking about the good places and

798
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 6: worst places to break up with someone.

799
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 3: Scary's question was, well, question.

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Speaker 16: Not only have I been dumped, but is it okay

801
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 16: to go out to take someone to eat to be dumped?

802
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 3: Because that's how they have to me. And I said,

803
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:02,879
Speaker 3: that's the worst idea ever.

804
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 20: She planned a dinner date on a f on a

805
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 20: Thursday night and near her house, went out to dinner,

806
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 20: and as the courses went by, so came the excuses

807
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:13,760
Speaker 20: are the things or the lead.

808
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 3: Up to the breakup. And by the time we were

809
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,359
Speaker 3: having dessert, the breakup was done. So the salad came out.

810
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 6: She said, you know, okay, okay, the salad of the

811
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 6: appetizer was what conversation during the lead in?

812
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Speaker 16: I remember it was a pasta appetizer and we were

813
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 16: sitting there and we were talking about how we things

814
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 16: haven't been the same lately.

815
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 3: Okay, we haven't. Our time, our schedules don't okay. So

816
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 3: you finished your ZD yes, which all bad restaurants have,

817
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:41,839
Speaker 3: and I love him. There's good ZD don't get me wrong.

818
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 3: And then he moved into the entree. What did you

819
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 3: order that night? I was a steak guy.

820
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 6: Okay, you ordered your steak? And then what conversation had

821
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 6: after the ZD intro?

822
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,439
Speaker 16: After that that then came Then came the part where

823
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 16: she said, you know, there's there's this guy.

824
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 3: From my childhood that is back.

825
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,280
Speaker 20: You know that that moved back to New York City,

826
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 20: and she started this story about how he was now

827
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 20: all of a sudden back in the picture, and she

828
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 20: wanted to know if she was starting to do other things.

829
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Speaker 3: She's awful. Yeah, I mean this is awful.

830
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Speaker 6: Okay, first of all, and then you got to dessert,

831
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 6: she said, let's just be friends.

832
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Speaker 16: Right, that's exactly friend zoned me at the end of

833
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 16: the And she.

834
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Speaker 3: Has no intention on being your friend. Okay, here's number one.

835
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Speaker 3: You don't.

836
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 6: In my opinion, I could be wrong. Don't take someone

837
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 6: to a restaurant to break up with him. A restaurant

838
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,320
Speaker 6: is for eating in cocktails. That's a fun occasion.

839
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,319
Speaker 2: How about like a TGIF type play?

840
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 3: No, okay.

841
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 7: Also, you should allow that person to be able to

842
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 7: go through their emotions and they can't do that as

843
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 7: much in a public places that everyone's staring, and.

844
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 5: In public is safer for you as the breakup er,

845
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,800
Speaker 5: the breakup ef.

846
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:47,280
Speaker 7: You have to shoulder.

847
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 3: Okay.

848
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 6: So, and then she brings up the fact, Hey, there's

849
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,919
Speaker 6: this guy who I used to see who's back in town.

850
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 5: Why should have done that?

851
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:55,839
Speaker 3: Why is it important that part?

852
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,359
Speaker 16: She should have left out painting the picture of why

853
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,479
Speaker 16: she wants to move in another direction and we should

854
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 16: She just said that she wanted to tie it up into.

855
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 3: A nice bow. That's why the dinner closure. Right, guess

856
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:08,720
Speaker 3: what her nice bow failed?

857
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 5: Yeah?

858
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 3: What's her full name? Christina? Christina?

859
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 17: What?

860
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 3: I'm sure the last name ends in a vowel. Okay,

861
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 3: you know what? Okay?

862
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:24,359
Speaker 2: I did the same thing though. I I took an

863
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 2: X out to a restaurant, but it was like a

864
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:30,839
Speaker 2: TG I f thought it was harmless and we I

865
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 2: had the conversation that wasn't going the way we need to.

866
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 2: We need to break up.

867
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,240
Speaker 3: So where's a good place to break out with someone?

868
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 3: I usually said? I usually said, Well, I said, let's

869
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 3: let's take a walk.

870
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:41,839
Speaker 7: Oh that's good.

871
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 3: We walked around the neighbor.

872
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,840
Speaker 7: But not in a secluded place, just in case things get.

873
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 2: Not over text. Don't don't don't break up with me

874
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 2: over text.

875
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,959
Speaker 6: Look, you know, even though you're you're dying to break

876
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 6: up with them, there's still there still needs to needs

877
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 6: to be a level of respect for them and their feelings.

878
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 6: Like you said, Gandhi, let them go through their emotions.

879
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 6: They should be allowed to go through their emotion So

880
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:04,439
Speaker 6: short of going to a cemetery to break up three

881
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:05,359
Speaker 6: in the morning.

882
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 7: Right, So, maybe like a park.

883
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 2: No, maybe a house, someone's house.

884
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 3: I think in your living room is a good place.

885
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 7: But then you can't get rid of them when you

886
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:15,919
Speaker 7: want to get rid of them. Then they just sit there.

887
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 2: The whole time, and then you know what happens. It's like, Oh,

888
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 2: let's have sex for the last time.

889
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 7: Amidst all the tears. This is very romantic.

890
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:28,799
Speaker 6: Hold on, hello, John, you have advice for breakups and

891
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 6: for the dumpers or the dumpies.

892
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 18: I have advice for the dumpers.

893
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead, John, All right.

894
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 18: So I went to the Rosa to break up with

895
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 18: my girlfriend.

896
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 3: You went to the what L Rosa Pizzas?

897
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 10: Okay?

898
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 3: A pizza place, okay?

899
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 18: And when I dropped the news that I was gonna

900
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 18: be leaving her, she picked up the whole pizza and

901
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 18: threw it at me.

902
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 6: Oh okay, if you're going to break up in a restaurant,

903
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 6: the food needs to be soft or not tape and

904
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 6: definitely not hot.

905
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 3: Like melting cheese.

906
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 6: Go so, she I know, but that made it easier, right,

907
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 6: She threw the food and she just stormed out.

908
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 18: Yeah no, it was no.

909
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 3: Let me ask you this, John, are you sort of happy?

910
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,320
Speaker 3: Even though it was a little embarrassing to have pizza

911
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 3: thrown in your face. Are you happy it was like

912
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 3: just rip the band aid off fast like that? Or

913
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 3: would you wanted a long drawn out let's explain conversation.

914
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 18: I was glad that it was quick. I was I

915
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:27,920
Speaker 18: was really glad.

916
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 3: Okay, and it's done. And you didn't hear from her again,

917
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:31,399
Speaker 3: nor did she hear.

918
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 18: From you never again?

919
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 6: No wow, and wasted pizza at that?

920
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:36,839
Speaker 10: Did have heart?

921
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 3: Did they have that Domino's insurance? Thank you, John, Thank

922
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 3: you very much. Yeah, I don't know. I think I

923
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 3: need a conversation.

924
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 2: Froggie's wife, Lisa wants to know. Scary, did you wind

925
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 2: up paying for the dinner?

926
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 3: We split the bill.

927
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 8: I want to make sure I.

928
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 5: Would have made her pay after that. I didn't bring

929
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 5: my wallet.

930
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 1: Sorry.

931
00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 6: There's actually a list of the best places to break

932
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 6: up in New York City. Oh, number one in a

933
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 6: taxi bad, no, terrible, awful, Chelsea Market, Bowery Hotel Lobby,

934
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 6: the TKTS, Red Steps in Times Square because there's so

935
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 6: many tourist they're buying tickets for Broadway shows.

936
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 3: Oh my god, the pier behind Faaraway Market in Red Hook, Brooklyn.

937
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 7: Never on a pier, you get pushed in the donut plant.

938
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 6: No Paley Park, No, no, no, these are I would

939
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 6: think in a park now, you know what straight Nate

940
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 6: was saying that.

941
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 3: Over by my old apartment.

942
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 11: Yeah, sixth Avenue and Carmine Street, there's this little park

943
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 11: and probably half a dozen times I would walk by

944
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 11: and there's a couple.

945
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 3: Try in front of Joe's Pizza. Right in front of

946
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 3: Joe's Pizza, right, you know what that is brody right there?

947
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 11: And every once in a while I walk by and

948
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 11: there's a couple where the girls sitting there crying and

949
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 11: the guy's just sitting.

950
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 3: There with like an expressionless face. He just knew that

951
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 3: they were breaking up. Always on a park bench. I'm

952
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 3: not saying anyone's enjoying breaking up with someone, but I

953
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 3: do think, and I go back to what Gandhi said,

954
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 3: there needs to be a level of respect where you

955
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 3: allow them to be able to have a conversation with you,

956
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 3: right right, I don't know, Alex, are you there?

957
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 8: Hi?

958
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 3: Hello? Alex.

959
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 6: So you've had to be a dumper and a dump

960
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 6: e So which one was most stressful for you or

961
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 6: were they equally as stressful?

962
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 22: No, I've never been a dumpy. I've been a dumper

963
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 22: in two extreme situations where I had dated a guy

964
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 22: in high school ended up being my college boyfriend most

965
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 22: of our relationship. He was very emotional and at times,

966
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 22: you know, a little aggressive about it. Uh So that

967
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 22: breakup was pretty tough. And then my next boyfriend was

968
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:36,400
Speaker 22: the exact opposite, very stone cold. We broke up. He

969
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 22: didn't even care.

970
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:39,839
Speaker 4: So, so I'm.

971
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 3: Breaking up with you. Okay, great?

972
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 22: Yeah, he didn't even know we broke up. I you know,

973
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 22: I said him, I feel like you're not really in

974
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 22: love with me. He said, I'm not. I said, okay,

975
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 22: you know, that makes it pretty easy for me. Then

976
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 22: we've been together for two years at this point, and

977
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 22: then he called me like thirty minutes later and asked

978
00:41:58,480 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 22: me if we were going to go out for dinner

979
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 22: the next Yeah.

980
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 6: I don't think he got in now, but anyway, but

981
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 6: you know what, you're done, You're done. There is this

982
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 6: big sense of relief. Absolutely. Finally we talked to Stephanie.

983
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 6: Thank you, Alex. Hi Stephanie.

984
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 18: Hi.

985
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 3: So he was your fiance.

986
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:19,480
Speaker 23: Yeah, and we were together like seven issues seven years.

987
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,239
Speaker 3: That's a long time. So he broke up with you?

988
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 3: And how did that fall out?

989
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 23: He didn't actually say, like we were breaking up. He

990
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 23: came home from work one day with a bunch of

991
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 23: boxes and just started like packing his stuff up.

992
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 3: It's like a job. He cleared out his desk.

993
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 23: Yeah, that's basically what it felt like. And I'm sitting

994
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 23: there watching him. I'm like, what are you doing? Like,

995
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 23: I'm just packing my stuff together? And I was like,

996
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 23: for what reason? He's like, I'm going to go back

997
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 23: in with my mom?

998
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 7: What did he give you a read?

999
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 9: Like?

1000
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 2: Why?

1001
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 23: I mean, I knew we were having like some problems

1002
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 23: and everything, but he never expressed that it was to

1003
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 23: the level that he was gonna then, look, wow, break

1004
00:42:58,239 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 23: up with me if it didn't get fixed.

1005
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 4: Wow.

1006
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 23: So he never actually said too much until like a

1007
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:05,720
Speaker 23: year later he was still trying to get back together.

1008
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 3: That's that's not good.

1009
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:08,879
Speaker 17: Yeah.

1010
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 23: By then I was like, well, if you couldn't deal

1011
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,720
Speaker 23: with it in the moment, why would.

1012
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 6: I want to get back to exactly all right, Well,

1013
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,839
Speaker 6: congratulations Stephanie, And that made it easy for I mean,

1014
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 6: after a while, but there's a big mystery cloud what.

1015
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 3: You're packing moving out?

1016
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:22,760
Speaker 1: Huh?

1017
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1018
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 9: Uh.

1019
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, So be careful where you're gonna break up with someone.

1020
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 3: Someone just in a text. Uh.

1021
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,800
Speaker 6: Watching people at the airport as they're boarding a plane,

1022
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 6: don't do that. You're stuck in the air with them.

1023
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 7: That's horrible.

1024
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 6: Don't do it at a restaurant, You're stuck at a

1025
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 6: table with them, unless there's a fight and someone gets

1026
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 6: up and leaves and it's.

1027
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 3: They get through it.

1028
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 2: Can you imagine though, if you're saying goodbye to somebody

1029
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 2: at the airport and as they're getting on the plane,

1030
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 2: you're like, bye bye.

1031
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 3: And then close the door.

1032
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 15: Bye.

1033
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 5: I hate you, I hate you.

1034
00:43:55,800 --> 00:44:06,399
Speaker 12: Haha, laugh, Bunny Elvis Duran in the Morning Show, don't

1035
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:10,879
Speaker 12: answer the phone Elvis durand Elvis durand phone tap all.

1036
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 3: Right, Garrett, Yes, talk about it.

1037
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 24: So Janette wants to play a phone tap on her dad, Trevor.

1038
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 24: Jannette coming home from college for Thanksgiving for a few days.

1039
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 24: So I'm going to start the call to dad as

1040
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,799
Speaker 24: a friend who's gonna come over for Thanksgiving.

1041
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 3: In garage. Here we go.

1042
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 10: Hello, Hi, is Jeanette home?

1043
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 4: You call him?

1044
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 24: I'm Samuel Smith. I'm looking for Jeanette. This is the

1045
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 24: number I got from her phone.

1046
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 4: I can take a message.

1047
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,240
Speaker 10: Oh all right, tell her.

1048
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 24: That I will be coming in the day before Thanksgiving,

1049
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 24: so if it's cool, I'll crash at her place or

1050
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 24: your friend? He whom are your brother?

1051
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 3: Her father?

1052
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 1: Oh?

1053
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 3: Wow? This is.

1054
00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 10: My name is Samuel? Janette hasn't said anything.

1055
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 4: What do you guys class me for something?

1056
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 10: I know I've been seeing your daughter now for a

1057
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 10: couple of weeks.

1058
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, you know.

1059
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 10: If you could just do me a favor, I just

1060
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 10: got a great a few more papers.

1061
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 4: Excuse me.

1062
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 10: I'm the teacher of her class.

1063
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 4: So you're dating my daughter? Yeah?

1064
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 24: Wow, this is this is good? No, no, no, no, sir,

1065
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 24: Can you just ask her to give me a call back?

1066
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 3: You're coming to my house, You're dating my daughter, and

1067
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 3: you're her teacher.

1068
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 10: I've been down this road before with with with parents.

1069
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 4: Who are you?

1070
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:36,839
Speaker 10: Once you get to know.

1071
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 24: Me Smith, after we get okay, after we get over

1072
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 24: that awkwardness, you'll see that I'm a very likable guy.

1073
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 3: How old are you?

1074
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:48,800
Speaker 10: Forty seven?

1075
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:50,759
Speaker 4: Are you being?

1076
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 10: If it helps, I can get a hotel room and no, whoa.

1077
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 4: Whoa whoa whoa hotel room.

1078
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:59,320
Speaker 3: You are not stepping put in my house, buddy?

1079
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 10: Okay, can you at least forty seven?

1080
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 4: Buddy? Wake up?

1081
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 3: Listen to me.

1082
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 4: You step a foot in my house, I'm gonna kill you.

1083
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 10: Fantastic, all right, you know you're there?

1084
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 25: Yeah?

1085
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 10: Yeah, Well, Hi, he just hung up on me.

1086
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 24: Let's call him right back and just push his buttons

1087
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 24: just a little bit and uh, we'll bust a joke

1088
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:22,439
Speaker 24: in a minute.

1089
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, Hello, Hi daddy?

1090
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 5: What are you doing?

1091
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 19: What do you mean?

1092
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:31,800
Speaker 1: I'm on learning?

1093
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 3: And who's Sammy Smith?

1094
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 4: Huh?

1095
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 3: Your boyfriend Ballo?

1096
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 10: That?

1097
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 22: How don't dad me like I was gonna tell you

1098
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 22: about them and.

1099
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 19: You were gonna tell me next week?

1100
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 2: Huh?

1101
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:47,879
Speaker 18: Why do I gotta find out this way?

1102
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:48,840
Speaker 4: Who is this guy?

1103
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 3: What?

1104
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 15: What are you doing up there?

1105
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 4: Cond out?

1106
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

1107
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 18: What do you mean find out?

1108
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:52,320
Speaker 19: What?

1109
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 4: What are you talking about?

1110
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 3: It's forty seven?

1111
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:59,760
Speaker 4: Forty seven, my fighter.

1112
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 15: You don't put your mother into this, Okay, For one,

1113
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 15: I'm not even forty seven.

1114
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 18: You're to me.

1115
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 7: Three year old?

1116
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 3: He is really good care of her.

1117
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 4: Get a anging?

1118
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 18: Does your mother know this? We're gonna have a great

1119
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 18: thanks living.

1120
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 4: It's gonna be on. No, we're not gonna have.

1121
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:23,879
Speaker 5: A great Thanks you, but I might be intel because

1122
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Speaker 5: I'm gonna kill this Smith guy.

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Speaker 15: I hear the same.

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Speaker 1: Anna have a lot of town in What.

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Speaker 4: Are you trying to do to me?

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Speaker 18: Huh?

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Speaker 19: Are you trying to kill me?

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Speaker 3: Is that what you're trying to do to me?

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Speaker 1: If they want to?

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Speaker 24: Hey, Trevor, Hello, my name's Garrethrom Elvis dur in the

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Speaker 24: Morning Show. You just got phone tapped.

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Speaker 19: I got that.

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00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 26: So you guys playing the joke on me that I

1134
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Speaker 26: love your daddy.

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Speaker 4: I love you too, baby, job safe, Elvis.

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Speaker 12: Dans phone time.

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Speaker 16: This phone table was pre recorded with permission granted by

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Speaker 16: all party spents.

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Speaker 12: The Elvis Terran phone have only on Elvis Daran in

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Speaker 12: the Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let me get another Danielle on the phone. Hi Danielle, Hi,

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Speaker 3: good morning.

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Speaker 6: You know we had to dump that because you said

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00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:15,879
Speaker 6: the F word. Oh stop saying the F word.

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Speaker 2: Such a Danielle thing.

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00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 6: How come all Danielle's have potty mouths? Danielle, Okay, look

1147
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 6: we were talking about this. I think this is a

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Speaker 6: great conversation.

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Speaker 3: In the dating world.

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Speaker 6: Let's say you're really like you're driving at the speed limit,

1151
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 6: but you're driving faster than everyone in your dating scene

1152
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 6: in your early twenties. Don't you wish you had someone

1153
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,279
Speaker 6: in their upper twenties or thirties to give you some advice, like,

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00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 6: you know what, you need to know this, and you're

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Speaker 6: going to have an easier time of it.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 27: I did have that. Everyone just liked him so much.

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Speaker 6: Okay, what is your advice for people who are dating?

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Speaker 6: And then we'll figure out what we're talking about.

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Speaker 27: Okay, Okay, So my advice would be to put yourself first,

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00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 27: put your happiness first. Don't have to make anyone else happy, right,

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Speaker 27: It's your relationship, it's not their relationship.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: And I can say, especially when you're young, you're so

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Speaker 6: into making it work and it has to be successful

1166
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 6: or if it's a failure, that means I failed somewhere.

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Speaker 6: So I need to, like, I need to do things

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Speaker 6: I don't want to do. I need to like put

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Speaker 6: them first because I'm afraid I'll lose them. You're saying

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Speaker 6: that is just hogwash exactly.

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Speaker 27: Yeah. So I married my high school sweetheart after we

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Speaker 27: were together for ten years. I was twenty six, and

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Speaker 27: I knew I wasn't really into it, but I felt

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Speaker 27: the pressure because you know, you're together for ten years,

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Speaker 27: so that's what you do, and society pressures and family

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Speaker 27: and parents, and you know, that's what we were supposed

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Speaker 27: to do.

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Speaker 15: So that's what we did.

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Speaker 27: And now we are twenty eight and divorced and honestly happy.

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Speaker 27: So I think the happiness is the main thing.

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Speaker 7: I think that's awesome, And I think that people should

1182
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Speaker 7: always function that way, because we say it all the time.

1183
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 7: If you think of things like a lifeguard situation, you

1184
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 7: can't save somebody else if you don't know how to swim.

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Speaker 7: So you have to be able to take care of

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Speaker 7: yourself and put yourself first, and then when you're happy,

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Speaker 7: you're a better partner for somebody else.

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Speaker 4: I get it, you are.

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Speaker 27: It took me a very long time to realize that.

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Speaker 3: And this is good to know with friendships, good in anything, friendships, kids,

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Speaker 3: you have kids, Hey, put yourself before your kids? Screw them?

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Speaker 2: Well, no, you need, I think before you have children.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if you can, you need to be able

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Speaker 2: to take care of yourself because then you're going to

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Speaker 2: be you know, and you got to be less selfish

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Speaker 2: because you're going to be in charge of another human being,

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Speaker 2: you know, And at that point, it's all about them.

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Speaker 7: That's why no kids for me.

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Speaker 3: No kids.

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Speaker 6: That's okay, you know, it's good. It's good to know

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Speaker 6: and recognize. Oh yeah, listen, daniel Thank you for listening

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Speaker 6: to us. Have a great day, and congratulations. It's never

1203
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Speaker 6: too late in life to get it right. You know

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Speaker 6: you're okay, Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 2: Keep on cursing, Danielle, you do that poddy mouth.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Sarah.

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Speaker 6: So your advice to younger women out in the dating

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Speaker 6: world is.

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Speaker 19: What, well, this would have been my advice to myself,

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Speaker 19: because I'm now thirty four, is I always had a

1211
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Speaker 19: thing for the bad boys, the tattooed biker motorcycle club dudes,

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Speaker 19: and they're fun, but they're not good for long term

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Speaker 19: at all.

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Speaker 6: So if you know you're out there just to have fun,

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00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 6: it's okay to ride one of those.

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Speaker 3: Those bikers, right.

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Speaker 19: Uh yeah, But that was not what I thought. Like

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Speaker 19: I was with somebody for three years who turned out

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Speaker 19: to be extremely abusive on top of everything and being

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Speaker 19: a jerk.

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Speaker 3: So that's the thing, you know, what you think?

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Speaker 6: You know, I just want to go have fun with

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Speaker 6: a bad boy because and I know it's not going

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Speaker 6: to be anything because he's.

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Speaker 3: A bad boy.

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Speaker 6: But the thing is, you get feelings for the bad boy,

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Speaker 6: but you're not going to get him back, and that's

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Speaker 6: when it all turns south, right.

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Speaker 19: Right, And that wasn't And you know, they cheat and

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Speaker 19: they're out on the road, especially if they're in motorcycle clubs.

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Speaker 19: Not to like put down, but it is what it is.

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Speaker 19: You're not with them, they're out for days at a time.

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Speaker 7: So wow, So sons of anarchy.

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Speaker 4: It is that.

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Speaker 19: Lived my life for three years, no life.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and you put yourself second behind him and he

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Speaker 6: hasn't grown up.

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Speaker 19: It was just what was considered acceptable. It was like,

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Speaker 19: you know, the club converse there you go, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, Sarah, thank you?

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Speaker 6: Don't don't don't you know, don't expect anything from the

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Speaker 6: bad boys other than a bad boy.

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Speaker 7: Right exactly.

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Speaker 2: I can't change a bad boy.

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Speaker 3: Don't try to change anyone. Yeah, yeah, don't. If you

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Speaker 3: think you're going to change them, you are in for

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Speaker 3: a surprise. April. Your advice to people who are out there,

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Speaker 3: they're younger than you and you're like, okay, let me

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Speaker 3: give you a little advice. I learned the hard way here.

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Speaker 27: It is, what is it don't settle.

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Speaker 25: Oh my gosh, do not settle. I'm twenty three and

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Speaker 25: I wish coming out of high school, I saw all

1253
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 25: these couples or whatever, and I end up settling. Yes,

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Speaker 25: thank god, I got my two beautiful boys it. But

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Speaker 25: don't settle, Like it's more to life than that. Like

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00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 25: you're young, like you have time, you know, to travel,

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00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 25: you know, do things, don't don't, so it's.

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Speaker 1: Not worth it.

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Speaker 6: Keep in mind, settling is different for different people. How

1260
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:15,799
Speaker 6: what was it with you? Like what did you feel?

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Speaker 3: Like? You were settling for you and you lost a

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Speaker 3: little a little step.

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Speaker 25: Mine was the fact that I didn't want to be

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Speaker 25: a single mom, and so I took whatever I died

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Speaker 25: from him because I'm like, I don't like, who's gonna

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00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 25: want me with two kids? Like you, I have two

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Speaker 25: young ones. I'm like, yeah, I'm just gonna stay and

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00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 25: then one bay stuff and just put to me like

1269
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 25: girl used to be that, Like what are you doing?

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00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 25: Like get up and get on your feet.

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Speaker 15: It's only going to make you stronger.

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Speaker 3: I love this phone call. I love your call, April.

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Speaker 6: You know, we do a lot of research in the

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Speaker 6: background to see who's listening, who isn't listening we any Okay.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to make anyone nervous, but we have

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Speaker 6: like ten million listeners.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 3: I don't mean to brag, but we got a lot anyway.

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Speaker 3: In talking to everyone, we have found our show more

1280
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Speaker 3: than most. We have more single parents, yeah, fathers and

1281
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 3: mothers listening to our show. And I know that you

1282
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 3: may think, well, I better stay with my partner and

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00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 3: the parent of my kids because no one's gonna want me.

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Speaker 6: I gotta tell you. You may have to look in

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Speaker 6: different places, but there are people that are going to

1286
00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 6: find you so interesting because you're a mother, right, because

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Speaker 6: you have a family started. So you know, never give

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Speaker 6: up on yourself. April, your call is fantastic. Thank you

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Speaker 6: very much.

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Speaker 25: Oh, thank you, and I love you guys. Thank you

1291
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 25: so much.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. Have a great day. Hey, producer Sam, what's up?

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Speaker 10: Hi?

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Speaker 14: So I learned something the hard way, okay. Advice do not,

1295
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 14: whether it be a small or a deep thing, pretend

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00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 14: to be really into something because the other person is

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00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 14: into it and you want to impress them. Example, to

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Speaker 14: be something as little as a band, which I used

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Speaker 14: to do in high school all the time, or my

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Speaker 14: ex boyfriend was not very emotional person.

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Speaker 7: You guys know me, I cried four times a week,

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Speaker 7: and I.

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Speaker 14: Was pretending that I was okay with like a very

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Speaker 14: shallowly emotional relationship.

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Speaker 3: Right because you didn't want to upset him exactly.

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00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 14: I thought I'll get too close and I'll scare him.

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Speaker 14: So I just lied to myself for a year.

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Speaker 3: Well there you go. It's great advice.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, I wonder about this advice is does

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00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 6: it really make sense to give advice or is it

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Speaker 6: better for people to go through it and learn it

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Speaker 6: on their own.

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Speaker 7: I think it's great to give the advice, but I

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00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 7: think everyone has to understand no one's going to take it.

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Speaker 7: They're all going to go through it and do what

1316
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 7: they do because you have to get that burn to

1317
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Speaker 7: not play with the fire anymore.

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Speaker 2: I think you need to make your mistakes too. You

1319
00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 2: need to make your mistakes so you can learn from them.

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Speaker 3: So good.

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Speaker 6: It'd be great to make the mistake and go oh god,

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Speaker 6: you know, Samantha told me on the radio that I

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Speaker 6: would do this, and I'm doing it, and I did it.

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Speaker 6: Text message. Okay, wait, not all bikers are awful, all right,

1325
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:46,839
Speaker 6: this is true. My aunt and uncle, the happiest couple.

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Speaker 6: He's a biker, he's in a biker club, the nicest,

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Speaker 6: he's very fine.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, we can't be too quick a bad boy bike.

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Speaker 6: We can't generalize. What dating advice do you wish you

1330
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 6: could pass on to people younger than you? From our

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Speaker 6: Facebook listeners, Jennifers has given soone a second chance, never

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Speaker 6: a third.

1333
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Speaker 3: Stay true to yourself. Missy says. If his family tells

1334
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Speaker 3: you to run, run.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh my gosh, that's the biggest run.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Can you imagine if his mother tells you, don't do it.

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Speaker 5: I know that happen.

1339
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 3: I know Froggy's wife, Lisa, her family said run run.

1340
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 3: I'm kidding.

1341
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 6: Becky says, don't waste your time trying to fix or

1342
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:23,360
Speaker 6: change someone who isn't for you.

1343
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:23,839
Speaker 3: Move on.

1344
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 6: There are more people out here. On Instagram, Teresa Smith

1345
00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:29,960
Speaker 6: eighteen says, when someone shows you their true character, believe them.

1346
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:31,800
Speaker 3: Yes, scary, what's your advice?

1347
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,240
Speaker 16: I'm not a woman, but I would say stop drunk

1348
00:56:34,239 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 16: crying on the curb while you're on the phone with

1349
00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:37,280
Speaker 16: your boyfriend outside.

1350
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 3: The bar on a Saturday night.

1351
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 20: Get back in there with your girls and enjoy your

1352
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,800
Speaker 20: weekend because this guy is only temporary anyway.

1353
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 3: Okay, let's talk about drinking and mind altering drugs. Ready.

1354
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 6: Uh, Look, going out and having cocktails is great, going

1355
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 6: out on a date with a little cocktail maybe to

1356
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 6: ease the situation.

1357
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 3: Good. When you start heavily drinking with someone you're dating,

1358
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 3: that's when the wheels fall off the truck. Yeah, yes,

1359
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 3: because it's bad decisions.

1360
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:04,320
Speaker 7: I've been there, high emotions.

1361
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 6: I'm telling you right now, because being drunk brings out

1362
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 6: stuff that it shouldn't be out there.

1363
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:11,800
Speaker 3: It's not real. Maybe it's too real. Watch your drinking

1364
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:15,160
Speaker 3: when you're dating someone seriously in.

1365
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:16,439
Speaker 7: Life in general, that's a good rule.

1366
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 3: Nah, I know you mean drunk elsewhere. But then yes, I.

1367
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 7: Think people should really really pay attention to like the

1368
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 7: advice i'd give someone obsession. Even though you might think

1369
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 7: it's really cute, when someone's obsessed with you, it's not cute.

1370
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 7: It turns crazy.

1371
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:30,440
Speaker 26: Like.

1372
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 7: People need to understand what emotional abuse is, and that

1373
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 7: is somebody calling you eighty times in a row when

1374
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 7: they can't get a hold of you right yelling at

1375
00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 7: you about what you're wearing, Like all kinds of things,

1376
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 7: and I'll know a lot of younger girls myself included,

1377
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 7: was like, oh, he likes me so much. No, he's crazy,

1378
00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:45,160
Speaker 7: not cool.

1379
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, he may have issues he's dealing with and

1380
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 6: he's using your energy to power him up, and that's

1381
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 6: not cool.

1382
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 7: Not cool at all. Run ladies, run from that one.

1383
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 3: Hey frog, what's up?

1384
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 5: Careful to not lose your own identity because the things

1385
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 5: that make you who you are, that's what made the

1386
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 5: person attracted to you in the first place. To completely

1387
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 5: revolve your life around that other person, because then you've

1388
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 5: become much less interesting and talk.

1389
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 3: About because you know what I'm going through this right now.

1390
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:14,200
Speaker 3: When I first met Alex, I had a messed up,

1391
00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 3: messy closet and now he's trying to change me and

1392
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 3: make me clean it up.

1393
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:17,800
Speaker 7: Not cool.

1394
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 6: No, you fell in love with the crazy closet guy,

1395
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:22,280
Speaker 6: Yes he did.

1396
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 5: I think the messy closet's why he loved you.

1397
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 3: No, it is.

1398
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:33,040
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Speaker 2: You get your podcasts.

1401
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Speaker 12: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show, Elvis Daran in the

1402
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Speaker 12: Morning Show, So Down, the hall on.

1403
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Speaker 6: The successful end of the building. There's a show called

1404
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Speaker 6: The Breakfast Club. I know you've heard of DJ Andvy,

1405
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:56,080
Speaker 6: you've heard of Charlottamagne. Well now they're here with us.

1406
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 4: Good morning's happening.

1407
00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 3: We're got to and that your your ratings will rub

1408
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 3: off on us. Please rub me.

1409
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:03,840
Speaker 4: We're doing okay.

1410
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 6: So Charlottmagne, Envy, thank you for coming down. I know

1411
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 6: you have a busy, busy schedule. You guys are always

1412
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 6: flying around and painting cars.

1413
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 4: And no I don't paint no car. That's I save

1414
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 4: my money.

1415
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:14,960
Speaker 3: Envy those beautiful cars.

1416
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 4: Thank you so much.

1417
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 6: Anyway, So I know you guys don't don't have long

1418
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:20,960
Speaker 6: so I'm not going to waste your time. The other day,

1419
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 6: Danielle and Gandhi and I came up with this idea

1420
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 6: ask a white man, but is nothing but white.

1421
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 4: Men in here.

1422
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 7: I have a lot of questions for that.

1423
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 4: Oh got you, okay, Gandhi have a lot of questions.

1424
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 6: I mean Gandhi's brown, yes, so I mean you're you're

1425
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 6: allowed to play too good? Thanks so, but you know

1426
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 6: I'm also gay, guys, so you can actually do ask

1427
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:42,440
Speaker 6: a gay or ask a white man you wanted to

1428
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 6: do a gay guy. By the way, I have a

1429
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 6: new segment coming out here me. It's called Honky of

1430
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 6: the Day.

1431
00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll get because I try to come up with

1432
00:59:53,000 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 3: as as original original material as I can't, welcome to

1433
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:04,640
Speaker 3: ask a white guy or ask a gay okay, starring

1434
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 3: our special guest, DJ Envy, Yes and Charlemagne. Hey, okay,

1435
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 3: that's where you have to ask a question.

1436
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 26: Oh okay, I guess my first question is for a

1437
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 26: white guy. Okay, why don't white people find taylors With annoying?

1438
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:24,439
Speaker 3: I don't know that some people some people do. Okay, wait,

1439
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 3: well hold on, do you do you guys find her annoying?

1440
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 26: I actually found her extremely annoying, especially when she wins

1441
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 26: the awards at the award shows and acts like she didn't

1442
01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 26: know she was gonna win.

1443
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 4: I hate that fake sur I hate that fake surprise stuff.

1444
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 24: I have a question, Yes, go right ahead, Envy white guys, Yes,

1445
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 24: why do you let your kids curse you out and

1446
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 24: you don't do nothing back to them?

1447
01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 4: That's a great question.

1448
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 3: All I have is a schnauzer, so I don't know.

1449
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 3: You know, we'll go to a white woman Danielle, You

1450
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 3: know what, in.

1451
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:49,720
Speaker 8: My house it doesn't happen.

1452
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:52,400
Speaker 2: Could because my husband's British from Europe, so he don't

1453
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 2: take that crap. But in some houses, Progby, you take

1454
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 2: this one.

1455
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 5: No, there's absolutely no chance my son is ever going

1456
01:00:58,320 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 5: to curse at me.

1457
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 3: Obviously zero. Obviously Ving has seen this. Now, Brody, you

1458
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,280
Speaker 3: have the three daughters. Surely they win every fight.

1459
01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:06,720
Speaker 16: Oh, I would say a new segment, Ask a white woman,

1460
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 16: because my wife lets it happen.

1461
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 3: As long as that, it's totally fine. Scarious.

1462
01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 26: I got three daughters to brody, so I know they feeling.

1463
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:18,919
Speaker 26: I just let them run all over me in my house.

1464
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:23,440
Speaker 3: Great question. It's a great question, though I never thought

1465
01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 3: there would be a problem. You know, Gandhi you can

1466
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 3: play too, you know. Okay, so ask a why guy?

1467
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 3: Ask a gay?

1468
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 7: All right? Why is clapping on rhythm so difficult?

1469
01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 3: It's not for me because gay guys have rhythm.

1470
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 4: What kind of clapping we talking about?

1471
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 3: That's where I lose my rhythm. Okay, this is going well.

1472
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:47,200
Speaker 3: You know, it's taking an old time for you guys

1473
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:48,959
Speaker 3: to you know, squeeze out some questions.

1474
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:51,840
Speaker 26: I got one hold back, Yes, charle ma is Kelly Clarkson,

1475
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 26: since you've been gone the white version of a negro spiritual.

1476
01:01:54,760 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 3: Yes, she is our negro spiritual. Later all right, okay,

1477
01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 3: I get it. That's a fair question. The answer is yes, yes, yes, y'all.

1478
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 26: Cats the Holy Ghost when that comes on, absolutely, it

1479
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 26: looks like y'all in the Black Church.

1480
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 4: I've seen it.

1481
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:18,960
Speaker 3: Yes, I love I love it. I love Jesus.

1482
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 4: Believe you do.

1483
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 3: I know Swiss, Swiss Jesus, Jesus, cheddar Jesus, Jesus.

1484
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:32,760
Speaker 5: Give please give do it, do do it?

1485
01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:34,160
Speaker 3: You guys, you haven't.

1486
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:36,280
Speaker 4: Heard this before, Karry, he was about to play another

1487
01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 4: white negro spiritual.

1488
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 5: No, no, no, Charlottage has never heard you praised jess Envy.

1489
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 3: You never heard me praise Jeesus.

1490
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 4: Let's go, Elvis take him to church. Godfather, you're ready

1491
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:45,160
Speaker 4: to go.

1492
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:52,920
Speaker 3: Oh my god. I I love your Godfather.

1493
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 1: I love.

1494
01:02:55,120 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 3: I love me Jesus because I love imagine.

1495
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 4: All right, that's the collection. Please.

1496
01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 3: There's nothing that gets me going like some monster. I

1497
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 3: love American cheese, even though someone argued the American cheese

1498
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 3: ain't cheese. I love China. I love smoke good. I

1499
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 3: love moderate Jack, I love cheese. Hey, you know every

1500
01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:32,520
Speaker 3: time and Charlamagne visit our show, we go, we just

1501
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 3: drive on. You're supposed to be Ask a white man,

1502
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:37,560
Speaker 3: Ask again, white man?

1503
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 4: I gottakay?

1504
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 3: Okay, white guys, Yes, why do you always shorts in

1505
01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:41,680
Speaker 3: the winter?

1506
01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:42,760
Speaker 19: You good?

1507
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 4: That's a good one.

1508
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:49,440
Speaker 3: Listen because our legs matched the snow.

1509
01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 7: It's a cameo.

1510
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 4: I do.

1511
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:53,280
Speaker 3: I love wearing shorts in the way.

1512
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:55,520
Speaker 7: I just feel the.

1513
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:57,800
Speaker 3: Reason we don't have we don't feel temperature below our wieners.

1514
01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:00,480
Speaker 4: I think they I think they want to show that

1515
01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 4: their white skin is shypia.

1516
01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 3: All year round. We have four seasons of being superior.

1517
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:11,920
Speaker 4: Anybody else want to go?

1518
01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:12,560
Speaker 3: Come on?

1519
01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 4: Okay, white men?

1520
01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 3: Yes?

1521
01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 4: Do white people think O J did it?

1522
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:16,600
Speaker 3: Yes?

1523
01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 7: Okay, black people think did it?

1524
01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 4: Not this black person?

1525
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 3: But yes, wait, I'm open. I'm open to have a conversation.

1526
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 3: So who did it?

1527
01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 4: Could have been his son?

1528
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:36,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I heard that too, that documentary.

1529
01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:43,440
Speaker 4: That's what I mean, That's what I d then.

1530
01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:47,959
Speaker 3: But let me tell you, let me tell you something.

1531
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:48,400
Speaker 4: You know me.

1532
01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 3: I'm open minded. I'll listen to any in everyone's opinion,

1533
01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 3: and I cannot disagree with you. I can't. I wasn't there.

1534
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:55,640
Speaker 3: I didn't see it happened.

1535
01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 4: No, OJ did it, he did it.

1536
01:04:58,040 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 3: I didn't do it. You don't know that.

1537
01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 4: I don't. I don't know for sure.

1538
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:09,640
Speaker 9: But it's an innocent for that, but you're found guilty

1539
01:05:09,680 --> 01:05:11,920
Speaker 9: for what the thing he forgot, found guilty.

1540
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:13,760
Speaker 10: For something his own stuff back?

1541
01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 3: Okay, okay. Questions Ask a white guy, ask a gay

1542
01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:18,440
Speaker 3: Do you guys are here here?

1543
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 4: Why have people really considered mayonnaise a delicacy?

1544
01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:25,040
Speaker 12: No, I will throw up off you with mayonnaise anywhere

1545
01:05:25,080 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 12: near me.

1546
01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 3: Not a delicacy, but it's so good on so many things.

1547
01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:29,240
Speaker 3: I know you hate manase? Yeah?

1548
01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:30,440
Speaker 4: Why they eating it out the jar?

1549
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 10: And I don't you ever seen that?

1550
01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:38,480
Speaker 3: I would never was. Yes. Do you want to ask

1551
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 3: a black guy anything while we're here? Yeah? Why you

1552
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 3: hate mayonnaise?

1553
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:42,960
Speaker 5: Just disgusting?

1554
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 4: It is Satan's condiment.

1555
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:47,600
Speaker 3: It's growing. Let me tell you a reason why I

1556
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:50,600
Speaker 3: don't like to go skiing, because because it's all white people,

1557
01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 3: and I think if it's I never see white people

1558
01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:57,480
Speaker 3: skiing ski No answer me, Why don't you want to

1559
01:05:57,520 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 3: go skiing?

1560
01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 4: I just never thought about it, exactly.

1561
01:06:00,600 --> 01:06:02,160
Speaker 26: I don't think that doesn't look fun to me, like

1562
01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 26: getting on a slide and just going down a hill.

1563
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 3: And let me be honest with you, it's not so

1564
01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 3: I do it. So you know me, I got a

1565
01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:09,320
Speaker 3: little black in me.

1566
01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 4: Why do it?

1567
01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 3: But I don't do it. That's my part that I

1568
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 3: refused to go skiing because it's just it's just like

1569
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:15,320
Speaker 3: a bunch.

1570
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:15,600
Speaker 4: Of white people.

1571
01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 3: You had black in.

1572
01:06:18,520 --> 01:06:19,280
Speaker 25: What was his name?

1573
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 10: What was his name?

1574
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:25,520
Speaker 3: Blame it was about It wasn't that long ago. Maybe

1575
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 3: don't get in trouble with Alex maybe eleven years right,

1576
01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 3: eleven years scary. I have a question for a, by

1577
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 3: the way, scary, the whitest man in America. Okay, go

1578
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 3: ahead ahead, Scary. Why don't you.

1579
01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 16: Ever peel the stickers off your baseball cat?

1580
01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:44,760
Speaker 4: That's a good question.

1581
01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 3: That is stupid on the scary abo if he's wearing

1582
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:54,680
Speaker 3: a Yankees cat and I don't know why you have

1583
01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 3: the sticker?

1584
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:55,320
Speaker 15: Yeah?

1585
01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:56,480
Speaker 2: How much was that cat?

1586
01:06:58,000 --> 01:06:59,480
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1587
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 3: What hell on? White man? Brodie says he knows the name.

1588
01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:05,040
Speaker 3: The answer yes to Blaxplain.

1589
01:07:04,600 --> 01:07:07,400
Speaker 4: Though, Master Blackford.

1590
01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:09,040
Speaker 3: I asked the black.

1591
01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 16: Man with a sticker on his hat, and he said,

1592
01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:13,240
Speaker 16: so it remains fresh out the box.

1593
01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:16,520
Speaker 1: Like that.

1594
01:07:16,800 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 26: Anytime you see me keeping the stickers on my thtuffs

1595
01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:24,160
Speaker 26: because I'm taking it back. Got from Barney's in New York,

1596
01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 26: because I took him back some jeans he definitely did.

1597
01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:28,959
Speaker 26: I had some how stupid I was. This is early

1598
01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:30,360
Speaker 26: on with the Brex Club. I bought a pair of

1599
01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:33,400
Speaker 26: fifteen hundred dollar jeans from Barney's. And then after the

1600
01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:35,439
Speaker 26: iHeart Festival, I took him right back, kept three seats

1601
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 26: on HI throughout the whole iHeart f and everything exactly

1602
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:39,480
Speaker 26: when he brought it back.

1603
01:07:40,760 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 7: That's why I.

1604
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 3: Forget they listened to you down down at the Barneys.

1605
01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:48,080
Speaker 8: But white women do this all the time.

1606
01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:50,800
Speaker 2: We buy a fancy dress for something, and we stick

1607
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:52,160
Speaker 2: the tags and then we return it.

1608
01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:55,000
Speaker 4: After Okay, okay, okay.

1609
01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 3: Why grape soda.

1610
01:07:56,800 --> 01:07:59,600
Speaker 4: I don't drink soda. I'm a water guy. I'd never

1611
01:07:59,680 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 4: been in the grape so.

1612
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 9: Grape soda was usually cheap in you know, you usually

1613
01:08:02,240 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 9: get grape soda for fifty cents, so you know with

1614
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 9: the off brand.

1615
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:08,280
Speaker 4: Was what was the one I was supposed to make

1616
01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:10,120
Speaker 4: it so that you can't have babies. What was that soda?

1617
01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:11,040
Speaker 11: I can't remember.

1618
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 9: It was a soda that allegedly grape soda, that it

1619
01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:16,679
Speaker 9: stopped you from having babies.

1620
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:20,120
Speaker 3: On the alorda, you were you were using grape soda

1621
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:20,880
Speaker 3: as birth control.

1622
01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:25,280
Speaker 10: I got five kids.

1623
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 3: It's like definitely, it's like using a spermicidal jelly when smuckers.

1624
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:33,559
Speaker 26: Grape's the white people out there listening, like, we really

1625
01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:34,919
Speaker 26: have to do more in the black community.

1626
01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:36,879
Speaker 4: They're using crape SODA's birth control.

1627
01:08:37,760 --> 01:08:39,280
Speaker 5: Generals, They'll never know.

1628
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:44,240
Speaker 26: More money in the plants topicable fantasy.

1629
01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:48,200
Speaker 6: Allegedly, I'm gonna go get me a case of that, Gandhi.

1630
01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 3: Any questions for U? You could do questions for the

1631
01:08:51,200 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 3: black guy or the white guy, or the gay gus

1632
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:53,200
Speaker 3: or the.

1633
01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 7: White people in the room, not just the guys. How

1634
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:58,679
Speaker 7: come you never talk about your cousins or have family reunions.

1635
01:08:58,160 --> 01:09:08,280
Speaker 4: Because they all sleep with each other? So we did, Yeah, we.

1636
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 3: Do febi re unions in private.

1637
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 5: In the dog our trees have no branches. That's awful one, okay, now.

1638
01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:20,760
Speaker 3: Hold on, the text are coming in. Why did Blaite

1639
01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 3: people wear winter coats in the summer?

1640
01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:26,040
Speaker 26: That is the nutrient that just thought seriously to hide

1641
01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 26: your gun or hide something stop it.

1642
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:30,160
Speaker 4: You stop with those negative stereotypes.

1643
01:09:30,320 --> 01:09:32,880
Speaker 3: None, that is true. I think it's good. I think

1644
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 3: it's because it looks good because in the winter, coach

1645
01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:35,800
Speaker 3: look great.

1646
01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:37,360
Speaker 26: By the way, you can only get away with that

1647
01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:39,160
Speaker 26: if you're a rapper. I'm not that cool yet, Like

1648
01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:40,640
Speaker 26: I see rappers do that all the time, Like, how

1649
01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 26: are they getting.

1650
01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:41,360
Speaker 4: Away with that?

1651
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 3: Degree, I'm not that cool yet. That means you feel

1652
01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:45,679
Speaker 3: like you're on your way to being cool.

1653
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:47,360
Speaker 26: Maybe I've been trying it. I've been starting with like

1654
01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 26: long sleeve T shirts into summer.

1655
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 4: Dude. Next year, Next year, I might be moving up

1656
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:52,000
Speaker 4: to the leather jacket.

1657
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:55,040
Speaker 3: That's that's the gateway garments question. Yes, then d J

1658
01:09:55,200 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 3: mvy white people. Yes, why don't you wash it chicken

1659
01:09:58,439 --> 01:09:59,040
Speaker 3: before you eat it?

1660
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 2: I always wash my check I always wash my chicken.

1661
01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:02,320
Speaker 3: I always wash my chicken.

1662
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:04,360
Speaker 8: But apparently you're not supposed.

1663
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:06,000
Speaker 3: To watch the baia splatters everywhere.

1664
01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:08,439
Speaker 26: You know, who came up with that roll a white man,

1665
01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:10,439
Speaker 26: And that's why we should not take it serious.

1666
01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:11,920
Speaker 3: Okay I did.

1667
01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:15,000
Speaker 26: The white man told us not to wash our chicken.

1668
01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:17,400
Speaker 26: All right, We're washing our chicken for years, and all

1669
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:18,840
Speaker 26: of a sudden, like stop washing your chicken?

1670
01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:21,800
Speaker 4: Why what is the reason? No, I washed my chick.

1671
01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:22,880
Speaker 3: You know who taught me to do that.

1672
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:25,559
Speaker 6: My friend Charmaine, who is black by the way, She's like,

1673
01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:27,280
Speaker 6: why don't you white people watch your you know what?

1674
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:28,960
Speaker 3: From now on, I will wash my chicken because I'm

1675
01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:29,920
Speaker 3: listening to you. I love you.

1676
01:10:29,960 --> 01:10:31,720
Speaker 4: Where you know doctor I said, don't wash the chicken.

1677
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you want He just't. He doesn't want you

1678
01:10:33,360 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 3: to just flatter the bacteria.

1679
01:10:34,520 --> 01:10:35,080
Speaker 8: He's a white man.

1680
01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:39,800
Speaker 3: When that question, what does that text?

1681
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:41,920
Speaker 4: Next question? That doesn't want to I want to see

1682
01:10:42,640 --> 01:10:43,720
Speaker 4: people swim.

1683
01:10:44,120 --> 01:10:46,800
Speaker 3: I see black people swimming all the time. I don't know.

1684
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 4: No, we can't swim. Not that.

1685
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 2: Why don't you ski? You don't like to ski.

1686
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:51,120
Speaker 3: We just talked about that.

1687
01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:53,559
Speaker 2: But he didn't say why because it's.

1688
01:10:53,520 --> 01:10:55,439
Speaker 4: It's too cold and black people using it on swim

1689
01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:56,360
Speaker 4: because we don't have pools.

1690
01:10:56,800 --> 01:10:58,559
Speaker 3: We don't get pools, so we don't learn how to swim.

1691
01:10:58,640 --> 01:11:00,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, we usually Yeah, we don't go up with Yeah.

1692
01:11:01,160 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 4: I mean my daughters know how to swim.

1693
01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:03,479
Speaker 15: That has changed.

1694
01:11:03,520 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 3: But you got no money, bro, you got some money.

1695
01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:07,920
Speaker 4: Bro, I'm doing I'm doing. I don't have no pool you.

1696
01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:12,479
Speaker 3: Got pool money, pool, I guess what, how's your career going?

1697
01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:13,400
Speaker 3: I got pool money?

1698
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:18,400
Speaker 4: We don't like the ski down slope.

1699
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:20,680
Speaker 3: Well, no one has the gay guy question. It's all

1700
01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:21,599
Speaker 3: been one guy.

1701
01:11:21,600 --> 01:11:24,479
Speaker 5: Question's got to have a gay guy question. Come on, Charlotte,

1702
01:11:25,720 --> 01:11:26,479
Speaker 5: you got tons of them.

1703
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:28,639
Speaker 4: I have, I mean I have, I have so many

1704
01:11:28,640 --> 01:11:30,639
Speaker 4: gay guy questions. I mean I don't know. I talk

1705
01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 4: to gay guys all the time, so I don't know.

1706
01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:33,880
Speaker 3: Answer a few of those.

1707
01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 4: Me with a good time, Elvis Durant.

1708
01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:40,640
Speaker 3: Anyway, Well, thank you guys for coming in.

1709
01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:44,080
Speaker 26: Yes, I appreciate it, Janvy, thank Cose, Charlot Mane.

1710
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:45,280
Speaker 4: I do have a question for a gay guy, but

1711
01:11:45,360 --> 01:11:46,519
Speaker 4: I just don't know if it's appropriate.

1712
01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:48,599
Speaker 3: Well, okay, well we have a dumb button.

1713
01:11:48,960 --> 01:11:51,320
Speaker 26: I would just say, do gay men think that they

1714
01:11:51,360 --> 01:11:52,719
Speaker 26: give filatio better than women?

1715
01:11:52,840 --> 01:11:53,080
Speaker 3: Yes?

1716
01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:56,280
Speaker 4: Oh that's a quick answer. Yeah, how do you know?

1717
01:11:56,320 --> 01:11:56,639
Speaker 4: That's what.

1718
01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:00,920
Speaker 12: The morning show?

1719
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:02,839
Speaker 3: Who brings the loop? I don't know.

1720
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:05,600
Speaker 6: You know, it's good to heaven, ready to go in

1721
01:12:05,680 --> 01:12:08,720
Speaker 6: all time. That's why I keep slipping off my chair.

1722
01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:10,920
Speaker 26: Yeah, I mean if I just don't I don't really

1723
01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:13,720
Speaker 26: have questions because I mean, gay people are just people too.

1724
01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:17,639
Speaker 6: Ye, But but but white people are white people.

1725
01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:19,040
Speaker 4: Aren't that's just sad.

1726
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:24,599
Speaker 6: Well, welcome to ask a white guy. Ask a gay

1727
01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:27,280
Speaker 6: with DJ Envy and Charlotmagne from the Breakfast.

1728
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 4: Club and he's white and I'm gay.

1729
01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:35,120
Speaker 3: Oh my dear lord, all right, get out of here,

1730
01:12:35,360 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 3: you guys. We gotta we gotta clean up this mess.

1731
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:45,080
Speaker 12: Oh my god, I knows.

1732
01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:46,559
Speaker 3: You know what makes me mad? They can get away

1733
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 3: with so much more on their show.

1734
01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:48,080
Speaker 16: They can.

1735
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:49,559
Speaker 6: And you know, but if we tried to do half

1736
01:12:49,600 --> 01:12:51,120
Speaker 6: the stuff they do do on their show, that they

1737
01:12:51,120 --> 01:12:52,519
Speaker 6: would they would run us out of town.

1738
01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:55,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that is true. No one knows a

1739
01:12:55,280 --> 01:13:00,000
Speaker 3: guy like another guy. Just I'll be back on that question. Scary, scary,

1740
01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:01,760
Speaker 3: I don't know. I just you know, you coming up

1741
01:13:01,760 --> 01:13:02,800
Speaker 3: with your own conclusion there.

1742
01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:05,760
Speaker 6: Anyway, that was great. This is what I love about

1743
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:08,280
Speaker 6: where we work. Even though we were with six radio

1744
01:13:08,280 --> 01:13:11,360
Speaker 6: stations in this one building. We just have the best

1745
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:14,200
Speaker 6: people work in here. And Envy and Charlemagne they have

1746
01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 6: just been just they've been so great to us and

1747
01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:19,120
Speaker 6: so supportive. That's why anytime they want to do anything,

1748
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:21,880
Speaker 6: I got to say, support them, always be there for them.

1749
01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 3: It's our family. It's our family, even though they ask

1750
01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:30,000
Speaker 3: embarrassing questions.

1751
01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:35,920
Speaker 12: This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

1752
01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:38,800
Speaker 3: You know, we sit in this room. We love each other,

1753
01:13:38,840 --> 01:13:41,519
Speaker 3: We know each other very well. You know, we have

1754
01:13:41,560 --> 01:13:43,120
Speaker 3: so many people listening to the show, and we want

1755
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:45,120
Speaker 3: to get to know the people who are listening to

1756
01:13:45,120 --> 01:13:47,680
Speaker 3: our show as well. Like this, And it just came

1757
01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:48,400
Speaker 3: out of nowhere.

1758
01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:52,680
Speaker 6: Where I will ask a listener a question, they will

1759
01:13:52,680 --> 01:13:54,720
Speaker 6: give an answer, and it will go around the room.

1760
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:57,680
Speaker 6: Then gandhi, you have to base your next question on

1761
01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:01,320
Speaker 6: the answer they just gave I, Like this, all right,

1762
01:14:01,479 --> 01:14:03,800
Speaker 6: this is how we get to know someone. Larry King,

1763
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:05,240
Speaker 6: I don't know if knew who he was. He was

1764
01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:08,559
Speaker 6: a great interviewer and he always said, there's no reason

1765
01:14:08,600 --> 01:14:11,160
Speaker 6: to prep for an interview. Just have one question ready

1766
01:14:11,240 --> 01:14:13,759
Speaker 6: to go, and every question you asked for the next

1767
01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 6: hour is based on the answer they.

1768
01:14:15,840 --> 01:14:16,240
Speaker 4: Just gave you.

1769
01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:19,960
Speaker 7: Okay, that's cool, very interesting, right, yeah, all right, and

1770
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:20,960
Speaker 7: it shows that you're listening.

1771
01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:24,680
Speaker 3: I'm sure what'd you say, getting.

1772
01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:24,800
Speaker 10: To know you?

1773
01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:30,120
Speaker 3: Getting to know about you? Good morning, Bethany.

1774
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:36,320
Speaker 1: I think you might mean Stephanie, Oh, Stephanie, Good morning, guys,

1775
01:14:36,439 --> 01:14:39,200
Speaker 1: you guys have no idea how long I've waited. I

1776
01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 1: have called you guys thousands of times, and my boyfriend

1777
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:44,800
Speaker 1: is very doubtful, like you're not going to get through,

1778
01:14:44,840 --> 01:14:46,880
Speaker 1: and oh my god, you just showed him wrong.

1779
01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:50,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, Stephanie, Stephanie, Stephanie, it's so good to have you,

1780
01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:52,720
Speaker 6: and it's time for us to get to know you,

1781
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:57,840
Speaker 6: because you know what, getting to know you makes us

1782
01:14:58,040 --> 01:15:03,360
Speaker 6: feel real keen. All right, Stephanie, I'm gonna ask a

1783
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:05,360
Speaker 6: question and you give it an answer, and all you

1784
01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:06,960
Speaker 6: do is just sit there and let us just fire

1785
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:07,800
Speaker 6: some questions at you.

1786
01:15:07,840 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, all right, Stephanie. You're from Cleveland, by the way,

1787
01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:15,479
Speaker 3: listening to Kids ninety six. Thank you for listening to us. Stephanie.

1788
01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:16,360
Speaker 3: What do you do for a living?

1789
01:15:16,920 --> 01:15:18,040
Speaker 1: I'm a tattoo artist?

1790
01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:22,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, all right, gandhi, all right, man, there are so

1791
01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 7: many for this one. What is the craziest tattoo you've

1792
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:27,519
Speaker 7: ever put on someone's body?

1793
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:33,040
Speaker 1: I actually did a bloody tampon on somebody, and then

1794
01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 1: I also tattooed seven wieners on my own leg.

1795
01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:40,719
Speaker 3: Okay, oh oh.

1796
01:15:40,600 --> 01:15:41,960
Speaker 7: I wish I had the follow up to this.

1797
01:15:42,880 --> 01:15:46,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can send me an email address. I can

1798
01:15:46,560 --> 01:15:48,720
Speaker 1: totally send you a picture of my wianers.

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01:15:49,040 --> 01:15:53,000
Speaker 3: Okay, well, and I'll do the same Froggy. What is

1800
01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:54,240
Speaker 3: your follow up for Stephanie?

1801
01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:57,200
Speaker 5: Now, those seven wieners that you're tattooed on your leg,

1802
01:15:57,280 --> 01:15:59,240
Speaker 5: did they represent seven different people?

1803
01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:03,559
Speaker 1: No? No, no, it's just I'm a very weird person and

1804
01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:05,880
Speaker 1: that's just one of the things that I collect. And

1805
01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:08,360
Speaker 1: my boyfriend saw this picture on mine, he goes, you

1806
01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:12,439
Speaker 1: need this, and I'm totally agree. I needed this, so

1807
01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:13,880
Speaker 1: I tattooed it on my thigh.

1808
01:16:13,920 --> 01:16:15,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love it.

1809
01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:17,160
Speaker 6: By the way, just a little pause in the action,

1810
01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:18,480
Speaker 6: I'm loving Stefan.

1811
01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:21,880
Speaker 3: Okay, So based on that answer, Danielle, Okay, so.

1812
01:16:21,800 --> 01:16:23,720
Speaker 2: You said that you are a weird person and you

1813
01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:27,840
Speaker 2: collect things. So what other weird things do you collect?

1814
01:16:28,520 --> 01:16:32,280
Speaker 1: Animal bones? I actually have a raccoons wiener bone, and

1815
01:16:33,080 --> 01:16:36,439
Speaker 1: I yeah, I'm just yeah ideal.

1816
01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:39,720
Speaker 3: By the way, another pause in the action, Diamond, you

1817
01:16:39,840 --> 01:16:40,679
Speaker 3: just redeemed yourself.

1818
01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:40,960
Speaker 13: This is.

1819
01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:47,320
Speaker 3: All right wiener bones, Nate, Okay, question.

1820
01:16:47,160 --> 01:16:50,040
Speaker 5: Where did you get the raccoon wiener bone at.

1821
01:16:49,920 --> 01:16:50,879
Speaker 1: A tattooed convention?

1822
01:16:55,240 --> 01:16:57,599
Speaker 3: All right? Scary scary follow up?

1823
01:16:57,600 --> 01:17:01,840
Speaker 16: On the tattoo convention. What other types of conventions have

1824
01:17:01,920 --> 01:17:02,400
Speaker 16: you been to?

1825
01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:04,519
Speaker 12: Uh?

1826
01:17:04,600 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 1: Comic con?

1827
01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:07,800
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1828
01:17:07,920 --> 01:17:10,280
Speaker 3: Very nice? All right, my turn. I guess God, I

1829
01:17:10,280 --> 01:17:14,120
Speaker 3: wish I could follow up on the Wiener bone comic con.

1830
01:17:14,320 --> 01:17:17,040
Speaker 6: What is it in your life, Stephanie, that had, in

1831
01:17:17,080 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 6: your opinion, that has led you down this pathway to

1832
01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:23,959
Speaker 6: these interesting unusual Uh I don't want to say fetishes,

1833
01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:28,559
Speaker 6: but uh, interests and like comic con and tattoos, Like

1834
01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:30,320
Speaker 6: what's your in your background?

1835
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:31,519
Speaker 3: Made you who you are today?

1836
01:17:32,520 --> 01:17:33,760
Speaker 1: I think that it has to do with the little

1837
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:36,680
Speaker 1: with my grandmother and my mother. My grandmother was a seamstress.

1838
01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:40,960
Speaker 1: My mother took over that, so I learned how to sew, crochet, crossed, ditch,

1839
01:17:41,600 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 1: needle point, I can pain. I'm a jack of all

1840
01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:48,360
Speaker 1: traits and I used to draw all the time, color

1841
01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:52,720
Speaker 1: anything crafty and I was just meant for this. It

1842
01:17:52,760 --> 01:17:53,800
Speaker 1: was a calling for me.

1843
01:17:54,080 --> 01:17:56,920
Speaker 7: That is so awesome. So do your mom and your

1844
01:17:56,920 --> 01:17:59,479
Speaker 7: grandma who you got all of these wonderful skills from.

1845
01:17:59,600 --> 01:18:01,320
Speaker 7: No about out your Wiener tattoos?

1846
01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:04,640
Speaker 1: Oh yes, yes, my mom thinks I'm very weird, but

1847
01:18:04,680 --> 01:18:06,120
Speaker 1: she wouldn't have me any other way.

1848
01:18:06,240 --> 01:18:06,760
Speaker 27: Nah.

1849
01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:08,040
Speaker 7: Wow he seems pretty awesome.

1850
01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:10,000
Speaker 3: All right? Sure is your follow up? Frog?

1851
01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:12,720
Speaker 5: You seem to be very open. Is there anything you

1852
01:18:12,800 --> 01:18:15,040
Speaker 5: don't tell your mom? You've told her about the Seven Wieners?

1853
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:16,720
Speaker 5: Is there anything you're holding back from your mom that

1854
01:18:16,720 --> 01:18:17,120
Speaker 5: you'd like.

1855
01:18:17,080 --> 01:18:17,599
Speaker 3: To share with us?

1856
01:18:17,640 --> 01:18:18,240
Speaker 19: Oh?

1857
01:18:18,400 --> 01:18:22,080
Speaker 1: No, No, I tell my mom everything. Every grewsome little

1858
01:18:22,320 --> 01:18:25,680
Speaker 1: piece of my soul. My mother knows.

1859
01:18:25,920 --> 01:18:30,519
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Dane, So do you think you got this

1860
01:18:30,840 --> 01:18:33,000
Speaker 2: from your mother? Is your mother just as weird as

1861
01:18:33,000 --> 01:18:33,320
Speaker 2: you are?

1862
01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:37,080
Speaker 1: She's getting a little more weirder in her old age.

1863
01:18:37,120 --> 01:18:41,760
Speaker 1: I had to bring it out of her, all right?

1864
01:18:41,840 --> 01:18:44,719
Speaker 3: The follow up from Nature? Okay, your mom's weird.

1865
01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:47,800
Speaker 11: If your mom this may be a yes or no question,

1866
01:18:47,840 --> 01:18:50,479
Speaker 11: but I want you to elaborate. If your mom asked

1867
01:18:50,520 --> 01:18:53,519
Speaker 11: for you to tattoo a very private part of her body,

1868
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:54,560
Speaker 11: would you do it?

1869
01:18:54,720 --> 01:18:54,920
Speaker 9: Oh?

1870
01:18:55,040 --> 01:18:58,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, elaborate, Please elaborate.

1871
01:18:59,160 --> 01:19:01,639
Speaker 1: Does your mom have a I am all for body

1872
01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:05,040
Speaker 1: positivity and if this would make her happy and feel

1873
01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:07,559
Speaker 1: comfortable in her own skin, by all means, I will

1874
01:19:07,600 --> 01:19:09,479
Speaker 1: do whatever it takes to make my mother happy.

1875
01:19:09,640 --> 01:19:13,040
Speaker 3: All right, do another loop? I think we should on

1876
01:19:13,200 --> 01:19:14,200
Speaker 3: that scary follow up?

1877
01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:17,080
Speaker 16: So what advice do you have for people and women

1878
01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:18,760
Speaker 16: about body positivity.

1879
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:19,599
Speaker 3: Let's take it there.

1880
01:19:21,400 --> 01:19:24,400
Speaker 1: Probably just make sure you are comfortable with yourself. Don't

1881
01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:27,120
Speaker 1: let anybody tell you otherwise. If you have a boyfriend

1882
01:19:27,120 --> 01:19:29,920
Speaker 1: that says, oh, you shouldn't get this as a tattoo,

1883
01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:33,000
Speaker 1: it wouldn't look right, dump them right there, because they

1884
01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:34,800
Speaker 1: don't want to be with you. They want to be

1885
01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:37,599
Speaker 1: with the essence of you. And if they can't accept

1886
01:19:37,640 --> 01:19:40,040
Speaker 1: you for what you have on your body, what you

1887
01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:42,679
Speaker 1: look like, they're not the right person for you. They're

1888
01:19:42,720 --> 01:19:45,040
Speaker 1: supposed to build you up, not break you down.

1889
01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:49,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, girl, wow, Stephanie, you are just amazing.

1890
01:19:49,640 --> 01:19:51,920
Speaker 6: You are amazing, all right, So let me follow up

1891
01:19:51,920 --> 01:19:54,320
Speaker 6: on that. I don't want to get too dark, but

1892
01:19:54,320 --> 01:19:56,920
Speaker 6: if you go dark, that's where we're going. So was

1893
01:19:56,920 --> 01:20:00,240
Speaker 6: there anything in your life, any any major made your

1894
01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:02,759
Speaker 6: moment in your life that made you go, wait a minute,

1895
01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:06,800
Speaker 6: I get it now now that this has happened, I

1896
01:20:06,920 --> 01:20:09,799
Speaker 6: now love myself and treat myself differently.

1897
01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:11,479
Speaker 3: Was that was there a moment that was a turning

1898
01:20:11,479 --> 01:20:12,280
Speaker 3: point in your life?

1899
01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:15,000
Speaker 1: My child giving birth to my eight year old, and

1900
01:20:15,040 --> 01:20:17,479
Speaker 1: I did that with no epidural so I felt every

1901
01:20:17,560 --> 01:20:20,360
Speaker 1: ounce of pain and he is the one that changed

1902
01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:22,280
Speaker 1: my life around for the best.

1903
01:20:22,680 --> 01:20:24,480
Speaker 3: All right, Gandhi.

1904
01:20:24,280 --> 01:20:28,240
Speaker 7: That's wonderful. Okay. So what was your life like before

1905
01:20:28,320 --> 01:20:30,360
Speaker 7: your child that you feel like maybe he needed to

1906
01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:33,000
Speaker 7: change or if you felt there was.

1907
01:20:32,600 --> 01:20:38,040
Speaker 1: Good everything everything. I was going down a very destructive

1908
01:20:38,160 --> 01:20:43,920
Speaker 1: path with destructive people, and that surprise just turned me

1909
01:20:44,000 --> 01:20:46,320
Speaker 1: around because all I wanted to be was a mom,

1910
01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:48,800
Speaker 1: and now I get to be a cool mom. He's

1911
01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 1: the coolest kid in school.

1912
01:20:50,880 --> 01:20:55,519
Speaker 3: Wow. Okay, your follow up, Froggy.

1913
01:20:55,640 --> 01:20:58,400
Speaker 5: So, with him changing your life the way he has,

1914
01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:01,080
Speaker 5: do you try and steer him to stop from the

1915
01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:03,400
Speaker 5: things that maybe you thought bad paths you were going

1916
01:21:03,439 --> 01:21:05,160
Speaker 5: down that you'll steer him in a better direction.

1917
01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:08,840
Speaker 1: Yes. And I also try to give him other outlooks

1918
01:21:08,880 --> 01:21:11,720
Speaker 1: that he could do any other way to express his

1919
01:21:11,800 --> 01:21:15,519
Speaker 1: creativity that would be in a healthy way instead of

1920
01:21:15,600 --> 01:21:16,400
Speaker 1: being destructive.

1921
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:18,240
Speaker 3: All right.

1922
01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:20,640
Speaker 2: Follow up, Danielle, So does your son use you as

1923
01:21:20,680 --> 01:21:22,920
Speaker 2: show and tal and say, hey, look at the penises

1924
01:21:22,960 --> 01:21:23,800
Speaker 2: on my mom's leg.

1925
01:21:25,120 --> 01:21:29,320
Speaker 1: You know, we tell him not to discuss what tattoos

1926
01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 1: I have, but he does. He's my biggest advocate. He

1927
01:21:33,600 --> 01:21:37,760
Speaker 1: my mom's tattoo artist. He tattoos everybody. He's going to

1928
01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:40,720
Speaker 1: tell everybody our life story when he needs them.

1929
01:21:40,920 --> 01:21:44,160
Speaker 4: One second, all right, follow up your tattoo artist.

1930
01:21:44,240 --> 01:21:45,400
Speaker 5: Your mom's a tattoo artist.

1931
01:21:45,479 --> 01:21:47,400
Speaker 11: Has anybody ever come into the tattoo shop and just

1932
01:21:47,439 --> 01:21:49,600
Speaker 11: point at the wall and say, give me that one.

1933
01:21:49,720 --> 01:21:50,599
Speaker 5: And what was it?

1934
01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 1: I'm not that kind of I'd like to make and

1935
01:21:56,960 --> 01:22:00,280
Speaker 1: customize the pieces for everybody else. So I'm not like, here,

1936
01:22:00,400 --> 01:22:02,519
Speaker 1: pick this off the wall and I'm gonna tattoo on it,

1937
01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:05,360
Speaker 1: or someone brings me a picture of a tattoo that's

1938
01:22:05,400 --> 01:22:09,680
Speaker 1: already someone's tattoo. I'd rather create it and remake it

1939
01:22:09,720 --> 01:22:10,479
Speaker 1: into my own.

1940
01:22:11,880 --> 01:22:13,920
Speaker 6: Okay, I'm glad it's my turn now. Stephanie, by the way,

1941
01:22:14,040 --> 01:22:15,719
Speaker 6: having so much fun with you. Thank you for spending

1942
01:22:15,720 --> 01:22:16,200
Speaker 6: time with us.

1943
01:22:16,560 --> 01:22:18,120
Speaker 1: I'm having so much fun with you.

1944
01:22:18,160 --> 01:22:18,439
Speaker 19: Guys.

1945
01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:19,519
Speaker 1: You have no idea you know.

1946
01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:23,960
Speaker 6: What you seem like such you seem so well connected

1947
01:22:24,000 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 6: to the people you're talking to, because obviously you're connecting

1948
01:22:26,040 --> 01:22:27,920
Speaker 6: with us in tens of millions of people right now.

1949
01:22:28,840 --> 01:22:30,280
Speaker 3: So if I walked into.

1950
01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:33,960
Speaker 6: You your business and this is kind of where I

1951
01:22:33,960 --> 01:22:36,120
Speaker 6: am with a tattoo, I'm fifty something years old.

1952
01:22:36,160 --> 01:22:38,280
Speaker 3: I still don't have one. I want one. Oh my goodness,

1953
01:22:38,400 --> 01:22:40,760
Speaker 3: I can't land on the one I want. What kind

1954
01:22:40,760 --> 01:22:43,760
Speaker 3: of psychology? What kind of conversation do you have with

1955
01:22:43,800 --> 01:22:47,040
Speaker 3: someone to like me to help make me figure out

1956
01:22:47,080 --> 01:22:48,320
Speaker 3: what tattoo I should get.

1957
01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:52,839
Speaker 1: I feel like you should get something that's definitely meaningful

1958
01:22:52,920 --> 01:22:56,599
Speaker 1: to you. Not your significant other's name, because that's always

1959
01:22:56,600 --> 01:23:01,400
Speaker 1: a bad juju for relationship, Yes, ma'am, but get something

1960
01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:06,200
Speaker 1: meaningful that could represent you, your pets, your your significant

1961
01:23:06,200 --> 01:23:10,040
Speaker 1: other or deceased one, something that you won't regret. I

1962
01:23:10,080 --> 01:23:12,640
Speaker 1: got all the tattoos that meant something to me, and

1963
01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:16,760
Speaker 1: now I'm getting the tattoos that don't mean anything. Just

1964
01:23:16,880 --> 01:23:20,240
Speaker 1: make sure that you focus on something that you were

1965
01:23:20,240 --> 01:23:21,840
Speaker 1: going to want to look at for the rest of

1966
01:23:21,880 --> 01:23:24,840
Speaker 1: your life, because once it's there, you can't change that.

1967
01:23:25,680 --> 01:23:27,120
Speaker 5: She can give you a wiener elvis.

1968
01:23:27,479 --> 01:23:33,040
Speaker 3: I already have one. I'm on Instagram looking at Streeter tattoo.

1969
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:33,639
Speaker 3: Is that you.

1970
01:23:35,080 --> 01:23:41,920
Speaker 1: It's actually tattoo slap tattoo, tatt underscore l ap forget.

1971
01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:44,640
Speaker 6: I said that, Okay, she just told me one more

1972
01:23:44,720 --> 01:23:46,479
Speaker 6: round because I'm having so much fun. She just told

1973
01:23:46,479 --> 01:23:48,080
Speaker 6: me the philosophy of what I should go through in

1974
01:23:48,200 --> 01:23:50,000
Speaker 6: order to chuse the tattoo, So pick it up.

1975
01:23:50,000 --> 01:23:52,680
Speaker 3: Scary, Well, did I skip you last one?

1976
01:23:54,720 --> 01:23:58,200
Speaker 16: So give us give us another positive, awesome philosophy of

1977
01:23:58,280 --> 01:23:59,920
Speaker 16: your life that has nothing to do with the tattoo.

1978
01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:01,000
Speaker 3: Something different.

1979
01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:06,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, my wife is literally tattoos,

1980
01:24:06,320 --> 01:24:08,719
Speaker 1: and my child wow.

1981
01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:09,960
Speaker 2: And I like your blue hair.

1982
01:24:10,040 --> 01:24:11,320
Speaker 6: By the way, I think we can leave it at that.

1983
01:24:11,520 --> 01:24:16,960
Speaker 6: You all right, it's tattoo underscore slap. How did you

1984
01:24:17,040 --> 01:24:19,240
Speaker 6: choose tattoo underscore slap? That sounds fun?

1985
01:24:19,920 --> 01:24:22,479
Speaker 1: Well, tattoo of course because it's tattoos. But my name

1986
01:24:22,760 --> 01:24:26,799
Speaker 1: is Stephanie Lee and Persowski, so my initial spell slap.

1987
01:24:27,040 --> 01:24:31,679
Speaker 3: Okay, that's perfect. I love it. You know what, Stephanie,

1988
01:24:32,040 --> 01:24:33,680
Speaker 3: you are so much fun to talk to.

1989
01:24:33,960 --> 01:24:34,240
Speaker 4: You know what.

1990
01:24:34,479 --> 01:24:36,000
Speaker 3: I'm so glad we got to know you today, and

1991
01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:37,880
Speaker 3: I know there's much more. I know that was just

1992
01:24:38,320 --> 01:24:38,799
Speaker 3: the surface.

1993
01:24:39,160 --> 01:24:41,559
Speaker 2: She's You're beautiful, beautiful, thank.

1994
01:24:41,479 --> 01:24:44,400
Speaker 3: You you great and blue god beautiful. Oh.

1995
01:24:44,479 --> 01:24:45,840
Speaker 2: I love your coraline one.

1996
01:24:45,920 --> 01:24:46,719
Speaker 7: It's so cute.

1997
01:24:47,520 --> 01:24:47,800
Speaker 4: Thank you.

1998
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Speaker 1: That's my girl, Megan. I love her so much.

1999
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Speaker 6: Okay, and again, if you want to check out Stephanie

2000
01:24:52,360 --> 01:24:56,120
Speaker 6: on Instagram, it's tattoo, underscore slap and you know what,

2001
01:24:56,240 --> 01:24:58,120
Speaker 6: it's been fun getting to know you.

2002
01:25:01,840 --> 01:25:05,880
Speaker 3: We could do this without this dumb song. Stephanie, have

2003
01:25:05,960 --> 01:25:08,400
Speaker 3: a great day. Okay, thank you so much.

2004
01:25:08,520 --> 01:25:10,920
Speaker 1: I'm so happy. I hope you guys have a great day.

2005
01:25:11,040 --> 01:25:11,280
Speaker 1: Thank you.

2006
01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:13,360
Speaker 6: Because of you, we now will thank you very much.

2007
01:25:13,479 --> 01:25:16,080
Speaker 6: Say say thank you again to Stephanie Diamond.

2008
01:25:16,080 --> 01:25:17,040
Speaker 3: She's all yours. That was great.

2009
01:25:18,240 --> 01:25:20,160
Speaker 12: The Mercedes Benz Interview.

2010
01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:23,360
Speaker 3: Lounge Master of Me is her new biography. It's Kickith Palmer.

2011
01:25:23,479 --> 01:25:25,360
Speaker 2: Hey, I have a question about the book. If I

2012
01:25:25,560 --> 01:25:28,040
Speaker 2: listen to it on like an audible, are you telling

2013
01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:28,519
Speaker 2: the story?

2014
01:25:28,600 --> 01:25:28,760
Speaker 26: Yes?

2015
01:25:28,960 --> 01:25:29,840
Speaker 3: Yes, so take an.

2016
01:25:31,760 --> 01:25:33,320
Speaker 10: I live take an edible, turn on Audible.

2017
01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:38,640
Speaker 6: It's the Mercedes Benz Holiday Love Celebration, going on now

2018
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Speaker 6: through January second.

2019
01:25:40,120 --> 01:25:43,720
Speaker 3: Learn more at mbusa dot com. Slash special offers.

2020
01:25:43,600 --> 01:25:50,679
Speaker 12: Elvista Ran in the Morning Show, Ellis in the Morning Show, our.

2021
01:25:50,600 --> 01:25:52,960
Speaker 3: Own Ali Gold. We love our Alley Ellie.

2022
01:25:54,120 --> 01:25:57,000
Speaker 6: Uh, She's in charge of all things social on our show,

2023
01:25:57,000 --> 01:25:59,439
Speaker 6: which is just a huge part of our show. So, Alie,

2024
01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:03,400
Speaker 6: we always loved listening to your stories of your love

2025
01:26:03,479 --> 01:26:07,760
Speaker 6: life because you have many and I don't know, it's

2026
01:26:07,800 --> 01:26:11,160
Speaker 6: always interesting to hear your stories because it's rough out

2027
01:26:11,160 --> 01:26:12,479
Speaker 6: there in the dating world.

2028
01:26:12,640 --> 01:26:15,200
Speaker 2: Right, it is rough, Elvis.

2029
01:26:16,280 --> 01:26:19,200
Speaker 3: So you you went on vacation with someone.

2030
01:26:19,560 --> 01:26:21,680
Speaker 17: I went on vacation with the guy that I was

2031
01:26:21,840 --> 01:26:25,000
Speaker 17: calling my boyfriend, and I went on vacation with him

2032
01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:27,200
Speaker 17: and his family, and he decided to break up with

2033
01:26:27,320 --> 01:26:28,599
Speaker 17: me three days into the trip.

2034
01:26:29,280 --> 01:26:31,760
Speaker 2: Wow, so I am the range.

2035
01:26:32,120 --> 01:26:34,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's get some background here. How long you had

2036
01:26:34,400 --> 01:26:35,160
Speaker 3: you been dating him?

2037
01:26:35,640 --> 01:26:38,680
Speaker 17: We had been officially dating for six months, right, there

2038
01:26:38,800 --> 01:26:40,960
Speaker 17: is no I love yous And he basically told me

2039
01:26:41,080 --> 01:26:42,120
Speaker 17: he couldn't love me.

2040
01:26:43,120 --> 01:26:44,400
Speaker 3: Wo, wow, my god.

2041
01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:46,320
Speaker 7: What did you do for the rest of the trip.

2042
01:26:46,800 --> 01:26:49,240
Speaker 17: Well, I had to find my way two hours to

2043
01:26:49,320 --> 01:26:51,000
Speaker 17: the next public transportation site.

2044
01:26:51,640 --> 01:26:53,160
Speaker 3: Woh my god, I hate him so much.

2045
01:26:53,360 --> 01:26:56,639
Speaker 2: Oh wait, that was your choice or his choice?

2046
01:26:57,520 --> 01:26:59,840
Speaker 17: Like, Well, we were talking and he was like, maybe

2047
01:26:59,880 --> 01:27:01,120
Speaker 17: we can take a break, and I was like, I

2048
01:27:01,160 --> 01:27:03,599
Speaker 17: don't know if I can stay here with someone who

2049
01:27:03,680 --> 01:27:04,919
Speaker 17: doesn't know if he wants.

2050
01:27:04,720 --> 01:27:05,240
Speaker 1: To be with me.

2051
01:27:05,400 --> 01:27:06,240
Speaker 17: Like, that's not fair.

2052
01:27:06,360 --> 01:27:08,200
Speaker 3: So he basically kicked you out.

2053
01:27:08,320 --> 01:27:09,360
Speaker 8: He basically kicked me out.

2054
01:27:10,560 --> 01:27:13,679
Speaker 2: Wow, what a jacket.

2055
01:27:13,920 --> 01:27:15,320
Speaker 3: He couldn't wait till you got back.

2056
01:27:15,600 --> 01:27:17,880
Speaker 17: Serious, he couldn't do it before I took a week

2057
01:27:17,920 --> 01:27:19,280
Speaker 17: of vacation to spend with him.

2058
01:27:19,360 --> 01:27:20,880
Speaker 7: Those My first question, I said, did you get your

2059
01:27:20,920 --> 01:27:21,720
Speaker 7: vacation days back?

2060
01:27:22,960 --> 01:27:25,000
Speaker 3: God? Gandhi?

2061
01:27:25,360 --> 01:27:30,400
Speaker 6: Well, okay, okay, just for the sake of conversation, and

2062
01:27:30,520 --> 01:27:32,559
Speaker 6: you know we love you. We're always team Ali, right,

2063
01:27:32,800 --> 01:27:35,559
Speaker 6: you know that if there was another side of the story,

2064
01:27:35,640 --> 01:27:36,080
Speaker 6: what would it be?

2065
01:27:37,680 --> 01:27:42,439
Speaker 17: I think, like from his perspective, I think he literally said,

2066
01:27:42,560 --> 01:27:46,000
Speaker 17: everything feels perfect, it just feels like something's missing. I

2067
01:27:46,120 --> 01:27:50,439
Speaker 17: think he just didn't feel the way I felt towards him.

2068
01:27:50,800 --> 01:27:52,840
Speaker 17: I think he didn't think we were a match.

2069
01:27:53,280 --> 01:27:56,920
Speaker 6: Okay, well that's do you find as awful as that sounds.

2070
01:27:57,560 --> 01:28:00,760
Speaker 6: And the timing of telling you this was off, way off?

2071
01:28:01,160 --> 01:28:03,840
Speaker 6: Do you you see that that could be possible from

2072
01:28:03,880 --> 01:28:04,439
Speaker 6: his point of view.

2073
01:28:04,680 --> 01:28:06,479
Speaker 17: Yeah, I think there's a lot of things that made

2074
01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:09,840
Speaker 17: us different. But what I pushed them aside because I

2075
01:28:10,160 --> 01:28:13,599
Speaker 17: really did care about him. I found companionship in him,

2076
01:28:13,840 --> 01:28:16,599
Speaker 17: and I really honestly loved hanging out with him.

2077
01:28:16,600 --> 01:28:17,599
Speaker 8: I loved being with him.

2078
01:28:17,840 --> 01:28:17,960
Speaker 19: Right.

2079
01:28:18,160 --> 01:28:23,080
Speaker 17: There was not really any problems and then, but there

2080
01:28:23,160 --> 01:28:26,519
Speaker 17: were things I definitely overlooked because I cared about him,

2081
01:28:26,560 --> 01:28:28,640
Speaker 17: and I think there were things about me, that he

2082
01:28:28,760 --> 01:28:33,720
Speaker 17: couldn't overlook that he decided what he couldn't be with me, because.

2083
01:28:33,680 --> 01:28:36,120
Speaker 3: Well, I know, but these things can be talked about

2084
01:28:36,160 --> 01:28:40,120
Speaker 3: in a conversation, first of all. Secondly, to to have

2085
01:28:40,200 --> 01:28:42,439
Speaker 3: this conversation with our little sister Ali while you're on

2086
01:28:42,560 --> 01:28:45,200
Speaker 3: vacation with her and it takes her, you know how

2087
01:28:45,320 --> 01:28:49,000
Speaker 3: uncomfortable for you with his family? I know, but you

2088
01:28:49,040 --> 01:28:52,320
Speaker 3: know what, I'm just gonna say, someone who does that,

2089
01:28:54,280 --> 01:28:55,280
Speaker 3: you don't want to be with him.

2090
01:28:56,880 --> 01:29:01,479
Speaker 6: Really, I mean, I agreed it even as much as

2091
01:29:01,520 --> 01:29:04,760
Speaker 6: it hurts the way it happens, It's like, Okay, well

2092
01:29:04,800 --> 01:29:06,640
Speaker 6: it happened, Rip the band aid off, let's move on.

2093
01:29:06,720 --> 01:29:08,559
Speaker 3: And I know it's not that easy. And who am

2094
01:29:08,600 --> 01:29:11,599
Speaker 3: I to say that's easy. It's not. So what about

2095
01:29:11,640 --> 01:29:12,920
Speaker 3: dating apps? Are you gonna go back on?

2096
01:29:13,000 --> 01:29:20,360
Speaker 17: And I'm already back on too, Yeah, get back up.

2097
01:29:20,439 --> 01:29:23,639
Speaker 17: I wanted to, Like I felt very defeated last week.

2098
01:29:23,720 --> 01:29:26,599
Speaker 17: I felt like I'm getting older, like all the good

2099
01:29:26,640 --> 01:29:29,320
Speaker 17: ones are taking kind of mentality, and so I just

2100
01:29:29,360 --> 01:29:31,720
Speaker 17: wanted to put myself on there just to like make

2101
01:29:31,760 --> 01:29:34,280
Speaker 17: sure I knew that there were still guys out there,

2102
01:29:34,439 --> 01:29:37,120
Speaker 17: Like there's still people like me, that just got hurt

2103
01:29:37,200 --> 01:29:40,200
Speaker 17: later and like also want to settle down there.

2104
01:29:40,240 --> 01:29:42,880
Speaker 7: Absolutely are, it's so hard to feel like that.

2105
01:29:42,960 --> 01:29:45,120
Speaker 3: I know, I know, I know.

2106
01:29:45,320 --> 01:29:47,640
Speaker 6: Look, you know, well we all understand how relationships are.

2107
01:29:47,760 --> 01:29:50,040
Speaker 6: You know, it's it's it's it's two people in two

2108
01:29:50,120 --> 01:29:52,719
Speaker 6: lanes that have to merge into one lane, and sometimes

2109
01:29:52,760 --> 01:29:54,840
Speaker 6: it just doesn't work. One doesn't want to merge with

2110
01:29:54,920 --> 01:29:57,080
Speaker 6: the other. It's it's it's not right whatever.

2111
01:29:57,120 --> 01:29:59,760
Speaker 3: Okay, I get that, But to take someone of a

2112
01:29:59,800 --> 01:30:04,120
Speaker 3: ca with your family, you kind of automatically assume that

2113
01:30:04,200 --> 01:30:06,439
Speaker 3: he's told the family what's going on too, and then

2114
01:30:06,479 --> 01:30:10,200
Speaker 3: you're like, uh, this is creepy and uncomfortable. I got

2115
01:30:10,320 --> 01:30:11,920
Speaker 3: to get out of here. And then I don't know.

2116
01:30:12,120 --> 01:30:14,240
Speaker 7: Now she's never going to take another vacation with another

2117
01:30:14,320 --> 01:30:15,439
Speaker 7: boyfriend and his family.

2118
01:30:15,760 --> 01:30:22,439
Speaker 3: Yes, she will, won't you. I mean, look, you don't

2119
01:30:22,479 --> 01:30:23,920
Speaker 3: have to think about that now. You don't have to

2120
01:30:24,240 --> 01:30:25,920
Speaker 3: go on a vacation with one right now to prove

2121
01:30:26,000 --> 01:30:28,880
Speaker 3: you can. But yeah, no, I want to go on

2122
01:30:28,920 --> 01:30:29,600
Speaker 3: a vacation with you.

2123
01:30:29,760 --> 01:30:30,080
Speaker 2: Elvis.

2124
01:30:30,320 --> 01:30:31,479
Speaker 7: Your vacations looks.

2125
01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:35,559
Speaker 2: Will send you home in the middle, but you are

2126
01:30:35,560 --> 01:30:38,200
Speaker 2: a place of employment. If you have like a sucky

2127
01:30:38,280 --> 01:30:41,080
Speaker 2: vacation should give you your vacation days back totally. Like

2128
01:30:41,840 --> 01:30:45,000
Speaker 2: it's like, whatever the reason that the vacation sucked, they go,

2129
01:30:45,240 --> 01:30:47,400
Speaker 2: you know what, we're not going to take that away.

2130
01:30:47,160 --> 01:30:50,320
Speaker 5: From your Everybody would come home and go, my vacation

2131
01:30:50,520 --> 01:30:51,120
Speaker 5: was just the worst.

2132
01:30:53,439 --> 01:30:55,600
Speaker 3: Danielle. Once again it with great ideas.

2133
01:30:58,479 --> 01:30:58,919
Speaker 7: Vacations.

2134
01:30:59,120 --> 01:31:01,320
Speaker 3: Yes, of course, Look, if.

2135
01:31:01,240 --> 01:31:03,519
Speaker 6: You're grieving the loss of a family member or a pet,

2136
01:31:03,720 --> 01:31:05,320
Speaker 6: they should give you a time some time off.

2137
01:31:05,360 --> 01:31:07,599
Speaker 3: But I break the breaking up thing. We're not there

2138
01:31:07,680 --> 01:31:08,680
Speaker 3: quite yet. Yeah what, Nate?

2139
01:31:08,760 --> 01:31:08,800
Speaker 18: What?

2140
01:31:09,000 --> 01:31:09,240
Speaker 3: Okay?

2141
01:31:09,360 --> 01:31:11,960
Speaker 11: So Ali did something really smart, which I was going

2142
01:31:12,000 --> 01:31:14,599
Speaker 11: to suggest, but she already did it. The last time

2143
01:31:14,640 --> 01:31:17,240
Speaker 11: I got broken up with I always thought about the

2144
01:31:17,320 --> 01:31:18,840
Speaker 11: great things in the relationship, like.

2145
01:31:18,840 --> 01:31:20,400
Speaker 3: Oh my god, we used to go to movies together.

2146
01:31:21,760 --> 01:31:24,360
Speaker 3: And then my friend goes, hey, there are some crappy

2147
01:31:24,439 --> 01:31:25,360
Speaker 3: stuff that you went through.

2148
01:31:25,439 --> 01:31:27,439
Speaker 7: To focus on that, yeah, talk about it.

2149
01:31:27,600 --> 01:31:28,680
Speaker 3: So Alan did a great things.

2150
01:31:28,720 --> 01:31:31,120
Speaker 11: She wrote down all the negative stuff about the relationship

2151
01:31:31,160 --> 01:31:32,040
Speaker 11: and she's focusing on that.

2152
01:31:32,160 --> 01:31:32,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's great.

2153
01:31:32,800 --> 01:31:33,200
Speaker 4: Good for you.

2154
01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:36,720
Speaker 3: Let's make your list. Number one, his crotch had a

2155
01:31:36,800 --> 01:31:37,400
Speaker 3: musky odor.

2156
01:31:37,520 --> 01:31:41,439
Speaker 7: Number one, make sure to tell everyone that he needs

2157
01:31:41,479 --> 01:31:42,160
Speaker 7: to clean better.

2158
01:31:44,320 --> 01:31:46,720
Speaker 3: It's number one. We love you?

2159
01:31:46,960 --> 01:31:49,439
Speaker 6: Hey, Alli, I mean are you Did you hear us

2160
01:31:49,439 --> 01:31:53,040
Speaker 6: talking earlier about how two thirds of couples were friends

2161
01:31:53,080 --> 01:31:54,880
Speaker 6: for at least a year before they became couples.

2162
01:31:55,040 --> 01:31:57,160
Speaker 17: Yes, I walked into the studio and you guys were

2163
01:31:57,200 --> 01:31:57,760
Speaker 17: talking about that.

2164
01:31:58,080 --> 01:31:58,400
Speaker 3: All right.

2165
01:31:58,720 --> 01:32:02,880
Speaker 6: Have you seen this TikTok video that will make everyone

2166
01:32:02,960 --> 01:32:04,439
Speaker 6: fall in love with you? Let's try it, shall we

2167
01:32:04,479 --> 01:32:07,360
Speaker 6: can have some I need some love music. Scary, See

2168
01:32:07,360 --> 01:32:13,920
Speaker 6: what dumb song he finds? Yeah, TikTok user shares a

2169
01:32:14,120 --> 01:32:18,800
Speaker 6: psychology love eye trick Ali. She says it has the

2170
01:32:18,880 --> 01:32:21,760
Speaker 6: magic to draw in the object of your affection, and

2171
01:32:21,880 --> 01:32:23,799
Speaker 6: it really should only work.

2172
01:32:23,680 --> 01:32:25,920
Speaker 3: With people you already know, not people you just meet

2173
01:32:25,960 --> 01:32:26,799
Speaker 3: in a bar and try.

2174
01:32:26,640 --> 01:32:26,920
Speaker 13: To do this.

2175
01:32:27,360 --> 01:32:32,200
Speaker 3: All right, here we go, good music here and oh

2176
01:32:33,720 --> 01:32:37,599
Speaker 3: all right, So once you're in a one on one

2177
01:32:37,720 --> 01:32:39,120
Speaker 3: with your romantic.

2178
01:32:38,840 --> 01:32:43,719
Speaker 6: Target, wait until they're speaking to you and try these

2179
01:32:44,120 --> 01:32:51,080
Speaker 6: simple steps. So producer Sam is sitting next to Ali gold.

2180
01:32:51,720 --> 01:32:53,880
Speaker 6: All right, here's what you do now, Ali looks Sam

2181
01:32:53,960 --> 01:32:57,639
Speaker 6: in the eyes. You're good friends, right, yes, yes, yes, okay,

2182
01:32:57,800 --> 01:33:00,639
Speaker 6: here's okay. Three simple steps. Number one, look at their

2183
01:33:00,800 --> 01:33:04,880
Speaker 6: left eye for one second, then look at their mouth

2184
01:33:05,200 --> 01:33:08,040
Speaker 6: for one to two seconds, and finish it off by

2185
01:33:08,120 --> 01:33:09,439
Speaker 6: looking at their right eye.

2186
01:33:10,439 --> 01:33:14,360
Speaker 7: Oh so you do the there's some steam there, so.

2187
01:33:14,560 --> 01:33:16,599
Speaker 6: It's it's look at their left eye or one eye

2188
01:33:16,640 --> 01:33:18,320
Speaker 6: for about a second, then look at their mouth for

2189
01:33:18,320 --> 01:33:20,000
Speaker 6: a couple of seconds, then look at the other eye.

2190
01:33:20,760 --> 01:33:21,240
Speaker 3: That's the.

2191
01:33:24,000 --> 01:33:24,280
Speaker 8: Same.

2192
01:33:25,240 --> 01:33:25,519
Speaker 4: Okay.

2193
01:33:26,040 --> 01:33:28,560
Speaker 3: Did you feel some kind of spark some connection in

2194
01:33:28,680 --> 01:33:28,960
Speaker 3: doing that?

2195
01:33:29,800 --> 01:33:33,040
Speaker 7: I was sexual? Yeah, yeah, my nipples.

2196
01:33:32,720 --> 01:33:33,680
Speaker 2: Are hard there.

2197
01:33:36,439 --> 01:33:38,799
Speaker 6: They call it a triangle because then you you repeat,

2198
01:33:38,920 --> 01:33:40,320
Speaker 6: you go back from one eye to the other and

2199
01:33:40,439 --> 01:33:41,519
Speaker 6: down to the mouth and up to the eye, and

2200
01:33:41,560 --> 01:33:43,320
Speaker 6: you do the triangle when you're speaking with them, and

2201
01:33:43,439 --> 01:33:44,920
Speaker 6: you need to be close enough for the you know,

2202
01:33:45,040 --> 01:33:49,120
Speaker 6: you just see the eyes moving. You know, I'm gonna

2203
01:33:49,120 --> 01:33:51,160
Speaker 6: I'm gonna try this with myself in the mirror later.

2204
01:33:53,240 --> 01:33:55,000
Speaker 3: So did you guys get it? Okay? Who else wants

2205
01:33:55,040 --> 01:33:55,320
Speaker 3: to try it?

2206
01:33:55,439 --> 01:33:55,559
Speaker 15: Nate?

2207
01:33:55,960 --> 01:34:00,360
Speaker 3: You and Scary? No, no, scary, Come on, come on, Nate,

2208
01:34:00,479 --> 01:34:00,840
Speaker 3: get in it.

2209
01:34:02,479 --> 01:34:03,680
Speaker 7: You know Nate wants to try it with you.

2210
01:34:04,200 --> 01:34:06,519
Speaker 3: Now, who wants to do it? Does Nate want to target?

2211
01:34:06,600 --> 01:34:07,639
Speaker 3: Scary or scary? Target?

2212
01:34:07,760 --> 01:34:07,920
Speaker 18: Nate?

2213
01:34:08,600 --> 01:34:11,360
Speaker 3: You tell me, Nate, I'll target you. How about that?

2214
01:34:11,560 --> 01:34:11,880
Speaker 18: All right?

2215
01:34:12,360 --> 01:34:15,160
Speaker 3: Scary, scary.

2216
01:34:15,320 --> 01:34:20,040
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, you need no, no, you're not close and

2217
01:34:20,080 --> 01:34:21,479
Speaker 6: if you need to be like several feet away from

2218
01:34:21,479 --> 01:34:22,200
Speaker 6: each other, okay.

2219
01:34:22,080 --> 01:34:24,120
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm close. I'm fine. I don't need to get

2220
01:34:24,160 --> 01:34:24,559
Speaker 3: in close.

2221
01:34:24,720 --> 01:34:25,559
Speaker 5: Stop being a prude.

2222
01:34:25,680 --> 01:34:29,320
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, I'm already getting creeped out.

2223
01:34:31,000 --> 01:34:35,840
Speaker 6: His microphone is coming in hot scary. If you can

2224
01:34:35,920 --> 01:34:37,600
Speaker 6: make love to the board with your eyes, maybe it

2225
01:34:37,640 --> 01:34:40,519
Speaker 6: would work better. All right, now, I want you to

2226
01:34:41,040 --> 01:34:42,680
Speaker 6: look at Nate's left You have.

2227
01:34:42,680 --> 01:34:44,600
Speaker 3: To have a comment. This is really uncomfortable.

2228
01:34:45,240 --> 01:34:47,559
Speaker 6: Look at his left eye for about a second, then

2229
01:34:47,600 --> 01:34:49,120
Speaker 6: look down to the mouth, and then look at the

2230
01:34:49,160 --> 01:34:50,960
Speaker 6: right eye, and then triangle around. But you have to

2231
01:34:51,040 --> 01:34:53,920
Speaker 6: stop at each one for a little pregnant.

2232
01:34:55,760 --> 01:34:59,720
Speaker 3: I'm doing it, I know. Okay, so Nate, how does

2233
01:34:59,720 --> 01:34:59,920
Speaker 3: it make?

2234
01:35:01,680 --> 01:35:03,760
Speaker 6: But while you're saying what it feels like scary, you

2235
01:35:03,800 --> 01:35:05,400
Speaker 6: have to continue to do it while looking at each

2236
01:35:05,400 --> 01:35:05,960
Speaker 6: other in the eye.

2237
01:35:06,040 --> 01:35:11,360
Speaker 3: Okay, I feel like a sandwich. Keep looking at him, scary?

2238
01:35:11,400 --> 01:35:15,800
Speaker 3: Are you going from eye to ida? It's I can't,

2239
01:35:15,880 --> 01:35:17,000
Speaker 3: I can't. I can't do it anymore.

2240
01:35:17,000 --> 01:35:18,920
Speaker 4: I can't happen.

2241
01:35:19,600 --> 01:35:20,040
Speaker 25: You know why.

2242
01:35:20,479 --> 01:35:22,240
Speaker 3: He's uncomfortable and he's getting wood.

2243
01:35:22,320 --> 01:35:27,240
Speaker 10: I bet you anything, that's what happened.

2244
01:35:30,800 --> 01:35:33,160
Speaker 6: See No, Nate, be honest. Does that make you uncomfortable?

2245
01:35:33,160 --> 01:35:35,040
Speaker 6: Because it was it was too to turn him on?

2246
01:35:35,560 --> 01:35:36,200
Speaker 4: In another way?

2247
01:35:38,280 --> 01:35:42,040
Speaker 6: Did you become uncomfortable because there is some forced intimacy

2248
01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:44,120
Speaker 6: there that trying to kind of not even.

2249
01:35:44,080 --> 01:35:47,519
Speaker 3: Kidding, I got uncomfortable. It was like a hunger in

2250
01:35:47,640 --> 01:35:48,040
Speaker 3: his face.

2251
01:35:48,120 --> 01:35:49,400
Speaker 5: And it just was disturbing.

2252
01:35:51,320 --> 01:35:54,240
Speaker 3: Eat you like a boy, like a sandwich.

2253
01:35:54,400 --> 01:35:54,760
Speaker 4: I got it.

2254
01:35:55,160 --> 01:35:57,320
Speaker 3: Oh you come and do that with him? It's disturbing.

2255
01:35:57,560 --> 01:35:58,880
Speaker 5: No, I'm not gonna do it.

2256
01:35:58,920 --> 01:36:00,160
Speaker 3: I would never say yes to it.

2257
01:36:00,240 --> 01:36:03,400
Speaker 6: Stupid like this means it works if you ask me, well,

2258
01:36:03,520 --> 01:36:05,559
Speaker 6: it does force intimacy, but if one is creeped out

2259
01:36:05,600 --> 01:36:07,760
Speaker 6: by the other, it's it probably may force them to

2260
01:36:07,800 --> 01:36:10,400
Speaker 6: back off. So there must there must need to be

2261
01:36:11,120 --> 01:36:14,760
Speaker 6: some questioning connection there, like maybe this person could be

2262
01:36:14,840 --> 01:36:16,519
Speaker 6: kind of cool, and then when they come in for

2263
01:36:16,560 --> 01:36:19,680
Speaker 6: the attack and they target you with the the psychological

2264
01:36:20,080 --> 01:36:22,639
Speaker 6: love triangle between your eye and your lips.

2265
01:36:23,000 --> 01:36:24,519
Speaker 3: Oh, Gandhia, what do you think?

2266
01:36:25,240 --> 01:36:27,559
Speaker 7: I'm very interested to go try this, but I don't

2267
01:36:27,600 --> 01:36:30,519
Speaker 7: think it's gonna work because everybody got creeped out. They

2268
01:36:30,560 --> 01:36:32,599
Speaker 7: all got got weirded out by each other. I don't

2269
01:36:32,600 --> 01:36:34,280
Speaker 7: want to weird people out. I'm also a little bit

2270
01:36:34,360 --> 01:36:36,439
Speaker 7: nervous that when I look at someone's mouth, they're gonna

2271
01:36:36,439 --> 01:36:39,040
Speaker 7: think I'm looking at other parts. Well they if my

2272
01:36:39,080 --> 01:36:39,479
Speaker 7: eyes go.

2273
01:36:39,560 --> 01:36:41,880
Speaker 3: Down, but the other parts are so far away unless

2274
01:36:41,920 --> 01:36:47,160
Speaker 3: the parts in the mouth, I don't get it. Yeah, yes, froggy.

2275
01:36:47,800 --> 01:36:50,640
Speaker 5: I just feel like it's predicated, once again upon how

2276
01:36:50,720 --> 01:36:54,840
Speaker 5: attractive you are and how attractive the person finds you. Well, also,

2277
01:36:54,880 --> 01:36:57,439
Speaker 5: if you're attractive, then people don't mind if you're looking

2278
01:36:57,439 --> 01:36:59,200
Speaker 5: at them like that. Like if David Beckham starts looking

2279
01:36:59,200 --> 01:37:01,040
Speaker 5: at Dan Yell that way, she ain't got a bottler.

2280
01:37:01,160 --> 01:37:03,160
Speaker 5: But if Sary looks at her like that, she's gonna get.

2281
01:37:03,080 --> 01:37:05,639
Speaker 2: Angry, right, like creeping creeps or you don't want.

2282
01:37:05,600 --> 01:37:07,840
Speaker 3: Doing it while and of course, let's be honest, I

2283
01:37:07,880 --> 01:37:10,360
Speaker 3: mean us trying this with each other, we're setting.

2284
01:37:10,120 --> 01:37:12,840
Speaker 2: It up for failure, right, But you know someone's gonna

2285
01:37:12,840 --> 01:37:14,280
Speaker 2: say to you, what the hell are you looking at?

2286
01:37:14,439 --> 01:37:14,599
Speaker 1: Right?

2287
01:37:14,920 --> 01:37:16,800
Speaker 7: There's something in my nose where right?

2288
01:37:17,000 --> 01:37:19,640
Speaker 3: Throw my te you have a wonky eye? What's going

2289
01:37:19,680 --> 01:37:19,960
Speaker 3: on here?

2290
01:37:20,479 --> 01:37:20,599
Speaker 22: Well?

2291
01:37:20,640 --> 01:37:22,719
Speaker 3: Anyway, try it get back to me, text me tomorrow.

2292
01:37:22,840 --> 01:37:23,559
Speaker 3: Let me know how it worked.

2293
01:37:25,320 --> 01:37:26,120
Speaker 1: That's funny to me.

2294
01:37:26,240 --> 01:37:28,120
Speaker 7: It's funny. When do you have a sense of humor?

2295
01:37:28,479 --> 01:37:39,120
Speaker 12: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show? Is Elvis Duran in

2296
01:37:39,240 --> 01:37:40,000
Speaker 12: the Morning Show?

2297
01:37:42,080 --> 01:37:43,599
Speaker 3: What was I reading in the headline yesterday?

2298
01:37:43,640 --> 01:37:45,880
Speaker 6: I'm going to U Gandhi because you you're like me,

2299
01:37:46,000 --> 01:37:51,040
Speaker 6: You're all over the place reading stories the always sleep

2300
01:37:51,120 --> 01:37:52,200
Speaker 6: with your door closed?

2301
01:37:52,600 --> 01:37:53,920
Speaker 3: What did you read this story?

2302
01:37:54,080 --> 01:37:55,160
Speaker 7: I did read this story?

2303
01:37:55,280 --> 01:37:55,680
Speaker 15: What was it?

2304
01:37:56,200 --> 01:37:58,720
Speaker 7: Apparently sleeping with your door closed is a way to

2305
01:37:58,880 --> 01:38:02,560
Speaker 7: protect yourself in all kinds of scenarios, but specifically in

2306
01:38:02,720 --> 01:38:05,120
Speaker 7: case there is a fire. Apparently, if you sleep with

2307
01:38:05,200 --> 01:38:07,720
Speaker 7: your door shut, your chances of survival go through the

2308
01:38:07,840 --> 01:38:10,519
Speaker 7: roof versus leaving that door open, not just from the

2309
01:38:10,560 --> 01:38:11,639
Speaker 7: fire itself, but from smoke.

2310
01:38:11,720 --> 01:38:12,680
Speaker 3: Smoke being able to.

2311
01:38:12,680 --> 01:38:14,400
Speaker 7: Come into your room and incapacitate you.

2312
01:38:14,560 --> 01:38:16,000
Speaker 3: What story was this? What was this?

2313
01:38:16,240 --> 01:38:19,640
Speaker 7: This was actually from BuzzFeed. It was sixteen tips that

2314
01:38:19,760 --> 01:38:20,719
Speaker 7: can save your life.

2315
01:38:20,760 --> 01:38:21,280
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

2316
01:38:21,439 --> 01:38:23,519
Speaker 2: Now, if there's an axe murderer trying to get in,

2317
01:38:23,720 --> 01:38:26,080
Speaker 2: keeping the door closed, nothing right through that thing with

2318
01:38:26,120 --> 01:38:26,320
Speaker 2: the act.

2319
01:38:26,400 --> 01:38:27,720
Speaker 7: Yeah, but at least you would hear the axe as

2320
01:38:27,720 --> 01:38:29,360
Speaker 7: opposed to them just walking in and chopping off.

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01:38:29,240 --> 01:38:32,360
Speaker 3: Your headsheet, close your door, close your door. Okay, sixteen

2322
01:38:32,400 --> 01:38:33,160
Speaker 3: ways to save your life.

2323
01:38:33,240 --> 01:38:34,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, I won't read through all of them, but

2324
01:38:34,600 --> 01:38:36,439
Speaker 7: i'll give you some good on them.

2325
01:38:36,439 --> 01:38:37,200
Speaker 3: I don't care, all right.

2326
01:38:37,240 --> 01:38:40,280
Speaker 7: So, if your car's accelerator, pedal, get stuck, or something

2327
01:38:40,320 --> 01:38:43,160
Speaker 7: else is causing unintended acceleration, a lot of people keep

2328
01:38:43,200 --> 01:38:44,519
Speaker 7: trying to, you know, hit the brake or do whatever.

2329
01:38:44,560 --> 01:38:46,680
Speaker 7: Apparently you just put your car in neutral and that's

2330
01:38:46,680 --> 01:38:48,280
Speaker 7: supposed to be a way to help you slow down

2331
01:38:48,360 --> 01:38:49,599
Speaker 7: safely go home.

2332
01:38:50,120 --> 01:38:51,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, you got a thing fast.

2333
01:38:51,520 --> 01:38:54,160
Speaker 7: If you're ever being attacked or taken against your will,

2334
01:38:54,240 --> 01:38:57,519
Speaker 7: remember to scratch the crap out of whomever is getting you.

2335
01:38:57,920 --> 01:38:59,439
Speaker 7: Not only do you leave marks on them, but then

2336
01:38:59,479 --> 01:39:01,760
Speaker 7: you have DNA under your fingernails later.

2337
01:39:02,120 --> 01:39:06,719
Speaker 3: Nate, Hey, wait, I'm sorry. I just said that without thinking.

2338
01:39:07,040 --> 01:39:09,160
Speaker 7: Sleep with your door closed. We just talked about that one.

2339
01:39:09,640 --> 01:39:12,000
Speaker 7: Remember that a wagging tail on a dog does not

2340
01:39:12,200 --> 01:39:14,920
Speaker 7: always mean that dog is friendly and wants to be touched.

2341
01:39:15,000 --> 01:39:15,360
Speaker 1: We know that.

2342
01:39:15,479 --> 01:39:17,160
Speaker 7: So just because you think it's happy, it might not be.

2343
01:39:17,439 --> 01:39:19,200
Speaker 7: And the event that you need to break a car

2344
01:39:19,400 --> 01:39:22,320
Speaker 7: door window, do not smash it in the dead center.

2345
01:39:22,640 --> 01:39:24,320
Speaker 7: It's a lot harder to break in the center than

2346
01:39:24,360 --> 01:39:26,640
Speaker 7: it is on the sides. They say tempered glass is

2347
01:39:26,680 --> 01:39:28,439
Speaker 7: weaker on the sides, aim for the sides if you

2348
01:39:28,520 --> 01:39:32,240
Speaker 7: have to get out. Flammable and inflammable apparently mean the

2349
01:39:32,400 --> 01:39:33,000
Speaker 7: same thing.

2350
01:39:33,880 --> 01:39:34,560
Speaker 4: I never knew that.

2351
01:39:34,920 --> 01:39:37,439
Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, I was that inflammable event. It's not going

2352
01:39:37,520 --> 01:39:39,320
Speaker 7: to go up in flames, but these people are saying

2353
01:39:39,360 --> 01:39:39,559
Speaker 7: it does.

2354
01:39:39,680 --> 01:39:43,200
Speaker 3: Remember that next time you're lightening up your crack break exactly.

2355
01:39:43,880 --> 01:39:46,960
Speaker 7: If you get lost in the woods, stay where you are.

2356
01:39:47,160 --> 01:39:49,120
Speaker 7: The chances of finding a way out on your own

2357
01:39:49,120 --> 01:39:51,840
Speaker 7: are pretty slim, and you're creating a larger search area

2358
01:39:52,160 --> 01:39:53,600
Speaker 7: for people to try and come find you.

2359
01:39:53,880 --> 01:39:55,120
Speaker 3: Have you ever been lost in the woods?

2360
01:39:55,200 --> 01:39:57,760
Speaker 7: I have, yes, and it's terrifying. It's like how did

2361
01:39:57,800 --> 01:39:58,960
Speaker 7: I get here? And then you know, they say, go

2362
01:39:59,040 --> 01:40:00,479
Speaker 7: to the water and follow the water. What if there's

2363
01:40:00,479 --> 01:40:02,720
Speaker 7: no water, where do I go? They say, just stay put.

2364
01:40:03,280 --> 01:40:06,839
Speaker 7: Most drunk driving deaths occur on Saturday night between midnight

2365
01:40:06,920 --> 01:40:09,200
Speaker 7: and three am, So if you can avoid roads during

2366
01:40:09,240 --> 01:40:12,599
Speaker 7: these times, do that. If you are near the ocean

2367
01:40:12,720 --> 01:40:17,000
Speaker 7: and the water suddenly disappears or recedes unexpectedly, get out

2368
01:40:17,080 --> 01:40:19,720
Speaker 7: at the high We saw that in the tsunami back

2369
01:40:19,760 --> 01:40:22,320
Speaker 7: in early two thousands because a lot of people saw

2370
01:40:22,360 --> 01:40:24,439
Speaker 7: that water reced and went to the water to say, oh,

2371
01:40:24,479 --> 01:40:26,679
Speaker 7: what's going on, what's happening, and then that big wave

2372
01:40:26,760 --> 01:40:27,200
Speaker 7: came after.

2373
01:40:27,400 --> 01:40:27,559
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2374
01:40:28,520 --> 01:40:31,040
Speaker 7: A former nine one one operator said, do not feel

2375
01:40:31,080 --> 01:40:32,840
Speaker 7: bad about calling nine to one one. If it's not

2376
01:40:32,880 --> 01:40:35,360
Speaker 7: an emergency, they'll tell you to call non emergency. But

2377
01:40:35,439 --> 01:40:37,920
Speaker 7: a lot of times an emergency is something that could

2378
01:40:37,960 --> 01:40:40,800
Speaker 7: potentially happen and they need to know. So call if

2379
01:40:40,840 --> 01:40:43,680
Speaker 7: you see something that's scaring you. Chemical burns are not

2380
01:40:43,880 --> 01:40:46,120
Speaker 7: like fire or heat. A lot of times you won't

2381
01:40:46,160 --> 01:40:49,000
Speaker 7: immediately feel the reflex action of pain, but your skin

2382
01:40:49,040 --> 01:40:51,679
Speaker 7: could get severely burned, so pay attention to the chemical.

2383
01:40:51,720 --> 01:40:54,120
Speaker 7: If you've spilled something on yourself, and not always do

2384
01:40:54,200 --> 01:40:56,360
Speaker 7: you use water to get it off. Sometimes that could

2385
01:40:56,400 --> 01:41:00,080
Speaker 7: make it worse. Number twelve. If you're scuba diving and

2386
01:41:00,200 --> 01:41:03,479
Speaker 7: you're going to vomit, do not take your mask off

2387
01:41:03,560 --> 01:41:06,800
Speaker 7: to vomit. Oh really, they say, vomit right into the

2388
01:41:06,880 --> 01:41:10,080
Speaker 7: regulator because apparently it will get sucked out. But your

2389
01:41:10,160 --> 01:41:12,840
Speaker 7: natural instinct if you vomit is to take a deep breath,

2390
01:41:12,880 --> 01:41:14,439
Speaker 7: and if you throw up underwater, then try to take

2391
01:41:14,439 --> 01:41:15,679
Speaker 7: a deep breath. You know what's going to happen.

2392
01:41:16,200 --> 01:41:17,479
Speaker 3: Danielle, no vomiting.

2393
01:41:19,320 --> 01:41:20,720
Speaker 2: I cannot vomit inside my mask.

2394
01:41:21,200 --> 01:41:22,240
Speaker 3: I don't think of mayonnaise.

2395
01:41:23,520 --> 01:41:25,120
Speaker 7: Purple flags at the beach, do you guys know what

2396
01:41:25,200 --> 01:41:28,800
Speaker 7: that means. It means dangerous wildlife in the area. A

2397
01:41:28,840 --> 01:41:30,640
Speaker 7: lot of people just look for the red flags, but

2398
01:41:30,720 --> 01:41:33,800
Speaker 7: purple flags also mean watch out, jellyfish, all kinds of

2399
01:41:33,800 --> 01:41:39,559
Speaker 7: things that can get If you get trapped on thin

2400
01:41:39,760 --> 01:41:42,080
Speaker 7: ice and you're worried that it's going to crack, they

2401
01:41:42,160 --> 01:41:44,439
Speaker 7: say the thing to do is lie down and crawl

2402
01:41:44,560 --> 01:41:46,840
Speaker 7: on your stomach instead of trying to take those steps

2403
01:41:46,880 --> 01:41:48,880
Speaker 7: because it's more pressurized in one area.

2404
01:41:49,280 --> 01:41:50,320
Speaker 3: You're spreading out to weight right.

2405
01:41:50,439 --> 01:41:54,160
Speaker 2: Their grills taught me that in one of those shows.

2406
01:41:53,800 --> 01:41:57,439
Speaker 7: That he was onto something Fellas. You need to check

2407
01:41:57,520 --> 01:42:00,360
Speaker 7: your nuts at least once a week. They say, don't

2408
01:42:00,360 --> 01:42:01,800
Speaker 7: be afraid to go to the doctor if you notice

2409
01:42:01,800 --> 01:42:03,840
Speaker 7: something different. A lot of guys get hesitant, don't want

2410
01:42:03,880 --> 01:42:05,679
Speaker 7: to do it, but it's very important central to saving

2411
01:42:05,680 --> 01:42:06,040
Speaker 7: your life.

2412
01:42:06,040 --> 01:42:07,280
Speaker 3: If you don't want to, I'll do it for you.

2413
01:42:08,479 --> 01:42:12,120
Speaker 7: Line up, everyone, line up, check this one. We all

2414
01:42:12,200 --> 01:42:13,680
Speaker 7: know this because we live in New York City. But

2415
01:42:13,840 --> 01:42:16,760
Speaker 7: if you're on or close to train rails, trains move

2416
01:42:16,800 --> 01:42:19,080
Speaker 7: a whole lot faster than you think they do. You

2417
01:42:19,160 --> 01:42:20,560
Speaker 7: don't have time to get out of the way like

2418
01:42:20,640 --> 01:42:23,560
Speaker 7: you might assume. Just don't approach them, they say. And

2419
01:42:23,760 --> 01:42:26,519
Speaker 7: the last one, if you can learn to give yourself

2420
01:42:26,560 --> 01:42:29,760
Speaker 7: the Heimlich maneuver, absolutely, everybody, go and learn how to

2421
01:42:29,800 --> 01:42:31,920
Speaker 7: do it, because so many times people choke and they're alone,

2422
01:42:32,000 --> 01:42:33,960
Speaker 7: and what do you do? Figure out the Heimlic maneuver?

2423
01:42:34,560 --> 01:42:35,200
Speaker 7: Those are your things.

2424
01:42:35,240 --> 01:42:38,680
Speaker 3: God, I wouldn't know how to do that. You find it? Chair?

2425
01:42:38,880 --> 01:42:41,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, can bend over?

2426
01:42:41,280 --> 01:42:45,559
Speaker 3: Always bending over a chair? Anyway, This has been the worst.

2427
01:42:45,320 --> 01:42:48,479
Speaker 12: Conversation ever, Elvis Duran.

2428
01:42:48,720 --> 01:42:50,080
Speaker 2: He just keeps opening his mouth.

2429
01:42:50,400 --> 01:42:51,439
Speaker 12: Stand the morning show.

2430
01:42:54,000 --> 01:42:56,040
Speaker 3: All right, show's done. We'll come back tomorrow and do

2431
01:42:56,120 --> 01:42:58,960
Speaker 3: it again. Till next time. Say peace out, everybody. He

2432
01:42:59,160 --> 01:43:00,080
Speaker 3: shut out everybody me