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Speaker 1: sug Girl drying a call and you are tuned in

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Mind where a drunk mind speaks

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Speaker 1: sober thought. You better have that ship on. One thing

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Speaker 1: about you. You're gonna have that ship on every week.

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Speaker 1: Grown'a got the legs out, you do. It's a juicy

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Speaker 1: thile it is. It's getting pop py two piece, two piece.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you look good.

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Speaker 1: You look too. You know I'm trying to be classy.

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Speaker 1: I see trying to be classy. I like my jeans.

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Speaker 1: I love these. I love a flair leg jean. So

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Speaker 1: y'all know I'm very giving fashionist. Hello, I thought you

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Speaker 1: was gonna say fashion I was about to say fashionista. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you know I'm tall and i'm so it's very hard

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: I've talked about a Ninth Closet before. But if you're

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Speaker 1: and it's hard for you to find jeans that are

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Speaker 1: long enough, y'all, please go to ninth Closet. That's where

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Speaker 1: I got these jeans from. They fit me so good.

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Speaker 1: I love them. Shout out to Night Closet dot Com.

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Speaker 1: I'll put the link in the description. But yeah, girl,

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Speaker 1: I've seen it. It's gonna pop. You know, I got

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Speaker 3: That's what I was going for. I like to look moisturized.

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Speaker 3: I don't be trying to look dry.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and it's that season where the girls be in

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Speaker 1: the guys be dry, so make sure you keep it.

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Speaker 1: That's probably what I should like.

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Speaker 3: Because you know I got the item of the week

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I should have made my item.

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Speaker 3: Of the week somebody butter because I feel like people

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna do that next week. Yes, it's very

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Speaker 3: With somebody that ain't gonna sugarcoat sheep.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like I like talking to people who

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Speaker 1: So today, from the experience of podcasts, we got a

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Speaker 2: Very cool? Cool?

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Speaker 1: Now, I'm gonna let you slide right now with your

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Speaker 1: little red bulls now. But we're sipping on something, so y'all.

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Speaker 4: Know, we got our bar to tie in the building.

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Speaker 4: Tie Come on, girls, So let's what we're drinking today. Today, ladies,

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Speaker 4: y'all are sipping on the Christmas Cosmo.

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Speaker 4: A little bit of vodka, we got a little bit

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Speaker 1: For sure, loon, I am so excited to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: You real cool, chill, laid bab, I'm linked.

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Speaker 3: I'm just letting you know right now, it's a little background,

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Speaker 1: Give us a little introduction. For the people you know

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Speaker 2: Podcast Yes, my name is Big Loon. For those that don't.

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Speaker 5: Miss you, gotta put a b I g Big Loan. Yes,

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Speaker 5: lorda right, So how I got into podcasting, It's just

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Speaker 5: doctor Umar just did I'm on the.

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Speaker 1: Lad I give people lashes all the time, a thousand lashes.

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Speaker 1: And I know it's funny to make you know, post

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Speaker 1: That is somebody I will never get a debate with.

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Speaker 5: The characteristics, get the voice inflection information. He like I said,

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Speaker 1: He's very different. He's very smart. Shout out to shout

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Speaker 1: It is a I mean because we went to Nashville

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Speaker 1: We were actually a good time. We sold out and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we were nervous to actually do our first show

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Speaker 5: Right now for real, Now it's a it's a hell

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Speaker 2: So it may look like it's country music. It's popping, popping,

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Speaker 2: popping it out. You say, plenty of yous.

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Speaker 5: Big Loue, Yeah, that means the total package everything.

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Speaker 1: So would you say that your resume has hustler on there?

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Speaker 2: Yes, ma'am okay extensively. We like a yeah, I can

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Speaker 2: tell hello, hello.

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Speaker 1: Hello, one two?

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Are we talking about legal hustling?

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Speaker 2: Oh? You know, I like to mess with a variety of.

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Speaker 1: I like that.

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Speaker 1: I just want I'm just trying to give the people

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Speaker 5: So yeah, something about to shake it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, but I want to put people in,

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Speaker 1: but some people just got it in them. Big Loan

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Speaker 2: Okay, you got that?

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Speaker 1: Or about you like if this nigga talking, we need to.

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Speaker 2: Move because that's what I like to hear.

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Speaker 3: I have a question with you getting into the podcast space.

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Speaker 3: We were just kind of talking about these before we

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Speaker 2: No? For me, you know, it's interesting.

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Speaker 5: I put podcasts niggas in a very interesting spot.

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Speaker 2: We do to see because y'all have the package.

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Speaker 5: That's the thing about the package boy, the packages.

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Speaker 1: I'm giving fixa. So when they.

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Speaker 5: When they with me or like just my vibe, like

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Speaker 5: And I said, oh man, they playing hater because this

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Speaker 2: They really don't want to embrace us.

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Speaker 5: They don't want to embrace us because they feel replacement,

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Speaker 1: I mean I feel like, no, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: We've collabed with a lot of people, but to say

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Speaker 5: And the collab is a very interesting place too, because

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Speaker 5: Simplistic collaboration with people that may be competition, right, it's.

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Speaker 2: Not a full embrace. And the post and a reposent

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Speaker 5: Folks, let me get a little access to the audience.

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Speaker 5: You know, I'm hustling you post everybody talking black shit

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Speaker 5: when the grants come out, yeah, you know, And so

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Speaker 5: They be like, bro, you can't offend people. And I

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Speaker 5: But why do y'all think people don't embrace y'all this money?

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Speaker 1: Because I just feel like what you said, like people

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Speaker 1: sometimes we have that crabs in a barrel like mentality,

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Speaker 1: be We can do this and it's enough people out here.

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Speaker 1: There are consumers for everyone. Yes, me and Drea. When

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Speaker 1: pulling up. I don't care. If you're bigger than us,

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Speaker 1: Why because why not? Just because I introduced somebody to

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Speaker 1: your podcast doesn't mean they're gonna stop listening to poor Minds.

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Speaker 2: It's a weird thing.

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Speaker 1: If you stop listening to poor Minds. It has nothing

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Speaker 3: Like, how do you say things to people about reposting

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Speaker 5: To be honest, I'm still evolving, right because I come

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Speaker 5: Trying to because that cash field coming out, I call you.

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Speaker 2: Something like y'all planning? What y'all doing? Yeah? Were you own?

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Speaker 5: You ain't posting it like like that one of them.

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Speaker 5: I got people that don't listen to podcasts. I got

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Speaker 2: And so I'm explaining to him and this is what.

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Speaker 5: put that situation out there and said, loom, pay attention

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Speaker 2: I didn't see it the way you didn't see.

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Speaker 5: It was the only interview. The bb A thing went viral.

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Speaker 5: you understand what I'm saying so so exactly. And so

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Speaker 5: Respectfully outside of and I may miss some names niggas

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Speaker 2: But a lot of these guys are real deal peons agree,

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Speaker 5: And so when when y'all come in as bosses, y'all

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Speaker 5: A lot of these guys will be like afraid to

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's that happened to us in the

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Speaker 1: It's like, how can you see two black women being

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Speaker 5: How with the breakfast Club? I mean, what is like,

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Speaker 5: here's the thing, right? The breakfast Club shit for y'all

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Speaker 2: It's monumental facts.

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Speaker 5: I can't understand why black women, black men didn't embrace that.

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Speaker 5: I get upset about it, man, to the point where

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Speaker 5: these companies afraid, right, just the same way that y'all

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Speaker 5: get their feeling. They don't understand me yet even though

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Speaker 1: Do a real good. I know that's right, big loon,

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Speaker 5: That right, And they come from black people that don't

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Speaker 5: We're gonna get you some ads. And I say, well, damn,

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 2: I talk pretty well?

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Speaker 1: You don't like that middle man man you're talking about.

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Speaker 5: But I've structured this, you know, the media dicks and

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Speaker 5: all I'm telling you, I have the CEOs of these companies.

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Speaker 2: But that's that's still good.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but that ain't the partcast niggas and what what

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Speaker 5: what makes me upset is the podcast Nigga Post Embrace Me.

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Speaker 2: I'm the truth.

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Speaker 5: Ain't no cut on it. I go viral on nothing

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Speaker 5: pop up, Ain't no smut on this. There ain't nothing

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: So it's like when I look at it, it's like

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Speaker 5: I'm probably the swiftest nigga in it, So I'm I

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Speaker 5: I'm I still talk to your niggas like I talked.

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Speaker 2: Yoh, it's fucked up. You saw me the whole time?

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. Chad actually is the one who put me

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Speaker 3: We had a show in DC a few months ago

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Speaker 3: and he was listening to your podcasts and you was

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Speaker 1: Shit, like I was.

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Speaker 3: I think I was telling you before we got on camera.

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Speaker 3: You were just saying, how you gotta sometimes you gotta

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Speaker 1: On this podcast. Who is dead?

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Speaker 3: And he was telling me about you and I was like, Yeah,

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462
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Speaker 1: How do you feel being like that character, that person

463
00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 1: in the room that like you're gonna make people uncomfortable?

464
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 1: Like do you embrace that about your jaw?

465
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Speaker 2: I don't have what joy? I can't have it. I can't.

466
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:55,880
Speaker 2: I'm yo. I don't even be talk.

467
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,200
Speaker 5: I try not to talk like a lot of people

468
00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 5: when I start podcasting that even know from.

469
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 2: The street, Like what the fuck was that right? That nigga,

470
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,160
Speaker 2: that swift, We.

471
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 5: Thought he was like one like us. Because I try

472
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:11,879
Speaker 5: to blend in because I don't want no his shoes.

473
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:15,120
Speaker 5: I want some money, no his shoes. I'm gonna handle

474
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,880
Speaker 5: it immediately because I don't want no issues. I want

475
00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 5: some money. And I feel like when they don't embrace me,

476
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 5: what they're saying is starve nigga or quit.

477
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:24,679
Speaker 2: I'm gonna make it.

478
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,280
Speaker 5: Ain't no way it's supposed to have been that hard

479
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 5: for y'all. It's beautiful as y'all live. Is the stuff

480
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:33,040
Speaker 5: y'all speak about, the the talent y'all possessed on.

481
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,640
Speaker 2: It shouldn't have been that hard. But it's gonna be that.

482
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 5: Hard because you got people boxing out.

483
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

484
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 1: I mean, And we've spoke on this before. I feel

485
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:49,919
Speaker 1: like the podcasting game it's a bunch of gatekeepers.

486
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 2: Gates what they're talking about. Just put the work in.

487
00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 5: Say, bro, you started this before they even had algorithms.

488
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 2: Yes, let explain something to people. Man, and I get.

489
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 5: Technical with this because this is the information I had

490
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 5: to get to get in a position i'm in.

491
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 1: Right.

492
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,439
Speaker 5: I didn't have no code sign or nothing, so I

493
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 5: had the information my way in the way i'm at.

494
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 5: There's no you don't go viral anymore like regularly. You

495
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 5: have to have either your pain to go viral, meaning

496
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 5: like doing some sort of ads, or you have so

497
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 5: many shares to where you're telling your people share this,

498
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 5: so you got to trigger that algorithm. Back when certain

499
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,199
Speaker 5: people built their brands, you really can post something. It

500
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 5: can catch on literally, right, they have all these blocks

501
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:40,120
Speaker 5: on this algorithm, a where you post a clip.

502
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 2: That's way better than that clip, but it won't go.

503
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 2: You post it again, it won't go. It's like what

504
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,719
Speaker 2: it won't go no matter what the hashtags, what is it?

505
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 5: You can't figure out what it is because they done

506
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 5: locked it. They don't locked it up. And a lot

507
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 5: of these people built this before this happened, and they

508
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 5: need to. They need to lift people up. I'm lifting up.

509
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 5: I'm gonna take over this shit and then I'm gonna

510
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 5: lift people up.

511
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Speaker 1: Right, And that's good that you have, because, like I said,

512
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,919
Speaker 1: it's the people that didn't embrace us, but then when

513
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 1: they see what the fuck was going on, it.

514
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 2: Was like, oh man, I.

515
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 1: Love them. It's like watch y'all. Not everybody want to

516
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,159
Speaker 1: repost it. That's all it be.

517
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 5: Though y'all feel being in the room being like, damn

518
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 5: they hear.

519
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm used to this shit.

520
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 3: I talk about stuff like that all the time, Like

521
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,160
Speaker 3: I feel like, sometimes you don't even gotta do shit.

522
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 3: Sometimes your presence is so powerful that you walk in

523
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 3: the room and you intimidate people just by being you.

524
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: I feel like I.

525
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 3: Always been this type of person, so that shit don't

526
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 3: really shock me. And I never expected to get a

527
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 3: lot of love and embrace from people because I just

528
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,639
Speaker 3: feel like that's how people are when you're forced, they

529
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 3: so powerful, and I feel like you probably understand that

530
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 3: shit too, Like people just gonna be haters because people

531
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 3: can't help it because most people don't have what you like,

532
00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:00,240
Speaker 3: so they love to hate what they don't.

533
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Speaker 1: They It's a little different because I come from a

534
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,199
Speaker 1: small town, so I'm like used to be in the

535
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: person in the room that's like, oh, everybody laughing at her,

536
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 1: everybody loves her, Oh my god. So now I'm being

537
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 1: in this space where before I could even open my mouth,

538
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,680
Speaker 1: people like, oh my god, here, come here, come lex

539
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,880
Speaker 1: and drag from poor minds. I'm like, damn, you ben't

540
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 1: even shook my hand yet, so it's very you ain't

541
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:26,880
Speaker 1: gotta shake mind. It's but yeah, So for me, it's

542
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: just like a different territory because so now it's like me,

543
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 1: I kind of used to be green and I used

544
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 1: to be there. Yeah yeah, and I used.

545
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 5: To like watching, watching, watching more than you know.

546
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 1: Man, we had a situation that recently happened. I'm not

547
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: going to say exactly what happened, and I was like,

548
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 1: I knew they was fucking watching us, and it was

549
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: just kind of like y' you know what I'm saying.

550
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:01,439
Speaker 1: And that's why we haven't collapsed. So I feel like

551
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: with stuff like that, it's starting to open my eyes.

552
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 1: So what the real world is Like, I'm a country girl.

553
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 1: I'm from a very small town. Everybody knew everybody. So

554
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: I will say, now I used to not like embrace it.

555
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: But I'm like, you know what, if I wasn't that bitch,

556
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 1: then it wouldn't be like this, you know what I'm saying.

557
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 1: It would be a lot easier if I wasn't that bitch,

558
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

559
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 5: And I believe that these people are so uncomfortable, man,

560
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 5: They're literally just trying to preserve their little position.

561
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 2: It's like no, please, don't please please, It's.

562
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 5: Like, yo, what y'all doing up here? Like I just

563
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,360
Speaker 5: interview Adam twenty two. I'm asking him, like, yo, when

564
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 5: you at yo, bro, and what y'all doing? Y'all playing

565
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 5: some little right. So for me, I'm telling you, I'm

566
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 5: I'm push That's why they don't invite me on And

567
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 5: because you can handle it.

568
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 2: Ain't no conversation.

569
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 5: You can't swindle me or one of them guys.

570
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 1: And that's and I will say, that's what they really need.

571
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: They need a man like that because they sit on

572
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 1: this couch with women, don't keep that same energy with me.

573
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 1: And yeah, like I feel like that's what the game

574
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: is missing, because I feel like I feel the same

575
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: way about Bank. I with Bank, you are not gonna

576
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 1: do that. It's not with me.

577
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,479
Speaker 2: And that's why they're ignoring and ignoring.

578
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,400
Speaker 5: It's like, first of all, what y'all y'all ain't doing

579
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,159
Speaker 5: nothing but forcing me to figure out how to do

580
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 5: it without you. And then when that happens, I TX

581
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 5: your number and I stand stern on it and.

582
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 2: I smile with it. Right, Yeah, no, it's a ten

583
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 2: x on the number, right.

584
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,160
Speaker 5: It's I worked for this position, y'all. Then tag us

585
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 5: in you know what I mean, y'all turn this to

586
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 5: a Royal Rumble. I got to throwing niggas out the ring.

587
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got to.

588
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 3: You feel like it's a lot of people who have

589
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 3: like who maybe you've reached out to to come on

590
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 3: your podcast, and they don't want to come on because

591
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 3: they're scared of being in the hot seed, like they

592
00:27:59,119 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 3: don't want to.

593
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 5: I get anybody like the podcast niggas know you know,

594
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 5: but relate to many.

595
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 2: I'm I really want to talk. Yeah, but the game.

596
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 2: I got the game. Everybody.

597
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 5: I got the game, like all the rappers, the athletes,

598
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 5: I just KD came in the rank just hit me

599
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 5: like I'm so, I'm I'm I just did be Marshall

600
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 5: Fred Taylor like these are football NFL.

601
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,159
Speaker 2: I am athlete public.

602
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 5: Park like so like I got everybody as far as

603
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 5: that's the niggas.

604
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 2: That I threatened and watching you.

605
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: You've been on the radar. They know you're coming from.

606
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: So we don't get into Look, we didn't even started

607
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: the topic. Even starting time is go ahead.

608
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 3: Grow always times to get into our first topic. So

609
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 3: you know, in light of recent events, we don't want

610
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 3: to touch on exactly what's been going on. But I

611
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 3: feel like, you know, we see what's going on in

612
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 3: the media. It's been a lot of different trials and

613
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 3: things going on that have been publicized, and and you know,

614
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 3: we wanted to talk about it snitching really a problem?

615
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, snitch is a problem.

616
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: It is.

617
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 2: I've been snitched on. Oh, so snitching is a problem.

618
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 3: So I do have a question where do you draw

619
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 3: the line from, like, cause what exactly is snitching?

620
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 1: Because I guess.

621
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 3: I'll be seeing stuff sometimes and I feel like, is

622
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 3: it snitching or is it nice?

623
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 2: Snitching is involving people.

624
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 5: In crimes that you have knowledge of, Okay, and you

625
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 5: know they don't even necessarily have to lead to a conviction. Right,

626
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 5: Some people say snitching is talking to the police at all. Right,

627
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. I'll give you a little

628
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 5: lead way because sometimes get you get called into these

629
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 5: interviews and things under these investigations. That's a lot of

630
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 5: another thing. A lot of blogs and people that's talking

631
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 5: never been under investigation, right, so they don't even.

632
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: Know what they be talking about.

633
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 5: But anyway, Yeah, I mean, any any time you give

634
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 5: information leading uh to to someone being arrested or prosecuted,

635
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 5: I believe that's snitching.

636
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 1: So what if your name.

637
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 3: Is involved in something and you had nothing to do

638
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 3: with it, but you know what's going on. You're just

639
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 3: supposed to take the fall and not saying any thing.

640
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: Right.

641
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 5: Now, here's the thing, Now, we gotta break the pool

642
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 5: balls up. It's important to understand that this talk that

643
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 5: I'm giving you right now ain't for everybody, for street people, right.

644
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: So I'm a civilian, That's what That's what I wanted.

645
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 2: No snitching for a civilian.

646
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 1: That's what I wanted to break down to be.

647
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 5: Jesus, Okay, I don't think y'all can be a snitch.

648
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 2: I mean, let me say this, because you know that

649
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 2: there's some extreme verse right in.

650
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 5: Which y'all can just you don't tip the cops and

651
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 5: ship like that where that could be considered snitching. But civilians,

652
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 5: excuse me, they can't.

653
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean like I wouldn't give no like if

654
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 2: I see but if somebody rob yeah, yeah, the whole story.

655
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 3: If I've seen something and now don't know I've seen it,

656
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 3: my name be Nick, and niggas respect that.

657
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: But this is where I get a little kind of uncomfortable.

658
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 1: I feel like they're, like she said, there's a lot

659
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: of cases going on and on in the media right now,

660
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 1: and like if somebody gets freed or whatever it takes

661
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: may everybody's like, oh, he's a snitch, He's a snitch.

662
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 1: Just like why does the public care so much. It's

663
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 1: like this is not affecting you, Like every the everyday

664
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: person just has such an opinion on it.

665
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think with with with Gunner situation, because you know,

666
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 5: I talked to his people, you know what I'm saying,

667
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 5: Because I for me, like I'm plugged in.

668
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 2: With the real with the real ones.

669
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 5: So I'm getting two different things, you know, and I'm

670
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 5: gonna try I'm gonna resor what I really feel on that.

671
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 2: But what I think is when you zoom.

672
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 5: Out, it's people looking at the Brotherhood of like they

673
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 5: watched that, They watched them kind of put that cake

674
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 5: in the oven, and they watched them go from dusty

675
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 5: to having it and and him embrace Thug, embraced Gunner,

676
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. And so if they hear

677
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 5: something that's like say what you said? What you know,

678
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 5: It's like that's how that's how everybody is reacting.

679
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 1: Right And like I said, but I feel like at

680
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 1: the end the day, we don't know the whole story,

681
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 1: and that's what the thing that I think that gets

682
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 1: messed up about it. Like I feel like with the

683
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: whole six nine situation, like it was in black and

684
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: white that we saw and we know what he did,

685
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 1: like and he was making actually a joke about it,

686
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 1: like calling him like, yeah, I'm gonna snitch, y'all, snitch.

687
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 1: What are y'all gonna do about it?

688
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 3: I mean, he was very honest about you know, but.

689
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691
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711
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: has something to say because I feel like with the

712
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: whole six nine things, like we all know he snitched,

713
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 1: we all know he would, and he was making a

714
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 1: joke out of it, but everybody was still like embracing him.

715
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 1: They thought it was funny. I was embracing him. I mean,

716
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 1: I feel like now it's kind of changed. But when

717
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: it first happened and he first got out, like everybody

718
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 1: was on his live talk about oh yeah he out,

719
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:25,839
Speaker 1: he freed things like that like the street not the street.

720
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 2: But it was two hundred thousand people on now.

721
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, like he's still.

722
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,280
Speaker 2: It wasn't like, you know, right, he got a different

723
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 2: fan base.

724
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 3: And it wasn't people like it wasn't no other famous

725
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 3: people that I've seen really supporting that shit either.

726
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: I just think that even not with his case, but

727
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: I just think when it comes to things like snitching

728
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 1: or whatever, I just feel like a lot of civilians

729
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: have a lot of things to say and we just

730
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 1: need to stay out of it. I don't speak on

731
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 1: shit because that's not my that's not my arena to

732
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:00,399
Speaker 1: talk about things going on. And I also don't feel

733
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: like being to a lot of those people that be

734
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 1: having so much like what would they really do if

735
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: you were in that situation.

736
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 5: It's yourself if you've never been in trouble in your life,

737
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 5: and then you go in there and they talking about

738
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 5: the Rico charge. You're just coming off the number one

739
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 5: album in the world Gunnah had just outsold. I don't

740
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 5: know if it was one of them dudes for number one.

741
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:23,399
Speaker 2: He beat him out and.

742
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 5: Then ended up getting locked up, And it's like, yo,

743
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 5: but me, I got to stand on that, you know

744
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, just because how I grew up like

745
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,319
Speaker 5: my family and I got to stand on it.

746
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 2: I gotta for me.

747
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 5: I look at it like this gunner didn't have a

748
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 5: lot of charges. I think they had him with like

749
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 5: one charge, A couple of charges or something, and so

750
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 5: I don't know if the lawyer tricked him.

751
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,279
Speaker 2: I don't know, man, It's a lot in that shit

752
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 2: right now.

753
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: That's why I said, I feel like we don't know exactly.

754
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,280
Speaker 2: Slick don't want to say it.

755
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 1: Right, and we don't look we don't want you to.

756
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 5: I want to say this for the camera too, because

757
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 5: I know my people know I know, right, you understand

758
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 5: they like loan from this. He no, ain't no, So

759
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 5: I just want to say this is that you know,

760
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,359
Speaker 5: I've been in communication with these people, and so I'm

761
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,720
Speaker 5: trying to just play it neutral because at some point

762
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 5: we got to figure out, like I have some questions, right,

763
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying and when I want to

764
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 5: approach it like that. But I've been told on, so

765
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 5: I got a tender spot for that.

766
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: So how did you handle that situation?

767
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 5: I was on five the dude who told on me.

768
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 5: You know, I was helping him for like nine years.

769
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 2: Damn no, and uh so he told on me.

770
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 5: But yeah, So what that did for me is that

771
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 5: that's another reason why I look at this game and

772
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 5: I'm so excited about it, Like I come out of that.

773
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,320
Speaker 2: That's war. That's a war zone.

774
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 5: It's nastiest clutter, it's foggy, it's messis it's all let right.

775
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:55,760
Speaker 2: Over here, it's pleasant, it's clear. It's I'm just talking.

776
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 2: They love me.

777
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 3: I mean, I just feel like that life seemed to

778
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 3: make so much money.

779
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: Yes, legit so much.

780
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 5: I'm telling street nigga man, that dope selling shit is

781
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,400
Speaker 5: the dumbest shit in the world. Yeah, I'm telling you

782
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 5: that a nigga that made plenty of money outside. It's

783
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 5: stupid to do because it's a trick bag. They put

784
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 5: you in this maze, right, and then you get caught

785
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 5: in it, and then you ain't dead nothing. Ten twenty

786
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 5: years done went by, and you spent it in jail,

787
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,839
Speaker 5: in and out of jail, selling dimes and whatever you've

788
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 5: been that shit just miss it. We got to save

789
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 5: our people, save our family.

790
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 2: We got kids.

791
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 5: That's another reason why I decided to take it seriously.

792
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 5: Like number one, I could explain things, and so my

793
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 5: children have to grow up in this world and a

794
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 5: lot of the shit you see the rappers do post

795
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 5: and people do it can influence my children. Right, So

796
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 5: I want to get out and put some other information

797
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 5: out next to some of the bullshit that's out there.

798
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 1: Now, let me ask you something. As a civilian, I

799
00:38:55,520 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: always wonder you aren't. So I just wondering. I have

800
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: a question because this is what I always wonder, Because

801
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: she said, I ever seen any drug dealers when I

802
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 1: watch like Power or something like that. But I always

803
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 1: wonder why, Like when people make X amount of money,

804
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 1: whether you're just you know, on the block, or whether

805
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 1: you're the head person, Like why you just don't take

806
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 1: your money and get out and invest in something? Like

807
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 1: why do you stay in it?

808
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,359
Speaker 5: That's the message I preach, right, I say, I say

809
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 5: everything in life has a time out except the dope game.

810
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 5: Dope dealer, don't never take a time out here go

811
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 5: like I just said, twenty years. Only time he stopped

812
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 5: is when the drought come. When he can't find it,

813
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,359
Speaker 5: he literally cannot find nothing, will be the only time

814
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 5: he'll stop hustling. And so he's called in it. He's

815
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 5: more addicted than the person is buying the shit from him.

816
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 5: A lot of times dudes don't have the information. I

817
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 5: got a cousin right now sitting in the fish watching

818
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 5: me ball legally right, and so he said, damn man,

819
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 5: I said, why you didn't do nothing. You know, they

820
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:05,520
Speaker 5: call him like four five hundred thousand dollars, Why you

821
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 5: got that money sitting around?

822
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 1: Right? That's why I feel because I feel like he's

823
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:09,919
Speaker 1: just sitting around.

824
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 2: They don't know how though, what do you do?

825
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 5: I give you five hundred k right now, you know

826
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 5: what to do because you and.

827
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 2: Bus what to do.

828
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 5: But I give a nigga who ain't done nothing but

829
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 5: answer his phone all his life, right, all he'd never

830
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 5: done is answer his phone.

831
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 2: That's it. Pull up on an answer his phone, pull

832
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 2: up on answer. That's how you was a scared.

833
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 5: Whatever he done, that's smart. He don't do nothing else.

834
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 5: A lot of the bills he don't even pay.

835
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,320
Speaker 2: He hadn't that money to bill.

836
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:37,280
Speaker 1: It's the lack of information.

837
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, he don't know.

838
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 3: But so times I think too, Like sometimes it be

839
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 3: situations where you you was asking that. But like niggas

840
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 3: can't leave, yeah, Like it's hard for them to get

841
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 3: out because they can't get out because if they get

842
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 3: out of somebody who gon't like try to, that's when.

843
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 2: You that deep. A lot of these little boys ain't

844
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 2: that deep.

845
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,919
Speaker 5: These little boys will act like they that deep, yeah,

846
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 5: but they ain't really that deep, that's a meal.

847
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:01,760
Speaker 2: That shit, that's some real money.

848
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, this little niggas ain't they can get out and

849
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 5: that need to get out.

850
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying because I feel like just.

851
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 2: Like big boys like that.

852
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a little differently to get to that level.

853
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 1: But I'm talking about like, you know, if you make

854
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 1: a quick because I feel like investing, you could invest.

855
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 1: You don't need a million dollars to invest in something

856
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 1: that can make you some money. So when I say that,

857
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: just like you say they don't have the information. But

858
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 1: literally everything is on YouTube. Everything what street nigga?

859
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:29,880
Speaker 2: You know a long on YouTube?

860
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: I mean, but why not?

861
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 3: And where are you gonna go with that kind of money?

862
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 3: And people don't ask you where you got it from?

863
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 5: I had a homeboy, like I said, with that money.

864
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 5: I said, he was trying to get in the houses.

865
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 5: And he told me that he went and got with

866
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 5: a construction company and they were kind of afraid to

867
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 5: do being with him because he comes up about two hundreds.

868
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:55,760
Speaker 5: You just gonna do it, okay, Okay, look, look, become innovative, nigga,

869
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:56,879
Speaker 5: do something.

870
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 2: Do something.

871
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 3: But do you ever feel like you're just you just

872
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 3: very blessed and very special because I feel like, you know,

873
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,879
Speaker 3: you have the gift of talking to people and making

874
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 3: people least, and like everybody don't got that gift. So

875
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 3: I feel like some people are very fortunate because like

876
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 3: you could get out the streets because.

877
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: You have this other gift that God gave you honestly.

878
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 3: You know, not to sound bad or nothing, but like

879
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 3: a lot of people don't have that gift too. That's all,

880
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:24,479
Speaker 3: like what else could they do? Even if they stop

881
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 3: doing it? What else could they do?

882
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 5: But the question now, the new question becomes do they

883
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:29,280
Speaker 5: have a gift?

884
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 2: Right?

885
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 5: And so now you go to searching in your toolbox?

886
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 5: What I got in here? Should you know how to

887
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 5: talk a little bit? Should I look nice a little bit?

888
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 1: What kind of Like everybody has a give gift, but

889
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:47,800
Speaker 1: only of like a handful, I will say, Right, it's

890
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: hard to find what you're really good at, and some

891
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:52,720
Speaker 1: people are blessed that they found. You know, some people

892
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 1: donald never knowing what they're good at. They live their

893
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: whole life just working for somebody else or whatever. A

894
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 1: lot of people they just never tap into what they're

895
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:03,800
Speaker 1: good at. They never know. And I think some people

896
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 1: it just naturally come out.

897
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 3: Like I feel like even with you, like probably before

898
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,280
Speaker 3: you ever started your podcast, he was probably still.

899
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: There nigga in the hood, and you would talk and

900
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: like niggas would listen to you.

901
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 3: You had a gift and people would listen to what

902
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 3: you gotta say. I got something to say, and people

903
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 3: don't listen to what I gotta say because I'm saying

904
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:21,360
Speaker 3: some important.

905
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 2: Right right, Yeah, nah, that's for sure. That's that's what

906
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 2: made me do it.

907
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 5: It's like people called me for information and then and

908
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 5: then also, like I say, when you need me, you

909
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 5: don't just get the bank roll a conversation, go with

910
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 5: their little tongue lash and go with with some big

911
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 5: yeah nigh. Yeah, you gotta go through election, not the women.

912
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: Oh I'm just trying to go get this okay, okay, okay, okay,

913
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 1: that but me, oh right, I got you, I got you,

914
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 1: I got you that you said that, please elaborate.

915
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, I believe men is don't cause they got to

916
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:04,879
Speaker 5: be able to make some Okay you know what I'm saying.

917
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,720
Speaker 5: So for me men and then for us we supposed

918
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 5: to provide protect you know, I think in my opinion,

919
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 5: that's just me you know the truth, right, Yeah, you

920
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 5: can't be a big as a man. You can't be

921
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 5: asking for nothing. You got to provide some I like that.

922
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: So we're talking about, you know, being in the streets,

923
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 1: but that causes a lot of trauma as well. And

924
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:30,959
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of times for the people

925
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 1: who do make it out or people who have been

926
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:37,439
Speaker 1: in bad situations, even if you haven't. Just growing up,

927
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 1: how a lot of the black community grows up as hard.

928
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:42,879
Speaker 1: I want to talk about, like why are black men

929
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 1: so against therapy? I feel like the therapy is missing

930
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 1: from the black community so much. I feel like a

931
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 1: lot of black men don't know how to receive love.

932
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,919
Speaker 1: They don't know how to give love. They feel bad

933
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 1: about showing their emotional sides because they don't know how

934
00:44:59,880 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 1: to communicate that side. But I feel like therapy would

935
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 1: help a lot with that. But it's so it's like

936
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:06,240
Speaker 1: pulling teeth to get a black man and go to therapy.

937
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I believe that it's a disconnect. Right

938
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 5: when I go to therapy, who go I run circles

939
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 5: around the white nothing. I run circles around whoever they

940
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 5: gonna put. They got to put something now, Yeah, No,

941
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:23,280
Speaker 5: it's just like a date. I ain't just dating anybody.

942
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 1: Yeah you don't, but.

943
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:27,800
Speaker 3: You don't feel like it said something that these people

944
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 3: have degrees and we're.

945
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 5: Like right, because this is not the knowledge I come from.

946
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 5: Like again, the innovation. What happens when you have to

947
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 5: come up the way I had to come up? It

948
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:42,280
Speaker 5: unlocks s thought patterns, right, This is much more important

949
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 5: than information, knowing how to get to an answer right, right.

950
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 2: And so that's what I've opened up.

951
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 5: This thought process to where there's nothing like I'm gonna

952
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:56,879
Speaker 5: find a way to figure the problem out.

953
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,720
Speaker 2: And so your degree means little to nothing.

954
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:03,399
Speaker 1: But what if it's like it's multiple ways. And that's

955
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's not necessarily that somebody is sitting

956
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 1: in front of you that's smarter than you. They just

957
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:09,959
Speaker 1: think a different way.

958
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I respect that, like because I had conversations

959
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:14,840
Speaker 5: with all walks of life. When I'm saying, when you

960
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 5: want to tap in on the issues of mind, right, see,

961
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 5: that's the conversation is that's that's that's over.

962
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 2: You're trying to tap in.

963
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, And what happens is when you sit across from me,

964
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,439
Speaker 5: you're gonna have to have a specific scat of set

965
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 5: of skills to tap in.

966
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 2: You can't.

967
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 5: You're not gonna be able to tap in with that

968
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:35,320
Speaker 5: degree that degree don't.

969
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 1: But that's up to you to be willing to let

970
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:39,919
Speaker 1: that guard down.

971
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 2: No, it ain't a guard.

972
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 5: It's just how I'm put together. It ain't even a guard.

973
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:46,919
Speaker 2: And if it is a god, it's unintentional. Gad.

974
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 3: Now what if it's somebody that's from the same place

975
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 3: as you through something.

976
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:55,240
Speaker 2: That makes sense?

977
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 5: And I want to be clear too, it ain't even

978
00:46:57,280 --> 00:47:04,359
Speaker 5: the same place thing. It's a specific thinking process that allows.

979
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,919
Speaker 2: Me to whoop you.

980
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 3: I I feel that we talked about that on the left.

981
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 5: There's a way I get to information that's like and

982
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 5: then when you ask me something, my mind is working

983
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 5: in a way where I'm computing where you're going and

984
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:22,319
Speaker 5: how I'm going to Like it's too much going on,

985
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 5: And that's how my mind worked because I come from

986
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 5: that PTSD is like think about everything. Work bag again,

987
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 5: don't park that way, make sure you have that bag

988
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 5: when you get out the car.

989
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:34,879
Speaker 1: City is a miss, right.

990
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 5: So what I'm saying is to tap in, it gotta

991
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 5: be somebody that can you gotta be to just tap in.

992
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: So do you think you need therapy? I think you

993
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:43,760
Speaker 1: need a therapy.

994
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, I believe I need therapy, right, I mean, how

995
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 5: would you go?

996
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 2: I don't have time to go.

997
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 1: You have time.

998
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:53,320
Speaker 3: You got time for everything, got time to go to therapy.

999
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 1: This episode is brought to you by Betterhelp.

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Speaker 1: And we are in a new year. And there's nothing

1003
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1004
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1005
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1010
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1011
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1013
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1019
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Speaker 1: If you want to think about therapy and you want

1020
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1022
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Speaker 3: No.

1023
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Speaker 5: To be honest, I also believe that. Now I'm gonna

1024
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:02,800
Speaker 5: say I believe I'm I have I have an issue

1025
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 5: or I have some question about therapy affecting my thought process.

1026
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: Okay, you think it might change how you think, and you.

1027
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 2: Don't make me lay a little bit and then cost

1028
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 2: me in my life.

1029
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: I can feel it, but I can understand. I don't

1030
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 1: think therapy is not it's not for you to it's

1031
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 1: not supposed to do that. It's not supposed it's supposed

1032
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 1: to take me.

1033
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 5: It might loosen me down something when I'm I'm like militant.

1034
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:35,279
Speaker 1: I don't think that's what therapy for me personally. I

1035
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 1: take therapy as you learn how to properly channel your emotions,

1036
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: so you know, in the situation where you still need

1037
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 1: to be that way, you're never gonna let your guard

1038
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 1: down when you don't need to, but you'll learn to

1039
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:52,800
Speaker 1: recognize whenever it is okay to channel these feelings properly,

1040
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 1: so I know how to speak to this person, and

1041
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:57,800
Speaker 1: I know I can be this way with this person.

1042
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 1: I just think a lot of times in the black community,

1043
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 1: and I just don't want to say black men, a

1044
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 1: lot of black people we just don't know how to

1045
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 1: channel our feelings properly. I actually talked about this on

1046
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: Patreon the other day because we had posted a clip

1047
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 1: and somebody responded to the clip and they were like,

1048
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:17,240
Speaker 1: oh my god, stop giving black people podcasts. And I responded,

1049
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 1: I said, Hey, you know, it's very easy to interact

1050
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 1: with content that you like and just keep scrolling with

1051
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 1: content that you don't like. But I feel like I

1052
00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 1: get on Twitter sometimes and I just scroll and I

1053
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:31,839
Speaker 1: see people retweeting stuff and talking shit all day, all

1054
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:34,399
Speaker 1: day long. And I'm reading this book and it's called

1055
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,240
Speaker 1: Master Your Emotions, and I'm like, y'all are consuming content

1056
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:40,359
Speaker 1: that you hate, yes, and you're constantly spewing and talking

1057
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 1: about things that you hate, and you are in this

1058
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: cycle of talking negative and being negative all day. So

1059
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 1: sometimes I just think you don't need to necessarily change

1060
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 1: the way you think. You just need to reprogram some wiring,

1061
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 1: like things need to be rewired.

1062
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:59,240
Speaker 5: Here's my question though, right, So what I would find

1063
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 5: is that therapist would tell.

1064
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:06,360
Speaker 2: Me, hey, Ron, you're too uptight. You're not you got trusted.

1065
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:09,400
Speaker 5: You need to trust a little more, you know, open

1066
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 5: up some right, not knowing what that costs me. A

1067
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 5: lot of times people sitting in that chair tell me

1068
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 5: and offer me things that they don't understand what it

1069
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 5: cousts me. You see what I'm saying. So you asking

1070
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 5: me to you don't let it go in. I just

1071
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 5: told you I've been snitched on by somebody. Help now

1072
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 5: you right, these are reality things. This ain't me coming

1073
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 5: up with some you know, these are experiences, right, And

1074
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 5: so it's just I believe that therapy is necessary and

1075
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 5: I am gonna at some point engage in it. But

1076
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 5: I do think that the representation is off. A lot

1077
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 5: of dudes listen to me and they say this therapy.

1078
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 5: I say, damn, I don't you know. I'm just talking,

1079
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 5: but they get something from it. Bro you you life saving.

1080
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 2: Bro da da da da.

1081
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 5: I'm just like I'm just talking about I don't have that.

1082
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 5: I don't got nothing not can pull from.

1083
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. Because hair, it becomes in

1084
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 1: different forms. Somebody can listen to you. You can say

1085
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: somebody's life just from the game that you give them.

1086
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:12,319
Speaker 1: But it's like, that's how I learned to channel my

1087
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 1: emotions because I probably went to my deepest depression last year.

1088
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:19,240
Speaker 1: I lost my mom and I was like on tour

1089
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 1: and people were coming up to me crying like, oh, Lex,

1090
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: you got me out of my dark place. And I'm like,

1091
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 1: how am I getting people out of their dark place?

1092
00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 1: And I'm in a dark place. So I feel like,

1093
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 1: as people who are kind of like leaders, we have

1094
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 1: to understand that we need to save space too.

1095
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:36,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, because a lot of the time we deal with

1096
00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 3: a lot of emotional trauma that we don't want to

1097
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:43,359
Speaker 3: open up and really physically deal with. Like it's like, Okay,

1098
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 3: I know this is what's wrong with me, but I

1099
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 3: don't really want to deal with it today. And I

1100
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 3: think a lot of us have those things that we're harboring.

1101
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 3: And to me, as a person, you always supposed to

1102
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 3: be constantly evolving and constantly while how can you constantly

1103
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 3: evolve and constantly grow if you're not dealing with your

1104
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 3: past trauma? Because I feel like it's keeping you, like

1105
00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:06,239
Speaker 3: and not just you, I feel like all of it. Yeah,

1106
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 3: it's keeping all of us stagnant to a certain ext thing,

1107
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:11,280
Speaker 3: because you can't move past certain things if you don't

1108
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 3: face it head head first.

1109
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 2: And I don't even know what you're moving past. That's

1110
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

1111
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:18,799
Speaker 1: But that's why I heard it talking about have to say.

1112
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 5: The white person are sitting next to me in the

1113
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 5: therapy session, Well, I'm saying my experience, right.

1114
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:28,839
Speaker 2: And then they'll say, because again, I haven't seen us there. Yeah,

1115
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:29,839
Speaker 2: I haven't seen us there.

1116
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 5: Now they'll sit right there and tell me that my

1117
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 5: whole way of thinking is off.

1118
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:35,919
Speaker 2: And I tell them this.

1119
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:39,400
Speaker 5: Is survival for us, right like, this is the only

1120
00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 5: way to make it to thirty.

1121
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:42,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're.

1122
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 5: Telling me that, Hey, man, come on, you you got

1123
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 5: to you gotta do a little more lovely man, forgive folks,

1124
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 5: forgive people the person that stole from you. You know,

1125
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:54,760
Speaker 5: It's just I can't. I don't know if I'm ready

1126
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 5: to even scramble this ship with all of that.

1127
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 2: You you know what I'm saying.

1128
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:02,799
Speaker 5: I mean, it's a lot, and I do need some

1129
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 5: healing because I ain't as uh, I ain't as uh

1130
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 5: nice as I would want to be.

1131
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, You're sweet, you seem

1132
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 1: pretty nice. I mean you're nice.

1133
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:14,439
Speaker 2: I'm pretty good.

1134
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 1: But I do think that that like trauma that you

1135
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,719
Speaker 1: said that you've probably dealt with in the past, that

1136
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 1: that it all trickles down because I feel like that

1137
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: has a bigger effect on like the black family, Like

1138
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: there's so many broken homes, and because I feel like

1139
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:35,240
Speaker 1: women are so gung ho on being independent or by myself.

1140
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 1: Can't trust these niggas and men are you know, I

1141
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: can't get my hearts no bitch, And you know, it's

1142
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 1: just like a never ending cycle. I'm like, Okay, our

1143
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 1: community needs a lot of healing.

1144
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 3: And what has helped me a lot too, is like

1145
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:50,840
Speaker 3: finding a therapy state matches you, that matches me.

1146
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 5: That conversation. Let's role play. Okay, what's up? What's uh?

1147
00:54:56,480 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 5: What's a therapist conversation? Like, so, like you said down.

1148
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:05,160
Speaker 3: Well, the funny thing is I've never actually sat down

1149
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 3: in front of a therapist, like face to face, Like

1150
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 3: I've always done my therapy stations online. Yeah, because I

1151
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:12,280
Speaker 3: started going to therapy during the pandemic.

1152
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:15,799
Speaker 5: I can't even like, yeah, on zoom you think zoom,

1153
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 5: you're tapping me in on zoom what you tell me?

1154
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie, Like when I started going to therapy.

1155
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:23,359
Speaker 3: My dad passed away in twenty twenty, and that's when

1156
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 3: I started going to therapy. And it was also during

1157
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 3: the time where you know, we were in the middle

1158
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 3: of the pandemic.

1159
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: So you yeah, and so honestly, I'm not gonna lie.

1160
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 3: Like talking to my therapist every week when I was

1161
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 3: dealing with the trauma of losing my dad in the

1162
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:41,839
Speaker 3: midst of a lot of other things that I had

1163
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 3: going on, it really helps me out of life.

1164
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 2: It really did.

1165
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 1: I think the conversation for me. First of all, I'm

1166
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: not maybe, but it's like I don't go to no

1167
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: therapists unless it's a black woman. Me too, Like my

1168
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:55,839
Speaker 1: therapist off talk, you gotta be you gotta be a

1169
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 1: woman because.

1170
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 5: I think but you've got that kind of personality that

1171
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 5: I think both of you, yeah, that I think you

1172
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 5: can again adjust and edit me. I mean, I'm accepted

1173
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 5: even though I can edit and adjust.

1174
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 2: I'm accepted a certain way. Most time.

1175
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 5: This is without me even adjusting or getting a chance

1176
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 5: to edit or right right, you know what I'm saying.

1177
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 2: So I think with you, you, you and you.

1178
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 5: Y'all have these like type of vibrations where it's like

1179
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 5: we with the whites today, I can tap in.

1180
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:27,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know.

1181
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 2: What I'm saying.

1182
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 1: That is true. But I think for me what it

1183
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,880
Speaker 1: was because I think what people don't realize what therapy

1184
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: you have to go through a couple of sessions for

1185
00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 1: you realize this person is for you or not, because

1186
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 1: I've had to. I had, Yeah, I had to switch

1187
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:46,360
Speaker 1: therapists when I first started because it just she didn't

1188
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:49,719
Speaker 1: get it. And I realized the my therapist that I've

1189
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:51,759
Speaker 1: been with for a year and a half now is

1190
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,320
Speaker 1: because like on my fourth sessions, she was like, Okay,

1191
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:57,400
Speaker 1: I get it. Okay, your les, you do the podcast,

1192
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 1: let this, let it, let it go. And I just

1193
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 1: started crying. I was like, okay, like this is what

1194
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm going through and this is what happened. I was like, Okay,

1195
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,800
Speaker 1: I just let that guard down. And I'm not saying

1196
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 1: that I let that. I don't let that guard down

1197
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:11,919
Speaker 1: to public. Y'all don't get to know who I really am.

1198
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:16,200
Speaker 1: That's for my best friend. That's for my family and

1199
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 1: my therapist. So whenever I'm going through something, I need

1200
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:22,920
Speaker 1: to vent, and maybe she's going through something and you can't.

1201
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 1: I can't dump on her all the time. She got

1202
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 1: her own life and her own problems. So sometimes I

1203
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 1: just want to vent and I need to let it out,

1204
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 1: and I need to cry. I need to go through

1205
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 1: these emotions, and everything is safe with her, So it's

1206
00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 1: kind of like my little safe space. Yeah, because you

1207
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 1: talking to somebody too, I think, which is important sometimes

1208
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 1: to talk to somebody who is unbiased. Right, I call

1209
00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 1: her and I talked to her about some shit.

1210
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 3: She gonna try to give me advice to the best

1211
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 3: of her ability, but it's still gonna be biased.

1212
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:50,560
Speaker 1: Candy, you my best friend, you.

1213
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 3: Love me, you know me, and if somebody do me diredy,

1214
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 3: you automatically gonna be on my side. So sometimes it's

1215
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 3: good to talk to somebody who is unbiased.

1216
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 1: You could just give you their opinion.

1217
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 3: And they don't know nobody, they don't know nothing about

1218
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:06,080
Speaker 3: the hoste.

1219
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 2: I'm good with talking. Yeah, So when you like I'm

1220
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 2: bast by ship get you while I won't you.

1221
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:19,160
Speaker 1: But that's manipulat. But like he gonna need. I don't

1222
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 1: know what kind of therapists he needs. You know what

1223
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying, we need somebody that's just like.

1224
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:26,440
Speaker 3: You ain't supposed to be manipulating that.

1225
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: By the end of the second, his therapist is gonna

1226
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 1: be crying.

1227
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 5: I got you, bro, And that's like a real thing.

1228
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 5: So it's like, I don't care where you stand at. Like,

1229
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 5: if what I'm saying the way I explain what I'm

1230
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 5: saying to you, my point of view gonna have to

1231
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 5: make sense, like and if it don't, I just don't

1232
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 5: see how I got another way to say.

1233
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 2: I got it to that, Like I'm good at that.

1234
00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 1: Well, let me if you have a safe space that

1235
00:58:58,200 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: you feel like you could be one hundred percent roller

1236
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:04,240
Speaker 1: when you have with somebody, anybody I got.

1237
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:08,439
Speaker 5: I got one person. Okay, no, I say this, no,

1238
00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:12,800
Speaker 5: all right, but I have someone that that I'm more uh,

1239
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 5: I have more leisure than most you know.

1240
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 1: But that ain't good enough. You need one person, whether

1241
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: it's a therapist. You need one something, even if it's

1242
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: a jok something that you can be one hundred percent vulnerable.

1243
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 1: I think everybody needs that.

1244
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,440
Speaker 2: And I'm going through it. But I'm fighting company.

1245
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 1: God could be that person for a lot of people.

1246
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 1: That's what I'm But you need something I can't think.

1247
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 5: So it's a lot, man, it's a lot to unpeck.

1248
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:43,120
Speaker 5: And like I said, I can't just be vulnerable with

1249
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 5: every bettery and you shouldn't be.

1250
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 2: I can't. I can't.

1251
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 5: I know better Again, I've been told no better, man,

1252
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 5: And this is something I wasn't.

1253
00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 2: Even vulnerable with. I watched him like a whole. I

1254
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:57,040
Speaker 2: watched him, and he still got me. I watched him,

1255
00:59:57,120 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 2: I watched him.

1256
00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 5: Yes what I'm saying, and he's still like, you know,

1257
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 5: you gotta think like So it's a different thing man

1258
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:05,120
Speaker 5: when I you know, when I think.

1259
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 2: About just opening up, what does that even look like

1260
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 2: for me?

1261
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:08,800
Speaker 1: Right?

1262
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 2: Opening up? You know what I'm saying.

1263
01:00:11,880 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 1: But I mean, but it's a it's a territory that

1264
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 1: I think is scary for anybody, whether you in the

1265
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:20,480
Speaker 1: streets or not. It's scary thinking about being one hundred

1266
01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 1: percent open and vulnerable. But I think that's something that

1267
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 1: helps you mentally. I think it do.

1268
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 3: But then I think at the same time, too, you

1269
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 3: do have to trade lightly with who you be vulnerable with.

1270
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 3: I do believe in being vulnerable with people, but you

1271
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 3: have to trade lightly because you will have people who

1272
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 3: will be like, oh, you could just open up to me,

1273
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 3: talk to me about whatever you want to talk to

1274
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:41,479
Speaker 3: me about.

1275
01:00:41,560 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: I'm here for you this.

1276
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 3: And this and this, and then when you really start

1277
01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:47,320
Speaker 3: to unpack, it be too much.

1278
01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:49,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's saying.

1279
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 2: My problem is just think about my problem.

1280
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, like big Loan got big problems.

1281
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 2: I'm running companies and shit, and I come.

1282
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 5: Open up to you and you work somewhere they don't

1283
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:02,920
Speaker 5: even connect.

1284
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 2: What am I talking? You complain and you getting all

1285
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:06,120
Speaker 2: that money? Complain?

1286
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:09,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh that's the worst.

1287
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 1: It's like, I'm gonna give you a task, find you

1288
01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 1: a safe space. It don't have to be a person.

1289
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 1: Maybe it'll be a journal, something that you just feel

1290
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 1: like you can get your emotions out and you convince,

1291
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:27,440
Speaker 1: find you.

1292
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:29,400
Speaker 5: Get like when you even think about women, because you

1293
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:34,880
Speaker 5: know that'll be with that. That's I enjoy women right from.

1294
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 2: A like Yeah, so.

1295
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,520
Speaker 5: As I look at it's like, maybe that'll be somewhere

1296
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 5: where I do it. But even that's gonna take time

1297
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 5: because I got to be.

1298
01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:45,919
Speaker 2: I got to be. Yeah, you got to ease me yeah,

1299
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:46,600
Speaker 2: and a lot of.

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Speaker 1: Bow bow bow. Now I'm about to getting your business.

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Speaker 1: Have you been to jail before? So let me ask

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Speaker 1: you this. I wanted to talk about this because my friend,

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01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:19,440
Speaker 1: she used to be a CEO at Riker's that she

1328
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: always tells a story about, like how she used to

1329
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: mess with the inmates and things like that. So today

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Speaker 1: we want to talk about how inmates have their relations

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01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 1: when they're in jail.

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Speaker 2: Is that common a lot of them girls?

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01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:40,840
Speaker 5: First of all, you gotta remember where most prisons are.

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01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 2: They being real like country hit times. They don't get this.

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Speaker 1: What's the one in Texas Hunstville.

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01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:50,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they don't see a player. That girl ain't

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01:03:50,080 --> 01:04:05,960
Speaker 2: never saw.

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01:03:50,560 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 1: A big loan you walking down with that.

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01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:09,560
Speaker 2: Never she ain't nothing. So they like sometimes.

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01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:13,080
Speaker 5: They get their job for them.

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01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 2: Sometimes to them, it's like.

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01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 5: Listen, some of them girls, you know you have, some

1343
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 5: of them girls get the job.

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01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 1: For that because they want to play.

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01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:28,920
Speaker 5: You've never seen a player or high level drug dealert.

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01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:31,640
Speaker 2: Oh that's right though. Rough.

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01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 1: Okay, So we got on the jokes the show that

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01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 1: we call bt b's So the way the girls can

1349
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:39,960
Speaker 1: find a bd B is to become.

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01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 2: A CEO sometimes and then a nigga starts.

1351
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 3: Slipping because niggas we still having motion in jail.

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Speaker 2: Niggas rich in jail, niggas rich in jail. I might

1353
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:51,760
Speaker 2: need to go be a ceo.

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01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 5: I'm a firm of you'll have problem now they gonna

1355
01:04:55,440 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 5: dump it on you.

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01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:03,400
Speaker 1: And it is ending up in prison. Can find this episode,

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01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 1: so you feel like a lot of women get that job.

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01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 2: I'm not saying a lot, but there's a yes. That

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01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:15,120
Speaker 2: is a thing. Like again it's the hick town.

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Speaker 5: I may live up here, but twenty five hundred people.

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01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:20,320
Speaker 2: In this Yes, Like I'm gonna work at the prison.

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01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:23,440
Speaker 1: Oh, daddy's in jail.

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01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 3: He was supposed to come up with a parole before

1364
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:30,040
Speaker 3: in his parole got the night because he got caught

1365
01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 3: fucking with a ceo.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I did not know this all the time. I

1367
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 1: just thought that sometimes it was something that happens. See,

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Speaker 1: this is how green I am. I told you all green.

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01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: I just thought like maybe people just fall.

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01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 2: In love, and how you looking for loving? The penitential?

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Speaker 1: I don't know I'm sorry. I wouldn't. I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: for me.

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Speaker 5: But what happened is these women are come in there

1374
01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 5: and I'm telling you they don't even know that they

1375
01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 5: ain't never saw a player.

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01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:54,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1377
01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:57,000
Speaker 2: Sometimes you don't know. You ain't never saw this ship.

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Speaker 5: You know, Sometimes you will cease like me, I see

1379
01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:01,760
Speaker 5: oh ship, ain't you.

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Speaker 1: Ain't never seen it, like big Mama before.

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Speaker 2: I know that's right, hard so say I was. Sometimes

1382
01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 2: you don't seen them players, so.

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01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:12,520
Speaker 1: They can't get on bro.

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Speaker 3: You d no, I haven't seen a players for sure?

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Speaker 5: S yeah, so yeah, but that's sometimes. And like I say,

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01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 5: sometimes she come to do her job. I don't even

1387
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Speaker 5: know that this fen the gray Abpa.

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Speaker 2: She don't even know.

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Speaker 1: So sometimes these men be plotting on them because they

1390
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 1: know she don't need yeah.

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01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:32,760
Speaker 2: No, they need you to get something in.

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01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:39,440
Speaker 5: They put that yeah on you, they put the team.

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01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:42,000
Speaker 1: So sometimes the man be aiming for the women like

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Speaker 1: oh she greeds. She don't know I'm about to get

1395
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Speaker 1: on them.

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Speaker 5: Like sometimes like I know my homeboy, he like him, chubby,

1397
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Speaker 5: you know what I mean? Wow, chubby one, I don't know.

1398
01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 5: I'm gonna have to ask him when I seen him.

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Speaker 1: You ain't never ask them just out of curiosity.

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Speaker 2: I can speculate, but i'd rather not.

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01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:03,280
Speaker 1: That is so crazy. I've never heard this side of it.

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01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:05,760
Speaker 1: I always wonder because I always just thought, you know,

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01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:08,120
Speaker 1: sometimes you see somebody every day, like you know how

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01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:10,360
Speaker 1: people have that work wife and they work husband. So

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01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:12,280
Speaker 1: I just thought, Okay, you see somebody so much and

1406
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 1: maybe you're attracted to him.

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01:07:13,400 --> 01:07:13,960
Speaker 2: And it just happened.

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01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 1: Criminals, Yeah, what's happening.

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01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:19,480
Speaker 5: I don't guess what they working on you though, And

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01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 5: then it's it's so fucked up.

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01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:22,960
Speaker 2: You gotta think what the girl is enduring to have

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01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:26,800
Speaker 2: that job. She's also going through hell for every player.

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01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:30,200
Speaker 2: It's a hundred niggas that ain't no good. That soon

1414
01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:32,400
Speaker 2: she show up, they just showing their ship to it.

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01:07:32,760 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, she's.

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01:07:35,080 --> 01:07:38,200
Speaker 2: Going through not only after the player. So again a

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Speaker 2: lot of times man.

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Speaker 5: To have that job as a woman, I salute you

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01:07:42,920 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 5: because that's a hell of a job for Wow.

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01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:46,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I was.

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01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:48,000
Speaker 5: Listening to I don't know if y'all heard it, but

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01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:51,760
Speaker 5: they have young thugs back in trial and they have

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01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:55,600
Speaker 5: one of his Cody's up there and they have a

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01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 5: phone call where he's talking to his baby mama, baby

1425
01:07:58,600 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 5: mama telling him, man, gone to operate.

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01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 2: Man, you know you got a son, get out of here.

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01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 5: This and that and what was interesting I want to

1428
01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 5: ask y'all talk to y'all about this. What was interesting

1429
01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 5: is from a street got perspective, I think it's important

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01:08:11,560 --> 01:08:14,600
Speaker 5: that we choose the right kind of women, right because

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01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:17,800
Speaker 5: when you make those phone calls and I can't really

1432
01:08:17,920 --> 01:08:19,799
Speaker 5: talk because they got.

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01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 2: Me in here, they done slick arrested me.

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01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 5: And I got to say, man, you know, you know, hey,

1435
01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:28,960
Speaker 5: get you know, go get to you know, make sure

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01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:33,720
Speaker 5: you you know what I mean over well, ib what

1437
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:35,639
Speaker 5: I mean, because I need you to really head over

1438
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:37,439
Speaker 5: to the yeah, and just.

1439
01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:40,360
Speaker 2: Make sure you don't nobody ever and you don't even

1440
01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:43,720
Speaker 2: really got the She got to know because when I listened.

1441
01:08:43,439 --> 01:08:46,040
Speaker 5: To the call, he will try and explain to his

1442
01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:49,799
Speaker 5: old lady to I guess, move the guns or move something.

1443
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:53,080
Speaker 5: And he damned had to say it right out, which

1444
01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:55,799
Speaker 5: is why you hear it in court because they're catching

1445
01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:59,200
Speaker 5: it like, hey, he's telling her to move the guns.

1446
01:08:59,240 --> 01:09:00,559
Speaker 2: He's telling her to the thing.

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01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:04,320
Speaker 5: And I got to thinking, like, you can't have you know,

1448
01:09:04,360 --> 01:09:06,479
Speaker 5: as much as the street nigga. If you're gonna be

1449
01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:08,240
Speaker 5: a street nigga, as much as you want.

1450
01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:12,439
Speaker 2: The little green girl, the goodie girl, you might not.

1451
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:13,280
Speaker 2: Can't do that.

1452
01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 1: Oh you can't do it with me. You can't.

1453
01:09:15,960 --> 01:09:16,759
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

1454
01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:22,360
Speaker 1: I would say, what did you say? I don't know

1455
01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:23,280
Speaker 1: what you talking about?

1456
01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 2: You know what they He would asking what they do

1457
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:28,080
Speaker 2: when they came out. She was like, they were asking

1458
01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:31,360
Speaker 2: for your phone. He was like, oh man that he

1459
01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:32,439
Speaker 2: was trying not to.

1460
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:34,840
Speaker 1: In court.

1461
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:36,560
Speaker 2: He was in court today playing that.

1462
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 1: Wow.

1463
01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 3: Well, you know, whenever you when you're in jail, they're

1464
01:09:40,240 --> 01:09:42,920
Speaker 3: recording the conversation, and so if.

1465
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:45,760
Speaker 2: You can make it, it's vain, it's vague as possible.

1466
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:47,360
Speaker 1: But she already know what's up.

1467
01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 5: But you know, he had to literally damn it be like, yeah,

1468
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:51,960
Speaker 5: it's under the.

1469
01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:57,040
Speaker 2: Bed on the left, right said one time, it's in

1470
01:09:57,080 --> 01:10:01,120
Speaker 2: the hair box. Like he had to actually, yeah, it's like,

1471
01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 2: damn man, that eat those little things. Yeah, even make

1472
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:07,360
Speaker 2: the case hard.

1473
01:10:07,680 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 1: Yeah. Crazy. So have you ever had a situation where

1474
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:13,960
Speaker 1: you was messing with a CEO? You was just ending

1475
01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:16,280
Speaker 1: there being a plum waiting to get out.

1476
01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:18,840
Speaker 5: I ain't doing a lot of time I did ten months.

1477
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 5: I ain't doing a lot of.

1478
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,360
Speaker 1: No hard you want is still a long time.

1479
01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 5: It's cool, you know, I'm waiting on them to get

1480
01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:28,080
Speaker 5: it over and then they gave me time, sir.

1481
01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:32,280
Speaker 3: Okay, I like that's important thought. You do gotta have

1482
01:10:32,400 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 3: like you gotta be with the right woman. Yeah, to

1483
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:37,600
Speaker 3: hold you down, because every girl is not built like that.

1484
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:38,960
Speaker 1: We don't talk about that.

1485
01:10:39,000 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 2: Do y'all? What do y'all do? If y'all have a dude,

1486
01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:42,800
Speaker 2: y'all messing with the dude, you go to jail, you

1487
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:43,439
Speaker 2: hold him down.

1488
01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:47,559
Speaker 1: You'm not holding nothing down. I'm not holding nothing down.

1489
01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 1: I'll see you when you get out, and we can

1490
01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:51,280
Speaker 1: talk about it if we married.

1491
01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:54,400
Speaker 2: If we married, we're gonna talk about this, I think,

1492
01:10:54,479 --> 01:10:55,000
Speaker 2: y'all cap.

1493
01:10:56,840 --> 01:11:00,439
Speaker 3: I'mm if you're my husband, Like, if we have made

1494
01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:02,519
Speaker 3: a bow to each other and you my husband and

1495
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:04,599
Speaker 3: you go to jail, I'm not gonna just leave you,

1496
01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:07,360
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. But if you my boyfriend,

1497
01:11:07,479 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 3: especially depending on what it is that you want to

1498
01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:12,040
Speaker 3: jail for, I don't know.

1499
01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 1: You might be on y'all?

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01:11:12,960 --> 01:11:15,000
Speaker 2: How long? How long before I mean.

1501
01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:18,080
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie? I do six months six months.

1502
01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:21,760
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm I'm gonna keep it one money, I'm gonna

1503
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:22,040
Speaker 1: keep it.

1504
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:26,520
Speaker 3: Playing around months. Can you have conjugal visits?

1505
01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:29,880
Speaker 1: No, because y'all not married. You can only do conjugal

1506
01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 1: visuits if you're married. I'll say, I don't know. I'll

1507
01:11:33,439 --> 01:11:38,080
Speaker 1: say this, six months. Time goes by faster than you think.

1508
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm a busy woman, to be honest. Could I do

1509
01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 1: six months? Possibly? But a like a year more if.

1510
01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 5: He checked off every box, If he checked off everybody,

1511
01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:50,320
Speaker 5: every box that.

1512
01:11:50,320 --> 01:11:51,599
Speaker 2: You want it, I don't know.

1513
01:11:52,800 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 5: One of my boxes is fucking yeah, he can fuck

1514
01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 5: good like a year.

1515
01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 1: But you're like, but six months, that's what I'm saying.

1516
01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:02,680
Speaker 1: I can do. Six months I can do. But I'm

1517
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:05,720
Speaker 1: saying he checks off every box. I'm saying, you know

1518
01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 1: I could do six month.

1519
01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:09,800
Speaker 5: What if you got a five year sentence, he gotta

1520
01:12:09,840 --> 01:12:12,760
Speaker 5: do probably two and a half three years I would do.

1521
01:12:12,880 --> 01:12:15,800
Speaker 1: I'm a hold and he checked everybody. I would be

1522
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:18,920
Speaker 1: here when you get out. So my mind's your business

1523
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:20,800
Speaker 1: while you're in there. Don't worry about what.

1524
01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:24,080
Speaker 5: I don't think you need the police to pull that

1525
01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:28,599
Speaker 5: police to I don't think you need to do that either.

1526
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:30,960
Speaker 2: From the gym they got exactly.

1527
01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:33,320
Speaker 1: I'm still gonna hold you down. We're gonna be together

1528
01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:35,200
Speaker 1: when you get out. But I'm gonna do my bang. No,

1529
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be fucking on your partners. I'm not

1530
01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:39,080
Speaker 1: doing the whole ship. But I wouldn't do nothing.

1531
01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:39,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be.

1532
01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:42,040
Speaker 1: I'll go and probably you know, talk to one of

1533
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:45,360
Speaker 1: my little Nigerian bays. He overseas Nigerian base. Oh, I

1534
01:12:45,680 --> 01:12:46,880
Speaker 1: keep a Nigerian bas.

1535
01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:49,360
Speaker 2: What's so good about niger I love everything.

1536
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:51,120
Speaker 1: About I love that accine. I love the way they

1537
01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:52,759
Speaker 1: walk a lot, the way they talk a lot, the way.

1538
01:12:52,600 --> 01:12:54,080
Speaker 2: They got you.

1539
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:55,640
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm down.

1540
01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:58,280
Speaker 2: She got They got her real bad.

1541
01:12:58,920 --> 01:13:01,680
Speaker 3: But so what what would you do if you were

1542
01:13:01,760 --> 01:13:04,880
Speaker 3: in jail for like five years and you found out

1543
01:13:04,960 --> 01:13:07,719
Speaker 3: that show girl got a Nigerian bab over in Nigeria?

1544
01:13:07,760 --> 01:13:08,360
Speaker 1: Would you be mad?

1545
01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:10,519
Speaker 3: Would you like still fuck with her when she gets

1546
01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:11,960
Speaker 3: I mean, when you get out, as long as she

1547
01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:13,760
Speaker 3: doing everything she's sook do?

1548
01:13:14,640 --> 01:13:17,599
Speaker 5: It depends on me, depending on where I'm met with it, right,

1549
01:13:17,640 --> 01:13:20,759
Speaker 5: because I really don't give no exceptions on certain things,

1550
01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:23,160
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, that's a period.

1551
01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:24,160
Speaker 2: After that, you know.

1552
01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:28,200
Speaker 5: But but yeah, so now, but you know you wanna

1553
01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:30,759
Speaker 5: get your Dogerian baby. When I went, when I touched,

1554
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:35,360
Speaker 5: you know, I turning back up now when I talk, get.

1555
01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:40,240
Speaker 1: Okay. So let me ask you this. And me and

1556
01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:43,439
Speaker 1: you were dating and we're very serious. I check off

1557
01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:45,800
Speaker 1: all your boxes and I go to jail for two

1558
01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:47,559
Speaker 1: and a half three years. Are you holding me down?

1559
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:54,880
Speaker 1: So you're gonna be good? No, gonna have sex with jail, but.

1560
01:13:56,320 --> 01:13:57,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna hold you down.

1561
01:13:57,800 --> 01:14:02,000
Speaker 5: And now you just talking about six months.

1562
01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:05,360
Speaker 2: I'm saying I'm gonna take the ride. You said, why

1563
01:14:05,360 --> 01:14:07,600
Speaker 2: are you fucking other girl? What I'm supposed to do?

1564
01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:10,000
Speaker 1: Not the house?

1565
01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 5: I can't just you got to feed the people real.

1566
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:26,439
Speaker 1: Against what a double standard, lady.

1567
01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:30,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna cancel. So yeah, I'm loyal too, like to

1568
01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:32,600
Speaker 2: to a fault almore.

1569
01:14:32,720 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 1: Tourist, I'm loyal too. I'm a leo.

1570
01:14:35,280 --> 01:14:37,559
Speaker 2: I'm not You're not loyal.

1571
01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:38,360
Speaker 1: Move around.

1572
01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:39,639
Speaker 2: You're gonna move around.

1573
01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:40,760
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna be here when you get out. I

1574
01:14:40,760 --> 01:14:41,519
Speaker 1: still love.

1575
01:14:41,360 --> 01:14:45,960
Speaker 3: You, but I don't know when it comes to prison.

1576
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 3: I'm a tourist and I'm very loyal, but when it

1577
01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:50,400
Speaker 3: comes to prison, he gets a little shake.

1578
01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:52,600
Speaker 2: I know why, What's what's shaky about it?

1579
01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:58,240
Speaker 1: It's so like ship. I'll say this. No, I'm not

1580
01:14:58,280 --> 01:14:59,040
Speaker 1: saying it because it's cool.

1581
01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:01,720
Speaker 3: I'm honestly staying because I number one, have never been

1582
01:15:01,760 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 3: in a situation like that. Like I've never had to

1583
01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 3: hold nobody in jail.

1584
01:15:05,040 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 2: If you ever liked somebody real bad, yes I have.

1585
01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:12,960
Speaker 3: I don't get it, okay, in a situation hands to

1586
01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:15,120
Speaker 3: think about holding somebody down while they was in jail.

1587
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:17,880
Speaker 1: I'll say this for me because Leo's we don't tend

1588
01:15:17,880 --> 01:15:20,519
Speaker 1: to be loyal people. I'm not gonna lie, but when

1589
01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:22,720
Speaker 1: we really really fuck with you, I have like a

1590
01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:25,200
Speaker 1: handful of people in my life then matter what, no

1591
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 1: matter what, they can ask me for anything, the loyalty

1592
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:31,240
Speaker 1: is unmatched. I will say, there's one man in my life,

1593
01:15:31,400 --> 01:15:34,000
Speaker 1: like if we were like if things were you know,

1594
01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 1: like how they are, we're good and we're I would

1595
01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 1: definitely hold him down. But not many people, not many people.

1596
01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 1: Nobody what because I'm not about to play with you. No,

1597
01:15:50,360 --> 01:15:53,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying that me and him were together, and yeah

1598
01:15:53,360 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 1: I would. I would definitely hold him down, like if

1599
01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:57,599
Speaker 1: he was like, no, I'm going to jail for a year.

1600
01:15:57,680 --> 01:16:00,280
Speaker 1: I don't want you to be with nobody that's easy.

1601
01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:03,840
Speaker 1: I don't be doing that ship out here anyway. That's

1602
01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:05,599
Speaker 1: how I be feeling, you know what I'm saying now.

1603
01:16:06,080 --> 01:16:08,479
Speaker 1: If I'm dealing with somebody like, oh, we go on

1604
01:16:08,520 --> 01:16:09,760
Speaker 1: it off, I don't really fun with them like that

1605
01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:11,559
Speaker 1: or any of these other niggas, I'll be like whatever.

1606
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:13,240
Speaker 1: But me and they were together.

1607
01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:15,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm talking about one of them ones though, see

1608
01:16:15,840 --> 01:16:20,160
Speaker 5: y'all talking like it's just you know, yeah, one of

1609
01:16:20,200 --> 01:16:22,200
Speaker 5: them one into the jail house.

1610
01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:24,439
Speaker 2: Damn, they got one of them ones.

1611
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:27,160
Speaker 1: Even think I ever had one of them one?

1612
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:30,880
Speaker 3: So we ain't talking about talking to me.

1613
01:16:33,160 --> 01:16:33,880
Speaker 1: Talking about me?

1614
01:16:36,960 --> 01:16:39,120
Speaker 2: What is one of the ones to you that that

1615
01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:41,800
Speaker 2: you said real nigga? They never had a real nigga.

1616
01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:45,040
Speaker 3: I feel like it is rare when I say to me,

1617
01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:47,960
Speaker 3: a real nigga, like one thing that check off all

1618
01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:50,479
Speaker 3: of oxes to me, for somebody that I would consider

1619
01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 3: to be real, is a nigga that don't.

1620
01:16:52,680 --> 01:16:55,200
Speaker 1: I never came across no nigga. They just don't lie.

1621
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:58,479
Speaker 2: Lying about everything.

1622
01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:01,760
Speaker 3: Everything looks they felt that.

1623
01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:03,439
Speaker 1: I mean that they ain't got a.

1624
01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 3: Lie about keep it one undout from me and she

1625
01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:08,040
Speaker 3: is too much.

1626
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:09,879
Speaker 2: They feel like they have to lie.

1627
01:17:10,840 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that I'm not.

1628
01:17:12,280 --> 01:17:15,519
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be completely honest. I think sometimes niggas just

1629
01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:17,080
Speaker 3: feel like they got a lot to me about she

1630
01:17:17,200 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 3: because I think that they know because I'm not gonna lie.

1631
01:17:19,280 --> 01:17:22,479
Speaker 3: I'm very flighty, like I'm the type of girl I'll

1632
01:17:22,479 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 3: fuck with you, but as much as I fuck with you, once.

1633
01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:26,879
Speaker 1: You got me, I did you.

1634
01:17:26,920 --> 01:17:28,840
Speaker 3: So I think niggas be thinking that they got to

1635
01:17:28,920 --> 01:17:31,559
Speaker 3: lie to me to keep me around. But if you

1636
01:17:31,680 --> 01:17:33,439
Speaker 3: lie to me and then I find out the truth

1637
01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:35,960
Speaker 3: later on that line, I'm still gonna not fuck you.

1638
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:37,160
Speaker 3: I'm still gonna leave you either.

1639
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:41,320
Speaker 5: Do you give them up understanding that look come to

1640
01:17:41,360 --> 01:17:44,120
Speaker 5: me with with whatever or is you saying that I

1641
01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:44,799
Speaker 5: ain't going.

1642
01:17:44,680 --> 01:17:47,000
Speaker 1: For because it's not You can't know. As much as

1643
01:17:47,040 --> 01:17:48,360
Speaker 1: you say that to a nigga, you be like you

1644
01:17:48,360 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 1: can keep it real with me, and he's still not

1645
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:50,360
Speaker 1: gonna keep it.

1646
01:17:50,600 --> 01:17:54,479
Speaker 5: Your attitude saying something else, your behavior saying something else.

1647
01:17:54,880 --> 01:17:57,240
Speaker 2: So what I'm saying, I hear your mouth, I hear y'all.

1648
01:17:57,320 --> 01:17:58,320
Speaker 2: Yeah tell me.

1649
01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:03,920
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah no you yeah, Now you ain't like

1650
01:18:04,080 --> 01:18:07,000
Speaker 5: what I said about I was probably gonna go over

1651
01:18:07,040 --> 01:18:14,600
Speaker 5: there later on over well.

1652
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:14,880
Speaker 1: I don't tell me that ship period. Why you know

1653
01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:17,519
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I'm just going your glass over there?

1654
01:18:17,560 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 2: Don't tell me, son? How could we keep it real?

1655
01:18:21,160 --> 01:18:23,000
Speaker 2: How can we keep it really? Why are we.

1656
01:18:23,120 --> 01:18:25,000
Speaker 1: Not being monogamous?

1657
01:18:25,000 --> 01:18:28,479
Speaker 5: We are if it's a monogamous situation, but y'all.

1658
01:18:28,280 --> 01:18:30,280
Speaker 1: Still not being a monogamous even if it is a

1659
01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:33,080
Speaker 1: monogamous situation with these niggas. I'm not gonna lie. I

1660
01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:34,639
Speaker 1: believe one hundred percent of me in cheap.

1661
01:18:34,760 --> 01:18:38,040
Speaker 2: I just not true. I don't cheat.

1662
01:18:37,200 --> 01:18:40,040
Speaker 1: You said you're going over there.

1663
01:18:41,640 --> 01:18:42,160
Speaker 2: I see.

1664
01:18:42,320 --> 01:18:45,840
Speaker 5: I'm great at creating understanding. You know what I'm saying That.

1665
01:18:46,320 --> 01:18:50,440
Speaker 1: That's that player. She ain't never met the player, Like, hey.

1666
01:18:50,360 --> 01:18:54,120
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Hey, I create an understanding.

1667
01:18:54,200 --> 01:18:57,000
Speaker 5: So it's like, yo, if we're gonna go there with it?

1668
01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:00,320
Speaker 5: Because I'm a cancer. So I'm lovey dub on the low,

1669
01:19:02,680 --> 01:19:04,760
Speaker 5: but it's on the load though, you know what I mean,

1670
01:19:04,800 --> 01:19:08,120
Speaker 5: I'm cold on our side and I'm lovely dove. If

1671
01:19:08,120 --> 01:19:10,160
Speaker 5: you can break through all of that, right, and so

1672
01:19:10,280 --> 01:19:14,240
Speaker 5: I don't. I'm scared of letting people in there inside

1673
01:19:14,680 --> 01:19:15,879
Speaker 5: and you know what I'm saying.

1674
01:19:17,680 --> 01:19:21,680
Speaker 1: Outside. Okay, So honestly, I'm very interested if any of

1675
01:19:21,760 --> 01:19:24,280
Speaker 1: y'all have ever been inmates or CEOs and y'all dealt

1676
01:19:24,280 --> 01:19:26,880
Speaker 1: with each other, send us a story. I definitely want

1677
01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:31,160
Speaker 1: to hear it. Okay, So time to the box. Hey,

1678
01:19:32,520 --> 01:19:34,760
Speaker 1: you're gonna leave me hanging like no, I wasn't. It's

1679
01:19:34,760 --> 01:19:36,360
Speaker 1: time to do the item of the week. It's the

1680
01:19:36,400 --> 01:19:38,360
Speaker 1: item of the week. First did the box. I don't

1681
01:19:38,360 --> 01:19:47,960
Speaker 1: know about bow Bo bo bow.

1682
01:19:48,040 --> 01:19:50,840
Speaker 4: Were really gonna have to figure out what I know.

1683
01:19:50,960 --> 01:19:51,840
Speaker 2: We just be doing ship.

1684
01:19:51,920 --> 01:19:54,519
Speaker 1: But that's why it's called poor bus. We've been drinking

1685
01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:57,120
Speaker 1: all day. We have So my Bop of the week

1686
01:19:57,240 --> 01:20:00,240
Speaker 1: is by Luna l I've actually made her my bop

1687
01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:03,000
Speaker 1: of the week before and she has a song that

1688
01:20:03,160 --> 01:20:06,720
Speaker 1: she dropped and it's called Perfect by Design. This girl

1689
01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:09,840
Speaker 1: is very young. She's from Canada, and I love seeing

1690
01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:13,479
Speaker 1: the young girls take the music seriously. She's an R

1691
01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 1: and B singer and she just has one of those

1692
01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:19,640
Speaker 1: rich voices, like it's very distinctive, Like you know, if

1693
01:20:19,640 --> 01:20:21,720
Speaker 1: you hear Beyonce's voice, you know it's Beyonce. If you

1694
01:20:21,760 --> 01:20:24,360
Speaker 1: hear Adele's voice, you know it's Adele. Luna l has

1695
01:20:24,400 --> 01:20:25,920
Speaker 1: that type of voice. When you hear her voice, you

1696
01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:29,599
Speaker 1: know it's her. So Luna l perfect by design. That's

1697
01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:32,599
Speaker 1: my bop of the week. What you've been jam Andrea? Y'all?

1698
01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:36,760
Speaker 1: So my bop is by Chris Brown, which one was

1699
01:20:36,880 --> 01:20:40,760
Speaker 1: under the influence. Again, so we are don't never mind, No,

1700
01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm talking about something else.

1701
01:20:42,000 --> 01:20:44,360
Speaker 3: Now we haven't, which is the crazy part because I

1702
01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:46,920
Speaker 3: feel like, oh, we talked about it, how it went viral.

1703
01:20:47,479 --> 01:20:49,960
Speaker 1: We talked about how it went viral. Yeah, but y'all,

1704
01:20:50,120 --> 01:20:52,519
Speaker 1: this song has h choke hold on it. You know what,

1705
01:20:52,680 --> 01:20:55,320
Speaker 1: that old song.

1706
01:20:55,600 --> 01:20:59,080
Speaker 3: It's crazy because and I cannot stop listening to the song.

1707
01:20:59,200 --> 01:21:00,960
Speaker 1: Well the reason I said but again because one of

1708
01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:02,760
Speaker 1: us made that our bop of the week when the

1709
01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:05,080
Speaker 1: album dropped a long time ago. And that's why we

1710
01:21:05,200 --> 01:21:07,439
Speaker 1: were laughing about it. I feel like, but yeah, that

1711
01:21:07,640 --> 01:21:11,160
Speaker 1: was like yeah, because that's like what from twenty nineteen. Yes,

1712
01:21:11,320 --> 01:21:14,519
Speaker 1: it's a very old song and its song and it's

1713
01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 1: going of this song and it's been everywhere and it

1714
01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:22,439
Speaker 1: has a choke hold one the worlds and it's crazy

1715
01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:25,639
Speaker 1: because it went viral TikTok the first time, and that's

1716
01:21:25,680 --> 01:21:28,000
Speaker 1: why he decided to make a video of it. It's

1717
01:21:28,080 --> 01:21:32,400
Speaker 1: going viral again. There's another challenge now, Yes, there's another

1718
01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:35,639
Speaker 1: challenge on TikTok that's going viral with the song again.

1719
01:21:36,280 --> 01:21:38,679
Speaker 1: So shout out to Chris Brown. He makes good music.

1720
01:21:41,720 --> 01:21:45,880
Speaker 1: I know that's right. A new album, yea, I haven't

1721
01:21:45,920 --> 01:21:48,960
Speaker 1: listened to it yet. I'm an army girl. I'm stuck

1722
01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:52,400
Speaker 1: on scissor right here. I'mkayy tired of me.

1723
01:21:52,800 --> 01:21:55,920
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, I'm always gonna have a little

1724
01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:58,040
Speaker 3: baby or a drake Bob.

1725
01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:01,320
Speaker 2: Every week it break too yeah every week?

1726
01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:04,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, so tired to me? Give us something new? No,

1727
01:22:05,120 --> 01:22:07,920
Speaker 1: something new. She's gonna listen a little baby, She's gonna

1728
01:22:07,960 --> 01:22:09,280
Speaker 1: listen to Drabe.

1729
01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:10,760
Speaker 2: Man, I'm gonna listen to it.

1730
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:13,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna listen to it. I'm I'm a little baby fan.

1731
01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:13,720
Speaker 2: I like it.

1732
01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:15,800
Speaker 1: But it's like I listen to the songs that are

1733
01:22:15,880 --> 01:22:18,720
Speaker 1: like the singles, and see it's a.

1734
01:22:18,760 --> 01:22:20,280
Speaker 2: Lot on that it ain't even singles.

1735
01:22:20,320 --> 01:22:22,080
Speaker 1: But see, I will listen to the singles, but I

1736
01:22:22,120 --> 01:22:24,439
Speaker 1: won't necessarily go and listen to the whole project.

1737
01:22:24,520 --> 01:22:25,680
Speaker 2: I think he wanted the only one.

1738
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:28,360
Speaker 5: He's still selling thirty forty thousand a week and that's

1739
01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:31,560
Speaker 5: six or seven week, Like we win number one that

1740
01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:33,840
Speaker 5: first week he came out win number one, so one

1741
01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:34,240
Speaker 5: hundred and.

1742
01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:38,200
Speaker 2: Fifty, like he killing it. Yeah, yeahs still drop.

1743
01:22:38,320 --> 01:22:43,120
Speaker 5: And then get that and then it'll go away. Like

1744
01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:45,960
Speaker 5: Drake is up there with him and Savage they sit

1745
01:22:46,080 --> 01:22:46,679
Speaker 5: still doing.

1746
01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:48,000
Speaker 2: Like eighty thousand weeks.

1747
01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:51,400
Speaker 1: That was my what's her name, Sisa drop. She did

1748
01:22:51,520 --> 01:22:54,559
Speaker 1: like three hundred thousand her first week, which is crazy,

1749
01:22:54,720 --> 01:22:56,200
Speaker 1: which is good for like R and B.

1750
01:22:56,520 --> 01:22:59,200
Speaker 2: That's you right, Yeah, I didn't even look at.

1751
01:22:59,160 --> 01:23:01,200
Speaker 1: It, like, yeah, that's a say for a black R

1752
01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:02,559
Speaker 1: and B singer like.

1753
01:23:03,000 --> 01:23:07,080
Speaker 5: That, that's big anyway, that's they don't get that's huge.

1754
01:23:07,240 --> 01:23:10,040
Speaker 3: Somebody had a meme the other day they says, sys

1755
01:23:10,080 --> 01:23:13,680
Speaker 3: some music, it's for the women that are the problem, And.

1756
01:23:14,320 --> 01:23:17,439
Speaker 1: That makes sense because I love it. I am definitely

1757
01:23:17,479 --> 01:23:21,760
Speaker 1: the problem period. That's you know, you're right because I'm

1758
01:23:21,760 --> 01:23:22,360
Speaker 1: a good woman.

1759
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:26,679
Speaker 2: You are, I'm really a good one. What's about Well,

1760
01:23:26,920 --> 01:23:29,360
Speaker 2: I might get that from you a little bit, but

1761
01:23:29,640 --> 01:23:31,720
Speaker 2: but what I noticed somebody.

1762
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:36,280
Speaker 1: We are but just you know, you noticed about Leo.

1763
01:23:36,960 --> 01:23:40,280
Speaker 2: You might be you know, he might gotta you know,

1764
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:41,760
Speaker 2: have a certain presence.

1765
01:23:41,400 --> 01:23:44,240
Speaker 1: For you to give a nigga his money period.

1766
01:23:44,840 --> 01:23:48,200
Speaker 2: Leo's I noticed I was in love with a Leo

1767
01:23:48,320 --> 01:23:49,240
Speaker 2: for a long time.

1768
01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:50,680
Speaker 1: You still are.

1769
01:23:51,240 --> 01:23:55,040
Speaker 2: And I noticed that they faked like.

1770
01:24:00,080 --> 01:24:01,360
Speaker 1: But cap ass, bitch.

1771
01:24:04,160 --> 01:24:04,679
Speaker 2: Your finger.

1772
01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:17,320
Speaker 1: Oh. I have told this Iaiave thirty times that you

1773
01:24:17,479 --> 01:24:21,040
Speaker 1: read me down, big little Okay, So now we're gonna

1774
01:24:21,080 --> 01:24:23,360
Speaker 1: do the item of the week, Drea, what you got

1775
01:24:23,439 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 1: for us this week? Girl?

1776
01:24:24,800 --> 01:24:25,200
Speaker 2: It fell?

1777
01:24:25,600 --> 01:24:27,280
Speaker 1: It did, okay, y'all.

1778
01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:30,360
Speaker 3: So first of all, it is still like Number one

1779
01:24:30,479 --> 01:24:34,479
Speaker 3: is called outside, so it's cold season, so you need

1780
01:24:34,560 --> 01:24:38,120
Speaker 3: to be sanitized. Yes, okay, So I got some hand

1781
01:24:38,160 --> 01:24:40,280
Speaker 3: sanitizer from my item of the week.

1782
01:24:40,680 --> 01:24:41,720
Speaker 1: It's from Touchland.

1783
01:24:41,800 --> 01:24:46,160
Speaker 3: It's called Power Missed Hydrating hand Sanitizer and it comes

1784
01:24:46,240 --> 01:24:49,600
Speaker 3: in a lot of different fragrances. This one is I

1785
01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:52,200
Speaker 3: think alo. I also have like the lavender one in

1786
01:24:52,280 --> 01:24:54,880
Speaker 3: my car. I have them all over my house. But

1787
01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:57,280
Speaker 3: you know why I like that because of the actual design.

1788
01:24:57,560 --> 01:24:59,479
Speaker 3: It can slow That's what I was gonna say.

1789
01:24:59,560 --> 01:25:00,719
Speaker 1: Yes, very sleek.

1790
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:03,599
Speaker 3: It's very huge because slip into your purse, even your little.

1791
01:25:03,360 --> 01:25:07,040
Speaker 1: Mini bag, because I love a mini bag man. It

1792
01:25:07,080 --> 01:25:10,640
Speaker 1: will keep you sanitized. You gotta bag this b I

1793
01:25:10,760 --> 01:25:17,760
Speaker 1: do with my little bull. But anyways, yes, I love

1794
01:25:17,840 --> 01:25:19,720
Speaker 1: me some hand sanitizer. This is a great buy.

1795
01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:21,280
Speaker 3: You can get it from suppour, you can get it

1796
01:25:21,320 --> 01:25:24,799
Speaker 3: from Alta. So yeah, y'all all love it any smells amazing.

1797
01:25:25,040 --> 01:25:27,519
Speaker 1: Yes, so that'll be in our shop. Mind so you

1798
01:25:27,600 --> 01:25:29,879
Speaker 1: can click the link below and get your hand santaitized

1799
01:25:29,920 --> 01:25:34,639
Speaker 1: a girl. Okay, it is still out here, say it is. Okay,

1800
01:25:34,720 --> 01:25:36,760
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into our favorite segment is

1801
01:25:36,840 --> 01:25:38,960
Speaker 1: to Pour your Heart Out segment. If you want your

1802
01:25:39,040 --> 01:25:41,200
Speaker 1: question answered on the show, make sure you email us

1803
01:25:41,560 --> 01:25:45,160
Speaker 1: at ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com. If you're

1804
01:25:45,160 --> 01:25:46,840
Speaker 1: a Patreon member, make sure you just put that in

1805
01:25:46,920 --> 01:25:48,880
Speaker 1: the subject and you will get to skip the line.

1806
01:25:49,439 --> 01:25:51,680
Speaker 1: All right, big dad, you got the letters for us

1807
01:25:51,840 --> 01:25:55,600
Speaker 1: for Pour your Heart Out a period pool. Now you

1808
01:25:55,760 --> 01:25:59,000
Speaker 1: hading me his pocket. Let's see what the girls the

1809
01:25:59,120 --> 01:26:04,240
Speaker 1: bang is this week? Thank you things. Okay, go ahead,

1810
01:26:04,280 --> 01:26:08,799
Speaker 1: missus Droya, Okay, you're gonna give him some good advice loans.

1811
01:26:09,680 --> 01:26:14,040
Speaker 1: All right, all right, we gonna see Hey, ladies.

1812
01:26:14,200 --> 01:26:16,639
Speaker 3: So I'm currently a senior in high school and I've

1813
01:26:16,640 --> 01:26:19,160
Speaker 3: been in a relationship since my freshman year. I love

1814
01:26:19,280 --> 01:26:21,439
Speaker 3: him very much, and he feels the same about me.

1815
01:26:21,960 --> 01:26:24,360
Speaker 3: He's a year older than me, so he's already working

1816
01:26:24,439 --> 01:26:27,559
Speaker 3: in his career and building something for himself. He spoils

1817
01:26:27,640 --> 01:26:30,439
Speaker 3: me and takes care of me physically and mentally. My

1818
01:26:30,600 --> 01:26:33,400
Speaker 3: relationship is honestly perfect. But the only problem I'm having

1819
01:26:33,560 --> 01:26:36,080
Speaker 3: is with me. I can't help but to have thoughts

1820
01:26:36,120 --> 01:26:39,160
Speaker 3: of being single. The longest break we had was two weeks,

1821
01:26:39,200 --> 01:26:41,160
Speaker 3: so I have no clue how it feels to truly

1822
01:26:41,240 --> 01:26:44,880
Speaker 3: be single. I'm young and most definitely fine, so the

1823
01:26:44,960 --> 01:26:47,880
Speaker 3: boys try to slide, and sometimes I want to entertain them.

1824
01:26:48,360 --> 01:26:50,920
Speaker 3: I know most high school relationships don't work out, but

1825
01:26:51,000 --> 01:26:53,320
Speaker 3: I see so much potential in us and I don't

1826
01:26:53,360 --> 01:26:55,679
Speaker 3: want to ruin it by acting on thoughts in my head.

1827
01:26:56,080 --> 01:26:57,880
Speaker 3: He is so perfect and I don't want.

1828
01:26:57,760 --> 01:26:59,680
Speaker 1: To hurt him. But I wish we met when I

1829
01:26:59,760 --> 01:27:01,960
Speaker 1: was in my late twenties. What should I do? By

1830
01:27:02,040 --> 01:27:05,840
Speaker 1: the way, love y'all so much, God dump that nigga,

1831
01:27:06,000 --> 01:27:10,840
Speaker 1: Live y'all life. Girl you are You're a senior in

1832
01:27:11,080 --> 01:27:13,160
Speaker 1: high school, so let me tell you something. And I'm

1833
01:27:13,200 --> 01:27:16,640
Speaker 1: not speaking for y'all's relationship because I can't and I

1834
01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:20,000
Speaker 1: don't know y'all, but nine times out of ten, your

1835
01:27:20,120 --> 01:27:22,240
Speaker 1: type at eighteen it's not even gonna be your type

1836
01:27:22,280 --> 01:27:24,840
Speaker 1: at twenty five. Your type at twenty five is not

1837
01:27:24,880 --> 01:27:27,519
Speaker 1: gonna be your type at thirty. Girl, live your life.

1838
01:27:27,960 --> 01:27:31,040
Speaker 1: Please live your life, because I think a lot of

1839
01:27:31,040 --> 01:27:35,000
Speaker 1: people make the mistake of getting We talked about this

1840
01:27:35,200 --> 01:27:38,800
Speaker 1: last week with Bob. You get married too young and

1841
01:27:38,960 --> 01:27:41,799
Speaker 1: you live in this regret. Then you start to resent

1842
01:27:41,920 --> 01:27:45,080
Speaker 1: that person when they haven't done anything to you. Girl,

1843
01:27:45,200 --> 01:27:47,240
Speaker 1: live your life for you. You get one life, so

1844
01:27:47,600 --> 01:27:49,840
Speaker 1: do what you want to do, and if it's meant

1845
01:27:49,880 --> 01:27:52,200
Speaker 1: to be, y'all get back together later down line, gir

1846
01:27:52,360 --> 01:27:55,479
Speaker 1: Go have fun. Your twenties are meant to have fun. Iriar.

1847
01:27:55,800 --> 01:27:57,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, you shouldn't be tied down to nobody. Girl, you

1848
01:27:57,960 --> 01:28:02,519
Speaker 3: was seventeen eighteen about being tied down to somebody. Yeah,

1849
01:28:02,600 --> 01:28:04,960
Speaker 3: y'all probably have chemistry and stuff, but y'all both.

1850
01:28:04,840 --> 01:28:05,960
Speaker 1: Have a lot of life to live.

1851
01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:08,880
Speaker 3: So again, like leck, still live your life, and if

1852
01:28:08,960 --> 01:28:11,000
Speaker 3: y'all mean to be there, the y'all will find y'all

1853
01:28:11,040 --> 01:28:12,839
Speaker 3: way back to given bad advice.

1854
01:28:14,920 --> 01:28:18,840
Speaker 5: You know, I think uh at eighteen or whatever age

1855
01:28:18,880 --> 01:28:20,720
Speaker 5: that you ain't even acquired taste ship.

1856
01:28:21,160 --> 01:28:24,280
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know what you think. You know, you

1857
01:28:24,520 --> 01:28:30,400
Speaker 2: just caught a vibe. Vibes are tricky every time. So yeah, nah,

1858
01:28:30,880 --> 01:28:33,160
Speaker 2: I would say, lia your life because you are resented.

1859
01:28:33,280 --> 01:28:33,760
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

1860
01:28:33,880 --> 01:28:34,880
Speaker 1: Yes, you definitely will.

1861
01:28:35,200 --> 01:28:37,120
Speaker 2: I hate that, nigga. I gave you my twin.

1862
01:28:37,280 --> 01:28:40,800
Speaker 1: Yes, oh, when I see it happen time after time.

1863
01:28:41,560 --> 01:28:46,320
Speaker 3: You sound like somebody said that to you, took a

1864
01:28:46,400 --> 01:28:48,320
Speaker 3: couple of women twins and took.

1865
01:28:51,760 --> 01:28:53,160
Speaker 1: Everything I gave you.

1866
01:28:55,720 --> 01:28:56,040
Speaker 2: Heard that?

1867
01:28:56,520 --> 01:29:01,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So our best advice is live your life. Okay.

1868
01:29:01,520 --> 01:29:04,400
Speaker 1: Question number two, thank you for the podcast. I really

1869
01:29:04,439 --> 01:29:06,720
Speaker 1: look up to y'all. My question is how do you

1870
01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:08,519
Speaker 1: deal with a nosy friend who seems to be in

1871
01:29:08,600 --> 01:29:11,680
Speaker 1: competition with you. I started talking to this guy who

1872
01:29:11,800 --> 01:29:15,880
Speaker 1: is friends with a guy she talks to. Oh, she

1873
01:29:15,920 --> 01:29:18,559
Speaker 1: talking about the jealous friend. The guy I started talking

1874
01:29:18,640 --> 01:29:21,040
Speaker 1: to started to like me and would spoil me with

1875
01:29:21,120 --> 01:29:23,640
Speaker 1: gifts and money. I made the mistake of telling her

1876
01:29:23,680 --> 01:29:25,320
Speaker 1: about the things he would do for me, and she

1877
01:29:25,479 --> 01:29:27,840
Speaker 1: went back and told the guy she was talking to

1878
01:29:28,000 --> 01:29:30,960
Speaker 1: about what the guy I was talking to does for me.

1879
01:29:31,400 --> 01:29:33,799
Speaker 1: And asked him why he doesn't do the same stuff

1880
01:29:33,840 --> 01:29:37,120
Speaker 1: for her. I know this because her guy went to

1881
01:29:37,320 --> 01:29:40,479
Speaker 1: my guy about it, and because they're friends and my

1882
01:29:40,640 --> 01:29:43,600
Speaker 1: guy talk to me about it, which was so embarrassing.

1883
01:29:44,080 --> 01:29:46,800
Speaker 1: The girlfriends I have back home would have never pulled

1884
01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:49,439
Speaker 1: that shit because we are super mature and we uplift

1885
01:29:49,479 --> 01:29:52,200
Speaker 1: each other and don't compete at all. I expressed to

1886
01:29:52,280 --> 01:29:54,680
Speaker 1: her that this was super immature and the things I

1887
01:29:54,760 --> 01:29:57,120
Speaker 1: confide in her should only be between me and her.

1888
01:29:57,600 --> 01:30:00,679
Speaker 1: She's definitely showing signs that she's a toxic and just friend,

1889
01:30:01,040 --> 01:30:02,840
Speaker 1: and I know it's wrong to stay friends with her

1890
01:30:02,920 --> 01:30:05,519
Speaker 1: until I find new friends, but she's the only person

1891
01:30:05,680 --> 01:30:07,920
Speaker 1: I know in the new city I moved in. Is

1892
01:30:08,000 --> 01:30:10,360
Speaker 1: it wrong of me to keep her as an acquaintance

1893
01:30:10,520 --> 01:30:13,040
Speaker 1: just so I don't have to go out alone until

1894
01:30:13,080 --> 01:30:17,760
Speaker 1: I meet new people. I appreciate it in advance. Girl.

1895
01:30:17,960 --> 01:30:20,320
Speaker 1: If you don't like the girl, stop forcing yourself to

1896
01:30:20,360 --> 01:30:22,960
Speaker 1: be around her. I think it's weird when people hang

1897
01:30:22,960 --> 01:30:25,600
Speaker 1: out with people they don't like. I'm sorry, well, I

1898
01:30:25,640 --> 01:30:28,640
Speaker 1: don't necessarily think that she don't like her. I just

1899
01:30:28,720 --> 01:30:31,920
Speaker 1: feel like these particular situations have made her question the

1900
01:30:32,000 --> 01:30:35,400
Speaker 1: friendship which personally, I have been in a situation like

1901
01:30:35,479 --> 01:30:41,360
Speaker 1: this before. I feel like you should stop telling her

1902
01:30:41,400 --> 01:30:42,080
Speaker 1: your business.

1903
01:30:42,280 --> 01:30:43,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can't.

1904
01:30:43,240 --> 01:30:46,960
Speaker 5: Celebrate what you mean, say you got one of them once,

1905
01:30:47,200 --> 01:30:48,720
Speaker 5: you can't. You can't celebrate that.

1906
01:30:49,439 --> 01:30:51,320
Speaker 1: I think you can, but I think you have to know.

1907
01:30:51,920 --> 01:30:54,120
Speaker 3: I think that some friends you can't tell everything too,

1908
01:30:54,320 --> 01:30:56,080
Speaker 3: And I think you gotta know what you have coming,

1909
01:30:56,240 --> 01:30:58,360
Speaker 3: what apartments to put your friends into.

1910
01:30:58,800 --> 01:31:01,799
Speaker 1: It's some people you just can't tell all your business.

1911
01:31:01,840 --> 01:31:03,519
Speaker 3: So it doesn't mean that they're not good friends. It

1912
01:31:03,560 --> 01:31:05,040
Speaker 3: don't mean that they don't fuck with you. But some

1913
01:31:05,120 --> 01:31:07,200
Speaker 3: people really don't know how to be happy for other

1914
01:31:07,280 --> 01:31:10,400
Speaker 3: people if they're not in the same position, or if

1915
01:31:10,400 --> 01:31:12,640
Speaker 3: they're not doing as well, or if they nigga not

1916
01:31:12,720 --> 01:31:14,479
Speaker 3: doing for them what y'all nigga is doing for you

1917
01:31:14,680 --> 01:31:14,880
Speaker 3: but me.

1918
01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 1: We also talked about this the other day. It's okay

1919
01:31:17,160 --> 01:31:20,280
Speaker 1: to create boundaries with your friends. I have boundaries with

1920
01:31:20,400 --> 01:31:23,800
Speaker 1: everybody in my life because of my mental health and

1921
01:31:23,880 --> 01:31:25,880
Speaker 1: when I know that I need and what I can handle.

1922
01:31:26,439 --> 01:31:28,560
Speaker 1: So if I don't feel comfortable sharing things with you,

1923
01:31:28,640 --> 01:31:31,439
Speaker 1: it's just because I know what our relationship is. It's

1924
01:31:31,479 --> 01:31:34,400
Speaker 1: nothing against you as a person. It's just because I

1925
01:31:34,520 --> 01:31:36,200
Speaker 1: know you're not gonna give me the feeling that I

1926
01:31:36,320 --> 01:31:38,720
Speaker 1: need when I share this information with you, you know

1927
01:31:38,760 --> 01:31:41,360
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I have friends that I share

1928
01:31:41,400 --> 01:31:42,800
Speaker 1: good news with it because I know they're gonna be

1929
01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:45,680
Speaker 1: lit with me. Then I have my friends like I

1930
01:31:45,760 --> 01:31:48,120
Speaker 1: can share good news with them, and I can share

1931
01:31:48,160 --> 01:31:49,600
Speaker 1: bad news with them. Then I have some friends I

1932
01:31:49,640 --> 01:31:51,200
Speaker 1: can't share bad news with them because they be like,

1933
01:31:51,520 --> 01:31:54,760
Speaker 1: like you said earlier, why you complain it? You got

1934
01:31:54,840 --> 01:31:56,760
Speaker 1: the best life ever, you know what I'm saying. So

1935
01:31:56,880 --> 01:31:59,360
Speaker 1: you have to create boundaries with people. Yeah, you just

1936
01:31:59,439 --> 01:32:01,120
Speaker 1: have to know what you could tell people.

1937
01:32:01,200 --> 01:32:02,800
Speaker 3: And I feel like if you got a friend who

1938
01:32:02,880 --> 01:32:05,160
Speaker 3: when you tell her stuff that y'all nigga do, she

1939
01:32:05,360 --> 01:32:06,640
Speaker 3: go and tell her nigga.

1940
01:32:06,479 --> 01:32:09,759
Speaker 1: Oh well he do this for her. Just stop telling

1941
01:32:09,800 --> 01:32:10,439
Speaker 1: her stuff.

1942
01:32:10,320 --> 01:32:12,240
Speaker 3: Like you ain't even gotta tell her your business like

1943
01:32:12,280 --> 01:32:14,679
Speaker 3: they let your nigga do stuff for you and be happy.

1944
01:32:14,920 --> 01:32:17,160
Speaker 3: And if she asks you question, just be like, oh yeah, girl,

1945
01:32:17,400 --> 01:32:19,000
Speaker 3: you know it was just something I got for myself

1946
01:32:19,080 --> 01:32:21,800
Speaker 3: for Just don't tell her like and it's not even

1947
01:32:21,880 --> 01:32:24,080
Speaker 3: to me, it's not necessarily lying, but it's just like

1948
01:32:24,160 --> 01:32:26,000
Speaker 3: you have to protect the parts of your life that

1949
01:32:26,080 --> 01:32:28,559
Speaker 3: I feel like are important to you in this shit.

1950
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Speaker 2: And you know I'm with the privacy thing. That's my

1951
01:32:31,160 --> 01:32:32,000
Speaker 2: whole vibration.

1952
01:32:33,720 --> 01:32:37,320
Speaker 5: On the other side, I always wonder, like, why can't

1953
01:32:37,400 --> 01:32:41,240
Speaker 5: women celebrate when they got one of them ones? Because really,

1954
01:32:41,439 --> 01:32:45,800
Speaker 5: a good nigga or a good man activates something in

1955
01:32:45,920 --> 01:32:49,120
Speaker 5: your friends. Sometimes that like I've seen good men or

1956
01:32:49,200 --> 01:32:54,479
Speaker 5: certain dudes ruin relationships with like friends. Yeah yeah, because

1957
01:32:54,479 --> 01:32:58,040
Speaker 5: of that information is funneling down and now she's viewing

1958
01:32:58,120 --> 01:33:00,680
Speaker 5: you a certain way, you know what I'm saying. And

1959
01:33:00,760 --> 01:33:03,400
Speaker 5: that's youngest shit because as an adult, I can't yo,

1960
01:33:03,600 --> 01:33:06,240
Speaker 5: your dude can do whatever doing for you and don't

1961
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Speaker 5: fake me.

1962
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Speaker 3: Fact like, the right friend gonna be you, the right

1963
01:33:10,760 --> 01:33:14,320
Speaker 3: friend gonna be happy for you. But ultimately, as women,

1964
01:33:14,560 --> 01:33:17,040
Speaker 3: you just got some girls. They just don't be happy

1965
01:33:17,080 --> 01:33:18,600
Speaker 3: when you tell them what your negga do for you.

1966
01:33:20,600 --> 01:33:21,960
Speaker 1: I do think they think you lying.

1967
01:33:22,160 --> 01:33:23,920
Speaker 3: I think they know you're telling the truth, but I

1968
01:33:24,040 --> 01:33:26,240
Speaker 3: need they be jealous because they can't get a nigga

1969
01:33:26,280 --> 01:33:27,160
Speaker 3: to do this stuff for them.

1970
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Speaker 1: And I also feel because she said that she really

1971
01:33:31,080 --> 01:33:32,760
Speaker 1: doesn't want to hang out with her anymore. She said,

1972
01:33:32,800 --> 01:33:35,559
Speaker 1: the only reason she's hanging out with her. Girl. If

1973
01:33:35,640 --> 01:33:37,360
Speaker 1: that's the only reason you're hanging out with her, just

1974
01:33:37,400 --> 01:33:39,720
Speaker 1: stop hanging out with her. That's why I was saying it.

1975
01:33:39,880 --> 01:33:42,439
Speaker 1: Just stop. If you really don't like this girl, you

1976
01:33:42,520 --> 01:33:45,479
Speaker 1: feel like it's rubbing you too wrong, just stop hanging

1977
01:33:45,479 --> 01:33:47,559
Speaker 1: out with her. It's okay to be alone. And that's

1978
01:33:47,680 --> 01:33:49,560
Speaker 1: one thing that I've learned. I used to be that

1979
01:33:49,680 --> 01:33:51,760
Speaker 1: person where I felt like I had to have a

1980
01:33:51,880 --> 01:33:53,880
Speaker 1: friend or I had to be it, And now I've

1981
01:33:53,960 --> 01:33:58,120
Speaker 1: just learned your best company is yourself. Loneliness is like

1982
01:33:59,240 --> 01:34:02,320
Speaker 1: just it's a mind. You're only lonely because that's what

1983
01:34:02,439 --> 01:34:04,320
Speaker 1: your mind and your emotions are telling you. You know

1984
01:34:04,400 --> 01:34:05,760
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So you have to learn how to

1985
01:34:06,080 --> 01:34:09,240
Speaker 1: be okay with being by yourself. So don't hang out

1986
01:34:09,280 --> 01:34:11,160
Speaker 1: with her just because you feel like you have to. Like,

1987
01:34:12,240 --> 01:34:12,840
Speaker 1: that's weird.

1988
01:34:13,080 --> 01:34:18,280
Speaker 5: I think the etiquette between like friends boyfriends, like that

1989
01:34:18,680 --> 01:34:19,160
Speaker 5: whole thing.

1990
01:34:19,280 --> 01:34:21,960
Speaker 2: It's like a it's an interesting dynamic.

1991
01:34:22,240 --> 01:34:24,320
Speaker 1: Is it can get really really weird?

1992
01:34:24,920 --> 01:34:27,560
Speaker 2: Really, I don't know. I don't know. I look at it.

1993
01:34:28,000 --> 01:34:30,080
Speaker 2: I look at it like if I got a girl

1994
01:34:30,240 --> 01:34:32,519
Speaker 2: and she telling you something like, let me and shout this.

1995
01:34:33,120 --> 01:34:37,360
Speaker 5: If you had a only Fans m and your boyfriend

1996
01:34:37,720 --> 01:34:39,600
Speaker 5: was my little homie and.

1997
01:34:39,640 --> 01:34:42,759
Speaker 2: I subscribe to your only fans? Is that okay?

1998
01:34:43,560 --> 01:34:45,640
Speaker 1: Is that? Like? I mean, that's what comes with it.

1999
01:34:45,840 --> 01:34:47,799
Speaker 1: It's weird, but that's what comes with the territory.

2000
01:34:47,920 --> 01:34:49,840
Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying. Because the dude to be like,

2001
01:34:51,000 --> 01:34:53,240
Speaker 5: she only fan and it's like, but that's your little

2002
01:34:53,280 --> 01:34:55,400
Speaker 5: homie though, you know what I'm saying, And I don't know,

2003
01:34:55,560 --> 01:34:59,519
Speaker 5: see that's what I'm saying. Sometimes dudes throwing signals girls

2004
01:34:59,560 --> 01:35:01,800
Speaker 5: at do. Sometimes it's signals being talked.

2005
01:35:02,920 --> 01:35:05,759
Speaker 3: But I honestly feel like if a nigga come follow

2006
01:35:05,840 --> 01:35:09,000
Speaker 3: me on OnlyFans and I'll go with his partner, you

2007
01:35:09,400 --> 01:35:11,599
Speaker 3: following me because you're probably just trying to see how

2008
01:35:11,720 --> 01:35:14,720
Speaker 3: far you could take it, right, Like, I don't think

2009
01:35:14,800 --> 01:35:16,960
Speaker 3: the intentions are. I don't think you have a good

2010
01:35:17,000 --> 01:35:18,040
Speaker 3: intention right now.

2011
01:35:18,160 --> 01:35:19,000
Speaker 2: He don't got good.

2012
01:35:20,520 --> 01:35:24,320
Speaker 1: Because there's millions of girls that you can ri right

2013
01:35:25,640 --> 01:35:25,960
Speaker 1: he know.

2014
01:35:26,280 --> 01:35:29,240
Speaker 2: That little nigga got that? Yeah, he my little buddy.

2015
01:35:30,360 --> 01:35:33,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, they don't like that, Yeah, they do

2016
01:35:33,439 --> 01:35:35,320
Speaker 1: not like that. They feel like the little homie got

2017
01:35:35,360 --> 01:35:36,400
Speaker 1: something that they're.

2018
01:35:36,240 --> 01:35:40,439
Speaker 5: Like, Yeah, that's what I'm saying, that that that type

2019
01:35:40,479 --> 01:35:43,120
Speaker 5: of vibe because me, I could never, like if you

2020
01:35:43,200 --> 01:35:45,679
Speaker 5: were one of my homeboys, don't look at me, don't.

2021
01:35:46,560 --> 01:35:47,800
Speaker 2: I ain't fucking around with it.

2022
01:35:47,800 --> 01:35:51,880
Speaker 1: And I'm the type of woman if you are like

2023
01:35:52,200 --> 01:35:54,200
Speaker 1: friends with my nigga, I don't care if you look

2024
01:35:54,200 --> 01:35:56,320
Speaker 1: at him as your little homie, whatever situation you got,

2025
01:35:56,680 --> 01:36:00,599
Speaker 1: I'm not going. I don't give a fuck this. I'm

2026
01:36:00,680 --> 01:36:03,960
Speaker 1: not going because I know what you're trying to do.

2027
01:36:04,160 --> 01:36:06,720
Speaker 3: But I'm just fortunate enough I could honestly say I

2028
01:36:06,800 --> 01:36:09,519
Speaker 3: ain't never had no nigga I really fucked week for real?

2029
01:36:09,600 --> 01:36:12,400
Speaker 3: Who ever tried to talk to one of my friends. Yeah,

2030
01:36:12,960 --> 01:36:14,759
Speaker 3: like they just ain't never even.

2031
01:36:14,640 --> 01:36:15,280
Speaker 1: Tried me like that.

2032
01:36:15,400 --> 01:36:17,120
Speaker 3: And sometimes that's why I feel like I don't know

2033
01:36:17,160 --> 01:36:19,280
Speaker 3: if it's a respect level or what, because I think

2034
01:36:19,360 --> 01:36:22,479
Speaker 3: sometimes niggas be having a certain level of respect a

2035
01:36:22,520 --> 01:36:24,479
Speaker 3: certain girls where it's like, I'm not gonna even try

2036
01:36:24,520 --> 01:36:26,880
Speaker 3: to fuck with one of y'all, right, because.

2037
01:36:26,600 --> 01:36:27,719
Speaker 2: It ain't gonna work nowhere.

2038
01:36:28,400 --> 01:36:31,800
Speaker 5: See, sometimes they'll stop with niggas no matter how Thursday.

2039
01:36:31,960 --> 01:36:37,640
Speaker 2: Horny he he knowing close, ye right, tell you.

2040
01:36:38,040 --> 01:36:40,519
Speaker 1: But I even feel like like a nigga tried to

2041
01:36:40,600 --> 01:36:43,440
Speaker 1: talk to like a guy like one of his homeboys,

2042
01:36:43,520 --> 01:36:45,840
Speaker 1: like girls or something like that, whatever the situation, because

2043
01:36:45,840 --> 01:36:47,840
Speaker 1: I've been in that situation and it was just like

2044
01:36:47,880 --> 01:36:49,559
Speaker 1: to the points that where like, Bro, you know, I'm

2045
01:36:49,600 --> 01:36:52,200
Speaker 1: not going like just stop it because it's not even

2046
01:36:52,200 --> 01:36:54,680
Speaker 1: about At one point, it got to where it's like,

2047
01:36:55,080 --> 01:36:56,880
Speaker 1: it's not even about the nigga that I'm fucking with,

2048
01:36:57,200 --> 01:36:58,800
Speaker 1: It's about I know what you're just trying to do.

2049
01:36:58,960 --> 01:37:01,160
Speaker 1: You're trying to prove a point him. You don't even

2050
01:37:01,200 --> 01:37:03,640
Speaker 1: really won't. You're just trying to prove a point. So

2051
01:37:03,800 --> 01:37:05,320
Speaker 1: you're not going to prove that point with me.

2052
01:37:05,800 --> 01:37:08,599
Speaker 5: They do that, man, I'm telling you, I've seen well,

2053
01:37:08,720 --> 01:37:11,920
Speaker 5: girls will switch seats like literally be around the same

2054
01:37:12,040 --> 01:37:14,439
Speaker 5: group of niggas and I'm with the other one now,

2055
01:37:15,280 --> 01:37:16,840
Speaker 5: like you should be with the little home man.

2056
01:37:16,920 --> 01:37:17,920
Speaker 2: He know he can't get out of it.

2057
01:37:18,000 --> 01:37:20,800
Speaker 5: That's he a't gonna like you just gotta eat that

2058
01:37:21,360 --> 01:37:23,240
Speaker 5: right like and that be uncomfortable.

2059
01:37:23,920 --> 01:37:26,240
Speaker 1: Well, I'll say sometimes a little homi need to take

2060
01:37:26,240 --> 01:37:34,240
Speaker 1: that hell sometimes because I'll say this, it's different because

2061
01:37:34,600 --> 01:37:36,519
Speaker 1: if we just like hooked up a couple of times

2062
01:37:36,560 --> 01:37:39,720
Speaker 1: it ain't nothing serious whatever. That's different, but like it's

2063
01:37:39,800 --> 01:37:42,479
Speaker 1: different if I'm really fucking with somebody, you know, it's

2064
01:37:42,760 --> 01:37:46,320
Speaker 1: it's different situations. But but yeah, back to the question

2065
01:37:46,360 --> 01:37:49,000
Speaker 1: in their head, Back to the question in their head,

2066
01:37:49,439 --> 01:37:50,679
Speaker 1: and back to the question in hand.

2067
01:37:50,840 --> 01:37:54,000
Speaker 3: Halls be weird. Yes, I'm telling them your business. Then

2068
01:37:54,080 --> 01:37:55,760
Speaker 3: if that don't work, stop being friends with.

2069
01:37:56,160 --> 01:37:59,479
Speaker 1: Period all one thousand percent degree. All right, big little

2070
01:37:59,640 --> 01:38:02,320
Speaker 1: tell him they can find you at your podcast. All

2071
01:38:02,360 --> 01:38:02,920
Speaker 1: that good ship.

2072
01:38:03,000 --> 01:38:08,160
Speaker 2: It's up that podcast. Follow me on Instagram fo jffo, Loni. Uh,

2073
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Speaker 2: it's up that podcast.

2074
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Speaker 5: Drop that every week, the experienced podcast with all the

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2076
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Speaker 2: In the world.

2077
01:38:15,360 --> 01:38:17,599
Speaker 5: Drop that every week as well. We got two shows

2078
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Speaker 5: in the market. We're trying to get some market share.

2079
01:38:20,360 --> 01:38:22,479
Speaker 5: They know the vibration is high, man, you know I'm

2080
01:38:22,560 --> 01:38:23,080
Speaker 5: kicking high.

2081
01:38:23,360 --> 01:38:30,320
Speaker 1: All right, well, uh yeah, and we'll catch y'all a minute.

2082
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Speaker 1: my face, rich of the pub What you know about

2105
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Speaker 1: showing love? What's you know? A boy pulling up? You

2106
01:39:48,800 --> 01:39:51,320
Speaker 1: just calling love? All of my niggas, a'll, none of

2107
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Speaker 1: my niggas know how my nigga.

2108
01:39:55,120 --> 01:39:55,400
Speaker 2: Okay.

2109
01:39:56,080 --> 01:40:01,080
Speaker 1: We used to wave to the cloth y. She snuffed.

2110
01:40:04,120 --> 01:40:05,040
Speaker 1: That's all I know, y'all.

2111
01:40:05,200 --> 01:40:05,960
Speaker 2: She smoked that.

2112
01:40:08,600 --> 01:40:11,240
Speaker 1: Ye yeah, I don know me. We ain't gonna follow

2113
01:40:11,240 --> 01:40:13,519
Speaker 1: about hogs me. Instead of getting them logs, we let

2114
01:40:13,640 --> 01:40:21,960
Speaker 1: them go for the Yea, I got my Robin Brock, y'all.

2115
01:40:22,160 --> 01:40:23,639
Speaker 1: Breg really fucking around.

2116
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Speaker 2: All be doing is.

2117
01:40:26,479 --> 01:40:27,639
Speaker 1: Shut up the big Lord.

2118
01:40:28,840 --> 01:40:31,880
Speaker 2: Yes Lord, the Lord gonna kill this ship Part usual?

2119
01:40:31,920 --> 01:40:32,639
Speaker 2: Are yes Lord?

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Speaker 1: For the next episode next week? What's you got