1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome to I've never said this before with me, 2 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: Tommy di Dario. I have interviewed many people throughout my career, 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: but today's guest is one that I've been wanting to 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: chat with for quite some time because I am such 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: a fan of her work. Jennifer Love youw It joins 6 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: me today and you know and love her from starring 7 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 1: in Party of Five, the I Know What You Did, 8 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: last summer films, The Client List, Ghost Whisper, Heartbreakers, which 9 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 1: is one of my all time favorite movies, and currently 10 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: the TV series Nine to one one. But now she 11 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: has a brand new memoir out titled Inheriting Magic, which 12 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 1: chronicles her journey through grief and joy and celebrating and 13 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: making everyday magic. What a gift this book is. It 14 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 1: is a gift because it will reconnect you to that 15 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: beautiful wonder you once had as a kid, that wonder 16 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: that sometimes fades as the chaos and craziness of life unfolds. 17 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: The wonder that we all have inside of us, that 18 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 1: is just waiting to pour out of our souls. And 19 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 1: today we are celebrating Jennifer's incredible career. We dive into 20 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: her gorgeous book, and we chat all about her new 21 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: movie in brand, The Holiday Junkie, and we just have 22 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: so much fun. We have a whole section where we 23 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: talk about all sorts of different projects of hers, including 24 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: Let's Go Bang, one of her early albums that I 25 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 1: was obsessed with. And let me tell you, whoever said 26 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: never meet your heroes, they never met Jennifer Love Hewitt. 27 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 1: So let's see if today we can get Jennifer to 28 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 1: say something that she has never said before. Jennifer Love Hewitt, 29 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: how are you, my friend? 30 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 2: I'm good. 31 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 1: It is so good to see you looking festive and cheerful. 32 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: It's on brand. 33 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. You know when I tried and 34 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 2: give a little a little glitter this. 35 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: Morning, well you look fantastic. I am so excited to 36 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: be talking with you today. So I don't know what 37 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: your team has or hasn't told you, but you have 38 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: been one of my number one interviews throughout my entire career, 39 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: like dead serious, and I'm may youres and hundred and 40 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: hundreds of people, but I'm like, I need to interview 41 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: Jennifer Love Hewett because so nice man. Growing up as 42 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: like a small town kid from New Jersey who was 43 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: figuring out who I was and was going through some 44 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: difficult times. Your art brought me so much joy throughout. 45 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 2: My life and so much thank you. 46 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: It really did. I started with I note you did 47 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: last summer as a teenager, and my cousins and I 48 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 1: were we all got into that, and then it's just 49 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: you know, I followed your career ever since, and I 50 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: just think you're one of those rare artists that have 51 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 1: this beautiful, long career doing art that really connects with 52 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: who you are as a human. And I think that's 53 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: why it resonates with so many people who do follow 54 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: your career. So I'm like just thrilled. I'm sitting here 55 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: thinking now, like Heartbreakers is one of my favorite movies. Know, 56 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 1: the whole movie from Back to Front. I thought I 57 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: was Paige growing up, like all of it. 58 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 2: I wanted to be. He was much cooler than me. 59 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: Me too, me too. Well, it is, like I said, 60 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: such a joy, and I'm really excited to have you 61 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 1: on the show. We have a lot to celebrate today, Yes, 62 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: a lot to talk about today because your new memoir, 63 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: Inheriting Magic is out. Now, are you just pinching yourself? 64 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's wild. It's like I'm trying to stay present 65 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 2: in it. But we've been talking about it so much, 66 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 2: and you know, obviously trying to get it out there 67 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 2: for people been sort of going by so quickly, and 68 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 2: then I've been sitting with it for so long that 69 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: it's like and like, is this really happening right now, 70 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 2: Like it's actually out for people to read and hopefully enjoy, 71 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 2: And yeah, I'm just I just don't want it to 72 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: go by so fast. I'm trying to hold onto the 73 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 2: moment a little bit. 74 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, it's a beautiful book. I mean I smiled, 75 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: I got emotional in certain parts. I love that you 76 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: open up about your family. But then it's fun. There's recipes, 77 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: there's DIY inspiration, there's prompts to you know, like self 78 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: health prompts to just kind of get your brain thinking 79 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: in a really positive direction. So there's so much goodness 80 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: in this book. Why did you want to write it? 81 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 2: You know? I think it started off for me as 82 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 2: eleven years after my mom passing, realizing that I had 83 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 2: never read said anything about her and her passing. And 84 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 2: I think it was just because I didn't have the words, 85 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 2: Like I just sort of needed to maybe grow into 86 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: my grief a little bit and understand kind of what 87 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 2: was happening and what I was feeling about her. And 88 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 2: I became a new mom not too long after she 89 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 2: had passed, and so that's a whirlwin, and I just 90 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 2: kind of needed time. And so it really started as 91 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 2: me just sort of writing thought pages about who she 92 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 2: was and how magical she was to me. And I 93 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 2: do remember after she passed, like this odd thought kind 94 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 2: of came up for me, like about three days after 95 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 2: she passed, where I feared that all the magic I 96 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 2: had known in my life was gone because I thought 97 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 2: she was the only soule carrier of that magic. And 98 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: then kind of sitting in our living room with my 99 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 2: new husband and our new little girl that first Christmas, 100 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 2: I was like, I can't I can't not have magic, 101 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 2: and so I have to find it somehow. And I 102 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 2: think her little gift to me that Christmas was to say, 103 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: it's in here, and you have it, and you've inherited it, 104 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 2: and you can take it with you now and make 105 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 2: it your own and be inspired by it. And so 106 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 2: it really became I think what got me out of 107 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 2: that maybe sad dark place that Christmas and allowed me 108 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 2: to sort of find hope and joy and become a 109 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 2: magic maker for my family. And it's been just like 110 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 2: the most beautiful gift from her. 111 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: And in the beginning of the book you so beautifully 112 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: dedicate it to your kids and your husband and your mom, 113 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,600 Speaker 1: of course, and you say that she was the one 114 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: who taught you that magic was even possible. What do 115 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 1: you mean by that? 116 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 2: You know, people know magic is cauldrons and spell books 117 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 2: and wands and Harry Potter, and you know all of 118 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 2: those things. My mom's magic was different. It was really 119 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 2: like an intention that she set. If she was throwing 120 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 2: a dinner party, or making Christmas or going to a 121 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 2: restaurant with her friends. It was never just simple. She 122 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 2: was extra in like the best way possible. And that 123 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 2: extra quality in her just people to her. I mean, 124 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 2: we would go into a restaurant, even at the height 125 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 2: of things for me, we would go into a restaurant 126 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 2: and people would care less about who I was for 127 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 2: that five minutes. They wanted to know who my mom 128 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 2: was and why they were so drawn to her. And 129 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 2: she made everybody that she met feel important and special 130 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 2: in some way, and that was her magic. And for 131 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 2: me growing up, I believed I could do anything, that 132 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 2: anything was possible, and that the world was limitless, and 133 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 2: that to me is magical for a kid. And because 134 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 2: of that, I said, here, you know, almost thirty six 135 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 2: years later, in a job that I love and I 136 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 2: believed I could do that. I believed I could reach 137 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 2: for it and get it because she instilled that magic 138 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 2: in me to kind of do that, and so it 139 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 2: was very special. 140 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 1: And what I love about the book too, is it's 141 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: not just about the big moments in life, right like 142 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: the Amazing role You book or whatever the case may be, 143 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: a work accomplishment in any field, it's making the most 144 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: of the little moments and enjoying those for what they are. 145 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 1: And throughout this book you talk about how you make 146 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 1: these bestive occasions or seemingly ordinary day extraordinary, right Like 147 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: It's just really a beautiful mindset that I think is 148 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: such an important reminder for everybody right now. And I 149 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: so connect with you on that. Like even something that 150 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: came in to mind for me is during the pandemic, 151 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: my husband and I we got engaged in Paris years ago. 152 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 1: We've been married for going on nine years, and it 153 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 1: was such a dark time and when that date rolled around. 154 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: I just turned our living room into a Parisian cafe. 155 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 2: I love that you know that that's what it's about. 156 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 2: That really is what it's about. And I do think that. 157 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 2: I think that's my biggest hope for the book is 158 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 2: that people will because I've talked to people who are like, 159 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 2: I am not a magical person, Like I just don't 160 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 2: get it, and I'm like, but you can be a 161 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 2: magical person because it really is just an intention that 162 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 2: you said. It's like you taking that moment and going 163 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 2: in all the darkness of the world today, I'm going 164 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 2: to create light for me and my loved one. And 165 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 2: that is so tangible, and it's more tangible than we 166 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 2: think that it is. And it doesn't have to be expensive. 167 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be months planned. You can literally 168 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 2: wake up on a Thursday and go, you know what, 169 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 2: dinner is going to be weird tonight, Like we're going 170 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 2: to make it weird, or we're going to make it special, 171 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 2: or we're going to put Christmas lights up in June 172 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 2: for no reason. You know, We're going to do whatever 173 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 2: it is that we need to do to create magic 174 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 2: in the space that we have on this planet. For 175 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 2: the short amount of time that we're here, and it 176 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 2: makes it so fun life. I'm so proud of you 177 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 2: for doing that. I think that's amazing. 178 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think you have to enjoy those little 179 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: moments in life. And I think this it's so cool 180 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 1: about this book. It's going to really encourage people to 181 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: do that. It's also cool because I feel like a 182 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 1: lot of people have a difficult time opening up about grief. 183 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:47,839 Speaker 1: You know, it's like a very it's an odd topic 184 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: to talk about because you never know how it will 185 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: make someone else feel. You don't know how it's going 186 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: to make you feel. And I feel like there's kind 187 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: of a stigma around talking about grief still when in reality, 188 00:08:57,679 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 1: we all go through it, we all experience it, so 189 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: there shouldn't be And you talk about grieving your mom 190 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 1: in the book as well, So what's your relationship today 191 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 1: like with grief? 192 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 2: For you, it's a it's a good one, oddly, I 193 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 2: really I think writing this book, doing the movie and 194 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 2: her honor and sort of. I mean, I've definitely had 195 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 2: good days in this press process and not so good 196 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 2: moments where like I have to remind myself at the 197 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 2: end of the day because I've talked about it so 198 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 2: much that like, that's my mom that we're talking about, 199 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 2: you know, And so it's like definitely hit me a 200 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 2: few times in the last week for sure that I've 201 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 2: just been like, why is she not here for this? 202 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 2: I've been so frustrated, you know, or really sad that 203 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 2: she's not here to see all this. But then I 204 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 2: remind myself that she's watching. You know, she's probably gonna 205 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 2: have like the biggest watch party ever in Heaven's Barnes 206 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 2: and Noble. It's going to be selling out of that book, 207 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 2: you know, in two seconds. So you know, she would 208 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 2: be love. I mean, like I said, she was extra, 209 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 2: she'd be loving all of this about her and sort 210 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 2: of in her honors. So that kind of brings me joy. 211 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,199 Speaker 2: But yeah, grief is something I mean, I think the 212 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 2: biggest thing that I learned about grief, and I tell 213 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 2: this to people all the time, whether they've been through 214 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 2: it yet or they're going to go through it at 215 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 2: some point, is that it's not an event. It is 216 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 2: a life after that like it is. It is just 217 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 2: a thing that comes up any time it feels like 218 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 2: it when it wants to however it wants to, and 219 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:21,839 Speaker 2: you can't prepare for it, but you have to let 220 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 2: it wash over you or wash in you, and then 221 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 2: you have to let it back out again and like 222 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:29,959 Speaker 2: move forward. And so it is, you know. I think 223 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 2: I thought, like in the early days of her passing, 224 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 2: that it was going to be this moment in time 225 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 2: and then I would be healed and that would be it. 226 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 2: And you know, next June will be thirteen years and 227 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,959 Speaker 2: I'm still in it. So I think that my relationship 228 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 2: with it now is that it is a it's a 229 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 2: weird friend that I have that comes to visit me sometimes, 230 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 2: and I'm oddly happy to see it when it does, 231 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,439 Speaker 2: because it's a new level of letting go of something 232 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 2: or feeling closer to her, maybe in that moment that 233 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 2: I hadn't taken time to feel close to her that day. 234 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 2: And then I wish it well and pack its bags 235 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 2: pretty quickly and say see your next visit. You know. 236 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 2: So it's a it's a healthy relationship with it now, 237 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:11,719 Speaker 2: I would say, but definitely different than it was in 238 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 2: the beginning. 239 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: And I think you're so right to acknowledge it and 240 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: in a weird way honor it, but then allow yourself 241 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 1: to say, okay, we're good now, see you next time. 242 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 1: I think that's right. 243 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:22,839 Speaker 2: Thanks for visiting, right right? 244 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 1: So important, it truly is, yea, and a part of 245 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 1: your story that you write about. And I'm not going 246 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: to give too too much away throughout this book, but 247 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 1: this one part I think is so important for people 248 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: to read and hear. And if there's anything that might 249 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: persuade someone to say, let me pick this up, because 250 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 1: I really needed to hear that. This was a moment 251 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 1: that I think is so so critical, at least in 252 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: my perspective. And you talked about how when your mother 253 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: did pass you left and you went away to travel, 254 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: and she wanted you to go, and you had a 255 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:54,720 Speaker 1: commitment and it was unexpected, right, and you were away 256 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: suddenly and you weren't there, and you were kind of 257 00:11:57,360 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 1: beating yourself up for not having the goodbye that you 258 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 1: thought you should should have until you then realized, well, 259 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 1: wait a minute, we did actually have our time and 260 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:05,959 Speaker 1: it was the perfect goodbye that she would want. Can 261 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: you talk to me about that a little bit? 262 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we on that day, my gut was 263 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 2: like very very much screaming at me, do not go 264 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 2: on this trip. But my mom couldn't travel at the time, 265 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 2: and she loved to travel, and I was going to Monica, 266 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 2: which is a place we had been together, and she 267 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 2: was like, I need you to do this, you know, 268 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 2: for me, and so I went and in that day 269 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 2: we did a lot of things. You know, we talked 270 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 2: about my now husband and you know, sort of had 271 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 2: that relationship conversation. There were a lot of things that happened, 272 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 2: but one of the things we were doing was planning 273 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 2: her big party for you know, sort of how she 274 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 2: was going to come out on the other side of 275 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 2: all of this and celebrate with her friends and you know, 276 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 2: then travel again and you know, sort of do all 277 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 2: of those things. And when that didn't happen and I 278 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 2: didn't get that goodbye, I was very angry and it 279 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 2: stayed with me for a while until I realized that 280 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 2: for my mom and I, what we did best was 281 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 2: magic and joy, and we had that that day in 282 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 2: sort of the hopefulness of her being okay and what 283 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 2: that was going to be. And the truth is, I 284 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 2: don't know that my mom and I would have known 285 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 2: how to say goodbye, and so I do ultimately feel 286 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 2: like our goodbye was what it was supposed to be 287 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 2: and it was supposed to be her letting me go 288 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 2: from a distance and me letting her go from a distance. 289 00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 2: And I know that it wasn't easy for her, and 290 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 2: I definitely know that it wasn't easy for me. But 291 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 2: I feel like our last moment was hopeful and was 292 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 2: magical and was joyful and I get to keep that 293 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 2: with me, and that means a lot. 294 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 1: Wow, to be in a place to have that, you know, mentality, 295 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: And I'm sure you had to work through a place 296 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 1: to get there, you know, But what a beautiful feeling 297 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: of peace I imagine that is. And I'm getting like 298 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 1: a little choked up because I think so many people 299 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: need to hear that and need to know that sometimes 300 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 1: how things unfold or how they're supposed to, you know, 301 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: I don't I don't believe in coincidences. I don't believe 302 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: in accidents. I think the universe takes care of you. 303 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 1: That's just my mentality. 304 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 2: Same, yeah, And I. 305 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 1: Think that that's a really vulnerable part of you that 306 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: you put in this book. That is, if there's any 307 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 1: reason alone it's to read the book, it's for that. 308 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: Besides all the fun stuff that you talk about as well, 309 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 1: like the moon water, which, by the way, need to 310 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: do immediately. 311 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 2: Yes, you do. It's really fun. It's really fun, and 312 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 2: it will get you to drink water, so it's simply 313 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 2: for that purpose too. But there really is there, like 314 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 2: there's a there's I feel like there's scientists and people 315 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 2: that have come out saying that, like, you can definitely, 316 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 2: you can definitely like infuse your body with intentions and 317 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 2: good thoughts by you know, taping a word on your 318 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 2: water bottle or whatever, and the kids and I just 319 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 2: kind of took it to a new level adding the moon. 320 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 2: But yeah, it's really it's really fun. I highly recommend it. 321 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: Those little tips and tricks are so exciting for people 322 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 1: to live a truly magical life. I love that too. 323 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 1: We live in New York City and I'm like, Geo, 324 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 1: we need to go find the moon and put a 325 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 1: water a Central park or something and make it. 326 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 2: Out of it. Yes, well, maybe don't leave it out 327 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 2: overnight in Central Park. Somebody might drink it and then 328 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 2: you yeah, no, no, let's try to find a balcony maybe. 329 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, fair enough, please, we'll work on that. 330 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: We'll work on that. The holiday junkie is something that 331 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 1: you've become synonymous alter ego. Yeah, is it is? And 332 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 1: I believe you kind of launched that or started that 333 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 1: concept back in like twenty thirteen, Is that right? 334 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? 335 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:37,359 Speaker 1: So what is the holiday Junkie? 336 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 2: So technically I have to give credit to Instagram followers 337 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 2: because they were the ones who initially called me a 338 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 2: holiday junkie and it sort of stuck with me, and 339 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 2: it really is. It is a total other mindset besides 340 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 2: magic they go together, but the holiday junkie is truly 341 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 2: like who I am? I I like for me and 342 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 2: I put it in the book. There's a calendar to 343 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 2: follow the holiday junkie, Like where's the normal people in 344 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 2: the world? See five holidays? I see like twenty there 345 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 2: are twenty possibilities to put up stuff, to decorate, to 346 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 2: go there to like be extra have fun and celebrate 347 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 2: not only life, but like you know things. And it's 348 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 2: become this brand. I have a card line with these 349 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 2: amazing women at twenty twenty one Co and we make 350 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 2: holiday Junkie cards. It's expanding in this new year, coming 351 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 2: up into sort of some consumer products that they're really 352 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 2: excited about. It's been clothing, it's been you know it's 353 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 2: it's a thing, but it's who my friends and family 354 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 2: know me as and it is a it is a 355 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 2: title that I wear so proud. And it's just like 356 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 2: finding all of the little pockets of joy to just 357 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 2: celebrate and just be happy. And it's I guess it's 358 00:16:56,720 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 2: also a mindset and an intention. But yeah, happy to 359 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 2: be the holiday junkie. And it's a movie that people 360 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 2: can watch on the fourteenth, which is exciting. 361 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: And you play like a decorator, right I do. 362 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:11,640 Speaker 2: I play a woman who essentially is hired to decorate 363 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 2: for Christmas, but also plan a magical itinerary for a family. 364 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 2: And then I meet a handsome house manager who also 365 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 2: happens to be my really husband and we fall in 366 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 2: love at Christmas. And I'm in grief at Christmas because 367 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 2: I've just lost my mom and he's in grief because 368 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 2: he was left at the altar. 369 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:29,440 Speaker 1: Oh what a t ease, right? 370 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 2: You know? Yes, sign me only sad people at Christmas 371 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 2: who just happened to kiss. It's awesome. 372 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 1: Oh I love that. That is so much fun. And 373 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 1: you know what, I love that you've embraced the holiday junkie. 374 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 1: And again, it's so on Brandon and theme to your 375 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:46,199 Speaker 1: book and everything that we're talking about today and enjoying 376 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 1: all the little moments in life. I mean, why not 377 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,119 Speaker 1: with everything life throws you like, why not lean into that? 378 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I talk about that a lot with my kids. 379 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 2: We talk a lot about how you know, in our 380 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:02,399 Speaker 2: house with each other where supportive and we're always kind, 381 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 2: and we really shore each other up inside our house 382 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 2: because when you step outside, the world is going to 383 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 2: do with you what it wants, and that's just the truth. 384 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 2: And we can't protect each other from that, even though 385 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 2: we want to. But we can start in our home 386 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 2: with the intention of magic, the intention of good and 387 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 2: shoring each other up and supporting each other the best 388 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 2: that we can so that you know, when we walk out, 389 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:29,239 Speaker 2: it doesn't hit us quite as hard as it might 390 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 2: hit others. And so we talk about that a lot 391 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:33,399 Speaker 2: with our kids, and we try to do that as 392 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 2: much as we can. Sometimes we don't succeed, but we try. Well, 393 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,399 Speaker 2: you do the best we can, right, we try, We 394 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 2: really try. 395 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 3: Well. 396 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 1: What a beautiful environment to create in your home? And 397 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 1: I noticed that throughout the book you have so many 398 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 1: beautiful pictures that you show of your family, and your kids, 399 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 1: And I do feel like it's probably one of the 400 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 1: more personal moments in your life and career that you 401 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:58,640 Speaker 1: have gotten with your family, because rightfully so, you've you've 402 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 1: protected them, you know, so much throughout your life. Why 403 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:03,119 Speaker 1: did you feel like this was the right time to 404 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: start opening up a little bit more about your kids 405 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 1: and your family? 406 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 2: That's interesting. Again, it wasn't supposed to necessarily be that. 407 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 2: But as I started writing about my mom and our 408 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 2: connection and her being a magic maker and sort of 409 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,480 Speaker 2: passing that on to me and wanting to pass that 410 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 2: on to my children, Brian and I both were kind 411 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:23,960 Speaker 2: of like, how do we not include them? Like how 412 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 2: does this not become about them? And then in sort 413 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 2: of writing it and realizing what my mom had left me, 414 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 2: the book really became a chance for me to show 415 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 2: them what I'm leaving them, you know, so that one 416 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 2: day when I'm not here, which hopefully won't be until 417 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 2: I'm like one hundred and twenty, I'm gonna look scary, 418 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 2: but I'm really dry for one hundred and twenty. But 419 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 2: you know, when I'm not here, they'll have it and 420 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 2: they'll be like, oh, that was her magic and what 421 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:51,119 Speaker 2: she left us behind. And I do say in the 422 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:53,479 Speaker 2: book that I think that's our job as magic makers. 423 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 2: Like people who who can sort of wrap their head 424 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 2: around that mindset and that intention are our goal should 425 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 2: be to pass that on and leave that for people. 426 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 2: And so it really just became a love story that 427 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 2: started with my mom and ended with my kids and 428 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 2: my husband, and you know, we talked to them about it. 429 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:14,119 Speaker 2: We asked them if they were okay with, you know, 430 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 2: kind of putting all this out, and of course they 431 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 2: were like, yes, we've been waiting. We need the world 432 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 2: to see us. We're wonderful. They were hilarious. My daughter 433 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 2: was like, yes, can I be on the cover. I'm 434 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:26,400 Speaker 2: like okay, So you know, they were ready. But yeah, 435 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:27,959 Speaker 2: it took us a minute to kind of wrap our 436 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,160 Speaker 2: heads around it. And again, I think it also felt 437 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 2: like a safe space because it was me writing about us, 438 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 2: it wasn't other people writing about them, and it was 439 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,359 Speaker 2: us sort of being able to control what we showed 440 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:42,000 Speaker 2: and what we talked about and what we didn't. And 441 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:43,680 Speaker 2: it's been really positive so far. 442 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:48,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's beautifully done, truly, truly beautifully done. And I 443 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 1: couldn't help but think, you know, while reading your story 444 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 1: in your background. I know you credit so much of 445 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,239 Speaker 1: the magic in your life now to your upbringing with 446 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 1: your mom and being the holiday junkie. But from me, 447 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 1: when I think about some of the things that I 448 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: do today, I think about how as a kid I 449 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:08,880 Speaker 1: didn't have those moments sometimes, And I wonder for you, 450 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 1: as a working actor as a child, right, did you 451 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 1: miss out on some of those magical moments in life 452 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 1: because of your career that now you want to make 453 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 1: sure you know your kids don't miss out on those, 454 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: and you don't et miss out on those, Like is 455 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,960 Speaker 1: there anything connected to that being so busy so young? 456 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 2: Oh? One hundred percent. I mean, I think part of 457 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 2: the holiday junkie magical part of mine is that kid 458 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 2: in me that didn't have a chance to do those things, 459 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 2: you know, that was busy trying to be a professional 460 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 2: and I was surrounded by adults. I mean, I wasn't. 461 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:43,119 Speaker 2: The first high school party I ever went to was 462 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 2: a movie called Can't Hardly Wait. I had never been 463 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 2: to a high school party or a party at all 464 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 2: that wasn't like, you know, the Golden Globes or something like. 465 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:54,640 Speaker 2: It was very random, So I didn't get to experience 466 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:57,600 Speaker 2: those things. I didn't sort of get to have those things. 467 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 2: And you know, my my daughter says it to me 468 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 2: a lot, and so does my my Atticus. I'll always say, Mommy, 469 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,159 Speaker 2: you're kind of like a kid, and I'm like, I 470 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 2: am because there's a part of me that didn't get 471 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,639 Speaker 2: to be And so I do have fun now with 472 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 2: my kids sort of being that way and tapping into 473 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:18,440 Speaker 2: that part of myself that maybe didn't get to sort 474 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:22,199 Speaker 2: of let go as much or experience some of those things. 475 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 2: And I do think that, you know, my mom made 476 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 2: magic for me in the ways that she could, but 477 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 2: in sort of the career taking off the way that 478 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 2: it did, and you know, that's a train that just 479 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 2: kind of moves without you at some point. There was 480 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 2: a lot of that that I didn't get to do. 481 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 2: So I am doing it now with my own kids, 482 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 2: and it's fun. 483 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:41,880 Speaker 1: And that's so funny to think about. When you mentioned 484 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:43,480 Speaker 1: can Harley Waite, like you had no idea what a 485 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: real high school party was. No. 486 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 2: The whole time we were filming and I was like, guys, 487 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 2: is this really what high school parties are like? And 488 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 2: they would laugh at me and be like no, No, 489 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 2: I mean maybe like the best one you've ever been 490 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,919 Speaker 2: to ever, But yeah, I mean those were all the 491 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 2: things I've never been. I've only been to a I'm 492 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 2: on a TV show. All the things that I did 493 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 2: at those times like I was doing them as my character, 494 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 2: so I felt like I was doing them, but they 495 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,640 Speaker 2: weren't my own experience. So it's really funny to now 496 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,679 Speaker 2: go back, and I think about that a lot. With 497 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,679 Speaker 2: my kids. I think a lot about like, wow, like 498 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 2: they're going to go to prom and I'm going to 499 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 2: be like, I don't know what that is. 500 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 1: Well, you clearly have to be the chaperone at the prominance, 501 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:29,120 Speaker 1: right that would be fun? 502 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 4: Right? 503 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 1: You showping a big ball gown. 504 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 2: They're like, Mom, can you imagine to really get out 505 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,439 Speaker 2: of here? Oh? 506 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's super interesting And what a what a 507 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 1: wild perspective that I could see, you know, I could 508 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 1: see why you want to bring that magic to life 509 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: for anybody who didn't have something in their in their 510 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 1: youth right that they didn't experience for whatever reason, and 511 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 1: now wanting to really go hard and to make sure 512 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 1: that not only the people around you but yourself, like 513 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 1: you get to really enjoy something as well. So that's 514 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 1: that's super cool. Another super cool thing is all the 515 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,200 Speaker 1: recipes you share, so many delicious things throughout the course 516 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,359 Speaker 1: of this book. I'm like, oh my god, what am 517 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 1: I going to make first? Like, what is what is 518 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,879 Speaker 1: the number cottail? I was going to say, what's like 519 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 1: the number one must have? 520 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,080 Speaker 2: I mean, his Christmas cocktail is so good. We only 521 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 2: have it that time of year or this time of year, 522 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 2: so I'm really excited about it. I'm going to beg 523 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 2: him to make me one later since it's a Friday 524 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:29,400 Speaker 2: night that I love. The Megan's cookies are delicious. Nana's 525 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 2: apple pie I just made for the first time actually 526 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 2: holding the book and using it for my daughter's birthday 527 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 2: because that's what she wanted, is her birthday cake. So 528 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 2: we did that. I mean, they're so good. My Grandma's 529 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 2: chicken and dumplings are amazing. It was really funny. Somebody 530 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 2: the other day was like, why are there none of 531 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 2: your recipes in there? And I was like, because that's 532 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:51,359 Speaker 2: not who I am. Like I am like the Pinterest 533 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 2: Instagram girl who's like, somebody else tell me how to 534 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 2: cook this and I'll do it great. I love to cook, 535 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 2: but I'm not like I don't come up with things 536 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 2: on my own sort of person. And they're like, well, 537 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 2: didn't you just want to put that in the book, 538 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 2: And I was like no, because then somebody's gonna ask 539 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,160 Speaker 2: me how to make that. I'll be like, I don't know. 540 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 2: I was like, but I'm surrounded by all these amazing 541 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 2: people who have these great recipes, so I put theirs 542 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:14,080 Speaker 2: in instead. It was very funny. 543 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's enough options for everybody. 544 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 2: We're good, you know we have I'm fine, I'm fine, 545 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 2: I make the party, who makes the food? 546 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: There? We go? There, we go. Well now, and the 547 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 1: spirit of mixing up recipes, we're gonna do a little 548 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 1: something called mixing up questions with you. Oh okay, and 549 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 1: we're gonna do all sorts of fun, little random questions 550 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 1: to touch on some highlights of Jennifer Love Hewett. Okay, okay, 551 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: are you ready? 552 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:40,640 Speaker 2: I'm I think so. Yeah. 553 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 1: First one, nine one one. The show you're on. People 554 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: love It went from Fox to ABC. Ratings are stellar. 555 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 1: People can't get enough of it. It's coming back in March. 556 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 1: I believe there's gonna teas that you've been kidnapped in 557 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:58,400 Speaker 1: the show. Is there anything you can tell us about 558 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,400 Speaker 1: your arc for the second half of the season. 559 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 3: It is the craziest thing I've ever done on nine 560 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 3: on one. All I can say the audience is not ready. 561 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 3: I was not ready. I was not ready. 562 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, my voice like if I don't know if you 563 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 2: can tell, but my voice is like kind of out. 564 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,199 Speaker 2: It has been this way since we filmed it. 565 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 1: Really, And did you know this storyline was coming or 566 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 1: just totally not? 567 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 2: I did not. 568 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:27,880 Speaker 1: Wow. 569 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's wild, but it was so fun. Oh, I 570 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,160 Speaker 2: can't wait for people to see it. It was so fun. 571 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 4: Wow. 572 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good tease. That's a good teas we're 573 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 1: ready for it. And another thing when I announced it 574 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:40,959 Speaker 1: was my guests people were writing and they love your 575 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 1: dynamic with you know, your brother on the show, buck 576 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: and they think you guys are so much fun. How 577 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 1: is playing that for you? 578 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,159 Speaker 2: It's great, it's great. I love ol of our We 579 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 2: have a great time. And I just think Mattie's a 580 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,719 Speaker 2: really good sister. I love that she's like sort of 581 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:02,919 Speaker 2: his mom ish but all so his cysts and Bucket 582 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 2: is such a fun character. He's been through so much 583 00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 2: and goes through so much and you know, yeah, it's 584 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,400 Speaker 2: it's really fun for me. I love it. 585 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: And there's a lot of speculation out there on that 586 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,119 Speaker 1: dark web that you think his character might have a 587 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,719 Speaker 1: little crush on Eddie. 588 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 3: I know. 589 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 2: Well, I had to feed into it because everybody wants 590 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 2: it to happen, and so I was like, I'm going 591 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 2: to be that person who feeds into this a little 592 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 2: bit so that people will go crazy. And they did, 593 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 2: and then everybody got mad at me because they're like, 594 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:33,439 Speaker 2: don't feed into them. 595 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: You were stirring that pot, was. 596 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 2: Stirring it right up. Well, it's fun to stir the pots. 597 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 1: All right, fair, sometimes you have to. 598 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 2: I don't know what's going to happen with them, but 599 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 2: I mean I wouldn't. I would be all for it 600 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,400 Speaker 2: if it happened to me. Just say that there're gonna 601 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:50,640 Speaker 2: be worse things to see on TV. 602 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,719 Speaker 1: Well, that's true. That's true. That's really funny. You were 603 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 1: seeing it and just totally acted off of it. You're like, 604 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 1: I'm going to turn the conversation. 605 00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was. I mean, I'm a forty five your 606 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 2: old mom of three. Sometimes I gotta do something fun, right, 607 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:04,879 Speaker 2: Like I want to be in the conversation. So I 608 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,640 Speaker 2: got in the conversation a little bit, but then people 609 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 2: got mad at me because then they were like, well, 610 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 2: it didn't happen yet. So she lied to us, and 611 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 2: I was like, guys, can't I just drink my morning 612 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 2: coffee and stirts hot? 613 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,400 Speaker 1: Hello, I'm here for it. I'm here for good, good, 614 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,199 Speaker 1: good good. You know you said like an Italian. If 615 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 1: I didn't know better, I think you were like fully italiant, 616 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: always wanted. 617 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 2: To be Italian? Can I be like an honorary Italian? 618 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 2: Is that a thing that people do? 619 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 1: Yes? 620 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 2: Absolutely, I'm excited. 621 00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:33,119 Speaker 1: All right, absolutely, okay, brilliant. I love that answer. Now 622 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: let's talk about Heartbreakers for a second. 623 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:35,359 Speaker 2: Hi. 624 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,959 Speaker 1: In my opinion, I actually met Sigourney Weaver. My friend 625 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 1: is Barbara Strausgan's tour director, and he had like a 626 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 1: little after party. I mean, who says that, Like I 627 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: just threw up after saying that myself. 628 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 2: On let me just put that make me jump the floor. 629 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 1: Okay, Like I really just say that. I did. But 630 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 1: she was at the after party and we weren't talking, 631 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 1: and I said, I have to tell you Heartbreakers is 632 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 1: one of the all time greatest movies, and she goes, 633 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 1: you know what, I think so too. With a big 634 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 1: smile on. 635 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 2: Her face, she said that we had a good time. 636 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 1: It was such a good movie. I feel like at 637 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 1: one point there was a rumor that you might be 638 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 1: interested in adapting into a television series. Is there a 639 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 1: truth to that? Is there still interest? 640 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 2: So there is. We actually went out with it a 641 00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 2: bunch for a television series, and then sort of the 642 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 2: business fell apart with the strikes and all of that stuff. 643 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 2: So it's still out there. We do have a great 644 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 2: script for it and a pitch for it, and it's 645 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 2: still my goal at some point to do Heartbreakers the 646 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:37,480 Speaker 2: TV series. 647 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 1: Okay, remind me when we're off this, because I have 648 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 1: someone I need you to talk to. 649 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 2: Okay, fantastic. 650 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 1: Okay, So that just came into mind. Okay, good, So 651 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 1: there's hope for that. Love it. Where do I want 652 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 1: to go next? Okay, let's hit a music question. Oh fine, 653 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 1: let's go Bang was like my album of my adolescence. 654 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry for you, and this clearly was. 655 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 1: And this was when I thought I was straight even 656 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 1: sorrier for you, blasting it in my sky blue Toyota 657 00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 1: camera being like yeah. 658 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, That's how I felt. About it too well. 659 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 1: I don't know why you're saying it, because I loved 660 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 1: that album. I listened to it on a rebeat back 661 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 1: back in the day when CDs were a thing. I love. 662 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 1: I love a good CD, and I would play it 663 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:32,840 Speaker 1: repeatedly driving around the streets of New Jersey. I think 664 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 1: it's time for a follow up to some of your albums. Yeah, 665 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 1: Fair Naked of course is a fan favorite, so like, 666 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 1: what do we gotta do to get a new album? 667 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,520 Speaker 1: I know you released songs here and there, beautiful songs 668 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 1: like you what are you keeping us waiting for? 669 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 2: You know, I feel like it was a weird time 670 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 2: because when I came out with music, I mean it 671 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 2: was the time of Britney Spears and Avril Levine and 672 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 2: Michelle Branch and like, you know, all these people. When 673 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:01,240 Speaker 2: I kind of did Bear Naked, it was like such 674 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 2: a such a rush of these incredibly talented people, and 675 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 2: I feel like there was a lot of like we 676 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 2: just wanted to go back and cry on TV, like 677 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 2: why is she doing music right now? Except for the 678 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,080 Speaker 2: people who loved it, which I appreciate you being one 679 00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 2: of those and my grandmother, but you know, I would 680 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 2: love to go back to it. I really would. I 681 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 2: wouldn't tour or do any of that stuff because you know, 682 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 2: I'm in my forties and i'd probably throw my back 683 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 2: out and I have three kids. But I would love 684 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,960 Speaker 2: to make I honestly have thought about this, and I 685 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 2: think it's why I'm kind of putting out little songs 686 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 2: here and there, just to sort of see what the 687 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 2: temperature is. I'd love to do like, you know, six 688 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 2: or eight songs on a little album and just kind 689 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 2: of like sneak it out and see what people think 690 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 2: of it, so you know, maybe it's coming hopefully. 691 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 1: Okay, I think the world is ready. 692 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 2: I'm working on it. 693 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 1: Love to hear it. Would you ever do Broadway? 694 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I would love to do Broadway. 695 00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 4: I'm terrified to speak in public, really, yes, And I 696 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 4: have been offered stuff before, and I'm the singing part 697 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 4: I could totally do. 698 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 2: But the idea of standing in front of an audience 699 00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 2: and having to like say words, I think I would 700 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 2: pass out, Like I would be the first person opening 701 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 2: night to pass out on Broadway. 702 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: But you're on a set with like three hundred people 703 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:21,240 Speaker 1: staring at you. 704 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 2: I know, and I don't know what it is. There's 705 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:27,440 Speaker 2: just something about like famously literally like when I would 706 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 2: go and do like announcements on award shows and stuff 707 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 2: like that, I always they would try to get me 708 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 2: to do it by myself, and I would always have 709 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 2: to walk on stage with someone and literally right before 710 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 2: you walk out on the American Music Awards or something, 711 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 2: I would be like, dude, I amrified, Like you got 712 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 2: to hold my hand or I have to squeeze your 713 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,720 Speaker 2: arm or slat because I was petrified, Like I don't 714 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,840 Speaker 2: know what it is or why. Maybe something happened to 715 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 2: me in another life on a Shakespearean stage perhaps, but 716 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 2: I am really scared. If I could get over it, 717 00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 2: I would love to do Broadway. I really would. 718 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,960 Speaker 1: But I always thought, Actually, my cousin and I both think, 719 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,480 Speaker 1: because we love theater, we love musical theater, we think 720 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 1: you'd be an Amazingnessa and wicked. 721 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:12,160 Speaker 2: Oh my god, thank you m hm, so really. 722 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 1: Nice, just like leaving that one there for you in 723 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: case Nessa. 724 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 2: Have lara ingitis and not be able to talk. 725 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 1: I don't think we're rewriting the show, but okay, fine, 726 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 1: I'll be fine, yeah, yeah, but let's just say we'll 727 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,200 Speaker 1: leave that one there, and maybe you'll feel inspired to 728 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: reach out to casting. 729 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 2: Give me in the Clash Menagerie where I don't saying. 730 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:34,080 Speaker 1: Oh my god, we just sit there. We have some 731 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 1: things to work through for twenty twenty five. 732 00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 2: We're gonna work through it for training, and then it'll 733 00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 2: be fine. 734 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 1: Okay. To be continued on that front. To be continued, 735 00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,720 Speaker 1: Let's do two more fun ones. Let's see is there 736 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 1: a movie and a television show of yours that when 737 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,160 Speaker 1: it comes on you have to watch it or you 738 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 1: sometimes feel nostalgic and are like, I want to put 739 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: it on. 740 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:08,200 Speaker 2: Got Whisper for sure, such an easy watch. Love that show, 741 00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 2: And yes I am that person who will watch herself 742 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,080 Speaker 2: in the Ghostwhisper. If I'm flipping channels, then it's on. 743 00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:21,279 Speaker 2: Movie wise, Heartbreakers probably only because it was like such 744 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,359 Speaker 2: a swe Heartbreakers to me still feels like a thing 745 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,799 Speaker 2: that didn't actually happen. Like the whole time that I 746 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 2: was on that movie, I felt like I was a 747 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,320 Speaker 2: person who had entered like one of those random contests 748 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,239 Speaker 2: on the radio to like win a part in a movie, 749 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 2: right because I would like look around and there would 750 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 2: be Gene Hackman and Ray Liotta and Sigourn me, and 751 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, what am I doing here in no clothing? Like? 752 00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 2: Why am I here? What is happening? Why is my 753 00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 2: butt gonna be like giant on a screen? In like 754 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,360 Speaker 2: the first ten minutes of the movie, Like the whole 755 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:58,480 Speaker 2: thing just felt not real. And so whenever it's on 756 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,360 Speaker 2: or like somebody's like, hey, I want to watch Party, 757 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, me too, same because I have to 758 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 2: remind myself that I actually got the chance to like 759 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:08,640 Speaker 2: be in that like I was invited to be in 760 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,799 Speaker 2: that movie. It was such a wild experience. 761 00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 1: And you know what's so interesting about that movie. There's 762 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:17,280 Speaker 1: so many there's so much dialogue and so many different choices, 763 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,399 Speaker 1: both you and Sigourney and everyone makes that I feel 764 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:22,040 Speaker 1: like when you watch it, you see different things for 765 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 1: the first time, you know. 766 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because we had all of our you know, 767 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,359 Speaker 2: common like personas, I guess that we had to Yeah, 768 00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:31,000 Speaker 2: it was, it was. It was wild. 769 00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 1: All I know is after I watched that movie, I 770 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:36,279 Speaker 1: was walking around saying, may I grab your nuts and 771 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:37,760 Speaker 1: salty like on repeat? 772 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 2: Sing it was my favorite thing to say to my 773 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:45,240 Speaker 2: mom and grandmother. It makes them really uncomfortable. My grandmother 774 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 2: and my mom. By the way, we're there the day 775 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 2: that I was attached to Raleiota's crotch for twelve hours, 776 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 2: No oh oh yeah, I mean just to make it 777 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,360 Speaker 2: worse for me. Yeah, it was why my grandmother was 778 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:58,759 Speaker 2: like she had this big, big Texas I just She's 779 00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 2: just like, sweetie, now, what exactly is happening in this 780 00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 2: part of the movie. But I'd be like, uh, yeah 781 00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 2: it was. Oh that movie was wonderful. It really was 782 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:09,800 Speaker 2: so fun. 783 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:11,399 Speaker 1: How do you I mean, I know it's your job 784 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 1: and you're an actor and this is like what you do, 785 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 1: but when you go to a shoot like that and 786 00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:16,880 Speaker 1: you're like, okay, like for twelve hours, I'm going to 787 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 1: be attached to other actors crotch, Like, yeah, how do 788 00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:21,000 Speaker 1: you prepare for that? 789 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,080 Speaker 2: I mean I think I had to like not even 790 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 2: think about it because I was I was only twenty 791 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,279 Speaker 2: two or twenty three when we to that movie. But 792 00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,080 Speaker 2: I will say, like, if you're gonna have to do 793 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 2: that with anyone, it should be Rayle Leota because he 794 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:40,920 Speaker 2: was the most wonderful, extraordinary man, like just made me 795 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:44,840 Speaker 2: feel so comfortable, was so kind, made all of the 796 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,520 Speaker 2: right jokes about it to like just dissolve the situation. 797 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,360 Speaker 2: But also it was like, you know, checking on me 798 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,480 Speaker 2: and making sure that like mentally I was good physically 799 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 2: I was like, it was just you know, and it 800 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,160 Speaker 2: was so funny with like my mom and my grandmother 801 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:00,759 Speaker 2: and you know, apologizing in person and for that being 802 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 2: our day of work. He was just great. So you know, 803 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 2: I think he had a lot to do with how 804 00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:09,239 Speaker 2: easy that was. But yeah, I think I just that 805 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:11,000 Speaker 2: whole movie. I was just like, I can't even think 806 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:14,080 Speaker 2: about what I'm doing right now. It's just wild. 807 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,880 Speaker 1: Well, another brilliant performance. We love to see it. And 808 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:21,400 Speaker 1: the last mixing it up question, I think you know 809 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:21,919 Speaker 1: what's coming. 810 00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,279 Speaker 2: M hmm, I think you do. I think you do. 811 00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:29,319 Speaker 1: So let's see how we handle this one. Okay, Internet detectives, 812 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,960 Speaker 1: the sleuths if you suse, we have seen that I 813 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:36,000 Speaker 1: know what you did last summer has begun production. 814 00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:36,799 Speaker 2: It has. 815 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 1: They have also seen that Freddy Prince Junior has been 816 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:43,920 Speaker 1: on set. Yeah, it has released some stories saying he's 817 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:46,160 Speaker 1: finished filming, which have come into question if they are 818 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:51,040 Speaker 1: real or not. Stories. Also, my own sleuth thing has 819 00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:54,000 Speaker 1: detected that you have went from You've gone from shorter 820 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 1: hair to longer hair, looking a little bit more like 821 00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:00,879 Speaker 1: Julie James. Oh interesting, and you have a little time 822 00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:04,919 Speaker 1: off before going back to nine one one, So are 823 00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 1: you possibly preparing to be Julie James again? 824 00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:13,319 Speaker 2: I am possibly preparing for that. The hair change had 825 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:16,640 Speaker 2: nothing to do with that. I just needed something new. 826 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:20,799 Speaker 2: I get very bored with my hair very quickly, and 827 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,359 Speaker 2: because of some things that are going to be coming 828 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 2: up on nine on one, it felt like a good 829 00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:28,880 Speaker 2: time to sort of change it up. So that's what 830 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:33,239 Speaker 2: the hair change is for. I am so close to 831 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:40,680 Speaker 2: being able to say something that's exciting, but it has 832 00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,120 Speaker 2: been very hard to do. And I want to clarify 833 00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:46,760 Speaker 2: this because so many people have been like like literally 834 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,719 Speaker 2: the line in the movie, what are you waiting for? 835 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 2: Like what is happening right? And it has only been 836 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:57,359 Speaker 2: scheduling and then me trying to make sure that if 837 00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,359 Speaker 2: I go back to the franchise, I just don't want 838 00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:01,920 Speaker 2: to be the ghost of like nineties past. You know, 839 00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 2: it's like oooh I am you know, she like dissolves 840 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:10,000 Speaker 2: off and like I really want to do something and 841 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:13,759 Speaker 2: I want to be there for Julie James fans, and 842 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,479 Speaker 2: so we have just been trying to figure it out, 843 00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 2: and I think we're really close to figuring it out, 844 00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 2: and I will be really I will be as excited 845 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,439 Speaker 2: as everyone else if I can, if I can say 846 00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:27,640 Speaker 2: that officially very soon. 847 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that makes sense. You want something like juicy 848 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,839 Speaker 1: worth going back for Yeah, I just I. 849 00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 2: Just wanted to like matter, you know, and not even 850 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:36,680 Speaker 2: for like the new fans that I know you did 851 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 2: last summer, but for the moms who will be paying 852 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 2: for those tickets to take their kids because they loved 853 00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,799 Speaker 2: it the first one. I just want it to feel like, 854 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,840 Speaker 2: you know, if she comes back, then it means something. 855 00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 2: But what do we think about this hair? If I 856 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 2: did come back, do we feel like this is a 857 00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,440 Speaker 2: good like evolved twenty seven years later. 858 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:59,480 Speaker 1: Julie, I think the hair is perfect for new Julie James. 859 00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,800 Speaker 1: I do, Okay, I really do. 860 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 2: The first thing with this hair that you were the 861 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:06,320 Speaker 2: deciding factor. 862 00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: Okay, oh wow, I love it. You know what I think. 863 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 1: I think it's perfect. And what I will say, the 864 00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:17,879 Speaker 1: last thing I'll say is, presumably with these conversations going on, 865 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:19,720 Speaker 1: and you want to come back, if there's a juicy 866 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,040 Speaker 1: reason to come back. 867 00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:21,239 Speaker 2: Four. 868 00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,480 Speaker 1: I think it seemed to say in the script, perhaps 869 00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:26,760 Speaker 1: truly is already in there. 870 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:31,800 Speaker 2: Yes, okay, yep, okay, yeah. 871 00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I know I can't get much more 872 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,440 Speaker 1: out of you. We're going to leave it at that, 873 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 1: but we're leaving on a hopeful note. 874 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:41,760 Speaker 2: With this very hopeful. 875 00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,240 Speaker 1: The one thing I will say is, just like your 876 00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 1: song in the first one, how do ideal we need? 877 00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:47,719 Speaker 1: We're going to need another one. 878 00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,799 Speaker 2: So if that's what I said, it needs to come 879 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:53,640 Speaker 2: as another song. I know I'm working on that too. 880 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:54,120 Speaker 2: We'll see. 881 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: It must be fun for you to hear how excited 882 00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 1: people are and all the curiosity around you returning. I mean, 883 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:01,880 Speaker 1: that movie really does mean so much to people. So 884 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,480 Speaker 1: aside from like I'm sure always hearing about how people 885 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:08,600 Speaker 1: want you to come back, it must be fun to 886 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:09,720 Speaker 1: go through this again. 887 00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,359 Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's amazing. It's amazing. And I said 888 00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 2: that to them when they came and even talked to 889 00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:19,000 Speaker 2: us about it, Like what an honor it is twenty 890 00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:22,440 Speaker 2: seven years later to even be thought of to come back, 891 00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,359 Speaker 2: Because the truth is they could do it without us. 892 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,320 Speaker 2: They shouldn't, but they could do it. No, no, no, 893 00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:31,239 Speaker 2: And it's really nice that they don't want to, you know, 894 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:35,120 Speaker 2: so I appreciate that, and I really appreciate that it 895 00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 2: matters to the fans so much, because that's truly the 896 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,319 Speaker 2: only people I care about in the circumstance, and so 897 00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:43,640 Speaker 2: I really want to give them. I want to give 898 00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 2: them the answer that they want and that I want. 899 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:49,240 Speaker 2: And we're yeah, we're very hopeful at this point. 900 00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:52,440 Speaker 1: Okay, wait, I have just one more on this. Okay, 901 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:56,400 Speaker 1: have you heard anything about possibly Randy returning? 902 00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:05,400 Speaker 2: I have heard that, yes, Okay, Because they were besties 903 00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,680 Speaker 2: in the movie, I had to remind myself, if I'm 904 00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:11,240 Speaker 2: being totally honest, I had to go through both movies 905 00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 2: and remind myself who had died and who had it 906 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,479 Speaker 2: because I'm in my forties, so I was like, wait, 907 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,319 Speaker 2: can that person come back? And then no, oh no, no, 908 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:24,520 Speaker 2: oh yeah no that was that one was bloody. But 909 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,000 Speaker 2: I was like because my first thought was we have 910 00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,440 Speaker 2: to have Jack Black, and then I was like, oh no, 911 00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:32,800 Speaker 2: he died. Yeah, so yeah, I had to go. I 912 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,640 Speaker 2: had to run through real quick and just make. 913 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,040 Speaker 1: Sure something you just can't come back from, like Jack Bike. 914 00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:39,240 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it just can't happen. 915 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:39,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 916 00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, people are a little mixed on. 917 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,879 Speaker 2: But she's I mean, she was frozen and nice. My 918 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,400 Speaker 2: head was off. I mean it's pretty I don't know 919 00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,040 Speaker 2: that we can be I don't know we can be 920 00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:54,359 Speaker 2: confused about that one. But but yes, And then I 921 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,399 Speaker 2: just heard that there's this whole thing where they think 922 00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,600 Speaker 2: that Sarah and I were fighting or something. Have you 923 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 2: heard this? Really? All these things out there? And I 924 00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:05,719 Speaker 2: was like yeah, and that, like, yeah, it's been really fun. 925 00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 2: I've I've really enjoyed going and like trying to read 926 00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:10,840 Speaker 2: the stuff now and be like, what are people saying 927 00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:14,920 Speaker 2: about when we did the movie before? You know, now 928 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,200 Speaker 2: all of that stuff and there somebody somebody the other 929 00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 2: day was like, yeah, I think Julie made sure that 930 00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:25,200 Speaker 2: she was killed because girl actresses don't like to work 931 00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,200 Speaker 2: with girl And I was like, what are you I 932 00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:31,120 Speaker 2: was eighteen, they were not taking script notes from me. Guys, 933 00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,440 Speaker 2: Like what are you talking about? There were probably friends totally, 934 00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:36,919 Speaker 2: I mean all of us were like in that experience 935 00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,960 Speaker 2: together kind of you know, figuring it all out and everything, 936 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:41,680 Speaker 2: and I root for her and Freddie and like, I 937 00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,600 Speaker 2: think it's the cutest thing in the world that they've 938 00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:46,000 Speaker 2: been married for one hundred years and have kids and 939 00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:49,319 Speaker 2: it's like adorable. So yeah, no, it's just been really 940 00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,200 Speaker 2: funny to see all of the stuff that people think. 941 00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:56,280 Speaker 2: But yes, I have also heard the Brandy murmer and 942 00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,240 Speaker 2: and yeah, we'll see. 943 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,400 Speaker 1: All right, that's a lot of good information. All I 944 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:03,359 Speaker 1: know is if you're not in a little crop top 945 00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:04,320 Speaker 1: running around. 946 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:06,879 Speaker 2: Again, oh god, there will not be a crop top 947 00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:11,400 Speaker 2: that can. I tell you the funniest story, honestly, my 948 00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:15,400 Speaker 2: son Atticus when thought it was the most innocent sweet thing, 949 00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:17,400 Speaker 2: but it killed. It was like I was dead, Like 950 00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,680 Speaker 2: it was really funny. He was watching the movie and 951 00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:22,400 Speaker 2: he came running out and he was like, Mommy, I 952 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,279 Speaker 2: just saw the weirdest thing. He was like, there was 953 00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,400 Speaker 2: this stuff up here, and I was like, sweetie, that's 954 00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 2: where mommy's boobs used to be. Good. 955 00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:35,520 Speaker 1: Stop. Stop. 956 00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:43,160 Speaker 2: It was like it was so innocent. So so he 957 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 2: was so worried about what was up there because he's 958 00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,200 Speaker 2: so used to them being lower. Because I'm in my 959 00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:50,880 Speaker 2: forties and I sped three children. So I made the 960 00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:53,360 Speaker 2: joke the other day. I was like, guys, if this happened, 961 00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:55,200 Speaker 2: like we're gonna have to tie him up over my 962 00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:56,439 Speaker 2: ears and invite him back up. 963 00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,000 Speaker 1: For the next movie. 964 00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:04,319 Speaker 2: Push up true like Marionette's holding them up as I 965 00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:08,000 Speaker 2: run through something. Oh my god, it was hilarious. It 966 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:09,280 Speaker 2: made me laugh so hard. 967 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:13,960 Speaker 1: It was that's pretty amazing, and then. 968 00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:16,640 Speaker 2: Confused as to how they ended up this way. It 969 00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:17,480 Speaker 2: was very funny. 970 00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:21,600 Speaker 1: That might be the headline for the entire interview. Oh god, great, 971 00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:28,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you know I'm serious. That's that's really 972 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:32,680 Speaker 1: really really cute. That's really cute. And going off of 973 00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:35,160 Speaker 1: that and giving you some flowers for a minute. On 974 00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:37,440 Speaker 1: a serious note, like I said earlier, you've been working 975 00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 1: your whole career and since you were a kid, and 976 00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:42,239 Speaker 1: you've done so many different genres and categories and film 977 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:46,040 Speaker 1: and TV and music. Are you to point in your 978 00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:48,040 Speaker 1: life and in your career where you can look back 979 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:51,240 Speaker 1: at everything you've done and say, like, man, I'm pretty 980 00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:53,719 Speaker 1: proud of me, Like I've I've done it, like I've 981 00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,200 Speaker 1: accomplished my dreams. Because it's so hard for all of 982 00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:57,840 Speaker 1: us to do that, and not that we sit around 983 00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:01,080 Speaker 1: doing that, but do you feel like you can look 984 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,239 Speaker 1: at all of that and say, wow, I genuinely am 985 00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:03,759 Speaker 1: proud of me. 986 00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:06,960 Speaker 2: I do. I do feel proud. I do feel proud, 987 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,520 Speaker 2: and I feel proud because I think along the way, 988 00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:14,560 Speaker 2: if you had asked me a million different times, I 989 00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,400 Speaker 2: would have said, I don't know, it might be over tomorrow, 990 00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,719 Speaker 2: Like I don't know, Like I just have always been, 991 00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,799 Speaker 2: you know, worried about that. And so it is really 992 00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:26,360 Speaker 2: nice to sit now at forty five and be like, yeah, 993 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:29,600 Speaker 2: I did that, Like I did what I wanted to do, 994 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,760 Speaker 2: and I'm still going and I and it's so fun 995 00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,120 Speaker 2: for me that, like I still get nervous to go 996 00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,239 Speaker 2: to work. I still get worried when things are going 997 00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:38,719 Speaker 2: to come out, if people are going to like them. 998 00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:44,480 Speaker 2: I still you know, care about Julie James and like 999 00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,120 Speaker 2: how to make that great for people. And you know, 1000 00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 2: I have not lost my love for this job, like 1001 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:55,080 Speaker 2: even a little. And that is awesome and I feel 1002 00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:58,120 Speaker 2: like that is a success in itself. And yeah, I 1003 00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 2: am proud of what I've been able to do and 1004 00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:02,960 Speaker 2: hope that I get to continue for a long time. 1005 00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:05,560 Speaker 1: Oh that's good to hear. I think it's always nice 1006 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,640 Speaker 1: when you can reflect back and have a moment of 1007 00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:09,600 Speaker 1: praise for yourself because none of us do it enough? 1008 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:10,880 Speaker 2: You know, I know, don't. 1009 00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,160 Speaker 1: We don't, we don't. I think that's super cool. Well, 1010 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:16,360 Speaker 1: as we wrap up this conversation, oh boy, here we 1011 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:18,920 Speaker 1: go the name of the show. Oh you know what's coming. 1012 00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:24,239 Speaker 1: It's called I've never said this before, And the show 1013 00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 1: is born because I cover a lot of red carpets 1014 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,680 Speaker 1: and junkets and you get like three minutes, maybe six 1015 00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:31,480 Speaker 1: minutes if you're lucky, at a junk get to talk 1016 00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:34,800 Speaker 1: to people. And I just saw this longing in people's eyes, 1017 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,960 Speaker 1: wanting to talk about things a bit more substantial, right, 1018 00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,839 Speaker 1: and a bit more a bit more real life, which 1019 00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,680 Speaker 1: we've done a lot today already. But I'm wondering, is 1020 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:46,080 Speaker 1: there anything that comes to mind for you that you've 1021 00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,840 Speaker 1: never said before that you wanted to say or share today, 1022 00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:49,799 Speaker 1: whatever that means to you. 1023 00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:53,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it does sort of fit with what 1024 00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:55,359 Speaker 2: we have been talking about a little bit. I do. 1025 00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,800 Speaker 2: I think I've never said out loud before to anyone, 1026 00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:02,080 Speaker 2: maybe other than my husband, and that I have a 1027 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:05,759 Speaker 2: real fear as a mom about the kind of mom 1028 00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 2: I'm going to be when my kids are teenagers. And 1029 00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:09,480 Speaker 2: it kind of goes back into what we were talking 1030 00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:12,920 Speaker 2: about before in that I just don't have like I 1031 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,680 Speaker 2: never went to high school, like walk down to high school. 1032 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:17,960 Speaker 2: I mean I did the school work of high school 1033 00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:19,960 Speaker 2: and I graduated and I but I did it on 1034 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:22,600 Speaker 2: a set. I never went to a high school party 1035 00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:26,960 Speaker 2: other than can't hardly wait. I haven't had those experiences. 1036 00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 2: And right now I feel like I really thrive as 1037 00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:32,719 Speaker 2: a mom because the kid in me can throw a 1038 00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:36,480 Speaker 2: magical party and it can you know, make a magical 1039 00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:39,319 Speaker 2: movie theater moment or you know, whatever it is. And 1040 00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,160 Speaker 2: like the kid in me is thriving as a mom. 1041 00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:46,520 Speaker 2: But when it comes to being a teenager or a 1042 00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:49,320 Speaker 2: grown up, you know, kind of going into your grown 1043 00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:52,400 Speaker 2: up place as a I really worry, like it panics 1044 00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:55,200 Speaker 2: me a lot that I'm going to fail somehow because 1045 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:59,760 Speaker 2: I don't have those life experiences. And thankfully my husband 1046 00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:03,360 Speaker 2: does and he was he lived a very normal teenage life. 1047 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,279 Speaker 2: But I don't want to fail them that way, Like 1048 00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:09,160 Speaker 2: I really want to thrive and be there for them 1049 00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:12,040 Speaker 2: and do that and not like weirdly want to show 1050 00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:13,880 Speaker 2: up at the prom because I never about to go 1051 00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:17,920 Speaker 2: to one, Like I could just see myself like also 1052 00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,560 Speaker 2: coming down the stairs and She's all that moment and 1053 00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:22,959 Speaker 2: Autumn being like not now, this is not your time, 1054 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,120 Speaker 2: you know, Like I just want to I just want 1055 00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:26,920 Speaker 2: to be there for them, and I want to I 1056 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,680 Speaker 2: want to know all the things. But I don't have 1057 00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:34,480 Speaker 2: those life experiences, and it gives me a lot of anxiety. 1058 00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:37,520 Speaker 1: So how do you calm that? Or can you not? 1059 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,920 Speaker 2: I can't. I mean, I think I just have to 1060 00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:44,439 Speaker 2: do my best. Yeah, Like I think I'm just gonna 1061 00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 2: have to do my best. And and I think maybe 1062 00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:48,160 Speaker 2: I said it to Autumn the other day because she's 1063 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,399 Speaker 2: eleven now, and you know, we were kind of talking 1064 00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:51,600 Speaker 2: about it, and she was like, what was it like 1065 00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:53,239 Speaker 2: when you were eleven? And I was like, oh boy, 1066 00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:55,879 Speaker 2: here we go. I was at auditions, like I have 1067 00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,279 Speaker 2: no I have no reference for her that's going to 1068 00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,000 Speaker 2: be helpful. But I told her how I felt inside. 1069 00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:04,200 Speaker 2: And so I feel like, maybe I'm just going to 1070 00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:07,799 Speaker 2: have to go with my gut and maybe I'm just 1071 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,200 Speaker 2: going to learn a lot. Like I feel like I'm 1072 00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:12,040 Speaker 2: I feel like maybe there's a part of me that's 1073 00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:15,400 Speaker 2: going to go and experience it, maybe for the first time, 1074 00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,560 Speaker 2: and I'm going to have to be okay with that. 1075 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,520 Speaker 2: And maybe there will be something beautiful that comes out 1076 00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:23,680 Speaker 2: of it, but it makes me very afraid. 1077 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,879 Speaker 1: Well, after reading your book and after talking to you 1078 00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:31,040 Speaker 1: for almost an hour, it's clear you know what you're doing, 1079 00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:34,000 Speaker 1: and your family is very lucky to have you, and 1080 00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,279 Speaker 1: I think you know it's it's normal to feel all 1081 00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,440 Speaker 1: those things. But yeah, something tells me you're going to 1082 00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:40,359 Speaker 1: be just fine. Just don't show up in the prom 1083 00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,680 Speaker 1: ball gown. Please wait? 1084 00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:46,160 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I won't. Maybe for my fiftieth I'll 1085 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:47,560 Speaker 2: throw myself a prom How about that? 1086 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:48,960 Speaker 1: Oh that would be so cute. 1087 00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:50,880 Speaker 2: Right you want to call me? 1088 00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:55,719 Speaker 1: Yes, I am a great you could come from. Oh 1089 00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,279 Speaker 1: my god, I love that so much, Jennifer, love you. 1090 00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,919 Speaker 1: What a pleasure this is been today. I could talk 1091 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 1: to you for four more hours. I just I am. 1092 00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:05,239 Speaker 2: I had such a good sign. 1093 00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 1: Oh you're you're a brilliant artist. This book is brilliant. 1094 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:11,000 Speaker 1: Inheriting magic is out now. Where can people grab it? 1095 00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:16,160 Speaker 2: Barnes and Noble, Amazon, all the all the places, I think, 1096 00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:19,040 Speaker 2: And I'm really really grateful, and I just hope that 1097 00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:20,120 Speaker 2: they love it so much. 1098 00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:22,680 Speaker 1: And Holiday Junkie is out. 1099 00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 2: Yes on the fourteenth at eight pm. On Lifetime. 1100 00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:29,759 Speaker 1: Okay, so read the book, watch the movie, get in 1101 00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:33,080 Speaker 1: the festive spirit, and thank you so much for hanging out. 1102 00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:35,680 Speaker 2: Thank you so much, thank you, thank you. 1103 00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:40,920 Speaker 1: I've Never Said This Before is hosted by Me Tommy Didario. 1104 00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:45,880 Speaker 1: This podcast is executive produced by Andrew Puglisi at iHeartRadio 1105 00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:50,319 Speaker 1: and by me Tommy, with editing by Joshua Colaudney. I've 1106 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,720 Speaker 1: Never Said This Before is part of the Elvis Duran 1107 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 1: podcast Network on iHeart Podcasts. For more, rate review and 1108 00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,960 Speaker 1: subscribe to our show and if you like this episode, 1109 00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:03,640 Speaker 1: tell your friends. 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