WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Concerned Mom 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:10.080 From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest. Yeah, 0:00:10.200 --> 0:00:16.000 just the first, the first smell, the beans, grinding of coffee, 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:20.000 and then the dripping into pot makes pull it out, 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:22.760 poured into your cup. I love it so much. It's 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:25.959 one of my five favorite things. Physically and ceremonially, I know. 0:00:27.120 --> 0:00:29.920 And then it happened. It goes by so fast. I 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:32.479 get really like I have so and so I can 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:36.720 go from so excited just so depressed that it's over. Gosh, 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:40.080 I don't have a ceremonial thing like that. Oh you're 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:43.880 not living I guess not God of ceremonial coffee moment. 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:46.880 So many people right now are doing that right now 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:48.839 like we did are so we're done with it. But 0:00:48.880 --> 0:00:52.760 you're having yours right now. Say just drink water. How 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:55.440 much water you drinking a day? Well, it's funny you 0:00:55.560 --> 0:01:02.440 bring that up. It's funny about that. We all just laughed. Um. 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:04.399 I just bought one of those gallon jugs and I 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:09.360 was so mad that I didn't bring it today. No, 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:11.760 because I'm still in the in the box from Amazon. 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:13.560 I was like, wait a minute, that got delivered. I 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:16.520 haven't opened it from the box yet because It's mixed 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:18.360 in with some of the Valentine's Day gifts for the kids, 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:20.039 so I didn't want to open it because they were 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:22.800 still awake last night. Anyways, long story short, I got 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:25.920 one of those huge um it's like the Chloe Kardashian one, 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:29.200 the cheek. Are you supposed to drink a gallon a day? Yeah, 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:31.000 they say drink trying to drink a gallon of water 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:33.520 a day, but like spread out, so I thought it 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:36.280 was half your weight and it basically says like seven 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:40.759 am here, and it encourages you to drink throughout the day. Essentially, 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:44.360 I drink water throughout the day. I drink path. Yeah, 0:01:44.760 --> 0:01:47.600 half drinking that right now, thanks to you, because we're 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:51.080 all over the studio path. I just want to try 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:54.440 to drink more water in general. So if this jug helps, yeah, 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:56.560 I'll see where I'm at. You it comes a habit, 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:59.160 like just carrying around the water. I'll bring it tomorrow. 0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:03.160 You'll see, it'll stick. It's gonna be giant. Um. Well, 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:07.520 Today's National Irish Coffee Day. First ever any awards were 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:11.400 presented seventy four years ago today. Wow Nike was founded 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:17.160 today fifty nine years ago. Sunshine Little warmer Hies around seventy. 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:20.480 We're talking about coffee in the ceremony of coffee going 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:22.800 through ceremony right now where you already did just the 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:29.200 best oh the aroma taste. Oh Sarah, Sorry, I was 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:31.840 just getting so excited about my coffee ceremony. But you're 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:37.519 calling about coffee, right, I am, I'm calling about Tony 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:41.560 is the one that has hashimotor's disease, correct, I am okay? Hi. 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:45.520 So I've had hashimotives disease for sixteen years because I 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:49.560 have hypothyrotism and I had it after the my third 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:52.240 child being born. So it can happen till one in 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:55.160 five women and I believe to in ten men. So 0:02:55.240 --> 0:02:58.680 it's something that is very common, goes untreated, and a 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:00.639 lot of people don't know about it because as they 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:05.600 think that because you have flexibility issues, arthritis in your hands, 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:08.720 hair falling out, always being freezing, dry skin, dry hair, 0:03:08.960 --> 0:03:10.959 and just kind of moody up and down that oh 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:13.240 it's just going through women things and they always blame 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:16.280 it on that and it's not. So you may want 0:03:16.320 --> 0:03:19.000 to get in contact with a Mark Hyman. He is 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:23.079 a medical doctor who does everything about thyroid disease and 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:27.040 about inflammation in your gut because everything happens from your gut, 0:03:27.480 --> 0:03:29.520 and based on the foods that you take, it becomes 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:34.160 influent resistant, which is what coffee does for some people, 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:38.000 not for everybody, but it's one of the causes with gluten, 0:03:38.200 --> 0:03:44.080 white flour, sugar, and a lot of your high starched foods. Yeah, 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:46.640 and I only find that out because, like I said, 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:49.400 just sixteen years and I've been listening to different people 0:03:49.520 --> 0:03:52.360 and taking supplements in doing this and that, and you'll 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:54.560 find out on your blood results and how it can 0:03:54.640 --> 0:03:57.720 either escalate or you can get it under control. Coffee 0:03:57.720 --> 0:04:02.320 and anti inflammatory. Yeah, that it was the opposite. Now 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:05.000 they well, when you do research on it, it'll say that, oh, 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:07.520 it's good for you and it's got the but also 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:12.080 based on the type and how long you've had Hashimoto's, 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:15.880 it just reacts to people differently. Caffeine in general, when 0:04:15.880 --> 0:04:18.440 you have too much of it will cause the gut 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:22.479 to become inflamed, which then produces more insulent resistance. And 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:24.920 then that's how it's kind of like an uncircling, leaky 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:30.280 gut thing. And that's what I've been having, right, And 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:32.839 you can do it like a detox. So they'll talk 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:35.800 about elimination. So they'll eliminate certain foods from your diet 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:38.200 for like two weeks, and then you add them in back, 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:40.920 you know, one by one to see how your body reacts. 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:42.840 And that's how you figure out which ones are really 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:46.320 bad for you. But like when people put in coffee, 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:49.160 they'll put in cream. It's really bad. It's get they'll 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:56.320 put in sugar. Yeah, well that's helpful. Thank you so much. Unationally, 0:04:56.440 --> 0:05:00.000 look up Dr Mark Hyman's books and he has great 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:06.720 podcast and free so well, thank you very much. Take care. No, 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:10.880 probably as we're talking to Sarah, not to contradict, but 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:17.839 I'm just reading here that coffee. Here's that. Yeah, limit 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:20.599 the amount of coffee you consume. Drinking too much caffeine 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:29.400 can have a paradoxical effect, leaving your body lefthargic. Suggest 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:31.920 gradually reducing the amount of caffeine in your diet until 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:35.320 you find what works best for you. Yeah. Remember I 0:05:35.320 --> 0:05:37.560 went cold turkeys. I just cut out coffee completely. Now 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:39.880 I'm trying to do like a balance. I'm doing coffee 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:42.520 one day, Macha, and then I'm gonna start, Like we've 0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:48.960 noticed against honestly, I was going to ask out of 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:55.279 my ideal. Yeah, we all were talking to Kevin. I 0:05:55.360 --> 0:06:01.080 got that snappy off coffee. Um, yeah you are, and 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:03.640 you yelled at Sissy and we'll have yelling around here. 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:06.720 They're not yelling this show. We don't yell. We have 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:11.200 docile conversation. Yes we do. Now are you yelling at 0:06:11.240 --> 0:06:13.360 me again? And now you're yelling at me? We'll stop 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:16.960 the get back on the coffee every day so our 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:20.680 phone screen. Marianna actually tried this phone a diction is 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:23.640 a real deal. And if you don't feel you're an addict, 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:28.000 maybe you want to cut back. Here's the trick. Set 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:32.480 your phone to gray scale. It's an accessibility on most phones, 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:34.719 and it makes everything on the screen black and white. 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:38.360 Removing colors makes it less enticing and you're less likely 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:42.280 to get sucked into mindlessly scrolling interesting so it's less 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:48.920 appealing visually, and you'll automatically cut down on your And 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:50.400 it's a great check for kids to write. If you 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:54.120 feel like they're over using their phone. I think it 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:59.800 will work. Set your phone to gray skip Today's put 0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:07.200 it all day. Don't lose this moment searching for another one. Well. 0:07:07.320 --> 0:07:10.640 Vice President Kamala Harris is expected to travel to Monterey 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:14.000 Park today following the mess shooting that claimed eleven lives 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:17.800 at a lunar New Year celebration Saturday. According to her office, 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:21.120 she will arrive in l A late this afternoon then 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:25.720 meet with the victims families in Monterey Park. UM magnitude 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:30.000 four point to earthquake struck earlier this morning off the 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:32.640 coast of Malibu. Did you feel it? The earthquake was 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:37.200 initially reported on two a m. Shaking was reported in Malibu, 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:40.120 Santa Monica or Mossa Beach, Manhattan Beach particually right there 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:42.320 on the west side, but parts of Los Angeles and 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:45.400 South Bay and even the San Fernando Valley people felt 0:07:45.400 --> 0:07:48.200 it as well. Santa Ana winds are expected to sweep 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:51.680 through l A and Ventura Counting starting tonight. Authority said 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:55.880 that the winds could produce hazardous driving conditions as well 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:59.920 as down trees or tree lands, and possible power outage. 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:02.600 Is be safe and mindful of the wind. Gusts are 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:06.880 expected to peak tomorrow morning as well. And Justin Bieber 0:08:07.000 --> 0:08:10.200 finalized the sale of his music catalog to Hypnosis for 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:14.760 a reported two hundred million, Yeah, placing most of his 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:18.280 music under the ownership of the UK investment firm. The 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:21.160 firm now owns his stake in some of the biggest 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:26.240 hits in recent years, including Baby and Sorry on air 0:08:26.480 --> 0:08:30.520 with Ryan Seagrets. By the way, if you want to 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:33.439 reach out to one or two seven, I am about 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:36.080 to pay a bill here on the tents, paying bills tomorrow. 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:38.520 We're doing it all day on the tent, starting early 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:41.800 in the morning, go until the evening. I've got Liz 0:08:42.120 --> 0:08:46.120 at one or two seven. Liz, so you're telling us 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:51.000 your seven year old is being bullied at school. Yep. 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:57.319 So how did you find out? Um? Well, they had 0:08:57.320 --> 0:08:59.559 called me the first time. They had called me from 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:01.960 the school stated that there was an incident that occurred, 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:10.000 and um that there was an accidental push. Now okay, 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:12.240 the first time I thought, okay, maybe it was an accident, 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:16.080 you know. Okay, let's figure this out. Like my son Okay, 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:18.880 oh yeah, he's in the um. There's his office is 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:20.959 an ice pack. You know, he's ready to go back 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:24.240 to class or whatnot. Um, he took it like a champ. 0:09:25.040 --> 0:09:27.600 He hurt himself pretty bad. When I picked him up 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:31.880 from school. He stated that it was really hard for 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:34.480 him to be okay because he had to pretend like 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:36.480 it didn't hurt him because he didn't want this little 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:39.880 boy to laugh at him. Apparently this little boy would 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:42.840 be like very verbal with him, and um it started 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:44.719 verbally right like with the bully and like oh, you're 0:09:44.720 --> 0:09:47.719 a little fifty and you're short, like how could you're 0:09:47.720 --> 0:09:50.920 not tall? And you know things like that. Right, so 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:52.719 he thought, okay, if I cry, like, I'm going to 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:56.679 be made fun of again. M So, so what do 0:09:56.800 --> 0:09:59.080 you do as a parent in a situation like this? 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:03.080 Well with again with the first incident, you know, I 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:05.440 just kind of was like, well, this is hard, you know, 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:07.600 like what do I do? But then once I started 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:10.800 getting like more phone calls from the school, Um, you 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:13.800 know that there was another accidental incident, I thought to myself, 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:16.120 wait a second, like these are not accidents. Like the 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:19.960 things that are happening, we're just a little too aggressive 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:25.280 for them to be accidentful. So as me like, of 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:27.760 course I'm gonna you know, advocate from my child, I 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:30.240 started saying, you know what, like I don't think it's okay, 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:32.720 Like what what are the things that are being done? Like, 0:10:32.760 --> 0:10:35.080 what are the policies, what are your guys precautions? You know, 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:38.400 what is it that's gonna be done? Oh? Well, you know, 0:10:38.440 --> 0:10:40.320 since they both stated it was an accent, who said 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:42.640 it was an accident? Oh, your son and the other child, 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:44.600 And like, no, my son never said it was an accident. 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:47.560 Well that's what he said to us. And I'm like, okay, now, 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:51.320 well that's not what he told me. So a little 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:54.920 by a little, I started writing things down, and I 0:10:54.920 --> 0:10:58.160 have a notebook with every single incident that has occurred. 0:10:58.320 --> 0:11:05.160 And I've now it being way too many times where 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:10.080 I get called that my son was choked and scratched 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:14.560 in the neck, he was punched in the chest, he 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:16.679 was told that he was going to be killed him 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:23.360 and his friends by this same child. Um. And uh, 0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:27.120 this last incident, um, which was last week, he was 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:33.880 accidentally brushed by another student. And it's weird because two 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:37.439 on two occasions, UM, I had the teacher reach out 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:40.720 to me on message instead of picking up the phone 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:44.520 and telling me you know what happened, like moments after 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:48.320 the incident. Because these people know that if it's the 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:52.160 same kid, there's no longer an accident. It's no to me, 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:57.679 it's no longer an accident. Is doing anything about this? 0:11:57.840 --> 0:11:59.800 Or can you contact the parent of this other child 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:02.720 that's bullying your child at school? You want to know 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:05.560 what's going on right now. I have gone to the 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:07.480 school and I haven't had to sit down. I'm not 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:11.920 married with my son's father, um, we're separated. But I 0:12:11.960 --> 0:12:14.600 have had to sit down with my son's father, the principle, 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:20.360 the assistant, and the so called counselor UM where I 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:23.200 cry every single time I'm on the phone, or and 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:26.080 sit down with them and telling them like what what 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:27.839 is it that you guys are doing? Like I'm not 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:30.040 I'm not okay with the answers that you're giving me. 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:34.199 According to them, because of UM, I guess what the 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:38.080 hippo law, they're not able to disclose what precautions are taking. 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:43.079 But according to them again is they're taking every single 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:47.600 step that is needed in their protocol. So they do 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:50.679 UM where they notify the parents. This little boy has 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:53.120 only been suspended once and this is the time where 0:12:53.120 --> 0:12:55.400 he punched my child in the chest and my son 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:58.920 like literally cried because his chest was reading and he 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:03.199 couldn't breathe. So if it's that bad where my son's 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:05.240 not able to breathe. My sons like a little, tiny, 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:10.040 delicate thing like seven years old. Yeah, you know, I 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:13.640 just can't understand this. I mean, if there's if something 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:16.800 is happening again and again and again, and this is physical, 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:19.800 this is not just mental. This has become physical. How 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:24.520 they can't step in to keep them separate or do 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:28.000 something appropriate here, or that the parents aren't in that 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:31.040 meeting with you so it all can be addressed, doesn't 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:33.720 make any sense. Did No, it doesn't make sense to 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:37.960 me either that they can't Yeah, that they cannot have 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:39.760 a sit down with me and the parents because it's 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:44.160 against the law. Um, against the law for two parents 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:45.960 to sitt in a meeting together about a kid being 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:51.800 It's against the law. So strangely, I've gone to the 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:55.000 police department where I have placed two police reports. The 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:58.520 first one was like a police report on every single 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:02.960 incident that occurred or to this last one. And um, 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:05.920 so I did another report the other day when they 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:09.240 stated that the little boy accidentally brushed my child when 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:13.800 my child stated he kicked him in the head. Um, 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:16.319 there's got to be something that can be done here. 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:19.720 It doesn't make sense. There's got to be I'm gonna 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:23.120 let me get your phone number. Don't know what to do. Listen, 0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:25.600 let me get your phone number. Here, hang on the line, 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:31.720 because I we someone listening to this must have a 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:36.080 way it can be made right. This is why I 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:38.800 came to you, guys, because I thought to myself, what 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:41.320 other way to get to somebody like I want this 0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:43.840 to be out there and the like on the radio 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.760 because it doesn't get talked about. You hear you hear 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:49.560 the aftermath of things with the six year old shooting 0:14:49.560 --> 0:14:51.280 a teacher with the six year old, you know, killing 0:14:51.320 --> 0:14:54.200 another student, or you don't hear about the steps I have. 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:58.440 Let's say your info. I have something. We I have. 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:01.480 We have people that we can get this word out 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:03.520 for you even more and also get the help that 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:06.080 you need the finances. I don't have to find you 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:08.880 to get a lawyer. We're going to help you right here, 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:12.000 right now. I promise you that hold on, Liz one second. 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:13.960 I need to get all your inspiration. I'm gonna put 0:15:14.520 --> 0:15:17.280 mckaylon in the back room and they're gonna get your information. 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:20.360 And I appreciate your trust in calling us to talk 0:15:20.360 --> 0:15:23.160 about this. No, thank you, for hearing me out. I 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:25.000 just want to I just want families to be able 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:27.240 to hear this and their kids to this in and 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:29.840 know that it's not okay to bully other children. And 0:15:30.320 --> 0:15:31.880 you know, like we don't hear it in the morning 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:33.920 when we're taking our kids to school. I would love 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:36.720 to hear about things like this because my kids would 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:39.080 be able to hear it and no, like, no, it's 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:43.960 not okay to bully kids. Doesn't matter what age you are. 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:47.200 Kind it's wrong and to get away with it, and 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:49.440 to get away with it, it's wrong, all right, Liz 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:51.920 old On one second, thank you for calling us. I 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:54.760 gotta get her information. Let's get her connected to ever 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:56.560 can help her. And by the way, if you're listening 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:59.720 to this five to one or two seven at kids FM, 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:02.760 but that just doesn't make it, it doesn't make I 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:05.040 don't know enough, but that doesn't make sense at all. 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:07.000 I mean, if I were in her shoes now on 0:16:07.160 --> 0:16:11.240 those answers would not fly. Not fly. Um, Liz, we're 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:13.240 getting a lot of calls for you about this right 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:15.520 now here this morning on kids FM, and just to 0:16:15.520 --> 0:16:17.720 bring people to beat. Liz called us because she said, look, 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:21.040 um my seven year old is constantly bullied at school 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:25.520 and net Net. I've approached the school to do something 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:29.120 and they're not doing something about it. And you've been 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:33.200 told to even think of transferring schools while your kids 0:16:33.200 --> 0:16:36.280 the one being bullied, and they won't. They won't do 0:16:36.320 --> 0:16:38.520 anything for for you. With the other parents, it's just 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:42.120 become this frustrating cycle. And by the way, Liz also 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:45.600 said she would love for hear us we in the 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:48.720 morning talking about how bullying is so wrong, and a 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.800 lot of kids going to school they're having it happened 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:54.000 to them as they're listening to this, and your son 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.760 is going through And I mean, I just feel for 0:16:56.800 --> 0:17:01.200 you and your frustration. But a lot of bull are 0:17:01.720 --> 0:17:04.359 struck by what you said minutes ago. And I'm gonna 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:05.880 bring in Liz. You're gonna stay on the phone. You'll 0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:09.560 be able to hear this. Gladys is in Los Angeles. Gladys, 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:12.560 you say you have advice for Liz. Please you're on 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:17.280 with all of us. Go ahead, Gladys, Hi, good morning everybody. Uh. 0:17:17.320 --> 0:17:21.000 First of all, I like to express uh sympathy. I 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:25.280 understand as a parent as well whose child was also 0:17:25.320 --> 0:17:30.159 bullied some years ago. Um I worked for the district. UM, 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:35.840 I am a mandated reporter. UM, and we employees are 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:39.919 supposed to report, whether it's an adult to a child, 0:17:40.119 --> 0:17:43.480 whether it's a child to a child, if any form 0:17:43.560 --> 0:17:46.560 of abuse, Because what your child is going through is abuse, 0:17:47.400 --> 0:17:50.439 it doesn't it doesn't matter if it's it's totally abuse, 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:53.800 it's harassment. It's not okay. And just because he's a 0:17:53.840 --> 0:17:56.879 minor does not make it okay. So for things like 0:17:56.960 --> 0:18:00.600 that in uh, how can I say, like they're so 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:04.560 I worked, you know, on the yard, and I'm supposed 0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:07.480 to report anything that I see that I feel is 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:10.720 inappropriate as a mandated reporter. We all do that, all, 0:18:10.760 --> 0:18:13.160 just your employees. That's we took a training for that, 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:16.720 you know, so we we're supposed to report it within 0:18:16.760 --> 0:18:19.680 a certain amount of time. UM. If there's someone that 0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:23.280 you know that you have that you can confide in 0:18:23.440 --> 0:18:27.560 at your son's school, I would advise you to speak 0:18:27.600 --> 0:18:31.840 to that person to just like observe any future instance. 0:18:31.920 --> 0:18:33.320 I mean hope, I mean I know your son that 0:18:33.480 --> 0:18:35.080 you know you you don't want your kid to be 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:37.800 you know, harassed or bullied or abused in any form 0:18:37.840 --> 0:18:40.919 of way. But if there's someone there that you know 0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:44.600 that you can confide in, um, talk to that person 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:47.399 and just have them observe your kids. But let me 0:18:47.400 --> 0:18:49.360 ask you some Liz you can, Liz, you can chime 0:18:49.400 --> 0:18:51.199 in on this with better detail. But Gladys, she's been 0:18:51.200 --> 0:18:53.240 told by the school they can't do anything about it. 0:18:54.640 --> 0:18:56.640 You know. The thing is is that we're not they're 0:18:56.680 --> 0:18:59.600 not allowed. It is true, we're not we're not allowed 0:18:59.600 --> 0:19:01.960 to have any sit down with the you know, with 0:19:02.119 --> 0:19:06.439 your with the Pullice parents weren't because of confrontational issues, 0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:09.600 and it's just it's not it's against school policy. It 0:19:09.720 --> 0:19:13.760 is also against school policy for uh for us to 0:19:13.800 --> 0:19:17.240 be disclosed what kind of disciptionary actions are being taken 0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:20.920 for the child who's abusing or harassing you know, your 0:19:20.960 --> 0:19:24.840 son or your daughter. UM. So that's why you know, 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:27.880 it's it's great that you're actually documenting stuff because that's 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:29.600 going to help you in your case should you have 0:19:29.640 --> 0:19:33.720 to build a case. UM. So I think I think 0:19:33.760 --> 0:19:37.000 that that's you keep doing that, But I think what 0:19:37.320 --> 0:19:40.399 what could help potentially is that if someone reports that 0:19:40.520 --> 0:19:44.800 about that, that person is ink they're gonna get uh 0:19:44.920 --> 0:19:49.560 DCPs involved, like the Chop Projective Services uh, and someone 0:19:49.720 --> 0:19:54.720 will contact the child's parents anonymously. They will not say 0:19:54.800 --> 0:19:57.520 who said, you know, who made the report because it's 0:19:57.680 --> 0:20:00.760 for the protection of the employee, UM, So they don't 0:20:00.760 --> 0:20:04.399 need to worry about that. UM. Even if who said it, 0:20:04.960 --> 0:20:08.240 that won't be disclosed because of confidentiality and you know, 0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:12.639 to to protect the safety of the employees. So I 0:20:12.680 --> 0:20:14.960 think that's probably the best way to go if nothing 0:20:15.080 --> 0:20:18.440 is being done, like somebody has to make that or 0:20:18.760 --> 0:20:21.760 think that at that school, I don't know anybody. Like 0:20:22.240 --> 0:20:24.199 my older son used to go to that school and 0:20:24.280 --> 0:20:27.359 he was fine, But I don't know anybody at that 0:20:27.400 --> 0:20:29.200 school to be able to watch over my child or 0:20:29.240 --> 0:20:30.800 to be able to say, hey, you know, I used 0:20:30.840 --> 0:20:32.440 to have the cuxtodian that used to be a friend 0:20:32.440 --> 0:20:33.720 of mine that I used to work with a long 0:20:33.760 --> 0:20:37.199 time ago, but he no longer works there, So I 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:39.239 don't have anybody to be like, Okay, you know what 0:20:39.280 --> 0:20:41.000 I got. I got you like, I'll watch your son, 0:20:41.040 --> 0:20:42.640 I'll keep an eye on him, you know, and I'll 0:20:42.680 --> 0:20:44.679 let you know what happens or what's going on, you know. 0:20:45.320 --> 0:20:49.360 So I don't have that. You know, there are educational 0:20:49.440 --> 0:20:51.760 attorneys that can help that we can help. I know 0:20:51.840 --> 0:20:53.600 that the resources are an issue, but I think we 0:20:53.600 --> 0:20:55.440 can probably figure out a way to help you out here. 0:20:55.880 --> 0:20:58.400 Hold on one second, Liz Gladys, thank you very much 0:20:58.440 --> 0:21:01.560 for calling. We're getting a lot of reaction here, Liz, 0:21:01.600 --> 0:21:04.240 I just want to take some more reaction here. This 0:21:04.320 --> 0:21:07.280 is Alyssa, who's on in Lakewood a LISTA. You're on 0:21:07.320 --> 0:21:10.240 with Liz and myself Sisten Antania, and you're a teacher, 0:21:10.400 --> 0:21:12.760 and you want to talk about what's happening in this situation. 0:21:12.800 --> 0:21:17.400 Go ahead. Yeah, I don't know the whole situation or anything, 0:21:17.480 --> 0:21:21.120 but I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Um. 0:21:21.480 --> 0:21:26.880 I also just I'm not sure and the mom probably 0:21:26.880 --> 0:21:31.600 doesn't know that she does about this because the mom 0:21:31.680 --> 0:21:33.520 well okay, the mom knows, but you, I mean you 0:21:33.600 --> 0:21:36.600 as the mom, probably don't know for sure this information. 0:21:36.640 --> 0:21:39.960 But I'm wondering if this child is special needs and 0:21:40.000 --> 0:21:42.920 if they have an on which is he's not. He 0:21:43.000 --> 0:21:46.560 doesn't have an individual I know he's an honor student. 0:21:47.280 --> 0:21:54.120 He's Oh, it's just well, I I'm wondering if there's 0:21:54.160 --> 0:21:57.159 some sort of plan they can't tell you about, because um, 0:21:57.240 --> 0:21:59.960 I've had friends that are teachers that are in similar situation, 0:22:00.000 --> 0:22:01.560 and that I'm not defending the teacher. I have no 0:22:01.680 --> 0:22:04.720 idea I am. I'm not saying this is this is 0:22:04.840 --> 0:22:08.160 right at all because it's terrible. But I have friends 0:22:08.200 --> 0:22:10.600 that have been teachers who have had volatile students in 0:22:10.640 --> 0:22:17.480 their classroom and it has taken parents like the whole 0:22:17.520 --> 0:22:20.679 class basically calling and demanding to be removed from that 0:22:20.720 --> 0:22:23.200 classroom and such crazy. How much has to be done 0:22:23.240 --> 0:22:26.160 to get to get the right thing to happen here? Um, 0:22:26.240 --> 0:22:29.919 real quickly, I'm gonna put you on with Deshanta. She 0:22:30.000 --> 0:22:32.560 may have a solution near Deshanta. Go ahead, you say 0:22:32.600 --> 0:22:34.720 that Liz needs to go to a board meeting because 0:22:34.720 --> 0:22:38.200 the school really isn't going to do anything about it. No, yeah, 0:22:38.359 --> 0:22:40.639