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Speaker 1: I don't care if you have a drinking problem, get

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Speaker 1: out of my wedding.

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Speaker 2: I thought weddings are where drinking problems flourish.

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Speaker 1: Uh, that is typically I think.

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Speaker 2: I think I've actually heard that weddings are a safe

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Speaker 2: space for you to get as drunk.

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Speaker 3: Is it?

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Speaker 2: Get off your rocker, celebrate love with smooching a bottle

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Speaker 2: of whiskey.

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Speaker 1: I have.

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Speaker 3: I have a have a semi wedding story that I

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Speaker 3: will save all all you that stick around to the end,

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Speaker 3: all of you real ones.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 3: So I twenty five female and getting married, congrats, congrats op.

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Speaker 3: My fiance twenty five male, and I have decided on

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Speaker 3: dry weddings since we don't drink and see no point

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Speaker 3: in spending money for alcohol.

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Speaker 1: Makes sense, makes sense.

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Speaker 2: There is an expectation, I think from some folk of

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Speaker 2: alcohol at weddings.

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Speaker 3: Doesn't mean you have to indulge them, though yes it does.

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Speaker 3: You are filthy, disgusting human being.

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Speaker 1: How hyare you? You think so much better than everyone else?

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Speaker 1: We don't drink.

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Speaker 3: No. Now, we were debating about getting a cash bar,

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Speaker 3: but then decided to do nok alcohol at all. Oh,

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Speaker 3: so a cash bar where people have to pay people

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Speaker 3: can if they want to.

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Speaker 1: But I think that would be worse. Really. I think

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Speaker 1: I think having a cash bar where people have to pay.

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Speaker 3: Like just the feeling of you go up and you're

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Speaker 3: like hey, and he's like, that'll be thirty dollars.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that do suck. You're right, I would be.

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Speaker 1: I would. I would punch somebody for sure. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: would be like, what the hell?

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Speaker 3: There will be a wide range of other drinks, not

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Speaker 3: just juice and soda provided. I love how they're like,

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Speaker 3: we'll have more than juice and so.

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Speaker 1: Up, like what else? What else? Hot cho Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Name it? I would love hot chocolate. That'd be great.

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Speaker 2: You better spend it, like an equal amount then on

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Speaker 2: a crazy drinks.

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Speaker 1: Like Peruvian starfruit.

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Speaker 2: Juice or like guava yerba mate very fermented kobucha.

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Speaker 1: Now we're talking.

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Speaker 3: We informed guests via invitations with something the eal, with

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Speaker 3: something along the lines of you don't have to be

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Speaker 3: worried about choosing a driver or paying a taxi since

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Speaker 3: everyone will be able to drive.

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Speaker 1: Kind of funny. It's funny.

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Speaker 3: So a friend, twenty six male called me and asked

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Speaker 3: if I was joking about doing the dry wedding.

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me.

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Speaker 2: Uh, I'm a frat star bro and I need that

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Speaker 2: alcohol to get my frat star energy to make sure

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Speaker 2: this party is moving.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I said I wasn't joking. He has two more

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Speaker 3: times and I still said I ain't joking. Then he

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Speaker 3: asked what was wrong with me? And how is he

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Speaker 3: supposed to have fun without any drinks? And how is

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Speaker 3: he supposed to function that night?

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Speaker 1: Yo?

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you've got a problem, mate? Am I

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Speaker 2: supposed to function that night?

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Speaker 3: And he added that it was not okay to choose

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Speaker 3: a dry wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yo. They are wedding.

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Speaker 2: They could do whatever they want bad and if it

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Speaker 2: really means so much for you, get one of those

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Speaker 2: you know, you know those tiny bottles called flask, No,

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Speaker 2: not the flask like people call him.

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Speaker 1: They call him flas nipples. I've recently learned that some

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Speaker 1: people call them that. Yeah. I was like, what, yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Know, bring some nipples would be then I'm not touch

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Speaker 2: those alas.

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Speaker 3: Oh my, now this is where I might have been

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Speaker 3: the a hole. I told him that I was not

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Speaker 3: obligated to provide any drinks to him just because he's

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Speaker 3: not able to have fun without it, and that if

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Speaker 3: he needed drinks so badly and cannot function without it

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Speaker 3: for even one night with people. He knew that he

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Speaker 3: might have a drinking problem and should consider.

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Speaker 1: To treat it.

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Speaker 2: Yo, let's catch twenty two kind of setup right there.

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Speaker 2: It's like, hey, either you're you have a drinking problem

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Speaker 2: or suck it up.

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Speaker 3: But ba ba shots have been fired in both directions,

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Speaker 3: ladies and gentlemen. He flipped out on me, and I

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Speaker 3: took his invitation back until he apologized because he used

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Speaker 3: many slurs on me.

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Speaker 1: Geez, what is this friend what is this friendship? Friendship? Dude?

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, slurs dude. Our friends are divided about

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Speaker 3: me being the a whole. Some say I was right

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Speaker 3: and others say I was not right. So redditch am

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Speaker 3: I the ahle?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: By my opinion, I want to hear what you guys

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Speaker 2: think too, But like my opinion is like opia is

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Speaker 2: definitely in the right. Right Like if if if this guy, well,

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Speaker 2: I guess it depends how he was saying it. Maybe

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Speaker 2: it was like but what if he was like what

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Speaker 2: if he was like, are you serious? It's not gonna

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Speaker 2: be drink? That's crazy? Like I can't I would be

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Speaker 2: able to function, right, It's like in the delivery a

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Speaker 2: little bit like, dude, this is not okay, like I

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Speaker 2: need it. Then then you're like, well, you probably have

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Speaker 2: a drinking problem, you know, And then I think it's fine.

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Speaker 2: So I would say it depends on how the guy delivered.

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Speaker 2: The friend delivered what he's saying. But uh, if we

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Speaker 2: were already to take it at face value, based like

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Speaker 2: on the actual words he's saying, he's an asshole for

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Speaker 2: sure because it's it's their wedding, so they can do it. Op,

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Speaker 2: he gets to control whatever they want to do. And

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Speaker 2: it probably sounds like it's a drinking problem. Like if

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Speaker 2: you can't function nobody like like Op, He's right, you

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Speaker 2: can't function one thing without alcohol, then you have a problem.

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Speaker 2: So God props to Ope for pointing out a the

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Speaker 2: problem so the friend could possibly find the solution.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that Op should be ashamed and should

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Speaker 3: create a river of boosts.

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Speaker 1: Those are my thoughts.

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Speaker 2: John always coming with the clap backs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I've never been to a wedding with

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Speaker 1: a booze and I don't plan to.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but like I do, I do understand just because

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Speaker 2: there's a expectation people might be like, oh, but it's

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Speaker 2: really not.

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Speaker 1: A big deal, just wild when you think about like

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Speaker 1: what if they just had like weed.

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Speaker 2: The are they just had a story with that where

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Speaker 2: they had really I think we were a story where

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Speaker 2: they had weed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be like interest I.

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Speaker 3: Think of a bachelotte, but not like out in the

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Speaker 3: during the ceremony, like because like it's like, oh, all

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Speaker 3: the glasses and like the wines that imagine there's just

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Speaker 3: a freaking joint on every single plate.

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Speaker 2: I saw a Reddit picture where it was like at

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Speaker 2: the party I'm at, they have a bowl of like

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Speaker 2: loose joints.

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Speaker 1: Do you see that?

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Speaker 2: It was just like like on each table there's like

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Speaker 2: loose joints for you to pick up.

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 2: But like also if you're having if you have like

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Speaker 2: an alcohol party and a weed party would be like

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Speaker 2: totally different things. That's true, right, Like I wonder what

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Speaker 2: the vibe of the like the.

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Speaker 3: Weed leftovers and and like honestly probably better like probably dancing,

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Speaker 3: more sitting sitting, and probably less like potential rama, you

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Speaker 3: know know, like drunk uncles or you.

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Speaker 2: Might have someone getting like too high and like you

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Speaker 2: have a little yeah you throw up.

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Speaker 1: Probably get greened out. Yeah, throw up.

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Speaker 2: You can't throw we right, I've never thrown up, because

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Speaker 2: I guess maybe you could, like, but I've had there's

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Speaker 2: like there's a thing called like getting greened out or

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Speaker 2: you like throw up and you're like too high.

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Speaker 1: Interesting that's ever happened to me.

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Speaker 2: But all right, well we're we're you know, we have

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Speaker 2: we have a we have a middle ground for op

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Speaker 2: to cross.

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Speaker 1: If you're not gonna have booze, give everyone weed. Correct,

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Speaker 1: that's it. Final,