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Speaker 1: One O three to five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one

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Speaker 1: hit music station, show this is what's trending. The Dodgers

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Speaker 1: beat the Yankees, They've beat our Yankees. Are Yankees Man

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Speaker 1: Paulleen has got her Yankees head on to day. I'm

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Speaker 1: surprised no one's worn a Dodgers hat. I'm surprised I

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Speaker 1: haven't warn a Dodgers hat.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I'd wear it.

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Speaker 1: Oh. I mean Kylen's meme, they're the ones she found

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Speaker 1: encapsulates it best. It's the series of the people who've

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Speaker 1: ever been to LA and New York and bought I had.

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Speaker 2: That's what this is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like most people own either a Dodgers

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Speaker 3: You know it.

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Speaker 1: You're right. I couldn't wear the Dodgers have. But they're

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Speaker 1: gonna win tonight. It looks like Game four Yankee Stadium.

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Speaker 1: They're up three to nothing in the Fall Classic, and

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Speaker 1: if you are interested, the Boston Red Sox were down

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Speaker 1: three to nothing to the Yankees. Incidentally won four in

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Speaker 1: a row to win the two thousand and four American

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Speaker 1: League Championship Series and advanced to the World Series. No

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Speaker 1: team has ever come back though from three to nothing

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Speaker 1: in the World Series itself. I could see him winning

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Speaker 1: tonight and then they lose in La or I guess

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Speaker 1: it's three.

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Speaker 2: Straight here, yeah, three in New York. Yeah yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna lose. They're not gonna win.

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Speaker 1: At least win one. Please, you never know. And it

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Speaker 1: was all because ice cube. That ice Cube intro was

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Speaker 1: so cold, cold and hard and other things too.

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Speaker 2: It was really good. It was yeah, it was well. No,

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Speaker 2: Kiki was.

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Speaker 1: Sick, but literally More than sixty percent of people in

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Speaker 1: gen Z specifically say that their mental health has either

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Speaker 1: been slightly, moderately or significantly negatively impacted by the upcoming election.

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Speaker 1: Forty six percent reported feelings of anxiety, thirty seven felt stress,

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Speaker 1: thirty one experienced feelings of fear.

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Speaker 2: Suffer, and silence. Like the rest of us, I don't

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Speaker 2: feel that you're not first. Why are you right?

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Speaker 1: I don't think there's any generation that's going, Man, this

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Speaker 1: is gonna be great pleasure.

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Speaker 2: Whatever happens, it's gonna be great. Like it's gonna be

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Speaker 2: so good. We discovering things that have been around forever.

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Speaker 1: I think it's going to be a catastrophe, not maybe

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Speaker 1: in the long term, but in the short term. It's

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Speaker 1: going to be a catastrophe no matter who wins, because

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be one. It's gonna be a bunch of

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Speaker 1: people saying they're leaving the country. If one person win,

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Speaker 1: another person say any that that person didn't lose. God,

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Speaker 1: who knows, honestly, who knows? But I can't wait. Not

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Speaker 1: US airlines are not required. Yeah go vote US. Airlines

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Speaker 1: are now required to refund passengers automatically if their flight

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Speaker 1: is significantly to later canceled. The Department of Transportation says

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Speaker 1: the final federal rule requiring that the airlines do allow

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Speaker 1: refunds not vouchers, went into effect on Monday. Passengers deserve

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Speaker 1: to get their money back when an airline owes them,

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Speaker 1: without headaches or haggling. The rule says that airlines must

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Speaker 1: refund passengers affected by significantly changed flights within seven business

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Speaker 1: days if they bought a ticket on a credit card,

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Speaker 1: and within twenty calendar days if they use another form

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Speaker 1: of payment. The move has faced pushback, of course, from

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Speaker 1: the airline industry, and is being implemented only a month

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Speaker 1: before the start of it is likely to be a

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Speaker 1: huge holiday travel season. Oh, they'll take your money real fast.

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Speaker 1: Oh yea like a lot of places. Oh, one click

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Speaker 1: take your money, no problem, one click sign up, and

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Speaker 1: then you try and get your money back. And I think,

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Speaker 1: like the insurance companies and a bunch of other industries,

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Speaker 1: I think they're just hoping that you'll give up. It's

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Speaker 1: they're just hoping. There's just too many steps, and they're

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Speaker 1: hoping at some point that you'll just say, you know what,

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Speaker 1: I don't whatever, I don't care, and then not take it. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no no. If you're denying me my money, then I

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Speaker 1: am rightfully owed. I will I will fight. I will fight.

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Speaker 1: I will because I don't know. It's principle, right, like

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Speaker 1: well you didn't do this, oh you did well, you

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Speaker 1: Oh but you did that, but you didn't do this.

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Speaker 2: And that should be against the law. I agree, pay

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Speaker 2: me to day have money. Y'all make enough off of me.

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Speaker 1: I no, no, So I just keep calling them and

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Speaker 1: I feel bad because the people who answered the phone,

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Speaker 2: But but sometimes it's like are you even listening? Like

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Speaker 1: Did you understand what you're being asked to say to

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Speaker 1: doesn't make sense? Right, Like like I know you're reading

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Speaker 1: but like, you wouldn't put up with this, right I did?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you actually know this is wrong as a

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Speaker 1: And it was just a lot of silence, kind of

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Speaker 1: they're all being the calls are being recorded in our

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Speaker 1: daily food news TGI Fridays, it's melting away and if

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Speaker 1: you like TGI Fridays, you need to go. You need

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Speaker 1: to go support your local TGI Fridays. Go vote and

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Speaker 1: then go to TGI Fridays because more TGI Friday's locations

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Speaker 1: are shutting down. The chain abruptly closed almost fifty restaurants

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Speaker 1: over the past week as they head for bankruptcy. There

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Speaker 1: are only one hundred and sixty four left as of Monday.

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Speaker 1: Last week, there were two hundre than thirteen. At the

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Speaker 1: beginning of twenty twenty four, there were two hundred and seventy.

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Speaker 1: So if you love TGI Fridays, then you need to go. Now.

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Speaker 4: Are all these restaurants just doing this now because they

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Speaker 4: saw how we say red lobster?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: You know, because now it's starting to feel like, oh,

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Speaker 4: let's just put out they were found of a bankruptcy

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Speaker 4: and then rally all the.

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Speaker 2: Ten everybody in Yeah, because I was just out of TGI.

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Speaker 2: You know, I have no problem with teach at Friday's,

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Speaker 2: But what are they like? Okay?

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Speaker 1: You know, Chili's is known for the baby back ribs

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Speaker 1: and the Triple Dipper and the margaritas and the margaritas

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Speaker 1: and the chips, and Chili's has done a nice job

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Speaker 2: What is TGI Fridays like? What am I going?

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Speaker 1: I know what I'm getting when I go there, but

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Speaker 2: Spinish Dip is that what their thing? Is Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they used to have everything with Jack Daniels, Jack Danils,

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Speaker 2: You need to lay off the dairy. You're right, Friday.

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Speaker 5: Said, like these I used to go to well, my

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Speaker 5: like the bartender competitions because they were all that flair

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Speaker 5: and they flip all the stuff like the.

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Speaker 2: Pretzel bites, beard cheese. Their buffaloings look good like saucy wet.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Well there you go, go get you some saucy wet today.

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Speaker 2: M dollar happy hour. Yes, Oh why are you going

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Speaker 1: You better find one and before it closes like tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: And the Florida woman says an uber each driver spit

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Speaker 1: in her face and stole her fall yard decor after

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Speaker 1: So an uber each driver went to this home shortly

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Speaker 1: saw her holding a ten dollars happy fall y'all sign.

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Speaker 1: When the victim grabbed the sign, she said. The pair

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Speaker 1: She said she was missing four decorative plaster pumpkins as well,

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Speaker 1: each worth seventy five dollars. Seventy five dollars pumpkins in

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Speaker 1: She took the happy fall y'all sign and a decorative

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Speaker 1: She was charged with burglary and assault and a grand

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Speaker 1: You can't steal people's yard decorations for the holidays. The

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Speaker 1: ninety days or more beyond the holiday, then I say

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Speaker 1: you can steal it. I'm giving you permission. Like if

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't want to touch a pumpkin in February. Well, these

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Speaker 1: So if you've got your if you've got your happy

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Speaker 1: and we're not and it's going away and I don't

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Speaker 1: when it's fall y'all, you know what I mean? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I that drives me crazy. Or like Kiki here who

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Speaker 1: plug it in like it wasn't there in July, which.

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Speaker 2: It was, Yes, you gotta plug it in.

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Speaker 1: Did you even like cover it up or did you

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Speaker 1: literally just leave a Christmas tree as it could?

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Speaker 4: Because I decorated it to match my living room, so

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Speaker 2: Long, it just blends in.

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Speaker 1: I told you my mom has a rich friend and

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Speaker 1: she has a closet for the tree in the living room,

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Speaker 1: and so like literally she when it's Christmas. She opens

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Speaker 1: that closet. All that's in it, it was designed for

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Speaker 1: a Christmas tree. She pulls the Christmas tree out into

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Speaker 1: the corner like you know, five feet booms. It's Christmas.

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Speaker 1: It plug it in. It's fully decorated. And then when

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Speaker 1: it's like you know, I don't know, January first opens

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Speaker 1: It is no longer Christmas problem solved. I love that

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Speaker 1: you've got storage, you've got utility, you've got convenience, you've

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Speaker 2: That's what happens when you're rich. You can have stuff

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Speaker 2: like that happens.

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Speaker 1: Me, on the other hand, I got to go down

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Speaker 1: to the cave where the tree is and the parking garage.

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Speaker 1: I gotta wheel that thing and pull it up, and

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Speaker 1: then I gotta you know, refluff it because you know

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Speaker 1: it's got like all bent decks faith so it's all

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Speaker 1: bent down. So you got to like make it look

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Speaker 1: not like not like the Peanuts Christmas tree. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's then it may it look for They got to

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Speaker 1: decorate it in the whole thing, and then yes, it's

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Speaker 1: a it's a whole thing. But that's because I don't

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Speaker 1: have a rich person closet. It's a National cat Day

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Speaker 2: Show is on. It's stay or Go all right, Kelly

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Speaker 2: is here? Hi, Kelly, Good.

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Speaker 1: Morning, Good morning Kelly. What's going on in your life,

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Speaker 7: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 7: So, my husband and I have been married for just

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Speaker 7: Things are actually going really well. You know, I love

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Speaker 6: Hmm.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is where you should turn. Anytime you have

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Speaker 7: Well, so he won't get a joint bank account, and

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Speaker 1: I mean, so you split the bills, I assume where

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Speaker 2: Why is that so important to you?

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Speaker 1: Because I suppose if things are working and you guys

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Speaker 7: I mean, I just want a joint account. You know,

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Speaker 2: So now, Kelly, I don't mean to be critical of you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, is there any reason that would preclude him

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Speaker 7: Fact that he makes more. No, Honestly, I think it's

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm comfortable with. Do you leave him? Or

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Speaker 7: And that's kind of what I'm calling you guys. I

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Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know if that's.

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Speaker 1: Uh, we get to make out. Oh that's wow? Oh good? Okay,

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Speaker 2: All right? Eight three five is our number. You can

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Speaker 7: Well, I mean, I obviously don't want to leave, but

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Speaker 1: So all the money that you guys make together, all

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Speaker 7: I personally think that we should have a joint account

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Speaker 2: So I would love your advice.

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Speaker 7: I'd love to hear what your audience has to say.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll keep the radio on that I heard

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you for calling. I don't know, Kiki.

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Speaker 4: Yes, especially if we have a baby and I'm going

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But I think if we both agree on what

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Speaker 4: I think it's okay for him to have a separate account,

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Speaker 2: Why do you think I don't have a joint account. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Hobby is a hobby more of like a he's more

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Speaker 3: Yes and no, Because for us, what we're doing is

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Speaker 2: I can see things I want to, which I think

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Speaker 3: I'm married to you, But I just don't we don't

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Speaker 2: Future that you can't predict for.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's for our situation.

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Speaker 5: It works because I pay majority of the bills, So

437
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Speaker 5: it's just like and she saves her money, you know

438
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Speaker 5: what I'm saying, So she we use her money for

439
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Speaker 5: whatever vacations and this and that and whatever the kids

440
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Speaker 5: need and stuff and groceries. So I mean it works

441
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Speaker 5: out because, like I said, I would be in Pauline's

442
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Speaker 5: both too.

443
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Speaker 2: Like I am a spender, So I think Jess wouldn't

444
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Speaker 2: trust me if.

445
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Speaker 5: We had a joint account because then her money.

446
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Speaker 2: Would be disa because I would be spending it.

447
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Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody texted, if you're legally married, the money is

448
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Speaker 1: now fifty to fifty years to be careful with that.

449
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Speaker 1: That's not entirely true. People think that that's not entirely true.

450
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Speaker 1: If I come into a marriage with a whole bunch

451
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Speaker 1: of money or family money, or something that doesn't automatically

452
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Speaker 1: become half yours. What becomes half yours is what happens

453
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Speaker 1: once we get married, what we earn together that becomes

454
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Speaker 1: half yours. But just so, this dude may have a

455
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Speaker 1: million dollars in the bank and he doesn't want her

456
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Speaker 1: to know that, which, by the way, I don't know

457
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Speaker 1: why they're married if they're keeping things like that from

458
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Speaker 1: each other.

459
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Speaker 2: Yes, but you know it.

460
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Speaker 1: I know people who would say, you have X amounts saved, Great,

461
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Speaker 1: we can now spend this on a house. We can

462
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Speaker 1: now do this, we can now do that, And my

463
00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:23,560
Speaker 1: comfort level might be no, we can't see there you go.

464
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Speaker 1: And so maybe he knows that about her, and maybe

465
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Speaker 1: he loves her and he wants to be with her

466
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Speaker 1: obviously and they got married whatever, But maybe they have

467
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Speaker 1: vastly different ideas of what a nest egg is and

468
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Speaker 1: what security looks like. And there kind of can be

469
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Speaker 1: a right answer, I guess, because some people will just

470
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Speaker 1: spend everything they've got, and that's fine, but are you

471
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Speaker 1: really thinking about what happens when everything crumbles? And I

472
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Speaker 1: don't know that people necessarily want to look at it

473
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Speaker 1: that way.

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Speaker 2: That's why you gotta lie a little bit. Okay, just

475
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Speaker 2: a little bit.

476
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Speaker 4: It's not hurt anybody, you know, Hey, babe, let me

477
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Speaker 4: put this is what I'm going to put into our

478
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Speaker 4: joint account, and what I got on the side.

479
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Speaker 2: It's just between me and the lord.

480
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Speaker 4: Nobody else needs to know, you know, like even if

481
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Speaker 4: I win at the lot, like if I went at

482
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Speaker 4: the casino, you never let you never tell everything.

483
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Speaker 1: But like if we are commingling funds into one account

484
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Speaker 1: and you know how much I make, then you're gonna

485
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Speaker 1: know how much isn't there and you're gonna be what

486
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Speaker 1: happened to the other you know, several thousand dollars?

487
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Speaker 2: Where's that? You know that? I don't know?

488
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Speaker 5: That's why, like he said, like something that's not You

489
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Speaker 5: don't just have a joint account where you could see

490
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Speaker 5: each other stuff. You have an account where So I

491
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Speaker 5: was like, all right, I'm gonna put one thousand dollars

492
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Speaker 5: a month into there.

493
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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't worry about the other about three grand that

494
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Speaker 2: I got. Then I'm making it on the side over here.

495
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Speaker 2: Oh you're making money like that?

496
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Speaker 8: No?

497
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Speaker 2: Yeah, not at all.

498
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Speaker 5: No, damn, we put three thousand dollars this in the

499
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Speaker 5: whole year about four grand Hey Sarah, good morning, Welcome

500
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Speaker 5: to the show.

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Speaker 8: Hi, good morning.

502
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Speaker 2: So what what say you on this?

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Speaker 1: Do you think that people it should be in relationships

504
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Speaker 1: should be just commingling all the fun so they just

505
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Speaker 1: put it all together like this woman is saying, would

506
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Speaker 1: make her comfortable? Or do you believe in some kind

507
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Speaker 1: of a split situation?

508
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Speaker 8: Well, I mean every marriage is different, but I've been

509
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Speaker 8: married to my husband for five years. We keep our

510
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Speaker 8: our accounts separate. I have access to his money whenever

511
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Speaker 8: I need it. He has access to mind whenever he

512
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Speaker 8: needs it. He makes more money than I.

513
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Speaker 9: Do, but it's like mortgagees. Stay, the bills are paid.

514
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Speaker 8: I paid all I pay all the kids stuff, and

515
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Speaker 8: we rarely find about money. So it works for us.

516
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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, there we go. Fair enough, there you go.

517
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Speaker 1: That's what I wonder is is she being fair saying

518
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be I don't know. I would consider leaving

519
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Speaker 1: if I don't have access to all of his money too.

520
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Speaker 1: And I don't mean to make her a villain or something,

521
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Speaker 1: because he also sounds a little controlling talking about like

522
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Speaker 1: like it's a corporation, like go buy stuff for the kid.

523
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Speaker 2: And I'll reimburse you.

524
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Speaker 1: Like that sounds a little That sounds a little corporate

525
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Speaker 1: for me, which is good for him for imbursing.

526
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Speaker 8: That's pay for whatever we need.

527
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Speaker 1: That's cool that that that company reimburses people for stuff.

528
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Speaker 2: Thank you, Sarah, you have a good day. That likes nice.

529
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Speaker 3: Where'd you call like, I'm not like your child, not

530
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Speaker 3: going to go to a hobby and be like, hey,

531
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Speaker 3: can you pay me back for this?

532
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Speaker 2: Like I'd rather just go on the account. We do

533
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Speaker 2: have a joint. I didn't say this.

534
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Speaker 3: We have a joint credit card because I want those

535
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Speaker 3: three points, you know, shout out to the airlines.

536
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Speaker 2: But like that's the only thing we have joint. I

537
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Speaker 2: think he.

538
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Speaker 3: Regretted it one time because you know, I did over

539
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Speaker 3: use it. But that's kind of what we're using at

540
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 3: the moment, is the credit cards joint. But who pays it?

541
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Speaker 2: What do you think the provider protect your and provider hobby?

542
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Speaker 2: Yes see, yeah, this is a time champ.

543
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Speaker 1: Someone's saying in the text, these are discussions that you

544
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Speaker 1: should be proactive about. These are things that you need

545
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Speaker 1: to iron out before you get married. That's true, that's fair,

546
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Speaker 1: But I think it has a lot to do with

547
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Speaker 1: you know, how you were brought up. I mean, you know,

548
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Speaker 1: Kishi you said it. It's like, if we have ten

549
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: thousand dollars in the bank, we have ten thousand dollars

550
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Speaker 1: to spend. It's like I would argue, if we have

551
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Speaker 1: ten thousand dollars in the bank, we have five thousand

552
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Speaker 1: dollars to spend.

553
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Speaker 2: That's how.

554
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Speaker 1: But again I don't know, you know, I guess my

555
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: way means that if I get canned, then I have

556
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:01,919
Speaker 1: a little litle bit more to live on. But you

557
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 1: could also argue that I could maybe have a little

558
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 1: more in life than I'm willing to have. I mean,

559
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 1: it's again, you could argue both sides of it. I mean,

560
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Speaker 1: I don't know that with money, it's ever really a

561
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: bad thing to be overly conservative. But you could also say, well,

562
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Speaker 1: what good is it if you've got a whole ton

563
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 1: of money and then you're dead, right, So there's got

564
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Speaker 1: to be a happy medium. But like, you know, to

565
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: Paulina's point and say, oh, look, we got all this money,

566
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Speaker 1: I'm going to go buy Cuban links and then here

567
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Speaker 1: we are, and then Jason goes and gets him instead.

568
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Speaker 1: So because you know he's got a lot of money.

569
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Speaker 1: What do you guys do he just pays for everything. Yes,

570
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Speaker 1: that's the other reason. I really don't know how either

571
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,160
Speaker 1: of you are broke. That's something I don't understand.

572
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Speaker 10: Yeah, when you have on at prey checks right, well,

573
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Speaker 10: when you have a lot of debt, you don't make

574
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Speaker 10: a lot of money, you're broke.

575
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Speaker 2: That's all that works. I just feel like.

576
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Speaker 1: If my moneys were being paid, I would have a

577
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Speaker 1: lot more money.

578
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Speaker 10: It's the asking for me, because no matter how down

579
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Speaker 10: bad I am and how many max out credit cards

580
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Speaker 10: I am, I will not ask that man for a

581
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Speaker 10: single cent.

582
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 2: Maybe it's my pride.

583
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 10: I don't know what it is, but I can never

584
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 10: come like, can you give me a thousand dollars? Like

585
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,920
Speaker 10: I have never and I just can never do that.

586
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:14,119
Speaker 10: If he wants, he's you know, paying the bills in

587
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 10: the house that he built and bought and whatever. I'm

588
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:20,439
Speaker 10: so grateful, but I cannot physically sit there and ask him.

589
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Speaker 2: Even if it's for something that you need for both

590
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Speaker 2: of you. Correct.

591
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Speaker 10: I would rather get another credit card and start more

592
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Speaker 10: than ask him for cash. So that's the part that

593
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 10: triggers me because I could never And the fact that

594
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Speaker 10: he's like, yeah, just ask me if you need like

595
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Speaker 10: that is wild to me, interesting because it's it's like

596
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 10: a power dynamic, you like, yeah, like it's yeah like that.

597
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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Yeah, no, that's not Yeah, that's great. Huh.

598
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Speaker 1: I've seen it my couch, Jason, because like, would you

599
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Speaker 1: like my I already had my therapy this week, but

600
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Speaker 1: you like, would you like my therapy next week?

601
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Speaker 2: Sure? Girl, we're in therapy and we're working through that.

602
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Speaker 10: But yeah, noney, the money brings itself to it's a

603
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 10: very real, very very understatement of the century.

604
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Speaker 1: But the money thing is a very real thing, especially

605
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 1: if you didn't grow and I swear that your parents

606
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: and your upbringing is what sort of instills this in you.

607
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: And if you didn't grow up a certain kind of way,

608
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 1: then I think it can be it can be really

609
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: difficult for people to find. Yeah, and again, there's a

610
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: power dynamic. If one person makes more than the other,

611
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,959
Speaker 1: if one person pays more than the other. I think

612
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 1: it's got to be a careful balance of not making

613
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: someone feel less than because you live in their house.

614
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,120
Speaker 1: I mean, they allowed you to live in their house,

615
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: Like he well, he didn't actually about you in us myself.

616
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 10: Yeah, but he never asked you to leave, right. But

617
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Speaker 10: I think that's why too, Like he already does so much.

618
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 10: Like I just couldn't sit there and be like, oh,

619
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Speaker 10: give me this so I can go shopping, right Like,

620
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Speaker 10: That's why it's like, Okay, I can handle the few

621
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 10: things that I have to like take care of from.

622
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Speaker 1: Himself, you know, yeah, fair enough. There's also a transparency

623
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 1: thing here too, though. It's like I wonder why he

624
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: doesn't want her to know how much he's got, that's sure,

625
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: right Again? Is it because she's gonna spend Is it

626
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,679
Speaker 1: because she's going to try and outlive their lifestyle? Or

627
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: is it because he's being shady and he's spending in

628
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 1: on other things that he doesn't want her to know about.

629
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Speaker 10: I mean, you can like another woman, I was like

630
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 10: waiting Kiki every week, the person I was like, where's Keky?

631
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 2: Their family?

632
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 1: Which is why I would love to know, Like that's

633
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: why I asked the question. And I don't know if

634
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: she's being honest enow, but I would love to know,

635
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: like all your viewpoints on saving and spending the same,

636
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,880
Speaker 1: because I would venture to say the answer is no. Now,

637
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that he's right or she's wrong. It

638
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that he's not controlling. It's a lot of

639
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 1: things here. But like again, if I marry somebody who

640
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 1: just wants to spend, I might be a little bit

641
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: more inclined to say, you know what, let's have a

642
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 1: shared account. Each of us will contribute this much each month,

643
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 1: and then that money have at it. You know what,

644
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,199
Speaker 1: do what you need to do. I think that's the

645
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 1: solution here. In the meantime, I'm keeping this money over here.

646
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 1: Hey Antonio, Hi Antonio, what do you think?

647
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Speaker 6: Well, my wife and I we have separate accounts. We

648
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 6: don't want our depth to be you know, effecting our

649
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:03,199
Speaker 6: mind that we make separately. But one thing I have

650
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 6: done is I've ad her her to my bank account,

651
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 6: so if anything happens to me, she still has access

652
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 6: to it. So like I'm hiding any transactions from her either.

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Speaker 6: You know, everything's visible there, so.

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Speaker 2: She still has access to my account.

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Speaker 5: It's a good man, no good you know my secret

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Speaker 5: meals would be over.

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Speaker 1: Thank you too, had a good day, glad you call man.

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Speaker 1: Hey Kaitlin, Hello, good morning, Hi Kaylyn, good morning, how

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Speaker 1: do you guys, do it the money stuff in your relationship.

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Speaker 9: So we keep things separate. I will say, I think

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Speaker 9: it's really important that she at least is able to

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Speaker 9: see how much he has in the savings and what

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Speaker 9: kind of you know, investments.

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Speaker 6: And whatnot he has.

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Speaker 9: We have showed each other what we have, but you know,

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Speaker 9: we kept things separate w we were dating. We kept

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Speaker 9: things separate we were engaged, and when we got married,

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Speaker 9: we're like, why change it, Like, finances is the number

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Speaker 9: one cause of the divorce, and this has worked for us,

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Speaker 9: so let's just keep it going how we're doing. And

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Speaker 9: it's worked out really well.

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Speaker 7: We have zero fights.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it works for you, Thank you, Caitlin. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that would be weird. Like imagine if I actually know

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Speaker 1: somebody who this happened to on a much smaller scale.

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Speaker 1: But he married into a very very wealthy family, Like

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Speaker 1: he was a I won't say what he did, but

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Speaker 1: he worked for the city and he made not a

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Speaker 1: ton of money, and he married somebody who had a

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Speaker 1: trust fund worth hundreds of millions of dollars, Like she

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Speaker 1: had a ton of money, and it didn't really make

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Speaker 1: any sense for him to do the job he was

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Speaker 1: doing because there was just so much money that whatever.

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Speaker 1: But every time he wanted to go to the mall,

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Speaker 1: or every time he wanted to buy new shoes, or

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Speaker 1: if he had a suggestion for a vacation or something,

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Speaker 1: he had to go to her and be like, can

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Speaker 1: I have the money to do this, honey kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: It got to the point where the patriarch of the family,

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Speaker 1: the guy who made all the money, actually put him

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Speaker 1: on the payroll and gave him a job to quote

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Speaker 1: unquote job to do, so that he basically had money

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Speaker 1: in his pocket to do something with that was his

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Speaker 1: his own. Like what if he wanted to buy her

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Speaker 1: a gift, like it was a legitimate I never thought

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Speaker 1: about this, but like what if she had all the money,

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Speaker 1: what if he wanted to go buy her a ring?

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Speaker 1: He had to literally go and say, Honey, I need

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Speaker 1: ten thousand dollars to go buy you this or that.

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Speaker 1: Because they decided together that he wasn't going to do

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Speaker 1: this job that paid X because they had all the

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Speaker 1: money they needed and they were going to raise the

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Speaker 1: kids together and do all these different things. But I'd

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Speaker 1: never really thought about that before, Like, you got all

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Speaker 1: the money in the world, but you got a power

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Speaker 1: dynamic going there where Like now he's got to ask

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Speaker 1: for permission to do stuff, and that's not cool, or

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Speaker 1: at least he felt that. I don't know if that

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Speaker 1: was true. It's a good family, right, Well here's twenty thousand. Yeah, oh,

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Speaker 1: I tried to marry In.

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Speaker 2: It didn't for me, right, she got a system?

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, well no, trust me right almost. Jason Strait

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Speaker 1: so extremely interested. Well, you didn't have to ask for permission,

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Speaker 1: but the entertainer report will do the next show beas.

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Speaker 2: Shelley six hundred and fifty bucks. After that Fred show,