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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Let's mix it up.

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Speaker 1: So this is actually a post from Okop fam Dude

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Speaker 1: and it was posted by Whole Transition three seven eight.

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Speaker 1: So I, twenty two female, and my boyfriend twenty two male,

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Speaker 1: have been together for five years. Through those years, we

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Speaker 1: have created mutual friends in person as well as some online.

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Speaker 1: Since my boyfriend plays competitively in a video game, one

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Speaker 1: night me my boyfriend will call him Jay, his online friend,

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Speaker 1: we're all playing video games together, Okay. His online friend

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Speaker 1: told us how he was staying at his girlfriend's college

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Speaker 2: Uh oh.

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Speaker 1: We all laughed about this, and the online friend and

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Speaker 1: his girlfriend expressed how awkward of an experience this was,

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Speaker 1: girlfriend were like, do tell, because who doesn't love a

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Speaker 1: good awkward story. So I started off by painting the

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Speaker 2: Right to business.

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Speaker 1: When you look straight ahead to the back wall, there

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Speaker 2: Damage is done. What can you do now?

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Speaker 1: To preface me and my boyfriend almost always lock his door.

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Speaker 1: Get down the brass haste. Is Op the asshole for

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Speaker 1: Yeah, It's like it's like they had opened the door

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Speaker 3: If they were like, hey, could we go get some

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Speaker 2: next teason.

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Speaker 1: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

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Speaker 3: Time for Okop relam.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for insisting my niece is

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Speaker 3: I think we should have, uh, just get like an

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Speaker 2: Do get a dome.

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Speaker 1: Thunderdome.

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Speaker 2: Thunderdome.

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Speaker 1: The last flower girl standing is allowed to be the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there're gonna be no living survivors. They can't be

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: That's it, that's it.

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Speaker 2: Hey, we just.

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Speaker 1: Solved your problem.

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Speaker 2: Well, no need to be in the story. It's over.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's over.

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Speaker 1: My fiance and I are planning our wedding. She comes

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Speaker 3: Like eligible for being Yeah, yeah, okay, I thought you met, Like, like,

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Speaker 1: What's to do that too? That too, and one is

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Speaker 1: Didn't pick it, but it didn't It didn't sound like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, which.

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Speaker 1: Like definitely like a little bit of a like you

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Speaker 1: I feel like op, like, if he really wants this

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Speaker 1: he should say something because she she was fine saying it.

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Speaker 1: Then, and it came time to pick the younger roles

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Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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Speaker 3: I think it's just like the little dudes, dudes, the ushers.

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Speaker 3: I remember, Yeah, maybe the ushers. I remember I was

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Speaker 3: that's is that a junior room not? Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: Her older nephews are junior grooms men, the younger is

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Speaker 1: that's fine, but I also want Britta be one. Right.

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Speaker 1: He has a small family. He's just trying to make

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Speaker 1: you know, one of them involved.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Junior groomsman is someone who's too old to be the

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Speaker 3: ring bearer, but also too young to be a groomsman,

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Speaker 3: like standing, you know, with the so I it seems

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Speaker 3: basically pointless.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no purpose, Okay, I think it's just so they

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Speaker 1: can be included.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So my fiance wants her to be the flower girl,

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Speaker 1: and I said, that's fine, but I also want Britnn

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Speaker 1: to be one. They can walk down the aisle together

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Speaker 1: and be super cute. Britain loves playing with Aubrey, so

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Speaker 1: they get along. This sounds like a great Copper part,

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Speaker 1: a perfect solution and story over everyone's happening.

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Speaker 2: Of course. Nope.

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Speaker 1: My fiance says she wants our wedding to be traditional traditional,

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Speaker 1: so there can only be one flower girl.

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Speaker 2: What so dumb?

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Speaker 1: What's so traditional traditional? I've seen I've seen two flower

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Speaker 1: girls at weddings too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like and also that's a dumb tradition. Yes, the

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Speaker 3: whole point of it is like, oh, look, these cute

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Speaker 3: little kids doing a thing.

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Speaker 1: That's literally the entire point. And it's like two cute kids,

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Speaker 1: what's the issue. And I can't imagine that's like outside

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Speaker 1: of tradition. I mean maybe, but like it's stupid. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's freaking okay, I said. I said Brinn could hold

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Speaker 1: a sign or something while Aubrey through the flowers, which

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Speaker 1: is super nice, right, No, the flowers, that's like the

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Speaker 1: dope part right right, which he's giving to oh to

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Speaker 1: the other girl. Yeah, okay, okay, Literally he's just like,

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Speaker 1: hey can I yeah, because Brinn. Yeah, literally, it's just like,

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Speaker 1: can like my nephew just hold a sign, right, just

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Speaker 1: to be included. My fiance said, no, she can sit

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Speaker 1: with my sister and parents. At this point, I insisted

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Speaker 1: and said Brynn would be flower girl. I texted my

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Speaker 1: sister and asked she agreed. My fiance got pissed and

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Speaker 1: I said, it's my day too. Brinn means a great

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Speaker 1: deal to me, and she'll be in the wedding. My

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Speaker 1: fiance and Aubrey's mom are mad at me, saying I'm

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Speaker 1: stealing Aubrey's spotlight? Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 2: Why? Why?

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Speaker 1: He also provided such a great solution, like it still

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Speaker 1: works out for the other kid better. Yeah, but there

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Speaker 1: is an update. This morning, my fiance and I sat

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Speaker 1: down to talk about the wedding in general. I brought

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Speaker 1: up Brynn and Aubrey. My fiance just kept parroting it's tradition,

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Speaker 1: Let Aubrey have the spotlight.

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Speaker 2: She shot down.

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Speaker 1: Compromise After compromise, Aubrey walks first, Brinn blows bubbles or

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Speaker 1: holds a sign et cetera. Finally, my fiance was honest, Oh,

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Speaker 1: this is so fucked, dude, this is so fucked. I

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Speaker 1: just read ahead she doesn't want Bryn in our wedding

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Speaker 1: because Brynn has down syndrome.

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Speaker 2: Why fuck?

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Speaker 3: And that means the parents are in on it too,

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Speaker 3: because they were like, oh, you're such an a hole, Like, clearly.

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Speaker 2: Trying to get him to not do that.

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Speaker 1: Yo, yo, dude.

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Speaker 4: Ah shit, red flag dog big really big gots so bad,

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Speaker 4: big red flag and as his sister or his nephew

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Speaker 4: or or.

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Speaker 1: Whatever it's his nephew, sneeze. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: God.

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Speaker 1: Also not to like create a tear list of special

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Speaker 1: ed kids, but down syndrome kids gotta be on the top.

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Speaker 1: They're the best. Like it's like down syndrome kids are

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Speaker 1: literally the most fun kids.

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Speaker 3: And again it's like to me, the whole point of

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Speaker 3: it is like, oh, look at this like sweet adorable

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Speaker 3: thing at the wedding that is like the sweet most people.

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Speaker 3: You can't just call them things the wedding, no, no,

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Speaker 3: no no, the aspect, the like you know, the thing

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Speaker 3: of the wedding, Oh my god, the activity.

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Speaker 2: There we go. The whole point of the wedding activities.

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Speaker 1: Is you know what, I don't think I think you're

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Speaker 1: worse the.

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Speaker 2: Terrible pie.

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Speaker 1: I really like because it's not like it's not like

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Speaker 1: because I could understand, okay, like what what if like

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Speaker 1: like wedding disruption or something, or like.

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Speaker 3: If it was truly just like that, but like another

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Speaker 3: thing that was true disturbed, Like is it gonna is

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Speaker 3: it going to like disturb or derail the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this, this doesn't seem like it's the case, right,

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Speaker 1: It's just like.

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Speaker 3: Nothing bad is going to happen exactly. If anything, everything's

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Speaker 3: gonna be like, Wow, this is such a wonderful, sweet,

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Speaker 3: wholesome moment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like everyone wins. Dude, stop the madness is so terrible. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we've been reading too many Ready to start. Ready, Yes,

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Speaker 1: let's do it, she said. Everyone will be looking at her,

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Speaker 1: taking pity, et cetera. Taking dude everyone, I will say

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Speaker 1: this again, all right. First of all, it's just a

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Speaker 1: little girl, Like little girls are like, throwing flowers are cute, right,

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Speaker 1: and like no one gives a fuck if they have

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Speaker 1: Down syndrome, literally except for you.

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Speaker 2: Except for ship.

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Speaker 1: Everyone would like if I see a little girl with

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Speaker 1: a like a down syndrome, little girl throwing flowers, like,

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking that's cute as fuck.

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Speaker 2: Literally yeah, literally.

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Speaker 3: No one's like, oh wow, look at that pitiful, pitiful

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Speaker 1: I actually this is gonna be so weird. But down

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Speaker 1: syndrome kids have like a special place of my heart

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Speaker 1: because I uh, I spent a summer in high school

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Speaker 1: volunteering at the special Ed Center.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and literally down.

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Speaker 1: Syndrome kids are the most fun, Like, there's there there

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Speaker 1: they they are like or at least all the kids

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Speaker 1: that I worked with, like were amazing, amazing, and so

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Speaker 1: I like, I don't I don't think they're gonna disrupt

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Speaker 1: think it's gonna be fine. So there's there's no worry. Hero.

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Speaker 1: Turns out it wasn't about the spotlight on Aubrey but

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Speaker 1: my effing fiance. I told her to go herself, called

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Speaker 1: her ablest and said, don't worry. There won't be a

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Speaker 1: spot like to steal anymore because there's no wedding.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, wow.

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Speaker 1: Fucking atomic bomb but low key huge red flag.

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Speaker 3: I mean it really yeah, at a minimum, it's like

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Speaker 3: we are not doing anything more until we like figit

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Speaker 3: you down ounsling or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, shit, dude, I've left our apartment, staying at my

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Speaker 1: sister's and playing with Brinn. My phone has been blowing

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Speaker 1: up with text and calls from my fiance. Magically, she's

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Speaker 1: ready to compromise. Now. I need time, but I'm likely done.

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Speaker 1: Y'all were right, dude, like, so, dude, dude, dude, that's

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Speaker 1: a nuclear bomb.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Well imagine you're fucking playing the wedding and then.

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Speaker 2: Boom, just like it just implodes.

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Speaker 1: That's it's crazy to me that like you could go

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Speaker 1: what I think that's why you date for like a

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Speaker 3: I mean, I guess she would probably be able to

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Speaker 3: it's probably she's probably able to like hide that like

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Speaker 3: how she really feel. Yeah, she's able to be able

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Speaker 3: to like low key under the table. But it's crazy

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Speaker 3: that this is the moment.

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Speaker 2: Where like he forced it out of her.

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Speaker 1: And but I feel like like ableism is a I

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Speaker 1: don't know if it's like a it's it's I feel

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's often paired with other prejudice, Like

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine that it just stops at this down syndrome.

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Speaker 1: You know, yep, what fuck? Did I feel so bad

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Speaker 1: for rope he bro It's just going back to it's like,

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Speaker 1: how do you not see the red flags?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just you're you are right, Like this is

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Speaker 1: probably a harder one too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she could kind of keep that under under the rug.

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Speaker 2: Damn dude, brouh bro