Speaker 1: Second. It's kind of sweet to think about, but your
Speaker 1: mom is with you through some of the biggest moments
Speaker 1: of your life. Ye like when you took your very
Speaker 1: first steps, when you scored your first goal in soccer.
Speaker 1: In my case, when I scored with Paula Ratchatowski in
Speaker 1: tenth grade. He had a boy, got a second base,
Speaker 1: and mom was right there holding my hand. Now this
Speaker 1: is how you und I know you're wondering which hand
Speaker 1: and don't be gross. Okay, it was the other hand.
Speaker 1: I don't know that it makes it worse than my head.
Speaker 1: It's a memory that I'll never forget and either now
Speaker 1: you shouldn't. I'm glad you should be able to share
Speaker 1: it with all of you. But one of our listeners, Lucas,
Speaker 1: says he may have met the one and his mom
Speaker 1: was there to see it. Lucas he gets a third.
Speaker 1: I don't know about that right now. I'm glad to
Speaker 1: hear somebody else is close with their mom. But tell
Speaker 1: us my dad actually get you, guys, get on to
Speaker 1: who this one is. I want to know why this
Speaker 1: sounds important. Tell us about the woman that you met.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Tracy knockout knockout Okay, where where did
Speaker 1: you meet Tracy? I met her. This is kind of awkward,
Speaker 1: but we met at a winery. But I was so weird. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well listen, I was listen. It was my mom's birthday,
Speaker 1: and she loves wine and she loves when I take
Speaker 1: her out for her birthday. Yeah. That's cute. That's a
Speaker 1: good Yeah. So that's what you mean by your mom
Speaker 1: was there for? Yeah? Yeah, she was totally there for.
Speaker 1: And Tracy's like your age, not your mom's like friend
Speaker 1: that came along for the birthday celebration. Right. She was
Speaker 1: the hostess. Okay, but she was so friendly. I took it.
Speaker 1: Maybe it was this flirting. Maybe was this sort of
Speaker 1: like feeling it out, you know. And she hosted us
Speaker 1: to our table, and halfway through the meal she comes
Speaker 1: over and she asked how everything was going, and I said,
Speaker 1: if you're wondering, we're not dating. This is my mom. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's pretty funny, Joe. I don't think it landed because
Speaker 1: it was like her face turned red. It was awkward.
Speaker 1: My mom looked at me and almost spit out or wine.
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh, didn't think you were funny. That's never
Speaker 1: a good sign. She just kissed her passionately and been like,
Speaker 1: don't worry, that's my mom, right. I mean, in your defense, man,
Speaker 1: it's hard to come off looking suave and smooth while
Speaker 1: your mom is sitting and right next to you. No
Speaker 1: one is smooth in front of their mommy. It is
Speaker 1: also hard to know, like when staff likes you or
Speaker 1: if they're just trying to get a good tip. You
Speaker 1: know the thing. I'm like, I think you're right, And
Speaker 1: I mean she laughed afterwards, and then I think I
Speaker 1: just realized she was just being a professional hostess. And
Speaker 1: maybe she if she was laughing at the table, maybe
Speaker 1: that was coming across us too forward. But like I
Speaker 1: was totally trying to impress her. I was talking about
Speaker 1: wines with her, and that's where the sort of I
Speaker 1: found that opening. I think that was a connection. Brow
Speaker 1: it just ever you're trying, even if you're not funny,
Speaker 1: You're you're trying to make Paul. You're giving out positive vibes.
Speaker 1: I think that's the most important to people. Was it
Speaker 1: a good look like that? You're taking your mom out
Speaker 1: for her birthday, you know, and you genuinely were you know,
Speaker 1: we're doing this to be seen with your mom. Totally.
Speaker 1: So how were you able to like establish a connection
Speaker 1: with Tracy? Okay, So later on in the dinner, we're
Speaker 1: winding up and I go over to Tracy and I
Speaker 1: asked her, could you put the candles on the birthday cake? First?
Speaker 1: I gave her the candles that I brought and she said,
Speaker 1: you are so sweet, and that's when I knew that
Speaker 1: was my opening. Yea and yeah cute, So I said,
Speaker 1: love to hang out. She greed, She gave me her number, um,
Speaker 1: and then her boss all of a sudden needed her
Speaker 1: to go away, and I said, bye, and we will
Speaker 1: communicate late. Ye will communicate, We will establish correspondence. My
Speaker 1: people will call your people will send a messenger down
Speaker 1: with my science background. So no worries, man, We're just
Speaker 1: so you were able to get her number. So yeah,
Speaker 1: we texted for like a couple of days, and we
Speaker 1: set a date for actual meet up, and like at
Speaker 1: the last minute, the day before, she said, oh, um,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm sorry I have to cancel, and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, okay, And then a couple of days later,
Speaker 1: nothing And I have no idea why I'm getting ghosted,
Speaker 1: but I am and I'd love for you guys to
Speaker 1: maybe help and figure this out. Jose and I were
Speaker 1: just talking about this because he was talking about how
Speaker 1: he always gets canceled on I think, like the last
Speaker 1: three days, and it just seems like it's part of
Speaker 1: like eating right. Yeah, I think it is part of
Speaker 1: the culture, maybe like taking us first. I mean, for me,
Speaker 1: I'm sure it is my fault, but for you, I'm
Speaker 1: sure it's just dating in general. Bro, is there anything
Speaker 1: that you could think of from the date that you
Speaker 1: would think might be a red flag to her? I
Speaker 1: don't think so, because she wouldn't have given her number,
Speaker 1: and I couldn't imagine there's anything I did or it said,
Speaker 1: or came across as being rude or anything like that.
Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, she's a knockout beautiful. So
Speaker 1: maybe she has a bunch of guys in her dating
Speaker 1: que and you know, why would she why would she
Speaker 1: spend time with me? I don't know why. He definitely
Speaker 1: does have a bunch of dudes. Bro. Is how the
Speaker 1: internet works. That doesn't mean that you don't deserve a shot.
Speaker 1: You could be the best of the bunch of dude.
Speaker 1: So let'll play a song, We'll come back, and we're
Speaker 1: going to establish correspondence. You will communicate with her and
Speaker 1: figure out why she's not calling you back, why she
Speaker 1: canceled on you at the last second. It's not cool.
Speaker 1: We'll do it right after this when we do your
Speaker 1: second adaptation. Hold on. They say one of the keys
Speaker 1: to impressing a woman is to do something excellent in
Speaker 1: her presence. And I feel like just listening to Lucas's
Speaker 1: story today, you know, he may not sound like the
Speaker 1: most suave guy in the world, but the fact that
Speaker 1: he walked up to the hostess that day and said, hey,
Speaker 1: baby girl, I brought some of the special candles for
Speaker 1: my mama's birthday. Oh can you grab these from me
Speaker 1: and put them on top of her moist birthday cake?
Speaker 1: He had her at moist. I don't know. I mean
Speaker 1: if it was maybe somebody else's cake. Don't listen to her, Lucas,
Speaker 1: that was a pro move. No, you don't, Yeah you do.
Speaker 1: You're no amateur, Lucas. You are a suave man. I am, Yes,
Speaker 1: I am. Yeah, that's right. That's the confidence I'm talking about. Anyway,
Speaker 1: him and Tracy never really ended up having a date date, right,
Speaker 1: but he did get her phone number and they did
Speaker 1: set up a time when they're supposed to meet. She
Speaker 1: canceled though, right before it was supposed to happen. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna try and help him figure out why. You're ready, Lucas,
Speaker 1: You're gonna turn the charm up to eleven for us,
Speaker 1: charm up to eleven. But I can't say that. I'm
Speaker 1: not nervous, Okay, yeah, I mean with Jeffrey start. When
Speaker 1: we started this, he said that you emailed in and
Speaker 1: called her possibly the one, right. I did say that,
Speaker 1: But don't tell her that I said that. No, I won't.
Speaker 1: We don't have to tell her because I feel like
Speaker 1: she knows. No, we won't tell her. But I understand
Speaker 1: where your nerves are coming from. You a lot riding
Speaker 1: on this totally. You're super likable, you seem awesome. I
Speaker 1: think we can do this. Thank you. Are you ready? Man?
Speaker 1: We're gonna call Tracy here. I'm ready, I'm ready. All right,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello? Hey? Is this Tracy? Yes, Hey Tracy,
Speaker 1: My name is jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. How you doing. I'm okay, you're you're
Speaker 1: from a radio show, A morning radio show. Hey, Tracy? Hi, Hey,
Speaker 1: and uh. We do a segment on our show called
Speaker 1: a second Date Update. That's where we help our listeners
Speaker 1: reconnect with people after they've gone out on a date. Now,
Speaker 1: you didn't go out with this guy on an official
Speaker 1: date yet, but you were supposed to. His name's Lucas
Speaker 1: oh St. Yeah, he was really excited about you. Yea,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is really embarrassing. Yes, embarrass you.
Speaker 1: I don't think I should talk about are you talk
Speaker 1: Are you in a relationship? And he didn't know or no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I just oh god, I don't know what to say.
Speaker 1: I just like, I don't want to embarrass him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he told us about the terrible jokes he made. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he said he laughed though I did, Okay. And not
Speaker 1: only that, he said that you gave him your phone
Speaker 1: number and you guys actually set up a time to meet,
Speaker 1: but you canceled it the last second. Well, it's just
Speaker 1: it's been a lot since we met that day. It's
Speaker 1: been a lot. Well, it's been a lot. Like he
Speaker 1: seems like a really sweet since you're a nice guy.
Speaker 1: I'm sure he is. It's just why did he come
Speaker 1: off like too much of a player? Because I kind
Speaker 1: of I kind of got that vibe. Yeah, it's funny
Speaker 1: you mentioned his mom um. So in the days afterwards,
Speaker 1: like I started to get some text messages from her.
Speaker 1: What from Lucas's mom? Yes, how huh? I really don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know how she could have gotten my number.
Speaker 1: Maybe they lived together. Why would he give it to her? About? Yeah,
Speaker 1: what was she saying to you? She like texted me
Speaker 1: if she could call me, and I felt awkward, so
Speaker 1: I answered up answering, and he ended up talking what about? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she had some type of agenda, and it felt like
Speaker 1: she was really uncomfortable to tell me at first. Okay,
Speaker 1: and so we went back and forth, and finally I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, you can't be straight up, and
Speaker 1: she said, look, if I'm going to be frank, your
Speaker 1: boobs are too big comment wait his call? What the hell?
Speaker 1: My gosh? Yes? And I first I was like, she
Speaker 1: has to be kidding, and she's like, well, I'm serious,
Speaker 1: and and she says, well, Lucas doesn't have much experience
Speaker 1: with that, and he's used to day much smaller chested
Speaker 1: women like herself, Like he can't handle like her. She
Speaker 1: did not say that, Yes, she did know. She's just
Speaker 1: like your boobs are gonna overwhelming. You should have seen
Speaker 1: him when he was a baby. He didn't know, Like
Speaker 1: we had a real hard time latching, like sneaking out
Speaker 1: of the room and calling his mom like Mom, I'm
Speaker 1: really overwhelmed. Right now? What do I do here? I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't think there's any way that Lucas could have
Speaker 1: possibly known that this was going to happen. Yeah, I hope,
Speaker 1: I mean that's the one benefit. Yeah, but well maybe
Speaker 1: he did know, because we should probably ask him. And
Speaker 1: that's why I need to tell you, Tracy, Lucas is
Speaker 1: on the other line right now. Oh my god, Oh
Speaker 1: my god. He needed to hear this. He really needed
Speaker 1: to hear this. Lucas there, Yeah, I heard everything, and
Speaker 1: my mother's in the room and I'm I'm about wait,
Speaker 1: why is she in the room? But it doesn't matter
Speaker 1: why she She's in the other room and I want
Speaker 1: to go talk to her right now. This is so embarrassing,
Speaker 1: so mortified. Hold on, Lucas, did you know that your
Speaker 1: mom was texting Tracy? No? I have no idea. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I mean surprise for you, Lucas, or is this a
Speaker 1: discussion you've had with your mom before? Question, complete surprise,
Speaker 1: and it probably comes from that magazine she found when
Speaker 1: I was seventeen. No, you did not say that. Really,
Speaker 1: that does not help care whatever. God, what a magazine
Speaker 1: even was? That's hilarious. I mean, Lucas, I really think
Speaker 1: you need to talk to Tracy here because she sounds
Speaker 1: pretty freaked out. Yeah, and apologize. I am going to apologize.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, can you focus on Tracy for
Speaker 1: a second. Okay, rip yourself away from your mom for
Speaker 1: two minutes. Sorry, everybody, I'm nervous. Um, Tracy, I want
Speaker 1: you to listen to me. You made me laugh and
Speaker 1: you're the most beautiful woman I've ever met in my life.
Speaker 1: And when I walked in and I saw you gazed
Speaker 1: at me and you can we even I think out
Speaker 1: he's trying, guys, he is your sweet Lucas. You know,
Speaker 1: I feel like you're trying to. Maybe it's just a
Speaker 1: different experience. Maybe we're just in areas of our lives.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, you're you're really close with your
Speaker 1: mom and more ways than one. I don't think that's funny,
Speaker 1: but sure, I mean, Tracy, you can hear he feels terrible.
Speaker 1: He had nothing to do with it, and we don't
Speaker 1: even know if that's true. That's just what his mom said. Lucas,
Speaker 1: what do you think could you handle a bigger you
Speaker 1: got this b Yeah, your mom doesn't believe in you,
Speaker 1: but I you can handle that, Lucy. Tell her, Lucas,
Speaker 1: tell Tracy that you could handle her. Tracy, I can
Speaker 1: tell you this with a certainty that your boobs will
Speaker 1: never overwhelm me and eye. Man, I could just see
Speaker 1: that in the wedding vows. Yeah, that was really beautiful.
Speaker 1: It was, And I think this is a good time
Speaker 1: to ask Tracy. We would love to send you and
Speaker 1: Lucas out on another date. Mom will not be there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a real one on one date and we will pay
Speaker 1: for it. Just don't bring a lot of cleavage. What
Speaker 1: do you say, Tracy? I mean, I thought talking to
Speaker 1: his mom was the weirdest thing? Is this has really
Speaker 1: been strange? No, I don't know. I don't know. Maybe
Speaker 1: we can keep texting for a little bit, see where
Speaker 1: it goes. That's something that's the door is still cracked open. Yeah, yeh, Lucas, Tracy,
Speaker 1: I would love to receive a text from you, and
Speaker 1: then I will send a text back and then we
Speaker 1: can start all over and so oh and um, if
Speaker 1: you want to send me a picture, that's totally fine,
Speaker 1: all right, that's not I don't know, maybe a good
Speaker 1: idea wrap him a little terrible timing. Maybe we can
Speaker 1: share a bottle of pinotes Oir, Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning.