WEBVTT - Rufus: A “Gómez” looks for his “Morticia” with Abuelita’s Help 0:00:04.960 --> 0:00:08.800 Are the apps and endless hit of disappointment? Are your 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:11.560 friends pushing you to swipe left when you feel like 0:00:11.640 --> 0:00:15.520 you should be swiping right? Well, drop that phone and 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:21.480 give Auelita's intuition a go. This is Date My Aurida First, 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:25.920 where our fabulous Alita Aleana plays match maker for our 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:30.040 star dater and three lucky contestants looking for Alita's guidance 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:32.360 and winning the perfect match. 0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:34.960 Then these young gonna work. 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:40.000 Another season of Date My Alida First. 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:41.920 What do you think will happen this season? 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:42.159 Uh? 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:46.760 Oh, my Vico, I am so happy we're here again. Well, 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:50.120 I cannot see into the future, but I do have 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:53.240 a good intuition that Alita knows best and it's going 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:55.200 to be a fun ride, dhicle. 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:59.120 Yes it is. Let's roll up our sleeves and get to. 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:05.720 Work, right eab You are such a lover boy, and 0:01:05.760 --> 0:01:10.280 I feel like you're always crushing on someone. Now, who 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:11.480 do you have a crush on this week? 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:14.480 Oh it's too many to count, Wilida, I'm constantly crushing 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:15.039 on people. 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:17.440 You just did on two of them this morning. 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:18.039 I know. 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:20.920 I just I see someone and I'm just like my 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:23.279 heart immediately is like Dooki, Doki, you know what I'm. 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:24.440 Saying, Dooki. 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:32.080 But I'm not the only lover boy here, because we. 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:36.080 Get a finer lover boy, main dater, someone to crush on. 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:39.280 Yes, yes, yes, love is what we're all looking for. 0:01:39.319 --> 0:01:42.479 I think it's just around the corner. So let's do this, huh. 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:45.080 This week's main dater told us that he thinks he 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:49.720 was conceived after a Billy Idle concert. What music puts 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:50.240 you in the mood? 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:52.880 The music that puts me in the mood is some 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:55.360 good sexy susa. 0:01:55.560 --> 0:02:01.920 Okay, bring it, Okay, see you it's your sausa. 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:04.960 Okay, all right, let's get to it. Let's meet our 0:02:05.000 --> 0:02:08.760 main dater, Rufus. He is a skater and a triple scorpio, 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:09.840 oh my god. 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:11.840 Which he's been told as a red flag. 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:15.560 He's a fashion photographer, jiu jitsu enthusiast, and his dream 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:19.720 girl is Mortitia Adams from the Adams family. Rufus, I 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:21.960 dig you so much. This is excellent, this is amazing. 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:23.919 We have so much to work with here. I am 0:02:24.440 --> 0:02:27.640 very excited for this intense honey. 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:31.760 Rufous, Hey, guys, how's everyone doing. 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:35.560 So so good? Give us a little bit of yourself? 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:38.840 What makes you take What would your besties say to 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:39.640 describe you? 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:41.840 Give us some easy breezy. 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:44.120 Facts, easy breezy facts coming right in. 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:46.240 I mean, I guess people how they describe me as 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:50.359 pretty funny and fun loving and just joking around constantly. 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:52.960 I try to hide that serious and intense, passionate part 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:55.359 as much as possible, and then once it happens to you, 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:57.840 we're just kind of like, whoa where did this come from? 0:02:57.880 --> 0:02:59.520 You know, because I do care a lot. I like 0:02:59.520 --> 0:03:03.080 to get year as possible, but it becomes draining, you know, 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:05.560 especially in a city where people don't want to get 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:08.400 that deep, and I just try to be a little 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:10.600 bit reserved, you know, from the outside. But then that 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:13.440 just turns into me having way too much fun. 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:17.880 Mmmmmmmm No, that noted. I will lead that. What questions 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:19.440 do you have for Rufus today? 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:23.120 Well, according to what I've learned so far, you seem 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:26.600 to be a very spontaneous individual. So tell me what 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:27.880 brings that out in you. 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.239 I guess it was just ever since I was young, 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:32.040 you know, I always wanted to work, and because I 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:33.560 wanted to work so much, I just was like, oh, 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:35.720 I'll say yes to this, So all of a sudden, 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:38.680 I had six different jobs. And I was twenty four 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:40.680 and had six different careers. Because someone will be like, hey, 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:42.360 do you want to do this? I'm like yeah, And 0:03:42.400 --> 0:03:44.640 I live my life to be super exciting, to be 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:46.480 a ton of different places and meet a ton of 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:50.200 cool people and in my life super enriching. And you know, 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:52.160 I look back like, yeah, stability, might have been a 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:54.320 bit nicer and all this stuff, you know, but it 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:56.360 was just so much fun and might not live a 0:03:56.400 --> 0:03:57.080 dream life. 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:58.680 And what is it that you do for work? 0:03:59.040 --> 0:04:02.160 Right now? I'm a fashion apurently currently. I know there's 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:03.320 a lot of others. 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:06.280 But right now, right now, So you do meet a 0:04:06.320 --> 0:04:08.600 lot of interesting people. So how does that work into 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:09.400 your day life? 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:11.400 Oh I keep that so separate. 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:14.040 Like when I'm shooting and I'm on set, I am 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:17.800 just total chastity about you know, asexual being. I'm in 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:19.839 such a zone and such a motive. Oh when I 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:21.559 work at a small friends and all that, and friends, 0:04:21.560 --> 0:04:23.359 it's kind of usually what I go for, so I 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:24.080 try not to. 0:04:24.520 --> 0:04:26.160 I don't know folks on dating too much because I 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:27.440 have so much passion in life. 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:30.000 But then when I meet someone I'm really into, it's like, oh, okay, 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:31.680 that's where like the bashing comes out, of the dating 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:33.960 comes out. It's just I'm a little bit like a dog, 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:37.400 you know. I get excited after I get to know you, 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:39.200 but initially I stand on it. 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:42.400 You said earlier that you had a lot of different 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:44.479 passions and a lot of different things that you were pursuing, 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:46.599 and then you mentioned like stability would have been fine, 0:04:46.640 --> 0:04:49.240 but then that also worked out, And now I'm curious, 0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:51.080 how does stability look like for you? 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:51.679 Right now? 0:04:52.160 --> 0:04:54.520 Stability looks like for me is I'm able to do 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:56.719 the main things that make me happy and that I love, 0:04:57.320 --> 0:05:00.520 and I'm able to still support myself career wise, have fun. 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:03.200 I know this is controversial, but I don't like the. 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:05.760 Whole idea of, oh, let's have a career where we 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:07.600 can take a vacation to do what we want. It's like, no, 0:05:07.720 --> 0:05:10.520 I want to be able to incorporate my career into 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:14.360 these different traveling excursions, so to speak. Well, at the 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:16.600 same time, I don't want to live and work NonStop 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:19.080 because I've also done that before and I haven't been 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:23.080 able to enjoy certain places that I've been in certain moments. 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:23.240 That I've had. 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:26.880 And you also mentioned earlier that you keep your career 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:30.000 and your dating life separate. Are you interested in dating 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:32.840 someone that's also in the same industry or like just 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:34.840 not working in the same collaboration or is it something 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:36.760 that down the line maybe you can collaborate. 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:36.920 With a partner. 0:05:37.520 --> 0:05:39.479 I'm interested in it, definitely. I think that was a 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:41.640 harder line when I was younger and I was more 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:43.920 naive and I had a lot to learn. I think 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:45.800 as especially I got older and I've been in the 0:05:45.839 --> 0:05:48.520 industry long enough, it's nicer because they understand kind of 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:50.880 where I'm coming from, and they understand the industry and 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:53.120 they understand how things work. So it's not like, oh, 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:55.520 you're on set, You're going to be done at six, right, 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:58.760 and I'm like, I have no idea. As well as people, 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:01.279 I always get this critique, Oh, you probably surrounded with 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:03.480 beautiful models the whole time. It's like, yeah, but not 0:06:03.520 --> 0:06:05.279 trying to sleep with all them. Like I'm here to 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:07.960 do work, like Jesus, And only if you're in the 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:10.440 industry you really understand that, which I think is kind 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:12.040 of shallow of the world outside of it. 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:12.880 But at the same time. 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:15.920 It's like, you know, looking for someone then that has 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:20.680 a confidence within themselves that can support what you're doing 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:23.760 and not be like hypercritical or judgmental the. 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:24.360 Things that you're doing. 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:25.480 Yeah, oh definitely. 0:06:26.920 --> 0:06:30.120 When was the last time you had a long term relationship? 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:31.560 What defines long time? 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:35.240 I guess, like, what's the longest relationship you've been. 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:37.480 In probably a year and a half, two years? 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:38.640 How does that look like? 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:40.320 And what are the things that you've learned from that 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:44.080 relationship that you want to definitely continue to pursue, but 0:06:44.120 --> 0:06:46.800 also things that you don't want to keep looking for. 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:48.880 I mean the main thing is just kind of like 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:50.640 the passion bash for each other kind of what we 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:53.520 talked about, and you know, the wanting to like the 0:06:53.600 --> 0:06:55.960 mutual Oh I want to be passionate about you or 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:57.120 I want you to be passionate about me and who 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:58.880 at the same time, it's like I want to make 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:01.320 this person smile and feel that same time I want 0:07:01.360 --> 0:07:03.839 the other person to feel the same way and be 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:06.600 able to explore and grow in different ways together, Like 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:08.640 we don't have to grow in exactly the same wavelength. 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:11.320 We get to do it our own kind of space 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:13.480 at the same times, those matchup in certain ways and 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:16.800 it isn't co dependent. 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:19.840 I guess looking for interdependence. I see. 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:23.200 Tell me, rufus, what are some of your deal breakers? 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:26.520 Number one is bad manners, like not being nice and 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:29.240 bad manners. I can't do it. I can't handle it. 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:32.720 One I don't like seeing people be mean. It just 0:07:33.000 --> 0:07:36.760 hurts me inside. And two it's just there's no harm 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:38.920 in being nice and being kind and having manners, so 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:41.520 it really hurts me. Another thing is and I know 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.320 this is definitely a fashion thing, but kind of like 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:47.440 bad style or kind of non expressive self style. And 0:07:47.480 --> 0:07:49.560 I'm just like, oh, now is your moment when you 0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:53.200 walk outside to kind of meet like like minded people, 0:07:53.240 --> 0:07:56.320 which I didn't have growing up, and you decide to 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:58.760 dress like everyone else because that's how people told you 0:07:58.880 --> 0:07:59.160 to be. 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:03.560 And that's part of you photographer I which also influences that. 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:07.080 But tell me, are you looking for a serious relationship now? 0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:08.320 Are you ready? 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:09.400 Oh? Yeah? 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:10.480 I love that. 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:11.240 That'd be amazing. 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:15.720 Your deal breakers are people that are mean, that are unkind, right, 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:18.040 So then let's look for the green flags. What are 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:19.560 the things that you're like, ooh, this is a trade 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:22.480 that I really am attracted to drawn two something that 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:25.040 I want to cultivate and nurture a life with. 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:28.240 Definitely keep going back to the word passion. That's a 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:28.560 big one. 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:30.920 It's like they're passionate about something, they love, something they 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:33.520 have an ambition and dream and that something you know, 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:37.000 culture well read. Is really big for me because you know, 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:39.280 I am an artist. I do like to know as 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:41.440 much as possible, to learn as much as possible. So 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:44.760 those are really big ones for me. And I guess 0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:48.880 kind of like you guys said earlier, this spontaneous attitude 0:08:48.920 --> 0:08:51.160 and being willing to say yes to certain things that 0:08:51.679 --> 0:08:54.360 to everyday people might sound odd, like oh, let's go 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:57.199 on a trip here randomly, you know, not. 0:08:57.200 --> 0:08:58.120 Planning it out that much. 0:08:58.679 --> 0:08:59.880 What are the things that I come up for you? 0:08:59.880 --> 0:09:01.440 And relationship they're like, Oh, I got to work on 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:03.000 this and I want I want to show up in 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:04.840 this way in this new relationship. 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:07.360 I think a big one for me, I've had to 0:09:07.360 --> 0:09:09.079 think about this a lot kind of in my life 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:12.280 is being present and not focusing on other parts of 0:09:12.280 --> 0:09:14.319 my life, whether it be career, family, so on and 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:17.440 so forth. And I'm not feeling bad while I'm with 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:19.200 someone I'm dating and I really like and enjoying my 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:21.360 time and then thinking about, oh, but I need to 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:23.520 chase down these clients and do this and do that, 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:27.640 and almost feeling guilty for spending time with someone I 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:32.520 really do appreciate, just because I feel a necessity to 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:35.280 really put forward my career and these ambitions. 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:38.040 It's a really beautiful thing to notice within yourself and 0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:39.080 have awareness around. 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:40.199 So thank you for sharing that. 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:44.400 We have here in your bio that you are so 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:49.719 very drawn to. Morticia Adams, Do you consider yourself a 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:54.840 Gomez like goofy guy with that very stoic power femme 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:57.520 who's gonna put you in your place? Is that something 0:09:57.520 --> 0:09:59.600 that really is like, oh yeah, I'll be done for that. 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:02.520 That's a dream marriage or relationship. I don't even know 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:03.800 why people think otherwise. 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:06.240 Like they both adore each other, loved each other in 0:10:06.240 --> 0:10:08.840 like their own ways, and very supportive and like you're saying, 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:11.000 he's goofy, it's funny at the same time, like very 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:14.120 confident in themselves relationships saying with Mortitia, and it's just 0:10:14.360 --> 0:10:17.840 nothing is breakable between that bond, and it's just wonderful 0:10:17.880 --> 0:10:18.360 and sweet. 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:21.760 I love that so we're aiming for your mortitia, Adams, 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:22.720 that's what we're looking for. 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:26.920 Yeah, well, I know. 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:30.080 I mean, like, you're a fashion photographer. How does that 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:32.520 look like? What happens when we find you the mortitia. 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:32.680 Of your life? 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:36.560 And then how does that affect or shift and change 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:37.240 your fashion? 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:41.360 Viga? If he looks this good in a sweatshirt, I 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:44.120 can't even imagine how well he will look in a 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:45.400 tuxedo or a suit. 0:10:45.480 --> 0:10:47.040 I try not to wear it as much because I 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:49.440 look like a body arter bouncer. 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:52.600 I get that. I get that. 0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:55.080 What is the one thing that you do not want 0:10:55.120 --> 0:10:57.679 in a relationship? The one thing jealousy? 0:10:58.200 --> 0:11:00.320 Now I counter with this one because we all'll have 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:03.479 moments of jealousy, and we'll have moments of like desiring 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:07.559 some sort of possession. How do you handle jealousy when 0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:10.000 it comes up for yourself? And how do you want 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:11.920 to show up when a partner comes in, like, hey, 0:11:11.920 --> 0:11:14.160 something's coming up? Like what would be your ideal scenario 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:16.480 when jealousy inevitably arises. 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:19.160 For me personally, if I feel it, I definitely need 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:21.080 to look inside it myself. I feel like it comes 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:24.400 to a place of lack of confidence spoken relationship myself 0:11:24.600 --> 0:11:26.800 and then not trusting the partner you're with. That's the 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:28.600 only reason why I would come up, especially with someone 0:11:28.679 --> 0:11:31.079 you truly life. If it's flipped in their side, I 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:32.880 would like them to kind of talk to me and 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:34.839 kind of hear where they're coming from. Because we really 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:37.160 care about each other, then we should really talk about 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:38.239 it communication. 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:39.600 All right? 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:42.360 Are we ready? Are we doing it? Is it happening? 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:46.760 Well? I think this young man with his good looks 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:50.320 and his smart mind, I think we are ready and 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:51.520 I hope to do you right. 0:11:51.880 --> 0:11:56.960 Amazing, Well, we're going to send you into hiding mode. Well, 0:11:56.960 --> 0:12:00.480 we get to know some eligible ladies, but we're ready 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:01.120 to rock and roll. 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:04.200 Look at that smile. I'm like, from here to here. 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:10.360 We'll be back after the break. Welcome back today, Miawani 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:10.920 the first. 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:16.000 All right, well, now that we've met Rufus, it's time 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:23.360 to meet some of our excited contestants. Meet Tarnay twenty three, 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:27.720 a Sagittarius who has described herself as a hardcore. 0:12:27.400 --> 0:12:30.400 Top natural lover girl. She's got the eldest daughter, ya, 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:35.560 but she's walking it out. Give it up to Tarnay. 0:12:37.720 --> 0:12:41.439 Now let's move on to Marian twenty eight, a psych 0:12:41.600 --> 0:12:44.240 nurse who is the smallest nurse in the unette and 0:12:44.600 --> 0:12:48.480 Barton's on the side. Her go to karaoke is nineties 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:52.920 twenties and sink or Spice girls. Okay, she's a fan 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:55.360 of horror and more specifically clowns. 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:59.640 Oh my god, lordy, what a combo. 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:01.680 Nice to meet you, Glad to have you here. 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:10.319 And last, but certainly not least, meet Jessica, a fashion 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:14.360 designer who could give a ted talk on Denim Brown. 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:18.160 An outspoken perfectionist who is looking for a man who 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:22.720 can keep up with her. Ooh, hello, hello Jessica. 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:30.439 Hi wow, what a beautiful group of ladies. Indeed, lordy, lordy, lord. 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:31.800 Now the world here. 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:35.240 Let's just go ahead and hop in and break the 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:39.240 ice with the game we know and love and might 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:40.680 sometimes want to avoid. 0:13:41.040 --> 0:13:46.280 Two truths and a lie. Oh yeah, oh yeah. 0:13:46.360 --> 0:13:48.600 In this game, you are to give us three facts 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:52.920 about yourself and Aworita and I will try to sniff 0:13:52.960 --> 0:13:54.520 out the lie. 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:56.560 So should we give them some time? 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:57.240 Do it? Now? 0:13:57.920 --> 0:13:58.440 How PG? 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:02.040 Is this not at all totally are? I will eat 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:03.760 this here, so bring it. 0:14:07.400 --> 0:14:09.199 Jessica, take it away. What are your two truth in 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:09.520 a lie. 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:14.679 I was a professional figure skater. I have over a 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:18.520 dozen tattoos and I speak fluent Chinese. 0:14:19.840 --> 0:14:20.520 That's hard. 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:22.360 You want to talk about this if you want to. 0:14:22.360 --> 0:14:23.600 I think it's the tattoos. 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:24.640 I think it's the tattoos. 0:14:24.680 --> 0:14:26.080 Also the tattoos. 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:28.720 Yeah, yeah, that's actually true. That's true. 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:32.440 Sixteen tattoos, sixteen tattoos. 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:33.400 Oh my god. 0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:35.440 Okay, it's the figure skater. 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:40.160 I was a. 0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:43.640 Very good that's a good deep down. I wanted to 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:46.880 figure skates somewhere along though never. 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:49.280 Too late, never too late. Well, thank you for that. 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:54.440 You tricked a Wilita and VI and I'm gullible as 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:59.200 hell though, So I Marian, talk to me. What are 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:00.200 your three? 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:01.120 Bring it girl? 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:01.880 Oh my god. 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:02.920 Okay. 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:05.920 So my two truths and a lot is that I've 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:10.880 traveled solo out of the country. I have never had 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:15.280 a threesome, but I've had a foursome and I have 0:15:15.480 --> 0:15:17.440 a phobia of vomit. 0:15:17.880 --> 0:15:20.640 If you've had a foursome, does that have included threesome? 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:23.200 No, it's very different for people versus three changes the 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:25.560 game with the number three is but it's four. 0:15:25.680 --> 0:15:28.200 I am asking an expert. 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:32.640 Yes, anyway, not saying a word. 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:37.400 That's the first one America Anyway, I got distracted. 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:40.920 Okay, Oh, I think it's the vomit. I think it's 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:41.360 the vomit. 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:44.040 I actually do have that. 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:45.920 You do how do you work? 0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:47.080 How do you live life? 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:50.480 I work in psych We don't see that too much. 0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:53.320 But burgeoning on the side, people be buke and everwhere. 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:57.080 I used to do the same thing too. What is why? 0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:02.000 Yeah, I've traveled solo too country, but I was meeting people. 0:16:02.080 --> 0:16:03.520 Does that kill you? 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:08.160 Kept some out of the fact, And usually omission is 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:08.560 a lie. 0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:10.200 So it's a half asked truth. 0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:12.880 It's a half asked but it still kills as a lie. 0:16:12.960 --> 0:16:13.680 Totally not. 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:17.200 Talk to us. What are your three? 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:18.880 Okay? 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:23.200 The first one is I'm half Mexican. The number two 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:26.200 is I've only been in one relationship. And three is 0:16:26.320 --> 0:16:28.280 I actually prefer to be vanilla in bed. 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:32.240 Okay, I'm gonna say that. The half Mexican is the truth. 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:38.320 Uh huh. The one relationship, I think that's the lie. 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:41.520 And being vanilla in bed, I mean it can be tasty. 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:46.520 Did I say something wrong? Now it's everybody laughing around me. 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:54.920 You're so good, You're so good, So bless you, bless you, 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:55.360 bless you. 0:16:55.880 --> 0:16:58.280 I'm going to also go with the relationship bed. That's 0:16:58.280 --> 0:16:58.760 the lie. 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:03.520 Have actually been in one relationships to be vanilla in bed? 0:17:04.080 --> 0:17:05.199 Okay, wait that's right. 0:17:05.480 --> 0:17:08.160 Okay, cool, got it? So you don't prefer to be vanilla? Okay, Cool, 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:09.639 I confused myself. 0:17:09.680 --> 0:17:13.200 I'm there too. Okay, WELLA is very confused. 0:17:14.320 --> 0:17:17.359 It happens sometimes we Spanish seven. 0:17:17.520 --> 0:17:18.680 Confusion is allowed. 0:17:19.440 --> 0:17:21.640 All right, thank you all so much for playing this 0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:24.679 first round. So it's time to play another game before 0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:27.680 a wait that sends one of our lovely contestants home. 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:31.960 And wait one second. Uh, the Smoothella. 0:17:31.440 --> 0:17:39.040 Lineup just dropped and you three our headliners. So our 0:17:39.080 --> 0:17:42.800 main dat has been a part of various rock bands 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:45.440 and plays seven instruments. 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:47.000 What those fingers do? 0:17:48.960 --> 0:17:49.280 God? 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:52.560 I am the worst today finger. 0:17:54.119 --> 0:18:00.360 Today, our beautiful contestants will be headlining smooth Ella alongside. 0:17:59.840 --> 0:18:02.520 Our main dater. In this game, we are. 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:06.679 Asking each of you, inspired by your love life, to 0:18:06.800 --> 0:18:09.960 come up with your band's name and the hit song 0:18:10.040 --> 0:18:14.160 that describes those loves and or heartaches. We will give 0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:17.120 you a bit of time to think about this brainstorm 0:18:17.320 --> 0:18:23.760 and come up with some rock and roll bangers. All right, ladies, 0:18:23.840 --> 0:18:27.000 I will eat that and I are ready to start 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:28.840 the most. 0:18:31.040 --> 0:18:34.440 Night one was not expecting that. 0:18:34.960 --> 0:18:36.720 I feel like you should be going to like a 0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:40.680