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Speaker 1: just shuffle around your desk. I'm so glad you were

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Speaker 1: so engaged by what else saying? Sorry? Cool? That sounds

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Speaker 1: fun um Anyway, I think that if there's a situation

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Speaker 1: put on your big girl panties. You at cordial. You

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Speaker 1: don't like have to talk to them the whole time,

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Speaker 1: but you just keep it surface and like make it

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Speaker 1: okay so that everyone else feels okay. Because that's the

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Speaker 1: bigger thing, right is you don't want to lose the

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Speaker 1: other friendships too, Like this person is not y'all are

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Speaker 1: really different and you need to go your separate ways. Fine,

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Speaker 1: but it sounds like the scenario with all of the

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Speaker 1: group of friends is pretty cool, especially if it's like

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Speaker 1: a neighborhood thing. It's nice to have neighbors that you

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Speaker 1: other the other people in a good distraction. And I think,

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Speaker 1: you know it is important not to like walk in

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Speaker 1: and be an ice queen and like make the room

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Speaker 1: feel weird and ignore that person, so I acknowledge each other,

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Speaker 1: be cordial, and then then put your focus on the

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Speaker 1: other people in the room. Yeah, sometimes friendships are just

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Speaker 1: like you realize that they're just not made to laugh?

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Speaker 1: Are you and that person don't need to have that

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Speaker 1: intensive of a friendship, Like I've had situations like that.

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Speaker 1: I'm really trying to keep this friendship breakup real PC

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Speaker 1: right now to topic for me. She also said that

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Speaker 1: they used to talk at text all day long. I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's exhausting on any relationship. So you know, look, it's

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Speaker 1: obviously we don't know the full situation or know these

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Speaker 1: people at all, but like maybe you just needed a

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Speaker 1: break and maybe once you're you're forced to be around

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Speaker 1: each other again, like you're having this break will make

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Speaker 1: you recognize like that you've missed each other, and or

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Speaker 1: the positives of that person, like maybe need to text

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Speaker 1: and all that stuff all day. But they were in

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Speaker 1: your life for a certain reason because there's something about

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Speaker 1: them that you like. So yeah, just focus on those things.

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Speaker 1: I think keeping it peace like, keeping it very cordial

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Speaker 1: is going to be the way to go. You know,

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Speaker 1: you might find your way back to friendship or you

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Speaker 1: might not, and that's that's fine. Just be you know,

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Speaker 1: being an adult about it. Yeah, Liz at Casual, be

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Speaker 1: an adult. Put on your big girl paintings. You got this.

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Speaker 1: I really think you got this. Yeah, it sounds like

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Speaker 1: you have seven other friends anyway, right, was it eight

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Speaker 1: couples or eight friends? I think it was probably four couples,

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Speaker 1: eight friends, eight couples. Wow, Yeah, you'll be fine. You

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Speaker 1: don't even have to talk to that person. Stay on

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Speaker 1: the other side of the room anyway, you guys, keep

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Speaker 1: the emails coming. We love to talk to you and

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Speaker 1: engage so and just to know what's happening in y'all's

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Speaker 1: lives too. So if you have any questions or topic

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Speaker 1: ideas for us, email us at at Casual at velvets

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Speaker 1: edge dot com, or you can slide into my d

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Speaker 1: ms on Instagram. It's at velvet's edge. Let us know

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Speaker 1: what you want to know, Chip. Do you have any

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Speaker 1: closing remarks? No, not really just remember to always act casual.

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Speaker 1: Bye bye