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Speaker 1: Rema and Selena Gomez has calmed down here at Kiss FM.

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Speaker 2: Check it out. Some lyrics that are.

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Speaker 1: You know, they're lyrics that if I played the song

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Speaker 1: in its entirety, you would call me and say Ryan please.

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Speaker 2: But it's a great song.

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Speaker 1: She works hard, So Cardi B, Megan the Stallion team

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Speaker 1: enough they did this. They teamed up before you know that.

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Speaker 1: It was a smash, a global sensation. So they've got

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Speaker 1: this next track. But we're going to talk to her

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Speaker 1: about it in a few minutes. Meanwhile, let's focus on weddings.

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Speaker 1: You know that I have opinions, and Tanya has a

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Speaker 1: story about someone well known who is throwing out at

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Speaker 1: least one of the wedding traditions.

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Speaker 3: Tanya yes, And honestly, when she said this, it kind

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Speaker 3: of blew my mind because I've never thought of it

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Speaker 3: that way. So Alex Cooper, she's the host of a

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Speaker 3: very popular podcast that's called Call Her Daddy. She is

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Speaker 3: recently engaged and she's been really open about her wedding planning.

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Speaker 3: So in one of her last episodes, she even took

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Speaker 3: listener's wedding dress shopping with her, and she's going through

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Speaker 3: several different venues, so she's really kind of giving all

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Speaker 3: of her listeners a sneak peek into wedding planning. But

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Speaker 3: there's one tradition that some say is very anti feminist

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Speaker 3: and that she will not be partaking in, and that

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Speaker 3: is having her dad walk her down the aisle. And

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Speaker 3: I thought that was so interesting. I was like, why

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Speaker 3: in the world would she not want her dad to

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Speaker 3: walk her down the aisle. She said, I love my

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Speaker 3: dad so much. It says nothing to do with my

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Speaker 3: relationship with my dad. Getting married traditionally is based in

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Speaker 3: a misogynistic culture. A woman is being given away to

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Speaker 3: a man by her father. I just want to do

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Speaker 3: it myself. This is a decision that I'm making individually,

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Speaker 3: and I honestly never thought of it that way, Like

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Speaker 3: I never thought I guess I never really thought of

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Speaker 3: the meaning or the the culture behind a wedding, and

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Speaker 3: it really is like the dad giving away his daughter

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Speaker 3: to another man, and it's like it is very anti federal.

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Speaker 1: So now that you think of it you look at

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Speaker 1: it through different lens. How do you look at it

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Speaker 1: with your father if you alread get married.

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Speaker 3: So I think about that all the time because I've

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Speaker 3: thought about that with my dad my entire life, and

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Speaker 3: I definitely want him to me. I think it's going

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Speaker 3: to be it's less of my dad giving me away

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Speaker 3: to a man. It's more of my dad walking alongside me,

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Speaker 3: like he was my first love and he's like handing

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Speaker 3: me off, you know, the same thing, giving me his

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Speaker 3: blessing and ciciny.

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Speaker 2: When you got married, you did it traditionally, you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there was like a lot of traditions that we

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Speaker 4: did for our wedding, but it was also a different time.

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Speaker 4: It was ten years ago, which I think like has

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Speaker 4: changed in the way weddings are celebrated now. A lot

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Speaker 4: of traditions aren't even done, like the garter toss and

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Speaker 4: cutting of the cake right under many weddings where they

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Speaker 4: don't even do that stuff anymore.

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Speaker 2: And we did it at ours.

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Speaker 4: But I couldn't even imagine imagine doing my wedding without

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Speaker 4: my dad walking me down the aisle.

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Speaker 2: But you can.

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Speaker 4: Totally make your wedding whatever you want to be, you know,

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Speaker 4: and they any when it even comes down to what

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Speaker 4: the officiant says, you know, they don't they say, who

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Speaker 4: gives this bride away?

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Speaker 2: Like you don't even have to have that in the.

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Speaker 4: Script, you know, like you can make it, make them

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Speaker 4: say whatever they want, like they don't have to say that.

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Speaker 2: I'm an advocate for that.

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Speaker 1: But again, I'm a little which is so weird to

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Speaker 1: all of the people that are close to me that

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Speaker 1: I'm so kind of untraditional from the most traditional parents

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Speaker 1: and family on the planet, like in my parents who

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Speaker 1: are still married. But I think that if it were

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Speaker 1: to ever happen, I'd want to do it quietly and

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Speaker 1: then have a celebration and just kind of not do

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Speaker 1: all those standard things.

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Speaker 4: I think that that's how you would do it, and

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Speaker 4: your family would respect it and it would still be fine.

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Speaker 2: And I said, hey, by the way, we're married. I

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Speaker 2: got married on Friday. Oh my, they would not be cool.

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Speaker 4: But in this date her podcast is called call her Daddy?

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Speaker 4: How is she not going to have him walk down

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Speaker 4: the aisle? It's not about her daddy. It's like basically saying,

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Speaker 4: like call her daddy. You know, it's not like a man.

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Speaker 4: It's like called her like.

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Speaker 2: The girl the woman emails.

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Speaker 4: What happens with So did he ask for her dad's

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Speaker 4: hand in marriage? Like?

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Speaker 2: Did did they do all the behind thee Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I didn't hear. I did not hear how that went down.

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Speaker 4: Because it was already there's those traditions as well.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so interesting when you think about it, right.

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Speaker 2: I mean, Alex should call her daddy and tell him

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Speaker 2: he's out of the wedding day job.

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Speaker 4: It is such a weird thing when you think about it.

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Speaker 4: Michael always jokes that, like him and my dad made

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Speaker 4: a deal at the Kotella Deli. He's like, that's where.

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Speaker 1: I asked your dad at my daddy is showing me

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Speaker 1: the room where jimmy my dad about my sister. Here's

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Speaker 1: the room we sat in and talked about all the tradition.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you for that. Coming up next, let's

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