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Speaker 1: What's up? It is lip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm

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Speaker 1: Jazzmine Brandt, and I'm Tella h right here, all right,

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Speaker 1: Victor Thompson is joining us. How long are you in

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Speaker 1: New York?

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Speaker 2: For six days?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Do you like it here? You love it here? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Noy?

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Speaker 1: Still I'm not saying it's a competition.

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Speaker 3: New York.

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Speaker 1: So you're spending your anniversary, your three year anniversary in

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Speaker 1: New York?

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Speaker 2: Just the change of environment, well nine, still on top

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Speaker 2: of it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, listen, I'm not trying to go back and forth

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Speaker 1: with you. I've never been to Nigeria. I can't speak

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Speaker 1: to that. I heard Ghana is better now. I'm playing

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Speaker 1: with your.

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Speaker 2: Gloves right now.

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Speaker 1: I was just saying that to make you mad. But

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Speaker 1: first of all, thank you for joining us. You know

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Speaker 1: you had you had a huge hit song with Gunna

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Speaker 1: on it, and that was huge for Gunna. Also, by

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Speaker 1: the way, you know, at a time when he was

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Speaker 1: going through a lot, I think that meant a lied

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Speaker 1: to him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course we had some bit of conversations, deep conversations,

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Speaker 2: and that's actually their love for him. It was a

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Speaker 2: big one for him, not just about the emotionally and everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, blessing.

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Speaker 2: It was a blessing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that definitely was a great time for that

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Speaker 1: blessing to come about. It feels like you're pretty blessed too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah obviously yeah, obviously.

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Speaker 1: Happy life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that happier wife life. I think I

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Speaker 2: should have that on my bible.

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Speaker 3: Some pretty place, you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so let's talk about some things. You know, this

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Speaker 1: is a personal podcast and we're going to get very

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Speaker 1: personal with you. But first we want to celebrate your anniversary. Now,

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Speaker 1: I know you don't drink, but it's also.

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Speaker 3: Because do you drink a wine? Have you ever drank alcohol?

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Speaker 4: All?

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Speaker 2: At a point in my life when I was much younger,

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Speaker 2: after sold alcohol.

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Speaker 3: You sold alcohol?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what do you mean by that? Like you worked

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Speaker 1: at a bar or liquor store.

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Speaker 2: Or in Nigeria, there's a what do you call it?

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Speaker 2: There's something we're called gin. But my problem when you

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Speaker 2: get to Nigeria actually maraga or we're called go guru.

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Speaker 2: You remember this?

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Speaker 1: What is it called guru?

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Speaker 2: Okay? You should have come for classes go guru? Yes,

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Speaker 2: So so I sold it's.

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Speaker 3: Legal or illegal?

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Speaker 2: You call him?

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Speaker 1: Say he was illegal? Now I don't know, like it's prohibitions.

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Speaker 3: Sound like this sounds sounds illegal.

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Speaker 2: Everyone comes to buy from me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, again, sounds illegal.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of like nutcrackers and New York.

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Speaker 3: You know, did you make good money doing that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I was just trying to get by. So at

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Speaker 2: that time, my parents were late, so I was trying

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Speaker 2: you know that time. Okay, I made some cool cash. Yes,

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Speaker 3: During that time you drank a little bit. No, No,

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Speaker 3: you still didn't drink.

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Speaker 2: I still didn't drink.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. That was so you were peddling that

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Speaker 1: to people, but.

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Speaker 4: Not just what I think was the recipe.

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Speaker 2: Those were local jeans, you know, the local herbs and everything.

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Speaker 2: So I just make everything concoursions.

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Speaker 3: And good bartender.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I used to be very good.

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Speaker 1: How do you know what if it was good? If

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Speaker 1: you didn't ever taste it, you never had to like no, so.

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Speaker 2: The smell of it, the smell of like, yeah, to

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Speaker 2: the smell of it, I knew to quantity everything, how

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Speaker 2: to mix it. Yeah, sound was very good. Okay, I

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Speaker 2: didn't have over you sixteen?

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Speaker 1: Okay, is there a drinking age? Because I know here

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Speaker 1: you have to be twenty one in the United States.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to put nine on the map now.

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Speaker 1: No, okay, really all right, but we're gonna have it.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have a drink, and you're gonna want patch

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Speaker 2: I think I've left that alone.

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Speaker 1: It's Jasmine and I have it's you know, it is

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Speaker 1: Jazzmin's birthday, but her birthday happens to be the same

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Speaker 1: day as your anniversary. Like we were saying, which is special?

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Speaker 1: December fifth?

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Speaker 3: Yes, your faith?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you can open this for me. There's a

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Speaker 1: lot of work over here. We're going to have some

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Speaker 1: class A. Really, this has a bell on tap, so

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Speaker 1: you ring the bell.

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Speaker 3: You know to have seen it before.

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Speaker 2: I have never done this before, and I think all

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Speaker 2: your past.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you don't have to do it. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: do it for you.

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Speaker 3: Drink on your behalf.

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Speaker 1: We're going to celebrate celebrating your anniversary, okay without you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's good.

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Speaker 1: All right. Well, so I want to talk about just

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Speaker 1: basically your journey to get to where you are because

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Speaker 1: you actually met your wife in church right five years.

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Speaker 1: Because I do my little bit of research and then

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Speaker 1: I saw a video of the wedding and everything, so

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Speaker 1: beautiful wedding. It was a beautiful wedding. How did you

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Speaker 1: guys meet? Because I know I saw she said that

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Speaker 1: you thought that or you thought that, you know, she

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Speaker 1: thought you didn't like her. Is that what happened?

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Speaker 2: Yeh, she thought that, you like, well, she loved me

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Speaker 2: all alone from the very beginning. Are you sure she's

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Speaker 2: not going to admit to that? But I know that's

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Speaker 2: what it is, you know. So we met in church

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Speaker 2: twenty fifteen and I just saw this lady. I was

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Speaker 2: I was like, see your face for the first time,

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Speaker 2: and you just walk up to here and say hi.

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Speaker 2: Then I walked over and hello, what's up? She didn't respond.

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Speaker 2: I was like, you like that, Chase, Yes, you like that.

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Speaker 1: She didn't respect so she would have been like, hey.

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Speaker 2: You actually in love when ladies are tough. Yes see,

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Speaker 2: And then I was like I have never spoken to

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Speaker 2: some time I left it twenty seventeen.

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Speaker 2: I came back to the same city she was. Then

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Speaker 2: she got back from from from London and she came

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Speaker 1: Why okay, so you are already late, yeah at church

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Speaker 1: and then everybody, yeah, everybody knew you were you were

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Speaker 3: You're the man.

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Speaker 2: Stop what its in my mouth?

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Speaker 1: So you know?

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Speaker 2: So twenty seventeen, we she came, she came back from

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Speaker 2: I wasn't I I was the music director.

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Speaker 1: Did you have to give her permission to join the choir?

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Speaker 2: But then she was like all knowing, like you know,

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Speaker 2: She she she has the presence and everything. So she

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Speaker 3: She's the leader.

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, what's happening here? So we have some

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Speaker 2: you know what, whatever need you need this choir. We

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Speaker 3: You try to kick her out the choir, Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: I was upset.

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Speaker 1: I was like, leader, but go ahead.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm the music director here, so everyone

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Speaker 1: You said she had to write an apology letter.

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Speaker 2: I requested an apology letter.

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Speaker 3: I've requested an apology letter.

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Speaker 2: You know she wrote the apology letter.

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Speaker 1: You still have it.

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Speaker 2: In my head.

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Speaker 1: What did she say?

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Speaker 2: No, she apologized for how she behaved. They wouldn't do it.

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Speaker 2: She was not totally wrong. She was not completely wrong,

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Speaker 2: That's the show. She loves me from the very beginning.

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Speaker 3: That's when that's how you interpreted it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you call that interpretation. Now.

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Speaker 1: I heard a different story. I heard that somebody else

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Speaker 2: No, yeah, she did. She wrote the letter. I think

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Speaker 2: she was. She was living for the airport. She was

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Speaker 1: And I was like no, and she was leaving for

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Speaker 1: she's really good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I guess I wanted to see her face

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Speaker 3: And you missed her.

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Speaker 2: You know, somebody letter came and when she came back

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Speaker 1: This is ridiculous. She apologized. She did what you ask.

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Speaker 2: Person.

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Speaker 1: Okay, my goodness, are you serious?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I needed to see official expressions and everything.

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Speaker 1: When why didn't you just say I like you.

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Speaker 2: No, we need events to onfold to that point you wanted.

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Speaker 2: I love I love the whole drama and everything. But

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Speaker 2: at that point I didn't admit her that I was.

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Speaker 5: That's why you're a good artist. I'm sure to go ahead.

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Speaker 1: I told you I needed to write an apology letter.

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Speaker 1: It depends on who it is.

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Speaker 4: It depends, because you know, sometimes you just feed the

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Speaker 1: You care you know you can't.

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Speaker 4: It's just you can follow his leadership. You know, that's cool,

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Speaker 4: And that's probably what all he wanted. He just wanted

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Speaker 4: to know, like, Okay, she already been a little difficult

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Speaker 4: to do this, and she knew what to do.

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Speaker 1: It's a test, so it was.

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Speaker 4: It's another form of reverse by college when I'm buying,

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Speaker 4: but just lit Okay, okay, what.

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Speaker 1: Are the things Jasmine? Like, maybe somebody has put you

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Speaker 1: Have you ever had somebody put you through like a test?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well while they do that, So I just drinks

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Speaker 2: Yeah? So I used to think that rice makes me happy,

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Speaker 1: Okay, if so your wife isn't cooking, then she isn't.

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Speaker 1: You can call her and say, baby, what should I eat?

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Speaker 2: No, but I've never done an international trip outside without her.

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Speaker 1: That is so many?

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Speaker 1: You know what? That is a fact? You know when

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Speaker 2: Every time we're on the plane. Every time when they're coming, like, so,

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Speaker 1: For clearly first class, clearly clearly know what you know,

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Speaker 2: The family? No? Yeah, the family was very cordial everything,

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Speaker 2: So if you come back to me and you were

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Speaker 1: I love that. And it's so interesting you say that

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Speaker 2: And people would be like, my goodness.

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Speaker 5: But I think sometimes they'd be having their earbuds into

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Speaker 1: On and I have to stop myself, and Jasmine does this, hello,

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Speaker 1: I like that. It's great because it's something that I

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Speaker 5: She didn't mean anything, but it just I was just like,

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Speaker 1: But it just was I was just like, oh.

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh that's not nine year nine year looking Oh

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Speaker 5: And there's a lot of I mean because like Angela's reasoning,

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Speaker 5: Angela's reasoning is because of so many people in New

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Speaker 1: But it isn't more spread out though, because New York

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Speaker 2: Each other, Legos, we're actually leaving with each other, okay,

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Speaker 2: the same I was. I was stating my wife, like,

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Speaker 2: like Times Square gives me the Legos feel all.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's a lot of people. Have you been to

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Speaker 2: I don't think I have.

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Speaker 1: Oh you got to go there. Here, we have a

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Speaker 5: You got to really Yeah, I like it, but I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to hear what you have to say

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Speaker 2: Why why why why did they call it Legos.

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Speaker 1: Because it's an Afro Caribbean restaurant. Oh yeah, so I

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Speaker 2: That mean is the food to be very nice? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: if you.

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Speaker 3: Want to go, let me know it.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, It's not right. We just

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Speaker 2: know how to represent very well. Okay, I'm sure my

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Speaker 1: So how does you break down your walls? Because you

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Speaker 1: have to also be open to that. But like, what

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Speaker 2: So practically there are times when she was just all

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Then it got to your point that I was like,

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Speaker 2: do you want? I hope you're doing all this for anything,

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Speaker 2: because the my guards were so op that I didn't

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Speaker 2: I feel like you want something, you want something. It's

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Speaker 2: point I was like, what do you want? I can't

450
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 2: give you anything. So but she was like, just relax,

451
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 2: I'm just being friendly, you know what. I didn't take

452
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:29,479
Speaker 2: that to be just being friendly. I was like, no, no,

453
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 2: there's more to this, there's more to this. But time

454
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:37,760
Speaker 2: went by, the the nature was consistent, she was consistent,

455
00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 2: and then I didn't even know I had so much

456
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 2: love inside of me.

457
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,359
Speaker 1: I was just waiting to come out. It was like

458
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 1: a damn waiting to burst open. What a description for real,

459
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,639
Speaker 1: because you got to think, like for you to have

460
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 1: kind of raised, you know, yourself at a certain point

461
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 1: and then also having your guards up and never having

462
00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 1: been able to like safe enough, that's like the wars

463
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,399
Speaker 1: come down and everything's ready to you know.

464
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 2: So I was very safe and I felt.

465
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 3: Loved, felt safe, and you felt loved.

466
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 2: So and I just bought everything and I saw that

467
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:20,639
Speaker 2: there was this mutual respect, regard, love for one of it.

468
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: It wasn't one sided, you know, I saw the transformation

469
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 2: on both sides.

470
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:29,400
Speaker 1: And how has it changed your life? Like as far

471
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:30,120
Speaker 1: as even your.

472
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:37,440
Speaker 2: Music since I met her, my my my sound, not

473
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 2: just the sound, my lyrics changed. There's something inside of

474
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 2: me that I can I cannot write anything outside God's love.

475
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 1: Depended on God.

476
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, there's there's I see God's love literally

477
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 2: through her.

478
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 1: Wow.

479
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 2: So and that's that. That's what I shapened, my my

480
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 2: file of music, my lyrics and everything.

481
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,160
Speaker 1: You feel like God sent her to Yeah.

482
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 2: No, definitely, I told her so. Twenty seventeen, twenty sixteen.

483
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 2: I was I was praying, and I was like, God,

484
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 2: I need a change of level. I need to change

485
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 2: your status and everything. So it was like I needed

486
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 2: to get married.

487
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:18,239
Speaker 3: That's what you have God tell you.

488
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, said I need. I need you to get married.

489
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:22,959
Speaker 2: I need I need to position you, I need to

490
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 2: make you focus. I was like, no, no, no, no, no no,

491
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 2: I'm not ready for marriage yet. Give me the money,

492
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 2: give me everything I need. Don't worry, I'll get married

493
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 2: because when I converse with the Holy Spirit with God,

494
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 2: it's like I'm talking to my friend because that's who

495
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 2: I've fullays spoken to anyways, you know. So I was

496
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 2: like I needed to get I said, no, I'm not

497
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 2: ready for that. So twenty seventeen I had I was

498
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 2: in a relationship, so I was like, you know what,

499
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 2: I'm going to get married to twenty seventeen. So I

500
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 2: go back from I was on the voice like during

501
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 2: South Africa. So I was like, you know what, let

502
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,240
Speaker 2: me just get married. I wrote down the list of

503
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 2: things we're going to do. We have this traditional marriage

504
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 2: in nine year than the white wedding. You know that

505
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 2: that's a church wedding. I'm like, okay. So I least

506
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,640
Speaker 2: aid everything to this time. I was like, okay, I'm

507
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 2: ready to get married now. So something happened. I could

508
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 2: not continue with the person with that person, and that

509
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 2: was where my wife came in.

510
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:15,479
Speaker 1: Wow.

511
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,639
Speaker 2: So I was like, you know what. See, I was

512
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 2: ready to get married, but this person is not. So

513
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: I think let's just move on. Give me what I

514
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 2: need I've been asking, then don't worry, I'll get married.

515
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,360
Speaker 2: So he kept on and I told my wife, I said,

516
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,360
Speaker 2: this is what God is staying at me. I don't

517
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 2: think I'm ready yet for it. Personally, I don't think

518
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,439
Speaker 2: I was ready yet for it because I needed some

519
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 2: things to be sett but then I just took the boostep.

520
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 2: So twenty twenty, we'll got married and just in a

521
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 2: few months it was a three sixty degree three sixty

522
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:51,199
Speaker 2: don a round with who you? Yeah? With me?

523
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: How did you?

524
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:54,919
Speaker 3: What happened that? Where you do? Like, okay, I'm supposed

525
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 3: to be marrying her?

526
00:24:55,960 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 2: What happened? Okay? So I told her this. After we

527
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:05,400
Speaker 2: got married. I was like, there were there were nodges

528
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 2: that she was the one, but I refused. I can

529
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 2: be very very adamal. I was like, no, I'm not

530
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 2: moving on because I don't think she was the one.

531
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 2: We're close friends already, we had businesses together that we run,

532
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 2: but there was no much of a romantic relationship between us.

533
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 2: But then it grew.

534
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 1: How did the businesses party even happen? Right? She came back?

535
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, so she came back and like I said, when

536
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 2: I sell my dreams to her, she runs as fast

537
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,880
Speaker 2: as she could and I tell her jump you tell

538
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 2: me how I you know? So I saw it. I

539
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 2: was like, I have the passion to raise young people.

540
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,959
Speaker 2: I just want to have like a talent show and

541
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 2: everything it's like okay, so where do we start. Let's

542
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 2: get propose us out. We went from one office to

543
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:02,479
Speaker 2: the other in Nigeria submitting proposing us. She has two

544
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 2: masters studied business administration in Middlesex and she left that

545
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 2: and she was like okay, let's let's let's move on.

546
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 2: And then she has the K train company as well.

547
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 2: I was also interested in the catrain company, like we

548
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 2: need to make this company bigger. So went on social media,

549
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 2: went from went to different banks submitting proposers. Let's handle

550
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 2: let's manage your canteens and all the big companies in Nigeria.

551
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:36,440
Speaker 2: So she saw that I was interested in our business

552
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,120
Speaker 2: in her life in a career, she was interested in mine.

553
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 2: What more can I ask for?

554
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: Right? I saw you were talking about also how being

555
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 1: an artist is hard for people to get the finances

556
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: and the mentorship that they need in order to faster

557
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 1: that creativity and to really be able to promote themselves

558
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: and put their music out there. So is that how

559
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,360
Speaker 1: you were able to get the finances because you said

560
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:58,360
Speaker 1: it's expensive.

561
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:01,400
Speaker 2: So it's quite expensive to get a promotion, gets the

562
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 2: right people to listen to your song and everything, but

563
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 2: no one, no one wants to listen to a song

564
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 2: that is not doing well, you know. Yeah, so the

565
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 2: first concert I did, I didn't have the personal phones

566
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 2: to do it. You know, my wife gave me three

567
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 2: months of O O income three months but everything, Go

568
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,879
Speaker 2: ahead and do the concept someone that believes in I

569
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 2: tell you.

570
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 3: She invested in you.

571
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 1: She invested And that's a rare thing. I feel like,

572
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, like.

573
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and this is the very first time I'm saying

574
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 2: this on on air. This is the very first time

575
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,879
Speaker 2: I'm saying it. She invested in me three months of

576
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 2: that of our income. No one will do that everything

577
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 2: not like she kept some.

578
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: Because I feel like women always talk about what men

579
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,159
Speaker 1: need to bring to the table.

580
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,159
Speaker 2: You know, Are you sure it's not the other way around?

581
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 2: When men ask women what they bring to the table.

582
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 5: What men do ask also what we bring? What you

583
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,400
Speaker 5: bring the table? Financially, Yeah, I think we think about

584
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:00,080
Speaker 5: what they bring.

585
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 1: To Yeah, financially I think women will be like, well,

586
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 1: if he doesn't have this, he doesn't take me to

587
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: this best around, if he doesn't do this for me,

588
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,719
Speaker 1: you know, And that is the truth. And so for

589
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 1: her to be successful, But know that, like she believed

590
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 1: in you so much? How did it move from business

591
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 1: to romantic?

592
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 2: H It was the very thing line. I can't even

593
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 2: explain it. I just knew we're from here, from here,

594
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 2: we're already here.

595
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,479
Speaker 1: Who initiated it?

596
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:28,719
Speaker 2: I did?

597
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: Okay? Good?

598
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 2: She told me she loves me first.

599
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 3: She said she loved you first. Okay, what did you say?

600
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 3: You just like, okay, So this.

601
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 2: Thank you I don't know how to. I didn't know

602
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 2: how to respond to I love you, so why you

603
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 2: tell me I love you? Thank you so much? So

604
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 2: most times he tells me I love you, I just oh, God,

605
00:28:58,600 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 2: bless you, thank you.

606
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 4: Pass out.

607
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 3: I'm like, no feelings, will I love you?

608
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 5: God bless you like you know, I told him I

609
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 5: love you when he said, God.

610
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: Bless you, God bless me.

611
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 3: So much, forehead and send me on.

612
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 2: The moment I started saying, But the moment I started

613
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 2: telling her I love her, she got tired of it.

614
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 3: You tell oh my goodness.

615
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. The moment we did we had a

616
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 2: traditional wedding. I don't know what you guys call it

617
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 2: traditional wedding. So the moment we had a traditional wedding,

618
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 2: it was I love you from from you know, I

619
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 2: send that text messages every morning, every morning. Every morning.

620
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 2: You skep the day now, so any day it comes late,

621
00:29:55,560 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 2: she's like, hm, what's happening. What's happening is not doing

622
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:01,719
Speaker 2: anything wrong? You know?

623
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: You know, did you cry at your wedding?

624
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: No? I didn't. You did basically Okay, Well my heart.

625
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 3: Cried on the inside.

626
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you wrote your own vows and everything.

627
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that morning I sent her a message, very long

628
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 2: message and the vow and everything. She's very emotional. That's

629
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 2: why I'm glad she's not here now talking about all

630
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 2: this here.

631
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: That's right. My man, my man, my man, my man.

632
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: So listen. I know, because you were the music director

633
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: at the church, I'm sure the ladies loved you there too.

634
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 2: Oh. I was praying you wouldn't touch on that topic.

635
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: So what was that like for you?

636
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 2: You know, I really don't see anybody, Like I said earlier, I'm.

637
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 1: Like before marriage, because like you said, you know, your

638
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: guards were up, and there has to be women who

639
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: did not have good intentions. Who were you know, trying to.

640
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:09,479
Speaker 2: I feel like every no one had good intentions. So

641
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 2: I just that to just do the music thing and

642
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:13,719
Speaker 2: and and move on.

643
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 1: What about business wise, as far as you know, anybody

644
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 1: like wanting to do business with you, talking to you

645
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 1: about your music, taking it to the next level. How

646
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 1: are you with business? You know your guards were up emotionally,

647
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: but when it came to business where your.

648
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 2: It was just business for me, let's do business.

649
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 1: But did you trust people for business too? Because sometimes

650
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 1: you don't believe anything anybody is telling you. And that's

651
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: that's a hard thing.

652
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 2: I'm always I'm always looking looking at looking for loopholes.

653
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 2: I'm always looking at okay, always double checking because I

654
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 2: don't trust. I'd never trust anyone completely. I'd never trust

655
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 2: anyone completely until my wife, not.

656
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 1: Even your family members even to this day.

657
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 4: But do you trust anybody else outside or your wife

658
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 4: to this day completely?

659
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 2: She she's changed me completely. So the truth is I

660
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 2: love people genuinely right now. The extent to which I'll

661
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 2: go for people sometimes it's even shocking to me, you know,

662
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,719
Speaker 2: So I love people completely. I trust people now. So

663
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 2: it's it's it's it's a complete mind mind shift.

664
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not fun to go through life not trusting anyone. Yeah, honestly, Yeah,

665
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 1: it's really not like it's not People could say that,

666
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 1: but that's not a yeah.

667
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,719
Speaker 2: I think for me it was it was a littally

668
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 2: extreme I guess because of my upbringing and everything, the

669
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 2: incidents that happened while I was growing up, So it

670
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 2: just actually placed me in a very dark place. So

671
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 2: I guess that that was that was wife for me.

672
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: I love the fact that, like, we've never had anybody

673
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 1: come on here and talk like this about their wife.

674
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 5: Yes, going to make this last because this is only

675
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 5: with three years. How are you going to make this,

676
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 5: you know, last, for last forever?

677
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 2: Making it last forever is not in my hands. It's

678
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 2: not in my hands. Yeah. And the moment, the moment

679
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 2: we put God at the center of everything, you won't

680
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 2: even have the mind to hurt the other person. That's

681
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 2: the truth, because she got at the center of it.

682
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 2: And every time we pray that led the peace of

683
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 2: God reain in our home. Let the love of God

684
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 2: read in her home, because beyond the love you have

685
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 2: for her. There are times when there was a time

686
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 2: when I traveled somewhere I won't mention the name of it.

687
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 2: She didn't go with me. It was a local gig,

688
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 2: so she went with me. She didn't go with me,

689
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 2: and I got to the hotel and this is the

690
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 2: first time I'm also saying this on Earth. Then this

691
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 2: lady from the reception, I was like, I was wondering

692
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 2: why the lady from the reception, like the desk, the

693
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:07,479
Speaker 2: front desk, will want to take my box to the room,

694
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:09,839
Speaker 2: like because you have the concerge and everything, so when

695
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 2: they should they should do that. So my band my

696
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 2: band members didn't see what was going on. So they

697
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 2: had another apartment for them and everything. So the lady

698
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 2: walked on says, please let me can I like, let

699
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 2: me help you with your bags and everything. I was like, okay,

700
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 2: So she moved up there was like, are you sure

701
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 2: you okay? Said I'm good. I'm fine with a bag.

702
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 2: Just show me the room. So she got to the room.

703
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 2: It's it's it's a two rooms. It sweet. So she

704
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,239
Speaker 2: got she opened the first door. I was behind her,

705
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 2: so I was supposed to close the door behind me.

706
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 2: Not so she came back to the door and shut

707
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 2: the door. Do you understand, Yes, we understand. So she

708
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 2: came back and shut the door more than understand. So

709
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 2: at that point I knew something was wrong. Then she

710
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 2: moved on to the next to the main room like okay,

711
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 2: so this is your room and everything. Then she walked

712
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 2: up to me like do you need anything, and so

713
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 2: at that point I was already dialing in my wife's

714
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:18,879
Speaker 2: number the video call, so that's how I said nothing. Oh,

715
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,760
Speaker 2: thank you so much, sister, thank you, thank you, my sister,

716
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 2: thank you. I was already dialing her number on video call.

717
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 2: I said, oh baby, this is what's going on and

718
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,800
Speaker 2: all that. So the moment the lady out left, the

719
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 2: believe was not like, oh, I was just joking.

720
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:37,760
Speaker 3: Left then she left.

721
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 2: So the moment I was going to order I needed food.

722
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,359
Speaker 2: I was hungry. My wife was on video call all through,

723
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 2: so no one come and tell me nothing. There see,

724
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 2: the same incident happened somewhere else again where the lady

725
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 2: was like, okay, let me take it to your room.

726
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 2: And with the ring and everything, there's still that's when

727
00:35:59,400 --> 00:35:59,959
Speaker 2: they even want.

728
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:01,800
Speaker 1: To right because I know you can't say.

729
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 2: Nothing, yeah, you can keep sound like to me, so

730
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 2: we go to delay was like, let me take it

731
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 2: to and the moment she got to the door, she

732
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 2: was like ah so signing, kissed like I think this

733
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 2: would be my last street for the year, and my

734
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,919
Speaker 2: wife and died. We need to and and the moment

735
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,799
Speaker 2: I started talking about my wife and that she was

736
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 2: at the door, and I was like, oh, my wife,

737
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 2: and that we need to take a trip to uh,

738
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 2: she was already caught out of it. And that was

739
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 2: when I doubt. So every time I traveled without her

740
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:34,359
Speaker 2: local local gigs, I'm always on video calls. I'm always

741
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 2: on video call. So we sleep and next morning, so

742
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 2: I just plugged the phone to the so it doesn't

743
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 2: go so you can follow sleep and that's it.

744
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:43,760
Speaker 3: I love it.

745
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, whatever works, listen.

746
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: Okay, So no relationship is smooth with no arguments, right,

747
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: So what are your arguments like and how do you

748
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: guys deal with that? Because I always feel like in

749
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 1: order to be successful in a relationship, you have to

750
00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 1: know how to argue productively with each other.

751
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,280
Speaker 2: So the truth is, we've never had a major argument

752
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 2: for the past three years. We've been friends for five

753
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 2: years now, five or six years and whatever, I had

754
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: a major argument. But the thing is, we were friends

755
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 2: before marriage, so we knew what each other likes and

756
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 2: what you know, there was a time, there was a

757
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 2: time she was in the room somewhere before we got married,

758
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,839
Speaker 2: and she was just on the phone and I walked

759
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 2: into the room. Then she she closed the phone, and

760
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 2: then I was like, oh, please don't do that again.

761
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 2: For me, it felt to me like you were hiding something,

762
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 2: and that's like a big red flag for me. Please

763
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 2: don't do that again. And to her, she was trying

764
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 2: to respect me. You know, when someone wants to talk

765
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 2: to you, itse okay. Well you know that was what

766
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:01,799
Speaker 2: she was trying to do. But I do understand that

767
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 2: because of previous relationship limited issues. Yeah, thank you, So

768
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,919
Speaker 2: I trust issues already. So I was like, please don't

769
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 2: do that again. So there are things that we already

770
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 2: spoke about even before marriage. That doesn't mean when we

771
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 2: don't argue, but they are no major argument. We've not

772
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 2: we've not we've not had any major argument. So it's

773
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 2: always been just some flimsy talks here and in a

774
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 2: few minutes where the.

775
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I know me, like if I'm annoyed, I

776
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 1: just need to not talk to you for a little while,

777
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 1: like I need a little bit of time to be

778
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 1: like let me just calm down. I want to I

779
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 1: don't want to talk to you in the middle of

780
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,760
Speaker 1: an argument, Like while it's happening. I need to wait

781
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 1: a couple of hours before so everybody can be calm,

782
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 1: so I don't say anything. I regret. I won't say much.

783
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,240
Speaker 2: Prior to this time. I don't like talking about issues,

784
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 2: so I just keep it to myself. And when you

785
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:57,879
Speaker 2: offend me, when I'm angry, I don't talk about it.

786
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 2: So just keep it to myself. I just bought a

787
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 2: little but I'm angry. But it shows in my disposition

788
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:07,360
Speaker 2: and everything that this guy is not feeling. So but

789
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 2: when she came in, she oh, every time, she's like,

790
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 2: please talk. Did I do anything wrong? Please talk? So

791
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:16,760
Speaker 2: it got it. There was a time in the morning,

792
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 2: my breakfast was already at ten. That was the first

793
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 2: time I steady're talking. So I told her, you see,

794
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 2: you asked me to be talking. Though you asked me

795
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 2: to be talking now breakfast is already at ten, you know.

796
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 2: She was like, No, that's not what I'm telling you

797
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 2: to those are not that's that's not the kind of

798
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 2: thing I'm asking you to talk about. Talking about serio

799
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 2: things that you're angry about or you know. But since

800
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 2: ever since, there's been nothing happening that we don't talk about.

801
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 2: But she she always wants to talk about everything. You

802
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:48,800
Speaker 2: in the middle of an argument, you want to just

803
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:50,360
Speaker 2: keep to yourself and just keep quiet.

804
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 1: And I need a moment. I talk about it later.

805
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, moment she want.

806
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 3: To talk about now.

807
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 2: She wants to talk about it now. But I've never

808
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 2: had a major argument. It's been like lead to things

809
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 2: that a few minutes. We don't forget that way we're

810
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 2: angry with each other, Like, but what about that I forgot?

811
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 2: I was angry, you know, right, and that has been it?

812
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good. Yeah, listen, how you are you? Teller?

813
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 1: I'm like her, I gotta get straight to it. I

814
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: don't want to wait.

815
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 4: Ain't no common damn. My partner is the opposite. He's

816
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 4: very non confrontational. So he's just gonna be like, okay

817
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 4: right now, so he don't even.

818
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 1: I would like that, but no, because really he's just

819
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 1: shutting me up. Yeah that's like saying sorry, but you're

820
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: not really sorry.

821
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 2: That's me. Yeah, that's me, that's me, that's me. You

822
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,240
Speaker 2: know what, You're right? Sorry, Yeah I'm wrong.

823
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 5: Would you would you want somebody that what would you

824
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 5: like his responses to be?

825
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 4: Like? I would like for him to take me in

826
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, think about it, and then respond.

827
00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 1: Conversation, because that's gonna be That's when you gotta be like, So,

828
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: what exactly are you sorry for?

829
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 2: Right? Yeah?

830
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 1: You gotta grew up a letter telling me why you're

831
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:12,359
Speaker 1: sorry and make sure you can't you deliver it and.

832
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 3: I can see you.

833
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 2: What are you?

834
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 1: I need to know why are you sorry? And you

835
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 1: got to deliver me this letter.

836
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 2: Comes.

837
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:29,240
Speaker 5: Deliver the letter to me the nerve of you.

838
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 1: No, it wasn't.

839
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 2: Now.

840
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,240
Speaker 1: Earlier we talked about what food makes you the happiest.

841
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: You said rice. You said thought it was rice because

842
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 1: they were saying scientifically, they said pasta makes people the happiest. Jasmine,

843
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: what food makes you happy?

844
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 3: Buffalo wings or yeah?

845
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 5: Or fried chicken fried hard like just chicken, just chicken,

846
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 5: fried chicken into fried chicken.

847
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 2: I don't like me.

848
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: You don't like chicken. You're like meat or chicken, vegetarian

849
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: or pescatarian.

850
00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 2: I just don't like me.

851
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:00,800
Speaker 3: Okay, fish, you like fish?

852
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 2: Okay, just give me a rice. And I don't like

853
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 2: my daughter she loves rice.

854
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 3: Tearing.

855
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:10,439
Speaker 1: What does not like rice?

856
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 2: Though?

857
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 1: What culture like does not like? There's nobody you need

858
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: to you need to try. Okay, what the restaurant we

859
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 1: go to in Brooklyn?

860
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 2: It's called Joe.

861
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: It's so really Yeah, there's a restaurant in Brooklyn that

862
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 1: we that we eat from all the time called that

863
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: is My Spots.

864
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 3: It's so good.

865
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: What the yasa? That's what I get?

866
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 2: I don't know.

867
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 3: Whatever you water?

868
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,439
Speaker 1: You know, I know, don't get no pizza. What food

869
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 1: makes you happy? What's your Chicago pizza?

870
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 2: Relax?

871
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 1: New York pizza is better.

872
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 2: Stop.

873
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 1: My favorite food is chicken. To see. Chicken is just so.

874
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 4: Good, like fried wain frad hard.

875
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 3: I don't mind barbecue chicken too, and.

876
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 1: I love barbecue chicken. But I fried my chicken first.

877
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 1: Didn't put than a barbecue with taste metal? Yeah, I

878
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 1: like it?

879
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 3: I like, yeah, okay, go ahead.

880
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 1: And what else do you like?

881
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 5: I just like just chicken, Like.

882
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 1: I like wings, drompsticks, legs.

883
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 3: Flats, just all flats.

884
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: So if you could eat that one food for the

885
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,479
Speaker 1: rest of your life, it would be chicken. Like fried

886
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 1: chicken for sure, probably.

887
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 3: And I know it's not the fry part.

888
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 5: I know it's not. What about you, Angela?

889
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:33,800
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, first of all, I love French fries.

890
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 1: You like sweets, and I love dessert. I love desserts.

891
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: That is one thing about me. I would rather eat

892
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: dessert than food any day. No, I don't really eat bagels,

893
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 1: will you don't? I probably have eaten, but I barely

894
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 1: ever eat baborite.

895
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:50,879
Speaker 4: Yeah.

896
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 1: I probably eat bagels maybe like five times a year. Yeah,

897
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 1: not a lot at all, don't.

898
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 3: I don't mind a bagel.

899
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: I don't mind it. I just know it's no nutritional.

900
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's nothing good for me. Here what there's fried chicken?

901
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 5: But out here right here, yeah, here we are. I

902
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 5: love not its dessert, but you love this.

903
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 3: What's your favorite dessert anything?

904
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:11,439
Speaker 1: You don't know that I have a favorite. I would

905
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 1: need to dessert, like instead of dinner.

906
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:15,760
Speaker 2: I don't have a favorite.

907
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah that's hard to say. Like when you ask

908
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: somebody who loves dessert, what's your.

909
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:21,879
Speaker 5: Favorite, I'm like a little dessert, just like a little

910
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 5: bit after money.

911
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,799
Speaker 1: I'll be trying to give her something. She's like, I'm okay,

912
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: I'm not.

913
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 5: It doesn't do any I need it after a meal

914
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 5: and not the whole dessert, Like just like a little

915
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 5: piece of something, just something sweet at the end of

916
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 5: a meal.

917
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 1: All right, now, let me let me ask you this victim,

918
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 1: who will fall asleep first when you guys get in bed.

919
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 3: Me guys sleep first.

920
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: And wake up last. See, now that's the cause for

921
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 1: an argument. I was trying to talk to you, I

922
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: was trying to cuddle. I'm trying to have some sexy time.

923
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 3: And you fell asleep over there snoring.

924
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: Do you cut off? Like, are you the type of

925
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: person that you sleep cuddle up.

926
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 2: Or do you need to be like she likes to.

927
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: Do you like to cuddle? Yeah? Or do you move away?

928
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: Because sometimes it's hard.

929
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 2: I like to call it in the middle of my

930
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:10,720
Speaker 2: sleep okay, okay, roll.

931
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,479
Speaker 1: Over and be like where is she at? Yeah, my sleep.

932
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 2: I just like to, you know, before sleep. She likes

933
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 2: to cut them.

934
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 3: Before Yeah, okay, I can see that.

935
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 1: I feel like that's the best way to sleep. I

936
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:26,879
Speaker 1: like to fall asleep, like I.

937
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 3: Need to go a few minutes and then I need

938
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 3: to go on my side.

939
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hard to cuttle all night.

940
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 2: Yeahella is like nope, is it difficult to look?

941
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:39,240
Speaker 4: You know, at first we used to just be coloring

942
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 4: and coloring, but now it's like.

943
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 1: It depends And don't you to sleep on the couch.

944
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 1: I will make you get up, Like if you fallow

945
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,720
Speaker 1: sleep on the couch, I'm like, come on, that blows.

946
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: I am a cuddle little you are.

947
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 4: It just depends on at the time.

948
00:45:57,840 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 1: Now, listen, Shell, I used to have some issues with

949
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 1: nineteen forty two, but you stopped. No other.

950
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 2: Said.

951
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: She would call me and be like, Angela, I cannot

952
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: take no more nineteen forty two. I don't know what happened.

953
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: You would get arguments. Yes, it used to be a lot.

954
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:16,479
Speaker 1: And you said, we re left from tomorrow, right, yep,

955
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 1: tonight it's Jasmine's birthday, we ourselves and it is Victim

956
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: Henriette's anniversary and we.

957
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 5: Did it for them to drink for them there.

958
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: For your anniversary.

959
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,760
Speaker 2: So I'm taking that out. I'm taking that out tomorrow.

960
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 1: Yo. You don't want she can hear you. Is it

961
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: a secret?

962
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 2: Is a secret?

963
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: So okay? Man, I want to know it's so bad.

964
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a secret.

965
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 3: He knows that everything you have it planned out. Well,

966
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 3: you're not going to say.

967
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,720
Speaker 2: Everything everything everything.

968
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 1: So you're one of those being.

969
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, so anyway in the world three years now

970
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 2: and last year I think when when in the UK

971
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 2: and she was surprised to a boon.

972
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 3: So, what did you guys do last here?

973
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 1: What was it?

974
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 2: Some friends? What will happened? Yeah, we had we had

975
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:14,319
Speaker 2: what they call it, we had everything planned out, took

976
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 2: her out somewhere, then the whole then took her to

977
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 2: London Bridge. I had the whole music team, everything was there.

978
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: You know. She was very shocked.

979
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:29,359
Speaker 1: She man, she's your manager, also manager, Okay, so what's

980
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: the rest of the team like and how like how

981
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:32,720
Speaker 1: is it working with you guys?

982
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 2: Yes, so we have it's a full team. It's a

983
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 2: whole team, the administray, the what they call it, the lawyers,

984
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 2: the everything. But she's always on my case because I

985
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 2: don't I don't really listen to anybody and I don't

986
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 2: just wear anything. So she's really like, so this starts

987
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 2: to come and like, oh, this is what you're to

988
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 2: wear and everything. I'm not wearing that. Wow. So then

989
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 2: she she comes with the same outfit like maybe this

990
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 2: outfit looks so good on you, my love, I think

991
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 2: you should try it. I don't even know the time.

992
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 2: I just stay. Then I'm like, okay, I'm wearing it.

993
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 1: I do like you say that so she can come

994
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 1: in and do that.

995
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:21,319
Speaker 2: No, No, I'm not that dramatic.

996
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 3: You really feel dramatic.

997
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 2: But then I see myself wearing the same outfit that

998
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 2: I rejected earlier. Okay, I love it. I love you know.

999
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 2: So she's by Manag. Josh is my stylist. She's everything.

1000
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:38,399
Speaker 2: You know.

1001
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 1: One of things financially really start to work for you?

1002
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: Was it after the voice was that kind of or

1003
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 1: was it before that?

1004
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 2: After our marriage?

1005
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:49,760
Speaker 1: Okay? After marriage?

1006
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:54,400
Speaker 2: That's twenty twenty. Okay, yeah, after I marriage, everything turn.

1007
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:56,959
Speaker 1: Everything turned. And so what are some of the first

1008
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:00,360
Speaker 1: things you did financially and were you good with money

1009
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: before that? Like did you know what you needed to do,

1010
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 1: what you needed to handle?

1011
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk. I'm not very good with money.

1012
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 2: If if, if, if I have ten million, if I

1013
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 2: have one million. Now I'll call my friends and I'm like, so, yeah,

1014
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 2: you told me about the shoe, like, oh, I think

1015
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 2: let's get it five hundred thousand, let's get it. Then

1016
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 2: this isn't one. Are you eating? Are you sure you're okay?

1017
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 2: You're good? Okay, I'm just send me account details. I'm

1018
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 2: sending you to that right away. So before you know

1019
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:31,240
Speaker 2: what was happening. I've blown one million in three days,

1020
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 2: right and not sending up spinning up?

1021
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:35,959
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1022
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 2: Nothing, so but then she knows how to manage everything.

1023
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 2: So I don't even know how much I have. I

1024
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 2: don't know how much we have. I want, I need

1025
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:49,800
Speaker 2: something like, babe, I need this, I need this stuff,

1026
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 2: Just get it for me. So I don't. I don't

1027
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 2: handle feelings. She does.

1028
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 1: Oh my god. What she was like, I need a break.

1029
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 2: Everything before you know, there was a time. There's a

1030
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 2: time she said that. I was like, you know what, babe,

1031
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 2: I think we should reverse this role. You handle the

1032
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:10,759
Speaker 2: finance so you can see what it's like like, So

1033
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 2: what have I done a friend? You didn't say anything wrong,

1034
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 2: so you've been just fine. And I'm like, okay, you

1035
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 2: know what, let me handle the finans, send everything to me.

1036
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 2: She's like, no way, no way. I was only joking.

1037
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,760
Speaker 2: She knows if I handle the finance.

1038
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 5: For one weeks, know that about yourself.

1039
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 2: But that's not it's not my fault. I just like

1040
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 2: to buy things.

1041
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:35,240
Speaker 1: It's not my fault.

1042
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 2: It's not my fault. If I had the money everything

1043
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:43,840
Speaker 2: in my account one day, I would just buy everything

1044
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 2: from you, buy everything. I think she would love her

1045
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:52,799
Speaker 2: for her you know, I won't say I won't say

1046
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 2: this one now, but there's a surprise for her back

1047
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 2: home for the anniversary. Okay, just hearing divorce, she does

1048
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:00,680
Speaker 2: know what it is.

1049
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 1: It feels like it's a property. I don't know. How

1050
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 1: does her family like you? And what was that like

1051
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 1: meeting her family?

1052
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:12,759
Speaker 2: Oh? Her mom doesn't even call me my name, She

1053
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 2: calls me bib. Oh that's that's our close that's our clues.

1054
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 1: So you have like a whole like, this is your

1055
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 1: whole family. It's not even just her that you're married to.

1056
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:28,879
Speaker 2: That's it. It's not just her. So her siblings, her mind.

1057
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 2: They call me anytime they want to, you know, when

1058
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 2: they need something, they don't even go to her.

1059
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:35,799
Speaker 1: Do you feel like you're closer to her family than

1060
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: your own?

1061
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 2: Yes?

1062
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: Wow, so that was a whole thing. Did you feel

1063
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 1: like you were loved growing up?

1064
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 2: Yeah? So the truth is I was loved growing up,

1065
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 2: but when I lost both parents, it crushed, right. Do

1066
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 2: you understand?

1067
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't even imagine what that we feel.

1068
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,440
Speaker 2: Like, Yeah, it does. It's just crazy.

1069
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:05,359
Speaker 5: But look, you have a wife and you have a

1070
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 5: new Will you have an extended family?

1071
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1072
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 1: I saw you said you wanted to have like billions

1073
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: of kids.

1074
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 2: No way, no way. You know she loves the whole family,

1075
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 2: the whole crowd. No children, just crying everywhere and all

1076
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 2: that crying. No, no, no for me, I just want

1077
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 2: just two children too, too. I'm okay, okay, like a lot.

1078
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:36,280
Speaker 2: Well she's not greed yet, so so that's that's the argument.

1079
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:39,439
Speaker 1: Okay, Well that'll be what you're You're a scorpio, right,

1080
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 1: scorp Let me tell you something. Yeah, I know. Look, no,

1081
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:46,399
Speaker 1: we talked about Scorpio man.

1082
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 3: What's your wife?

1083
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,359
Speaker 2: What is sign what's what's the signing again? Septem twenty fourth.

1084
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 2: Libra Okay, I love a Libra.

1085
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:55,479
Speaker 3: She's after you. Yeah, she's after school.

1086
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: No, neighbors are amazing, my mom, my brother, my best friend,

1087
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:00,360
Speaker 1: all libre and sadis libra.

1088
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:01,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess you have.

1089
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:07,800
Speaker 1: But Scorpio man, never again in life, Scorpion man, maybe

1090
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 1: you might be different.

1091
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 2: The first time.

1092
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:13,439
Speaker 1: This is the first time, the first time you've heard that.

1093
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:15,799
Speaker 2: This is the first time I act here something not to.

1094
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 1: Let me google. Let me tell you about scorpion man.

1095
00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:19,400
Speaker 2: Hold time.

1096
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: Let me tell you about scorpion man, and tell me

1097
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:28,399
Speaker 1: if this is true about you? Okay, okay, scorpio man.

1098
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 1: Everything you need to know about a scorpio man, all right?

1099
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 3: Deep dive?

1100
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me do a deep dive.

1101
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 2: For youth beautiful about says.

1102
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: Scorpios make life and sex feel incredible. But as it

1103
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 1: goes with any sign, there are some things you may

1104
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: want to keep an eye out for. Okay. So your

1105
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 1: key words are intense, passionate, emotional, secretive, sexual, sensual, deep, vengeful, guarded, loyal,

1106
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Speaker 1: and scare scary. All right, so let's talk about some

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00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 1: of those words. Intense. I could see that.

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Speaker 3: What are you what?

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00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 2: What?

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00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 3: What words describe you?

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00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:10,320
Speaker 1: Yeah? You guarded?

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00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:10,959
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: Sure about that? Okay, so that was in the past.

1114
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 1: Are you secretive?

1115
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 2: Not anymore?

1116
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 3: Lloyd was loyal, that Loyer was on there.

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00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 2: I used to be very very secretive.

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00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:23,720
Speaker 3: Okay, yea very okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking at some famous scorpio men, some of them

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Speaker 1: not going that.

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Speaker 5: Who are some of some famous scorpios drake?

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00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Okay, did he.

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00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:45,279
Speaker 2: Scorn?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Scorpio has a bit of a bad reputation. But

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Speaker 1: there's a calm down. But there is a lot to

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00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:56,280
Speaker 1: love about a Scorpio man. He might seem guarded at first,

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Speaker 1: but once you earn his trust, just your whole different size. See,

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Speaker 1: well he's in. He is all in. He's loyal, passionate, creative,

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00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 1: and surprisingly romantic, Candles, rose petals, the whole deal. His

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00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 1: powerful intuition means that he can always sense when you're

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00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 1: in a bad mood and knows just what to do

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00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:20,759
Speaker 1: to cheer you up. In fact, he's got quite a

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00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 1: memory for all your favorite things, and if someone wrongs you,

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00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 1: he'll always have your back and he'll help you get

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Speaker 1: back at them too.

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00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 2: You see, you want to hear.

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Speaker 1: The worst traits?

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00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 2: Think good?

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00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 1: Do you want to hear your worst traits?

1141
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 2: Why didn't you read that first?

1142
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 1: Can you say jealous? Are you jealous?

1143
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 2: When it comes to my wife?

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00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:42,280
Speaker 1: Scorpios are notoriously grudge holding. Do you hold grudges?

1145
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 2: The next one?

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00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 1: And they tend to have a little bit of a

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00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:53,360
Speaker 1: possessive streak. And despite those singers, Scorpios are one of

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Speaker 1: the most sensitive zodiac signs on the inside. Plus, Scorpios

1149
00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:00,720
Speaker 1: can get a little bit obsessive and paranoid about things.

1150
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:03,080
Speaker 1: Add this all together and you get a date, who

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00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 1: might start monitoring which photos you're liking on Instagram, trying

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00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:10,359
Speaker 1: to sneak a peek at your text messages. Oh, you

1153
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,439
Speaker 1: just put that away when I walked in the room.

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00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 1: You get the picture. If you get in a fight,

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00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 1: Scorpio will bring up resentments from ages ago they've been

1156
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:19,880
Speaker 1: holding on to all this time. Oh and if you

1157
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:22,720
Speaker 1: do break up, yeah, you'll probably never hear from him again.

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00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 1: Scorpios do not do second chances.

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Speaker 2: Is that your so thank god? Thank god. Some of.

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00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,439
Speaker 1: Those things were true though, like guarded until you get

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00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 1: in there and then they're all in and you're all in.

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Speaker 2: So you see, the Scorpio sign is one of the best, and.

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Speaker 1: That's not what it is. But I will say a

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Speaker 1: liber woman is amazing, you know, shout out to all

1165
00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 1: the libra. I'm not a liber but I do like

1166
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:00,560
Speaker 1: almost amazing.

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00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like levers are a little dramatic to

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00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 5: the levers in my life are dramatic.

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00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 2: Gonna be very dramatic.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm a virgo. I just thought I would love best.

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Speaker 3: I'm things about virgos.

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Speaker 2: I think it's scary too.

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00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just saying that you don't want to be

1174
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Speaker 1: the only one great.

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Speaker 2: It can actually be very scary. Really, Yeah, you have

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00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 2: a you most time, she doesn't even know what you're thinking.

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Speaker 1: You see, that's not me. She will tell you what

1178
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 1: she's thinking of everything. And I'm always right for the

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Speaker 1: most part, for the most part.

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Speaker 4: And we got the biggest population. There's no other virgos.

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Speaker 4: It's more Virgos than any others of the XI.

1182
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Speaker 2: Is it really?

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's a fact. My baby, she's going to be great.

1184
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: She's gonna to do great things. I'm a Capian. Oh

1185
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 1: oh stop there? What the old? What is the old?

1186
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:02,920
Speaker 2: For?

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00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:08,960
Speaker 1: Capricorns are very practical. We're loyal q Q cute. Okay,

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00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: we like it, We'll take it. Yeah, we work hard.

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00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 2: Yeah I know that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a fact. So but Litsten, So are you

1191
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 1: going on tour? What's going on?

1192
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm going on tour next year.

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00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 1: How do you feel with the new album out?

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00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 2: I'm so excited relieved because it's it's it was a

1195
00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:36,000
Speaker 2: very very huge intense walk, you know, six weeks of

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00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 2: not going out everything just looked up and just writing songs.

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00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 1: Oh wow, what made you decide to do it like that? Like,

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00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 1: because sometimes people will you know, have songs that they've

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Speaker 1: been working on for a while, go out, come back

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Speaker 1: to it. They went and locked in for six weeks.

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00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I just needed to shut everything out and

1202
00:58:55,760 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 2: just take it from within, you know, with the noise

1203
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 2: and everything. So I used to live in we used

1204
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Speaker 2: to live in a bab Is like the federal capital

1205
00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 2: of Niger. But it's quite slow there. Everybody is just

1206
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 2: a reserved you know, everything is just moving slow. But

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Speaker 2: Legos is the first one, like New York. So I

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00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 2: was like, you know, for this album, it's an afro

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00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 2: beat album. So I need like the first place. I

1210
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 2: need the people. I need to see things. I need

1211
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Speaker 2: to know what's going on. I need the first life.

1212
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 2: Let me see what people are going on going through.

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Speaker 2: They will move to Legos for six weeks.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Yeah, so.

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Speaker 2: I just went out so a few things, you know,

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Speaker 2: and I went back in six weeks or locked in.

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Speaker 1: You think you would move to Legos?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, My wife doesn't like Legos. Okay, she

1219
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Speaker 2: wants the slower No, she wants the Lego New York is.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:54,800
Speaker 2: Where's the slow one in the US? Where's the like

1222
00:59:54,880 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 2: the slow everything is just moving.

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Speaker 1: Well, if you're talking about it, people moved in New York.

1224
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Speaker 1: Like it still can be a little fast in New Jersey,

1225
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 1: not as fast in New York. Yeah, it depends about part.

1226
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 1: You can go to parts of New Jersey where it's

1227
01:00:07,360 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 1: like very you're not going to see anybody unless you

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Speaker 1: choose to go out and so yeah, there's definitely and

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Speaker 1: then like I think if you go further out like

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01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 1: Long Island, there's different parts you know, on the outskirts.

1231
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Speaker 1: But if you're in New York City, if you're in Manhattan,

1232
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Speaker 1: if you're in Brooklyn, it's lit. It's little here. Like

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Speaker 1: So the tour starting next.

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Speaker 2: Year, the toy starting next year, we're doing about eating countries.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, so that's intense.

1236
01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 2: The album is, it's in songs Blessings start to Finish,

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01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:45,640
Speaker 2: ghost Love start to finish, you know, so that's always

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Speaker 2: shared with the world next year.

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Speaker 1: It's a very positive, uplifting album too. By the way,

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Speaker 1: it's like love it makes you feel like anything is possible.

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Speaker 3: I didn't when I was listening to it.

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Speaker 5: I was like, oh, it is give me gospel gives

1243
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 5: me like you know, aroar.

1244
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Speaker 2: What's the gospel? Gospel is good news.

1245
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:09,720
Speaker 3: It does feel good. So, yeah, the.

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01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 2: Gospel is good news. God's love and and and and

1247
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 2: that's what I've been able to bring together in the album.

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Speaker 2: God's Love everyone. At every point in your life you've

1249
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 2: experienced cost love. That we're living his cost message and

1250
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 2: his love. So it's not out of place for you

1251
01:01:26,400 --> 01:01:30,200
Speaker 2: to listen to it that God loves you, you know,

1252
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 2: and He's shown you so much. And for some some

1253
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 2: other songs that like declae what you want this year,

1254
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 2: blessed morning, everything that we wanting money interesting for you

1255
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:46,240
Speaker 2: want good things, you know, declaring what you want. It's

1256
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 2: in the scriptures, It's in the Bible, you know. So

1257
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,240
Speaker 2: we're just bringing everything together, sharing the good news.

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Speaker 1: And I said, think it was bad to manifest that

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01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 1: you want money, you know what I mean. I don't

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01:01:56,000 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: know why because people make it seem like evil. Yeah,

1261
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 1: like money is the root of all evil, you know.

1262
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 1: People say that.

1263
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 2: And it's not money. According to the Bible, that's the

1264
01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 2: root of all evil. The love. It's not the root

1265
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 2: of all evil.

1266
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 1: I agree. The people want money, the love the love

1267
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:18,000
Speaker 1: of money.

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01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:21,080
Speaker 3: What's your what's your favorite scripture.

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Speaker 2: For God to love the world that it gave us

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01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:28,840
Speaker 2: only begotten the son, that whosoever believe it her name,

1271
01:02:29,280 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 2: shall not perish, but have ever last their life.

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Speaker 1: Amen.

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Speaker 3: Amen.

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01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:43,120
Speaker 1: And on that now, Jasmine, Uh.

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01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 3: Say Jesus, web.

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01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 1: Jesus, so we can run scripture.

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01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 2: Jesus. That's that's good.

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01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:01,600
Speaker 1: But see, like we do appreciate you so much for

1279
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:03,840
Speaker 1: coming here and being so open and telling us things

1280
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:07,360
Speaker 1: that you've never publicly said before in a setting like this.

1281
01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 1: You know, and I know your wife. We try to

1282
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:12,480
Speaker 1: get her to come and sit down, but.

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01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 2: She was like, I'm straight, I'm going to show you'll

1284
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 2: be closing this y now issue was here.

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01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 1: Next time, maybe she'll come without you, you know that.

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01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:29,680
Speaker 2: I'll just be somewhere with your hen.

1287
01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:31,000
Speaker 3: And she can teach us some things.

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01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 1: She's in the hotel room. The guy will come bring

1289
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 1: the bags up from the front desk. She got her FaceTime.

1290
01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 1: Because now that we know scorpios are jealous. You know

1291
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:42,400
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

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01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:47,240
Speaker 2: The truth is when you trust them, whoever you're with,

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01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:48,479
Speaker 2: I think jealous it does.

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01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 1: It's the best feeling in the world when you know

1295
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 1: like that you trust somebody and even if you're not there,

1296
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 1: you know they represent.

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Speaker 2: Fee that's it.

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01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: That's beautiful.

1299
01:03:57,440 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 2: That's it.

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01:03:57,840 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 3: That's beautiful. That is that's all you can ask.

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01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: I feel that. I don't feel.

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Speaker 4: It's a good feeling, like a little jealousy too. You

1303
01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 4: like it, I'll do a little bit.

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01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 3: I kind of like it a little bit.

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01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:15,960
Speaker 1: I like used to be just like crazy and then

1306
01:04:15,960 --> 01:04:16,600
Speaker 1: you said crazy.

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01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 3: No, I don't like crazy.

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01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 4: Likes crazy, not crazy, but just like, like, you know

1309
01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 4: how a guy Okay, say, for example, a guy run

1310
01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 4: out and get your name tattooed the next day, most

1311
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 4: women to be like, oh, he's crazy me I would

1312
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 4: that would impress me.

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01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 1: I was scared of my name, and yo, bio, what

1314
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:36,439
Speaker 1: if you didn't really like him like that? It might

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01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:39,200
Speaker 1: make me like it because I like that. I like

1316
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:41,760
Speaker 1: I like people to just if you got eight other

1317
01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:48,120
Speaker 1: girls names tattooed on him, but that's weird. I was like,

1318
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 1: I like man to go all out, just like go crazy.

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01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:51,920
Speaker 1: Do you have tattoos?

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Speaker 2: Me?

1321
01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:55,800
Speaker 1: Neither. I don't have any tattoos, Jasmine does.

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Speaker 3: I do have one small tattoo.

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Speaker 1: I got a couple some I wish I could get some.

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Speaker 1: You got that man's name.

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Speaker 4: I've never had no nigger name tattooed on me. That's

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Speaker 4: something I did.

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Speaker 3: Would you yeah?

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Speaker 1: Maybe? Okay, but I haven't no do I feel like

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Speaker 1: I'm about to. I was gonna say maybe for Christmas.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I might get married song

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Speaker 1: who knows, right, that's the case. Maybe you'll get a

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Speaker 1: tattoo tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Would you do it?

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Speaker 1: Okay? What if she really really wanted you to? That's

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Speaker 1: all I want.

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Speaker 2: If she really wanted to do it, if she really

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01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:37,200
Speaker 2: wanted to, there's a way she about it. I would

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Speaker 2: end up doing it without I've done it.

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Speaker 3: Right, that's how good she is.

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01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 1: Class tattoo will look amazing on you. And I think

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Speaker 1: with the album and the yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think she's the fine as well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah okay, but she don't have no tattoo. I don't

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01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 1: have any either, so I can't see that happening. But

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Speaker 1: you know, maybe Hannah all right, But anyway, thank you

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01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:02,880
Speaker 1: so much, and you guys, make sure you download, make

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01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 1: sure you stream the album, make sure you go to

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Speaker 1: the tour.

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Speaker 2: Blessed, blessed, and listen.

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Speaker 1: We're blessed from being able to sit here and talk

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Speaker 1: to you, so thank you so much for coming through pleasure.

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Speaker 1: I cannot wait to see because are you going to

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Speaker 1: post what you guys do for for the anniversary?

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Speaker 2: Yes, swear around, we'll be following.

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01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, guys, I feel like something crazy is about it.

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Speaker 1: I cannot wait to see.

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Speaker 3: This, especially want to get back home.

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Speaker 1: What she got.

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Speaker 2: For you. She can't be She can actually be very

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01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:39,240
Speaker 2: very crafty. She loves to plan things and everything. I'm

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01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:41,760
Speaker 2: sure she's she's done something. But that's why you can

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Speaker 2: beat it. What I have, what I've done.

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Speaker 3: She can't beat it.

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Speaker 1: She can just alone, he says, she can't beat It's

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Speaker 1: a competition. I love competition.

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Speaker 2: Our birthdays has always been like that. You know, she

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Speaker 2: does this and I want to do it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I love that. Listen. I'll let you out do

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Speaker 1: me any day. All right, Well, Victor Thompson, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. We do appreciate you. Thank you. It's lip

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Speaker 1: service mhm