WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Bats On The Beach

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date. Whenever you ask people what's your

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<v Speaker 1>idea of the perfect first date, by far, the most

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<v Speaker 1>cliche answer is a long romantic walk along the beach

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<v Speaker 1>at sunset. That's what everybody says. But you're right, who

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<v Speaker 1>actually does that really, especially on a first date. The

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<v Speaker 1>closest thing we get normally is a long, stumbly walk

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<v Speaker 1>home from a dive bar at one am, and the

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<v Speaker 1>closest body of waters the puddle of urine outside your apartment. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but one of our listeners, believe it or not, actually

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<v Speaker 1>did the cliche thing and did a date at the beach,

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<v Speaker 1>walk on the beach andrew you and love yet or what?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it as perfect as we all imagine it would be? Um? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it was. I enjoyed it, but it was also kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird because it was it was the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I think maybe maybe a long walk on the beach

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<v Speaker 1>could have just said no, it wasn't. I mean, it's interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>like a beach date can get pretty intimate, right, like

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<v Speaker 1>you're rubbing suntan lotion on each other, you're wearing you're

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<v Speaker 1>wearing bathing suits, kids everywhere. The ideal version, the real

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<v Speaker 1>version is going to look a lot different. But Andrew,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us how it went. Who did you go there with? Um? Why?

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<v Speaker 1>I went there with this girl, Tabitha. We met through

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<v Speaker 1>a friend of a friend on Facebook, okay, and we

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<v Speaker 1>just sort of started talking, and you know, she seemed

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<v Speaker 1>very nice and attractive. She had tattoos, and she was outdoorsy,

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<v Speaker 1>which is what kind of you know. I saw pictures

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<v Speaker 1>of her hiking and other things. I figured she would

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<v Speaker 1>like the beach. Okay, so the beach was your idea?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it like a day at the beach type of thing?

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<v Speaker 1>It was an evening walk? Oh? Okay, it was most

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<v Speaker 1>cliche you could possibly. How long was the walk? We

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<v Speaker 1>see a long walk? I mean, are we talking like

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<v Speaker 1>a two to three hour ben? Are you tired? Jose?

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<v Speaker 1>And if it's over one hundred feet there is no

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<v Speaker 1>blisters for him. Let's just say, yeah, did you like

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<v Speaker 1>pack a picnic? Well? It was it was really just

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<v Speaker 1>it was a walk and we were We did end

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<v Speaker 1>up building a fire, so there was stuff to do

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<v Speaker 1>that committed a crime in the legal area that allows

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<v Speaker 1>you to build a fire. Like, what was it? What

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<v Speaker 1>was it like? Tell us, Andrew, We're just guessing. Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we we went up and the thing was

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<v Speaker 1>on the whole walk. She was very quiet, so I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up doing all the talking and I would make

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<v Speaker 1>jokes and she wouldn't even laugh. I can relate, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>Is she just like a more reserved person? Do you think,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, since she's a friend of a friend. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing. Like, you know, we built fire and

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<v Speaker 1>we're sitting there. I didn't see any of the signals,

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<v Speaker 1>and then out of blue, she kisses me. WHOA must

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<v Speaker 1>be doing something right. It was a wild card man.

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<v Speaker 1>When it happened, I was like, okay, and that was

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<v Speaker 1>real fun and enjoyable that that moment. But then all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, all these bats started flying above our

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<v Speaker 1>heads and she starts freaking out because she doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything about bats, and I'm I'm kind of a bat

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<v Speaker 1>nerd and so she starts waving her hands and flailing

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<v Speaker 1>her hands trying to get the bats way. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry. These are Eastern red bats because I could

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<v Speaker 1>tell by the sounds that they were making. Wow, you

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<v Speaker 1>really know you didn't just make that up? Him? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a batman and I wow. See she didn't laugh at

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<v Speaker 1>that one. I mean, you want the bats are eating

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<v Speaker 1>the mosquitoes that are all around you, like keeping Yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>bats are way better than mosquitoes. And wanted her to

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<v Speaker 1>stop waving her hands about because they provoked, they could attack,

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<v Speaker 1>but if they're not provoked, I'll just keep on being

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<v Speaker 1>normal bats. So did she listen to you or did

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<v Speaker 1>she continue? She didn't calm down. I played her some

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<v Speaker 1>sounds of bats that I had recorded on my phone.

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<v Speaker 1>This is where I think we're finding. Yeah, Well, as

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<v Speaker 1>we were walking back to the car, I knew I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that that might be the case, so I stopped

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<v Speaker 1>talking about bath. But I again, she wasn't contributing anything,

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<v Speaker 1>So I ended up flipping into this conversation about wolves.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not sure if that was the right choice.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's things that I'm interested in, and I

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<v Speaker 1>knew she was out doorsy, and I mean, they say

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<v Speaker 1>don't hide your passions on a first day. Very true.

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<v Speaker 1>I also think they don't say, like, say, all of

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<v Speaker 1>your passions all at once to break the silence on

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<v Speaker 1>a first day. But I don't could be wrong, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't How did this end? How did the night add?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the night and did fine? I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we survived the night. Did you have another kiss? Thankfully? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a There was a small kiss, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was inappropriate goodbye kiss. Okay, nothing like a big makeout session.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering, like, it sounds like you were uncomfortable with

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<v Speaker 1>her silence. Did you ever ask her any questions other

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<v Speaker 1>than yes or no questions? You know? Um? Yeah, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't trying to do all the talking. It just

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<v Speaker 1>it was It was certainly weird because I did want

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know her, and I don't feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I got to know her. Okay, it's other than she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to kiss me for a moment, which was cool

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<v Speaker 1>but weird. So that the one positive sign, Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I was trying to figure out, Like, why

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<v Speaker 1>do you want this date? If? If there were so

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<v Speaker 1>many things that went wrong and things that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys were barely even talking, all right, Maybe maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's more of a curiosity, yeah, Or maybe it's just

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<v Speaker 1>that she's hot and it was a really good kiss. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you know, maybe she's more comfortable with kissing than talking,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe she would get more comfortable with talking as

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<v Speaker 1>we go. I don't know, No, dude, Then keep her

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<v Speaker 1>there that maybe we should just call her and see

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<v Speaker 1>what she has to say about what she talk to us. Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Then maybe this we need to kiss her, to kiss

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone, Jeff. We'll just call her and

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<v Speaker 1>see what happens. But first we got to play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll come back at your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, all right, but you better not kiss my woman. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll make sure that doesn't happen. I don't think we

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<v Speaker 1>could promise. Maybe I'm jumping too far ahead here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but Andrew down the road, when you and Tabitha get married,

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<v Speaker 1>instead of releasing doves at the wedding, you should release

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<v Speaker 1>a cage of bats. And maybe before that. The biggest

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<v Speaker 1>challenge is going to be getting her to actually say

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<v Speaker 1>I do, because she hardly even speaks. If you're just

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<v Speaker 1>joining us, probably none of this is making any sense

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<v Speaker 1>to you. But I say she wasn't talking a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>because she was super quiet during their date. And I

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<v Speaker 1>bring up bats because Andrew's a bat aficionado and knows

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<v Speaker 1>all about bats and their histories and their diets. And

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<v Speaker 1>there were bats there flying above them while they made

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<v Speaker 1>out on the beach together. And apparently the Eastern red

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<v Speaker 1>bat only attacks when provoked. That's we learned from Andrew. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I need to look up that fact.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I just believe. Of course you do.

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<v Speaker 1>We've heard stranger things happen on this show. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just praying that Andrew didn't set up the bat attack.

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<v Speaker 1>To look, he's probably a bad whispererses. Can you confirm

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<v Speaker 1>that you didn't set up the attack, Andrew? I can

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<v Speaker 1>confirm that I had nothing to do with releasing bats

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<v Speaker 1>around my date. Like I could orchestrate something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think i'd be single, okay to run into

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<v Speaker 1>bats on the beach that now, Andrew, I'm just wondering,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you like looking for out of this? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you want? I mean, honestly, I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>know what I did or what happened, Like I just

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, another date would be nice, but I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know so I can adjust for future follies. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it makes sense a lot of mixed signals

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<v Speaker 1>from her. Yep, all right, well let's call and try

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<v Speaker 1>and figure that out for you. We're gonna do the

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<v Speaker 1>number right now here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Tabitha. Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>who is this? Oh you don't know. That's perfect. My

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<v Speaker 1>name is jeff and I'm from a morning radio show

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<v Speaker 1>called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi. OHI we're

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<v Speaker 1>all here. Oh okay, okay, okay, Hi. I've heard you

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<v Speaker 1>guys before. But why are you calling me? Okay, thank you. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling you at the request of one of our listeners, Andrew,

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<v Speaker 1>who you went out with the other night. Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>guessing Andrew put you up to this. Yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a good thing. Like he seemed to really

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<v Speaker 1>like you. Yeah, I think he did like me. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I really wasn't ready for that date. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was really unexpected how I would feel about Andrew. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting because he heard a little bit about the date

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<v Speaker 1>and from the sounds of it, you kissed him. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>he she told you that. Well, it sounded like a

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<v Speaker 1>really romantic setting. I could see why. I mean, you're

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<v Speaker 1>having a fire on the beach like sounds beautiful. Bats

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<v Speaker 1>going overhead. Yeah, you know, I have an appointment in

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, so I don't have a whole lot

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<v Speaker 1>of time, you know, Can you guys tell me what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on. Okay, yeah, so I mean, just real quick,

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing something called second Date Update, and we're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to help Andrew figure out why after your romantic beach date,

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<v Speaker 1>there hasn't been a date number two because he did

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<v Speaker 1>mention that you were a little bit quiet during the

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<v Speaker 1>walk along the beach. Yeah, is there a reason for that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he didn't do anything wrong, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I got out of a long term relationship a

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<v Speaker 1>few years ago. Wait, a few years ago. Well, the

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<v Speaker 1>guy he we were in love, but he moved out

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<v Speaker 1>of the country. He had an opportunity to go do something,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, it broke my heart. Yeah, that could

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<v Speaker 1>be really hard. Are you not over it still even

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<v Speaker 1>after years? Well, I thought I was over it until

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<v Speaker 1>I met Andrew, which we started talking on Facebook through text.

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<v Speaker 1>I had never heard his voice before. Okay, are you

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<v Speaker 1>saying that Andrew was your very first date since that

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<v Speaker 1>breakup years ago? No? No, No, I've dated a few

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<v Speaker 1>people here, are there? But Okay. The thing that really

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<v Speaker 1>just shocked me about Andrew was walking side by side

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<v Speaker 1>with him on the beach. Hearing his voice. He sounds exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, identical to my ex. Oh my God, that

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense. So you're just like living in this past

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<v Speaker 1>relationship while you're hanging out with Andrew. That's got to

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<v Speaker 1>be so hard or awesome. I wish I could relive.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that is super weird. It was weird, Like

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<v Speaker 1>at one point he tried to hold my hand and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like looking out at the water, and all

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<v Speaker 1>I could think about was my ex and like all

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<v Speaker 1>the good times they had together up until the bad attack.

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<v Speaker 1>That was I kind of like brought me back to

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<v Speaker 1>reality for a moment. But I was starting to tear

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<v Speaker 1>up because I, yeah, the one that got away. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that's who I was walking on the beach with. Totally.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not like if you were like doing maybe

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<v Speaker 1>an activity, you wouldn't have as much reflection opportunity. Oh god, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, even if we were at a restaurant and

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<v Speaker 1>sitting across the table from each other, I could see him,

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<v Speaker 1>I would obviously know that that's not my ex. But

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<v Speaker 1>walk inside by side on the beach with him, it

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<v Speaker 1>just brought back all these memories, Like and he kept talking, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, what's it telling me about all these

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<v Speaker 1>weird animals he was obsessed with it like, I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>he has passions and everything, but I just don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to get over the fact that he sounds just

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<v Speaker 1>like my EGX. Oh girl, I feel for you, I do,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's nothing he can do anything about unless he

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<v Speaker 1>can use different voices. Maybe he could talk it like lower,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you can impressions celebrity. Oh my god, let's find

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<v Speaker 1>out if he can, because I need to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>Andrew's been on the other line listening this entire time

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to talk to you. Sorry. Oh no, I'm Andrew.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry I ruined our date. Oh, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I didn't. I had no idea what was going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Not that I'm happy that that's what it was, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy that that's what it was. Is it okay

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<v Speaker 1>to listen to him? I mean, this is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a bad bed for you since it's just voice right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it sounds like I'm talking to him on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone like it's it's so weird. Are we sure

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<v Speaker 1>that it's not your ex? Wow? I think is there

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<v Speaker 1>anything that he needed to apologize for that you'd like,

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<v Speaker 1>why did you leave me? I mean, maybe Andrew's a

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<v Speaker 1>better version of your ex, you know, maybe don't compare them.

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<v Speaker 1>How could you not? I mean, this is such an

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<v Speaker 1>awkward situation, Like, Brooke, what would you do? My husband's

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<v Speaker 1>best friend sounds just like him. It's so weird. When

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<v Speaker 1>I first met them, I was like, it creeped me out.

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<v Speaker 1>But now that I know them both more, that isn't

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<v Speaker 1>actually the case. I would say yes to pretty much anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>So Alexis about, let's get someone that might say no.

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<v Speaker 1>It depends how you ended with your ex. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis has always hung up on her ex. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I probably like the voice. Yeah, Like, close my eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to look at you. I mean, Tabitha,

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<v Speaker 1>where is your head at right now? You know? I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't know how I can be Andrew and be

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about my ex, Like what if I accidentally called

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<v Speaker 1>him their own name one day? Like how would that

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<v Speaker 1>make him feel? Like? I don't want to put him

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<v Speaker 1>in a situation where he's just the other guy. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I It's it's hard, but I understand where you're coming from, Tabitha.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel for your situation, and I'm you know, even

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<v Speaker 1>right now, I'm kind of very self conscious of what

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know like I would. I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>I could handle that. Oh, he's a good guy too.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is the right time to ask, Tabitha,

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<v Speaker 1>would you want to go out with Andrew one more time?

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<v Speaker 1>We'd pay for jeff. I. I wish you both could

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<v Speaker 1>get past this, because it seems like you could be

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<v Speaker 1>a really good couple. Yeah, we could sip on some

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<v Speaker 1>helium balloons. What if you just did a date where

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<v Speaker 1>you made sure his face was always in your view?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I might be down to go to like

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<v Speaker 1>one of those silent raids where we just listened to

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<v Speaker 1>our headphones and it's something where Andrew doesn't talk. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I we could try it, but I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>something that would work long term, based on you know

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<v Speaker 1>what Tabitha is saying. So I yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to ask. I was really just curious about why,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess selfishly that it wasn't something that I did,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was just who I am. No, that makes

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<v Speaker 1>it feel better, It's get Yeah. I just have one

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<v Speaker 1>question for you, Tabitha. Did you kiss me because you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to kiss me? Or was it like you were

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<v Speaker 1>kissing your ex? Oh? That's a great question. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to know the answer? I want to know why. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to know if it was the same

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<v Speaker 1>or if different, and what's the verdict. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>definitely a lot wetter than I remember, oh, wetter better.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it really is Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning,