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Speaker 1: but one of our listeners, believe it or not, actually

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Speaker 1: walk on the beach andrew you and love yet or what?

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Speaker 1: Was it as perfect as we all imagine it would be? Um? Well,

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Speaker 1: I went there with this girl, Tabitha. We met through

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Speaker 1: just sort of started talking, and you know, she seemed

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Speaker 1: Was it like a day at the beach type of thing?

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Speaker 1: It was an evening walk? Oh? Okay, it was most

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Speaker 1: pack a picnic? Well? It was it was really just

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Speaker 1: was it like? Tell us, Andrew, We're just guessing. Yeah, Well,

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Speaker 1: Is she just like a more reserved person? Do you think,

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Speaker 1: I mean, since she's a friend of a friend. Well,

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, but you better not kiss my woman. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: number right now here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Tabitha. Um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi. OHI we're

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Speaker 1: all here. Oh okay, okay, okay, Hi. I've heard you

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Speaker 1: I mean, that is super weird. It was weird, Like

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Speaker 1: the good times they had together up until the bad attack.

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Speaker 1: and it's nothing he can do anything about unless he

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Speaker 1: can use different voices. Maybe he could talk it like lower,

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Speaker 1: maybe you can impressions celebrity. Oh my god, let's find

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Speaker 1: Andrew's been on the other line listening this entire time

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Speaker 1: and wants to talk to you. Sorry. Oh no, I'm Andrew.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry I ruined our date. Oh, I know,

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Speaker 1: I'm I didn't. I had no idea what was going on.

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Speaker 1: Not that I'm happy that that's what it was, but

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Speaker 1: I'm happy that that's what it was. Is it okay

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Speaker 1: to listen to him? I mean, this is kind of

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Speaker 1: a bad bed for you since it's just voice right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean it sounds like I'm talking to him on

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Speaker 1: that it's not your ex? Wow? I think is there

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Speaker 1: anything that he needed to apologize for that you'd like,

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Speaker 1: why did you leave me? I mean, maybe Andrew's a

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Speaker 1: better version of your ex, you know, maybe don't compare them.

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Speaker 1: How could you not? I mean, this is such an

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Speaker 1: awkward situation, Like, Brooke, what would you do? My husband's

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Speaker 1: best friend sounds just like him. It's so weird. When

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Speaker 1: I first met them, I was like, it creeped me out.

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Speaker 1: But now that I know them both more, that isn't

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Speaker 1: actually the case. I would say yes to pretty much anybody.

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Speaker 1: So Alexis about, let's get someone that might say no.

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Speaker 1: It depends how you ended with your ex. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: Alexis has always hung up on her ex. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: I probably like the voice. Yeah, Like, close my eyes.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to look at you. I mean, Tabitha,

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Speaker 1: where is your head at right now? You know? I

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Speaker 1: him their own name one day? Like how would that

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Speaker 1: make him feel? Like? I don't want to put him

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Speaker 1: in a situation where he's just the other guy. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I It's it's hard, but I understand where you're coming from, Tabitha.

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Speaker 1: I don't know like I would. I don't know that

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Speaker 1: I could handle that. Oh, he's a good guy too.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is the right time to ask, Tabitha,

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Speaker 1: We'd pay for jeff. I. I wish you both could

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Speaker 1: get past this, because it seems like you could be

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Speaker 1: a really good couple. Yeah, we could sip on some

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Speaker 1: you made sure his face was always in your view?

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Speaker 1: You know, I might be down to go to like

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Speaker 1: I we could try it, but I don't think it's

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Speaker 1: don't want to ask. I was really just curious about why,

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Speaker 1: and I guess selfishly that it wasn't something that I did,

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Speaker 1: but it was just who I am. No, that makes

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Speaker 1: it feel better, It's get Yeah. I just have one

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Speaker 1: question for you, Tabitha. Did you kiss me because you

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Speaker 1: kissing your ex? Oh? That's a great question. Do you

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Speaker 1: want to know the answer? I want to know why. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to know if it was the same

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Speaker 1: or if different, and what's the verdict. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: definitely a lot wetter than I remember, oh, wetter better.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it really is Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the morning,