1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: My dad was hitting on my girlfriend like a total 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: creep light about it and only came clean after she 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: got pregnant. 4 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 2: Okop, this is Okayop. 5 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:12,480 Speaker 3: I'm Samuel daughter and I'm John Frack and we tell 6 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 3: the funniest stories on the Internet throughout the world and 7 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 3: through all time. And John, can you tell me a 8 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 3: story about you know? And just just anything, just please 9 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:22,479 Speaker 3: entertain me. 10 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: Look, I have twists, turns, things you won't believe that, 11 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 1: You'll laugh, you'll cry. It's basically an oscar wow winning. 12 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 3: All right, let's make sure the academy is notified after 13 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 3: we finished. 14 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: I twenty one male, have never experienced something like this before, 15 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: So I am feeling really crushed right now. My dad 16 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: was my hero, someone I looked up to. My girlfriend 17 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: i've been with. I've been with my girlfriend for over 18 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: a year and only seen my parents a couple of times. 19 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: We moved in together during COVID, and our relationship is 20 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: getting really serious. I really wanted her to get along 21 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: with my family like I get along well with hers. 22 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:07,759 Speaker 1: Last time we went over, we went over last week 23 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: on Saturday. Then Sunday morning, after breakfast, she tells me 24 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: she's got something to show me because something happened. When 25 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: I took my mom to the grocery store. She took 26 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 1: out a video of my dad with her, and right 27 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: off the bat, my dad was acting really weird, but 28 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: I could tell my girlfriend was nervous by the way 29 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: she was talking. He was telling her she's really beautiful, 30 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: and then went on to say this really really gross 31 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: stuff that he would do if he wasn't married. It 32 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 1: made me really mad, and my girlfriend in the video 33 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: sounded extremely nervous, and she told him, well, they wouldn't 34 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,199 Speaker 1: do any of that even if he wasn't married. 35 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 2: That's weird. 36 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: Then sometimes the camera would move away from him, like 37 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: she's trying to get away, and he would just move closer. 38 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: It goes on like this for five minutes, and then 39 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: he asked if he could have a kiss and all 40 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: this other stuff that made my stomach just twist up 41 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: in anger. 42 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 2: Oh God, that's so creepy. 43 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: Beyond unacceptable. A thousand lines have been crossed here. My 44 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: girlfriend told me she was sorry, and I was like, 45 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: what I told her, I'm sorry, and we're not going 46 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: back again, I promise. So basically, he's like, I'm not 47 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 1: putting you anywhere near my dad again. I told my 48 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:16,959 Speaker 1: mom about it because I don't know if I could 49 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: talk to my dad without wanting to beat the crap 50 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 1: out of him. And I'm shocked about the way she's 51 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: behaving about this. She's seen the video, but she says 52 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: my dad doesn't remember and was obviously drunk. But that's 53 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,519 Speaker 1: not true and it wouldn't have made a difference even 54 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: if he was. We know that night that he had 55 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: like max three beers, which is nothing to him. He 56 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 1: says he's sorry for making her uncomfortable and he really 57 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 1: didn't know what he was doing. Now, I'm also mad 58 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: at my mom defending him, yeah, for saying that he 59 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: didn't do anything wrong. And we're making a big deal 60 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:50,839 Speaker 1: by saying me and my girlfriend aren't going to see 61 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: them anymore. And this is after she's seen the video. 62 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: With all that stuff going like that is atrocious, atrocious. 63 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: All week, she'd been calling me to say my dad 64 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: is hurt by this and that they didn't think I'd 65 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: be so willing to drop them over a misunderstanding. I 66 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 1: don't know what to do anymore because I need to 67 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 1: support my girl, but it's hurting me that they don't 68 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: see how effed up my dad was how do I 69 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,079 Speaker 1: handle the situation with them? 70 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 2: That's so tricky. 71 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: It is tricky, It is very trick. First off, wanted 72 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: to thank everyone for your thoughts on what I should 73 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: do about the issue with my dad. I haven't talked 74 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: to any of them for a few weeks, but something 75 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: happened that suddenly made my dad change his story. So 76 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 1: me and my girlfriend learned something pretty cool this week. 77 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: She was three days late on her period, so she 78 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: took a test and they came out positive, so she 79 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: is definitely pregnant. We're nervous, slash excited about it, and 80 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: we didn't expect that right now, but at this point 81 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: we're just getting ready for it. Thing was, my cousin 82 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: was there at our place when my girlfriend took the test, 83 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: and we were so focused on the fact that she's 84 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: pregnant and getting all excited. I didn't think to tell 85 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: my cousin don't tell my parents, But I guess she 86 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: thought I would have told them already, so she let 87 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: it slip. Now my mom is trying to reach out 88 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: again non stop, and my dad too. 89 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: This time. 90 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: He's told me he's sorry, but he really wants to 91 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: be a part of my life and our kid's life. 92 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 1: Now he's sorry for lying about being drunk, and he 93 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: doesn't know why he did what he did, but he 94 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 1: quote unquote guesses he was embarrassed about what he did 95 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: to my girlfriend, as you should be, as you freaking 96 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: should be. Good God, he never planned to actually do 97 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: anything with her, he says, like that's something that matters. 98 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 1: He claims he's gonna work on himself, when before there 99 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 1: is even a baby in the picture, he was sticking 100 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: to his lie about a not remembering what he did 101 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 1: and be being too drunk. Now he's admitting at this 102 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: point that he was fully sober. I knew that was 103 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: a lie already, but having that confirmation, I don't know, 104 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,799 Speaker 1: it made me so much more mad and sad because 105 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: he knew exactly what he was doing, scaring and being 106 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:00,720 Speaker 1: a complete creep to my girlfriend, like with his own 107 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: kid's girlfriend at that Like seriously, Ah so affed up. 108 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 1: I hated that he was making me cry on the phone, 109 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 1: hearing him cry like that. He wanted me to give 110 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 1: him another chance. I told him they're not allowed around me, 111 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: my girlfriend or our kid. And I hope he knows 112 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 1: just how big he effed up and to never do 113 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:20,720 Speaker 1: that to anyone else. 114 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 2: Now. It hurt me. 115 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: Saying goodbye to my dad, I told him he'd better 116 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: not try to come around because I won't hold back 117 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: this time. Even if my girlfriend's there to try to 118 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: stop me. I can't forgive something like this or let 119 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 1: him be around her. She was really supportive after I 120 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: finished talking to him, and we both just cried together 121 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: for a little bit, and then I felt better, kind 122 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 1: of feel bad that she's over here trying to make 123 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: me feel better, though, and then I had to tell 124 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 1: my cousin why I didn't tell them, but she's going 125 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: to keep that from the rest of the family. I 126 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 1: don't want to deal with this from anybody else yet. 127 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: Just right now, I'm still sad, but I'll also try 128 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: to be happy that I'm going to be a good 129 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 1: dad and get ready for this experience. Completely cutting out 130 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: your parents like that is It's just tough, dude. It's 131 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 1: a horrendous situation. 132 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 3: I you know, I think I think, ohp, he made 133 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 3: a good decision here. I think it would be hard 134 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 3: to completely cut off your parents forever for this, But like, 135 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 3: there's some serious conversations that need to be happened and 136 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 3: there needs to be trust repaired, and that that could 137 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:16,479 Speaker 3: take years. 138 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: Exactly, Like my situation is like they're not like owning 139 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 1: up to it essentially, right, It's like but both of them, 140 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: Like how is it both of them? 141 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 3: That's yeah, yeah, Actually I just don't know how you 142 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 3: come back from that, Like I don't know how like 143 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 3: you trust? 144 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 2: That's yeah. 145 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 1: They would have to be like completely over the moon 146 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: doing everything they can to repair the relationship. 147 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 3: Well, at least Op isn't the right on this one, 148 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 3: Like that is freaking after. 149 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: He's definitely in the right here and there and there 150 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: is an update. 151 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 2: Oh shoot, okay, there is more. 152 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: First off, wanted to thank everyone for your thoughts on 153 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: what I should do about the issue with my dad. 154 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: I haven't talked to any of them for a few weeks, 155 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: but some thing happened that suddenly made my dad change 156 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,119 Speaker 1: his story. So me and my girlfriend learned something pretty 157 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 1: cool this week. She was three days late on her period, 158 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 1: so she took a test and they came out positive. 159 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 1: So she is definitely pregnant. We're nervous slash excited about it, 160 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: and we didn't expect that right now, but at this 161 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: point we're just getting ready for it. Thing was, my 162 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: cousin was there at our place when my girlfriend took 163 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: the test, and we were so focused on the fact 164 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: that she's pregnant and getting all excited. I didn't think 165 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: to tell my cousin, don't tell my parents. But I 166 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 1: guess she thought I would have told them already, so 167 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: she let it slip. Now my mom is trying to 168 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: reach out again non stop, and my dad too. 169 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 2: This time, he's told me. 170 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 1: He's sorry, but he really wants to be a part 171 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: of my life and our kid's life. 172 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 2: Now. 173 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: He's sorry for lying about being drunk, and he doesn't 174 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: know why he did what he did, but he quote 175 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: unquote guesses he was embarrassed about what he did to 176 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: my girlfriend, as you should be, as you freaking should 177 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: Good God, he never planned to actually do anything with her, 178 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: he says, like that's something that matters. He claims he's 179 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: gonna work on himself, when before there is even a 180 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: baby in the picture, he was sticking to his lie 181 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: about a not remembering what he did and be being 182 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: too drunk. Now he's admitting at this point that he 183 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: was fully sober. 184 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 2: I knew that was a lie. 185 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 1: Already, but having that confirmation I don't know, it made 186 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: me so much more mad and sad because he knew 187 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: exactly what he was doing, scaring and being a complete 188 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 1: creep to my girlfriend like that with his own kid's 189 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:35,559 Speaker 1: girlfriend at that, Like. 190 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 2: Seriously, yeah, so affed up. 191 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: I hated that he was making me cry on the phone, 192 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: hearing him cry like that. He wanted me to give 193 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 1: him another chance. I told him they're not allowed around me, 194 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: my girlfriend, or our kid, and I hope he knows 195 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: just how big he effed up and to never do 196 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: that to anyone else. Now. It hurt me saying goodbye 197 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 1: to my dad, I told him he'd better not try 198 00:08:57,559 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: to come around because I won't hold back this time. 199 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: Even if my girlfriend's there to try to stop me. 200 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: I can't forgive something like this or let him be 201 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 1: around her. She was really supportive after I finished talking 202 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 1: to him, and we both just cried together for a 203 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 1: little bit, and then I felt better, kind of feel 204 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 1: bad that she's over here trying to make me feel better, though, 205 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 1: and then I had to tell my cousin why I 206 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 1: didn't tell them, But she's going to keep that from 207 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 1: the rest of the family. I don't want to deal 208 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,839 Speaker 1: with this from anybody else yet. Just right now, I'm 209 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: still sad, but I'll also try to be happy that 210 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to be a good dad and get ready 211 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 1: for this experience.