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<v Speaker 1>emails from time to time from people who want to

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<v Speaker 1>do second date updates, but they're scared to use their name.

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<v Speaker 1>For whatever reason, they want to remain anonymous. Like the

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<v Speaker 1>guy on the phone for today's second Date update won't

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<v Speaker 1>even tell me what his name is. I said, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll give you an alias. How about Farkeley the name?

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<v Speaker 1>And he said no, He said he didn't like the

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<v Speaker 1>name Farkeley. Yeah, because he sounds like a golden retriever.

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<v Speaker 1>But we can call him Dennis. So quote Dennis is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone, en quote, what's up, Dennis Hiler? Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you doing? Good man? First of all, why

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<v Speaker 1>the alias? Why don't you want us to use your

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<v Speaker 1>real name? Well, you know, I just defer not to

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<v Speaker 1>have that information out there. You know, it's a public

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<v Speaker 1>form here on the radio, you know, just prefer to

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<v Speaker 1>keep it secretly. Dennis can I just ask you right

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<v Speaker 1>off the bat, you're not married or anything? Right? No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I'm willing to say that I'm not not married. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not married. So why don't you tell us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about the girl that you want to call today?

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Her name is Kathy? Is that her

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<v Speaker 1>real name or a fake name? I'd prefer not to

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<v Speaker 1>say that's that's name. Well, I'm going to have to

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<v Speaker 1>call her, so I'm hoping that's her real name. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>Kathy's not here right now. I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>help you. Well, say she'll respond to Kathy. Okay, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, where did you meet Kathy? Or can we

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<v Speaker 1>know that? So? Well? I met? I met her? Where

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<v Speaker 1>she works? Okay? And where does she work? Um? It's

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<v Speaker 1>store in downtown Erie. Okay? And do you do you

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<v Speaker 1>work at said store as well? Dennis? Um? I would

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<v Speaker 1>rather not say. What are you going to answer for us? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>We would like to get a little information from you.

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<v Speaker 1>So far, you've told us that you met a girl

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<v Speaker 1>whose name could possibly be Kathy. We don't know your name,

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<v Speaker 1>and you won't tell us where the store is or

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<v Speaker 1>what you do there. Well, you know. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>I understand, you know, just too much information might compromise

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<v Speaker 1>myself or or or Kathy's. So you know, I will

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<v Speaker 1>do my best to answer as much as I can. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna try to get to the bottom of how

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<v Speaker 1>your date went at least. So did you strike up

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation at the store and then ask for her

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<v Speaker 1>phone number? Or is that asking too much? Well, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>say this, I'll say this much that I did meet her.

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<v Speaker 1>I did. I did speak with her, and I uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I found her to be attractive certainly and also very

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<v Speaker 1>very unassuming. You know, I felt like I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't a spread, she wasn't you. That's to be cautious,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all. I just, you know, I have to be cautious. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you guys do for your day? I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think probably know the answer. But what did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys do when you went out? Um? You know, we went, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>we went to a place and you know, I had

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation. Can I ask what type of place it was? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I will, I will, I will tell you it was

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<v Speaker 1>an eatery of some sort either food. Are you able

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<v Speaker 1>to open up to Kathy and just not us, like

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<v Speaker 1>at least on the date you had real conversation. Ah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean honestly, I uh, I'd rather not

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<v Speaker 1>get into the specifics of that. I will say that

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<v Speaker 1>we we had a conversation and I found it to

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<v Speaker 1>be engaging. Say, so, did you have a good time?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you can tell us that without too

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<v Speaker 1>much information. I will, I will say that much we did.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was. I thought we had a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>I figured out something. So you went out with a

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<v Speaker 1>girl that you met somewhere, and you went somewhere, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>had food, and then you enjoyed yourself. Yes, that's all correct. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you think quit wrong? And you're very

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<v Speaker 1>vague date I will, I will say that I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>notice anything in particular that might have gone wrong. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>at the end, we did go back to her place,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did try to kiss her, okay, but she

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<v Speaker 1>she said to me she she didn't want to kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember she said specifically, let's save it for

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<v Speaker 1>next time, and I made I'm sure that's what she said,

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<v Speaker 1>because I made sure to write it down. At it

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<v Speaker 1>you wrote it down like in your diary or what. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote it down. When I got back to my car,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a notepad. Um in my car, I wrote

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<v Speaker 1>it down, said, let's save the kiss for next time,

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<v Speaker 1>meaning she probably was hoping for another date with you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's what I thought. Yes, why are you writing

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<v Speaker 1>down what people say? Well, it's a good tool for

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<v Speaker 1>remembering conversations. You know, you never know when you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have to recall what happened. You know, I try to

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<v Speaker 1>keep a good record, right. You never know when you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be calling into a radio station to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, but not giving them any information other

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<v Speaker 1>than what the girl said to you at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the date. I'm sorry, guys. I know it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>ridiculous that I can't say very much, but um, but look,

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<v Speaker 1>I listened to you guys faithfully every day. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you You guys are very funny and find

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<v Speaker 1>you very helpful, and uh, you know, I was hoping. Granted,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm cautious, but I'm hoping you can help

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, honestly, you're you're basically the only ones

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<v Speaker 1>that we can trust. We meaning like the Royal we

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<v Speaker 1>like you are calling yourself we or you and her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd rather not get into that, but um but I

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<v Speaker 1>will say, you guys have no motivation to put us

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<v Speaker 1>in harm's way, So that's you know, I feel I

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<v Speaker 1>can trust you not at all. I want to get

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<v Speaker 1>you a second date. I'm just hoping this works out

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<v Speaker 1>because I have no information. Dennis. Are you concerned at

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<v Speaker 1>all because you've heard these second date updates that when

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<v Speaker 1>we call the other person, Kathy could tell us all

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<v Speaker 1>sorts of things about you. Well, I don't think that's possible.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't know enough about me to compromise me in

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<v Speaker 1>any significant way. Uh and and frightly, I mean I'm

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<v Speaker 1>also very concerned about her safety. You're concerned about her safety? Yes, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've tried to contact her since our date each day

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<v Speaker 1>and she hasn't responded. So I'm growing, you know, concerned.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't think that maybe she just didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you again based on the what I

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<v Speaker 1>wrote down, Let's save it for next time. I'm I'm doubtful, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>could wait? What could be the worst case scenario here,

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<v Speaker 1>like she's kidnapped. Well, again, I'd rather not go into

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<v Speaker 1>the specifics of that, but I'll just say it could

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<v Speaker 1>be bad, and I'm hoping that you will be able

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<v Speaker 1>to get her on the phone. Okay, well, we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song come back, and then we'll call her and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. Okay, all right, thank you, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>don't go anywhere. Okay, brooking jubil in the morning update.

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<v Speaker 1>If you miss the first part of today's second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>it's one that's shrouded in mystery. Dennis is on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not even his real name. He asked to go

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<v Speaker 1>buy a different name because he doesn't want his real

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<v Speaker 1>identity out there. He didn't really tell us much about

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<v Speaker 1>how he met the girl that he wants to call,

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<v Speaker 1>or about the date at all. He didn't really tell

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<v Speaker 1>us much of anything other than he had a good

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<v Speaker 1>time and he dropped her off at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night, tried to get a kiss, and she said,

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<v Speaker 1>But what did she say, Dennis? What were her words?

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<v Speaker 1>She said, let's save it for next time. Let's save

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<v Speaker 1>it for next time, which means that she was probably

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<v Speaker 1>planning on another date. But now she hasn't called him back,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's wondering why. And we're gonna get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and hopefully maybe she'll give us a little

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<v Speaker 1>more information about your date, Dennis. Well, we'll see. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's really not that much more that she could tell

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<v Speaker 1>you than what I've already revealed. Cool, so just no

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<v Speaker 1>details at all. You tell stories like I do. No

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<v Speaker 1>one are my friends don't like hearing stories from me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, how would your day? Yeah? It was all right,

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<v Speaker 1>not not much time. Okay. Well, I'm gonna dial her

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<v Speaker 1>number and see we can get her on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and find out what happened. Okay, okay, thanks very much. Days.

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<v Speaker 1>I really appreciate this, and I hope you're able to

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<v Speaker 1>get her. Yeah, let's see. All right, I'm gonna dollar

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<v Speaker 1>number right now. Helloh, I may I speak to Kathy please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is she? Oh that is your name? Cool? What's up, Kathy?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? My name is Jewel from Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning. Oh I'm good. I'm sorry. Who

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<v Speaker 1>is this? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. It's a radio show. Oh um, Sorry, can

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<v Speaker 1>I help you with something? Yeah you can. We actually

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<v Speaker 1>got an email about you from one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is gonna be hard for me to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you who it is because I don't really know much

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<v Speaker 1>about him or what you guys did together. But apparently

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<v Speaker 1>you went on a date with somebody who listens to

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<v Speaker 1>our show. Okay, and now you're not calling them back

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<v Speaker 1>for another date. Okay. Who was it? Well, he wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell us his real name, but he's going by the

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<v Speaker 1>name of Dennis. So did you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date recently with like more than one person? Well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't have any other information than that. He No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just know his name is Dennis. That's what he'll

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<v Speaker 1>let us call him. He said that he met you

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<v Speaker 1>downtown and that you guys went to eat somewhere somewhere,

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<v Speaker 1>and that he tried to kiss you at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day. The only details that I have is

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<v Speaker 1>that he tried to kiss you at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day and you said to him, let's save that

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<v Speaker 1>for next time. Oh okay, all right, so you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about you would give too much information right off the top. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know anybody named Dennis. That I

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<v Speaker 1>did know somebody that sounds familiar to what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>That the guy told me his name was not Dennis.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. He was so frustrating to talk to.

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<v Speaker 1>He wouldn't give us any information and acted like everything

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<v Speaker 1>was some secret about his life, right, yeah, exactly. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it could be Dennis, it could be anything. I have

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely no idea. I mean I didn't I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>know the guy that well, and I didn't really know

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<v Speaker 1>him much better after the date. So I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>You tell us a little bit about your date because

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't give us any details. Oh um, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I guess I can. It's one of the weirdest states,

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<v Speaker 1>if not the weirdest state I've ever been on. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So we were gonna go out to eat, and he

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<v Speaker 1>came and kicked me up, and he seemed really normal,

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<v Speaker 1>like just talking to him, except for like these weird

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<v Speaker 1>little things that would happened, Like when we actually got

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<v Speaker 1>to the restaurant, he has the hostess if we could

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<v Speaker 1>sit at a table in the back of the restaurant, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, further back from everything else. Okay, And he

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<v Speaker 1>asked for that, like really specifically with the hostess, And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like thinking to myself, this guy has got to

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<v Speaker 1>be married or have a girlfriend or something being so

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<v Speaker 1>secretive about it, right, I mean, Okay, So he's a

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<v Speaker 1>little picky about where he wants to sit in the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not like the worst thing in the world, is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I didn't I didn't even tell you

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<v Speaker 1>guys the best part. There's more to it. Yes. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're sitting at the table and he looks at me

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<v Speaker 1>seriously and he says, would you mind if we go secure? What?

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<v Speaker 1>I like, yeah, exactly? What does that mean? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you what do you mean? Sure? And he takes out

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<v Speaker 1>this like magnetic looking thing, it looks like a pen,

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<v Speaker 1>and he asked me if he could wipe my cell phone?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean clean? White? Yeah? I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I get I asked him. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean. He's like, oh, I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>hear the information from your cell phone and then you

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<v Speaker 1>can turn it off. I was like, I can just

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<v Speaker 1>turn it off. No, you can't wipe myself. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>need the information on my cell phone. Yeah exactly. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I asked him, I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your keel? Are you married? You have a girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there some reason that you're being so secretive about this?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? And he started laughing really loud. Like uncomfortably

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<v Speaker 1>loud in the restaurant and people were staring at us,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, no, of course not, it's just the

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<v Speaker 1>line of work that I'm in. And I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of what kind of work do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>What line of work are you in? And he said,

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<v Speaker 1>if things go well, then he'll disclose more information to

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<v Speaker 1>me later. Oh my god, that would make me go

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<v Speaker 1>on a second day to low just because I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>dying to know. I know, it was. It was totally intriguing.

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<v Speaker 1>I really wanted to know more about him. I really

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to know, like, what is this guy hiding? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you ever get an answer on that? No? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I did not. I mean it was the weirdest date

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever had and I was just over it, so

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't going to call him back. Well, it's unfortunate

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<v Speaker 1>that you weren't going to call him back, because I

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<v Speaker 1>have to let you know that he's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening to this conversation and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Yeah, Dennis, are you there, Yes, Yes, I'm here. Hi, Hi, Cassie.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm first of all, I'm I'm very happy to hear

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<v Speaker 1>that you're doing all right, I was I was worried

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<v Speaker 1>about you because I wasn't able to get in touch. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But but look, I have to say, uh, I know

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds bad when when when you recount it that way,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, it sounds like I was I was

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<v Speaker 1>being strange and and and uh you know. But but

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<v Speaker 1>all I can say is that if you knew more,

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<v Speaker 1>you would know that I do have my reasons for

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<v Speaker 1>what I was doing. And it really is best for

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<v Speaker 1>all of us that, um that I you know, don't

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<v Speaker 1>disclose too much information. I mean, is this is this

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<v Speaker 1>really happening right now? You're trying to justify what happens. Look, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand, I understand where you're coming from, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just have to repeat. I mean, the more the more

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the worse, the worse it is, the worst

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<v Speaker 1>it could be. So that why would you want to

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<v Speaker 1>date you? If if more knows? Look, I will say this,

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<v Speaker 1>I did really like you, and I wonder you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if I tell you a little bit more, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>would you consider going on a second date? Probably not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, just just give me, just give me a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to tell you. I can tell you a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more, and maybe maybe you can decide after you

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<v Speaker 1>no more. I would love to hear a little bit more. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>me too, I don't know if I do. Dennis, can

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<v Speaker 1>you please tell us a little bit more, give us

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<v Speaker 1>some information about yourself, please? Okay? Um, so so, Kathy,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, look there, um, I mean I really shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I really shouldn't be so there are certain um government

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<v Speaker 1>agencies you know are involved in covert operations. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm God, I'm gonna are you a spy or something? Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, I will say this, No, I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I am not currently involved in any of those government agencies.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not currently involved, but I'm very passionate about that

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<v Speaker 1>line of work and I would like to be a

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<v Speaker 1>part of it someday. God, you're do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>be a spy? I would Well, I will say, I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to be a part of these elite government agency. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not the way you do it by pretending like

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<v Speaker 1>you're a spy right now, You like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>join the armed forces and go through training and make

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<v Speaker 1>you go to college. Feeling, Why do I have a feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>He's living in his mom's basement. Yes, he's like some

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<v Speaker 1>internet hacker. I've done a lot of research and it

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<v Speaker 1>involves a good deal of self control and a certain

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<v Speaker 1>style of you know, of living, and I'm just sort

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<v Speaker 1>of preparing myself for that now to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready. Dennis, have you have you had any interviews

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<v Speaker 1>with any of these government agencies that you're hoping to again?

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<v Speaker 1>I really can't. I can't. I can't reveal that. I mean, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you can, actually, Dennis, you can reveal all of it

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<v Speaker 1>because nobody cares if you really be that information, not

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<v Speaker 1>even the government. Well, I mean you can. You can

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<v Speaker 1>think what you want on that matter. But you know

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I'm I'm in training for this and you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Well, Dennis, I'm going to ask the question

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<v Speaker 1>to Cathy to see if she'll give me an answer. Kathy,

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<v Speaker 1>would you be interested in going out with Dennis again?

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<v Speaker 1>A second date with a spy in training? Maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>can learn a little bit more about him. We'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date. Um no, No, that's okay. I

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<v Speaker 1>think so think about how you can brag to your

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<v Speaker 1>friends about how you're dating to pretend spy. Now I

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<v Speaker 1>hear your's laughing, and I understand. Uh, you know you

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<v Speaker 1>might not understand what I'm what I'm dealing with, but

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<v Speaker 1>I am confidented someday I'm going to have the job

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<v Speaker 1>that I want. And h and Kathy, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad to hear that you're okay, first of all, um,

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<v Speaker 1>but I I also you know, I'm disappointed that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to do another date, but you know that

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<v Speaker 1>it's it is. It is part of the life that

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<v Speaker 1>I've accepted what you sign up for. When your name

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<v Speaker 1>is maybe Dennis and you're taking girls out on dates.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not very easy. It isn't It's true. It's it

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<v Speaker 1>is a hard life, but I've chosen to extend. Get

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<v Speaker 1>text in at seventy five nine two says that guy

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<v Speaker 1>probably works loss prevention at Walmart broken jewel in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>talking about today's second date update if you missed it,

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<v Speaker 1>Dennis and Kathy went out on a date. And if

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<v Speaker 1>there's one thing we know about women, they love mystery.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe Dennis was too mysterious because we got Kathy

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and we found out that during their date,

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<v Speaker 1>Dennis asked her to completely wipe out the information on

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<v Speaker 1>her phone. I was being very sneaky about his job

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<v Speaker 1>almost shady, but Dennis admitted that the reason he behaved

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<v Speaker 1>that way was because he was trying to become a spy.

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<v Speaker 1>And he has no affiliation with any sort of government

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<v Speaker 1>entity or anything yet yet, but he will be a

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<v Speaker 1>spy someday, and he's trying to become a spy, so

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<v Speaker 1>he operates that way and wanted her wipe out her

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<v Speaker 1>phone and so that they would never be seen together

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<v Speaker 1>and all the other stuff. She's said, Yeah, it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>so annoying. I like the text communist says. The day

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<v Speaker 1>he becomes a spy, I'll be an adventure. She said

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't want to go out with a pretend spy,

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<v Speaker 1>So no second date update. You remember, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second day update, a'll have to do

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<v Speaker 1>is email the show and we will call the person

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<v Speaker 1>who didn't call you back.